John is not a jerk. John told the other guy that he was going to start ignoring everything he said that used the word Jack and he still continued to call him jack. The other guy asked to be ignored and deserved to get fired!
In that sort of situation it might me the person's dead name (I think its what is called) The coworker could be calling them something that reminds them of bad memories
#6 sue the company for unlawful dismissal, drag the kid AND his father to the court too. and if they happen to get away with it (seems like the father has some weight in the society) bring it to the media. definitely NOT a jerk
Hardest thing I’ve been through: One night when I was 11 I randomly felt homesick while I was visiting my dad and something between both of my parents must’ve hit a breaking point because they both separately talked about my life and a bunch of random stuff that wasn’t even important. My dad took me home and told me to wait in the car. And both of my parents just unloaded on each other I could hear and see everything through the windshield and I just sat in the passengers seat and cried as they fought like I’ve never seen them fight before. It’s my least favorite memory and that incident still has some lasting effects on me regarding both of my parents.
I had a slightly similar incident where me my brother and my step mum were sat in the car whilst my mum and dad fought so loudly we could hear down the street. Super tough to hear I feel you.
The co worker who said OP was the jerk for making Matt look bad. No Matt did that job all on his OWN. The co worker and Matt ATA’s. I also saw my sister die from cancer and I was 33 at the time. My prayers are with you. You are NTA. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
My parents almost killed eachother once and threatened to call the police on eachothe and i was in my sisters lap looking at them right in front of me hitting eachother(i was about7 years old)
Listening to this like a podcast. Halfway through I realized that most of this conflict could've easily been avoided if people had more common sense and is more understanding.
same. I am on a 6 hour car trip that was meant to take 2 hours and I have been watching non stop. Thanks for helping this not be completely unbearable @Am I the Jerk?
Well that is a huge problem with our world & society as a whole. There is way too many people that think "Because they do not like something" or because "Something rubs them the wrong way" that they should be able to get what they want. I see it all over on youtube in various ways. One example out of MANY that i can come up with is when someone is doing something completely legal and within their right BY LAW - Then a Karen or Man Karen comes by flipping out because they don't like it, or they don't think it should be okay or that its not legal WHEN IT TRULY IS. Then the karen/man karen starts bugging out about it. What comes to mind is my favorite quote ever - " My rights DO NOT END were YOUR FEELINGS start" If someone has a legal right to do something, then people should STFU and deal with it. But they don't. The problem lies with society, people thinking they should be able to get whatever they want.
Wow you’re so emotionally intelligent 😐 What kind of vague comment is this? Might as well have said “it would’ve been better if the people were nicer” like… yeah? Obviously!
yep, if that was me, i would have sued the store for unlawful termination. Here is Australia, if that happens, the company would have been screwed and had to pay that worker.
There was an update to the gf who got mad at her boyfriends guy nights. Apparently all the bfs would go out to the bar and hook up with girls apart from one. But he knew and said nothing. I think most of them broke up with their bfs’s but one girl went back.
In the story about the dental trays, no op isn't the jerk nor should op apologize. In fact, I think op should run NOT walk away from the relationship because if the boyfriend can lie so easily about that, how can op trust ANYTHING he says.
OP should also pay for the trays just so the receptionist doesn't get in trouble for a honest mistake, he's refusing to own up to for stealing the item, OP should then sue him for the amount, in small claims court (?) because no way in hell can a judge sit there and tell OP they're wrong and he's right.
The jack/john story reminds me of one of my ex coworkers, he was new and he'd always ask me questions like "how was you weekend" or "what's happening after work" and then when I'd answer, he would berate me for not speaking load enough "SPEAK UP!! I CAN'T F***ING HEAR YOU!!". No one else had this problem with me, everyone else could hear me fine. Also, he didn't have a problem hearing anyone else, even someone I have trouble hearing, and he has complained on multiple occasions that my whistling (I'm very talented) is too loud and really hurts his ears. So instead of answering him anymore, I chose to completely ignore him. (There were multiple reasons for this, he went around and said that I told him I did meth and stuff like that) he hated this. He'd complain to other workers and the managers that I wasn't listening to him and he also claimed it had caused him to hurt his back. He once made a comment about my intelligence, where I made the dumb mistake of retorting then He followed me to the back of our work shouting "WHAT THE F****S YOUR PROBLEM TOM!? WHAT THE F****S YOUR PROBLEM?!" this ended in a harry potter moment: Him "you think you're so tough staring at me? Me "I don't have to think it mate" He then went to the managers and accused me of doing all the things he's been doing to me, to him instead. and demanded I be fired immediately, saying he'll get his lawyer and his union involved, that I'm on drugs, and all that stuff. Luckily my coworkers got behind me and wrote statements contradicting everything he's been doing and saying. I don't know what happened to him, but I still have my job and he's gone. I still don't know what his problem was, why he was such an ass, and why I was the target. But its over now.
Regarding the Story 4, the Baby named Karen: He is not the Jerk, quite the opposite. Everyone else is the Jerk for allowing damage to a baby being done by calling the name lovely. He was the only good person in the room, for he stood up and risked being at the receiving end of hostility to help that baby. That is one of the things that for me make the difference between an acquaintance or buddy and a close friend. A true friend is someone who is willing to get into a heated argument with you to protect you from making a big mistake. A true friend values protecting your well being over not ruining the mood.
The narrator said the Karen thing probably won't stick around a long time. That's what I thought when I was pregnant and struggling to find a name my husband and I agreed on. Lol "oooh, it's just an intent fad. It'll blow over in a couple years, DEFINITELY before she's in school..." I now have a 6 year old who decided she wants to go by her middle name... As far as I know it's just because she likes it (I think it sounds more like a princess name, that's probably why) but it still makes me feel guilty in case she overheard a lot of Karen stuff or something. As far as I know she's never been teased for it, but I still feel bad because who knows...
1:34:28 update the op's family found out about the reddit post and demanded he apologize for it, op defended himself and op realized that his relationship with his mother and sister was done for and gave up on it completely
The girls day story? Or the stolen car? I'm just asking for clarification because that time stamp is at the very end of the car... If it's the girls day shit then, yeah, definitely good for him. I've been excluded from my family events regularly as well. In my case they used the fact that I had children as the reasoning. I want even allowed to get a babysitter in order to attend the events and it was extra painful because, while I was being explicitly excluded, my best friend at the time was being included. These days, my ex friend lives with my mother and I've been told I have no choice but to accept that she's an important part of my moms life and I'm meant to just get over any hurt feelings but also I'm not welcome at her home because she bought the one breed of dog I'm terrified of since I was mauled by one when I was 4 and she doesn't want to have to worry about me feeling uncomfortable or something so I should just send my children out of state to visit with her. I don't feel particularly inclined to do so
As far as baby talk couple I'm betting that there was more than one conversation with his partner about this prior to this incident. She probably was very much aware of how much he hated it and how much it humiliated him. He was not the jerk for this unless he left her without the resources to obtain other transportation!
I'm guessing you don't have kids. She's a stay-at-home mom. The ONLY person she talks to is a literal baby. It's literally the most normal thing that new moms do. We ALL do it. It's literally programmed into us. Conversations don't change hormones nor does it change the fact that her main social interaction is a baby. He should just spend more time having actual adult conversations. He sounds like a horrible partner and honestly he's probably an absent father at best. Otherwise, he'd have some understanding of what she's going through
@@lolarichter9415 I'm not sure about that, my family is huge and i work in a family practice and never met a mother that didn't stop the baby talk when addressing adults
@@lolarichter9415 We do not ALL do it. I have 4 kids that I never baby talked to. People are were with my boys (they're older) and are with my daughter (she just turned 11) always surprised by their vocabulary and how well spoken they are. And even if I did I wouldn't embarrass people by baby talking adults.
Story 3 - The OP makes it clear that they are living with their stepmom, so maybe the brother is actually the stepmom’s son. Then it would make sense why she could be favoring the brother in this scenario.
Story #2: I’m religious, and even I gasped when I read what friend b said. That type of malicious religion is NOT what my religion is about… I’m Catholic, and I don’t know what denomination friend b claims to be, but WOW! OP was justified. God’s not about punishing you. And friend b is highly misunderstanding the Bible. I sincerely hope and pray for friend a’s healing.
