in case people were curious the "soda can" cylindrical ball is supposed to be "aromantic asexual agender" which is also referred to as "triple A" and so in LGBallT it is represented by a AAA battery.
The only time it is okay to ask a person what their genitalia are is: 1. If you are intimate with them 2. If you are a doctor and it is related to the issue they are experiencing. Otherwise you have no right to know.
Occasionally: 3. To turn the question back around to terfs so they feel how awkward it is to be asked and reduced to just their genitals. As a teaching moment/a little treat.
But how are they going to be homophobic more accurately? Listening to the trans person? Egad! They must use a strategy much more civilized, like showing extreme interest in a persons genitalia!
I just figured something out (speaking about 'basic' biology and two genders). When someone says: - It's just BASIC biology!! Answer with: - Okay, so now let's study regular biology, shall we? I'm so mad that I haven't thought of it earlier, it feels like a very, VERY good weapon agains those people
Honestly, as a biology student who specializes in genetics, this "basic biology" and chromosomes stuff annoys me so much You think I could spend 5 years studying genetics if it were a simple topic, Dave?!
@@veravanriet2761 Exactly! I may just be going into my junior year of high school, but even I have a further understanding of biology, which shows either they are literal children or barely paid attention in school
@@kori_seawolf I feel like that's the point. It's not advanced biology. It's regular biology in my opinion. And the reason behind people not knowing basically anything is because some people don't want us to know that. Plus some human beings are just too comfortable in not knowing and they learnt to use this as an argument too.
@@veravanriet2761 Sadly these people will not listen, not matter what you'll tell them. You don't need to prove anything to them, you're just too smart for them ;)
The level of ace representation in lgballt is so affirming. It's so easy for ace and aro people to get left out of queer spaces, and to see our flags surrounded by all the other flags just makes me unreasonable happy. One of my favorite subreddits to see covered 💛
I also get a bit discouraged sometimes, especially back when there was a more pupil debat about ace being an actual LGBTQIA thing or not. I'm glad that the debat has died down, but the current "lgb without the t" is making me equally as sad
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That last one happened to me a couple days ago! I went bowling with my (transphobic) family and the guy asked what size “he” was, referring to me. I replied with my shoe size and he gave me the men’s size I told him. He also called me sir when I went back to return them when we were leaving.
Somebody on the street greeted me saying "hello miss" today, I felt the trans joy for real First time I pass in public, and I didn't even try that hard
The 'too young to know' BS has always pissed me off. I was having crushes on other boys as young as five years old, possibly earlier (my memory's a bit fuzzy that far back). At no point was I ever 'too young' to know who I had feelings for. I ALWAYS knew I wasn't straight, even before I knew what 'straight' or 'gay' were.
Not to mention that the straights will start gushing over the thought of LITERAL BABIES being sexually attracted to each other, simply because a baby was staring at another baby.
I was exhibiting dysphoria symptoms at 5. Unfortunately it was the 80s so nobody understood what was going on with me. I ended up repressing for 39 years and living a miserable existence for all that time
Pisses me off too cos its also used in the "when are you having kids" line of questioning. I knew from a very young age that I didn't want kids and my Mum's default was to say that I was too young to know for sure, I'd feel different when I was older. When in my late teens/early 20s (at uni) my Mum would talk about how I should have a kid just so she could raise it and couldn't grasp how fucking weird that was. And I again said I'm not interested in kids. And I'm now in my mid 30s (soon to be late 30s eek lol, where did the time go?) and I still do not want kids. And my Mum finally said that she has come to terms with never getting grandkids. As if my brother doesn't exist. And couldn't father kids.... One of the reasons I've never broached the topic of sexuality and gender with her. If she can't handle the concept of not everyone wanting kids, I don't need her to question my judgement on who I find sexually attractive and what I consider my gender to be (or more accurately not be).
@@AlexaFaie Same! I started saying I was never having children when I was 12; I also said that if I ever changed my mind, I would adopt one rather than bring a new one into the world. Over twenty years later, I have never once changed my mind...
i LITERALLY just had a conversation YESTERDAY with another bisexual about how just because we (both cis women as far as i know) happen to be dating a man, it doesnt make us less/not bisexual???? like bro that's absurd do you hear yourselves saying that, that's like telling someone eating a turkey sandwich that they don't like ham sandwiches anymore because they're not eating them AT THE SAME TIME ??
That, and they like to point out that most of us bi/pansexuals end up in hetero relationships, while completely ignoring not only the statistics of LGBTQIA+ populations vs hetero, but also the rampant biphobia within said LGBTQIA+ populations that often keep us from being able to date within our same sex. We’d have to be poly (and dating other bisexuals who “get it”, tbh) to be “valid” in their eyes, and then the goalpost would just move again. Plus, if you’re a bisexual male, you’re “secretly gay”, while if you’re a bisexual female, you’re “secretly straight”, and if you’re nonbinary, it’s all just for attention. SID: Nonbinary bisexual.
eating them both at the same time... would that be poly-pan/bi? actually sounds quite good to me... if you can find a turkey and a ham sandwich you can munch on at the same time.. wich is the real problem.
One of the issues with all the statistics regarding how prevalent lgbtqa+ people are, is all those that were lost from the older generations due to HIV/Aids, other illnesses, hate, and those who just never felt okay coming out or were allowed to grow up with the exposure to realize no "everyone notices the same sex from time to time."
as a swede i approve of asexuals invading denmark. also, the last meme reminds me of last time i went to norway, i was buying ice cream and the cashier(?) asked "what does he want?" about me. i was still closeted to most people and when i realized she called me a boy it made me so happy.
Straight, conservative ball: There are only 2 genders. It's a fact. It's science! LGBTQA+: What about climate change? That's science. Straight, conservative ball: 'That' science isn't real!
Youre forgeting the progression there in where the previous models were proven false. I.e climate cooling to warming to "change" and back to warming every summer.
I haven't come out to my parents as ace yet, but taking over Denmark WOULD be fun! Reminder to everyone to always love yourself and that you are loved and valid!🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️
@@dustygania2425irstly you don’t get surgery just for being ace… what? Secondly, you go through lots of stuff proving it’s right for you. Third, please stop spreading that misinformation. Not many people actually regret it because they aren’t trans. More regret it from societal pressures. Fourth, cis people take steroid all the time. Why can they do it but not trans people?
@@dustygania2425Trans people rarely regret transitioning, the regret rate is much lower than most types of surgeries. I hope you come to accept people as they are
As a cis person who was raised conservative, I had a breakthrough the day I realized that it was weird and creepy of me to think I was entitled to know the genitalia of people who were not interested in sexual contact with me. That I'm no more entitled to know what's in a stranger's pants than I am to know if someone is circumcised or the exact shape and size of their genitalia.
Yes! That is weird. It also doesn't make any sense for conservatives to want trans people in the bathroom that corresponds to their genitalia. Require that and you'd end up with very masculine trans men in the ladies room and feminine trans women in the men's room where they will look completely out of place and have to explain to everyone what's in their pants to "prove" they belong there and aren't in the "wrong" bathroom. Why would they want anyone to have to do that? That's WEIRD. And how would they enforce that system anyway? Hire some genital police to check? Not only is that WEIRD its a huge invasion of privacy. NO ONE should be asking, have to show or explain what genitalia they have to belong in a certain bathroom. I for one have never once seen another person's genitalia in the ladies room and don't want to know. I'm just there to pee, they are too. Stop making it WEIRD.
@@claritey exactly. The only naked butts I've seen in a bathroom have all belonged to children under the age of 5. I don't see why people care about the genitals of the person in the stall next to them.
Imagine if they wanted to argue with physics or chemistry professors becayse of basic physics or chemistry. NO, ATOM IS THE SMALLEST THING IN THE WORLD - THAT'S BASIC CHEMISTRY FROM ELEMENTARY SCHOOL! >:c
Yea. In my experience, if you dive a little deeper into subjects, you'll notice that you'll have to define terms, maybe even work out concepts and theories so that you can work with these. And as far as I can tell, you can't shorten and simplify arbitrarily much without loosing information, precision or ease of understanding. Talking to someone who doesn't know the definition of the terms or doesn't know the theories and concepts... like, I always feel like I can only take my time to first talk about definitions and theories, or I have to sacrifice information or precision.
@@cuesee.psyche Exactly. Imagine if they started telling you we all had to go back to doing maths with counting blocks again, because paper and pencil arithmetic, using calculators, or talking about sine and cosine was too complicated.
My son is nearly three and goes to daycare. His best friend in the whole world is a little girl the same age as him. They are adorable and do everything together, from playing cars to playing dress up to playing babies and everything in between. While talking to me yesterday morning, one of the teachers referred to the little girl as my sons 'girlfriend' and i cringed so hard! They are babies, let them be friends! 🙄
I do have a closeted genderfluid friend who is kinda buff and has a beard. I wish they could meet those transphobes just so they could experience the joy of being called a girl for once. But yeah, respect people's gender, it's not that hard!
So was mine! It was just a self discovery comic, honestly didn't expect Jamie to see it (also had no idea Jamie's self discovery was so similar to mine!)
I constantly tell transphobes that the definition of sex is different in evolutionary biology and in human medicine, and even explain to them that in human medicine sex is usually defined as the collection of different sex attributes, which makes it bimodal and not binary, yet the transphobes seem to tend to lack basic listening and googling skills to verify what I am saying for themselves.
Why should they have to research when school was supposed to teach them everything? If they didn't learn it in 5th grade, it clearly doesn't exist. /s(arcasm) No, but seriously, their lack of a want to learn actually pisses me off. It's confusing only because you refuse to try.
