This is WHY WE ENJOY LIFE, TRAVEL, EAT WHAT YOU WANT, DO WHAT YOU WANT AND LIVE HEALTHY. DO NOT KEEP THAT MONEY PILED HIGH AND DO NOTHING WITH IT UNTIL IT'S TOO LATE. Please people, learn to live happily by doing stuff you don't want to have any regrets. You don't know what tomorrow brings and you may not even live to see tomorrow. We Hmong people think Money is everything, but when you die, you can't even take the money with you to your grave. All that money is left behind and fights, disagreements, and issues arises only because money is the root of all evil. Enjoy your time while you can brother.
Agreed. This is why my husband and I are always broke and can never have a stack save up bc we live like there’s no tomorrow. We enjoy life right now as we live and travels while we can.
As a 54 years old Hmong man, I had lived my life. I love my two grown daughters like crazy, but I genuinely believe they can earn their own money for their debts. Your kids will get married and live their lives with their own turns on the education level they earned. Your greediness takes you and your wife nowhere, and your journey to death shows that you have no true love for your wife. You do not appreciate her sacrifice in the partnership of life you both struggle together. Also, in making the total money you both save and recoup together from life insurance & housing investment. All you do is FEAR that your wife will remarry someone else because you know that if the role is reversed - you will take on very quickly for a new woman and flash out the 1 million assets you mentioned! You are SUPER SELFISH to leave her behind with just 100K. To me, this amount of money is minimal for your wife to fully enjoy her life after you die! You stranded her all your life, and when on your death road - you still did not allow her to have fun and live the life you failed to provide! KOJ KHIB THIAB SIAB PHEM TSHAJ PLAWS! Preach yourself, dude!
Well said! 👏👏👏👏👏I totally agreed with you! He Ratner donated his money to his clan then save it for his wife after he gone. I sure feel bad for the wife then him.
Cas yuav tu2 siab os lawv aw tus niam tsev no khwv2 muaj nyiaj los tseem los tau ib tug mob phem ua luaj tus txiv tsev no siab phem dhau poj niam tuag kiag twb muaj dua tshiab cas yus es txom2 nyem g muaj ib tug neeg hlub g muaj ib tug txheeb ze yuav mus ua si uake cas yus niam g txawj tuag kom mus ntsib kuv niam kuv txiv seb puas yuav zoo lub siab na.koj muaj nyiaj cas lub ntuj g muab txoj hmoo zoo2 rau koj zoo li yus txom2 nyem los pheej g txawj mus tsuag2 kom dim txoj Kev txom nyem g muaj viv muaj ncaus hlub yus es yog tuag kiag ntse yuav g hnov txoj kev mob siab no ntxiv lm os. Pab hlub koj heev os thov kom tsuas muaj zoo xwb os nawb.😭😭😭😭😭
I don't even feel bad for him anymore after hearing what he is doing to his wife. If she die, he will remarried too. Why is he being so selfish and greedy. He doesn't deserve her love at all.
This guy is selfish. His kids will remember but they're not gonna miss you or cry for you like your wife. You promised to love your wife but you didn't...pathetic guy. Selfish selfish....
Wow....your story is sad but at the same time depressing in so many ways. Depressing because you don't think about the commitment and love your wife has dedicated to you. Instead, you focus on her life after you and being in another's man's arm. Appreciate the life you two built together and the memories you made.
Cia txaus siab rau neej ...cia txawj txaus siab rau yam yus muaj xwb...txoj sia ces VajTswv yeej tseem caij nyoog rau peb nyob ....nyobbraws li lub sijhawm VajTswv tseem tseg zwb o hmoob e
I'm sorry you are going through this, uncle. However, you seem to be very selfish and projecting a lot of insecurities. Love your wife until your last days and let her live her life after you. All that money is not only yours. Your wife deserves half because she helped you build this life together, not just you.
EXACTLY THIS RIGHT HERE!!! n they wonder why older women compete in life bc they have no options being born in their generation. I couldn't even feel bad for him
metub ca koj yuav hais tau tu siab usluaj lios zoo siab nrog koj pojniam menyuam tau koj cov lus nyiaj lus kub zoo tshaj plaws koj yog ib tug txiv zoo tshaj plaws lios metub thov vajtswv yawm saub pab kom koj zoo nawb mog koj haus yeeb seb puas pab tau koj osmog ua kiag teeb kublub haus es seb puas pab tau koj nawb 30 xyoo dhau los peb ib tug dablaug mob li koj nai maum tsis kam kho ce nws cia li haus yeeb ce nws kuj zoo lawm nws nyuam qhuav tuag tau 4 xyoo nolawm
Quit being complaining about your wife moving on after you’re dead. She deserves to be happy with someone else just like your secret niam yau while you still have your wife.
tus txiv tsev aw...pab koj tu siab kawg li tabsi ua cas koj lub siab me ua luaj li tej nyiaj yog neb 2 leeg khwv txawm koj tus poj niam tuag kiag los koj yeej yuav mus yuav dua ib tug tshiab tabsi yog koj ua ntej lawm es koj puas xav tias nws hos yuav quaj thiab txom nyem siab npaum licas no mas, neb twb muaj tub kawm ntawv siab tag tus lawm tej zaum nws twb yuav tsis mus tom ntej lawm thiab os. txhob xam222 khib ma yom
Tus me phooj yws koj txoj neej neeg no hais tau tus siab kawg li, pab nrog koj tus siab os!! tab sis xob tas kev cia siab maj phooj yws, tseem tshuaj Vajtswv ntuj tus muaj fwj chim thiab yog tus kws kho mob zoo tshaj, txawm yog koj txoj neej neeg no muab hais rau tib neeg mloog tas lawm los, kuv xav kom koj muab hais li no rau Vajtswv mloog kuv xav tias nws yuav pab kom koj tus mob no zoo xwb no, ua li ntawd nawv muab hais rau Vajtswv mloog koj tus mob yuav zoo mog.
