Soft Motivation when days feel hard
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- This week I'm feeling the new year blues, quite low, struggling with depression, lack of motivation and just wanting to stay at home. I'm reframing and trying to refriend the January New Year blues. I have to say, it's not been the easiest but I did my best anyway! Most days I just don't want to leave the house and trying to motivate myself has been a real struggle. Hopefully in this video I can show my little ways of making life just a little bit easier and how that can make ALL the difference. With soft, gentle motivation. Thank you so much for watching & keeping me company In this little corner of TH-cam. Love you all SOOO much, I really appreciate this community! Biggest, Softest, Everythings, Wendy. Xx
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I too had a recent experience where I gave a stranger a ride. I live in Sonoma, California which as you might know is in the heart of wine country and very rural. I came upon a woman walking on a country road carrying 4 large shopping bags. In my rearview mirror I watched several vehicles pass her as she tried to get out of their way...the road does not have a shoulder that she could walk on...one driver actually beeped their horn at her. I was concerned for her safety and turned my car around to offer her a ride. She said that she is an in-home care giver and had just left her overnight job where she cares for a very elderly couple. She was on her way to the bus stop which was at least a 2 or 3 mile walk from where I picked her up. She shared that she came to California from Fiji to work as a care giver and explained that she believes this is her calling in life. I was touched by her sweet and kind energy and came away from this experience inspired by her selfless dedication to helping others. She reinforced my belief that there are more good people than bad in this world, sometimes we get to meet them when we least expect it!
What a wonderful story! I can't imagine what kind of a heartless person would beep at a poor lady lugging 4 bags of groceries walking alongside the road. It takes all kinds. I recently had a neighborhood teen throw a coffee mug into my windshield and smash it to smithereens. I do not know the teen. So I sent a very kind note to his parents telling them what had happened, actually apologizing to them for the bad news. Did I hear back from them? No. Not as much as a we are sorry. They used to hang out in their backyard and barbecue and have friends over and there would be a lot of laughter. Now they stay inside trying to avoid me. Two months after the incident the mother angrily posted on FB about how someone had just hit her car when she was at work. She was outraged and cursing up a storm about how they didn't leave a note or try and find her. I suppose one could call it karma but isn't it sad how she was only interested when it affected her, and could care less when it happened to me. Shortly thereafter she posted that she was buying her 17 year old son a car. The same teen that threw the "I love you" Valentine's Day coffee mug into my windshield. I guess kids nowadays are rewarded for damaging a neighbors car without incurring any consequences. (sigh) Kudos to you for what you did.
How lovely is that....and yes, those unexpected connections with a stranger can be enriching can't they...? 🤗
Also from Sonoma County CA and have a Fijian friend who is one of the sweetest kindest people I’ve ever known… thank you for helping her… 💝💖
Your kindness is so admirable, people and this world are very COLD, driving by and honking isn't surprising. That said, I too am a caregiver, I do have a car but I can only imagine working overnight and then walking 3 miles to a bus stop after working overnight???? thank you for what you did for a stranger, your kindness is lovely and you will receive in back...
Both you & your stranger are very kind…power to you girls…loved reading your little story. Much love from Aus 💕💕
In my head, I've changed the month's name to Jam-uary, a month where I do things that are "my jam". Self-care, dancing with a paintbrush, snacking on my favourite fruits, curling up with a book, creating a new junk journal (one that isn't precious, so I can use it without caring whether I got jam on it, not that I eat jam very often), playing with a new or re-found art supply (dug out my intense pencils to finally use, instead of hoarding because they were "the good stuff"), finding new recipes to try that are healthy and appeal to my tastebuds.
I'm glad, Wendy, that you had a lovely catch up with family, and journalling about that visit while the memories are fresh seems the perfect Jam-uary activity. So does dancing with the fairies - I hope they are whispering wonderful secrets and sharing ideas. My fairies and sprites all seem to be down at the beach, hiding in the beach grass and the roots of the ti trees, and I am hoping they are filling their cups so they have plenty of ideas to share upon their return!.
Wishing you love and light, and trying to send warmth your way from Australia, as well as gentle hugs.
I love the idea of Jam-uary!
Such a great video! I was with my 3 closest girlfriends for dinner on early New Year’s Eve, we’re all in our later 60’s…I was home by 9pm. 😂 They were setting their goals for 2024 and said mine should be leaving the house more…LOL! But they don’t realize how many years I was pining away at a 8-5 job, just wishing I could be home creating. Now I have a beautiful studio in my home and I just love being in it! I guess they just don’t understand the joy I get from it and that I love my quiet alone time.
I love being alone, but some of my friends don't get it. One of them needs people around her all the time. That would make me crazy. At least I'm retired (my husband still works since he's younger than me), so I do get quite a bit of solitary time, which helps. Christmas and New Year's were very hectic, so I am grateful for calm January!
I understand you completely, I'm the same way...lol.
Enjoy your blessed time in studio. Your artist tribe here on utube get it.
