I knew a woman who would get a cat, get bored after a couple of years, and have it put down. Then after a bit she would get a cat and it would all repeat. I hated hearing each time she got a cat because I knew what would eventually happen.
Just let me say this. I respect your job, immensely. I don't know how you all deal with it. Except to say thank God for vets such as yourself! Death is hard no matter if it's human or animals. Thank you for being a compassionate, loving veterinarian. 🐾🐾💞
@@shells4donna Just stating facts that Dr Jones has posted on his own website. @Lisa McNeilly seemed to be under the mistaken impression he is a practicing vet. His own website states he is not.
I have my 17 year old beagle and she is currently passing. We have her lying in her bed keeping her comfortable. I give her water. Today I carried her outside to at least enjoy the beautiful weather. It has been two days and thought about calling a mobile Euthenasia vet. After seeing the 600.00 for a single injection. We will just let her die peacefully. I have been crying. She won’t let go. She was a very stubborn beagle and we loved her for it. She now is stubborn about passing on. We love her so much.
Veterinarians take a pledge to uphold the welfare of pet parents and their pets but these days it's all about the money. Not long ago there was a fee for euthanize but now vets require a preliminary visit that can add greatly to the expected fee. And, in my opinion it simply extorsion on the part of vets to add that on. I'm dealing with an end of life situation with my doggie companion of the last 12 years and his vet wants to drain my bank account of the last dime.
@@robertmontgomery3892 hope your fur baby does better now. if you still look around for lower cost, the human society offer that service too for $50 at their location. The mobile vet has to charge for their travel time too, but less stress for ours during last moment ... I have to plan for the same = (
About the worst thing I ever went through was having to put down my beloved Gigi (poodle). I can't wait until I see her again in Heaven and all the pets I've ever had. :)
I had to put my Yorkshire terrier Harley my sweet sweet baby to sleep August 27, 2020. It was the most heartbreaking horrific day of my life. I still cry every single day I miss him so desperately! And I will be so lost without him until my very last breath and until I meet him in heaven. 🙏🙏❤️❤️
Thank you girls for your kind words! We will see our babies again in heaven! God bless you all! The Bible says, according to your faith be it unto you, Matthew chapter 9 verse 29. I have asked God to have Harley there waiting for me and all of my other pets and I believe with my whole being!
My dog was 10 years old when I had her put to sleep, she had been very poorly for some time, I had thought about when was the right to euthanise, it never seemed to be the right moment, until I noticed that this particular day she wanted me to take her for a short walk and then she spent the rest of the day sitting with various members of the family. I knew she needed to feel close to us. She was saying goodbye. The next morning my beautiful dog looked me in the eye and that look told me she had had enough. We took her to the vets, I wanted to run out of the room I couldn’t face it but I remember her turning her head and willing me to stay. I stayed and held her paw I realised it was about what she needed she needed me to be there for her, then she relaxed and it was over she died with dignity and love. I am crying tears typing this even though it was over 10 years ago I will never forget her. I learnt from this dog and previous dogs that they are intelligent and they know also when it’s time and they may be trying to tell us. X
It's so hard to lose them and worse when you have to see them decline and make that decision. I have had 3 dogs and one cat (each separately) and I still miss them all... I cried reading your post. Only one died without euthanasia. But it isn't any easier... you wonder if there was something you should have noticed, as he wasn't particularly old, but had had a hard life before we rescued/ adopted him. It is funny though for the first few months after each passed, they were definitely still in the house. I'd hear the jingle of of collar inside the house as I came home each day or I'd feel the pat pat my cat would do on my leg asking permission to jump up... he was very polite. The only problem with pets is they don't live long enough. (Long healthy lives.)
Thank you for sharing. Non of mine went so smoothly. You were lucky. Usually the vet tries to make between 1k-10k on the dying loved one just prior to the pets inevitable death. Then last min on the weekend it’s time you and your pet are dumped on whoever is there. Best way to tell if any living creature is finished/at the end with a long term illness is when they stop eating.
I'm a vet. Thank you for covering this. It is most definitely something I struggle with. You never get used to it. The finality of it still gets me and I've been doing this a long time. It's heartbreaking to see a client come in with their pet and leave without her/him. You have to be strong and professional but inside you're dying a little.
As a vet, do you think it is ethical to let a dog pass naturally from kidney failure? I am stuck between him getting euthanized or dying naturally. I don’t think he’s in pain but it’s hard to tell how much he is suffering. What if my little guy still wants to hang out and veg? I feel uncomfortable making this decision for him.
@S Zn I am not a vet. First I would do everything I could to help him/her to heal. I would use watermelon seeds and parsley and corn silk and dandelion root make as a tea and cool down and poured into ice cubes and gave it one to ozonated water to drink. After one week I would give him/her Uva Ursi tincture free of alcohol with water with a pinch of baking soda. UVA Ursi is effective against the full range of urinary tract infections only if the urine is alkaline. To achieve this effect, you should take 1/4 teaspoon of baking soda in 1/3cup of water with every dose of herb and avoid consuming acidic agent such as meat, Vit.C and fruit juice. Avoid taking Uva Ursi for longer than a week. The herb may temporarily turn the urine green. This is a harmless effect. Take all kidney and bladder infections seriously. They can cause complications if not treated promptly. Jf symptoms of a urinary tract infection persist for more than 48 hours, you should seek medical attent.
One of the hardest decisions for me was euthanizing my babies. When i got my babies i always said i would not let them suffer. Mia and Mya are indelible to me. They were family and blessings in my life. Mia ended up getting cancer and the vet said there was nothing else they can do. Mya had a fungus that spread to her brain giving her seizures the vet said it was time. I gave them the best of me and they definitely gave me the best of them i was not going to let them suffer. Mia was 11 and Mya was 3 months away from her 10th bday when i had to make the hardest decision I've ever had to make. They were and still are the love's of my life. I say all that to say , animals aren't things they are amazing beings with emotions idc what anyone says. In my opinion euthanasia should only be used when it's absolutely necessary period when they are suffering and there is nothing you can do about it. It should be a crime to euthanize an animal because it has become an inconvenience for you!!!
God bless you... mia and mya are curled up sitting on your star for you ... they are still with you... I believe 🙏 we will see our babies again .... sending you a virtual huggle ... I couldn't watch the video 😭 but reading the comments... God bless all animals and their parents 🙏 ❤
Darling Katy ,i really felt your words, I feel quiet inside after reading them. Please know that others care and send you love . I'm quite chocked actually . Wish I could be by your side , to reach out to someone like you that is so deserving of a gentle friend right now
When your pet is ridden with cancer and you have done everything to make their last days as comfortable as possible but you notice now pain setting in, it is time to let go of your faithful friend. It then becomes an issue of you being selfish and holding on or love for your friend. For many of us it is a very hard to decide but love for your pet should always win.
My thoughts exactly. When we allow our pets to be released from pain and sickness, it is a selfless act of true kindness. We feel the emotional pain of saying goodbye so they can be free of their physical pain. I also am always at their side in the final moments so that they're not left with strangers at the end.
@@helpfulnatural Yes me too, I've always stayed to the last moment and their last look at me but I know of people just leaving them with the vet. Bunch of cowards if you ask me.
@counselthyself I agree , I was glad my Dad decided not to go for chemo . There was no cure and that intervention would have meant a painful death. He passed of a massive stroke with only four days in the hospital. Up to that point he lived , had friends over and still enjoyed a beer. LOL
@@onlyinparadise4613 So , they hand their pets over to the monastery, easy fix.. They don't have to bother taking care of their pets , just dump them there. Heartless cowards !
Aww I’m sure it is I had to put my big guy down in November right after my birthday and I don’t think I’ll ever recover because he had tumors in his bladder so he was good from the chest up sick from the waist down I am just heartbroken beyond belief
I’m so sorry about your big guy, it breaks my heart. That’s exactly what’s happening with mine now he’s strong in the front but the back is getting weak. Hugs
My dog has the bladder cancer TCC. It crawls up the nerves into their spine. She has outlived the survival time with meds and diapers. There are some hard days. When she tells me it's time, then she will be let go into peace. This will be so very hard on me, but fair to her.
Aww Thanks guys for sharing they are such a big part of our hearts minds and lives I’m still recovering and think of him every day it’s such a joy when they’re in our lives in such a heartbreak when They can’t be anymore! And you all have hearts of gold
I've always let my pet decide what to do. I'm thankful it's always been very clear what the pet wanted. Sometimes the pet's wishes have caused me financial ruin for several years but their well being has always been the priority.
I had too. She lived 2 years with treatment, eventually the treatment was not working and she was suffering immensely,, she was adopted, lived 9 years with, she was probably no less than 13 yrs. old. I made the decision to put her down, I called that Chihuahua my fairy, her ashes are in my room next to my husbands. Her box has a porcelain fairy and a porcelain chihuahua that looks like her. Thank you!
All of mine died of natural caused. It is heartbreaking. My chihuahua died in April, I held him till his last breath. My heart is still broken. He was on 3 heart pills. He was 12 years old. I could never live with the guilt of killing one. , that's Just me.
Had a vet do a home visit 2 weeks ago for my 15yr old chihuahua who was very poorly. Much kinder in his own home on my bed. I knew the day was coming. That morning he couldnt even swollow water properly. It was a heart breaking decision but it was the right decision. He passed away from sedation alone.😢 😢❤🐾🐾
Thank you for this info. Thank you for all the best choices you make day-to-day. A good, heart-felt true story.....My Dad was a compassionate, basic, farmer with 10 children, on an old, rustic farm. One year he brought 7 cows (slated for dog/cat food) from an auction house...off the block and to a safe home. Loved, healed, in their often barn where he "healed" them over a 3.5 (and more!) month period. Blinded, starved, hairless, parasite filled..... they all healed, and were incorporated into our 19 stantion milk barn. Keep faith, Doc, there are still more healers out here. I'm saddened (seriously bereft) for all we don't, can't, save.... and daily pray for souls to change their choices and behaviors. Stay true to who you are, take care of YOU, too, each day.
My Dad was cut from the same cloth. I grew up on a farm and Dad was forever bringing sick and injured farm animals, wildlife, lost animals, ... home to repair. I'm now 65 and doing the same damned thing. I keep trying to quit, really, but it's a habit that I have had all my life. Hopefully, someone else will take over. It's a hard and heart-ache filled job, but the rewards are more than gold. I'm poor, but somehow I seem to make ends meet. We CAN change the world for the better. I just can't understand why we don't. Yeah, it's all about the money.
@@chinookvalley These are the actions of people in love with this beautiful life and those entrusted to our care. It has become all about money, this major society of ours. Love compounds. It grows... with each healthy breath and heartbeat. Thank you for bringing the hurt and lost into your life. Others are watching, even when wer don't know who they are. God is in charge and in control. Might mean we still have pain and confusion, but it won't stop us from being firm and strong when making the right decisions and standing by them.
I'm in the process of witnessing my almost 17 year old mini poodle transition through the dying process and as heart breaking as it is we just have to wait for his body to give up. I'm learning hospice care for him and with having 11 more cats at home its something that I know someday I'd have to go through once again.
This topic deserves MUCH more attention. Please consider doing more videos about this essential topic. I like what you have to say (including the scenarios/anecdotes you share) but you're just at the tip of the iceberg. Thank you so much.
Over 20 years ago I had the vet euthanize Bailey, my 5 year old Boxer who was losing her cancer battle. Just last year I finally buried her ashes. All these years and many dogs later, talking about her still makes me cry.
I pray when my little Patches time to cross the rainbow 🌈 bridge comes here just falls asleep. He’s 12 now and I can’t imagine having to ask this question but I also never want to see Him suffer he’s my snuggle buddy and the sweetest dog ever!!!
My sweet girl just fell asleep and quietly left this world. She was home in her favorite place I was with her. It was still hard but her natural passing was peaceful. When his time comes I hope yours is the same.
Many people know right from wrong. Part of this good, GREAT, life (experience) is to explore and experience all emotions... your support in explaining and sharing (when we don't even know one another) is the magic of technology. Your heart is huge. Classes for pet ownership should be required. I teach some folks who don't want the lesson. Now they don't come to me with their animal "stories" 'cause I won't accept their BS. I give them the numbers to the no-kill shelters, foster care groups, and follow-up. Tough love can be compassionate, and I feel for what you must decide on a regular basis. Prayers coming your way.
😫 terrible things to deal with.. Hardest decision any of us will make. Done it with many of my animals.. wish they could have just passed away naturally.
It is not as good as it sounds. They find somewhere to hide and then die and you cannot find the body until the stench spreads as it starts to rot and decay.
Sounds to me you did the right thing. You took away a period of time where they could have suffered greatly. They are going to die - we can’t escape it. My vet gives a drug that relaxes the pet and then gives the lethal dose of anesthesia. And we have to realize it’s anesthesia many of us who have had surgeries. I wish I could go in that manner - relaxed, sleepy and surrounded by a loving family.
Yes indeed. It's an extremely hard decision and it's getting harder. These days vets don't trust pet parents to decide when the time is right to euthanize their pet. No... Now you can expect to pay not one but two fees in an end of life situation. For starters you have to pay for an "evaluation" that might cost a couple of hundred dollars to insure that it's the right time and then you have the fee for the actual euthanize on top of that. Current law is allowing vets to extort money from pet parents and it needs to stop now. Those decisions need to be left to the pet owner.