Vajtswv txojlus hais tias yam koj tau hlub lwm tus lawm thiaj dhau los ua koj teejtug thaum koj tas sim neej no. Vim yus yug los liab qab yuav rov mus liab qab. Muaj tseeb nawb mog.
To this man: If you love your wife, you would not be concerned about what she will do with the money but who will really take care of her like you did when you're gone. You should be glad that you both build a successful life together and the money you both saved even if you didn't live life to the fullest while you can, at least you leave them behind knowing that they will be well taken care of and you have done a great job as a father to your children and a husband to your wife. To do what you did to your wife, stripped her of all the success you both build together is very selfish and cruel. Your sob story touches many hearts until the part where you decided to leave your wife with practically nothing because you are jealous that she may find happiness again after you leave this world. If you truly love her, you would want her to be happy even if not with you.
Tsis txhob ua kom yus ploj lawm neeg ntxub. Ua kom yus ploj hnub twg, tsuas muaj kom neeg nco yus xwb. Tsis txhob ua kom yus tag neeg mam tseg txoj kev dhuav yus. Ua kom hnub tsis muaj yus, kom tsuas cov nyob tom qab nco yus hos-
Tus txiv tsev aw yog tau ibtug mob li koj hais ces yeej tu siab heev li os Koj yeej yog ibtug txiv zoo kawg li txawj xav hlub koj koj tsev neeg heev Thiaj li hais txij hais txhua rau pojniam menyuam os.. thov Vajtswv pab koj kom koj tej mob nkeeg zoo nawb Koj yeej tsis tau thov kev pab os Tabsis qhia koj tias mus yuav cov tshuaj uas hmoob coob tus ua members muag ntau xyoo dhau los lawm es hmoob hu npe tias ( tshuaj kua pobzeb kua nceb ) muab 2 yam no sibtim haus ibhnub 3 zaug 1 set haus 30 hnub yog ntxim koj tus mob ces haus 2-3 set xwb koj zoo lawm os .. yog mob cancer los yog qog noj ntshav.. kuv haus zoo rau mob cancer tsev menyuam lawm..
Cas nej zaj neej neeg yuav tu siab ua luaj tug txiv ntsawm ntxob tu siab nawb vim peb ua neej nyob hauv ntiaj teb no leej twg los yuav tuag xwb os kuv mloog koj zaj neej neeg mag kuv tu siab heev li thiab vim kuv los muaj mob thiab
Sad to hear your story but never give up fighting for. Have faith that you will be cure. Yeeb dub in Laos cured many people with cancer in the past…wish you luck…😩👍🤠!
Tus txiv tsev aw pab koj tu siab heev li os mog. Txawm li cas los koj muaj muaj mob lawm es txhob xav ntau ntau nawb thiab txhob tu siab os. Pab koj tu siab heev nawb mog
Smart man. It's good that u divided your money among your kids and wife. It's not like she is not getting a penny. U left her some money and assets too. I think it's best for u to divide the money like this while you're alive. Once you're gone, u know your wife might not even give to your kids. I agree with what u did. She shouldn't mind either bc the money goes to her kids, no one else.
I agree, regardless of the dying person is husband or wife, the one behind may give it all to her/his new partner. I’m saying that because I’ve seen too many who’s done that.
Tus me txiv tsev aw ua ca koj yuav tu siab ua luaj naj tsi txhob tu tu siab os nyias muaj nyias hmoov os mog tej zaum yus ho yuav yeej txoj kev mob kev nkeeg os mog
Saib nyiaj tsis muaj nqis rau yus lawm. Vim tias thaum tuag lawm ces coj tsis tau nyiaj mus nrog yus hlo li nawb. Ua neeg nyob ces yuavtsum hlub yus tus kheej es siv tej nyiaj kom tsimnyog yug los hauv ntiajteb no thiaj li tsis txog lig. Nco ntsoov people need people nowadays because in the end, they will all come together to comfort & support each other’s funeral.
Listening to story, it tells me that there’s not love in his marriage and afraid that his wife will be rich after his death. Sorry to hear your story and hope you will this battle!
Leave nothing to your life partner that worked along side with to even have all that money lol. What a fool. So jealous of his wife, he acted as if they both died just bc he is going to.
I am all for setting up financial funds and getting legal papers together for matters like this. We do not see the future so please put your trust in good faith ppl and set things up for yourself, your children, and your spouses. Do it when you are still mentally able and can coherently understand what you are doing. You never know who is the tiger lurking in the tall grass waiting to jump at you because you inherited large sums of funds or assets from a decease love one.
Dear Sir, You just gave the best life advice to all the world: the greatest wealth is health & youth so enjoy your life as you journey through life. Finally, I'm so happy you touched up on giving to charities. Thank you for your advice and life lessons. May you have the best life ahead of you and find peace when its your time to ascend to another journey.
Yog hais tias koj tus poj niam yog tus mob li ko ces ntshe koj twb nyob tom nplog lawm os, tab sis vim yog koj es koj tus niam thiaj tseem nyob hlub koj thiab tus koj xwb os.
