I just admired how strong you are. I don't why but listening to what you said made me cry a lot.. I don't even have kids/husband and I'm not an adopted child but watching you and your loving family heals me.. I don't know why but I just wanna thank you so much for being so strong and sharing your hardships but wonderful stories to people.😊❤️
What a darling family..... I probably shouldn’t say this but here goes.... My mother was an alcoholic and she did not want a child- and that was me.... She basically dropped me off after I was born at a babysitter that was incredibly abusive for two years.. Judging from the outside, no one would ever guess some of the events that took place or just the complete loss of a parent... And the worse part is I loved her very, very much..... So I can understand not having a parent.... I never had any kids because I started drinking with my mother when I was 11 and got into recovery at 35.... I’m glad your boys have a forever family with parents that love them.... That’s a big part of the battle... Im sorry if I said anything inappropriate!!
@madamjaynie wow, thank you so much for sharing your story. I'm so sorry you went through that in your childhood. It's such a hard thing, being human. We all have our hardships/demons and hopefully your mother was able to pull through. You seem like you are very self-aware and caring and I hope that only good can come from your experiences. Thank you again for your vulnerability in sharing this.
The grieving process could take a lifetime. Speaking from personal experience. Even if the adoption took place when they were infants. The human infant remembers - even if he doesn't say so with his mouth. So, give them the extraordinary love they need so much.
I would like to let you know that I think what you and your husband are doing is wonderful raising kids is never easy and every child is different but they are all gifts from God. It is hard on its own but even harder when people are judging you and criticizing try not to let it bother you or disrupt your family's well being. Advice is always good but do not let judgement from people who do not understand your situation effect your happiness. Much love and sending prayers.
l d you are so kind, thank you so much for this. It’s crazy how our minds can work right? There are so many wonderful people but the few who say upsetting things can surely make you have a bad day. Thank you for reminding me to focus on the good and brush off the rest! Sending you lots of love!
tbh, the way of thinking that child own you anything for rising is pretty normal in biological(? idk how to call it, not to seem rude). Not that i justify this, but I think that is time to change the thinking to the way you told. Second thing is that about child(that young) losing one of the parents(or both), never thought about it that way. So, thank you. (im not even about to adopt, im far too young for this, but whatever xD)
@porwaniesabinek there are definitely a lot of similarities between biological parenting and parenting through adoption. I too wish some parents were required to take some of the same type of classes we had to take for adoption, because i learned a lot through the process. WIth that said, parents aren't perfect for sure. I'm definitely not! haha:) Thanks so much for the comment!
I just admired how strong you are. I don't why but listening to what you said made me cry a lot.. I don't even have kids/husband and I'm not an adopted child but watching you and your loving family heals me.. I don't know why but I just wanna thank you so much for being so strong and sharing your hardships but wonderful stories to people.😊❤️
What a darling family..... I probably shouldn’t say this but here goes.... My mother was an alcoholic and she did not want a child- and that was me.... She basically dropped me off after I was born at a babysitter that was incredibly abusive for two years.. Judging from the outside, no one would ever guess some of the events that took place or just the complete loss of a parent... And the worse part is I loved her very, very much..... So I can understand not having a parent.... I never had any kids because I started drinking with my mother when I was 11 and got into recovery at 35.... I’m glad your boys have a forever family with parents that love them.... That’s a big part of the battle... Im sorry if I said anything inappropriate!!
@madamjaynie wow, thank you so much for sharing your story. I'm so sorry you went through that in your childhood. It's such a hard thing, being human. We all have our hardships/demons and hopefully your mother was able to pull through. You seem like you are very self-aware and caring and I hope that only good can come from your experiences. Thank you again for your vulnerability in sharing this.
The grieving process could take a lifetime. Speaking from personal experience. Even if the adoption took place when they were infants. The human infant remembers - even if he doesn't say so with his mouth. So, give them the extraordinary love they need so much.
I would like to let you know that I think what you and your husband are doing is wonderful raising kids is never easy and every child is different but they are all gifts from God. It is hard on its own but even harder when people are judging you and criticizing try not to let it bother you or disrupt your family's well being. Advice is always good but do not let judgement from people who do not understand your situation effect your happiness. Much love and sending prayers.
l d you are so kind, thank you so much for this. It’s crazy how our minds can work right? There are so many wonderful people but the few who say upsetting things can surely make you have a bad day. Thank you for reminding me to focus on the good and brush off the rest! Sending you lots of love!
Thank you ❤️
That's exactly what I need about my research/process with adoption.
Anna W.B aww that’s awesome! Hope to be a help in anyway!
I hope you have a happy and safe life with your two boys!
I really like your honesty! Tks for the info :)
Thank you for sharing! :)
Why did you stop posting. This was one of my favorite TH-cam channel. I love to watch cubby.
thank you for your honesty
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tbh, the way of thinking that child own you anything for rising is pretty normal in biological(? idk how to call it, not to seem rude). Not that i justify this, but I think that is time to change the thinking to the way you told.
Second thing is that about child(that young) losing one of the parents(or both), never thought about it that way. So, thank you. (im not even about to adopt, im far too young for this, but whatever xD)
@porwaniesabinek there are definitely a lot of similarities between biological parenting and parenting through adoption. I too wish some parents were required to take some of the same type of classes we had to take for adoption, because i learned a lot through the process. WIth that said, parents aren't perfect for sure. I'm definitely not! haha:) Thanks so much for the comment!
Advice from an adoptee (if you are interested):
th-cam.com/video/itwruoG0n7A/w-d-xo.html