Astagfar, my heart is crying for the girl that is completely fit but father doesn’t come to see her and is not agree to take her home, Where is her mother, this girl could study and could learn any skill and normally behaving
Mr Edhi is a heaven dweller. Nobody on earth can take his place. He has set a benchmark for humanity and humantarian causes around the world. The level of care and concern and empathy he has for other humans is matchless. I am shell shocked to see all these ladies in pain. I wish i lived in Karachi. So i could volunteer for my own country fellows. Even though i do not like anyone to defame Pakistan , it makes me sad to hear stories of my own country fellows from a complete stranger.
I cried watching that mother refusing her daughter to stay,even now at age 51 1st person i call when things go wrong is my mum , I'm so lucky to have her, I hope these women have a better future 😢
Literal translation:💔 20:47 "My heart is crying. How am I not able to go home? I feel sad. We aren't able to find the way." 20:55 "It (direction) slipped out of my mind and I feel like crying [gestures while smiling]." 21:01 "I beg your forgiveness, because we couldn't find my home."
Maturity is realising most fathers dont care much about children. If your father is good you are blessed. Take good care of him. Father's love for most children is quite conditional its not like mother's love
@@SaraanSarangi Maybe 50 years ago, but that sort of relationship isn’t considered healthy now. Nobody should have a child if they can’t love them unconditionally.
For Pakistan to lift their standard of living, they must treat their women better. Support girls education and teach about female health and relationship conflicts. The parent's education and ability to support a family is critical. Family responsibilities need to be taught to males, so the girls have a chance to be employable. Until these things are planned and implemented the numbers in this place and others will be overflowing with rejected women. So what happens to rejected males?
Not only that. It is the general mentality of not caring for others. Only your little circle is important , and then only if the other is no bother. There is no feeling of solidarity there. So nothing gets build up for the general good. Whereas in large parts of Europe this is excactly what happened over the past 2000 years.: Orphanages , old peoples homes , poor peoples shelters , etcetera. Btw ..rejected males can live on their own. The women cannot. To the other commentators here : did you not hear what was said ? A woman can not leave on her own there . She has to belong to a man !!! That is why they can t be released "into the wild ".
Pakistan has education for women , the only issue here is poverty. Our quality of life and standard of living is directly related to our poverty . In areas where girls don’t go to schools , boys dont either . It’s because they are no good educational institutions in rural areas of Pakistan and most of time , education is so expensive , the lower classes can’t afford it . This is all thanks to our corrupt leadership , do not blame the people of Pakistan.
@@daisystanley4301 what ruthless faith belief or male domination? what? how are you trying to reverse it? by bombing people. Your morals are worst of the world. Take a look at yourself first before judging others. Also most of the people in those regions are peaceful and living with peaceful faith (Islam). The only thing creating problems for us is US and bombing democracy.
I don't understand why the women who are mentally stable now cannot be let out to lead their lives??? Why do the parents or husbands consent have to be there for them to be free of this depressing environment? I think anyone who is not sick would get sick living in these conditions. The doctors and staff don't have a grasp of the reality of the healed women and that these women need to get out of this place. It doesn't seem to be a compassionate setup.
you must understand that in a male dominated and strict society as this...,.it's impossible to a women to live alone even if she can support herself.....that culture just doesn't allow it.....she would be raped and killed in no time.
Where would they even go? To the streets? Where dangerous men roam? They have lost their only home so what can they do. But I do think the woman should be given some sort of means to provide for themselves. So many women here, why not let them work and start their own businesses and sell and make stuff? They would be able to make money and become independent too. I hate how they are cooped up in that building.
@@youwantfood9586 Are women not allowed to work in Pakistan? They don't have to leave right away. The fact that they're not even given the option is really messed up.
After watching this I am sad but I am grateful for my life in America and I almost feel ashamed for how I complain about smaller things.. Lord heal these ladies
I know what you mean. Honestly I’m getting tired of people screeching every day how “racism” and “sexist” America is. We have a great country. It’s not perfect, but at least we try. I’m glad I’m not a woman in Karachi, where men love bacha bazi boys, and cows are held in higher regard than women…
Ooo Mr. Cows are not held in higher regard in Pakistan. U r talking about India. Mind Ur language. Pakistan is a great country. I've been there many times. People r awesome and most of them despite being poor r sooo happy and thankful for what they have. Trust me they have far better mental peace than U. Next time U say something U better search properly and then babble it. 😮💨
@@lowrider81hdbacha bazi in karachi? Cows held in higher regard than women? My dude that’s India . Hindus think Cows are Holy , We Muslims eat Cows . Also as a woman in Pakistan , I can assure you we are fine . Any woman in any country can have a difficult life . Are there not women in the US on the streets abusing drugs ? If you ask me , I would say strip clubs are the worst places for Women where they’re sexualised and objectified by men and this is by the way Legal in the West.
Heartbreaking to watch that mother reject her adult daughter who wants to come home - what on earth is wrong with these people to be so horrible to others.
