We've seen it time and time again -- if you're not married, don't entangle your money. This means opening up credit cards for the other person, co-signing loans for them, or putting anything of theirs in your name. As JJ has said before, there are courts for formerly-married people to divide their assets. There are no courts for people who just want to canoodle.
I feel so sorry for children who have to put up with their parents bringing in new boyfriends and girlfriends and constantly disrupting their lives. Children should not have to be raised around this kind of turmoil. The parents move them in and they move them out. Then mommy or daddy go get another one. Children do not need this. Your first commitment should be to your children. When the last one turns 18 then go pursue your love life.
Good for you for saying so! I agree 💯 I was never raised this way and I am so thankful I had good parents who stayed together. I feel so bad for kids these days, they have no stability!
Exactly. My youngest just turned 19. Never brought anyone home. I have a friend that’s introduced and moved in a few different girlfriend’s. He has sole custody of his kids but it must be strange seeing your parent with different partners.
Wait, Age of childrens doesnt matter tho. So many of them still cannot even accept a Step Parents or just New Lover of their parents with any reasons, even when theyre already in 20, so common happened. While there are also a lot of cases, when childrens even in boiling-ages & societies, can accept, even the ones who push their parents to get new lovers. So, age doesnt matter although theyre a busy 25 years old with separate home or children already become a married adult of 40 years old with a happy family. Girl, Boy, Men, Women, as a children of their parents, theyre the same, which can never be guessed. Communication, Any Interaction, Strategy to get closer always Needed no matter what age, societies, education, psychology, careers, relationship, of bot the children and new lover of their parents. Thats why to talk about divorce & new relationship, we cant think it like history classes or mathematic, it can never be guessed bcs what happened was & is between mom & dad or wife & husband only. Super Nice Happy Rich of Girlfriend & Boyfriend, doesnt mean can get trust of the childrens. Nice, Poor, Introvert, Old doesnt mean cannot get trust of the childrens. Usually needed is, Both Parents Need to cooperate to pay attention and be friendly with new lover of their ex, Need to pay attention to their childrens even more specific ways without truly giving attention and things like gifts or money, Need to work together when new lover wasnt as expected or as they hope, New Lover should be careful giving things or spending times with the childrens, Parents & New Lovers Need to Increase their communication and real interaction with the childrens to understand what specifics that their Children Needed & Hoping. So many cases, when Childrens in Any age find New Girlfriend & New Boyfriend of their Parents as a Trustful, Lovely, Wonderful, but they STILL Cant Accept if they married with their Parents, instantly Mad & Hateful. Because they see them as Bestfriend, not Future StepMom & StepDad. Thats why they need to be careful in giving things or spending times, any ways to get closer with.
The guy is a total loser but the plaintiff isn’t much better. Listen hun, you’re better off alone than being with a guy that can’t take care of his own bills.
Same here and I have wonderful and professionally employed adult children but I am old enough and wise enough that if anything happened, it could cause so many problems. If some terrible problem happened with any of them, I would give them money.
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back
JJ cut him off. He was saying that the checks he paid were inclusive of the utility bill and that he didn't separate it out from the other things he owed her
I grew up in a household where I watched my father provide. He never asked my mother for any money, I’ve always seen him give my mother money, buy her new cars etc…I remember my dad saying he wants the house, food in our bellies and my mom to take care of us. My dad paid for everything. Anyhoo, Where’s part 2? LOL
She doesn’t, but this case is full of “I’m gonna show millions of women why shacking up with some guy, forcing your kids to be part of that, and paying the guy’s way is so wrong”, she just had to 😊
I’m 30 seconds in and here we have another case of people playing house going on holidays together dinner together sleeping together and the relationship ends and everything becomes a loan and they come to JJ to sort out the mess,maybe they should watch JJ together before they embarrass themselves on worldwide television,silly people..
Judge Judy wasn’t listening. He is saying he paid her a lump sum of money to cover three items. He didn’t pay her with separate checks for everything he owed her.
Women always get so petty after a breakup and try to get back at the man and make his life miserable instead of just letting go and moving on like the men do, women need to get a hobby besides making men's life's miserable
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
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We've seen it time and time again -- if you're not married, don't entangle your money. This means opening up credit cards for the other person, co-signing loans for them, or putting anything of theirs in your name. As JJ has said before, there are courts for formerly-married people to divide their assets. There are no courts for people who just want to canoodle.
or at the very least you should both have been together long enough to slowly introduce shared finances until you are married.
Or move in together, people really cheapen themselves,don't even date
Marriage is an idiotic idea for the person who makes to most money.
And except for a house, nothing is worth taking out a loan.
Well people nowdays like to try things out before buying it.
Judge Judy: There is no court for almost marrieds!
Also Judge Judy: Lemme air this case that I adjudicated featuring almost marrieds
They had a kerfuffle after they were done canoodling. And now these non-marrieds are bothering JJ with their problems...
😂
Right? The courts don’t care, so this should go fast.
Such JJ lingo
And we are HERE 4 it. 😂😂
😅😅😅
This is exactly what happened.
