Even back when this was filmed, what kind of woman would want to be on TV, admitting to a two year affair. Then add that her husband is in the audience!!
They offered an appearance fee, trip to L.A., and judgment paid. Seemed like a fair enough trade for some show that would air once and never be seen again. There's no way the segment would carry on after the initial airing and maybe a few reruns. (The Internet wasn't a prominent aspect of everyone's life then and TH-cam channels devoted to archiving old TV shows was 20 years away. Even when TH-cam started, it was only about original videos.)
1997! What a time to be alive. I still remember our family desktop PC with Windows 95, and its 56 kbps dial-up Internet connection, which I used to play Ultima Online.
If the Plaintiff did not testify that he had a recording of the Defendant admitting she'd begin reimbursing the money he loaned her, this might have gone differently. Defendant seems to like the convenience of lying when she thinks it will benefit her and I'm thinking her husband, while embarrassed and uneasy sitting there listening to his wife admit to an affair for 2 years and no longer loving him as a husband, might have been there so she couldn't lie to him when she got home from court about what happened. If he's already seeking a divorce quietly that she's not aware of yet, what is presented in this courtroom might help him in his divorce proceedings concerning her character, trustworthiness and honesty. He's got to consider alimony she'll most likely insist upon in a divorce as well as child support, so hearing the testimony personally gives him the straight story for his divorce attorney. At least I like to hope that's his reason for being present during this humiliating experience she created.
The amounts he gave her were odd--$332? That isn't an amount he would give her for "a night out with the girls". Her husband sitting there was just icing on the humiliation cake.
Wife to Husband: "Hey honey! I won a trip to CA to appear in a TV show. You wanna come?" Husband to Wife: "Sounds exciting! Sure thing sweetie!" TV Show: Judge Judy! 😳🙄😅😆🤣
What a mess. The defendant had her affair exposed for all the world to see. The plaintiff is no prize either; he knew she was married and is morally no better.
Don’t want to have to pay back someone …then don’t accept a loan. When you needed the money he gave it to you , he needs it back. He should get his money , don’t say he needs to leave me alone -- pay Him Back!!
So I thought when he said it would no longer be a loan if she left her husband and lived with him that she would throw his case out. Prosecution isn't legal unclean hands
Husband looked like he was studying the testimony carefully, and thinking about it. It seems to me he was listening for discrepancies between what was said here, and what she has been telling her him at home. I suspect that his wife will be in trouble when they get home, and she may not have a bed to sleep in, if her lies to her husband were as weak and continuing as the lies she told here. Nothing like court testimony to expose the other side of the story, and to reveal the sordid details. It is normal with a reconciliation for there to be a promise to come clean and there to be no more lies, and I suspect that husband knew nothing about that recorded phone call. He also probably knew nothing of a bank account under his name that was being used for her boyfriend's money. Both very revealing, and sordid details. These are the sorts of things to make a man think to himself that enough is enough, and that he could never again trust this woman.
if you watch these older shows she was so different acting.. much calmer and kinder... then she got mean as hell.. her new show from what ive seen she is back to this nicer version... so mean judy is just an act...
After seeing that her husband was in the audience i had to rewatch just to see his demeanor, man if looks could kill she would be spread out on the floor
0:30 I watch these clips and can't help but hear the melodic tones of Meghan Trainor singing. If your lips are movin', if your lips are movin' If your lips are movin', then you're lyin', lyin', lyin', baby😂😂
So this lady's husband sits there and hears that his wife sees him as a brother? That means she doesn't "fancy him" at all? That's gotta be ego squeezing........(dwl)
If she was paying out of fear of his threats, why didn’t she call the police? If this were a scam caller demanding money, would she just obediently pay up? Obviously she wouldn’t, so her lies are easy to spot.
She looks like a User to me; she wanted the affair, the money, and the security of her husband and marriage as a safety net if things went wrong - which they did, for whatever reason... JJ saw through her.
