Dr. Phil Stops Tape When Grandmothers Criticize Teen As It Plays
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 22 ส.ค. 2024
- Donna says ever since she gained guardianship of her three grandchildren, the middle child, 14-year-old Emilie, has been out of control. She says Emilie smokes marijuana daily, skips school, lies, and has even stolen her great grandmother, Nancy’s, car and caused $13,000 worth of damage! Donna says she can’t get Emilie to follow any of her rules, so she sent her to live with Nancy, her mother. Emilie and her older sister, Hannah, both say Emilie is not the problem. They say Emilie has been grounded for six years straight without any sight of leniency in the future. So, who’s to blame for Emilie’s rebellion, and why is she always breaking the rules? (20114)
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As a teacher of almost 30 years, one thing that used to concern me greatly was authorities placing children with grandparents who had failed their own children. They were the reason the parents had become unfit parents in the first place. The cycle just repeats in most cases. So sad to see. 😢
Heh, I'm the product of that process. You only hope you can make things better....took me a long time to realize I owed nothing to my grandma (dad's side), but she acted all the time like I owed her for being inconvenienced to take care of me....even though she wanted to adopt me. It's a vicious cycle.
No, that’s completely wrong. You can’t always blame the parent and that’s something I am getting so sick and tired of people blaming grandparents or parents for the way the kid acts. I grew up with multiple kids that came from very good strict homes, healthy strict homes. But they decided on their own they wanted to do bad things and I would even tell them if you get caught you’ll get in trouble. They said to me well I’ve done it before and I haven’t been caught yet. and the other thing is what was wrong with my mom had nothing to do with her parents, but they raised me and I’m glad they did. I was better off with my grandparents than some foster family. Because the school that I went to we ended up having a lot of kids that was in foster care and they would come to school with bruises and broken bones. there was a few cases where the kids was taken out of school for good and moved because some of these homes the father had impregnated the foster daughters and raped their foster son. This one household that everybody thought was such a loving foster family the father had gotten three of the kids pregnant. They definitely would’ve been better off their grandparents.
@@rerejones9095 Just saying what I have seen happen many times.
@@rerejones9095 You don't know everyone's personal situation to judge or assume that you know what they have been through.
I'm so glad that someone said this. Thank you!
This is how kids leave their families and never turn back.
I recently ghosted my mom and that whole side of the family because of similar gaslighting narcissistic abuse
Bye then...
Quit crying. That wasn't even that bad.
@@michaelfowler5760tell me you didn’t watch the full episode without telling me you didn’t. There were worse things than this going. It was more than just a cellphone not being given back. Both the grandmother and great grandmother are very narcissistic. Emilie was lashing out because they wouldn’t give her what she actually needed which was guidance in how to navigate life after horrible things happened to her.
@@michaelfowler5760 And thus the cycle continues
I felt miserable just listening to those two women speak. Being around people like that can beat a person down until they feel like they're worthless. I sure hope it doesn't happen to this young girl.
it probably already has
You're high.
@@wjadam815 And you must be 13 years old.
@@saramichele7366 Nope, i'm just not a soft skinned coward that had an easy life.
@@wjadam815 You’re not a good person either.
"she's not remembering everything." That says everything I need to know about these two. I went through multiple forms of abuse myself and any time I pointed it out, it's "you're not remembering everything," or "you're not remembering that correctly." They use this sentence as a way to invalidate and minimize the damage they've done. It also makes the victim question their own memory and sanity.
Define: gaslighting
It’s always those most willing to dish out criticism and judgement who are so incapable of receiving it
I was told the same thing when the adults in my family didn't want to take accountability for something no she's remembering it wrong. NOTHING WAS WRONG WITH MY MEMORY AND THEY KNOW IT
That's right! Gaslighting.
It's called Gaslighting. Abusers do it.
I was raised by parents of their generation. There was no guidance or reasoning, just constant criticism and ridicule. I feel for the kid.
