WHY LUXURY SHOPPING IS NOT FAST FASHION| designer haul bag collection unboxing regrets mistakes

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  • @thealiceedit2153
    @thealiceedit2153 2 ปีที่แล้ว +100

    I agree that luxury should be consumed slowly. I love the few pieces that I own and I think I get more enjoyment out of these pieces because I acquire things slowly, giving me space to appreciate them.

    • @GracefulKnots
      @GracefulKnots 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same here. I have a few and I don't even have enough places to wear them to. I enjoy them whenever I get to wear them:)

  • @jenniferalbert910
    @jenniferalbert910 2 ปีที่แล้ว +94

    When you idolize someone else’s lifestyle and overlook your own…SO powerful and so true. Thank you for this thoughtful video.

    • @ColourfulNoir
      @ColourfulNoir  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you for your support xx

  • @jodyengel1968
    @jodyengel1968 2 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    I completely agree and have unsubscribed to some TH-camrs who have repeated massive hauls. The only time I watch them is if I am specifically researching a bag. I spend months of research on each purchase: watching videos, looking at the pros and cons, so when I buy a bag or SLG, it is well thought out and part of the fun is the experience of the research 😁

    • @ColourfulNoir
      @ColourfulNoir  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I now love watching Tiny House Movement, documentaries and relaxing piano jazz music on YT xx

  • @xmochix604
    @xmochix604 2 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    I once heard a saying: “what you can afford today, might not be what you can afford tomorrow.”
    So important to save your money, no one can predict the future. Don’t get caught up with luxury buying sprees.
    Bags are not investments. Because with bags, you’re only able to sell what the others are willing to pay. If there’s ever a hard hit recession, your bags may not be able to pay your rent.

  • @paigemurray4946
    @paigemurray4946 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    About 7 years ago I finally treated myself to my first LV piece. I then went down the rabbit hole of needing more and more. Then the market became saturated and it seemed like everyone had luxury bags. It felt like fast fashion and owning those pieces didn't feel special anymore. I have since sold all but two of my pieces and now I enjoy them so much more.

  • @kimjay6806
    @kimjay6806 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    "if i need it, fits my true lifestyle and, I can see myself using it for a very long time - buy it in the best quality I'm willing to pay for it" - Eileen
    simply priceless words! Thank you for being there on TH-cam to keep us grounded! ❤️❤️

    • @ColourfulNoir
      @ColourfulNoir  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I really appreciate your kind words, thank you xx

  • @Giselle332
    @Giselle332 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Love your realistic approach to luxury shopping. You're so right and I wish more luxury TH-camrs were more like you. You're certainly aware of how you want to influence people in a way that is healthy for their finances and general well-being. Keep on being positive, wise and balanced. ❤️❤️❤️

    • @ColourfulNoir
      @ColourfulNoir  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      So glad you like my content, thank you xx

  • @littlebean8856
    @littlebean8856 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Very true and very good message. Every now and then I find myself scrolling mindlessly at shopping websites and it’s good to have you reminding me to stop doing that.

  • @pisomadridful
    @pisomadridful 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Whenever I buy something, I try to translate the price tag into working hours and think if that item is worth my time and effort, and for how long I will enjoy it. But I’m not always that strong, and here’s a confession: I have found myself anxious for the past couple of weeks due to luxury shopping. I’ve always thought that I wanted to offer myself a luxury item for my 40th birthday. Well, the date is in one month, and I’ve not yet found THE item I’d like to buy to represent that moment. Yesterday I found myself going to Cartier after work, not falling in love with anything, and coming back home with a sad feeling. And I now realize how ridiculous that is! I already have the few jewelry pieces I’ve been enjoying everyday (Tank watch, Love alliance and Love bracelet). Why should I add another one? Just for the sake of being 40? It’s exactly what you’re saying: luxury items shouldn’t become something that we buy just for the sake of buying, but items that we’re sure that we will enjoy and feel happy to wear for many years. No matter if I don’t find anything to buy for myself on my 40th birthday… I will just open my closet and feel proud of what I already have and enjoy - and save that money for a nice dinner out with my husband ❤️. Thanks for another great video, Eileen! And for letting us share our thoughts 😘😘

  • @farizarahman3838
    @farizarahman3838 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Hi Ilene. Thanks for the video. You are exactly right. I also found that I am also flowing with the vibe of videos. Last year I can’t even think to buy a lux bag more that 1000 $ now I am thinking to buy 3k bags which is insane. What you have told really touched my heart. May almighty bless you.

