What to Expect When Putting Your Pet to Sleep | Euthanasia

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  • Dr. Abel Lera, from Heron Lakes Animal Hospital, explains the process of pet euthanasia in order to alleviate the burden of saying goodbye to a loved one.
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  • @OriginalSirSpeaksAlot
    @OriginalSirSpeaksAlot 3 ปีที่แล้ว +771

    The easiest thing to do was say hello. The hardest thing to do was to say goodbye

    • @Esc322
      @Esc322 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Very true 😭😭😭

    • @danielbroschardt6426
      @danielbroschardt6426 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      More like, "I'll see you soon my best friend, just give me a little time" I love you Scooter and Jovi

    • @becky2235
      @becky2235 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Well said

    • @Geck_Gxng
      @Geck_Gxng 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      This made me remember my dog I couldn’t say goodbye you all should be happy you got too she was already asleep from a surgery and they couldn’t remove the tumor they had to put her down but either she woke up and was put down which I thought was cruel because why make her wake up while she just got cut open just to be put down I already said my goodbye earlier that day

    • @tinacollins9213
      @tinacollins9213 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Well said

  • @swayam4941
    @swayam4941 2 ปีที่แล้ว +448

    In life always remember this:
    "Don't cry because it's over, smile because it happened"

    • @oonaosborne8341
      @oonaosborne8341 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      yeah, but try having your first day of middle school, and your dog dying all in one day

    • @Ghost9er
      @Ghost9er ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes I'll only smile when I die next to my dog..I'm going commit suicide when my dog dies..

    • @heatherp1410
      @heatherp1410 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Thank you, I needed to read that ❤️

    • @Pgratss
      @Pgratss ปีที่แล้ว +1

      My dogs are getting put down this month and I don’t feel sad

    • @Pgratss
      @Pgratss ปีที่แล้ว

      They got put down last tuesday

  • @Vanessanavarrovet
    @Vanessanavarrovet 2 ปีที่แล้ว +289

    My dog was with me for 17 years of my life, until today. She’s not longer in pain now she’s running free without any soreness and she is sniffing all over the place . I’ll always love you BEBA ❤️ October 1/2021

    • @blckstang6363
      @blckstang6363 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Wow you obviously looked after her extremely well. What an age! She must of been a smaller breed. I had to put my 10 and a half year old rottie down today was one of the hardest things I’ve had to watch. I was with her till the end 😩😭

    • @Rammer_Jammer
      @Rammer_Jammer ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I have to put my girl down Tuesday she is 18 yrs old & I've had her since she was a pup she has cancer...I am so heartbroken 💔 😢

    • @Brightestlightt
      @Brightestlightt ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Rammer_Jammer hi had to put my 18 years old cat down yesterday and it was what’s best for him, today waking up and him not being around has been a nightmare, do you consider getting another pet ? The same one maybe ? This is so hard my house empty I found myself calling his name this morning but… no response 😭

    • @Rammer_Jammer
      @Rammer_Jammer ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Brightestlightt So sorry for your loss 🙏🏻...my girl never made it till Tuesday she died beside me in the middle of the night mon. morning...I loved her so much, still struggling without her.I feel your pain 💔 😢

    • @nikashby6363
      @nikashby6363 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Rammer_Jammer I saw your message and just wtd to pass on my healing thoughts x

  • @its_me_jooo
    @its_me_jooo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +364

    I had to put my dog down yesterday and I miss her so much. The house is so empty without her and her little bed is still here. I knew it was the right decision but it still hurts knowing you’ll never see them again…my heart is at peace knowing she didn’t suffer anymore. I love you so much, Nala. 08/05/21 ❤️❤️

    • @boeingah-64apache54
      @boeingah-64apache54 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I just put mine down at 12 tonight it went so fast. Bismarck 09/1/21

    • @its_me_jooo
      @its_me_jooo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@boeingah-64apache54 oh no, I’m sorry for your loss! Hang in there.

    • @327xp3
      @327xp3 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      my old dog will be put down next friday, i just cried reading this

    • @its_me_jooo
      @its_me_jooo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@327xp3 I’m so sorry to hear that..your dog probably lived a great life and know your dog will leave peacefully. Everyday gets a little better but I do miss my dog a lot. My sincere condolences to you.

    • @alberttong9459
      @alberttong9459 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Mine got put down today. I wish I could be home but I'm at college, I cried so hard on facetime. Doddi 11:00, 9/16/2021

  • @linda409
    @linda409 2 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    I cant imagine ever having to do this with my dog, i wish pets were immortal

  • @samanthasherman6750
    @samanthasherman6750 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    My honey is leaving today. We’ve had her since I was four, and I’m now eighteen. I was away at school this past year so I didn’t see the decline of her health, but I hope after today she goes somewhere else where she is strong again and can run and play like she used to

    • @mmkateey1222
      @mmkateey1222 ปีที่แล้ว

      I've had my dog since I was 9, and I'm now 18. My dog is leaving tomorrow, and its devastating. I hope you're doing okay xx

    • @samanthasherman6750
      @samanthasherman6750 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@mmkateey1222 i’m feeling much better. everyone around me is much more relieved too now that she doesn’t have to struggle anymore. i hope everything goes well for you, be sure you give yourself a break going through this x

    • @juciedskittles4202
      @juciedskittles4202 ปีที่แล้ว

      had my dog since i was 7 and now im 18 too, so i get your pain

  • @Thaeru2113
    @Thaeru2113 2 ปีที่แล้ว +142

    Reading everyone's comments here has helped me immensely to come to terms with having to let my baby go.

    • @daniellashah7995
      @daniellashah7995 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      It’s never easy but remember that letting go is also love not just holding love

    • @Geck_Gxng
      @Geck_Gxng 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      It’s selfish to not do it real love is being able to just do it think of it that way if anyone tells u otherwise ignore them

  • @nanettexg
    @nanettexg 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Just put my dog down today. I cried so much. At the same time I’m glad I got to be with her till her last breath and heartbeat. I miss you already luna. I wished for you on 11:11 in fourth grade, and 12 years later you passed away around 1:11. Thank you for being in my life and helping me in so many ways.

  • @caribemama
    @caribemama 3 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    My 9 yr old yorkie developed an aggressive form of cancer and I had to put him down. It would have been selfish of me to put him through pain because of my heart...I miss him beyond words can express. I will love him eternally!

    • @bobshearer1545
      @bobshearer1545 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      so sorry for your loss

    • @terrianrogers4266
      @terrianrogers4266 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Putting him down is sad and it’s wrong to me

    • @inderjitkaur852
      @inderjitkaur852 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Last day i lost my 7 yr old lab who was suffring frm nosecancer frm last 4 mnths.tht was so painful i m nt able to balance myself its a mntl pain 4 me i miss him badlyyy😭😭😭😭😭

    • @mycatiswaysmarterthanmosto8500
      @mycatiswaysmarterthanmosto8500 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@terrianrogers4266 you have no right to say that here. I would delete that if I were you. Its unnecessarily cruel. Just because you would let an animal suffer, doesnt mean the rest of us are that heartless.

