Drama as children reject 'absent' mother who won custody case
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This man has the rights to raise his kids.
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Justify your argument
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Exactly
"Huyo si mama yetu, anaitwa Grace!" I am speechless!
This isn't good
Laana hukuja hivyo
Ni mama yao...
They have every right to deny her
The kids are brave 😂 i like them😍.huyo sio mama yetu huyo anaitwa Grace,
This case is now being re-visited.
It's always the abusive person acting like the victim.
I know right?
Very sad
So sad😭
He must be a caring Dad let them stay with Dad if they are ok with Dad....
What is in the best interest of those kids is to stay with their Dad
@@rosenyagathiri3462 They have been staying with HIM since 2018...She does not care... Anataka child support...
Yes he is..ako single bado..🙈
Samtyms its good to listen to the both sides of the story
@judy daffny luvonga
There is no 2 sides of story that justifies a Working able mother to leave a 3 month old breastfeeding baby. Non at all. Even those street mamas watch over their kids as they beg on the streets...please!
Thanks for being a caring dad I believe no one should separate the kids with their dad.
The judge who issued that court order should be sent to jail.
The judge just followed the law. It states that the child belongs to the mother unless she is dead, mad or has voluntarily given up her parental rights and responsibilities to the legal father. So... the court cannot jail the judge for a law that it drafted. The problem is that in Kenya the children are not taken to the child psychologist to asses their mental and emotional problems that they may have had during the separation from the one parent and then be presented to the judge before a ruling by the judge. They were to conduct visitation with the the mum for probably a year before making the decision. It's the system that has failed the children.
@@carolineodongo3563 Men can also raise children. Hio part ya lastborn umesikia aje? The courts are sometimes insensitive to men.
@@carolineodongo3563 three years is a very long time to stay away from a child,their purported mother should be fined or jailed for child neglect.
@@carolineodongo3563 A Judge has to read both the letter and spirit. I'm thinking probably the dad had weak defense lawyer /no lawyer or perhaps this judge was onto something, unless there're other things we've not been told in this short video clip. Again giving judge benefit of doubt; hearing from the side of mother will be essential to conclude either way
@@carolineodongo3563The children were not given a chance to be heard. Children are not mere commodities. Children also have rights which must be respected. A sensible judge would take that into consideration. Most likely the judge was bribed.
I respect you Man.
All men should stick with their kids.
Brain wash is over today the truth came out brain wash is over
The whole true got out today. Nothing that is hidden that will not come to light.
Best Kids in the world.....thats right Well done Babies. 👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍
That kids are hero's 😍😍 they're more matured than that so called mama,huyo ni Grace haswaa😀
@@siznic9115 👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍
Go with your children the judge failed them
The kenyan courts are a failer .where was the mother all that time.?
@alice... They are copycatting the biases we see in the western societies...
This happened to my brother, even after the kids refused their absent mother they took them by force coz my brother is poor.
Imagine watoto wanakukataa the reason why siezi acha my kids nyuma
Mimi Niko na wangu 5kids.
Nelly ata wewe uko hapa?
@@gladysmoraa4818 gaki nikose nichekwe
@@rosemarykatogomusanga1619 me 3
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Am here after Edgar obares story...kids can be brats...did you guys watch the video of the husband abusing her. End GBV...
However much you disagree with your partner, your kids should always be your priority. Had the mother made efforts to make friendship with the kids , she wouldn't meet this embarrassment.
Let the children stay with whoever they are comfortable with..
Guys, congratulate the two ladies for making sense
This just one of the good men ... So many men would have taken the kids to grandmama n leave them huko... Or give them to step mom's wanapitia shida...
@@memijessy666 Accept they are so many and note those who are forced to surrender custody to their mothers are mostly forced by occupational circumstances. There's nothing wrong leaving children with their grandparents as long as they are properly cared for if anything the grandparents have proven ability to bring up children and it is their pride to care for the grandchildren.
Bernard you should know that there are responsible dads out there, the sane way irresponsible mothers out there I salute that dad. May GOD give him grace and wisdom of raising Hus children. Their mother bure kabisa.
