10month postpartum mama here. My midwife just disappeared 2 days before my first birth, i was so confused and im living abroad. I ended up improvising and having birth birth with 2 doctors in a birth center. Felt disconnected from my body, rushed and traumatized at the end. I thought that if i have a child again it would be at home for sure, but youre so true, this a trauma response. We romanticize so much having birth, seeing these people on the internet and when you are on the table, ready to be cooked, thats a different story 😅 Thanks for your honesty and raw feeling that you shared.
I’m a mother of 4. My older two were born in hospitals, my younger two were free births. Definitely a response to my experience in hospitals, as well as poverty and not being able to afford a midwife. I didn’t want to believe that home birth is only afforded to those who can afford it. Watching ladies like you, and Panquetzani gave me the confidence to do it, alongside my own research. Babies were fine both times. If I ever become pregnant again, I would definitely give birth the same way as long as baby and I are healthy. Thank you ❤
You had me rolling at your slipping and sliding lol im throwing it all out for my 3rd free birth this August. Hell, might even fk around and throw away the tens machine and feel it alllll. Thanks for your take 🥹
10month postpartum mama here.
My midwife just disappeared 2 days before my first birth, i was so confused and im living abroad.
I ended up improvising and having birth birth with 2 doctors in a birth center. Felt disconnected from my body, rushed and traumatized at the end. I thought that if i have a child again it would be at home for sure, but youre so true, this a trauma response. We romanticize so much having birth, seeing these people on the internet and when you are on the table, ready to be cooked, thats a different story 😅
Thanks for your honesty and raw feeling that you shared.
I’m a mother of 4. My older two were born in hospitals, my younger two were free births. Definitely a response to my experience in hospitals, as well as poverty and not being able to afford a midwife. I didn’t want to believe that home birth is only afforded to those who can afford it. Watching ladies like you, and Panquetzani gave me the confidence to do it, alongside my own research. Babies were fine both times. If I ever become pregnant again, I would definitely give birth the same way as long as baby and I are healthy. Thank you ❤
Girl the step 500 analogy had me weak! I could not agree more
You had me rolling at your slipping and sliding lol im throwing it all out for my 3rd free birth this August. Hell, might even fk around and throw away the tens machine and feel it alllll. Thanks for your take 🥹
Thank you so much I really needed to hear this ❤
I love how you explained this! Ive had three free births starting with my first child and i think if i have a 4th child i will free birth again❤
I love this point of view❤ This is Satya btw thanks for having me in the membership :)
Very true, you explained it well ❤
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