Yeah friend B handled that extremely poorly. Sounds like that prosperity Christianity that says "convert and good things will happen to you" but I'm pretty sure the bible says that if you convert you will be persecuted for your faith. I hope friend B will reflect on how they can bring up their religion in a supportive way.
The stepbrother getting a car story is basically the other guy feeling entitle to having anything he wants like, he got his 600 buck gift and A FUCKING CAR that he will get later “call me when you decide to be fair” maybe that’s why the mom didn’t had him for Christmas, I can’t imagínate having a good celebration with him around
In my opinion, the one that wanted the same gift as the stepbrother is Not A Jerk. The parents should treat the kids equally. I know from experience how hurtful it is to be treated differently like that. When my brother in law got remarried, all three of his wife's kids got a car for their 16th birthday. When my niece (my BIL daughter) turn 16, she got nothing. They were suppose to go on a trip out of state for her, but then the wife decided she wanted to go somewhere else that she liked. She hated that the trip was for my niece, so she decided they would go somewhere else where it would be about her (she likes everything to be focused on her 🙄). Anyways, a few months ago, my niece was able to get a car that she is currently working and paying for herself. We can write a book on all the things this woman does lol
The hurtful friend was way out of line by saying her friend deserved to lose her husband & child! I am an orphan, a widow, single parent of 4 children and a full time employee. We’ve lost 5 immediate family members in 2 1/2 years, my husband, my Dad, my brother, mother-in-law & niece. The clinchers that that I’m also Children’s Minister. No one deserves the tragedies in life, unless they caused the tragedies, then that’s different. Tragedies are part of life. I lost my Mom & son 17 years ago. Life stinks sometimes for everyone regardless of how they’ve lived their lives. Thank-you OP for fighting her battle for her!!
Because he wanted the game right that moment and his father wasn't with him. I'm sure the brat said some lies to his dad to make it look like he was the victim. And dad covered him, so the brat will continue to do this to get his way.
The problem with story 4(?) isn't the kid who wanted the game, it was the the parent who threw his weight, the bosses who caved and the manager who accepted losing a good worker for literally doing his job. This is something you'd take to court and sue for unfair dismissal.
The story at 16:00 , he should have sued them. Since he has legal ground for that and considering internet age, that family could have easily gotten punishment they deserved aka lost of revenue whatever business they have.
This would be the opposite As the Op would lose if he took legal actions because the mother is allowed to name her child what ever she wanted (INCLUDING THE father) especially the mother, Id most likely would just cut off all ties with her family and if Stephanie wont understand then I cut her off too and wait until the pregnancy and if she decides not too change the name then I either cut with ties all permanently or temporarily id choose temporarily and id wait until she realizes her biggest mistake of her entire Eternity
The hardest thing to go through in my life was watching my father have a mild stroke, standing there knowing I couldn't help him. It scarred me for life
1:55:20 as someone who was forced to visit a parent when I didn't want to growing up, I can say it is very detrimental to never have your opinion ignored, so the kid shouldn't be forced to see his mum if he doesn't want to, it could harm any potential relationship they might have
2:32:05 is definitively one of the worse ones in my eyes from what i’ve seen in the first 3 hours of this video. It’s just the pure hypocricy of the family from the sisters side. The only jerk there is that nephew who thought it was okay to smash a brand new console which was for baby’s* and then cry about not having one for himself now. He sounds pretty baby to me. If i was that dad i would say to the sister: fine, leave and never come back, it would be a huge relief because i would not have to pay you anymore. She would then maybe realise what the dad does for her and give him a chance of telling his side of the story.
I accidentally called my coworker Pam instead of Deb because I was a brand new employee and was having a difficult time remembering names. This lady completely flipped her lid and freaked out on me. It wasn't like I did that on purpose. She was so incredibly rude and mean even though I apologized and let it go. Some people just have really bad anger issues I guess.
Story 2, the worst thing I've had to deal with was going through the decline of my mother's cancer and her being in hospice and seeing my father kneeling by her bed and he cried when she passed then a year later my father passed away by getting hit by a drunk driver. All this when I was 13-14 years old. Edit: That guy joking about only eating things with apples was hilarious.
The Dad who is told he shouldn't be able to cuddle with his 15 year old daughter---our society is so messed up! I know so many girls that felt like they lost their fathers when they started developing, people have so sexualized women that they can't keep these vital relationships. What a great dad who can love his daughter and keep that relationship. Her own mother and grandparents have already created a label.
The OP whose friend has lost her husband and child within a short time , my heart goes out to her. I think she could have said they will always be watching over her and that she didn’t do anything wrong. I do go to church and I say this to people but privately. Also I say a couple of true strange coincidences that has happened relating my late father and sister. This sometimes helps. Also to not put a timeline on grief as the same memory will make you smile one day and another upset you. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
13:09 I found this reaction to people cutting people off in a line pretty funny as I can not stand that kind of behaviour myself, slightly over the top but brightened my mood a little bit :)
37:10 "looking back now, I realize I possibly could have handled the situation better" By knocking out friend B's teeth? That was the best solution. Any other solution would involve physicality
I feel like Karen is going to have some staying power because it’s not just an entitled white middle aged woman but it a lot of times is used to described a RACIST white woman caught in the act. Racism isn’t going away anytime soon and our camera phones are just getting better and better so people are just going to keep reporting on it. It’s going to be around for sure throughout the child being in elementary at the very least.
the hardest thing ive ever been through was being involved in a bad car accident and seeing my best friend at the time legs and arm broken, seeing him be in pain and me being able to do nothing to ease it. i was 8 at the time of the accident
1:21:00 Since I had cancer when I was 4 years old does that mean its okay for me to be a douche to everyone around me because "I missed important social experiences" That's what ops parents are implying, but no I'm not a douche to everyone around me because of it, only lasting psychological damage from the cancer is my hatred of hospitals and a fear of needles (a nurse was just jabbing my arm with a needle and was digging around for my vein, thankfully someone else stepped in and got me on a iv)
I got pulled out of my class I was in P5 I was told my papa died and I went home I loved him more than anything I also helped him with his garden so I have taken up the responsibility of looking after the garden I miss him a lot he gave me his gardening tools I love and take care of them I hope he is proud of me the garden is as beautiful as when me and him done it the back garden is also done I am now focused on the slugs that’s it may my papa rest in peace 🪦🕊
I spent over 2 years in a long distance relationship with a Filipina. I told her I would learn Tagalog (her native language) so we could speak it some to make her more comfortable, even though she was going to move to the states. Unfortunately, she passed away from leukemia... I still know some of it though. It would be a great time for that boy to learn to speak Hindi. Teach him, so he doesn't feel left out
I agree. She's a nut job and not only embarrassing herself but her husband. This was obviously the straw that broke the camel's back. He didn't scream and yell, he didn't leave her all alone since her parents were there, he just needed to get away from her bull shit and I respect that Tha k you for commenting because yours was the o ly one I could find about this story. She needs a good smack up side the head to knock some sense back into here -_-
The karen who stoped the paramedics should have been charged with attempted murder as well because she could have caused the heart attack victim to die.
1:07:06 the wife is in the right, she wasn't just thinking about her carrier and her money she was thinking about the financial stability and her ability to get any job and the husband proved that he didn't care about her carrier and would do anything to further it by perusing the job behind her back, so if they stayed together his work could tell him to snoop on his wife and the fact that he had no issue going behind her back to further his carrier, mean he wouldn't have an issue potentially ruining hers by doing so
The wife was a total dick she was thinking of her carrier and not he family’s happiness and who cares that the community Amir’s were competitors it’s not that big of a deal
Not to mention, she was concerned about being able to live in the city in the first place on an income that could support it. The difference between low middle class and upper middle class is so stark
Tbh the husband should just divorce her cause think of it like this the job was his dream job any imaginable way right if he would’ve turned down due to his wife that would cause mad tension within the marriage and he would harbor some type of resentment towards her Now I’m all for relationships but ain’t no relationship is more important than chasing something that you been dreaming about since a kid sometimes you have to put yourself first you know how many people are depressed right now cause they’re stuck at a dead end job since they never got their dream job regardless about the options she gave him he wanted that job specifically
@@DonJulio1942 getting divorced is probably the worst option in this scenario, the husband wouldn't be able to support himself and he'd probably have nowhere to live, no dream is worth ruining your life over.
