I also married at 19, had a baby at 20, still married to the same man for 24 years, and have had 4 children together. I am also a stay at home mother... And I LOVE it.
If you think being a housewife is not working, you're probably in your puberty, getting served by everyone... It's a lot of work, I can tell you as much, because that's what my wife does every day. I ensure we have money.
YES!!! I'm a stay at home wife and mother. I'm very comfy with my husband's masculinity!! Traditional values need to come back yesterday... I'm a woman and I approve this message!!😁
Hell nah lol you contribute 0 financial support and live off your husband what are you going to do if he were to leave you you sound just like my aunt who is a stay at home mom forget traditions go get ya ass a job and be useful instead of being so goddamn basic and useless I DO NOT approve this message
@@boolintony3072 really? I could see your point if money was an issue and they were about to lose the house, but I’m gonna go out on a limb and say that’s probably not the problem here. She’s taking care of the house and the kids. That’s traditional wife and mother material. That’s great. And it ain’t basic anymore. It’s rare.
I held a door open and a BW told me she could open her own door. I almost wanted her to walk through again so I could fling it back on her and ask her if she got it. But that would only cheapen my character. I did note that the person who walked through the door ahead of her, AND WHO SAID THANK YOU, was a MAN.
Freaking crazy, anyone would deny something like that. I'm a gentleman and always open the door for people in general. I don't usually get the " it's okay I can open the door for myself speech" everyone seems to be grateful and happy that I did so for them. I dunno i like making people feel like they matter. The world is filled with depression and negativity. Offering a hey how are u doing, or a smile, and a help through the door may make someone a bit happier. Nothing wrong with giving people a feeling that they mattered enough that stranger wanted to help them through the door. Ladies like this just kill the general point of selflessness. I've heard some women on social media use the argument that the reason we do that for women is because we want to get into their pants. Like seriously get over urselves and take a damn step through the door , princess. 😒
I got the same once before at the gym. Well the scenario repeated itself and the second time around I let the door go and she was shocked I did that which is quite ironic. She looked at me in disgust and rolled her eyes. Damned if u do or don't
SAME. I had some bitch give me attitude and caused a bit of a scene for opening the door for them. Kept preaching this IM AN INDEPENDENT WOMAN bullshit. Fucking annoying
I have yet to have a woman yell at me for holding the door open for her. My response would be simple, though: if you want to be mad at someone for me opening the door for you, be mad at my mother, a woman, for it was she that taught me my manners.
It really just shows their own character. If someone does something nice for you… you say thank you. Maybe give ‘em a little smile. If I know someone is gonna get to the door right after me, I’ll hold the door for them regardless of sex.
The problem with many women with the mindset that deters men away from them is: *"I can do anything a man can do. I don't need no man"* My question to those types of women. Is this: "Why do you have this obessessive need to prove to yourself, the world and men in general that we are an *option* in your minds, a.k.a., why do you view us as your competitors?" Men don't want rivals. Men don't want a woman who has to prove she's our equal or superior in all avenues of life. We don't care about who is better. We want someone to *HELP* us, be our support, be our motivation, to be our Peace. We want a woman to handle the things we ourselves, can't do at all or very well. We don't want a woman to rival us. UT makes no damn sense. Imagine, if you will, you're working on a team project for school. It needs a research paper and a diorama to pass. In order to finish the project at a reasonable time, one would work on the research paper, the other, the diorama. If we're *BOTH* working on the research paper, the diorama won't get finished properly. If were both trying to do what the other does while comparing a d competiting about who does the most work, we're *HURTING* each other, not helping each other. We're not supposed to be your competition, it's supposed to be "cooperation". Do what I can't, and I'll do what you can't. A team doesnt win by trying to outdo each other.
There nothing that makes me happier then knowing my husband is taken care of. That means I’m doing my job. I like to be home to cook, clean, take care of our kids. On the other hand I can get my ass up and work if I know we need that extra income and to help him not stress. Oh and this “toxic masculinity” is only toxic when it doesn’t suit the females needs. Get it together ladies.
I was a stay at home mom, for years! My hubs was in the Navy. I felt our kids needed 1 parent to count on 100% of the time. I cooked, cleaned, & had food cooked & ready to eat. That was ,to me, my favorite thing in the world. I still cook, but, my daughter 23, & my husband also, will cook. Once we got out of the Navy, and the kids were out of school, I went back to work.I enjoyed being home for my family, but now we need the extra income, even though my hubs volunteered to work an extra job on the weekends. I said “No way!” I was told they need their mom… They need both parents, finally! It’s the best when the whole family helps out! I love AND enjoy doing these bits of love 💕!
I asked this girl out and we went to the movies. We get there and I paid for our tickets cuz I ASKED her out. She got mad af!! She told she had her own money blah blah blah. Well we watched the movie and she got dinner. Never went out with her again. That was just weird to me and I didn’t mean to “offend” her
I hatee woman like this, because if you have a nice gesture like holding a door they act all over the place "I can hold a door" ohh but when they get some 💩, they expect from a man to interfere "No... If I open a door and you didn't say even thank you what make you believe Im going to take a bullet or 👊 for you, nope" and I have witness this.
When I lived in an apt complex my boys were young. When they were outside and saw a lady needing help they would help. I had people in the complex I didn’t know come up to me and say I’m doing a great job with my boys because of how the would help the women and elderly in the complex. I always tell my boys treat a woman and your elders the same way you want a man or person to treat me.
That’s altruism right there. The sad thing is men are wired to want to do these things, they want to help out and feel useful, but when they keep getting shunned since childhood it shuts them off.
I still don't believe any of them mean a single word they're saying and that they're not just saying it for some selfish agenda. In all my experience that's primarily the reality of it.
The feminist movement was actually originally started to make life more fair for both women and men, unfortunately in recent times its become the opposite
You know what REALLY ruined men and women and relationships? 🤔 It isn't feminism.. it's not toxic masculinity... It isn't misogyny or women empowerment movements... It was technology. Technology and social media and even a bit of mainstream media has all but eliminated traditionalism and gender roles in society. And I'm really starting to realize that's where it started in modern times or at least what made it a thousand times worse. We gotta stop blaming each other and start spending more time with each other. Put the devices down and turn off the TV and go out into the real world and interact! And the pandemmy ain't making nothing ANY better out here. Want something to blame? Blame technology and social media and mainstream media.
You can't seriously be blaming technology... It's like blaming nuclear technology for world wars or knives for people stabbing each other somewhere. That's stupid. Technology, just like knives and nuclear reactors, are just tools. Whether you use it for the good or evil, is up for everyone using it to decide.
@@igordasunddas3377 if you don't get it that's not my fault 🤷🏾♀️ use your thinking abilities and try hard to understand the reasoning along with reading what's there and try to use comprehension skills. If you still don't get it... STILL not my fault 🤷🏾♀️
I’ve had a girl snap at me for opening the door. After that we had our date at a nice slightly expensive restaurant and before desert was served I was driving home by myself and left her there
@@biancamartinez7717 that's like small percentage, most men wanna be there for their kids but the mothers are so petty that they use kids as ammunition. Are you not gonna point those women out it always men this and men that. When are you gonna,start holding women accountable for this?
@@yamikun3730 i am asking a question i seen the lies and women hurt men i seen shit you wont even know but you is assuming and thats unsmart move cause you dont know me if you do so much then tell me what i seen i was there when they never had good relationships i was the one to tell them happiness is better then deal with bs so tell me again because i know its a small percentage but thanks for assuming.
