Yuval Harari: ON How To Set Expectations | ON Purpose Podcast Ep.16

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  • In this weeks episode I sat down with international bestselling author of Sapiens, Homo Deus and 21 Lessons for the 21st Century, Yuval Harari.
    We covered so many interesting topics like how to manage expectations, the importance of boredom and what he believes the future of artificial intelligence is. He also shares with us his equation for happiness and he reveals why so many of us are addicted to being on our phones.
    We also dove into education and where he believes the job market will be 30 years from now. This episode is sure to challenge your perspective on certain topics!
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ความคิดเห็น • 226

  • @rabi8053
    @rabi8053 5 ปีที่แล้ว +112

    "The inability to deal with boredom is one of our greatest weaknesses."

    • @wfifer
      @wfifer 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Alongside his point here, I realized a while ago that there are people who you can talk to (i.e. be bored together with) and there are people who are almost like already written books when you meet them-it's not to say they're unchangeable or unchanging, but you realize you can't affect them meaningfully. So instead of trying to be ultra witty and frantically impressive to the latter, I've been trying to calmly take in their learnings, and instead focus my manic creative energy on the former who are bored alongside me. :)

    • @manijehbahremand647
      @manijehbahremand647 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      It is a time for me to get to know myself. That might work for you too.

  • @HumansOfVR
    @HumansOfVR 5 ปีที่แล้ว +81

    “I’m not in this world to live up to your expectations and you’re not in this world to live up to mine.”
    ― Bruce Lee

  • @fernandoquesada8694
    @fernandoquesada8694 5 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    “All of humanity's problems stem from man's inability to sit quietly in a room alone.” - Blaise Pascal

    • @pavelvinogradov9615
      @pavelvinogradov9615 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      this is why japanese rule the world

    • @abhinaygarg8792
      @abhinaygarg8792 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      so Humanity's problem is the predominance of Extroverts in managing the affairs of humanity.

  • @bikashkhatri3545
    @bikashkhatri3545 5 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    Greatest thinker of our time.Much love Yuval Noah harari from Nepal!

    • @SallySamsara
      @SallySamsara 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I believe he is Israeli.

    • @theAraAra
      @theAraAra 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@SallySamsara I believe he meant that he himself is Nepali, and not Yuval

  • @jaxx-inspiregrowcreate2862
    @jaxx-inspiregrowcreate2862 5 ปีที่แล้ว +89

    *Set expectations, have goals, develop self-discipline and your life will pay you back ten fold.*

    • @danyeldny17
      @danyeldny17 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      And do NOT take this comment as an axiom

    • @okstamps4097
      @okstamps4097 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Take risk and do not expect God to do any good or bad to you. That's my experience.

    • @danyeldny17
      @danyeldny17 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@okstamps4097 that's if you believe in a god

  • @OmPrakash-cq4mz
    @OmPrakash-cq4mz 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    As Albert Camus expressed exquisitely, the choice is between stress & boredom.
    Boredom is a living tomb.
    Stress is a ticking bomb.

  • @osse1n
    @osse1n 5 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    *Your expectations should always be based on what you want and how you want it.*
    Never dependant on someone or something else, because you only hold control over your own self.
    The most important expectation is being better and wiser tomorrow that you are today.

  • @joan3891
    @joan3891 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Yuval is my current fascination. So glad to see him on Jay’s show.

  • @dix7829
    @dix7829 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Please bring him back soon again because I loved everything he said and I can sit down for hours just to listen what he is saying for analytical thinkers like him.

    • @leab2039
      @leab2039 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Dix 7 yes please!

  • @nicholasmitchell8749
    @nicholasmitchell8749 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Inside 10 minutes and Yuval speaks firmly about the confusion of free will with emotional avoidance patterns.

  • @itsmuimui
    @itsmuimui 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    YUVAL HARARI YOU SPEAK SO MUCH TRUTH AND WISDOM WHY HAVE YOU ONLY STARTED SPEAKING UP NOWWWWW THE WORLD NEEDS TO HEAR YOU!!!

    • @kaigogolin515
      @kaigogolin515 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      he is around already for a while.... check out his three books...