@@KateSW1997 I was talking about female sex and male sex in terms of evolutionary biology, and also intersex in terms of human medicine. Woman and man aren't terms used for the wide spectrum of life forms having small and big gametes. You wouldn't call a millions years old insect woman, would you?
I feel a big ppart of the equation too is just that conservatives have no sense of nuance? Like black and white thinking is soooo widespread among them and frankly even a lot of leftists
@@BlackHat-v4j I was referring to the title, which was about basic biology. There's this basic biology argument, but the two binary sexes in biology is from the evolutionary biology definition. The one used in human medicine is what is going to be more usable in a human everyday life situation.
I was told that wasnt allowed because I was female with big boobs so I had to be straight and avaliable to date. I told them I have the hardware just the software doesn't work. Confused person left feeling like an idiot :D
@@dark7859saaame with the chest dysphoria, but luckily I'm not considered generally attractive, so no one has ever told me I can't be ace, lol. My mom did make fun of me for coming out, but that's because she's kind of obsessed with sex and grand babies. Even my older sister, who is straight and in a relationship tells her that I'll have kdis before her (don't know where that idea came from, considering the aroace Ness and me being a virgin, lolol)
I know it unlikely anyone will see or care, but thank you Jamie. When i was 14 I got recommended loads of your shorts and it help my egg crack. I had approached the idea of being trans a little before I learned about you and was too scared to keep looking into it, but you helped me realize who I am. I will always be thankful for that
@@KateSW1997would you say that to a random cis child you see? I hope you live so far away that you don't even know where schools are if you think that is appropriate behaviour around minors
i went to counselling at uni and one of the things i talked about was worrying that my parents might find out i’m bi. the counsellor immediately asked “how do you know?? have you ever dated a girl??” bitch i hadn’t dated ANYONE at that point because my self-esteem was so shit i was convinced no one would ever love me so i just simply never asked anyone i found attractive out regardless of sex or gender tf do you mean i’m only bi if i’ve also dated girls why are you assuming i’ve dated men anyway i stopped going to uni counselling
Yeah, they don't seem to really be thinking it through, since everyone (except aces) was attracted to people (of some sort of other) before they started dating. You can see someone walking down the street, and you know whether you find them attractive or not. I found counseling at my university (actually both of them, because I went to two) to be similarly lacking. I talked about wanting to be a woman, and they never once said, "Oh, maybe you are trans. You might want to look into that."
15:43 History Lesson with Internet [cis] Uncle-Gay 🏳🌈! Back in the 1990s, we Gen-X LGBT+ folk _just assumed_ that anyone who was cis+hetero was going to attack us. Or hate us. Or otherwise React Badly to finding out we were LGBT+. Because, sadly, we were almost always correct about that. Which is why, when I joined a new employer in 2015, my younger coworkers Completely Confused me. Because they reacted to me saying, "My husband," with … nothing. No hostility? No freaking out? Not even performative-tolerance?!?! It was … just … so strange to this Gen-X gay, so contrary to my experience during my first 10-15 years being out. But now, the Forces of Hate, led by the TERFs and other anti-trans groups, are trying to restore that climate of automatic-hatred, starting with attacks on trans people. But I know, and all of my fellow Gen-X gays and lesbians know, that it won't stop there.
I'm so sorry you had to suffer through 10-15 years of awful disgusting evil mistreatment and hate people are just awful but I'm glad you found better people and makes me so f#%$ angry people are trying to bring back hate. Pride is amazing!!! No one can take that away!! 🏳️⚧️🏳️⚧️🏳️🌈🏳️🌈 We also need more pride flag emojis.
@@aidensudeyko183 Thanks! But as a Gen-X gay, I just expected to be treated that way. We just accepted it as a fact of nature, like "The Sky is Blue," "Water is wet," "Straights hate gay people unless they prove otherwise with their actions." And I think that that resigned acceptance as fact, that bracing for the hate, so horrified decent straight people that they started seeing all of the casual hate and just refused to put up with it any longer.
Genuinely used that phrase to explain to a medical professional before when they were confused about my presentation/plans for surgeries (it was relevant to the appointment, but i have also used similar to stop invasive questioning when not important). "Ideally, A man, but a Ken doll version not an anatomical model version" Or to shut down invasive questions "just think of me like a Ken doll, it doesn't matter because the bits aren't being used." Edited to fix spelling and add a portion of words that I forgot
Quick reminder that July is NOT queer wrath month, its actually disability pride month, which is a beautiful cause that we as queers should honor and lift up instead of erasing with “queer wrath month” jokes, even though they may be well intentioned. (Queer wrath is perfectly justifiable, but we gotta pick a new month)
I was hoping someone else had noticed/pointed that out. Given MO's and FL's new attempts to block gender-affirming care for trans disabled people specifically, it's a good time to respect and remember both communities.
We could always make our queer wrath directed toward ableism. (As a disabled queer person, I’m not offended by the wrath month jokes at all, but of course I can’t speak for all disabled people.)
That's all that exists of "Denmark" now. Cafès with cake and garlic bread. Dinos and Dragons on the walls. (We love self portraits) Knee caps because, well, of course.
I once commented on an "A is for Ally" post about how I know the A doesn't stand for me. A few years later I went to that comment and I left a comment about my realization that I was Agender... Turns out the A was for me.
Me, growing up: waiting to become sexually attracted to someone Me, eventually: It's not going to happen, is it? Loved all of the ace ball content today. 😂
Aaaaaaa that last one happened to me, yesterday and today- I was at the thrift store with my mom yesterday, and I complimented some guy's outfit - and my mom told me in the car that he apparently walked up to her afterwards and said "Your son is so precious, I hope he never changes." And then today, I told a worker at Walmart that his hair looked good, and he said, "Thanks, sir... or, uh, ma'am..." As a nonbinary, trans-masculine person, both of those made me so happy.
So yes Jamie, the whole "Ace people can invade Denmark" did originate with the idea that with 1% of the worlds population being ace our population was bigger than Denmarks. However a lot of ace people, myself included, are trying to move away from that joke because it is heavily based in colonial and imperial ideas and has moved away from the original point- that we are not a small proportion of the population.
That's very true and I totally get your point but as an ace dane, I love this joke! Denmark has a history of colonisation anyways and I know it's not serious, so I usually call myself a "sleeper agent" because I find it very fun. I know and respect that yo and others don't want to keep the joke up, but I will be. You are right that the joke has moved past the point at this time, because it was meant to be a simple "if you can't picture how many of us there are think about a (somewhat) well-known country like Denmark and know that there are more of us that this country." I'm still having fun through, tihi (as in laughing)
@@JDM-is-my-name Importantly though Denmark was not negatively impacted by colonization. Meanwhile Indigenous American cultures across North, Meso, and South America, African cultures, Polynesian cultures, South, South East, and East Asian cultures, and Australian Aboriginal Cultures are all still feeling the effect of colonization and imperialization to this day. It is the responsibility of everyone of dominant european cultures to work on decolonization and deimperialization, and joking about the matter when large swathes within the community have asked for it to not happen does not help.
2:15 ~ As an Aro/Ace former-Texan, we may not be able to outnumber America, but we can surely outnumber Texas ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°). Get their silly little laws outta here!
The egg cracking thing hit me with a feeling I didnt know I have- I know some cis people who wonder occasionaly, and some who don't, but I just thought everyone wanted/thought about being thw opposite gender at SOME point.
Hello Jammi, Official trans report According to recent evidence, we must trans harder and recruit larger. In order to accomplish this you shall be sent 50,000 vials of transchromium liaticacid. Please do your part and spread them to your town, and followers. Also due to the heat in Florida pride month will be getting a redo, please mark your agenda calendars for October. This is the end of the trans agenda update. -Jade Rose
Originally we queers did not want the us and were willing to leave it to the cishets We strike at midnight, once the gays are done with canada and the trans peeps are done with sweden
I can confirm 1 in 3 people are gay. I was at a restaurant with my family. There were 6 of us. Me: Pansexual Nonbinary Brother 1: bisexual cis Stepdad: cishet Brother 2: cishet Sister: Cishet Brother-in-law: Cishet so out of 6 people, 2 were not straight XD
One time I got asked what I have. I said "good question." They assumed not that I wasn't going to tell them, assumed that I didn't know. I then had to explain that, yes, I know, but I don't feel the need to tell people I learned the names of (and promptly forgot) a few minutes ago.
It’s just biology as a species that does not reproduce asexually we have two genders and using intersex as a excuse is weak sense it is literally a Rae birth DEFECT it is a mistake during the development process
Not gonna lie. The more this country (I live in the US) backslides on protections and rights for LGBTQ+ people, the more I wish I could seize control of the country and redo the flag by changing the stripes to rainbow stripes. Just to see the 'phobes lose their minds over the "disrespect." Every time someone mentions the Ace community invading Denmark I think of this. I wonder if they sell rainbow versions of the U.S. flag anywhere... ✌🤓🏳🌈
If they make those flags, I want one too. We (as a country) seemed to be doing ok for a while - slowly, but generally on the right track. But the phobia the last few years is just insane.
Back when I first started learning about queer identities and thought I was just an ally (egg not yet cracked), I thought the A was for ally. Never heard anyone talking about aspec identities. So I claimed the A..... after much self-searching and after finally coming across the term asexual for the first time...well, I hadn't been wrong in claiming the A. I feel like a lot of the "the A is for allies!" stem from the fact that until very recently no one was talking about aspec people at all. so many people didn't know they are a thing, and no one was explaining what the A stood for, letting people assume it was for ally. I, an ace myself, thought for a long time after discovering that I was queer I was a broken bi. Would have saved me a lot of grief if there had been more Ace rep and talk floating around the online LGBTQIA spaces back then.