    • @Karrambide
      @Karrambide 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      My mom said the same exact thing. I’m having three pets put down because they’re old and miserable.

  • @mycatiswaysmarterthanmosto8500
    @mycatiswaysmarterthanmosto8500 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Losing my beautiful 5 yr old kitty in 48 hours. I'm just devastated. Shes such an angel. Cancer is taking this beautiful girl too soon.😥 So so heartbroken.

  • @sharonhoyt2133
    @sharonhoyt2133 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I took my 19 year old cat...born in my house...but was dying painfully and slowly...it was time to end the suffering. I find myself expecting to see her in all her usual places but she is gone and what I am seeing are memories of her time in our lives. Love you Mary. Thanks for the years and the memories

  • @bookishtheory
    @bookishtheory ปีที่แล้ว +39

    I’m watching this the night before we put my baby to sleep. I’ve never had to do this before so I have no idea what to expect. Thank you for sharing 😢

    • @Betchawonder22
      @Betchawonder22 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Me too.😢

    • @alybaby941
      @alybaby941 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Me to..

    • @bookishtheory
      @bookishtheory ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Betchawonder22 I hope you are doing okay. ❤️‍🩹

    • @bookishtheory
      @bookishtheory ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@alybaby941 i am so sorry ❤️‍🩹i still feel the pain everyday, but it does get easier. Know that at least. And always remember that they loved you just as much as you did them.

    • @alybaby941
      @alybaby941 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@bookishtheory thank you so much for your reply, It really does mean a lot 🫂 I’m trying to stay strong. It may sound cliché, but our dogs will meet on the rainbow bridge and play now that we have spoken :) thank you

  • @shae0114
    @shae0114 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Just experienced this yesterday with my 14 year old lab. His hips gave out he never did though. The house is so quiet and I called out of work just because. I swear it hurts worse than a human sometimes. It was just a hard decision and talking it over with friends and family all weekend. My parents went with me, and I promise you through the tears and heart break, this should be the way every old and sick dog should have the chance to make their way to our furry babies heaven. We love you Sam boy! 8/28/22 💔

  • @dammdopeboy29
    @dammdopeboy29 3 ปีที่แล้ว +156

    Had to put my dog to rest for heart failure and lungs full of blood... its was really hard but it was the best option to end her suffering... rest in peace TuTi

    • @MissLisaBabyx
      @MissLisaBabyx 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Had the same last week 😭😭😭💔

    • @iikittyplayz841
      @iikittyplayz841 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Bad decision. I don’t believe in pet euthanasia.

    • @MissLisaBabyx
      @MissLisaBabyx 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@iikittyplayz841 its the most humane thing to put a beloved pet down, do u want the dog to bloody suffer !! Vet told me mine would have died if i didn't act and be in pain and suffer now i had to choose to put her in a heavy sleep and on pain relief to let her go slowly.

    • @miss4330
      @miss4330 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I did the same for my tuxedo cat yesterday afternoon. Congestive heart failure. He's finally able to rest and not have to worry about the fluid in his lungs.

    • @TrentEngineFan
      @TrentEngineFan 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@iikittyplayz841 Then you have no fucking heart.

  • @cornbread7685
    @cornbread7685 3 ปีที่แล้ว +190

    Thank you, I had to put my dog down a few weeks ago, and this really helped. I still miss her though ❤️ 😭

    • @DrLera
      @DrLera  3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Sorry to hear that, sending you virtual hugs from all of our family!

    • @sherri2905
      @sherri2905 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Feel your pain just rushed my dog to the vent we didn’t have much for surgery so we had to put him down 😭😭😭

    • @chetanraikwar3546
      @chetanraikwar3546 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😭😭😭

    • @maijacriner-harrison5161
      @maijacriner-harrison5161 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@girishgaur1361 😡Karma remembers not just ones' action.. But words too

    • @nevermind5321
      @nevermind5321 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      So sorry for your loss. :*(

  • @Angelccmf
    @Angelccmf หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Literally feel like I’m getting a panic attack hearing this info and have to watch my boy leave tomorrow morning 💔 I really don’t know how I will survive this

  • @vindiesel9267
    @vindiesel9267 3 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    When im thinking About the fact that i will need to put my Dog to sleep one day eaven tho he Is still a puppy and perfectly healthy my tears start Rolling

    • @DrLera
      @DrLera  3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      We understand how emotional it may be to think of that moment, however, we encourage you to enjoy your puppy and focus on the present. It's great to be informed about topics like these, but fear should not be one of the things that one takes from it. Best wishes!

    • @angiebrown8672
      @angiebrown8672 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      If he is healthy why put him down?

    • @vindiesel9267
      @vindiesel9267 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@angiebrown8672 i mean one day when he gets sicks and old

    • @angiebrown8672
      @angiebrown8672 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@vindiesel9267 ohhhh im sorry i didnt read that right thats my fault, dont worry about it now...enjoy the little moments with your puppy

    • @nevermind5321
      @nevermind5321 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I do that all the time but we have to try to not think about that day, we should enjoy all the time we have and make the most out of it or when we look back we might be mad at ourselves for wasting time on tears when they weren't even needed back then. I know, hard to do.

  • @Crissy24ful
    @Crissy24ful 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I had to put down my pet 4 years ago and today I miss him. It doesnt go away

  • @lydiah7184
    @lydiah7184 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    I’m putting my 12 year old basset hound boy down in a couple hours. So nervous. 😓 I just want it to be completely peaceful.

    • @MarlzJinx
      @MarlzJinx 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Im praying for peaceful passing. And just know you're being thought of right now.

    • @nkc0049
      @nkc0049 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You're in my thoughts

  • @KoolWooDidIt
    @KoolWooDidIt 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Watching this in tears right now. Im not ready to let my dude go yet 😪

    • @phoenixrising5088
      @phoenixrising5088 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      If he is suffering you must let him go. It is cruel to keep you dog in pain just because you can't key him go. We owe it to our beloved pets to not let them suffer. They would Never let you suffer. When there is no quality of life you must do the morally right thing and stop their pain and suffering.