The story of the Karen and her spawn, who threw Lego and climbed the ladders reminded me of when I worked in a wallpaper store (Scotland , late 1980’s). A little boy was running around and I was thinking he was going to knock the cans of paint over, he was about 5-6 years old. He ran full on at the window and bounced off. His mother ranted that we should have signs on the window. We did , just above his head height. Lol
6:48:33 yes op jerk 7:03:11 you are the jerk 7:07:03 not the jerk 8:43:47 not the jerk 9:33:00 not the jerk also you must know that many ppl hate seeing blood and having a bad smell
Re the sanitary one I’m female and it grosses me out just having other women stop by my home and leave those open for everyone to see…it gross and common courtesy to those you share a space with🤷🏽♀️
On the topic of the baby-talk wife, I can agree that having a husband/wife/S.O./friend that talks like a baby is an absolute NIGHTMARE. Seriously. I have an entire school's worth of friends/familiars that I have to be around that are immature, and I'm not kidding, being associated with people that do this. Having to explain to student teachers and subs that my classmates do this is the worst, as I basically have to say "Hey, FYI, my classmates are a bunch of hellspawn/gremlin who do X and Y, and sometimes Z or W" just so they even semi-understand. I honestly can't fathom what the husband has to go through on a daily basis.
For the guy that lost his job over following company policy, I heard if a company fire you for something like that, you can issue a lawsuit against them, but I could be wrong, either way that kid was an asshole and the dude didn’t deserve the firing
The hardest thing i've gone through so far was not being able to talk to my older brother for months after moving out of our dad's house to live with our mom. Moving out wasn't the plan as i just wanted a change of pace before the next semester of school started and my dad took it as me wanting to move out. But it was for the better as i grew way more as a person than I ever would have living with him.
I'm so obsessed with these stories, time to use 11 hours of stories for my day to day actions :D these stories are.. Interesting to say the least. And I love it.
agreed. Especially because--it's not JUST about "money." Your job is your entire *livelihood.* If she lost her job because of him, they BOTH would've been shit out of luck, with nothing to support them, because she was the breadwinner. And since that was the only job her niche degree allowed her, that meant she'd be screwed for life unless she completely relied on him, etc, etc. As someone who's in a REALLY difficult life situation due to financial reasons and trouble with jobs, I COMPLETELY back her decision.
Same. That guy went behind her back, knowing how it would destroy her career, and put the job over her. Dream jobs are a myth for the majority of people. That guy needs to find something out of the job that gives him motivation.
@@Ironica82 yeah everyone saying she is choosing her career over her marriage is forgetting that the husband is already choosing his career over their marriage. Personally I would love to be a stay at home dad but I'm the bread winner in my household and I work to make sure my partner doesn't have to
1:07:38 she is also not the jerk since her salary is the main source of income so it wouldn't make sense to risk for 65k a year which is significantly lower than hers so it would put both of them at risk of financial trouble
Depends on kids. Or he could alternatively seek the farm option and learn how to farm and establish doom bunker instead of thinking of working. Farmers can earn around 1M+ per year once on track actually.
23:40 I don't think getting someone fired is a worthy punishment for them calling you by the wrong name, but he did bring it on himself. He told him plainly that he would ignore him if he called him jack and he continued to do so, so it was his own fault.
He wasn't fired for calling him the wrong name though. He was fired for sending threatening emails which probably should've ended up with legal trouble for this person
6:37:18; OP? Horrible?? No.. OP is “a man of focus, commitment, sheer f’n will!” I mean, was he a jerk? YOU BET!! …But man, what a jerk! Anyone willing to stare unflinchingly into a supernova of revenge that obliterates *everyone* while smiling with glee… This, this is a man to be inspired by. If you absolutely gotta be a jerk, might as well make it count.
2:10:14 I had an ex who constantly tried to force me to get over the recent passing of my sister. It was horrible I was literally shamed for feeling down when her dad who passed away 15 years ago was the biggest issue for her and screamed at me for asking her why I had to get over it and she didn’t.
Yes I'm a teacher and on my first face to face class after covid, my students told me to stop playing with them and go get their actual teacher. After asking their form teacher, guidance counsellor and the principal about who their maths teacher was, that's when they started taking me seriously. Parent's day was way worst
Hardest thing I went through until now: My grandma was diagnosed with pancreas cancer a week before her birthday in 2017. The only reason she told me, was because my cousin was with her when she called me, to ask if I would be coming for her birthday. She hadn't planned on telling me, but my cousin called out from the background, that she should tell me. Two years later, I was planning to visit her on her birthday two months later, when I get a call from my mother, telling me that her doctor just left and told them she wouldn't make it longer than 48 hours max. (I live quite a bit away, so one way with car, I have to drive about 5 hours, nothing I can do whenever I want to, bc money is tight and I don't own a car, one of my partners does.) We decided to get up early the next day, because I was in no way able to drive there myself, and drive there, so I can at least say my goodbyes. I have to explain, maybe, that my maternal grandparents have taken me in when I was 12, bc my relationship with my mother and her second husband was highly toxic (for me, not my mother, at least not at that time). I lived with them until I was 20/21, so you can imagine that both of them played very important roles in my life, especially during puberty. What I know of values and healthy relationships, I know from them. It's safe to say I see them as my parents, more than my actual parents. When we got to my Grans home, I was already informed she was unresponsive, bc of the Morphines she'd been given, but she was still alive... I almost fell to my knees beside her bed, grabbing her hand and telling her that it was okay, that I was there now and she could let go, that she can go and be with my Gramps (who had died in 2012 bc of colon cancer) and that she should give him a hug and a kiss from me. She died about five minutes later, while I still held her hand. I bet you think that that was the hardest thing I've been through until now. But it was actually only about a week ago, when I suddenly realized, that I have practically lost my parents when my Gramps and, later, my Gran died. I don't think I've ever heard myself howl like I did then. When it finally hit me, that I lost my parents, way too late, so now all those wounds are ripped open again. But this time, I can at least grieve them like I should have done back then...
Story 4, the update to said story is rally interesting because the motehr of Karen finally found out what OP was talking about and was then pissed that she didn't explain it well enough, ro something along those lines.
The hardest thing I've ever been through I had two of my brothers commit suicide within a month of each other it was emotionally devastating for my family. I came across as apathetic because I just couldn't process what had happened, if I'm being honest.