@@yamikun3730 tell me how you think you know me cause i will never be those nasty women cause i seen the worst out pf women then men so be real with your self and stop fuckin assuming me cause you dont know shit if you do then speak other then answer also how you think i am like those women hmm. Answer
My aunt lost her leg in an accident, and she still be the main one throwing down in the kitchen! She gets so much joy from cooking for her family, and bringing them together at a dinner table and our family is big. We be standing up and eating around her table, smiling and laughing. Do women these days not know how empowering that is? To bring your family together and put smiles on there faces, nourish them with a good meal, and share some laughs?
I love being a SAHM/W , I don't get what's wrong with it. If what we do makes us happy leave us alone. I enjoy my life, I also got married at 19 had my first baby at 21 had my second son a little later ( had multiple losses in-between) but it makes me happy and brings me joy knowing that my family is happy and seeing all of my boys smile and being able to be the one who raised my children and having a wonderful strong man to help me along the way. Like the old saying goes misery loves company and it's always the miserable ones who will try to knock the traditional women.
Not trying to come at you genuine question… if something tragic were to happen and your husband died. What would you do? Do you know how to do anything? I’m trying not to assume but my cousin felt traditional until her husband died in a car crash. Took her a while to work herself back up. She had to move in with us. I practically raised her son for a year because she was too busy. She’s on her way to buying the local Rita’s. Of course she didn’t have that planned I’m just saying. It’s always good to have a backup plan.
@@zorrakas320 yes before I got married and had children I did go to school to become a paramedic and when we first moved in with each other we split all the bills . I was raised to always have a Rainey day fund we also both have life insurance just in case. You never know what life will bring you and you always have to be prepared
That last video warmed my heart that it made me wanna cry…seriously. Women attacking stay at home moms…what a stupid and sad thing. Thankyou for shining light on this video! It’s okay to be a stay at home mom if it makes you personally happy. I’m glad she stood up for herself and said stay mad…yeah…tell those people who can’t live up to their own standards to stay mad. I really liked the one clip when one of the women had said that we don’t have to compete with men because we aren’t tryna be men. You mean to tell me it’s okay to be a woman and we can stay in our lane????? 👀🤯…who knew?😂 This whole entire video though was fire!🔥🔥🔥🔥 Lets go!!!! Woooooo!
I been with my husband sence freshman year in high school got pregnant at 18 engaged at 19 married at 21 had our second kid at 22 and or3rd kid at 26 been married going on 7 years trying for another baby and I’m a stay at home mom and I love it it feels amazing
I hate cooking and cleaning but love to work, yet... The satisfaction I get from work DOES NOT compare to the satisfaction I get from feeding and caring for my husband and 2 sons. I can't explain it, I don't understand it, but it is what it is! Also, any women bitching about their beta hubby or bf, THATS YOUR FAULT! With a good women, any beta will easily transform into an alpha. It's the truth. Us woman have a lot of power and a women can turn an alpha to a beta or a beta to an alpha.
I love your energy, and you’re so right. Not just women probably, but everyone can really inspire their partners to be their best selves. There’s a reason “you bring out the best in me” is a huge saying. It’s really true and very valuable
@Big Homie Steve The Metal Head never insult a man's masculinity and ask him for help, encourage the positive masculine actions. Reinforce the women/man stereotypes. This doesn't mean submit, it means to thank him for shoveling the drive and fixing a leak in the plumbing. When he struggles with wrapping a present, just giggle and tell him it's a girl thing, etc
Stay at home wife/mother homeschooling our children. Married 12 years. I was raised in a single mother home and taught to be independent & don’t need a man attitude. I’m glad I realized that’s not the life I wanted while I was still young.
Maybe I was raised different then alot of women, I grew up in a small town. The man is a protector and provider. The woman is the nurturer and juggler. Now I will say I enjoy making money. I make money on the side. I am a stay at home mom of *5 BOYS* and I see nothing wrong with the husband taking "the head of household". Best believe I have a say in whatever and my husband always tells me I can do whatever, buy whatever but I like to do for him and the kids. I literally wake up, get the kids to school and take care of the baby and think of how I am going to decorate the home even more LMAO. Life is hard 😄
My mom and dad were pregnant at 18 when they graduated high school, married at 19, and still married to this day 50 years later. My mom only ever wanted to be a Stay at home Mother, working wasn't her thing cause she always loved kids so my dad worked 12 hours a day while my mom stayed at home and took care of the house and she was her happiest being a stay at home mother taking care of her man and her kids. Traditional values are what I saw growing up, so its only natural thats what I seek from a woman.
Love the video , I'm a stay at home mother and wife ....my husband and my kids wake up to a hot breakfast and come home to a hot dinner house cleaned and laundry done I love my job I was raised by my grandmother she worked to please her husband he brought in everything the family needs so you could say I learned from the best!!!!...before I hear shit yes I did go to school I have a degree and when the time is right I will continue my career
I enjoy keeping a clean and orderly place for my man. I am disabled and finding it hard to get a job. Even when I could work, I found time to be sure my man ate, and had clean clothes. Folding laundry is very calming.
I believe in traditional male/female roles. Man works and provides. Woman takes care of house, man and children. It’s how I was raised. I’m in my 40’s. And I’ve been saying for a good 20 years children are raised better with the traditional family roles. If you look back at how it was 40,50,60 + years ago and society was raised the way I was people turned out different as adults. Had manners, morals and respect. BUT in today’s economics most families can’t afford for a woman to be a stay home wife/mom. So kids are raising themselves and no one is teaching them the hardcore values. Women had to start working to provide so then they got a big ego and became feminist
@@khalaq2 At the same time, I understand how some people don’t want to lower their quality of living to be able to raise kids on one income. But for real though, why do so many modern couples not put their money together to be able to build an awesome life together? Im not talking about mixing finances and bank accounts, which is especially bad if y’all divorce, but it seems more often than not, people aren’t building their empires together… Imagine a man and woman both earning $100k a year, putting their money together? They could live in such a nice home and live a nice life… they’re more than capable of such. I want to find a woman to build with, we can have so much fun, but instead it seems like people are more focused on being bitter to each other and figuring out who pays for a date… Despicable
@@Ryan-cb1ei Sometimes, it seems that we have entire generations of people who are spoiled. I grew up dirt poor, and we were fine. My cousins were "middle class," and they were fine. Even later in life, when our families could afford to buy whatever we wanted, we did not live extravagant lifestyles. The idea that there needs to be a 4K television in every room, a car for every person old enough to drive, and the latest smart phone for your seven year-old, all of that is foreign to me. There are people in America who blow enough money on one dinner out to feed an entire family of four for a month and they complain that they don't have enough money. Duh. When you throw your money away on an extravagant lifestyle, you will never have enough of it for important things. Money is not the problem. Uncontrolled spending is the problem, and the root of that is an unbridled love of luxury and ease. No matter how many societies have been destroyed by decadence and hedonism, people never learn the lesson.
6:45 Absolutely. I have had women snap at me for holding a door open. But never a date. I think I would end it right there. Sorry,not what I was looking for, you have yourself a nice life. Hell, IF I were dating, and I hope to hell never to be again, I might use this as a litmus test. Happily married for more than 15 years here. But young men....take heed! Faminist hate women. It took me a while to see it. But Feminist women have lost faith in femininity and hate any woman that shows those traits. It's..bizarre....
I love how masculine and chivalrous my husband is. I cook his meals, and love on him. I still work, but I take care of our home. My husband takes care of the yard and repairs, he holds my doors for me all the time, the only thing masculine I do is the work on the cars because I used to be a mechanic so it's easier. I love my husband doing the manly things even though I can, it's amazing to not have the weight on me for everything. I love how he treats me because I respect him as a man. I hate feminism. I would give anything to be a stay at home mom. I'd love to spend my life raising my kid, and caring for my husband. But we don't have that option financially we need two incomes. I work from home which is the closest we can do. It's amazing. I was raised seeing my grandmother care for my grandpa they were together from the time my grandma was 14 till the day my grandpa died. My sons grandparents are the same way. They have been together since high-school and are still together to this day. It's amazing.
