I have friends who have used the service, both fluent and not. Those who weren't fluent used translate services to communicate. The worker led the conversation in a natural way regardless. The fluent friends still had a relatively similar experience, but that experience was more streamlined, so to speak. Both types agree that having some Japanese skills, no matter how basic, makes using these services better.
When I read the figure I assumed it was a mistake or a translation issue of some sort. Googled it, turns out to be correct. Also found an article about child prostitution in Japan, which seems to be widespread. Japan is a very sick country.
Having a job that you enjoy is quite a different thing from a job that is necessary to pay for cost of living because of lack of access to other work (often due to gender, nationality or support network/contacts).
The "job you enjoy" narrative is companies made propaganda and nothing more though. If anything, I see a sex worker enjoying their work way more than any corpo slave out there will ever do. And at the end of the day, there is no difference between being a prostitute, or an employee.
I don't really understand it personally, but if they are both consenting adults and they are both getting what they want and no one is getting hurt... then I suppose it's fine. Anyway, I'm writing a novel and one of the characters is a prostitute in a culture where its legal, so this is very helpful for me. Thank you for the hard work.
the fact of the matter is that any man who frequents hookers Japan et al, truly does not need real love in their lives and is quite content to literally die alone when the time comes, and to be found by some neighbour after a month when his corpse starts to stink, sad but true ❤🎉
It might seem like our actions don't affect society, but everything is connected. Imagine the girl who became a prostitute and makes great money. Spends that money in certain ways that only women would. Economic structure changes. Support for that structure increases. Future women now become more obligated to become prostitutes because of existing system. The sex world of Japan is like this now. It's a cycle where women believe they have to make the most money from 18 to 24. Something as simple as two adults doing something in private has now expanded to career options which high school girls actually think about a lot.
You sir are too smart for the comment section. Meanwhile the rest of us workers and customers will enjoy this life and the opportunities to connect with other human beings sexually and intimately. Everyone else should do watching this content is they are so appalled.
@@asiaeroticaadventures I think a lot of hate for this lifestyle comes from two people who want different things coming into contact and not being honest with their intentions and relationship goals. After all, attraction isn't a choice, even if those two people's personal desires aren't compatible (and the girls need to make their payday). When you add in that professional sex workers can easily outclass most amateurs when it comes to creating feelings of attachment and attraction (b/c it makes them easy money), then that can feel deceptive to someone who wants a genuine interaction. I believe that a lot of the hatred for sex workers comes from their ability and practice in the manipulation of emotion. You see something similar in people's fears about artificial intelligence, and the fear of being manipulated by an entity that knows how to pluck your emotions like an professional musician does their instrument.
By your logic, if an adult person can do whatever he/she want that and hurt nobody , suicide should be fine too. And have consenting sex with another without knowing one's partner will be fine too. For me, woman shouldn't make herself equal to a product. That's degrading.
I’m absolutely fascinated with Japan, their culture, their manners, their beautiful traditional homes… The Japanese are the most beautiful people in South East Asia …🇯🇵🇱🇧
I have lived in Japan and used this service for years. Unfortunately after I discovered Thailand and the Philippines, Japan went down to the bottom of my list. The service is restricted, prices are very inflated now, despite the increasing supply and decreasing demand and a lot of establishments use false advertising (girls look prettier online than real, hidden fees etc). Also, in my experience a lot of the girls are starfish types and if you don't like that you won't have that much fun as they generally don't offer much in terms of skills. Many act childishly and can kill the vibe during the conversation part which by the way is kinda mandatory and goes into the booked time. Finally, there will be a lot of accessibility issues for foreigners that don't speak Japanese and for those that do you still might get turned down at many venues. The Japanese are paranoid about STDs and they associate them with foreigners. The reason why Thailand and the Philippines are better is not only because of the money. It's because you can establish a rapport with the girls and be much more to them than just a customer. Those who have tried both know what i mean.
They have no variety and are looking the same. And they haven't won a bunch of beauty contests to showcase and prove their beauty in front of the world so no they arent better looking. Thailand and Philippines are always at the top.@@NickN56
during my time in Japan (mostly tokyo) I would usually book girls through TNS (though pricey, the girls advertised there are more or less exactly what they look like). the girls would come to my hotel and chat for a bit, make them feel relaxed and comfortable. but before the start of the service, I would ask if they offer any extra or "hidden" service and 9 out of 10 they would offer protected sex for an extra fee. ive had a really good connection with this 1 girl that at times she would let me do her for a discounted rate or even free (of course still have to pay the full booking price).
As a tourist in Japan I've been to soaplands in Tokyo, Osaka and Fukuoka. Didn't have any issues and I don't need to worry about bringing a sex worker to my hotel or pay for a love hotel. 😂
the fact of the matter is that any man who frequents hookers Japan et al, truly does not need real love in their lives and is quite content to literally die alone when the time comes, and to be found by some neighbour after a month when his corpse starts to stink, sad but true ❤🎉
Once again very interesting and educational topic with very in depth research and interesting interviews! I was actually trying to some research on this for uh... Fanfic purposes (lmao) so this actually gives a realistic idea of the trade and culture in Japan. I'm glad to see sex workers being seen as people doing a job, because they are! It's the oldest profession after all! Though i have to wonder: how awkward was it to get the after interview? Lmao
the fact of the matter is that any man who frequents hookers Japan et al, truly does not need real love in their lives and is quite content to literally die alone when the time comes, and to be found by some neighbour after a month when his corpse starts to stink, sad but true ❤🎉
Despite vaginal penetration not being legal, many girls will upsell and do it for extra money - and that's just the "delivery health" (outcall) meetups. It shouldn't be expected, and you shouldn't bring the topic up on your own, especially if you are a foreigner who doesn't speak much Japanese. It's definitely a "don't ask, don't tell" situation, so it's not surprising that it wasn't brought up in the video here. In soaplands, you're not paying for sex, you're paying for a bath. That's the workaround. You and the girl "fall in love" for that period of time and vaginal penetration is the default. That said, it's expensive and while something like that may feel good in the moment, at some point you feel empty - because at some point you recognize that there is no love and it's all fake in the end. Ultimately, you lose the sense of intimacy after a while. Time for my own confession. I've told others in the past that I didn't do it, but that wasn't true. I did partake while I was in Japan, even though I found it morally wrong to do so. My desire for gratification overrode my moral compass. I'm not proud of it. What I said above is speaking from personal experience. So, to repeat, it may feel good in the moment, but I don't think it's worth doing in the end. It's better to try and look for a real and genuine loving relationship, and you'll never have that if you are spending time with escorts instead.
