Don't Fear Tanking - And avoid THESE Mistakes !

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  • @MismiGalei
    @MismiGalei 3 ปีที่แล้ว +749

    Something that cures my tank anxiety is running a dungeon with a friend in voice call, just helps me know theres one less person judging me

    • @MegaSuperAwesomeBros
      @MegaSuperAwesomeBros 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      How'd you manage to get a friend!

    • @blushingralseiuwu2222
      @blushingralseiuwu2222 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Oh, your friend will judge you lol.

    • @UOTQAUIBO
      @UOTQAUIBO 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      See I’d feel like my tank anxiety will be practically nonexistent if I had friends who played alongside me. But alas, my friends are addicted to games like Apex or CoD, so they don’t want to/have the time to play :[

    • @MismiGalei
      @MismiGalei 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@UOTQAUIBO sorry to hear that, if you're on lamia I could be your friend

    • @UOTQAUIBO
      @UOTQAUIBO 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@MismiGalei ah, I'm actually on Cactuar
      But I appreciate your offer! :]

  • @nuiharime3410
    @nuiharime3410 3 ปีที่แล้ว +392

    Shout out to all the aspiring tanks out there, you experience anxiety because you care and you want to do well, please don't think that's a bad thing, it's actually very good! If anything with a little experience, confidence and time you'll mould that anxiety into pride when you've conquered your fears.
    Give it a try with friends, master the dungeon, raid, trial, then try tanking it, so long as you're utilising your mitigations when necessary you'll find it's actually easy!

    • @404waenotfound
      @404waenotfound 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I've been a tank player for years and never had more anxiety than in FF14. Truth be told, the fact that I am pretty new and inexperienced in FF14 as a whole probably doesn't help that.

    • @lboneyardl
      @lboneyardl 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Too stressed to try the first dungeon

    • @autumnrain7342
      @autumnrain7342 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@lboneyardl me to, I have had some very bad experiences in WOW.

    • @D4rkc14ymor3
      @D4rkc14ymor3 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@autumnrain7342 wow has ruined many a good tank or healer because of their unwillingness to deal with toxic assholes, unfortunately I see some of that coming into the 14 community now because of parsing, which wasn't a thing in ARR. I give it 2 years if SE doesn't crack down on people using parsers, and 3rd party mods and spare noone. Find out how they work, and break them is the answer, and ban anyone who logs 30/90/perm sounds ok. You dont need logs to find the lazy asses, we did it just fine without them. Logs other than self logs bring nothing of value, only toxicity and negativity I'm ok with losing the ability to log myself if it means they go away. I can do math to tune my dps, SE actually does a good job telling you exactly how much damage abilities do, a calculator and functioning brain with a working video recorder will provide all the info needed to tweak individual performance.

    • @caitsiph1
      @caitsiph1 ปีที่แล้ว

      I keep thinking give it a go but as soon as I go to the duty screen I end up coming out goi g back to my SAM and running dps. Then when I finally did try 1 I died twice, fortunately I had some good people with me who helped me out by explaining certain mechanics to me. I never played a tank before in mmos so it's all new to me and I like most new tanks struggle with when to use motivation skills I know if a boss has a tank buster on me I get a red aura around me and have to use 1 but do I use arms length, rampart l, the one that gives 10% I forget whay it's called or nebula as I've been trying the gunbreaker for a tank as it looks coolest and most fun to me.

  • @Kakashi20xd6
    @Kakashi20xd6 3 ปีที่แล้ว +402

    One thing I’d note about wall to wall pulls is that for lower level dungeons(44 and under), some jobs get their aoes late so your group might not have the damage to do output to deal with massive pulls comfortably.

    • @Cheezdealer
      @Cheezdealer 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Yeah, tried Ninja for the first time and I thought I missed a job quest or something...

    • @NulienTia
      @NulienTia 3 ปีที่แล้ว +67

      Yeah, I think Dragoon is the most ridiculous one... they don't get their first aoe until level 40, if I recall correctly. Doing dungeons lower than that level with 2 DRGs? Yeesh...

    • @0423ryanlee
      @0423ryanlee 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@NulienTia I've recently experienced this leveling my floor tank. No aoe for 40ish levels was awful.

    • @BorisTheGoose92
      @BorisTheGoose92 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Yeah I would suggest 2 packs max before 50.

    • @ArchieGamez
      @ArchieGamez 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I agree, i dont understand why they dont give all DPS and healers AOEs earlier, it kinda threw me off

  • @charlesmoore3390
    @charlesmoore3390 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    The advent of Trust and Squadron NPCs are a huge help too. NPCs don't judge. It lets you learn without fear of making an idiot of yourself.
    And if you can survive a wall-to-wall pull with Alphinaud healing and the other two chuckleheads single target DPS'ing? You'll be ok with a player group.

  • @justg5018
    @justg5018 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    "There's no single dungeon where a good party cannot handle wall to wall pulls"
    The Aurum Vale: Allow me to introduce myself.

  • @Twocoolman115
    @Twocoolman115 3 ปีที่แล้ว +97

    Here’s some quick tips from someone with all 4 tank jobs at 80.
    Keep focus on your surroundings at all times.
    If an enemy goes rogue and attacks another player, don’t panic. Just get em back.
    Use cooldowns when you need them, not when everyone else tells you too.
    If you’re in an 8 player party, always be ready to grab adds or the boss if the other rank goes down.
    Don’t worry too much about dealing damage. Just keep your teammates safe.

    • @OSAlula
      @OSAlula 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      I have all tanks at 80 and personally would say it's important to use defensive cooldowns basically all the time, just don't stack them. Even in small pulls you want the healer to DPS more and if you can help by pressing one button, why not?
      And as tank it's still important to DPS. It's ok to mess up your rotation when you're learning, but avoid not doing damage at all if you can

    • @BorisTheGoose92
      @BorisTheGoose92 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Using defensive cooldowns together with 1 that buffs you and 1 that debuffs enemies when going wall to wall is the general idea.

    • @ampur2
      @ampur2 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@BorisTheGoose92 this true, for example rampart+reprisal, also ask your healer to do damage if they keep overhealing hahaha

    • @jansteyaert1
      @jansteyaert1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@OSAlula While we're on the subject of cooldowns, it is very surprising to me how few people know that, in dungeon content, "Arm's Length" is a very decent tank cooldown on big groups. 20% slow is very good. So if you ever end up having no cooldowns... use it (only on normal mobs doesn't work on bosses).
      "Slow is a status effect which increases attack delay and weaponskill and spell recast timers for the duration. It does not affect movement speed."

    • @Esteb86
      @Esteb86 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@jansteyaert1 reprisal + arm's length ftw

  • @prophecy13
    @prophecy13 3 ปีที่แล้ว +96

    Just want to say thank you for your words. I started this game as a tank. I know I don’t know a lot of the the game and that’s why my anxiety kicks in. I don’t like letting people down. But I’ve been watching videos and trying to understand mechanics even though I’m truly a single player kind of guy. These kind of videos really do help.

    • @_rawrysaurus_
      @_rawrysaurus_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      This is me :)

    • @emilyspector2728
      @emilyspector2728 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      In the same boat. New to FFXIV and some guys get impatient when I don’t fully understand the mechs completely. No matter how many times I watch vids (for WoW) the elitist toxic styles…lord.

