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Pls make a video on the possessiveness of grandparents for a new born baby and trying to replace the mother of the baby....trying to relive the time that has gone...and holding on the dominance in the household through the new baby...
Arre wah Sach mein this is a big issue in houses. Mein toh kehti hu let the grandparent keep the baby and aap naukri pe jao. Maine iss problem ka yeh solution nikala Toh automatic saasumaa ne baby ka kaam karna chod diya, possessive gayab hogai. Unko body pain yaad aagaya and tirth yatra pe jana hai, bhajan mein baba hai sab bahana baazi start kar di and I hired a nanny 😂 to help me Nehle pe dehla
Yes sir!! Absolutely correct. Father in law is the main culprits. After one point of time l realized the reality of my house that my mother-in law is not the villain. Her rude behaviour is because of my father in law and his mother. She is still struggling because of her mother in law who is 90 plus.
We have stayed in China for many years and there families stay in same society but in different flats. Young people go to work and oldies take care of children and also cook for son and daughter in law. Daughter in law has all the freedoms of working, food choices and fashion. I really like their concept because oldies help their children in every way and children also give them love and respect they deserve. Old people there are really fit and adapt really well with new generation. I think people should rise above these issues of cooking, fashion choices etc because if people keep thinking about such small issues they can never rise above. 😊
Sir shadi ki vajah se mainly ldkiyo ko hi maximum sacrifice krne pdte h or career unme se ek hota h. Shadi se pehle se hi unke career ko lekr parents serious nhi rehte unhe ldke k mukable km time milta h pdhne ka bahr ghumne ka experience lene ka phir shadi k kuchh saal tk jb aap ye sb chhod dete ho to psychologically hi aapke mn mai Dr beth jata h aap confidence kho dete ho, aap bhool bhi jate ho jo pdha likha hota h ya experience hota h. Nobody is saying ki pdhe likhe ldko ko problem nhi aati pr ldkiyo k life mai shadi uske career ko babut affect krta h jo ldko k case mai nhi hota or iske bare mai baat krke logon ko aware krke hm is problem ko kafi hadh tk solve kr skte h tbhi isko lekr baat hoti h. Kyunki esi bahut sari ldkiya h jinki job chhudayi jati h ya krne hi nhi di jati shadi, bche k Naam pr. That's the problem. Or unemployment ki vajah se ldke ldkiyan dono ki shikar h pr vo dusri problem h.
Im literally crying when im listening this podcast.. today's harsh reality of every inlaws House nd every daughter is suffering nd no one cares about that girl 😢her mental health nd her physical health
Indian families me Narcissism kewal saas me nhi he, balki sasur, pati or nanando , jetho or devro me bhi hota he. Haan hota zaroor saas ki direction per he.
Notice karne wali bat hai. Shiv lok me bachpan me ganesh kartikeya the. But jaise hi duty ai kartikeya ji south me gae. Aur wahi rahe. Ganesh ji ka apna lok hai Marriage ke bad even dev bhi apna apna duty karma karne ke lie alag hai. Shiv ji ne aisa kabhi nhi bola ki tum yahi se updown karo. Jab man kare aee apna kam karo. Pariwar ki atma ek sath honi chahie na ki sirf sharir
@@ankitamishra0405 nothing new, kartikeya ji to yugo se south me hai aur vaha pe unko swami murugan name se bulate. Shiv ji aur mata parvati ka ek swaroop unse milne srisailam me stapit kia. Wo bhagwan hai ek time pe kailash me bhi reh sakte srisailam me bhi. Hum nhi kar sakte. Duty se jana pade to parents ko jane dena chahie . AGAR KOI SANSKAR SANSKRITI KA DHOL PITE TO UNKO YE EXAMPLE DENE LA
Sir i would like to say not everyone life is same some women want to work but cannot because in laws dont want i they are sitting whole day idle saying (humne toh apni jawani mein bahut kia ab aaram karenge ) so why are you living in joint family when an indian bahu so called gets married she has to look each and everything and i mean everything and ap keh rahe pehle bahut kaam tha ab technology a gayi hain sir pehle every lady use to help in the house now sorry to say but in laws are not supporting at all
Bhai....mere yaha to mere divorcee jetani k 2 bacche bhi pal rahe hain..sasu maa 😂😂 k sath aur devar bhi..mere 2 toddlers aur pati dev ..aur 3 nand bhi pass main unke bhi bacche job k vajah se humare yaha aate hain ..main bhi job karti hu ...aur saas aur nanand bolti hain ...cook ki kya jarurat hain ...jab ki main afford kar sakti hu...Nan and bolti hey cook ki ky jarurat hain jab ki woh sirf 3 admi hey unke ghar me unka 1 bacccha aur husband wife ...upper se inhe naam bhi rakhna hain mere cooking skills ko ...husband bole hain chup raho chup raho😂😂😂
ye sab meri dadi karti thi 7 aur bacche pale sale sab nikal gaye abhi wo budhape me hamare pass ayi (me pota hu) mujhe pehle koi bhav nahi de rhi thi 😢
All men and women who are living abroad wash utensils by hand and do household chores. What shocks me is that in laws living in india who have relied on servants all their lives look down on these hard working men and women.