    • @ColourfulNoir
      @ColourfulNoir  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much for sharing, Fariza xx

  • @Breonaleonard
    @Breonaleonard 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I am definitely practicing collecting my luxury items at a slower pace this year!💕💚 It makes me really love, enjoy and appreciate everything that I have even more. I only like to have items that I use. But at the same time, I’m not mad at anybody else for choosing to buy multiples items every month or week. I will still watch the videos and enjoy it🥰

  • @Buttercookiesssss
    @Buttercookiesssss 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    We need more youtubers like you who are more realistic and responsible on spending. Social media is convenient but truthfully caused a lot of trouble for ppl who don't have self control 🙈 Minimalism is the way to go! Xoxo

    • @ColourfulNoir
      @ColourfulNoir  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That's really kind of you, thank you xx

  • @kylieballard2123
    @kylieballard2123 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I'm just glad I'm not the only one that sees luxury as fast fashion, anything can become fast fashion because of over consumerism its unfortunate, I even see the eco friendly fashion stores are becoming more fast fashion as there is too many content creators making it that way with calling everything a "trend"

  • @hippityhop99
    @hippityhop99 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Totally agree with the 'hedonic treadmill' that you descirbed! Watching 'normal' people do endless high end unboxings really do warp our idea of what is normal! thank you for your honesty and eloquence!

    • @ColourfulNoir
      @ColourfulNoir  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for your support xx

  • @toniwilliamslifelessons5898
    @toniwilliamslifelessons5898 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I'm am new to this luxury thing but I can 100% agree. It is so easy to get wrapped up in it all. I have no intention of buying and selling but I still find myself finding more items I'd love to have.

  • @littleluxuries_435
    @littleluxuries_435 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I absolutely love your content and ideas for slow buying and minimalism. It is very inspiring!

  • @egarncarz804
    @egarncarz804 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Your chanel changed my life. I said before I was shopping to cover my deppression and anxiety. I am so happy that I discovered what was my underlying problem. I am dealing with my problem. I am feeling much better. 2022 is shopping free. Why not.
    Eileena thank you for your platform.
    I spent 1000 of pounds for van cleef. How many of them I need? 100? Absolutely ridiculous. One item I purchased than I started looking for new one. I completely could ruin my life.

    • @ColourfulNoir
      @ColourfulNoir  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm so glad you're shopping much more mindfully! xx

  • @jadelightsword
    @jadelightsword 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I agree with slow, intentional buying. It's been over 2 years since moving into our new house, and I still haven't finished furnishing everything. We didn't have a dining table, or dining chairs, for the longest time. I liked to buy one item, use it, think about it, and then buy the next. I am this way with my luxury handbags as well. I have only 2, last one purchased 3 years ago. Now I know that I need a black one for my next one, which I hope to get at the end of this year.

    • @xmochix604
      @xmochix604 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Good for you! Mindful spending is the way to go!

    • @ColourfulNoir
      @ColourfulNoir  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Kudos to you for being so mindful xx

    • @caligurl470
      @caligurl470 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I did the exact same thing when I moved into my home! I didn’t want to rush into furniture buying bc I didn’t want to regret any pieces and have to go through the trouble of moving a heavy object and losing a lot of $ in reselling it. 3 years later, I still love all the pieces I carefully and slowly added into my home, even when “friends” made fun of me for taking my sweet time. I’m glad I listened and trusted myself! ☺️

  • @monimarz
    @monimarz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I need this channel. It helps bring me back to reality. Since lockdown I found myself buying luxury out of boredom. I go nowhere, as we are in and out of lockdowns in Ontario Canada, so why am I buying handbags...to make me feel good. To gain a bit of dopamine that I lack from the travelling I once did. I cannot wait for the nice weather. I need a break from everything influencer related. It is eroding my brain.

  • @mehshaz
    @mehshaz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Amongst the loud consumer voices, it is so good to hear your reasonable voice.

  • @orattik
    @orattik 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Another thing is that luxury fashion houses themselves operate a lot like fast fashion now. For example, when I started studying fashion design, there were no pre-fall, cruise etc collections. There were just two rtw collections and two couture collections at the very top end houses. Now it's a lot like the 24h news cycle. You have to have something new all the time. For me, the fashion industry lost its luster about 10 years ago. Also, the shopping experience itself is so impersonal and fast, both in store and online. I ordered a Givenchy bag online and it came wrapped worse than a pair of leggings from Oysho. It's kind of hard to find balance between liking and appreciating nice things and also not participating in the mindless system of over consumption.

