I too had a recent experience where I gave a stranger a ride. I live in Sonoma, California which as you might know is in the heart of wine country and very rural. I came upon a woman walking on a country road carrying 4 large shopping bags. In my rearview mirror I watched several vehicles pass her as she tried to get out of their way...the road does not have a shoulder that she could walk on...one driver actually beeped their horn at her. I was concerned for her safety and turned my car around to offer her a ride. She said that she is an in-home care giver and had just left her overnight job where she cares for a very elderly couple. She was on her way to the bus stop which was at least a 2 or 3 mile walk from where I picked her up. She shared that she came to California from Fiji to work as a care giver and explained that she believes this is her calling in life. I was touched by her sweet and kind energy and came away from this experience inspired by her selfless dedication to helping others. She reinforced my belief that there are more good people than bad in this world, sometimes we get to meet them when we least expect it!
What a wonderful story! I can't imagine what kind of a heartless person would beep at a poor lady lugging 4 bags of groceries walking alongside the road. It takes all kinds. I recently had a neighborhood teen throw a coffee mug into my windshield and smash it to smithereens. I do not know the teen. So I sent a very kind note to his parents telling them what had happened, actually apologizing to them for the bad news. Did I hear back from them? No. Not as much as a we are sorry. They used to hang out in their backyard and barbecue and have friends over and there would be a lot of laughter. Now they stay inside trying to avoid me. Two months after the incident the mother angrily posted on FB about how someone had just hit her car when she was at work. She was outraged and cursing up a storm about how they didn't leave a note or try and find her. I suppose one could call it karma but isn't it sad how she was only interested when it affected her, and could care less when it happened to me. Shortly thereafter she posted that she was buying her 17 year old son a car. The same teen that threw the "I love you" Valentine's Day coffee mug into my windshield. I guess kids nowadays are rewarded for damaging a neighbors car without incurring any consequences. (sigh) Kudos to you for what you did.
Your kindness is so admirable, people and this world are very COLD, driving by and honking isn't surprising. That said, I too am a caregiver, I do have a car but I can only imagine working overnight and then walking 3 miles to a bus stop after working overnight???? thank you for what you did for a stranger, your kindness is lovely and you will receive in back...
My son passed away in late November, and I need to share something with you. Some days, I can hear your voice telling me “It is wonderful that you got out of bed today”. Your channel inspires me, and I am so grateful. May January fairies bring you joy and laughter.
I so sorry for your loss. My brother passed away in November a few years ago and telling my parents was the hardest thing I ever had to do. I cannot image your loss as a mother. Sending deep and sincere prayers for your son and you.
In my head, I've changed the month's name to Jam-uary, a month where I do things that are "my jam". Self-care, dancing with a paintbrush, snacking on my favourite fruits, curling up with a book, creating a new junk journal (one that isn't precious, so I can use it without caring whether I got jam on it, not that I eat jam very often), playing with a new or re-found art supply (dug out my intense pencils to finally use, instead of hoarding because they were "the good stuff"), finding new recipes to try that are healthy and appeal to my tastebuds. I'm glad, Wendy, that you had a lovely catch up with family, and journalling about that visit while the memories are fresh seems the perfect Jam-uary activity. So does dancing with the fairies - I hope they are whispering wonderful secrets and sharing ideas. My fairies and sprites all seem to be down at the beach, hiding in the beach grass and the roots of the ti trees, and I am hoping they are filling their cups so they have plenty of ideas to share upon their return!. Wishing you love and light, and trying to send warmth your way from Australia, as well as gentle hugs.
Such a great video! I was with my 3 closest girlfriends for dinner on early New Year’s Eve, we’re all in our later 60’s…I was home by 9pm. 😂 They were setting their goals for 2024 and said mine should be leaving the house more…LOL! But they don’t realize how many years I was pining away at a 8-5 job, just wishing I could be home creating. Now I have a beautiful studio in my home and I just love being in it! I guess they just don’t understand the joy I get from it and that I love my quiet alone time.
I love being alone, but some of my friends don't get it. One of them needs people around her all the time. That would make me crazy. At least I'm retired (my husband still works since he's younger than me), so I do get quite a bit of solitary time, which helps. Christmas and New Year's were very hectic, so I am grateful for calm January!
I'm 60 and still work 40hr 12 hrs night shift at hospital...😢 I want to wean and slowly 🐌 retire. I just can't have that high energy anymore..I also want to spend more time on my " Crafty " self. And improve my Art cove and maybe initiate selling my flipped furniture and mix media .. keep my light shining bright. ✨️. You are Loved 😍
Same. I’m an introvert who worked long hours, crazy shifts, travelled endlessly from country to country, often submersed in challenging locations. Now in my sixties, I get pure joy from moving no further than my bed with my coffee & sketchbook, entertaining no company other than my own. Fully finished with extraverts defining what’s healthy & normal!
Our ancestors spent a lot of time hibernating in winter. It's good for the soul. I have recently been adopted by a Street cat. He now has a warm bed and food security. My ritual every morning is feeding a flock of seagulls and pigeons. Torn up fresh brown bread 3 loaves sunflower seeds cooked cous cous. They are starving hungry. The water dish freezers overnight. These creatures give me purpose whilst marinating painting ideas. Thank you Wendy for being you. Keep warm.
Love all the plants in your studio 🪴🪴🪴I was out walking today in a place I hadn’t intended to go but felt I was guided…as I walked an older lady caught my eye, we stopped and talked for the longest time…she had seen me photographing the daffodils peeping through. I said I was looking for hopeful signs. She said that was why she stopped me and talked…her husband had just passed… she just needed that connection. 🧚
Oh Wendy, I’m also struggling through January this year, here in Australia. The rental crisis has forced us into a remote rural home with no insulation or heating/cooling; winter mornings were 5 degrees C inside the house, but in summer it is up to 36 degrees C in our living room and kitchen, even hotter in the bedrooms! All we can do is sit around miserable, waiting for each day to end and for night to bring some relief. It’s too hot and humid to do anything, even to draw or paint! Seeing you dancing and drawing and hearing your stories cheers me up so much. 🥰 Your gratitude picture is so beautiful, and so are your paper doll fairies. I always love seeing Jeffy, and look forward to seeing your new and improved garden - how lovely that will be for you, James, and Mr. Robin in the spring! Thank you for reminding me to keep my light shining, I will try extra hard today 💖💡lots of love to you, your family, and your lovely viewers xx
Wendy, my Wendy, our Wendy. I could spend time watching how your talent transforms a face on paper. Amazing. This time a question comes to mind. What would happen if instead of strugling so hard you followed what your body needs. rest, rest and rest. is the guilt of not being productive?. Nature demands rest in Winter. Do we have to be productive every day of the year?. Also I like it when you show us your beautyfull long hair. ot is gorgeous. My hellow to Aussies. I had the fortune to live in Camberra during a good period of my life. I was so happy!!!! Australia is also my country.❤
@@doloreslujansalvador2644 hello, Dolores! I’m so glad you enjoyed your time in Australia and felt welcome here. 😊 Doesn’t Wendy’s channel inspire such lovely comments from viewers? I think her positive, gentle energy attracts an audience full of good people. 😁 Wendy, we love you! 💖 (And James, too; can’t forget James!). ☺️
We are here in Alaska where it's a long and cold winter, longer than some as it's still winter in May. We combat this by keeping busy. I attend 5 work out classes a week. This also gives me a social outlet. My husband has 3 pickle ball classes a week and 4 volunteer jobs around town. We are 82 and 83. I so admire you and the videos you put out. I think you are the very sweetest human being and I'm not surprised you helped the homeless man at all. You make me feel so good watching the videos you make! There are good and kind people out there as we see so much hate in the world now it can be very depressing. Thank you for being who you are.
After Christmas, I always feel an odd sense of loss. So, I've started looking at January as a fresh start. Clean slate. Shiny. New. I get outside. ALOT. And I start planning a new dream for this bright year.
Rather warm here in upstate New York today, but I still have my hot tea for this visit, I really put off this because I wanted a cozy time! I don’t know if you comprehend how much you mean to me (us) ! My heart went out to you helping the homeless fellow, as a social worker I worked with “project Uplift” a grant program for people who were homeless ! It was located in a very poor area and our door was open, we provided coffee, soup, and sandwiches; hygiene supplies, blanket/quilts (sewed by a local group) coats, and a food cupboard! We would provide counseling and advocacy for social services! Finding housing was of course a priority! Watching you rising up from the januaries gave me a lift also!
I was on my way home one night several years ago and I saw a young woman standing at the bottom of some concrete steps that led up to apartments. It was quite dark and the steps went through a wooded area. I could tell she was hesitant to go up them so I went back and offered her a ride home. She thanked me and I took her on home. It only took a few minutes to get up the hill but I felt good knowing I helped her get home safely. :)
Hygge warmth & comfort through the winter months. I sprinkle my house with fairy lights everywhere since I can’t take any bright lights. I listen to spa, or peaceful piano on my Spotify. Have real & fake candles everywhere throughout my home. I even have fake candles in my 4 dollhouses. Every bed & couch has a handmade crocheted blanket. Some quilted pillows. Comfort foods, tea & hot cocoa. HYGGE comforts certainly is a way of life through the winter months. I embrace the coziness. I quilt, crochet/knit, art collage junk treasure book journal & work on my dollhouses. They all bring me joy in my studio that is my Happy Place. Cheers to all the creative souls that find true happiness in doing things you love. Mariaknits27💃🏻💕🏠🧵🧶🧘🏽♀️🙏🏻🕯️📚💐
You have a lovely way of motivating us. I too slow down in the winter and Jan seems especially challenging- it's as if I am setting up my new launching pad, and in ways I want to make it perfect (which is not possible). Your story of the frail man with no socks in this winter weather brought tear to my eyes. It feels so good to have empathy towards others, when we act on it. Absolutely right about misspent tax money. It is getting even worse now...
That little sweet puppy dog, Jeffy, always melts my heart. Hang in there...as a dear friend once told me, when you are having a rough time and things seem overwhelming, just say to yourself "do one thing." And then do that thing. Then say again " do one thing." It makes the doing - when we must do - that much more easy, not so overwhelming. And lovely that you helped that older gentleman. Hope you feel better soon....so important to push gently into doing when needed, but rest when needed, too. Sending hugs.
Thanks so much for sharing the story of the homeless/temporary housed man to whom you gave a drive. I, too, find it very sad that it is not a higher priority in our countries (I'm in Canada) to ensure that everybody has the best life possible. We seem to prioritize those with the most, when those with the least go without. I don't think this is just political - it is, as you say, about having heart and being caring, which is why we viewers are attracted to your channel. I am very fortunate to rarely experience the blues. At the same time it seems that life gets more and more challenging for many, and depression is more and more common, so I am sending healing vibes to anyone who needs some sunshine in their hearts. I know that just watching your videos makes me feel lighter and brighter, Wendy. May you find your motivation and get back your energy and spark. You somehow manage to always sparkle on this channel, even when you are feeling down. You are a gift. Much love to you for all you give and all you are!
