Hailey Bieber Eats 10 Traditional French Dishes - Etiquette Reaction by Jamila Musayev
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I notice that most of these etiquette rules, not just in dining but in general, actually are practical and not just something to follow to be “proper”. For examples, waving the fork and knife in the air would pose a hazard, putting the utensils back on the mat would be unsanitary, bending down too low can hurt your back (and also would be dangerous if you get too close to the food especially if it’s hot), etc. These are pretty much based on maintaining safety and hygiene.
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Also not allowed to talk before you swallow your food, to avoid choking
It all boills down to having empathy for yourself and other people.
that's because etiquette was first "invented" so that everyone can feel good when interacting with each other; now people use 'not wanting to seem stuck up' as an excuse to not have proper manners, so they end up being rude and crossing over people's boundaries
Too many restaurants I have been to expect you to keep your dirty cutlery, even when you have not one plate nor extra napkins on the table. I try to always hold onto my bread plate for this reason alone. I feel so comfortable and happy when the restaurant staff remove your plates, silverware on top, and either understand or bring a new set without even asking. A lot of people, staff and diners alike, do not know this; they are simply doing what they think is normal. 🥺🌹🍽 And yes, I am very certain this has only happened in America. I often just ask for new silverware if they try to have my keep it, and sometimes that request is met with hesitation. I think I've always been given a new set, though. 😅🌹🍽
*Is it just me or does anyone else instantly feels like straightening their back and putting a bit more effort into how they're going to present and eat their dinner?* I always feel like getting a glimpse of royalty after watching Jamila's videos on etiquette. Beautifully done as always. I dream of this production for my own channel :)
Relating to what you have mentioned.
Yes applying the effort brings out a new personality to become better in the world of Business (Work), Casual (Home).
I would also like to thank Jamila Musayeva for bringing a new trait into my daily life to become successful and enjoy life.
Absolutely trying to sit in a more ladylike fashion right now 😂🙋
It's good, because being seated for a long period when busy can become uncomfortable. I choose the ladylike fashion seating positions that come into play as it releases good stress and can continue with my daily duties. @@danyf.1442
I'm very much work in progress when it comes to my posture. Something I need to be reminded of.
In your diary write or type my posture correction. Your schedule will then keep you updated as it will depend on what settings you have selected. Once you made the habit it will never be broken. @@IEVAKambarovaite
I am not well off or wealthy by any means; I am simply middle class. I never go anywhere fancy to eat because of this but I still use your dining etiquette lessons when I am dining. Things I have noticed is that when I practice dining etiquette, even if the common person or waiter doesn’t understand what I’m doing, I look much more feminine and put together and I’ve noticed that doing these things commands more attention from my date and I get better service from my waiters and waitresses. Home training and soft skills truly benefit any woman in any situation
I like how polite and respectful you are! You are not criticizing, but rather giving useful suggestions on how to do things better
Jamila, I would like to know how to gracefully deal with little accidents that happen while dining. For example, when you drop a piece of food, if you drop your napkin or cutlery by accident, if you rip a stocking or whatever clumsy mistakes that could happen. It would be fun to watch and very educational 🤣.
Great idea. Something always goes wrong when I’m out to a restaurant or event with my three kids.
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She mentioned it in her dining etiquette video. If I remembered it correctly, one shouldn't pick up the food or cutlery from the floor. th-cam.com/video/zA2PfKRcm0g/w-d-xo.html
Yes Jamila!
as far as I know, when you drop some food, you NEVER pick it up, the waiter picks it up
In France, the etiquette says that fork and knife position in the plate also has a meaning.
Crossing them like you did in the video means you have finished and... didn't enjoy your food 😛. Putting them in parallel means you liked it, and putting them perpendicularly means you would like to have the next dish.
Making an A, means you are having a pause
Elegance always makes a person look way better.
Absolutely
This reminded me of an old friend! He is the only other person I know who cares about etiquette too. He basically said that a woman can be a 10 until she sits down to eat. So we were laughing at me when the fork would just not pierce the tomato in the salad! (We were at a convention and stuck eating what they offered. I was pregnant so I was like screw it, I need to eat hahaha!)
@@JamilaMusayeva you are adorable
For the people around us, it is fancy. My kids complain about having to learn to be fancy when no one else does it. My husband learned! He recently went to a business celebratory lunch and his friend/boss leaned in and asked my husband what fork he should start with :)
My mom is Mexican but taught me the basic use of fork and knife as a kid (siblings and dad need etiquette classes!) I later learned the rest on my own. When we were dating, my husband’s family gave me the nickname “la duquesa” the duchess because I use a fork and knife lol.