One of the hardest things I have had to do. My dog was dying of cancer and in immense pain. Still didn't want to do it. I was selfish and wanted more time. It still tears me up years later. I would NEVER euthanize a dog I did not agree with. Sorry, I would not care if I lost a patient.
I agree with that, but had a dog I did euthanaze, My other 2 dogs and cat died at home. The one dog that I had euthanazed had stopped eating and drinking, had heart failure, with a sudden excess of fluid retention where he could not breathe lying down, and was exhausted. It was a horrible choice. I was with him at the last moment.
My Boston Terrier was diagnosed with a brain glioma. The neurologist told me Chipper had about six weeks left; he died in three. I promised myself he would never suffer the cluster seizures of my other Boston, who passed from meningoencephalitis. I waited too long also wanting more time, until he seizured repeatedly until he died in my arms at the vet. Still beat myself up for prolonging his life needlessly because I couldn’t let him go.
@@TheIntlwoman The day before he died, did he enjoy your company? If so, then you allowed him to pass naturally allowing him to have as much time with you as he needed. Relationships are two way. I know not of any human in a nursing home that would not like more last days. One of the dogs I had that died at home, also a difficult thing. was surrounded by the other dogs, and his favorite human, my daughter stopped in for a last visit. This dog that had no energy and could not stand up, became animated with the other dogs and my daughter visiting. No she did not stand up, but wagged her tail and lifted her head. As a nurse, I have witnessed seniors in nursing homes, that moan and are barely conscious near death, but become younger if you wish when family visits, and animated, and then return to a resting / dying state. It is impossible to predict when the last day is, and more impossible to make the decision to euthanize, as pets have good and bad days before they die. The only rule of thumb I know, is when they stop eating, when they stop drinking, even they know the end is near. Death usually occurs in 3 days or less. My condolences on the loss of you friend.
@@TheIntlwoman My Boston Terrier had a brain glioma too, and we fought it with everything we could. I wanted more time. I don't even want to total the thousands I spent at the vet trying to save him, but one day the vet said that she would have to recommend euthanasia. I had to step back and look at him. She was right. I'd kept him alive more for myself than for him. He had lost a lot of weight, had frequent seizures, and seemed disoriented, among other things. Euthanasia was the most humane choice, and I had him put down. He was gone before the vet finished the injection. Since then I have learned that those tumors are common in the breed. I still feel bad about holding on to him for so long, but I kept hoping for a turnaround. Every so often he would seem to rally, and hope dies hard.
My last dog was diagnosed with cancer and liver disease he lived another 1.5 years. He went blind and deaf got arthritis had bloody stools it was painful for him to urinate he was having difficulty breathing. I had to love him enough to let him go the vet came to my home and he passed away vet assisted in his own bed😢
Oh your beautiful doggie, Tulah is looking and listening! My dad had to put my girl, Dusty to sleep and my 13 y/o, 2 Lab girls (sisters) had kidney failure and it was suggested we help them to sleep. They were born together and lived together their whole lives. One was sicker than the other but they were both failing. One went to sleep immediately, the other took a little longer. It still breaks my heart even tho it's been so long ago. It certainly isn't easy. We buried them together in the mountains where their spirits can run free :(
It was hard enough for me to see my 12.5 year old Staffy being put to sleep a few hours ago. I could see how difficult it was for my vet too, and I can only imagine how many she's had to do. Even if I had a bottomless pit of money for the oncology department, she wouldn't have had a quality of life but no matter how pragmatic we are about these things, it's still so damn heartbreaking. Thank you for giving me your perspective, Doc. It gives me a little comfort, and I can only hope that she was comfortable in her final seconds too.
I’m so sorry for your loss. Glad this video gave you some comfort. It is a very painful and difficult decision and really, there’s no right or wrong answer. And no matter how many times we do it, it doesn’t get any easier. - Dr. Andrew Jones Get free ebook here: www.veterinarysecrets.com
That's why I respect true and empathic vets like you, who have to deal with euthanasia on daily basis. I am not referring to vets who don't like animals. I honestly don't know how you can deal with that and still live a "normal" life. I wanted to be a vet, but I knew that I would just end up killing myself sooner or later. I can't deal that amount of pain and heartbreak. Thank you, and thanks to all the vets who love what they do and love animals, and help us pet owners making the right decisions.
@ kiko Interesting that you included vets who don't like animals in your comment. People don't realize that just like in any profession, the professional may not actually like people or animals in this case.Very much so. Soooooo many pet owners are not aware of this. It is scary to say the least to be one of the unaware and unknowing. Some just accept these vets as normal for their profession, maybe they don't have much a relationship with their own pets. Most are just taken advantage of for being ignorant, I don't mean stupid, I mean not knowing better. The consequences are almost high by the time they figure it out unfortunately. I've known of these types of vets and physicians too. I worked in the medical field for many years and saw it first hand. Those who knew of the nasty vet, made sure his name was well known. Why people still took their pets to him puzzles me. He killed a lot of animals unethically. He was known for that. *Let me make it clear this vet was NEVER my personal vet. I only knew who he was. He's long gone now.*
If your gonna put your pet to sleep ,stay with it. It's always depended on you, don't abandon it now. Just hold on to it as it passes on...it will be tough. The death does not happen imediately. It will tear your heart out. ,Been there done that. But I got two rescue dogs to take her place,that healed my ❤️. Matt
An animal is your responsibility. You go to the end with your pet. So many people just drop their animal off because they can't take the pain. I couldn't even say the words "I need to put my dog down" someone else had to talk for me. That animal is YOURS. You DO NOT abandon it. Take care of that animal right thru the end. You'll feel better knowing you did what needed to be done for your pet. I hope a lot of you will be with your pet when the time comes.
The place I went to was a vet. They put you i a nice room with an outdoor patio access. They tell you to take as much time as you want. They take the pet and put in an IV...when you are ready the vet comes and first gives a sedative then what ever it is that stops the heart. I held my baby close and talked to her and said my goodbye. Afterward the vet says take as much time as you need. The had a couch and 2 lazy boy chairs...it was nicely decorated. They let me bring my boy so he could be with us. I layed her on the carpet so he could smell her. She wil be cremated, I will get a box with her ashes. Her name will be on the box. They give you a paw print and a beautiful card where you can put a picture. I have my Mollie girl, now waiting for my Maggie😭
I was with my miniature poodle telling him I loved him until the peaceful ending. I cried like a baby but i had to be with him until the end. I don’t regret it.
We have a vet that has a special room with a couch and chair and an outdoor area wher you can spend time with your pet and hold them. They give a mild sedative first when you are ready. I have their ashes in a nice box with name and date and they give you a paw print. I'd rather have the dog.
In the evening the dog was put to sleep by vet. The owner took him to home, he was planing to bury him in the morning. To his surprise the dog woke up.
Thank you for your perspective. It opens up the human, emotional side to euthanasia. My husband and I have rescued as many animals as many years as we have been married and when the time comes to say goodbye to another, it never gets easier for us. It almost seems harder as we get older. We love our animals to pieces and try so very hard to give them the life they deserve. But once they're gone, the emotions flood in. The grieving is very real for our animals as they are our family. And with the 8 rescues we currently have, just knowing we'll be facing those times again is heartbreaking. So we live for the day as each day is truly a gift. May God Bless you for all you have done and continue to do, Dr. Jones. It is truly appreciated.
I will never understand a vet that would let a dog die just because the owner doesn't have the money if that vet can save their life. And yes, there are vets like that. If it's something routine then okay refuse to see the dog if the owner doesn't have the money but to just let a pet die? I couldn't live with myself. Vets like doctors deserved to be paid but money shouldn't be placed above saving their life! After one of my dogs had Kidney Failure she got better with daily fluid therapy for almost a year so when she got worse again I hoped she would get better again. I will NEVER forgive myself for not letting go of her two days sooner as those last two days her constant yelps in pain were so hard on me that I could literally hear her yelping for a long time after she was gone. It was so traumatic on me that for the first time in something like 30 years I would not get another dog until two years later. I had not even gone one day without a dog until then but my love for dogs I gave in and got another two years after she passed. I will NEVER wait again when I know they are in that much pain and nothing can help them. Some people don't realize they do feel pain! They just don't show it like we do until it's really bad. It's been one year since I lost my last dog that I got at 11 weeks old. She lived until 14 1/2 years old. I knew I was not going to let her suffer when it got where nothing helped her I was not going to let her have that kind of pain and instead I took the pain of letting go. I do not regret it at all even though there has been many days many tears so much sadness that all the joy left our home when she passed. 😥🐶💖 This time I was able to get another dog shortly after. Not to take her place no dog would ever take the place of any of my dogs. I just have enough love and a big enough heart to create another place for another dog.
@@ozzzy3z946 How dare you side with vets that have and do let a pet die when the owner doesn't have the money to pay for it! What part of what I wrote that vets deserve to be paid didn't you understand? But if they would let a pet die then they don't have the love for animals that you think they do! There are many routine visits. MANY that they can require the money for which I also did say! I don't back down from what I wrote because some person like you has no compassion over a dying pet that could be saved. You are the cruel one that made it clear you are okay with pets dying if the owner doesn't have the money to pay for their care. There are vets that won't let a pet die, too, and they are the ones that are in the practice because of their genuine love for animals! There are many people that don't make enough money. It's sad and tragic if anyone commits suicide! You probably think it's okay for a doctor to let someone die, too, if they don't have the money to pay for medical care? SMH
Our Cooper is almost 15 years old. We just invested $ 3400. For a complicated oral surgery. We are thankful that we could afford it He is healthy and enjoying his life out of pain. We live with the fact he's well into his senior years and dread the day we have to make that decision. So we enjoy every day we have with him.
It must be very very difficult at times Dr Jones. But you know that at least animals that you put to sleep is done with dignity and care. Thank you for what you do and hugs to little Tula x
Totally agree with you ❤️. I think people that are so easy to put to sleep their pets have never understood a proper connection to animals. My cat is old and is having kidney problems and arthritis. The vet told me that at some point I will need to put him to sleep. From that moment I just cry every time I remember that I will need to make such a decision. I love him so much, he also love me. He is really smart and loyal 😞
My brother took our family cat when he moved out -- he loved him so much. By the end, the cat was 22 years old. Half his ear fell off, he was blind and deaf, he was missing teeth, and looked like he crawled out of the crypt. Everyone would ask my brother, why he doesn't just put him down. He would reply that the cat still ate, purred, and loved to be cuddled, so he couldn't. He was a happy boy, no matter how he looked.
I tried getting into the Vet field. Just completed my Vet Assistant training and landed a job working at the front desk. A man brought in a small kennel with maybe 5 or 6 little baby puppies in it. Handed it tome and said he had already talked to the Vet and he knows what I want, just take them to the back. When I found out later the reason they were there was to be PTS because they were "mismarked" I couldn't believe it. Left right then and there and never looked back. I'm sure MOST vets are not this way but I knew I could never professionally handle a situation like that again. On the other hand I have had 16 year old dogs that were ready and have had Vets cry right along side if me. Tough Profession to say the least. Glad you touched on this topic. Thanks
Unfortunately it’s not uncommon at all . I’m proud of you for walking out . Dr Jones is exceptionally good and holistic medicine is affordable and it’s healthier.❤️❤️❤️
I personally don't feel its my decision to make, nor a vets. In my experience, I knew euthansia would never be an option for me. As much as the vet tried to emotionally push me in that direction, I refused. In the discussion about it, my Max was watching and listening. In the last few days (when it was apparent his time was near) the only time I saw stress from him was when at the vet office. I assured Max he wasn't staying and we went home. Max had an internal rupture and was 14. I brought him home, the vet did "convince" me to give him a shot of morphine, which in hindsight I regret. He was spaced out for 12 hours. When he came out of the morphine, he was alert, responsive and still drinking. He was made comfortable in my room, and I made sure if not me, someone else was there with him . Not once did he show signs of stress. He was peaceful. A day and a half after our vet visit, I noticed a change in Max's breathing. I sat down beside him and talked to him keeping him as comfortable. He kicked his front leg twice, opened and shut his mouth twice and he was gone. It was one of the most peaceful experiences I've ever been in. Had I bowed down to the pressure to euthanize him, I would have missed out this beautiful experience. Of course I grieved my loss, but I never had any of the emotional baggage feelings of doubt and guilt for his death. After this experience, I wonder why passing naturally isn't an option at the vets? Death is inevitable for us all, but there is a huge feeling of peace that comes with allowing nature to take its course and being there to support your loved one. For me there is only one option, and it's not euthanasia. This is not a judgement on others choices, it's just my personal experience.
Thank you for sharing this story. I have yet to hear any vets talk about natural passing. I know you can euthanize your beloved one in home on their comfy bed but… I’m unsure I can make such a final decision. What if your pet wants to hang around as long as possible? They aren’t always in pain. I feel they would want to be around their loved ones as long as possible. I appreciate your story.
@@Ozzzzzzzz I did reach out to my vet a few months after to share my experience with him, his response was "I'm happy for you, you aren't the normal client". Change can/will come from us only.