You have the most beautiful eyes Wendy. I LOVE your daughter's dog Jeffy, he is so loving, and I can see he is very loved back. I have been taking my Madge out about 6.30am ( she says she wants to go out, and I have no garden so have to do so) coming back to bed with my mug of tea after feeding her, and watching my You Tubes until about 11.30am, and not really wanting to get out of bed, but I have to get up and get dressed to take my Madge out again. I am 66 years young, and live alone with Madge as you know, and can go days without talking to another human being, which I do not mind, but your You Tube guys keep me going, and give me the company I need. Thank you for all you do. xxx
You also sound just like me, my routine with my Tommy. I'm happy not seeing people, other than other dog walkers who are usually lovely. Greetings from Cornwall
@@DebNewton-kh4cv It is so good to hear from other folk who are like me! I just wish someone lived near me, so we could help each other. I live in West Devon, if there is anyone out there who is like me, and lives near, it would be great to hear from you! xxx
You made me cry. Of course I’m PMSing and today is my 44th birthday and I am not in a happy, ideal situation, but I mentioned to folks earlier that any kind message, like birthday messages, really & truly does make a difference. ANY kindness makes a HUGE difference 💙💙
Wendy, please know what a blessing you are, your channel is a true gift to us. You are so honest, your art is beautiful and you have such a gorgeous infectious soul / energy. You bring such light to the world, infinite gratitude and love to you. ❤🌻🐝🐞🇦🇺
Yes - we are a "heart-centered" group who journey along with you, keeping our lights shining as best we can, helping others even when it seems unwise or potentially dangerous. 40 years ago I was going grocery shopping on a snowy, bitterly cold January day in northern Illinois, USA, when I came upon a man with no coat walking along the road toward town. Our 3-year old daughter was in the back seat in her car seat but I debated only moments before I decided to offer him a ride. As a believer, I would say that it was the Christ-spirit in the Universe that moved my heart to stop for him. It turned out he was a local business man whose car had quit - he was just going a short way and left his coat in his office - and he needed a ride to the auto repair place of which he was owner! He remarked that most women with a small child in tow would not have stopped. And I had a feeling that a number of vehicles had zipped past him before I came along. I was listening to that holy nudge in my heart and acted upon it. All these years later I am reminded that the essential need for acts of mercy, kindness, compassion and charity is part of our calling as humans, be it toward other humans or the other creatures with whom we share this amazing world. Thanks for shining your light and encouraging us to see alternative ways to look at life when we are in the "wintering times" of life. Blessings to you, and Blessed Be! - Kay -
I love your individual fairies. They remind me of my childhood days playing with paper dolls. Have you ever thought of creating a paper doll book with paper doll clothes? Do little girls even play with paper dolls anymore? Paper dolls are fun for travel and for children who live in limited space. It's only a thought I wanted to share. May I add? You are such a beautiful soul and light!🥰
I bought my grand daughter a beautiful book of paper dolls with lovely clothes when she was 5. She and her dad had play time a couple times but I never saw it again. So her regular dolls got lots of time and this was caste aside. I would guess not too many little girls know the joy of playing with them. We of the older generation know what a joy they were to spend hours with paper dolls.
Bless you Wendy for taking the time to help out that poor gentleman. I agree that "our" priorities are backwards these days and our money should be spent on making sure no one goes without. I found two feral kitties while out on a walk yesterday and I'm going back today to share some shrimp I saved from my meal last night with them. My little way of doing my part! 💕 This year I decided to go away for a few weeks this January to the warmer climate of South Carolina here in the states to help with my January's. I found a cute inexpensive efficiency studio getaway near the beach. Although it could be a little warmer, it's still nice to have a change of scenery, walk or bike on the beach when the weather permits and meet new sweet souls, even in the form of hungry kitties. Wishing you a bright and shiny rest of your January. We're almost there! February is right around the corner! Sending much love and gentle hugs! 🤗🌞 ❤
I love staying home and painting and doing all my art projects. My husband gets me out for an hours walk ( like walking the dog😊) but I am thankful for him. I am going to be 68 this year! Also my many friends I love. I try to make time for them. I love your videos Have a good day❤ When ever I see a person in need homeless, whatever I always tell my husband lets get them some food, I always say what if they were your brother or sister wouldn’t you hope someone would help them. No one should ever go hungry. We can’t fix all the problems but a smile , a meal a word of encouragement is within our ability. Hugs to you🤗🤗Wendy
Thank you for this video. Thank you for being your trueself and your honesty. I've been having the January blues too not wanting to leave the house and just wanting to snuggle up on the sofa with my little doggie called Angel. I am telling myself its okay not to be okay right now. I'm doing a lot of self care and doing a little something each day to move forward. Your last video motivated me to declutter so i spent 2 days going through my clothes and took a few bags to the local charity shop. So thank you for that video as it motivated me do my clothes. Have a lovely week and so grateful for your videos. xx
Hi. Wendy. Thank you for sharing the January blues...YES, we all get them. I agree we must be kind to ourselves at this time. I live in Ireland and weather is awful right now! Big storms. So, I make a big mug of tea and work for 2 hours on a lake painting. Nat King Cole in the background....I skim past the dark new s headlines. I pray for those who are suffering. I send a very modest monthly sum to a homeless charity as, like you say, every little bit helps. I love your beautiful portrait on typed gratitude message...Please hang it up. It is worthy of being seen every day. ❤❤🎉
I took a look in the garden today and I’m seeing the first signs of Spring on its way. The shoots for the snowdrops and Crocus have pushed through and the days are starting to get noticeably longer. Time passes quickly, and it won’t be long before March is here heralding longer brighter days and the promise of a lovely warm Summer to come. Also the birds have noticed these changes too and are starting to sing and chase each other around. The signs are all around us, please try to see this, it will give you a lift , you are a wonderfully gifted and lovely person. As far as I’m concerned we are one human family despite the mainstream news showing division and injustice. My hope is that we can evolve passed these artificial divides and intolerances, I do not watch the news anymore and my life is better for it 🥰
We are on day seven of being home bound. Northern Mississippi is in a frozen state. We had four inches of snow then sleet. Schools were closed all week. The grocery stores were closed down but a few things started reopening on Friday but most of the roads are still iced. We were prepared so it’s been okay. We have had an unplanned staycation. Good news is I have been journaling every day.
I realised this weekend that I hadn't left the house this year except to go to work or the supermarket. At first I was pretty horrified with myself but having watched your video I took your (James') advice and 'flipped it'. Because, by spending all my free time at home, I have read two books (haven't read a book in over 2 years) and I am over half way through crocheting a double bedspread in cheerful rainbow stripes (haven't crocheted anything since last January). The joy and pride I feel in these achievements far outweighs the guilt I felt at my 'January hibernating'. Thank you for giving me the opportunity to see things from a different perspective x
January is a month for rest, so any sort of blues we might be feeling is the way we were designed and created to take a break and reflect on the year that has passed and the new year to come. I don’t take my Christmas tree and decorations down until mid January because it makes me sad to put away all those beautiful decorations that made my house feel so celebratory and beautiful. When I take them down I do it slowly and over the course of a few days. This way I don’t overwhelm myself with the sadness of having them gone. At the same time I begin looking forward to Valentine’s Day. It is my second favorite holiday. Sometimes I even decorate for Valentine’s. I also begin making cards or little gifts to give away on Valentine’s. Focusing on “others” and not so much on myself is the best way to get rid of any blues. I remember a couple of years ago being extremely depressed, feeling sorry for myself and all that. Suddenly I got some horrible news about a tragic death in my family. It was as if someone turned the switch inside me and I was no longer feeling depressed (which sounds weird due to the tragic situation) because I was more focused on helping my mom deal with the death of her sister. When we stop looking inward and begin focusing on others we heal, and become more aware of how silly we can become when we feel sorry for ourselves. I give praise to God for everything and even in those sad moments I force myself to see the light beyond the shadows.
This is a wonderful post about looking outward and not inward focused on ourselves. I too, take my time with removing my Christmas decorations over a few days. This year instead of carting the containers into the house, I put all the ornaments in big bowls, took them to the garage along with the four mini trees and other Christmas deco. I still have my dear and some smaller items that fall into winter. My plan is to sort through what I’ve not used in a couple of years , box them up in separate box of two and donate to charity in late October or early November for someone else to enjoy. At 75 I still like to decorate but no longer have a big tree and don’t need as much as I have. Have great year.
@@ehpeachylove I love your process for undecorating. When I first began doing my Christmas decorating in my own house, I made a conscious decision to only buy the ornaments that I would want to keep for many years to come. Over the years I’ve collected heart ornaments which are the bulk of my ornaments and then I have “fillers”. When my son was born I began collecting the Hallmark ornaments, each representing something special that happened that year in my son’s life. I also buy one new Hallmark heart ornament if I find one I like, or a heart ornament that speaks to me. There is nothing more special than when I put up the decorations and then take them down again, to look at each ornament and remember the years when I bought them. I count my blessings and thank God for all.
@@clc3897 how beautiful. A couple years ago I gave my son all the ornaments that I had bought him and some friends had bought him as he grew up. This year he and his wife decorated one of their small trees behind the sofa on a stand with all those special decoration. It was a joy to see and made me smile and be thankful too. Blessings to you.
Rest up Wendy. How lush and full your studio looks with all your plant babies, lovely! It's so cold indeed, I'm staying put and staying inside. I really like the idea of looking back over the past year's journals. I would like to do that as well. Hello Jeffy, sweet doggie, you're so sweet. Awh, love how the gardener felt it necessary to say he doesn't disturb nature!! That would win me over, for certain. You chose the perfect one. And wow!, the landlord paid for gardener services. Yes, the world's state, the homeless, etc.😢 We empaths do have a hard way to go in it, don't we? God bless you for caring to help him. It does matter.
I suffer from depression and anxiety and I have just found your channel and you're like a breath of fresh air. Thank you for being honest and open with us. Getting out of the house is a big accomplishment congrats on that. I have weeks that I am in bed most days. You make me want to get up and try again. GOD bless you and your family. 😊
Thank you for this... Especially the last few minutes... You brought tears to my eyes and reaffirmed my belief that every little bit might help... That sharing my light won't dim it and might brighten another one! This is my struggle in January and February when, here in Canada, winter gets so fierce and energy so low... What's the point?!? Well there always is a point, hope that things will get better! 🙏🧡
Gosh, it's only January still and I've already cried a million tears. Tears of sorrow at the cruel state of the world, tears of gratitude for all the beautiful souls such as yourself. Tears of Joy, tears of sunshine, tears of days gone by, tears of letting go.. Thank you for a moment of connection during these often stormy times. Love You All 🧡
We live in Northern Canada. It was -30 the other day. The blues is peeking around the door. I enjoy puzzles when I need a distraction. Baking a pie, vacuuming and dusting and creating a really cozy space for myself in my little home. Today, I'm venturing out to a second hand shop. I have an assignment to find another black turtleneck. Cheers.
Bless you , Wendy, for helping that homeless man. It does upset me that people are living like this when money is being wasted . It can be disheartening but every little thing we can do to make the world a better place helps . I love the serene look of your gratitude picture. Let's hope for dome warmer, drier less windy weather soon. ❤
I truly adore you, sweet Wendy. Thank you for the happy dancing, I needed that more than you could know. Just know your "Januaries" are definitely real, and I'm with you upon struggling about being home and feeling safe. I fed some local homeless on the Eve of the holiday. I have tried to keep my left hand seeing what the right is doing, but admittedly, I felt more good about that than anything else that's gone on since October, since I cannot stop or help with... All of the world. I think it did more for me than it did those whom I fed. Love you beautiful darling. Keeping you in my thoughts. ✨🕯️
In January I priorities taking walks in daylight. Getting my face directly in the sun when the sky is clear, whether I sit at the window or find a quit corner with no wind outside. The.light energizes me and the walks too.my sleep improves too. 😀
Oh yes Wendy to all that you have said. I am looking forward to more sunshine here. January and February are more difficult months for me, by March I am better in general, usually, anyway! Inspiration is a wee bit more difficult at this time too. We have a lot of snow (which is a good thing here….for the kids and for the plants that need it for insulation! ) I have to really push myself to go out also! Thanks for your gentle push. Have a wonderful Sunday and a great week! How sweet of you to help that man…💚
I think it's wonderful how you showed kindness and compassion to the homeless man, just be careful some may be stronger than you think:-) I understood what you were saying about him being frail. A couple of months ago Walmart sent me $50 worth of cat food by mistake. I called them to return it, but they told me to keep it, but I didn't have a cat. Then out of the blue this beautiful feral tabby showed up nothing but skin and bones like the man you described, and even though I had no intention of adopting a pet at that time, I felt it was a sign from God:-) So I ended up adopting the cat all because Walmart made a mistake. Or was it? A this point, I feel it was meant to be:-) Part of your January Blues is no doubt coming down from the holidays, family leaving, and James being away. I still can't help but feel that you might be happier moving your art studio to your extra bedroom, maybe, maybe not, obviously you know best. If it were me, I'd rather have my studio available all the time, which I do. If I had to travel to it, I'd be much more likely not to go. I love your fairies and journals:-) Wishing you a Magical Day, Wendy. Your garden patio is something to be excited about:-) 🧚✨💫
My motivation is in the bin at present and has been for sometime. I had chronic fatigue syndrome for a long while, I feel that I get relapses. That’s how I feel now. I was lucky didn’t get covid but being shut down for that time , like many, my husband worked away during the week, I didn’t have a support group, I just don’t seem to have got my energy levels back. I lack enthusiasm about many tings in life, that is so depressing. My art always lifted me up, somehow not at the moment. Thank you for sharing your honesty is so appreciated. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Today I had a student tell me they loved me and the gesture shocked me because they shared it twice! I love all of my students (I’m a virtual tutor) but after sitting in my own feelings having received such a free and honest expression, I choose to share the love that’s been shared with me. I love you Wendy. I love you everyday.