    • @skywalker0999
      @skywalker0999 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@emilyspector2728 I can’t agree with you more, I watched the vids and did the training, but the only way to really learn is to get in there and do it. My second dungeon, told them I was new tank and was told repeatedly by one of the dps how horrible I was and I should at least have watched the videos first , can’t seem to get away from toxic, was hoping it would not be as prevalent here as it is in wow. Will continue to que and learn

    • @TOX1Cparadise
      @TOX1Cparadise 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@skywalker0999 The devs and admins are actually really strict about toxicity like that, it's the reason why 3rd-party DPS tracking tools are banned in FF14; they don't want people flaming new players for not being perfect in a dungeon they're just trying to learn. Reports are actually addressed for things like that. It's one of the things I love so much about this game.

    • @Spyderskorpian
      @Spyderskorpian 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I was the same way, Prophecy 13. My first class was a Paladin (Gladiator), and I mainly play single player games, but I LOVE Final Fantasy. I've now tried most of the classes and can fit pretty comfortably almost anywhere.

  • @soulechelon2643
    @soulechelon2643 3 ปีที่แล้ว +103

    I find tanking fun, however I also have massive anxiety about it and healing. I've been able to get all classes to level 80 recently, but I did so mainly with beast tribe dailies. I did dungeons as well of course, but every time I hit one of those roulette buttons, my anxiety begins to burn. I worry about everything, and even when I think I did good, I still agonize over small mistakes I may or may not have made. It sucks but I can't seem to get over it.
    It may tie into a dungeon run I did years ago as a Paladin: The Dusk Vigil. It seemed to be going well. We got to the end but someone began growing extremely toxic over my positioning of the boss. I wasn't really sure why, but the constant insults just ruined my enjoyment of the game for awhile afterward. Not to mention, I got no comms either. That told me I messed up hard because the whole team must've agreed with this toxic person. I was already anxious and wary playing a tank, but that one moment made it ten times worse and no matter how much I tell myself to get over it, I can't.
    I stopped playing paladin then. Stopped playing whm too by proxy. Focused purely on dps classes because obviously I couldn't cut it as tank or healer. That's what I told myself for literal years after that dungeon. It was only in Shadowbringers that I began trying to tank/heal again; and barely.
    So just use my little story as a warning. If you feel the need to attack and insult your tank or healer when they're just trying to do their best, don't. You could potentially destroy their desire to play that class completely. Not only does that make you a terrible person, but it lowers the amount of people willing to play those classes. There's a reason why tank/healer is almost always needed in roulettes.

    • @ajp1282
      @ajp1282 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I feel that. Also I had to learn about the terminology tactics on the fly: aoe's, stack markers, spread markers, etc. Most veterans were patient and explained as we went if we "wiped" in the party chat when doing story so that helped. Tanking really is a challenge, fun, but challenging.

    • @Degrowjayse
      @Degrowjayse 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Reading your story makes me rage hard. Some people have no idea what it feels like being flamed after making a small or even big mistake. I had some anxiety while playing WoW so I rarely tanked.
      But in FF 14 I took marauder without knowing it was a tank but I just rolled with it and since then my anxiety is completely gone. The more you expose yourself to your fears the braver you become my friend :) hope you play tank again and have fun since your comment

    • @globalist1990
      @globalist1990 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I never felt insulting the tank or healer. Only dps when I’m tanking and they’re pulling stuff. But i restrain myself.

    • @Xylarxcode
      @Xylarxcode 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@globalist1990 This annoys me too, when playing tank. No one should be pulling anything except the tank. If he isn't pulling additional mobs, it is probably because he is not comfortable with tanking that many yet. He could still be learning his job, or his gear could be bad or he is rusty after not playing that job for a while. Regardless of what the reason is, it is not for a dps to decide what gets pulled. If they want to pull more, they should ask: 'Hey, is it possible to pull a bit more? The dps is pretty good and the healer can keep up. Can you pull more packs, please?'
      It is one my bigger pet peeves as a tank. I don't tank super often, so when I do, I tend to be rusty and want to start a bit slower until I get back into the habit of it. I usually inform the party ahead of time, though and most of the time, they understand and respect that. Sometimes they don't, but it's important not to let those few ruin the others that do listen to you when you ask for some patience.

    • @autumnrain7342
      @autumnrain7342 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This happened to me last night, tank had a go at me, I was playing healer. He was going too quick and kept going out of los. Kindly asked him to slow down and stop running off, I can’t heal if I can’t see you. Still getting to grips with Astrologian. Ended up leaving the group and logged off.

  • @FabbrizioPlays
    @FabbrizioPlays 3 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    My main cure for tank anxiety is just being in voice with the healer. It's easier to not care what the DPS think if I can talk to my healer.

    • @vinea4659
      @vinea4659 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      for sure! my friend was going dps -> tank while i was going dps -> healer as we frequently level together, and it goes nicely since we can trust each other and communicate well

    • @daviewaviee6079
      @daviewaviee6079 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Communication is very helpful. More often than not, imho, the healer is really the sneaky "leader" of the party, and tanks often play around how safe their healer makes them *feel* (source: my best friend and I are tank/healer mains). The pull he will do with a random healer vs with me at the helm are FAR different. If any1 is newer to tanking or just looking to improve as a vet, I'd advise taking a skilled healer friend to help you feel more comfy with bigger pulls. You can practice rotations with less anxiety when a solid HP fountain is behind you! 💯💚

    • @thulegezelschap5884
      @thulegezelschap5884 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Dps too me are just living DOTS

    • @thulegezelschap5884
      @thulegezelschap5884 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@daviewaviee6079 i aways ask the healer to say when I should pull more / go faster
      I do not care what DPS says at all

  • @Icedmindblow
    @Icedmindblow 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    "your local monk player will love you"
    nods in leaden fist

  • @jansteyaert1
    @jansteyaert1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    Having anxiety about doing anything already means you are caring about how your performance will be. It is very unlikely that you will be the worst player ever.
    I can tell you there are a lot of MMO players that do not care one bit about how their performance is. Caring about your performance and doing everything you can to get better at what you do is the core of raiding for me. I'm not only progressing through fights but I'm also getting progressively better at playing the job.
    It's the same thing in savage. People tend to be afraid of extreme trials, savage and ultimate content. My question is why?
    Yes you will make mistakes, all the people that you see on fflogs, world-first raiders, ... we've all made mistakes. I am personally responsible for a lot of wipes... So what, as long as you learn from it and get better no one really cares.
    Are you gonna be overwhelmed the first time you tank? Very likely. But it becomes second nature the more you do it.
    Are you gonna be overwhelmed the first time you tank ex trials or savage? Absolutely. But you get used to it.
    Will you struggle to tank and do the required DPS? at first, probably. But it also becomes second nature.
    As I've said throughout this comment, as long as you have the right attitude there is no reason you shouldn't be able to do anything you want in this game.

  • @FinalFirebrand
    @FinalFirebrand 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Tanked my first dungeon today taking advice from your videos...other than accidentally dropping Iron Will once out of nervousness, my party said I nailed it! Thank you!

    • @KineticLatency
      @KineticLatency ปีที่แล้ว

      For anyone else just reading this - I keep Iron Will on an entirely separate hotbar, after I just did the same thing.

  • @thewittyusername
    @thewittyusername 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    The best advice you can give to a tank is to tell them to communicate that they are new to their party. Everything goes a lot smoother when you do that.