  • @NeeNeeTrulyblessed
    @NeeNeeTrulyblessed 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Had to say goodbye to my fur baby yesterday morning. This put my heart more at ease. I miss her already. R.I.P MARLEY 💔 (sweetest shih tzu ever)

    • @DrLera
      @DrLera  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      So sorry about your loss, NeeNee. Sending you virtual hugs from all of our family 🐾❤️

    • @NeeNeeTrulyblessed
      @NeeNeeTrulyblessed 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@DrLera Thank you

    • @pallavisreetambraparni6995
      @pallavisreetambraparni6995 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      so sorry for your loss

    • @NeeNeeTrulyblessed
      @NeeNeeTrulyblessed 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@pallavisreetambraparni6995 Thank you. One day at a time

    • @Luckydog-cc9jn
      @Luckydog-cc9jn 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I am so sorry, I have been there before. Wishing your dog happiness, wherever she is ❤️

  • @robertellwood8601
    @robertellwood8601 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    You're a super hero. I just lost my best friend today

  • @bradleyrivera7497
    @bradleyrivera7497 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I have to say thank you for this comment section; I’m on my way to work while my family is home saying their last goodbye, I wanted to pet my dog for the last time after already saying my final goodbye, but I didn’t want her seeing me cry because as I walked out I told her I loved her with a smile on my face before walking out the door. At least I won’t see her suffer anymore and she will get to see her two best friends that already passed before her. It’s good to see I’m not alone in this situation. I love you Nikki 3/3/22 👑🐶

  • @user-um3yo9ul7q
    @user-um3yo9ul7q 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    The pain of putting an animal down is so much more amplified than a human sometimes because their little faces are so full of love and appreciation, being there for you when you need them or when you think you didn't. They are so innocent, and humans can be such jerks, that we wish all humans had the same animal authenticity.

  • @crazy3rdgen
    @crazy3rdgen 3 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    I'm trying to accept this as the right thing to do and it being humane but it still just doesn't feel right.

    • @maryann1412
      @maryann1412 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I know :(

    • @robcig
      @robcig 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yep. I had to put my twenty year old cat to sleep today. She didn’t want to go anywhere.

    • @thedudecalledalan9095
      @thedudecalledalan9095 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      it's called euthanasia, but my mind keeps calling it murder
      it doesn't feel right, but that's how you know your human

    • @crazy3rdgen
      @crazy3rdgen 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@thedudecalledalan9095 yea I still have guilt from a month ago, not sure if it'll ever go away. Buddy was suffering a little but still. Doesn't feel like it should be up to me.

    • @thedudecalledalan9095
      @thedudecalledalan9095 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@crazy3rdgen me too bro
      Had to do it yesterday

  • @Aawsomeguy
    @Aawsomeguy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Reading these comments brings tears to my eyes. I'm a dog and cat lover. Best friend and 4 legged family member.

  • @rustic328
    @rustic328 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    Thank you for this informative video, I’m trying to educate myself as much as possible because this euthanasia procedure is happening to my dog today.

  • @loveionshanpriale749
    @loveionshanpriale749 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I let my babygirl go to sleep on 9/16/2023. Everything that you explained was exactly was happened. My baby was so relaxed that she did not close her eyes. She stared at me until she was gone. I miss my baby so much but this is the best way to end the suffering for a beloved pet.

  • @canningcraftingcrochetingt7910
    @canningcraftingcrochetingt7910 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    We had to have our miniature schnauzer Frosty put down last november, she was almost 16 years old and we had her since she was a puppy. She was the first dog that was ever truly mine. I help when we brought her home, I held her when we said our finally goodbyes. Our vet did just as you and explained it very well. They took her out to put the catheter in and brought her back before giving her the sleeping medication. It was one of the hardest things I’ve ever had to do no one can prepare you for that. After the vet declared her gone, I held her a few minutes longer and then my husband took her and laid her on the table. I covered her with the towel they provided as I wanted to keep her blanket. I looked into to eyes one last time, I had to see that she was really gone and we left. She was cremated and we took her remains to a friends property that she loved running on and buried her in their pet memorial garden. Thank you for taking time to explain the process it is very helpful for anyone going through it for the first time.

    • @speaktruth9631
      @speaktruth9631 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      What made you make the decision?? Help me. Please.

    • @canningcraftingcrochetingt7910
      @canningcraftingcrochetingt7910 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@speaktruth9631 she was no longer able to put weight on her back legs. She’d had the spells for a while but only lasting a few hours. This time, it was three days. She was sleeping all the time and you could just see that she was suffering

  • @blair7055
    @blair7055 3 ปีที่แล้ว +83

    putting down my bb tomorrow. she had a good life :’) i saw you have a WWJD bracelet too! i have mine on right now and for some reason it gave me a little bit of peace. thank you for info

    • @cowz1812
      @cowz1812 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I’m sorry

  • @peachylavender
    @peachylavender 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    My dog’s euthanasia is in two days and I can’t stop crying. I see her suffering and confused because her liver is failing and I know it will be the right choice in the end but I can’t stand the thought of her not being here anymore. I love you so much, Skye. I’m sorry it had to end this way, you were my best friend and I will always remember you.

  • @user-gh1uv5ln5c
    @user-gh1uv5ln5c 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    The hardest thing we have to do is to let go. We had to put our Isabelle down a few days ago after being told she was in extreme pain and bleeding out. We had her over 12 years as a rescue and my house is empty without her. I miss her fluffy cuddles and kisses 😢

  • @codyhutchin1065
    @codyhutchin1065 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    My wife and I are 2 hours away from saying goodbye to our 6 month old puppy Chord. He was diagnosed with sensory neuropathy and his body is failing him. It’s the kindest thing we can do for him at this point… and the hardest.

    • @Xyz_Litty
      @Xyz_Litty 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      God bless you both

  • @FlowerKnight2
    @FlowerKnight2 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I'm not sure why I clicked on this, both of my cats are only 2 and 3 years old, but the thought alone of having to go through this is making me tear up, I want my cats to live forever. 😔

    • @nkc0049
      @nkc0049 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I just adopted my dog and after coming to this video I came into a realization that one day they will leave me
      I don't think I will have the ability to even think about putting my dog down

  • @SloppySalad
    @SloppySalad 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    My best friend was put to sleep last night. I'm in bits. But this video has helped me a lot. I just want to make sure he was ok when it all happened.
    Bless you, and all you do.

  • @tschw5577
    @tschw5577 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    This information is helping me deal with the mercy killing of my dog. The more I know, the more calm I will be for him during his last week alive. Thank you, Dr.

    • @DrLera
      @DrLera  3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Hi PJ, it is an act of love to not want someone you love to keep on suffering. We're glad you found this information helpful, best wishes.

  • @cbreiby
    @cbreiby 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    We just had to put my mom’s dog down yesterday from an aggressive mouth cancer. The staff were so patient and followed all of these steps IDENTICAL. Thanks for this wonderful explanation.