It has nothing to do with the generation, it is a family cultural problem that propagates down from parent to child. Control, narcissism, alcoholism are behaviors that stay in families and they are not going to change unless you are aware of them and you make a conscious choice. I catch myself with behaviors that my parents had with me, I work on curbing the bad ones and fostering the good ones. It works most of the time, the generations after mine are doing the same and becoming better people than I am. Do not expect perfection, work on the good enough.
Exactly. They don’t know HOW to show love.
My parents were their generation and totally loving and positive towards me. My niece was born in 1986 and is cruel and demeaning to her kids.
Dont generalize.
@@dougl945 👍
I agree completely. You weren’t shown how to do things, just criticised when you got it wrong.
The fact that both the grandmother and the great-grandmother are attacking their grandchild gives me a very bad feeling. It’s like they’re degrading her and they don’t give her the actual parental love and caring that a child needs.
My impression too. It makes me wonder if they treated (Heather) the biological mother in a similar way,as the family scapegoat.
I think this is the problem grandparents overstep in raising kids. They got to raise their own children so they need to back off
Their incessant nagging makes me want to bash my head into a wall.
A lot of parents do that and don't realize it
Narcissists
Must finally feel good for this girl to finally feel seen and heard for once. That it’s not always her fault and that the two “grown” women raising her are super at fault here.
These grown women put together aren't as emotionally mature as that young lady.
I guess their senility is catching up to them, not to mention dementia in play here as well I’m damn sure
as horrible as the situation is, its nice to see that she has a good relationship with her sister
It is nice to see they're bond but it breaks my heart knowing that their bond is held together by the abuse of their grand parents.
Criticizing by asking questions is a classic bully move. Any teenage girl knows this.
Yup
Pretty much!!
I'm 32 and I was bullied by kids younger and older than me when I was a kid. Kids are bullies no matter what age they are. It's the parents fault for not raising their children with respect for others.
...and employ it themselves. It's not a novel idea, and the accompanying patronizing and condescension from the "grown-ups" sre doing them NO favors.
This is awful. My grandmother is the best person in the world and I love her more than anything. I can't imagine being treated like this by her
Did she raise yiu? Do you have parents?
@@barbieblue3336 u can have parents and still have a close relationship with your grandparents
@@barbieblue3336 i have the best relationship with my grandteenagers,i would never treat them like that...
I wish I have a grandma that cares about me. I am not the young girl that is in this episode (obviously), but my grandma is so much like her grandma.
My grandmother did not raise me but she is like my second mother. She's the best person in the world
My grandmother abused me so badly, I live with epilepsy. Yet, everyone thought she was amazing for helping raise me. She raised me all right….raised me by my hair, my neck, by her boot. I never knew if I’d get kissed or kicked!
I’m so sorry you had to endure such a hard knock life 🥺
I’m sorry that happened. I know it’s hard to get the truth out when everyone thinks they are so wonderful. I hope you are away from her now. Did she own it or apologize?
I’m so sorry you went through that.
different reasons, but similar treatment, and honestly, thats excatly what I'm seeing here.
My father was like that. People called him "The Mayor" since everyone loved him and surrounded him as he was funny, the life of the party. In private he was a sulking, non nurturing man who got pleasure at watching me in abject terror.
They touched hands and wiggled there feet together after dr.Phil is defending them ❤️that was sweet 🥹
I guess this is armchair psychology but I get the impression that EMILY is the “scapegoat” of this family dynamic.
As someone with an education in Forensic Psychology and Applied Behavior, I am ok with your arm chair visual thoughts ☺️
@@Swnsasy I'm fascinated by ur education. Love to know the why being things. Picking apart why someone is the way they are. 😁
I'm the scapegoat of my family. It sucks.
@@JewessChrstnMystic See it as a between station towards being da GOAT.
