Hnub No Koj Mam Khuv Xim Peb~04/19/2024~
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 18 เม.ย. 2024
- Hmong Audio Story (Drama) original content created by this channel - Mab Vaj Channel. Please do not copy this to any other channel without my permission.
Story description: She left her family when the kids were still young and came back to beg for forgiveness when sickness strikes her. - บันเทิง
To all the men and women, this is what happened when you abandoned your kids
You and your siblings don't owe any loyalty or love for your mother who abandoned you and your siblings. If she actually loved you kids, she would have stayed in contact with you guys in the 20 years she was gone, but she didn't because you kids meant nothing to her----she hated your dad so by extension she hated you kids. You were correct in saying that if her life were still great with her Miskas husband, then she would still be silent where you and your siblings are concerned. She just wants to use you kids now that she has no one other than her parents! Don't let her and your niamtais guilt trip you guys because you have nothing to be guilty of; if anyone is guilty of something, it's your mother!
You did the right thing. Forget about your mom, she didn’t love you guys so it’s best to ignore her, don’t take her back.
Good job! Finally a son that stood up for what’s right instead of cowardly to the corrupted Hmong system. Yes she has issue with your dad but she didn’t need to abandon you guys as her children. People need to be held accountable for their action - else people will keep repeating this disgusting action knowing they will get a free pass at the end.
Good you guys do not owe her nor obligated to care for her
Cuddles to your father. Your father is so much better off without your mother. He deserved a happy life. Glad your new stepmother is a good woman to your father and you guys. Y'all deserved to be happy and live life without stress and all the bs your mother brought.
Karma will seek its due.
Tshaws rab loj ntau yog kuv ce lawb
Koj yog ib tug tub uas txiav txim tau siab yog kawg nkaus lawm.
Tus uas yug tau ib tug menyuam tsis tau txhais hais tias nws yog ib leej niam uas zoo. Tus uas yog ib leej niam uas zoo tiag yog tus hlub thiab pub rau noj thiab quav ntsej txog tus menyuam ntawd, tus ntawd thiaj yog ib leej niam tiag lihais.
Tus tub aw nyob li ntawm nej cov menyuam ces koj niam lam los yug tau nej ua li hmoob ib txwm hais os nws tsuas ua kom zoo nws nyob es cia li muaj nej xwb na es nej ces yog tsis muaj nej txiv los tu nej ces nuaj hnub hnub no ntshai xyov nej cov kwv tij nkauj muam xyov nej ntshai nej ib leeg twb nug tsis tau ib leeg moo li lawm es nej ces zoo li pab tsiaj nyob tsis muaj tswv leej twg xav tua tus twg noj los cia li tua xwb zoo li koj niam ces hnub no nws tsis tau chaw tuag lawm nws thiaj li nug nej moo xwb nej tsis hlub nws los yeej tsis muaj kev txhaum dab tsi li nej ces zoo ib yam li Av tawg pleb nej tawm los xwb na cia nws tuag nws tus neeg siab phem li ko tsis tas yuav mus nkim nej lub caij mus saib nws ua tus tsi li os.
Tus me nus aw, yeej mob siab thaum xav txog yav tag los uas nej niam tau tso nej pov tseg, tab sis yuav tau kawm “zam txim rau nws” es thiaj tsis mob mob yus lub siab. “
Zam txim rau nej niam” tsis pes hais tias yuav tau muab yav tag los lwv pov tseg; tsuas pev hais tias yus zam txim rau nws kom yus dim txoj kev yus tsim txom yus tus kheej, yus lub siab, lub plawv xav txog nws txoj kev tsis hlub yus. Zam txim kom yus kab siab rau yus tus kheej xwb os mog.
(-niam Anthony)
When people leave you like they don’t care, it’s hard to find love in your heart to forgive and love them back again! You can’t get time back but memories last a lifetime! 😮😢❤🎉
As a mom, I can’t leave my kids so I know his pain! I always joke to my kids & say to them,”IMMA Go, Bye but I look into my kids eyes and realize I’m all they got, if they with their dad; GOD knows what can go wrong; just saying!!
In the end she finally realized the real truth marrying the other kind. When they are done with you, they just say get the hell out.
You don’t need to do anything for your mom but you do need to forgive her. Forgiving your mom is not for her but for yourself so that you can live in peace. Give her grace.
