June vlog: I'm Writing A KNITTING BOOK! & Three Months w/ the Baby
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June vlog: I'm Writing A KNITTING BOOK! & Three Months w/ the Baby
Hello and welcome to a vlog where I share what's been going on in June as we travel to Portugal with the baby for the first time, and I share some huge news - I'm writing another knitting book! ⚡️
I'm so excited to finally be able to share more about this project that I've been working on behind the scenes for months already. The knitting book will be published later this year (2024).
Three months with the baby has gone by so fast! It's been quite intense as you can imagine, and my emotions have been all over the place as I try to adapt to this new lifestyle and role as a Mom.
Hope you enjoy this video, thank you for watching 💕
Kika
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Hi , I hope you are all right 😢. Miss your Podcast and your Family… all the best from a big Fan from switzerland 🇨🇭
My dog heard you crying through the TV and came over to cuddle to make you feel better. He ended up looking at the TV and whining because he couldn't cuddle you better. You are very much loved, Kika. Being a mom is HARD. You're not the only one. Even my big golden retriever loves you from across the world!
how sweet
Good doggy. 😊
I had a sweet dog like that. I'd be upset and she'd jump on to the lounge chair and sit by me, turning her little head side to side. Trouble was her whimpering made ME cry more hahahahahaha! Once someone goes out in sympathy with you, it makes you worse :-)
Awww what a sweetie it made me cry cuz I miss my dog so much and he used to do the same thing❤️❤️❤️
I paused the video watching you break down. As a grandmother I want to say, enjoy the most precious time and that is NOW. Yes its overwelming and yes its exausting and yes your house will be a mess sometimes and yes you will blame youself for a lot of things ( that what Mothers do) but please take a step down if needed and only step up if you can. We will wait for your book, we will wait for your video’s . Time doesn’t wait, spend it with your little boy. As we say here in the Netherlands “Dust if you must, but the world's out there
With the sun in your eyes, and the wind in your hair; A flutter of snow, a shower of rain, This day will not come around again.” Big hugs.
Exactly what you said. Time simply flies by, they grow so fast and in the blink of an eye it seems, they are adults. Kika, you are doing great!! Don't forget yourself in this completely bewildering time. xx
Love that saying!! I’ll try to remember it 😊
I actually have that poem on my office wall! Love it. Great advice
Life is rushed enough as it is. Don't put so much pressure on yourself....take it one day at a time, if it takes 6 months.....no worries. your book will be out when it's out. Do not burn your candle for other peoples expectations, you must come first
Very good advice!🌷❤️🇨🇦
Amen
Absolutely. Take a deep breath, and allow yourself to be human.
This is a really good representation of the difficulties women face when they want to be a mother AND have a career. I’m a mom myself and I see so many comments saying to slow down, but I genuinely understand the desire to build your company and and the fulfillment that comes with that after working so hard for so many years.
Postpartum anxiety is so common. You are so brave to share the whirlwind of emotions that new moms deal with,and I’m sure you’ve helped some other new mom out there feel less alone. ❤ Take care of yourself and know that you’re doing a great job!
Yes! 🙌
You just had a baby. Your body created a whole human being. Give yourself grace.
It will all be fine. I'm a 67-year-old Grandma with an 8- and 5-year-old Granddaughters who are in school full time. I cry because I have no more babies to watch. They are the dessert of life! The cleaning can wait. No one ever says you're a good Mom because you have clean kitchen floors. Enjoy your son. The book will get done. You are a Strong Mom. I love all your patterns. Hug that baby tight.
Amen. ❤
I am commenting on your first sentence: it wil all be fine. My grandmother was born in 1915, lived through two world wars, lost her husband in a terrible accident, but still she had the strength to to support and encourage her sons and grandchildren with the words "det blir nog bra", ie. "it will all be fine" ❤
And it will be alright, be kind and patient with yourself. ❤
You are right!