The new setup is awesome! Might have to find that pizza lamp for my sister, so she has something to illuminate her map of Denmark during the invasion-planning phase. That last comic definitely hits home. Any time my brain starts chewing on itself, asking if I'm "really Trans" or "Trans enough," I remember moments where someone has said, "I'll just wait until he's done," or "Sweetie, we need to line up behind the nice man, okay?" it feels really affirming. (I'm masc-leaning non-binary.) Those snippets of joy are treasures.
As an Ace person, i don't know why we're perpetually cast as a mixture between garlic-bread obsessed Bond villains and some kinda over the top LGBTQIA+ Black-opps squad.. ..And I am not in any position to confirm or deny any such suggestions.. But i do want to know who talked. (No seriously, i want names.)
Bloody hell, got reminded of one reaction to coming out as ace. Got told immediately afterwards the asexuality didn't exist and I just didn't want kids. From a woman in her early 20's... I hadn't heard the one before, and I was going to be living with for a month. I didn't have a response prepared and I was so taken aback that I just laughed nervously and never mentioned it again
I actually had an encounter last night where a woman asked if I had a wife because of my rainbow keyring. I was like "No, I'm Ace, I just wear this to show support." And then we got into a 20-minute conversation or what is Ace, how I knew I was Ace, am I not lonely or "frustrated", etc. I'm pretty sure she had never had anybody really talk to her about this before because she had a Pikachu face on the whole time. Also, I think I got unsubscribed from the Ace newsletter because I don't remember hearing about invading Denmark.
10:09 - This was a missed opportunity to use one of the lesser-known, but freaking amazing punctuation marks. The "interrobang" - ‽ - is a woefully underused symbol.
@@BlackHat-v4j Well, what the transphobes hearts say matters is that all trans people are abominations to science (despite also saying science is leftist propaganda) and unfortunately, we usually have to lower ourselves to their basis of argument, and use that system to unravel their arguments and make them look dumb. But remember, don’t argue with an idiot. You have to lower yourself to their level, and they have the home advantage.
I'm at the point where I now look like I want to, and am now being misgendered the opposite way, people think I'm a guy wanting to be a gal... I don't know how to take that. I never wanted to be seen as gal in the first place! But knowing I look like a guy makes me happy...
OMG Jamie, I'm so glad there's more asexual and aromantic representation. We barely get any representation in LGBallT comics or other media, so I'll t feels really validating to get this
The whole "most cis people have never even considered wanting to be a different gender" thing is definitely one of the biggest factoids to make me realize that I am not nearly as cis as I thought I was, lol.
That's not always true though. I'm a cis man and a few years ago I kinda wanted to be a woman. Never had gender dysphoria though. But then just randomly I stopped eventually and was proud to be a man.
@mericanmodi8479 Literally not true in any way. What would you rather I call cis people? Normal? Real? Some other word that others trans folks and treats them like something false and/or lesser? How about no. Miss me with that.
Even with that fact, the operative word to me is MOST. Me, I'm cisgender, I'm a guy, I'm good! No dysphoria along the way to adulthood, thank goodness. But it would be weird and unfair of me to put rules on everyone else to feel or identify the way I do. Everyone's path to self-actualization is their own.
As someone who is a non-binary bisexual who is also very into science, it physically hurts me to see homophobic and transphobic people try to use science to justify their bigotry.
14:36... That was me for the longest time, I spent way to long thinking "I am a straight man who just has bicurious fantasies and fantasies about transitioning" turns out that was a lie that I told myself for way to long to tolerate the depression I didn't even realize I had because it just felt "normal" to me, I just assumed everyone was like that, also being the dumb kid I was at 9 years old I also thought it was perfectly normal to steal my mom's birth control because I wanted the hormones, and despite using things like cross dressing and makeup and things as coping mechanisms to manage my depression when it would start to get too bad it still took me till my late 30s to finally figure out I was trans. I seriously had no clue why the things I did managed my depression I just knew they worked and I just viewed it as 'normal'.
I love seeing the look on my son's face when he's correctly gendered in public. And he's slowly becoming more confident and correcting people when they galet it wrong.
10:46 so my current dnd character is a crazy old fisherman. When asked what he has "down there" he pulls a fish out of his trousers. The fish is named Damien and he's his first mate. Edit: he's also a trout.
6:26 In our case, it’s the opposite. Anything to do with dating or being love is more or less repressed and then everything goes into overdrive when one reaches a ‘marriageable age’.
Them: "Trans people are just repressed gay people!" Me: a trans guy who likes men more than women and has been in a happy relationship of 4 years with a man.
@@m00sing The word "cisgender" entered the lexicon in 1992. The first gender confirmation procedures, both hormonal and surgical, were carried out under the supervision of Dr. Magnus Hirschfeld at the Institut für Sexualwissenschaft back in the 1920s. The first transgender celebrities like Christine Jourgensen and April Ashley MBE started appearing in the 1950s and '60s. You're off by a literal order of magnitude. This stuff has been mainstream among humans for decades. The fact that you conservatives are only just picking up on it just goes to show mow vast the gulf is between our two species, and we are not going to change human society just to make you things comfortable.
Last month my dad did something very unexpected. During Pride month he actually complained about the Pride Parades & asked why didn't straights have one (in a somewhat aggressive tone) I stood there & stared at him & said "Did you REALLY just say that?" He said yes. I simply walked away. Keep in mind, I've been an ally since middle school when a lot of my friends came out as bi or gay. My brothers best friend is gay & to top it all off... his own brother is gay!!!! The fuck!? My dad has never once given off any trace amounts of homophobia... and now I'm worried...
@@m00sing During an ongoing genocide such questions are used to intimidate queer people. It is like White supremacists having a "white power" rally. Or the people responding to the "black Lives Matter" protests (over people being killed by police for being Black) with "All lives matter". It reasserts the social hierarchy: with white, cis-het men considered the "default". Speaking over the marginalized from a position of Privilege preserves the system that is killing so many.
@@KateSW1997 For the same reason why there aren't any plots reserved in cemeteries for people who are still alive, or why there aren't efforts to provide prosthetics to people who still have all of their limbs. You don't need it. Pride is a celebration of our survival in the face of adversity. You having a MAGAt meltdown every time you're reminded that non-cishet people are allowed to exist isn't adversity: it just means you're weak.
@@m00sing You should actually leave your basement and start getting your information about the outside world from humans instead of conservatives. Remember: a conservative is no more capable of telling the truth than a human is capable of teleportation. Lying is what conservatives do instead if breathing libe all other, objectively better life forms: the second a conservative stops lying is the second it dies. Expecting a conservative to tell even one, basic truth like "The sky is blue" is akin to expecting a human to go an entire year without oxygen. There's a reason why humans keep context with conservatives and other parasitic species to an absolute minimum, although I have connections in the CDC who are working on developing a cure for it as we speak.
That's very concerning... In a bad way. But here's the thing: you're not responsible for educating him. You can try to explain to him if you have the battery to explain why there isn't a straight pride, but only if you have the battery and want to. If you don't, he's going to have to educate himself on why there isn't straight pride. What you can do is to send him resources on why there isn't a straight pride and why it's vital to have pride month.
@@berrysnowyboy5251 Thank you for being the only person in this comment thread with intelligence on the matter. Like, my dad isn't a bad guy he just seems ignorant on some things. I had to explain the significance of Juneteenth to him because he couldn't seem to grasp why it was important. The man gets Black History month, but not Juneteenth, it was wild lol. Thanks for you input 😊
That ad was _weird._ I’m NB, I’m in no rush to physically change myself, but it’s a potential option if I ever make that decision. These ads weird me out. Can you explain why these ads are so weird?
Hi Jamie! I started watching your videos over a year ago when I was still tenuously hanging on to my agab, and now I’ve just come out as nonbinary to most of my friend group. I know you probably won’t see this but I just wanted to thank you for helping me figue myself out come to terms with who I actually am
16:40 When you talk about history vs preference and overall sexuality was really nice to hear. I have always thought of myself as straight, and only been with men, but recently started to question if I'm bi perhaps, however because I'm engaged I don't think it'll make a practical difference in my life so I ignored it for a few weeks. And only recently heard comments like that that, which combined with the nagging uncertainty increasing has me thinking I might actually need to figure it out for myself even it it doesn't matter. My past does not negate my identity if I find out I am, nor is it something I have to act on to have that identity, since I am in a committed relationship.
I just want to point out that if you're with the same partner for 50 years, it's understandable to desire to spice things up one day. So if you ever do decide that you are and want to experiment, talk it over with them. Maybe you are and it will be a learning experience. Maybe you aren't and you will still learn and probably make your relationship have a new spark
Some of the poeple whos comics were featured freaking out about it in the discord is my favorite thing about these videos! Theyre just so happy that you like their comics enough ti show them in the videos.
Finally, someone said it out loud - unless you're getting intimate, someone's -between legs- is not of your business. I mean, are you deciding whether you will talk to me about the weather dependent on my downpart? 🤨
5:20 I would've preferred it if it was shown through a live broadcast of ace ball in millitary attire making a speeche to the people of denmark, but this too is a great way to do it!
I'm asexual, and my dad has given me stupid jokes about me being attracted to people whose names start with A or just the letter A itself. He doesn't seem to believe I'm really asexual at any rate; he seems to think I call myself that for attention.
@@trevorchester4439 Maybe that's true in some cases, but not in mine. I call myself asexual because I figure it best sums up my sexuality. I feel little to no attraction to any sex. I'm not attracted to men, so I can't be heterosexual, and I'm not attracted to women, so I can't be homosexual. I also have zero desire to date or form any kind of romantic/sexual relationship, so it's absolutely not a coping mechanism.