So I got married the day before I turned 19. I had my first child at 16(by a guy that never tried to be in my eldest sons life) and my second at 19. I’m 32 and have been married 13 years now. I’m a housewife/homemaker and have never had to work bc my husband didn’t think it necessary. I know that there’s many women who work their ass off, they’re single moms and would love to have a man that would provide for them while they could stay home.. so the fact that so many feminists nowadays demean and degrade women who are more traditional is astonishing to me bc I feel truly blessed to live the life I do. I have had the time to learn many different skills and hobbies and even learned herbalism to become a healer. I wouldn’t have had the time to do any of that if I had to work a full time job on top of everything else I do. We have 14 acres in the Appalachians and have almost 20 different animals... so that’s a job within itself, looking after it all.
I 2nd.. that motion I'm a feminine woman. I had my dad in my life whole soul. These feminist woman need to go sit they tail down. They don't speak for me I adore men and respect them Period....there bitter ignorant they make no sense.
I used to be a career woman until I had my son, I love being at home with my son and taking care of my husband. I have a medical degree and had women be nasty to me saying that I took someone else’s position that someone else could have went to medical school in my place even though that doesn’t make sense because anyone can get into medical schools. I always thought I would have put my career first until I had a successful pregnancy.
Fuck them people you won your position in university why does ur future choices affect anything. There’s loads of people who do humanities degrees and work at Starbucks 😂
Ignore those women. The funny thing about feminism as of modern day is the idea to uplift women, but will put women down who aren't working in occupation as if its what u "Have" to do to be a successful woman. The idea behind all of this that they leave out, is that women have that choice. That is the most important detail that they miss. They are not in constraints to be a career woman or to be a mother. They choose whatever they want. That is the biggest power that they overlook about the present day woman.
I've heard one feminist quoted as saying "we should encourage women to be anything they want to be, EXCEPT a housewife." 🤷 I don't understand why this is a problem. Of course, I'm a guy, so that might be why I don't understand.
@@donaldlayton437 Because they see housewife as this “role” that is holding back women moving forward in society. I respect the shit out of house wives who take care of their families. It’s not easy.
Ignore them. If you want to be a stay at home mum do it. If you want to be a mum that spends most time with the kids but chooses to take a part time job, do it. If you choose to work full time, do it. You do what works for you and your husband/partner and what is best for your family unit.
I was introduced to my husband when I was 22 john was 24 the best thing that ever happened was meeting him. He expected me and my son. Who 2 years old. My husband open doors for me would pull out my chair 🙂 .when I meet my husband for the first time I knew he would be my husband one day. And August 9 1989 we were married. He was my everything my best friend.i lost him in 2020 he had a bad ❤️ heart. When john 💕 passed away we were married 28 years. He was truly amazing I miss him so much 🥰.. I really don't think I will find another one like him he was one in a million.just saying.
Touchy subject. I am gen x and grew up suppressing my feelings and just suck it up. I also grew up wanting to spoil my gfs and wanting to take care of them (financially and physically). I do see issues with “toxic masculinity”. I have certainly gotten into physical fights with other men because I was pissed off at life and needed someone to take it out on (when I was younger). This is likely due to suppressing my anger rather than dealing with it. I also let this affect relationships with women, only it was verbal altercations with them. I didn’t want to argue…but if I had a bad day and was getting grilled about some stupid shit like why I took too long to take the trash out…then I might start an argument. I do think we can do better by finding better ways to release and deal with our anger…without emasculating ourselves. I don’t see men and women as equals…because we’re not. Men are stronger and motivated by success and achievement and women are more caring and thoughtful and are superior to men in many ways. But I am tired of hearing that we’re equal. We are different. There is nothing wrong with that. Neither is better or worse…just different.
Being different is what makes us stronger. Life is about balance and we all should be appreciating our differences instead of focusing on it like a bad thing. We’re “equals” only because we are humans. Everyone should expect to bring something to the table of society, but we all don’t have to bring the bacon.
I’m a submissive woman to my man. I love it!❤️ He’s the head of the household and traditional values are instilled. Many females believe submission means being a “slave.” That’s completely inaccurate.
8:50 To let people know: The food is usually done BEFORE that particular buzzer goes off! Just glad it was only steam and not fire, though! 😂 Tip: If your food, or if you still use an older model of stove without the glass cover, catches fire, dump salt on it. I'm not kidding. The salt absorbs the oxygen feeding the fire, and smothers it. Do this if you don't have a fire extinguisher. Also, remember to cut off the stove as soon as the fire is out! 😌
I'm morbidly obese and ugly but don't hate men at all!!! I respect them!!!! My boyfriend had women that would get bad for him doing things like pulling out a chair and etc!!!! I'm the complete opposite and wouldn't even mind if he was nice enough to do it for another female!!!! It's really sad you can't do something nice for someone with out them thinking you're flirting or they don't need your help!!!!
@@honks9484 if you're judging me by my looks than you're what's wrong with society. At least my profile pic is a real pic of myself and not a pic of something else. I don't pretend to be someone I'm not. Remember the saying never judge a book by it's cover. You need to go by that. The person I am on the inside no one can beat. Not even Gorgeous women.
I'm a happy 31 year old mother of 3. My eldest child I had at 15. 16 years later I'm still with their father. I hate when people stereotype teenage mother's.... I'm very traditional and old school I guess.
What's good kid love your content, im happily married 9 years now six kiddos, we've had some up's and downs but more up's than downs, we're in love with one another and love each other, no marriage nor relationship will ever be perfect, it takes time to learn your partner but it doesn't take five to ten years to commit and marry someone, it you're still trying to learn that person that amount of time you're either distracted or just not paying attention, Don't waste anyone's time let them know in the first year or two its not working out time to move on whether its man/woman. Be good everyone God bless God is Love
So glad I didn't pause the video when the smoke alarm went off. I was getting up to find out what was going on because I'm in a loud room and then you said something about it.
Idk why but my wife LOVE cooking food for me. And it makes her day when I tell her the food was good. Ohh she gets so much joy from making me food. Pleasing a man is so simple. Food, balls empty and house clean. That’s all. We men are so simple.
I remember watching the parking lot as I was going in a store. There was an elderly couple nearby, a single middle aged lady a bit further away, and a single elderly lady further back. I held the door for them all, and got thanks from the couple, then berrated for sexism from the other lady until the single lady (the superhero) arrived thanking me loudly. What still makes me shake my head is that the middle aged lady still walked into the open door.... The hypocracy.
Men get a remember and realize, the moment a woman starts doing things that we don’t like, we have all the power in the world in the date right then And there. If she gets nasty about being asked to pay the tip, tour dates over you don’t want to see her again and walk. If she gives you an attitude because you try to be the German you were raised to be an open doors and pull out chairs, and the date right then and there. She’s a waste of your time anyways.
Just got to say not all long term marriages started young my grandparents met & married at 49 they stayed together till my grandpa passed away in 2019, after being together for 40yrs. Not common but can still happen
Beep beep fire... Honey.... Dinner is done before that particular timer goes off. My 4 yr old daughter used to run around " Mommy cook-n ! Mommy cook-n ! 🤣 No, I didn't teach her that. She got better over time. But it took the woman an hr to burn water.
I like cooking and cleaning, I think it's a basic life skill we all should have because we all need to be clean anyway and everyone needs to eat, I don't like washing clothes but I know I need clean clothes so I do it anyways
A a teenager I always wanted a traditional home but I had mental problems that stemmed into my adult years that has made that almost impossible to achieve. I still want a traditional home but thats looking less likely as I get older and older. I really am happy that some women out there get to have it though. So very happy for them 😊
Mum hated having to go to work, anytime she was ever asked she always said she wished she could go back to being at home looking after the house & food.