OMG sweet lady! Welcome to motherhood!
Please please please be patient and kind to yourself!
It will never be enough in your mind, so be kind to yourself.
Your baby is thriving, all the rest doesn't matter.
I am looking forward to your new book!
Love your videos!
From a mama of 4, I will say this..... you don't get this back. This chapter, this babyhood, this teeeeeny bit of time with your 1st born. My oldest is 20, and I don't regret a day that I put work aside and spent time with my kids. Those are moments I can never get back. Take your time, all of your knit fans love you and will be here when you're ready to support you ♡♡♡ take a breath mama, you got this!
i'm 70 and those precious times where I STOPPED what I was doing and focused, really focused, on *them* are the rue string of pearls. NOTHING else is as important as the children you have birthed. THAT is priority. So right.
I have one son (all grown up now), and I feel the same way. The precious time of babyhood goes by in the blink of an eye. Your creativity and success will be there for you too. ❤
Kika, take a deep breath. All of us mothers have been there. You are the best mother for Edvin. Focus on that. Remember that you need time for yourself too. And go ahead with your book project. I hope you bring out a Spanish version!
Baby blues are normal. You're both doing a fantastic job. Life will get exhausting, and time will fly by. It's important to have some self care, leave mess, stay in your pjs, do what you can when you can. No-one is judging you. You've got this Kika it will get easier. Loads of positive thoughts. ❤❤❤
Dear Kika, I was crying with you as you shared because I REMEMBER those moments so well. I had 3 babies. So many new mothers try to do too much after their first baby. It's a huge learning curve, and your mind is kind of racing, you feel powerful, and then your body/emotions say NO, slow down. With my #2 and #3 baby I was wiser, and I let my housework go, I napped when my baby napped, and I ate a lot of nourishing food every day, plus "nutritional yeast". I had buckets of breast milk with #2 and #3. Believe me - this was magic. I felt so much better. You are exactly what Edwin needs, just please please (like many other commenters say) put yourself first, rest and eat and sleep whenever you can. You will feel so much better. We are cheering for you (with tears in my eyes).
Great advice!!❤
Hi, I recently discovered you chanel it was your wedding dress video and the next one I saw 👀 you had a baby. I decided to write today because I saw you crying and you remind me of myself 33 years ago. Mi first baby was 3 or 4 weeks old and I told my mom “if this is being a mom this baby will be a only child” and she told me “if this is what you think I am so disappointed “ . I would like to tell you what I would tell my daughter in the same situation. “ It is normal my sweet girl! You are tired, you body is still adjusting. I am surprised you can accomplish in the present situation” I would say this and more while I hug her” .
Please give yourself a break Kika! Hugs from Mexico City
Our generation relies on maintaining a maternal identity outside of motherhood - I think your approach is balanced. Do what you love! And you’re doing it.
After I had kids I remember after a particularly hard day thinking, "being a mom is just a matter of waking up and deciding who you're going to disappoint that day." All too often that person was me. There is so much pressure. You're not alone, and your awareness is a testament to how great a job you are doing... and you know we are all so grateful you are still creating. 💛
Every woman listening to your struggles absolutely completely understands!! We have have all been there and feeling what you are feeling! Give yourself GRACE and know it will pass!
Post whenever you feel you want to. We will happily be here waiting for you and ready to provide you our love and support. Trust us. We aren’t going anywhere nor do we expect anything from you besides your happiness. ❤ you got this.
A tip from a 70 year old who has brought up 3 children primarily on my own. Children grow and change so fast, it is a time of bonding and enjoyment that is so valuable for you both. It creates memories you will treasure for the rest of your life. If you try to do too much that takes you away from those special moments and you will find the time has gone.
Prioritize your baby and when baby sleeps, rest, knit if you you like.
Writing a book is always a pressure even with out a publisher deadline. Is there someone who can come in for a couple of hours every other day to just keep the house stuff ticking over? People pleasing will only wear you out.
