E saw my video on "Practicing public speaking by yourself" and wrote asking if I also trained men. He has always been shy around big audiences. Now with life on Zooms and webcams, he often forgets what he has to say, his voice shakes and it's starting to affect his prospects for advancing at work. What would I advise? Eddie. Your email address didn't come through so I'm sharing the answer here. My advice is to tell a story. A personal story. A general manager at one of my first television stations once said to me, "Joya stop being what you think a TV anchor should be and just be yourself. You are the most unique thing you bring to the table." If you are explaining a concept, Eddie, tell a story to illustrate what you mean. The more personal the story is, the easier it is to tell. Because, guess what? It's YOUR story. Here's an example: I could tell you, "I'm an organized packer when I go on a trip." Or I could tell you "I create an Excel sheet each time I travel. At the top of each column is the day of the week and the activity for the day. In each row is what I am going to wear. This way, I don't forget the sports bra, hat, sneakers and sunblock for my Thursday hike in Red Rock Canyon. I don't forget the strapless bra, earrings, evening purse for the sleeveless gown I'm wearing to Friday night Black tie dinner." Now I've SHOWED YOU I am organized, versus telling you. See the difference? Prepare. Prepare. Prepare. Know your material forwards and backwards Eddie. Practice in front of a friend. Practice in front of the mirror. Preparation trumps any thing any day. Do a daily video blog. Record yourself for one minute each day. Do a thought dump into your phone. Share what went well. Share what didn't go well. Just for one minute. Get used to speaking into a screen and seeing yourself. Breathe. Pull air from your diaphragm. Pull through your nose. Notice how the quality of air is different when you pull from your diaphragm versus your chest area. Bullet points. I have been on television for 20 years, but I STILL bullet point my salient points and keep it in front of me. This is the case when I do a video. This is the case when I am in a meeting. Our nerves can get the best of us, but a quick glance down at a bullet point, can rejigger the memory. Now we can get back on track quickly. Hope this helps Eddie!
Hello Professor Joya Dass. Thank you so much for your help and advice,i do appreciate your job, I wish you peace and happness under the sky of prosperity. Take care and have a good time. All the best. Your Student from Algeria.
Thank you so much for this information, short, simple and and very helpful. Each of the three steps really does helps in becoming a better public speaker
Psychology calls fear “ false evidence appearing real” imagine you impacting the world with your speech. How selfish and how bad is it gonna be if you allow fear hold you back when you can be that person who’s gonna change someone’s life forever. Remember, the goal is not to avoid fear; the goal is to overcome fear
@Kallawario2071 I found a solution. I can invite you to my dashboard on Yoodli. You upload a video clip of you speaking, and I can offer tips on how to improve. The app does as well.
Ok I think I can help. Let’s do a z30x30 exchange. For 30 min you tell me what all your challenges are and for 30 min you can ask me all the questions you have I can record it for the benefit of other folks here too Joya@joyadass.com email me to set up a time
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E saw my video on "Practicing public speaking by yourself" and wrote asking if I also trained men. He has always been shy around big audiences. Now with life on Zooms and webcams, he often forgets what he has to say, his voice shakes and it's starting to affect his prospects for advancing at work. What would I advise? Eddie. Your email address didn't come through so I'm sharing the answer here.
My advice is to tell a story. A personal story.
A general manager at one of my first television stations once said to me, "Joya stop being what you think a TV anchor should be and just be yourself. You are the most unique thing you bring to the table."
If you are explaining a concept, Eddie, tell a story to illustrate what you mean. The more personal the story is, the easier it is to tell. Because, guess what? It's YOUR story.
Here's an example: I could tell you, "I'm an organized packer when I go on a trip."
Or I could tell you
"I create an Excel sheet each time I travel. At the top of each column is the day of the week and the activity for the day. In each row is what I am going to wear. This way, I don't forget the sports bra, hat, sneakers and sunblock for my Thursday hike in Red Rock Canyon. I don't forget the strapless bra, earrings, evening purse for the sleeveless gown I'm wearing to Friday night Black tie dinner." Now I've SHOWED YOU I am organized, versus telling you. See the difference?
Prepare. Prepare. Prepare. Know your material forwards and backwards Eddie. Practice in front of a friend. Practice in front of the mirror. Preparation trumps any thing any day.
Do a daily video blog. Record yourself for one minute each day. Do a thought dump into your phone. Share what went well. Share what didn't go well. Just for one minute. Get used to speaking into a screen and seeing yourself.
Breathe. Pull air from your diaphragm. Pull through your nose. Notice how the quality of air is different when you pull from your diaphragm versus your chest area.
Bullet points. I have been on television for 20 years, but I STILL bullet point my salient points and keep it in front of me. This is the case when I do a video. This is the case when I am in a meeting. Our nerves can get the best of us, but a quick glance down at a bullet point, can rejigger the memory. Now we can get back on track quickly. Hope this helps Eddie!