The last woman on this segment. Talking about how she got married at 18. Had a first child at by 19. Etc… And she’s happy because she knows what she wants. She the type of woman would be married for 50,60 plus. Most woman really are looking for something like that.They wonder how can they find a man like that. But she gets criticized for just be a traditional woman.
Makes me think...the people who are treated worst in society, tend to be the most embittered. Women valued for their looks. If a woman is unattractive by societal standards, she's probably gonna be unhappy. Men valued for height and money. Short and/or lower income men tend to be more unhappy...including many these threads. I mean, none of this stuff is complicated. The real question is, where are y'all gonna go from here? Each side seems determined to shame the other in to submission...and it has devolved in to a Cold War the USA and USSR would be envious of. What's the end game?
I’ve held the door open for lesbians (guy dressing ones) a few times and never got snapped at or looked at strange and was even complimented by an older gentleman that told me “ good job young man, she’s still a woman”
Traditional marriage here! 18 years on August 25! I stayed home, raised our babies, cooked his meals, washed the laundry, I did everything my amazing grandmother did for her family. And they lasted 68 years, until he passed at 97, she at almost 107. I used that blueprint. Found a protector and provider. Now that our last son is off to school, I work a part-time job as supplemental income. He's still the primary breadwinner, working hard to provide as an electrician. But I refuse to be a party to "feminism," because it's about female superiority, NOT equality.
I find it so damn annoying when people say things like "I can open this door myself, and I don't need help." I just like to make people's lives easier by doing the little things. Helping them with something they are struggling with, opening doors for people, picking up something that someone else dropped, and etc. I am just trying to make people's days just a little bit better and easier. I wanna help take a load of whatever they are going through, no matter how small it is. Even though many people don't appreciate the little things I do, I still do it and it's because I want to. When people were rude to me when I was just trying to help, it made me feel like I was a horrible person. Nowadays, I just feel bad for them and their entire situation that made them think this way.
chivalry isn't dead women are trying to kill it...I'll never forget on a first date I opened the door for a woman and she said, "I'm a woman; I can open my own doors...." I replied, "....yeah but I was raised right!" I made a point to open every door for her I could and never asked her out again. at that point I was making a statement
Why? Why do you love to see another woman get roasted? 🤔 I'm not a feminist nor do I agree with their ideals, but I don't understand why you as a woman enjoy another woman roasting other women 🤔
I honestly have never seen myself as the type to stay at home with my kids, not work outside the home, and cook and clean all day. I have mad respect for several women in my life who did do that, who homeschooled, raised wonderful children, and overall have warm and caring hearts. Until I met my fiancé, I wasn’t sure if I even wanted to be spend my life with someone. Met him at 15, have known I’ve wanted to marry him since i was 17. Pushed back those plans until getting my undergrad at 23. And had to push back again to get my masters degree, going to marry him at 26 this may. (For all those who question marrying young, sometimes you know. Not always instantly, but I’ve been with him for over a decade. And I’ve grown to love him more every day.) I want to work as a school librarian, I love working with children and encouraging them to pursue their passions and learning about new things. Sometimes, just working with kids on a daily basis gives me enough pride, frustration, and joy to satisfy my urge to have my own children. Maybe I’ll have my own after I’ve been married a year or two and feel secure about my ability to support them. I am a firm believer that it matters much more what you do and how you live than any one specific achievement in life. Someone with a spouse and/or kids shouldn’t exclusively be defined by them. I want to be know for my compassion and my ability to give my best to those who depend on me.
When I go out I open doors I say please and thank you I walk a half step ahead I put myself between her and the street don't let women or men for that matter dictate the manners I was taught I don't care if that offended you or anyone else
My parents met when they worked fast food a long time ago Been married almost 40 years now. 🙏💯 It's all about respect and not messing around. If you have discipline and purpose (in their case, not wanting to be broke while getting out of their controlling households and together to build a family away from abusive families and dead end jobs) They both worked their butts off in a job until they were promoted and 10 years later after enduring good and bad times together, they have the strongest bond I've ever seen.. from only seeing my pops so often due to his deployment to Saudi in the 90s and my mom stepping up to raise me and my older sister while we waited for my pops was awesome. Even better when he got back and had two more kids; my little sisters 🙏🙏 It's all about being loyal and real. This generation is lost and I have these old school values and I can't apply it to any of these new age girls. It's all good tho. Born in the wrong decade
I noticed that most of the women saying that feminist are bad, usually come from the country or biker/rock/metal way of life! that's why I want a white woman or an semitradiditional asian woman, because they know compromise and teamwork!
I also married at 19, had a baby at 20, still married to the same man for 24 years, and have had 4 children together. I am also a stay at home mother... And I LOVE it.
Congrats, hope it continues going well for you both
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Same been with my husband since 20. We have 6 children together 20 years together
You made it in life 💯
If you think being a housewife is not working, you're probably in your puberty, getting served by everyone... It's a lot of work, I can tell you as much, because that's what my wife does every day. I ensure we have money.
Protect feminine women at all costs.
YES!!! I'm a stay at home wife and mother. I'm very comfy with my husband's masculinity!! Traditional values need to come back yesterday... I'm a woman and I approve this message!!😁
Hell nah lol you contribute 0 financial support and live off your husband what are you going to do if he were to leave you you sound just like my aunt who is a stay at home mom forget traditions go get ya ass a job and be useful instead of being so goddamn basic and useless I DO NOT approve this message
Preach woman please plus I'd say a 50/50 split could work better but a side hustle could be good just a suggestion
@@boolintony3072 you good? She's not useless tho. The house is clean, food is done and kids are cool it's fine imo
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@@boolintony3072 really? I could see your point if money was an issue and they were about to lose the house, but I’m gonna go out on a limb and say that’s probably not the problem here. She’s taking care of the house and the kids. That’s traditional wife and mother material. That’s great. And it ain’t basic anymore. It’s rare.
I held a door open and a BW told me she could open her own door. I almost wanted her to walk through again so I could fling it back on her and ask her if she got it. But that would only cheapen my character. I did note that the person who walked through the door ahead of her, AND WHO SAID THANK YOU, was a MAN.
Freaking crazy, anyone would deny something like that. I'm a gentleman and always open the door for people in general. I don't usually get the " it's okay I can open the door for myself speech" everyone seems to be grateful and happy that I did so for them. I dunno i like making people feel like they matter. The world is filled with depression and negativity. Offering a hey how are u doing, or a smile, and a help through the door may make someone a bit happier. Nothing wrong with giving people a feeling that they mattered enough that stranger wanted to help them through the door. Ladies like this just kill the general point of selflessness. I've heard some women on social media use the argument that the reason we do that for women is because we want to get into their pants. Like seriously get over urselves and take a damn step through the door , princess. 😒
I got the same once before at the gym. Well the scenario repeated itself and the second time around I let the door go and she was shocked I did that which is quite ironic. She looked at me in disgust and rolled her eyes. Damned if u do or don't
SAME. I had some bitch give me attitude and caused a bit of a scene for opening the door for them. Kept preaching this IM AN INDEPENDENT WOMAN bullshit. Fucking annoying
I have yet to have a woman yell at me for holding the door open for her. My response would be simple, though: if you want to be mad at someone for me opening the door for you, be mad at my mother, a woman, for it was she that taught me my manners.
It really just shows their own character. If someone does something nice for you… you say thank you. Maybe give ‘em a little smile.
If I know someone is gonna get to the door right after me, I’ll hold the door for them regardless of sex.