I'm 60 and still work 40hr 12 hrs night shift at hospital...😢 I want to wean and slowly 🐌 retire. I just can't have that high energy anymore..I also want to spend more time on my " Crafty " self. And improve my Art cove and maybe initiate selling my flipped furniture and mix media .. keep my light shining bright. ✨️. You are Loved 😍
Same. I’m an introvert who worked long hours, crazy shifts, travelled endlessly from country to country, often submersed in challenging locations. Now in my sixties, I get pure joy from moving no further than my bed with my coffee & sketchbook, entertaining no company other than my own. Fully finished with extraverts defining what’s healthy & normal!
You made me cry. Of course I’m PMSing and today is my 44th birthday and I am not in a happy, ideal situation, but I mentioned to folks earlier that any kind message, like birthday messages, really & truly does make a difference. ANY kindness makes a HUGE difference 💙💙
@@SharonM13 I just saw this posting. I hope you had a wonderful Birthday Lisa Marie. Many Blessings. Please know you are a special person.
I just saw this, and I just wanted to say Happy Birthday! You are here, you are safe, and you are lovely.
@@margiekerr8736 Thank you so much!!
@@Sarah-uv6wb I really appreciate that, thank you 💙💙
That little sweet puppy dog, Jeffy, always melts my heart. Hang in there...as a dear friend once told me, when you are having a rough time and things seem overwhelming, just say to yourself "do one thing." And then do that thing. Then say again " do one thing." It makes the doing - when we must do - that much more easy, not so overwhelming. And lovely that you helped that older gentleman. Hope you feel better soon....so important to push gently into doing when needed, but rest when needed, too. Sending hugs.
Thanks so much for sharing the story of the homeless/temporary housed man to whom you gave a drive. I, too, find it very sad that it is not a higher priority in our countries (I'm in Canada) to ensure that everybody has the best life possible. We seem to prioritize those with the most, when those with the least go without. I don't think this is just political - it is, as you say, about having heart and being caring, which is why we viewers are attracted to your channel. I am very fortunate to rarely experience the blues. At the same time it seems that life gets more and more challenging for many, and depression is more and more common, so I am sending healing vibes to anyone who needs some sunshine in their hearts. I know that just watching your videos makes me feel lighter and brighter, Wendy. May you find your motivation and get back your energy and spark. You somehow manage to always sparkle on this channel, even when you are feeling down. You are a gift. Much love to you for all you give and all you are!
We are on day seven of being home bound. Northern Mississippi is in a frozen state. We had four inches of snow then sleet. Schools were closed all week. The grocery stores were closed down but a few things started reopening on Friday but most of the roads are still iced. We were prepared so it’s been okay. We have had an unplanned staycation. Good news is I have been journaling every day.
Yes - we are a "heart-centered" group who journey along with you, keeping our lights shining as best we can, helping others even when it seems unwise or potentially dangerous. 40 years ago I was going grocery shopping on a snowy, bitterly cold January day in northern Illinois, USA, when I came upon a man with no coat walking along the road toward town. Our 3-year old daughter was in the back seat in her car seat but I debated only moments before I decided to offer him a ride. As a believer, I would say that it was the Christ-spirit in the Universe that moved my heart to stop for him. It turned out he was a local business man whose car had quit - he was just going a short way and left his coat in his office - and he needed a ride to the auto repair place of which he was owner! He remarked that most women with a small child in tow would not have stopped. And I had a feeling that a number of vehicles had zipped past him before I came along. I was listening to that holy nudge in my heart and acted upon it. All these years later I am reminded that the essential need for acts of mercy, kindness, compassion and charity is part of our calling as humans, be it toward other humans or the other creatures with whom we share this amazing world. Thanks for shining your light and encouraging us to see alternative ways to look at life when we are in the "wintering times" of life. Blessings to you, and Blessed Be! - Kay -
January is a month for rest, so any sort of blues we might be feeling is the way we were designed and created to take a break and reflect on the year that has passed and the new year to come. I don’t take my Christmas tree and decorations down until mid January because it makes me sad to put away all those beautiful decorations that made my house feel so celebratory and beautiful. When I take them down I do it slowly and over the course of a few days. This way I don’t overwhelm myself with the sadness of having them gone. At the same time I begin looking forward to Valentine’s Day. It is my second favorite holiday. Sometimes I even decorate for Valentine’s. I also begin making cards or little gifts to give away on Valentine’s. Focusing on “others” and not so much on myself is the best way to get rid of any blues. I remember a couple of years ago being extremely depressed, feeling sorry for myself and all that. Suddenly I got some horrible news about a tragic death in my family. It was as if someone turned the switch inside me and I was no longer feeling depressed (which sounds weird due to the tragic situation) because I was more focused on helping my mom deal with the death of her sister. When we stop looking inward and begin focusing on others we heal, and become more aware of how silly we can become when we feel sorry for ourselves. I give praise to God for everything and even in those sad moments I force myself to see the light beyond the shadows.
This is a wonderful post about looking outward and not inward focused on ourselves.
I too, take my time with removing my Christmas decorations over a few days. This year instead of carting the containers into the house, I put all the ornaments in big bowls, took them to the garage along with the four mini trees and other Christmas deco. I still have my dear and some smaller items that fall into winter. My plan is to sort through what I’ve not used in a couple of years , box them up in separate box of two and donate to charity in late October or early November for someone else to enjoy. At 75 I still like to decorate but no longer have a big tree and don’t need as much as I have. Have great year.