    • @ColourfulNoir
      @ColourfulNoir  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I agree! Every luxury brand is churning out new designs on a regular basis. Truthfully, I think luxury shopping won't feel as special anymore if we make it a routine xx

  • @jiyamulani073
    @jiyamulani073 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi Eileen.. I went to Chanel today and the bag i have been hunting for was sitting right there. The beautiful square shaped black n white 22c tweed bag. The prepandemic me would have immediately bought it, but the more mindful me took time to contemplate on it. The bag was a magnet for dirt and wine stains and the SA told me not to wear jeans with it as it could colour transfer. After 20 mins of consideration n remembering one of ur videos about the things that bring joy, and i thot this bag would worry the hell out of me if I carried it around. I would have sleepless night if a speck of dirt got to it. I went on to look for other bags and I thot incase there was something that i might have missed out And for the first time in 15 years, i Left the chanel boutique even when I had full intention of purchasing the bag. Mindful shopping 2022 😊

  • @LifeAccordingtoMaria
    @LifeAccordingtoMaria 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I totally agree with the SLG comment. I used to think I needed a matching wallet for each bag I bought. Then realized what a headache it was to keep switching out each time. Now I have two only. A small wallet with a zipper compartment and a smaller card holder when using a small pocketbook. The rest have been given away to friends and family. Also we get numb to the excitement and enjoyment of a “special occasion “ purchase if we buy frequently and for no purpose. Very good points in this video.

  • @leonaj.5835
    @leonaj.5835 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you so much Eileen! This is the channel I need and have been looking for. *I always play and listen to your videos before deciding to purchase a new item!* In my current circle now, I am surrounded by people who live, breathe & "eat" luxury to the point that it's "normal" and ordinary for them to do so. It's a stark contrast to how I grew up. There is constant pressure to fit in and adopt their lifestyle when deep inside I know that many of what they do are not what I want to spend my time on. Also, many of the luxury brands on trend are just not my esthetics & taste. I do enjoy luxury fashion and buy them too, but more on the obscure, relatively unknown and bespoke kinds. I even scour obsessively for the vintage and rare items, which is silly now that I reflect on it. Although I want them just to collect them to admire their beauty, it's just not a wise way to spend money that I can use instead to do more good for myself and others. I can always be tempted and still fall into the trap of consumerism if I'm not careful. A voice of reason like yours is truly needed and much appreciated when reflecting on any new purchase I contemplate on making.

    • @ColourfulNoir
      @ColourfulNoir  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you so much for sharing, Leona. It's truthfully delightful to hear my content is helping you to spend more mindfully xx

  • @blurblobs88
    @blurblobs88 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I agree that fomo does affect my purchase decisions and I have come to realise I am buying cos I am bored. Not bcos I really need it. At the end of the day. I think true happiness and fulfillment comes from within me and the endless pursuit of branded luxury items only ends with emptiness. Kudos to your content. Thank you

    • @ColourfulNoir
      @ColourfulNoir  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for sharing! It's so true what you said, happiness comes from within xx

  • @lvettesonai
    @lvettesonai 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are so wise. We must be grateful for our own lives and lifestyle. Not envying or idolizing others.

  • @janicevin4207
    @janicevin4207 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    All of us are changing and evolving and it is more interesting than doing the same things over and over. The "mistakes" that you share will certainly help some of us or at least will open our eyes to potential changes in our own life.Thank you for sharing!

    • @ColourfulNoir
      @ColourfulNoir  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sometimes I wish I knew better but I now feel blessed I'm able to share my mistakes and send the right messages xx

  • @marissat9953
    @marissat9953 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Hi Eileen, I appreciate your videos! I am trying to find my balance with luxury shopping. I think it use it to compensate for dealing with this pandemic for the past 2 years, but I am slowly learning to be more mindful and intentional with my spending.

  • @josellep374
    @josellep374 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    So true I agree with your insights, it's so easy to be influenced by what you watch and see in social media. I am also guilty of buying tons of stuff that I think I should have only to realize that they are not really functional for me and just adds to the clutter hehe. Looking forward to more minimalism and practical spending tips. Thank you!

  • @chidenisee
    @chidenisee 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    When I buy a lot of bags in a year I feel like I barely get a chance to really get to use it or enjoy it. I am definitely only purchasing 2 designer bags this year and one mid price book bag. I'm only purchasing items I plan to keep for at least a few years.

  • @gabrielapoplacean8632
    @gabrielapoplacean8632 2 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    I am allways shocked when I go shopping and I see ordinary , young people shedding thousands of dollars for a chanel or LV bags and I ask myself: What sacrifices are this people doing to be able to purchase this luxury items ?

    • @Coastpsych_fi99
      @Coastpsych_fi99 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      I can’t speak for every young person but many like myself live at home. We can’t afford to buy houses easily because of rising markets and a very competitive job market.
      I own a couple of luxury pieces but also drive a 13 year old car, live at home and balance full-time work with school. So these are little splurges which I’ve only done a few times in the last few years which will stop once I move out! I’m grateful to my mum and try manage my money effectively.