  • @sisterspot111
    @sisterspot111 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Saying goodbye to a loved one in two days. ❤

  • @_Me__
    @_Me__ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    On dec 19 my 16 year old dog was put down :( and I still cry 😭 and I went into the room and watched it happen and it took awhile for his heartbeat stop. Even when they took him to put in I IV thing he hand this look at us even tho he was blind and he knew what was going to happen. Rip Pavlo 😔. He was a very smart dog too.
    Edit: writing this was very hard to do

    • @nevermind5321
      @nevermind5321 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Love the name you chose. My psychology teacher told us a story about a dog named Pavlo but I don't remember it. :(

  • @brittanyschmalfeldt6761
    @brittanyschmalfeldt6761 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    My sister had to put her dog, Zoey, down today. Poor girl was old and had cancer. I was there for the process and it was hard, but I couldn't let my sister do it alone. We'll miss you, Zoey bear bear. You'll always be there there, everywhere where.

  • @jonathanbarrios6405
    @jonathanbarrios6405 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I’ve had my dog for about two years, prior to that he was my girlfriend’s dog for almost two decades. I never knew how much love I could develop for and old pupper.
    We had to put him down today as his kidneys were failing being repair. We could tell something was wrong by the extreme loss of weight and lethargy he experienced. We decided to be with him for a night and take him in the next day.
    Today I lost a part of me I didn’t know I had. A part of me that my old boy took with him. I’m forever grateful for his friendship, and that I could be by his side at the very end.
    I hope heaven exist so I can see him again, I miss him so much.

  • @aubreajojola7208
    @aubreajojola7208 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Taking my dog in a couple days - I’m so nervous. I wish he could continue growing up with me. We were kids together. I’m a wreck. Thank you for sharing this.🤍

  • @yasashiineko9069
    @yasashiineko9069 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    The vet is either coming tomorrow or the day after. My cat has been my companion for 20 years - my whole childhood - and I wanted to be there when she... goes to heaven.
    Thank you so much for explaining the procedure. I'm gonna miss her so much 😢 but she had a fulfilling life and when she looks at me or my parents now, it seems she herself is just waiting to die. But I don't want her to stay alive longer, just for my sake, if she's in so much pain already. Her soul will finally find peace and be free
    Gods, I'm crying so much just watching this video and typing my comment

  • @savannahrigsby2227
    @savannahrigsby2227 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I have to put down my dog tomorrow. She's been by my side for so long and brought me so much joy.. Its so heartbreaking to see her go and it feels so wrong to put her down... this video helped me a lot in understanding how its going to work and giving me some comfort..

  • @fpwebhome
    @fpwebhome หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thank you for going through the process. Although my "last visit" was 15 years ago I still feel that weekend. I loved my veterinarian and the only criticism I have of my Vet. is that he did not explain the steps/stages before hand so I would know what to expect. Though I knew it was the right time for the procedure I always wanted to be the last thing my dog saw when he was alive. When his eyes wouldn't close after that last injection I couldn't take it. I hugged him and left the room and building not knowing if he was gone for sure. Going home to my now empty house. So knowing that their eyes may not close does provide me some comfort knowing that I did not walk out on my dog in his final moments.

  • @ezra72477
    @ezra72477 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Giving our pets a great life is the best thing ever! I’m sure all animals know that someday they’ll be gone just like us humans! I still believe that the most precious & magical thing in this world is LOVE and it was given to them and vice-versa. ❤❤❤❤

  • @shizzle7642
    @shizzle7642 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    My 8yo chihuahua has struggled with congestive heart failure for couple weeks and is losing her battle.
    I’m spending my last weekend with her before taking her in Monday morning to say goodbye.
    Thank you for this video explaining what I can expect,,,, it’s so heartbreaking 💔😭

    • @naysahearn
      @naysahearn 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm so sorry for your loss.

  • @makaylaelder7408
    @makaylaelder7408 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Thank you so much, I put down my dog of 12 years down today and I didn’t want her to be mad at me for doing so. She was having trouble walking and I didn’t want it to get worse and have her struggle. Watching this made me feel more aware of what she went through. Thank you!

  • @maijacriner-harrison5161
    @maijacriner-harrison5161 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    You explained it so much better than my own vet. I had to put down my dying cat yesterday. 😢That last breathing thing you mentioned.. My cat did that and it freaked me out. I thought he was fighting to stay alive😿 Also his tail frizzed out 😩

    • @nevermind5321
      @nevermind5321 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Awe, I hope your cat didn't suffer any. :(

    • @maijacriner-harrison5161
      @maijacriner-harrison5161 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@nevermind5321 Thank you!❤ Well they gave him a shot that sedated him first.. And then he just kinda knocked/passed out after. That shot was to sedate and relax him. But as soon as he got the final shot.. That's when he took those 3 huge gasping breaths.. And then he was gone. His tail had frizzed during all that. Just writing this is making me cry.

    • @nevermind5321
      @nevermind5321 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@maijacriner-harrison5161 AWE I'm so sorry, I hope you're ok. I know it will be hard for me too, a long time from now I hope. I know another kitty will never ever replace what you have lost but they might help comfort you and become a new bff.

  • @fleurstube
    @fleurstube 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Thank you. I'm about to go through this and knowing exactly what will happen is very reassuring.

  • @juansirri5697
    @juansirri5697 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I had to put my dog down yesterday. So unfair dogs have a short life. They should live forever. Miss you Sofia thank you for your love and happiness. Please wait for me girl.

  • @curly364
    @curly364 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    My senior dog i adopted back in September 2010 has congestive heart failure, he also has seizures but without the shaking. Its so hard watching him struggle to get around but he also wags his tail trying to reassure me he's ok, when I know he's not. He gets so excited everytime he sees a box come in from the mail because he assumes its always for him from Barkbox. He loves his toys. I just wish he'd go peacefully on his own, in his sleep or isn't anxious. His body is giving out but his mind is still holding on. I for sure thought he was going to pass away this morning but he didn't. He purked up after 10 mins and seen I had beef jerky. After that he went in my room to sleep beside me while I worked. The euthanasia process doesn't sound so bad at all. I've had the first drug they use to put me to sleep for a procedure. I didn't know a thing but its knowing that I made the decision to end my dogs life that bothers me. I know he will die on his own regardless but there's times he just seems so happy and not ready to go. I've had to put down a cat and a dog in the past. I wasn't in the room when they passed but now I know its the best thing for the pet to do to comfort them. I just don't know if I'm strong enough to do it. I hate this so much. Its awful.