Yog kawg mloog tus txiv tsev no qee yam kuj yog feem ntau yog nws khib dhau twb tsis hlub tus pojniam ntshai tsam pojniam coj mus noj tas xav li nws mam phem tshaj nws xav li nws tus yawg yij tus maum twb tsis tau tuag twb mus lawm ces tu siab kawg
Neb ob leeg sib hlub los khwv npaj rau lub neej, thaum kawg koj tseg 100,000 dollars rau poj niam xwb. How long this money will last her. Kuv yog nws mas kuv tu siab rau koj vim YOU gave away over 1 million dollars. Koj txoj kev khib koj yuav ua rau koj poj niam tu siab txog hnub kawg. You did not love her, you are a very jealous man. You are totally forgot her hardwork.
My husband and I will be changing our life insurance, pension and 401k from what we had designated when we were younger to when we hit our early 50s. When we were younger, everything was divided evenly with our children and spouse left behind. We feel that as we are older..the remaining spouse will need the financial help. As the children will be in their prime, we've taught them to provide for themselves. Each child will still get some money but the bulk of it will go to the remaining spouse.
Peb ua neej nyob yuav yog txhob muaj2 nyiaj thiab os yog muaj2 nyiaj ces lub yeej koob yeej huam Tsi duav nawv mog, txhua tus muaj nyiaj ces neej puas, muaj nyiaj ces neej Tsi kawg ces yog tus neeg ntawm hmoov Tsi duav nawv mog 😢😢txhob rawm tag kev cia siab os brother
Tej laus muaj ib los lus hais tias , luag qhia yus tsis cuag yus qhia yus tus kheej yog peb thiaj pheej hais or khuv xim thaum kawg "yog kuv paub li". The best medicine is hope. Good luck bro
Your wife also contributed to all of your assets. I will be pissed! Especially, because I have my own career and have contributed to building this life together with my husband. He probably wouldn't feel this way if it was the other way around. He isn't even thinking about his wife's committment to him all those years. She definitely deserves all the money you both worked for.
Someone needs tell his wife to sue this not-so-good-man for her portion of all the assets that they have. This is lawless. I hope she or her relatives see this and help her sue him for what's hers. If there is really a karma then this story on youtube here is because it helps her and people who know her realize that this is not right and to sue him or pay back time for him.
Txhob tag kev Cia siab os..tus uncle.nyias muaj nyias ib txoj hmoo os.tus mob2 tau tso lub ntiaj teb lawm los twb muaj.tus mob2 zoo lawm los yeej coob tus.cov mob li ko ko tsis txhob nyuaj2 siab yog koj muaj kev nyuaj2 siab ces Haj yam huam loj nawj.koj yuav tau lees txais thiab ua kev to taub rau tus mob no ces tsis ua rau koj lub zog poob2 os.yog yus txoj hmoob tsis los li no yeej yuav tsum muaj ib yam yuav cawm tau koj xwb2 li os.
Tus Niam tais awe phem thiab siab me li koj tus txiv no ces, txhob nco thiab hlub tag tag thiab nawm…..zoo qhov nws qhia siab tag tag ua ntej nws tuag es koj tiaj li tsis nkim nkim koj lub kua muag quaj
cov neeg nyob laus laus ces tsi yog muaj moo yog tseem tshuav kev npam them tsi tau tag thiaj nyob laus laus yog cov tuag hluas hluas ces tus ntawm tsi muaj kev npam tus ntawm thiaj tuag mus lawm ua rau sawv daws khuv xim os
Ntuj aw!!! Cas nej cov txiv neej mas nej yog tus mob mas nej tsuas ntshai rwg tsam poj niam tau nyiaj kheej xwb hos yog peb poj niam mob mas nej nrhiav kev ua hluas xwb zoo li nej siab tsis ncaj kiag li as. Thiab yog khib ces kav tsij muab hlawv ua ntej es tuag ces mam mus siv hauv dab teb os.
Yeap. That’s why I Donation my money at work every year go to cancer association community and heart failure association cause I want to help those people who had cancer and heart problems or heart failure.
Stop being selfish people. It doesn't matter men or women, every one need a partner in life. Tsis txhob khib2 thiab mas, tab txawm yog koj Los koj neej yuav mus nrhiav dua ib tug tshiab thiab os.
Your biggest life regret is not what you didn’t do while you are alive. It will be what you did to your wife when you’re on your death bed. Your wife is the person who has shared every sorrow and joy with you. Whose hands, body and sweat contributed to the accumulation of your marital assets. Stripping her of everything because of your jealousy rage that once you’re gone she will find love again is truly petty and self-centered. You never once considered how hard life with be for her when you’re not around. She spent the best of her years earning and saving with you and now you want to leave her financially strap after you died. If you truly love someone and you know you are not going to be around; you would ensure their financial comfort if you had the means to do so. You’re too selfish and self-centered and wasted your last breaths destroying the one person who bear half of life’s burden with you. I believe these decisions will become your greatest life regrets.
This is a sad story and I can related to it. Why is life so unfair? Why the good people are the one that get sickness? Please try to be positive and pray for the best brother.
Life is precious. I hope you take it day by day and be strong. Just remember when we leave our life partner behind and they deserve your care even after death.
Tus brother kuv pab koj tus niamtsev tusiab os, you shouldn’t never judge her that she will be spending both of your money to someone else.., very selfish of you thinking about her life after you are gone, you should encourage her to live on
Sorry this guy has an illness that's probably not curable but dang he really is sour about what his wife is gonna have or do once he is gone. Shouldn't he be worried that his kids will all move on and have lives of their own..they will leave the nest and leave his wife who will have no one so yes she will probably find another partner. Women usually take it slow to find another partner where as men can't even wait the gravestone is place and the grass is green. We buy life insurance to ensure that our surviving spouse is taken care of. What she does with it is on her.