    • @Mai-sx3yf
      @Mai-sx3yf 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I’m in my late 20s and drive a 10 year old car and I never kept up with the latest phones. I only just bought my iPhone 11 (a little over $600) in cash last year. It’s ok to splurge if you have your other priorities in order. Budgeting isn’t that hard and saving becomes addictive once you hit a certain number. I’ve afforded all of my vacations and luxury items by budgeting.

    • @nerdgurl402
      @nerdgurl402 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I live at home because the housing market is brutal in Southern California. Even though I could afford a home, they get snatched up by cash buyers and investors who pay way above the listing.I treat myself to one luxury bag a year and I don’t have the latest car or phone.

    • @doctordonnanoble
      @doctordonnanoble 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      To be fair, young people have no dependents to support, and no mortgage, insurance, and other repeated spending to tie them down. Probably a lot easier to save without sacrifice than us older adults. But of course that money would be much better put toward their future, and that's something a lot of people unfortunately don't realize until much later, and that becomes their sacrifice.

    • @camillieeb
      @camillieeb 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This shouldn't your be concern though. People don't have to prove themselves worthy (in our eyes) of owning certain items. Over consumption isn't unique to young "undeserving" people.

  • @journeyswithsue
    @journeyswithsue 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I just got my dream bag, a chanel classic flap. But before that, I did so much research on it on TH-cam and Instagram to the point that the algorithm has recommended me more videos and content about luxury purchases in general. Because of the algorithm, it is so easy to get hooked on things as we are bombarded with content on social media. Now I am starting to look at mini bags, trying to resist the urge!!

    • @ColourfulNoir
      @ColourfulNoir  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sending you a lot of positive energy, you can do it xx

  • @mindbodysoul8214
    @mindbodysoul8214 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm V E R Y slow with my luxury purchases.... so much so I've been priced out of some of the things I've always wanted. Maybe if I hadn't drooled over so many things at once, I would have remained focused on the things I most desired and I would own them now. A positive view is, at least I am not stuck with a bunch of things I No Longer desire. Happy New Year Eileen and thanks for Another Wonderful Video. 💯💕🌺

  • @donalainmartinezalbania6536
    @donalainmartinezalbania6536 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thanks so much for opening the eyes of the unwise expenditures of the designer luxury shoppers. There should be more influencer like you in the social media.

  • @connieholmes4853
    @connieholmes4853 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I have reduced my handbag collection as well. 🥰 I sold 2 handbags I own 5 bags and that is a blessing and I am grateful for them. I am also enjoying them.

  • @lifeslittleluxury3541
    @lifeslittleluxury3541 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I really enjoy your videos~ Thank you for reminding us we don't have to buy luxury every week or month to keep up. I am trying to live with less as well and I find I have less anxiety for it. I took your advice and sold some luxury bags even though I didn't get much for them. I didn't want to keep holding on to them just for that reason because I wasn't reaching for them in years. I'm so glad I let them go. I invested that money and I feel better for it.

    • @ColourfulNoir
      @ColourfulNoir  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Kudos to you for letting go of the pieces that didn't serve you xx

  • @DaniOchannel
    @DaniOchannel 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    So true. I used to be a slow buyer. I need to get back to that person. 💕

    • @ColourfulNoir
      @ColourfulNoir  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Slowing down is the new trend xx

  • @tanyawilliams138
    @tanyawilliams138 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I really love your channel! You have truly helped me with luxury shopping. I no longer want or need the latest handbag. In fact I no longer feel less than because I can't purchase luxury items every week.

    • @ColourfulNoir
      @ColourfulNoir  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Being selective is empowering for sure xx

  • @iamjulia9458
    @iamjulia9458 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Buy what you need and love. 💙 don't need to follow blindly. Sometimes I see people only buy LV, Chanel and Hermes because they are the only brands that retain much of their values so much so that they are missing out on other brands beautiful designs. Eg. People may not buy a certain brand product even though they like the design cos their resell value is low. Dior is one good example

  • @hannahho3186
    @hannahho3186 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hi Eileen,
    I stumbled upon your channel when I was decluttering and curating my purses in 2020. Please keep up your effort! I am grateful for content like yours, staying true to your goals and views. Happy New Year and stay safe.
    Xx

    • @ColourfulNoir
      @ColourfulNoir  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm so glad you enjoy my content, thank you! xx

  • @minnied.5946
    @minnied.5946 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love your message and I agree 100%... I love a few of my VCA pieces and I still enjoy each time I wear it. 💙

    • @ColourfulNoir
      @ColourfulNoir  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wonderful! It's always good to enjoy the things we already have xx

  • @sams3015
    @sams3015 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great video, so put together without being patronising or higher than thou. The walk in closet part is so true. My house really hasn’t the right layout for a walk in wardrobe but I almost felt like I needed one. Then I realised that a fitted Wardrobe fits my lifestyle much better especially as I tend to slow buy

  • @mjbagaholic3334
    @mjbagaholic3334 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for your great tips. I have similar experiences in the past,so I really understand what you’re saying. I want to be a minimalist like you!