"Canoodling" .....I love that word 😏😂👌🏻
And the other one..."kerfuffle"😂.
@@jennifer_mertensu beat me to it😂😂😂
The price of canoodling is going up!
5 days, go pick it up! 🤣 🤣
I feel so sorry for children who have to put up with their parents bringing in new boyfriends and girlfriends and constantly disrupting their lives. Children should not have to be raised around this kind of turmoil. The parents move them in and they move them out. Then mommy or daddy go get another one. Children do not need this. Your first commitment should be to your children. When the last one turns 18 then go pursue your love life.
Good for you for saying so! I agree 💯 I was never raised this way and I am so thankful I had good parents who stayed together. I feel so bad for kids these days, they have no stability!
Exactly. My youngest just turned 19. Never brought anyone home. I have a friend that’s introduced and moved in a few different girlfriend’s. He has sole custody of his kids but it must be strange seeing your parent with different partners.
@@Catlover1974 so sorry to hear that.
Wait, Age of childrens doesnt matter tho. So many of them still cannot even accept a Step Parents or just New Lover of their parents with any reasons, even when theyre already in 20, so common happened. While there are also a lot of cases, when childrens even in boiling-ages & societies, can accept, even the ones who push their parents to get new lovers. So, age doesnt matter although theyre a busy 25 years old with separate home or children already become a married adult of 40 years old with a happy family.
Girl, Boy, Men, Women, as a children of their parents, theyre the same, which can never be guessed. Communication, Any Interaction, Strategy to get closer always Needed no matter what age, societies, education, psychology, careers, relationship, of bot the children and new lover of their parents. Thats why to talk about divorce & new relationship, we cant think it like history classes or mathematic, it can never be guessed bcs what happened was & is between mom & dad or wife & husband only. Super Nice Happy Rich of Girlfriend & Boyfriend, doesnt mean can get trust of the childrens. Nice, Poor, Introvert, Old doesnt mean cannot get trust of the childrens.
Usually needed is, Both Parents Need to cooperate to pay attention and be friendly with new lover of their ex, Need to pay attention to their childrens even more specific ways without truly giving attention and things like gifts or money, Need to work together when new lover wasnt as expected or as they hope, New Lover should be careful giving things or spending times with the childrens, Parents & New Lovers Need to Increase their communication and real interaction with the childrens to understand what specifics that their Children Needed & Hoping.
So many cases, when Childrens in Any age find New Girlfriend & New Boyfriend of their Parents as a Trustful, Lovely, Wonderful, but they STILL Cant Accept if they married with their Parents, instantly Mad & Hateful. Because they see them as Bestfriend, not Future StepMom & StepDad. Thats why they need to be careful in giving things or spending times, any ways to get closer with.
Sorry, no parent should wait 18 years to have a love life 🙄
The guy is a total loser but the plaintiff isn’t much better. Listen hun, you’re better off alone than being with a guy that can’t take care of his own bills.
I guess if it were reversed it would be ok right?🖕
Your a loser.
I would NEVER co-sign a loan with anyone, not even my own children! I would simply GIVE someone a SMALL gift if I were able, but co-signing NO!!!
You are a intelligent person...🎉🎉🎉
Same here and I have wonderful and professionally employed adult children but I am old enough and wise enough that if anything happened, it could cause so many problems. If some terrible problem happened with any of them, I would give them money.
I’m 29 and I absolutely love spending time with judge Judy shows lately I would love to meet her one day !!
Also as a defendant? 😊
Sorry I'm late lunch crew. I had to go Google the word "canoodling" 😂🤣
I love that word! It’s such a great old-fashioned term!
and its meaning lol please,
😂😂😂
😂 I don’t blame you
@@eisbeinGermany how baby making starts 😂😂
The person who created the thumbnail did the plaintiff dirty 😂 She looks unhinged but she was actually respectful
Watch judge judy every morning...gets me through ❤
"Canoodling"
DEFINITION ***
(Eating noodles while canoeing)
😂😂😂😂😂
I don’t think they had a canoe…😮
hahahaha!!
@@Julia-en9xq Nor noodles! So?🤣
@@franklegere6939😂😂😂
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach him?
His name is dr apala omofulma, and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked him up now online. impressive
After five years, no wonder she took off. Women want commitment. This is the cold hard truth.
Just give her money back.
Bringing in you girlfriend or boyfriend to live with your kids is bad parenting. Get your rocks off on your own time
Exactly open a credit card for that motel visits and eating
If they weren't legally married, then neither is legally entitled or responsible. There are NO Courts for Non Marrieds. Just doesn't work that way.
Right!?! People making poor financial decisions trying to buy love….😅
" dont give me the kitchen sink "
Obviously there is....
Really loving JJ's lipstick color this episode
I love this show honestly😂
Never should have left the townhome
Just be boyfriend and girlfriend from different places
No really a big deal
Been with my man for 5 years and we still have everything separate and sometimes still split the bill. We’re not getting caught in this nonsense 😂😂
Living with a man you are not married to is such a good waste
Oh honey, get married or find someone else.
@@Jade_902 are those my options? Sounds pretty limiting.