  • @Chopstick9589
    @Chopstick9589 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I haven’t had to do this, but it’s comforting to hear this explained to get an idea of what your fur baby is going to go through on that last visit. 🖤

  • @gary_cairns
    @gary_cairns 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Thank you. Had to put my dog down today and it was the most difficult decision :( He was diagnosed with cancer. It was really aggressive and I could see him slowly getting weaker and weaker. Our last week with him was so special. We gave him all the love and spoils that he deserved and made sure he was as comfortable as possible at home. I struggled with the decision but remembering him at his happiest and not letting him suffer is helping me get through it. My family and I were right by his side to let him know that it's okay. He was relaxed during the process and didn't fight it. We miss him so much ❤️

    • @inderjitkaur852
      @inderjitkaur852 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      My dog also had nosecancer i lost him last day its toooooo painful😭😭😭😭

    • @gary_cairns
      @gary_cairns 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@inderjitkaur852 I'm so sorry to hear 😔 it really is a heartbreaking thing to go through 💔 you'll miss them everyday but eventually it does get a little better ❤️

  • @deborascott2893
    @deborascott2893 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    I learned the hard way the first time I had to euthanize my small pet dog. I wanted to be with him but you definitely do NOT want to hold them in your arms. Leave on the table on a cozy blanket and caress their body that way. Because if you hold them you will feel them stiffen up the second their heart stops because it's like a little heart attack. And believe me you do not want to experience that. I cried everytime I remembered that part of his euthanasia for a couple of years, it was awful.

    • @deborascott2893
      @deborascott2893 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@andypandy7775 their heart stops suddenly. I know what I felt. First they are prepped with an IV. Then they given a sedative to make them sleepy and calm. Then when the owner is ready they put the syringe of an overdose of anesthesia which makes their heart suddenly stop. If you have a problem with that then I suggest you speak to a Veterinarian because this is how it was explained to me by my Veterinarian. This is how they put dogs down. Now if you have a cat then I don't know how they put down cats.

    • @shiniaa5006
      @shiniaa5006 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I did this two days ago

    • @sarahholland2600
      @sarahholland2600 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I really want to hold my pet when & if it happens, regardless, because I know it comforts her when shes scared.

    • @coolcutsgal2
      @coolcutsgal2 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Im sorry for you and your loss.
      I think I will just drop and go. No looking back. I think my boy has CHF. He was born in 2006 so he's 15. That's old in dog years. I don't want to put him through the pain.

    • @liliapaig
      @liliapaig 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@deborascott2893 That's very odd..that isnt how vets are suppost to put animals to sleep. The actually euthanasia ia super quick and painless. I work in animal welfare and have had to put countless kittens down. Depensing on how small the kitten is they normally inject directly into the heart. The kitten then falls asleep straight away no pain, happens so fast too, they are then declared dead as soon as 20 seconds later. The way your dog was pts wasn't right..not sure why the vet did that as it would have been much less humane than putting your dog to sleep.

  • @holocene2164
    @holocene2164 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Thank you for this explanation. I just went through this with my cat Micha and even though she went peacefully, I wanted to make sure the products used had not caused her any suffering or discomfort. Now knowing that the tranquilizer used is propofol, I'm reassured.That doesn't take away the pain of losing her or the deep sorrow I feel right now but at least, I know she really went peacefully, with me petting her. She had the loudest purring I've ever heard in a cat and was so special. My girl was almost 14 and and she died of lymphoma 😢 I miss you Micha but I won't ever forget you. Love you ❤

  • @psrpippy
    @psrpippy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I had to say goodbye to my best buddy and soul mate 6 hours ago. It’s heartbreaking but I knew it was the best thing for him. Whoever said “saying hello was easy, saying goodbye was impossible” wasn’t wrong. My baby boy Duster passed away in a room full of love and in my arms.

  • @dylangrubb9409
    @dylangrubb9409 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Me and my wife had to put our baby down today. He was only two, had beautiful teal blue eyes, and long black and gray fur and wasn't doing so well. I knew last night when I set him down and he couldn't keep himself standing anymore that it was his time... I was so scared and uncomfortable with the thought. I have always had a weird stance on euthinasia. I never thought it should be up to me to make that call, who the hell am I to make the call to end his life? But I knew that it had to be done.
    I wanted to scream and shout, and pull the fucking IV out as soon as the vet started... "He was only two... maybe he could still be alright" I thought... as his little body went limp, I was guilt-ridden and overcome with saddness. I loved that little furball. I'm gonna miss his little head-butts, when he would sit underneath my desk while I gamed. I just wish I could have done more. I just wish that he didn't have to go so young. I miss him, and it's only been 6 hours. I want him to come home, but I know he never will. But I do also know that he is painfree and no longer suffering. I just fucking hate losing him so much...
    Fuck this year.
    I love you, little buddy, and I'm sorry. Rest in peace.
    Ollie 9/22/21 5:45pm

    • @smellycat264
      @smellycat264 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Aww I’m so sorry !! Please don’t keep hurting yourself. It shot your fault hun. I promise. May God give you strength

  • @namastechica
    @namastechica 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    Thank you so much for this. I had to put my dog to sleep today and they took her to another room. I couldn't sit there and watch her be put to sleep. I couldn't even ask them how it was going to be done because I was crying uncontrollably.

    • @DrLera
      @DrLera  3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Hi, we're very sorry about your loss. We know just how difficult it is. We understand completely your decision, everyone is different and we've seen it all. We're sure you provided her with a wonderful life. Sending you virtual hugs from South Florida ❤️

    • @jaycee330
      @jaycee330 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I feel the same way, but I'll stay through the Propofol injection which makes them sleep, but not when the Soccumb or Euthanol is injected.

    • @rattiegirl5
      @rattiegirl5 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@jaycee330 Me too!

    • @nancyjean6177
      @nancyjean6177 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      My heart aches for anyone who has to say goodbye to a best friend. Cyberhugs!💕🐾

    • @sciencenotstigma9534
      @sciencenotstigma9534 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@jaycee330 I never thought of that option! Thank you so much. I don’t like that to be my last memory of my friend, the gasping and such. Last time my pet’s jaw dropped open in a shocking way, which I did not expect or I would not have looked. I’m sorry if this disturbs anyone, but I do want others to know the reality of it. You have put my mind at ease, a great deal. My 19 year old cat is in end stage kidney failure, and I prefer to remember him alive. Since the first shot will make him unconscious, I don’t believe he will feel alone if I don’t stay to watch him pass, unless it’s at home. I only euthanize if they’re in prolonged agony.