@@pacepicante6952 It's not that you are looking for "love" but the illusion of love is offered as a commodity. Sex becomes a transaction. It cheapens the real thing.
I share your feelings. The desire for instant gratification overrides your thought process. Over the years I had many dates with prostitutes and almost always I felt bad, hollow, about it afterwards. Still, even fully aware of that, I would sometime repeat the experience just for that burning desire for a moment of bliss. To really enjoy it, and avoid bad feelings during and after the service, I need to be in a very specific mindset, one that it’s rare.
I'm really concerned about diseases you WILL get by using these services. It's extremely dangerous to engage in these kind of services if there are no safety implemantations like testing (not only the worker but the client) but it's just a recipe for disaster in the long run.
Oh my gosh thank you for these info Now some info I know That's why I was strange now I gradually understand so if have money in Japan can ask service like that hmmm.amazing info
🎉 Honey listen, the moment you cross the line in the sand to fuk a slew of men in the same day for money , there is ZERO hygiene both physically, emotionally, mentally and spiritually already. Same applies to Johns who use paid women for sex ❤😂🎉
If I was going to use sexual services, I would never pay for a service without penetration. It doesn't make sense. I wonder what it's really like in Japan. Isn't normal sexual intercourse an open secret?
They ban PIV specifically, but the other hole is available for purchase. That's pretty penetrative. Or maybe ask coyly if they have extra services for "something".
@@MoleculeXmolecule I don't intend to use it, but I don't condemn it either, it seems strange to me that the use of this "other" hole is legal and the traditional one is not, Is this the one what can be called perverse?
It doesn't make sense because you're not Japanese:). Probably any Japanese girl would also think "women in the West sell their front hole? IT DOESN'T MAKE SENSE!" One thing I've learned from living overseas and also during my stays in Japan is that we should NEVER use our own culture as a benchmark. It's ok if we don't get it or even think it seems wrong to us. But we shouldn't condem or judge them for it. It's just their culture and anything "wrong" with it is something for them to adress or change, wouldn't you say:)?
@@malkontentniepoprawny6885 I've no idea, but maybe the other hole is considered the one you only share with someone you really love? Similar to how I heard hookers won't kiss you?
@@florianlaur5300 Calm down dude, it doesn't make sense to me. I also think, I may be wrong, that it doesn't make sense for the Japanese either. 'This' is happening, I suspect it is common, but it is not talked about. It is a smokescreen. Oh, I am not imposing anything on anyone and I am not telling how others should live. I am expressing my personal opinion.
3:09 My first time in Shinjuku a big fellow with a heavy African accent told me "Hey you, please try Japanese girl." And led me to the shadiest looking basement entrance. He pointed "Go down there." and I politely told him "No thank you." I've always wondered why he didn't open the door or have one of the girls drag me in like they do in Pat Pong in Thailand. 8:01 But if vaginal intercourse is illegal how will they learn the skills to become an AV actress? Thanks for the interesting video.
Japan porn movies have genitals pixelated so in most cases the penetration does not really happen, just seems it is happening under the pixels.It was explained in another video
There is still real penetration or intercourse happened. It depends on what kind of film. One AVactress said if they need to do more sex scenes and only with the same actor the other scene may be fake because it's exhausting. Because some films should be finished on the same day. It's porn so real sex and intercourse happens even if it's pixelated.
Apparently it’s illegal to have intercourse in the actual written service that you sign up for. But once you’re in a hotel, you’re two consenting adults so whatever happens, happens 😂
Yeah... but society nowadays call them "bold", "brave" and "strong" independent women. Oh, and if you don't agree with your mum or daughter working on this field, you are a misoginist. Welcome to 2024.
ee, depressive eve, amazing that you're exploring humanity in such depth and whats it called? disassociation?, hope you're staying rooted mate, anchored so to speak, don't go losing yourself pls, that would be depressing ha ha
Just get a girlfriend. She will be cleaner and loving, contribute to your life in general and can provide the basis for a family with children. Dont go to a prostitute.
Cheating/adultery is apparently very prevalent in Japan. Dudes can’t be sure that their gf/wife ain’t cheating, so they preemptively do it. Opposite is true for the gf/wife. Japanese society works differently than in the west 😂 At least with escorts you get/pay exactly what you sign up for 😅
Nobita is a closet superhero trying to rid his country of sex work (source: he voiced his dismay about sex work in many other videos), to be honest , he is fighting a losing battle.😂🎉❤
having consentual sex totaly legal , giving money to other ppl totaly legal , doing both at the same time and place total ilegal... makes a lot of sense
the fact of the matter is that any man who frequents hookers Japan et al, truly does not need real love in their lives and is quite content to literally die alone when the time comes, and to be found by some neighbour after a month when his corpse starts to stink, sad but true ❤🎉
Just. Don’t. Use. Escorts. At all! It’s better to be safe than sorry gentlemen. You’ll be saving money, your physical health, your mental health, and your life.