Muaj tseeb brother kuv tus tijlaug muaj nyiaj li koj mob li koj mob ntag nws tuag tas nws tus niam mus tham tau ib tug mus2 zos khab ces ob xyoos xwb vajtse poob tag rov los xaub tsev nyob xwb tiag xav mas yeej tu siab kawg li os khwv tau nyiaj los yuav tau siv thiab thiaj tsim nyog qhov khwv2 os
Every dying person wish. What I don't understand is that folks don't learn from other people experiences and live life to the fullest until it's too late. We can't take any valuable with us but the memories. Invest in trips and a good quality camera and go! Take every picture you can and go everywhere with your camera. Don't wait until your dying days to start capturing those memories and making time for each other. Even if the trip is a day, a week, or a month do it while you still can. Try out new food and experience because money can always be made and money will come when you have good health.
Wow, this guy has such greed for his wife!! Why is he even concern about the finances after he is gone? Really, I am sure their financial success was not made and earn by him only. He need to be considerate of his wife’s financial after he is gone too. If he was in his wife shoes, he would most definitely demand the majority of their assets.
I bet if it was his wife who was sick, he wouldn't have split the money and kept it all to himself. Smh! How selfish of him as if he was the only one who contributed to the marriage and their life.
He's a bit selfish. The wife deserves to have half of the money. I agree the kids need some money for start but not that much. She's getting old and need to live comfortable. Such a declare of undying love???
I'm all about living life to the fullest but this man sure is selfish when it comes to his wife. She built that life with you yet you don't care about her happiness after you. I will want my husband to move on and live again after me happily.
tus kwv tij ua koj muaj muaj mob cas koj tsis los ntseeg VAJTSWV es lwm hnub koj thiaj yuav tau txoj sia mus ib txhis thiaj muaj txoj kev cia siab lawm tom ntej, txhua yam nyob ntiaj teb tsuas yog ib vuag dua xwb
Koj zaj dab neeg no yeej zoo kawg tu txiv tsev tab si mloog mu mloog lo zoo li koj txhawj koj cov nyiaj koj nyuaj siab rau koj cov nyiaj nkau nkau xwb
This is WHY WE ENJOY LIFE, TRAVEL, EAT WHAT YOU WANT, DO WHAT YOU WANT AND LIVE HEALTHY. DO NOT KEEP THAT MONEY PILED HIGH AND DO NOTHING WITH IT UNTIL IT'S TOO LATE. Please people, learn to live happily by doing stuff you don't want to have any regrets. You don't know what tomorrow brings and you may not even live to see tomorrow. We Hmong people think Money is everything, but when you die, you can't even take the money with you to your grave. All that money is left behind and fights, disagreements, and issues arises only because money is the root of all evil. Enjoy your time while you can brother.
Agreed.
Agreed. This is why my husband and I are always broke and can never have a stack save up bc we live like there’s no tomorrow. We enjoy life right now as we live and travels while we can.
Eat what you want and live healthy doesn't belong together
As a 54 years old Hmong man, I had lived my life. I love my two grown daughters like crazy, but I genuinely believe they can earn their own money for their debts. Your kids will get married and live their lives with their own turns on the education level they earned. Your greediness takes you and your wife nowhere, and your journey to death shows that you have no true love for your wife. You do not appreciate her sacrifice in the partnership of life you both struggle together. Also, in making the total money you both save and recoup together from life insurance & housing investment. All you do is FEAR that your wife will remarry someone else because you know that if the role is reversed - you will take on very quickly for a new woman and flash out the 1 million assets you mentioned! You are SUPER SELFISH to leave her behind with just 100K. To me, this amount of money is minimal for your wife to fully enjoy her life after you die! You stranded her all your life, and when on your death road - you still did not allow her to have fun and live the life you failed to provide! KOJ KHIB THIAB SIAB PHEM TSHAJ PLAWS! Preach yourself, dude!
You say every words out of my mouth💯🙏🙏🙏
Well said
Yog kawg!
Well said! 👏👏👏👏👏I totally agreed with you! He Ratner donated his money to his clan then save it for his wife after he gone. I sure feel bad for the wife then him.
Every. Word. Made. Sense!
txhob tu2 siab thov vaaj tswv paab koj kuam koj zoo os....
Cas yuav tu2 siab os lawv aw tus niam tsev no khwv2 muaj nyiaj los tseem los tau ib tug mob phem ua luaj tus txiv tsev no siab phem dhau poj niam tuag kiag twb muaj dua tshiab cas yus es txom2 nyem g muaj ib tug neeg hlub g muaj ib tug txheeb ze yuav mus ua si uake cas yus niam g txawj tuag kom mus ntsib kuv niam kuv txiv seb puas yuav zoo lub siab na.koj muaj nyiaj cas lub ntuj g muab txoj hmoo zoo2 rau koj zoo li yus txom2 nyem los pheej g txawj mus tsuag2 kom dim txoj Kev txom nyem g muaj viv muaj ncaus hlub yus es yog tuag kiag ntse yuav g hnov txoj kev mob siab no ntxiv lm os. Pab hlub koj heev os thov kom tsuas muaj zoo xwb os nawb.😭😭😭😭😭
Tus siab kawg thaum mloog zaj neej neeg no tas xav ntau yam heev 😢😢😢 thov kom koj tsaus zoo sai raws li koj txoj kev ntshaw mog
Tu siab ua luaj li nas lawg ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️
I don't even feel bad for him anymore after hearing what he is doing to his wife. If she die, he will remarried too. Why is he being so selfish and greedy. He doesn't deserve her love at all.