Establishing a routine so you know when you can totally devote all time and energy to only one topic at a time. Be totally present with your gorgeous son and dont think about house and book, then when he rests, you can think totally knitting and book.
Keep videos short and sweet to keep those ticking over for the time being.
Having a baby, and rearing children is demanding, you also had an op to recover from. Be gentle with yourself and your time and things will gradually settle. You have a loving husband who I am sure will help you navigate this current overwhelm. Remember "All things will pass".
You are adorable! I love your designs and I’m excited about the new book. Be gentle with yourself these days. It will get better as the days go by. You’re doing great. Every mom feels the same way, thinking they’re not keeping up. The baby was trying to tell you, it will be fine, mom!
I’ve had 5 children and they are all different. All grown up. It’s ok to be a business woman and a mum. Your still a good mum it’s ok to get help in , your amazing designer and love what you do That’s who you are. Don’t stop being you ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🇬🇧 xx
Sending you a big hug. I love the fact that you're such an honest person and not trying to fake anything. What you described is exactly what I felt like when I had my first child, and I felt so guilty not being in a big happy baby bubble. It's a huge transformation becoming a mother and it takes time. I had my second child in April, and now I'm finally able to enjoy the baby months because I know how quickly they will be over. I think what is so overwhelming about becoming a parent is the fact that you have to say goodbye to a part of your old self. It takes time and work. Sending you all the love for the rollercoaster ride of parenthood!❤️
My darling, enjoy every minute of the fortune of having a healthy and beautiful baby and new life! This is a big transition and you will get over the anxious feelings with all the smiles you get from your baby!
Thank you, thank you, thank you for sharing your handsome little man! It is so marvelous to see your little family again. You are such a good mother! Some of us in your audience have already shared in motherhood and love your new adventure, and especially your knitting skills. Have missed you here.
I was the same way with baby #1 and on top of that I had had so many complications but by the time he was 5 months, things smoothed out and I could both enjoy him and relax etc. He is a beautiful baby. Savor the moments, embrace the craziness of new motherhood- it passes so quickly. Your videos are wonderful and so heartwarming. Your knits are exceptional. ❤
Hi Kika, I was almost 38 years old when I had the first child and I remember so much about the mixed emotions about the excitement of the new baby but also how paralysed I was that I lost all the freedom in my life. My girls are almost 11 and 9 now and I wish I was kinder to myself by that time. Also the kids grow so fast, so please enjoy the time you have with Edwin, becouse he will groww like in a minute. Of course you are also excited about your new book, but you can have many more in your life, but the time you have with Edwin as a baby is limited. Believe me!❤
I totally understand what you are going through as a new mommy. I remember feeling tired, sad at times, overwhelmed, lonely, and not sure how to balance my life and time. Yet, here I was blessed with a beautiful healthy precious gift. My life seemed disorderly and chaotic, at times. I was super tired. What I learned was, the first 4-6mths after my baby's birth was transitional and life seemed to shift as we got into a good routine and I no longer felt so tired and inadequate as a new momma. You will be fine, things will pass, and you will be magnificent in everything you do. Blessings from California ❤
Oh Kika- This is all normal. It is very hard and your son is adorable. Don't worry this all balances out for a while then crazy happens again then your fine. You look great-We all love your talent and will be there for you when you need to share. I just bought the love letter top. It is way too cute. Take your time-breathe-your knitting is amazing and we have patience for you.