A mother like that doesn’t deserve your love. Yes you are right, if her husband didn’t divorce her, she would have never seek you guys. There is no karma on you.
Brother, you don't own her anything. She's only sorry because her life is f*ckup...
You did right thing. I don’t blame you. You are thoughtful
Brother, you made the right decision. Someone who was not there for you at your worst does not deserve you at your best. Save your love and loyalty for your father who sacrificed much and put you and your siblings before his own happiness. You witnessed your father’s struggles first hand and understand better than anyone. Please be at peace with the way things are. Remember that this was the path your mother chose.
I don't know if I would be able to forgive my mother if that ever happened to me, so you did the right thing. If she had a good life, she wouldn't have come back claiming that she missed her children.
Tsim nyog lawm. Vim koj niam xyob txhiaj dhau
Koj ua Yog lawm. There is consequence for every decision that we make.
Karma got her! You don't owe her anything.
Koj yuam kev lawm o
Boy, I’m on your side!
How dare she says you guys still have to love her, she didn’t even care to love you guys and left you guys like you guys don’t come out of her. God will bless those act right
Paub zoo tias thaum g muaj niam lawm nej tsim txom npaum cas tab sis ho xav me2 txog thaum nej liab ntsa tsuas nej niam tau tu2 nej no os lawv aw....
G yuam kom hlub ntau2 tab sis ho hlub me2 thiab mog
I totally agree with you brother.
Amen to this brother
Txawm zoo thiab phem los yuav tau sib zam txim es ntuj thiaj zam txim rau yus thiab vim nws yog yus niam ib zaum lawm
Agree with u 💯
Tej lus koj niam hais los yeej yog lawm thiab thaum nej yau nws yeej hlub hlub nej txog thaum nws muaj kev hlub npog qhov muag lawm nws thiaj tsis nco qab hlub nej lawm xwb. Tab sis yog tsis muaj nej txiv hlub hlub nej nws nim tu tu nej loj tiav hlaub tiav ces tag ces ntshe nej twb txom txom nyem os mog kav tsij hlub nej txiv kom ntau tshaj plaws li nej txawm tsis hlub nej niam los tsis muaj teeb meem dab tsi os, tej lus nws hais thiab niam tais hais tias tej teeb meem no yog koj txiv thiab nkawd li xwb tsis yog nej tab sis nws twb tsis hlub nej nws thiaj khiav lawm ne ces haj tsis yog nej teeb meem tib sis los mas.
U guys can be hmong leader coming up, respected
Grandma is always pull the guilt trip. But in the case you don’t need to feel any guilt. Move on with your life. Good job son. Your mom make her own decisions and it is her responsibility to accept the outcome of her life.
Rab loj ntev tseem ceeb rau poj niam heev nyiaj kub twb pauv tsi tau
No one wears your shoes so they wouldn’t understand. I know how it feels like bc I’m in a similar situation. Nej yeej tsis npam ib zaug li os. Tus npam ces koj niam xwb.
Koj ua yog lawm yog nws yeej tsis hlub nej thaum me tam sim no mam los nrhiav nej xwb ces pab tsis tau koj niam vim nws twb tsis hlub nej
tsov tsw tom tsov.kom yog koj niam ua txhaum rau nej.nej thiaj tsw zam tswm. yog nej txiv ua txhaum. nub no twb hu kwv tij tuaj yuam koj niam lawm
Koj niam mas ruam tsab ntses kawg yom. Tiam sim no ces tsuas muaj qhov khuv xim li khuv xim lawm xwb os. Feel so sad for your dad 😢.
Ua li koj ua yog lawm.
I bet she never tried the "you'll be cursed if you don't care for me" threat with her half white daughter
Is this the son's version of the mom's story the other day??
You did the right thing. I agreed with your father and you are not wrong for turning your back on your mom. Karma’s a bitch.
I hate how old people say a divorce has nothing to do w the kids. It does!!!! And the mom left w out a second look. It would have been different if she still tried to have a relationship w them but she didn’t.
He he! NCO NIAM TXIAJ NTSIG, MY BUTT, YOU DID THE RIGHT THING, I WOULD HATE MY MOM TOO EVENTHOUGH SHE GAVE ME LIFE, BUT SHE ABANDONED US. ZAMTXIM BUT NO CARE FOR HER.