Dude imagine being raised by two Karen’s
I woulda been a missing person
I was half “raised” by a total Karen and she has a Karen best friend. It’s been a really hard & unpleasant time.
Dat good...🤣
@@Angela-tx7hb Bummer.
Karen is a racist term
It’s very cathartic when someone comes to your defense against a gaslighting narcissist.
My grandma and uncle were those people for me. My mother was somehow surprised that they called her out for how she treated me.
Man, I'll never get tired of Dr. Phil telling these narcs, "You're right." Hahahaha
I laughed so hard when he said that and made that face
and when they said i didnt come here to be right he looks at the camera and goes "i think you did 🙄" HAHAHAHAH
Right!!!!😂🤣
Reminds me of when I stared deescalating a conversation I was tryna have with my mom. I said, "It's fine. We both think we're right, so... let's agree to disagree." Or something like that then she said, "I don't think I'm right." 😂 Then I broke it down to her. Smh. Been NC since 2020 🙌🏽
Love that both of them had the same excuse for interrupting the tape… “I was asking her a question!”
But I didn’t hear either of them ask a single question during that interruption… only comments to further scold the poor girl 🤷🏻♀️
Whoever said they couldn’t imagine being raised by two Karen’s was dead on!! 😂 💀
The question was “I’m right and you don’t remember things correctly - you agree, right?”
The 2 girls holding hands is just the sweetest
I know
Their Gay
They're literally sisters @@thefirespecialist9007
“Asking a question is criticizing?” Lol at her trying to manipulate Dr fkn Phil 🤦🏻♀️
My exact thoughts!!😂🤦🏻♀️🙄
😂
Lol why is the grandma talking to Dr Phil like he's a three year old 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Because she has no idea about how Dr. Phil cuts a person down to size.
Ego
When you tell a child NO, always explain why. Never ever say ‘Because I said so’.
Sometimes it is because I said so.
What is beautiful is these two young ladies will have this episode to look back on when they are grown. This is how you end generational trauma. Hopefully they heal and learn how to communicate with their future kids, so these two young ladies have a chance at a better life. I’m glad dr Phil had their back.
Thank you Dr. Phil for standing up for these young ladies.
There’s no earning trust with narc abusers. This girl will only believe she’s further failed when they continue to distrust her & paint her as a sneak, a liar, a mischief.
Selective Memory was my mom's favorite saying"Ooh you have selective Memory of the stuff you used to do to make me beat you"
Even if that were true, it just proves beating kids for doing wrong does not work. I never understood why i was getting it either. Not once did a spanking ever "teach me a lesson" other than authority is dangerous and unfair.
You can tell by how the girls are acting with each other, that they feel they only have each other. It’s always wonderful to take in children so they aren’t part of the system but in the same breath, children need love
Great grandma doesn’t want to be right. That’s what she says. Okay, but she sure ALWAYS wants to have the last word.
She doesn’t WANT to be right, she NEEDS it. Sad for all parties involved…happy, healthy people don’t think that way.
Thank you for defending scapegoated children Dr. Phil
My phone is charging under my pillow? Doesn’t she understand how dangerous that is? 🤦🏼♀️ that should be something older adults should be telling children & younger adults, not to do!
Oh wow I had no idea, thank you for sharing, now I learned something
@@angelraeee
Yes, there is a danger of the phone overheating. Plus it’s bad for the battery.
Lol now I feel dumb I do that every night 🤦♀️
@@edifice3947 it’s actually also emitting radiation that can cause brain cancer as well.
@@whiskeytangofoxtrot1986 That's false.
He’s wrong about being trustworthy and that means you can get trust and freedom. My parents gave me zero freedom growing up and i never gave them one reason not to trust me. My mother hated me for being born and she poisoned my father who was rarely home due to work and so i was treated horribly while my brother was treated like a Prince bcuz she loved him. My brother ran away, didn’t follow rules, drank and did drugs but was treated much better always - even now as adults. You can’t make someone - an adult treat you like you deserve by being good and trustworthy. Doesn’t always work. If there is an adult with hate in thier Heart for a kid/teen then nothing they do will ever change that.