  • @missmegs37
    @missmegs37 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    thank you for promoting this message!! i think there is beauty in waiting and lusting for something too

  • @kaylinde2321
    @kaylinde2321 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much for reeling me back in. Perfect time for this video, I’ve been searching the web and going down a rabbit hole. I wanted a Chanel but can’t justify spending that money on a bag so I started looking at bags that cost less, and my list grew to a handful and suddenly it’s like I’m spending just as much. I hardly go anywhere these days so there’s no point in having all these bags and it doesn’t fit the minimalist lifestyle I’ve been leaning towards the last few years. It’s really easy to get sucked into it.

  • @rubienguyen4568
    @rubienguyen4568 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I subscribed because of this video. I need to slow down and this is my goal of 2022 is to live happier and love what I have. Thank you!

    • @ColourfulNoir
      @ColourfulNoir  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Welcome to my YT family! We really do have an amazing community here xx

  • @Abby-Brock
    @Abby-Brock 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    So many great points here! Thank you for being a voice of reason. Your channel is exactly what I need to balance the fashion and shopping content that I love watching. 💕

  • @luxelee1262
    @luxelee1262 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Love all your recent videos! 🥰 Definitely can relate to it and making wiser decisions on luxury items doesn’t make you love it less or more. Just makes you appreciate the pieces you already have. 💕

  • @phouavaj
    @phouavaj 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great video. I am just starting my luxury handbag collection and I am thankful to have received this wisdom. Mentally I was easily swayed to the fast fashion mindset. You just saved me a major mistake, great content.

    • @ColourfulNoir
      @ColourfulNoir  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I appreciate that, thank you xx

    • @mmvs1809
      @mmvs1809 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I think the first mistake is thinking that “luxury” aka “expensive” handbags are a collection 🤦‍♀️.. don’t know why people continue to call it that way

  • @tl238
    @tl238 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Your so wise and classy. I love your luxury minimalism and money smart videos. Keep up the good work and keep staying true to yourself.

    • @ColourfulNoir
      @ColourfulNoir  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's so sweet of you, thank you xx

  • @susanngin3481
    @susanngin3481 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Truly agreed with u.....why spent tons of money on luxury hdbags.....one can hv 2 luxury hdbags more than enugh. Too many luxury hdbags not only wastes alot money it also time consuming cause anxiety to upkeep those bags n cluttered around with dust. Either those full time luxury blogger keep showing n unboxing their hdbags on social media I am sure either they earn commission or hv some gains frm the luxury brands they showcase.......less is more.......hving too many bags we can't even carry all cos we hv only 2 hands....even everytime or once awhile interchange bag can be quite hectic pack n unpack items......buy when needed n not want. Buy when needed ...one will treasure it but buy when just want to it won't last long n eventually will sell or give away.....tks for sharing n I am totally aligned with yr thoughts.....love watching yr videos. .☺

  • @elc3527
    @elc3527 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Agree! Excessive shopping is a waste of resource/money and detrimental to our own mindset. The more you buy the more you want, there is a hollow that cannot be fulfilled by the desire for more and we are mentally trapped in never ending consumption. And brands like LV Chanel destroy large quantity of unsold items to maintain their prestige which is very bad for the environment.

  • @minipleasures96
    @minipleasures96 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    with SLG's, i don't want to change . i only have few SLG's. i regretted buying more than enough that I ended up giving them away to my sister and my niece. i also enjoy what i have now.

  • @veena1577
    @veena1577 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you so much for your video.
    Please upload these kinda videos ow and then. Thank you

    • @ColourfulNoir
      @ColourfulNoir  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I will for sure, thank you xx

  • @princeeverlove
    @princeeverlove 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Dear Lady Eileen lovely, lovely Vlog🍍You help so many... terima kasih Eileen

  • @mylifemyjourney1
    @mylifemyjourney1 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I agree with your opinion about trendy fashion. I do have a wishlist for 2022, more jewelry than handbags but I also decided to add more money into my retirement account this new year. I have sold some luxury handbags & try to limit my collect to items I will use. Great video as always.