Oh thats not good. Someone is afraid of committment.
😂😂😂 5 years‼️ Girl drop the loser! You giving him the milk, steaks, butter, cream for free and you still splitting the bill‼️ drop the loser‼️
What's with this "I belive" bulldust? You either know or you don't know.
It's been driving my crazy for years! I find it even worse than "tooken".
So far they have been respectful.
Totally. Pretty bad when we have to comment on it, though, because it’s so freaking rare!
But the steam is almost to a full head just under the surface 😂
Just a sec😂😂even after she asked the question
The defendant thinks he can scam any women. Now he knows embarrassment
Judy is all business today. She's going down the list and taking care of it item by item.
The sushi was good, she’s all ready for the rest of filming day 😉
So, now his daughter thinks it's normal for a man to use you for money. Awesome parenting.
If a man is broke and needs to borrow form a woman… he’s not a man. What’s the point of dating someone like that what was she thinking
"Moved in with children"...sounds like a bad idea....😮
JJ cut him off. He was saying that the checks he paid were inclusive of the utility bill and that he didn't separate it out from the other things he owed her
Why didn’t he get the utility changed to stop charging her after she moved out? Three months is a long time to let that go on.
Yea i caught that too. Sometimes she’s too quick to judge and don’t listen.
@@anndeecosita3586 Sometimes these things take time to do; you would be surprised
The way it went, thought that was it, but there is part 11.
more adults acting like children. the court is not a place for your nonsense!
The actual children payed the price
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If your not married don't live together. Simple
*you're. Now, that's simple.
They look like brother and sister.
'That's the price of canoodling' 😂
2:46 Nnnnneeext 😅😅😅
I grew up in a household where I watched my father provide. He never asked my mother for any money, I’ve always seen him give my mother money, buy her new cars etc…I remember my dad saying he wants the house, food in our bellies and my mom to take care of us. My dad paid for everything. Anyhoo, Where’s part 2? LOL
The Price of Canoodling! Never going to stop saying this now
I like "canoodling", but I much prefer "horizontal mamboing"
Horizontal Bop by Bob Seger 🎶🎶🎶
I knew the title was extracted from a terminology used by JJ during the case
I wonder who decided to leave off the links to parts 2 & 3 …
it’s happening a lot lately
I thought Judge Judy said, she didn’t get involved in unmarried people stuff.
She doesn’t, but this case is full of “I’m gonna show millions of women why shacking up with some guy, forcing your kids to be part of that, and paying the guy’s way is so wrong”, she just had to 😊
@@ImOnAJourney Ok, since you put it like that! 😀
Canoodling?
Such a great old-fashioned term!
What’s that noise at 3:05
His new girlfriend having the audacity to look like the old girlfriend. 😂 *he has a type
Don't bind yourself legally to someone you're not legally bound to.
The plaintiff is a lovely, beautiful woman. She deserved much better.
Dinner crew here! 👋🏻
Why bring up loans that have been paid off is this lady right she’s just making him look better saying he’s paid her back..
Yeehaw🎉🎉🎉
Lunch crew….
I’m 30 seconds in and here we have another case of people playing house going on holidays together dinner together sleeping together and the relationship ends and everything becomes a loan and they come to JJ to sort out the mess,maybe they should watch JJ together before they embarrass themselves on worldwide television,silly people..
Judge Judy wasn’t listening. He is saying he paid her a lump sum of money to cover three items. He didn’t pay her with separate checks for everything he owed her.
Canoodling 🍜 🤷🏾♂️
Plaintiff is ridiculous
Canoodling one of many cringy amorous words. Like fondling.
ok to all lunchcrew what are we eating today
I had baked potatoes with Chili.
Leftover chip dip from the football game last night. 🎉go lions
@@podsmpsg1 already sounding good nice one
@@sarahmarszalek3759 That's good. I finished lunch/dinner an hour ago.
@@sarahmarszalek3759 ok ok nice what kind of chips and dip did you have
Brown Orchard
Ardith Ferry
These unmarried combatants are learning that financially acting married has consequences.
Spencer Heights
Don’t hitch ur heart to a guy who can’t pay for his own teeth!
Ella Tunnel
Rowe Islands
She sounds and look crazy.
it's unreasonable to have to show exact amounts of repayment
nguoi phu nu toc trang kha la hien lanh va tu te
I like J.J. Earrings. Shiny.
Carroll Loaf
Don’t live with people before marriage. If you’re gonna mix up your belongings and money GET MARRIED
AVP 👽
There were 🚨 sirens / a second ago/ remenacet of the naval base shooting (Amnicola hwy)/.still going / I'll find out
Dude dresses like he's 25 when he's like 50.
anyone wanna canoodle?
Here early ❤❤❤❤😂😂😂
1st
Women always get so petty after a breakup and try to get back at the man and make his life miserable instead of just letting go and moving on like the men do, women need to get a hobby besides making men's life's miserable
Men should stop taking money from their women and not paying it back.
She’s really got an ax to grind, doesn’t she?
Men gotta stop begging for money
Men gotta stop begging for money
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.