@@ehpeachylove I love your process for undecorating. When I first began doing my Christmas decorating in my own house, I made a conscious decision to only buy the ornaments that I would want to keep for many years to come. Over the years I’ve collected heart ornaments which are the bulk of my ornaments and then I have “fillers”. When my son was born I began collecting the Hallmark ornaments, each representing something special that happened that year in my son’s life. I also buy one new Hallmark heart ornament if I find one I like, or a heart ornament that speaks to me. There is nothing more special than when I put up the decorations and then take them down again, to look at each ornament and remember the years when I bought them. I count my blessings and thank God for all.
@@clc3897 how beautiful. A couple years ago I gave my son all the ornaments that I had bought him and some friends had bought him as he grew up. This year he and his wife decorated one of their small trees behind the sofa on a stand with all those special decoration. It was a joy to see and made me smile and be thankful too. Blessings to you.
My birthday is January 14th. I don't dislike January but I realize that we go into hibernation during this time after the holidays of course. We've spent money we don't really have and we're tired for sure! Nobody wants to celebrate my birthday and most don't remember. It doesn't make me sad because after 58 birthdays of being forgotten, I'm kind of used to it. I know how you feel and I just want to say, you're not alone! I will look out and keep my mind open to give and love openly to those who have less. Thank you for the sweet reminder! Bless!
Rather warm here in upstate New York today, but I still have my hot tea for this visit, I really put off this because I wanted a cozy time! I don’t know if you comprehend how much you mean to me (us) ! My heart went out to you helping the homeless fellow, as a social worker I worked with “project Uplift” a grant program for people who were homeless ! It was located in a very poor area and our door was open, we provided coffee, soup, and sandwiches; hygiene supplies, blanket/quilts (sewed by a local group) coats, and a food cupboard! We would provide counseling and advocacy for social services! Finding housing was of course a priority! Watching you rising up from the januaries gave me a lift also!
I was on my way home one night several years ago and I saw a young woman standing at the bottom of some concrete steps that led up to apartments. It was quite dark and the steps went through a wooded area. I could tell she was hesitant to go up them so I went back and offered her a ride home. She thanked me and I took her on home. It only took a few minutes to get up the hill but I felt good knowing I helped her get home safely. :)
Rest up Wendy.
How lush and full your studio looks with all your plant babies, lovely! It's so cold indeed, I'm staying put and staying inside.
I really like the idea of looking back over the past year's journals. I would like to do that as well.
Hello Jeffy, sweet doggie, you're so sweet.
Awh, love how the gardener felt it necessary to say he doesn't disturb nature!! That would win me over, for certain. You chose the perfect one. And wow!, the landlord paid for gardener services.
Yes, the world's state, the homeless, etc.😢 We empaths do have a hard way to go in it, don't we? God bless you for caring to help him. It does matter.
aww thankyou poppet xxx big loves to you too xxx
I believe that most of the souls here are Empaths and it is why we are drawn to Wendy because I believe she too is an Empath.
Bless you Wendy for taking the time to help out that poor gentleman. I agree that "our" priorities are backwards these days and our money should be spent on making sure no one goes without. I found two feral kitties while out on a walk yesterday and I'm going back today to share some shrimp I saved from my meal last night with them. My little way of doing my part! 💕
This year I decided to go away for a few weeks this January to the warmer climate of South Carolina here in the states to help with my January's. I found a cute inexpensive efficiency studio getaway near the beach. Although it could be a little warmer, it's still nice to have a change of scenery, walk or bike on the beach when the weather permits and meet new sweet souls, even in the form of hungry kitties.
Wishing you a bright and shiny rest of your January. We're almost there! February is right around the corner!
Sending much love and gentle hugs! 🤗🌞 ❤
In January I priorities taking walks in daylight. Getting my face directly in the sun when the sky is clear, whether I sit at the window or find a quit corner with no wind outside. The.light energizes me and the walks too.my sleep improves too. 😀
Wendy, please know what a blessing you are, your channel is a true gift to us.
You are so honest, your art is beautiful and you have such a gorgeous infectious soul / energy.