  • @Atrenu
    @Atrenu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    When my boy Stuart (Rottweiler Chow mix) was put down, my mother and I were in the room with him without question or hesitation (for reference, I met him when I was 4 and he left us when I was 14). The vet was so calm and understanding - even said "Thank you for being here with him. It means a lot for you to do him this last favor".
    I'm more of a cat person, but I will miss my boy Stuart every day. (Along with my other 2 childhood dogs, Charlotte (chocolate lab, died by being run over) and Emma (Jack Russell terrier, put down due to old age and what I assume was a mental condition - she was a sweet dog until something set her off)).
    Rest easy, my friends. I have since made friends in the form of my father's pets Shandy (Pitbull mix), Squeaker (some form of cat that I don't know to be honest) and Muffin (a Tortie that is floofy as can be), as well as my love, pride and joy Arya (my Maine Coon cat who is so sweet and playful... if a bit mischievous)

  • @funnyusay
    @funnyusay 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I always said I would never euthanize my dog. I found myself having to make the tough decision because she couldn’t eat or drink and starving due to oral cancer. I didn’t expect the emotional pain I felt for several months after letting her go. I kept asking the universe if it was the right decision. The guilt weighed so heavily on me. Then when it came to her ashes I wanted to keep it at first, then read that it was trapped energy. So I took her ashes and drove to her favorite park where she used to love running around. I kept thinking to myself if it was the right thing to do so she can be free. As I drove up close to the park the song, Stairway to Heaven came on the radio. I knew it was the universe speaking to me. Then after spreading her ashes I got in the car and drove away on the same park road when Dust in the Wind started playing on the radio. I was shocked but thanked the universe and I knew I did the right thing. RIP Lili. Thank you for the 18 years you stayed with me 💗 🐕 😇

  • @brandonneal9196
    @brandonneal9196 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Just put my dog down tonight! The propofol made him act weird /scared for a few seconds my wife and I were a little shocked. We just kept rubbing him telling him go (night night) mommy and daddy are here. His heart stopped within 15 seconds. I'm glad he's not in pain anymore but I think there should be a small pauses between propofol and euth drug. My dogs was needing about 15 more seconds. Haven't cried like that since I was a kid!

    • @DrLera
      @DrLera  3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Usually it does make them act a little drunk but I've never interpreted it as fear before. If they were fearful they may be more likely to try and bite us when we are putting them under for general anesthesia as we use propofol to help put our patients under anesthesia. So I really don't think that he was afraid and his last seconds.

    • @brandonneal9196
      @brandonneal9196 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@DrLera thanks I really appreciate your reply glad people care. He jumped up in fear, we had him 9 years he would do everything but roll over everytime we got close to him upside down rolling he jumped up eyes wide open in fear so we stopped. That was the exact face. My wife was by his head she calmed him but it replays in my mind. He just like our kid, went everywhere with us! Only happened a few seconds but it was horrible to watch I had his torso kept telling him "daddy is here, go night night" gosh I miss him!

    • @Phariequeen
      @Phariequeen 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Omg thank you for saying this. I have to make the call soon

  • @thefuture4266
    @thefuture4266 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you so much, I had to put down my dog today, it was one of the hardest things to watch but she’s in a better place now.

  • @LTKK
    @LTKK 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    My dog is only 3, but I’m trying to mentally prepare for when this day comes. I’ll enjoy every moment until then. Thanks for explaining this clearly.

    • @kinkac.
      @kinkac. 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Sadly you cant prepare mentally for this moment... :(

    • @elizabethrose104
      @elizabethrose104 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      My poor baby didn’t even get to turn 2 and we found him in a pool of his own blood after collapsing outside this morning 💔

    • @elizabethrose104
      @elizabethrose104 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Count every year as a blessing no matter how long

    • @LTKK
      @LTKK 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@elizabethrose104 Very sorry for your loss ❤️

  • @tripleare3699
    @tripleare3699 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Putting my dog down in a week... He's 13 1/2. Crazy how much this hurts. Been with us for almost 13 years. He was a rescue pup. Best on the spot decision I made. He started our family with my wife and I. He was there right from the start of our fresh relationship to marriage, watching my kids grow up, getting two other dogs. Watching our family grow, while he got older.
    I've lost relatives, friends, but this hurt is like no other. I know the guilt will set in.
    What was more important than taking the time to give a belly rub? Why didn't I stop what I was doing to get on the floor more often? This guilt, will go away, I know.... Just remember Dogs live in the moment. They don't hold grudges. It's that unconditional love they show you, that is why this hurts so much. His last week will be all about him and how we can spoil him. We will show him how much we love him, and how much he meant to everyone of us. I will thank him for all the happiness he has brought into our lives.
    I will make sure I am there by his side, to be his comfort his security as he was ours.
    He will always be in my heart and by my side, watching me grow old, until I see him again.
    Love you Parker. Love you ol' Man.

    • @sciencenotstigma9534
      @sciencenotstigma9534 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes, my cat has seen me through so many illnesses, heartbreak, and disappointment. I believe I made it through it all strong, because of him. I will see him off, also. He’s in end stage kidney failure, after 4 years of illness with CRF. He was still happy, though, but now he is suffering. 19 happy years! I hope I have the heart to do it before he suffers too much. I want him to feel loved, always.

    • @tripleare3699
      @tripleare3699 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@sciencenotstigma9534 sorry to hear.. In the moment you will think "I just want more time with him, i can put it off for longer, look at him, he's still fine" but in reality you are doing it for yourself. You are trying to prolong the thought of what is to come. When I was finally able to realize that I should not be prolonging his life because of my feelings I was able to feel a sense of relief that I didn't wait for ME. It was the best thing i could have done for my dog. I Still miss him everyday, but the thought of him not being in pain anymore helps the guilt subside.
      Regards.

    • @heatherp1410
      @heatherp1410 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Your comments are helping more than you know right now. With tears filling my eyes, thank you so much for sharing and for making me feel like someone else gets the exact feeling that I’m having.
      My bestie is a 17 yr old cat…I rescued him as a kitten ❤️
      The signs are creeping in but I keep pushing away the idea because he “seems good”..but I’m definitely being selfish.
      Cats are known for hiding their pain so what little I do notice, must actually be a lot for him.
      Thank you for taking the time to write you comments, they truly are helpful right now.

  • @tyallen2064
    @tyallen2064 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    We had to put my Boston terrier, Rocky, down today, this video helps, I’m glad there’s no pain

  • @Akitten84
    @Akitten84 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Thank you for going through this. My kitty Luke will be crossing the rainbow bridge in less than an hour and I just wanted a heads up on what’s expected. I don’t know how vets and their staff deal with this stuff. 💜

  • @caitlinb923
    @caitlinb923 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I have to put my cat down on Saturday. She is 16 years old and I’m devastated. I’ve had her since I was 15 years old. I’ve put two dogs down and one other cat before, but this one hits a little harder. She’s my best friend. Sleeps in my room. Follows me everywhere. Thankfully the vet is still allowing me in the room. I didn’t think they would because of COVID. Thanks for this video.

    • @caz8135
      @caz8135 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      So she's put down by now eh?

  • @minivanventuring
    @minivanventuring ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is something I have to face probably this week... Being with my baby my everything for 14 years, she looks at me like she's ready, but I'm not. However, I'm not going to be selfish. I don't want her to suffer. It's just a terrible thing no one should have to endure, but it is life.