So to get myself out of the January Blues, I’ve done a yoga session every single day in January and I’ve put myself on a time-block schedule every day except weekends. I don’t strictly follow the schedule but more or less I do and it’s really helped with my motivation, getting back on track and creating a habit and routine for my everyday. I don’t know I just feel like it’s really helped me. Hopefully this idea will help someone else. February is right around the corner, might be a good time to start that. Sending lots of love and cheers to dreams coming true✨💕😽🧚🏼♀️🐞🌻🌝🌈🌟⛄️❄️🍭🛼🎨🎹📸🎀🧸🪅
I too get really tired, gloomy in the January period. This year, not so much over indulgence over the holiday period as what I really appreciated was peace, time to relax with my loved ones and spending a lot of me time. The cold and the floods have been a huge downer but for me so far January has been daily 20 minute morning meditation, daily affirmation practice, spending more consistent time playing with my art supplies and trying to walk the dog on a daily basis to get the much needed fresh air and absorb nature. The Bumps of life are still hitting home at the moment but I allow myself to feel upset, sad, angry or frustrated because my feelings are important in processing the negative stuff as it happens but I don't allow myself to dwell in those feelings for too long. I'm constantly reminding myself of the positives and finding gratitude. 😊
You got a puppy. Oh what a sweetheart. When I am in the car with my family and we go by a certain part of town it just breaks my heart to see all the homeless people. It makes you wonder what is wrong with our world these days. I never listen to the news because it is so depressing and there is absolutely nothing that I can do about it at age 81. Like you I believe that every one of us can make the world just a little bit of a brighter happier place to live in. Never underestimate the power of a sincere smile. Blessings and love from a fellow artist in New Mexico
Bless you for helping the homeless man - its too easy to just pass by. This is how we can help the world to rise from the chaos I think; small acts of human kindness, smile or a little word for someone alone. We must shine our light for all to see and spread love wherever we can. It is hard seeing the horrors in our world but always remember there are many people doing wonderful things. so even though we may feel helpless sometimes - we are not. Nature will help us - like you I feed the birds and they raise my spirits so much! I am sure you know about earthing, or grounding; I have finally just ordered a grounding sheet for the bed as this should help with everything. Obviously when it is less cold just get out there in the garden barefoot! Can't wait. I believe in the collective consciousness and so add all the love and goodness I can to that. Connect with like minded people and we will rise, like the pheonix, from the ashes. Bless you too for your warming videos. 🙏 jules
Wendy, you are so cute, and kind hearted. You remind me of a fairy. Ypur drawing is beautiful, it's amazing to watch you draw and see your drawing come to life. So beautiful. The Januaries, well, I have them. I was bien in South Africa which is beautiful and the weather is fantastic. But you see, we have a rotten polutical situation and crime and corruption is rife. I live in Germany and the weather is so dark, grey, rainy, depressing and cold, that it makes me depressed. I love sumner and the sunshine. I'm creative and like to do things outside. So, yes, in the Northern hemisphere it is really challenging in winter. Sunshine and warm weather make a huge difference to our wellbeing. Acts of kindness are very important. We have to take a ferry across the canal about 1km from our house. We had a guy who woeks on the ferryboat who lets the cars on and off. The weather is brutal out there. And the Captain is upstairs. I called the ferry guy Mr Grump. I would wave to say hello and he never acknowledged me. I nwver gave up waving and greeting him. Slowly, the ice started to break after a very long time. Today, I wave and smile and greet him and ge breaks into a big smile ans waves back. He even comes over for a chat now. And I would smile and wave up to the Captain. Today, as soon as rhe Captain sees our vehicle, he rushes out fron his cabin and smiles and waves fruriously at me. I am so happy to see the ferry staff, a lady who does this work included. I showed that I cared by making their day abit brighter by smiling, waving and saying hello. And Mr Grump is much more cheerful. It makes all the difference if we can do small acts of kindness and ones of different sizes depending on what we have to give. Everyone deserves a home, food, shoes and socks in winter and clothes. All the spare clothes that we don't wear can be given to the destitute directly instead of it being donated to a charity shop. I love charity shops but we can give something to a person who needs it. Thanks for doing your act of kindness for the frail old man. I hear you Wendy. All Govs are corrupt. We need to help eachother because if we don't do it, nobody will. Even with kind words. Hope your Januaries get better, and sending lits of love to you and everyone in this group. ❤💐💕
I love January, it's when the days start to get longer. Soon enough, it will be Spring! For me, December is the darkest and gloomiest, and I can't wait for the new year.
I'm feel similar. I tend to find December triggers a lot of emotions including grief in me and it can get overwhelming. The societal Christmas build up now last months, I had to walk past fun fairs and bright lights and Christmas markets with loud and relentless Christmas music every week for about 6 weeks and it just felt terrible. Then everything closes for two weeks which disrupts my routine and makes me feel isolated. I feel such relief when January arrives and I can return to my routine again. I like being cosy in January with journaling, painting etc.
Well done Wendy, helping the elderly man. Small acts of kindness have a huge impact especially when we all do them. We cant do anything about the wars and global suffering, except rise awareness, but we all can do a small thing of kindness. I love January for many reasons. As a child it was my month because it began with my name. My lovely Uncle Clack always called me January. It is the first month of my new age. I was born December 26th 1948 so I have had 75 Januarys now. It is mid Summer in Aotearoa New Zealand and school holidays. As a child we went camping at the beach, Ngunguru up North. The beautiful pohutukawa is flowering, brilliant red and the tui are waking me each morning with their beautiful songs. I have been in a fibro flare this last few weeks so I am sore all over and have little energy. I've spent many hours embroidering, drawing, writing and sleeping in my brand new recliner in front of the fan. I am content and really enjoying making my new journal Sanctuary. This I will write in, in 2025. This years jouenal is called "Under a Hallowed Moon." I made it in 2022 and had forgotten all the lovely boho embroidery I had made for it. You seem to be doing well with creating a new mind set for January Wendy. Have a spectacular year. My gardeners eye loves all the rosehips in your winter garden. The new gardener sounds lovely.xxx Arohanui from me in Aotearoa New Zealand ❤❤❤
Nice to know I'm not alone.. yes, it's cold... my body to wants to cozy up at home and not go anywhere . I like your dancing movements. I started doing that about a year ago, because my body was so stiff. I am tryly amazed how far I can stretch now. God Bless.... Love your creative work....
You are an inspiration, comfort for my soul during this month of January. Your warmth and creativity just sucks me in. Keeps me motivated to push on even on the darkest days. We all have something that gets our thoughts to move in a more positive way. You my dear Wendy are mine. Thousands of miles apart. You touch my heart and soul. I am so Grateful the universe has shown me your light. Bright Blessing to you and James.
Bravo for getting out the house- excellent strategy. Take some lovely walks and see the buds swell. Go to bed with a book like they do in Iceland- hibernate:). The light is returning! Cook nourishing food. Talk to someone you love on the phone while under the blankets. Have nice baths and lovely teas- hot chocolate too! Just be. Read poetry. Meditate. Enjoy Mr. Robin. Love yourself with all your heart.
For the past 12 years January has been the worst month for me, such a letdown and really quite depressing, this year I am trying to have a different mindset, so what I have done is CRAFTING. Working on little projects has saved me from the January doldrums. I thought about this mid-month, hey, I am not having the worst month of all the 12 months, I believe that is why.
Beautiful artwork and message Wendy. Here in the US, I am so with you in questioning how our tax money is being utilized. Many people feel this way, in spite of what the mass media has been telling us. Perhaps, collectively we can continue to make our feelings known and change things for the better.
Sweet Wendy, it's as if you crawled inside my head...or was sitting next to me all week!! LOL!! I have been struggling SO much this past week. I thought I would have had a better week since the flu left my system but this past week my energy and concentration was at zero! I couldn't be creative or motivated for anything and certainly didn't want to venture out into the snow and frigid weather (yes, here in Virginia USA we had that same cold blast). It's been a real struggle this January, except for the first few days when I was so motivated to get a lot done! I literally kept checking each day to see if, by chance, you just happened to put a video or snippet up early because I just needed your cheerful inspiration. I know I should be grateful that I have the time to slow down and perhaps God and the universe is trying to tell me I need this time but it is so frustrating when there's so much I want and need to do!! Praying that I can turn it around and turn it on this week, I'm back to teaching and need those creative juices flowing!!! Thank you for sharing your feelings and thoughts, at least I don't feel all alone in this struggle. Blessings!
I’m so glad to know I’m not struggling alone this January. I just turned 60 this month, which I’m ok with, but feel a slight sense of urgency that I’ve now entered the last phase of my life and I still have so much to do. Last week we had both a snow storm and an ice storm which shut everything down and I was happy just to hunker down at home. Except now I don’t feel like doing much of anything, except cuddling with my dog and drinking tea. Your kind reminders that it is ok to take time means so much. Thank you Wendy, brighter days are ahead ❤
I'm loving the vintage typewriter. I have a few of those. When it's cold in your studio, channel an artist or writer from before central heating. Imagine how it was to create back then.
Wendy it is sooo cold in upstate NY too!! I have to use a sun lamp to help lift my spirits...its called 'happy light'...it helps!! Today it is sunny and lots of blue jays and other birds are loving the peanuts and the full bird feeders i have outside...we have soooo much snow!!! I am decluttering too dealing with random papers...be blessed and stay warm. Sending out peace and prayers to the world from USA❤😊✌
I’m a children’s book illustrator and a ‘nearly’ every day sketcher ! I find drawing from observation completely immersive and refreshing. I wonder if setting off to a café or museum or wherever the fancy takes you with your sketchbook might be a good thing for the ‘January’s’ ? not relying on your mind to come up with imaginary inspiration, but simply sketching what you see might be as rewarding to you as I find it. ( If it’s cold, I sit in my car ( big jumper), surrounded by paints, crayons etc! ..bootsales, train stations, ( cafés at the station for me) and markets are great for active people too busy to notice a sketcher ! Just a thought. 🙂
Oh Wendy..bless you. I feel the same. We have the same happening here in Australia. Our tax money going elsewhere, out of our control and our government is wasting so much money it is ludicrous and makes you feel so helpless. I think the best thing we can do is be strong, help those in need (as you have so kindly done) as best we can with as little as we have...knowing in our hearts we are doing the right by humanity even if the elites are not. Times are a changing and we are moving into a better world. Us creatives need to all stick together collectively in mind and spirit. I do this by volunteering as an art teacher once a month to a group of people who have had cancer or in the midst of it. It is only a small thing to do however, they are so very grateful and I feel in my heart I am doing a little something. I have recently semi retired and am working from home which I love... in my little studio where I get to play with art/dance/music etc. I too don't want to go out and I have to put my big girl pants on and just do it!! Aren't we funny little folk. Blessings to you...know you are not alone. Lots a love and blessings, Sandi (The Creative Wild Child ) down under 💌💮😍
Awwwww Sandi, love every word of this message, thank you so much xxx I am I. Good company indeed with you, thanks for being here ♥️♥️✨✨🌟my spirit is definitely with yours xx
❤ Thanks for the wise and helpful chat and wonderful to see you creating such beautiful and uplifting artwork, really inspires me ❤ I'm learning the art of cosying this January, sitting by the fire with a nice cuppa, soft lamplight and soothing music and a pet to cuddle! Small acts of kindness each day to myself and others are so important I feel too xx
Good Sunday afternoon from an overcast, very cold windy day at the moment. More rain, which we need here in Northern California, is on its way. I took my do for a much needed walk not just for her but me too. The cold seeps into my bones and the aches and pains of my older body slow me down but very important to keep moving. I used to not like January but changed my thinking after listening to your sweet voice on shine when you can and cocoon when you must. I realized about two years ago that just like Mother Earth rests so should we, but there is also beauty in nature if you look for it. The shape of bare trees in all their gnarly or smooth bark, the buffet shades of greens, the plants that are cover for so many birds and other wildlife, the clouds that chase across the sky, or hearing distant birds sing that you may not hear, the wind against your face. Then the earth starts to show little signs of shoots that will blossom into newness of Spring. I too have started decluttering. It is rewarding too when you start to get rid of stuff that you’ve hung onto too long. Thank you for showing kindness to that elderly frail man and for sharing your story about him. You’ll never know how much that meant to him and the strength your thoughtful gesture gave him. We all can do our part to make this world a better place. Loved seeing Jeffy and so did my Lilly Rose. I also watched The Holiday. A wonderful movie, a feel good one to curl up and relax with a nice warm drink or a glass of wine. Your drawing is so lovely. She has such calmness and peace about her. And your fairy paper dolls are gorgeous and fun. Have a blessed week. Love our visit and hope this was not to long. Wishing all the followers good days ahead. Lights shining bright too. Love to you Wendy and James. ❤❤❤
Our thoughts and our actions, no matter how small, have an effect on the future - so you have shifted something in the planet with what you did… it’s all we can do, being humane and loving. Candle to candle, we light our way along these dark roads…
I could watch an hour of Jeffy. Such a cutie! As for January, I was all excited to fill in my planner with big plans and now we're spending most days either snowed or iced in and I don't do any of it. I'm definitely in blanket burrowing mode.