This guy is selfish. His kids will remember but they're not gonna miss you or cry for you like your wife. You promised to love your wife but you didn't...pathetic guy. Selfish selfish....
Tu siab kawg os..tsiv tsawm thov kom kj tsuas muaj yeej swb mog😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Wow....your story is sad but at the same time depressing in so many ways. Depressing because you don't think about the commitment and love your wife has dedicated to you. Instead, you focus on her life after you and being in another's man's arm. Appreciate the life you two built together and the memories you made.
Cia txaus siab rau neej ...cia txawj txaus siab rau yam yus muaj xwb...txoj sia ces VajTswv yeej tseem caij nyoog rau peb nyob ....nyobbraws li lub sijhawm VajTswv tseem tseg zwb o hmoob e
Txob tu sab mog thov Vaajtswv paab koj mog koj yog ib tug txiv sab zoo heev os thov Vaajtswv paab koj mog
Pab hlub koj thiab tusiab ntau uas tau tus mob phem. Tabsis ua siab loj, txhob nyuaj2 siab heev, kabmob thiaj tsis nce nrawm. Thov Vajtswv yawm saub tso koob hmoov hwjhuaj rau koj kom kabmob yaj xam ploj mus, kom koj nyob ntev, zoo rov qab los xwb🙏🙏🙏
Tu siab tshaj li os😢😢😢😢
Kuv tus txiv twb tuag tau 10 tawm xyoo lawm os es kuv nim quaj quaj ib hnub dhau ib hnub tabsis peb txoj kev xav tsis zoo ib yam os mog… 😢😢😢
Koj yeej hlub hlub cov menyuam heev li os Yog peb txiv nyob los nws yeej yuav hais li koj hais thiab os. Vajtswv hlub koj os mog….
😭😭😭
I'm sorry you are going through this, uncle. However, you seem to be very selfish and projecting a lot of insecurities. Love your wife until your last days and let her live her life after you. All that money is not only yours. Your wife deserves half because she helped you build this life together, not just you.
Yes he’s basing this on what HE would do. He’d marry right away. Never appreciating his wife.
Was thinking the same thing the whole story 🤦🏻♀️
Exactly! I feel sorry for his wife. May she find someone who truly love her after him.
EXACTLY THIS RIGHT HERE!!! n they wonder why older women compete in life bc they have no options being born in their generation. I couldn't even feel bad for him
I was thinking the same thing!
Tus mi txiv tsev kv thov vaj tswv pab kom kj tsom kwm kj mog thov kom kj tau txoj sia ntev rhawv mus ib txhis rau sab ntsuj plig os mog
Nrog koj tus siab tus tij laug , tab si kam tsij keep going , fight it on don’t be sad .
Nrog koj tu siab os tus nus. Thov VajTswv txhawb koj zog thiab pab kom koj zoo rov los rau koj lub neej os mog 🙏🙏🙏💕
So sadly brother.
So sorry for you.
Good things you know and you has have plans set up before you go.😭😭😭😭😭
metub ca koj yuav hais tau tu siab usluaj lios zoo siab nrog koj pojniam menyuam tau koj cov lus nyiaj lus kub zoo tshaj plaws koj yog ib tug txiv zoo tshaj plaws lios metub thov vajtswv yawm saub pab kom koj zoo nawb mog koj haus yeeb seb puas pab tau koj osmog ua kiag teeb kublub haus es seb puas pab tau koj nawb 30 xyoo dhau los peb ib tug dablaug mob li koj nai maum tsis kam kho ce nws cia li haus yeeb ce nws kuj zoo lawm nws nyuam qhuav tuag tau 4 xyoo nolawm
Yog lawm money can't buy life and the Agape love (the kind of love that Yexus gave).
Quit being complaining about your wife moving on after you’re dead. She deserves to be happy with someone else just like your secret niam yau while you still have your wife.
He probably gave more to his secret second wife than his first wife if there is a secret second wife...haha
tus txiv tsev aw...pab koj tu siab kawg li tabsi ua cas koj lub siab me ua luaj li tej nyiaj yog neb 2 leeg khwv txawm koj tus poj niam tuag kiag los koj yeej yuav mus yuav dua ib tug tshiab tabsi yog koj ua ntej lawm es koj puas xav tias nws hos yuav quaj thiab txom nyem siab npaum licas no mas, neb twb muaj tub kawm ntawv siab tag tus lawm tej zaum nws twb yuav tsis mus tom ntej lawm thiab os. txhob xam222 khib ma yom
Tus me phooj yws koj txoj neej neeg no hais tau tus siab kawg li, pab nrog koj tus siab os!! tab sis xob tas kev cia siab maj phooj yws, tseem tshuaj Vajtswv ntuj tus muaj fwj chim thiab yog tus kws kho mob zoo tshaj, txawm yog koj txoj neej neeg no muab hais rau tib neeg mloog tas lawm los, kuv xav kom koj muab hais li no rau Vajtswv mloog kuv xav tias nws yuav pab kom koj tus mob no zoo xwb no, ua li ntawd nawv muab hais rau Vajtswv mloog koj tus mob yuav zoo mog.