When I was a kid I had my best friend for 20 years. His kidneys gave out and I was talked into “ doing the humane thing”. This has haunted me for years. Numerous supernatural events and contacts assured me that the thousands of prayers and devotions helped him into the human realm. Our family is Tibetan Buddhist and has an extremely close family-like relationship with an esteemed very learned and Attained Rinpoche. We see each other 2-3 times weekly for 20 years. When our Japanese Akita was just one month old Rinpoche held him gently in his arms and recited many sacred prayers and Mantras. His teaching on the dying of pets is as follows; “ Your pet has a deep karmic connection with you. You love each other. This has gone on for many lifetimes. All sentient beings, ( that includes your pets because they have consciousness awareness and love) get confused when we die. This is the time when we need love and reassurance most. Letting a stranger execute your beloved pet fills them with feelings of abandonment fear rejection despair betrayal. It’s far better to hold them in your arms at the time of passing while you pray for them. “
I've had 3 dogs who passed away over time, and I never had to make that decision to put them to sleep. I have 2 still one is 9yrs old the other 8yrs old, and when there time is up, I hope they make that decision so I don't have too. On a sad note, my daughter had to make that sad decision back in 2011 and I went with her, it was one of the saddest thing I've ever been through, her furbaby feel a sleep in my arms! Still missing and loving you Tami, you left paw prints on my heart!
I just lost my pup after 14+ years. She was sick for the last few weeks. I was told to put her down but, every time I would think of "what ifs" I would take her in and she would suddenly start doing better after getting some meds. I can understand if folks just can't afford it but, if you can, it will weigh on you if you don't give your dog a fighting chance. With that said, you will always be left with uncertainty and guilt regardless of your decision. My dog ended up dyeing 3 days out of surgery of amputating her leg. She started vomiting and it never stopped. She also wouldn't eat. She died naturally in my home. Part of my guilt now is towards the Vet she had seen the same day now. Thinking they didn't do enough for her. In time, i'll realize that I did everything i could for her and i guess that's all that matters.
Thank you Dr. Andrew for addressing this most sensitive to all pet topics. I know this was personally difficult for you on so many levels. I could see it in your body language. I'm glad you did an updated version of your original on euthanasia. No one ever wants to discuss it, it brings up the inevitable loss of our pets but it's necessary. You are what we want in in our vets. Truthfulness, honesty and compassion and knowing how it feels. Your own experiences. You feel. I honestly think veterinarians deal with the life and death decisions more on a daily basis than human physicians usually do. We have longterm health care, etc. Sometimes we do that for our pets too. 💝 Much love, Wanda, Simon and Giorgio
Thank you for sharing your thoughts on this topic. I know there are times when it's hard on the vet, but often times it's hard for the owner/parent to know when it's time to say goodbye to their fur baby. You sound like such a caring and thoughtful vet...I truly appreciate that!!!
My precious, Tula 13+ yrs had horrible cancer, but fir her last month, we did everything to fill her life with love and enjoyment. Her last hour was extraordinary, she "showed" me she was ready. Tula actually passed away in my arms after our vet administer "the shot." I loved this special companion. She was so much more than a family pet. She was sweetheart of the rodeo, forever in my heart...
@@VeterinarySecrets thank you so much. She had given me so much joy and faithfulness throughout her life, I committed myself to her to the end. She was a beautiful English setter spaniel. We appreciate your expertise and help.
I have great empathy for the pain you and other Veterinarians really live with in having the burden of that decision and actually doing that service for our society. I watched a documentary about a shelter that did not have a no kill policy. So when animals were dropped off, it was common knowledge that unless there was a chance for rescue, that critter would be put down. That task was put on a single individual in the shelter. A young woman, not even 30yrs old. The documentary followed a particular dog through the course of his stay till his time was up. It showed her quietly escort him to the room and the door closed. This was so traumatic for me to watch even though the actual euthanasia wasn’t shown. Spike is my 17yr old Male Maltese Buddy. He is now mostly blind but has some sight ability. The older he gets, the more I learn about compassion and love. My vet has just told me that Spike will let me know when it’s time. As long as I am able to care for him, I will. He sleeps with me. He has a water dish on the bed and has safety rails that prevent him from accidentally falling off the bed. He recently became lame and has a weakened Achilles’ tendon on one hind leg. I’m an RN and we did a Coban wrap which gave him support for that tendon to heal. We have a lot of stairs in our home so he gets carried out to potty several times a day and during the night if he needs. I have huge pads on the bed in case of accidents but those don’t happen often. This kind of love and devotion is well deserved for the love and companionship he has given us. I know the statistics with veterinarians and suicide. If you knew the joy and love these critters experience when they are separated from their little bodies and return to their creator, it would bring a peaceful smile to your face. When there are individuals that are so heartless that they would consider you professionals as animal garbage men, to clean up their inability to be responsible pet owners, try to remember that peace those critters feel returning to their creator in what is called Eternal Felicity (joy) in America there are doctors who have no problem with killing a human fetus in the womb, cutting up, slicing, sucking out every piece of that living child labeling it as Products of Conception. Those doctors are evil animals to me. Thank you for all you do. Please find peace and comfort in your calling of returning some of The Souls of God’s creations back to him.
My cat had his teeth pulled out and now 2 years later still has stomatosis. The vet wanted me to put him down. I on the other hand knew he still had so much more life. With love and probiotics and a well rounded diet he has had way more good days than bad. Sometimes we as pet parents we know or pet better than the vet.
You’ve articulated a great truth. I’ve had cats and dogs who have died in the natural course, as well as those whom I’ve regretfully euthanized near the end of their terminal cancer cases. However, even the best vet cannot possibly know your pet as well as you do!
Treatments are expensive and dont always work out, creating more suffering and hardship. Pet may live with treatment, but if owner cant feed/care for them afterwards (afford food etc due to large med bill), then how is that morally correct? Or animals being left by the roadside or abandoned when tenant moves on? At least the owner is trying to take care of it and ensure there is no future suffering. Vets may have a hard time with that but then the vet should take the pet and find the alternative for the animal if they feel that strongly. Owners being left without a choice create more suffering for the animal. I think the vet needs to make peace with that and let any guilt/regrets fall on the owner. There are too many abandoned and stray animals suffering thru neglect or abuse. The purpose of euthansia is to end suffering.. And just so many pets in need of homes, locked up in "shelters". There are still a lot of people who get a pet on a whim, cause its cute puppy/kitten but dont have the time to train or spend and are not fully appreciating the "forever home" idea, or their life circumstances change. All so sad, but worse if it is abandoned.. Then this poor pet has no where to go and its life is miserable - how is that right or fair? Better to go to sleep in loving, caring arms without pain and onto a better place. Why add more misery just through sheer existence because we have this idea a long life (measured by time vs. quality) is a good life. Not necessarily so. You cant force that owner to change their circumstance even if you want to send them away and be self-righteous about it. Just saying you wont euthanize doesnt change their situation and then left without a choice they may leave, walkaway from their responsibility or try a DIY (how horrible is that!). That, in my opinion is worse than painfree euthanasia. I think a vet needs to consider the future suffering of a pet who isnt euthanized or take over that responsibility. Better to give them the euthanol meds, so the pet at least doesnt suffer and let them live with their own decision. Im sure theyd think twice if they had to do it, but it is better a vet can perform that service and realize the animal will be in a better place than left to an owner with few choices. Its kind of like the whole pro-choice thing or right-to-die. So much suffering when it is not allowed or botched. Better to have a humane and safe choice. IF one feels that strongly then please step in and offer an alternative viable solution for the circunstance vs. just refusing to help in the basis of some kind of "moral high ground". I personally, would prefer to be euthanized than in pain or suffer from neglect/lack of attention, medical or otherwise. There has to be dignity and quality of life, even for animals. Forcing a miserable existence isnt the "moral high-ground".
You are so sweet!! My Vet just passed away about 3 weeks ago,, 56 years old!! I'm still so upset!! No one is saying what he died from!! I've had a dog walking/ pet sitting service for 25 years. So I totally understand all of this!!
I'm sorry you all have to deal with this. I sure appreciate you when the time comes for my pets. I wish it was possible for us to do so at home ourselves.
In my area it is the vets pushing euthanasia. I have had them insist I put down healthy cats who are positive for FIV. My dog became paralyzed in his back legs and after numerous doctors there was no diagnosis. I scheduled an appointment with the states teaching hospital. In the interim he vomited one night so I took him to a chain speciality/emergency clinic. He was there five days and all they could determine was a liver infection. He was seen by the cardiologist,internist and critical care doctor. They insisted I put him down. I had to argue with them every day. They insisted he had no quality of life entirely on the fact of his back legs. They admitted he was healthy otherwise. He ate and drank well and could still get around on his own. They insisted he walk and dropped him several times. They left him lying in his cage without moving him. His face mashed against the bars where he bit at them until he broke his teeth and bled everywhere. They charged so much that I had to reschedule his appointment at the teaching hospital. Within weeks he was dead. The necropsy revealed he had hemangiosarcoma everywhere. He bled out from his brain but it was in all his major organs, including his heart. This kind of incompetence and disregard is common in my city. Most the vets here graduate from the teaching university I was taking him to. They talk alike and act alike. Same phrases and attitude. I live in absolute terror at the thought of taking my babies to any of them.
It just about killed my dad when he brought the vet out to put our dog to sleep at our house. I’ve never seen him cry until that day. She was a very good 🐕.
Incredibly emotionally childish & cruel to let your pet suffer because u dont have the guts to do the right thing!! How would u like to live in unrelenting pain, piss & crap all over yourself.
@@onlyinparadise4613 There are medicaments for human beings, like morphine for example, for to ease theire suffering . You can't compare the situation.
It’s one of the hardest thing in my life I’ve had to do. It haunts me almost every day. I still cry at the thought but my babies were very old and couldn’t move at all. I still believe my old neighbor poisoned them and started the progress. The vet agreed that they were suffering. They were 14 and 15
I had my little poodle put to sleep because she was experiencing painful heart attacks. However, the death was shocking. She didn't just get sleeping and lie down. She fought it, opened her mouth wide, seemed to want air, and eventually died. It was horrifying to me. So, please tell us what's in that stuff and why my dear little dog fought it. Thank you.
I have 2 elderly dogs, 15 and 17. It is a lot of work for me and frankly it costs a lot too. But I owe them my efforts because of all the years they have given me. I tell them that if there is still a glimmer of their quirky personalities left and they are not in pain then I will fight for them. Im exhausted but its just part of having a pet. They are our family. We would not put a loved one down just because they inconvenience us(if we could).
My dog was euthanized a few days ago and I feel guilty. To be honest I didn't want her to be, but my dad and brother said it was time. My dog was taking seizure medication every day for 3 years to prevent her from getting it, and she had a non-cancerous tumor on her lung. She still was eating, drinking, and walking but looked tired. I feel like we should have waited. I don't know if my dad wanted to end her suffering or just did it for his own convenience.
My dog is still eating and drinking and eating but can no longer walk. He still wants to be here, has a big appetite and still responds to my affection for him. It's very difficult though, as I have to cart him around and change his sheets and bath him several times a day. Fortunately I have help from my partner and parents. His pain is controlled by by pain medications, it just seems it wants to keep on going. I'm looking out for signs of further decoration such as not eating or excessive panting or pain symptoms before I make the decision to euthanise. I'm hoping it doesn't come to that and he passes peacefully in his sleep. It's a very hard decision either way.
People need to think about just how far they will go to ensure a dog has the best possible life before they get one. If you cannot commit to this financially or morally, don't get one.
It's been almost two years since I had to let my girl go and I still cry 💔 She was more of a friend than a pet. You hear of dogs being "man's best friend" but it doesn't really sink in until you have a wonderful dog.
In less than an hour, I will have to bring my beloved Buddy, a 12 year old black lab, in to the veterinarian to be euthanized. He has been suffering with LARPAR/GOLPP for the past four years. The disease has taken its toll on him. He has lost almost all use of his hind legs. He struggles to breathe, especially in heat and humidity. And more recently, every time he eats/drinks, he aspirates into his lungs…which has now led to pneumonia. For the past 48 hours he’s been coughing up white foam frequently and the antibiotics he’s on have not helped. Even if his pneumonia cleared up, he will aspirate again and get pneumonia again. He has suffered enough. It is time. He has been such a good companion to me since I rescued him 8 years ago and I will miss him terribly. He will always be in my heart. RIP BUDDY. 🙏 02-17-2022
I just had to euthanize my 18 1/2 year old kitty I am devastated, she was my everything it was the most difficult decision I've had to make her Vet is a wonderful gentleman and suggested we put her under he couldn't do anything more to keep her alive she was suffering towards the end and I was in denial thinking she would come around and get better. Pet's are family. I keep all of mine till the end. My cat wore diapers towards the end and was paralyzed for 2 month's and I still kept her and took care of her like a child. I keep them as long as they are eating and drinking and I know they aren't suffering. Can't imagine getting rid of a pet because I'm moving. Where I go they go. God bless you for this video Dr. Jones 💕.