First, Sorry if this question is not quite appropriate for this video but I wanted to find a fairly recent post of yours. I saw an earlier interview that you did with Kuroki Ikumi and I thought that if you did a future interview with a Japanese pornstar you may be willing to address this question. In other countries` porn videos there a niche markets that cater to humiliation and degrading women. I personally love women and to humiliate and abuse them seems to show a latent hate for women. The Japanese porn industry seems to have a huge focus on this kind of porn where in other countries it is more of an aberration. The humilliation of women in Japanese porn seems to be almost the central focus. What I'm curious about is how, or even if, Japanese actresses feel about being treated so miliciously? I understand that they are "acting" but the theme is still focused on humilliation and abuse. Is it a cultural perspective that Japanese women deserve to be demeaned and degraded or is it something else. As I said, other cultures` porn have a small market for this kind of porn while the Japanese seem to accept this treatment as normal sexual behavior. I would be very interested to hear, positive or negative, thoughts about this, especially from one or several porn actresses. . Lastly, thank you for your exemplary journalistic work, there are many people who could improve their game by viewing a few of your interviews. Thanks.
Its sad😔. Not for these people but for young naive girls who get touted into this line of work with deception, blackmail or money. It degrades society.
I liked a lot these 2 videos about sex work in japan. It looks similar to how it works around here, from the law perspective... kind of a 'gray area' where sex work like this is not really illegal but also it's not completely legal and has certain rules. Personally i think it's a good thing that there are services like this which make it all safer for the girls and also the clients. Sex is an integral part of life and nowadays it has become very difficult to interact with most girls for lots of reasons so obviously the % of people who use these services is only gonna rise... at least it's safer this way.
it's better to be a work addict than a sex addict or porn addict. after end of day you will show something. Help family, parents, pay hobby sports, painting, spend quality time with love ones .
the fact of the matter is that any man who frequents hookers Japan et al, truly does not need real love in their lives and is quite content to literally die alone when the time comes, and to be found by some neighbour after a month when his corpse starts to stink, sad but true ❤🎉
Work addictions can kill you, porn and sex addictions (which, by the way a lot of unbiased research has discovered are not addictions at all, just a thing you do that makes you feel guilty. So called porn addicts actually watch porn LESS than people when have no issues with their porn consumption and live totally healthy normal lives) also sex and masturbation relieve stress, which is something that is a serious problem with people who work too much. What about people who don't have loved ones? Who work such long hours they have no time for anything else? If you're working long hours do you really think painting (which takes HOURS) is an option? It's easier and healthier to de-stress by visiting a sex worker, getting some relief and even a momentary connection with another person and then being able to go about their week or whatever. You are severely under informed about these issues
Ask self Japan higher education, higher live standard, easy porn industries, culture bro. If country make slave move place with higher protect workers rights, saving money to have time self, learn English, have a there skills to use. If want get out rat race live simple life . That called wisdom
Why the heck are there so many sex tourists sharing their experiences in the comments? I get that people want to reduce the taboo but I'm started to get worried for normal tourists.
@Nobita, I looked at the Hentai site closely that Tokyo guy you interview proposes (and owns?). It has some/many fake Japanese profiles on it (among occasional real seeming ones & many foreign girls). I know because the photos from fake profiles are used elsewhere on the internet. At minimum its a different girl from the photos. Take a look yourself :(
This guy in the interview is such a pimp. Of course some girls are cheated into it. There’s lots of interviews about the trap how they are conned into it. 😅
Actually quite common, sadly. There's recently been a bit of a talk about it, how a larger proportion of people in Japan has STD. It's probably not in controlled services like this tho. It's where things are unregulated these things become an issue.
You hear anecdotes, but in reality about 95-99% of the time it never really works out in the end. A woman's ability to pair bond with a man diminishes with the more sexual partners she's had, which leads to higher rates of divorce/relationship breakdowns, not to mention how the man feels knowing that his wife/partner's been with so men before them. Very rarely is there a fairy tale ending.
@@moonman8067 Thank you Mr. Moonman. I tend to follow some channels I like that talks about true crime in Japan and there was this story I heard once where some dude and some escort were found dead in a love hotel because they had some sort of actual affair going on and she stabbed him to death before putting on a black - what i suppose lolita like - wedding dress on and hung herself in the bathroom. I was just wondering if there were happier endings lol.
the fact of the matter is that any man who frequents hookers Japan et al, truly does not need real love in their lives and is quite content to literally die alone when the time comes, and to be found by some neighbour after a month when his corpse starts to stink, sad but true ❤🎉
Hiring a human for these things will always seems wrong to me. I dont care what country it is. Services like this suggests a much deeper issue with society and loneliness.
the fact of the matter is that any man who frequents hookers Japan et al, truly does not need real love in their lives and is quite content to literally die alone when the time comes, and to be found by some neighbour after a month when his corpse starts to stink, sad but true ❤🎉
What's far worse for me is that especially in the West, women are now celebrated to sell themselves and objectify themselves. I mean, being objects and only being able to work as sex workers has been THE number 1 complaint by women for millenia, right? And now that they can do literally any job, they choose "I'm an object, f... me or pay to see me naked"? Sites like OF only increase the loneliness epidemic in men. Japan as usual is a harbinger of social trends. Here, we already have 15-30% of the population (at least that's the numbers i remember reading) who have completely given up on relationships AND sex! When I was in Japan, I saw few real couples. Girls hang out with girls and don't seem to care at all about guys around them. And guys do the same. It's like they're segregated into two sexes. Hopefully the changes in demographic might bring us back to a more rural and social lifestyle.
@@boigercat you mean what you say is wild? Yes. Besides, you write your mother abused you. Well your mother is a human, so you See, humans can be bad. Yes, a human can hire a human.
This saddens me and intrigues me. I think sad is the healthier perspective. Tradition can be so heavenly. These people prefer hedonist purgatory instead.