Koj cov lus zoo tseem tshaj txiv xaiv foom kom lawm thiab. Ua tsaug koj cov lus zoo. Pab koj tu siab nawb
😢 zag neej neeg cas zoo li kuv lub neej
Vajtswv txojlus hais tias yam koj tau hlub lwm tus lawm thiaj dhau los ua koj teejtug thaum koj tas sim neej no. Vim yus yug los liab qab yuav rov mus liab qab. Muaj tseeb nawb mog.
tu siab ua luaj thov vaj tswv pab kom koj zoo xwb mog
Tus mí Txiv tsev nrog koj tu siab kawg li os mog thov kom lub ntuj thiab Vaj Tswv pov hwm kom koj noj qab nyob zoo nawv mog
Tu siab tshaj li txoj kev no g nraug leej twg ce leej twg yeej g paub li kho siab tshaj lio
To this man: If you love your wife, you would not be concerned about what she will do with the money but who will really take care of her like you did when you're gone. You should be glad that you both build a successful life together and the money you both saved even if you didn't live life to the fullest while you can, at least you leave them behind knowing that they will be well taken care of and you have done a great job as a father to your children and a husband to your wife. To do what you did to your wife, stripped her of all the success you both build together is very selfish and cruel. Your sob story touches many hearts until the part where you decided to leave your wife with practically nothing because you are jealous that she may find happiness again after you leave this world. If you truly love her, you would want her to be happy even if not with you.
Well said! 👏👏👏👏👏
I choose a healthy life
Tsis txhob ua kom yus ploj lawm neeg ntxub. Ua kom yus ploj hnub twg, tsuas muaj kom neeg nco yus xwb. Tsis txhob ua kom yus tag neeg mam tseg txoj kev dhuav yus. Ua kom hnub tsis muaj yus, kom tsuas cov nyob tom qab nco yus hos-
Tus txiv tsev aw yog tau ibtug mob li koj hais ces yeej tu siab heev li os
Koj yeej yog ibtug txiv zoo kawg li txawj xav hlub koj koj tsev neeg heev
Thiaj li hais txij hais txhua rau pojniam menyuam os.. thov Vajtswv pab koj kom koj tej mob nkeeg zoo nawb
Koj yeej tsis tau thov kev pab os
Tabsis qhia koj tias mus yuav cov tshuaj uas hmoob coob tus ua members muag ntau xyoo dhau los lawm es hmoob hu npe tias ( tshuaj kua pobzeb kua nceb )
muab 2 yam no sibtim haus ibhnub 3 zaug 1 set haus 30 hnub yog ntxim koj tus mob ces haus 2-3 set xwb koj zoo lawm os .. yog mob cancer los yog qog noj ntshav.. kuv haus zoo rau mob cancer tsev menyuam lawm..
tus nus txhob tu siab. thov lub ntuj pab koj komj zoo mog.
Yes enjoy life once you have an illness money is worthless and once your gone someone else will spend your hard working money people
Txawm yog zoo liko thiaj hai tia yuavtsum ntseeg VAJTSWV thiab hlub yus tsev neeg hlub cov neeg txomnyem cov neeg pluag yus thiaj muaj kev zoo siab txawm yog yus yuav nyob ntev nyob luv hauv lub ntiajteb no los yus yeej muaj kev kajsiab dua thiab yus sab ntsujplig yuav nyob ntawm yus tus TSWV thiab nws yuav coj yus txoj hauv kev.rov qab mus tsev no.
Txoj kev tuag dhia tsis dhau xav mas tu siab dhau lawm
Cas nej zaj neej neeg yuav tu siab ua luaj tug txiv ntsawm ntxob tu siab nawb vim peb ua neej nyob hauv ntiaj teb no leej twg los yuav tuag xwb os kuv mloog koj zaj neej neeg mag kuv tu siab heev li thiab vim kuv los muaj mob thiab
Nothing in life is forever, only Jesus is everlasting. Seek Jesus not a second wife.
Tu me nus koj hai tshaj plaw li lawm os mog . Me nus aw
Sad to hear your story but never give up fighting for. Have faith that you will be cure. Yeeb dub in Laos cured many people with cancer in the past…wish you luck…😩👍🤠!
Tus txiv tsev aw pab koj tu siab heev li os mog. Txawm li cas los koj muaj muaj mob lawm es txhob xav ntau ntau nawb thiab txhob tu siab os. Pab koj tu siab heev nawb mog
Nrog koj tus tusiab os mog tus mitxiv tsev. Yexus Loves you...!
Smart man. It's good that u divided your money among your kids and wife. It's not like she is not getting a penny. U left her some money and assets too. I think it's best for u to divide the money like this while you're alive. Once you're gone, u know your wife might not even give to your kids. I agree with what u did. She shouldn't mind either bc the money goes to her kids, no one else.
I agree, regardless of the dying person is husband or wife, the one behind may give it all to her/his new partner. I’m saying that because I’ve seen too many who’s done that.
Tus me txiv tsev aw ua ca koj yuav tu siab ua luaj naj tsi txhob tu tu siab os nyias muaj nyias hmoov os mog tej zaum yus ho yuav yeej txoj kev mob kev nkeeg os mog
Yog txhua yam koj hais os nyiaj yeej yuav tsis tau yus txoj sia tiag es sib hlub mog!pqb koj tu siab kawg uas koj tau ib tug mob phem os..
Saib nyiaj tsis muaj nqis rau yus lawm. Vim tias thaum tuag lawm ces coj tsis tau nyiaj mus nrog yus hlo li nawb. Ua neeg nyob ces yuavtsum hlub yus tus kheej es siv tej nyiaj kom tsimnyog yug los hauv ntiajteb no thiaj li tsis txog lig. Nco ntsoov people need people nowadays because in the end, they will all come together to comfort & support each other’s funeral.
Listening to story, it tells me that there’s not love in his marriage and afraid that his wife will be rich after his death. Sorry to hear your story and hope you will this battle!