@AntiWokeGrant I've heard that one before. I'm 21. You're right that I'm not social, but, see, the suffix _sexual_ refers to sexual attraction, which is separate from romantic attraction. Some asexuals date; they still desire romantic relationships, just not sex. People who don't feel romantic attraction are called "aromantic". I don't call myself that because I don't interact with others enough to know my romantic preferences, if I have any, but I'm sure that, by my age, I'd know what I'm sexually attracted to, since that only requires seeing a person's physical appearance. I've never felt sexual attraction, and I'm not sure I ever will. I call myself "asexual" because I figure it best describes my sexual orientation. I'm not attracted to men, so I can't be heterosexual, and I'm not attracted to women, so I can't be homosexual.
I'm sorry these stupid bigots incapable of listening seem to have been spamming this comment. I want you to know you are valid. They're just confused and think they're straight because they never experienced what it's like to find happiness in just living your life on your own. They'll grow out of it one day
It’s just biology as a species that does not reproduce asexually we have two genders and using intersex as a excuse is weak sense it is literally a Rae birth DEFECT it is a mistake during the development process
(As a nonbianry) -What were you born as? 🐈🦈-Don't remember I was just a baby -No like, what's in your pants? 🐈🦈-A weapon. -No, like what did you choose 🐈🦈-Violence. -Fair...
8:54 Story time I had a close friend when I was a teenager who tried to get me to be naked with him as part of a "game." I didn’t because I was afraid of what I was absolutely certain my body would do when we undressed. I was also full of internalized homophobia and convinced I was a cis male. Had no clue why I was so certain of how I'd react or why I wanted to do it anyway. Kind of wish I'd went along. It would likely have saved me years of repression of my sexuality because looking back I think I liked him as more than a friend but was unaware. "There were no signs" "They were friends" etc. It was decades later I figured my demisexual / bisexual nonbinary self out. (Before anyone asks, that means can be attracted to almost any gender but as a demisexual gets attracted rather than an allo.
@@FloridaManEvolvedI was never taught that in English class. You can argue that cis is being _used_ as a slur like the word "queer" a few decades ago, but most people who aren't trans wouldn't be offended by that Adjective.
@AntiWokeGrantboth are normal though, it's just an adjective. "Short men shouldn't exist, it's either normal men or tall men" "summer clothing shouldn't exist, it's either normal clothing or winter clothing"
in case people were curious the "soda can" cylindrical ball is supposed to be "aromantic asexual agender" which is also referred to as "triple A" and so in LGBallT it is represented by a AAA battery.
also known as the people who looked at sexuality, gender and the world and just said: no
So if you are Aro/Ace, you're a double AA battery then?
I’m an AAA battery! :D
@@starscreamthecruel8026 yes, often any 2 A-spec identities are nicknamed as AA batteries.
Why did I not pick up on that? I was fully willing to accept it as an aspec soda can 😅
As a Danish person, with the way our politicians have been fucking things up lately, I would very much welcome the aces as our new overlords
ill ask the others
I am on board if you are, although we must consult the council
@@nono-br5wk understood. Will you complete that?
Sorry but I have other plans. :P
I'll be there 👍🏻
The only time it is okay to ask a person what their genitalia are is:
1. If you are intimate with them
2. If you are a doctor and it is related to the issue they are experiencing.
Otherwise you have no right to know.
Occasionally:
3. To turn the question back around to terfs so they feel how awkward it is to be asked and reduced to just their genitals. As a teaching moment/a little treat.
But how are they going to be homophobic more accurately? Listening to the trans person? Egad! They must use a strategy much more civilized, like showing extreme interest in a persons genitalia!
ywnbaw + 52%
Exactly.
@@CoolestSwordFighter L + ratio
Bisexual lighting
I read this like it was a bisexual version of gas lighting and got so confused
I need some
@@iamthevillainofthisstory1240 its like gaslight, gatekeep, girlboss, but its be bisexual, eat hot chip, and lie.
@@safire07 YAAS
the lighting right behind is actually the trans flag!!!
I just figured something out (speaking about 'basic' biology and two genders).
When someone says:
- It's just BASIC biology!!
Answer with:
- Okay, so now let's study regular biology, shall we?
I'm so mad that I haven't thought of it earlier, it feels like a very, VERY good weapon agains those people
I always just respond with "uh huh, ever taken an advanced biology course? Because I have!"
Honestly, as a biology student who specializes in genetics, this "basic biology" and chromosomes stuff annoys me so much
You think I could spend 5 years studying genetics if it were a simple topic, Dave?!
@@veravanriet2761 Exactly! I may just be going into my junior year of high school, but even I have a further understanding of biology, which shows either they are literal children or barely paid attention in school
@@kori_seawolf I feel like that's the point. It's not advanced biology. It's regular biology in my opinion. And the reason behind people not knowing basically anything is because some people don't want us to know that.
Plus some human beings are just too comfortable in not knowing and they learnt to use this as an argument too.
@@veravanriet2761 Sadly these people will not listen, not matter what you'll tell them.
You don't need to prove anything to them, you're just too smart for them ;)
The level of ace representation in lgballt is so affirming. It's so easy for ace and aro people to get left out of queer spaces, and to see our flags surrounded by all the other flags just makes me unreasonable happy. One of my favorite subreddits to see covered 💛
I also get a bit discouraged sometimes, especially back when there was a more pupil debat about ace being an actual LGBTQIA thing or not.
I'm glad that the debat has died down, but the current "lgb without the t" is making me equally as sad
I loved the series of aro and ace family. Its so wholesome
Love this representation in the comics. Of course, I love it platonically because I’m aro ace too.
I feel the same way
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My favorite Gender fluid joke is that when it gets too hot they turn to gender gas instead.
My genderfluid friend wasn't answering my text during a heat wave a while back. I was so close to asking him if he had evaporated
gender fluid is a joke itelf
@@Alicia-zf3nqyou should’ve done that! It would’ve been hilarious!
I am in fact a gender gas
Keep up your *gender fluid* levels to maintain your *trans mission*
That last one happened to me a couple days ago! I went bowling with my (transphobic) family and the guy asked what size “he” was, referring to me. I replied with my shoe size and he gave me the men’s size I told him. He also called me sir when I went back to return them when we were leaving.
Best bowling dude
@@hallway_revenant7919 fr
Congratulations🥳
@@camillex5916 Thanks!
Somebody on the street greeted me saying "hello miss" today, I felt the trans joy for real
First time I pass in public, and I didn't even try that hard
That's Wonderful!
Congrats!
"It's science."
Psychology and easy to understand basic biology (real basic biology): What am I?
thank you for your username i would have absolutely misunderstood this comment otherwise
@@BeyondHydro Ohh yeah I see where that could be easily misinterpreted. Sorry
@@Finnley-supports-translives oh no worries, you're all good fam
The 'too young to know' BS has always pissed me off. I was having crushes on other boys as young as five years old, possibly earlier (my memory's a bit fuzzy that far back). At no point was I ever 'too young' to know who I had feelings for. I ALWAYS knew I wasn't straight, even before I knew what 'straight' or 'gay' were.
Not to mention that the straights will start gushing over the thought of LITERAL BABIES being sexually attracted to each other, simply because a baby was staring at another baby.
I was exhibiting dysphoria symptoms at 5. Unfortunately it was the 80s so nobody understood what was going on with me. I ended up repressing for 39 years and living a miserable existence for all that time
The whole “too young to know” thing had me in denial about being aroace until I was 18
Pisses me off too cos its also used in the "when are you having kids" line of questioning. I knew from a very young age that I didn't want kids and my Mum's default was to say that I was too young to know for sure, I'd feel different when I was older. When in my late teens/early 20s (at uni) my Mum would talk about how I should have a kid just so she could raise it and couldn't grasp how fucking weird that was. And I again said I'm not interested in kids. And I'm now in my mid 30s (soon to be late 30s eek lol, where did the time go?) and I still do not want kids. And my Mum finally said that she has come to terms with never getting grandkids. As if my brother doesn't exist. And couldn't father kids....
One of the reasons I've never broached the topic of sexuality and gender with her. If she can't handle the concept of not everyone wanting kids, I don't need her to question my judgement on who I find sexually attractive and what I consider my gender to be (or more accurately not be).
@@AlexaFaie Same! I started saying I was never having children when I was 12; I also said that if I ever changed my mind, I would adopt one rather than bring a new one into the world. Over twenty years later, I have never once changed my mind...
i LITERALLY just had a conversation YESTERDAY with another bisexual about how just because we (both cis women as far as i know) happen to be dating a man, it doesnt make us less/not bisexual???? like bro that's absurd do you hear yourselves saying that, that's like telling someone eating a turkey sandwich that they don't like ham sandwiches anymore because they're not eating them AT THE SAME TIME ??
That, and they like to point out that most of us bi/pansexuals end up in hetero relationships, while completely ignoring not only the statistics of LGBTQIA+ populations vs hetero, but also the rampant biphobia within said LGBTQIA+ populations that often keep us from being able to date within our same sex. We’d have to be poly (and dating other bisexuals who “get it”, tbh) to be “valid” in their eyes, and then the goalpost would just move again. Plus, if you’re a bisexual male, you’re “secretly gay”, while if you’re a bisexual female, you’re “secretly straight”, and if you’re nonbinary, it’s all just for attention.
SID: Nonbinary bisexual.
Amazing metaphor
eating them both at the same time... would that be poly-pan/bi? actually sounds quite good to me... if you can find a turkey and a ham sandwich you can munch on at the same time.. wich is the real problem.