@@BareKnucklePolemicYes its exactly as she mentioned nothing to do with culture because Islam is actually family oriented. Woman abadon their children to the foster system all the time in the US
Imagine the billions that tyrants like the sharif and zardari families have looted from the people of Pakistan could be invested to help the impoverished, the disabled and the mentally sick. On the day of judgement they will have to face the creator.
Saddest documentary that I've ever watched. That the ones who are better are not able to go out and make an independent life for themselves reflects on the society and country.
Guys can we all come together and contribute towards giving these women a rightfully deserved chance. Maybe start up a small business for them or engage them in activities that would benefit them 😢
@everheardofprivacy it's getting hold of a NGO in the area and start there. I want to help and visit this place. I'm a mental health specialist consultant /autism advocate here in Canada
Very nice of you and the commentators , but as long as the country s own people do not become friendlier to "their neighbours " it will not help much. But of course....all help will be good for those who get it. !
It feels so crazy to keep them there against their will. Dr. Shabana and Hira can totally manage their own livelihoods. Let the out! This is imprisoning them against their will.
I can understand your perspective, but an alone women in Pakistan is not safe. Even if they go out willingly they won't find any job at all to sustain themselves. And then end up on the streets , then the cycle continues. Even if it's hell this shelter it is still better then becoming homeless.
@@arson30 why a doctor cant have a job and survive on her own? Why the country is such a hell for women that they cant earn for themselves and live a respectful life?
There are a lot of single women in the society now. It's a crime against humanity to keep the one's who can go out and lead their lives independently. It's not a favour to keep them imprisoned here.
@@mymusic4821 completely understand and agree with that statement but for real the circumstances in pakistan are unsafe for a woman that even if she belongs to the upper elite class her safety is at question the minute she is alone
As someone who lives in Karachi it's so heartbreaking for me to watch this and every part of this video is 100% reality of the lives of women here in Pakistan.
So women in Pakistan cant walk outside without a male family member? can they not chose to to marry? And in car divorce happens do they not get property rights? What about daughters? Do they get property rights?
@@AP-do8mi ok so we can walk outside without a male family member, we can choose to marry, we can get a divorce and we do get out property rights. The thing is that some of the families here are very conservative and so in some places there's still no rights for women. And ik that's obviously because of the lack of education which my country needs to work on but the govt. is so messed up.
Edhi has been a very legendary NGO in Pakistan 🇵🇰 for years. Their an all volunteer organization that serves Pakistan's most poorest and vulnerable members of society. I'm not sure but, I think the founder of Edhi was a wealthy elderly gentleman who gave ALL his wealth to serve humanity in his country. The motto is "Serving Humanity is the spirit of All Religions"..
he wasnt wealthy at first rather poor..he started his journey out by helping ppl in his village..afterwards when he accumulated wealth he distributed them amongst others iin need and his organization
Is it is so bad in the big cities, what is going on in the countryside? That Muslim culture, so family oriented and so respectful towards the old, and so orbiting around god, ets, etc (as they would want you to believe) is a simple shit-hole.
this is so sad, what kind of sick society is this treating woman as property ? life in jail because of depression :( no one does anything to change this madness
This is so utterly heartbreaking to watch because there seems to be no hope and perspective for these patients just because of society’s view towards the mentally ill and the role of women in this society! It shouldn’t have to be like this… I am so glad, being a woman I grew up in a western country!
This is very typical not only of some Muslim societies but, of a lot South Asian countries also. Sadly, women and girls are not valued the same as boys. Islam teaches that women have rights, the right to marry, or not marry. The right to property, to work, and have a education. Islam also teaches, women and girls, are to be loved and protected. Male and female are equal. But, as we see, time and time again religion fails. Or makes the issues worse. Corrupt Imams and scholars push the abuse of women and girls. Culture, and religion now have become interrelated. Pakistan 🇵🇰 you can do better than this. Muhammad Ali Jinnah is rolling in his grave. I can understand poor families doing this. But, shame on the wealthier ones doing this..
This is common practice around the world. women and girls are treated like objects. In the western world it's called pimping or polymy . I am surprised these girls are not used for organ transplants. I can't wait for the A.I. replacement. There are so many Young men around the world who want to transgender over to females. Female reproductive organs can transfer to a male. and A. I.microchip can be implanted to a male's brain. And there you have it a perfect woman!!!!
This made me cry, I still can't catch my breath. It's terrible feeling to know there's no way to help these poor women and the horrible pain inflicted on them their entire lives, often by those that should love and protect you.
Watching this makes me feel lucky that I wasn't born there where families can throw you like thrash when they want. I have a niece who has a mental issue, and she lives with the family. Now she's fine after talking medications.
There should be better living conditions. Each woman should have her own room. Living in such conditions like hen's cages can worsen mental condition. Even a normal person can lose sanity.
Being a human being, i cried alot shile watching this whole documentary but being a Psychologist i feel so much happier to see that there's such institution with such amazing staff. May Allah help them all ameen
The asylum is helping these abandoned women, but I have a question- does Pakistan not have laws against family violence? they just throw woman out of house. What about her right to residence, right to life, right to dignity?