Oh my you made me cry. My son is 20 years old and I remember after the c - section for months just being in shock, having this amazing love and feeling all over the place and super proud. I used to cry at commercial breaks😂. It’s your hormones luv. Your doing great and so is your bloke too xx
I love how real you are! I want you to know that your people, us, we aren’t going anywhere! I’m a mother too, I have 3 daughters, 25, 20, and 16. It’s hard for sure but I promise you will figure it out! One day at a time. It’s okay to be a mom and a wife and a sister and a daughter and have a career. It’s also okay to ask for help when you need it or a hug. Thank you for sharing your real life with us. Sending you a hug from one mama to another ;)
Kika you are awesome! The early months with a new baby (particularly your first) are hard. There is so much change to adapt to, plus hormones, plus lack of sleep. Try not to be too hard on yourself. Nobody is perfect. First, if you and your baby are taken good care of, then everything else will fall into place. If some things take a bit longer, that’s ok. Remember to take care of yourself, because you are the lynch pin for everyone else. Having a good cry once and again is good, too. Your gift for knitting design is like your super power. I promise you will not lose it.
Sending you so much love as you settle in to your new reality. It definitely does get easier. 🥰
I have been a silent (non-commenting) watcher since you started making knitting videos. You are loved by all of us and we will wait for your videos, patterns, books, and anything else you share! Find the balance you need to continue your life journey and be happy with your husband and the new addition to your family. We all understand. You are now a part of "The Mother's Club" and we get it! Sending you hugs from Colorado. By the way, I am NOT a knitter and LOVE watching ALL your videos while I CROCHET! Our baby girl turned 15 years old a few weeks ago, too. 😄🧡🧡🧡🧡
I soooo understand you Darling!! Juggling motherhood and work and life in general is really challenging and hard sometimes! You have my wholeheartedly sympathies ❤❤❤
Dear Kika, you are so strong! I felt every word to my bones when you said everything is overwhelming. Hormons are having a party right now. No one will be mad if there’s no video from you, the book will get finished and be awesome! But really important is your family and your health. Don’t be so hard to yourself! You’re such a beautiful and talented person. Sending you a big hug from Germany! Thank you for the wonderful patterns and videos!
Dearest Kika! The most important is you! Work will always be there, part it’s not to get anxious over schedule’s! Rest well and eat well, knit and enjoyed the things you love . The times goes so fast but it’s goes faster with family! I just finish two Arctic Light sweaters ! Your designs are so gorgeous! Thank you for taking the time to You tube! 😊 as motherhood comes , what we do know as long as baby, have dry nappy, belly full and with mama and papa ! Where ever your feet will bring you and your knitting hand will produce! He will be a happy baby, because mommy do what she love best! I really look forward for your knitting book! Thank you , you have made my retirement special knitting a joy! ❤ 🇨🇦
I could barely go to the supermarket with anxiety, stress and just overwhelm at 3 months with my first baby! You are doing so well! ❤
Don’t be so hard on yourself. Just relax and enjoy your baby. Housework is always there what doesn’t get done is not important. 💕
Caos is a way to reshuffle values. Having a child brings forth what is already living inside us and gives a chance to see us for who we are. Let it arise, see it, accept it without judgement - love yourself and for the rest ....when you find ways to calm your nervous system you can be present with your baby, cause the calmer you are able to be- the calmer your baby will be. They are so sensitive and pick up on our emotions. All the Best
Thank you for sharing your ups and downs. Remember to be kind to yourself. You are doing well as a mom and as a creative woman ❤.
That's what it's like being a parent! All your wants and needs take the back seat, baby comes first! I was so confused for a long time when I had my first child. I missed my own time and hobbies, felt so guilty and stressed out. It will get easier in time but you should not try to do EVERYTHING! Let something be and enjoy your little bundel of joy (and poop ;). You have made a big 'name' of yourself in the knitting world already! You can be proud of yourself! Take care and take it easy 💜
You’ll never regret spending this short, precious time with your beautiful baby. It’s gone in an instant. Pamper yourself and your baby. Enjoy him. Everything else will follow.