Sir you are literally saying the truth and Each problems in depth, Each and every Word is a dark truth of Indian Inlaws . Thank you a lot atleast someone is saying it openly .🙏🙏🙏
Sahi baat hai , mere sasur bhi aise hi , jab dekho baat baat pe mere gharwale ko gaali dete hai aur mujhe bhi ,, husband wha to kuch nhi bolte , agar mai apne liye stand lu to mere against rehte hai..jabki meri love marriage hai.. agar saas ke sath galt hua to aane wali ladki ki kya galati hai use kis baat ki saja mil rhi hai, har kisi ko khush karne ki kosis ki hai pichle 11yrs se par abhi bhi mai baharwali hu , sab milke mujhe isolate-ghost kar dete hai, isliye maine ab sath baithna chod diya, even pichle 1 week se husband ke sath aisa lag rha hai ki kisi unknown ke sath reh rhi hu..😢😢 mai kya karu mujhe samjh nhi aa rha. Mere baccho ka future hai Isiliye mujhe inn ke sath rehna padta hai chah ke bhi chod nhi pa rhi hu. Bacche , mere parents sab ko mere vajha se sunna padega yhi sub soch ke rehna padta hai. Maine isiliye job bhi start kar di hai mere bills mai khud pay kar rhi hu , phir bhi ye sub mujhe aisa samjhte hai jaise mai in sab ke paanv ki juti hu.
Isme main prob h ki husband hi wife ka sath nhi dega alag rehne k liye aur bhugtagi to sirf bahu kyoki use koi kuch nhi bolega usme bhi bhu hi buri banagi ki hmare ladke ko le gayi
Amazing and rational conversation!! He knows indian families from inside out and gives practical solutions. Big fan Sir !! 🔥 But i agree with that guy on astrology is kind of superstitious. 38:40 Thats true science bolti hai har ek sample me test true hona chahiye. Unlike astrology where kbi baat sach hoti hai kbi jhooth. Because obviously common men bhi 100 logo ki ek baat predict kare to usme se kuchh sach hongi aur kuchh nhi 😂 Because 100 me se probability to hi hai kisi ki sach hone me, thats why astrology is bogus and mere superstition.
I agree on this... nobody talks about these daily life issues in indian homes..and men and women daily faces and sacrifice their healthy marriage life and not able to create a healthy family..and this goes in loop in our society.
Sir meri shdi ko april m ek sal hojayega me or mere hubby door rhte hain ghr se kunki inki job bahr h .... Hmare sasural walo m se hme koi bhi call nhi krta h n koi puchne ya janne ki koshsih krta h ki hum dono kese hain pichle ek sal to sub theek tha lekin abhi recently meri sas n mere se or merese husband ko call krna bnd krdiya kunki pichle hfte mere husband n mrre liye sone ki chain bnai tbse unke behaviour m change agya khud call hi nhi krti abb hum bhut preshan haij ki hmare satb itni partiliaty ku plz help me overthinking krne lg jati hu fir bhutt pls help
Sir ap bilkul whi bate krte ho mai krti hu i can't believe kisi ki soch itni jada mujse mil skti h kbi but i m very happy today, I m also a graduate engg. But not working kyuki mere sath ni rhte in laws to bchvhe kiske hwale chhodu aur ek hu to din rat kalesh krti h sas😢job ni kr ri to sas beijjat krti h aur kru to bchche kon smbhale I m fed up with life really
Sahi bola aapney amit ji mere husband bhi aise hi thee meri aur mere mother in law mein nahi bani she was little bit strict .. Mere husband nahi boltey thee ku ah bhi mummy ko boltey thee ki age ho gai hn unki abuse krti thee mujko.. Husband boltey thee ki mummy ki age hogai hn mein unko pareedhan nahi krungi issi mein pareedhan hogye aur issi problem mein pareshaan hokr unko heart attack aagye aur mein aur meri mother in law both are ok.. She is 79 years old my sasur was a very good person but vo mummy key aagye kush nahi boltey thee.. Abhi mein spent parents key ghar hun.. Mother in law doesnot want to be with me.. M not working at all..