@@karowolkenschaufler7659 Just double-layer your sandwich and date bigender people
The 'soda can' is actually a battery because Aromantic + Asexual + Agender = AAA
Thank you! I was wondering what that was...
That's hilariously awesome.
AA.... AAA.... AAAAA (I couldn't resist referencing this meme XD)
OMG I LOVE THAT
One of the issues with all the statistics regarding how prevalent lgbtqa+ people are, is all those that were lost from the older generations due to HIV/Aids, other illnesses, hate, and those who just never felt okay coming out or were allowed to grow up with the exposure to realize no "everyone notices the same sex from time to time."
as a swede i approve of asexuals invading denmark.
also, the last meme reminds me of last time i went to norway, i was buying ice cream and the cashier(?) asked "what does he want?" about me. i was still closeted to most people and when i realized she called me a boy it made me so happy.
Straight, conservative ball: There are only 2 genders. It's a fact. It's science!
LGBTQA+: What about climate change? That's science.
Straight, conservative ball:
'That' science isn't real!
@@KateSW1997 Actually yeah it’s like comparing two health conditions that have different treatments.
Climate change: Changing in climate. America shouldnt worry about it. There the 99th most pouplted country so
there is only 2 genders. Need proof?
Youre forgeting the progression there in where the previous models were proven false. I.e climate cooling to warming to "change" and back to warming every summer.
LGBTHIV+: trust the science!
_men have benis and women have bagania_
LGBTHIV+:NOOO NOT THAT ONE
I haven't come out to my parents as ace yet, but taking over Denmark WOULD be fun! Reminder to everyone to always love yourself and that you are loved and valid!🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️
@@dustygania2425Stop spreading misinformation about LGBTQIA+ people.
@@dustygania2425 ok buddy
@@dustygania2425irstly you don’t get surgery just for being ace… what?
Secondly, you go through lots of stuff proving it’s right for you.
Third, please stop spreading that misinformation. Not many people actually regret it because they aren’t trans. More regret it from societal pressures.
Fourth, cis people take steroid all the time. Why can they do it but not trans people?
@@dustygania2425Trans people rarely regret transitioning, the regret rate is much lower than most types of surgeries. I hope you come to accept people as they are
@dustygania2425 someone has a tiny peen and is embarrassed so he tries to bully others. 😂
As a cis person who was raised conservative, I had a breakthrough the day I realized that it was weird and creepy of me to think I was entitled to know the genitalia of people who were not interested in sexual contact with me. That I'm no more entitled to know what's in a stranger's pants than I am to know if someone is circumcised or the exact shape and size of their genitalia.
Yes! That is weird. It also doesn't make any sense for conservatives to want trans people in the bathroom that corresponds to their genitalia. Require that and you'd end up with very masculine trans men in the ladies room and feminine trans women in the men's room where they will look completely out of place and have to explain to everyone what's in their pants to "prove" they belong there and aren't in the "wrong" bathroom. Why would they want anyone to have to do that? That's WEIRD.
And how would they enforce that system anyway? Hire some genital police to check? Not only is that WEIRD its a huge invasion of privacy. NO ONE should be asking, have to show or explain what genitalia they have to belong in a certain bathroom. I for one have never once seen another person's genitalia in the ladies room and don't want to know. I'm just there to pee, they are too. Stop making it WEIRD.
@@claritey exactly. The only naked butts I've seen in a bathroom have all belonged to children under the age of 5. I don't see why people care about the genitals of the person in the stall next to them.
Growth! 🙏✌️💖
@@clariteyexactly, those people would go berserk if they saw Jamie in the ladies’ room 😂
Yea but… their doing it to kids
Basic science is often so simplified that it is almost wrong, since science is very complex.
Imagine if they wanted to argue with physics or chemistry professors becayse of basic physics or chemistry.
NO, ATOM IS THE SMALLEST THING IN THE WORLD - THAT'S BASIC CHEMISTRY FROM ELEMENTARY SCHOOL! >:c
Why does it feel like you're everywhere?
Yea. In my experience, if you dive a little deeper into subjects, you'll notice that you'll have to define terms, maybe even work out concepts and theories so that you can work with these. And as far as I can tell, you can't shorten and simplify arbitrarily much without loosing information, precision or ease of understanding.
Talking to someone who doesn't know the definition of the terms or doesn't know the theories and concepts... like, I always feel like I can only take my time to first talk about definitions and theories, or I have to sacrifice information or precision.
@@cuesee.psyche Exactly. Imagine if they started telling you we all had to go back to doing maths with counting blocks again, because paper and pencil arithmetic, using calculators, or talking about sine and cosine was too complicated.
Imagine if we only considered the most abundant elements, they’d only be Hydrogen and Helium. Oxygen?? That’s made up!! Only two atoms!!
❤🧡💛💚💙💜🏳️🌈
Daily reminder; You are valid and amazing just the way you are!
🏳️🌈❤🧡💛💚💙💜
@@dustygania2425Well I know for a fact that you’re not valid and amazing
@@dustygania2425 Hateful people are not amazing, but we will validate them for their identity as long as they aren’t doing it in a bigoted way.
@@dustygania2425sad when you have to like your own comment 😂
@@alicebthegachaweirdo8378honestly at this point I Just chuckle at dusty repeating hees points at nausium
Thanks Momamiandkiddokelsi.❤
And the same back to you. 🤗
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🖤🤎💜💙🩵💚💛🧡🩷❤️
My son is nearly three and goes to daycare. His best friend in the whole world is a little girl the same age as him. They are adorable and do everything together, from playing cars to playing dress up to playing babies and everything in between. While talking to me yesterday morning, one of the teachers referred to the little girl as my sons 'girlfriend' and i cringed so hard! They are babies, let them be friends! 🙄
I used to think my sister was straight, of course I also used to think she was my brother.
Lesbian trans women for the win. ❤
transphobes really see a buff man with a beard and go “yeah thats a girl” like how
I do have a closeted genderfluid friend who is kinda buff and has a beard. I wish they could meet those transphobes just so they could experience the joy of being called a girl for once. But yeah, respect people's gender, it's not that hard!
a buff man with a beard can be a girl
@@CherriBecker No offense, but what are you implying with this?
I'm part of the Countryballs fandom and there's a weird amount of queerphobia there, but I'm mostly happy this means more flags to memorise 🏳️🌈 🏳️⚧️
Try Countryhumans, they're nothing but gay
It's almost like Nationalism and Homophobia go hand in hand...
aoooughhh 😩
reddit moment with the queerphobia 😔
it seems strange for queerphobia to be present in a fandom about celebrating queer identities, but also that seems to be the par for the course
you were bored of real flags so now you memorize fake ones
Holy shit my comic is in this video😭
Thanks for reacting to it Jamie! I never expected this!!
Which one? /genq
which one? :D
So was mine! It was just a self discovery comic, honestly didn't expect Jamie to see it (also had no idea Jamie's self discovery was so similar to mine!)
Mine too! we have done everything right in our life's 😂
Congrats!
I constantly tell transphobes that the definition of sex is different in evolutionary biology and in human medicine, and even explain to them that in human medicine sex is usually defined as the collection of different sex attributes, which makes it bimodal and not binary, yet the transphobes seem to tend to lack basic listening and googling skills to verify what I am saying for themselves.
Why should they have to research when school was supposed to teach them everything? If they didn't learn it in 5th grade, it clearly doesn't exist. /s(arcasm)
No, but seriously, their lack of a want to learn actually pisses me off. It's confusing only because you refuse to try.
@@KateSW1997 and putting people into clothes and assigning roles to them based on mannerisms is hardly "evolutionary," yet here we are.
@@KateSW1997 I was talking about female sex and male sex in terms of evolutionary biology, and also intersex in terms of human medicine. Woman and man aren't terms used for the wide spectrum of life forms having small and big gametes. You wouldn't call a millions years old insect woman, would you?
I feel a big ppart of the equation too is just that conservatives have no sense of nuance? Like black and white thinking is soooo widespread among them and frankly even a lot of leftists
@@BlackHat-v4j I was referring to the title, which was about basic biology. There's this basic biology argument, but the two binary sexes in biology is from the evolutionary biology definition. The one used in human medicine is what is going to be more usable in a human everyday life situation.
Someone once asked me if I had nothing down there when I came out as asexual
As an asexual enby, I would've gone with it.
I was told that wasnt allowed because I was female with big boobs so I had to be straight and avaliable to date. I told them I have the hardware just the software doesn't work. Confused person left feeling like an idiot :D
@@starscreamthecruel8026someone: you can't be ace, you have big boobs
Me: *laughs in chest dysphoria*
@@dark7859saaame with the chest dysphoria, but luckily I'm not considered generally attractive, so no one has ever told me I can't be ace, lol.
My mom did make fun of me for coming out, but that's because she's kind of obsessed with sex and grand babies. Even my older sister, who is straight and in a relationship tells her that I'll have kdis before her (don't know where that idea came from, considering the aroace Ness and me being a virgin, lolol)
@@JDM-is-my-name could be in a "I'll have kids after hell freezes" kind of way (aka never)
I know it unlikely anyone will see or care, but thank you Jamie. When i was 14 I got recommended loads of your shorts and it help my egg crack. I had approached the idea of being trans a little before I learned about you and was too scared to keep looking into it, but you helped me realize who I am. I will always be thankful for that
@@KateSW1997Don't you have anything better to do with your time than bully someone?