Prostitution has been around for thousands of years. At this point we can call it tradition. My point is that doing things for the sake of tradition is a bad argument. Traditions can also be horrific, like (sexual) hazing.
the fact of the matter is that any man who frequents hookers Japan et al, truly does not need real love in their lives and is quite content to literally die alone when the time comes, and to be found by some neighbour after a month when his corpse starts to stink, sad but true ❤🎉
dude, prostituiton has benn around in japan since forever. it just happens to be safer now as i assume none of these girls will be stupid enought to end up bearing a customers child in the end, unlike a few hundred years ago when the best contraceptive was a piece of paper on the womb entry. and dont let me start with the samurais little boys.
Not sad, make money enough for happy. Not sad, lot of single men still vrigin Not sad, better than lot of gays ....??? Not sad, Happy than stress work.... just kidding... as long as you are thinking way is simple😅
I'm not gonna lie it disgust me, I have no hatred or bad feeling at all toward the person interviewed 😉, it is just me who can't really understand why men use that, do they feel fulfilled from that? (btw I'm a male too)
the fact of the matter is that any man who frequents hookers Japan et al, truly does not need real love in their lives and is quite content to literally die alone when the time comes, and to be found by some neighbour after a month when his corpse starts to stink, sad but true ❤🎉
some men are just lonely, can’t get girlfriends etc. some men might just feel horny and don’t wanna invest time, emotion and money into meeting someone just for the purpose of sex. In many cases paying a hooker plays even cheaper than dating someone for ONS or FWB.
Unfortunately so. If I may be candid, I let my desire for gratification override my moral compass while I was in Japan, so I did partake in the services. Now then, it's been roughly six years or so since I last did anything like it, and all I can say is that at the end of the day, the pleasure was there, but it was fleeting. All that awaits after is loneliness.
Thinking that all cultures on earth have the same problem is extremely simple minded. Maybe go travel? If people all over the world have the same problem on average, it's probably poverty.
@@RonJDuncanthe fact of the matter is that any man who frequents hookers Japan et al, truly does not need real love in their lives and is quite content to literally die alone when the time comes, and to be found by some neighbour after a month when his corpse starts to stink, sad but true ❤🎉
@@RonJDuncanif you are looking for "true love" from prostitutes who are EXPERT ACTORS, it's same as using booze as your "medication" to the root of your emotional problems whatever it might be 😂🎉❤❤🎉
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Thank you for the insightful and educational journalism, as always, Nobita!!
I have friends who have used the service, both fluent and not. Those who weren't fluent used translate services to communicate. The worker led the conversation in a natural way regardless. The fluent friends still had a relatively similar experience, but that experience was more streamlined, so to speak. Both types agree that having some Japanese skills, no matter how basic, makes using these services better.
Finally the answers to the questions we turists REALLY wanna know
KINDA LAME
Nice and respectful way to talk about the theme.
That 40% college statistic is wild
It's pretty much the same in the US. I recently accidently ousted a co-worker for doing the same thing lol.
@@antonthemanton3065in the US it's closer to 5-10%
When I read the figure I assumed it was a mistake or a translation issue of some sort.
Googled it, turns out to be correct. Also found an article about child prostitution in Japan, which seems to be widespread.
Japan is a very sick country.
@@peeks7165 U.S statistics are skewed by people not being honest.
Girls gone wild! 💋
Great video. Thank you so much for making and uploading it! 👍👍👍💯
Having a job that you enjoy is quite a different thing from a job that is necessary to pay for cost of living because of lack of access to other work (often due to gender, nationality or support network/contacts).
They enjoy it believe me. Japan is not Haiti
The "job you enjoy" narrative is companies made propaganda and nothing more though. If anything, I see a sex worker enjoying their work way more than any corpo slave out there will ever do. And at the end of the day, there is no difference between being a prostitute, or an employee.
@@asiaeroticaadventures SHUT IT WEIRDASS DEGENARATE COOMER
I don't really understand it personally, but if they are both consenting adults and they are both getting what they want and no one is getting hurt... then I suppose it's fine. Anyway, I'm writing a novel and one of the characters is a prostitute in a culture where its legal, so this is very helpful for me. Thank you for the hard work.
the fact of the matter is that any man who frequents hookers Japan et al, truly does not need real love in their lives and is quite content to literally die alone when the time comes, and to be found by some neighbour after a month when his corpse starts to stink, sad but true ❤🎉
It might seem like our actions don't affect society, but everything is connected. Imagine the girl who became a prostitute and makes great money. Spends that money in certain ways that only women would. Economic structure changes. Support for that structure increases. Future women now become more obligated to become prostitutes because of existing system. The sex world of Japan is like this now. It's a cycle where women believe they have to make the most money from 18 to 24. Something as simple as two adults doing something in private has now expanded to career options which high school girls actually think about a lot.
You sir are too smart for the comment section. Meanwhile the rest of us workers and customers will enjoy this life and the opportunities to connect with other human beings sexually and intimately. Everyone else should do watching this content is they are so appalled.
@@asiaeroticaadventures I think a lot of hate for this lifestyle comes from two people who want different things coming into contact and not being honest with their intentions and relationship goals. After all, attraction isn't a choice, even if those two people's personal desires aren't compatible (and the girls need to make their payday). When you add in that professional sex workers can easily outclass most amateurs when it comes to creating feelings of attachment and attraction (b/c it makes them easy money), then that can feel deceptive to someone who wants a genuine interaction. I believe that a lot of the hatred for sex workers comes from their ability and practice in the manipulation of emotion. You see something similar in people's fears about artificial intelligence, and the fear of being manipulated by an entity that knows how to pluck your emotions like an professional musician does their instrument.
By your logic, if an adult person can do whatever he/she want that and hurt nobody , suicide should be fine too. And have consenting sex with another without knowing one's partner will be fine too.
