The Free Will Myth

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 21 พ.ย. 2024
  • As I have journeyed through my time of standing for marriage restoration I have learned so much! My heart's desire is to share those lessons the Lord has taught me with you. My hope is that you will feel encouraged and grow in your faith as you continue your stand and know that you are not alone. God's ways are always the best ways and may His perfect will be your portion.
    Blessings!
    Jamie

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  • @larrygauljr
    @larrygauljr 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Yes, please lord work on my heart, so my wife has something to come back too. Praise god!

  • @naenaehuggins1726
    @naenaehuggins1726 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Excellent word....I'm standing for reconciliation/restoration. Our GOD IS ABLE!🎉

  • @AndreBundles30
    @AndreBundles30 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    Please lord i pray that you give my wife a new heart full with love and take away all the hate and Pain please save my marriage and my family please bring my kids and family back home lord please 🙏🏼

    • @ryanr6607
      @ryanr6607 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      🙏🏼

    • @alivingstone4Him
      @alivingstone4Him 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Yes LORD! Do what only what You can do for this marriage and family! Great are You LORD! Restore and Bless this family with Your goodness and grace ! In Jesus mighty name! Amen.
      Shalom Shalom to you.

    • @AndreBundles30
      @AndreBundles30 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ryanr6607 thank you that means a lot 🙏🏼💙

    • @AndreBundles30
      @AndreBundles30 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@alivingstone4Him thank you 🙏🏼💙

    • @alivingstone4Him
      @alivingstone4Him 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@AndreBundles30 - you are very welcome. it is my pleasure to pray for you my dear brother. - Matthew 7:7-8

  • @evareister9500
    @evareister9500 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    My wife left 5 years ago and alienated me from my adult children after the death of her sister. I pressed into God and know I'm to stand. It's not easy and I miss my children more than ever

    • @taneyat6_33
      @taneyat6_33 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ❤ 🙏

    • @roadtorestoration5371
      @roadtorestoration5371  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      No standing is not easy! Only through the strength of Jesus can we do it. Rely upon Him!

    • @alivingstone4Him
      @alivingstone4Him 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Father God intervene in Your sons life with his children and wife. What Satan meant for evil please turn it for good asap! Give him hope as he waits and faith. Bless him. In Jesus mighty name! Amen and Amen!
      Psalm 27:13-14

  • @evmikewilliams9021
    @evmikewilliams9021 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Yes Thankyou Jamie.
    So far 5 years that God has been working on me. My heart has completely changed towards Him and towards my prodigal wife, including offloading of habitual sin in me.
    2 years after my wife left I came to realise that I loved God and my wife even more intensely and that is without her being there. That is part of what God did within me.
    Regarding free will, the Holy Spirit showed that free will is from the heart and it is the heart that God changes. To say that the creator of the universe can't change his children's hearts, is ridiculous, very limiting beliefs

    • @roadtorestoration5371
      @roadtorestoration5371  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yes it’s amazing to see how God uses these trials to change us! And yes changing a man’s heart is easy for Him!!

  • @sharons.johnson1924
    @sharons.johnson1924 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Great message. Lord change our hearts and minds so that we are ready for restoration.

  • @Joshua-z6s
    @Joshua-z6s 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    God please bring my wife and I healing, strength, and restoration in our marriage. Please Lord change both of our hearts and please Lord bring our family back together with your Love and perfect will. ❤🙏✝️

  • @DanelleOlson-d7w
    @DanelleOlson-d7w 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Thank you for your insight, Jamie! I’ve been divorced close to 2 years and she has remarried. (Her wedding to her second husband occurred in December of 2023.) I made many mistakes in our marriage and ended up pushing her out of the relationship.
    My oldest daughter truly believes that I have under gone a heart change because of Jesus, and I still believe that the woman I married is my covenant spouse. I love her dearly, but admittedly, I don’t know what God’s plan is for our future, especially since she is now married to another person.
    I am thankful that you are challenging us to do good and show compassion not primarily to convince our spouse to return to the marriage, but for the sake of honoring Jesus. The challenge of course is that we sometimes fall into such great despair over the loss of our spouse that we forget that only Jesus can truly draw our spouse back to himself (and us) and restore the marital relationship. Still, I appreciate your emphasis on how we need to BECOME the spouse that Jesus intended us to be all along, for if they do decide to return, the second marriage will look COMPLETELY different than the first one did because we have now truly decided to put Jesus at the center of the relationship.
    Thank you as always for your encouragement! 😊😊😊

