I totally agree with you 100% that healthy relationships are more work. In toxic ones, the blame is always on us and so we end up believing it and go into survival mode until we actually get the courage to leave. We feel uncomfortable with the peace because a healthy relationship is not a familiar feeling and so by sabotaging it we create these familiar situations of chaos. It's weird but I find it to be true.
Exactly this! It's so difficult to feel safe after toxic relationships. It takes time to get used to the "boring" feeling when you're used to chaos. ❤️
I totally agree with you 100% that healthy relationships are more work. In toxic ones, the blame is always on us and so we end up believing it and go into survival mode until we actually get the courage to leave.
We feel uncomfortable with the peace because a healthy relationship is not a familiar feeling and so by sabotaging it we create these familiar situations of chaos. It's weird but I find it to be true.
Exactly this! It's so difficult to feel safe after toxic relationships. It takes time to get used to the "boring" feeling when you're used to chaos. ❤️
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