I'm so sorry you went thru that. It was a very similar situation in my home. I was the only girl with four brothers. My mother is a narcissist and it's well documented that narcissist mothers, hate their daughters. Mine was always competing with me and saying how much better than me she was. She would criticize and point out any faults, whether they were real or not. She took credit for any accomplishments I had. My father was obsessed with my mother and followed her lead, even though, she treated him just as badly. I never fit in with my own family. The damage that does to you is devastating and affects many of the decisions you make in life. I'm only now, in my older age, figuring out why I am the way I am and trying to heal. It's a sad, sobering reality.
Great grandma has evil in her eyes as she smirks when she talks to her.
I hope Dr Phil got these grandchildren a safe place to live after this abuse we are all watching.
Awesome watching Phil cuss them out
He didn't cuss them out! 😒
@@journeysalkebulan he actually did 🤣
@@sarah-fo4wj They were bleeping her. Not him... lol...
@@Mossfaerie nice 😂 Dr. Phil plays it so clean, that really surprised me at first
I sincerely hope these girls have at least one person in their lives that will give them sound advice without crippling their self worth.
My Grandma was my lifeline and the reason I survived my childhood.
I’m a grandma now and required my kiddos to abide by my rules when in my care. Not once did I criticize them for making a mistake or accidentally breaking something. I would never ever say anything when I was mad, other than go to the bedroom until we both calm down.
If they were ever upset about something and would do the screaming crying I would console if possible (the parents going through divorce) The frustration they were feeling wasn’t getting out at home, it wasn’t allowed.
I would take them to the bedroom and tell the to scream into the pillow all they wanted to. They were even told they could hit the bed/mattress if they needed.
Usually in under 10 minutes they would come out exhausted and want to cuddle.
I just figured it was better to release the pent up frustration, anger, and helplessness on our bed than their siblings.
Each child is different though, the one above is almost 20 and a scholarship for college. Seems just yesterday that I was changing his diaper.
They will wonder why she doesn't want to know them as an adult.
I am glad that Dr Phil seen both sides. Normally an adult always takes up for another adult.
Dr. Phil: so you wanted to prove her wrong
Her: no, okay, she’s just remembering it wrong
Soooooo… child’s thoughts and memories are invalid??
As soon as they can the kids will leave and never speak to these 'grandmothers' again
I feel very sorry for Emilie. To have two militants yelling at you 24/7 and telling you that what you're doing is always wrong, I would rebel, too. I think both grandmothers are scared to death because Emilie's mom is incarcerated. Emilie is NOT her mother. The grandmas do want to be "right fighters" as Dr. Phil says... but I agree that Emilie will gain more of the privileges she craves is she controls her own behavior. Be trustworthy and you'll be trusted, right?
it can't be that hard to stop screwing up
Finally, someone w more than half a brain in this comment section
@@modaciouslav4792 Thanks!
@@sacheenadams2579 someone is obviously immature
Foster care sounds like a good option.
The first grandma appears and I think "wow, she looks like my partner's narcissistic grandmother that randomly barges in our house w/o notice and leaves our toilet running and will die alone and bitter". Then I saw the next grandma and she also reminds me of partner's narc mother and I think "of course she found herself to marry".
Thank God for my Grandma Brenda and Gma Myrtle 🙏🏾 ❤️ they were absolute sweethearts
I feel so very bad for the young teenage girl.