Hello doctor and friends on TH-cam, i am so so sorry for everyone who has lost their fur babies I pray you all have peace and comfort. I noticed a soft lump under my dogs neck and we massaged it and it went away, a few days later she developed a hard lump on her cheek overnight it made her whole face swell she couldn't even see, I took her to the vet he said it was infection of salivary glands and prescribed antibiotics for two weeks and said for her to come back, I asked about draining it and he said no. 3 days later the huge lump ruptures, blood and pus everywhere (the office was closed I couldn't take her ) over 24 hours her face and neck drained. Only problem is now there is a gaping hole and I can see inside her, I took her back to the vet and he mentioned it being really difficult and he doesn't know how things are going to go because the skin is dead, he mentioned maybe doing surgery to cut off the dead tissue or she might have to go to a specialist to get a graft done but he said that can cost over 10k so that's usually the end for a dog. She is back to her playful self, eating drinking, you wouldn't think this is all going on by looking at her. But more holes are opening up on her cheek and draining pus. I am so sorry this is so long, you are a vet I trust and I wanted to reach out to see you have any tips. I am a recent college grad looking for a job and I keep getting the run around every time I take her to the vet, which I don't mind spending money for my fur baby but I'm not even sure if it's helping. I believe Jesus designed us and our pets to repair and heal, but this vet is making it seem impossible. I can’t fathom putting a dog down when they are eating playing drinking water, the wound is very very graphic and nothing is covering it so the vet bandaged it. I appreciate any advice at all this dog is my baby. You are amazing Dr. Jones
I have no issue with it if the pet is in pain. But just for it's a stay and no place to go no. I mean would you put a kid to sleep. Dogs or cats did not ask to be here.
So whats the option? Ditch it in the street? Thats plenty of pain and suffering right there, or to go into these rescue shelters and have psychological trauma with behavioural issues because they are so stressed vs. a compassionate pain-free option? People do that when they cant afford to care for an animal. Just saying they shouldnt own one isnt a solution. The animals suffering needs to be considered. Its not just about physical pain.
We had to put our family dog down yesterday. It was probably the hardest decision of my life. I had my dog Roxy ever since I was four (I'm 21 now) and I can't remember what life was like without her. We asked the vet if it was the right decision and he said that it was. I can't imagine how someone could put their dog down because it was an inconvenience. The vet was super nice and compassionate to us during this difficult time and it really made me respect your industry.
I'm glad my vets are not doing anything like putting dogs to sleep for reason outside of health... I would never go to such a vet... My dogs who have had to be euthanized have had illness and been old @not eating etc... I've been with them at that heartbreaking time and I'm glad for that... because they are not stressed and they are ready to go giving you that look that says Thankyou for ending my pain... Its the kindest thing we can do for them at the end,,,@i thank my vets for being there for them and me at that sad goodbye 😢🙏🏼❤️
I just had to take my best friend in today to end her suffering. I fear I may have even waited too long, but couldn't bring myself to make this decision until it became absolutely clear her life had no quality and there was no way for her to recover. She had cancer my vet said wasn't treatable and was 16 years old. This was several months ago and she mostly behaved normally. She had lost an incredible amount of weight in the last few weeks despite eating and drinking normally, but in the last two days she completely stopped eating and drinking and didn't even seem to know where she was. She'd try to drink, but it was like she didn't remember how and would just tip her nose into the water. I'd hand feed her food or water and she'd try to drink or chew the food but spit it out. It was clear she was suffering. It broke my heart, but I knew it was the right choice. I'm still reeling over the loss. I was there with her until she took her last breath. I can't imagine choosing euthanasia for convenience.
1st GSD was 14 years 11 months and was paralyzed for the last 6 months from a degenerative back issue, he could only lay on one side and got terrible sores that i knew wouldn't heal. I thought making that decision was terrible. Till my 2nd GSD at 8 years and 1 week died on my couch in front of me of cancer. That was the most traumatic thing I have ever witnessed, I saw true fear in his eyes. I currently have 2 dogs, one 8 and one 6, I dread the day. Sometimes it's terrible being a human
Seeing them scared and not being able to help is what frightens me the most. That's why I euthanize them as best as I can before they suffer. It's so incredibly hard but we do it because we love them so much.
Our first dog was an Akita. When he was only three two years old, his back leg had to be operated on. My animals are my Children. The vet had to put a rod in his leg. We did not care what the cost was. It cost us $2,500. If we did not agree to the operation, he would have to be put down. Yes, he was in a lot of pain, but he completely recovered. Three of my Akita's are in the Spirit World. I still cry!
Only had to make that decision once. On my dog named Lint who developed mouth cancer at the age 16. It was a horrible decision. Of course I wanted to try everything I could to save him. Unfortunately the answer would have been remove his lower jaw. And at his age he would not survive the surgery. I kept him on meds till he no longer wanted to go for walks or eat. Then I took him in. And even with everything I wanted to try, and I did, I had guilt for nearly a year. Anyone who does not have feelings towards their pets needs to not be involved with any living being
Thank you for addressing this. I wish you would do another video. How do we know for sure that it's time? Thank you for speaking about it. I think anything you could bring to the table on this would be so helpful.
We had to have my beloved dachshund euthanized a few days ago. He was almost 17 ,was deaf and blind. He was loved more than I have words to express it, but by golly he loved his grub. He stayed in our bed with us , even when we weren’t in the bed he was. He then stopped eating, then he stopped drinking. We hoped he would come around but didn’t. He started barking and whining, the weight melted off him and we knew it was time. Our vet is the best,and his assistant was wonderful to. It is the hardest thing I’ve ever done and am still grieving his loss, (crying as I type this) . If not for the patience and skill of our vet it would have been even harder. You Vets and animal nurses are truly doing God’s work when you minister to God’s creations to keep them healthy and when it’s time to ease their passing. May God bless you all for the wonderful and hard work you do.
Bless your little dog he will be running around in green fields above with my cat. I know exactly how you feel still grieving I will never forget my little man, he was the best.
@@NJ-xp4eb 🙏🐱🐶 that and the strength of my Savior is what keeps me going. I had also lost 2 of my older cats the 2 months prior so 2021 hasn’t started out well for us. They were my little girls and I love and miss all three more than I can say. I called them the three amigos because they would all run and play together. My precious Lord why does it have to hurt so bad?
@@decoy8645 I so understand end and start of this year was truly horrible but I think they were called above for a special mission, I just keep thinking of the good and happy lives they had and hopefully one day will meet them again, in the meantime they will be forming a little pet club up there. ❤️🐾🐾🐾🐾🐾🐾🐾
What kills me inside is what is going through my friend's mind? He probably thinks he's just gonna go back home. I don't think you should be limited financially, it really sucks treatments are outrageously expensive. My friend departed 2 days ago, won't recover
Thank you Dr. I had to euthanize Reggie, my 18 year old calico 17 days ago. I didn't want her to suffer a long lingering death. The vet told me I was doing the right thing. I'm sure I was but part of me died that day. I miss her so much.....
Ya that’s a good topic .. that would be a hard thing for a vet . I don’t agree with those people about asking a vet to put pet down because their moving . We have huge issues with this and over crowded shelters so then they just get put to sleep anyways I guess I would ask the people to sign over of the pet and I would foster them but that can be difficult too . I had to put 3 of my dogs down to sickness and old age but I had to rely on my vet for the answer to because was trying everything for my dog keep them going . My one wasn’t eating at all for months my other guy he couldn’t breathe anymore and the third one had some lung and heart issues . It’s a terrible thing to decide but my vets had made it so helpful.
I could only watch until I heard about pets being put down for no reason. How can people be so heartless to their own innocent family member. Here is the rest of us spending every penny we have to give our pets more time. Thanks for covering this topic.
Dr. Jones, Thank you for covering this very sensitive subject. I have a 13 year old Shi-Poo named Hermes who I adopted when he was 7 years old and physically a wreck. He is now very healthy and I hope that he can make it to his twenties. As for euthanasia, should that time ever come I will be with him cradling him in my arms letting him know how much he means to me and telling him that he is a good boy. Thanks Doc!
My vet and I like the membership model. I pay a monthly fee that covers visits and all the routine care my cat needs. I can bring my cat to the vet whenever something is even slightly amiss. I can have the vet tech trim my cat's nails, something I have a problem doing. I recently had 'the talk' with my vet. I was pet sitting for a friend, whose cat was seriously ill--mammary gland cancer. I wish I could have taken the cat to my vet, because I know exactly how she approaches palliative and end of life care. She said, "If the cat eats and drinks, the cat lives. I can prescribe medications that will improve the cat's quality of life. I changed the sick cat's diet to more palatable (and healthier) food. When I did this, she rejoined the Clean Plate Club. She clearly enjoyed her meals and demand meowed for them. The vet my friend took the cat to recommended immediate euthanasia, even though the cat was eating, drinking, using the litter box and had a reasonable quality of life. My friend balked, so the vet did prescribe palliative care meds. However, the vet made it clear that she would not refill this prescription. Once the meds ran out, my friend had his cat euthanized. The cat was still eating, drinking, etc., but the cancer had spread. i think it's important to talk to your vet about the big issues, right from the start. My vet knows that I'm of modest means, but that my cat has her own bank account, credit card and insurance plan and a membership that covers what the insurance doesn't (or the other way around...). We discussed approaches to vet care and we agreed that I wanted ideal care for my cat. We discussed end-of-life care, that when the time comes, I want palliative / hospice care for my cat. I have a very healthy 15 year old Siamese cat. I got her at 2.5 years, from a rescue who got her from an animal shelter 90 miles away. My vet said, "I'm going to give you the advise I would give someone with a 10 year old cat. Your cat's physical exam, blood work, etc. are consistent with a 10 year old cat. She has mild arthritis in her left hip. If she has some stiffness upon arising, I'll I'll gladly prescribe a supplement for her. You have been feeding your cat very high quality food, have managed her food allergies well. I think this cat is a good candidate to live 20 years or more. I know getting a cat to live that long is fairly familiar territory for you." I had a barn cat I found, as a kitten, by the side of the road and she lived 26 years. I had two other cats that made it past 20. I changed her litter box from a top entry one to a large, side entry one. She has nice, warm sleeping spots. If she needs a heating pad or warm water bottle, I'll set. that up for her. I know I have hired the right vet for my cat. I know that my vet thinks she is the right vet both for me and my cat. It goes both ways.
If you want to kill your pet because you're moving or they are an inconvenience, you should never have had, or ever should have a pet again. 😔
It shouldn’t be allowed, there’s plenty of fur baby lover’s.
I agree
Agree!!! It's pathetic to even think that. I couldn't euthanize my Samson and feel tons of pain because he suffered during his last weeks.
I knew a woman who would get a cat, get bored after a couple of years, and have it put down. Then after a bit she would get a cat and it would all repeat. I hated hearing each time she got a cat because I knew what would eventually happen.
@counselthyself oh my! I had never heard of that. I can’t even wrap my head around it.
Just let me say this. I respect your job, immensely. I don't know how you all deal with it. Except to say thank God for vets such as yourself! Death is hard no matter if it's human or animals. Thank you for being a compassionate, loving veterinarian. 🐾🐾💞
This guy is not a practicing veterinarian. His “job” is full time online marketing of pseudoscience books and homeopathic remedies and pet food.
@@chtur1449 Don't recall asking you anything! My opinion stands.
@@lisamcneilly2637 that's right. Dr. JONES is helping all of us learn.
@@chtur1449 your negative comments is rude and unhelpful.
@@shells4donna Just stating facts that Dr Jones has posted on his own website. @Lisa McNeilly seemed to be under the mistaken impression he is a practicing vet. His own website states he is not.
I have my 17 year old beagle and she is currently passing. We have her lying in her bed keeping her comfortable. I give her water. Today I carried her outside to at least enjoy the beautiful weather. It has been two days and thought about calling a mobile Euthenasia vet. After seeing the 600.00 for a single injection. We will just let her die peacefully. I have been crying. She won’t let go. She was a very stubborn beagle and we loved her for it. She now is stubborn about passing on. We love her so much.
My boy went out for the last time and is now on the couch, shallow breathing etc. I pray it comes soon 😔
Omg lm so sorry
Veterinarians take a pledge to uphold the welfare of pet parents and
their pets but these days it's all about the money.
Not long ago there was a fee for euthanize but now vets require a
preliminary visit that can add greatly to the expected fee. And, in
my opinion it simply extorsion on the part of vets to add that on.
I'm dealing with an end of life situation with my doggie companion
of the last 12 years and his vet wants to drain my bank account
of the last dime.
@@robertmontgomery3892 hope your fur baby does better now. if you still look around for lower cost, the human society offer that service too for $50 at their location. The mobile vet has to charge for their travel time too, but less stress for ours during last moment ... I have to plan for the same = (
Just curious how long your beagle baby was holding on? My 15 year old chihuahua mix is doing the same & I'm so stressed. I love her so much
About the worst thing I ever went through was having to put down my beloved Gigi (poodle). I can't wait until I see her again in Heaven and all the pets I've ever had. :)
I had to put my Yorkshire terrier Harley my sweet sweet baby to sleep August 27, 2020. It was the most heartbreaking horrific day of my life. I still cry every single day I miss him so desperately! And I will be so lost without him until my very last breath and until I meet him in heaven. 🙏🙏❤️❤️
@@MJYouAreNotAlone1 I miss my baby girl too but it helps so much to think of how she is right this moment HAPPY.