We love you Kika and we’ll always be here supporting you! Take a spa day for yourself and before you know it you’ll be over the hormonal adjustments. Beautiful family you have ❤
Hi Kika. I hope you and baby and dad are doing well. Just wanted to send some love your way. I recently found your videos and they’ve been so calming and grounding during the hard weeks with no sleep with my 5 month old. I’m just very thankful for videos like yours. So thank you for being yourself. You also have a great group of subscribers that will give you grace while you take all the time you need to figure out mommyhood.
Agree with some of the other comments. This is a time to rest, love on your baby, and get used to this major life change. There is no reward for being a super woman and doing it all but there is a lifelong reward for spending undistracted time with that precious soul you have. Mine is 35 now but I wouldn't trade the memories for anything.
Life with small kids is tough but also lovely. You are doing an amazing job. Wow. Love everything you do❤️
You're doing great. Don't be too hard on yourself. Take a deep breath and take care of you and your gorgeous little boy 💙
Kika, we are all with you. Every woman knows this situation.
Lots of hugs! ❤
Awww, I don’t think we can really imagine how much we will fall in love with our babies, and you’re right, we can’t give them 💯 of ourselves, or even anything close to what we wish we could. They will always enjoy our loving attention. My son is 24 now and I still feel that way sometimes! But I’m sure Edvin will be as ambitious as both his parents and seeing you two follow your dreams will help him navigate that process himself one day. Don’t hesitate to ask for help too. Some of us are not as busy at times and can maybe help a little. 😊
The newborn stage is really hard! Hang in there Mamma, it does get better. Don't be too hard on yourself your doing great!! ❤
It’s totally normal to have these emotions, don’t ignore them… keep letting them out.
Things will get better with time 🌺🌸💕💕💕
You’re doing great Kika! And I am sure you find the right rhythm in life! Keep on going 🙏😘❤️
We are not going anywhere. Just take your time 😊
10 weeks and so much head control! Mine is 9.5 weeks and I can't imagine taking him on a flight yet! You're all doing so well, just take it all one day at a time
You are doing great! Life with a new baby is not easy, hang on to your sanity, do what feels good and right for you. You and your family will figure out what works for you. Stay YOU and keep up the great work you do. I also started a business when my children were very young ( my son was 2 and the fallowing year I had my daughter). I am still in business after 34 year, lots of up and downs but as a whole WONDERFUL years. I am so glad I kept my business while raising my two children with my wonderful husband (now married 36 years). I certainly had a lot of sacrifice to make but it also gave me a chance to be home for my children since my studio was at home, for 20 years I had 5 employees, now only my daughter in law and I , life is great. Do you, take time to enjoy life. 😊
Oh, Kika, I feel you! But believe me, it is fine - you do great, so don't worry and do not doubt yourself so much! You really don't have to. You are a great artist and a really wonderful and kind person - and, for sure, a great mum too. I know life can be hard and overwhelming at times - but this too shall pass. You got this, girl! Thank you for sharing and all the hard work!
PS.: Looking really forward to your new book - love your patterns and I know, it will be great!
You're doing great momma!!! You have a beautiful family. It's okay to be sad and anxious. You're feelings are valid. Being a mom is as hard as it is rewarding. Take your time and take it a day at a time. Don't worry about us on TH-cam. We'll always be here.
Calm down! You are the best mum ever ❤
Oh my goodness it is so easy to fall into the trap of feeling like you have to be perfect when you become a new mum but you are doing brilliantly, so don't be hard on yourself because it takes time to adjust. x
You are doing a wonderful job! My baby is eight and I work full time as well. It is hard but I make sure my time with him is measured in Quality.
Yes you're blessed, yes you have a good life, yes you have.... but none of that negates that life is hard "having" does not mean life's daily pressures and the feeling you have to perform 100% 24/7 is any less.