You bring such light to the world, infinite gratitude and
love to you. ❤🌻🐝🐞🇦🇺
I realised this weekend that I hadn't left the house this year except to go to work or the supermarket. At first I was pretty horrified with myself but having watched your video I took your (James') advice and 'flipped it'. Because, by spending all my free time at home, I have read two books (haven't read a book in over 2 years) and I am over half way through crocheting a double bedspread in cheerful rainbow stripes (haven't crocheted anything since last January). The joy and pride I feel in these achievements far outweighs the guilt I felt at my 'January hibernating'. Thank you for giving me the opportunity to see things from a different perspective x
Helping someone is therapy for you and them ……shine bright Wendy it helps us all❤
I love staying home and painting and doing all my art projects. My husband gets me out for an hours walk ( like walking the dog😊) but I am thankful for him. I am going to be 68 this year! Also my many friends I love. I try to make time for them. I love your videos Have a good day❤ When ever I see a person in need homeless, whatever I always tell my husband lets get them some food, I always say what if they were your brother or sister wouldn’t you hope someone would help them. No one should ever go hungry. We can’t fix all the problems but a smile , a meal a word of encouragement is within our ability. Hugs to you🤗🤗Wendy
Hi. Wendy. Thank you for sharing the January blues...YES, we all get them. I agree we must be kind to ourselves at this time. I live in Ireland and weather is awful right now! Big storms. So, I make a big mug of tea and work for 2 hours on a lake painting. Nat King Cole in the background....I skim past the dark new s headlines. I pray for those who are suffering. I send a very modest monthly sum to a homeless charity as, like you say, every little bit helps. I love your beautiful portrait on typed gratitude message...Please hang it up. It is worthy of being seen every day. ❤❤🎉
Thank you for this... Especially the last few minutes... You brought tears to my eyes and reaffirmed my belief that every little bit might help... That sharing my light won't dim it and might brighten another one! This is my struggle in January and February when, here in Canada, winter gets so fierce and energy so low... What's the point?!? Well there always is a point, hope that things will get better! 🙏🧡
After Christmas, I always feel an odd sense of loss. So, I've started looking at January as a fresh start. Clean slate. Shiny. New. I get outside. ALOT. And I start planning a new dream for this bright year.
I truly adore you, sweet Wendy. Thank you for the happy dancing, I needed that more than you could know.
Just know your "Januaries" are definitely real, and I'm with you upon struggling about being home and feeling safe.
I fed some local homeless on the Eve of the holiday. I have tried to keep my left hand seeing what the right is doing, but admittedly, I felt more good about that than anything else that's gone on since October, since I cannot stop or help with... All of the world. I think it did more for me than it did those whom I fed.
Love you beautiful darling. Keeping you in my thoughts. ✨🕯️
Ahhh...I loved what you said about someone else can light their light off yours and it won't diminish your light at all....
Bless you , Wendy, for helping that homeless man. It does upset me that people are living like this when money is being wasted . It can be disheartening but every little thing we can do to make the world a better place helps . I love the serene look of your gratitude picture. Let's hope for dome warmer, drier less windy weather soon. ❤
Sweet doggy. Self care and progress is always best for me at 76.
Oh yes Wendy to all that you have said. I am looking forward to more sunshine here. January and February are more difficult months for me, by March I am better in general, usually, anyway! Inspiration is a wee bit more difficult at this time too. We have a lot of snow (which is a good thing here….for the kids and for the plants that need it for insulation! ) I have to really push myself to go out also! Thanks for your gentle push. Have a wonderful Sunday and a great week! How sweet of you to help that man…💚
You got a puppy. Oh what a sweetheart. When I am in the car with my family and we go by a certain part of town it just breaks my heart to see all the homeless people. It makes you wonder what is wrong with our world these days. I never listen to the news because it is so depressing and there is absolutely nothing that I can do about it at age 81. Like you I believe that every one of us can make the world just a little bit of a brighter happier place to live in. Never underestimate the power of a sincere smile. Blessings and love from a fellow artist in New Mexico
Nice to know I'm not alone.. yes, it's cold... my body to wants to cozy up at home and not go anywhere . I like your dancing movements. I started doing that about a year ago, because my body was so stiff. I am tryly amazed how far I can stretch now. God Bless.... Love your creative work....
Wendy it is sooo cold in upstate NY too!! I have to use a sun lamp to help lift my spirits...its called 'happy light'...it helps!! Today it is sunny and lots of blue jays and other birds are loving the peanuts and the full bird feeders i have outside...we have soooo much snow!!! I am decluttering too dealing with random papers...be blessed and stay warm. Sending out peace and prayers to the world from USA❤😊✌
Gosh, it's only January still and I've already cried a million tears. Tears of sorrow at the cruel state of the world, tears of gratitude for all the beautiful souls such as yourself. Tears of Joy, tears of sunshine, tears of days gone by, tears of letting go.. Thank you for a moment of connection during these often stormy times. Love You All 🧡
I love your energy 🤍
I’m so glad to know I’m not struggling alone this January. I just turned 60 this month, which I’m ok with, but feel a slight sense of urgency that I’ve now entered the last phase of my life and I still have so much to do. Last week we had both a snow storm and an ice storm which shut everything down and I was happy just to hunker down at home. Except now I don’t feel like doing much of anything, except cuddling with my dog and drinking tea. Your kind reminders that it is ok to take time means so much. Thank you Wendy, brighter days are ahead ❤
Thanks so much for this video. I have ME/CFS and Fibromyalgia and have been recuperating from a really bad flare up a couple weeks ago. Between that and the arctic-like temperatures we've had for the last week, walking outside is not happening. So I'm just gradually increasing my indoor activity every day to help my body feel better. I just love your little fairies and your daughter's sweet little dog, Jeffy, just makes me smile. Of course, you always make me smile and help me shine my light a little brighter. Much love and hugs to you and James.
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Have you tried an earthing sheet?.❤
You have a lovely way of motivating us. I too slow down in the winter and Jan seems especially challenging- it's as if I am setting up my new launching pad, and in ways I want to make it perfect (which is not possible). Your story of the frail man with no socks in this winter weather brought tear to my eyes. It feels so good to have empathy towards others, when we act on it. Absolutely right about misspent tax money. It is getting even worse now...