@@emmymutama2394 you're defending an abusive man? He nearly killed her. bure ni wewe
Kim Grace never said the man wanted to kill her. Secondly the children are always close to their mother even animals too. Thus one is the other way round. I was judging from what I saw
Let's wait and see the new turn out of things. Always best to have both sides of the story
This is very sad. I hope someone will take those children for counselling to help them navigate through this situation
The lady in blue mask ameongea kama wanawake 10 wako na wisdom
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Ukweli
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A foolish woman destroys her own home.
Kuzaa sio Kazi Kulea ndiyo kazi.....huyoBaba akae na Watoto wake....nimemuheshimu Huyo Baba sana....mama watoto afungwe kwa Ku neglect watoto wake.
enda kwanza uskize story ya mama kwanza
Very true. This is so sad, she is traumatising those kids
@@margretwangari2066 whatever the reason is she shldnt have left kids behind if the kids meant anything for her....life has got challenges how sure are you she wont abandon them later in life when things doesnt work...as a mother i can do anything to protect my children...icannt imajn sleeping without knowing my children's wereby...huyu mama is irresponsible...if you her advice her to build relationship with kids first.
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Dad of the season. Kudos man. May the court grant you custody. You deserve it
I would like to hear her side of the story
Me too. Why would the court give custody to an absent mother? Why is he talking to the media? Something is strange
After being away from the children's lives for over 720 days? Kwani, all this time our courts were closed and have just been re-opened?. You leave me as a toddler and only resurface after 2 years, and during the time of Corona to claim me? Hata yeye amejaribu sana na huyo judge.
Very true I conquer with you
Which side? She abandoned her children, period
daniel karuga her side. The kids could be brainwashed to believe anything
The law is unfair to Men
Yeah..I agree...maybe the judge was a man
@B.G. Afrika, yes. That's the simple truth.... And copycatted from the broken feminist societies.
@@mystyjakanyango4079 no-no, it's men who hate other men....have you ever seen any man siding with another man,hata kama bibi ana makosa?NO!
@@Honest_Manthe feminists influence is pernicious and many at times covert among men. I agree with you on that, Allan... . We see a lot of that type too on the streets. A woman slaps man, the man pushes her off him and you see men all over the male victim with punches, while the perpetrator female is pampered. Where did the red pill go!
This is true. The law stipulates that the mother takes custody of children under 10. The father has visitation rights. 11 and older, children's preference is taken into account. The judge's hands are tied.
Ladies, how do you disown your children, and expect them to run to you when you claim them back?. I pray the court allows the children to stay with their father.
Please find out first the other side of the story
Ask Grace! She does not represent us
@@childofthemighty1341 did I say she represents us?. My verbatim is general. In this case I used ladies as the case in point, is of a Mother who has disowned her children.
Next time use Lady! Not ladies followed by comma.
go and ask your mother. You have concluded about a case from the 3 minutes clip! Do you know what was in the court files for the judge to conclude that the mother should have the kids? Masomo kidogo ni muhimu mami.
Wakae na baba, ata mama hulea. Let children stay where they feel have peace. Ata huyu mama hakuwa na huruma
Mzee lea watoto wako na kama wameamua kukaa na wewe kaa nao.... My Uncle aliachiwa na 3 Young children na saa hii first born ako job sasa
Children left her by grace Let stay with you daddy na usioge snaa hawatakuelewa
Let this go out to all Women who think you can abandon your kids then come back later to claim them claiming motherly rights. We don't know the full story but kindly, let's respect the man. He took care of his kids. He has the rights.
Huyo judge anakaa mwingine alisema "if you cannot afford a lawyer the trial will go faster " The ruling was the joke of the day.
Huyo judge hayuko serious...those kids big ups
Kaeni na baba yenu
Mama kazae wengine
Hapo sasa
Useless mother
@@funnyvideos-dc1on how can she leave behind a breastfeeding baby...akwende na huko
@@jacintamuiruri9507 hao watoto wako chonjo mbaya
Kabisa
This woman is after the child support sio watoto!!how can you leave a breastfeeding child??the mum is after money....