Set boundaries for yourself, talk to your mom about your feelings. If anyone can understand and empathize it's her. We all love you and we all want you to balance your pressure, you are not a performance monkey sweetheart, you are human, wonderful and so amazingly talented. Take a breath, have coffee with your mom even if it's on FaceTime. We will be here when you catch your breath. ❤❤❤❤
oh Kika, you are a wonderful mother. and you are a creative woman. It's a few months in which one lags behind the other, but it's not forever. I remember very well that a very similar thing happened to me over 30 years ago... We women don't always have to work like machines, the laundry can wait and your book will come when it comes. The cuddle moments with the little one are irretrievable. and maybe there is someone who would be happy to help you with the mundane household chores from time to time, if you just ask. feel hugged.
Chica I just want to say congratulations he is absolutely gorgeous you made a beautiful baby... And I was so excited to watch to see if you had him on your birthday what does special memory you have congratulations again
I was going to comment, but after reading so many of these comments here, there is nothing I can say better. Such sweet, compassionate people here! Take the advice of those that match how you are feeling. I have a son too. Now 34. When he was a newborn, I cried for 3 months.... everytime he cried, I cried. I'm happy to tell you that when we are together now all we do is laugh. Laughing is alot more fun! But I wouldn't give up those first few months for anything, despite the stress and pressure. A big hug for you!
Oh my goodness Edwin is so cute!! It takes time to figure life out after a baby and it will get easier. That's very exciting you are creating another book!
Time stopped 23:45. This is a typical feelings of being a mum. You love you child, you want to be there for them 100% but you run a business which you love & feel you need to fo that. You are a home maker with your husband & you've mentioned everything is a little untidy. This is so normal. No need to tidy, don't feel guilty of wanting to work, don't feel guilty about not wanting to work & be with baby. Be sleep deprived doesn't help. You'll get your routine & so will hubby & baby. It dies actually get better. You are doing so well, you look great & you've got this. , Give yourself time. You are lucky you have time & support around you. Sending hugs & high fives 🍼👏🤗🧶x will carryon watching now 😊
Dear Kika,
what you’re feeling is normal. I remember when my firstborn was 3~4 months old, I was desperate to do something -anything!- not baby-related, normal adult stuff, just to feel my worth as an independent human being opposed to “just a mom”. And at the same time felt this immense guilt for not being able to be fully present in the moment with my child.
Please remind yourself every time when you feel stuck, that all of this is temporary. You will find yourself in a completely different situation after every couple of weeks. Time will fly twice as fast as it did pre-baby. And he will grow faster than you expect. All the work will patiently wait for you just as your followers ❤
My 3. daughter was born a week before Edvin, it was nice to follow your pregnancy journey, and panic knitting with you before childbirth 😅
Hey little lady, take a deep breath! Enjoy your little boy, the moments are so fleeting, and they won't come back again. If your dead lines have to be pushed back a little... well just breathe again. It will come. Just so very happy to see you and your family again. Many hugs.🙃
The greatest work you can ever do is raise your little one , taking quality time. No person looking back onto this stage of life wishes they had worked more. Value this time, over everything else..❤
Please be kind to yourself. Your family has grown and changed and you have grown and changed as a person. Allow yourself time to figure out what that means. We, your subscribers, love you and your beautiful patterns, we love that you share your life with us, but we will be here whenever you are ready to upload your next video or publish your new book. Do it in your own time. As a bonus, waiting for a new Kika book means I have more time to choose patterns from your beautiful first book. Take care of yourself and your family ❤
I fully recognise myself in what you said… you’re not alone 😊 and it will get better sooner 🙏
Hi Kika! I’m so happy to see you posting again! I just wanted to say that those first months of motherhood are sooo rough! Hopefully by now you’ve already started to experience it yourself, but it does get a lot better as little babies grow! Hang in there, I’m sure you’re doing amazing as a mom, you sure are as a creator! Looking forward to your next book!
In your own words- ‘It’ll be fine!” You appear to be doing a brilliant job. Just keep talking the difficulties out - it helps so much not to keep them inside. Good luck with the book!🎉😊
So excited for your new book! I'm not a mom but I can see there's a lot of complex emotions when it comes to having a new baby. You will likely not be able to "do it all", and that is okay! Cleaning can wait, and us knitters will still be here whenever the patterns are ready. You got this!