@@KateSW1997would you say that to a random cis child you see? I hope you live so far away that you don't even know where schools are if you think that is appropriate behaviour around minors
i went to counselling at uni and one of the things i talked about was worrying that my parents might find out i’m bi. the counsellor immediately asked “how do you know?? have you ever dated a girl??” bitch i hadn’t dated ANYONE at that point because my self-esteem was so shit i was convinced no one would ever love me so i just simply never asked anyone i found attractive out regardless of sex or gender tf do you mean i’m only bi if i’ve also dated girls why are you assuming i’ve dated men
anyway i stopped going to uni counselling
Yeah, they don't seem to really be thinking it through, since everyone (except aces) was attracted to people (of some sort of other) before they started dating. You can see someone walking down the street, and you know whether you find them attractive or not.
I found counseling at my university (actually both of them, because I went to two) to be similarly lacking. I talked about wanting to be a woman, and they never once said, "Oh, maybe you are trans. You might want to look into that."
Sorry you had such a bad experience. I hope you have been able to find the support you deserve.
15:43 History Lesson with Internet [cis] Uncle-Gay 🏳🌈!
Back in the 1990s, we Gen-X LGBT+ folk _just assumed_ that anyone who was cis+hetero was going to attack us. Or hate us. Or otherwise React Badly to finding out we were LGBT+. Because, sadly, we were almost always correct about that.
Which is why, when I joined a new employer in 2015, my younger coworkers Completely Confused me. Because they reacted to me saying, "My husband," with … nothing. No hostility? No freaking out? Not even performative-tolerance?!?! It was … just … so strange to this Gen-X gay, so contrary to my experience during my first 10-15 years being out.
But now, the Forces of Hate, led by the TERFs and other anti-trans groups, are trying to restore that climate of automatic-hatred, starting with attacks on trans people. But I know, and all of my fellow Gen-X gays and lesbians know, that it won't stop there.
I'm so sorry you had to suffer through 10-15 years of awful disgusting evil mistreatment and hate people are just awful but I'm glad you found better people and makes me so f#%$ angry people are trying to bring back hate. Pride is amazing!!! No one can take that away!! 🏳️⚧️🏳️⚧️🏳️🌈🏳️🌈 We also need more pride flag emojis.
@@aidensudeyko183 Thanks! But as a Gen-X gay, I just expected to be treated that way. We just accepted it as a fact of nature, like "The Sky is Blue," "Water is wet," "Straights hate gay people unless they prove otherwise with their actions."
And I think that that resigned acceptance as fact, that bracing for the hate, so horrified decent straight people that they started seeing all of the casual hate and just refused to put up with it any longer.
Let’s not let them, trans rights are human rights🏳️⚧️🏳️⚧️
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@@foxcollias4444 We're Here!
We're Queer!
And you won't take us without a _Fight!_
as an enby, my immediate response to “what do you have down there?” would be “you know how like a ken doll is?”
This is my response from now on. “Ken doll”.
I just answer 'Like everyone; tentacles.'
"So whats in your pants?" "Danger". Lmao
Unironically my dream
Genuinely used that phrase to explain to a medical professional before when they were confused about my presentation/plans for surgeries (it was relevant to the appointment, but i have also used similar to stop invasive questioning when not important). "Ideally, A man, but a Ken doll version not an anatomical model version"
Or to shut down invasive questions "just think of me like a Ken doll, it doesn't matter because the bits aren't being used."
Edited to fix spelling and add a portion of words that I forgot
Quick reminder that July is NOT queer wrath month, its actually disability pride month, which is a beautiful cause that we as queers should honor and lift up instead of erasing with “queer wrath month” jokes, even though they may be well intentioned. (Queer wrath is perfectly justifiable, but we gotta pick a new month)
I was hoping someone else had noticed/pointed that out. Given MO's and FL's new attempts to block gender-affirming care for trans disabled people specifically, it's a good time to respect and remember both communities.
@@KyleRayner12 you know, I was almost chocked for a moment before remenbering- oh yeah, ableism
We could always make our queer wrath directed toward ableism. (As a disabled queer person, I’m not offended by the wrath month jokes at all, but of course I can’t speak for all disabled people.)
Me too. Happy to share disabled pride month with queer wrath if we can work together.
August could be Wrath month for queer and disabled. We all have a lot of it bottled up, let us combine forces!
4:37 Cake, Garlic Bread, Dinosaurs and Knee Caps. It’s the four ingredients needed to summon Aces.
That's all that exists of "Denmark" now. Cafès with cake and garlic bread. Dinos and Dragons on the walls. (We love self portraits) Knee caps because, well, of course.
Knee caps?
I once commented on an "A is for Ally" post about how I know the A doesn't stand for me. A few years later I went to that comment and I left a comment about my realization that I was Agender... Turns out the A was for me.
Me, growing up: waiting to become sexually attracted to someone
Me, eventually: It's not going to happen, is it?
Loved all of the ace ball content today. 😂
@@dustygania2425 “Have you been outside?” -OT
@@dustygania2425you have over one thousand comments on this channel, you really are obsessed, huh?
@@dustygania2425So you finally found something new to rant about I see, unfortunately it makes even less sense than your previous rambles
@@dustygania2425Who?
@@dustygania2425marriages have a higher chance of failing than transitioning
Aaaaaaa that last one happened to me, yesterday and today- I was at the thrift store with my mom yesterday, and I complimented some guy's outfit - and my mom told me in the car that he apparently walked up to her afterwards and said "Your son is so precious, I hope he never changes." And then today, I told a worker at Walmart that his hair looked good, and he said, "Thanks, sir... or, uh, ma'am..." As a nonbinary, trans-masculine person, both of those made me so happy.
Yo! I made the comic at 14:30 ! Thanks so much Jammi for looking at my comic, never thought I would make it into one of these vids but here I am! :D
So yes Jamie, the whole "Ace people can invade Denmark" did originate with the idea that with 1% of the worlds population being ace our population was bigger than Denmarks. However a lot of ace people, myself included, are trying to move away from that joke because it is heavily based in colonial and imperial ideas and has moved away from the original point- that we are not a small proportion of the population.
That's very true and I totally get your point but as an ace dane, I love this joke! Denmark has a history of colonisation anyways and I know it's not serious, so I usually call myself a "sleeper agent" because I find it very fun.
I know and respect that yo and others don't want to keep the joke up, but I will be.
You are right that the joke has moved past the point at this time, because it was meant to be a simple "if you can't picture how many of us there are think about a (somewhat) well-known country like Denmark and know that there are more of us that this country." I'm still having fun through, tihi (as in laughing)
It’s a funny joke for a British ace. Colonisation lol
@@JDM-is-my-name Importantly though Denmark was not negatively impacted by colonization. Meanwhile Indigenous American cultures across North, Meso, and South America, African cultures, Polynesian cultures, South, South East, and East Asian cultures, and Australian Aboriginal Cultures are all still feeling the effect of colonization and imperialization to this day. It is the responsibility of everyone of dominant european cultures to work on decolonization and deimperialization, and joking about the matter when large swathes within the community have asked for it to not happen does not help.
It also ignores the fact that Denmark is a NATO country. Maybe all LGBTQ+ people together could defeat NATO, but the aces alone can't.
2:15 ~ As an Aro/Ace former-Texan, we may not be able to outnumber America, but we can surely outnumber Texas ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°). Get their silly little laws outta here!
The egg cracking thing hit me with a feeling I didnt know I have- I know some cis people who wonder occasionaly, and some who don't, but I just thought everyone wanted/thought about being thw opposite gender at SOME point.
Hello Jammi,
Official trans report
According to recent evidence, we must trans harder and recruit larger. In order to accomplish this you shall be sent 50,000 vials of transchromium liaticacid. Please do your part and spread them to your town, and followers. Also due to the heat in Florida pride month will be getting a redo, please mark your agenda calendars for October. This is the end of the trans agenda update.
-Jade Rose
@@BlackHat-v4j affirmative.
@@therealfakerickc-1393 Suckerrmative
@@BlackHat-v4j Æriously
I’ll trans so hard. You don’t even know.
With all these bills being passed am I begging all asexuals to take over the U.S.
(As someone who may be aspec I can be your person on the inside)
I'm all for invading the U.S
Originally we queers did not want the us and were willing to leave it to the cishets
We strike at midnight, once the gays are done with canada and the trans peeps are done with sweden
I'm in the USA too. All aspecs ban together
+1 to the spies on the inside, let's get this (garlic) bread--
@@STPLafou yes
I can confirm 1 in 3 people are gay. I was at a restaurant with my family. There were 6 of us.
Me: Pansexual Nonbinary
Brother 1: bisexual cis
Stepdad: cishet
Brother 2: cishet
Sister: Cishet
Brother-in-law: Cishet
so out of 6 people, 2 were not straight XD
The statistics line up...
That's what it feels like in my family. Out of 15, two non-binaries and 4 bisexuals.
@@brickbot2.038 so is it 4 5 or 6 out of 15?
@@Finnley-supports-translives Oh, I meant 6 out of 15, but yeah, one of my enby siblings is bi.
@@brickbot2.038 I'm the only nonbinary in my entire family. And I'm constantly deadnamed and misgendered.
You’re so cool Jammie, you’re one of the reasons I came out 🏳️⚧️
Edit: Oh, I was actually first. Weird.
@@dustygania2425who are you talking about?
@@dustygania2425huh?
@@dustygania2425Your parents should’ve had an abortion if they knew their child turned out to be rude person
@@dustygania2425I think u misplaced a text message haha
@@dustygania2425get a real life 🧌
One time I got asked what I have. I said "good question." They assumed not that I wasn't going to tell them, assumed that I didn't know. I then had to explain that, yes, I know, but I don't feel the need to tell people I learned the names of (and promptly forgot) a few minutes ago.