👏👏👏 BRAVO for that security guard - no discussion with agressive people - he just knew - that you cant reason with crazy. Every store should have a security guard - many crazy customer aut there -
@@dharmawannab D W, please know I am here for you. I’m so sorry for your loss. Losing your mother is on another level. Trust that my heart is broken and losing Allison has broken me. I currently care for my parents and am trying to be a pillar of strength for them. It’s been a blessing that I’m here due to my strong bond with my parents and how my sister still lives through me. I am here for you if you need to express your grief, anger or anything you want share. I get it. 🙌🏼🤍🥺🙏🏼
@@IrelandFyre I can’t imagine losing a child. I care for my parents now, my mother had just recovered from breast cancer, she’s aged 15 years in a very short time and my father has unresolved anger. It’s destroyed us. I’m so sorry for your pain. Sending love and light. 🙌🏼🤍
The hardest thing I’ve ever been through is my parents divorce and right after that we had to move since our house was still being built we had to stay at my dads parents house where of course my grandparents blamed the divorce on my mom and it was very toxic we were always told by them to go with our dad instead of being with our mom and through all of this my mom was the bread winner of the family so to afford the new house she was working around 12 hours every day and by the time we finally had the house built my dad was leasing out the old house so he could make extra money so he was living in the basement (he is still doing this and since he got kicked out of the basement he is now living in a trailer, but as of recently he is now back in his house since he got a summer job(he’s a teacher /camera man at a school )) his new summer job is at our home town triple a baseball team stadium he’s gotten very far up on the latter and it has realy fixed our relationship and now I live at my moms house and go out every day with my dad in the summer to a base ball game it really wasn’t easy though before he got that summer job we had nothing in common and me and I believe him cried many nights because we had both felt like we lost a big part of our life’s its been even harder to try to socialize with him lately because of all of his 5 month relation ships that always leave him broken but since his last relationship where he was brought to church with he has become Christian and it really gives him reassurance about the world and makes him happy ( no I’m not Christian and he dosent push it on me ) he and I are so happy now and and I love him so much (Now we’re right back to after the divorce and this is how my mom went) there isn’t really much to say she never ended up dating and she was always good to us the only thing that I want to talk about is what I did to her and I’m very ashamed of when I was in second grade I was riding back in my moms car when I said that she deserves to be in prison for leaving my dad while my dad deserves to be a king I also said that she shouldn’t take any more of my dads money( yes my grandparents had brainwashed )me my mom was the one who got left and the reason I said that she should stop taking my dads money is because he gave my mom 10 k for the house and my grandparents told me that my mom was taking my dads money to buy a house and that she was going to kick him out( which she let him stay because she was nice even if it was just the basement) and the house ended up costing700k so my dads money basically did nothing but as an 8 year old I had no concept of money so I thought my mom was just stealing my dads money after all of this my mom started crying and I was forced to apologize by my dad I did this one more time in less than a month yea I was a terrible kid but me and my mom have completely recovered and at this point and I love my parents my sisters and my dogs , grandparents not so much but I just pretend like I don’t remember what they said now my dad and my mom hangout all the time with us and are good freinds I just his 7 grade and they are very supportive
On the hardest thing to go through question, mine's the same answer as OP's, but it was my father rather than a sibling. December 10th, 2018, my dad was struggling with his severe sleep apnea and laid down for a nap at about one in the afternoon, an hour later, I'd checked on him to see how things were going for him, having him tell me he was feeling cold, so I tightened the blankets around him and told him to enjoy the rest of his nap. An hour later, my mom checked on him and things had deteriorated significantly as he wasn't responding, even to hard physical slaps. I was called in to find his heart had almost completely stopped and I started CPR at the instruction of the 911 dispatcher. At five in the evening, the local paramedic crew from the fire department called it and a team of morticians was called in for his body. A week later, we lowered Dad into the ground per the Jewish traditions he was so proud of. Even though I was twenty-eight years old and this happened nearly four years ago, seeing the fatal severing of parent/child bonds still hits me like a tank shell, breaking me down into a crying mess.
About the vegan one, she was not the jerk. People don't understand that when you go enough years without eating meat, eating even a piece of it could have serious consequences, as your stomach is not used to it anymore. Meat is one of the hardest meals to digest, and she was really lucky it didn't give her a stomach ache. I, for example, can't eat meat because it gives me stomach acid in such a way that more than once it ended up burning the inside of my throat. Just imagine the many possibilities and outcomes that prank could have had.
I was working for KBToys when the Poo-chi came out. This man towered over me, asking for one. When I told him we were out, he asked “Well what should I tell my grandson?”. I was terrified. He was massive!
In the story about the mother wanting to see her kids after being imprisoned. I grew up in a similar situation. The OP is absolutely in the right for keeping the children away from the mother. Not because she's a jerk, but because overall it's what is most likely best for the children's welfare. This is my story in a nutshell for example. My father's parents had custody of me at the request of my father. He passed away in a tragic accident when I was 3 years old. My mother was an alcoholic, an addict, and a few other things I'd rather not discuss. When I was younger, my mother had visitation rights, but she was almost never there, (usually drugs, alcohol, or other illegal activities usually were more important apparently) so I usually stayed with her family. I eventually decided at a young age that I didn't want to go on the visitations at all. It very soon became apparent that I must not have been important enough in her life to even acknowledge... I am now 46 years old and the last time that I spoke with, gotten a phone call from, recieved a birthday card from or even seen my mother was when I was 5 years old,...41 years! I have a sister and a half-sister who were both raised by my mother, and I hardly ever seen them growing up. All 3 live less than 100 miles away, and don't ever bother to call, text, or visit. Fortunately, I work with one of my uncles, my mother's brother, and he tells me all the time, that it's for the best that they aren't in my life.
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did i just spend 11 hours of my life doing nothing but watch 'Am I the Jerk?' Yes, and i'm proud of it.
@@AmItheJerk Yep!
Me too! 😁
Lol same
At least I was working on my assignment.
Bro..
TYVM! This is my new favorite form of Reddit >=D
John is not a jerk. John told the other guy that he was going to start ignoring everything he said that used the word Jack and he still continued to call him jack. The other guy asked to be ignored and deserved to get fired!
I'd have said, "he didn't ask me, he asked 'Jack'."
but "Jack" is a nickname for people called John... like Dick for Richard and Chuck for Charles.
@@nydellmyst yeah but he also made it known that he wasn’t comfortable with being called Jack
In that sort of situation it might me the person's dead name (I think its what is called)
The coworker could be calling them something that reminds them of bad memories
Jack's not here, man.
#6 sue the company for unlawful dismissal, drag the kid AND his father to the court too. and if they happen to get away with it (seems like the father has some weight in the society) bring it to the media. definitely NOT a jerk
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Great answer! I can’t believe that a company would do that!!!
Hardest thing I’ve been through: One night when I was 11 I randomly felt homesick while I was visiting my dad and something between both of my parents must’ve hit a breaking point because they both separately talked about my life and a bunch of random stuff that wasn’t even important. My dad took me home and told me to wait in the car. And both of my parents just unloaded on each other I could hear and see everything through the windshield and I just sat in the passengers seat and cried as they fought like I’ve never seen them fight before. It’s my least favorite memory and that incident still has some lasting effects on me regarding both of my parents.
I had a slightly similar incident where me my brother and my step mum were sat in the car whilst my mum and dad fought so loudly we could hear down the street. Super tough to hear I feel you.
The co worker who said OP was the jerk for making Matt look bad. No Matt did that job all on his OWN. The co worker and Matt ATA’s. I also saw my sister die from cancer and I was 33 at the time. My prayers are with you. You are NTA. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
My hardest experience was when my mum had cancer though she pulled through.
My parents almost killed eachother once and threatened to call the police on eachothe and i was in my sisters lap looking at them right in front of me hitting eachother(i was about7 years old)
Listening to this like a podcast. Halfway through I realized that most of this conflict could've easily been avoided if people had more common sense and is more understanding.
same. I am on a 6 hour car trip that was meant to take 2 hours and I have been watching non stop. Thanks for helping this not be completely unbearable @Am I the Jerk?
Well that is a huge problem with our world & society as a whole. There is way too many people that think "Because they do not like something" or because "Something rubs them the wrong way" that they should be able to get what they want. I see it all over on youtube in various ways. One example out of MANY that i can come up with is when someone is doing something completely legal and within their right BY LAW - Then a Karen or Man Karen comes by flipping out because they don't like it, or they don't think it should be okay or that its not legal WHEN IT TRULY IS. Then the karen/man karen starts bugging out about it.
What comes to mind is my favorite quote ever - " My rights DO NOT END were YOUR FEELINGS start"
If someone has a legal right to do something, then people should STFU and deal with it. But they don't. The problem lies with society, people thinking they should be able to get whatever they want.
@@OpenCarry2024 off topic of what you said, but i believe male karens is a kevin or a ken.
Attack the D point
Wow you’re so emotionally intelligent 😐 What kind of vague comment is this? Might as well have said “it would’ve been better if the people were nicer” like… yeah? Obviously!
OMG! Its scary how many people are walking around our world without a lick of common sense.
I love these "Am I The Jerk"! Keep them coming.
That one about firing the dude for policy, should have the manager sued for unlawful termination
yep, if that was me, i would have sued the store for unlawful termination. Here is Australia, if that happens, the company would have been screwed and had to pay that worker.
@@piledrive I would do the same thing and then I would expose the rich family on the Internet for being a holes. It always works.
There was an update to the gf who got mad at her boyfriends guy nights. Apparently all the bfs would go out to the bar and hook up with girls apart from one. But he knew and said nothing. I think most of them broke up with their bfs’s but one girl went back.
well that sounds very fun XD
In the story about the dental trays, no op isn't the jerk nor should op apologize. In fact, I think op should run NOT walk away from the relationship because if the boyfriend can lie so easily about that, how can op trust ANYTHING he says.
Ok
Agree
OP should also pay for the trays just so the receptionist doesn't get in trouble for a honest mistake, he's refusing to own up to for stealing the item, OP should then sue him for the amount, in small claims court (?) because no way in hell can a judge sit there and tell OP they're wrong and he's right.