Loved this Kika. You are so amazing, producing another knitting book! Your passion for your job will always help you through the down times. I just finished reading a book called The Well-Lived Life by Dr. Gladys McGarey, 102 year old woman doctor who had 6 children! It’s quite a lesson on life. Im a Grama now, getting back into knitting and will be getting your book which is now offered at the Woolly Thistle! You are a great mom. Your son will respect you for following your passions and what’s important to you. A great lesson and freedom for him to do the same! It can be very overwhelming for sure, but you seem to understand life is always changing,❤
We all feel your struggle. Finding balance in your life between the beautiful and ugly, busy and mundane. Wishing you peace. You are not alone❤
You are so sweet to watch! Your patterns are gorgeous and you will get it done! It will all work. As you get older you will see that....but you are awesome!!! Emotions are like clouds...blow on by!!!
Thank you. You published a dignified but honest portrayal of what postpartum really is: Beautiful, but very hard. I actually got on TH-cam just a couple days ago to find out if you had posted anything because I wanted to check in and see how you are doing. Then last night I saw this and I am glad you are well. Keep going, And keep having those conversations with yourself where you check in and make sure that you're not doing too much. Hugs from Minnesota.
Oh, Mama! All us other Mamas out here know what you're going through. Just breathe and give yourself some grace. In 5 years, you will be happier knowing that you slowed down to enjoy your precious baby. We will all be waiting for you when you can come back full force.
I did enjoy this little vlog. Your baby boy is precious and clearly thriving. As many others have already said, this truly is an exhausting time. The sleep deprivation at this stage makes everything seem just so overwhelming and difficult. I know I felt this way so in the afternoons when he was headed down for a nap I’d call my husband, or leave a message for him, to say, “I’m laying down with the baby & unplugging the phone.” I slept till I woke up & those naps really helped. My son is 33 now but I well remember those wonderful, joy filled, and exhausting days. Take your time, & enjoy your baby. To quote the last stanz of a poem I’ve seen many times in America, by
Ruth Hulbert Hamilton….
Oh cleaning and scrubbing will wait till tomorrow,
But children grow up, as I’ve learned to my sorrow.
So quiet down, cobwebs. Dust, go to sleep.
I’m rocking my baby. Babies don’t keep.
Your baby is so beautiful ! Your life has changed and will continue to change. Priorities before baby cannot be the priorities now. The baby blues will eventually go away. Trust me I know. It is hard being a mom. You have so many hopes and fears. Do you know any other moms? It helps to have a friend to talk about the challenges of parenting. My children are now 61, 60, and 51. I am sure I made many mistakes. But they all grew up healthy and I am proud of them . By the way don't worry about the housework. If you can afford it get someone to come in and clean. Twice a month should be plenty. Glad to see you are publishing another book. Oh and there is something you should know...at about 5 months Edvin will start to get cranky, crying...and it will be hard to comfort him. The teeth come in and it is hard for the little one . Take care of yourself.
Kika, I will stay subscribed and always wait for you. You’re always going to be relevant. You’re relatable. You don’t edit out the tears and frustration. If you did you’d be just another knitting tutorial you tuber. The Cinema sweater is the first pattern I ever bought because I can watch the video and have the confidence to make one and I’m half way through my practice one with scrap yarn. Thank you. Now go rest when you can and enjoy that beautiful boy because once he gets mobile, look out. Like cats, babies love yarn. 😂
I just wanted to let you know I hear you and I support you so much and I feel like I understand what you are going through. I take care of my 2 1/2 year-old grandson for my daughter. I think it is very very difficult for young women, trying to balance sleep nourishment, career, and motherhood. I wish I lived in Finland as I would be there to help you as well! You are loved, you are a beautiful, amazing mother, and you are a fabulous woman!