For me, woman shouldn't make herself equal to a product. That's degrading.
40% holy crap. I just got back from Tokyo and honestly I believe it...
I’m absolutely fascinated with Japan, their culture, their manners, their beautiful traditional homes… The Japanese are the most beautiful people in South East Asia …🇯🇵🇱🇧
The true test of ownership is the ability to sell it. If it's your thing then so be it.
3:16 this is the quality information that i came here for🌚
Really interesting. Thank you for the video.
Bro had to sell a charizard for the trip and appointment.
Why do you think he's into anime stuff
Hahah. Said the same thing.
I want to enjoy this at least once before dying
Now that was interesting.
I have lived in Japan and used this service for years. Unfortunately after I discovered Thailand and the Philippines, Japan went down to the bottom of my list. The service is restricted, prices are very inflated now, despite the increasing supply and decreasing demand and a lot of establishments use false advertising (girls look prettier online than real, hidden fees etc). Also, in my experience a lot of the girls are starfish types and if you don't like that you won't have that much fun as they generally don't offer much in terms of skills. Many act childishly and can kill the vibe during the conversation part which by the way is kinda mandatory and goes into the booked time. Finally, there will be a lot of accessibility issues for foreigners that don't speak Japanese and for those that do you still might get turned down at many venues. The Japanese are paranoid about STDs and they associate them with foreigners.
The reason why Thailand and the Philippines are better is not only because of the money. It's because you can establish a rapport with the girls and be much more to them than just a customer. Those who have tried both know what i mean.
Nothing compares to Thailand - thier capital city is called Bang - Cock, like...just hearing that you know you nothing else could compare XD
Still japanese girls look 10 times better
They have no variety and are looking the same. And they haven't won a bunch of beauty contests to showcase and prove their beauty in front of the world so no they arent better looking. Thailand and Philippines are always at the top.@@NickN56
Where do you find cheap tho
Philippines is the cheapest@@alfredoc5770
during my time in Japan (mostly tokyo) I would usually book girls through TNS (though pricey, the girls advertised there are more or less exactly what they look like). the girls would come to my hotel and chat for a bit, make them feel relaxed and comfortable. but before the start of the service, I would ask if they offer any extra or "hidden" service and 9 out of 10 they would offer protected sex for an extra fee. ive had a really good connection with this 1 girl that at times she would let me do her for a discounted rate or even free (of course still have to pay the full booking price).
Hi can you tell me what TNS stands for? And down to connect to learn more?
What does TNS stand for?
@@bigstick8699I dont think you guys are get any answers lol, so its best to just look it up? Good luck 😊
TNS = Tokyo Night Service?
As a tourist in Japan I've been to soaplands in Tokyo, Osaka and Fukuoka. Didn't have any issues and I don't need to worry about bringing a sex worker to my hotel or pay for a love hotel. 😂
the fact of the matter is that any man who frequents hookers Japan et al, truly does not need real love in their lives and is quite content to literally die alone when the time comes, and to be found by some neighbour after a month when his corpse starts to stink, sad but true ❤🎉
is soapland a handjob place or body to body massage place?
Once again very interesting and educational topic with very in depth research and interesting interviews!
I was actually trying to some research on this for uh... Fanfic purposes (lmao) so this actually gives a realistic idea of the trade and culture in Japan. I'm glad to see sex workers being seen as people doing a job, because they are! It's the oldest profession after all!
Though i have to wonder: how awkward was it to get the after interview? Lmao
I wonder what is like this service, but from the perspective of male workers.
the fact of the matter is that any man who frequents hookers Japan et al, truly does not need real love in their lives and is quite content to literally die alone when the time comes, and to be found by some neighbour after a month when his corpse starts to stink, sad but true ❤🎉
Thanks Nobita
You know, that "non-penetration" law does have a glaring loophole. 😁
A glaring loophole, or a gaping poophole?
I COULDN'T RESIST
very educational sir
When I watched Call of the Night, this is what I imagine vampires do on a daily basis.
This video was funny! 😢I respect hustle, and grind
Great talk.
I need the japan reporter to be my physical guide when i come 😎
Despite vaginal penetration not being legal, many girls will upsell and do it for extra money - and that's just the "delivery health" (outcall) meetups. It shouldn't be expected, and you shouldn't bring the topic up on your own, especially if you are a foreigner who doesn't speak much Japanese.
It's definitely a "don't ask, don't tell" situation, so it's not surprising that it wasn't brought up in the video here.
In soaplands, you're not paying for sex, you're paying for a bath. That's the workaround. You and the girl "fall in love" for that period of time and vaginal penetration is the default.
That said, it's expensive and while something like that may feel good in the moment, at some point you feel empty - because at some point you recognize that there is no love and it's all fake in the end.
Ultimately, you lose the sense of intimacy after a while.
Time for my own confession. I've told others in the past that I didn't do it, but that wasn't true. I did partake while I was in Japan, even though I found it morally wrong to do so. My desire for gratification overrode my moral compass. I'm not proud of it. What I said above is speaking from personal experience.
So, to repeat, it may feel good in the moment, but I don't think it's worth doing in the end. It's better to try and look for a real and genuine loving relationship, and you'll never have that if you are spending time with escorts instead.
@@pacepicante6952 It's not that you are looking for "love" but the illusion of love is offered as a commodity. Sex becomes a transaction. It cheapens the real thing.
@@RonJDuncanwell said
One of you guys has hired scorts in other countries? Does having sex with a Japanese woman feel any different?
The "don't ask, don't tell" rule is the key. It happens, but just not on a billboard.
I share your feelings. The desire for instant gratification overrides your thought process. Over the years I had many dates with prostitutes and almost always I felt bad, hollow, about it afterwards. Still, even fully aware of that, I would sometime repeat the experience just for that burning desire for a moment of bliss. To really enjoy it, and avoid bad feelings during and after the service, I need to be in a very specific mindset, one that it’s rare.