Bro it’s called hustleimg
🧐 Well that is true🧐
The jack/john story reminds me of one of my ex coworkers, he was new and he'd always ask me questions like "how was you weekend" or "what's happening after work" and then when I'd answer, he would berate me for not speaking load enough "SPEAK UP!! I CAN'T F***ING HEAR YOU!!". No one else had this problem with me, everyone else could hear me fine. Also, he didn't have a problem hearing anyone else, even someone I have trouble hearing, and he has complained on multiple occasions that my whistling (I'm very talented) is too loud and really hurts his ears.
So instead of answering him anymore, I chose to completely ignore him. (There were multiple reasons for this, he went around and said that I told him I did meth and stuff like that) he hated this. He'd complain to other workers and the managers that I wasn't listening to him and he also claimed it had caused him to hurt his back.
He once made a comment about my intelligence, where I made the dumb mistake of retorting then He followed me to the back of our work shouting "WHAT THE F****S YOUR PROBLEM TOM!? WHAT THE F****S YOUR PROBLEM?!"
this ended in a harry potter moment:
Him "you think you're so tough staring at me?
Me "I don't have to think it mate"
He then went to the managers and accused me of doing all the things he's been doing to me, to him instead. and demanded I be fired immediately, saying he'll get his lawyer and his union involved, that I'm on drugs, and all that stuff.
Luckily my coworkers got behind me and wrote statements contradicting everything he's been doing and saying. I don't know what happened to him, but I still have my job and he's gone.
I still don't know what his problem was, why he was such an ass, and why I was the target. But its over now.
Apple guy is my hero. Lol his girlfriend broke up with him, but he's just concerned about defending the quality of his flawlessly executed prank
Regarding the Story 4, the Baby named Karen:
He is not the Jerk, quite the opposite. Everyone else is the Jerk for allowing damage to a baby being done by calling the name lovely. He was the only good person in the room, for he stood up and risked being at the receiving end of hostility to help that baby. That is one of the things that for me make the difference between an acquaintance or buddy and a close friend. A true friend is someone who is willing to get into a heated argument with you to protect you from making a big mistake. A true friend values protecting your well being over not ruining the mood.
He should have told her sooner though.
The narrator said the Karen thing probably won't stick around a long time. That's what I thought when I was pregnant and struggling to find a name my husband and I agreed on. Lol "oooh, it's just an intent fad. It'll blow over in a couple years, DEFINITELY before she's in school..."
I now have a 6 year old who decided she wants to go by her middle name... As far as I know it's just because she likes it (I think it sounds more like a princess name, that's probably why) but it still makes me feel guilty in case she overheard a lot of Karen stuff or something. As far as I know she's never been teased for it, but I still feel bad because who knows...
This one is so silly to me. People name their kids WAYYYYY wackier shit than a generic name like Karen...
1:34:28
update
the op's family found out about the reddit post and demanded he apologize for it, op defended himself and op realized that his relationship with his mother and sister was done for and gave up on it completely
Good. Best for him!
The girls day story? Or the stolen car? I'm just asking for clarification because that time stamp is at the very end of the car... If it's the girls day shit then, yeah, definitely good for him. I've been excluded from my family events regularly as well. In my case they used the fact that I had children as the reasoning. I want even allowed to get a babysitter in order to attend the events and it was extra painful because, while I was being explicitly excluded, my best friend at the time was being included. These days, my ex friend lives with my mother and I've been told I have no choice but to accept that she's an important part of my moms life and I'm meant to just get over any hurt feelings but also I'm not welcome at her home because she bought the one breed of dog I'm terrified of since I was mauled by one when I was 4 and she doesn't want to have to worry about me feeling uncomfortable or something so I should just send my children out of state to visit with her. I don't feel particularly inclined to do so
@@IrelandFyre it’s the girls day story
As far as baby talk couple I'm betting that there was more than one conversation with his partner about this prior to this incident. She probably was very much aware of how much he hated it and how much it humiliated him. He was not the jerk for this unless he left her without the resources to obtain other transportation!
I'm guessing you don't have kids. She's a stay-at-home mom. The ONLY person she talks to is a literal baby. It's literally the most normal thing that new moms do. We ALL do it. It's literally programmed into us. Conversations don't change hormones nor does it change the fact that her main social interaction is a baby. He should just spend more time having actual adult conversations. He sounds like a horrible partner and honestly he's probably an absent father at best. Otherwise, he'd have some understanding of what she's going through
@@lolarichter9415 I'm not sure about that, my family is huge and i work in a family practice and never met a mother that didn't stop the baby talk when addressing adults
i think she was just being passive aggressive about something she was upset about but expected him to know what it was
@@lolarichter9415 We do not ALL do it. I have 4 kids that I never baby talked to. People are were with my boys (they're older) and are with my daughter (she just turned 11) always surprised by their vocabulary and how well spoken they are. And even if I did I wouldn't embarrass people by baby talking adults.
The way she says it almost sounds like tics
Am I the Jerk for using 10 hours 52 minutes and 42 seconds of my life, watching this masterpiece of a video? Yes, and I'm glad
same
I'm wondering why so many guys get girlfriends/wives who actually earns and takes care of them. I wonder what magic they are working lol.
@@1mol831 whats worst are the guys that treat there other like shit!
Bro you just copied another guy’s comment that’s not cool man not cool
@@Kip810 how so?
Story 3 - The OP makes it clear that they are living with their stepmom, so maybe the brother is actually the stepmom’s son. Then it would make sense why she could be favoring the brother in this scenario.
Am I prepared to watch this whole video in a single day while working? Yes, yes I am. 10 hours of Am I the Jerk here I come.
10, or actually more like 11 hour shifts seem a little much to me
@@babymetalenjoyer it is, which is why i watched it over two different days!
@@yanieckhegeman5730 oh, alright lol.
ah. great minds.
Story #2: I’m religious, and even I gasped when I read what friend b said. That type of malicious religion is NOT what my religion is about… I’m Catholic, and I don’t know what denomination friend b claims to be, but WOW! OP was justified. God’s not about punishing you. And friend b is highly misunderstanding the Bible. I sincerely hope and pray for friend a’s healing.
Yeah friend B handled that extremely poorly. Sounds like that prosperity Christianity that says "convert and good things will happen to you" but I'm pretty sure the bible says that if you convert you will be persecuted for your faith. I hope friend B will reflect on how they can bring up their religion in a supportive way.
story #2 is about the boyfriend lying and not wanting to pay for dental trays
@@xybersurfer there’s many different story 2’s
@@Mimi_ownsyouall what other story #2 is there, other than the story starting at 4:20?
@@xybersurfer it’s just different videos put together, so that’s why there’s multiple labelled No.2
i've been watching this over the course of 3 days, just vibing with stories while gaming
The stepbrother getting a car story is basically the other guy feeling entitle to having anything he wants like, he got his 600 buck gift and A FUCKING CAR that he will get later “call me when you decide to be fair” maybe that’s why the mom didn’t had him for Christmas, I can’t imagínate having a good celebration with him around
In my opinion, the one that wanted the same gift as the stepbrother is Not A Jerk. The parents should treat the kids equally. I know from experience how hurtful it is to be treated differently like that. When my brother in law got remarried, all three of his wife's kids got a car for their 16th birthday. When my niece (my BIL daughter) turn 16, she got nothing. They were suppose to go on a trip out of state for her, but then the wife decided she wanted to go somewhere else that she liked. She hated that the trip was for my niece, so she decided they would go somewhere else where it would be about her (she likes everything to be focused on her 🙄). Anyways, a few months ago, my niece was able to get a car that she is currently working and paying for herself. We can write a book on all the things this woman does lol
The hurtful friend was way out of line by saying her friend deserved to lose her husband & child! I am an orphan, a widow, single parent of 4 children and a full time employee. We’ve lost 5 immediate family members in 2 1/2 years, my husband, my Dad, my brother, mother-in-law & niece. The clinchers that that I’m also Children’s Minister. No one deserves the tragedies in life, unless they caused the tragedies, then that’s different. Tragedies are part of life. I lost my Mom & son 17 years ago. Life stinks sometimes for everyone regardless of how they’ve lived their lives. Thank-you OP for fighting her battle for her!!