@@wallys11000 in time it will get better. Plus other dogs to keep your mind occupied.
Thank you girls for your kind words! We will see our babies again in heaven! God bless you all! The Bible says, according to your faith be it unto you, Matthew chapter 9 verse 29. I have asked God to have Harley there waiting for me and all of my other pets and I believe with my whole being!
AGREED!
My dog was 10 years old when I had her put to sleep, she had been very poorly for some time, I had thought about when was the right to euthanise, it never seemed to be the right moment, until I noticed that this particular day she wanted me to take her for a short walk and then she spent the rest of the day sitting with various members of the family. I knew she needed to feel close to us. She was saying goodbye. The next morning my beautiful dog looked me in the eye and that look told me she had had enough. We took her to the vets, I wanted to run out of the room I couldn’t face it but I remember her turning her head and willing me to stay. I stayed and held her paw I realised it was about what she needed she needed me to be there for her, then she relaxed and it was over she died with dignity and love. I am crying tears typing this even though it was over 10 years ago I will never forget her. I learnt from this dog and previous dogs that they are intelligent and they know also when it’s time and they may be trying to tell us. X
#alldogsgotoheaven
It's so hard to lose them and worse when you have to see them decline and make that decision.
I have had 3 dogs and one cat (each separately) and I still miss them all... I cried reading your post.
Only one died without euthanasia. But it isn't any easier... you wonder if there was something you should have noticed, as he wasn't particularly old, but had had a hard life before we rescued/ adopted him.
It is funny though for the first few months after each passed, they were definitely still in the house. I'd hear the jingle of of collar inside the house as I came home each day or I'd feel the pat pat my cat would do on my leg asking permission to jump up... he was very polite.
The only problem with pets is they don't live long enough. (Long healthy lives.)
The EXACT same thing happened with me and my dog!
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Thank you for sharing. Non of mine went so smoothly. You were lucky. Usually the vet tries to make between 1k-10k on the dying loved one just prior to the pets inevitable death. Then last min on the weekend it’s time you and your pet are dumped on whoever is there. Best way to tell if any living creature is finished/at the end with a long term illness is when they stop eating.
Years ago a veterinarian suggested I put down two of my cats. I said, no.
I still have both of them and they are doing great!
Why was that?
I'm a vet. Thank you for covering this. It is most definitely something I struggle with. You never get used to it. The finality of it still gets me and I've been doing this a long time. It's heartbreaking to see a client come in with their pet and leave without her/him. You have to be strong and professional but inside you're dying a little.
Most people have no empathy.
Eating meat is killing animals.
As a vet, do you think it is ethical to let a dog pass naturally from kidney failure? I am stuck between him getting euthanized or dying naturally. I don’t think he’s in pain but it’s hard to tell how much he is suffering. What if my little guy still wants to hang out and veg? I feel uncomfortable making this decision for him.
@S Zn I am not a vet.
First I would do everything I could to help him/her to heal.
I would use watermelon seeds and parsley and corn silk and dandelion root make as a tea and cool down and poured into ice cubes and gave it one to ozonated water to drink.
After one week I would give him/her Uva Ursi tincture free of alcohol with water with a pinch of baking soda.
UVA Ursi is effective against the full range of urinary tract infections only if the urine is alkaline. To achieve this effect, you should take 1/4 teaspoon of baking soda in 1/3cup of water with every dose of herb and avoid consuming acidic agent such as meat, Vit.C and fruit juice.
Avoid taking Uva Ursi for longer than a week.
The herb may temporarily turn the urine green. This is a harmless effect.
Take all kidney and bladder infections seriously.
They can cause complications if not treated promptly.
Jf symptoms of a urinary tract infection persist for more than 48 hours, you should seek medical attent.
“Watermelon seeds cure kidneys “- Edward Cayce
Goldenrod for kidneys infection.
One of the hardest decisions for me was euthanizing my babies. When i got my babies i always said i would not let them suffer. Mia and Mya are indelible to me. They were family and blessings in my life. Mia ended up getting cancer and the vet said there was nothing else they can do. Mya had a fungus that spread to her brain giving her seizures the vet said it was time. I gave them the best of me and they definitely gave me the best of them i was not going to let them suffer. Mia was 11 and Mya was 3 months away from her 10th bday when i had to make the hardest decision I've ever had to make. They were and still are the love's of my life. I say all that to say , animals aren't things they are amazing beings with emotions idc what anyone says. In my opinion euthanasia should only be used when it's absolutely necessary period when they are suffering and there is nothing you can do about it. It should be a crime to euthanize an animal because it has become an inconvenience for you!!!
God bless you... mia and mya are curled up sitting on your star for you ... they are still with you... I believe 🙏 we will see our babies again .... sending you a virtual huggle ... I couldn't watch the video 😭 but reading the comments...
God bless all animals and their parents 🙏 ❤
@@iamenglishrose2099 thank you i believe they're still with us as well. Sending u a virtual hug back❤
Darling Katy ,i really felt your words, I feel quiet inside after reading them. Please know that others care and send you love . I'm quite chocked actually . Wish I could be by your side , to reach out to someone like you that is so deserving of a gentle friend right now
@@veganvocalist4782 thank you for ypur kind words
Wish the US would extend that kindness and let people decide for their own euthanasia.
Thank you, Dr. Jones, for speaking about euthanasia. I really had no idea that a vet could refuse euthanasia. I appreciate you ... and your ethics 💙.
Thank you for addressing this topic.
When your pet is ridden with cancer and you have done everything to make their last days as comfortable as possible but you notice now pain setting in, it is time to let go of your faithful friend. It then becomes an issue of you being selfish and holding on or love for your friend. For many of us it is a very hard to decide but love for your pet should always win.
My thoughts exactly. When we allow our pets to be released from pain and sickness, it is a selfless act of true kindness. We feel the emotional pain of saying goodbye so they can be free of their physical pain. I also am always at their side in the final moments so that they're not left with strangers at the end.
When a pet is in pain and there's no other options-let them go.
@@helpfulnatural Yes me too, I've always stayed to the last moment and their last look at me but I know of people just leaving them with the vet. Bunch of cowards if you ask me.
@counselthyself I agree , I was glad my Dad decided not to go for chemo . There was no cure and that intervention would have meant a painful death. He passed of a massive stroke with only four days in the hospital. Up to that point he lived , had friends over and still enjoyed a beer. LOL
@@onlyinparadise4613 So , they hand their pets over to the monastery, easy fix.. They don't have to bother taking care of their pets , just dump them there. Heartless cowards !
Dr Jones thank you for your compassion. Thank you thank you thank you 🌞❤️🏵
Aww I’m sure it is I had to put my big guy down in November right after my birthday and I don’t think I’ll ever recover because he had tumors in his bladder so he was good from the chest up sick from the waist down I am just heartbroken beyond belief
I’m so sorry about your big guy, it breaks my heart. That’s exactly what’s happening with mine now he’s strong in the front but the back is getting weak. Hugs
I am so sorry. I know how you feel.😢
So sorry. How are you doing now?
My dog has the bladder cancer TCC. It crawls up the nerves into their spine. She has outlived the survival time with meds and diapers. There are some hard days. When she tells me it's time, then she will be let go into peace. This will be so very hard on me, but fair to her.
Aww Thanks guys for sharing they are such a big part of our hearts minds and lives I’m still recovering and think of him every day it’s such a joy when they’re in our lives in such a heartbreak when They can’t be anymore! And you all have hearts of gold
I've always let my pet decide what to do. I'm thankful it's always been very clear what the pet wanted. Sometimes the pet's wishes have caused me financial ruin for several years but their well being has always been the priority.
I had too. She lived 2 years with treatment, eventually the treatment was not working and she was suffering immensely,, she was adopted, lived 9 years with, she was probably no less than 13 yrs. old. I made the decision to put her down, I called that Chihuahua my fairy, her ashes are in my room next to my husbands. Her box has a porcelain fairy and a porcelain chihuahua that looks like her. Thank you!
All of mine died of natural caused. It is heartbreaking. My chihuahua died in April,
I held him till his last breath. My heart is still broken. He was on 3 heart pills. He was 12 years old.
I could never live with the guilt of killing one.
, that's Just me.
Had a vet do a home visit 2 weeks ago for my 15yr old chihuahua who was very poorly. Much kinder in his own home on my bed. I knew the day was coming. That morning he couldnt even swollow water properly. It was a heart breaking decision but it was the right decision. He passed away from sedation alone.😢 😢❤🐾🐾
My heart goes out to you and so many Veterinarians.
The dogs expression is like "can u have this conversation when I leave the room"
That dog knows what you're thinking.... but he knows how important this subject is!!!
Thank you for this info. Thank you for all the best choices you make day-to-day. A good, heart-felt true story.....My Dad was a compassionate, basic, farmer with 10 children, on an old, rustic farm. One year he brought 7 cows (slated for dog/cat food) from an auction house...off the block and to a safe home. Loved, healed, in their often barn where he "healed" them over a 3.5 (and more!) month period. Blinded, starved, hairless, parasite filled..... they all healed, and were incorporated into our 19 stantion milk barn. Keep faith, Doc, there are still more healers out here. I'm saddened (seriously bereft) for all we don't, can't, save.... and daily pray for souls to change their choices and behaviors. Stay true to who you are, take care of YOU, too, each day.
My Dad was cut from the same cloth. I grew up on a farm and Dad was forever bringing sick and injured farm animals, wildlife, lost animals, ... home to repair. I'm now 65 and doing the same damned thing. I keep trying to quit, really, but it's a habit that I have had all my life. Hopefully, someone else will take over. It's a hard and heart-ache filled job, but the rewards are more than gold. I'm poor, but somehow I seem to make ends meet. We CAN change the world for the better. I just can't understand why we don't. Yeah, it's all about the money.
@@chinookvalley These are the actions of people in love with this beautiful life and those entrusted to our care. It has become all about money, this major society of ours. Love compounds. It grows... with each healthy breath and heartbeat. Thank you for bringing the hurt and lost into your life. Others are watching, even when wer don't know who they are. God is in charge and in control. Might mean we still have pain and confusion, but it won't stop us from being firm and strong when making the right decisions and standing by them.
Thank could for sharing, your story fills my heart with hope. 🤗
Let me guess: did you pray before your meals......
@@chinookvalley Thank you for sharing your story, people like you are light in the darkness. God bless.
Your dad and @chinookvalley give me hope in humanity. I am moved by how they live their lives and give back. God bless!
I'm in the process of witnessing my almost 17 year old mini poodle transition through the dying process and as heart breaking as it is we just have to wait for his body to give up. I'm learning hospice care for him and with having 11 more cats at home its something that I know someday I'd have to go through once again.
This topic deserves MUCH more attention. Please consider doing more videos about this essential topic. I like what you have to say (including the scenarios/anecdotes you share) but you're just at the tip of the iceberg. Thank you so much.
Over 20 years ago I had the vet euthanize Bailey, my 5 year old Boxer who was losing her cancer battle. Just last year I finally buried her ashes. All these years and many dogs later, talking about her still makes me cry.
I'm sorry for your loss, I offer my condolences.
I pray when my little Patches time to cross the rainbow 🌈 bridge comes here just falls asleep. He’s 12 now and I can’t imagine having to ask this question but I also never want to see Him suffer he’s my snuggle buddy and the sweetest dog ever!!!
My sweet girl just fell asleep and quietly left this world. She was home in her favorite place I was with her. It was still hard but her natural passing was peaceful. When his time comes I hope yours is the same.
Many people know right from wrong. Part of this good, GREAT, life (experience) is to explore and experience all emotions... your support in explaining and sharing (when we don't even know one another) is the magic of technology. Your heart is huge. Classes for pet ownership should be required. I teach some folks who don't want the lesson. Now they don't come to me with their animal "stories" 'cause I won't accept their BS. I give them the numbers to the no-kill shelters, foster care groups, and follow-up. Tough love can be compassionate, and I feel for what you must decide on a regular basis. Prayers coming your way.
😫 terrible things to deal with.. Hardest decision any of us will make. Done it with many of my animals.. wish they could have just passed away naturally.
It is not as good as it sounds. They find somewhere to hide and then die and you cannot find the body until the stench spreads as it starts to rot and decay.
Sounds to me you did the right thing. You took away a period of time where they could have suffered greatly. They are going to die - we can’t escape it. My vet gives a drug that relaxes the pet and then gives the lethal dose of anesthesia. And we have to realize it’s anesthesia many of us who have had surgeries. I wish I could go in that manner - relaxed, sleepy and surrounded by a loving family.
Yes indeed. It's an extremely hard decision and it's getting harder.
These days vets don't trust pet parents to decide when the time is right
to euthanize their pet. No... Now you can expect to pay not one but two
fees in an end of life situation. For starters you have to pay for an
"evaluation" that might cost a couple of hundred dollars to insure that
it's the right time and then you have the fee for the actual euthanize
on top of that.
Current law is allowing vets to extort money from pet parents and it
needs to stop now. Those decisions need to be left to the pet owner.
One of the hardest things I have had to do. My dog was dying of cancer and in immense pain. Still didn't want to do it. I was selfish and wanted more time. It still tears me up years later. I would NEVER euthanize a dog I did not agree with. Sorry, I would not care if I lost a patient.