January to me is purging things out into the universe, lightening my load for the new year. Making certain I do my P.T. and O.T. in order to move throughout the day ahead and my recumbent bike for 30 min. I get all wacky and wanky when I don't tend to my self care...that's when my body fails me. x's lj
The typewriter is such a nice touch!! I like it!
Wendy, you are so cute, and kind hearted. You remind me of a fairy. Ypur drawing is beautiful, it's amazing to watch you draw and see your drawing come to life. So beautiful.
The Januaries, well, I have them.
I was bien in South Africa which is beautiful and the weather is fantastic. But you see, we have a rotten polutical situation and crime and corruption is rife.
I live in Germany and the weather is so dark, grey, rainy, depressing and cold, that it makes me depressed.
I love sumner and the sunshine. I'm creative and like to do things outside.
So, yes, in the Northern hemisphere it is really challenging in winter.
Sunshine and warm weather make a huge difference to our wellbeing.
Acts of kindness are very important.
We have to take a ferry across the canal about 1km from our house.
We had a guy who woeks on the ferryboat who lets the cars on and off. The weather is brutal out there. And the Captain is upstairs.
I called the ferry guy Mr Grump. I would wave to say hello and he never acknowledged me. I nwver gave up waving and greeting him. Slowly, the ice started to break after a very long time.
Today, I wave and smile and greet him and ge breaks into a big smile ans waves back. He even comes over for a chat now.
And I would smile and wave up to the Captain. Today, as soon as rhe Captain sees our vehicle, he rushes out fron his cabin and smiles and waves fruriously at me.
I am so happy to see the ferry staff, a lady who does this work included.
I showed that I cared by making their day abit brighter by smiling, waving and saying hello.
And Mr Grump is much more cheerful.
It makes all the difference if we can do small acts of kindness and ones of different sizes depending on what we have to give.
Everyone deserves a home, food, shoes and socks in winter and clothes.
All the spare clothes that we don't wear can be given to the destitute directly instead of it being donated to a charity shop.
I love charity shops but we can give something to a person who needs it.
Thanks for doing your act of kindness for the frail old man. I hear you Wendy. All Govs are corrupt.
We need to help eachother because if we don't do it, nobody will. Even with kind words.
Hope your Januaries get better, and sending lits of love to you and everyone in this group. ❤💐💕
I am feeling rather much like yourself - I just want to hibernate & not leave the house at all - i am finding motivation very difficult & i am just doing the basics of going to work & running a few errands
I am even finding it difficult to get motivated for my crafting, which is usually my god send - roll on Spring :) xx
Thank you for being so kind and thoughtful about the people suffering on the other side of the world❤ you are beautiful inside-out❤❤
❤ Thanks for the wise and helpful chat and wonderful to see you creating such beautiful and uplifting artwork, really inspires me ❤ I'm learning the art of cosying this January, sitting by the fire with a nice cuppa, soft lamplight and soothing music and a pet to cuddle! Small acts of kindness each day to myself and others are so important I feel too xx
Hello Wendy thank you for your video, it's not the best of weathers lately for outings and long walks or gardening, dancing indoors and singing whilst doing household chores, having visitors and just hanging out watching videos back to back or reading a book, no need to feel guilty about just being relaxing enjoying not standing in shopping queues or putting on a brace face in the cold and wet, I enjoy this time of year because we all need to hibernate at some point just as Mother Earth and the small creatures do, There is a peaceful energy that is restoring and natural, when we allow ourselves to have time out and not feel guilty. Hugs and Blessings 💚🌹
We live in Northern Canada. It was -30 the other day. The blues is peeking around the door. I enjoy puzzles when I need a distraction. Baking a pie, vacuuming and dusting and creating a really cozy space for myself in my little home. Today, I'm venturing out to a second hand shop. I have an assignment to find another black turtleneck. Cheers.
The Holiday. One of my favorite movies. ❤️ Shine when you can, hibernate when you must.
Bravo for getting out the house- excellent strategy. Take some lovely walks and see the buds swell. Go to bed with a book like they do in Iceland- hibernate:). The light is returning! Cook nourishing food. Talk to someone you love on the phone while under the blankets. Have nice baths and lovely teas- hot chocolate too! Just be. Read poetry. Meditate. Enjoy Mr. Robin. Love yourself with all your heart.
I do thank you for your light and caring that shines through. I have had a tough start to the new year with a hospital stay and now slowly recovering from the illness. I have been humbled and blessed.
Today I had a student tell me they loved me and the gesture shocked me because they shared it twice! I love all of my students (I’m a virtual tutor) but after sitting in my own feelings having received such a free and honest expression, I choose to share the love that’s been shared with me. I love you Wendy. I love you everyday.
You are an inspiration, comfort for my soul during this month of January. Your warmth and creativity just sucks me in. Keeps me motivated to push on even on the darkest days. We all have something that gets our thoughts to move in a more positive way. You my dear Wendy are mine. Thousands of miles apart. You touch my heart and soul. I am so Grateful the universe has shown me your light. Bright Blessing to you and James.