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While the rich get richer and the corrupt get more money shoved in their pockets our country suffers. I wish our men treated our women better, I wish these parents understand how horrible their actions are. I hate pakistan and I love it. I wish our country was competent at once and I wish we stopped lying to ourselves with our 50 year old poetries and propaganda that our country is better and amazing because we deep down we know it’s not. I fear our country will doom itself with its own greed. Pakistan means Holy land but nothing about this is holy. Islam’s true message has been lost and the disbelievers have more empathy than us. It hurts me to see a women in poverty and poor conditions, knowing well that there is a woman who looks exactly the same but with actual rights and was born in a country that cares for its people. This is not Islam. This is not human rights. I am so angry and I wish I could do something but I am useless.
exactly, to better our country the majority must be willing to look at the flaws and find its solutions, that is true love for a nation. Islamic values & universal human rights / ethics must be implemented. I hate when people keep blaming the government when really, change starts from the individual. And please! don't blame yourself! you are not useless, there many ways to start helping even just on community level, volunteering at NGOs does make a huge difference!!
There are many cultures, where women are nit that free to take own life decisions Even in India, doc women who live in diff state or gone abroad to study can be called back n pressured into arranged marriages n dowry and all. And if they decide to elope, nobody rents to a woman readily, she has to stay alert constantly, she can be by force taken back, etc. Staying out of 4 walla , without some leading forces, away like a roomate with other girls n enjoying life, etc. Is unreachable for many
I have never watched anything so backward in my life...even the doctor's stuck in there!!! my heart aches for you all 😢 I am so so sorry you've got families like this...and I thought Americans were heartless...😪 many blessings to all of you and many many blessings to the staff...atleast you have this place...just don't ever give up..there's only hole you can't get out of..take care eachother 🙏🙏🙏🙏
The whole society is poor that unable to take care of old, weak and disabilities. The government should open more caregiver jobs. Social welfare should provide assistance to families in need, then poor families would accept their loved ones.
its not about being poor its about treating woman like objects and if they have some mental illness even something like depression the family dont want them as its seen as something shameful they rather have them in a jail for the rest of there lives
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Just look at the young doctor who is willing to adapt to the sickly society in order to just be accepted in it. "Beg for forgiveness ". For no reason .
I'm from Pakistan and I didnt know this. But Pakistanis dont believe in ghosts and we dont have a word for ghost. We believe in jinns, so I'm not sure about that nickname.
All men and families who left their girls, mom, daughter will be answerable in front of god( Allah ) and then they will regret. And in this world they also face karma inshallah. i can't understand how a human can be so shitty mind. I can just pray for these ladies may Allah give them strength to face all these challanges. and the thing which makes my heart break ia the story of hira. May god bless her and all ladies
" In the name of the law " - David Rose. • Black pools. • Uganda - Idi Amin • South Asians • Mess left when colonizing Britain pulled out of South Asia. • Those who implemented the black pools, want it finished. • Guess who. • Pakistan is in serious trouble. • One more...Benazir Bhutto. Why was she assassinated? The deep seated reason.
Most of the women are abandoned, living conditions improve kurday, aur kuch outings and job rehabilitation. Stigma bhi attached hai. Families may workshops kurday aur awareness ki zaroorat hai.
In every society and every culture, a woman has a story. So sad. I'm ethnically Pakistani but I didn't have a clue about this. I didn't know that nation abandons their own blood. Very sad.
Quite right. But now in large parts of the world at least it is changing. But not without a long struggle. In Europe to begin with , although of course women here always had more rights than there , but by no way equal.
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This is sad, this is a global problem and, it in The United States, just look at the homeless. And the violent crime, mental health is a big problem in North America.
This is so sad wallah. In Islam, you aren't supposed to even put your elderly parents in a care home. You get so much ajer for taking care of ill children, they are an Amanah. This makes me cry.
It is disgraceful of how these women are treated by their families. It would have been more impactful if the documentary addresses the core reasons for the abandonment of women.
@@Motorcarsusa It's not impossible for a woman to live alone. Even if they cannot let them go fully, they can arrange for them to have jobs and fund their own education. Sincerely, a girl from Karachi
May ALLAH SWT Grants you all Good Health and Strength and Keep you all in ALLAH SWT Safekeeping Ameen. I Love you all with the Love of ALLAH. Ameen ❤❤❤❤❤😊😊😊😊😊😊😊
This is the results if people dont prioritize education especially when marrying family members like cousins,mostly there are genitec problems,they dont believe in this matter but this is already the effects..so sad for this women..
I’m so sad watching this and it’s totally unfair to abandon them while they can live a normal life only if family put themselves in their shoes they’ll understand how to feel to be rejected Hira’s dad over the phone was a crazy one I can’t believe parents could be that worse I feel blessed living in US Alhamdulillah for everything I was being ungrateful lately complaining to my husband to buy a bigger house new car and a new phone Alhamdulillah this documentary opened up my eyes that I dont wanna be an ungrateful person anymore Alhamdulillah for everything Alhamdulillah for my nice husband Alhamdulillah for my house and everything I want the same for everyone at Edhi Center In Sha Allah
In the UK, a Pakistani man and his.mother brought his pregnant wife to a hotel and left her there.The hotel staff called the police. Why do women not look after other women? Suppose this happens with that man's sister and that motherin law's daughter? What god do they worship?