I'm really concerned about diseases you WILL get by using these services. It's extremely dangerous to engage in these kind of services if there are no safety implemantations like testing (not only the worker but the client) but it's just a recipe for disaster in the long run.
Puritanism: the fear that somebody, somewhere, is having a good time.
BRO NOBITA FINALLY GON LOOSE HIS VIRGINITY
Nice. I will be visiting Japan in November and this is nice info
I am in Japan . please come and I will company with u bro
Oh my gosh thank you for these info
Now some info I know
That's why I was strange now I gradually understand so if have money in Japan can ask service like that hmmm.amazing info
As long as sex is something women can say “no” to, there will always be women who say “yes” to a guy’s coin, and plenty of guys paying for it.
If the client is not nervous, then can the shower be skipped(4:46)? I suspect the shower is unskippable for hygienic purposes.
Correct. Shower is required AFAIK
🎉 Honey listen, the moment you cross the line in the sand to fuk a slew of men in the same day for money , there is ZERO hygiene both physically, emotionally, mentally and spiritually already. Same applies to Johns who use paid women for sex ❤😂🎉
There are some services where you just pay ¥2000 or so to do unshower service. Most of th etime, it's a requirement.
The long term consequenses of poor decisions only haunt you later in life.
If I don't have a girlfriend by 2026, I know exactly what I'm gonna be doing there. No. I'm not even vaguely close to joking.
Me too buddy
Entire comments section of this video is down bad
live is hard in japan , i get it
Pink salons o boy I love em
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If I was going to use sexual services, I would never pay for a service without penetration. It doesn't make sense. I wonder what it's really like in Japan. Isn't normal sexual intercourse an open secret?
They ban PIV specifically, but the other hole is available for purchase. That's pretty penetrative. Or maybe ask coyly if they have extra services for "something".
@@MoleculeXmolecule I don't intend to use it, but I don't condemn it either, it seems strange to me that the use of this "other" hole is legal and the traditional one is not, Is this the one what can be called perverse?
It doesn't make sense because you're not Japanese:). Probably any Japanese girl would also think "women in the West sell their front hole? IT DOESN'T MAKE SENSE!"
One thing I've learned from living overseas and also during my stays in Japan is that we should NEVER use our own culture as a benchmark. It's ok if we don't get it or even think it seems wrong to us. But we shouldn't condem or judge them for it. It's just their culture and anything "wrong" with it is something for them to adress or change, wouldn't you say:)?
@@malkontentniepoprawny6885 I've no idea, but maybe the other hole is considered the one you only share with someone you really love? Similar to how I heard hookers won't kiss you?
@@florianlaur5300 Calm down dude, it doesn't make sense to me. I also think, I may be wrong, that it doesn't make sense for the Japanese either. 'This' is happening, I suspect it is common, but it is not talked about. It is a smokescreen. Oh, I am not imposing anything on anyone and I am not telling how others should live. I am expressing my personal opinion.
some random gaijin: I want to marry a Japanese girl!
meanwhile in Japan: 3:50
3:09 My first time in Shinjuku a big fellow with a heavy African accent told me "Hey you, please try Japanese girl." And led me to the shadiest looking basement entrance. He pointed "Go down there." and I politely told him "No thank you."
I've always wondered why he didn't open the door or have one of the girls drag me in like they do in Pat Pong in Thailand.
8:01 But if vaginal intercourse is illegal how will they learn the skills to become an AV actress?
Thanks for the interesting video.
Japan porn movies have genitals pixelated so in most cases the penetration does not really happen, just seems it is happening under the pixels.It was explained in another video
There is still real penetration or intercourse happened. It depends on what kind of film. One AVactress said if they need to do more sex scenes and only with the same actor the other scene may be fake because it's exhausting. Because some films should be finished on the same day. It's porn so real sex and intercourse happens even if it's pixelated.
Apparently it’s illegal to have intercourse in the actual written service that you sign up for. But once you’re in a hotel, you’re two consenting adults so whatever happens, happens 😂
It's all fun and games for men until you find out your mum or daughter is in the same trade.😂
Ey
Yeah... but society nowadays call them "bold", "brave" and "strong" independent women.
Oh, and if you don't agree with your mum or daughter working on this field, you are a misoginist.
Welcome to 2024.
Some men would be happy with that.
Hmm... sex workers as euphemism for whores?
damn, that's like reality kicking you in the balls!
What a sweetheart 😃
ee, depressive eve, amazing that you're exploring humanity in such depth and whats it called? disassociation?, hope you're staying rooted mate, anchored so to speak, don't go losing yourself pls, that would be depressing ha ha
Just get a girlfriend. She will be cleaner and loving, contribute to your life in general and can provide the basis for a family with children. Dont go to a prostitute.
Cheating/adultery is apparently very prevalent in Japan. Dudes can’t be sure that their gf/wife ain’t cheating, so they preemptively do it. Opposite is true for the gf/wife. Japanese society works differently than in the west 😂 At least with escorts you get/pay exactly what you sign up for 😅
Piss off data, im getting laid.
i keep forgetting how sexpatting is still a thing. Hearing people talk about this like they’re going to a restaurant is freaky as hell
Interesting. However , I hope you can please cover other topics about life in Japan , apart from sex /sexual services etc. Thanks
He's got years' worth of videos for that.
Nobita is a closet superhero trying to rid his country of sex work (source: he voiced his dismay about sex work in many other videos), to be honest , he is fighting a losing battle.😂🎉❤
Are you that naive the because it is not allowed it does not happen en masse?
