What I noticed about these stories, for the most part: Most of the women ended the date in a passive-aggressive manner, whereas the men tended to be more direct, but not by much. Having someone call you & pretending to have an emergency is passive-aggressive. It may do the job, but it's also why people keep calling you for weeks afterwards. I understand that men can be scary to confront when they don't seem to be "all there" & you don't know them well. I liked the way the woman who drank her Margaritas did it. Started out passive-aggressive, but once her taxi was there, told him the date was over, in the act of taking his pic & telling him why, let him know he was scary AF & put him on notice not to bother her again, then left. Bravo for her.
11:04 Yep, happened to me too. "Have you met our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ?" I laughed. I thought she was making a joke since my dating profile clearly said Atheist. Noped out shortly after that.
I'd take a date to the water park (with dolphins) and arrange for someone in a dolphin costume (only because it would take too long to train an actual dolphin to do it) to just show up and start talking about "Poseidon, our lord and saviour". In a completely serious tone and everything. If she doesn't burst out laughing, we're not compatible.
I only walked out in the midst of one date, after throwing the rest of my beer in his face, then walked back home, and dumped the friends who set me up with him. Unfortunately, it's important to know these two things about me: I'm white & I was working towards my MA in US History in a southern state at the time; my MA thesis concerned the desegregation of Major League Baseball. Obviously, in university towns, you'll find pockets of highly-educated people, and I trusted people I worked with off campus. So my coworker set me up with her friend, and she & her husband made it a double-date, but just for the ride to the bar/restaurant. During this date, as we discuss what I'm doing there (because I'm not from that state), it's becoming more argumentative as I'm constantly correcting his understanding of US history (not opinion - just basic factual information). But the final straw was when he started telling me that slavery was actually GOOD for n-words because the masters fed & clothed them & took care of them & at this point I stop listening to his bigoted drivel (I'd learned about this post-slavery justification tactic, BTW, it wasn't a surprise to me, it just sickened me to hear someone who actually believed it). That's when I had no more words, I just threw my beer in his face, got up & walked out the door, then walked the 3 miles back to my apartment. Called the friends who set me up with him (they were all still out), left them a message that, if that's the kind of sh*t they believed, they could kiss my *ss, and never spoke to them again, even at work. Still proud of myself for standing by my ethics.
I had 2 thoughts while listening to these: 1) is this species just bound & determined to die off from inability to socialize? 2) thank goodness sex is a natural urge, because if it relied on social graces, we would really be on the endangered list. Are we just becoming a bunch of narcissistic loners who can't understand how we come across to others? You know there are people who laugh at stories & memes like this, then turn around and act just like this. No social skills or self-awareness. 🙄
Met a single mom over a dating website back about 20yrs ago. I knew she was a single mom, but arrived to pick her up and her baby was pretty much only a few weeks old. She lived in a bare little apartment over a grocery store (looks like she hadn't been there long), and her sad-looking father was her babysitter. It was kind of awkward. I didn't wanna be rude by cancelling immediately and we left to go on a date, and decided we'd just park for a bit to chat while we decided what to do (movie/dinner/etc.) - She starts telling me her 'story' about how a guy in her friend group added a drug to her drink while they were out clubbing, raped her while she was basically out of it...and she fell pregnant. She didn't want to have the guy charged with rape because she didn't want her kid stigmatized later in life. She'd been her father's little princess and he was destroyed that his little angel got pregnant (i forget if he knew she'd been date-raped, or just thought she'd engaged willingly) - anyway...the whole time she was talking she was chewing gum and had white foam gathering at the corner of her mouth. She also talked about how she had got a caesarean section when having her child recently and how the doctor/surgeon did a terrible job sewing her back up, and her stitches recently burst and were seeping... I kindly ended the date and encouraged her concentrate on looking after her child and consider reporting that guy for rape, because he will definitely do that to other young women in the future - but she prob wasn't going to report him....
Yeh, I'm pressing X to doubt. R@pe children haven't been "stigmatised by society" for a very long time. Guy found out she was pregnant and split before you could say "child support".
That was sad - tbh, I understand why she didn't report him. Women are made to feel like, if we participated in ANY WAY - if we accepted a date, a drink, flirted, kissed them, etc., willingly - then we were complicit & law enforcement will make us feel worse than we already do. Why? Because that's what used to happen. And we aren't over that yet. They still do that in some places. Yes, not reporting does leave a rapist out there, but sometimes so does reporting, and then everyone knows you were raped plus he's still free. Not saying it's right, just it's how we've been conditioned in society. She probably just wanted to feel wanted and appreciated again, despite most likely the self-loathing going on deep inside.