  • @preciousshatterings177
    @preciousshatterings177 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    Me, a LONG time tank player watching this just to make sure. 🗿

  • @Avackon
    @Avackon 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Today I did my first dungeon as a tank, more specifically as Dark Knight, and yeah it didnt go so well I died pretty often and messed up some times. But because I told everyone it was my first time tanking, all were very nice and helpful and told me to not give up on the tanking journey and that it will only get better with more experience. So for me personally as a beginner tank I can say it isnt easy but the community is so nice and helpful that even I eventually will be able to do it. (At least I hope so^^)

  • @sheracarter8661
    @sheracarter8661 3 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    This has given me more courage to tank. I have WAR at 80,but literally used the trust system and only ran with friends as tank. I get so nervous and don't want people to be mean or force mobs on me. It is so nerve wrecking for me. 😭😖 Seeing this, I'm gonna give it a go! Good luck to everyone!!

    • @DesperiusFFXIV
      @DesperiusFFXIV  3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Don't let others to be mean. If they cannot communicate properly, it is mostly their fault !

    • @sheracarter8661
      @sheracarter8661 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@DesperiusFFXIV 🥲 thank you! I'm so glad I came across this video!! 💜

    • @thulegezelschap5884
      @thulegezelschap5884 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      If people force mobs, you let them die

    • @Vashy434
      @Vashy434 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      If someone else pulls a mob pack against your wishes, let them die. It might seem toxic but no, they are the one doing toxic play so allowing them to receive consequences for it is fine.

    • @sheracarter8661
      @sheracarter8661 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Vashy434 when I run as bard I see folks do that, I've never pulled trash to give the tank. My sister has done that, a SAM kept pulling trash she let them have it and they died. She hates when they do that.

  • @Drademdar
    @Drademdar 3 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    I've always wanted to play a tank in MMO's, but with having social anxiety, my 'Tanxiety' always went through the roof in other games.
    But when hearing about FFXIV's friendly community, I decided to give it a chance and begun as a Gladiator, back when it was known as the 1-2-3 tank. And after the first few dungeons, I began to relax and fell in love with the role. Tanking is still my preferred playstyle today, and I've recently begun learning how to heal.
    The only thing I do before a new dungeon/trial/raid is to watch a couple of runs on TH-cam before I'm jumping in with both feet first. Of course, I still make mistakes from time to time, but it's okay since most people are friendly enough.

  • @Tubastaub
    @Tubastaub 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I love that phrase "important mistakes". idk it really struck a chord for me

  • @nluna1428
    @nluna1428 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I literally started FFXIV yesterday. I’m very excited but also extremely anxious because I aim to be a paladin (I tend to favor characters that have swords and shields). I haven’t played an mmorpg in literal years so that really adds to the anxiety. I just hope that eventually this anxiety will go away as I try to absorb as much tanking knowledge as I can from these videos. Thank you for your content!

  • @alien_marksman
    @alien_marksman 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    So many new Tanking Tutorial videos..
    While I appreciate them as a SCH main who recently picked up the 'Sword and Board'
    I can't help but feel they're directed at me personally after my first few attempts at Tanking Dungeons

  • @NulienTia
    @NulienTia 3 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    I get anxiety about playing tank, not because of my skill, but because I'm anxious about being in a leadership position (both in real life and in games), and the tank is generally the player expected to lead the way. Despite that, even I have managed to get every tank in this game to level 80.
    My best advice for new tanks would have to be DON'T BE SCARED TO PULL! I often see new tanks creeping up timidly to the boss or to a trash pack the same way a small child would approach a friendly but large dog. Don't be timid about tanking... just GO FOR IT! If you wipe, you wipe, and your only punishment is a couple minutes running back and a small repair fee, and I rarely see anybody in FFXIV get mad about that in random roulette content. Unless your healer is a mile away, just charge in with no hesitation! Not only does that keep players from getting impatient waiting for you to pull, but it helps make it look more like you know what you're doing even if you're still a bit clueless!

    • @Kindlesmith70
      @Kindlesmith70 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Trust the healer! It can get boring not being needed in the party.

  • @Xmar4
    @Xmar4 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Im new to ff14 and just started playing Gunbreaker about a week ago. Playing with a group who is friendly and helpful and then finally figuring out a difficult boss is one of the most fun things i have experienced so far. The challenge of learning a fight and then beating is it one of my favorite parts and generally, ive had nothing but good experiences with other players helping me learn mechanics.
    As long as you are trying to learn, people really dont mind wiping

  • @sebastianzavala4478
    @sebastianzavala4478 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I actually like letting first time tanks main tank on trials, I let them know that it is ok if they die, I'll step up.
    I don't want to take away cool first time moments and make them just feel like a dps. I'll even throw some covers as a PLD and shirk them right to the top of enminity when they are revived.

    • @littlewormtony7218
      @littlewormtony7218 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You're a G. Nobody gave a toss about my cool moments lol.

  • @AmbassadorBreadloaf
    @AmbassadorBreadloaf 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I still get a little anxious after tanking multiple duties in a row, but I'm glad I'm getting comfortable tanking, because it's made me enjoy the game again.

  • @Verpal
    @Verpal 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Provoke when main tank start dying is ok, but I also recommend turning tank stance on as off tank after main tank got some enmity lead over you, since keeping yourself in 2nd spot in enmity list help prevent late provoke/accidental MT death result in DPS getting cleaved and further lower raid DPS.

    • @hydrangeandarkknight6218
      @hydrangeandarkknight6218 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Omg, this! There was one time when the other tank told me to turn on my stance after we wiped to an Alexander fight, even tho I wasn't MTing. Moments like that made me question whether I even knew how to tank to begin with, even though I already completed ShB by that time, and gave me tankxiety for raids. Imma try this and see how it goes :) Also, it should be mentioned that if both tanks have their stance on, stay together on the same side, so that if somehow the boss wobbles between you guys, the boss won't spin around, hit the other tank, and cleave the rest of the party.

    • @Spritus3241
      @Spritus3241 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      There's even fights like diamond weapon now that requires both tanks to be on to take the tankbusters so DPS/healers don't get sniped!

    • @terryhightower6974
      @terryhightower6974 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Tbph when to pop stance on is dictated by the fight. Most runs I'll do a full rotation before popping on stance to ensure MT has a healthy lead on me. Some I pop at start but do a drawn out rotation to let MT get ahead, then drop when necessary or shirk if I'm about to overtake. It's really a feeling out process since no 2 players are always geared the same nor do 2 players play identically. So on the fly adjustments will be needed.

    • @codygregg9144
      @codygregg9144 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      But it's funny when a squishy DPS takes a tank buster 🤣

    • @thewittyusername
      @thewittyusername 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      There's this handy ability y'all should look up called Shirk.... You should always have tank stance up.

  • @PrismBee
    @PrismBee 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Thanks again for videos like this! I've really just reached a point where I'm mostly okay tanking. The worst that happens is I die and I learn something because of that death. So thanks for this encouragement and all the tips.

  • @noize7816
    @noize7816 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is the first MMORPG I've been learning to tank. And I can honestly say it's nerve racking. People can be a bit harsh at times with words which may add additional stress factors while in combat. But coming from a tank newbie, don't give up. It's worth it in the end knowing you're leading your comrades to victory. 💜

  • @akemibarrera1961
    @akemibarrera1961 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I've never did any big pulls as a tank main and always made sure to check on the other players, specially the healers. because when I did healer i always had to struggle to keep the tank health up (i got a lot of tanks that did crazy big pulls, never stayed close for me to heal them, and hid behind obstacles.). So, i don't do anything that will make healers stressful. So, tanks learn your role and that of other jobs so you know what play style will be the best for the team, it'll be so much fun too!