I wish I were exaggerating when I say I'm amazed at how many younger people don't know how to properly use cutlery.
Hailey is very animated and probably wasn’t as concerned with etiquette. She was still very charming and effortlessly beautiful. Still helpful to know these notes.
Yeah but still is Vogue...surprised me alot they did the video without saying anything. It's not any magazine, for example a magazine for teenagers with a singer like Olivia Rodrigo saying her opinions about fast food in the comfort of her home. This it's a more relax environment, the goal is have fun, just following the most basic manners.
effortlessly?😂
@@silvialopez-jurado6979 yes, effortlessly. got anything to say?
@@sabinecallas8904 yes, It IS not true: expensive cosmétics, makeup, hairdresses, expensives clothes, gym, probably got some kind of stetic procedures (hyaluronic ácid in Lips and her nose IS different than before-rinoplasty maybe a bochectomy too) teeth whitening, manicure, etc
🤣 😂😂😂😂
I feel like the latest generation tries to come off as unassuming, authentic and friendly but they have lost the art of many etiquette rules that, when you think about it, are in place for the comfort of everyone at the table - and for your safety clearly. This is a nice reminder, as I myself tend to take heaps of food in my mouth and then blabber on in case I miss out on the conversations being had 🙈
Im 38 and im from Portugal. I did learn a lot of these "table manners" has a child, especially from my dad. I believe he learned these rules with priests in his school, because his family was humble. I really proud of my dad and all he taught me. Great video, you gained another follower. Thank you and congrats on being so polite and thoughfull speaking of Hailey.
Os Portugueses têm maneiras fantásticas! Também sou portuguesa, mas vivi em várias partes do mundo, e nós de facto, somos extraordinariamente bem educados :)
You : “I’m from Portugal”
Me : who cares where u from sis
@claudia ferreira in my case was grandparents especially not to talk when you have something in your mouth and not to place your elbows on the table and never chew like a cow to close your mouth and chew.😄
@@bartsimpson3275 me
I love how educational and respectful this video series are. Thank you for such a high quality material for everyone to learn!
Thank you for your kind words 🙏🏻
This was so interesting! You addressed the issues very nicely and politely. Please do more reaction videos! :)
Yes!!💘
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The French must have lost their ways because the tine isn't placed down until finished to indicate removal so service doesn't interrupt conversation.
I highly agree, I'm looking forward for more reaction videos
@@insideoutcleanwithkathleen4854 That makes sense. Even in Germany we are not aloud to speak by eating, so the full mouth is a no go.
I am glad to know that there are still people like you who are concerned and interested in showing people the importance of how to behave at the table. However I think Haley did her role well. The video would lose its fun and spontaneity if she had to focus on the rules of etiquette.
That's right
you can be fun & spontaneous and still have proper manners, one does not exclude the other
@@StylingPrincessM how I want this balance 😂🤌🏽
True, Hailey's a freespirited person, as much as manners are great she loves to have be goofy at times & that what I enjoyed most about the video
I don't believe that not speaking with a full mouth or not waiving her cutlery would have taken away the fun and spontaneity.
This is why i love your videos specifically, you educate us and talk about how to improve instead of mocking the person! That really talks about you and your professionalism, thank you! :)
I have never seen anyone eating as elegantly as Jamila. 🌟
Thank you 😊
Jamila, thank you for this discussion about this video! I haven't seen any of the videos, but it's good to learn some etiquette from a natural situation. I started eating with a fork downward when I moved to England, although it was really difficult and I still struggle!
In my opinion, I think Hailey was just focusing on entertaining the audience by exaggerating everything and show the non-etiquette way people can enjoy their lives without judgement, I think. She obviously was just having fun
Agree, besides not everyone knows etiquette rules , being a celebrity does not mean one knows the rules too; if one has become a celebrity, or is in the business world , better to learn the rules
@@harmony7112 she kinda should though, I bet she went to private schools.
Awesome video! I would love to see more things like that in the future. I feel like in this day and age, there cannot be enough videos about etiquette in all kinds of restaurant, work/school, or travelling settings, etc., etc.
You are so kind in your reaction to this video. Thank you for the graceful education.
Loved this!!! Thank you for the continuous amazing content. Take care
Really enjoyed this video. Thanks for helping us out with our dining etiquette
Hello Jamila! I love your lessons on dining etiquette. I’ll remember and try to practice them at home so when I dine out, it will feel more natural for me.