Islam and deep rooted culture has enabled these abuses. Women are treated like subhumans, no rights and are only born to serve… serve the family until they’re married off and then to serve the husband and his family. Modern day slavery. And in 2024. Then you have other cultures crying for reparations for crimes committed against their ancestors. I feel if that energy was put into abolishing modern slavery, and crimes against women, then that would be a more respectful and fitting way to honour their ancestors.
I could not watch this docu in one flow because it's so sad.How would Pakistan look like without the Great Work of Abdul Saddar Edhi. Me, as a 73 year old Black Forest guy who fell in love with Pakistan in 1973 on the Hippie trail to India.,I am very graceful to live in Germany because my youngest son has also become mentally ill at the same time when my wife got cancer and died. In an almost failed state where hypocrisis reignes i would suggest that only 'Jesus' can help.. Abdul Saddar Edhi was a saintly person in the best human sense. we need more of them.
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My tears couldn't stop watching this I cannot believe k ye sab bhi hot a hai shittt
Astagfar, my heart is crying for the girl that is completely fit but father doesn’t come to see her and is not agree to take her home,
Where is her mother, this girl could study and could learn any skill and normally behaving
Ap na sahi kaha
Shameless father
It seems to me that she doesn't have a mother.
Mothers/women in general, have no say in these matters. Only the men. Islamic oppression and or cultural oppression is to blame.
Mr Edhi is a heaven dweller. Nobody on earth can take his place. He has set a benchmark for humanity and humantarian causes around the world. The level of care and concern and empathy he has for other humans is matchless. I am shell shocked to see all these ladies in pain. I wish i lived in Karachi. So i could volunteer for my own country fellows. Even though i do not like anyone to defame Pakistan , it makes me sad to hear stories of my own country fellows from a complete stranger.
I cried watching that mother refusing her daughter to stay,even now at age 51 1st person i call when things go wrong is my mum , I'm so lucky to have her, I hope these women have a better future 😢
im pakistani and I can tell you our society does not accept women
Not everyone lucky to a person to called "mother" and accept us
@@Mr.Raccoooneven siblings can be toxic too.
@Mr.Raccooon yes, I know I'm really lucky to have a wonderful mum ,she now has dementia, it's my honor and privilege to take care of mum now ❤️
@@michellecansdale1248 Special blessings for you
Literal translation:💔
20:47 "My heart is crying. How am I not able to go home? I feel sad. We aren't able to find the way."
20:55 "It (direction) slipped out of my mind and I feel like crying [gestures while smiling]."
21:01 "I beg your forgiveness, because we couldn't find my home."
Thank you for the translation. This made me feel even more sadness for her
I felt so sad for the girl with depression, how can a father neglect his own daughter like this?
Maturity is realising most fathers dont care much about children. If your father is good you are blessed. Take good care of him. Father's love for most children is quite conditional its not like mother's love
Allah swt is watching all those parents will be questioned as to why they did this
@@SaraanSarangi Maybe 50 years ago, but that sort of relationship isn’t considered healthy now. Nobody should have a child if they can’t love them unconditionally.
For Pakistan to lift their standard of living, they must treat their women better. Support girls education and teach about female health and relationship conflicts. The parent's education and ability to support a family is critical. Family responsibilities need to be taught to males, so the girls have a chance to be employable. Until these things are planned and implemented the numbers in this place and others will be overflowing with rejected women. So what happens to rejected males?
the trouble is, we are trying to reverse centuries of male domination, and a ruthless faith belief
Not only that. It is the general mentality of not caring for others. Only your little circle is important , and then only if the other is no bother.
There is no feeling of solidarity there. So nothing gets build up for the general good. Whereas in large parts of Europe this is excactly what happened over the
past 2000 years.: Orphanages , old peoples homes , poor peoples shelters , etcetera. Btw ..rejected males can live on their own. The women cannot.
To the other commentators here : did you not hear what was said ?
A woman can not leave on her own there . She has to belong to a man !!!
That is why they can t be released "into the wild ".
Pakistan has education for women , the only issue here is poverty. Our quality of life and standard of living is directly related to our poverty . In areas where girls don’t go to schools , boys dont either . It’s because they are no good educational institutions in rural areas of Pakistan and most of time , education is so expensive , the lower classes can’t afford it . This is all thanks to our corrupt leadership , do not blame the people of Pakistan.
@@daisystanley4301 what ruthless faith belief or male domination? what? how are you trying to reverse it? by bombing people. Your morals are worst of the world. Take a look at yourself first before judging others.
Also most of the people in those regions are peaceful and living with peaceful faith (Islam). The only thing creating problems for us is US and bombing democracy.
I don't understand why the women who are mentally stable now cannot be let out to lead their lives??? Why do the parents or husbands consent have to be there for them to be free of this depressing environment? I think anyone who is not sick would get sick living in these conditions. The doctors and staff don't have a grasp of the reality of the healed women and that these women need to get out of this place. It doesn't seem to be a compassionate setup.