Such a beautiful video, that touches us deeply in our hearts. And the comments--some brought me to tears. Every Christmas season is different as we and the world around us evolve. I think January is a time that we have to feel our way into the changes of the new year and a new way of fitting into it. It can be very unsettling, to say the least. I have found creativity and joy in making changes in my home during January. Once I begin to move things around, fresh ideas seem to rush in. As we know, our inside and outside must align and harmonize! But I agree, it's really hard to get out of the house, and I often feel as though I have accomplished nothing. Two sleepy cats give off those lazy vibes too😅😊
January to me is purging things out into the universe, lightening my load for the new year. Making certain I do my P.T. and O.T. in order to move throughout the day ahead and my recumbent bike for 30 min. I get all wacky and wanky when I don't tend to my self care...that's when my body fails me. x's lj
God I love you Wendy. The U.S has done the same paying for wars in other countries with over 900,000 homeless! Our Government officials get paid the big bucks to keep them going! I've been home 7 years. Nothing out for me to want to visit. So blessed to have a warm home and take care of as much as I can. Artist love alone time to create. Sit in the sunlight as much as I can and keep lots of lights on in my favorite room. And my plant babies!! Thank you!❤🎉
Girrrrrl you and me both! Why is January such a slog? I'm working hard to reframe my thoughts as well. We have to give oursleves a lot more slack. I would never be as hard on anyone else as I am on myself and I have to constantly remind myself to talk to *me* as I would speak to my very dearest friend or my own children. That helps me be a lot more loving and patient with my sensitive soul. I'm also deep in the perimenopause which can really add a lot more twists and turns to everyday life, as I'm sure you know. HRT has helped tremendously with my anxiety and lessening aches and pains, however, it's not a cure all and not meant to be. It just makes things a lot less painful mentally and physically for me (and it's a personal choice- whatever works for anyone is what they should do!) We're all just trying our best out here♥ Hang in there, everybody.
I am feeling rather much like yourself - I just want to hibernate & not leave the house at all - i am finding motivation very difficult & i am just doing the basics of going to work & running a few errands I am even finding it difficult to get motivated for my crafting, which is usually my god send - roll on Spring :) xx
Yes the paralleling of the world. It's so hard to wrap one's head around it all. It seems between winter and things. It can feel a little over whelping but spring is coming and nows a good time for really focusing on plans. Gardens, travels, things that are calling to you. Hold on just a couple more weeks ❤
Dear Wendy, I made a little happy dance when I saw you uploaded a new video! :) Your voice is so comforting and you inspire me to take better care of myself. The tiny "fairy steps" are implemented in my life now and I try my best to remind my autistic brain to actually do these fairy steps. Life can be challenging, especially in the wintertime (for me, it's the "december blues"). By saying that, I understand and feel your struggles leaving the house. But remember that you are allowed to rest and allowed to respect your personal limits. This is a very healthy thing you can do - I am learning this again at the moment. Thank you for being a wonderful blessing! I send you and James warm virtual hugs. Lots of love from Germany! xx
I’ve been using my leftover yarns to make whatevers. I’ve made purses, a backpack, woven a scarf, and now I’m making hearts, bunting triangles and pom poms for a garland of joy and love. Lots of fun projects with no real plan but creating. Also small purges, one drawer at a time. Forgot. Made pecan chocolate chip cookies for fun. Your gratitude drawing was so lovely.
Thanks so much for this video. I have ME/CFS and Fibromyalgia and have been recuperating from a really bad flare up a couple weeks ago. Between that and the arctic-like temperatures we've had for the last week, walking outside is not happening. So I'm just gradually increasing my indoor activity every day to help my body feel better. I just love your little fairies and your daughter's sweet little dog, Jeffy, just makes me smile. Of course, you always make me smile and help me shine my light a little brighter. Much love and hugs to you and James. 💖🤗🤗🤗
I do thank you for your light and caring that shines through. I have had a tough start to the new year with a hospital stay and now slowly recovering from the illness. I have been humbled and blessed.
You are my kind of hero dear Wendy. God bless you. I think I’ll watch your video again. You are a blessing to me. A warm hug and some of my light to you from Costa Rica. ☀️❤️🥹🙏🏼
Oh my gosh Jeffy is the cutest little furbaby ever, so adorable ❤ I remember watching your previous January vlog and I liked how you called them The Januarys. I tend to struggle much more in December due to grief, I find January a relief as its quiet and peaceful, much less traffic, things are back open when we do venture out or we can stay cosy at home. I like to do a journaling review of the past year then set up my bullet journal and diary for the year ahead. My year started well but I've been ill for the past two weeks, forced to stay at home alone patiently waiting for my body to recover. Watching videos about Imbolc have cheered me up, plus some journaling, painting with my candle next to me. I totally agree about how the govt's priorities are not in the right place and how draining and sad it can be seeing the result of that. I think it's v kind you gave that man a lift, the housing situation in this country needs to be changed so everyone has a safe, comfortable, affordable home. Sending you peaceful February wishes.
Lovely video, Wendy. Your kindness matters...on every level...it's healing. And yes, the love and kindness you give yourself, without judgement is so, so vital. The world is changing and for the most part, it feels chaotic, harsh, and that humanity as a whole, is not learning and advancing...for decades.Things must be created anew and that is where the world is at present. The next many years ahead will bring great opportunities for personal and collective evolution. We're here to shine, as you often say...so thank you for sharing your heart and personal journey that truly inspires more than you can know. 💖
Hi Wendy ☺. This is possibly the worst January for me ever! Long dark cold days. I lost my husband Terry on the the 4th December after a very short illness. We had been together for 50 plus years (we were babies when we married). He was my love, my life and my soul mate and my heart is broken 💔 and I miss him every day. I also had a bad fall and broke my shoulder (I recently got the sling taken off and can now drive short journeys). A friend told me recently that I must get out each day if I can! But it's hard to be motivated right now. I am an artist and crafter too, but feel like I will never be able to create again. And yet if you don't create, I believe your soul dies. I have two fur babies, my cats, who right now give me a reason to get up in the morning 🐾🐾. Thanks for listening. Love to you and James, take good care of each other. With blessings, love and light xx
I'm so sorry for your loss. I know that life can be super challenging, but each day is an opportunity to remember something lovely, and an opportunity to make a new memory. It is good to get out regularly, to connect with the world, at least a small corner of it. Enjoy your fur babies, and know that none of us are alone. May the universe give you strength and courage. Love and light, and gentle virtual hugs from Australia
You're too cute. I do the same thing and dance in my house and I feel like I'm frolicking in a meadow in pure joy. Recently my health has taken a turn. I can't do much or move too much and I'm so glad throughout my life I've always taken those little opportunities to dance, to sing, to be silly, to be unique, to dare to stand out and I feel very blessed that I had the courage to do so. I have little regret. Follow your heart and you can never go wrong. And we have so much more power than we think we do. All we have to do to save the world is simply what we can.
Big January Hugs to you and James! I think of January as a "re-set" time. I go with the energy of the season...slow, dormant, (which to me means lots going on inside and down deep, it's just not visable yet.) What I find helpful is a little 6x4 notebook meant only for listing completed tasks (not for pretty), because we tend to forget those forward-moving tasks like, 1 load of laundry, cleaned the bathroom countertop and sink, bought food, etc...when I write them all down, even if my personal enery seems low, it always amazes my how full that little notebook is at the end of January. Then a little celebration is in order- Yes? 😊
Hello Wendy thank you for your video, it's not the best of weathers lately for outings and long walks or gardening, dancing indoors and singing whilst doing household chores, having visitors and just hanging out watching videos back to back or reading a book, no need to feel guilty about just being relaxing enjoying not standing in shopping queues or putting on a brace face in the cold and wet, I enjoy this time of year because we all need to hibernate at some point just as Mother Earth and the small creatures do, There is a peaceful energy that is restoring and natural, when we allow ourselves to have time out and not feel guilty. Hugs and Blessings 💚🌹
thank you so much for sharing all that you share, Wendy. I'm grateful that you're here and glad I found you. May all January hibernations be warm, cosy and restorative.
Full of joy to see the notification of your first video for this year, Wendy. Bit behind schedule here... trying to breath through the feral sweltering heat this month. The garden is probably questioning my absence as I find the heat horribly smothering, and sucks the energy out of me quite easily. So my hermit-like days have spurred me to start on multiple journals.. not going to have strict rules of when entries are made. Ive also dabbled in a bit of decluttering and started on the interior painting. It will be a slow progress but Im reteaching myself to go with the flow and trust the Universe. So I'm trying to slow things down a bit this year. Can't wait for your next video!
I know what you´ve felt meeting this homeless man. These hard times make lots of people live in so vulnerable situations everyday and it hurts so deep... Doing what we can is all we can do, isn´t it? No matter how small it is in the global situation. In my self experience I know that to be considered and treated as the living being we are makes a huge difference in a day, even though all problems are still there. Love and warm hugs for your chilly winter, Wendy! We have all heat here in the southern hemisphere now, so I´m sending you some to you there ❤🌞🦉
I too had a recent experience where I gave a stranger a ride. I live in Sonoma, California which as you might know is in the heart of wine country and very rural. I came upon a woman walking on a country road carrying 4 large shopping bags. In my rearview mirror I watched several vehicles pass her as she tried to get out of their way...the road does not have a shoulder that she could walk on...one driver actually beeped their horn at her. I was concerned for her safety and turned my car around to offer her a ride. She said that she is an in-home care giver and had just left her overnight job where she cares for a very elderly couple. She was on her way to the bus stop which was at least a 2 or 3 mile walk from where I picked her up. She shared that she came to California from Fiji to work as a care giver and explained that she believes this is her calling in life. I was touched by her sweet and kind energy and came away from this experience inspired by her selfless dedication to helping others. She reinforced my belief that there are more good people than bad in this world, sometimes we get to meet them when we least expect it!
What a wonderful story! I can't imagine what kind of a heartless person would beep at a poor lady lugging 4 bags of groceries walking alongside the road. It takes all kinds. I recently had a neighborhood teen throw a coffee mug into my windshield and smash it to smithereens. I do not know the teen. So I sent a very kind note to his parents telling them what had happened, actually apologizing to them for the bad news. Did I hear back from them? No. Not as much as a we are sorry. They used to hang out in their backyard and barbecue and have friends over and there would be a lot of laughter. Now they stay inside trying to avoid me. Two months after the incident the mother angrily posted on FB about how someone had just hit her car when she was at work. She was outraged and cursing up a storm about how they didn't leave a note or try and find her. I suppose one could call it karma but isn't it sad how she was only interested when it affected her, and could care less when it happened to me. Shortly thereafter she posted that she was buying her 17 year old son a car. The same teen that threw the "I love you" Valentine's Day coffee mug into my windshield. I guess kids nowadays are rewarded for damaging a neighbors car without incurring any consequences. (sigh) Kudos to you for what you did.