I agreed with you uncle! Cancer is a terrible thing. 😢. May God blessed you so you will get well again. 😢
Txoj sia muaj nuj nqis tshaj li os
Leave nothing to your life partner that worked along side with to even have all that money lol. What a fool. So jealous of his wife, he acted as if they both died just bc he is going to.
I can listen to this story anymore !!!!
I am all for setting up financial funds and getting legal papers together for matters like this. We do not see the future so please put your trust in good faith ppl and set things up for yourself, your children, and your spouses. Do it when you are still mentally able and can coherently understand what you are doing. You never know who is the tiger lurking in the tall grass waiting to jump at you because you inherited large sums of funds or assets from a decease love one.
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Dear Sir,
You just gave the best life advice to all the world: the greatest wealth is health & youth so enjoy your life as you journey through life. Finally, I'm so happy you touched up on giving to charities. Thank you for your advice and life lessons. May you have the best life ahead of you and find peace when its your time to ascend to another journey.
Yog hais tias koj tus poj niam yog tus mob li ko ces ntshe koj twb nyob tom nplog lawm os, tab sis vim yog koj es koj tus niam thiaj tseem nyob hlub koj thiab tus koj xwb os.
Yog kawg mloog tus txiv tsev no qee yam kuj yog feem ntau yog nws khib dhau twb tsis hlub tus pojniam ntshai tsam pojniam coj mus noj tas xav li nws mam phem tshaj nws xav li nws tus yawg yij tus maum twb tsis tau tuag twb mus lawm ces tu siab kawg
That’s true bc he said in the beginning that he had everything but he still secretly wants a niam yau.
Neb ob leeg sib hlub los khwv npaj rau lub neej, thaum kawg koj tseg 100,000 dollars rau poj niam xwb. How long this money will last her. Kuv yog nws mas kuv tu siab rau koj vim YOU gave away over 1 million dollars. Koj txoj kev khib koj yuav ua rau koj poj niam tu siab txog hnub kawg. You did not love her, you are a very jealous man. You are totally forgot her hardwork.
Agree with you 💯
Hais Tau tus siab tiag tiag.
My husband and I will be changing our life insurance, pension and 401k from what we had designated when we were younger to when we hit our early 50s. When we were younger, everything was divided evenly with our children and spouse left behind.
We feel that as we are older..the remaining spouse will need the financial help. As the children will be in their prime, we've taught them to provide for themselves. Each child will still get some money but the bulk of it will go to the remaining spouse.
That's how it should be! Fair enough.....
Peb ua neej nyob yuav yog txhob muaj2 nyiaj thiab os yog muaj2 nyiaj ces lub yeej koob yeej huam Tsi duav nawv mog, txhua tus muaj nyiaj ces neej puas, muaj nyiaj ces neej Tsi kawg ces yog tus neeg ntawm hmoov Tsi duav nawv mog 😢😢txhob rawm tag kev cia siab os brother
Tej laus muaj ib los lus hais tias , luag qhia yus tsis cuag yus qhia yus tus kheej yog peb thiaj pheej hais or khuv xim thaum kawg "yog kuv paub li". The best medicine is hope. Good luck bro
Dude koj yog ib tus neeg qia dub heev li os!
Koj thiaj yog ib txiv zoo zoo tiag li os
Your wife also contributed to all of your assets. I will be pissed! Especially, because I have my own career and have contributed to building this life together with my husband.
He probably wouldn't feel this way if it was the other way around.
He isn't even thinking about his wife's committment to him all those years. She definitely deserves all the money you both worked for.
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Someone needs tell his wife to sue this not-so-good-man for her portion of all the assets that they have. This is lawless. I hope she or her relatives see this and help her sue him for what's hers. If there is really a karma then this story on youtube here is because it helps her and people who know her realize that this is not right and to sue him or pay back time for him.
Txhob tag kev Cia siab os..tus uncle.nyias muaj nyias ib txoj hmoo os.tus mob2 tau tso lub ntiaj teb lawm los twb muaj.tus mob2 zoo lawm los yeej coob tus.cov mob li ko ko tsis txhob nyuaj2 siab yog koj muaj kev nyuaj2 siab ces Haj yam huam loj nawj.koj yuav tau lees txais thiab ua kev to taub rau tus mob no ces tsis ua rau koj lub zog poob2 os.yog yus txoj hmoob tsis los li no yeej yuav tsum muaj ib yam yuav cawm tau koj xwb2 li os.
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Tus Niam tais awe phem thiab siab me li koj tus txiv no ces, txhob nco thiab hlub tag tag thiab nawm…..zoo qhov nws qhia siab tag tag ua ntej nws tuag es koj tiaj li tsis nkim nkim koj lub kua muag quaj
Txhob tag kev cia siab. Noj kom zoo thiab exercise.
cov neeg nyob laus laus ces tsi yog muaj moo yog tseem tshuav kev npam them tsi tau tag thiaj nyob laus laus yog cov tuag hluas hluas ces tus ntawm tsi muaj kev npam tus ntawm thiaj tuag mus lawm ua rau sawv daws khuv xim os
Nrog koj tu siab tshaj plawm li os tus grandpa aws.
So sad 😭😭
Ntuj aw!!! Cas nej cov txiv neej mas nej yog tus mob mas nej tsuas ntshai rwg tsam poj niam tau nyiaj kheej xwb hos yog peb poj niam mob mas nej nrhiav kev ua hluas xwb zoo li nej siab tsis ncaj kiag li as. Thiab yog khib ces kav tsij muab hlawv ua ntej es tuag ces mam mus siv hauv dab teb os.
When you have money use it!!! When you don’t have money don’t use it!! Money is just a tool. Wake up people!!