Thank you so much @Joya Dass for the knowledge.
We're appreciate it.
Don't stop to inspired us.
Your subscribers = your students.
Thank you for your valuable insight and encouragement. This is very timely for the season I am in.
What season are you in?
Thank you!❤
Hello Professor Joya Dass.
Thank you so much for your help and advice,i do appreciate your job,
I wish you peace and happness under the sky of prosperity. Take care and have a good time. All the best.
Your Student from Algeria.
Thank you so much teacher you help us a lot
Iam teacher, and I can really see how it's very important to myself and my students too!
Very good tips ! This are surely helpful❤️
Thank you so much for the tips. They will help me start making vlogs which I wanted to do a long time.
Great advice
Shared steps r amazing..!!! Thanks for the tips 🌟🌟 learnt a lot in short session and it was helpful ❤️❤️😊😊 and hope to many all it will help..
You are such a very good speaker ❤❤❤
Thank you very much for this, I found this information helpful
I'm so glad it resonates with you. Please share any questions you have. I will make a video to answer it
Great advice and video .Thank you
You are welcome. What sector do you work in?
Remarkable
Thank you so much for this information, short, simple and and very helpful. Each of the three steps really does helps in becoming a better public speaker
Glad it was helpful!
Will do this! I'll be having my impromptu speech soon! Kinda anxious tho
Lin I’m happy to do a spot coaching session with you email me at joya@joyadass.com
Mastering public speaking skills online require loads of technical skills
Great. I love my voice
I like a everything about Yoodli
The tips you gave will greatly help me.
Thanks
It is good for Corona patients during quarantine period.
I can understand that
Thank you so very much .. I am new to all this ..... But willing to learn think I can do it but where is this shying coming from?
Thank you so much teacher
Thank you Thank you Thank you Joya, for the valuable tips on how to develop, my public speaking skills at home. 😊🙏❤💜
You are welcome Jackie. DM me at joya@joyadass.com if you would like to work together on Zoom more in 2024
@@joyadasspublicspeaking
Thank you Joy,
I would appreciate your help and support improving my public speaking skills.
This just helped me out...thanks coach...i really want to be great
😊😅practice makes à master🎉
Thanks madam, Your method is really different and awesome for public speaking practice.
You're welcome. What in particular resonated with you?
Thank you for sharing
You are welcome Mary
I teach a public speaking masterclass to women. You are welcome to join the next cohort starting April 13
thank you a lot mom🥰❤️💯
I learn something new Public speaking is Everything in Daily life 😎🙏😂
Great 👍
Perfect
This video is slightly better , but it could have been better when u could have added more content. Make similar video 2
Thank you mam
❤❤❤❤❤thanks madam
Thank you for the video. I want that you should become my mentor. I want to become an educational coach
Thank you @biernestine. I publish a ton of my knowledge here and on my newsletter. You can subscribe here: joyadass.ck.page/e3b3bebc5b
The fear of being criticized holds me back from being a public speaker.
Well you’re Indian
Your parents have probably criticized you since you were a kid
Hard to outgrow that as an adult
I have Indian parents too
@@joyadasspublicspeaking😢
Psychology calls fear “ false evidence appearing real” imagine you impacting the world with your speech. How selfish and how bad is it gonna be if you allow fear hold you back when you can be that person who’s gonna change someone’s life forever. Remember, the goal is not to avoid fear; the goal is to overcome fear
Oh god thank u
Hello,I would love to be a good speaker,but what is holding me back is fear,lack of confidence....
Please help,how can I join your class?
Hi Kalla. I can share an online course with you that I created. Would that help you? Otherwise feel free to email me at joya@joyadass.com
@Kallawario2071 I found a solution. I can invite you to my dashboard on Yoodli. You upload a video clip of you speaking, and I can offer tips on how to improve. The app does as well.
@@joyadasspublicspeaking Alright,I hope that will help me...
I love my voice ❤
Where are you from 🤔🤔
👍🏻
I want to be confident at public speaking
Sure what would you say is your biggest challenge right now?
@@joyadasspublicspeaking basic vocabulary and wrong breathing techniques when speaking
Ok I think I can help. Let’s do a z30x30 exchange. For 30 min you tell me what all your challenges are and for 30 min you can ask me all the questions you have
I can record it for the benefit of other folks here too
Joya@joyadass.com email me to set up a time
@@joyadasspublicspeaking will email you
@@joyadasspublicspeaking just sent the email
I am a leader. 🙏Please you can help me to public speker!❤😊
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I hate my nasally voice 😭😭😭💨
How can I help?
Do you have an instagram ?
I do. @Joyadass