100 Days No Alcohol - Sobriety Life Story Clare at 100 Days Sober from Drinking

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  • 100 Days with no alcohol - Clare Maskery joins me to share her journey from being a daily heavy wine drinker who needed alcohol every night to function, through to her amazing transformation at 100 days sober.
    Clare is a busy mum who works full time and after more than two decades of drinking she found that alcohol was starting to hold her in a tight grip. She noticed how she was putting it ahead of the most important things in her life and was struggling to control how much she drank.
    When Clare realised she had a problem she had a period where she managed t to drink using willpower alone, she also had several stints with Alcoholics Anonymous but before long she found herself right back at the start, drinking each day and wondering if she would ever be able to beat the addiction.
    In a strange twist of fate Clare was introduced to me and it turned out that she lived on the same street.
    We worked together and before long Clare experienced a real shift in her mindset. She began to question her relationship with alcohol and how drinking featured in her life and became excited and motivated about what an alcohol-free might look like.
    Now at 100 days sober, I have witnessed an incredible transformation. Clare has changed in so many ways and in this video she talks about her amazing journey to sobriety.
    Clare is passionate about changing the attitude that some people have towards sobriety and alcohol problems and truly believes that there is no shame in being sober.
    Keep an eye out, I am sure we will be seeing more of Clare in the future!
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  • @waihekeful
    @waihekeful 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    "The glamour is totally in the quitting" What a wonderful quote! Very inspirational, thanks Clare

    • @besober
      @besober  2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      So true, such a great quote - worthy of a T-Shirt!

  • @jeffreyjohnmann
    @jeffreyjohnmann 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    It really helps me to hear stories like this one. It shows that a life without alcohol is possible.

  • @fahadjanjua5140
    @fahadjanjua5140 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Beautiful ❤️ i am 26 days sober and happier than ever 😊

    • @fahadjanjua5140
      @fahadjanjua5140 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      116 days.. no alcohol in life 💪

  • @suel7610
    @suel7610 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I really want to quit drinking. Frankly I just feel exhausted. I just don't know how to get there. Every day I wake up and say I've got to stop, but in the evening I'm on the wine again. I don't know what to do.

    • @MsSheilaC
      @MsSheilaC 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      That was me too. For a long time. One day you’ll just spontaneously stop. And then youll have vids like these to help and motivate. Im into week four. Yay us.

    • @METAL__MECHANIC
      @METAL__MECHANIC 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      2 and a half years for me where I've been actively or telling myself I'm trying to quit. The daily loop of feeling miserable and exhausted all the time eventually has to end. I can't keep pounding caffeine to get through the day than alcohol and sleep medicine to come down. I'm 42 and have a 2 year old who I want to be around for as long as I can for.
      Crazy thing is I quit for 3 months last year, felt amazing and for some dumb reason started up again. I now know for sure I can't moderate my drinking.
      Today is day 1 again

  • @samweathers2303
    @samweathers2303 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    So glad this pop up again. I remember watching it right at the beginning and thinking 100 day!!!! That’s seems impossible…. That was 130 ago. Thankyou x

    • @besober
      @besober  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Congratulations on your success! In the early days, it seems like it will take forever to reach 100 days, but there you are! Well done!

  • @freeasabird5187
    @freeasabird5187 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Gave up smoking 15 years or so ago. Took me 5 attempts, cold turkey each time. I have never had another craving since. Now it’s alcohol, have done 30 days, 50 days. Now I’m on day 3 and so committed this time, helps to find this kind of support. Thank you for this great interview/ video. 🙏

  • @ciaranmac8689
    @ciaranmac8689 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Done 110 days now feel better

  • @gingerbreadaudio
    @gingerbreadaudio 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Nice one! I'm @ day 75 alcohol free today and going strong 👍🙂

    • @besober
      @besober  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I love this! 75 days is amazing and here is to the next 75 days! Please do keep me updated with your progress :)

    • @gingerbreadaudio
      @gingerbreadaudio 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@besober thank you for your support its really appreciated, I will do 👍

    • @WilliamBTCWallace
      @WilliamBTCWallace ปีที่แล้ว +1

      How’s it going now?

  • @sebastianlujan8872
    @sebastianlujan8872 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Thanks Simon and Clare. Great interview!!!!

    • @besober
      @besober  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Glad you enjoyed it.

  • @Leggs013
    @Leggs013 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I did 100 Days once!!!!
    101 Days I have a Drink
    The Dumbest thing I ever did.

    • @MsSheilaC
      @MsSheilaC 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thats great tho! Bc you know you can do it. You can do it again 😊🙏🏻

  • @mrshifter9582
    @mrshifter9582 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Well done Clare, I feel inspired by listening to you. ❤️

    • @besober
      @besober  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi Bob - she really is an inspiration, glad the video helped! Simon

  • @soberbeermonster6272
    @soberbeermonster6272 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Well done Claire, So many similarities to where I got and my own challenges. Watched the whole video. amazing and inspiring. Only on day 13 here but a completely different world to the one i was in a few weeks ago already.

    • @besober
      @besober  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Well done on 13 days, keep up the great work!

    • @MsSheilaC
      @MsSheilaC 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      How are you doing?

  • @heathertruman3506
    @heathertruman3506 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Congratulations Clare you're doing awesome! Simon's group Be Sober helped me quit in 2018 and I haven't looked back.
    Keep going it's so worth it love Heather x
    Respect Simon you really are the dogs danglers 😉👍

    • @besober
      @besober  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hi Heather, great to hear from you :) Thank you for the lovely comment and you are a true inspiration with what you have achieved!