Corona is disciplining people
@@godfirst7452 sasa mapenzi ya huyo aliekuwa nae kwa miaka yanaenda mrama (zigzag)ndio anakumbuka watoto baada ya miaka 3 salala,huko alikua na Bw,ya wenyewe sasa lockdown hawara wake kafungiwa na mama mwenye nyumba (bibi yake wa ndowa) tafuta buyu ukakune:miaka 3 hukuzalishwa? Au condom kuruka?KUBOMOA RAHISI,KUJENGA NI KAZI:
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Enda uskize mama kwanza utajua vile kunaenda
@@margretwangari2066 no matter the reason of leaving, u can't leave an infant!I'm also against the way kids reacted to the mother..its must be an influence or their instincts can't cope seeing their mum..I don't know...but trust me the woman needs the children upkeep not the kids
Family courts always lean on the side of the mothers. Fathers really go through a lot.
Now go back and watch the video of why the mother left🤦🏼♀️
Haki judiciary..hapa child support mtu anapigia mahesabu
@SoilaSøila ameona boy child na gari amepima doo
Tumejua ukweli kule kwa Edgar....The man is hurtless
The children have spoken,they are comfortable with the dad, hope mama wa kambo hatakuja!!!.
Hope so too
The truth is just to be unveiled..these kids were brainwashed most definitely..
May God fight for the mother.
Kids see everything negative that parents do and 100% the mother was not there at all.
Huyu Mama siyo Grace, ni Disgrace! Awa watoto poa!
The mother wants to take the children so that she can get child support...anataka ka A.T.M....Ashindwe!!!!!
Do you still feel the same ?? Don't judge what you don't know
Children should be given right to chose who thei want to leave with
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That woman will try to eliminate his former hubby to have her way!!! Pathetic!!! That guy needs to be careful.... I have said my own!!!
That's what they do with thugs or hired rogue policemen. Remember the nyeri magistrates case. They get favours from the judiciary after they kill. What came of the magistrate's case or are they still diluting evidence to let her free. In Kenya we commit crimes and eliminate evidence.
Just going through all the comments here and most of them are condemning the mother.I am glad we now have both sides of the story and it's sad to imagine what the mother went through.
Let's not always judge before we get both sides of the story.The children clearly are brainwashed.
But time will tell.
The judiciary a times never consider what's best for children.
The court would have appointed a professional to guide the reconciliation. The process may take time, but hurriedly giving the kids to a "stranger" will attract alot of RESISTANCE
Perfect thought. The best interest of the children need be upheld. Even going to court was not right and such are the cases that need be subjected to Court Assisted Mediation before going for proper litigation. The adversarial judicial approach and winner takes it all actually worsens the acrymony between the parties. You don't expect such children forced by the court to be with the mother to respect the courts in future as the courts will have tortured them against their wish for mistakes that are not of their own making.
This is SHOCKING!!!
Why the absence though? (to be Rhetorical)
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We can't judge people for the choices they make when we don't know the options they had to chose from
After you separate she could have asked for custody then she wouldn't have been denied custody. Ata just going to the chief would have made her get her kids back. The kids have already formed an emotional bond with the dad more so the younger one. The kids could also fear she would take them back just to leave them again.
Why couldn't she then go to court???
You were right... She chose her life so she can get the kids later
Never judge a mother, you never know why she went away. At least she came back and went through a court process which takes long
Anafuata pesa yako awe akikula child support saitan.....
you know nothing enda uskize mama kwanza story yake,you will be ashamed of yourself
Mtu si apambane na hali yake bona mnaongea vimbaya ivi??🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔
Tibim
This is brainwash Noo kid will never reject their mom no matter what ..
Unfortunately they just did
1:12 “mama yenu anaitwa?” “Huyo si mama yetu? Huyo anaitwa grace, atutaki kumskia”
Why interview the Minor?
Sad psychological issues will present themselves later
Very true
I know I hope they get help, the damage is real.
Already manifesting. Did you read the attitude of the children? There's a lot of dysfunction here.