"Its basic biology"
-From people who believe in talking snakes and magical people in the sky who bring other magical people back to life
Now that you mention it, I’ve never seen an atheist who was bigoted towards anything besides actual bigots.
@@lyokianhitchhikerwhat about the (old) TH-cam atheist community from like 2014 or so
@@cardboardking577 I mean, any who are still around from that era don’t have any bigoted views. I also never saw atheist TH-cam until the pandemic.
It’s just biology as a species that does not reproduce asexually we have two genders and using intersex as a excuse is weak sense it is literally a Rae birth DEFECT it is a mistake during the development process
"basic biology" from the same people who don't know the difference between social structure and biological structure......
Asexual bats!? 😍 They're so cute! I love when you cover this subreddit.
I love how he's so confused about the secret powers of the aces.
Add to creature list, so Dragon, Eldritch God and now Bats :D
Not gonna lie. The more this country (I live in the US) backslides on protections and rights for LGBTQ+ people, the more I wish I could seize control of the country and redo the flag by changing the stripes to rainbow stripes. Just to see the 'phobes lose their minds over the "disrespect." Every time someone mentions the Ace community invading Denmark I think of this. I wonder if they sell rainbow versions of the U.S. flag anywhere... ✌🤓🏳🌈
If they make those flags, I want one too. We (as a country) seemed to be doing ok for a while - slowly, but generally on the right track. But the phobia the last few years is just insane.
Saw a meme where you "help" people colour in their thin blue line flag with the rest of the colours.
They do make US+pride flags!
Since I'm trans, I figure that all I would need is to make the red and the blue a lighter shade, and it would be a Trans-American flag!
@@rev.rachel Awesome! I need one!
11:55 I'm asexual and the problem isn't that people don't want me, it's that people do want me and won't accept that I don't want them.
For me, people don’t want me and I don’t want them so it works out :)
Back when I first started learning about queer identities and thought I was just an ally (egg not yet cracked), I thought the A was for ally. Never heard anyone talking about aspec identities. So I claimed the A..... after much self-searching and after finally coming across the term asexual for the first time...well, I hadn't been wrong in claiming the A. I feel like a lot of the "the A is for allies!" stem from the fact that until very recently no one was talking about aspec people at all. so many people didn't know they are a thing, and no one was explaining what the A stood for, letting people assume it was for ally. I, an ace myself, thought for a long time after discovering that I was queer I was a broken bi. Would have saved me a lot of grief if there had been more Ace rep and talk floating around the online LGBTQIA spaces back then.
The new setup is awesome! Might have to find that pizza lamp for my sister, so she has something to illuminate her map of Denmark during the invasion-planning phase.
That last comic definitely hits home. Any time my brain starts chewing on itself, asking if I'm "really Trans" or "Trans enough," I remember moments where someone has said, "I'll just wait until he's done," or "Sweetie, we need to line up behind the nice man, okay?" it feels really affirming. (I'm masc-leaning non-binary.) Those snippets of joy are treasures.
When people disrespectfully ask 'No BUt whAT'S doWn THerE!?!?????' I usually answer 'Uh? Like everyone; Tentacles.'
clearly a flock of crows! smh.
it's an opossum! c'mon dude..
"The revelation of my true form would mystify and astound you... But if you really wanna know, you gotta get me dinner first."
As an Ace person, i don't know why we're perpetually cast as a mixture between garlic-bread obsessed Bond villains and some kinda over the top LGBTQIA+ Black-opps squad..
..And I am not in any position to confirm or deny any such suggestions..
But i do want to know who talked.
(No seriously, i want names.)
Bloody hell, got reminded of one reaction to coming out as ace. Got told immediately afterwards the asexuality didn't exist and I just didn't want kids. From a woman in her early 20's...
I hadn't heard the one before, and I was going to be living with for a month. I didn't have a response prepared and I was so taken aback that I just laughed nervously and never mentioned it again
one of my favorite responses to "what's,, you know, down there" is "down where? in hell?"
That genius
I would just say, "the basement".
I actually had an encounter last night where a woman asked if I had a wife because of my rainbow keyring. I was like "No, I'm Ace, I just wear this to show support." And then we got into a 20-minute conversation or what is Ace, how I knew I was Ace, am I not lonely or "frustrated", etc. I'm pretty sure she had never had anybody really talk to her about this before because she had a Pikachu face on the whole time.
Also, I think I got unsubscribed from the Ace newsletter because I don't remember hearing about invading Denmark.
I, for one, welcome our new Asexual Overlords. Did I say Overlords? I meant protectors.
I will do my best to r̶u̶l̶e̶ ̶o̶v̶e̶r̶ protect you
We can rule- I mean... protect you.
@@mother3434sucks that me and my enby army already took over the government. We will take better care than the aces.
@@KateSW1997 and look for a life instead of hating on people who did nothing wrong to you,
@@KateSW1997tell me you don’t know what asexual means without telling me you don’t know what asexual means
10:09 - This was a missed opportunity to use one of the lesser-known, but freaking amazing punctuation marks. The "interrobang" - ‽ - is a woefully underused symbol.
As an asexual in the US, I am happy to act as an inside agent
BASIC biology 😪🤢
ADVANCED biology 🏳⚧🏳⚧ 😎😎😎
Yeah imagine trying to argue basic biology when we talking about advanced biology 😎
Yea
@@ryanschoeff gender theory isn't biology. It isn't even science.
@@BlackHat-v4j Well, what the transphobes hearts say matters is that all trans people are abominations to science (despite also saying science is leftist propaganda) and unfortunately, we usually have to lower ourselves to their basis of argument, and use that system to unravel their arguments and make them look dumb. But remember, don’t argue with an idiot. You have to lower yourself to their level, and they have the home advantage.
@@BlackHat-v4j I used to be a biology major, and I still find it interesting.
I'm at the point where I now look like I want to, and am now being misgendered the opposite way, people think I'm a guy wanting to be a gal... I don't know how to take that. I never wanted to be seen as gal in the first place! But knowing I look like a guy makes me happy...
2:31 fun fact! Asexuals are close to overtaking Germany.
As an asexual German I can confirm
@@Stella_Le2772 3 million.
as an ace learning German, I am preparing
OMG Jamie, I'm so glad there's more asexual and aromantic representation. We barely get any representation in LGBallT comics or other media, so I'll t feels really validating to get this
Basic biology also says there are 5 senses. But we all know there’s more than that.
there is no "we"
@@Yeshua37AD bestie do you still think there are 5 senses?
@@kwowka define sense
@@Yeshua37AD uhhh, sight, hearing, taste etc? Duh?
Wdym the basic five are sight hearing smell touch and taste in order to include more you have to change the definition of a sense
Asexual here: we don’t WANT the US, but we’d definitely do a better job than the Repoopblicans
Why don't you want the US?
They outnumber us. Also, the mood here is not cohesive to eating garlic bread with all the homophobia and racism and guns and sh*t
@@UmongusSussehFrusseh not enough garlic bread and cake
sane person here: nuh uh
@@Yeshua37AD Make more cake and garlic bread.
I love how the artist gives the balls so much expression.
The whole "most cis people have never even considered wanting to be a different gender" thing is definitely one of the biggest factoids to make me realize that I am not nearly as cis as I thought I was, lol.
@mericanmodi8479once again, it is a prefix meaning the same.
That's not always true though. I'm a cis man and a few years ago I kinda wanted to be a woman. Never had gender dysphoria though. But then just randomly I stopped eventually and was proud to be a man.
@mericanmodi8479 Literally not true in any way. What would you rather I call cis people? Normal? Real? Some other word that others trans folks and treats them like something false and/or lesser? How about no. Miss me with that.
@@UmongusSussehFrussehdysphoria is not a requirement nor is it indicative of being trans.
Even with that fact, the operative word to me is MOST.
Me, I'm cisgender, I'm a guy, I'm good! No dysphoria along the way to adulthood, thank goodness. But it would be weird and unfair of me to put rules on everyone else to feel or identify the way I do. Everyone's path to self-actualization is their own.
There are not stupid questions, but there ARE inappropriate questions.
As someone who is a non-binary bisexual who is also very into science, it physically hurts me to see homophobic and transphobic people try to use science to justify their bigotry.
14:36... That was me for the longest time, I spent way to long thinking "I am a straight man who just has bicurious fantasies and fantasies about transitioning" turns out that was a lie that I told myself for way to long to tolerate the depression I didn't even realize I had because it just felt "normal" to me, I just assumed everyone was like that, also being the dumb kid I was at 9 years old I also thought it was perfectly normal to steal my mom's birth control because I wanted the hormones, and despite using things like cross dressing and makeup and things as coping mechanisms to manage my depression when it would start to get too bad it still took me till my late 30s to finally figure out I was trans. I seriously had no clue why the things I did managed my depression I just knew they worked and I just viewed it as 'normal'.
16:09 that's not a soda can, it's a triple a battery! 😂
agender, asexual, aromantic. all the ‘a’s
I love seeing the look on my son's face when he's correctly gendered in public. And he's slowly becoming more confident and correcting people when they galet it wrong.
10:46 so my current dnd character is a crazy old fisherman. When asked what he has "down there" he pulls a fish out of his trousers.
The fish is named Damien and he's his first mate.
Edit: he's also a trout.
6:26 In our case, it’s the opposite. Anything to do with dating or being love is more or less repressed and then everything goes into overdrive when one reaches a ‘marriageable age’.
Them: There's no such thing as asexual. You just can't find a partner.
Me: Realizing I am asexual while in happy relationship of 5 years.
Them: "Trans people are just repressed gay people!"
Me: a trans guy who likes men more than women and has been in a happy relationship of 4 years with a man.