hello dear Host, at around 37.59, you said believing in astrology is something going against science, yes you have a right to ur opinion, somehow i believe that there are lot of other occurrences which defy science, yet it exists. CAll Dr. Manta sindhu, an Akashik tarrot reader, explore with an open mind.
Kuchh bhi, thats all bogus because we love fantasy stories. If you are a hindu please read some scriptures and upanishad and ved, akashic stories wont lessen your sufferings or your struggles 😅
I have not gone thru the video but can understand the contents I have two sons 1 married and another to be married My question is what is your opinion about Maharashtrian mother in laws? Also what are the chances that there are no issues of girls having issues with their in laws Is it zero?
Sir aap bolte hai ladkiyo ko job Karni chaiye but parents bache dekhne ko ready he nahi hai wo bolte hai maid rakho ya le kar jao ...fir kaise soche job ka .
Amit sir saari mahilaon ko baba sahab ki a abhaari hona chahiye, jinhoney sanvidaan mein mahilaon ko padney ka adikaar 🪔 diya.,Verna aaj kya halat hoti
So true uncle….ladke really bahut badmashi kar rahe hai… they don’t want to do any house work, child care or do anything for their parents, but want their wives to do it all and then they want everyone to call them good beta. Wife is still called villain. Aise mein wife ki halat kharab karna hai bas aur usko exploit karna hai. Ladko ki conditioning bahut galat hui hai…just because wo earn kar raha hai, he will not do anything in the house. Wife should work outside the house, earn and take care of house, kids and old boy’s parents. This is the expectation from the wife. Girls just don’t marry these types of boys.
Aur maa baap ki izzat ladkiyon ko itti pyari kyun hoti hai. Ladke ke sath baat karne se pehle toh nahi sochti. Lekin shaadi ke waqt yeh sab kyu sochti hain ladkiyan.
Sir mera case alag hai me 7 month ship pe job karta hu. To alag kese rahu. Safety and securty baccho or wife ki nahi hogi. Roj kalah karte hai mere mummy papa or behan apne ghar se fon pe. Vwife house wife hai. Wo bahar ka kaam nahi kar pati hai. Beti or bahu me dogle jesa behaviour hai.
I agree with you except on astrology! Astrology is nothing but a superstition which only gives vague prediction, any good observer/intuition person can give that. Back in the day people didn't knew lots of stuff and they came to some conclusions but at present we know that astrology is based on lots of superstition not on the facts but people don't want to accept it because of ego problem, insecurity problem or because it is such a big market for making money. Pls aap ese youth ko glt raste pr lekr na chle. Log isliye nhi jate h un challenges ko accept krne kyunki ye astrology tuke lgane wala system h jo koi khas baat nhi h.
Ma baap 90 ji rahe air ludka bahu 35 ya 40 me hart attack se ja rahe youth toxic aur jhut bolna jo beta baher hai usee jhut kabhi 1 bete ko sare jimmedari
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45:06 yahan pe mute kya hua hai??
Thank you so much for calling out the narcissism in Indian families
Pls make a video on the possessiveness of grandparents for a new born baby and trying to replace the mother of the baby....trying to relive the time that has gone...and holding on the dominance in the household through the new baby...
Arre wah
Sach mein this is a big issue in houses. Mein toh kehti hu let the grandparent keep the baby and aap naukri pe jao.
Maine iss problem ka yeh solution nikala Toh automatic saasumaa ne baby ka kaam karna chod diya, possessive gayab hogai. Unko body pain yaad aagaya and tirth yatra pe jana hai, bhajan mein baba hai sab bahana baazi start kar di and I hired a nanny 😂 to help me
Nehle pe dehla
Aaj ke zamane mein bhi women can choose not to have children aur she can give birth and the father and his family can take care of the baby
This is a big issue in Indian families
@@Hetal28 😂😂😂
@@Hetal28
Wow di,
Wonderful idea👌🏻👌🏻
Yes sir!! Absolutely correct. Father in law is the main culprits. After one point of time l realized the reality of my house that my mother-in law is not the villain. Her rude behaviour is because of my father in law and his mother. She is still struggling because of her mother in law who is 90 plus.