    • @gevanlappido1304
      @gevanlappido1304 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      He does this for years. His books like Kai wrote are all three a must read.
      His ted talks and interview about nationalism are important to watch as well
      He also has a great youtube channel himself
      If you are european, watch his talk with the chancolor of austria - very insightful

  • @chetanpadmani8525
    @chetanpadmani8525 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am Vipassana meditator and I can relate everything what Yuval is talking about.

  • @leab2039
    @leab2039 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Wow, fascinating conversation with Professor Yuval Harari. True joy

  • @chewyjello1
    @chewyjello1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm back here because I just lost a battle with boredom. I'll pick it up again when this is over. :) On another note, I just love listening to Yuval talk. He's adorable. :)

  • @joshua_dlima
    @joshua_dlima 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I just love his accent and wisdom.

  • @homermoeller413
    @homermoeller413 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Expectation lead to dissapointment
    Setting a goal more often inspires significant accomplishments

  • @emmanguyen3808
    @emmanguyen3808 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Yes, I do agree on the part that Google and Facebook's feed keep bombarding me a ton of information which I don't need and don't care.

  • @dianakino1132
    @dianakino1132 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    *Honestly* , I have been looking forward to see you having one of my favourite author, historian, and professor in your podcast, it is so thrilling to watch.
    I was thinking about having Sadhguru as well as Oprah and many other more.
    Congratulations for your progress, looking forward to see more brains feeding the humanity.
    Thank you to Jay and the whole team and the effort you put into this work.

  • @haneefapk4834
    @haneefapk4834 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yuval noah harari is hardcore legend in this world, and jay shetty will become number one proadcaster

  • @sidnair
    @sidnair 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Great podcast. Yuval's just got a ton of experience and his reflections are sharp and clear thoughts to ponder. I actually decided halfway through to stop this and just stay with boredom to see if the urge to watch this on TH-cam was a compulsive mind distraction or from a deeper interest to learn more. Good stuff.

  • @positiveenergy8598
    @positiveenergy8598 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Greatest thinker of our time.

  • @rosemarcella7297
    @rosemarcella7297 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am really relieved of the pain I'm suffering right now everytime I watch Jay Shetty's page.It inspire me a lot

  • @prachichawla6994
    @prachichawla6994 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Jay Shetty I love you for bringing him to your podcast!!!!!! Much gratitude!!!!!! Thankkkk youuuuuuuuuuu

  • @banumelit6325
    @banumelit6325 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Each time I get stuck with a problem ur videos boosts me to move forward tqsm❤️

  • @MindNow
    @MindNow 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    *Dont expect anything and you will not be disappointed* 🙏
    This means that you should provide your service to the world, but not expecting to get anything back and THEN you will get something back

  • @eunicekiruhi9327
    @eunicekiruhi9327 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow..... Yuval is such a genius! I was here worrying about the next 5 months before the year ends then he mentioned how things will be in the next 30 years which got me to thinking, where will i be??? He just blew my mind

  • @mathysiva1425
    @mathysiva1425 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Happiness is within you! Being miserable or being joyful it's all within you. If we full filled with love not with other thing then everything will fall into the right place.

  • @PoPhamsdotter
    @PoPhamsdotter 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Yuval Harari has such interesting perspectives on things.

  • @humanbeing8531
    @humanbeing8531 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Boredom- Interesting topic. Competition (Good intention/bad intention-brings us back to Srimad Bhagwad Gita), Environment-No gain without pain, well all topics made sense. Will watch again. Thank you👏👏

  • @itsmuimui
    @itsmuimui 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Love Yuval Harari! Thank you for making this happen Jay!

  • @TheAerdna123
    @TheAerdna123 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Until today my favourite episode of On Purpose. Absolutely loved and sourced so much information and new insights from all 3 books of professor Harari. Thanks Jay.

  • @davidkrynauw4314
    @davidkrynauw4314 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Brilliant! A good fusion between wisdom and science here! I’m on Hararis 3rd book 21 lessons for the 21 st century and can recommend it!