My thoughts exactly. It's as though they want to keep them there.
@BareKnucklePolemic it's like it's serving a sinister need of some sort . Very weird.
you must understand that in a male dominated and strict society as this...,.it's impossible to a women to live alone even if she can support herself.....that culture just doesn't allow it.....she would be raped and killed in no time.
Where would they even go? To the streets? Where dangerous men roam? They have lost their only home so what can they do. But I do think the woman should be given some sort of means to provide for themselves. So many women here, why not let them work and start their own businesses and sell and make stuff? They would be able to make money and become independent too. I hate how they are cooped up in that building.
@@youwantfood9586 Are women not allowed to work in Pakistan? They don't have to leave right away. The fact that they're not even given the option is really messed up.
After watching this I am sad but I am grateful for my life in America and I almost feel ashamed for how I complain about smaller things.. Lord heal these ladies
We are happy here too u stay there
I know what you mean. Honestly I’m getting tired of people screeching every day how “racism” and “sexist” America is. We have a great country. It’s not perfect, but at least we try. I’m glad I’m not a woman in Karachi, where men love bacha bazi boys, and cows are held in higher regard than women…
@@MuhammadRizwan-bi1uxdafuq is wrong with you. There was no need to be a shithead.
Ooo Mr. Cows are not held in higher regard in Pakistan. U r talking about India. Mind Ur language.
Pakistan is a great country. I've been there many times. People r awesome and most of them despite being poor r sooo happy and thankful for what they have.
Trust me they have far better mental peace than U.
Next time U say something U better search properly and then babble it. 😮💨
@@lowrider81hdbacha bazi in karachi? Cows held in higher regard than women? My dude that’s India . Hindus think Cows are Holy , We Muslims eat Cows . Also as a woman in Pakistan , I can assure you we are fine . Any woman in any country can have a difficult life . Are there not women in the US on the streets abusing drugs ? If you ask me , I would say strip clubs are the worst places for Women where they’re sexualised and objectified by men and this is by the way Legal in the West.
Heartbreaking to watch that mother reject her adult daughter who wants to come home - what on earth is wrong with these people to be so horrible to others.
Poverty, excessive traumas, early marriages (because women have no way out) and lack of education.
@@Hafsa-xq2tq I don't think so. It's cultural.
@@BareKnucklePolemicYes its exactly as she mentioned nothing to do with culture because Islam is actually family oriented. Woman abadon their children to the foster system all the time in the US
The most saddest documentary I have ever watched. My heart is crying for Hira Mehfooz, Nazish, Najma & Dr Shabana life stories.
Sad.
Imagine the billions that tyrants like the sharif and zardari families have looted from the people of Pakistan could be invested to help the impoverished, the disabled and the mentally sick. On the day of judgement they will have to face the creator.
Exactly my thoughts 😢
Heart-breaking documentary😢
Saddest documentary that I've ever watched. That the ones who are better are not able to go out and make an independent life for themselves reflects on the society and country.
It truly makes me reflect my life and how ungrateful I can get I am humbled and grateful after watching this
💔
Exactly.
INFURIATING!!! And Nadjma"s mother-in-law looked as though she hadn"t been treated any better in her life than Nadjma had.
Guys can we all come together and contribute towards giving these women a rightfully deserved chance. Maybe start up a small business for them or engage them in activities that would benefit them 😢
How can we do this? Do you have any ideas? I'm a female mental health nurse in the UK.
@everheardofprivacy it's getting hold of a NGO in the area and start there. I want to help and visit this place. I'm a mental health specialist consultant /autism advocate here in Canada
May Allah help to all of you for taking some good step for them.Ameen
@@everheardofprivacy i was thinking about joining an NGO and maybe setting up/providing allied health services during my annual leave….
Very nice of you and the commentators , but as long as the country s own people
do not become friendlier to "their neighbours " it will not help much.
But of course....all help will be good for those who get it. !
It feels so crazy to keep them there against their will. Dr. Shabana and Hira can totally manage their own livelihoods. Let the out! This is imprisoning them against their will.
I can understand your perspective, but an alone women in Pakistan is not safe. Even if they go out willingly they won't find any job at all to sustain themselves. And then end up on the streets , then the cycle continues. Even if it's hell this shelter it is still better then becoming homeless.
Absolutely right. They can survive. But it's a prison!!
@@arson30 why a doctor cant have a job and survive on her own? Why the country is such a hell for women that they cant earn for themselves and live a respectful life?
There are a lot of single women in the society now. It's a crime against humanity to keep the one's who can go out and lead their lives independently. It's not a favour to keep them imprisoned here.
@@mymusic4821 completely understand and agree with that statement but for real the circumstances in pakistan are unsafe for a woman that even if she belongs to the upper elite class her safety is at question the minute she is alone
As someone who lives in Karachi it's so heartbreaking for me to watch this and every part of this video is 100% reality of the lives of women here in Pakistan.