    • @katewood9445
      @katewood9445 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I am so annoyed that some ppl are so unfriendly when you don't do big as$ pulls. like they run forth to pull more. I really wished some of these ppl wouldn't be that way in Games :')

  • @obamaorb7426
    @obamaorb7426 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Honestly for me when I was starting, tanxiety completely disappeared when I realised that 90% of the effort and responsibility is on the healer, all a tank needs to do in a dungeon to get by is keep aggro and keep up mit, both of which are incredibly easy to do after a little experience

  • @terrycrumly3181
    @terrycrumly3181 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Leveled my bard to 60 then picked up gunbreaker. Now almost at the end of heavensward. It’s fun to play a different role. Love tanking so far. And to see the different aspect on bosses.
    Your tanking videos really has helped me a lot.
    Thank you

  • @AsaValana
    @AsaValana ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love tanking, genuinely my favorite since day one. Im still newer to Final Fantasy, having just started this last month. Tanking has been fun but the majority of my anxiety is a mix of things.
    First being the hate to more survivable but less damage tanks like Paladin and Warrior which i enjoy the most. I prefer being the wall for a party, supporting and working to lift everyone up instead of focusing purely on damage (plus i outright do not enjoy DRK and GNB just feels like a dps class with tank abilities taped on).
    Second? Healers that play limbo at 25% health or less, some dungeon pulls can go south so quick with that limbo gameplay. Im aware people are used to hard pulls in later game but it's still a bit of an anxiety source.
    Third- damage dealers pulling extra. I gauge my pulls based on how the healer is keeping up. Damage comes in quick when dps classes force extra mobs on me/the healer without any communication and can cause extra wipes.
    Tl;dr - not a fan of the speedrun/damage preference of most veterans. I'll prefer safety/consistency more over focusing on speed since wipes just slow you down more.

  • @hayasenagatoro2275
    @hayasenagatoro2275 3 ปีที่แล้ว +113

    Me: Refusing to play tank for years because i thought its too hard
    Me after playing tank for a week: Easiest job in the while game

    • @preciousshatterings177
      @preciousshatterings177 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      SHHHHHHHH, don’t let the healers and DPS know I main tank because of that

    • @ryanneilan3223
      @ryanneilan3223 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I just went DRK. I'm hoping you're right.

    • @DKarkarov
      @DKarkarov 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Healers are easier, but yeah tanking is ff14 is not hard by any stretch.

    • @hayasenagatoro2275
      @hayasenagatoro2275 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@DKarkarov Nah, the thing is when a healer dies its pretty much rip for the whole group. You can't afford making too many mechanical mistakes. Doesnt matter if you are a tank tho.

    • @DKarkarov
      @DKarkarov 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@hayasenagatoro2275 Uh there are only two reasons the healer would be dead. 1: The tank is dead, otherwise nothing is attacking the healer. 2: The healer completely screwed up the fight mechanics.
      Both of those are on the healer, unless the tank is the one totally failing mechanics. Funny thing about FF14, pretty much everyone has to know the mechanics, they hit everyone mostly equally. Meanwhile all the red mages of Eorzea are rather insulted you think the healer dying = a party wipe. Hell I am a tank and have cleared plenty of fights where the healer died part way.

  • @emeraldflask8865
    @emeraldflask8865 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The greatest advice I can give tanks is: please understand your party, because pulling wall-to-wall isn't always optimal. If you have an undergeared party, no way in hell will they be able to take more than two mobs at a time. So it's your job as a tank to understand that and set the pace accordingly.
    For example: I had the fastest run of Brayflox Longstop, but I had the squishest party, the moment I saw none of them could handle two mobs effciently; I only pulled the necessary mobs and didn't push for loot. And we ended up clearing in under 15 minutes. Only because I took the time to understand what they could handle.

  • @-Cetus-
    @-Cetus- 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I've worked to level 50 now both paladin and dark knight, and tanking has honestly been some fun in the game. I've only recently started working on the rate of pulling enemies though, since my roulette is hit or miss when it comes to healers able to keep up. It is a fun role though, and I've enjoyed how it plays a bit more than other roles.

    • @ampur2
      @ampur2 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      well, pre50 is pretty tough for healer coz they still dont have the regen/barrier for lower dungeons. Also I think only WHM at level 50 is fit for wall to wall pull coz holy is best for it. Just put regen on tank and spam holy

    • @-Cetus-
      @-Cetus- 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ampur2 Yeah when I was grinding white mage there was a level zone from 25-34 where healing was a lot harder since regen was a level 35 skill, and daily raids on dungeons below 35 had me healing a lot more. Above that and it gets way easier to keep up with healing, and with holy it gets even easier. Still, tanking at those levels can be iffy, and communication is a bit hard on console.

    • @thewittyusername
      @thewittyusername 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ampur2 as a ast main I can with great confidence tell you that you are quite incorrect.

    • @thewittyusername
      @thewittyusername 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You can pull harder if you are appropriately geared and know how to use your cool downs. At worst the healer will just have to spam heals on you instead of dpsing.

    • @ampur2
      @ampur2 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@thewittyusername as a PLD and WHM main and loves to speedrun, I am quite confident in my statement.
      Runs with WHM that could holy tends to be faster even if your 2 dps is shit. With other healer, good luck healing.
      I am saying this because DPS and stun can be your best mitigation in pulling large waves.

  • @vector3653
    @vector3653 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

    3 years later: helpful video. Leveling WAR after RDM and BLM mains, and there is a lot more anxiety I’m doing everything “right.” I’ve been getting commendations at least and no wipes yet, so must at least be mediocre

  • @Zehaha2
    @Zehaha2 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    If you really want to tank but are afraid, don't hesitate to tell the party "I don't know the way" or "I'm new to tanking" or something like that. People usually respond very well to honesty and transparency.
    You can always just run low level dungeons for practice at first. After you get over the initial anxiety, tanking is by far the easiest job in dungeons. Healers can't really zone out and DPS has to hold a good rotation or the dungeon will take forever. The tank can semi zone out as long as you just don't wall to wall, and even then you can even watch like Netflix on the side during trash pulls. You gotta avoid aoe, midigate a bit and do your basic ass AOE combo but on a normal dungeon run it's really not that difficult.

  • @truthserumbackup4151
    @truthserumbackup4151 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm a level 25 Marauder. I'm running one level 15 sastaha dungeon consistently til I have it mapped out.
    I was nervous about it but remember, you can't learn the dungeon if you don't play the dungeon.

  • @kizz42man
    @kizz42man 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I had a bad experience yesterday doing a duty roulette dungeon as GNB. Had the healer telling me I was pulling wrong, so they rage quit. Made me want to give it up and go back to DPS. But this video and ur other tank guide shave now shown me what I was doing wrong. So hopefully next time I'll pull and position properly. Will also be watching ur healer guides so I can start that as well. Have all jobs except for BLU on my main.