  • @jeanielowe3246
    @jeanielowe3246 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I had to put my first kitty cat Molly down March of 2021 at the age of 12 almost 13 and she meant everything to me. It was such a hard loss because I had her since she was a baby. I did end up getting her ashes back in a really nice wooden cedar box. I was blessed about 3 weeks later in late March of 2021 with my now 2 year old kitty cat Dolly. But it's hard for me because she was my first cat and meant everything to me. Thank you for this video!!

  • @mastertech451
    @mastertech451 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I had to put my dog down last week and it was the hardest thing I ever had to do in my life. I grew up with him since he was a little puppy and he was the sweetest thing to have ever existed in my life. It feels strange now that he's gone, but I'm just glad that he lived a long life and is no longer suffering. I have a picture of him as my wallpaper on my phone so that he is always with me- even if he's not physically here anymore.

  • @kirstynmichele8113
    @kirstynmichele8113 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I just had to put my 15 years 9month (Almost 16 years old) dog down last night because she developed a mass in her chest which was more than likely cancer (we couldn’t figure it out because she was too weak and she can barely survive going under for a teeth cleaning) and it was so freaking hard. I’m only 22 and I got her when I was 5 turning 6 so over half of my life and it was heart breaking. I keep telling myself she’s not in pain anymore and the way you described it to me gives me a little comfort in knowing that she thinks she just going to sleep for her teeth to get cleaned like a regular visit. I’ve cried so many days leading up to it but once I heard her crying I knew it was time and I was being selfish. I treat my dogs like they are my family because they are but I don’t want my family suffering. Grief is hard but somehow I’m finding comfort in the comment section with strangers. Time heals all 💚

  • @themaskedunknoun5484
    @themaskedunknoun5484 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Put my dog down 6 years ago. Still hurts when I think about it. Miss you buddy.

  • @willieg7895
    @willieg7895 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Had to have my dog put down last year right on 9/11. He was 14 1/2. He was the best dog ever. He was my girlfriend's dog when we first met and we all took him in as a family. Believe me when I say, it's the hardest decision you'll ever have to make as a dog owner and I still miss him to this day. 😢😭

  • @deeemanuel4576
    @deeemanuel4576 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    We had to put our baby down the other day and this was explained. Thank you for this extra explanation.

  • @connie59do
    @connie59do 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I still struggled with the guilt of waited too long to put my beloved pup of 14 years down a few days ago. He had lymphoma, blinded by glaucoma in both eyes, had trouble moving around, and would pant excessively during night time the last 2 weeks of his life. He was still eating, drinking, loves walking on his good days, and eliminates regularly. Maybe I could had put him down before his second eye developed glaucoma? I didn't realize he was in so much pain. I am so sorry.

    • @Duhmenm1
      @Duhmenm1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It’s such a hard decision when they are still doing normal things like eating, drinking, enjoying walks….my pup is in a similar situation and I’m not sure tomorrow is too early or if I’ll end up feeling guilty if I wait any longer. I hope you find peace with your decision and I’m sure your pup enjoyed every minute of his 14 years with you

  • @pattysauce90
    @pattysauce90 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I’m putting my baby of 13 1/3 years down today😭 He is in pain and I can’t let him live like this. This is the hardest thing I’ve ever had to do thats “the right thing”. I’m going to miss you Bonbon🐶🌈

    • @misslissmissliss5971
      @misslissmissliss5971 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      So sorry it hurts so much.
      I'm putting my dog down today. He's 14 and has really lost his quality of life this past year. I've been crying all day just sitting next to him. His appointment is this afternoon. Best boy in the world.

    • @pattysauce90
      @pattysauce90 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@misslissmissliss5971 sending hugs xoxo

  • @StoicthoughtsbyMatt
    @StoicthoughtsbyMatt 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Had to put my dog down yesterday morning. Came home from exams and didn’t expect him to have to go so soon. I miss him so much 😭. I saw him grow up while he saw me and my brother grow up as children

  • @me4654
    @me4654 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thank you for explaining what happens, this was the first time I've ever seen one of my cat's have paw tremors and loss of bladder I was so worried that he wasn't asleep😢

  • @futurechamp2
    @futurechamp2 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    After watching dozens of videos on this topic, I keep coming back to this one. My cat is going downhill from a polyp/tumor growing in her nasal passage that is blocking her nasal breathing and putting pressure on the back of her eyes. I'm about to have to do this to my cat and I am so torn on what to do being that I have never had to do this before. Dr. Lera was correct, this is the hardest decision I've ever having to make. :(

    • @cashmeinparadise
      @cashmeinparadise ปีที่แล้ว +1

      My cat is going through the same thing.. she was diagnosed a few months back… we had surgery to remove the polyp…. But it came back.. her nose has a nasally discharge and her eyes are watering.. she’s not eating much so we’ve made the hard decisions and Will be going to the vet today 😢😢

    • @futurechamp2
      @futurechamp2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@cashmeinparadise So sorry that you are experiencing this also. Just know that doing this is such a selfless act, it has to be what is best for them. One of my mistakes was that I knew it was time to put her down, and I had others telling me to wait, she doesn't appear that bad. But they didn't know her as well as I did. That caused me to wait about 4-6 weeks too long. I am still upset with myself for making her suffer with that extra wait time. I lost her 10-15-2021 at 11:10am. I'll say a prayer for you and your sweet girl, thank you for loving her.

  • @grumpyschnauzer
    @grumpyschnauzer 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you for affirming we know when it's NOT time... often overlooked with trigger happy people.
    This doesn't really help those who are ready to put the dog down but there is nothing majorly medically wrong with them. We don't put elderly people down just because they have incontinence issues or can't walk as well anymore. My dog still looks forward to eating and drinking water, cuddling, sleeping through the night, and loving being taken around in the stroller. He's got stage one kidney disease but other than that and being unable to walk without falling over... he's an old dog. Why do we treat dogs like they are not entitled to be cared for in their oldest of age... you know, the inconvenient to human time of life? My dog is so inconvenient to care for and takes 24/7 looking after like he's in hospice but if I would listened to people telling me to put him down he wouldn't have lived and enjoyed another 5, 3 even 1 more year. Finally I met a vet who gave me a rough timeline of 6 months to a year and I'm at the 6 month mark. Some days he's senile like any other old person but some days he responds to calls and noises and does his pacing around the house (exercise). I have people in my life and strangers trying to pressure me to put him down and if I succumb to the pressure I will never forgive myself. I believe in dogs having the right to go naturally when they are ready and give them the dignity and respect to care for them the way they were loyal to us til the end. They are "mans best friend" and we turn around and stab them in the back by "euthanizing" or sending them to the death penalty because they are feeble and unable to care for themselves. News flash! They were never able to care for themselves! We think that as long as they are happy and running around they are living life and when they are sick or slowing down from old age, we can't just let them experience the highs and lows of living... nope, we just off them. Keep true to your intuition... don't let people pressure you into putting a dog down just for old age issues. Understandably if it's medical I get it but your dog deserves to live without looking over his shoulder to see if you are going to kill. His sad eyes are looking for affection, compassion and understanding not to be killed off. I know too many people who put their dog down just out of convenience of their lives. Just think about it and stop approaching things "the way they have always been done".
    My dog is 17 1/2 and we've been thinking he's a goner since he was 12 when he began showing signs of dementia. It was an adjustment but we made it work. He'll go when he's ready and it's our job to let him. Dying is an unhappy process but instead of suppressing and dismissing our own discomfort with it by putting down our dogs we should face it head on with our animal until their natural end. We don't do it to humans so why should we do it to dogs?