  • @ppereza1861
    @ppereza1861 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yuval is my hero!!! I love that guy

  • @princysuniverse4616
    @princysuniverse4616 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love to watch Jay's videos. It creates such a positive vibrations. 💞💞💞

  • @shubham777-i
    @shubham777-i 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    If you are not there then I can't live. Bcz ur motivation give me inspiration.

    • @Greatpacificnorthwesterner
      @Greatpacificnorthwesterner 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Have faith and know you also have the spark inside yourself even if Jay wasn't there to inspire!

  • @bharathibhaskaran
    @bharathibhaskaran 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    An Extraordinarily Great Thinker.. YUVAL

  • @itsmeyam3088
    @itsmeyam3088 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you for the inspiration. We love you🙏❤

  • @person1858
    @person1858 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    This man is exactly who the world needs right now.

  • @Lindsweightloss
    @Lindsweightloss 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm glad you've mentioned the issue of being unable to deal with boredom. Because, I tend to struggle with this a lot. I always feel the need, or feel pressured to do something, it is as though if I don't do anything I will miss out on a lot of things!

  • @Randimal762
    @Randimal762 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yuval is such an incredible thinker. The world needs more minds like his.. our survival depends on it.

  • @mariaabdi6265
    @mariaabdi6265 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Jey Thank you i really Appreciated your vedios motivition quetos i cant start my day without checking one of your vedios for reality you are one of the things i get happy

  • @fara9324
    @fara9324 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I really genuinely love this

  • @vitorm7705
    @vitorm7705 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Good interview Jay. The only thing that i would like ask to you,with all respect,is that you ask to the interviewed not to mention,directly, the names of cultures,countries,peoples,in an apparently critical way. Who are we to judge others?
    A hug my friend.

  • @dianam4345
    @dianam4345 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yuval has always something new to say and everything makes sense except for the boredom movement

  • @Pragattik
    @Pragattik 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    One more add on to my own learning’s through on purpose . Your podcast introduces us to such inspirational and wonderful people that we get to listen to and learn from them .
    My learning’s from this particular podcast as below ,
    - collective Humility Globally
    - Ability to deal with boredom
    Thanks 🙏 Pragatti
    -

  • @anjalip8418
    @anjalip8418 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    You are my real inspiration

  • @DeepakKumar-lx6ry
    @DeepakKumar-lx6ry 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    sir i have been watching you since 2017 and you have change my life incredibly also you have grown with your subs

  • @madhurichakraborty1254
    @madhurichakraborty1254 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is the just the best entertaining podcast. Actually ' Boredom always precedes a period of great creativity' .

  • @montserrattorresnadal5087
    @montserrattorresnadal5087 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Two great men....together

  • @PlagueXKill3R
    @PlagueXKill3R 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Amazing! Love this one! Keep it up man! People like Noah are amazing guests!

  • @RussianLanguagePodcast
    @RussianLanguagePodcast 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Such wisdome. Thank you both.

  • @Tokeknudsen
    @Tokeknudsen 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great conversation, I appreciate that you brought up humility!

  • @shaminakuddus5130
    @shaminakuddus5130 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you both Jay Shetty and Yuval Noah Harari for sharing this interesting conversation and your riflecfions!😊

  • @karahikes8692
    @karahikes8692 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey Jay, Your every video is so educating, I don't have any words to describe your intelligence and the things you are doing for people and society.

  • @nguyendu382
    @nguyendu382 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Jay, the video is incredible.

  • @celienepaul5378
    @celienepaul5378 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ironical that for me the most illuminating point related to boredom. Yuval shifts paradigms.

  • @revenantwolzart
    @revenantwolzart 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    LEGEND OF OUR TIMES

  • @learnenglish2602
    @learnenglish2602 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Full love for Yuval & Jay.. 😍

  • @Planetgreenzen
    @Planetgreenzen 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Great podcast, thanks for the mentorship.

  • @myelinboo7325
    @myelinboo7325 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love this so much from Thailand!!

  • @lojadogorila692
    @lojadogorila692 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Awesome! Thank you.