  • @Zero2k0
    @Zero2k0 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Thank you so much for making this video. I enjoy tanking in FF but I am always scared of doing it. I leveled a Paladin up til 35 and stopped because of being scared I didn't know the dungeons. This really made me feel better about things

    • @DesperiusFFXIV
      @DesperiusFFXIV  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That's good to hear, keep it up with tanking !

    • @setzer_gabbiani7988
      @setzer_gabbiani7988 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The low/mid level ARR dungeons are rough , It gets much better after Stormblood when most jobs will have the tools they need, plus the dungeon layout will be more streamlined and less labyrinthine.

    • @psal8715
      @psal8715 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@setzer_gabbiani7988 I felt like the low to mid were a breeze with Warrior, but with paladin it was a nightmare for the same levels. I mained Warrior arr but wanted to main paladin, it the low level dungeons that stopped me from going far with the paladin.

  • @nzungupumu1350
    @nzungupumu1350 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I found that spamming dungeons back to back got rid of my tanxiety. There reached a point where it was just another dungeon. If I never done it before I'd say, hey someone else lead and I'll pull a long the way

  • @royally98
    @royally98 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    I needed this video. I have been playing FFXIV for about 6 months now and I've been a dps all the way and just recently I've been thinking of dabbling into tank jobs. Ngl the thought of tanking gave me anxiety becuase of the responsibility and I've never played an mmo where a tank was necessary. I have to say after watching this video I feel more comfortable with the thought of trying tank and more eager to try it.

    • @thewittyusername
      @thewittyusername 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Just make sure you watch a mechanics video for bosses. I think it's fun to go in blind but that's not cool to do to strangers (much fun with friends, though!) That being said, I did my entire MSQ as a pld and it was a lot of fun.

    • @sola4393
      @sola4393 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Just read up some dungeon guides and you are set to go, there aren't much to it as long you do your job rotation properly. If you are already a melee dps, it is even much easier. At some point you may find it boring standing in one spot all day smacking stuff. lol just kidding. ^ ^ Don't worry so much what other people think, just focus on what you are doing.

  • @filthyzall8311
    @filthyzall8311 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Just started ffxiv recently and my first class was a warrior. Always had to watch a video guide before jumping into dungeon and raid everytime. Just after I finished doing the heavensward questline, trying out old trials extreme was sweaty! Luckily enough I know the basic of tank switch and so on. And I knew it right away that I didn't make a wrong choice playing tank in the game. It's the best role out there!

  • @danieljackson3446
    @danieljackson3446 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I've always had this in any mmo, yet I always play tank. The enjoyment comes when that anxiety is found to be an over reaction, you realize it just means you are a good considerate party member, and you perform your role better than the careless. Then you are on the path to ultimate bad ass!

  • @tenthirtyseven-v1
    @tenthirtyseven-v1 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Me and my friend got real freaking bored out the queue times as a RDM and BRD, so we decided to be a PLD, WHM respectively. We've never felt such bliss, yet so much stress at the same time. As a Tank I feel like I have to learn all the dungeons thoroughly and even then something always goes wrong, almost always the DPS does something absolutely stupid and when they die, I get blasted.
    Thank god for my WHM. I would have given up tanking if it wasn't for them. It is really nice finding a new player and taking them for a nice, comfortble stroll through a dungeon allowing them to experience all of it, it's something I never got to do playing DPS. But then it's a veteran, and they want me to rush and pull as much as possible. Learning to Tank is a rollercoaster.
    Doesn't help I have trouble playing with keyboard, I can do controller but I always feel like I'm missing something.

  • @GlassOnion23
    @GlassOnion23 ปีที่แล้ว

    The most important thing to me that helps with dealing with any form of tankxiety is simply watching TH-cam or even written walkthroughs of dungeons/trials/raids. Spend the 5-15 minutes ideally before you even queue. That's all you need for the majority of the content. Don't know if this was mentioned in the video btw. Off to watch it.

  • @TrueHunter999
    @TrueHunter999 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Another good note is to not hit sprint after pulling a pack of enemies to run to another one. Reason being it could cause you lose aggro and therefore your party getting targeted. Also pulling enemies and just walking towards the next pack while hitting the enemy with certain skills or just leaving the pack of monsters you're grabbing a DOT skill can speed up the process

  • @VaporDreamCenter
    @VaporDreamCenter ปีที่แล้ว

    So another big thing that was not mentioned is always know the dungeon/trail before going in. I recommend watching a quick youtube tutorial on the particular dungeon your runing so you know what to expect.

  • @MephistoGaming-zx3qh
    @MephistoGaming-zx3qh 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Idk if its been said yet but: you can, as the OT, have your stance on, as long as you let the MT get a good enough lead on in the enmity list and they don't just start slacking off you shouldn't surpass them. It makes it easier to grab the boss's aggro too if the MT dies without having to pop provoke, or if you're in a roulette with a tank you dont know and they need to shirk because they might have too many vuln stacks to continue handling the boss comfortably. Its saved a lot of runs I've done of content when unexpected things happen.

  • @callmeobsequious
    @callmeobsequious 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This came up in my recs and it feels like it's a sign that I should maybe move past my tanxiety and try out a tank (if only Gridania had a tank, sigh, lol)

  • @rebann
    @rebann ปีที่แล้ว

    The way to learn is to do. Don't be afraid to do! Almost all content (barring extreme raids and similar end-game content) is very easy to pick up on, and most players don't mind failing once or twice for the sake of learning.
    During mob pulls, REMEMBER TO USE YOUR STUNS, INTERRUPTS, AND MOST IMPORTANTLY ARM'S LENGTH. Arm's Length primary effect is negating drawn-in or push effects, but the secondary effect is a slow that has noticeable results. It's more effective when multiple enemies are hitting you, but don't be afraid to use them!
    Don't be afraid to ask about the boss mechanics!
    Please, ask for help if you need it. 90% of the community is happy to assist!

  • @boxchevy1516
    @boxchevy1516 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I don't get enough attention IRL so I tank because I'm the center of attention everywhere. Also short queues. Great video Des

  • @swagikuro
    @swagikuro 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    As a grown ass man I always stayed away from tanking, fearing I don't have the mental capacity left to memorize dungeons and actually try in this game, but I gave it a go finally a few days ago and having a lot more fun. Thanks for the tips.

    • @shaneomac8036
      @shaneomac8036 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same with me. What I've been doing now is watching a video of the dungeon before so I can somewhat replicate what the tank is doing lol

  • @Ed-1749
    @Ed-1749 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    my strategy is this. When i start the dungeon, i make one smaller pull to determine what we can handle, then i start increasing the pull rates until i'm either pulling wall to wall or pushing the healer ir myself to the max.
    Also, the best way to play is with friends in a voice call, as this allows for much more coordination. and if you can't do that, make sure you use the chat to inform people of whatever needs to be known, whether it's your lack of dungeon knowledge or special dungeon strats.

  • @ItzJayTimeFFXIV
    @ItzJayTimeFFXIV 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I use to stress about tanking but definitely take it slow and give yourself some grace when doing it. People make mistakes, you may miss some aggro, stay cool and grab it when you can and it'll start clicking. That's why when I tank, I play PLD. I don't have to focus to much on rotations and just focus on being thick lol. Great video and tips!