Beautiful artwork and message Wendy. Here in the US, I am so with you in questioning how our tax money is being utilized. Many people feel this way, in spite of what the mass media has been telling us. Perhaps, collectively we can continue to make our feelings known and change things for the better.
thank you so much for sharing all that you share, Wendy. I'm grateful that you're here and glad I found you. May all January hibernations be warm, cosy and restorative.
Such a beautiful video, that touches us deeply in our hearts. And the comments--some brought me to tears.
Every Christmas season is different as we and the world around us evolve. I think January is a time that we
have to feel our way into the changes of the new year and a new way of fitting into it. It can be very unsettling, to say the least. I have found creativity and joy in making changes in my home during January. Once I begin to move things around, fresh ideas seem to rush in. As we know, our inside and outside must align and harmonize! But I agree, it's really hard to get out of the house, and I often feel as though I have accomplished nothing. Two sleepy cats give off those lazy vibes too😅😊
I'm loving the vintage typewriter. I have a few of those. When it's cold in your studio, channel an artist or writer from before central heating. Imagine how it was to create back then.
Hi Wendy! I so understand the "blues' of January. I haven't felt motivated this month to create. And like yourself and so many others we are affected by the negative vibrations of all that is wrong going on, all over this world. How it brings our emotions down, trying to make sense of it all, when it doesn't make sense, at all. I like staying home as well, and going out can be quite a fete. But know this will pass and spring will be here in no time. It's cold and snowy here in Ohio, on Lake Erie. So I feed the birds and squirrels make sure the poor dears have enough to eat and keep warm. How they do survive, it is amazing in itself. I guess I should take a lesson from them, to keep going and get through this no matter what. I wish you peace and joy and comfort. Take good care of yourself. Blessings from across the pond! P.S. I just love Jeffery, he's soooo cute the little love!!!😊 :))) ❤
Winter is my hibernation time. Recharge my inner self by staying home more, cozy, comfy clothes, delicious home cooking, do little. ❤
Moi aussi ! ❤😊
Ditto!
Me too😊
🥰 we can’t change the world but I’m sure you made that man’s day 🥰stay safe and agree 💯 about all that money spent so many in need here too . Thank you for the fairies
Sometimes it is hard to recognize the gifts we have until we pause to see. Thanks as always for the reminder to take care of ourselves, what ever that may look like.
Oh Wendy..bless you. I feel the same. We have the same happening here in Australia. Our tax money going elsewhere, out of our control and our government is wasting so much money it is ludicrous and makes you feel so helpless. I think the best thing we can do is be strong, help those in need (as you have so kindly done) as best we can with as little as we have...knowing in our hearts we are doing the right by humanity even if the elites are not. Times are a changing and we are moving into a better world. Us creatives need to all stick together collectively in mind and spirit. I do this by volunteering as an art teacher once a month to a group of people who have had cancer or in the midst of it. It is only a small thing to do however, they are so very grateful and I feel in my heart I am doing a little something. I have recently semi retired and am working from home which I love... in my little studio where I get to play with art/dance/music etc. I too don't want to go out and I have to put my big girl pants on and just do it!! Aren't we funny little folk. Blessings to you...know you are not alone. Lots a love and blessings, Sandi (The Creative Wild Child ) down under 💌💮😍
Awwwww Sandi, love every word of this message, thank you so much xxx I am I. Good company indeed with you, thanks for being here ♥️♥️✨✨🌟my spirit is definitely with yours xx
Big January Hugs to you and James! I think of January as a "re-set" time. I go with the energy of the season...slow, dormant, (which to me means lots going on inside and down deep, it's just not visable yet.) What I find helpful is a little 6x4 notebook meant only for listing completed tasks (not for pretty), because we tend to forget those forward-moving tasks like, 1 load of laundry, cleaned the bathroom countertop and sink, bought food, etc...when I write them all down, even if my personal enery seems low, it always amazes my how full that little notebook is at the end of January. Then a little celebration is in order- Yes? 😊
I love January because all the hustle and bustle is over and I can reset my self.
You did what I'd probably have done. Homeless here in the city is horrendous. I could very easily hibernate. My life is highly complicated and about yo get worse.
Love how you talk to us as if we're in the same room. Loved seeing little Jeffy. I'm currently unable to be living with my dog and haven't since a year last August 2nd.
Keep our lights shining and gentle hugs x
Thank you for this heartfelt video. A couple of times I used to give packets of crisps to homeless people sitting on the street. Everyone loves crisps especially Tayto (irish brand). Gonna to start doing it again. ❤
You are such a sweet soul. You always brighten my day ! 💛 love and light sister.
Dearest Wendy, your declutterring videos transpired me and I now have three large garbage bags of good clothing to donate to thrift shops. I know can see more of my clothes that were hanging up. I tended to keep most things for years “sigh”. Thank you for all your amazing videos. Love from Canada.