How lovely is that....and yes, those unexpected connections with a stranger can be enriching can't they...? 🤗
Also from Sonoma County CA and have a Fijian friend who is one of the sweetest kindest people I’ve ever known… thank you for helping her… 💝💖
Your kindness is so admirable, people and this world are very COLD, driving by and honking isn't surprising. That said, I too am a caregiver, I do have a car but I can only imagine working overnight and then walking 3 miles to a bus stop after working overnight???? thank you for what you did for a stranger, your kindness is lovely and you will receive in back...
Both you & your stranger are very kind…power to you girls…loved reading your little story. Much love from Aus 💕💕
My son passed away in late November, and I need to share something with you. Some days, I can hear your voice telling me “It is wonderful that you got out of bed today”. Your channel inspires me, and I am so grateful. May January fairies bring you joy and laughter.
Sorry for your loss Cynthia 🙏
I so sorry for your loss. My brother passed away in November a few years ago and telling my parents was the hardest thing I ever had to do. I cannot image your loss as a mother. Sending deep and sincere prayers for your son and you.
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Sending you love Cynthia
So sorry Cynthia…there are no words, bless you every day of your life 💕🙏🏼
In my head, I've changed the month's name to Jam-uary, a month where I do things that are "my jam". Self-care, dancing with a paintbrush, snacking on my favourite fruits, curling up with a book, creating a new junk journal (one that isn't precious, so I can use it without caring whether I got jam on it, not that I eat jam very often), playing with a new or re-found art supply (dug out my intense pencils to finally use, instead of hoarding because they were "the good stuff"), finding new recipes to try that are healthy and appeal to my tastebuds.
I'm glad, Wendy, that you had a lovely catch up with family, and journalling about that visit while the memories are fresh seems the perfect Jam-uary activity. So does dancing with the fairies - I hope they are whispering wonderful secrets and sharing ideas. My fairies and sprites all seem to be down at the beach, hiding in the beach grass and the roots of the ti trees, and I am hoping they are filling their cups so they have plenty of ideas to share upon their return!.
Wishing you love and light, and trying to send warmth your way from Australia, as well as gentle hugs.
I love the idea of Jam-uary!
Such a great video! I was with my 3 closest girlfriends for dinner on early New Year’s Eve, we’re all in our later 60’s…I was home by 9pm. 😂 They were setting their goals for 2024 and said mine should be leaving the house more…LOL! But they don’t realize how many years I was pining away at a 8-5 job, just wishing I could be home creating. Now I have a beautiful studio in my home and I just love being in it! I guess they just don’t understand the joy I get from it and that I love my quiet alone time.
I love being alone, but some of my friends don't get it. One of them needs people around her all the time. That would make me crazy. At least I'm retired (my husband still works since he's younger than me), so I do get quite a bit of solitary time, which helps. Christmas and New Year's were very hectic, so I am grateful for calm January!
I understand you completely, I'm the same way...lol.
Enjoy your blessed time in studio. Your artist tribe here on utube get it.
I'm 60 and still work 40hr 12 hrs night shift at hospital...😢 I want to wean and slowly 🐌 retire. I just can't have that high energy anymore..I also want to spend more time on my " Crafty " self. And improve my Art cove and maybe initiate selling my flipped furniture and mix media .. keep my light shining bright. ✨️. You are Loved 😍
Same. I’m an introvert who worked long hours, crazy shifts, travelled endlessly from country to country, often submersed in challenging locations. Now in my sixties, I get pure joy from moving no further than my bed with my coffee & sketchbook, entertaining no company other than my own. Fully finished with extraverts defining what’s healthy & normal!
Our ancestors spent a lot of time hibernating in winter. It's good for the soul.
I have recently been adopted by a Street cat. He now has a warm bed and food security.
My ritual every morning is feeding a flock of seagulls and pigeons.
Torn up fresh brown bread 3 loaves sunflower seeds cooked cous cous. They are starving hungry.
The water dish freezers overnight.
These creatures give me purpose whilst marinating painting ideas.
Thank you Wendy for being you.
Keep warm.
I appreciate your lovingness as a person and kindness to animals and it's good to feed them sunflower seeds but not brown bread
bread is bad for birds
Love this. 💗
Love all the plants in your studio 🪴🪴🪴I was out walking today in a place I hadn’t intended to go but felt I was guided…as I walked an older lady caught my eye, we stopped and talked for the longest time…she had seen me photographing the daffodils peeping through. I said I was looking for hopeful signs. She said that was why she stopped me and talked…her husband had just passed… she just needed that connection. 🧚
Oh Wendy, I’m also struggling through January this year, here in Australia. The rental crisis has forced us into a remote rural home with no insulation or heating/cooling; winter mornings were 5 degrees C inside the house, but in summer it is up to 36 degrees C in our living room and kitchen, even hotter in the bedrooms! All we can do is sit around miserable, waiting for each day to end and for night to bring some relief. It’s too hot and humid to do anything, even to draw or paint! Seeing you dancing and drawing and hearing your stories cheers me up so much. 🥰 Your gratitude picture is so beautiful, and so are your paper doll fairies. I always love seeing Jeffy, and look forward to seeing your new and improved garden - how lovely that will be for you, James, and Mr. Robin in the spring! Thank you for reminding me to keep my light shining, I will try extra hard today 💖💡lots of love to you, your family, and your lovely viewers xx
Hello from Braidwood NSW 🤗
@@AmandaBurton-g4t Hello back! Braidwood is lovely - cooler than Qld 🤣🤣 xx
Wendy, my Wendy, our Wendy. I could spend time watching how your talent transforms a face on paper. Amazing. This time a question comes to mind. What would happen if instead of strugling so hard you followed what your body needs. rest, rest and rest. is the guilt of not being productive?. Nature demands rest in Winter. Do we have to be productive every day of the year?.
Also I like it when you show us your beautyfull long hair. ot is gorgeous.
My hellow to Aussies. I had the fortune to live in Camberra during a good period of my life. I was so happy!!!! Australia is also my country.❤
@@doloreslujansalvador2644 hello, Dolores! I’m so glad you enjoyed your time in Australia and felt welcome here. 😊 Doesn’t Wendy’s channel inspire such lovely comments from viewers? I think her positive, gentle energy attracts an audience full of good people. 😁 Wendy, we love you! 💖 (And James, too; can’t forget James!). ☺️
We are here in Alaska where it's a long and cold winter, longer than some as it's still winter in May. We combat this by keeping busy. I attend 5 work out classes a week. This also gives me a social outlet. My husband has 3 pickle ball classes a week and 4 volunteer jobs around town. We are 82 and 83. I so admire you and the videos you put out. I think you are the very sweetest human being and I'm not surprised you helped the homeless man at all. You make me feel so good watching the videos you make! There are good and kind people out there as we see so much hate in the world now it can be very depressing. Thank you for being who you are.
After Christmas, I always feel an odd sense of loss. So, I've started looking at January as a fresh start. Clean slate. Shiny. New. I get outside. ALOT. And I start planning a new dream for this bright year.
Rather warm here in upstate New York today, but I still have my hot tea for this visit, I really put off this because I wanted a cozy time! I don’t know if you comprehend how much you mean to me (us) ! My heart went out to you helping the homeless fellow, as a social worker I worked with “project Uplift” a grant program for people who were homeless ! It was located in a very poor area and our door was open, we provided coffee, soup, and sandwiches; hygiene supplies, blanket/quilts (sewed by a local group) coats, and a food cupboard! We would provide counseling and advocacy for social services! Finding housing was of course a priority! Watching you rising up from the januaries gave me a lift also!
Reading this in February. You are very eloquently verbalizing my January. It's so hard. You have helped me know I am not alone. Thank you.❤
I was on my way home one night several years ago and I saw a young woman standing at the bottom of some concrete steps that led up to apartments. It was quite dark and the steps went through a wooded area. I could tell she was hesitant to go up them so I went back and offered her a ride home. She thanked me and I took her on home. It only took a few minutes to get up the hill but I felt good knowing I helped her get home safely. :)
Hygge warmth & comfort through the winter months. I sprinkle my house with fairy lights everywhere since I can’t take any bright lights. I listen to spa, or peaceful piano on my Spotify. Have real & fake candles everywhere throughout my home. I even have fake candles in my 4 dollhouses. Every bed & couch has a handmade crocheted blanket. Some quilted pillows. Comfort foods, tea & hot cocoa. HYGGE comforts certainly is a way of life through the winter months. I embrace the coziness. I quilt, crochet/knit, art collage junk treasure book journal & work on my dollhouses. They all bring me joy in my studio that is my Happy Place. Cheers to all the creative souls that find true happiness in doing things you love. Mariaknits27💃🏻💕🏠🧵🧶🧘🏽♀️🙏🏻🕯️📚💐
You have a lovely way of motivating us. I too slow down in the winter and Jan seems especially challenging- it's as if I am setting up my new launching pad, and in ways I want to make it perfect (which is not possible). Your story of the frail man with no socks in this winter weather brought tear to my eyes. It feels so good to have empathy towards others, when we act on it. Absolutely right about misspent tax money. It is getting even worse now...
That little sweet puppy dog, Jeffy, always melts my heart. Hang in there...as a dear friend once told me, when you are having a rough time and things seem overwhelming, just say to yourself "do one thing." And then do that thing. Then say again " do one thing." It makes the doing - when we must do - that much more easy, not so overwhelming. And lovely that you helped that older gentleman. Hope you feel better soon....so important to push gently into doing when needed, but rest when needed, too. Sending hugs.
Thanks so much for sharing the story of the homeless/temporary housed man to whom you gave a drive. I, too, find it very sad that it is not a higher priority in our countries (I'm in Canada) to ensure that everybody has the best life possible. We seem to prioritize those with the most, when those with the least go without. I don't think this is just political - it is, as you say, about having heart and being caring, which is why we viewers are attracted to your channel. I am very fortunate to rarely experience the blues. At the same time it seems that life gets more and more challenging for many, and depression is more and more common, so I am sending healing vibes to anyone who needs some sunshine in their hearts. I know that just watching your videos makes me feel lighter and brighter, Wendy. May you find your motivation and get back your energy and spark. You somehow manage to always sparkle on this channel, even when you are feeling down. You are a gift. Much love to you for all you give and all you are!
You have the most beautiful eyes Wendy. I LOVE your daughter's dog Jeffy, he is so loving, and I can see he is very loved back. I have been taking my Madge out about 6.30am ( she says she wants to go out, and I have no garden so have to do so) coming back to bed with my mug of tea after feeding her, and watching my You Tubes until about 11.30am, and not really wanting to get out of bed, but I have to get up and get dressed to take my Madge out again. I am 66 years young, and live alone with Madge as you know, and can go days without talking to another human being, which I do not mind, but your You Tube guys keep me going, and give me the company I need. Thank you for all you do. xxx
Jolly you sound just like me! Love & greetings from Aus 🫶
I meant Jilly! Sorry!
You also sound just like me, my routine with my Tommy. I'm happy not seeing people, other than other dog walkers who are usually lovely. Greetings from Cornwall
@@DebNewton-kh4cv It is so good to hear from other folk who are like me! I just wish someone lived near me, so we could help each other. I live in West Devon, if there is anyone out there who is like me, and lives near, it would be great to hear from you! xxx
@@jillychandler good luck, I’m sure there is someone out there 🙏🏼🙌
You made me cry. Of course I’m PMSing and today is my 44th birthday and I am not in a happy, ideal situation, but I mentioned to folks earlier that any kind message, like birthday messages, really & truly does make a difference. ANY kindness makes a HUGE difference 💙💙
@@S.Lee13 I just saw this posting. I hope you had a wonderful Birthday Lisa Marie. Many Blessings. Please know you are a special person.
I just saw this, and I just wanted to say Happy Birthday! You are here, you are safe, and you are lovely.
@@margiekerr8736 Thank you so much!!
@@Sarah-uv6wb I really appreciate that, thank you 💙💙
Wendy, please know what a blessing you are, your channel is a true gift to us.
You are so honest, your art is beautiful and you have such a gorgeous infectious soul / energy.