  • @FeelGoodWithin
    @FeelGoodWithin 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Lol Intresting Conversation!!! If you work online it's good to be offline in weekends😝😍

  • @smritisharma126
    @smritisharma126 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Interesting conversationsation.... thank you!🙏

  • @salomeshelia
    @salomeshelia 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Also i wanted to say that when next time I train/coach people how to actively listen and what that means exactly - i will ask them to watch your podcasts! :)

  • @hsinghuiwang2593
    @hsinghuiwang2593 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    One of the best interviews. You dig into some interesting stuff. Nice job!

  • @lunamack5218
    @lunamack5218 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love you Yuvali....Everything was right except of the boredom.....

  • @9009vishnu
    @9009vishnu 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Anticipated one...thanks jay

  • @souravchhikara3577
    @souravchhikara3577 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Every act should have a purpose

  • @skyhigh2118
    @skyhigh2118 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wow. I feel “FULLY” enlightened after watching this🤣

  • @florakoller4629
    @florakoller4629 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    THANK YOU!!! this was very insightful.

  • @nicknickerie8217
    @nicknickerie8217 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Love from Suriname💯♥

  • @edithhorvath2829
    @edithhorvath2829 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    YNH. You so honest and true your knowledge exclusive, your enthusiasm overwhelming .

  • @harmoni.e
    @harmoni.e 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    This podcast in particular addresses a very present and scary reality. Guys we must wake up from our stupor. The answer is external but must take place within FIRST then it will be able to manifest in the natural.

  • @Hasar08
    @Hasar08 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    what a brilliant talk

  • @piquitojuno3383
    @piquitojuno3383 ปีที่แล้ว

    I 100% enjoyed it..Made me laugh and feeling that I should be a better human being….Thank you both!

  • @Psychophski
    @Psychophski 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is gold.-

  • @AshleenPratap
    @AshleenPratap 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Such a great video!

  • @user-cx3jv8mb9t
    @user-cx3jv8mb9t 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Jay and Yuval,
    Excellent Podcast, so interesting
    .
    from the Israeli desert (:

  • @kennymosley1
    @kennymosley1 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I was that bored I noticed the Microphones have been installed upside down ;)...Only Joking, never bored! Love Yuval & Jay.

  • @pattyshona4253
    @pattyshona4253 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Oh no...I slept in the middle.....Maybe I'm an active participant of the boredom movement..? Thank you so much for this new thought. Loved the whole show.

  • @masha7368
    @masha7368 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amazing podcast.

  • @chakramohora3698
    @chakramohora3698 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    just here for listening to Jay Shetty voice..

  • @naveengwalia4007
    @naveengwalia4007 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    So much to learn from this video
    Also the boring movement was amazing 😄

  • @mastermstudio2730
    @mastermstudio2730 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm Marben Rosal, your BIG FAN from the Philippines.

  • @XereNak
    @XereNak 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Excellent interview. Great best and worst advice! :)

  • @Originalkeauty
    @Originalkeauty 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Expectations can lead to limitations in some situations...

  • @Vikhyat24
    @Vikhyat24 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great man

  • @sarusamir3334
    @sarusamir3334 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Big big fan like 👍️👍️ and share .jay shetty video .his video massage is wow .

  • @studyme-selftaughtlife4958
    @studyme-selftaughtlife4958 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Use the second date rule:
    Would you still really *LIKE* them if they did what they just did on a second date?

  • @edithhorvath2829
    @edithhorvath2829 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great conversation!

  • @thejoesilverbackshow
    @thejoesilverbackshow 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Having mentioned the hierarchies of ants and men, there is something that humans are getting better at that Harari calls free will. Now that my children are grown and gone, I am choosing to spend more time for consciousness developing activities: reading, writing, gardening, hiking and spending reflective time in nature. If we were truly honest, one of my heroes, the silverback has it one up over us because he spends much more time relaxing than building up an empire so he can then have more time relaxing but he now has some degenerative disease that a more relaxed lifestyle may have helped him avoid.

  • @atulranjan6084
    @atulranjan6084 5 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    fan of Jay Shetty
    Press a like..