  • @SundayRose99
    @SundayRose99 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I like your channel for what you promote and for the change that you’re describing. Keep it up and don’t let the negative comments get to you. Thanks for doing this, it’s definitely difficult to talk about these topics. 🙏🏼♥️♥️♥️

  • @diegochavez8120
    @diegochavez8120 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Lol I found this video at the right time. I’ve been trying to build my collection fast thinking I just wanna build it and have it and THEN slow down, but I see this isn’t the way to do it.

  • @Dr_Dee_Sankofa
    @Dr_Dee_Sankofa 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is such a wonderful video! Your insights and transformation has had a profound impact on me. I appreciate you.

  • @654ujala
    @654ujala 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sensible video as usual! Love that you are true to yourself in these videos. I am also consuming a lot less luxury than in the past, but I am much more intentional about my purchases.

  • @helen297
    @helen297 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Can’t agree more. Fashion TH-camrs are just part of the company’s marketing strategy now. We should not fall for these marketing campaigns.

  • @pure_indulgence8144
    @pure_indulgence8144 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Really great video and I love your channel! If you feel comfortable I’d love to see your wardrobe and how you create multiple outfits with your pieces. I think many people have closets packed to the brim and still nothing to wear. Seems like folks are scared to be seen wearing the same items over and over again and that’s just nuts. I don’t have a big clothing selection and I love it because it makes styling easier (not boring!) and I think folks need to see more of that on big platforms like this one. Love your content!

  • @ymadani1908
    @ymadani1908 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I appreciate this video so much.. I can totally relate to this realization!!! I found myself being sooooo influenced by youtube or influencers when it came to luxury goods and Ive always been a very practical luxury shopper.

  • @catherine4875
    @catherine4875 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi Eileen,
    I’ve just discovered your videos and I adore your life philosophy. Have been enjoying your old videos. Thank you for sharing your experience and being a positive influence.

    • @ColourfulNoir
      @ColourfulNoir  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much, Catherine! xx

  • @loorye1
    @loorye1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Bravo for being truly honest of who you are becoming. Of course some people won’t understand or perhaps even think it’s because you probably can’t afford anymore. I view it as courage and authenticity to talk about what important for you today even if that can sound as a big U-turn. In my culture there is a proverb who says “ just idiots people can never change their mind”

    • @ColourfulNoir
      @ColourfulNoir  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Indeed, change is the only consistent thing in life xx

  • @deconstructedluxury1964
    @deconstructedluxury1964 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Its easy to fall into the trap of massive consumption. However the more you buy, the more you will see the quality issues and the similarities with high street fast fashion. For example, look how many lv stores there are worldwide and how many products they stock, thats not exclusive, its mass production. Also when you sell your items, you see the true value of the product. Also look how many brands outsource to other manufacturers eg: sunglasses. Slow purchasing is less likely to make you fall for trends and you will become more discerning consumer. You will discover quality over trend and open your mind to more diverse brands and designers that focus on quality

  • @broughttoyoubynmblake
    @broughttoyoubynmblake 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Many of us are happy to have found this channel. 👌🏾

    • @ColourfulNoir
      @ColourfulNoir  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Aww that really means a lot to me, thank you xx

  • @yummylife8984
    @yummylife8984 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This video is so on time, I just let go my LV eppi Noe, and again start to look for other bag… must slow down!:)

  • @leahslux6726
    @leahslux6726 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I could not agree more. You buy expensive phone case Eileen? I usually go for the $5 clearance box at my local phone shop, the last thing I bought was the Chanel Jumbo in July before the price increased. Great content as usual just the remainder I need. Thank you

  • @alexajazmin7559
    @alexajazmin7559 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    What do you think of Je suis Lou? Idr all the exact details but she is 24 and in the last 2 years she bought 2 birkins, 1 kelly, a picotin, and I think some other bags from Chanel, Dior… I can’t keep up. She claims she does not go into debt for these bags and saves up the money she makes from her e-commerce job and from TH-cam. I think she is being dishonest.

    • @Coastpsych_fi99
      @Coastpsych_fi99 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I’m young with a pretty decent income and live at home, I find her situation misleading.
      I would wager she’s missing some critical information, I know a number of people that have a trust fund, inherited money or has been lucky to get a high paid job via a contact / relative aka nepotism.
      She has noted her father is wealthy and paid for a number of her bags so it’s not unlikely that these could be important considerations. She might also sell the bags she’s been gifted to get new items. I know wealth kids that have been gifted cars worth up to $100k at 18 so you never know.
      I think for most viewers it should be made clear that many young people like myself (22) even though we could buy all of her collection / travel chose to invest/save our money to secure our future. Which should be the main priority, and reducing debt like student loans etc
      I guess it’s a trade-off and we’ll never know anyones full story!