You bring such light to the world, infinite gratitude and
love to you. ❤🌻🐝🐞🇦🇺
Yes - we are a "heart-centered" group who journey along with you, keeping our lights shining as best we can, helping others even when it seems unwise or potentially dangerous. 40 years ago I was going grocery shopping on a snowy, bitterly cold January day in northern Illinois, USA, when I came upon a man with no coat walking along the road toward town. Our 3-year old daughter was in the back seat in her car seat but I debated only moments before I decided to offer him a ride. As a believer, I would say that it was the Christ-spirit in the Universe that moved my heart to stop for him. It turned out he was a local business man whose car had quit - he was just going a short way and left his coat in his office - and he needed a ride to the auto repair place of which he was owner! He remarked that most women with a small child in tow would not have stopped. And I had a feeling that a number of vehicles had zipped past him before I came along. I was listening to that holy nudge in my heart and acted upon it. All these years later I am reminded that the essential need for acts of mercy, kindness, compassion and charity is part of our calling as humans, be it toward other humans or the other creatures with whom we share this amazing world. Thanks for shining your light and encouraging us to see alternative ways to look at life when we are in the "wintering times" of life. Blessings to you, and Blessed Be! - Kay -
I love your individual fairies. They remind me of my childhood days playing with paper dolls. Have you ever thought of creating a paper doll book with paper doll clothes? Do little girls even play with paper dolls anymore? Paper dolls are fun for travel and for children who live in limited space. It's only a thought I wanted to share.
May I add? You are such a beautiful soul and light!🥰
I bought my grand daughter a beautiful book of paper dolls with lovely clothes when she was 5. She and her dad had play time a couple times but I never saw it again. So her regular dolls got lots of time and this was caste aside. I would guess not too many little girls know the joy of playing with them. We of the older generation know what a joy they were to spend hours with paper dolls.
I remember them well!
Paper dolls are lovely, aren't they?! I remember playing with them as a little girl, too.
Bless you Wendy for taking the time to help out that poor gentleman. I agree that "our" priorities are backwards these days and our money should be spent on making sure no one goes without. I found two feral kitties while out on a walk yesterday and I'm going back today to share some shrimp I saved from my meal last night with them. My little way of doing my part! 💕
This year I decided to go away for a few weeks this January to the warmer climate of South Carolina here in the states to help with my January's. I found a cute inexpensive efficiency studio getaway near the beach. Although it could be a little warmer, it's still nice to have a change of scenery, walk or bike on the beach when the weather permits and meet new sweet souls, even in the form of hungry kitties.
Wishing you a bright and shiny rest of your January. We're almost there! February is right around the corner!
Sending much love and gentle hugs! 🤗🌞 ❤
Helping someone is therapy for you and them ……shine bright Wendy it helps us all❤
I love staying home and painting and doing all my art projects. My husband gets me out for an hours walk ( like walking the dog😊) but I am thankful for him. I am going to be 68 this year! Also my many friends I love. I try to make time for them. I love your videos Have a good day❤ When ever I see a person in need homeless, whatever I always tell my husband lets get them some food, I always say what if they were your brother or sister wouldn’t you hope someone would help them. No one should ever go hungry. We can’t fix all the problems but a smile , a meal a word of encouragement is within our ability. Hugs to you🤗🤗Wendy
Thank you for this video. Thank you for being your trueself and your honesty. I've been having the January blues too not wanting to leave the house and just wanting to snuggle up on the sofa with my little doggie called Angel. I am telling myself its okay not to be okay right now. I'm doing a lot of self care and doing a little something each day to move forward. Your last video motivated me to declutter so i spent 2 days going through my clothes and took a few bags to the local charity shop. So thank you for that video as it motivated me do my clothes. Have a lovely week and so grateful for your videos. xx
Hi. Wendy. Thank you for sharing the January blues...YES, we all get them. I agree we must be kind to ourselves at this time. I live in Ireland and weather is awful right now! Big storms. So, I make a big mug of tea and work for 2 hours on a lake painting. Nat King Cole in the background....I skim past the dark new s headlines. I pray for those who are suffering. I send a very modest monthly sum to a homeless charity as, like you say, every little bit helps. I love your beautiful portrait on typed gratitude message...Please hang it up. It is worthy of being seen every day. ❤❤🎉
I took a look in the garden today and I’m seeing the first signs of Spring on its way. The shoots for the snowdrops and Crocus have pushed through and the days are starting to get noticeably longer. Time passes quickly, and it won’t be long before March is here heralding longer brighter days and the promise of a lovely warm Summer to come. Also the birds have noticed these changes too and are starting to sing and chase each other around. The signs are all around us, please try to see this, it will give you a lift , you are a wonderfully gifted and lovely person. As far as I’m concerned we are one human family despite the mainstream news showing division and injustice. My hope is that we can evolve passed these artificial divides and intolerances, I do not watch the news anymore and my life is better for it 🥰
We are on day seven of being home bound. Northern Mississippi is in a frozen state. We had four inches of snow then sleet. Schools were closed all week. The grocery stores were closed down but a few things started reopening on Friday but most of the roads are still iced. We were prepared so it’s been okay. We have had an unplanned staycation. Good news is I have been journaling every day.
I realised this weekend that I hadn't left the house this year except to go to work or the supermarket. At first I was pretty horrified with myself but having watched your video I took your (James') advice and 'flipped it'. Because, by spending all my free time at home, I have read two books (haven't read a book in over 2 years) and I am over half way through crocheting a double bedspread in cheerful rainbow stripes (haven't crocheted anything since last January). The joy and pride I feel in these achievements far outweighs the guilt I felt at my 'January hibernating'. Thank you for giving me the opportunity to see things from a different perspective x
January is a month for rest, so any sort of blues we might be feeling is the way we were designed and created to take a break and reflect on the year that has passed and the new year to come. I don’t take my Christmas tree and decorations down until mid January because it makes me sad to put away all those beautiful decorations that made my house feel so celebratory and beautiful. When I take them down I do it slowly and over the course of a few days. This way I don’t overwhelm myself with the sadness of having them gone. At the same time I begin looking forward to Valentine’s Day. It is my second favorite holiday. Sometimes I even decorate for Valentine’s. I also begin making cards or little gifts to give away on Valentine’s. Focusing on “others” and not so much on myself is the best way to get rid of any blues. I remember a couple of years ago being extremely depressed, feeling sorry for myself and all that. Suddenly I got some horrible news about a tragic death in my family. It was as if someone turned the switch inside me and I was no longer feeling depressed (which sounds weird due to the tragic situation) because I was more focused on helping my mom deal with the death of her sister. When we stop looking inward and begin focusing on others we heal, and become more aware of how silly we can become when we feel sorry for ourselves. I give praise to God for everything and even in those sad moments I force myself to see the light beyond the shadows.
This is a wonderful post about looking outward and not inward focused on ourselves.
I too, take my time with removing my Christmas decorations over a few days. This year instead of carting the containers into the house, I put all the ornaments in big bowls, took them to the garage along with the four mini trees and other Christmas deco. I still have my dear and some smaller items that fall into winter. My plan is to sort through what I’ve not used in a couple of years , box them up in separate box of two and donate to charity in late October or early November for someone else to enjoy. At 75 I still like to decorate but no longer have a big tree and don’t need as much as I have. Have great year.
@@ehpeachylove I love your process for undecorating. When I first began doing my Christmas decorating in my own house, I made a conscious decision to only buy the ornaments that I would want to keep for many years to come. Over the years I’ve collected heart ornaments which are the bulk of my ornaments and then I have “fillers”. When my son was born I began collecting the Hallmark ornaments, each representing something special that happened that year in my son’s life. I also buy one new Hallmark heart ornament if I find one I like, or a heart ornament that speaks to me. There is nothing more special than when I put up the decorations and then take them down again, to look at each ornament and remember the years when I bought them. I count my blessings and thank God for all.
@@clc3897 how beautiful. A couple years ago I gave my son all the ornaments that I had bought him and some friends had bought him as he grew up. This year he and his wife decorated one of their small trees behind the sofa on a stand with all those special decoration. It was a joy to see and made me smile and be thankful too. Blessings to you.
Rest up Wendy.
How lush and full your studio looks with all your plant babies, lovely! It's so cold indeed, I'm staying put and staying inside.
I really like the idea of looking back over the past year's journals. I would like to do that as well.
Hello Jeffy, sweet doggie, you're so sweet.
Awh, love how the gardener felt it necessary to say he doesn't disturb nature!! That would win me over, for certain. You chose the perfect one. And wow!, the landlord paid for gardener services.
Yes, the world's state, the homeless, etc.😢 We empaths do have a hard way to go in it, don't we? God bless you for caring to help him. It does matter.
aww thankyou poppet xxx big loves to you too xxx
I believe that most of the souls here are Empaths and it is why we are drawn to Wendy because I believe she too is an Empath.
I suffer from depression and anxiety and I have just found your channel and you're like a breath of fresh air. Thank you for being honest and open with us. Getting out of the house is a big accomplishment congrats on that. I have weeks that I am in bed most days. You make me want to get up and try again. GOD bless you and your family. 😊
Thank you for this... Especially the last few minutes... You brought tears to my eyes and reaffirmed my belief that every little bit might help... That sharing my light won't dim it and might brighten another one! This is my struggle in January and February when, here in Canada, winter gets so fierce and energy so low... What's the point?!? Well there always is a point, hope that things will get better! 🙏🧡
Gosh, it's only January still and I've already cried a million tears. Tears of sorrow at the cruel state of the world, tears of gratitude for all the beautiful souls such as yourself. Tears of Joy, tears of sunshine, tears of days gone by, tears of letting go.. Thank you for a moment of connection during these often stormy times. Love You All 🧡
We live in Northern Canada. It was -30 the other day. The blues is peeking around the door. I enjoy puzzles when I need a distraction. Baking a pie, vacuuming and dusting and creating a really cozy space for myself in my little home. Today, I'm venturing out to a second hand shop. I have an assignment to find another black turtleneck. Cheers.
Bless you , Wendy, for helping that homeless man. It does upset me that people are living like this when money is being wasted . It can be disheartening but every little thing we can do to make the world a better place helps . I love the serene look of your gratitude picture. Let's hope for dome warmer, drier less windy weather soon. ❤
I truly adore you, sweet Wendy. Thank you for the happy dancing, I needed that more than you could know.
Just know your "Januaries" are definitely real, and I'm with you upon struggling about being home and feeling safe.
I fed some local homeless on the Eve of the holiday. I have tried to keep my left hand seeing what the right is doing, but admittedly, I felt more good about that than anything else that's gone on since October, since I cannot stop or help with... All of the world. I think it did more for me than it did those whom I fed.
Love you beautiful darling. Keeping you in my thoughts. ✨🕯️
Ahhh...I loved what you said about someone else can light their light off yours and it won't diminish your light at all....
In January I priorities taking walks in daylight. Getting my face directly in the sun when the sky is clear, whether I sit at the window or find a quit corner with no wind outside. The.light energizes me and the walks too.my sleep improves too. 😀
Oh yes Wendy to all that you have said. I am looking forward to more sunshine here. January and February are more difficult months for me, by March I am better in general, usually, anyway! Inspiration is a wee bit more difficult at this time too. We have a lot of snow (which is a good thing here….for the kids and for the plants that need it for insulation! ) I have to really push myself to go out also! Thanks for your gentle push. Have a wonderful Sunday and a great week! How sweet of you to help that man…💚
I think it's wonderful how you showed kindness and compassion to the homeless man, just be careful some may be stronger than you think:-) I understood what you were saying about him being frail. A couple of months ago Walmart sent me $50 worth of cat food by mistake. I called them to return it, but they told me to keep it, but I didn't have a cat. Then out of the blue this beautiful feral tabby showed up nothing but skin and bones like the man you described, and even though I had no intention of adopting a pet at that time, I felt it was a sign from God:-) So I ended up adopting the cat all because Walmart made a mistake. Or was it? A this point, I feel it was meant to be:-)
Part of your January Blues is no doubt coming down from the holidays, family leaving, and James being away. I still can't help but feel that you might be happier moving your art studio to your extra bedroom, maybe, maybe not, obviously you know best. If it were me, I'd rather have my studio available all the time, which I do. If I had to travel to it, I'd be much more likely not to go. I love your fairies and journals:-) Wishing you a Magical Day, Wendy. Your garden patio is something to be excited about:-) 🧚✨💫
I believe that there is a master plan out there for each of us. We just need to pay attention and have an open heart.