Real villian is father in law.. total relaxation 😢
Actually I 100 percent agree
100% correct. FIL is main villian.
We have stayed in China for many years and there families stay in same society but in different flats. Young people go to work and oldies take care of children and also cook for son and daughter in law. Daughter in law has all the freedoms of working, food choices and fashion. I really like their concept because oldies help their children in every way and children also give them love and respect they deserve. Old people there are really fit and adapt really well with new generation. I think people should rise above these issues of cooking, fashion choices etc because if people keep thinking about such small issues they can never rise above. 😊
सर आप महापुरुष हो .........पहला भारतीय पुरुष देखा है जो सच बोल रहा है। यही सच है आजकल के परिवार का
Acharya ko suno
Sir shadi ki vajah se mainly ldkiyo ko hi maximum sacrifice krne pdte h or career unme se ek hota h. Shadi se pehle se hi unke career ko lekr parents serious nhi rehte unhe ldke k mukable km time milta h pdhne ka bahr ghumne ka experience lene ka phir shadi k kuchh saal tk jb aap ye sb chhod dete ho to psychologically hi aapke mn mai Dr beth jata h aap confidence kho dete ho, aap bhool bhi jate ho jo pdha likha hota h ya experience hota h.
Nobody is saying ki pdhe likhe ldko ko problem nhi aati pr ldkiyo k life mai shadi uske career ko babut affect krta h jo ldko k case mai nhi hota or iske bare mai baat krke logon ko aware krke hm is problem ko kafi hadh tk solve kr skte h tbhi isko lekr baat hoti h. Kyunki esi bahut sari ldkiya h jinki job chhudayi jati h ya krne hi nhi di jati shadi, bche k Naam pr. That's the problem. Or unemployment ki vajah se ldke ldkiyan dono ki shikar h pr vo dusri problem h.
It's Nice video
I am 67 years retired Special Secretary
Our time Life is really hell in Joint family,
Really 100% true based on real field work and research. ......I really like his suggestions .......but some people will never change 😢
Im literally crying when im listening this podcast.. today's harsh reality of every inlaws House nd every daughter is suffering nd no one cares about that girl 😢her mental health nd her physical health
Indian families me Narcissism kewal saas me nhi he, balki sasur, pati or nanando , jetho or devro me bhi hota he.
Haan hota zaroor saas ki direction per he.
And bahu ko kaha chod diya
@@Prat2023 vo bhi apne Samay per esi hi ban jati he . Tabhi to silsila chalta he
Excellent take on life! In sync with your views Amit ji!
I read "Grahshobha, Sarita, Meri Saheli" and I thoroughly enjoy it better than the mobile...
Respect for you increases every time I hear you ❤
Every boy (so called men) of our country should take a course from you
Amit sir hats off to you for boldly raising tabooo topics in today's indian families!! If only more people could understand this
Within 6 months of marriage I am facing all problems with more severity
U r absolutely correct....My elder daughter is married for 6 months....n l too believe what u r saying
I passed from IIT,, and bas meko e pta hai … saas marne ko ho gai thi jab bola ki meko ghar ke kaam ke liye maid chahie
What was your husband doing?
@@mitochondria4185 saying hai e kitna kaam kr le mummy ne bola h toh 😂😂
Beginning me sab Shravan Kumar bante h … Abi thik h sab
Behen saas nai badalne waali, Zindagi ek bar milti hai agr apne paise hain to make your life comfortable
@@sgirl6154 yes, Wai chal ra h.. accept krna e pdta h, koi baat ni if some people hate you there are many more who loves
@@mitochondria4185 stuck in between
Harvard Stanford to ladkon ne bhi nahin li. And no one gives a job after 6-7 yrs of unemployment after sitting at home
Notice karne wali bat hai. Shiv lok me bachpan me ganesh kartikeya the. But jaise hi duty ai kartikeya ji south me gae. Aur wahi rahe.
Ganesh ji ka apna lok hai
Marriage ke bad even dev bhi apna apna duty karma karne ke lie alag hai.
Shiv ji ne aisa kabhi nhi bola ki tum yahi se updown karo.
Jab man kare aee apna kam karo. Pariwar ki atma ek sath honi chahie na ki sirf sharir
@@raszzhjlaj9813 wow this is something new thanku soo much for this knowledge.