14:30 if he can get his dad to fire a worker for following company policies, why can’t he get his father to go and get the game ???
Because he wanted the game right that moment and his father wasn't with him. I'm sure the brat said some lies to his dad to make it look like he was the victim. And dad covered him, so the brat will continue to do this to get his way.
And i wonder if the employee couldnt go to corporate about this
Where did he come up with Apple Terrian? That is an awesome joke.😂😂
I was just trying to binge watch this with no break and then release IT WAS 10 HOURS LONG
The problem with story 4(?) isn't the kid who wanted the game, it was the the parent who threw his weight, the bosses who caved and the manager who accepted losing a good worker for literally doing his job. This is something you'd take to court and sue for unfair dismissal.
Ooh hell ya. Hope he sued the shit out of the company
Game Stop is notorious for doing that crap, do a TH-cam search, there’s some crazy stories
Definitely sue the company.
Yeah, I'm calling an r/thathappend
@@VastumTempus had a manager try to force me to sell alcohol to a person with a dodgy id........not unique
12:09 "Karen in 10 years won't neccesarily stick around"
*every single video on this channel involves a Karen*
Today too 😂
The story at 16:00 , he should have sued them. Since he has legal ground for that and considering internet age, that family could have easily gotten punishment they deserved aka lost of revenue whatever business they have.
This would be the opposite As the Op would lose if he took legal actions because the mother is allowed to name her child what ever she wanted (INCLUDING THE father) especially the mother, Id most likely would just cut off all ties with her family and if Stephanie wont understand then I cut her off too and wait until the pregnancy and if she decides not too change the name then I either cut with ties all permanently or temporarily id choose temporarily and id wait until she realizes her biggest mistake of her entire Eternity
@@skill.issue. he's talking about the different story bruh. one where OP gets fired for following company policies
I've been watching this for 2 weeks on breaks, lunches, etc. I feel like it will never end lol I have no complaints
I feel so bad for the guy who lost his job for just following the rules but the story right after…
The hardest thing to go through in my life was watching my father have a mild stroke, standing there knowing I couldn't help him. It scarred me for life
Is he ok?
1:55:20 as someone who was forced to visit a parent when I didn't want to growing up, I can say it is very detrimental to never have your opinion ignored, so the kid shouldn't be forced to see his mum if he doesn't want to, it could harm any potential relationship they might have
after i saw vidoe progress i checked and this video was 10 HRS???????!!!!! WOW YOU NEVER FAIL TO IMPRESS US
2:32:05 is definitively one of the worse ones in my eyes from what i’ve seen in the first 3 hours of this video. It’s just the pure hypocricy of the family from the sisters side. The only jerk there is that nephew who thought it was okay to smash a brand new console which was for baby’s* and then cry about not having one for himself now. He sounds pretty baby to me. If i was that dad i would say to the sister: fine, leave and never come back, it would be a huge relief because i would not have to pay you anymore. She would then maybe realise what the dad does for her and give him a chance of telling his side of the story.
Oh ya that one was bad
I love how you just casually watch 2 and a half hours on this thing
I accidentally called my coworker Pam instead of Deb because I was a brand new employee and was having a difficult time remembering names. This lady completely flipped her lid and freaked out on me. It wasn't like I did that on purpose. She was so incredibly rude and mean even though I apologized and let it go. Some people just have really bad anger issues I guess.
I don't think I'd be able to stop myself from calling her a different name every time just because she was an a hole.
when you're a grown man and you're acting like that to a teenage girl, I'd risk losing my job to protect her too 8:27
Leo is a sociopath. That kind of cruelty is not normal.
The "do you know who I am" story from the start is easy to solve, sue the company for wrongful termination
Story 2, the worst thing I've had to deal with was going through the decline of my mother's cancer and her being in hospice and seeing my father kneeling by her bed and he cried when she passed then a year later my father passed away by getting hit by a drunk driver. All this when I was 13-14 years old. Edit: That guy joking about only eating things with apples was hilarious.
The Dad who is told he shouldn't be able to cuddle with his 15 year old daughter---our society is so messed up! I know so many girls that felt like they lost their fathers when they started developing, people have so sexualized women that they can't keep these vital relationships. What a great dad who can love his daughter and keep that relationship. Her own mother and grandparents have already created a label.
The OP whose friend has lost her husband and child within a short time , my heart goes out to her. I think she could have said they will always be watching over her and that she didn’t do anything wrong. I do go to church and I say this to people but privately. Also I say a couple of true strange coincidences that has happened relating my late father and sister. This sometimes helps. Also to not put a timeline on grief as the same memory will make you smile one day and another upset you. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
13:09 I found this reaction to people cutting people off in a line pretty funny as I can not stand that kind of behaviour myself, slightly over the top but brightened my mood a little bit :)
I honestly if someone cut a line I would just get out and say don’t take this persons order they cut the line, or just yell
Oh wait I heard your podcasts on spotify while drawing! Thank you for nice background noise
37:10 "looking back now, I realize I possibly could have handled the situation better"
By knocking out friend B's teeth? That was the best solution. Any other solution would involve physicality
My hardest thing is going to my grandpa's funeral
I listened to all of it😭
Who didn’t 🤣
I'm half way through lol
I’m one hour in and it 4am
I’m on it
I’m one hour through
I feel like Karen is going to have some staying power because it’s not just an entitled white middle aged woman but it a lot of times is used to described a RACIST white woman caught in the act. Racism isn’t going away anytime soon and our camera phones are just getting better and better so people are just going to keep reporting on it. It’s going to be around for sure throughout the child being in elementary at the very least.
Racism is a government lie
the hardest thing ive ever been through was being involved in a bad car accident and seeing my best friend at the time legs and arm broken, seeing him be in pain and me being able to do nothing to ease it. i was 8 at the time of the accident
Im so sorry
@@SithLord_69 thanks 🙂
@@unparadoxic maybe if you were a better driver your friend wouldn't have gotten hurt
@@joshuakuehn dude, i was 8... i wasnt driving
@@unparadoxic who was driving then? Was it a self driving car?
Am I the jerk? Literally save me from boredom at work, as soon as I clock in start your playlist and go on my day 😂
1:21:00
Since I had cancer when I was 4 years old does that mean its okay for me to be a douche to everyone around me because
"I missed important social experiences"
That's what ops parents are implying, but no I'm not a douche to everyone around me because of it, only lasting psychological damage from the cancer is my hatred of hospitals and a fear of needles (a nurse was just jabbing my arm with a needle and was digging around for my vein, thankfully someone else stepped in and got me on a iv)
I got pulled out of my class I was in P5 I was told my papa died and I went home I loved him more than anything I also helped him with his garden so I have taken up the responsibility of looking after the garden I miss him a lot he gave me his gardening tools I love and take care of them I hope he is proud of me the garden is as beautiful as when me and him done it the back garden is also done I am now focused on the slugs that’s it may my papa rest in peace 🪦🕊
I spent over 2 years in a long distance relationship with a Filipina. I told her I would learn Tagalog (her native language) so we could speak it some to make her more comfortable, even though she was going to move to the states. Unfortunately, she passed away from leukemia... I still know some of it though. It would be a great time for that boy to learn to speak Hindi. Teach him, so he doesn't feel left out
I am thinking of picking up Aramaic the native language of Yeshua when He was on Earth preaching
I don't understand who is that boy? And why Hindi?
For the mom whose baby talks in public, I think he's not a jerk. She needs to snap it out.
I agree. She's a nut job and not only embarrassing herself but her husband. This was obviously the straw that broke the camel's back.
He didn't scream and yell, he didn't leave her all alone since her parents were there, he just needed to get away from her bull shit and I respect that
Tha k you for commenting because yours was the o ly one I could find about this story. She needs a good smack up side the head to knock some sense back into here -_-
2.39.55 "disrespectful for not having cheese in tacos?" As a Mexican, the thought of cheese in tacos hurts me.
I thought it was normal huh ok
I know it’s actually mind fondling why do thats
@@tyler_playz-_-6763 actually Mexican tacos never have cheese. Plus authentic Mexican tacos are better
I'm a Mexican and put cheese on my tacos what the fuck?