The children are already bitter, as much as they should live with the dad... They need to heal
Yes, this is why the father must be very careful not to incite everyone against the mother to the extent of talking to media. The failure of his marriage is between him and the woman. Even if she left, but is willing to play a role now, it should be allowed and they should work out a compromise quietly. Not every marriage is perfect like in fairy tales. These children might say they dont need or want the mother but of course they do. Vice versa, even if a man disappears and returns after 10 years with goodwill, he must never be chased away. Because it is the children who will suffer.
Niko upande watoii musikubali kaeni Na baba yenu 👏👏👏👏
Custody law 101 - BEST INTEREST OF THE CHILD! Were the children interviewed by the court, or any independent body to assess their best interest? It appears not!!!
Stanley Ramogo true, but you don’t know why the mother had to leave the child behind. What if she was being beaten and feared for her life? Or maybe the guy has financial muscle and she doesn’t. Best interest of the child is both parents.
Really ? Does is even remotely sound like that from what you have just heard ?
The court has more information than that few minute video. May be the kids have been brain washed.
Martin Oluoch what do you think I’ve not heard?
Sure
Another win for the Boychild🙌
I think they should sit and discuss like grown-ups and see how their kids would prosper and respect them
I think that guy tried that
The guy seems to have exhausted all available avenues,utafanyaje.
No matter how, your kids need a mother even if distance one. For the betterment of the children sometimes you abandon your differences.
Sit down with whom?
@@mwalimufakhi3648 The kids seem to have been brainwashed. Something is not right. You do not know what they have been told about their mother.
Leaving a child of 3 months??? Thats a baby! And that woman should have been arrested for child neglect!
This man is such a manipulator ..you can't allow your children to talk about their mother like that ..I knew from day one something was wrong ..I'm glad the videos are out now
ziko?
...what was the judge thinking! 🤦♂️
Kenyan family courts always rule in favour of mothers despite the mother's conduct. The mother may be living with another man but you will still be forced to pay child support, thereby, taking care of the child, mother and her new boyfriend. It's nearly impossible to get a verdict (especially getting custody) that favours a father in family court unless the man bribed a judge. That the common rule in Kenyan family courts.
It's so unfortunate,, some young mothers of this generation are irresponsible,unspeakable,..nkt!
so you mean you should only pay child support if she doesnt have a boyfriend
The mother should be given only one hour to see her kids but the dad has all the power to stay with the kids.
Ati huyo c mama yetu😂😂😂😂😂😂
Hiyo ni Kali 😂😁😂.
Anaitwa Grace 😀
Hawa watoto taniuaaa😂😂😂😂
Karibu waseme huyo ni mchina😀😀😀
She deserved that... Kwanza girl child akikataa means alot
This mother left the kids to punish the dad. Eventually, she sees that he is able to raise them. Her reason for going to court is not in the best interest of the children but to continue torturing their dad and file for financial support. The court should now re-evaluate their ruling, give custody of the kids to the dad and have the mother contribute to their upbringing since she wants them back.
he was abusing her na kuna evidence.
Ata Mimi singekubali😡
Children are very sensitive
Amor ...my Kenyan favorite couple...naona tumepatana huku tena
Amore wakuu wangu😂😂😂😂
This is why sometimes we say the law is an ass.The innocent children only know their dad.
Where are the real mother's , please stand up ???
Am a mum and I say Grace is a bad mother! No mother leaves kids alone no matter what
There is nothing as evil as influencing a child's mind to make them hate their mother or their father. You deny them the chance to experience a normal childhood and receive the love of a parent. Not forgetting the trust issues they will have when they find out that the parent they loved most was actually a liar.
Ikr😓
Whatever you're taking is not good for your health
kids you have to forgive your mother ,it is painful she left for 3 years but she is still your mother and you will never change that,sorry,take my advice cos one day one time you gonna be adults and you will go though many challenges in life and marriage,and you won't want to see your kids rejecting you ,break the curse,welcome your mother and learn to love her even if she dsn't deserve it
Sure
Those who have dislike this must be from mother's side
Its the kids who suffer out of all the drama.