I agree with that, but had a dog I did euthanaze, My other 2 dogs and cat died at home. The one dog that I had euthanazed had stopped eating and drinking, had heart failure, with a sudden excess of fluid retention where he could not breathe lying down, and was exhausted. It was a horrible choice. I was with him at the last moment.
My Boston Terrier was diagnosed with a brain glioma. The neurologist told me Chipper had about six weeks left; he died in three. I promised myself he would never suffer the cluster seizures of my other Boston, who passed from meningoencephalitis. I waited too long also wanting more time, until he seizured repeatedly until he died in my arms at the vet. Still beat myself up for prolonging his life needlessly because I couldn’t let him go.
@@TheIntlwoman The day before he died, did he enjoy your company? If so, then you allowed him to pass naturally allowing him to have as much time with you as he needed. Relationships are two way. I know not of any human in a nursing home that would not like more last days. One of the dogs I had that died at home, also a difficult thing. was surrounded by the other dogs, and his favorite human, my daughter stopped in for a last visit. This dog that had no energy and could not stand up, became animated with the other dogs and my daughter visiting. No she did not stand up, but wagged her tail and lifted her head.
As a nurse, I have witnessed seniors in nursing homes, that moan and are barely conscious near death, but become younger if you wish when family visits, and animated, and then return to a resting / dying state.
It is impossible to predict when the last day is, and more impossible to make the decision to euthanize, as pets have good and bad days before they die.
The only rule of thumb I know, is when they stop eating, when they stop drinking, even they know the end is near. Death usually occurs in 3 days or less.
My condolences on the loss of you friend.
Your not selfish, your bestest friend knows. 🙏✌️♥️🍀🦋🌹
@@TheIntlwoman My Boston Terrier had a brain glioma too, and we fought it with everything we could. I wanted more time. I don't even want to total the thousands I spent at the vet trying to save him, but one day the vet said that she would have to recommend euthanasia. I had to step back and look at him. She was right. I'd kept him alive more for myself than for him. He had lost a lot of weight, had frequent seizures, and seemed disoriented, among other things. Euthanasia was the most humane choice, and I had him put down. He was gone before the vet finished the injection. Since then I have learned that those tumors are common in the breed. I still feel bad about holding on to him for so long, but I kept hoping for a turnaround. Every so often he would seem to rally, and hope dies hard.
My last dog was diagnosed with cancer and liver disease he lived another 1.5 years. He went blind and deaf got arthritis had bloody stools it was painful for him to urinate he was having difficulty breathing. I had to love him enough to let him go the vet came to my home and he passed away vet assisted in his own bed😢
Oh your beautiful doggie, Tulah is looking and listening! My dad had to put my girl, Dusty to sleep and my 13 y/o, 2 Lab girls (sisters) had kidney failure and it was suggested we help them to sleep. They were born together and lived together their whole lives. One was sicker than the other but they were both failing. One went to sleep immediately, the other took a little longer. It still breaks my heart even tho it's been so long ago. It certainly isn't easy. We buried them together in the mountains where their spirits can run free :(
It was hard enough for me to see my 12.5 year old Staffy being put to sleep a few hours ago. I could see how difficult it was for my vet too, and I can only imagine how many she's had to do.
Even if I had a bottomless pit of money for the oncology department, she wouldn't have had a quality of life but no matter how pragmatic we are about these things, it's still so damn heartbreaking.
Thank you for giving me your perspective, Doc. It gives me a little comfort, and I can only hope that she was comfortable in her final seconds too.
I’m so sorry for your loss. Glad this video gave you some comfort. It is a very painful and difficult decision and really, there’s no right or wrong answer. And no matter how many times we do it, it doesn’t get any easier.
- Dr. Andrew Jones
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That's why I respect true and empathic vets like you, who have to deal with euthanasia on daily basis. I am not referring to vets who don't like animals. I honestly don't know how you can deal with that and still live a "normal" life. I wanted to be a vet, but I knew that I would just end up killing myself sooner or later. I can't deal that amount of pain and heartbreak. Thank you, and thanks to all the vets who love what they do and love animals, and help us pet owners making the right decisions.
Me too. Or kill someone for the way they treat their pet...
@@chinookvalley Exactly..
@ kiko
Interesting that you included vets who don't like animals in your comment. People don't realize that just like in any profession, the professional may not actually like people or animals in this case.Very much so.
Soooooo many pet owners are not aware of this.
It is scary to say the least to be one of the unaware and unknowing. Some just accept these vets as normal for their profession, maybe they don't have much a relationship with their own pets. Most are just taken advantage of for being ignorant, I don't mean stupid, I mean not knowing better. The consequences are almost high by the time they figure it out unfortunately.
I've known of these types of vets and physicians too. I worked in the medical field for many years and saw it first hand. Those who knew of the nasty vet, made sure his name was well known. Why people still took their pets to him puzzles me. He killed a lot of animals unethically. He was known for that.
*Let me make it clear this vet was NEVER my personal vet. I only knew who he was. He's long gone now.*
You are such a kind and caring Vet. I can see that your goal is to help all the animals in your care
Thank you Dr. Jones.
If your gonna put your pet to sleep ,stay with it. It's always depended on you, don't abandon it now. Just hold on to it as it passes on...it will be tough. The death does not happen imediately. It will tear your heart out. ,Been there done that. But I got two rescue dogs to take her place,that healed my ❤️. Matt
An animal is your responsibility. You go to the end with your pet. So many people just drop their animal off because they can't take the pain. I couldn't even say the words "I need to put my dog down" someone else had to talk for me. That animal is YOURS. You DO NOT abandon it. Take care of that animal right thru the end. You'll feel better knowing you did what needed to be done for your pet. I hope a lot of you will be with your pet when the time comes.
The place I went to was a vet. They put you i a nice room with an outdoor patio access. They tell you to take as much time as you want. They take the pet and put in an IV...when you are ready the vet comes and first gives a sedative then what ever it is that stops the heart. I held my baby close and talked to her and said my goodbye. Afterward the vet says take as much time as you need. The had a couch and 2 lazy boy chairs...it was nicely decorated. They let me bring my boy so he could be with us. I layed her on the carpet so he could smell her. She wil be cremated, I will get a box with her ashes. Her name will be on the box. They give you a paw print and a beautiful card where you can put a picture. I have my Mollie girl, now waiting for my Maggie😭
I was with my miniature poodle telling him I loved him until the peaceful ending. I cried like a baby but i had to be with him until the end. I don’t regret it.
We have a vet that has a special room with a couch and chair and an outdoor area wher you can spend time with your pet and hold them. They give a mild sedative first when you are ready. I have their ashes in a nice box with name and date and they give you a paw print. I'd rather have the dog.
In the evening the dog was put to sleep by vet. The owner took him to home, he was planing to bury him in the morning.
To his surprise the dog woke up.
Thank you for your perspective. It opens up the human, emotional side to euthanasia. My husband and I have rescued as many animals as many years as we have been married and when the time comes to say goodbye to another, it never gets easier for us. It almost seems harder as we get older. We love our animals to pieces and try so very hard to give them the life they deserve. But once they're gone, the emotions flood in. The grieving is very real for our animals as they are our family. And with the 8 rescues we currently have, just knowing we'll be facing those times again is heartbreaking. So we live for the day as each day is truly a gift. May God Bless you for all you have done and continue to do, Dr. Jones. It is truly appreciated.
I will never understand a vet that would let a dog die just because the owner doesn't have the money if that vet can save their life. And yes, there are vets like that. If it's something routine then okay refuse to see the dog if the owner doesn't have the money but to just let a pet die? I couldn't live with myself. Vets like doctors deserved to be paid but money shouldn't be placed above saving their life!
After one of my dogs had Kidney Failure she got better with daily fluid therapy for almost a year so when she got worse again I hoped she would get better again. I will NEVER forgive myself for not letting go of her two days sooner as those last two days her constant yelps in pain were so hard on me that I could literally hear her yelping for a long time after she was gone. It was so traumatic on me that for the first time in something like 30 years I would not get another dog until two years later. I had not even gone one day without a dog until then but my love for dogs I gave in and got another two years after she passed. I will NEVER wait again when I know they are in that much pain and nothing can help them.
Some people don't realize they do feel pain! They just don't show it like we do until it's really bad.
It's been one year since I lost my last dog that I got at 11 weeks old. She lived until 14 1/2 years old. I knew I was not going to let her suffer when it got where nothing helped her I was not going to let her have that kind of pain and instead I took the pain of letting go. I do not regret it at all even though there has been many days many tears so much sadness that all the joy left our home when she passed. 😥🐶💖
This time I was able to get another dog shortly after. Not to take her place no dog would ever take the place of any of my dogs. I just have enough love and a big enough heart to create another place for another dog.
@@ozzzy3z946 How dare you side with vets that have and do let a pet die when the owner doesn't have the money to pay for it!
What part of what I wrote that vets deserve to be paid didn't you understand? But if they would let a pet die then they don't have the love for animals that you think they do!
There are many routine visits. MANY that they can require the money for which I also did say!
I don't back down from what I wrote because some person like you has no compassion over a dying pet that could be saved.
You are the cruel one that made it clear you are okay with pets dying if the owner doesn't have the money to pay for their care.
There are vets that won't let a pet die, too, and they are the ones that are in the practice because of their genuine love for animals!
There are many people that don't make enough money. It's sad and tragic if anyone commits suicide!
You probably think it's okay for a doctor to let someone die, too, if they don't have the money to pay for medical care? SMH
Looking back over the past 30 years here in Amador County CA I
can say that things have changed. Now it's all about the $$$$$.
I new a vet who asked to adopt each pet that was brought in healthy but just old. He then found new homes for them till they passed.
My 18 year old dog had a stroke... It was tough .. very difficult... still tears...
Our Cooper is almost 15 years old. We just invested $ 3400. For a complicated oral surgery. We are thankful that we could afford it He is healthy and enjoying his life out of pain. We live with the fact he's well into his senior years and dread the day we have to make that decision. So we enjoy every day we have with him.
It must be very very difficult at times Dr Jones. But you know that at least animals that you put to sleep is done with dignity and care. Thank you for what you do and hugs to little Tula x
Totally agree with you ❤️. I think people that are so easy to put to sleep their pets have never understood a proper connection to animals. My cat is old and is having kidney problems and arthritis. The vet told me that at some point I will need to put him to sleep. From that moment I just cry every time I remember that I will need to make such a decision. I love him so much, he also love me. He is really smart and loyal 😞
My brother took our family cat when he moved out -- he loved him so much. By the end, the cat was 22 years old. Half his ear fell off, he was blind and deaf, he was missing teeth, and looked like he crawled out of the crypt. Everyone would ask my brother, why he doesn't just put him down. He would reply that the cat still ate, purred, and loved to be cuddled, so he couldn't. He was a happy boy, no matter how he looked.
I tried getting into the Vet field. Just completed my Vet Assistant training and landed a job working at the front desk. A man brought in a small kennel with maybe 5 or 6 little baby puppies in it. Handed it tome and said he had already talked to the Vet and he knows what I want, just take them to the back. When I found out later the reason they were there was to be PTS because they were "mismarked" I couldn't believe it. Left right then and there and never looked back. I'm sure MOST vets are not this way but I knew I could never professionally handle a situation like that again.
On the other hand I have had 16 year old dogs that were ready and have had Vets cry right along side if me. Tough Profession to say the least. Glad you touched on this topic. Thanks
Unfortunately it’s not uncommon at all . I’m proud of you for walking out .
Dr Jones is exceptionally good and holistic medicine is affordable and it’s healthier.❤️❤️❤️
I don't think I could go on if I had to put my buddy down. He's a better dude than I ever was. He's taught me a lot.
Me too. I have five dogs, and I hate thinking my heart will be broken 5 times, I don’t know what I will do with myself being I’ve never lost a pet
I personally don't feel its my decision to make, nor a vets. In my experience, I knew euthansia would never be an option for me. As much as the vet tried to emotionally push me in that direction, I refused. In the discussion about it, my Max was watching and listening. In the last few days (when it was apparent his time was near) the only time I saw stress from him was when at the vet office. I assured Max he wasn't staying and we went home.
Max had an internal rupture and was 14. I brought him home, the vet did "convince" me to give him a shot of morphine, which in hindsight I regret. He was spaced out for 12 hours. When he came out of the morphine, he was alert, responsive and still drinking. He was made comfortable in my room, and I made sure if not me, someone else was there with him . Not once did he show signs of stress. He was peaceful. A day and a half after our vet visit, I noticed a change in Max's breathing. I sat down beside him and talked to him keeping him as comfortable. He kicked his front leg twice, opened and shut his mouth twice and he was gone. It was one of the most peaceful experiences I've ever been in.
Had I bowed down to the pressure to euthanize him, I would have missed out this beautiful experience. Of course I grieved my loss, but I never had any of the emotional baggage feelings of doubt and guilt for his death.
After this experience, I wonder why passing naturally isn't an option at the vets? Death is inevitable for us all, but there is a huge feeling of peace that comes with allowing nature to take its course and being there to support your loved one. For me there is only one option, and it's not euthanasia. This is not a judgement on others choices, it's just my personal experience.
Sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing the story of your supporting your best friend while they passed. God bless you.