Wow, Wendy, your words really reached me. I have been really low, and the state of our world has really affected me. Like you, I have been staying home feeling despondent. Then, I made the step of joining an art group. I forced myself to get ready and being in a wheelchair this can be daunting, access etc. It has helped so much to know that I am not alone in my own fears for our world. I plan to get out again tomorrow and have lunch with friends. Little steps. Hugs to you and James. X
This January I'm using a small electric heater in my studio to warm up as I get started and I'm playing lots of different music-80's, opera, show tunes- anything to break me out of the usual or the self-talk. My husband poked his head in when I had soft rock on and just shook his head in wonderment. Your fairy lights have inspired me and I've ordered some lights that should come in the mail soon- I was so bummed to take down the xmas tree with lights that I had to order some. dancing and walking help too, oh-and coffee!
Love your skill at drawing faces- love how “real” you are too in terms of the seasons of each lived day!
I try to enjoy the slightly longer days, because I do not enjoy the extreme cold here in Minnesota, USA. Hugs to you.
I want to thank you for your video today . Watching you draw helped me relax . I am recovering right now from covid , so I have bed hair too . Sending you much 💞 light , sunshine 💐
21:40 Yes! Something small like smiling and say hello to a person can make a bad day less bad.
I’ve been using my leftover yarns to make whatevers. I’ve made purses, a backpack, woven a scarf, and now I’m making hearts, bunting triangles and pom poms for a garland of joy and love. Lots of fun projects with no real plan but creating. Also small purges, one drawer at a time.
Forgot. Made pecan chocolate chip cookies for fun.
Your gratitude drawing was so lovely.
I've found myself lately, as I make changes or think about new ways I plan to do things in my life, that I am saying "Moving forward..." and I thought 'these words', this expression, was something I had come up with 😅, but watching this video and listening to you again, I suddenly realised that it's something you do and say quite often......so its been influencing me and helping me subliminally without me even realising it !!!!, so THANK YOU ❣. The funny thing is, that in reality some of our
spiritual beliefs are probably quite different, BUT !!!! (all that aside), your sensitive, gentle spirit drew me. Your genuine caring, your art, and your warmth.....plus good tips to help with self care, is the reason I have stayed. I really like you as a person and just wanted to tell you this Wendy. p.s. your little dog is so sweet ! Blessings to you ~ Linda
You're too cute. I do the same thing and dance in my house and I feel like I'm frolicking in a meadow in pure joy. Recently my health has taken a turn. I can't do much or move too much and I'm so glad throughout my life I've always taken those little opportunities to dance, to sing, to be silly, to be unique, to dare to stand out and I feel very blessed that I had the courage to do so. I have little regret. Follow your heart and you can never go wrong. And we have so much more power than we think we do. All we have to do to save the world is simply what we can.
I’m a children’s book illustrator and a ‘nearly’ every day sketcher ! I find drawing from observation completely immersive and refreshing. I wonder if setting off to a café or museum or wherever the fancy takes you with your sketchbook might be a good thing for the ‘January’s’ ? not relying on your mind to come up with imaginary inspiration, but simply sketching what you see might be as rewarding to you as I find it.
( If it’s cold, I sit in my car ( big jumper), surrounded by paints, crayons etc! ..bootsales, train stations, ( cafés at the station for me) and markets are great for active people too busy to notice a sketcher ! Just a thought. 🙂
Sending you big hugs Wendy! 💕💕💕
Hygge warmth & comfort through the winter months. I sprinkle my house with fairy lights everywhere since I can’t take any bright lights. I listen to spa, or peaceful piano on my Spotify. Have real & fake candles everywhere throughout my home. I even have fake candles in my 4 dollhouses. Every bed & couch has a handmade crocheted blanket. Some quilted pillows. Comfort foods, tea & hot cocoa. HYGGE comforts certainly is a way of life through the winter months. I embrace the coziness. I quilt, crochet/knit, art collage junk treasure book journal & work on my dollhouses. They all bring me joy in my studio that is my Happy Place. Cheers to all the creative souls that find true happiness in doing things you love. Mariaknits27💃🏻💕🏠🧵🧶🧘🏽♀️🙏🏻🕯️📚💐
Happy Sunday Wendy! I love January because it’s my birthday month. I am retired-yippee! ILove to read and watch TV. I just finished watching all of the Harry Potter movies again. Love them! I enjoy magical things. Your artwork is so beautiful and ethereal. Faeries 🧚 ❤ Jeffy ❤️ America has a huge Homeless problem. You were an Earth Angel for that man. 😇
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Happy New Year. January is brutal. We get through it the best way we know how. We do need to be kind and what is right for ourselves. I understand the fibro. I have it myself, so many awful symptoms to battle and pain are exacerbated with the cold weather. We are all enough. Good enough. We have to remind ourselves that we can be our own worst critics. We are nearly over January now, not too long to spring. ❤
Dear Wendy,
I made a little happy dance when I saw you uploaded a new video! :) Your voice is so comforting and you inspire me to take better care of myself. The tiny "fairy steps" are implemented in my life now and I try my best to remind my autistic brain to actually do these fairy steps. Life can be challenging, especially in the wintertime (for me, it's the "december blues"). By saying that, I understand and feel your struggles leaving the house. But remember that you are allowed to rest and allowed to respect your personal limits. This is a very healthy thing you can do - I am learning this again at the moment.