@@ankitamishra0405 nothing new, kartikeya ji to yugo se south me hai aur vaha pe unko swami murugan name se bulate. Shiv ji aur mata parvati ka ek swaroop unse milne srisailam me stapit kia.
Wo bhagwan hai ek time pe kailash me bhi reh sakte srisailam me bhi. Hum nhi kar sakte. Duty se jana pade to parents ko jane dena chahie .
AGAR KOI SANSKAR SANSKRITI KA DHOL PITE TO UNKO YE EXAMPLE DENE LA
Sir i would like to say not everyone life is same some women want to work but cannot because in laws dont want i they are sitting whole day idle saying (humne toh apni jawani mein bahut kia ab aaram karenge ) so why are you living in joint family when an indian bahu so called gets married she has to look each and everything and i mean everything and ap keh rahe pehle bahut kaam tha ab technology a gayi hain sir pehle every lady use to help in the house now sorry to say but in laws are not supporting at all
Thank you sir for this important topic 👍👍👍many women are getting exploited due to few horrific/ traditional beliefs. Useful guidance from you
Really an eye opener video. Agree 100%
Very practical talk amazing point of view ❤ keep it up 👍
Wow sir ekdum satik ranneeti mahilao k prti
Bhai....mere yaha to mere divorcee jetani k 2 bacche bhi pal rahe hain..sasu maa 😂😂 k sath aur devar bhi..mere 2 toddlers aur pati dev ..aur 3 nand bhi pass main unke bhi bacche job k vajah se humare yaha aate hain ..main bhi job karti hu ...aur saas aur nanand bolti hain ...cook ki kya jarurat hain ...jab ki main afford kar sakti hu...Nan and bolti hey cook ki ky jarurat hain jab ki woh sirf 3 admi hey unke ghar me unka 1 bacccha aur husband wife ...upper se inhe naam bhi rakhna hain mere cooking skills ko ...husband bole hain chup raho chup raho😂😂😂
Too bad
Pati ki galti hai
Agreed with you, same situation here
ye sab meri dadi karti thi 7 aur bacche pale
sale sab nikal gaye
abhi wo budhape me hamare pass ayi (me pota hu) mujhe pehle koi bhav nahi de rhi thi 😢
Behen cook rakho sabse pehle, kisi se nai puchna bas dhundo and rakho
Zindgi asaan kro
True. Agreed. Watching from Australia
All men and women who are living abroad wash utensils by hand and do household chores.
What shocks me is that in laws living in india who have relied on servants all their lives look down on these hard working men and women.
Sir you are literally saying the truth and Each problems in depth, Each and every Word is a dark truth of Indian Inlaws . Thank you a lot atleast someone is saying it openly .🙏🙏🙏
Sahi baat hai , mere sasur bhi aise hi , jab dekho baat baat pe mere gharwale ko gaali dete hai aur mujhe bhi ,, husband wha to kuch nhi bolte , agar mai apne liye stand lu to mere against rehte hai..jabki meri love marriage hai.. agar saas ke sath galt hua to aane wali ladki ki kya galati hai use kis baat ki saja mil rhi hai, har kisi ko khush karne ki kosis ki hai pichle 11yrs se par abhi bhi mai baharwali hu , sab milke mujhe isolate-ghost kar dete hai, isliye maine ab sath baithna chod diya, even pichle 1 week se husband ke sath aisa lag rha hai ki kisi unknown ke sath reh rhi hu..😢😢 mai kya karu mujhe samjh nhi aa rha. Mere baccho ka future hai Isiliye mujhe inn ke sath rehna padta hai chah ke bhi chod nhi pa rhi hu. Bacche , mere parents sab ko mere vajha se sunna padega yhi sub soch ke rehna padta hai. Maine isiliye job bhi start kar di hai mere bills mai khud pay kar rhi hu , phir bhi ye sub mujhe aisa samjhte hai jaise mai in sab ke paanv ki juti hu.
Meri toh mother hi Asli Villan hain.
@23:35 It is *जठराग्नि* (जठर-अग्नि)
Ye sasur sub se bara vilan hy.. Sub haqeeqat Janta hy or apne betay ko barbad kr rahy hote hein..