The problem with many women with the mindset that deters men away from them is: *"I can do anything a man can do. I don't need no man"*
My question to those types of women. Is this: "Why do you have this obessessive need to prove to yourself, the world and men in general that we are an *option* in your minds, a.k.a., why do you view us as your competitors?"
Men don't want rivals. Men don't want a woman who has to prove she's our equal or superior in all avenues of life. We don't care about who is better. We want someone to *HELP* us, be our support, be our motivation, to be our Peace. We want a woman to handle the things we ourselves, can't do at all or very well. We don't want a woman to rival us. UT makes no damn sense.
Imagine, if you will, you're working on a team project for school. It needs a research paper and a diorama to pass. In order to finish the project at a reasonable time, one would work on the research paper, the other, the diorama. If we're *BOTH* working on the research paper, the diorama won't get finished properly. If were both trying to do what the other does while comparing a d competiting about who does the most work, we're *HURTING* each other, not helping each other. We're not supposed to be your competition, it's supposed to be "cooperation". Do what I can't, and I'll do what you can't. A team doesnt win by trying to outdo each other.
Excellently put.
Took them to school 😂
Exactly.
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Blah blah blah… women want the same things in return from men & it doesn’t happen a lot at all….
There nothing that makes me happier then knowing my husband is taken care of. That means I’m doing my job. I like to be home to cook, clean, take care of our kids. On the other hand I can get my ass up and work if I know we need that extra income and to help him not stress. Oh and this “toxic masculinity” is only toxic when it doesn’t suit the females needs. Get it together ladies.
Not to mention day care is outrageously priced and then you have to adjust you job for holidays when they're closed and things like that
I love your comment. Amen!! You go girl
I was a stay at home mom, for years! My hubs was in the Navy. I felt our kids needed 1 parent to count on 100% of the time. I cooked, cleaned, & had food cooked & ready to eat. That was ,to me, my favorite thing in the world. I still cook, but, my daughter 23, & my husband also, will cook. Once we got out of the Navy, and the kids were out of school, I went back to work.I enjoyed being home for my family, but now we need the extra income, even though my hubs volunteered to work an extra job on the weekends. I said “No way!” I was told they need their mom… They need both parents, finally! It’s the best when the whole family helps out! I love AND enjoy doing these bits of love 💕!
What a hard life lol 😂
@@nikohunt5187 what was that comment for? And who? Regardless, it was unnecessary
I asked this girl out and we went to the movies. We get there and I paid for our tickets cuz I ASKED her out. She got mad af!! She told she had her own money blah blah blah. Well we watched the movie and she got dinner. Never went out with her again. That was just weird to me and I didn’t mean to “offend” her
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Damn that sounded good at first, but I guess no matter what if someone’s going to react like that… red flags!
I hatee woman like this, because if you have a nice gesture like holding a door they act all over the place "I can hold a door" ohh but when they get some 💩, they expect from a man to interfere "No... If I open a door and you didn't say even thank you what make you believe Im going to take a bullet or 👊 for you, nope" and I have witness this.
When I lived in an apt complex my boys were young. When they were outside and saw a lady needing help they would help. I had people in the complex I didn’t know come up to me and say I’m doing a great job with my boys because of how the would help the women and elderly in the complex. I always tell my boys treat a woman and your elders the same way you want a man or person to treat me.
That’s altruism right there. The sad thing is men are wired to want to do these things, they want to help out and feel useful, but when they keep getting shunned since childhood it shuts them off.
Bad idea nice people finish last..
This shows that there are still good women in the western culture. unfortunately they are few and far between. Definitely need more like this
How you know they from the western area?
@@biancamartinez7717 the western culture meanin this side of the world, ie, the west. Not the west coast
I still don't believe any of them mean a single word they're saying and that they're not just saying it for some selfish agenda. In all my experience that's primarily the reality of it.
The feminist movement was actually originally started to make life more fair for both women and men, unfortunately in recent times its become the opposite
You know what REALLY ruined men and women and relationships? 🤔 It isn't feminism.. it's not toxic masculinity... It isn't misogyny or women empowerment movements... It was technology. Technology and social media and even a bit of mainstream media has all but eliminated traditionalism and gender roles in society. And I'm really starting to realize that's where it started in modern times or at least what made it a thousand times worse. We gotta stop blaming each other and start spending more time with each other. Put the devices down and turn off the TV and go out into the real world and interact! And the pandemmy ain't making nothing ANY better out here. Want something to blame? Blame technology and social media and mainstream media.
You can't seriously be blaming technology... It's like blaming nuclear technology for world wars or knives for people stabbing each other somewhere. That's stupid. Technology, just like knives and nuclear reactors, are just tools. Whether you use it for the good or evil, is up for everyone using it to decide.
@@igordasunddas3377 if you don't get it that's not my fault 🤷🏾♀️ use your thinking abilities and try hard to understand the reasoning along with reading what's there and try to use comprehension skills. If you still don't get it... STILL not my fault 🤷🏾♀️
Which one? One was designed to pull black women from the civil rights movement and push Welfare.
I heard the best explanation for this. All movements that were started to help a group of people become bullies sooner or later.
I’ve had a girl snap at me for opening the door. After that we had our date at a nice slightly expensive restaurant and before desert was served I was driving home by myself and left her there
Not only feminist made soft men, also single mothers who deprived the little boys from their fathers
What about the father that never wanted to be there? Are you gonna blame the mother?
@@biancamartinez7717 that's like small percentage, most men wanna be there for their kids but the mothers are so petty that they use kids as ammunition. Are you not gonna point those women out it always men this and men that. When are you gonna,start holding women accountable for this?
@@yamikun3730 i am asking a question i seen the lies and women hurt men i seen shit you wont even know but you is assuming and thats unsmart move cause you dont know me if you do so much then tell me what i seen i was there when they never had good relationships i was the one to tell them happiness is better then deal with bs so tell me again because i know its a small percentage but thanks for assuming.
@@yamikun3730 so tell me why think a question is a whole show of someone personally when really its a question hmm
@@yamikun3730 tell me how you think you know me cause i will never be those nasty women cause i seen the worst out pf women then men so be real with your self and stop fuckin assuming me cause you dont know shit if you do then speak other then answer also how you think i am like those women hmm. Answer
Mom just passed away tonight and she would be proud of theses girls forreal
My aunt lost her leg in an accident, and she still be the main one throwing down in the kitchen! She gets so much joy from cooking for her family, and bringing them together at a dinner table and our family is big. We be standing up and eating around her table, smiling and laughing. Do women these days not know how empowering that is? To bring your family together and put smiles on there faces, nourish them with a good meal, and share some laughs?
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@@WealthFastlane87 I will be sharing this video with some of my more "rebellious" female friends. You have yourself a new subscriber good sir.
@@shadowsonshadowson3929 I will be so glad 🙏
God bless your aunt .. that's one of the faces of true happiness..❤
That’s what my ma talks about to cook for us see our smiles. She said thank you son for all that you do. I tell you I damn near cried
I love being a SAHM/W , I don't get what's wrong with it. If what we do makes us happy leave us alone. I enjoy my life, I also got married at 19 had my first baby at 21 had my second son a little later ( had multiple losses in-between) but it makes me happy and brings me joy knowing that my family is happy and seeing all of my boys smile and being able to be the one who raised my children and having a wonderful strong man to help me along the way. Like the old saying goes misery loves company and it's always the miserable ones who will try to knock the traditional women.
Not trying to come at you genuine question… if something tragic were to happen and your husband died. What would you do? Do you know how to do anything? I’m trying not to assume but my cousin felt traditional until her husband died in a car crash. Took her a while to work herself back up. She had to move in with us. I practically raised her son for a year because she was too busy. She’s on her way to buying the local Rita’s. Of course she didn’t have that planned I’m just saying. It’s always good to have a backup plan.