It will get easier as time goes by, enjoy your time with your little one as they grow up so quickly. Take care of you too. Excited about your new book. Hugs from the UK❤❤❤
Touched by your humanity.
I look forward to hearing more about your upcoming book!
Kika baby blues are Completely Normal, PLEASE Talk with your doctor about what you are feeling as they are the ones who will know how to help. My Yarn Shop is getting your books in and I can't wait to do all your patterns.
Just do what you need to do. We will wait for videos etc. if your heart needs to do the book then do it, sometimes we need adult time as well as being a Mum. It’s completely normal to feel overwhelmed being a new mother. Take care and do whatever you need for you. 💐
I'm a big big fan of your dirty caramel sweater. To me one of the most beautiful color work I have seen so far. I would be so happy about another pattern like this! Maybe for a summer top!?
You are doing great, beautiful baby. It was Nice to hear from you. Take care.
Such exciting book news! I was finally able to get your first book recently, so thrilled to knit things from both that & the new one! Also thank you Kika for sharing the harder moments with us, too -- I love how honest you are, I'm not a mother at least yet but it helps a lot to see both the good and the bad. And we will be here whenever you are ready and able to post videos etc, please don't worry about that and enjoy the bebe time
I admire any woman who is self employed and rearing a young child. Its not easy. Be kind to yourself. Its hard fitting everything in. Your baby is so loved. Your doing a great Job. Hormones will be all over the place now. Love watching your videos. Your so talented enjoy all your achievements.😊
Soo good to see a vlog from you!😊
The season of life you are going through is so rigorous. And all those emotions kind of go along with it. I appreciate you sharing. Go easy on yourself.🤗
Congratulations on the book!
Dear Kika❤️ First of all I want to thank you so much for your sincerity! I take a long break in business with every my kid, you know, but it was many good and also very bad days to… now I think, this hormone swing it’s just a part of game…
You are so great, so inspiring! Thank you for such a lovely vlog!
Take care ❤️🌺✨ (sorry for my English)
It is so so ok to feel overlaod.I wish you develop selfcompation. And also can I tell you that somethings don’t have to be perfect. You are a very very good mother. Love from Québec.
Big hugs from Missouri Love on that baby and everything else will fall into place!
Hello Kika! Love seeing you back. Take life moment by moment. We r not meant to do all the things all the time. We all go through "seasons" in life. Your followers will be here for you. Sending love and prayers for you and your family.
Love and Light for you and your family.
❤❤❤I am test knitting one of your patterns for the book and cannot express how happy I am for you and your famiky😊😊😊😊. Soooo happy and proud of you❤❤❤
Oh Kika first thing you look absolutely radiant and second you just let it all out when you need to it’s just the baby blues and very very normal where you’ll have your good and not so good days. Retired 68yr old nurse here who had 4 children which included Triplets now all grown and I still remember the pressure I put on myself to do it all perfectly and quickly realized that was not healthy so I started to relax and face each day as it unfolded and took the time to rest when my babies slept, played with them more and let the house chores wait a little. Your hormones are all over the place after having a baby plus we are learning what on earth did we do with our time before bringing a little human into the world who now rules how our day unfolds. This was a very beautiful and heartfelt video and all so very normal, don’t try to fit it all into your day, take time to relax and rest with your baby as your body is still healing from the birth and it’s such a short time that they are this tiny and grow so very fast….thank you for sharing your beautiful life with us as a new Mum. Sending hugs your way! ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
So lovely to see you:) Please be kind to yourself:) Each day is a gift...just take one day at a time right now:) Babies are busy and such Joy:) We love you:) We'll be here:)
there is not enough discussion about how hard it is to be a stay at home WORKING mom (or dad). running a business from home while mothering is soo challenging. you and Juki are both working so hard and also parents now. it’s so tough! sending y’all both so much love.