😭😭😭😭Some Grandma's DON'T deserve Grandkids.......STAY STRONG Girls........WE ALL KNOW how Granny's Brain works!!!!!!! 👍❤️❤️❤️
The fact that she was comfortable gaslighting publicly says a lot about how much worse it probably is behind doors. People tend to at least try to behave better in extremely public settings especially when it's going to be recorded and broadcasted. If they're like this with so many witnesses, I don't think Dr Phil's advice will work. Behaving better isn't going to be a good enough bargaining chip with people who have abusive tendencies. They only care about being right and asserting their power. The more those girls try to conform, the more those women will demand and try to control. It's as good as telling someone being abused to simply do what their abuser asks and then they won't get hurt as often. It puts the responsibility on the victim and ignores the true issue.
Jesus this is just like my mother and grandmother; I understand these young woman, they will run and never look back when they are able. They will thrive and those “grandparents” will be the victims of what did we do wrong we let them in our home 🤦♀️
She said’ she did not remember how it happened.” Everyone remembers events differently lady. 🤦🏽♀️
That's mental and emotional abuse.
I dunno if a young teen is smoking pot and stealing a car, I'd be more than criticizing a kid.
Ive been emotionally manipulated for years and I always hate when my father tells me i forgot something. He always tells me I have bad memory. He lets me know I'm a liar that I'm not telling the truth and that I'm doing all this for drama. Sometimes I wish I could record our conversations so that I can have proof that he said it that certain way
If the kid doesn't do what they should, they don't get rewarded.
This is why grown children are stopping all contact with their parents. And then they don’t understand why.
My family doesn't seem that bad after binging on Dr Phil
Power struggles exhaust everyone.
What about lots of love kindness & respect ,reasonable boundaries & consequences. Kids will often try to please parents that give them freedoms rewards & positive reinforcement. Positive relationship building goes a very long way in parenting❤️
As they say you may not remember everything correctly but you won't forget how it made you feel.
I LOVE HOW DR PHIL, PUT THESE KARENS IN THEIR PLACE
Than puts his wife on for what . Because she what's to be famous. Can't watch anymore
Hiding your phone under your pillow wouldn't stop me lmaoo I would just take your phone in return !!!😅🤣
Your comment makes no sense!
@@journeysalkebulan now it makes sense correct?
@@journeysalkebulan They're saying that if someone took their phone, they'd take that person's phone in retaliation.
Sure kid, you can have my old busted up flip phone. Betcha wouldn't last two days without a tide pod to snack on or your beloved Tik Tok.
When you yell at a child over and over and over and over you're just irritated at that child and every single thing they do even opening the refrigerator door is going to piss you off so that child is going to think about that everyday of their life and you're ruining their future try loving the child and maybe she'll do the things she's supposed to do instead of berating her every 5 seconds so where she hates you and doesn't want to do anything you say.
So true
What is the 14 year old doing to get into trouble? My teen daughters lose privileges when they get into trouble as well. Setting boundaries for your kids are necessary…
And that’s fine, but just because their mama got into trouble, doesn’t mean she’s bad
Naturally, but it seems to me these older ladies are over criticizing the grandkids out of fear they'll turn out like the mother.
Being raised by my grandma, I know this all too well
I don't know some grandparents would say no I'm not raising her so kudos for the grandmother for at least trying so Dr Phil give her a break!!
Exactly....she could have said no way and they could have been put in foster care.
Old people always think they’re right when they’re wrong.
BS. My grandparents weren't know it alls. They were nice people. Let me tell you something, if someone manages to live to 65 or 75 they do know more than a 14 or even 21 year old that hasn't lived that long. Doesn't mean their take on things is always right but by virtue of living that long they do know more.
@@jokendrick2124 OP didn't say older generation knew more. They said older generations always think they are right, even when they are wrong. And your closing sentence affirmed that when you admitted that their take on things isn't always right. Thanks for playing.
They're horrible...Irks me to the bone!
I'm just now seeing this 5/2024. I just wanted dr. Phil to ask this girl if she wanted a hug and if she did please dr. Phil give a great big bear hug. Those two grandmas were just condemning her, shame on them.