The woman ndio ana makosa,mbona aliwaacha? Let them be with the dad
Totally agree
A heartless human being...kuacha mtoi akiwa ananyonya ni ungwana kweli? That's a very responsible dad.. pole baba watoi kwa kuharibiwa sikukuu ya Eid.. so sad.
Mimi nilienda ngambo 4 yrs...kurudi kenya mtoto wangu akanikwamilia coz the dad was always a dead beat since when i was pregnant...but i made sure mtoto wangu anapata all necessities. Thank God finally my son reunited with me.... Glory to God
He should appeal. He has a right to raise his kids, he is a more competent father.
At least now children can stand for themselves
The whole truth is out. He is a lying. Watch Virginia Wangari show today.
She was securing the custody to start exploiting upkeep money, after hapa alikuwa sasa aendee FIDA, Boychild 👦 wakati tunatafuta shetani it is this ladies around us
Wisdom pays.God in control.Amen
The issue here this kids have no maternal care. You don't become a mother by giving birth but by taking care of what you have brought forth. I love those kids standing by their dad.
Naturally all kids love their mothers more, she lost it when they rejected her. Her only option is to maybe swallow her pride and go to bond with the kids if she really wants them
she doesn't even deserve that title to be called a "mother". A mother is to nurse or nurture. Kudos to the child who called that she doesn't know her and that she is called GRACE.
It does not matter who is right or wrong. Both parents need to protect the children. Children are a gift from God to us how we bring them up is our gift to God. Parents should stop using them as pawns to fight each other. Very unfortunate. I am sure one parent is lying here unfortunately its not easy to know which one. May God help those children.
watch the clip again and see/hear what the man is saying,that he obeyed the court rule and brought the kids wacha propaganda wewe.
the children could be lying too? their word is not good enough?
@@msejuma1105 for children to lie one parent told them to. Remember we are given children like a blank sheet. It depends on what we write on them. You teach them to lie they will do it without shame
@@vincentrajema2643 one parent is lying this is not propaganda. According to your statement you will say its the woman. While at it who invited the media? Those children need counseling to help them through this.
@@merciemerciekomu4403 you might be undergoing the sane sorry to say coz the media people you are talking about are always in the,have you ever attended any court session,they are always there my dear so compare the two scenarios,okay
They have the right to refuse going with their mum,But please dad show them to respect their mum regardless.
Ur absolutely right dear
@C M true coz they actually don't know what thr mum went through till she took that decision
@@chainbre275 there will never exist a reason for a mother to abandon an infant my friend
very true
Inaitwa public sympathy...alafu amefanya vibaya ku wa influence to hate the mom.seen such cases...the kids ndiyo huumia after years zimepita..infact it shows what the man is really like...ametafuta hao wote kuonyesha kitu....the judge was not a fool to give the mom custody...
this " so called mother" should be punished by the law instead of the law favouring her....
Thanks to this man may God bless your family... This woman leaving the poor children without a mother and yet a live shame on her...
How can the woman claim to love her kid yet she refused to breastfeed the baby?
She's malicious
@Wambo Wambo amekauzwa na anarudi kunyemelea Mali ya jamaa.
@Wambo Wambo he he acha kunifurahisha 😹😹😸😸😀😀
When a man leaves a pregnant woman hata Wacha mtoto, pregnancy...is normal, but when a woman leaves the kids to the father is abnormal...This is society we live in....🤷🤷
Where did she go to? 🤔 That's why i always say no matter go with your kids as a mother... never leave them behind in the name of you don't have money...go hustle hard with your kids...but am sure the guy also played a part he must be feeding his kids with some info 🤔 😂 regarding how their mum left them ....he also can play a part and the kids can accept their mother.
No matter what your mother has done will always be their mother...your dad will be your dad no matter
Father should teach those kid's there is forgiveness.... they should forgive their mother to avoid curse ... mama ni mama , not kawainda mama kuacha mboma yake bila shababu .....Waw 🤔
You have a valid point...