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So sad for your mom. Oh, well she should have think twice before she abandoned her family. She made her own choice so why should she turn around to have regrets now that her life is hell. She is old n sick. Her husband n daughter abandoned her just like she abandoned you n siblings. Now she knows how it feels. Don't know how she had the face to ask for forgiveness. She should b praying to God asking him for forgiveness for the horrible things that she did.
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Oh nej cov me nyuam ua tsis yog lawm os teeb meej yog ob tug laus xwb os cov me nyuam nej siab phem tiag . Nej txiv ntiab nej niam khiav nes. Yof lawm cov tub yeej tsis hlub cov niam. Yog lawv txiv ua mas lawv tseem hlub mas
Nej niam phem ces yug nej thiaj phem phem li nej niam.
Koj niam yeej tsis tsim txiaj puag thaum hluas los lawm, koj niam mas siab phem kawg nkaus li nawb. Txawm nej cov me nyuam sis hlub koj niam los yeej tsis npam nej li os....tam sim no ces twb npam koj niam lawm ntag lau.
Brother, you did the right thing. Niam tais has a personal interest in helping her own daughter, by forcing you to help her daughter. The lady who gave birth to you is no longer your mother. Mother is not just by giving birth to a child, a mother is one who performs her motherly duties to care and raise her children. Stop talking to your niam tais and this lady, the more you talk to them the more they will curse you.
Raise your kids not to have self-hate because of their Hmong heritage.
You are not a bad son for rejecting your mother. If she truly loved you guys, she would have made every effort to be a part of your life. She left you guys thinking that she would never need you. She disowned you guys so it’s ok for you to do the same to her. As a mother myself, I would never have the heart to abandon my children even if it doesn’t work out with my husband.
If her husband didn't leave her, she wouldn't come looking for you and your siblings. Keep that in mind. You owe her nothing. Her words to curse you goes nowhere as she didn't raise you guys.
Idk , I know what she did is wrong but I think I would forgive her .. I wouldn’t leave the world for her but I would allow her to see my family .. I have a dad who left us when I was 5 years old to remarried another women .. I know we went through hell with my mom but now that my dad past away i did regret not being able to see him and call him dad for the last time ..
I don't blame you for not caring for your mom. She did it to herself.
She turned her back on her babies you owe her nothing!
You are not wrong for not forgiving your mom. Forgiveness isn’t an easy thing to do when someone has wrong you. However, there’s so many good things that can comes out when forgiveness happen. Let’s just say, how nice it would be if you wronged someone and they forgave you? Just trying to put things in perspective for you brother.
She didn't deserve your kids love. Block her
Tus niam tais thiab tus niam no tseem muab guilt rau cov me nyuam thiab. Do they know how much the children have been suffered when she abandoned them. Hmoob need to stop saying, niam thiab txiv giving birth, and lawv nim yog lub ntuj, no! Giving birth does give parents the right to be god. God is love, when there's no love, there's only devil.
Ur mom is right when she said the problem was between her and ur dad, not the kid’s problem. So according to her own words, when she decided to leave ur dad, she still suppose to be responsible to be a mother to you kids bc u guys did nothing wrong. But SHE MADE IT THE KIDS PROBLEMS TOO by leaving all the kids along with ur dad. You don’t need to be there for her. She made that choice and this is the consequences.
She’s trying to guilt trip you guys. Your siblings were right! If her white man and white kid loved her she wouldn’t even care about you guys.
Your mom's loss...at the time, she thought about between her legs and money only. ..she didnt about the long run....that we we're not young forever...
Jeff Bezos "Amazon Billionaire Owner" didn't give a fuck about his real dad whom abandon him when he was a kid.
You did the right thing bro.
God probably don't even forgive your mom too unless she repent her sins to God himself.
You're a human, your mom give birth to you, but abandoned you guys since you were a little kid.
You won't get any karma, love your dad and your new mom, you'll be bless more by God.
Brother, you stayed strong for yourself n your family. She deserves everything that happened to her. Don’t ever feel bad about not giving your mom time. She didn’t give you any. Like you, I have respect for my mom because she gave me life. But the guilt trip she be putting through to get what she wants! I’m over it! Move on n have your best life!
Koj yuav tsum tau hlub ib qho me me thiab
Koj siab phem tiag2 li
Anyone can make a baby, but it takes a parent to raise one.
Koj ua yog lawm os mi tub