Source to the 40% stat? Thats fkn crazy
having consentual sex totaly legal , giving money to other ppl totaly legal , doing both at the same time and place total ilegal... makes a lot of sense
Sounds fun but also dangerous. Personally, i'd never use those services. Rather stay safe and enjoy the other things Japan has to offer
the fact of the matter is that any man who frequents hookers Japan et al, truly does not need real love in their lives and is quite content to literally die alone when the time comes, and to be found by some neighbour after a month when his corpse starts to stink, sad but true ❤🎉
need to go to japan
find me this job
Life is great.
Its all fun and games until you accidentally catch feelings
🎉 thanks
Just. Don’t. Use. Escorts. At all! It’s better to be safe than sorry gentlemen. You’ll be saving money, your physical health, your mental health, and your life.
outrageous
I'm so glad she was not nanase was not speaking English. NSFW convo right there lol
Caption is only half working. 😞
Why are maids and girls bar girls standing on the street being used to talk about sex service?
3:26 we have someone likes the sharks
First, Sorry if this question is not quite appropriate for this video but I wanted to find a fairly recent post of yours. I saw an earlier interview that you did with Kuroki Ikumi and I thought that if you did a future interview with a Japanese pornstar you may be willing to address this question. In other countries` porn videos there a niche markets that cater to humiliation and degrading women. I personally love women and to humiliate and abuse them seems to show a latent hate for women. The Japanese porn industry seems to have a huge focus on this kind of porn where in other countries it is more of an aberration. The humilliation of women in Japanese porn seems to be almost the central focus. What I'm curious about is how, or even if, Japanese actresses feel about being treated so miliciously? I understand that they are "acting" but the theme is still focused on humilliation and abuse. Is it a cultural perspective that Japanese women deserve to be demeaned and degraded or is it something else. As I said, other cultures` porn have a small market for this kind of porn while the Japanese seem to accept this treatment as normal sexual behavior. I would be very interested to hear, positive or negative, thoughts about this, especially from one or several porn actresses. . Lastly, thank you for your exemplary journalistic work, there are many people who could improve their game by viewing a few of your interviews. Thanks.
Its sad😔. Not for these people but for young naive girls who get touted into this line of work with deception, blackmail or money. It degrades society.
In the previous videos they say they love their job and nobody touted them, they work in LEGAL salons.
How can I get this service ?
If I fail to find a nice gf in Japan, this will be my last resort. lol
I liked a lot these 2 videos about sex work in japan. It looks similar to how it works around here, from the law perspective... kind of a 'gray area' where sex work like this is not really illegal but also it's not completely legal and has certain rules. Personally i think it's a good thing that there are services like this which make it all safer for the girls and also the clients. Sex is an integral part of life and nowadays it has become very difficult to interact with most girls for lots of reasons so obviously the % of people who use these services is only gonna rise... at least it's safer this way.
The next video could be about the male prostitution in japan.
i've seen posters where you are pretty much serve cougar ladies
it's better to be a work addict than a sex addict or porn addict. after end of day you will show something. Help family, parents, pay hobby sports, painting, spend quality time with love ones .
the fact of the matter is that any man who frequents hookers Japan et al, truly does not need real love in their lives and is quite content to literally die alone when the time comes, and to be found by some neighbour after a month when his corpse starts to stink, sad but true ❤🎉
Work addictions can kill you, porn and sex addictions (which, by the way a lot of unbiased research has discovered are not addictions at all, just a thing you do that makes you feel guilty. So called porn addicts actually watch porn LESS than people when have no issues with their porn consumption and live totally healthy normal lives) also sex and masturbation relieve stress, which is something that is a serious problem with people who work too much.
What about people who don't have loved ones? Who work such long hours they have no time for anything else? If you're working long hours do you really think painting (which takes HOURS) is an option? It's easier and healthier to de-stress by visiting a sex worker, getting some relief and even a momentary connection with another person and then being able to go about their week or whatever. You are severely under informed about these issues
Ask self Japan higher education, higher live standard, easy porn industries, culture bro. If country make slave move place with higher protect workers rights, saving money to have time self, learn English, have a there skills to use. If want get out rat race live simple life . That called wisdom
@@myheartismadeofstars omg stfu
Sex is not a human right
Where is Nobita??
tight behind you.
Why the heck are there so many sex tourists sharing their experiences in the comments? I get that people want to reduce the taboo but I'm started to get worried for normal tourists.
@Nobita, I looked at the Hentai site closely that Tokyo guy you interview proposes (and owns?). It has some/many fake Japanese profiles on it (among occasional real seeming ones & many foreign girls). I know because the photos from fake profiles are used elsewhere on the internet. At minimum its a different girl from the photos. Take a look yourself :(
So the most useful information in that video isn't that useful after all 😂
This guy in the interview is such a pimp. Of course some girls are cheated into it. There’s lots of interviews about the trap how they are conned into it. 😅
One thing I would like to know after seeing this. Just how common is STDs in japan? Somehow I feel like they are almost nonexistent...
Actually quite common, sadly. There's recently been a bit of a talk about it, how a larger proportion of people in Japan has STD. It's probably not in controlled services like this tho. It's where things are unregulated these things become an issue.
Sounds like they really enjoy the work unlike others who just wants to make a fast bucks
I always wondered if some of the escorts actually fell in love with a client and left the industry to be with him? Does it happen often?
Never works out for the $IMP
You hear anecdotes, but in reality about 95-99% of the time it never really works out in the end. A woman's ability to pair bond with a man diminishes with the more sexual partners she's had, which leads to higher rates of divorce/relationship breakdowns, not to mention how the man feels knowing that his wife/partner's been with so men before them. Very rarely is there a fairy tale ending.
@@moonman8067 Thank you Mr. Moonman. I tend to follow some channels I like that talks about true crime in Japan and there was this story I heard once where some dude and some escort were found dead in a love hotel because they had some sort of actual affair going on and she stabbed him to death before putting on a black - what i suppose lolita like - wedding dress on and hung herself in the bathroom. I was just wondering if there were happier endings lol.