@@zorrakas320 yes before I got married and had children I did go to school to become a paramedic and when we first moved in with each other we split all the bills . I was raised to always have a Rainey day fund we also both have life insurance just in case. You never know what life will bring you and you always have to be prepared
I absolutely love when women tell it! Pro women anti feminist!
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That last video warmed my heart that it made me wanna cry…seriously. Women attacking stay at home moms…what a stupid and sad thing. Thankyou for shining light on this video! It’s okay to be a stay at home mom if it makes you personally happy. I’m glad she stood up for herself and said stay mad…yeah…tell those people who can’t live up to their own standards to stay mad. I really liked the one clip when one of the women had said that we don’t have to compete with men because we aren’t tryna be men. You mean to tell me it’s okay to be a woman and we can stay in our lane????? 👀🤯…who knew?😂
This whole entire video though was fire!🔥🔥🔥🔥 Lets go!!!! Woooooo!
You women you stay at home moms are precious and so needed and loved.
I been with my husband sence freshman year in high school got pregnant at 18 engaged at 19 married at 21 had our second kid at 22 and or3rd kid at 26 been married going on 7 years trying for another baby and I’m a stay at home mom and I love it it feels amazing
I hate cooking and cleaning but love to work, yet...
The satisfaction I get from work DOES NOT compare to the satisfaction I get from feeding and caring for my husband and 2 sons. I can't explain it, I don't understand it, but it is what it is!
Also, any women bitching about their beta hubby or bf, THATS YOUR FAULT! With a good women, any beta will easily transform into an alpha. It's the truth. Us woman have a lot of power and a women can turn an alpha to a beta or a beta to an alpha.
I love your energy, and you’re so right. Not just women probably, but everyone can really inspire their partners to be their best selves. There’s a reason “you bring out the best in me” is a huge saying. It’s really true and very valuable
@Big Homie Steve The Metal Head never insult a man's masculinity and ask him for help, encourage the positive masculine actions. Reinforce the women/man stereotypes. This doesn't mean submit, it means to thank him for shoveling the drive and fixing a leak in the plumbing. When he struggles with wrapping a present, just giggle and tell him it's a girl thing, etc
Stay at home wife/mother homeschooling our children. Married 12 years. I was raised in a single mother home and taught to be independent & don’t need a man attitude. I’m glad I realized that’s not the life I wanted while I was still young.
If only women are responsible for creating life and giving birth then sign those waivers for child support women. Because it's all on you.
Maybe I was raised different then alot of women, I grew up in a small town. The man is a protector and provider. The woman is the nurturer and juggler. Now I will say I enjoy making money. I make money on the side. I am a stay at home mom of *5 BOYS* and I see nothing wrong with the husband taking "the head of household". Best believe I have a say in whatever and my husband always tells me I can do whatever, buy whatever but I like to do for him and the kids.
I literally wake up, get the kids to school and take care of the baby and think of how I am going to decorate the home even more LMAO. Life is hard 😄
My mom and dad were pregnant at 18 when they graduated high school, married at 19, and still married to this day 50 years later. My mom only ever wanted to be a Stay at home Mother, working wasn't her thing cause she always loved kids so my dad worked 12 hours a day while my mom stayed at home and took care of the house and she was her happiest being a stay at home mother taking care of her man and her kids. Traditional values are what I saw growing up, so its only natural thats what I seek from a woman.
Love the video , I'm a stay at home mother and wife ....my husband and my kids wake up to a hot breakfast and come home to a hot dinner house cleaned and laundry done I love my job I was raised by my grandmother she worked to please her husband he brought in everything the family needs so you could say I learned from the best!!!!...before I hear shit yes I did go to school I have a degree and when the time is right I will continue my career
I enjoy keeping a clean and orderly place for my man. I am disabled and finding it hard to get a job. Even when I could work, I found time to be sure my man ate, and had clean clothes. Folding laundry is very calming.
Honestly, that's more than what my sister-in-law does for my brother, and he works out of town all week.
The cookie isn't worth alot ladies it's the lady that has respect for herself that is priceless I'm a man and I approve this message 👏
Had me scared with that smoke detector whewchile! I’m cooking watching this video and when I say my heart jumped!😂
I believe in traditional male/female roles. Man works and provides. Woman takes care of house, man and children. It’s how I was raised. I’m in my 40’s. And I’ve been saying for a good 20 years children are raised better with the traditional family roles. If you look back at how it was 40,50,60 + years ago and society was raised the way I was people turned out different as adults. Had manners, morals and respect. BUT in today’s economics most families can’t afford for a woman to be a stay home wife/mom. So kids are raising themselves and no one is teaching them the hardcore values. Women had to start working to provide so then they got a big ego and became feminist
I would say that most families CAN afford for a woman to stay at home, but they choose to live a more expensive lifestyle, instead.
@@khalaq2 At the same time, I understand how some people don’t want to lower their quality of living to be able to raise kids on one income. But for real though, why do so many modern couples not put their money together to be able to build an awesome life together? Im not talking about mixing finances and bank accounts, which is especially bad if y’all divorce, but it seems more often than not, people aren’t building their empires together… Imagine a man and woman both earning $100k a year, putting their money together? They could live in such a nice home and live a nice life… they’re more than capable of such. I want to find a woman to build with, we can have so much fun, but instead it seems like people are more focused on being bitter to each other and figuring out who pays for a date… Despicable
@@Ryan-cb1ei Sometimes, it seems that we have entire generations of people who are spoiled. I grew up dirt poor, and we were fine. My cousins were "middle class," and they were fine. Even later in life, when our families could afford to buy whatever we wanted, we did not live extravagant lifestyles. The idea that there needs to be a 4K television in every room, a car for every person old enough to drive, and the latest smart phone for your seven year-old, all of that is foreign to me. There are people in America who blow enough money on one dinner out to feed an entire family of four for a month and they complain that they don't have enough money. Duh. When you throw your money away on an extravagant lifestyle, you will never have enough of it for important things.
Money is not the problem. Uncontrolled spending is the problem, and the root of that is an unbridled love of luxury and ease. No matter how many societies have been destroyed by decadence and hedonism, people never learn the lesson.
6:45 Absolutely. I have had women snap at me for holding a door open. But never a date. I think I would end it right there. Sorry,not what I was looking for, you have yourself a nice life. Hell, IF I were dating, and I hope to hell never to be again, I might use this as a litmus test. Happily married for more than 15 years here. But young men....take heed!
Faminist hate women. It took me a while to see it. But Feminist women have lost faith in femininity and hate any woman that shows those traits. It's..bizarre....
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Feminist women,spot on with everything that lady said.She nailed it👏👏👏👏♥️
I love how masculine and chivalrous my husband is. I cook his meals, and love on him. I still work, but I take care of our home. My husband takes care of the yard and repairs, he holds my doors for me all the time, the only thing masculine I do is the work on the cars because I used to be a mechanic so it's easier. I love my husband doing the manly things even though I can, it's amazing to not have the weight on me for everything. I love how he treats me because I respect him as a man. I hate feminism. I would give anything to be a stay at home mom. I'd love to spend my life raising my kid, and caring for my husband. But we don't have that option financially we need two incomes. I work from home which is the closest we can do. It's amazing. I was raised seeing my grandmother care for my grandpa they were together from the time my grandma was 14 till the day my grandpa died. My sons grandparents are the same way. They have been together since high-school and are still together to this day. It's amazing.
Until laws and family court changes none of this matters.