  • @euclid239
    @euclid239 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    finally i can cosplay my favourite Berserker without fucking up tanking

  • @Armphid
    @Armphid 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I admit that I still have anxiety over tanking, but I also enjoy it. Though I admit that I haven't tanked a Shadowbringers dungeon yet 'cause those come hard. It certainly levels faster due to the queue.
    Also thank you for saying it, tanks QUIT ROTATING THE BOSS' FACING! It matters for so many DPS jobs. Monk gets called out but I think all the melee DPS jobs have positional requirements. I main Dragoon and the thing I hate most in an instance is a tank that keeps moving the boss around. I can't imagine the frustration Monk players must feel.

  • @beerasaurus
    @beerasaurus 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I"ve been tanking for years and I still get anxious....even on fights I've done hundreds of times. I can't escape it.

    • @user-mi3hr9xg1t
      @user-mi3hr9xg1t 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same

    • @lacdirk
      @lacdirk 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      And that's not bad. A bit of anxiety is needed to perform well, and many people enjoy quite a lot of anxiety in their games, movies or other entertainment options.

    • @thewittyusername
      @thewittyusername 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Why continue to do it if it still gives you anxiety? That doesn't sound Fun.

    • @lacdirk
      @lacdirk 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@thewittyusername One word ... rollercoasters.
      Ok two words ... horror flics.

    • @tenthirtyseven-v1
      @tenthirtyseven-v1 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@lacdirk Not the same kind of anxiety for me.
      Films and rollercoasters, it's a safe zone. Performing for up to 23 people, not so safe.

  • @kiney4473
    @kiney4473 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i started my tank today i was scared doing too much wrong thanks for the video!

  • @fish13a
    @fish13a 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I had a lot of anxiety to play tank, but I recently forced myself to do it anyway and picked up a warrior. Now I'm actually having a lot of fun with it. Every single party I had at the beginning was helpful and supportive.

  • @ragnorak5095
    @ragnorak5095 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I main Tank since day 1 and I find it easy, I have more Dps anxiety because I feel tanks deal less with mechanics.

  • @TCPolecat
    @TCPolecat 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    And, as a blunt note, you hit on exactly WHY I have Tanxiety: Multiple and wall-to-wall pulls. I DON'T LIKE DOING THAT. As a tank, I take it slow and steady, pack by pack. The whole point is to keep the pace steady. I genuinely dislike "large pull" scenarios, and it pisses me off that even you are pushing us to do larger draws!

  • @smallfuzzypeach
    @smallfuzzypeach 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you for this! ...this might have just given me to the courage to finally try.

  • @philm.8622
    @philm.8622 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    As a new player learning tank, there's one thing I've learned that a lot of people don't really bring up very much. This is going to sound really obvious but I'm being serious. Pay attention to what gear you are using.
    As a tank, you are the most noticably dependent on gear out of all the other roles. It sounds obvious saying it, "don't be undergeared or wearing DPS gear as a tank", but especially while leveling up (the time when you're also learning to carry out your role) this caused me more trouble and confusion than I care to admit.
    With poor gear as a Dps your damage might not be up to par, but that can to a small extent be overcome with a good rotational knowledge. As a healer you might be running low on mana more often than not, or barely keeping up enough heals to toss any damage out. While these are big problems, you can still learn the role well even at the gear disadvantage. As a tank you just melt. Sure you have mitigation but that is for when you would be taking heavier concentrations of damage; if you are popping CDs just to stay alive normally you won't have them to survive big hits, large groups of ads, or even just to take pressure off your healer. Again obvious, but It didn't really hit home the same way while learning dps or healer as it did for me when I was learning to tank.
    I went through quite a bit of frustration in my early tank leveling. Between using old lancer gear because it was 'recommended' or just plain using underleveled gear for the content I was in, It was tough to really get a feeling for how much I could take and what to expect early on. If I had to help a new and struggling tank, I would probably first ask if they are using the right gear for the job.

  • @bladerunner12
    @bladerunner12 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm doing my first tank job in FFXIV now. Something that helping me is doing every dungeon at least once in Duty Support before doing it with players, that way I can mess up the first run without worrying about it impacting other players. For the dungeons and Trials that don't have Duty Support I just say that I'm new and usually that keeps the groups' expectations low.
    A lot of tank anxiety just comes from not knowing what to expect from the instance/fight. I did my first Trial Roulette which was my first content with 2 tanks and I was worried because I had no idea what the sharing of tank responsibilities looked like. Turns out the off-tanking basically just means being a DPS.

  • @lanceknightmare
    @lanceknightmare 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    As an experienced tank in other games. When in doubt, pull a single enemy to test the waters. I do this whenever I step into an area I am unfamiliar with. With proper kiting tactics I sometimes found I was able to hunt monsters +9 my level if I only pulled one. Though, fighting monsters closer to my level was my bread and butter. While fighting a monster +9 my level was more a fun change of pace. In theory, you can hunt monsters +9 your level properly. It just requires a dedicated equipment set for every 10-15 levels. Generally, this means you will require a higher level character to farm for gear for your lower level character unless you are a pay to play player.

  • @power_SERG
    @power_SERG 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The only thing that sucks about being a tank... You (almost) never get to press the Limit Breaker button 😭😭😭

    • @weebboi9457
      @weebboi9457 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      But we get to do it at Seat of Sacrifice \o/

    • @Paiinkillerr
      @Paiinkillerr 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Usually sucks for melee to do it anyway because it makes them lose personal dps. It’s better that we don’t have to worry about the LB.

    • @power_SERG
      @power_SERG 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Paiinkillerr what if DPS's limit breaker could bypass any "Immune" phase that a boss is in. Essentially, if a boss traps itself inside a bubble that you can't break through until you finish a mechanic, using your LB would bypass what ever mechanic you need to do and just straight up damage the boss/target.

  • @Ch4pp13
    @Ch4pp13 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I've played tank for a majority of my time with FF14, and this is my first real MMORPG experience. I'm not quite "run through a dungeon, pull mobs" good, but I'm comfortable in the off-tank position, as that's mainly just "keep tank stance off, turn it on if mobs appear". Well, so far at least.
    Also makes my brain dispense dopamine whenever I see that I've received a commendation. That's a sign that whatever I was doing, it was beneficial.

  • @codyattenberger4391
    @codyattenberger4391 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I made the same catgirl as you starting. Hope that dont cause a issue. Im new to tanking. I failed horrible at the start in lvl 15 dungeon. But thanks to your videos im getting better. Just takes practice and trial and error. Keep up the good work.

  • @DylanPWN
    @DylanPWN ปีที่แล้ว

    I don't have anxiety when tanking to any great degree but I always feel like I am not doing enough to support the team.

  • @GigglyGayGoddess
    @GigglyGayGoddess 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I got my PLD and DRK to lvl 60 but I stopped being a confident tank because I just cannot remember each dungeon and each bosses' mechanics. I was an okay tank and only remembered really messing up my first few times, though I hope to get back into it.

  • @NeedCoffeefix
    @NeedCoffeefix 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thanks for this.
    Gonna keep leveling my samurai and red mage through the msq. Thanks to the road to 70 buff.
    Just figure that leveling dps would be better while I have the huge exp from msq.
    And wil level tanks with dungeons. Leveling dps with dungeons would be horrible due to the queues.

  • @tehhwisper
    @tehhwisper 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    My brother and I started a few weeks ago and I started as a Marauder. I've never tanked in any MMO before but have found FFXIV players to be very helpful.