    • @Hypnolixir
      @Hypnolixir 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      And my fans click here ;)

  • @ms.m3n
    @ms.m3n 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    🙌 Jay! Ya did what no interviewer has done before w Harari: challenge his thoughts and get him to expand upon new ways of perceiving concepts he has built his career upon. And Jay did it with his enrapturing positivity. Well played game of intellectual chess 👏👏👏
    Jay brings lightness/creativity from self discipline and harari, like his shirt, personifies the dark fears folks think when concerned about the future of tech/politics.
    The truth of the matter is that conscientious consumers exist; they are aware of their role in swaying the influence of corporate power. They're also stock stakeholders, when given the opportunity to support worthy businesses with values mostly aligned with their own they will help them grow (Tesla and more recently with a strong rate since going public over a month ago: BYND ✨).
    I wonder if Harari is in favor of free vasectomy clinics for all
    nations. That might be a more effective solution to worrying how to educate masses that are ill equipped to keep up with changing times. No amount of education/resources will band-aid and resolve the growing unemployment especially if certain cultures ignore global environmental threats that humans contribute to. We shouldn't support populations that aren't even adapting to preserving nature.
    The issue is how to approach elite/working class over-consumers to reduce their waste output of non-biodegradable products.
    And in my specific case, how to garner support to develop a project without the local (norwegian) players pillaging my concept to one of "their own" 🙄😒 like they've shown to do, sometimes screwing up the point, on a number of occasions the past year. (They shouldn't steal from the source without fully understanding and giving ownership to the source.)
    Anyways, great discussion and I hope to watch more!!!

  • @magdalenamagdalena1550
    @magdalenamagdalena1550 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    OMG awesome!

  • @jhunt5578
    @jhunt5578 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Jay: What's the best advice you've ever received?
    Yuval: Observe your breath
    Jay: Nice (takes out chewing gum)
    Yuval:🤦🏽‍♂️

  • @AlvaPalin
    @AlvaPalin 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Where are the steps to " Get to know yourself"? How can you be sure what your thinking is "yourself" or outside forces or expectations you heard all your life from teachers, parents, grandparents and the world at large? All this buzz in your brain is hard to separate out. Where and how do you start? I have been trying to meditate for years and I don't know if it is even helping but I do it. I am so thankful I am never bored. Never have been. In a Dr's office, I love to notice the architecture, the decor, the unique way each person carries themselves, speaks and interacts. If you notice the sounds people make they can tell you a lot about the person. I love the senses we are so blessed to have. I love the questions kids ask their moms and if I could answer them, what would I tell them. I look at everything and notice how the furniture is made. I mean everywhere we go there is such beauty and bizarre things to pay attention to. I lay use to lay in the grass and watch bugs come and go. I have even followed tiny creatures going somewhere along the sand by the river. In the house I make up games to play with myself, usually throwing games as I am getting older. I try to make what I do enjoyable as my time is limited. I have always loved life and always sought to see it through your eyes, their eyes, even plants eyes. When I see a happy plant it fills me with joy. I admire it from head to toe and appreciate the beauty its sharing. Yuval always brings himself to the table and thats why I'm here. Thank you so much.

  • @kimberliebyington5245
    @kimberliebyington5245 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Kindness

  • @sabriritonga8734
    @sabriritonga8734 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    hi Jay, thanks so much bring this discussion into your content, for me this discussion really bring impact into my personal life, the author Yuval Noah Hirari giving me another insight how (we) as human handling situation especially "boring in our life" and give me insight as well how tech change the world and change people behavior. good luck brother, sabri from Bali, really happy to subscribe and like this content.

  • @ramintavangar3471
    @ramintavangar3471 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Jay Shetty?! i mean what a name!

  • @thejoesilverbackshow
    @thejoesilverbackshow 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    When it comes to Nature and Free Will, I would compare E.O. Wilson's sociobiology research and understand that the social organization of ant colonies and the social organization of human societies are very similar. According to Wilson, men and ants have been trading one empire for another for millennia and very little is different. KIngs and Queens and Emporers, slaves, workers, and all the intermediate managers.