Op 1. I get the feeling with vodka but don't turn to alcohol go down gradually look into moderation management meetings daily. every time enjoy a funny cat video or a walk. You deserve better than that girl my ex said be bigger as im very small with a 21 inch waist id put on 10 pound of muscle was 22 at normal weight he didn't get it. He triggered me to want to relapsed. I reached out to my parents, saving grace. I get laughed at for my extremely small body. My shoulders and hips are a 30 and 5 foot 1. I learned to alter clothes and buy plain kids clothes and buy really small adult clothes but it hurts. I have to wear platforms to stop me standing on pants on dresses. Alcohol gets less fun over time. I got to dependence. 4 detoxes. Substance use disorder. There's now hope. I can walk past an alcohol aisle now no problem. Im now rehabilitated now 1.5 years. Enjoy that one glass as slow as possible and never when sad or in pain and if you cant cut ut out. The green monster taste just like it but just have one as bad for tge ticker. Get pain sorted. I used it with neuro condition ended up in the hospital. I realised I needed to take better care of my neurological condition. Hope I have helped.
i went to the movies with a date, sat down and after 10 mins of the worst acting ive ever seen. I stood up and said "im sorry but your not worth it" that movie was twilight
Men: “she was arrogant and/a gold fodder” with just a hint of “dumb/creepy” Women: “he was creepy” and/or “he tried to do sexual stuff” There, video over lol.
PSA: Forcing a person to do something against their will doesn't make one "dominant", it makes one a kuhnt. Also dictators aren't "leaders". A leader doesn't ever have to hold a gun to your head to get you to follow him.
What I noticed about these stories, for the most part:
Most of the women ended the date in a passive-aggressive manner, whereas the men tended to be more direct, but not by much.
Having someone call you & pretending to have an emergency is passive-aggressive. It may do the job, but it's also why people keep calling you for weeks afterwards. I understand that men can be scary to confront when they don't seem to be "all there" & you don't know them well. I liked the way the woman who drank her Margaritas did it. Started out passive-aggressive, but once her taxi was there, told him the date was over, in the act of taking his pic & telling him why, let him know he was scary AF & put him on notice not to bother her again, then left. Bravo for her.
11:04 Yep, happened to me too. "Have you met our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ?" I laughed. I thought she was making a joke since my dating profile clearly said Atheist. Noped out shortly after that.
They'll deliberately target atheists, thinking they can convert us.
I'd take a date to the water park (with dolphins) and arrange for someone in a dolphin costume (only because it would take too long to train an actual dolphin to do it) to just show up and start talking about "Poseidon, our lord and saviour". In a completely serious tone and everything.
If she doesn't burst out laughing, we're not compatible.
Story 4: well, I'd rather know on the first date, wouldn't you?
I only walked out in the midst of one date, after throwing the rest of my beer in his face, then walked back home, and dumped the friends who set me up with him.
Unfortunately, it's important to know these two things about me: I'm white & I was working towards my MA in US History in a southern state at the time; my MA thesis concerned the desegregation of Major League Baseball. Obviously, in university towns, you'll find pockets of highly-educated people, and I trusted people I worked with off campus. So my coworker set me up with her friend, and she & her husband made it a double-date, but just for the ride to the bar/restaurant. During this date, as we discuss what I'm doing there (because I'm not from that state), it's becoming more argumentative as I'm constantly correcting his understanding of US history (not opinion - just basic factual information). But the final straw was when he started telling me that slavery was actually GOOD for n-words because the masters fed & clothed them & took care of them & at this point I stop listening to his bigoted drivel (I'd learned about this post-slavery justification tactic, BTW, it wasn't a surprise to me, it just sickened me to hear someone who actually believed it). That's when I had no more words, I just threw my beer in his face, got up & walked out the door, then walked the 3 miles back to my apartment. Called the friends who set me up with him (they were all still out), left them a message that, if that's the kind of sh*t they believed, they could kiss my *ss, and never spoke to them again, even at work. Still proud of myself for standing by my ethics.
10,55 how was OP let in with a COW?
Cow means Shit.
Its the weirdest word substitute
“blah blah blah blah blah I grabbed my cow blah blah blah[...]”