So I got married the day before I turned 19. I had my first child at 16(by a guy that never tried to be in my eldest sons life) and my second at 19. I’m 32 and have been married 13 years now. I’m a housewife/homemaker and have never had to work bc my husband didn’t think it necessary. I know that there’s many women who work their ass off, they’re single moms and would love to have a man that would provide for them while they could stay home.. so the fact that so many feminists nowadays demean and degrade women who are more traditional is astonishing to me bc I feel truly blessed to live the life I do. I have had the time to learn many different skills and hobbies and even learned herbalism to become a healer. I wouldn’t have had the time to do any of that if I had to work a full time job on top of everything else I do. We have 14 acres in the Appalachians and have almost 20 different animals... so that’s a job within itself, looking after it all.
I am very attracted to your masculinity and personality
Get it
Chivalry may not be dead but it is on life support.
Yes
I 2nd.. that motion I'm a feminine woman. I had my dad in my life whole soul. These feminist woman need to go sit they tail down. They don't speak for me I adore men and respect them Period....there bitter ignorant they make no sense.
I used to be a career woman until I had my son, I love being at home with my son and taking care of my husband.
I have a medical degree and had women be nasty to me saying that I took someone else’s position that someone else could have went to medical school in my place even though that doesn’t make sense because anyone can get into medical schools.
I always thought I would have put my career first until I had a successful pregnancy.
Fuck them people you won your position in university why does ur future choices affect anything. There’s loads of people who do humanities degrees and work at Starbucks 😂
Ignore those women. The funny thing about feminism as of modern day is the idea to uplift women, but will put women down who aren't working in occupation as if its what u "Have" to do to be a successful woman. The idea behind all of this that they leave out, is that women have that choice. That is the most important detail that they miss. They are not in constraints to be a career woman or to be a mother. They choose whatever they want. That is the biggest power that they overlook about the present day woman.
I've heard one feminist quoted as saying "we should encourage women to be anything they want to be, EXCEPT a housewife." 🤷 I don't understand why this is a problem. Of course, I'm a guy, so that might be why I don't understand.
This comment is so much better seeing you have an avi with Gin-san and his (adopted) kids 🙏🏽
@@donaldlayton437 Because they see housewife as this “role” that is holding back women moving forward in society. I respect the shit out of house wives who take care of their families. It’s not easy.
Ignore them. If you want to be a stay at home mum do it. If you want to be a mum that spends most time with the kids but chooses to take a part time job, do it. If you choose to work full time, do it. You do what works for you and your husband/partner and what is best for your family unit.
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That moment of innocence, "what's an OF?" :D
I was introduced to my husband when I was 22 john was 24 the best thing that ever happened was meeting him. He expected me and my son. Who 2 years old. My husband open doors for me would pull out my chair 🙂 .when I meet my husband for the first time I knew he would be my husband one day. And August 9 1989 we were married. He was my everything my best friend.i lost him in 2020 he had a bad ❤️ heart. When john 💕 passed away we were married 28 years. He was truly amazing I miss him so much 🥰.. I really don't think I will find another one like him he was one in a million.just saying.
Sounds like a great man 0w0 thanks for sharing
Touchy subject. I am gen x and grew up suppressing my feelings and just suck it up. I also grew up wanting to spoil my gfs and wanting to take care of them (financially and physically). I do see issues with “toxic masculinity”. I have certainly gotten into physical fights with other men because I was pissed off at life and needed someone to take it out on (when I was younger). This is likely due to suppressing my anger rather than dealing with it. I also let this affect relationships with women, only it was verbal altercations with them. I didn’t want to argue…but if I had a bad day and was getting grilled about some stupid shit like why I took too long to take the trash out…then I might start an argument. I do think we can do better by finding better ways to release and deal with our anger…without emasculating ourselves. I don’t see men and women as equals…because we’re not. Men are stronger and motivated by success and achievement and women are more caring and thoughtful and are superior to men in many ways. But I am tired of hearing that we’re equal. We are different. There is nothing wrong with that. Neither is better or worse…just different.
Being different is what makes us stronger. Life is about balance and we all should be appreciating our differences instead of focusing on it like a bad thing. We’re “equals” only because we are humans. Everyone should expect to bring something to the table of society, but we all don’t have to bring the bacon.
I’m a submissive woman to my man. I love it!❤️ He’s the head of the household and traditional values are instilled. Many females believe submission means being a “slave.” That’s completely inaccurate.
Best take of the videos "Stay mad."
8:50 To let people know: The food is usually done BEFORE that particular buzzer goes off! Just glad it was only steam and not fire, though! 😂 Tip: If your food, or if you still use an older model of stove without the glass cover, catches fire, dump salt on it. I'm not kidding. The salt absorbs the oxygen feeding the fire, and smothers it. Do this if you don't have a fire extinguisher. Also, remember to cut off the stove as soon as the fire is out! 😌
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@@CrownOfRoses541 i'm not a spammer, i am just sharing the perspective of JP about women career Vs motherhood...
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@@CrownOfRoses541 can you share it with your friends?. I will be so glad🙏
I'm morbidly obese and ugly but don't hate men at all!!! I respect them!!!!
My boyfriend had women that would get bad for him doing things like pulling out a chair and etc!!!! I'm the complete opposite and wouldn't even mind if he was nice enough to do it for another female!!!!
It's really sad you can't do something nice for someone with out them thinking you're flirting or they don't need your help!!!!
How tf do you have a boyfriend💀
@@honks9484 why do you say that?
@@honks9484 if you're judging me by my looks than you're what's wrong with society. At least my profile pic is a real pic of myself and not a pic of something else. I don't pretend to be someone I'm not. Remember the saying never judge a book by it's cover. You need to go by that. The person I am on the inside no one can beat. Not even Gorgeous women.
@@honks9484 if I had to guess, probably not being judgemental and actually being a lovely person to be around
@@honks9484 How tf do you feel alright being an incessant prick for no reason?
I'm a happy 31 year old mother of 3. My eldest child I had at 15. 16 years later I'm still with their father. I hate when people stereotype teenage mother's.... I'm very traditional and old school I guess.
LMFAO....that smoke alarm segment got me dying laughing
What's good kid love your content, im happily married 9 years now six kiddos, we've had some up's and downs but more up's than downs, we're in love with one another and love each other, no marriage nor relationship will ever be perfect, it takes time to learn your partner but it doesn't take five to ten years to commit and marry someone, it you're still trying to learn that person that amount of time you're either distracted or just not paying attention, Don't waste anyone's time let them know in the first year or two its not working out time to move on whether its man/woman. Be good everyone God bless God is Love
Feminist should be made to do the dirty jobs that make the world go around like Mike Row did on his show.
So glad I didn't pause the video when the smoke alarm went off. I was getting up to find out what was going on because I'm in a loud room and then you said something about it.
Still waiting to meet the women that are lay in bricks
Idk why but my wife LOVE cooking food for me. And it makes her day when I tell her the food was good. Ohh she gets so much joy from making me food. Pleasing a man is so simple. Food, balls empty and house clean. That’s all. We men are so simple.
TH-cam is hard at work, scrubbing the comments section clean of "offending" posts. Just another sign of the times....
It's fd up
I remember watching the parking lot as I was going in a store. There was an elderly couple nearby, a single middle aged lady a bit further away, and a single elderly lady further back.
I held the door for them all, and got thanks from the couple, then berrated for sexism from the other lady until the single lady (the superhero) arrived thanking me loudly.
What still makes me shake my head is that the middle aged lady still walked into the open door.... The hypocracy.
Men get a remember and realize, the moment a woman starts doing things that we don’t like, we have all the power in the world in the date right then And there. If she gets nasty about being asked to pay the tip, tour dates over you don’t want to see her again and walk. If she gives you an attitude because you try to be the German you were raised to be an open doors and pull out chairs, and the date right then and there. She’s a waste of your time anyways.