My motivation is in the bin at present and has been for sometime. I had chronic fatigue syndrome for a long while, I feel that I get relapses. That’s how I feel now. I was lucky didn’t get covid but being shut down for that time , like many, my husband worked away during the week, I didn’t have a support group, I just don’t seem to have got my energy levels back. I lack enthusiasm about many tings in life, that is so depressing. My art always lifted me up, somehow not at the moment. Thank you for sharing your honesty is so appreciated. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Today I had a student tell me they loved me and the gesture shocked me because they shared it twice! I love all of my students (I’m a virtual tutor) but after sitting in my own feelings having received such a free and honest expression, I choose to share the love that’s been shared with me. I love you Wendy. I love you everyday.
So to get myself out of the January Blues, I’ve done a yoga session every single day in January and I’ve put myself on a time-block schedule every day except weekends. I don’t strictly follow the schedule but more or less I do and it’s really helped with my motivation, getting back on track and creating a habit and routine for my everyday. I don’t know I just feel like it’s really helped me. Hopefully this idea will help someone else. February is right around the corner, might be a good time to start that. Sending lots of love and cheers to dreams coming true✨💕😽🧚🏼♀️🐞🌻🌝🌈🌟⛄️❄️🍭🛼🎨🎹📸🎀🧸🪅
Sweet doggy. Self care and progress is always best for me at 76.
I too get really tired, gloomy in the January period. This year, not so much over indulgence over the holiday period as what I really appreciated was peace, time to relax with my loved ones and spending a lot of me time. The cold and the floods have been a huge downer but for me so far January has been daily 20 minute morning meditation, daily affirmation practice, spending more consistent time playing with my art supplies and trying to walk the dog on a daily basis to get the much needed fresh air and absorb nature. The Bumps of life are still hitting home at the moment but I allow myself to feel upset, sad, angry or frustrated because my feelings are important in processing the negative stuff as it happens but I don't allow myself to dwell in those feelings for too long. I'm constantly reminding myself of the positives and finding gratitude. 😊
Everything you touch and embrace with your talents - turns into true Beauty!
You got a puppy. Oh what a sweetheart. When I am in the car with my family and we go by a certain part of town it just breaks my heart to see all the homeless people. It makes you wonder what is wrong with our world these days. I never listen to the news because it is so depressing and there is absolutely nothing that I can do about it at age 81. Like you I believe that every one of us can make the world just a little bit of a brighter happier place to live in. Never underestimate the power of a sincere smile. Blessings and love from a fellow artist in New Mexico
Bless you for helping the homeless man - its too easy to just pass by. This is how we can help the world to rise from the chaos I think; small acts of human kindness, smile or a little word for someone alone. We must shine our light for all to see and spread love wherever we can. It is hard seeing the horrors in our world but always remember there are many people doing wonderful things. so even though we may feel helpless sometimes - we are not.
Nature will help us - like you I feed the birds and they raise my spirits so much!
I am sure you know about earthing, or grounding; I have finally just ordered a grounding sheet for the bed as this should help with everything. Obviously when it is less cold just get out there in the garden barefoot! Can't wait.
I believe in the collective consciousness and so add all the love and goodness I can to that. Connect with like minded people and we will rise, like the pheonix, from the ashes.
Bless you too for your warming videos. 🙏 jules
Wendy, you are so cute, and kind hearted. You remind me of a fairy. Ypur drawing is beautiful, it's amazing to watch you draw and see your drawing come to life. So beautiful.
The Januaries, well, I have them.
I was bien in South Africa which is beautiful and the weather is fantastic. But you see, we have a rotten polutical situation and crime and corruption is rife.
I live in Germany and the weather is so dark, grey, rainy, depressing and cold, that it makes me depressed.
I love sumner and the sunshine. I'm creative and like to do things outside.
So, yes, in the Northern hemisphere it is really challenging in winter.
Sunshine and warm weather make a huge difference to our wellbeing.
Acts of kindness are very important.
We have to take a ferry across the canal about 1km from our house.
We had a guy who woeks on the ferryboat who lets the cars on and off. The weather is brutal out there. And the Captain is upstairs.
I called the ferry guy Mr Grump. I would wave to say hello and he never acknowledged me. I nwver gave up waving and greeting him. Slowly, the ice started to break after a very long time.
Today, I wave and smile and greet him and ge breaks into a big smile ans waves back. He even comes over for a chat now.
And I would smile and wave up to the Captain. Today, as soon as rhe Captain sees our vehicle, he rushes out fron his cabin and smiles and waves fruriously at me.
I am so happy to see the ferry staff, a lady who does this work included.
I showed that I cared by making their day abit brighter by smiling, waving and saying hello.
And Mr Grump is much more cheerful.
It makes all the difference if we can do small acts of kindness and ones of different sizes depending on what we have to give.
Everyone deserves a home, food, shoes and socks in winter and clothes.
All the spare clothes that we don't wear can be given to the destitute directly instead of it being donated to a charity shop.
I love charity shops but we can give something to a person who needs it.
Thanks for doing your act of kindness for the frail old man. I hear you Wendy. All Govs are corrupt.
We need to help eachother because if we don't do it, nobody will. Even with kind words.
Hope your Januaries get better, and sending lits of love to you and everyone in this group. ❤💐💕
I love January, it's when the days start to get longer. Soon enough, it will be Spring! For me, December is the darkest and gloomiest, and I can't wait for the new year.
I'm feel similar. I tend to find December triggers a lot of emotions including grief in me and it can get overwhelming. The societal Christmas build up now last months, I had to walk past fun fairs and bright lights and Christmas markets with loud and relentless Christmas music every week for about 6 weeks and it just felt terrible. Then everything closes for two weeks which disrupts my routine and makes me feel isolated. I feel such relief when January arrives and I can return to my routine again. I like being cosy in January with journaling, painting etc.
💛🙏🏼 I am in NYC and can so relate to your homeless man story 😔
Well done Wendy, helping the elderly man. Small acts of kindness have a huge impact especially when we all do them. We cant do anything about the wars and global suffering, except rise awareness, but we all can do a small thing of kindness.
I love January for many reasons. As a child it was my month because it began with my name. My lovely Uncle Clack always called me January. It is the first month of my new age. I was born December 26th 1948 so I have had 75 Januarys now. It is mid Summer in Aotearoa New Zealand and school holidays. As a child we went camping at the beach, Ngunguru up North. The beautiful pohutukawa is flowering, brilliant red and the tui are waking me each morning with their beautiful songs. I have been in a fibro flare this last few weeks so I am sore all over and have little energy. I've spent many hours embroidering, drawing, writing and sleeping in my brand new recliner in front of the fan. I am content and really enjoying making my new journal Sanctuary. This I will write in, in 2025. This years jouenal is called "Under a Hallowed Moon." I made it in 2022 and had forgotten all the lovely boho embroidery I had made for it. You seem to be doing well with creating a new mind set for January Wendy. Have a spectacular year. My gardeners eye loves all the rosehips in your winter garden. The new gardener sounds lovely.xxx Arohanui from me in Aotearoa New Zealand ❤❤❤
Nice to know I'm not alone.. yes, it's cold... my body to wants to cozy up at home and not go anywhere . I like your dancing movements. I started doing that about a year ago, because my body was so stiff. I am tryly amazed how far I can stretch now. God Bless.... Love your creative work....
Thank you for being so kind and thoughtful about the people suffering on the other side of the world❤ you are beautiful inside-out❤❤
You are an inspiration, comfort for my soul during this month of January. Your warmth and creativity just sucks me in. Keeps me motivated to push on even on the darkest days. We all have something that gets our thoughts to move in a more positive way. You my dear Wendy are mine. Thousands of miles apart. You touch my heart and soul. I am so Grateful the universe has shown me your light. Bright Blessing to you and James.
Bravo for getting out the house- excellent strategy. Take some lovely walks and see the buds swell. Go to bed with a book like they do in Iceland- hibernate:). The light is returning! Cook nourishing food. Talk to someone you love on the phone while under the blankets. Have nice baths and lovely teas- hot chocolate too! Just be. Read poetry. Meditate. Enjoy Mr. Robin. Love yourself with all your heart.
For the past 12 years January has been the worst month for me, such a letdown and really quite depressing, this year I am trying to have a different mindset, so what I have done is CRAFTING. Working on little projects has saved me from the January doldrums. I thought about this mid-month, hey, I am not having the worst month of all the 12 months, I believe that is why.
Beautiful artwork and message Wendy. Here in the US, I am so with you in questioning how our tax money is being utilized. Many people feel this way, in spite of what the mass media has been telling us. Perhaps, collectively we can continue to make our feelings known and change things for the better.
Sweet Wendy, it's as if you crawled inside my head...or was sitting next to me all week!! LOL!! I have been struggling SO much this past week. I thought I would have had a better week since the flu left my system but this past week my energy and concentration was at zero! I couldn't be creative or motivated for anything and certainly didn't want to venture out into the snow and frigid weather (yes, here in Virginia USA we had that same cold blast). It's been a real struggle this January, except for the first few days when I was so motivated to get a lot done! I literally kept checking each day to see if, by chance, you just happened to put a video or snippet up early because I just needed your cheerful inspiration. I know I should be grateful that I have the time to slow down and perhaps God and the universe is trying to tell me I need this time but it is so frustrating when there's so much I want and need to do!! Praying that I can turn it around and turn it on this week, I'm back to teaching and need those creative juices flowing!!! Thank you for sharing your feelings and thoughts, at least I don't feel all alone in this struggle. Blessings!
I’m so glad to know I’m not struggling alone this January. I just turned 60 this month, which I’m ok with, but feel a slight sense of urgency that I’ve now entered the last phase of my life and I still have so much to do. Last week we had both a snow storm and an ice storm which shut everything down and I was happy just to hunker down at home. Except now I don’t feel like doing much of anything, except cuddling with my dog and drinking tea. Your kind reminders that it is ok to take time means so much. Thank you Wendy, brighter days are ahead ❤
I agree, there is nothing wrong with human hibernation 😊, we all need it
I'm loving the vintage typewriter. I have a few of those. When it's cold in your studio, channel an artist or writer from before central heating. Imagine how it was to create back then.
Wendy it is sooo cold in upstate NY too!! I have to use a sun lamp to help lift my spirits...its called 'happy light'...it helps!! Today it is sunny and lots of blue jays and other birds are loving the peanuts and the full bird feeders i have outside...we have soooo much snow!!! I am decluttering too dealing with random papers...be blessed and stay warm. Sending out peace and prayers to the world from USA❤😊✌
I’m a children’s book illustrator and a ‘nearly’ every day sketcher ! I find drawing from observation completely immersive and refreshing. I wonder if setting off to a café or museum or wherever the fancy takes you with your sketchbook might be a good thing for the ‘January’s’ ? not relying on your mind to come up with imaginary inspiration, but simply sketching what you see might be as rewarding to you as I find it.
( If it’s cold, I sit in my car ( big jumper), surrounded by paints, crayons etc! ..bootsales, train stations, ( cafés at the station for me) and markets are great for active people too busy to notice a sketcher ! Just a thought. 🙂
Oh Wendy..bless you. I feel the same. We have the same happening here in Australia. Our tax money going elsewhere, out of our control and our government is wasting so much money it is ludicrous and makes you feel so helpless. I think the best thing we can do is be strong, help those in need (as you have so kindly done) as best we can with as little as we have...knowing in our hearts we are doing the right by humanity even if the elites are not. Times are a changing and we are moving into a better world. Us creatives need to all stick together collectively in mind and spirit. I do this by volunteering as an art teacher once a month to a group of people who have had cancer or in the midst of it. It is only a small thing to do however, they are so very grateful and I feel in my heart I am doing a little something. I have recently semi retired and am working from home which I love... in my little studio where I get to play with art/dance/music etc. I too don't want to go out and I have to put my big girl pants on and just do it!! Aren't we funny little folk. Blessings to you...know you are not alone. Lots a love and blessings, Sandi (The Creative Wild Child ) down under 💌💮😍
Awwwww Sandi, love every word of this message, thank you so much xxx I am I. Good company indeed with you, thanks for being here ♥️♥️✨✨🌟my spirit is definitely with yours xx
❤ Thanks for the wise and helpful chat and wonderful to see you creating such beautiful and uplifting artwork, really inspires me ❤ I'm learning the art of cosying this January, sitting by the fire with a nice cuppa, soft lamplight and soothing music and a pet to cuddle! Small acts of kindness each day to myself and others are so important I feel too xx
Good Sunday afternoon from an overcast, very cold windy day at the moment. More rain, which we need here in Northern California, is on its way.