I'm wondering if the husband had an open marriage and didn't mind another man paying.i believe he truly thought they were over as a couple and just co habitating while raising the son
She was his woman for 2 odd years, even tho she still played house with her husband. I do not believe they were loans. He was giving his woman money to spend on herself. If SHE loaned him money, wth did she not keep track of the LOANS? She cheated on her husband for at least 2 years, I don't believe anything she says. As an aside, dont put your hand in someone elses cookie jar. If you are attached to someone, be it bf/gf, married, whatever, if you are not happy where you are, either talk to your other and fix it, or if you just want OUT, be honest about it, leave, don't keep up the charade and use and deceive the person. As always, safety first, but NEVER use and deceive the other person, it may not be illegal, but it is WRONG.
I just noticed the “two thinking men” behind the defendant 😂. They’re both in opposite deep thought. I had to pause at :45 to get something and it stopped on them. Edited one of the thinking men was her husband 😓, oh dear.
i would not have given him anything for his bad deeds he knew she was married, also i hope the husband leaves her i wouldn't trust her again now she is really going to be broke.
I don't think any spouse would sit in court to listen to this.. Must be actors...I still don’t see why anyone would want their personal lives viewed by millions 🤪
@@thetaekwondoe3887 Sometimes in these cases, litigants claim to have evidence, but when they're challenged to provide it, the evidence is either somehow "missing" or it turns out not to say what they claim that it says.
Omg the defendant is such a lying bee! and the plaintiff needs a hair cut and stop paying ppl to be your friends, PPL! I have never given any money to men! never and I dated alot! do not be a sucker!!!!
I wouldn’t give him any of that money back. He didn’t try to recoup the money all those years and he kept giving her money. He is mad she didn’t leave her husband.
All those years? He lent her the money during the last year she was messing around with him. She just used him, acknowledged she was supposed to pay it back & agreed to 🤔👍
Melissa the defendant 👎 did Robert divorce you after you lost your case to your lover. Women should not be inimate with other men sharing bodily fluids, that's just "nasty"🤭.
Okay I did not expect the husband to actually be there 😂😂
The way I gasped when I saw him 😂😂😂
She loves him like a brother. Bro wanted to show up to support his new sister.
He was probably in on it with her as a scam.
Cuck
So messed up lol
I'm amazed that her husband sat there while she admitted in court that she was having an affair over 2 years.
Simps are simps!
same - would like to hear the convo on the way hom after that
He enjoyed all that extra money too. They both could have been running a scam.
I had to rewatch the entire thing when they showed who the husband was. Saying that I love my husband more as a brother is such a sad insult
@@ritadyer9295My thoughts, too.
What sort of doormat could sit in court listening about his wife's 2 year affair?
A doormat who was also unfaithful.
@@purrple.shadows How do you know her husband was also unfaithful?
A proud one.
@@geoffn54 Either that or he has no self-respect at all.
Cuckold?
Even back when this was filmed, what kind of woman would want to be on TV, admitting to a two year affair. Then add that her husband is in the audience!!
Probably the chance to be on tv 😂
They offered an appearance fee, trip to L.A., and judgment paid. Seemed like a fair enough trade for some show that would air once and never be seen again. There's no way the segment would carry on after the initial airing and maybe a few reruns.
(The Internet wasn't a prominent aspect of everyone's life then and TH-cam channels devoted to archiving old TV shows was 20 years away. Even when TH-cam started, it was only about original videos.)
Her poor husband looks so defeated by this whole thing
I hope he gave her the flick after this.
She should have paid quietly. Some ppl love humiliation. Her husband didn't need to witness this
Maybe he likes to be humiliated.
@@xubarze she sure does. 10 million ppl and now the 7 billion had seen her nonsense
😂😂😂
Some people thrive on this kind of drama. Even men.
All for a “free” hotel stay and free flight ..some people…
Defendant is a really bad liar, but she is a liar.
Exactly
You can see it in her eyes!
th-cam.com/video/DRskoSN26n4/w-d-xo.html
Cheater and scammer. She'll a real prize.
I cannot understand people who forgive infidelity. The point of marriage is exclusivity. You want to run around, stay single.
I admit, I am not a big enough person to forgive a cheater. My guy cheats, I am out.