Wait... WHAT?!?
WTF is wrong with people?! They haven't been housebroken! 😂😂😂😂😂
I had 2 thoughts while listening to these:
1) is this species just bound & determined to die off from inability to socialize?
2) thank goodness sex is a natural urge, because if it relied on social graces, we would really be on the endangered list.
Are we just becoming a bunch of narcissistic loners who can't understand how we come across to others? You know there are people who laugh at stories & memes like this, then turn around and act just like this. No social skills or self-awareness. 🙄
Forceful guy: OMG NO. I guess at least he warned you but that's terrifying.
Story 1 is a gem 😂😂😂
Met a single mom over a dating website back about 20yrs ago. I knew she was a single mom, but arrived to pick her up and her baby was pretty much only a few weeks old. She lived in a bare little apartment over a grocery store (looks like she hadn't been there long), and her sad-looking father was her babysitter. It was kind of awkward. I didn't wanna be rude by cancelling immediately and we left to go on a date, and decided we'd just park for a bit to chat while we decided what to do (movie/dinner/etc.) - She starts telling me her 'story' about how a guy in her friend group added a drug to her drink while they were out clubbing, raped her while she was basically out of it...and she fell pregnant. She didn't want to have the guy charged with rape because she didn't want her kid stigmatized later in life. She'd been her father's little princess and he was destroyed that his little angel got pregnant (i forget if he knew she'd been date-raped, or just thought she'd engaged willingly) - anyway...the whole time she was talking she was chewing gum and had white foam gathering at the corner of her mouth. She also talked about how she had got a caesarean section when having her child recently and how the doctor/surgeon did a terrible job sewing her back up, and her stitches recently burst and were seeping...
I kindly ended the date and encouraged her concentrate on looking after her child and consider reporting that guy for rape, because he will definitely do that to other young women in the future - but she prob wasn't going to report him....
Yeh, I'm pressing X to doubt. R@pe children haven't been "stigmatised by society" for a very long time.
Guy found out she was pregnant and split before you could say "child support".
That was sad - tbh, I understand why she didn't report him. Women are made to feel like, if we participated in ANY WAY - if we accepted a date, a drink, flirted, kissed them, etc., willingly - then we were complicit & law enforcement will make us feel worse than we already do. Why? Because that's what used to happen. And we aren't over that yet. They still do that in some places. Yes, not reporting does leave a rapist out there, but sometimes so does reporting, and then everyone knows you were raped plus he's still free. Not saying it's right, just it's how we've been conditioned in society. She probably just wanted to feel wanted and appreciated again, despite most likely the self-loathing going on deep inside.
Op 1. I get the feeling with vodka but don't turn to alcohol go down gradually look into moderation management meetings daily. every time enjoy a funny cat video or a walk. You deserve better than that girl my ex said be bigger as im very small with a 21 inch waist id put on 10 pound of muscle was 22 at normal weight he didn't get it. He triggered me to want to relapsed. I reached out to my parents, saving grace. I get laughed at for my extremely small body. My shoulders and hips are a 30 and 5 foot 1. I learned to alter clothes and buy plain kids clothes and buy really small adult clothes but it hurts. I have to wear platforms to stop me standing on pants on dresses. Alcohol gets less fun over time. I got to dependence. 4 detoxes. Substance use disorder. There's now hope. I can walk past an alcohol aisle now no problem. Im now rehabilitated now 1.5 years. Enjoy that one glass as slow as possible and never when sad or in pain and if you cant cut ut out. The green monster taste just like it but just have one as bad for tge ticker. Get pain sorted. I used it with neuro condition ended up in the hospital. I realised I needed to take better care of my neurological condition. Hope I have helped.
i went to the movies with a date, sat down and after 10 mins of the worst acting ive ever seen.
I stood up and said "im sorry but your not worth it"
that movie was twilight
Men: “she was arrogant and/a gold fodder” with just a hint of “dumb/creepy”
Women: “he was creepy” and/or “he tried to do sexual stuff”
There, video over lol.
PSA: Forcing a person to do something against their will doesn't make one "dominant", it makes one a kuhnt.
Also dictators aren't "leaders". A leader doesn't ever have to hold a gun to your head to get you to follow him.
What's a Canadian tux?
Jean jacket & jeans.
I’m grabbing my cow and I’m LEAVING!
Mooooooooo!