    • @Abat-f6r
      @Abat-f6r 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Does the Sovereign Lord ever reject Israel when they repent and return?
      Marriage is Almighty God's covenant, reflecting Christ Jesus and His church.
      Does the Bride of Christ (the church) lose its stature and worthiness of Christ Jesus's love?
      Unconditional love has no qualifying degrees.
      When the prodigal son repented, did he forfeit his sonship?
      The proof is that in the Old Testament, adulterers were stoned, not divorced.
      1 Corinthians 7:10-11
      To the married I give this charge (not I, but the Lord):
      the wife should not separate from her husband
      (But if she does, she should remain unmarried or else be reconciled to her husband),
      and the husband should not divorce his wife.
      Clearly, spouses do not lose their marital status.
      If the wife must be reconciled, then the husband must accept her as the wife..
      Marriage is God's Will to reflect His Glory.
      Be encouraged and stand for your covenant wife.
      She is bone of your bone and flesh of your flesh.
      Therefore, ask Almighty God to remove the stench of divorce and abomination of adultery from your life and circumstance Amen.

    • @roadtorestoration5371
      @roadtorestoration5371  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Keep your eyes on Jesus! It may take time but he is faithful and can restore you even if she’s repaired. There are lots of testimonies of second marriages falling apart and then spouses returning. Work on yourself during this time so that when god turns her heart toward home you are that new man for God’s glory!

    • @DanelleOlson-d7w
      @DanelleOlson-d7w 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Abat-f6r Thank you so much for encouraging me to continue standing for my spouse who has chosen to leave our marriage. I agree with you that marriage is a sacred covenant; I am still married to her in the eyes of God, regardless of what the divorce papers say.
      I also very much agree with you that God always accepted Israel whenever she turned from her adulterous ways and turned back to him. This is the same posture that I want to take towards my wife, although of course it is only God who can convict her, reconcile her back to himself, and restore our marriage.
      Thank you again for the encouragement. I’ve been looking for confirmation that I should remain standing and keep the door of reconciliation open, and your comments have helped to reinforce the fact that, yes, this is what I need to do. 😊

    • @DanelleOlson-d7w
      @DanelleOlson-d7w 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@roadtorestoration5371 Hi Again, Jamie! You are so encouraging, and your words have helped to confirm that neither my former spouse nor my marriage is beyond God’s ability to restore.
      I also appreciate how you speak of free will…. The idea of how “a man plans his steps”, but this in no way means that God cannot influence and change their hearts so that they decide to return to Him and their former spouse. To add to that, I really like how you emphasize that, as the standing spouse, it is OUR job that our hearts are in the right place with God, so that when God does direct our wayward spouses home, we are ready to receive them and begin a “new” marriage with them. 😊
      Thank you one more time for your encouragement. With Jesus’ help, I will continue to hold the door of reconciliation open. 😊

  • @HildaMcDonald-e6f
    @HildaMcDonald-e6f 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Hi Jamie you are beautiful inside and out. Your videos have helped me in many ways
    I’ve been divorced now 15 years
    There was much abuse mainly verbal but also in all forms
    I’ve asked the lord to help me forgive and he is Faithfull . I’ve forgiven
    The enemy comes to kill steal and destroy
    God I do believe is restoring my marriage. I am doing my best to let God do the work in us to reunite us
    God has shown me that we made a covenant with him. I see my husband seeking God
    So much has been happening . I am seeing change on the front end but for myself I am not fully there yet
    I’ve asked God to work in my heart too and to help me get there. He told me to
    Not let my heart be troubled For he is the one who parts the waters
    I have been praying for Roy’s heart to be changed 🙏.

  • @RAE10182504
    @RAE10182504 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Amen. I pray in the mighty name of Jesus you're husband comes home to me.