@@radolfkalis4041 you can forgive but still leave! I would forgive my husband but I probably wouldn’t be able to stay with him
Couple divorced sometime before 2007, guess this was the nail in the coffin
They lasted a pretty long time after this really then.
Couldn’t have been that big of a nail because this was the 90s
Lasted another 10 yrs…Ra
Happy he won.
The husband sitting behind her. How can he still be with her?
Probably did the same type of thing.
Some enjoy sloppy seconds.
it takes two to tango. the plaintiff is as big a scumbag as she is. they deserve each other. i wouldn't have cared if jj ruled against him.
@purrple.shadows stop being a feminist 😒. She admitted to cheating stop your assumption.
Husbands an idiot.
Doesn’t make sense he gives you money when you go out with your friends but also borrowed money from you?
Cheaters lies never make sense lol
@@mjmtz9t true!
So true.
1997! What a time to be alive. I still remember our family desktop PC with Windows 95, and its 56 kbps dial-up Internet connection, which I used to play Ultima Online.
If the Plaintiff did not testify that he had a recording of the Defendant admitting she'd begin reimbursing the money he loaned her, this might have gone differently. Defendant seems to like the convenience of lying when she thinks it will benefit her and I'm thinking her husband, while embarrassed and uneasy sitting there listening to his wife admit to an affair for 2 years and no longer loving him as a husband, might have been there so she couldn't lie to him when she got home from court about what happened. If he's already seeking a divorce quietly that she's not aware of yet, what is presented in this courtroom might help him in his divorce proceedings concerning her character, trustworthiness and honesty. He's got to consider alimony she'll most likely insist upon in a divorce as well as child support, so hearing the testimony personally gives him the straight story for his divorce attorney. At least I like to hope that's his reason for being present during this humiliating experience she created.
They probably have kids and he decided to stay and work on their relationship. 😔
HOLY 💩💩💩
HUSBAND IS SITTING RIGHT THERE!!!
@@Julie-sl8ul quite surprised prompter didn’t put “husband who likes to be humiliated on tv’ 😂
I was surprised to see the husband sitting there! He must really love her!
Lmao
Or be a damn fool
Or be unhealthily obsessed
Love is blind lol
Not even her own mother loves her.
The amounts he gave her were odd--$332? That isn't an amount he would give her for "a night out with the girls". Her husband sitting there was just icing on the humiliation cake.
People are so messy. Grown folks willingly put themselves in some of the craziest situations.
Normally I'd say the plaintiff was SOL, but there was the proof on that tape...
Wife to Husband: "Hey honey! I won a trip to CA to appear in a TV show. You wanna come?"
Husband to Wife: "Sounds exciting! Sure thing sweetie!"
TV Show: Judge Judy! 😳🙄😅😆🤣
😂😂😂
Lmao 😂
Her story makes no sense. Either he owed her or he gifted her by splurging?
First time I didn’t get a skip the dishes ad right after the first part! 🎉
What a mess. The defendant had her affair exposed for all the world to see. The plaintiff is no prize either; he knew she was married and is morally no better.
Definitely morally better. He didn't make vows and she sold him a sob story.
Don’t want to have to pay back someone …then don’t accept a loan. When you needed the money he gave it to you , he needs it back. He should get his money , don’t say he needs to leave me alone -- pay Him Back!!
Where Was Her Husband In All Of This
Sitting at home watching TV
In the black and white argyle right behind her
Probably at home watching their son.
Once a cheater always a cheater.
Simping 1990s style 💯
I'm glad that JJ saw through this woman's lies. No one agrees to pay back money to anyone unless it was a loan.
As jesse lee peterson would say BETA HUSBAND
Jesse Lee Peterson is funny, and he would definitely say that, and he would be right-BETA!😂
🤣 the Hands so if he didn’t work how he gave you $$$ Lady
Oh, the hubby's gonna have some words with her when they get home. I wish I could be the fly on the wall! 😂
The husband being there was the Gaggg!!!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂
The husband needs to know that she will screw around on him again. Cheaters never cheat just with one person.