Loved it. Thank you always . Watching you means learning half way
Your voice is sooo calming!
i love that the first clip had a little peak at the azerbaijani grand prix! i love f1 and i love you, so everytime the race happens at baku I'm extra excited to watch!
Keep making more videos 💕
Agreed. Well done Baku. 🏎
Really glad you did this video. I saw her video today.
Thank you. I have been waited for this video.
Such an awesome video! I really like that you did not judge the "left-hand way" of eating.
Loved this video! I would love to see more videos that are reactions to people's behaviors. Seeing the corrections are very helpful learning tool!
Thank You, Jamila! 💚
Belle! Merci pour la vidéo, Jamila💕
Thank you so so so so much Jamila for motivating me and I really really love your vlogs so so so much you inspired me so so so much and I will support you till end😭✨💕☺️
JAMILA, I FOUND YOUR CHANNEL THROUGH THE COMMENT YOU MADE ON THE VOGUE VIDEO AND I AM SO THANKFUL THAT YOU RESPONDED AND SHOW US HOW TO BEHAVE, IT WAS A GREAT IDEA! CONGRATULATIONS ON THE QUALITY OF CONTENT AND THANKS FOR SHARING WITH US. *YOU AND HAILEY HAVE THE SAME SWEET AND ELEGANT VIBE AND LOVE TO FOLLOW THEM HERE ON TH-cam.*
GREETINGS FROM BRAZIL 💌
This video was so enjoyable for me thank you 🧡🧡
I really like your videos. Thank you for everything you teach us.
I really enjoyed this so much, thank you for the etiquette lesson in this reaction video.
Informative & entertaining at the same time.Thank you.
Great informative Video Jamila, but I also like the way Hailey enjoyed her food. Love for both ladies.
You are such a great teacher and so polite also you look gorgeous as always!
Thank you, I would love more videos like this ❤️
This video is very interesting to me because I like both styles of Etiquette Dining.
Jamila I am going to be looking forward to the next video clip because I enjoy learning and listening.
I love the reaction videos keep them comin!
Really enjoyed the video, so enlightening!
I am so glad that I have found your TH-cam channel! I wish that etiquette was a more common topic to teach at school to kids. Your videos are easy to understand and so useful, I hope you will reach out 1 million of subscribers soon! People are genuinely surprised about my well manners in social settings, and this is part of your teaching throughout your videos:) so thank you!
It is sad that schools no longer teach etiquette
I believe etiquette must be taught at home by the parents and the family, just as good manners.
People (not all people) are so casual and downright sloppy with eating and dining manners are rare!
Awwww Hailey is so animated. I think, she would be a riot to dine with because she’s interesting/expressive… the casual improper etiquette habits wouldn’t be extremely distracting in real time, I think
Exactly. In fact, extreme etiquette will make the dine more boring and anxious
Yeah itd makes me uncomfortable if someone I’m going out with is super into etiquete. Hailey seems fun to go out to eat with it:)
+1. I think Hailey us much more ınteresting to watch and the demonstrated look is sooo boring and impersonal..
Americans equating waving sharp objects while talking as having a personality lol
In the USA No but really In Europ ppl actually eat a certain way at fancy Dinner, at a normal Dinner you can be more casual but at a nice Dinner everyone Eats with edict. You shouldn’t use your knife as you gesture with your hands - it’s not nice!
Loved this so much! Thank you 💕
Excellent video. Thank you Jamila
Thank You very much 💘 it's actually very informative and I definitely learned new etiquettes
I appreciate this video very much. Not only have I learned about dining etiquette but also about how to clearly explain and correct with respect. I've only watched a couple of your videos and I feel like I want to continue in doing so. Would really love to learn about and how to always act with proper manners and etiquette. ♡
Great video! Thank you for the excellent content!
Hey Jamila, hope you're amazing.
What I loved most is learning the right way of holding the fork when bringing it into your mouth, and learning how to take a break with the cutlery for talking.
Thank you so much, it's very useful, and I'll put it to practice from now on.
Jamila was eating in the Continental/European dining style. Hailey Bieber was eating in the American dining style. Americans do not eat with fork tongs down. In The United States it would be rare to see anyone eating the way Jamila does.
I'm wondering if there are etiquettes to eat burgers. Teach us Jamila!
I think I remember seeing a video where they'll eat it with fork and knife.