    • @Coastpsych_fi99
      @Coastpsych_fi99 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I’m young with a pretty decent income and live at home, I find her situation misleading.
      I would wager she’s missing some critical information. I know a number of people that have a trust fund, inherited money or have been lucky to get a high paid job via a contact / relative aka nepotism.
      She has noted her father is wealthy and paid for a number of her bags so it’s not unlikely that these could be important considerations. She might also sell the bags she’s been gifted to get new items. I know wealthy kids that have been gifted cars worth up to $100k+ at 18 so you never know.
      I think for most viewers it should be made clear that many young people like myself (22) even though we could buy all of her collection / travel chose to invest/save our money to secure our future. Which should be the main priority, and reducing debt like student loans etc It’s very unusual and unique situation for most viewers 100%.
      I guess it’s a trade-off and we’ll never know anyones full story!

    • @cancancandi3008
      @cancancandi3008 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I saw on a previous post that her dad owns Cuervo tequila, so she comes from money.

    • @perthfanny3017
      @perthfanny3017 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Coastpsych_fi99 she said her dad only paid for her first LV bag. She has no trust fund. She explained her family used to be rich (her grandparents I believe) but that is not the case anymore. She has a regular job but makes more money on YT than at her job. She also got jewelry like a Cartier love Bracelet, a VCA necklace,... I get that she probably makes very good money but her spendings are extremely high and she seems to be able to buy so much more. I guess YT and product endorsement make really good money^^

    • @daliaa5294
      @daliaa5294 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I think she just spends all her money on bags

  • @drcandybonsu995
    @drcandybonsu995 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Another good advice. Thanks I really enjoy your video and honestly you have made me analyze every purchase now and I try to consume less and less

  • @MiuMiuG
    @MiuMiuG 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Another excellent video with some good food for thought. Thank you.

  • @wingsyinHK
    @wingsyinHK 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I like your videos so much and they help taking my rational mind back. There are only 2 bag design I like among all the brands and designs, Lady Dior and the Chanel classic flap/ diana. I recently got the small Lady Dior, after thinking about it for around 2 years. After that I don't have any desires to buy any other luxury bags. For chanel, their price increases in such an insane way so I guess I won't be considering it in the near future (unless one day I get a lot richer :p ).

  • @shonawainwright8017
    @shonawainwright8017 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very good message, and really trying to make these changes this year.
    What kind of brands do you buy T-shirts/ jumpers from? This year I’m wanting to focus on buying these type of items at great quality that last for more than just 2 seasons xx

  • @KimCher007
    @KimCher007 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    What also helped me being more minimalistic is knowing my skin undertone. I found out I am a cool undertone girl, so silver or white gold jewelry suits me so much better than gold. Also, I want piesces that last for a long time, so I only invest in fine jewelry.
    Funny is, u r wearing both gold and silver/white gold jewelry and I think silver colored looks better on you. :D

  • @zedrickapolloshorts6515
    @zedrickapolloshorts6515 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks Eileen for another life changing thoughts!!!🥰🥰🥰

  • @gorgeouss79
    @gorgeouss79 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This video was made for me 💯 My goal for 2022 is to watch luxury shopping 🛍 on social media from second hand. I won’t be buying anything until my bday (late October)!

  • @glorianelson9538
    @glorianelson9538 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'd love to hear about your drawing work. I saw some of your drawings a few weeks ago and I'd like to hear more about that if at all possible.

    • @ColourfulNoir
      @ColourfulNoir  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Noted! I'm actually sharing more about how i found my passion for drawing in the next video, would love to have you there xx

  • @maipham4766
    @maipham4766 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your knowledge is so helpful and profound thank you so much, you really helped me to buy less

  • @Ayakwooo
    @Ayakwooo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I just discovered you & omg I love the way you speak and your accent is so intriguing ❤️

  • @GA-vr7ob
    @GA-vr7ob 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi Eileen,
    I love every video you make. Smthg irelevant: can you pls make a video on cashmere pullover and cardigans that are worth buying for a low buyer that last for years. Thanks so much🥰🥰

  • @designsgood
    @designsgood 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    As always, you are spot on!

  • @akong331
    @akong331 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I don’t like it consume like fast fashion, but the crazy price increases are making me want to get it before the prices get too high 🤣

    • @blktauna
      @blktauna 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That's the trap they set for you. There's always pre-loved.

    • @xmochix604
      @xmochix604 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It’s a trap. Soon you’ll end up with tons of bags you won’t use and no cash left for yourself

  • @cindytan4028
    @cindytan4028 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow! Well said, Eileen. Hi Eileen, what are your thoughts of those luxury TH-camrs that do unboxing videos almost weekly? Are they really buying to consume themselves or just for show? The point is some do not have content in it, i.e what the measurement or how big it is.. it is just purely un-boxing. Not much information on the bags info... Also, they do Massive Luxury giveaways too...