I took my do for a much needed walk not just for her but me too. The cold seeps into my bones and the aches and pains of my older body slow me down but very important to keep moving.
I used to not like January but changed my thinking after listening to your sweet voice on shine when you can and cocoon when you must. I realized about two years ago that just like Mother Earth rests so should we, but there is also beauty in nature if you look for it. The shape of bare trees in all their gnarly or smooth bark, the buffet shades of greens, the plants that are cover for so many birds and other wildlife, the clouds that chase across the sky, or hearing distant birds sing that you may not hear, the wind against your face. Then the earth starts to show little signs of shoots that will blossom into newness of Spring.
I too have started decluttering. It is rewarding too when you start to get rid of stuff that you’ve hung onto too long.
Thank you for showing kindness to that elderly frail man and for sharing your story about him. You’ll never know how much that meant to him and the strength your thoughtful gesture gave him. We all can do our part to make this world a better place.
Loved seeing Jeffy and so did my Lilly Rose. I also watched The Holiday. A wonderful movie, a feel good one to curl up and relax with a nice warm drink or a glass of wine.
Your drawing is so lovely. She has such calmness and peace about her. And your fairy paper dolls are gorgeous and fun.
Have a blessed week. Love our visit and hope this was not to long. Wishing all the followers good days ahead. Lights shining bright too. Love to you Wendy and James. ❤❤❤
Love your writing.
The Holiday. One of my favorite movies. ❤️ Shine when you can, hibernate when you must.
Our thoughts and our actions, no matter how small, have an effect on the future - so you have shifted something in the planet with what you did… it’s all we can do, being humane and loving. Candle to candle, we light our way along these dark roads…
I could watch an hour of Jeffy. Such a cutie! As for January, I was all excited to fill in my planner with big plans and now we're spending most days either snowed or iced in and I don't do any of it. I'm definitely in blanket burrowing mode.
This Little LIGHT of Mine...I'm going to Make it SHINE~ Rich Blessings To ALL🙏📿🙏📿
Thank You ~ The Unexpected Gypsy
Winter is my hibernation time. Recharge my inner self by staying home more, cozy, comfy clothes, delicious home cooking, do little. ❤
Moi aussi ! ❤😊
Ditto!
Me too😊
I love your energy 🤍
Such a beautiful video, that touches us deeply in our hearts. And the comments--some brought me to tears.
Every Christmas season is different as we and the world around us evolve. I think January is a time that we
have to feel our way into the changes of the new year and a new way of fitting into it. It can be very unsettling, to say the least. I have found creativity and joy in making changes in my home during January. Once I begin to move things around, fresh ideas seem to rush in. As we know, our inside and outside must align and harmonize! But I agree, it's really hard to get out of the house, and I often feel as though I have accomplished nothing. Two sleepy cats give off those lazy vibes too😅😊
January to me is purging things out into the universe, lightening my load for the new year. Making certain I do my P.T. and O.T. in order to move throughout the day ahead and my recumbent bike for 30 min. I get all wacky and wanky when I don't tend to my self care...that's when my body fails me. x's lj
God I love you Wendy. The U.S has done the same paying for wars in other countries with over 900,000 homeless! Our Government officials get paid the big bucks to keep them going! I've been home 7 years. Nothing out for me to want to visit. So blessed to have a warm home and take care of as much as I can. Artist love alone time to create. Sit in the sunlight as much as I can and keep lots of lights on in my favorite room. And my plant babies!! Thank you!❤🎉
Girrrrrl you and me both! Why is January such a slog? I'm working hard to reframe my thoughts as well. We have to give oursleves a lot more slack. I would never be as hard on anyone else as I am on myself and I have to constantly remind myself to talk to *me* as I would speak to my very dearest friend or my own children. That helps me be a lot more loving and patient with my sensitive soul.
I'm also deep in the perimenopause which can really add a lot more twists and turns to everyday life, as I'm sure you know. HRT has helped tremendously with my anxiety and lessening aches and pains, however, it's not a cure all and not meant to be. It just makes things a lot less painful mentally and physically for me (and it's a personal choice- whatever works for anyone is what they should do!) We're all just trying our best out here♥ Hang in there, everybody.
21:40 Yes! Something small like smiling and say hello to a person can make a bad day less bad.
Having a dog helps you to leave the house and go for a walk...and great animal soul company x
The typewriter is such a nice touch!! I like it!
I am feeling rather much like yourself - I just want to hibernate & not leave the house at all - i am finding motivation very difficult & i am just doing the basics of going to work & running a few errands
I am even finding it difficult to get motivated for my crafting, which is usually my god send - roll on Spring :) xx
Yes the paralleling of the world. It's so hard to wrap one's head around it all. It seems between winter and things. It can feel a little over whelping but spring is coming and nows a good time for really focusing on plans. Gardens, travels, things that are calling to you. Hold on just a couple more weeks ❤
I'm glad you've finally come to terms with the first month of every year! Life is about change, & change is good! Bless 🙏 you & James & the Mr. Robin.
Dear Wendy,
I made a little happy dance when I saw you uploaded a new video! :) Your voice is so comforting and you inspire me to take better care of myself. The tiny "fairy steps" are implemented in my life now and I try my best to remind my autistic brain to actually do these fairy steps. Life can be challenging, especially in the wintertime (for me, it's the "december blues"). By saying that, I understand and feel your struggles leaving the house. But remember that you are allowed to rest and allowed to respect your personal limits. This is a very healthy thing you can do - I am learning this again at the moment.
Thank you for being a wonderful blessing! I send you and James warm virtual hugs. Lots of love from Germany! xx
I’ve been using my leftover yarns to make whatevers. I’ve made purses, a backpack, woven a scarf, and now I’m making hearts, bunting triangles and pom poms for a garland of joy and love. Lots of fun projects with no real plan but creating. Also small purges, one drawer at a time.
Forgot. Made pecan chocolate chip cookies for fun.
Your gratitude drawing was so lovely.
Thanks so much for this video. I have ME/CFS and Fibromyalgia and have been recuperating from a really bad flare up a couple weeks ago. Between that and the arctic-like temperatures we've had for the last week, walking outside is not happening. So I'm just gradually increasing my indoor activity every day to help my body feel better. I just love your little fairies and your daughter's sweet little dog, Jeffy, just makes me smile. Of course, you always make me smile and help me shine my light a little brighter. Much love and hugs to you and James.
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Have you tried an earthing sheet?.❤
I do thank you for your light and caring that shines through. I have had a tough start to the new year with a hospital stay and now slowly recovering from the illness. I have been humbled and blessed.
You are my kind of hero dear Wendy. God bless you. I think I’ll watch your video again. You are a blessing to me.
A warm hug and some of my light to you from Costa Rica. ☀️❤️🥹🙏🏼
I so agree, we can all do simple acts of kindness...that's how the world becomes a better place.
Oh my gosh Jeffy is the cutest little furbaby ever, so adorable ❤ I remember watching your previous January vlog and I liked how you called them The Januarys. I tend to struggle much more in December due to grief, I find January a relief as its quiet and peaceful, much less traffic, things are back open when we do venture out or we can stay cosy at home. I like to do a journaling review of the past year then set up my bullet journal and diary for the year ahead. My year started well but I've been ill for the past two weeks, forced to stay at home alone patiently waiting for my body to recover. Watching videos about Imbolc have cheered me up, plus some journaling, painting with my candle next to me. I totally agree about how the govt's priorities are not in the right place and how draining and sad it can be seeing the result of that. I think it's v kind you gave that man a lift, the housing situation in this country needs to be changed so everyone has a safe, comfortable, affordable home. Sending you peaceful February wishes.
Jeffy furbaby is so adorable awe 🥰
Lovely video, Wendy. Your kindness matters...on every level...it's healing. And yes, the love and kindness you give yourself, without judgement is so, so vital. The world is changing and for the most part, it feels chaotic, harsh, and that humanity as a whole, is not learning and advancing...for decades.Things must be created anew and that is where the world is at present.
The next many years ahead will bring great opportunities for personal and collective evolution. We're here to shine, as you often say...so thank you for sharing your heart and personal journey that truly inspires more than you can know. 💖
Hi Wendy ☺. This is possibly the worst January for me ever! Long dark cold days. I lost my husband Terry on the the 4th December after a very short illness. We had been together for 50 plus years (we were babies when we married). He was my love, my life and my soul mate and my heart is broken 💔 and I miss him every day. I also had a bad fall and broke my shoulder (I recently got the sling taken off and can now drive short journeys). A friend told me recently that I must get out each day if I can! But it's hard to be motivated right now. I am an artist and crafter too, but feel like I will never be able to create again. And yet if you don't create, I believe your soul dies. I have two fur babies, my cats, who right now give me a reason to get up in the morning 🐾🐾. Thanks for listening. Love to you and James, take good care of each other.
With blessings, love and light xx
I'm so sorry for your loss. I know that life can be super challenging, but each day is an opportunity to remember something lovely, and an opportunity to make a new memory. It is good to get out regularly, to connect with the world, at least a small corner of it. Enjoy your fur babies, and know that none of us are alone. May the universe give you strength and courage. Love and light, and gentle virtual hugs from Australia
Dear Veronica, I’m so sorry for your loss. 😔 Please know I am sending kind thoughts your way ❤
@@suev4143 Thank you so much for your kind words all the way from Australia! With kind regards, love & light . Thank you.
You're too cute. I do the same thing and dance in my house and I feel like I'm frolicking in a meadow in pure joy. Recently my health has taken a turn. I can't do much or move too much and I'm so glad throughout my life I've always taken those little opportunities to dance, to sing, to be silly, to be unique, to dare to stand out and I feel very blessed that I had the courage to do so. I have little regret. Follow your heart and you can never go wrong. And we have so much more power than we think we do. All we have to do to save the world is simply what we can.
Big January Hugs to you and James! I think of January as a "re-set" time. I go with the energy of the season...slow, dormant, (which to me means lots going on inside and down deep, it's just not visable yet.) What I find helpful is a little 6x4 notebook meant only for listing completed tasks (not for pretty), because we tend to forget those forward-moving tasks like, 1 load of laundry, cleaned the bathroom countertop and sink, bought food, etc...when I write them all down, even if my personal enery seems low, it always amazes my how full that little notebook is at the end of January. Then a little celebration is in order- Yes? 😊
The puppy running at play in the clouds. ❤ @ 2:13
Hello Wendy thank you for your video, it's not the best of weathers lately for outings and long walks or gardening, dancing indoors and singing whilst doing household chores, having visitors and just hanging out watching videos back to back or reading a book, no need to feel guilty about just being relaxing enjoying not standing in shopping queues or putting on a brace face in the cold and wet, I enjoy this time of year because we all need to hibernate at some point just as Mother Earth and the small creatures do, There is a peaceful energy that is restoring and natural, when we allow ourselves to have time out and not feel guilty. Hugs and Blessings 💚🌹
thank you so much for sharing all that you share, Wendy. I'm grateful that you're here and glad I found you. May all January hibernations be warm, cosy and restorative.
Full of joy to see the notification of your first video for this year, Wendy. Bit behind schedule here... trying to breath through the feral sweltering heat this month. The garden is probably questioning my absence as I find the heat horribly smothering, and sucks the energy out of me quite easily. So my hermit-like days have spurred me to start on multiple journals.. not going to have strict rules of when entries are made. Ive also dabbled in a bit of decluttering and started on the interior painting. It will be a slow progress but Im reteaching myself to go with the flow and trust the Universe. So I'm trying to slow things down a bit this year. Can't wait for your next video!
I know what you´ve felt meeting this homeless man. These hard times make lots of people live in so vulnerable situations everyday and it hurts so deep... Doing what we can is all we can do, isn´t it? No matter how small it is in the global situation. In my self experience I know that to be considered and treated as the living being we are makes a huge difference in a day, even though all problems are still there. Love and warm hugs for your chilly winter, Wendy! We have all heat here in the southern hemisphere now, so I´m sending you some to you there ❤🌞🦉