There is. You eat it with your hands, but you take a bite, then put it down, wipe your face with a napkin… take a drink if you like… repeat as necessary, while conversing and alternating with your side dishes (French fries, salad, etc.).
For me, I found Hailey’s videos interesting and entertaining at the same time...she doesn’t have to follow the rules of the table, the rules of eating, because she is a human being in the end.
This is just a reaction video, she's not forcing anyone, just a nice informative video
Agree, I think, She has already a vedio her dining etiquette and people can watch and learn. It is not neccessary to judge people like Zendaya and Haileys how they eat and embrasing in her vedios. Like You said, they don’t a need to follow rules, it is thier coluture and they eat like a normal person. Not a a big deal.
Don’t be a judge,or You Will be judged.
@@senaitmessele8641 she wasn’t even being judgy or mocking them, though. it was just a reaction and showing + talking about what was done wrong and right. she was very polite throughout the whole video, so i’m not sure what the problem is here, quite frankly. she wasn’t mocking or saying anything was embarrassing, and even mentioned similar disclaimers in the beginning.
there are a lot of things that are messed up in this world, a lot of people with malicious intentions, but it’s very clear that jamila is not one of those people.
Really enjoyed this episode!!!
Love watching your videos as usual.
This format is very similar to the MOVIE Club for Patreons! I love this kind of video and as usual it is packed with lots of takeaways we can use and start to practice on daily basis!
Of course, special mention to how quick and fast this video was produced from conceptualisation, to filming, editing and posting here on TH-cam. And Jamila, you always look immaculate and stunning! We can see how much love and effort was poured into producing this ONE video alone. Such a good one!
thank u jamila❤
I enjoyed this vid, I look forward on your future vids similar to this one
Omg i love this video very very helpful thank you 🙏😘❤️
All these etiquette rules an manners seems normal for me, like, i don’t understand why this is conciderate as fancy haha. I’m french and i think that these things are standards that are Inculcated since the begining (if you have good education at home) but without saying thats an art, more like it’s just a normal way to eat 😋
I know! But not in the US haha so sad
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Been waiting for someone to say this 😊
@@aleahcordoba4883 I'm from the US and as soon as we are able to sit at the table, in a proper chair instead of a highchair, we are taught these manners in my family. My 2y/o neice can do everything but hold her cutlery properly but that's just because she hasn't reached that level of coordination in her development yet. And she's not some little princess; she wants to be a dinosaur when she grows up.
I think I agree with everything, but the soup.
I personally find it more practical to eat the soup with bending my upper body down alittle bit towards so that any drop of soup that may be drop down to the bowl wouldnt dirt my shirt. Thats only my personal opinion, if thats what she said is the good etiquette for eating soup, then let it be;)
Excellent delivery 👏👏
Thank you for your video. As always, very well explained. Gracias
I’m going to make sure that I always eat before going to any fancy dinner. If I was starving, having to eat like this would be an absolute torture! Lol
Dotn think this much guys....just live your life and be happy
absolutely love this!!!
It is always a pleasure to see you in action.
Regards from Mexico City!
such a lovely video! i would love to see more reaction videos :-)
Very interesting and useful video, with examples as clear as this it is easier to learn how to and how not to. Would love to see more videos like this.
As usual so informative. I will never get tired of watching you. :*
Great way to learn! Thank you!! ♡
Thank you for another educative video. I see a big difference in my manners since I started watching you. I feel like a different person, the better version of myself. What starts to make trouble is other people because now I notice their bad manners a lot. 😄
I’ve never seen anyone so pretty while eating. Thank you for sharing your knowledge. Looking forward to more!
beautiful Jamila.This was an useful video . Thank you, also you were looking absolutely gorgeous ❤️❤️
I noticed that the way Hailey eats it’s just more American, whereas the etiquette rules are more how Europeans or British or the French eat. For example, in Europe, you’ll always have the fork on your left side with the tongs facing down and your knife on your right side because a lot of the food that you’re eating there are using both utensils And it makes it easier for cutting each bite instead of switching the utensils over to the other hand like you do in America because typically with American foods, you can eat a lot of stuff with just a fork by itself so it would make sense just to have the fork on your dominant hand.
Jamila, you are such a classy lady! So inspired, thank you! 😄
Your videos have been a breath of fresh air!
Thank you 😊
@@JamilaMusayeva You're welcome! 😊
There is so much to learn from your videos.