Everyone is surprised the husband sat thru this. I'm surprised he sat thru anything in that gawdy sweater.
Gotta love the ‘90s.
Her husband is a fool. I would be gone. Sad. Pay the money back.
The husband was a proud witness 😂😂
Why does the ‘clean hands’ principle not apply here? 🤔
Morally wrong is different then legally wrong.
So... what did she tell hubby to get to court? Girls Vaca???😅
Probably she told him that he wouldn't be allowed to watch from the corner and use his tongue as her birth control anymore.
Omg the husband there!!!! 🫖 ☕️
Plot twist: I'll bet he didn't even have a tape of the conversation. 😅
She’s a payroll supervisor? For who? People who worked at the company should go back to check their checks
This is a case where you hate to see either side win.
Who would want her? She’s such a liar!
imagine that for like a decade most of the women had hair like this: like a festive cabbage
I feel like the new judge Judy would not award him because he kept giving her money without her paying him back while they were still a couple.
So I thought when he said it would no longer be a loan if she left her husband and lived with him that she would throw his case out. Prosecution isn't legal unclean hands
Husband looked like he was studying the testimony carefully, and thinking about it. It seems to me he was listening for discrepancies between what was said here, and what she has been telling her him at home. I suspect that his wife will be in trouble when they get home, and she may not have a bed to sleep in, if her lies to her husband were as weak and continuing as the lies she told here. Nothing like court testimony to expose the other side of the story, and to reveal the sordid details.
It is normal with a reconciliation for there to be a promise to come clean and there to be no more lies, and I suspect that husband knew nothing about that recorded phone call. He also probably knew nothing of a bank account under his name that was being used for her boyfriend's money. Both very revealing, and sordid details. These are the sorts of things to make a man think to himself that enough is enough, and that he could never again trust this woman.
> He harassed my son.
That could explain why her husband is there with her. He might be staying in the toxic relationship for the kids sake
if you watch these older shows she was so different acting.. much calmer and kinder... then she got mean as hell.. her new show from what ive seen she is back to this nicer version... so mean judy is just an act...
Yeah the new she pretty calm but there are a few where she gets very angry. Age can calm a person a little
She is unnecessarily mean sometimes, but a lot of the people deserve it! She can be pretty volatile on her new show but sometimes sympathetic.
After seeing that her husband was in the audience i had to rewatch just to see his demeanor, man if looks could kill she would be spread out on the floor
Believe JJ didn’t want to play the tape and embarrass her more along with then getting involved in a divorce mess.
Well… that was unexpected @1:32 😳
For some women, it's better they make a lot of men happy rather than one man miserable.
0:30 I watch these clips and can't help but hear the melodic tones of Meghan Trainor singing. If your lips are movin', if your lips are movin' If your lips are movin', then you're lyin', lyin', lyin', baby😂😂
If she cheats on her husband, there’s no way I can believe her.
Imagine the husband uses this tape recording in divorce court
Is that wierd all jankovic?? 🤣🤣
The husband was there...ewww
So this lady's husband sits there and hears that his wife sees him as a brother? That means she doesn't "fancy him" at all? That's gotta be ego squeezing........(dwl)
The 1970s called. They want their hair back.
When she gives him money its a loan and he pays the money back. When he gives her money its a gift. This woman is a hustler.
If she was paying out of fear of his threats, why didn’t she call the police? If this were a scam caller demanding money, would she just obediently pay up? Obviously she wouldn’t, so her lies are easy to spot.
It must have been hard on her husband to hear the details of this case.
Wow Peter Jackson looks so young!!
Husband wore the right outfit for the camera man to spot him when the time comes😅
PLAINTIFF: Okay, I will tell you about it.
That right there... She's lying.
I think the husband was also having an affair, he also knew about her getting the money , he could spend his money on his love bird.
Tough case. Don't understand JJ's decision this time. IMHO, just because the woman said she would pay back doesn't mean the money was a loan.