  • @romeoventosa9452
    @romeoventosa9452 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I would like to say thank you. I am about to put my best friend down in 2 hours, and hearing what to expect in a calm tone definitely prepares me a little more.

  • @nappssnapps2891
    @nappssnapps2891 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Why am I watching this!! It's super sad but super fascinating how the process goes.

  • @MartyHicks-hl5bh
    @MartyHicks-hl5bh ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for the caring tone of your voice and the detail in the way you explained the process.

    • @DrLera
      @DrLera  ปีที่แล้ว

      Glad it was helpful Marty, much love.

  • @food-o-tron
    @food-o-tron ปีที่แล้ว +1

    thank you bud. am putting down a life long companion this weekend. your video has helped.

  • @LynchGaming1999
    @LynchGaming1999 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I really appreciate you guys making this video because I have to put my dog down tomorrow and its gonna be difficult because this is the first pet I have owned that i've been emotionally bonded with... I am currently feeding him a lot of fries as he does love fries and that will be his last meal before we have to do the procedure.... I will always love you buddy

  • @tommac5411
    @tommac5411 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Nice job explaining a difficult subject.

  • @mirivi
    @mirivi ปีที่แล้ว +1

    its the hardest thing to do, letting animals go. i wish they could live longer.
    i miss you Asha ; 14/06/22

  • @Phariequeen
    @Phariequeen 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    My dog started hospice a few weeks ago. I’m doing my research so I can make the call. Thank you for this video. My vet and I are close, and she walked me through all of this..but I still have to watch videos. Thank you.

    • @DrLera
      @DrLera  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks for watching, glad you found it helpful. Best wishes 🐾❤️

  • @AlejandroHerrera-zs6cz
    @AlejandroHerrera-zs6cz ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My family and I had to put our 13 year old dog down a few days ago. It was hard because he never liked the vet and wanted to leave, and just seeing him go limp after the 1st injection broke my heart because he wanted to go home so badly. Felt like I betrayed him. But he had bronchitis, bladder stones, teeth falling out, and was beginning to lose his ability to walk. He was suffering too much, rest in peace Casper

  • @MarkusMeridius
    @MarkusMeridius 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lost my family cat a week ago now. He was diagnosed with a thyroid tumor when he was ten, put down just before his 14th birthday. He had a vomiting episode about a week before but seemed to bounce back until the night before when he just spiralled. My mum messaged me in the morning and came to pick me up so I could say goodbye. It's been a lot harder to process than I expected, he was a huge part of my life growing up and I would make sure, once I was old enough to move out, to still visit and give him a fussing. The vets were fantastic, I don't know how you could do it as often as you must, and remain composed. Thank you, all in your profession, for doing what you do with such grace and compassion. Rest in Peace Marley.

  • @4everT187
    @4everT187 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I had to put my tiny sweet poodle down last week. She was almost 13 and had developed heart failure, one of the hardest but strongest thing I ever did. She was my whole heart. I pray for strength, love and encouragement for everyone who is grieving right now

  • @vq_wolfy4306
    @vq_wolfy4306 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yesterday was my last day with my dog and it was so heart wrenching cause of how quick they it was. If felt like I didn't get to say bye in time and to see him scared killed me so much. But I really do hope I get to see you again Tanner. I love you so much
    Tanner 5/3/22

  • @StaceyHerewegrowagain
    @StaceyHerewegrowagain 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you for the insight on what the procedure is. It's come time to let our baby boy go and I appreciate how thoroughly you explained the process so I know what to expect. This is so hard for so many of us. We will meet again in rainbow heaven ❤❤

  • @JillAyn67
    @JillAyn67 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for your video. You broke this down very well. Putting my 18 year old cat down this week

  • @schmoab
    @schmoab ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I wish he was my vet. I appreciate the explanation and preparation for the procedure.

  • @suzettedevilliers5672
    @suzettedevilliers5672 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Watching this to prepare myself - saying farewell to our beautiful dog today - my heart is so sore

    • @speaktruth9631
      @speaktruth9631 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Help me, Suzette. Help me. Please.

  • @garnette396
    @garnette396 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This video helps, as my cat named Black-E-Pet of 15 years was put to sleep today. I’ll always him and the experience of being a pet owner.

  • @masonthomas6834
    @masonthomas6834 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thank you for this info. I have to take my 16 year old kitty to this appointment today in about an hour and you've helped ease the process on us. Thank you so much. ❤️😢

    • @DiBlaz45
      @DiBlaz45 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Just know you kitten is in a better place. Yet don’t forget all the memories you had!

  • @cruzdirector8637
    @cruzdirector8637 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for this kind video. IWe had to have my best fur friend euthanized two weeks ago. Sami was 14 yrs old, of, diabetic, blind, had become completely in continand had become incontenant, disoriented and was unable to navigate in familiar places sometimes.
    Our vet was great, explained everything before hand, put a nice fluffy blanket on floor where she could lay and we could sit beside her ( so grateful for no cold metal table) They gave her the first shot no iv, and once it was obvious she was in a sleep phase, then came the IV. THEY SO couldn’t get a vein the first time, had to go to a different area. For that reason I was so glad she had the first shot ( which she was used to, getting insulin twice/day.) The thing that I’ve been upset about was the vet,in explaining what might happen said her tongue may hang out. Ok, I could handle that, and yes it did hang waaay out. But then she started licking. Her head had moved a bit off the blanket and so she was licking the floor. I didn’t like that so I lifted her head up into my hands which made her lick my hand. I was reassured that was ok, she was unaware and it was normal. It was so upsetting to me. I grew up on a horse farm in KY. I’ve seen a lot of animals die, but this I had never experienced. Is this really normal, did she know she was licking my hand? ( the vet tech did bring in a folded towel and tucked under her head and that was better). Has anyone else here experienced the licking? I think It should have been comforting, but it upset me thinking how she served and trusted me and I felt like I was betraying her by doing this. Logically I know that isn’t true but logic and emotions don’t always jive., do they.

    • @MarlzJinx
      @MarlzJinx 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I did not experience the same. I wish my dog had passed as peacefully