Thank you for sharing etiquette technique ♡
Great video! Thank you so much
I love your videos so much, Jamila! I was wondering if you might consider doing an etiquette video on weddings, particularly gift giving, and funerals, especially how to offer condolences. I know that customs can differ from culture to culture, but I find myself uncertain about what to do when I may not know the people getting married or the person whose loved one passed away very well--we're still connected in some way, however, so I would like to know what to do in such situations. Thank you so much for all of the work and love you put into your channel!
Interesting how I thought about every etiquette rule Hailey broke while I was watching her Vogue video and now, suddenly, TH-cam suggests me this video...
Same
Woww learnt a lot🙏thank you so much
This is a great vedio, truly enjoyed watching this vedio , great efforts to put together everything in single vedio. Truly appreciated 🙏.
Why I love to learn table manners and etiquette is that I just want use all the cutlery in the correct way. I just don't want to mess around the well organized table. I don't want to please others but myself.
More videos like this please! It really helps what to do and what to not
Loved it!!
Loved it!
very useful，thank you so much
The real criticisms are actually simply pointing out the differences between European style and American style cutlery usage. American's do not use cutlery with the fork tines down. It is not taught to us in Etiquette Classes. The proper way is considered to be tines up straight into the mouth. It wasn't until I started to travel in Europe that I saw the European style and began to adopt it. Eating tines down still gets odd looks. Also, eating with waiving your cutlery is a no-no, as is putting your used silverware back on the table, and talking with your mouth full- so I agree with you on those points. The use of the desert spoon alongside the fork is also not taught. Generally, the spoon or fork ONLY are presented and used at dessert time. I know this sounds odd, but unless cutting meat, Americans generally only use one piece of cutlery at a time. So you would cut your steak, put your knife down, switch your fork to your dominant hand and continue eating. Again, it would be tines up, and directly into your mouth. It sounds nitpicky, but really, the American style is so different to a more "European" style. It has a lot to do with not looking "fussy", but there are still rules.
I don’t think American Style Etiquette is a thing…
I agree with this comment, even though Jamila looks absolutely sophisticated and beautiful eating in this way. In my part of the US, a very small number of people eat using the European style. I have attempted to use the European style on occasion but feel as though it appears I'm using bad manners by putting food in my mouth with the tines down because no one eats that way here. Love the video!
@@cat_pb It is. If you wish, try searching for the “difference in American and European dining”. Specifically, the difference is in how the cutlery is held. I also took Cotillion and etiquette courses in the US and I was taught table manners in several places. I was never taught European two-handled cutlery holding as it was thought to “look pretentious” and was “easier to spill”. I assume it’s some sort of held over prejudice due to our history. However, I did adopt the two handed method and found it to be neater and quieter as you don’t change hands.
Dear there is nothing calls American style, EU style, Asian style and etc. There is smth calls etiquette. Honestly watching Bieber made ne feel disgusted.
@@mnnm23 It takes two seconds to search for a youtube video on "American Style Dining Etiquette". I know, because I just did it, and at least 5 videos on the topic came up. It is fine if you don't believe me. I can only suggest you research it yourself if you are unfamiliar.
Loved this! Thank you 🙏
Thank you for your elegant, informative video :)
I can watch you speak forever. Seriously. You’re so elegant
Very educative .. i cant believe no one in Vogue saw all of her errors
Literally no one cares about this shit.
no one is obliged to be perfect all the time lol as if you follow the tips all the time
I think they wanted her to be more down to earth/fun rather than stiff and focused on proper etiquette
Wtf ur callin it an error??? Are you people out of ur mind? why are we all supposed to eat the same way are we fuckin robots?? Let people eat how ever they want mind u business
@@JB-xh1kx No all the time, but at least occasionally. Humans evolved and civilized, and that is when etiquette and manners were invented. There is no problem if you want to go backwards, these people are definitely minding their own businesses, so should you.
I loved this video 😍
I used to work at multiple 5 star hotels and we were definitely taught to serve from the right and collect empty plates from the left side. Only exception, if you are serving from a serving platter, for example slices of meat, bread or something you would serve from the left.
I know why she eats like that. Her mom is brazilian lol The way she eats looks very familiar to me since people here almost always behave like that. She looks brazilian herself!
For God's sake let people eat however they want.
Yeah its not necessary to judge behind them
Yeah!! and m pretty sure that max. people who r judging hailey do not follow a single rule when they r eating 😂😂😂
marvellous video!
Very useful, very intricate detail about table manners I liked this it's much useful