I wish there was a someone like dr. Phil who would go in the middle and tell the people around me and stop criticizing
.....I'm a little bit confused. Since when is taking a phone away abusive or a problem? Alot of the story seems to be missing.
since when is removing a child from any way of communicating with their friends or being safe on the street for months on end abusive? since about 2012 when being without a phone became dangerous, and also completely isolating from the entire world
@@kaelchipz7252 a phone is a privilege to a child not a right gtfoh!
@@paigewaldrop2993 girl bye. i don’t recall replying to you. taking away a TEENAGER’s ability to communicate especially for no reason during a time where social interaction is limited is cruel.
Taking a phone away is "brute force"? That is absolutely hilarious and extremely wrong. Grandmother's bringing up 14 year olds already know what they're doing. If those girls are sneaking out and disobeying, they don't get a phone until they have a job and can pay for it themselves.
Children don't get a free pass in this world. They have to be responsible for something; chores, being home on time, getting good grades, having respect for their elders, church, volunteering etc....
I did not hear anyone criticize anyone. That could be because of my life though.
Dr Phil, the man that doesn't have an ounce of integrity or a license.
And the fact that Dr. Phil is smirking when he says "You're right"
gets me! 😂 🤦🏾♂️
Dr. Phill is one of those rare celebrities that is always on point.
Right or wrong in all sincerity Dr Phil. You should NEVER disagree with the caregivers in FRONT of the child. Do YOU KNOW what integrity is?! If so why did you not pull the parents aside. Ratings??? Wow. I’m honestly so triggered by this. Right or wrong their intent was honest and pure. And so was your response to helping a family that reached out for help. What the heck did I just watch. Dr. Bill Cosby would have had better advice. In other words say that ish sucked without saying that ish sucked. Ladies I would get a new DR
I appreciate your candor. I was listed with the state as a child care provider. Now, l help families in other ways. ie... Care of pets
Less stress
My head is exploding listening to this 😯
This made me cringe for these young ladies because no matter what they do or don't do, these two grandmothers will sabotage it.😕
Constant criticism is belittling and disrespectful towards the target. It accomplishes nothing but poor self esteem
I want them to trust me, then you have to be trustworthy. Too true!
Some family issues, just don't deserve, nor need, Dr. Phil's time!
Whoses time theyvdeservr? I would thinj the worst of the worst needs the best help.
I'm sorry, but if this is abusive, I guess I'm lucky to be alive... The level of ridiculous expectations from parents\guardians has gotten silly.
I'm not even that old, child of the 90's here. They provide basic needs, you shut up and follow the rules until you're old enough to move out and govern yourself, end of story.
This isn’t even show worthy. A 14 year old misbehaving and having their cellphone taken away is good parenting.
I think the point is how is obviously the grandchildren are being treated like garbage by their grandparents.
@@adrianhalstead2912But they’re not being treated like garbage. They’re getting fed, got a roof over their head, but there are rules. I spent half of high school grounded for one stupid thing or another. My parents weren’t wrong and/or treating me like garbage.
This poor girl is suffering with these two 😢
What is the full story? You seem to know
She needs to be in foster care.
What are you smoking? Those are two little rich girls where stealing from there grandmas.
they’re really on stage passing down generational trauma…..grandmother learned it from great-grandmother etc
These two women make my skin crawl in irritation! Poor poor girl being raised by not one but two karens!
Put her in a group home where she'll be happy then.
The kid's look so defeated. So sad😔
He took them down magnificently, and they knew it.
Imagine working your whole life and then getting stuck raising more kids at a time in your life when you should be enjoying retirement and winding down. I feel sorry for all of them. ALL of them. It is their parents job to raise them......not their grandparents.
Well, they didn't get stuck. The chose to take the children in. They were more than free to not take them in
These 2 Women are Toxic and this young lady is screaming for help even when she is causing trouble! She needs to be able to get away from Toxic Grandmother's and have a the love of someone who actually cares about her! Other family members or foster care that way she has a chance to turn her life around while she is young!