    • @heathertruman3506
      @heathertruman3506 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks Simon nice to see you in action, how lucky is Clare having you down the street 🤩
      It feels good to be in my third year alcohol free 😊👍

  • @suegregory656
    @suegregory656 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This is great - so inspiring and so honest. Well done Clare and well done Simon.

    • @besober
      @besober  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks Sue - really pleased you enjoyed it. Clare has done so well.

    • @tracker1009
      @tracker1009 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Did I miss her saying what she is drinking now at her parties ? 🤔🙂 amazing interview 👍✔

  • @richardpetts5149
    @richardpetts5149 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You are a remarkable women Clare and thank you so much for sharing your story on this great podcast, very inspiring, well done x

  • @rowanfrancis9011
    @rowanfrancis9011 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    94 days

  • @OverlandingJoy
    @OverlandingJoy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Nice job Clare.

  • @michaelc7819
    @michaelc7819 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Such a great interview - Hige Respect to you Simon, for the truly great work you are doing - Outstanding effort Clare. Inspirational.

  • @beverlykey8473
    @beverlykey8473 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    you are such a big help and inspiration! Thank you so much, it is so hard!

    • @besober
      @besober  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks for the comment, I hope the videos on my channel are helping - you might also want to look at my stop drinking programme www.joinbesober.com - Simon

  • @thefly5961
    @thefly5961 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Alcohol is an absolute bastard .

    • @besober
      @besober  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Couldn't agree more! Simon.

    • @wendycarter5718
      @wendycarter5718 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      The Fly not just a b'stard but a seriously poisonous b'stard.Ethanol kills your liver!!

  • @briennelake6056
    @briennelake6056 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Congratulations Clare. You are inspirational to me. I heard you say that you don't believe in God, but then you mentioned Christ twice. Even if you don't believe in Him, He believes in you.
    I wish you well. God bless.

    • @besober
      @besober  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Clare is amazing, isn't she! I hope you are well Brienne and Happy New Year!

  • @denniseclasper446
    @denniseclasper446 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Just listened to this and realised it was from a year ago just want to say well done ! And are you still sober free?

    • @besober
      @besober  2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I can confirm Clare is still sober and loving life.

  • @MsSheilaC
    @MsSheilaC 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Can you guys do a followup? Thank you!!!

  • @thintwin48
    @thintwin48 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    How wonderful to hear such strength and intelligence from you both you and Clare Simon....thank you for this truly inspiring 'share'. My story so 'mirrors' Clare's story...and I hope to have the fortitude to embrace an alcohol-free life shame-free as well! What incredible 'karma' that you found each other and live on the same street! Just as an 'aside'...I would be very interested in knowing the names of/suggestions for the 'self-honouring' alcohol-free drinks one could bring to social gatherings to not feel 'deprived'...but actually look forward to imbibing! Much grace and thanks for the incredibly beneficial work you constantly offer and produce.

    • @besober
      @besober  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks Donna - so happy Clare has been able to share and inspire others.

  • @Tehranlondon569
    @Tehranlondon569 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hi. I love watching this video.
    Please can you interview people at the edge and suffering from alcohol withdrawal .thanks 🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @amycaple9738
    @amycaple9738 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Hi Simon I’m unsure if you’ll pick this up due to the time that has passed... I’ve just watched this interview and it’s great, love it and Clare is awesome. I’d like to ask, is she still alcohol free? And I wonder how life is for her now?
    I’m coming up 100 days AF. Thanks Simon.

    • @besober
      @besober  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Amy, congratulations on 100 days AF! That's a huge milestone. Clare remains AF and is enjoying her sober lifestyle. Thanks for asking about her. I hope you're doing well in your journey. If you need more tips and tactics, you can find support on my website at joinbesober.com/

  • @sandrad4099
    @sandrad4099 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Well done, both of you xx I have been a problem drinker, Forever, I'm 57 now. Didn't drink every day as the hangover was so brutal That even Just the thought would make me feel ill. Anyway, I have noticed the past few years nothing really makes me happy, things That I used to look so forward to. Has this got anything to do with my drinking or have I Just become a miserabile cow?? I'm on day 8 and so determined this time❤️
    would out me off for

    • @besober
      @besober  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hi Sandra, thank you for leaving a comment. I know for me, it was alcohol that caused me to lose the love of the small things. However, I only realised it was alcohol causing this once I had completely removed it from my life and took back control. Please do keep in touch with your progress. I also have a fantastic support network on Facebook. It's a private group completely free of charge - facebook.com/groups/1960061840706240

    • @sandrad4099
      @sandrad4099 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@besober Thanks so much Simon, here"s hoping. Is the facebook private as in That nobody who follows me on FB can see That I'm a member? I'm still in the shame stage

  • @gopiexchef
    @gopiexchef 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hi can we stop drinking immediately if iam heavy drinker or gradually

  • @ninjakris3004
    @ninjakris3004 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I’m not sure I want to quit but need to cut back when I do drink. Anyone have any ideas or tips?

  • @maggiemcdonald3185
    @maggiemcdonald3185 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Im on day 45 🎉

  • @user-qt2ei8so9g
    @user-qt2ei8so9g ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You helped

  • @sleeplessinstockwell
    @sleeplessinstockwell ปีที่แล้ว

    Lasted 3minutes. Couldn’t listen to “errrm, errrm, errrm” anymore. Well done though

  • @jennieguy8625
    @jennieguy8625 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Piled into my home life says it all ❤️🫂