So women in Pakistan cant walk outside without a male family member? can they not chose to to marry? And in car divorce happens do they not get property rights? What about daughters? Do they get property rights?
@@AP-do8mi ok so we can walk outside without a male family member, we can choose to marry, we can get a divorce and we do get out property rights. The thing is that some of the families here are very conservative and so in some places there's still no rights for women.
And ik that's obviously because of the lack of education which my country needs to work on but the govt. is so messed up.
@@AP-do8miresearch Islam, the religion is incredibly oppressive to women. They have no rights and are born to serve men.
Edhi has been a very legendary NGO in Pakistan 🇵🇰 for years. Their an all volunteer organization that serves Pakistan's most poorest and vulnerable members of society. I'm not sure but, I think the founder of Edhi was a wealthy elderly gentleman who gave ALL his wealth to serve humanity in his country. The motto is "Serving Humanity is the spirit of All Religions"..
he wasnt wealthy at first rather poor..he started his journey out by helping ppl in his village..afterwards when he accumulated wealth he distributed them amongst others iin need and his organization
Is it is so bad in the big cities, what is going on in the countryside? That Muslim culture, so family oriented and so respectful towards the old, and so orbiting around god, ets, etc (as they would want you to believe) is a simple shit-hole.
Something I think we all think and we hardly give it the limelight.
Abdul sattar Eidhi will be in Jannatul Firdous.
Great Abdul Sattar Edhi ❤
this is so sad, what kind of sick society is this treating woman as property ? life in jail because of depression :( no one does anything to change this madness
There are so many medications for depression. They don’t have to put them in mental hospital 😢.
Ppl have no patience or tolerance left. No love. Only misery and the miserable are living together
This is so utterly heartbreaking to watch because there seems to be no hope and perspective for these patients just because of society’s view towards the mentally ill and the role of women in this society! It shouldn’t have to be like this… I am so glad, being a woman I grew up in a western country!
my heart is just absolutely broken after watching this 😪
This is very typical not only of some Muslim societies but, of a lot South Asian countries also. Sadly, women and girls are not valued the same as boys. Islam teaches that women have rights, the right to marry, or not marry. The right to property, to work, and have a education. Islam also teaches, women and girls, are to be loved and protected. Male and female are equal. But, as we see, time and time again religion fails. Or makes the issues worse. Corrupt Imams and scholars push the abuse of women and girls. Culture, and religion now have become interrelated. Pakistan 🇵🇰 you can do better than this. Muhammad Ali Jinnah is rolling in his grave. I can understand poor families doing this. But, shame on the wealthier ones doing this..
This is common practice around the world. women and girls are treated like objects. In the western world it's called pimping or polymy . I am surprised these girls are not used for organ transplants. I can't wait for the A.I. replacement. There are so many Young men around the world who want to transgender over to females. Female reproductive organs can transfer to a male. and A. I.microchip can be implanted to a male's brain. And there you have it a perfect woman!!!!
In Islam women are nothing more than object
Thanks for saying. The Quran says all people have rights but some of these corrupt male Muslims are doing the opposite 😢
No wrong Islamic faith limits the rights of women greatly.
It’s a culture thing more than religion. I’m from Bosnia which is 80% Islamic and we aren’t treated like that
This video perfectly highlights the life of venerable women in Pakistan’s society
vulnerable*
This made me cry, I still can't catch my breath. It's terrible feeling to know there's no way to help these poor women and the horrible pain inflicted on them their entire lives, often by those that should love and protect you.
This doctor women is just graduated from my university in which i am still studying..
May you get what you want lovely doc
Watching this makes me feel lucky that I wasn't born there where families can throw you like thrash when they want.
I have a niece who has a mental issue, and she lives with the family. Now she's fine after talking medications.
There should be better living conditions. Each woman should have her own room. Living in such conditions like hen's cages can worsen mental condition. Even a normal person can lose sanity.
I agree precisely.
These NGOS barley have money and no support from government
PEOPLES OVER DOING UMERAS ,BETTER PUT MONEY IN EDHI ,MAY ALLAHA SWT FORGIVE US .WE AEE NOT DOING GD FOR OUR,S .
Absolutely.!
The most beautiful thing anyone has said.
Allah Ta’allah has clearly said to put his creation first.!
Being a human being, i cried alot shile watching this whole documentary but being a Psychologist i feel so much happier to see that there's such institution with such amazing staff. May Allah help them all ameen
The asylum is helping these abandoned women, but I have a question- does Pakistan not have laws against family violence? they just throw woman out of house. What about her right to residence, right to life, right to dignity?
Our sisters caged, 😢
these volunteers amazing ❤
Don't say " they don't want you"! Think she knows that.
What a cruel world we are living 💔💔💔😭🤲🏻 shame on our society
the subtitles are not accurate at all
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I feel sad fr dr shabana can do much better outside ....she is a doc she cn earn for herself ❤ may Allah help every one n beal everyone.