Isme main prob h ki husband hi wife ka sath nhi dega alag rehne k liye aur bhugtagi to sirf bahu kyoki use koi kuch nhi bolega usme bhi bhu hi buri banagi ki hmare ladke ko le gayi
Amazing and rational conversation!! He knows indian families from inside out and gives practical solutions. Big fan Sir !! 🔥
But i agree with that guy on astrology is kind of superstitious.
38:40 Thats true science bolti hai har ek sample me test true hona chahiye. Unlike astrology where kbi baat sach hoti hai kbi jhooth. Because obviously common men bhi 100 logo ki ek baat predict kare to usme se kuchh sach hongi aur kuchh nhi 😂 Because 100 me se probability to hi hai kisi ki sach hone me, thats why astrology is bogus and mere superstition.
Aaj finally shik-shik wala video aa gaya😅
😂
Bohot badia and clarity dena wala video amit sir🙏🏻
Correct sir ...
How old are you
Which watch Amit ji is wearing?
Sir kindly make a video giving housewives ideas for earning money from home ,after the age of 35
Yes please sir
Hi. I am Pakistani Australian immigrant. I watch your videos. They are great. Now I have few very important questions, how can I ask you?
Sir please make a video in increasing unemployment in IT sector, mass layoff, salery cutoff.
Also give a clarity for secure future.
Wonderful podcast
Guruji ka finally sik sik agaya
I agree on this... nobody talks about these daily life issues in indian homes..and men and women daily faces and sacrifice their healthy marriage life and not able to create a healthy family..and this goes in loop in our society.
YOUR AGE
Sir meri shdi ko april m ek sal hojayega me or mere hubby door rhte hain ghr se kunki inki job bahr h .... Hmare sasural walo m se hme koi bhi call nhi krta h n koi puchne ya janne ki koshsih krta h ki hum dono kese hain pichle ek sal to sub theek tha lekin abhi recently meri sas n mere se or merese husband ko call krna bnd krdiya kunki pichle hfte mere husband n mrre liye sone ki chain bnai tbse unke behaviour m change agya khud call hi nhi krti abb hum bhut preshan haij ki hmare satb itni partiliaty ku plz help me overthinking krne lg jati hu fir bhutt pls help
Sir ap bilkul whi bate krte ho mai krti hu i can't believe kisi ki soch itni jada mujse mil skti h kbi but i m very happy today, I m also a graduate engg. But not working kyuki mere sath ni rhte in laws to bchvhe kiske hwale chhodu aur ek hu to din rat kalesh krti h sas😢job ni kr ri to sas beijjat krti h aur kru to bchche kon smbhale I m fed up with life really
day care h aaj kal, sb manage ho jata h
@@deepikaadlakha626 🙏
All south east countries like Burma Vietnam chaina singapore all they live separately from day one after wedding
Too good.. bahu is free wali kam wali bai
50:00 53:00
Saas , bahu podcast tha ....
But chl kya raha hai ...
Sahi bola aapney amit ji mere husband bhi aise hi thee meri aur mere mother in law mein nahi bani she was little bit strict .. Mere husband nahi boltey thee ku ah bhi mummy ko boltey thee ki age ho gai hn unki abuse krti thee mujko.. Husband boltey thee ki mummy ki age hogai hn mein unko pareedhan nahi krungi issi mein pareedhan hogye aur issi problem mein pareshaan hokr unko heart attack aagye aur mein aur meri mother in law both are ok.. She is 79 years old my sasur was a very good person but vo mummy key aagye kush nahi boltey thee.. Abhi mein spent parents key ghar hun.. Mother in law doesnot want to be with me.. M not working at all..
hello dear Host, at around 37.59, you said believing in astrology is something going against science, yes you have a right to ur opinion, somehow i believe that there are lot of other occurrences which defy science, yet it exists. CAll Dr. Manta sindhu, an Akashik tarrot reader, explore with an open mind.
Kuchh bhi, thats all bogus because we love fantasy stories. If you are a hindu please read some scriptures and upanishad and ved, akashic stories wont lessen your sufferings or your struggles 😅
I have not gone thru the video but can understand the contents
I have two sons
1 married and another to be married
My question is what is your opinion about Maharashtrian mother in laws?
Also what are the chances that there are no issues of girls having issues with their in laws
Is it zero?
Too good
Amazing❤😊
Sir aap bolte hai ladkiyo ko job Karni chaiye but parents bache dekhne ko ready he nahi hai wo bolte hai maid rakho ya le kar jao ...fir kaise soche job ka .