Link us the location bro
I’m curious about this from the the male sex workers’ perspective
the fact of the matter is that any man who frequents hookers Japan et al, truly does not need real love in their lives and is quite content to literally die alone when the time comes, and to be found by some neighbour after a month when his corpse starts to stink, sad but true ❤🎉
The fact that anal is okay but vaginal isn’t, is blowing my mind 🤔 They just wanted to put rules on stuff I guess.
They're willing to blow something else, by the way. That's technically legal too.
well i mean i've met girls that were convinced that because they only had anal/oral sex before, they are still virgins so yeah.
Sounds like a good idea to do
Crazy Japanese 😅
Sooooo when we making a trip to Japan for research purposes 👀
Ikura?
Hiring a human for these things will always seems wrong to me. I dont care what country it is. Services like this suggests a much deeper issue with society and loneliness.
the fact of the matter is that any man who frequents hookers Japan et al, truly does not need real love in their lives and is quite content to literally die alone when the time comes, and to be found by some neighbour after a month when his corpse starts to stink, sad but true ❤🎉
What's far worse for me is that especially in the West, women are now celebrated to sell themselves and objectify themselves.
I mean, being objects and only being able to work as sex workers has been THE number 1 complaint by women for millenia, right? And now that they can do literally any job, they choose "I'm an object, f... me or pay to see me naked"?
Sites like OF only increase the loneliness epidemic in men.
Japan as usual is a harbinger of social trends. Here, we already have 15-30% of the population (at least that's the numbers i remember reading) who have completely given up on relationships AND sex!
When I was in Japan, I saw few real couples. Girls hang out with girls and don't seem to care at all about guys around them. And guys do the same. It's like they're segregated into two sexes.
Hopefully the changes in demographic might bring us back to a more rural and social lifestyle.
What are you trying to say? Hiring a HUMAN is bad, than hiring whom is not? You have animal abuse on your avatar and you channel name is suspicious…
@@UnPassant-zs9oc that's wild
@@boigercat you mean what you say is wild? Yes. Besides, you write your mother abused you. Well your mother is a human, so you See, humans can be bad. Yes, a human can hire a human.
Why they not allowed classical virginal sex??
Why does it still seem efficient and logical then anywhere
OP 💯 used her service 👀
This saddens me and intrigues me. I think sad is the healthier perspective. Tradition can be so heavenly. These people prefer hedonist purgatory instead.
Prostitution has been around for thousands of years. At this point we can call it tradition.
My point is that doing things for the sake of tradition is a bad argument. Traditions can also be horrific, like (sexual) hazing.
@@twink276 let’s focus on maintaining the positive Traditions. How about that?
the fact of the matter is that any man who frequents hookers Japan et al, truly does not need real love in their lives and is quite content to literally die alone when the time comes, and to be found by some neighbour after a month when his corpse starts to stink, sad but true ❤🎉
dude, prostituiton has benn around in japan since forever. it just happens to be safer now as i assume none of these girls will be stupid enought to end up bearing a customers child in the end, unlike a few hundred years ago when the best contraceptive was a piece of paper on the womb entry.
and dont let me start with the samurais little boys.
Not sad, make money enough for happy.
Not sad, lot of single men still vrigin
Not sad, better than lot of gays ....???
Not sad, Happy than stress work....
just kidding... as long as you are thinking way is simple😅
Actually some are just cover many have vaginal intercourse included.
Disgusting
I'm not gonna lie it disgust me, I have no hatred or bad feeling at all toward the person interviewed 😉, it is just me who can't really understand why men use that, do they feel fulfilled from that?
(btw I'm a male too)
the fact of the matter is that any man who frequents hookers Japan et al, truly does not need real love in their lives and is quite content to literally die alone when the time comes, and to be found by some neighbour after a month when his corpse starts to stink, sad but true ❤🎉
some men are just lonely, can’t get girlfriends etc. some men might just feel horny and don’t wanna invest time, emotion and money into meeting someone just for the purpose of sex. In many cases paying a hooker plays even cheaper than dating someone for ONS or FWB.
Land of the rising sun and the bbbj
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hot
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sick culture reflecting global sick culture
That "George" is obviously confusing "dating" with "prostitution"😂❤🎉
Unfortunately so. If I may be candid, I let my desire for gratification override my moral compass while I was in Japan, so I did partake in the services. Now then, it's been roughly six years or so since I last did anything like it, and all I can say is that at the end of the day, the pleasure was there, but it was fleeting. All that awaits after is loneliness.
Thinking that all cultures on earth have the same problem is extremely simple minded. Maybe go travel? If people all over the world have the same problem on average, it's probably poverty.
@@RonJDuncanthe fact of the matter is that any man who frequents hookers Japan et al, truly does not need real love in their lives and is quite content to literally die alone when the time comes, and to be found by some neighbour after a month when his corpse starts to stink, sad but true ❤🎉
@@RonJDuncanif you are looking for "true love" from prostitutes who are EXPERT ACTORS, it's same as using booze as your "medication" to the root of your emotional problems whatever it might be 😂🎉❤❤🎉
Message from an American somewhere in the United States: Dear Japanese women, get married. Have kids. Turn to God for help.
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Another American who thinks they can save the world. Give advice to people in your own screwed up country first.
America is #1 and your logic is #1 in the world and your god is the #1 god! All the other gods are fake but yours is #1 real
Japan's strength is in its atheism.
The USA should turn to Shinto, Buddhism, Taoism and non-belief in a god.
The girls look very old!
How sad.
the fact of the matter is that any man who frequents hookers Japan et al, truly does not need real love in their lives and is quite content to literally die alone when the time comes, and to be found by some neighbour after a month when his corpse starts to stink, sad but true ❤🎉