What a lovely doctor
While the rich get richer and the corrupt get more money shoved in their pockets our country suffers. I wish our men treated our women better, I wish these parents understand how horrible their actions are. I hate pakistan and I love it. I wish our country was competent at once and I wish we stopped lying to ourselves with our 50 year old poetries and propaganda that our country is better and amazing because we deep down we know it’s not. I fear our country will doom itself with its own greed. Pakistan means Holy land but nothing about this is holy. Islam’s true message has been lost and the disbelievers have more empathy than us. It hurts me to see a women in poverty and poor conditions, knowing well that there is a woman who looks exactly the same but with actual rights and was born in a country that cares for its people. This is not Islam. This is not human rights. I am so angry and I wish I could do something but I am useless.
exactly, to better our country the majority must be willing to look at the flaws and find its solutions, that is true love for a nation. Islamic values & universal human rights / ethics must be implemented. I hate when people keep blaming the government when really, change starts from the individual. And please! don't blame yourself! you are not useless, there many ways to start helping even just on community level, volunteering at NGOs does make a huge difference!!
Stand up and fight for your rights, cowardly people, allowing your people to suffer. The only ones that help you are the infidels.
Dr Shabana is a doctor, and she can't get a job and rent a flat alone or shared with other single women? Madness.
My thoughts too, initially. But maybe she won t get a job as a rejected woman.
And I m not sure even 4 women in a flat would be accepted. But maybe ?
There are many cultures, where women are nit that free to take own life decisions
Even in India, doc women who live in diff state or gone abroad to study can be called back n pressured into arranged marriages n dowry and all.
And if they decide to elope, nobody rents to a woman readily, she has to stay alert constantly, she can be by force taken back, etc.
Staying out of 4 walla , without some leading forces, away like a roomate with other girls n enjoying life, etc. Is unreachable for many
No one has right to beat you my lovely sister Nazish Iqbal.
Edhi was really an angel ❤
Millions of thanks to the Allah the all mighty for giving me the best physical and mental health. Subhan Allah e wa bihamde hi subhan Allah el Azeem.
You selfish muzi
This saddest thing I never see why do they reject them 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢 they should be ashamed of themselves
Crazy that even the Police station isn't safe for girls/women 😖
And there you have it . Sick society. Not only those families.
Watching from Karachi, Pakistan, and this is absolutely heartbreaking to see 😢
I have never watched anything so backward in my life...even the doctor's stuck in there!!! my heart aches for you all 😢 I am so so sorry you've got families like this...and I thought Americans were heartless...😪 many blessings to all of you and many many blessings to the staff...atleast you have this place...just don't ever give up..there's only hole you can't get out of..take care eachother 🙏🙏🙏🙏
The whole society is poor that unable to take care of old, weak and disabilities. The government should open more caregiver jobs. Social welfare should provide assistance to families in need, then poor families would accept their loved ones.
its not about being poor its about treating woman like objects and if they have some mental illness even something like depression the family dont want them as its seen as something shameful they rather have them in a jail for the rest of there lives
They are not loved. And that government doesn t care either.
Ufff so heartbreaking may Allah have mercy on these women and make it easy for them.
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How horrendous poor women 😢
this is inhumane. why doesn't anyone focus on these women and help?!
So much sorrow in this world 💔 heart breaking ....May God bless all 🙏🤲🏻✨
the root of all the problem is in the law and the culture.
the translation is so trash, the lady at the end said a woman has to be in her house or with a husband to be safe.
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I thought she said that .
It is no measure of health to be well adjusted to a profoundly sick society. Jiddu Krishnamurti
Wow! So true. Thank you for sharing this.
Just look at the young doctor who is willing to adapt to the sickly society in order to just be accepted in it. "Beg for forgiveness ". For no reason .
5:38 why didn’t they bring in someone who speaks Pashto and ask about her origins?
Music therapy, physical exercises are crucial to regulate their emotions, cleanliness as well.
I'm from Pakistan and I didnt know this. But Pakistanis dont believe in ghosts and we dont have a word for ghost. We believe in jinns, so I'm not sure about that nickname.
‘Farida’ is such a cute girl. I wish her all the best. I hope she can have a better life. 😢❤
It moved my heart.
this breaks my heart 💔may Allah help them
allah put them there.
All men and families who left their girls, mom, daughter will be answerable in front of god( Allah ) and then they will regret. And in this world they also face karma inshallah. i can't understand how a human can be so shitty mind. I can just pray for these ladies may Allah give them strength to face all these challanges. and the thing which makes my heart break ia the story of hira. May god bless her and all ladies
😢💔 Heartbreaking.
" In the name of the law " - David Rose.
• Black pools.
• Uganda - Idi Amin
• South Asians
• Mess left when colonizing Britain pulled out of South Asia.
• Those who implemented the black pools, want it finished.
• Guess who.
• Pakistan is in serious trouble.
• One more...Benazir Bhutto. Why was she assassinated? The deep seated reason.
Pauvres femmes. Que Dieu leur vienne en aide.
Heartbreaking. Heart wrenching. Allah madudd
Such a sad sad documentary! May Allah curse their relatives who have left them here to live a miserable life!
So heart breaking,
Most of the women are abandoned, living conditions improve kurday, aur kuch outings and job rehabilitation. Stigma bhi attached hai. Families may workshops kurday aur awareness ki zaroorat hai.