I subscribed and I remember to hit the like buttons on all your videos. Thanks for all your content.
I loved this video! I love these women! We need MORE of these women!
Just got to say not all long term marriages started young my grandparents met & married at 49 they stayed together till my grandpa passed away in 2019, after being together for 40yrs. Not common but can still happen
We are different. We are supposed to be didn’t. I DO NOT want to be a man!! I love being a woman.
Beep beep fire... Honey.... Dinner is done before that particular timer goes off. My 4 yr old daughter used to run around " Mommy cook-n ! Mommy cook-n ! 🤣 No, I didn't teach her that. She got better over time. But it took the woman an hr to burn water.
I like cooking and cleaning, I think it's a basic life skill we all should have because we all need to be clean anyway and everyone needs to eat, I don't like washing clothes but I know I need clean clothes so I do it anyways
A a teenager I always wanted a traditional home but I had mental problems that stemmed into my adult years that has made that almost impossible to achieve. I still want a traditional home but thats looking less likely as I get older and older. I really am happy that some women out there get to have it though. So very happy for them 😊
Not the fire alarm 😂 smiles from grin
I was laughing like wow 😂😂 i feel that
Nice shirt! Another great video by the way, very entertaining and truthful
Does that shirt really say “ No Mames”🤣 Are my eyes deceiving me??
Facts , Facts n nothing but Facts !!!!! .
I will forever be chivalrous and a gentleman like my sweet sweet grandmother raised me to be and no one will get me to change
I love your T-shirt!! Keep up the good content 👍
Men don't let mad or angry women stop you from having manners
Love your shirt, perfect for this video.
Mum hated having to go to work, anytime she was ever asked she always said she wished she could go back to being at home looking after the house & food.
The last woman on this segment. Talking about how she got married at 18. Had a first child at by 19. Etc… And she’s happy because she knows what she wants. She the type of woman would be married for 50,60 plus. Most woman really are looking for something like that.They wonder how can they find a man like that. But she gets criticized for just be a traditional woman.
What I got from all this is that there’s still people out there with common sense
Makes me think...the people who are treated worst in society, tend to be the most embittered. Women valued for their looks. If a woman is unattractive by societal standards, she's probably gonna be unhappy. Men valued for height and money. Short and/or lower income men tend to be more unhappy...including many these threads. I mean, none of this stuff is complicated. The real question is, where are y'all gonna go from here? Each side seems determined to shame the other in to submission...and it has devolved in to a Cold War the USA and USSR would be envious of. What's the end game?
This is some very accurate and well articulated realness right here 💯💯
I've always loved a take charge kinda guy ...
Tell your girl that the smoke detector is not a kitchen timer, lol.
I’ve held the door open for lesbians (guy dressing ones) a few times and never got snapped at or looked at strange and was even complimented by an older gentleman that told me “ good job young man, she’s still a woman”
I’m 20 and I already gave up dating because I am just sick of this BS
Traditional marriage here! 18 years on August 25! I stayed home, raised our babies, cooked his meals, washed the laundry, I did everything my amazing grandmother did for her family. And they lasted 68 years, until he passed at 97, she at almost 107. I used that blueprint. Found a protector and provider. Now that our last son is off to school, I work a part-time job as supplemental income. He's still the primary breadwinner, working hard to provide as an electrician. But I refuse to be a party to "feminism," because it's about female superiority, NOT equality.
Glad your feeling better.❤️
Like I've told my boys, if you hold the door for a woman and she snaps at you, close the damn door in her face and walk away.
I loved being a stay at home mom!!!
I find it so damn annoying when people say things like "I can open this door myself, and I don't need help." I just like to make people's lives easier by doing the little things. Helping them with something they are struggling with, opening doors for people, picking up something that someone else dropped, and etc. I am just trying to make people's days just a little bit better and easier. I wanna help take a load of whatever they are going through, no matter how small it is. Even though many people don't appreciate the little things I do, I still do it and it's because I want to. When people were rude to me when I was just trying to help, it made me feel like I was a horrible person. Nowadays, I just feel bad for them and their entire situation that made them think this way.
chivalry isn't dead women are trying to kill it...I'll never forget on a first date I opened the door for a woman and she said, "I'm a woman; I can open my own doors...." I replied, "....yeah but I was raised right!" I made a point to open every door for her I could and never asked her out again. at that point I was making a statement
The Untold Truth About Women's Career Vs Motherhood th-cam.com/video/uZHaPFjopTk/w-d-xo.html
Hey bro I love your content, I also love your shirt that's a great shirt! Keep it up with the great work!
Your smoke detector went off and I almost got up and ran to the kitchen.
I knew it! I’m happy for you two buddy!
Now……
……STOP MAKING ME JEALOUS!!!!!
This brotha heart dropped when he heard that alarm. "DEATH IN THE POT!"
I'm never afraid to be chivalrous, if she doesn't like it, then I'll be hyper masculine and treat her like she's from the streets!
I see. Fellow woman who roasts feminists along with me. Love to see it.
Why? Why do you love to see another woman get roasted? 🤔 I'm not a feminist nor do I agree with their ideals, but I don't understand why you as a woman enjoy another woman roasting other women 🤔
This, this put a smile on my face
I honestly have never seen myself as the type to stay at home with my kids, not work outside the home, and cook and clean all day. I have mad respect for several women in my life who did do that, who homeschooled, raised wonderful children, and overall have warm and caring hearts. Until I met my fiancé, I wasn’t sure if I even wanted to be spend my life with someone. Met him at 15, have known I’ve wanted to marry him since i was 17. Pushed back those plans until getting my undergrad at 23. And had to push back again to get my masters degree, going to marry him at 26 this may. (For all those who question marrying young, sometimes you know. Not always instantly, but I’ve been with him for over a decade. And I’ve grown to love him more every day.) I want to work as a school librarian, I love working with children and encouraging them to pursue their passions and learning about new things. Sometimes, just working with kids on a daily basis gives me enough pride, frustration, and joy to satisfy my urge to have my own children. Maybe I’ll have my own after I’ve been married a year or two and feel secure about my ability to support them. I am a firm believer that it matters much more what you do and how you live than any one specific achievement in life. Someone with a spouse and/or kids shouldn’t exclusively be defined by them. I want to be know for my compassion and my ability to give my best to those who depend on me.
When I go out I open doors I say please and thank you I walk a half step ahead I put myself between her and the street don't let women or men for that matter dictate the manners I was taught I don't care if that offended you or anyone else
True . Nuff said 🤷🏿♂️
My parents met when they worked fast food a long time ago
Been married almost 40 years now. 🙏💯
It's all about respect and not messing around.
If you have discipline and purpose (in their case, not wanting to be broke while getting out of their controlling households and together to build a family away from abusive families and dead end jobs)
They both worked their butts off in a job until they were promoted and 10 years later after enduring good and bad times together, they have the strongest bond I've ever seen.. from only seeing my pops so often due to his deployment to Saudi in the 90s and my mom stepping up to raise me and my older sister while we waited for my pops was awesome. Even better when he got back and had two more kids; my little sisters 🙏🙏
It's all about being loyal and real.
This generation is lost and I have these old school values and I can't apply it to any of these new age girls.
It's all good tho.
Born in the wrong decade
I noticed that most of the women saying that feminist are bad, usually come from the country or biker/rock/metal way of life! that's why I want a white woman or an semitradiditional asian woman, because they know compromise and teamwork!
I never burned my bra!!! I've always loved being the traditional/old fashioned wife!!!
Bruh Kicks tried to act like boiling water got the fire alarm to go off 😂😂😂
Love the videos
Everyone is different, they need to do what is best for them.