@@sebcan844 some people get mad over it so o was confused when I heard it was disrespectful
I use these to fall asleep at night with my symphony band! Thankyou for fixing my insomnia😂
37:27 NOT a jerk. I can’t stand religion for reasons like this. KILLING A 6 YEAR OLD BECAUSE SHE IS NOT RILIGOUS?! LIKE WHAT THE HELL?
The karen who stoped the paramedics should have been charged with attempted murder as well because she could have caused the heart attack victim to die.
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The parents are under ZERO obligation to buy the other son a car. Yes he is the jerk.
Yes but favoritism can take a huge toll and a teens life making them not feel god enough and that’s why they didn’t or he is not important
1:07:06 the wife is in the right, she wasn't just thinking about her carrier and her money she was thinking about the financial stability and her ability to get any job and the husband proved that he didn't care about her carrier and would do anything to further it by perusing the job behind her back, so if they stayed together his work could tell him to snoop on his wife and the fact that he had no issue going behind her back to further his carrier, mean he wouldn't have an issue potentially ruining hers by doing so
The wife was a total dick she was thinking of her carrier and not he family’s happiness and who cares that the community Amir’s were competitors it’s not that big of a deal
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Not to mention, she was concerned about being able to live in the city in the first place on an income that could support it. The difference between low middle class and upper middle class is so stark
Tbh the husband should just divorce her cause think of it like this the job was his dream job any imaginable way right if he would’ve turned down due to his wife that would cause mad tension within the marriage and he would harbor some type of resentment towards her
Now I’m all for relationships but ain’t no relationship is more important than chasing something that you been dreaming about since a kid sometimes you have to put yourself first you know how many people are depressed right now cause they’re stuck at a dead end job since they never got their dream job regardless about the options she gave him he wanted that job specifically
@@DonJulio1942 getting divorced is probably the worst option in this scenario, the husband wouldn't be able to support himself and he'd probably have nowhere to live, no dream is worth ruining your life over.
The story of the Karen and her spawn, who threw Lego and climbed the ladders reminded me of when I worked in a wallpaper store (Scotland , late 1980’s). A little boy was running around and I was thinking he was going to knock the cans of paint over, he was about 5-6 years old. He ran full on at the window and bounced off. His mother ranted that we should have signs on the window. We did , just above his head height. Lol
The guy who was fired for following corporate police should file a wrongful termination suit
Just what I was thinking, thank you. Absolutely was a criminal and corrupt thing that happened and management plus the rich asshats can be charged
6:48:33 yes op jerk
7:03:11 you are the jerk
7:07:03 not the jerk
8:43:47 not the jerk
9:33:00 not the jerk also you must know that many ppl hate seeing blood and having a bad smell
Re the sanitary one
I’m female and it grosses me out just having other women stop by my home and leave those open for everyone to see…it gross and common courtesy to those you share a space with🤷🏽♀️
7:03:11 was not the jerk
These are awesome. Makes the work day go by so much faster. 😂
On the topic of the baby-talk wife, I can agree that having a husband/wife/S.O./friend that talks like a baby is an absolute NIGHTMARE. Seriously. I have an entire school's worth of friends/familiars that I have to be around that are immature, and I'm not kidding, being associated with people that do this. Having to explain to student teachers and subs that my classmates do this is the worst, as I basically have to say "Hey, FYI, my classmates are a bunch of hellspawn/gremlin who do X and Y, and sometimes Z or W" just so they even semi-understand. I honestly can't fathom what the husband has to go through on a daily basis.
Finally somebody with common sense
The narrator honestly shocked me with his opinion, obviously lives on Sesame Street.
Love the almost cleveland brown bc accent you do for the characters. Keep up the good work!
For the guy that lost his job over following company policy, I heard if a company fire you for something like that, you can issue a lawsuit against them, but I could be wrong, either way that kid was an asshole and the dude didn’t deserve the firing
A 28 yr old man blaming a 4 yr old for breaking the tv and letting his sister pay for the tv is definitely the jerks.
The hardest thing i've gone through so far was not being able to talk to my older brother for months after moving out of our dad's house to live with our mom.
Moving out wasn't the plan as i just wanted a change of pace before the next semester of school started and my dad took it as me wanting to move out. But it was for the better as i grew way more as a person than I ever would have living with him.
This man just saw one of his brother’s buddies sending him a goofy ass text and jumped to conclusions haha
I'm so obsessed with these stories, time to use 11 hours of stories for my day to day actions :D these stories are.. Interesting to say the least. And I love it.
Same
Im not even half through these videos, man i see i have missed a lot, thank you
For the girl with the job and didnt want her husband to have a competing job, im with her. He messed up
agreed. Especially because--it's not JUST about "money." Your job is your entire *livelihood.* If she lost her job because of him, they BOTH would've been shit out of luck, with nothing to support them, because she was the breadwinner. And since that was the only job her niche degree allowed her, that meant she'd be screwed for life unless she completely relied on him, etc, etc. As someone who's in a REALLY difficult life situation due to financial reasons and trouble with jobs, I COMPLETELY back her decision.
Same. That guy went behind her back, knowing how it would destroy her career, and put the job over her. Dream jobs are a myth for the majority of people. That guy needs to find something out of the job that gives him motivation.
@@Ironica82 yeah everyone saying she is choosing her career over her marriage is forgetting that the husband is already choosing his career over their marriage. Personally I would love to be a stay at home dad but I'm the bread winner in my household and I work to make sure my partner doesn't have to
As a dutch person i died of laughing when the guy tried to speak dutch😂 it was amazing
1:07:38 she is also not the jerk since her salary is the main source of income so it wouldn't make sense to risk for 65k a year which is significantly lower than hers so it would put both of them at risk of financial trouble
Depends on kids. Or he could alternatively seek the farm option and learn how to farm and establish doom bunker instead of thinking of working. Farmers can earn around 1M+ per year once on track actually.
Tbh they should just divorce your happiness should be priority number 1 and no relationship can change that
23:40 I don't think getting someone fired is a worthy punishment for them calling you by the wrong name, but he did bring it on himself. He told him plainly that he would ignore him if he called him jack and he continued to do so, so it was his own fault.
He wasn't fired for calling him the wrong name though. He was fired for sending threatening emails which probably should've ended up with legal trouble for this person
Nah if someone calls you by the wrong name they should get the death penalty
6:37:18; OP? Horrible?? No.. OP is “a man of focus, commitment, sheer f’n will!” I mean, was he a jerk? YOU BET!! …But man, what a jerk! Anyone willing to stare unflinchingly into a supernova of revenge that obliterates *everyone* while smiling with glee… This, this is a man to be inspired by.
If you absolutely gotta be a jerk, might as well make it count.
2:10:14 I had an ex who constantly tried to force me to get over the recent passing of my sister. It was horrible I was literally shamed for feeling down when her dad who passed away 15 years ago was the biggest issue for her and screamed at me for asking her why I had to get over it and she didn’t.
I am so sorry about that person, just from that small bit of information they sound like a absolute jerk face.
The paramedic who is getting pulled over should get a dash cam.
I love when you play with the different voices, especially when you act like they would when they get mad😁🤣🤣🤣
52:28 rest in peace to the person that fell over on live camera
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I didn't even see that I had to go back because of your comment 🤣🤣🤣
Yes I'm a teacher and on my first face to face class after covid, my students told me to stop playing with them and go get their actual teacher. After asking their form teacher, guidance counsellor and the principal about who their maths teacher was, that's when they started taking me seriously. Parent's day was way worst
Where is the part about the guy moved to New York because of he’s niece ?
did you find it maybe?
Hardest thing I went through until now:
My grandma was diagnosed with pancreas cancer a week before her birthday in 2017.
The only reason she told me, was because my cousin was with her when she called me, to ask if I would be coming for her birthday.
She hadn't planned on telling me, but my cousin called out from the background, that she should tell me.
Two years later, I was planning to visit her on her birthday two months later, when I get a call from my mother, telling me that her doctor just left and told them she wouldn't make it longer than 48 hours max.
(I live quite a bit away, so one way with car, I have to drive about 5 hours, nothing I can do whenever I want to, bc money is tight and I don't own a car, one of my partners does.)
We decided to get up early the next day, because I was in no way able to drive there myself, and drive there, so I can at least say my goodbyes.