Thank you for sharing this story. I have yet to hear any vets talk about natural passing. I know you can euthanize your beloved one in home on their comfy bed but… I’m unsure I can make such a final decision. What if your pet wants to hang around as long as possible? They aren’t always in pain. I feel they would want to be around their loved ones as long as possible.
I appreciate your story.
@@Toni-Marie Thank you.
@@Ozzzzzzzz I did reach out to my vet a few months after to share my experience with him, his response was "I'm happy for you, you aren't the normal client". Change can/will come from us only.
Thank you for your post. I feel the same.
When I was a kid I had my best friend for 20 years. His kidneys gave out and I was talked into “ doing the humane thing”. This has haunted me for years. Numerous supernatural events and contacts assured me that the thousands of prayers and devotions helped him into the human realm. Our family is Tibetan Buddhist and has an extremely close family-like relationship with an esteemed very learned and Attained Rinpoche. We see each other 2-3 times weekly for 20 years. When our Japanese Akita was just one month old Rinpoche held him gently in his arms and recited many sacred prayers and Mantras. His teaching on the dying of pets is as follows; “
Your pet has a deep karmic connection with you. You love each other. This has gone on for many lifetimes. All sentient beings, ( that includes your pets because they have consciousness awareness and love) get confused when we die. This is the time when we need love and reassurance most. Letting a stranger execute your beloved pet fills them with feelings of abandonment fear rejection despair betrayal. It’s far better to hold them in your arms at the time of passing while you pray for them. “
Love this sentiment and as a Christian believe it. God Bless You 🕊️❤️🕊️
I believe this, too.
I've had 3 dogs who passed away over time, and I never had to make that decision to put them to sleep. I have 2 still one is 9yrs old the other 8yrs old, and when there time is up, I hope they make that decision so I don't have too.
On a sad note, my daughter had to make that sad decision back in 2011 and I went with her, it was one of the saddest thing I've ever been through, her furbaby feel a sleep in my arms! Still missing and loving you Tami, you left paw prints on my heart!
That's a good point, it's a really hard and sad decision to make.
I just lost my pup after 14+ years. She was sick for the last few weeks. I was told to put her down but, every time I would think of "what ifs" I would take her in and she would suddenly start doing better after getting some meds. I can understand if folks just can't afford it but, if you can, it will weigh on you if you don't give your dog a fighting chance. With that said, you will always be left with uncertainty and guilt regardless of your decision. My dog ended up dyeing 3 days out of surgery of amputating her leg. She started vomiting and it never stopped. She also wouldn't eat. She died naturally in my home. Part of my guilt now is towards the Vet she had seen the same day now. Thinking they didn't do enough for her. In time, i'll realize that I did everything i could for her and i guess that's all that matters.
I'm so sorry for your loss. We go above and beyond to care for our cherished furry companions during their time with us. You did great! ❤️
Thank you Dr. Andrew for addressing this most sensitive to all pet topics. I know this was personally difficult for you on so many levels. I could see it in your body language.
I'm glad you did an updated version of your original on euthanasia. No one ever wants to discuss it, it brings up the inevitable loss of our pets but it's necessary. You are what we want in in our vets. Truthfulness, honesty and compassion and knowing how it feels. Your own experiences. You feel.
I honestly think veterinarians deal with the life and death decisions more on a daily basis than human physicians usually do. We have longterm health care, etc.
Sometimes we do that for our pets too. 💝
Much love,
Wanda, Simon and Giorgio
Thank you for sharing your thoughts on this topic. I know there are times when it's hard on the vet, but often times it's hard for the owner/parent to know when it's time to say goodbye to their fur baby. You sound like such a caring and thoughtful vet...I truly appreciate that!!!
Thanks Dr. Jones. ❤🐾
My precious, Tula 13+ yrs had horrible cancer, but fir her last month, we did everything to fill her life with love and enjoyment. Her last hour was extraordinary, she "showed" me she was ready. Tula actually passed away in my arms after our vet administer "the shot."
I loved this special companion. She was so much more than a family pet. She was sweetheart of the rodeo, forever in my heart...
I'm sorry for your loss, I'm glad you got to spend her final moments together.
@@VeterinarySecrets thank you so much. She had given me so much joy and faithfulness throughout her life, I committed myself to her to the end. She was a beautiful English setter spaniel.
We appreciate your expertise and help.
I wish every vet was like you! You are incredible! ❤️
Thank you!
I have great empathy for the pain you and other Veterinarians really live with in having the burden of that decision and actually doing that service for our society. I watched a documentary about a shelter that did not have a no kill policy. So when animals were dropped off, it was common knowledge that unless there was a chance for rescue, that critter would be put down. That task was put on a single individual in the shelter. A young woman, not even 30yrs old. The documentary followed a particular dog through the course of his stay till his time was up. It showed her quietly escort him to the room and the door closed. This was so traumatic for me to watch even though the actual euthanasia wasn’t shown. Spike is my 17yr old Male Maltese Buddy. He is now mostly blind but has some sight ability. The older he gets, the more I learn about compassion and love. My vet has just told me that Spike will let me know when it’s time. As long as I am able to care for him, I will. He sleeps with me. He has a water dish on the bed and has safety rails that prevent him from accidentally falling off the bed. He recently became lame and has a weakened Achilles’ tendon on one hind leg. I’m an RN and we did a Coban wrap which gave him support for that tendon to heal. We have a lot of stairs in our home so he gets carried out to potty several times a day and during the night if he needs. I have huge pads on the bed in case of accidents but those don’t happen often. This kind of love and devotion is well deserved for the love and companionship he has given us.
I know the statistics with veterinarians and suicide. If you knew the joy and love these critters experience when they are separated from their little bodies and return to their creator, it would bring a peaceful smile to your face. When there are individuals that are so heartless that they would consider you professionals as animal garbage men, to clean up their inability to be responsible pet owners, try to remember that peace those critters feel returning to their creator in what is called Eternal Felicity (joy) in America there are doctors who have no problem with killing a human fetus in the womb, cutting up, slicing, sucking out every piece of that living child labeling it as Products of Conception. Those doctors are evil animals to me. Thank you for all you do. Please find peace and comfort in your calling of returning some of The Souls of God’s creations back to him.
You really are a beautiful soul.thankyou for sharing ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
My cat had his teeth pulled out and now 2 years later still has stomatosis. The vet wanted me to put him down. I on the other hand knew he still had so much more life. With love and probiotics and a well rounded diet he has had way more good days than bad. Sometimes we as pet parents we know or pet better than the vet.
You’ve articulated a great truth. I’ve had cats and dogs who have died in the natural course, as well as those whom I’ve regretfully euthanized near the end of their terminal cancer cases. However, even the best vet cannot possibly know your pet as well as you do!
Thank you for talking about this. I can't say thank you for making me but it made my heart full with the love I've felt for my fur babies in Heaven.
Treatments are expensive and dont always work out, creating more suffering and hardship. Pet may live with treatment, but if owner cant feed/care for them afterwards (afford food etc due to large med bill), then how is that morally correct? Or animals being left by the roadside or abandoned when tenant moves on?
At least the owner is trying to take care of it and ensure there is no future suffering. Vets may have a hard time with that but then the vet should take the pet and find the alternative for the animal if they feel that strongly. Owners being left without a choice create more suffering for the animal.
I think the vet needs to make peace with that and let any guilt/regrets fall on the owner. There are too many abandoned and stray animals suffering thru neglect or abuse. The purpose of euthansia is to end suffering..
And just so many pets in need of homes, locked up in "shelters". There are still a lot of people who get a pet on a whim, cause its cute puppy/kitten but dont have the time to train or spend and are not fully appreciating the "forever home" idea, or their life circumstances change. All so sad, but worse if it is abandoned.. Then this poor pet has no where to go and its life is miserable - how is that right or fair? Better to go to sleep in loving, caring arms without pain and onto a better place. Why add more misery just through sheer existence because we have this idea a long life (measured by time vs. quality) is a good life. Not necessarily so.
You cant force that owner to change their circumstance even if you want to send them away and be self-righteous about it. Just saying you wont euthanize doesnt change their situation and then left without a choice they may leave, walkaway from their responsibility or try a DIY (how horrible is that!). That, in my opinion is worse than painfree euthanasia. I think a vet needs to consider the future suffering of a pet who isnt euthanized or take over that responsibility. Better to give them the euthanol meds, so the pet at least doesnt suffer and let them live with their own decision. Im sure theyd think twice if they had to do it, but it is better a vet can perform that service and realize the animal will be in a better place than left to an owner with few choices.
Its kind of like the whole pro-choice thing or right-to-die. So much suffering when it is not allowed or botched. Better to have a humane and safe choice. IF one feels that strongly then please step in and offer an alternative viable solution for the circunstance vs. just refusing to help in the basis of some kind of "moral high ground".
I personally, would prefer to be euthanized than in pain or suffer from neglect/lack of attention, medical or otherwise. There has to be dignity and quality of life, even for animals. Forcing a miserable existence isnt the "moral high-ground".
You are so sweet!! My Vet just passed away about 3 weeks ago,, 56 years old!! I'm still so upset!! No one is saying what he died from!! I've had a dog walking/ pet sitting service for 25 years. So I totally understand all of this!!
I'm sorry you all have to deal with this. I sure appreciate you when the time comes for my pets. I wish it was possible for us to do so at home ourselves.
In my area it is the vets pushing euthanasia. I have had them insist I put down healthy cats who are positive for FIV. My dog became paralyzed in his back legs and after numerous doctors there was no diagnosis. I scheduled an appointment with the states teaching hospital. In the interim he vomited one night so I took him to a chain speciality/emergency clinic. He was there five days and all they could determine was a liver infection. He was seen by the cardiologist,internist and critical care doctor. They insisted I put him down. I had to argue with them every day. They insisted he had no quality of life entirely on the fact of his back legs. They admitted he was healthy otherwise. He ate and drank well and could still get around on his own. They insisted he walk and dropped him several times. They left him lying in his cage without moving him. His face mashed against the bars where he bit at them until he broke his teeth and bled everywhere. They charged so much that I had to reschedule his appointment at the teaching hospital. Within weeks he was dead. The necropsy revealed he had hemangiosarcoma everywhere. He bled out from his brain but it was in all his major organs, including his heart. This kind of incompetence and disregard is common in my city. Most the vets here graduate from the teaching university I was taking him to. They talk alike and act alike. Same phrases and attitude. I live in absolute terror at the thought of taking my babies to any of them.
It just about killed my dad when he brought the vet out to put our dog to sleep at our house. I’ve never seen him cry until that day. She was a very good 🐕.
i always opt for letting them pass away comfortably at home, instead of a hard cold steel table. wouldnt do it to a loved one, wont do it to my pets.
There are still a few vets who make house-calls. It's a blessing when the animal won't die, but just suffer a horrible death.
I had an in home euthanasia last July for my Corso. Very expensive but worth every penny.
You have been in that position then. It’s to judge.
Incredibly emotionally childish & cruel to let your pet suffer because u dont have the guts to do the right thing!! How would u like to live in unrelenting pain, piss & crap all over yourself.
@@onlyinparadise4613 There are medicaments for human beings, like morphine for example, for to ease theire suffering . You can't compare the situation.
It’s one of the hardest thing in my life I’ve had to do. It haunts me almost every day. I still cry at the thought but my babies were very old and couldn’t move at all. I still believe my old neighbor poisoned them and started the progress. The vet agreed that they were suffering. They were 14 and 15
I’m so sorry they and you went through that.
Oh that’s terrible I’m so sorry
You should have PROSECUTED YOUR NEIGHBOR for that. It's your decision and yours alone
I had my little poodle put to sleep because she was experiencing painful heart attacks. However, the death was shocking. She didn't just get sleeping and lie down. She fought it, opened her mouth wide, seemed to want air, and eventually died. It was horrifying to me. So, please tell us what's in that stuff and why my dear little dog fought it. Thank you.
I have 2 elderly dogs, 15 and 17. It is a lot of work for me and frankly it costs a lot too. But I owe them my efforts because of all the years they have given me. I tell them that if there is still a glimmer of their quirky personalities left and they are not in pain then I will fight for them. Im exhausted but its just part of having a pet. They are our family. We would not put a loved one down just because they inconvenience us(if we could).
You’re 💯 right.
My dog was euthanized a few days ago and I feel guilty. To be honest I didn't want her to be, but my dad and brother said it was time. My dog was taking seizure medication every day for 3 years to prevent her from getting it, and she had a non-cancerous tumor on her lung. She still was eating, drinking, and walking but looked tired. I feel like we should have waited. I don't know if my dad wanted to end her suffering or just did it for his own convenience.
Your dad is cruel
My dog is still eating and drinking and eating but can no longer walk. He still wants to be here, has a big appetite and still responds to my affection for him. It's very difficult though, as I have to cart him around and change his sheets and bath him several times a day. Fortunately I have help from my partner and parents. His pain is controlled by by pain medications, it just seems it wants to keep on going. I'm looking out for signs of further decoration such as not eating or excessive panting or pain symptoms before I make the decision to euthanise. I'm hoping it doesn't come to that and he passes peacefully in his sleep. It's a very hard decision either way.