Thank you for being a wonderful blessing! I send you and James warm virtual hugs. Lots of love from Germany! xx
I’m right there with you sis! I only leave the house because I have to go to work. Seeing the situation with the homeless breaks my heart. I strive to do something for them when I can. Bless your heart and hang in there Wendy.❤
It’s hard leaving the house here as well. We have a cyclone building up north which brings rain and humidity. I went for my first walk at 5.30am to beat the heat. Crafting in aircon for most of the day. Shine your light Wendy it helps all of us❤
I think its quite natural to want to semi hibernate in the winter months . Your so kind Wendy and a real inspiration. Just love all your videos.
Thank you Wendy for the reminder"every little bit helps" applied in every of life's directions.....love love love❤❤❤
The Januaries, ugh! I too am trying to get out of the house and do something creative for myself daily. It's hard, but not as hard as recent health challenges. Sending much love to you and James. We can get through this. xxx
Wendy, your videos bring me so much joy and peace. I love watching you potter and create. They are inspiring and peaceful at the same time, and so gentle. You remind me to be be gentle with myself, and I look forward to them like few others things in my world! Xxx
That grand dog Jeffy looks like such a a sweet boy. Hope all stays well in your world 😊 always glad to see your videos ❤️❤️❤️
Hugs to you Wendy
I’m grateful to have you here in the space ❤
The best part of your videos is watching you do art IMHO. LOVE THE FACE ON THE AGED PAPER WITH TYPING!
Came across you video's tonight. Been wandering all day about the house, the thought of motivation present, but not the capability. The "January's", I like that. Mine is usually the "February's"... I'm going to sit here and enjoy some more of your video's tonight and see what might resonate to give me a little push. I did take out an old journal (911 journal-a lot of really good stuff in there) and I did pull out 2 brand new. Think I'll treat myself to some colored pencils tomorrow. Right place, right time tonight. Nice to meet you Wendy.
Wendy I totally understand what you are saying. It is so maddening when you see what ones country is putting out and there are so many of our people that need help. Like you mentioned sometimes just a smile can make a person’s day. Much love ❤️
Yes the paralleling of the world. It's so hard to wrap one's head around it all. It seems between winter and things. It can feel a little over whelping but spring is coming and nows a good time for really focusing on plans. Gardens, travels, things that are calling to you. Hold on just a couple more weeks ❤
Love you, Wendy. It's been really cold here too and my light is on dim right now but I did get in my craft room this morning already so I did manage to go forward at least. After lunch, I think I'll be going back in to do some water color flowers. It might cheer my spirit. Take care and please tell James hello. Sending love and big hugs Sherry ❤ ❤❤
WOW Wendy, much love to you, you vlog was such a beautiful reminder about our own self-care and the care of others. And the polishing of our lights, by care of others - just beautiful, thank you so much. xxx
Full of joy to see the notification of your first video for this year, Wendy. Bit behind schedule here... trying to breath through the feral sweltering heat this month. The garden is probably questioning my absence as I find the heat horribly smothering, and sucks the energy out of me quite easily. So my hermit-like days have spurred me to start on multiple journals.. not going to have strict rules of when entries are made. Ive also dabbled in a bit of decluttering and started on the interior painting. It will be a slow progress but Im reteaching myself to go with the flow and trust the Universe. So I'm trying to slow things down a bit this year. Can't wait for your next video!
Hi Wendy thanks for taking the time to make this video you do brighten our world, yours is such a powerful light shining in such a gentle way ❤
Gosh this week’s video resonated so much. I had a hard Christmas and found myself confused as to why I felt like I did. The global news being very overwhelming and almost debilitating for me. I thought I was alone but it’s almost reassuring to know that I’m not! I am away to polish my light and see if I can see again after. Thank you 🙏🏻
January has been a whirlwind for me and some days are a struggle. Thank you for your gentle encouragement ❤❤❤
Our thoughts and our actions, no matter how small, have an effect on the future - so you have shifted something in the planet with what you did… it’s all we can do, being humane and loving. Candle to candle, we light our way along these dark roads…
Wendy, what you just shared about picking up and transporting the homeless man and the other things you said "around" that were very moving and the honesty was very welcomed here in this little corner of the world. You just did me, and everyone else listening to you today a great service. Thank you!
Wendy this is such a sweet video. All your words of wisdom and truth ring brightly. Very soulful and you could see all the soul and pure innocence and love in doggies eyes. Love you Wendy. Thank you for showing up and being your fabulous self and shinning your light.❤
Thanks Wendy for these updates. I am also an artist and I can get consumed with what is happening in the world as I have a curious mind but it really is soul destroying and makes creativity so much more difficult. I also deal with chronic pain from Fibro and myofascial pain syndrome so I am not as productive as I used to be and that is depressing as well. Add to that our freezing winters.. ugh.. Keep well. 🥰
Yes I too have fibro
I think most people don't understand it so I keep it to myself❤
I don't talk about it much either. It is so vague too. It's just easier than saying I have complications from Scheuermann's disease, osteoarthirtis, degenerative disk disease, kyphosis and scoliosis, nerve compression in spine....lol@@lindawilson8434
Awe JEFFY. I’m always happy to see him. Wendy , if I told you I watched that movie 10 times at least. Lol. I’m glad you have your garden. You will be so happy when warmer weather comes and you start planting .