Absolutely, take away the cell phone and put her in foster care. Problem solved.
Dr Phil be looking fresh af lately. Looks 7 years younger lately
Adrenichrome
0:47 her face really says “you’re seeing this too????” Damn
This was insightful
My grandmother was the best best best and I loved her so much. She was a horrible mother and not great person when she was younger or when she drank, but, she never let it out on my sister and I. She couldn't love or treat my mom right but she tried her best to make it up to my sister and I. I can't imagine if she was as foul to us as she was to our mom
Having your feelings invalidated and never being heard is exactly the mentality of those women’s generations. Children are seen and not heard. Period.
14 travelling around Europe with his friend ?? There must be details I'm missing- normally he would not recommend this to other people's children- I must be missing context . But still ... DANG !!
I was raised by grandparents. The most difficult thing growing up was the missing generation in between and I had plenty of older siblings who tried to fill that gap, but only made it worse. Especially in todays environment, being raised by grandparents should be the first option. It might be the only option, but I can tell you from experience it makes things 10 times worse.
Can’t get over how much the great grandmother looks like Hilary Clinton! 🤣
the old ladies are panicking. Emilie's behavior is very troubling, and they envision her living in a drug house someday. They don't know what to do. Give them a break.
Maybe their behavior drove their mother to do the same thing?
Just seeing these two baby girls holding hands is sad because they find comfort in each other instead of grandma it is sad and it horrible how they speak to these girl it’s toxic
These two woman should not be raising these girls because they are damaging these poor girls and they will take it into their future life.
Am I missing something here 🤔 they took her phone away because she got into trouble? So what?
Well, you would have to look at the entire episode. The issue isn't that the grandparents took her phone away. The issue is that the grandparents were constantly punishing her even though she didn't do anything wrong. Essentially, they were being over restrictive to the point that the girls didn't even know how to act anymore because they were being punished for every little thing even though there was no actual wrongdoing even when the girls tried to follow the rules, the grandparents would move the goalposts. So, there was no rewards, there was always criticism and disappointment and punishments. The cell phone thing is just the one that was easiest to track and talk about
@@JoeyMarx You hit the nail on the head. Moving the goalpost is a narcissistic gaslighting move. The fact is, they simply do not want them to even HAVE phones at all, so they constantly look for and manufacture reasons to keep them from having them. Even once they've served the imposed sentence, made amends, did what was asked of them, they turn around and say "yeah but you didn't do x" (which was often never discussed) or "you didnt do it to our satisfaction" and then refuse to give them back as promised. They change the terms and conditions of the reward/punishment that has been agreed upon. My fathers mother was like this, strict, harsh, cruel, mean. And she'd punish ALL of us children for the actions of ONE like we were in the army. I cannot tell you how many times I was locked in the piano room because my cousins misbehaved. It was abusive, and all of us celebrated after she died. We all speculated that she did these things: promise reward or that we'd get a toy or game back if we did x or behaved all day, then did not make good on that when we had solely because she was jealous of the things we had growing up that she did not when she grew up. Some people are simply hate-filled and think because of their own suffering or poor upbringing that all others must also suffer. It's a mindset that only the older generations seem to suffer from btw. I've literally never met anyone my age who acts or feels that way. I am 40 years old, and was raised by my grandparents (my mothers side thank God).
it’s so funny acting like Dr. Phil is a hero and that he hasn’t psychologically tortured hundreds of children over the last several decades. As if he doesn’t have farms dedicated to abuse. But he stopped the video, what a hero!
Oh bless this beautiful young lady I wanna adopt her. These two other woman are controlling and abusive. God bless her ♡♡♡♡
Dude, imagine being a MINOR and thinking you run the show in a home that you dont pay for. Put your head down, graduate high school and move to out. It's pretty simple.
😂😂 go to a therapist bro