This show is so important for us, for me. Thanks so much
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People need to think about just how far they will go to ensure a dog has the best possible life before they get one. If you cannot commit to this financially or morally, don't get one.
It's been almost two years since I had to let my girl go and I still cry 💔 She was more of a friend than a pet. You hear of dogs being "man's best friend" but it doesn't really sink in until you have a wonderful dog.
dr Jones
thank u for ur heart felt video. 💓
You're welcome:)
In less than an hour, I will have to bring my beloved Buddy, a 12 year old black lab, in to the veterinarian to be euthanized. He has been suffering with LARPAR/GOLPP for the past four years. The disease has taken its toll on him. He has lost almost all use of his hind legs. He struggles to breathe, especially in heat and humidity. And more recently, every time he eats/drinks, he aspirates into his lungs…which has now led to pneumonia. For the past 48 hours he’s been coughing up white foam frequently and the antibiotics he’s on have not helped. Even if his pneumonia cleared up, he will aspirate again and get pneumonia again. He has suffered enough. It is time. He has been such a good companion to me since I rescued him 8 years ago and I will miss him terribly. He will always be in my heart. RIP BUDDY. 🙏 02-17-2022
Tula peeking out from the back is soooo cute!!!
Just had to do this with my 7 year old bulldog who had multiple seizures, very difficult decision.
So sorry for your loss. It is very hard and what many don't under stand is , we grieve big time.
Thanks for being honest ,respect
I just had to euthanize my 18 1/2 year old kitty I am devastated, she was my everything it was the most difficult decision I've had to make her Vet is a wonderful gentleman and suggested we put her under he couldn't do anything more to keep her alive she was suffering towards the end and I was in denial thinking she would come around and get better. Pet's are family. I keep all of mine till the end. My cat wore diapers towards the end and was paralyzed for 2 month's and I still kept her and took care of her like a child. I keep them as long as they are eating and drinking and I know they aren't suffering. Can't imagine getting rid of a pet because I'm moving. Where I go they go. God bless you for this video Dr. Jones 💕.
Hello doctor and friends on TH-cam, i am so so sorry for everyone who has lost their fur babies I pray you all have peace and comfort. I noticed a soft lump under my dogs neck and we massaged it and it went away, a few days later she developed a hard lump on her cheek overnight it made her whole face swell she couldn't even see, I took her to the vet he said it was infection of salivary glands and prescribed antibiotics for two weeks and said for her to come back, I asked about draining it and he said no. 3 days later the huge lump ruptures, blood and pus everywhere (the office was closed I couldn't take her ) over 24 hours her face and neck drained. Only problem is now there is a gaping hole and I can see inside her, I took her back to the vet and he mentioned it being really difficult and he doesn't know how things are going to go because the skin is dead, he mentioned maybe doing surgery to cut off the dead tissue or she might have to go to a specialist to get a graft done but he said that can cost over 10k so that's usually the end for a dog. She is back to her playful self, eating drinking, you wouldn't think this is all going on by looking at her. But more holes are opening up on her cheek and draining pus. I am so sorry this is so long, you are a vet I trust and I wanted to reach out to see you have any tips. I am a recent college grad looking for a job and I keep getting the run around every time I take her to the vet, which I don't mind spending money for my fur baby but I'm not even sure if it's helping. I believe Jesus designed us and our pets to repair and heal, but this vet is making it seem impossible. I can’t fathom putting a dog down when they are eating playing drinking water, the wound is very very graphic and nothing is covering it so the vet bandaged it. I appreciate any advice at all this dog is my baby. You are amazing Dr. Jones
I wish you were my vet. Thank you so much for these video.
Thank you for watching!
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I have no issue with it if the pet is in pain. But just for it's a stay and no place to go no. I mean would you put a kid to sleep. Dogs or cats did not ask to be here.
So whats the option? Ditch it in the street? Thats plenty of pain and suffering right there, or to go into these rescue shelters and have psychological trauma with behavioural issues because they are so stressed vs. a compassionate pain-free option? People do that when they cant afford to care for an animal. Just saying they shouldnt own one isnt a solution. The animals suffering needs to be considered. Its not just about physical pain.
We had to put our family dog down yesterday. It was probably the hardest decision of my life. I had my dog Roxy ever since I was four (I'm 21 now) and I can't remember what life was like without her. We asked the vet if it was the right decision and he said that it was. I can't imagine how someone could put their dog down because it was an inconvenience. The vet was super nice and compassionate to us during this difficult time and it really made me respect your industry.
I'm so sorry for your loss, I offer my condolences
Just put my baby down in May of this year of14 years! She had cancer and was suffering. Still miss her greatly.
I'm glad my vets are not doing anything like putting dogs to sleep for reason outside of health... I would never go to such a vet... My dogs who have had to be euthanized have had illness and been old @not eating etc... I've been with them at that heartbreaking time and I'm glad for that... because they are not stressed and they are ready to go giving you that look that says Thankyou for ending my pain... Its the kindest thing we can do for them at the end,,,@i thank my vets for being there for them and me at that sad goodbye 😢🙏🏼❤️
I just had to take my best friend in today to end her suffering. I fear I may have even waited too long, but couldn't bring myself to make this decision until it became absolutely clear her life had no quality and there was no way for her to recover. She had cancer my vet said wasn't treatable and was 16 years old. This was several months ago and she mostly behaved normally. She had lost an incredible amount of weight in the last few weeks despite eating and drinking normally, but in the last two days she completely stopped eating and drinking and didn't even seem to know where she was. She'd try to drink, but it was like she didn't remember how and would just tip her nose into the water. I'd hand feed her food or water and she'd try to drink or chew the food but spit it out. It was clear she was suffering. It broke my heart, but I knew it was the right choice. I'm still reeling over the loss. I was there with her until she took her last breath. I can't imagine choosing euthanasia for convenience.
1st GSD was 14 years 11 months and was paralyzed for the last 6 months from a degenerative back issue, he could only lay on one side and got terrible sores that i knew wouldn't heal. I thought making that decision was terrible. Till my 2nd GSD at 8 years and 1 week died on my couch in front of me of cancer. That was the most traumatic thing I have ever witnessed, I saw true fear in his eyes. I currently have 2 dogs, one 8 and one 6, I dread the day. Sometimes it's terrible being a human
Seeing them scared and not being able to help is what frightens me the most. That's why I euthanize them as best as I can before they suffer. It's so incredibly hard but we do it because we love them so much.
Thank you for being so caring.
Thank you for the kind words. 🙏🏼
Our first dog was an Akita. When he was only three two years old, his back leg had to be operated on. My animals are my Children. The vet had to put a rod in his leg. We did not care what the cost was. It cost us $2,500. If we did not agree to the operation, he would have to be put down. Yes, he was in a lot of pain, but he completely recovered. Three of my Akita's are in the Spirit World. I still cry!
Only had to make that decision once. On my dog named Lint who developed mouth cancer at the age 16. It was a horrible decision. Of course I wanted to try everything I could to save him. Unfortunately the answer would have been remove his lower jaw. And at his age he would not survive the surgery. I kept him on meds till he no longer wanted to go for walks or eat. Then I took him in. And even with everything I wanted to try, and I did, I had guilt for nearly a year. Anyone who does not have feelings towards their pets needs to not be involved with any living being
Thank you for addressing this. I wish you would do another video. How do we know for sure that it's time? Thank you for speaking about it. I think anything you could bring to the table on this would be so helpful.
Please see this video: th-cam.com/video/iz0I8yOipfs/w-d-xo.html
My girl has bone cancer. Maxed a credit card to amputate the limb and start chemo. I love her and it was worth it to get more time with her.
gonna watch this again for further comprehension.. thanks doc!..😊
We had to have my beloved dachshund euthanized a few days ago. He was almost 17 ,was deaf and blind. He was loved more than I have words to express it, but by golly he loved his grub. He stayed in our bed with us , even when we weren’t in the bed he was. He then stopped eating, then he stopped drinking. We hoped he would come around but didn’t. He started barking and whining, the weight melted off him and we knew it was time. Our vet is the best,and his assistant was wonderful to. It is the hardest thing I’ve ever done and am still grieving his loss, (crying as I type this) . If not for the patience and skill of our vet it would have been even harder. You Vets and animal nurses are truly doing God’s work when you minister to God’s creations to keep them healthy and when it’s time to ease their passing. May God bless you all for the wonderful and hard work you do.
Bless your little dog he will be running around in green fields above with my cat. I know exactly how you feel still grieving I will never forget my little man, he was the best.
@@NJ-xp4eb 🙏🐱🐶 that and the strength of my Savior is what keeps me going. I had also lost 2 of my older cats the 2 months prior so 2021 hasn’t started out well for us. They were my little girls and I love and miss all three more than I can say. I called them the three amigos because they would all run and play together. My precious Lord why does it have to hurt so bad?
@@decoy8645 I so understand end and start of this year was truly horrible but I think they were called above for a special mission, I just keep thinking of the good and happy lives they had and hopefully one day will meet them again, in the meantime they will be forming a little pet club up there. ❤️🐾🐾🐾🐾🐾🐾🐾
Thanks to all the vets who end the suffering of animals.
If was up to my vet a member of my family ,not a pet ,would be dead ,but hes on three legs and happy for now if it changes i will do the best for him
If a person doesn't have the money for an operation for their pet, the vet should give them a discount and payment plan.
Forget about it. These days vets are all about the $$$$$$$$$$$.
Thank you for your compassion Dr Jones!
What kills me inside is what is going through my friend's mind? He probably thinks he's just gonna go back home. I don't think you should be limited financially, it really sucks treatments are outrageously expensive. My friend departed 2 days ago, won't recover
Thank you Dr. I had to euthanize Reggie, my 18 year old calico 17 days ago. I didn't want her to suffer a long lingering death. The vet told me I was doing the right thing. I'm sure I was but part of me died that day. I miss her so much.....
Ya that’s a good topic .. that would be a hard thing for a vet . I don’t agree with those people about asking a vet to put pet down because their moving . We have huge issues with this and over crowded shelters so then they just get put to sleep anyways I guess I would ask the people to sign over of the pet and I would foster them but that can be difficult too . I had to put 3 of my dogs down to sickness and old age but I had to rely on my vet for the answer to because was trying everything for my dog keep them going . My one wasn’t eating at all for months my other guy he couldn’t breathe anymore and the third one had some lung and heart issues . It’s a terrible thing to decide but my vets had made it so helpful.
I could only watch until I heard about pets being put down for no reason. How can people be so heartless to their own innocent family member. Here is the rest of us spending every penny we have to give our pets more time. Thanks for covering this topic.
Dr. Jones, Thank you for covering this very sensitive subject. I have a 13 year old Shi-Poo named Hermes who I adopted when he was 7 years old and physically a wreck. He is now very healthy and I hope that he can make it to his twenties. As for euthanasia, should that time ever come I will be with
him cradling him in my arms letting him know how much he means to me and telling him that he is a good boy. Thanks Doc!
My vet and I like the membership model. I pay a monthly fee that covers visits and all the routine care my cat needs. I can bring my cat to the vet whenever something is even slightly amiss. I can have the vet tech trim my cat's nails, something I have a problem doing. I recently had 'the talk' with my vet. I was pet sitting for a friend, whose cat was seriously ill--mammary gland cancer. I wish I could have taken the cat to my vet, because I know exactly how she approaches palliative and end of life care. She said, "If the cat eats and drinks, the cat lives. I can prescribe medications that will improve the cat's quality of life. I changed the sick cat's diet to more palatable (and healthier) food. When I did this, she rejoined the Clean Plate Club. She clearly enjoyed her meals and demand meowed for them. The vet my friend took the cat to recommended immediate euthanasia, even though the cat was eating, drinking, using the litter box and had a reasonable quality of life. My friend balked, so the vet did prescribe palliative care meds. However, the vet made it clear that she would not refill this prescription. Once the meds ran out, my friend had his cat euthanized. The cat was still eating, drinking, etc., but the cancer had spread.
i think it's important to talk to your vet about the big issues, right from the start. My vet knows that I'm of modest means, but that my cat has her own bank account, credit card and insurance plan and a membership that covers what the insurance doesn't (or the other way around...). We discussed approaches to vet care and we agreed that I wanted ideal care for my cat. We discussed end-of-life care, that when the time comes, I want palliative / hospice care for my cat.
I have a very healthy 15 year old Siamese cat. I got her at 2.5 years, from a rescue who got her from an animal shelter 90 miles away. My vet said, "I'm going to give you the advise I would give someone with a 10 year old cat. Your cat's physical exam, blood work, etc. are consistent with a 10 year old cat. She has mild arthritis in her left hip. If she has some stiffness upon arising, I'll I'll gladly prescribe a supplement for her. You have been feeding your cat very high quality food, have managed her food allergies well. I think this cat is a good candidate to live 20 years or more. I know getting a cat to live that long is fairly familiar territory for you." I had a barn cat I found, as a kitten, by the side of the road and she lived 26 years. I had two other cats that made it past 20. I changed her litter box from a top entry one to a large, side entry one. She has nice, warm sleeping spots. If she needs a heating pad or warm water bottle, I'll set. that up for her.
I know I have hired the right vet for my cat. I know that my vet thinks she is the right vet both for me and my cat. It goes both ways.