  • @caitsiph1
    @caitsiph1 ปีที่แล้ว

    Problen for new tanks i think as well which isnt normally said is the ff14 and mmo community can be pretty toxic and give you a hard time when your learning and struggle a little as they want to speed rin the raid or dungeon you're doing. But 1 thing i found that again barely gets mentioned is set up a party finder and make a comment there thay your trying it or your new to it and then shout in chat to let players know as well this way hopefully you get people who are also learning a class or that are willing to help out. Hope this helps a few new tankers out there like myself and dont get anxious its a game just have fun and remember your always gonna go down at some point its part of the game and the learning curve

  • @rrosiya
    @rrosiya 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for mentioning if off-tanks put stance on or not! A lot of guides I've seen don't mention this!

  • @elduardo2496
    @elduardo2496 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I've been a tank since my day one in FFXIV, and was always the guy who would jump into being main tank even in my first run of trials and raids. I didn't even know tank anxiety existed until people mentioned it. So... Relax, people. If you're new, just tell your party and see how it goes. Always try to learn new details, and try not to feel bad if something goes wrong. You may miss enmity and get another player killed, or miss a positional and point a cleave to the party, it's part of the game, make mental notes of that, get better, move on, and feel good for learning and getting better. That's all there is to it.

  • @ajp1282
    @ajp1282 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I sprout-tanked (PLD/GBR) from ARR all the way to the Lv80 dungeons of SB then switched to dps (SAM/RDM) to observe rather than lead.
    New to the system my pulls very small and some veteran players would run ahead and I'd ended up following them so they wouldn't die. That's when I made the switch. The "Tanxiety" was real.

  • @luminuslupexreximperator978
    @luminuslupexreximperator978 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am playing tank since 1.0 and i can agree with 120% that what you said is correct. Tanks can and will do mistakes but learning from these mistakes will result in better tanking capability's and as a result in much more fun for the whole group. So: Get out your axe, sharpen your sword, polish your shield and get out there to be the first line of defence. Other players will thank you for the courage that results in taking on the responsibility. :D

  • @gabrielmartin2197
    @gabrielmartin2197 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This game made me love tanking. In other MMOs I just can't. The aggro system is great here, once you know the roll with your abilities it's even better. Proud #darkknight here!

    • @xicedmangox
      @xicedmangox 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Agreed!

    • @kleberson777
      @kleberson777 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      in other MMORPG, you are too busy maintain agro for each enemy that you are barely aware of your surrounding anymore.
      Dragon Nest MMORPG is even worse. That game give me Tank PTSD. Not only tank responsibility is higher than any role, but boss for no reason sometimes immune to provoke. So if you cast it too fast or too slow -> you lose agro and need to wait provoke skill cooldown -> party wipe -> blamed by everybody

  • @OcihEvE
    @OcihEvE 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    In my experience it's best to start as a dps and level either a Tank or healer as soon as you hit level 10. Send all or most MSQ experience to the DPS as you progress. Run dungeons as the Tank or healer and do roulettes on the Tank or healer. You will have no issue leveling both classes along side one another this way and you won't feel the punishing queue times of DPS. If you are having a day where you don't mind waiting, run a Queue on DPS.
    Once you get to Shadow Bringers you are going to want a DPS to 70 if you want to play around with the Trust system as the system was designed for DPS. I don't think a Healer or a Tank will ever see a massive Queue time catching up in Shadow Bringers but as the DLC ages, DPS will see longer and longer queue times. Trust eliminates that.

  • @Chef-Juice
    @Chef-Juice 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I honestly needed to hear this. My biggest problem is the expectations that come with tanking and knowing when to pop mitigation. Literally I am dark knight lv 74 and yes I did not skip and its just a issue I have with tanking tbh. Cuz I just got to post Stormblood too

  • @filipevasconcelos4409
    @filipevasconcelos4409 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    The good thing about tanking and healing is that, for as important as they are, almost nobody cares if you wipe twice or thrice. I recently started Healing as well, and my WHM just went through 2 brutal wipes in Brayflox's dungeon because both me and the tank were undergeared for our levels (the DRK had 1000 HP, if i recall correctly. 2 swipes were enough to get him to half health), and even then, everybody was patient, and i've had my hardest clear of a dungeon in a little while. What i want to say with this is that failing is normal, and even expected. Just let yourself make a few mistakes, and you'll be playing like a pro in no time.

  • @lemeres2478
    @lemeres2478 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    1:22 A large portion of this game is about getting to the fight. Walking there, waiting to get into rooms, et al.
    Even for the parts that are solo in a field... a tank might spend less time just because they are less likely to die and force you to do the walk all over again.

  • @fenwild1000
    @fenwild1000 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I think my “tanxiety” comes from not wanting to be *that* tank. My starting character was GLD/PLD and RDM once I got to 50, but I picked up GNB while I was going through the SHB post-game and I’ve had so much fun tanking it’s made me work on getting my other tanks up. I still worry from time to time that I’m too squishy or not managing my cooldowns/burst well enough.

    • @fenwild1000
      @fenwild1000 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Urazz I’ve considered it, but I think it’s mostly just button mismanagement. Sometimes I’ll see an ability come out and be like “oh that’s a tankbuster” with .2 seconds left on the cast 😂 I think it’s a familiarity thing, I’ve only been playing the class for 3 weeks or so

  • @liamgeeves1025
    @liamgeeves1025 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I always heal for my friend as he is leveling a tank for Dark Knight and I am leveling a Healer for white mage, I feel like he is more confident knowing I can heal him and quick res him if he makes a mistake.

  • @deddjay
    @deddjay 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Interesting guide. Been playing for a while off and on, and only now starting to get interested in tanking (been playing since ARR lol)

  • @prophecy13
    @prophecy13 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Honestly your videos have got me through doing the normal mql every time the game tells me I have to group up I almost just stop playing. Then I queue up do the stuff after watching some mechanic videos and everything is good.

  • @toodleselnoodos6738
    @toodleselnoodos6738 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Playing tank for 30 levels didn’t just help me be a better healer, but a better party member.
    Had a situation where the DPS was drawing all the aggro in the middle of the run and I had to go full healer mode to keep everyone and myself up. The dps asked if they need to tone it down. I looked at the tanks status and notice his tank stance was off. My guess was he might’ve accidentally deactivated it in the middle of the fight.
    I told the dps that he’s doing fight, but something in the last fight cleared all the tanks buffs and reassured everyone they’re doing great so far and also not to worry coz they got a big d healz looking out after them. So, the dps felt good and was able to save the tank face. We rushed through the rest of the dungeon easily and crushed the boss, so, a great run in the end!

  • @EmetSelch.
    @EmetSelch. 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am suffering from tanxiety. With each new expansion, I'm terrified to lvl up my tanks. I'm doing something I'm not very proud of : lowering my ilvl to do only low lvl instances. And when Dps start pulling, I lose my nerve. If the heal gets attacked because I didn't manage to regain control over the monsters, I lose all my means. And challenges with two tanks are a nightmare for me...
    A heal who pulled once told me "we don't need you". I think it's since that day that I can't play tank anymore.

  • @xunqiew
    @xunqiew 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Started the game with healer jobs and now im exploring the others, picked gnb and loved everything about it but had to put it down because i'm so used to being the "behind the scenes" type of guy in everything so switching to the leader who goes in the frontlines is hard, thank for the video i will give gnb another shot!