Yeap. That’s why I Donation my money at work every year go to cancer association community and heart failure association cause I want to help those people who had cancer and heart problems or heart failure.
Stop being selfish people. It doesn't matter men or women, every one need a partner in life. Tsis txhob khib2 thiab mas, tab txawm yog koj Los koj neej yuav mus nrhiav dua ib tug tshiab thiab os.
Your biggest life regret is not what you didn’t do while you are alive. It will be what you did to your wife when you’re on your death bed. Your wife is the person who has shared every sorrow and joy with you. Whose hands, body and sweat contributed to the accumulation of your marital assets. Stripping her of everything because of your jealousy rage that once you’re gone she will find love again is truly petty and self-centered. You never once considered how hard life with be for her when you’re not around. She spent the best of her years earning and saving with you and now you want to leave her financially strap after you died. If you truly love someone and you know you are not going to be around; you would ensure their financial comfort if you had the means to do so. You’re too selfish and self-centered and wasted your last breaths destroying the one person who bear half of life’s burden with you. I believe these decisions will become your greatest life regrets.
Agreed
cov txiv tsev tus zoo.los zoo npaum li tus phem los.phem kom tuag nthi OS hmoob
😢😢😢😢 cov muaj muaj mob ces yeej xav txhij ntim txhua
This is a sad story and I can related to it. Why is life so unfair? Why the good people are the one that get sickness? Please try to be positive and pray for the best brother.
you are one smart man, yes you can do whatever you like with your money. I applaud.
Life is precious. I hope you take it day by day and be strong. Just remember when we leave our life partner behind and they deserve your care even after death.
Koj yeej tsis hlub koj niag poj niam npaum koj hais os...yog koj hlub koj yeej tsis ua li kov rau nws!!!
Gosh
So coooooockie
This is such a sad story, but please stop worrying and being jealous of your wife. I'm hoping a miracle for you to get better soon.
Tus brother kuv pab koj tus niamtsev tusiab os, you shouldn’t never judge her that she will be spending both of your money to someone else.., very selfish of you thinking about her life after you are gone, you should encourage her to live on
Agreed
Ua cas yuav hais cuag li ua koj poj niam tsis tau nrog koj khwv li.
Sorry this guy has an illness that's probably not curable but dang he really is sour about what his wife is gonna have or do once he is gone. Shouldn't he be worried that his kids will all move on and have lives of their own..they will leave the nest and leave his wife who will have no one so yes she will probably find another partner. Women usually take it slow to find another partner where as men can't even wait the gravestone is place and the grass is green. We buy life insurance to ensure that our surviving spouse is taken care of. What she does with it is on her.
Muaj tseeb brother kuv tus tijlaug muaj nyiaj li koj mob li koj mob ntag nws tuag tas nws tus niam mus tham tau ib tug mus2 zos khab ces ob xyoos xwb vajtse poob tag rov los xaub tsev nyob xwb tiag xav mas yeej tu siab kawg li os khwv tau nyiaj los yuav tau siv thiab thiaj tsim nyog qhov khwv2 os
Cas koj yuav txawj hais txhij hais txhua li os tus nus aw. yeej yog li koj hais kawg. txhua lo lus yeej yog tagnrho. yus khwv2 ib sim neej tabsis hnub yus tuag, lwm tus sab nrauv yuav los siv yus tej nyiaj yam lawv tsis tau khwv li. cov ntse uas txawj muab faib rau cov menyuam muaj tsawg heev li os. feem coob ces lawv nqa mus pub rau lwm tus uas tsis tau khwv noj xwb. cov uas tuag tsaug zog haj yam tsis muaj lub sijhawm muab nws cov nyiaj faib rau nws cov menyuam li koj.
Please love ur wife too
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Every dying person wish. What I don't understand is that folks don't learn from other people experiences and live life to the fullest until it's too late. We can't take any valuable with us but the memories. Invest in trips and a good quality camera and go! Take every picture you can and go everywhere with your camera. Don't wait until your dying days to start capturing those memories and making time for each other. Even if the trip is a day, a week, or a month do it while you still can. Try out new food and experience because money can always be made and money will come when you have good health.
Wow, this guy has such greed for his wife!! Why is he even concern about the finances after he is gone? Really, I am sure their financial success was not made and earn by him only. He need to be considerate of his wife’s financial after he is gone too. If he was in his wife shoes, he would most definitely demand the majority of their assets.
Pab tu siab os. Yog yus tsis nyob nws qhov shoes ces tsis paub os.
I bet if it was his wife who was sick, he wouldn't have split the money and kept it all to himself. Smh! How selfish of him as if he was the only one who contributed to the marriage and their life.
Txhua tus paub hnub nyob xwb tsis paub hnub mus hlo li nawb. Tuag hnub tws ces mus txij ntawd xwb. Nyob ua neej mas txomnyem tshaj plaws rau yav laus lawm. Ntxov mus ntxov tau zoo xwb tiag.
He's a bit selfish. The wife deserves to have half of the money. I agree the kids need some money for start but not that much. She's getting old and need to live comfortable. Such a declare of undying love???
I'm all about living life to the fullest but this man sure is selfish when it comes to his wife. She built that life with you yet you don't care about her happiness after you. I will want my husband to move on and live again after me happily.
tus kwv tij ua koj muaj muaj mob cas koj tsis los ntseeg VAJTSWV es lwm hnub koj thiaj yuav tau txoj sia mus ib txhis thiaj muaj txoj kev cia siab lawm tom ntej, txhua yam nyob ntiaj teb tsuas yog ib vuag dua xwb