I have to explain, maybe, that my maternal grandparents have taken me in when I was 12, bc my relationship with my mother and her second husband was highly toxic (for me, not my mother, at least not at that time). I lived with them until I was 20/21, so you can imagine that both of them played very important roles in my life, especially during puberty. What I know of values and healthy relationships, I know from them. It's safe to say I see them as my parents, more than my actual parents.
When we got to my Grans home, I was already informed she was unresponsive, bc of the Morphines she'd been given, but she was still alive...
I almost fell to my knees beside her bed, grabbing her hand and telling her that it was okay, that I was there now and she could let go, that she can go and be with my Gramps (who had died in 2012 bc of colon cancer) and that she should give him a hug and a kiss from me.
She died about five minutes later, while I still held her hand.
I bet you think that that was the hardest thing I've been through until now.
But it was actually only about a week ago, when I suddenly realized, that I have practically lost my parents when my Gramps and, later, my Gran died.
I don't think I've ever heard myself howl like I did then.
When it finally hit me, that I lost my parents, way too late, so now all those wounds are ripped open again.
But this time, I can at least grieve them like I should have done back then...
Appletarian was pretty funny. They should be a method actor
the hardest thing I've been trough is not seeing my grandma for one last time while she was alive
Story 4, the update to said story is rally interesting because the motehr of Karen finally found out what OP was talking about and was then pissed that she didn't explain it well enough, ro something along those lines.
Damn maybe she should've named herself Karen
I'm listening to it for sleep lol. Day 3 now.
The hardest thing I've ever been through I had two of my brothers commit suicide within a month of each other it was emotionally devastating for my family. I came across as apathetic because I just couldn't process what had happened, if I'm being honest.
Im sorry bro im hope you and you’re family is doing ok
@@Dash33p thanks we're doing as well as we can.
Omg the person who lost 2 brothers to suicide, I’m so sorry for your loss. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
👏👏👏 BRAVO for that security guard - no discussion with agressive people - he just knew - that you cant reason with crazy.
Every store should have a security guard - many crazy customer aut there -
Love these videos keep up the good work 😀
Yup
I had my eye laser done yesterday
I can't use phone too much.
This video really helps me pass my time.❤😊
Where’s the one with the guy saying the reason he moved to nyc
Losing my sister in 2019 continues to be the most difficult process I’ve been through.
Mourning never ends, it ebbs and flows.
Sorry for your loss. I lost my mom in July of 2021. Your words of mourning never ends but ebbs and flows is so true.
@@dharmawannab D W, please know I am here for you. I’m so sorry for your loss. Losing your mother is on another level. Trust that my heart is broken and losing Allison has broken me. I currently care for my parents and am trying to be a pillar of strength for them. It’s been a blessing that I’m here due to my strong bond with my parents and how my sister still lives through me.
I am here for you if you need to express your grief, anger or anything you want share. I get it.
🙌🏼🤍🥺🙏🏼
I lost a child in 2020 I'm still waiting for the ebb... Mostly, when I'm not feeling numb and empty, it just feels like it's getting worse
@@IrelandFyre I can’t imagine losing a child. I care for my parents now, my mother had just recovered from breast cancer, she’s aged 15 years in a very short time and my father has unresolved anger. It’s destroyed us.
I’m so sorry for your pain. Sending love and light. 🙌🏼🤍
The hardest thing I’ve ever been through is my parents divorce and right after that we had to move since our house was still being built we had to stay at my dads parents house where of course my grandparents blamed the divorce on my mom and it was very toxic we were always told by them to go with our dad instead of being with our mom and through all of this my mom was the bread winner of the family so to afford the new house she was working around 12 hours every day and by the time we finally had the house built my dad was leasing out the old house so he could make extra money so he was living in the basement (he is still doing this and since he got kicked out of the basement he is now living in a trailer, but as of recently he is now back in his house since he got a summer job(he’s a teacher /camera man at a school )) his new summer job is at our home town triple a baseball team stadium he’s gotten very far up on the latter and it has realy fixed our relationship and now I live at my moms house and go out every day with my dad in the summer to a base ball game it really wasn’t easy though before he got that summer job we had nothing in common and me and I believe him cried many nights because we had both felt like we lost a big part of our life’s its been even harder to try to socialize with him lately because of all of his 5 month relation ships that always leave him broken but since his last relationship where he was brought to church with he has become Christian and it really gives him reassurance about the world and makes him happy ( no I’m not Christian and he dosent push it on me ) he and I are so happy now and and I love him so much (Now we’re right back to after the divorce and this is how my mom went) there isn’t really much to say she never ended up dating and she was always good to us the only thing that I want to talk about is what I did to her and I’m very ashamed of when I was in second grade I was riding back in my moms car when I said that she deserves to be in prison for leaving my dad while my dad deserves to be a king I also said that she shouldn’t take any more of my dads money( yes my grandparents had brainwashed )me my mom was the one who got left and the reason I said that she should stop taking my dads money is because he gave my mom 10 k for the house and my grandparents told me that my mom was taking my dads money to buy a house and that she was going to kick him out( which she let him stay because she was nice even if it was just the basement) and the house ended up costing700k so my dads money basically did nothing but as an 8 year old I had no concept of money so I thought my mom was just stealing my dads money after all of this my mom started crying and I was forced to apologize by my dad I did this one more time in less than a month yea I was a terrible kid but me and my mom have completely recovered and at this point and I love my parents my sisters and my dogs , grandparents not so much but I just pretend like I don’t remember what they said now my dad and my mom hangout all the time with us and are good freinds I just his 7 grade and they are very supportive
Wow
Uhhhh-
On the hardest thing to go through question, mine's the same answer as OP's, but it was my father rather than a sibling. December 10th, 2018, my dad was struggling with his severe sleep apnea and laid down for a nap at about one in the afternoon, an hour later, I'd checked on him to see how things were going for him, having him tell me he was feeling cold, so I tightened the blankets around him and told him to enjoy the rest of his nap. An hour later, my mom checked on him and things had deteriorated significantly as he wasn't responding, even to hard physical slaps. I was called in to find his heart had almost completely stopped and I started CPR at the instruction of the 911 dispatcher. At five in the evening, the local paramedic crew from the fire department called it and a team of morticians was called in for his body. A week later, we lowered Dad into the ground per the Jewish traditions he was so proud of. Even though I was twenty-eight years old and this happened nearly four years ago, seeing the fatal severing of parent/child bonds still hits me like a tank shell, breaking me down into a crying mess.
About the vegan one, she was not the jerk. People don't understand that when you go enough years without eating meat, eating even a piece of it could have serious consequences, as your stomach is not used to it anymore. Meat is one of the hardest meals to digest, and she was really lucky it didn't give her a stomach ache.
I, for example, can't eat meat because it gives me stomach acid in such a way that more than once it ended up burning the inside of my throat. Just imagine the many possibilities and outcomes that prank could have had.
The not paying the dental story-
No sweetie you're not the jerk, just the dumb ass that stood with him. 🤷🏼♀️
8:15 is for the mean neice
Thank you
I was working for KBToys when the Poo-chi came out. This man towered over me, asking for one. When I told him we were out, he asked “Well what should I tell my grandson?”. I was terrified. He was massive!
In the story about the mother wanting to see her kids after being imprisoned. I grew up in a similar situation. The OP is absolutely in the right for keeping the children away from the mother. Not because she's a jerk, but because overall it's what is most likely best for the children's welfare. This is my story in a nutshell for example. My father's parents had custody of me at the request of my father. He passed away in a tragic accident when I was 3 years old. My mother was an alcoholic, an addict, and a few other things I'd rather not discuss. When I was younger, my mother had visitation rights, but she was almost never there, (usually drugs, alcohol, or other illegal activities usually were more important apparently) so I usually stayed with her family. I eventually decided at a young age that I didn't want to go on the visitations at all. It very soon became apparent that I must not have been important enough in her life to even acknowledge...
I am now 46 years old and the last time that I spoke with, gotten a phone call from, recieved a birthday card from or even seen my mother was when I was 5 years old,...41 years! I have a sister and a half-sister who were both raised by my mother, and I hardly ever seen them growing up. All 3 live less than 100 miles away, and don't ever bother to call, text, or visit. Fortunately, I work with one of my uncles, my mother's brother, and he tells me all the time, that it's for the best that they aren't in my life.