  • @marieaxen645
    @marieaxen645 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks Eileen for a great video! /Marie from Sweden

  • @opalbeach9626
    @opalbeach9626 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Rich/wannabe rich people are consumed by materialistic things, wealthy people are consumed with multiplication. How do I turn my $10million into $30million. Rich people how do I buy more handbags shoes and clothes.

    • @xmochix604
      @xmochix604 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly

    • @antoa5825
      @antoa5825 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I will always remember Shaquille O'neal saying something like: I don't want to be rich, I want to be wealthy. The guy playing basketball on the court, he's rich, the guy signing his checks, he's wealthy.

  • @Lifeisbeautiful-ri2tb
    @Lifeisbeautiful-ri2tb 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It is so easy to fall into the trap of buying and selling, even with a one in and one out policy. With watching TH-cam hauls and unboxings, I have learned to keep in mind that the influencers have the disposable income to buy these luxury goods and I do not. I can save up for an item over time but I do not have their spending power.

    • @ColourfulNoir
      @ColourfulNoir  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      It's empowering to keep our own priorities in check xx

  • @tiggertay
    @tiggertay 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I don't buy luxury and I don't call myself a minimalist either. What I love is having items that last and can be used for years, regardless of their price point. It not only gives meaning and purpose to the money you earn and spend, but it's also an appreciation of the resources and work that go into making the item you bought.
    This is what I believe those of us in affluent societies have lost touch with, because we now earn our living from computer work instead of manual labour, and indirectly allows corporations and brands to create a buy and throwaway culture in our present society.

  • @hannahjamaica5743
    @hannahjamaica5743 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Helle dear EiLeen..i love what you wear sweater...hope u dont mind where did you buy it..thanks keepsafe

  • @Serena_9
    @Serena_9 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    LV is a fast fashion industry, they seem to launch new bags every other day :)

    • @zylbygdfn6542
      @zylbygdfn6542 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Not just lv, Chanel and Gucci and all the luxury brands as well. Nothing seems special any more. They churn out bags etc every 3 months.

    • @Serena_9
      @Serena_9 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@zylbygdfn6542 I feel like LV has a mass productions. Gucci in general is tacky anyway so I don’t mention it. Although Chanel is mass, but their bags retain more value than any other brands except some of Hermès bags.

  • @warningshoes8986
    @warningshoes8986 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I feel that luxury almost became fast fashion, consumerism got out of control recently. To me, the LVMH strategy is a mess and tends to cheapen it's own brands by over spoiling influencers. Everybody looks the same, everything has the same ! Luxury goes with rarety, not with over dosing. I am personnally tired of the just un clou bracelet that I've seen way too much, or the mini kelly bag that "only costs" 10000usd for fiting half of a tissue... 🤭Hauls always appear to be the most rated videos on luxury channels, which means that too many of us are still impressed by this kind of content, despite the void of it. The younger these influencers are, the more uncomfortable I get for them, because they're creating their own reality, that their audience take for granted. Love you girl 💋💋💋

  • @wildtruffle418
    @wildtruffle418 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    What is a reasonable collection size (bag, sweater, shoes etc)? Just doing a quick survey :)

  • @iamnobody2241
    @iamnobody2241 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m sorry that my comment isn’t about bags as I don’t have any from luxury brands. I’d like to point out that luxury beauty products look like they are competing with the fast beauty. After buying some from Chanel & Dior, I notice seeing their ads on Instagram a lot. It’s like every week or so I see a new Dior eyeshadow palette. Seriously. I wasn’t expecting it from an expensive brand but it’s happening.

  • @ah8064
    @ah8064 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You are a gem, Eileen. ✨✨✨

    • @ColourfulNoir
      @ColourfulNoir  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      You're too kind, thank you xx

  • @BananaAna-hw8wi
    @BananaAna-hw8wi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Spending on luxury definitely desensitizes you - spending $300 seems like a bargain when it is far from that….

  • @happygoluckystar8069
    @happygoluckystar8069 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is so valuable perspective! 🤗 thanks you! 🌷🌷 joanne

  • @haled.c6066
    @haled.c6066 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    thank you really thanks a lot

    • @ColourfulNoir
      @ColourfulNoir  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm so glad you liked my video! xx

  • @bellewong4127
    @bellewong4127 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wish you full recovery

  • @chauminh
    @chauminh 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Merci. Great tips

  • @ElegantPaws01
    @ElegantPaws01 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    As always fully agree.