Sure.Could be the guy wasn't doing too well financially wakati aliachwa
@@elijahatambo2717 probably
Hii mambo yenu ya curse. Mimi hucheka sana. Curse ndio nini?
@@kaykay5605 search what is curse
The irony is, the same woman will run AGAIN to the court to cry for upkeep money for the children she left 3 years ago. 🚮
I think this man planted a bad seed to children against their mother.
What the hell are you talking about who raised these kids so far.
The father yes, but we haven't heard what fled Hugo mama out of her home.
@@emmanuelkirwa9199 am here for the kids no matter what happened between their parents they need not to go through anything like this.
That judge was "paid" to undermine this man
Eti huyo sio mama yetu 😂😂😂😂simnamjua anaitwa Grace na anafanya inooro.....wololo speechless me....
She walked away from a 2months old child. Period.
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Hiyo ni aibu😂😂😂😂
@@ianwesley2569 hata mm ningemlenga.....better baba kukimbia mtoto kuliko mama kukimbia mtoto. ...wako right sioni makosa ya watoto
@@robertmwangi7875 tena mbaya
She's a goldigger anataka child support, if the court denies you full custody of your kids resign kazi lakini mtu asikutumia kujifaidisha na pesa
Someone gimme this father's number please!! Waaaaw..
Wachana na watu wameiva...chuna yako uivishe si kudai kitu ishaa kua
What's yo point??? Ann aye...
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Boy child hoiye. A present Dad is awesome. An absentee parent is loathsome. Just being there goes a long way. A full functional family is a blessing. Don't let the propaganda fool you. Dear Africans protect your values protect the family institution.
Leo tu we were talking with friends about kids being set against parents then boom I see this,sijui what transpired kwa hii familia but mjue kids can be poisoned by either parent,sio mchezo it happens
I felt the same.There is no child who would gain the challenge to answer the way these kids are doing.The answers.. And the media cover,,lo!!I tend to differ with everyone else.I guess this Grace has been trying to reach her children and make things up between them,but reaxhing them could be hard.
@@shirucate2535 that's just a convenient presumption that doesn't realize how intelligent exposed children are about their rights. Also note that the best mark of a good ECD schooling is the confidence gained by a child to express himself. We just have to be open minded and discard piled opinion over motherhood. Ladies style up or lose your comfort over presumed ability to give meaningful care for your children. Courts and children's officers have ability to detect if a child is couched on particular reaction. No child sticks with a person who mistreats him if there be an option out that the child knows is better. Is this woman single or already married elsewhere and are the children acceptable in her set up. What's her moral lifestyle like and why did she leave her initial marriage?
this is what men who think women will benefit from child support have resorted to doing. If you go to court for your kids, do not accept money from these idiots. Work hard and sustain yourself and your kids - he can chip in when he is with them without you touching his money
Nick Ouma and that is why the judge had made that ruling. Because he had files of evidence before him. These are coached kids, period!
@@mamageorge8289 Never think judges are infallible. Quite a number of them are sooo corrupt and only cares about "what's in it for me" rule.
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Suffer the consequences
Good job kids salute to your Dad
Well, Narrates the whole story while in the car, gets out of the car, Narrates the story again.... then 3:14
Before we jump and judge the woman let her speak her side...
The case has been revisited now
Lesson learnt ..no one knows the story of mother thou ,but women it doesn't matter just consider your kids first ,if marriage fails move with them suffer with them seek support while with them.childrens are blessings .
Ladies tuliwajua. Since mjue courts always favours you on the children custody,mtu akipata mtoto mmoja tu mnaanza vitisho mkikwaruzana kidogo nitaeda. Wanaume kujeni nyuma ya hema,siku hizi tunatreat watoto mpaka wakieda kutembea kwao hawawezi lala siku ya tatu. Nduru usiku na "mum turudi kwa Dadi"😜🤣 Mine youngest is 5 na hata aede supreme court "ng'o"
Woi mobile tu Wako wadogo wacha wakue wabig watauliza mzai mum wetu tunataka kumjua
Hawa si wadogo
Dad to be given full custody of the kids.