  • @asamusicdude
    @asamusicdude 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Praise God for revealing His Will!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @annielumpkins7840
    @annielumpkins7840 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So good! Thank you. Please pray for my marriage

  • @goodvibez693
    @goodvibez693 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Brothers and sisters, please pray for double restoration with me and Meagan's relationship and that this time it all works out and propers giving God the glory! In the name of Jesus Christ! Thank you!

  • @tochioriuwa
    @tochioriuwa 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks for the message and prayers. Remain blessed

  • @latanyariley1109
    @latanyariley1109 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you so much.

  • @fmvel8920
    @fmvel8920 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank u Jesus for restoration of our marriage…

  • @kingdomside6438
    @kingdomside6438 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    the conformation i needed.

  • @dilligaff1979
    @dilligaff1979 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    "Amen"

  • @talexander2302
    @talexander2302 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    God can do ANYTHING he wants he is GOD, he gives us FREE WILL so that our love for him is genuine just like we as humans desire genuine love but sometimes we try to force others to love us

    • @jtbtdlkt2012
      @jtbtdlkt2012 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That sounds great on the surface but you've unintentionally placed free will above God and His decree, even His free will.
      Don't you agree that God's love and presence is so powerful that if/when He places that love on an individual sinner and calls them by name, they can do nothing BUT LOVE Him? "We love because He first loved us" (we/us believers, not the world in general)

  • @tracyhamilton8439
    @tracyhamilton8439 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

  • @ItsJustSherirea
    @ItsJustSherirea 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you Jesus I know that this video is not a coincidence. I know that you are speaking through your daughter to restore my relationship with the father of my children Lord please take out any bitterness in my heart, anger, hurt, heart posture, harm and mental distress from parenting alone and my lack of faith in you or any manipulation to get my family back. I pray he heals from his severe porn addiction, bitterness, anger, trauma, unbelief, narcissism, heart posture, depression and anxiety E.T.C. so that we can be used for the glory of your Kingdom. I pray he comes to know you change his heart Lord and may we come home to each other new bodies in Christ. In Jesus name Amen thank you Lord thank you Lord.

  • @alivingstone4Him
    @alivingstone4Him 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Amen! I continue to pray that God would turn his heart to me and for others too. It’s a powerful prayer.
    What are you thoughts on letting the spouse know you want to be with them? Do you think it’s wise or it’s getting in Gods way? Part of me says tell him and another part says leave it with God. Any counsel and wisdom from you would be appreciated.
    Thank-you sister.
    God bless you !

    • @roadtorestoration5371
      @roadtorestoration5371  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Hello. As with anything ask the Lord and let him lead you on this. I have let my husband know.

    • @alivingstone4Him
      @alivingstone4Him 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@roadtorestoration5371 - Hi sister. Yes, I have been... thank-you! I pray he comes back to you. He is missing out on such a beautiful godly woman. Does he know you have this channel? Restore this marriage, O God. Not by might nor by power but by Thy Spirit, saith the LORD of host. Bless my sister who is living to honor You above all. Thank-You Jesus. My heart breaks for all the broken marriages and the pain standers are going through. LORD please intervene and restore all that has been lost and bring beauty from the ashes ! With You all things are possible therefore we have hope! Amen and Amen. Blessings dear sister.

  • @ryanr6607
    @ryanr6607 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Please pray for my wife Kayla and I for change of heart and to lead us back together

  • @JIMMIESOUTHERN-i8d
    @JIMMIESOUTHERN-i8d 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    The BIBLE also says when a man hardens his heart he will eventually give him up to a retrobate heart so even though GOD is longsuffering he will eventually give up on people.

  • @akosfellner5061
    @akosfellner5061 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yes, indeed. The myth of free will comes from French, German, and British Enlightenment from the 18th century. Rousseau, Voltaire, Descartes, Hobbes, Hume, Kant, and Adam Smith founded the conception of free will. This myth is living throughout the 20th and 21st centuries in woke culture, feminism, political liberalism, and LMBTQ ideologies. You have the power to decide how you feel, act, desire, manage your speech, money, sexual identity. In better cases, they say your freedom is bounded by other's.
    Yes, these conceptions of personal freedom are false. Not the freedom, but the delusion of freedom. Every freedom without God is necessary delusional. The mankind is not able to befree themselves. All dark sides of all revolutions (industrial, Bolsevic, or French) point to this in history.