Not only housewives, men also become house makers. Please talk about it also
Amit sir saari mahilaon ko baba sahab ki a abhaari hona chahiye, jinhoney sanvidaan mein mahilaon ko padney ka adikaar 🪔 diya.,Verna aaj kya halat hoti
The host reminds me of your video... Youth aur unki unchi unchi baatein
16:39 so true 👍 🤣 😢 😂 ❤️ 👌 👍 ek number
the Nighty-maxy destroyer is back😅
Guruji start post marital and divorce consulting too
So correct at 19.00
Sir ye video sasur ko bhejdi 😅 ab vo jawab maang re h ki kya matlab samjhe vo btao😢😢 saaf saaf to video me h sab vo samjhne ko tayar nhi h
😂 very nice discourse
I got the govt job after devoting 5 years to preparation.
sir ek omaxe dwarka pr virtual space pr video bna do ... ye project un ek me se hh jo chelga .. Thoda suggest kro
Guru ji aap hi middle classes problem solve kar raha hai not even government
Very true...
Me mumbai me rehti hun or meri ek daughter hai
Omg nahin marenge bahut jeena hai unhe 😂😂😂
So true uncle….ladke really bahut badmashi kar rahe hai… they don’t want to do any house work, child care or do anything for their parents, but want their wives to do it all and then they want everyone to call them good beta. Wife is still called villain. Aise mein wife ki halat kharab karna hai bas aur usko exploit karna hai. Ladko ki conditioning bahut galat hui hai…just because wo earn kar raha hai, he will not do anything in the house. Wife should work outside the house, earn and take care of house, kids and old boy’s parents. This is the expectation from the wife. Girls just don’t marry these types of boys.
38.30 the host is wrong. Science has enough proof that nothing is absolute
Aur maa baap ki izzat ladkiyon ko itti pyari kyun hoti hai. Ladke ke sath baat karne se pehle toh nahi sochti. Lekin shaadi ke waqt yeh sab kyu sochti hain ladkiyan.
और बॉलीवुड वालो ने बेटा बहु को villain बना रखा था😂😂😂😂
Sir mera case alag hai me 7 month ship pe job karta hu.
To alag kese rahu. Safety and securty baccho or wife ki nahi hogi. Roj kalah karte hai mere mummy papa or behan apne ghar se fon pe.
Vwife house wife hai. Wo bahar ka kaam nahi kar pati hai. Beti or bahu me dogle jesa behaviour hai.
Sir aap se counseling ka time mil sakta hi .fees kitne hi
I agree with you except on astrology! Astrology is nothing but a superstition which only gives vague prediction, any good observer/intuition person can give that. Back in the day people didn't knew lots of stuff and they came to some conclusions but at present we know that astrology is based on lots of superstition not on the facts but people don't want to accept it because of ego problem, insecurity problem or because it is such a big market for making money. Pls aap ese youth ko glt raste pr lekr na chle. Log isliye nhi jate h un challenges ko accept krne kyunki ye astrology tuke lgane wala system h jo koi khas baat nhi h.
Isko viral krdo koi yar...
True ..mutual fund ki SIP ki hui hai 😂
Indian family, maa baap, etc are a big source of pain. 😢
Majaa h majaa majaa h majaa 😂😂😂
Most of the sarkari naukars are depressed
Paise ke dampar high educated ladke se shadi hone par kam padi ladki ki halat par video banayai
South india mei bacche parents ke saath nahi rehthe parents shadhi hothe hi alag ker dethe hai
Not in everyone's life ..
No.. We don't stay separate after marriage. It is rare
Sirji, dus saal pehle kahan the aap 😢
He wants that hum saath saath hai
ये सास ससुर ने कलेश मचा रखा है😂😂😂
Who is the one conducting the podcast?
Sir mere pati bhi alagh nahi ho rahe
Super
Ma baap 90 ji rahe air ludka bahu 35 ya 40 me hart attack se ja rahe youth toxic aur jhut bolna jo beta baher hai usee jhut kabhi 1 bete ko sare jimmedari
Dhruv rathi the GERMAN SHEPHERD
Skeen with u hahaha ever expected
👌👍🙏❤️😍
Par ek baat hai in sab samasyaon ka samarthan admi hi dhund raha hai mahila nahi kyonki admi ka nature hai samarthan dhundhna.
Aurate chugli se khali paye tab na
What rubbish .i live in America and do all my work
Sabse bada Asur is Sasur🫤