The shame of the husband which was there 😅😅
The shame is that he's still her husband
So, the husband was there to witness for his wife. To tell the world that his wife's boyfriend gave her the money to buy groceries for him🤔
she doesnt seem to know much about someone she was with for 2 years
ahhh he threatened me harassed me too bad the std B S defence didnt work this time
Hairstyles seem late 80s /early 90s but past 1996 which is the real surprise here to be fair
She is liar. I can't believe her husband didn't get up and walk out.
She looks like a User to me; she wanted the affair, the money, and the security of her husband and marriage as a safety net if things went wrong - which they did, for whatever reason... JJ saw through her.
Simply put, the husband is a fool.
Does anyone else think that the black man in the suit, sitting next to the husband, is the husband's divorce lawyer?
The defendant is very clearly lying.
Her husband should run fast in the other direction.
Money box.
Never been this early 😂❤
I'm wondering if the husband had an open marriage and didn't mind another man paying.i believe he truly thought they were over as a couple and just co habitating while raising the son
The husband really needs to be rid of his wife's boyfriend!😂
He needs to get rid of his wife!
She was his woman for 2 odd years, even tho she still played house with her husband. I do not believe they were loans. He was giving his woman money to spend on herself. If SHE loaned him money, wth did she not keep track of the LOANS? She cheated on her husband for at least 2 years, I don't believe anything she says.
As an aside, dont put your hand in someone elses cookie jar. If you are attached to someone, be it bf/gf, married, whatever, if you are not happy where you are, either talk to your other and fix it, or if you just want OUT, be honest about it, leave, don't keep up the charade and use and deceive the person. As always, safety first, but NEVER use and deceive the other person, it may not be illegal, but it is WRONG.
What did he see in her?
Guess they’re still together. Glad they worked it out.
I just noticed the “two thinking men” behind the defendant 😂. They’re both in opposite deep thought. I had to pause at :45 to get something and it stopped on them. Edited one of the thinking men was her husband 😓, oh dear.
odd couple
The husband sitting right behind her and he probably paid the lover his money, hope he gets cheated on again maybe one day he will open his eyes 😂
he was hot
i would not have given him anything for his bad deeds he knew she was married, also i hope the husband leaves her i wouldn't trust her again now she is really going to be broke.
anything to do with money women will lie 100% all the time .
Kinda like married couples now doing only fans page.
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I don't think any spouse would sit in court to listen to this.. Must be actors...I still don’t see why anyone would want their personal lives viewed by millions 🤪
Not actors.
Don't underestimate the ability of someone's love for being degraded and humiliated.
He may have been there to hear first hand all their shenanigans and hit her with divorce proceedings afterwards with evidence
Eeewww... Open marriage? Why even get married....?
Dear Judgy McJudgy, worry about yourself!
He clearly said after she left him is when he thought it was a lone.
Loan
The tape could be a bluff since we never actually heard it.
This comment makes no sense. How would he know she wouldn't actually bother to play it? He'd have to be total idiot to lie about that.
@@thetaekwondoe3887 Sometimes in these cases, litigants claim to have evidence, but when they're challenged to provide it, the evidence is either somehow "missing" or it turns out not to say what they claim that it says.
Omg the defendant is such a lying bee! and the plaintiff needs a hair cut and stop paying ppl to be your friends, PPL! I have never given any money to men! never and I dated alot! do not be a sucker!!!!
I wouldn’t give him any of that money back. He didn’t try to recoup the money all those years and he kept giving her money. He is mad she didn’t leave her husband.
same thing not going to award sin
All those years? He lent her the money during the last year she was messing around with him. She just used him, acknowledged she was supposed to pay it back & agreed to 🤔👍
You are rewarding her though. She cheats, takes his money, and doesn't pay it back.
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Frig: WOW, what an intelligent comment, I had to read it six times to be sure I understood it 😔😔
Melissa the defendant 👎 did Robert divorce you after you lost your case to your lover. Women should not be inimate with other men sharing bodily fluids, that's just "nasty"🤭.
Men shouldn't be intimate with other women spreading body fluids all over the place. It's nasty both ways.
It sure is. And it’s a good way to share STDs 🤮 Not to mention that it’s morally wrong. Wedding vows are said for a reason.