Phobes know so little about biology that they don't even realize the difference between "Basic" biology and "Rudimentary"...
@@m00sing The word "cisgender" entered the lexicon in 1992. The first gender confirmation procedures, both hormonal and surgical, were carried out under the supervision of Dr. Magnus Hirschfeld at the Institut für Sexualwissenschaft back in the 1920s. The first transgender celebrities like Christine Jourgensen and April Ashley MBE started appearing in the 1950s and '60s. You're off by a literal order of magnitude. This stuff has been mainstream among humans for decades. The fact that you conservatives are only just picking up on it just goes to show mow vast the gulf is between our two species, and we are not going to change human society just to make you things comfortable.
The best response to "what's down there" is "but which way IS down" *vsauce music start*
Last month my dad did something very unexpected. During Pride month he actually complained about the Pride Parades & asked why didn't straights have one (in a somewhat aggressive tone) I stood there & stared at him & said "Did you REALLY just say that?" He said yes. I simply walked away. Keep in mind, I've been an ally since middle school when a lot of my friends came out as bi or gay. My brothers best friend is gay & to top it all off... his own brother is gay!!!! The fuck!? My dad has never once given off any trace amounts of homophobia... and now I'm worried...
@@m00sing During an ongoing genocide such questions are used to intimidate queer people.
It is like White supremacists having a "white power" rally.
Or the people responding to the "black Lives Matter" protests (over people being killed by police for being Black) with "All lives matter".
It reasserts the social hierarchy: with white, cis-het men considered the "default". Speaking over the marginalized from a position of Privilege preserves the system that is killing so many.
@@KateSW1997 For the same reason why there aren't any plots reserved in cemeteries for people who are still alive, or why there aren't efforts to provide prosthetics to people who still have all of their limbs. You don't need it. Pride is a celebration of our survival in the face of adversity. You having a MAGAt meltdown every time you're reminded that non-cishet people are allowed to exist isn't adversity: it just means you're weak.
@@m00sing You should actually leave your basement and start getting your information about the outside world from humans instead of conservatives. Remember: a conservative is no more capable of telling the truth than a human is capable of teleportation. Lying is what conservatives do instead if breathing libe all other, objectively better life forms: the second a conservative stops lying is the second it dies. Expecting a conservative to tell even one, basic truth like "The sky is blue" is akin to expecting a human to go an entire year without oxygen. There's a reason why humans keep context with conservatives and other parasitic species to an absolute minimum, although I have connections in the CDC who are working on developing a cure for it as we speak.
That's very concerning... In a bad way.
But here's the thing: you're not responsible for educating him. You can try to explain to him if you have the battery to explain why there isn't a straight pride, but only if you have the battery and want to. If you don't, he's going to have to educate himself on why there isn't straight pride. What you can do is to send him resources on why there isn't a straight pride and why it's vital to have pride month.
@@berrysnowyboy5251 Thank you for being the only person in this comment thread with intelligence on the matter. Like, my dad isn't a bad guy he just seems ignorant on some things. I had to explain the significance of Juneteenth to him because he couldn't seem to grasp why it was important. The man gets Black History month, but not Juneteenth, it was wild lol.
Thanks for you input 😊
16:14 Missed opportunity to call them The A Team
Seeing an ad for an anti-trans documentary play right before your video really completes the experience for me. Love your work, man! Keep it up!
That ad was _weird._
I’m NB, I’m in no rush to physically change myself, but it’s a potential option if I ever make that decision.
These ads weird me out. Can you explain why these ads are so weird?
@@KateSW1997 Whatever lol
@@Illogical_Tales that epic moment when strangers on the internet know you better than you do /s
"WHAT'S DOWN THERE" "it appears to be my feet" had me SCREAMING
Hi Jamie! I started watching your videos over a year ago when I was still tenuously hanging on to my agab, and now I’ve just come out as nonbinary to most of my friend group. I know you probably won’t see this but I just wanted to thank you for helping me figue myself out come to terms with who I actually am
phobes: - but it's BASIC BIOLOGY!!
chads: - basic is all you can achieve
and done !
the real chads are the ones who dont support pedophilia
It’s just biology as a species that does not reproduce asexually we have two genders
1:35 As a sex repulsed Ace I can concur. We do in fact have zero fucks to give.
No one:
Jamie: “Look, Pizza!”
It's a Flying Hat ;)
@@morgansidhe3543 UFH - Unidentified Flying Hat
16:40 When you talk about history vs preference and overall sexuality was really nice to hear. I have always thought of myself as straight, and only been with men, but recently started to question if I'm bi perhaps, however because I'm engaged I don't think it'll make a practical difference in my life so I ignored it for a few weeks. And only recently heard comments like that that, which combined with the nagging uncertainty increasing has me thinking I might actually need to figure it out for myself even it it doesn't matter.
My past does not negate my identity if I find out I am, nor is it something I have to act on to have that identity, since I am in a committed relationship.
I just want to point out that if you're with the same partner for 50 years, it's understandable to desire to spice things up one day.
So if you ever do decide that you are and want to experiment, talk it over with them. Maybe you are and it will be a learning experience. Maybe you aren't and you will still learn and probably make your relationship have a new spark
17:53
When your D&D character is an asexual bat
(They're name is Vesper and they are a noble, they are super cool)
Some of the poeple whos comics were featured freaking out about it in the discord is my favorite thing about these videos! Theyre just so happy that you like their comics enough ti show them in the videos.
As an ace, we are trying to take over
Finally, someone said it out loud - unless you're getting intimate, someone's -between legs- is not of your business. I mean, are you deciding whether you will talk to me about the weather dependent on my downpart? 🤨
0:03 you fool! this isn't even my final form!
Jamie struggling to pronounce mom legitimately made my day lol
5:20 I would've preferred it if it was shown through a live broadcast of ace ball in millitary attire making a speeche to the people of denmark, but this too is a great way to do it!
The best Pan Joke: If you are both Pan and Demi, you are a PanDemic! Careful, or you might catch some of these feels!
I'm asexual, and my dad has given me stupid jokes about me being attracted to people whose names start with A or just the letter A itself. He doesn't seem to believe I'm really asexual at any rate; he seems to think I call myself that for attention.
@@trevorchester4439 Maybe that's true in some cases, but not in mine. I call myself asexual because I figure it best sums up my sexuality. I feel little to no attraction to any sex. I'm not attracted to men, so I can't be heterosexual, and I'm not attracted to women, so I can't be homosexual. I also have zero desire to date or form any kind of romantic/sexual relationship, so it's absolutely not a coping mechanism.
@AntiWokeGrant I've heard that one before. I'm 21. You're right that I'm not social, but, see, the suffix _sexual_ refers to sexual attraction, which is separate from romantic attraction. Some asexuals date; they still desire romantic relationships, just not sex.
People who don't feel romantic attraction are called "aromantic". I don't call myself that because I don't interact with others enough to know my romantic preferences, if I have any, but I'm sure that, by my age, I'd know what I'm sexually attracted to, since that only requires seeing a person's physical appearance.
I've never felt sexual attraction, and I'm not sure I ever will. I call myself "asexual" because I figure it best describes my sexual orientation. I'm not attracted to men, so I can't be heterosexual, and I'm not attracted to women, so I can't be homosexual.
@@trevorchester4439 Well, go ahead and think I'm lying, then.
I'm sorry these stupid bigots incapable of listening seem to have been spamming this comment. I want you to know you are valid. They're just confused and think they're straight because they never experienced what it's like to find happiness in just living your life on your own. They'll grow out of it one day
My unit in the Trans Union will try to send a small shipment of garlic bread to your outpost, friend. Hold strong, remain true, and take over
As a gender-fluid person, yes, reject solid become *puddle*
Basic physics says that there's only three states of matter.
Advanced physics says there's more like 20.
Oh I only knew about 5 states of matter
Solid
Liquid
Gas
Plasma
Bose-einstien condensate
It’s just biology as a species that does not reproduce asexually we have two genders and using intersex as a excuse is weak sense it is literally a Rae birth DEFECT it is a mistake during the development process
(As a nonbianry)
-What were you born as?
🐈🦈-Don't remember I was just a baby
-No like, what's in your pants?
🐈🦈-A weapon.
-No, like what did you choose
🐈🦈-Violence.
-Fair...
8:54 Story time
I had a close friend when I was a teenager who tried to get me to be naked with him as part of a "game."
I didn’t because I was afraid of what I was absolutely certain my body would do when we undressed. I was also full of internalized homophobia and convinced I was a cis male.
Had no clue why I was so certain of how I'd react or why I wanted to do it anyway. Kind of wish I'd went along. It would likely have saved me years of repression of my sexuality because looking back I think I liked him as more than a friend but was unaware.
"There were no signs" "They were friends" etc.
It was decades later I figured my demisexual / bisexual nonbinary self out.
(Before anyone asks, that means can be attracted to almost any gender but as a demisexual gets attracted rather than an allo.
"whats down there?" is a weird question because would u ask a cis person that?
probably not.
thats why its stupid.
@mericanmodi8479cis is not a slur. It is a prefix that means the same. You would know that if you passed English class.
@mericanmodi8479 How is it a slur?
@@FloridaManEvolvedI was never taught that in English class. You can argue that cis is being _used_ as a slur like the word "queer" a few decades ago, but most people who aren't trans wouldn't be offended by that Adjective.
@mericanmodi8479 So let me get this straight: there aren't any people with oenises who call themselves "men"?
@AntiWokeGrantboth are normal though, it's just an adjective.
"Short men shouldn't exist, it's either normal men or tall men" "summer clothing shouldn't exist, it's either normal clothing or winter clothing"