In every society and every culture, a woman has a story. So sad. I'm ethnically Pakistani but I didn't have a clue about this. I didn't know that nation abandons their own blood. Very sad.
Quite right. But now in large parts of the world at least it is changing.
But not without a long struggle. In Europe to begin with , although of course
women here always had more rights than there , but by no way equal.
Tears in my eyes 😢
Does the doctor have a gofundme?? i’d like to help her!!
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This is sad, this is a global problem and, it in The United States, just look at the homeless. And the violent crime, mental health is a big problem in North America.
This is too sad, in muslim society they don’t teach and bring women to be independent on the contrary and they let them down
You’re Hindu though. Women are gang raped in India due to the incriminating Hindu caste system.
Yeah that is what faith does too you.
Heart breaking 💔 😢😭😭😭 really sad to watch this documentary.
This is so sad wallah. In Islam, you aren't supposed to even put your elderly parents in a care home. You get so much ajer for taking care of ill children, they are an Amanah. This makes me cry.
La religion de la paix et de l amour hein😢
25:50 bilkul sahi socha tumne,sahi faisla liya.
This is so sad 😥😥 it's heart breaking 😢...
0:00 ab sahi socha tumne,r achcha kiya aisa sahi soch k.
Humanity and compassion.
It is disgraceful of how these women are treated by their families. It would have been more impactful if the documentary addresses the core reasons for the abandonment of women.
Selfishness .
If they are rejected by their family release them out of that jail let them go search for jobs so that they survive 😢😢😢😢
They said a woman cannot live alone in that society
Who will employ them? Where will they live?
@@Motorcarsusa It's not impossible for a woman to live alone. Even if they cannot let them go fully, they can arrange for them to have jobs and fund their own education.
Sincerely, a girl from Karachi
May ALLAH SWT Grants you all Good Health and Strength and Keep you all in ALLAH SWT Safekeeping Ameen. I Love you all with the Love of ALLAH. Ameen ❤❤❤❤❤😊😊😊😊😊😊😊
This is the results if people dont prioritize education especially when marrying family members like cousins,mostly there are genitec problems,they dont believe in this matter but this is already the effects..so sad for this women..
How a family can refuse to take daughters back...i m crying
50 % of the subtitles are wrongly translated
So sad. What a society. I felt bad for that Doctor. Her knowledge and skills are wasting away only because a man doesn’t want her.
when there is no humanity then there is no civilised society. Istaghfirullah...
It's the rules of the religion of peace... Shariah Law. Keep being tolerant and you too could live this way
YA ALLAH help them❤
Women are completely at the mercy of males in your country. The sooner you females understand that, the better it will be for you all. Thank you.
Yes , but you have to ask that in a pakistani language .
Heart wrenched video ever seen 😭
I’m so sad watching this and it’s totally unfair to abandon them while they can live a normal life only if family put themselves in their shoes they’ll understand how to feel to be rejected
Hira’s dad over the phone was a crazy one I can’t believe parents could be that worse
I feel blessed living in US Alhamdulillah for everything I was being ungrateful lately complaining to my husband to buy a bigger house new car and a new phone
Alhamdulillah this documentary opened up my eyes that I dont wanna be an ungrateful person anymore
Alhamdulillah for everything Alhamdulillah for my nice husband Alhamdulillah for my house and everything
I want the same for everyone at Edhi Center In Sha Allah
They don t even have to understand , they should have compassion !!!
In the UK, a Pakistani man and his.mother brought his pregnant wife to a hotel and left her there.The hotel staff called the police.
Why do women not look after other women? Suppose this happens with that man's sister and that motherin law's daughter?
What god do they worship?
It s not in them to care for others , even for women.
Islam and deep rooted culture has enabled these abuses. Women are treated like subhumans, no rights and are only born to serve… serve the family until they’re married off and then to serve the husband and his family. Modern day slavery. And in 2024. Then you have other cultures crying for reparations for crimes committed against their ancestors. I feel if that energy was put into abolishing modern slavery, and crimes against women, then that would be a more respectful and fitting way to honour their ancestors.
That one lady who's mom didt what her back really hit me , these ladys should be loved by there family not dumpt, this is very backwards thinking 😢😢
Why dont they teach them skills to get employed and earn on their own
Because thy believe in woman submission
how cruel this world is 😢...how could these moron can kept healthy cured people against there will in confinement.
Where would they go ???? That one woman came back to the hospital on her own . Nowhere else to go.
I could not watch this docu in one flow because it's so sad.How would Pakistan look like without the Great Work of Abdul Saddar Edhi. Me, as a 73 year old Black Forest guy who fell in love with Pakistan in 1973 on the Hippie trail to India.,I am very graceful to live in Germany because my youngest son has also become mentally ill at the same time when my wife got cancer and died. In an almost failed state where hypocrisis reignes i would suggest that only 'Jesus' can help.. Abdul Saddar Edhi was a saintly person in the best human sense. we need more of them.
My respect for Edhi has skyrocketed after this