  • @Joe-it2dh
    @Joe-it2dh 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I really enjoy tanking, its my favorite role but other players are the worst part of it. Ive had off tanks leave tank stance on while attacking the boss then blamed me when the boss turned to them instead of staying focused on me as MT. Everyone also seems to think they can always tank better than you but then when you give them the chance they fall flat on their face. Also, very few people complain about Damage classes not hitting DPS checks but the moment the boss isn't in the exact specific spot they personally want then they throw a fit.
    Story time! I was MT for a Titan Extreme run and always tried to get the boss as close as possible to the edge but nothing I did was ever good enough for the DPS and off tank (who had his tank stance on the whole time). So I said "fine, you think you're so much better, you can MT." And I switched off my tank stance. First attempt MT walks off the edge, literally walked off the platform. Second try he gets knocked off on the first directional knockback because he was out of position. Third attempt couldn't get Titan close enough to the edge, party gets wiped on second knock back attack. Meanwhile chat is completely still and noone says anything. After his third failure and never having reached as far as I did I supported the effort to abandon the Duty.
    Edit: during that specific Titan Extreme run i still had my sprout tag next to my name, which I think is why they were so critical because they assumed I didn't know what I was doing just because of that mark. But even now that I dont have that any more about every 5 high tier runs someone has something dumb to say.

  • @1LuvMLPFiM
    @1LuvMLPFiM 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    When running with randoms, do small pulls and gauge how fast the healer can keep you alive, and how fast the dps can kill enemies. If you're confident in their abilities, you can gradually make larger pulls.

    • @instantautopsy7581
      @instantautopsy7581 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I disagree. Like Desperius said in the video, big pulling from the get-go is a much better way to gauge how well your group can handle it. In the upper ranges of leveling tanks have a plethora of defensive cooldown, and so, since you start with all cooldowns available to you, the only reason you should be able to wipe to the first big pull is if there was a grave misunderstanding or error. It is much easier to identify a healer who will struggle (or a dps, for that matter) when confronted with an actual challenge, and as the tank it is generally understood that it is your job to facilitate a quick and clean run through the duty, so identifying precisely how much you can pull immediately is beneficial for everyone.
      Funnily enough, if my healer is both keeping me alive and dpsing in the first pull, I'll know to always pull as much as I can. If my healer is not dpsing, I'll typically be more wary. This may seem an odd mentality at first, but to me, a healer whom is confident enough to dps tells me a lot about what they are capable of.

  • @lvelez6490
    @lvelez6490 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Just stay at dps so I get queques/PF instantly :)

    • @kurosakitagami2788
      @kurosakitagami2788 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Bruh what server are you at? Mine always short on tanks and healers

    • @Grimnoire
      @Grimnoire 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Maybe on opposite day.

    • @lvelez6490
      @lvelez6490 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@kurosakitagami2788 that’s the point. Keep on dps so I, who main tank/healing, always get insta queque 😁

    • @kurosakitagami2788
      @kurosakitagami2788 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@lvelez6490 I dont understand

    • @thewittyusername
      @thewittyusername 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      He's saying don't play tank so that his queues stay fast. 🥵

  • @TheFalazure
    @TheFalazure 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    To anyone who wants to take up tanking, level a DRG or a MNK first, that way when you get into tanking yourself you will understand the frustrations and needs of your melee dps...and why they get pissed off at you if you move around too damn much. outside of that, tanking is actually a lot like playing a melee with some other nuances (mitigation cooldown management)

  • @MrSHINEYMAN22
    @MrSHINEYMAN22 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Something I'll do is run a boss or dungeon solo first just to get a feel for it. Maybe watch a video or read a guide if it's difficult. Even if you fail it's no big but usually, it will let you realize that there is lots of leeway and won't be as hard as you thought.

  • @leisuregaming1335
    @leisuregaming1335 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I started as DPS, healer then tank. After 1 year of playing the game I feel like tanking is actually the most fun. Healing can be stressful in harder contents during specific phases to heal but during down time you're back spamming one or 2 buttons. DPS is fun but it's ultimately putting as much damage as you can and coming from WoW I'd have to say I'm done with DPS meters and trying to top it, I dunno I'm just done with it. I hate being there only for numbers and buffs (which is also numbers).
    Tanking is also about numbers, after all jobs in this game can pull off decent dps. But at least as a tank you also get to mitigate and try to position the boss properly, it's like a mini game inside of DPSing which doesn't stop you from doing rotation that is not so boring like healers. Not to mention you get to use the "oh shit" buttons like living dead, holmgang, etc which is cool. You literally cannot be killed, it feels awesome especially when you use it during an oh shit moment for your party/raid which then saves everyone.

  • @ReyOfLight
    @ReyOfLight 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I totally needed to watch this! Only just starting to consider trying my hands at tanking in FFXIV (as I want to become a versatile player and not just do DPS), most likely going to focus on Dark Knight because I like to deal a lot of damage- like why whack the enemy with a chopstick when you could bring a baseball bat?! And yes, I am aware that Dark Knight is a difficult one, but little by little I shall learn, and I have people around me to ask :) I have a lvl 90 Black Mage and Reaper and starting to get more familiar with some dungeons at least. Will take time before I dare to take charge and run as tank with other people, but I'll get there eventually with a bit of practice. Going to do the same with healer, as I said, I want to become a versatile player who can run as either role comfortably, depending on what my friends needs from me at the time. Just being a DPS player is rather limiting, although fun.

  • @rockinpenguin
    @rockinpenguin 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    5:31 that only works if you don't use provoke to pull as you do a lot in this video ;)
    But very nice advices.

    • @DesperiusFFXIV
      @DesperiusFFXIV  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      For dungeon content, you are right

  • @catStone92
    @catStone92 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    my anxiety from tanking is that I'm still leveling my main job and have only picked gunbreaker so far :D
    so I didn't have the dungeon leveling experience or got to learn the skill bit by bit, was an entire complex kit just unloaded on to me

    • @crimsonwizahd2358
      @crimsonwizahd2358 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      As a max level Gunbreaker myself, best advice I can give for that is
      1: Make sure you have your keybinds (if Mouse and Keyboard) or Controller layout (if controller) set up in such a way that is comfortable to you.
      2: Go straight to any level 1 training dummy you can find and start experimenting with the skills. Ideally your gonna want to find a guide to each of those ( I'd recommend WeskerAlber's Gunbreaker guide here on TH-cam, he goes over each skill as they're acquired throughout the leveling process and how each one ties into your combos and use cases), then arrange them as you feel comfortable with on your keybind setup.
      Finally: Start with stuff like Leveling Roulette and be sure to explain that your a new tank before the dungeon starts. 9/10 the party will take it easy on you.

  • @DaSaiyanChick628
    @DaSaiyanChick628 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I enjoy tanking a lot. I did nothing but play tank in Zadnor lol. Got my last remaining tank to 80 about 2 days ago. But once upon a time, I used to have tank anxiety too. Guys just step out of your comfort zone and jump right into it. I feel like if you do dungeons with just your friends starting out, it helps you too. If you don't have many friends to do this with yet, no worries! Just tell people "Hey I'm pretty new to tanking. Just giving a heads up," and people will understand. Our community is very kind and it's very rare for you to ever get flamed here. Give it a try. You won't regret it, trust me :)

  • @akaMokassin
    @akaMokassin 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love tanking, but from what I have experienced as a wow refugee is, that tank queues are almost as long as dps ones. Fastes queues by far are healer ones.