Ladys, if he risks to lose you, he does not love you. If he come back, it’s because of the easy goodies. Don’t waste your best years on the dusties. Wish, I knew this sooner….. And he will do this again and again. People never do things once. Because he has no respect for you.
Replace him with a healthy masculine man if he was insecure, disloyal, toxic, and lazy. It usually gets worse. They only learn by consequences. Go no contact.
He came back after 6 months and I rejected him and he came back again after 8 months and i rejected him again. You won’t find me twice and you won’t get 2nd chances either…. He will be rejected all life. My silent means… I am mentally, emotionally checked out. I feel like there’s nothing left to give to the relationship because everything she tried has not worked up until that point. She’s ran of energy to give to the relationship. Now he’s stalking my social media lol 😂
If he comes back he’s treating you like a rest stop . Whoever he was dealing with didn’t work out and it won’t with you either, he just wants a placeholder till the next girl. It hurts but once you realize this you can decide what you want to do. Do you think you’re capable of having fun and walking away from it or are you going to be emotionally wrecked when he leaves? If so then don’t do it because odds are he’s gonna do the same thing again
He reached out on day 40 of no contact. I'm back in no contact day 28. I'll be better prepared to reject and ignore him if he reaches out again without meeting my standards...
I see these reasons why men come back on a regular basis nowadays. Overall, I feel some men don’t know what they really want and always searching for something but already have a good woman in their presence 🤷🏽♀️✨ That’s why I feel communication, constantly, and actions are imperative in knowing if you have a good mate. ✨
Last night I got a friend request on Facebook from my ex’s Mother - his Mother is amazing by the way, however when he broke up with me I took my ex of all social media and blocked him (I didn’t block his mother just removed her as a friend on FB). Last night @ 1:30 am I get a FB request from him Mom, I believe he got a hold of his Mother’s phone and requested the FB request - as she goes to bed at 10pm -it was my ex’s sneaky attempt to check up on me. Hell no!!
It was a continuous cycle with me .... anything from 4 weeks to 3 months. I just got bored with it in the end ...and yes it was always for the cookies! I don't miss him but I do miss all the time I invested in him. Time I'll never get back.
I listened to everything out there about this and yes he did come back but ...not for long. The last time I said I wouldn't let him come back and he tried... except when I agreed to have coffee, that's when my heart was dwvasted. He tells me he has a gf. Not only does he have a gf I found out he had bought a house with her. The longest we were apart was 2.5 months. So 🤷♀️ how did this happen. Why would anyone buy a house with someone they only see 1 day a week and lives 3 hours away. I will never understand why or how this happened and I didn't see it. I didn't contact her I just told him never to contact me again and I told him he was a total douchebag. It's been since last June and I haven't heard a word from him.
@@kaeli1983 impressive girl!! Don’t make mistake like me when I was in 20s…. I let dudes back in so many times and I’m the one who’s getting hurt lol 😂
6 months has passed and I realised I don't even want him back anymore lol
Ladys, if he risks to lose you, he does not love you. If he come back, it’s because of the easy goodies. Don’t waste your best years on the dusties. Wish, I knew this sooner….. And he will do this again and again. People never do things once. Because he has no respect for you.
Couldn’t agree more. Wish women would understand this sooner than later but it’s always the hard way
Yes your right. That's very true.
exactly right!
Replace him with a healthy masculine man if he was insecure, disloyal, toxic, and lazy. It usually gets worse. They only learn by consequences. Go no contact.
He came back after 6 months and I rejected him and he came back again after 8 months and i rejected him again. You won’t find me twice and you won’t get 2nd chances either…. He will be rejected all life. My silent means… I am mentally, emotionally checked out. I feel like there’s nothing left to give to the relationship because everything she tried has not worked up until that point. She’s ran of energy to give to the relationship.
Now he’s stalking my social media lol 😂
If he comes back he’s treating you like a rest stop . Whoever he was dealing with didn’t work out and it won’t with you either, he just wants a placeholder till the next girl. It hurts but once you realize this you can decide what you want to do. Do you think you’re capable of having fun and walking away from it or are you going to be emotionally wrecked when he leaves? If so then don’t do it because odds are he’s gonna do the same thing again
He reached out on day 40 of no contact. I'm back in no contact day 28. I'll be better prepared to reject and ignore him if he reaches out again without meeting my standards...
I see these reasons why men come back on a regular basis nowadays. Overall, I feel some men don’t know what they really want and always searching for something but already have a good woman in their presence 🤷🏽♀️✨ That’s why I feel communication, constantly, and actions are imperative in knowing if you have a good mate. ✨
Last night I got a friend request on Facebook from my ex’s Mother - his Mother is amazing by the way, however when he broke up with me I took my ex of all social media and blocked him (I didn’t block his mother just removed her as a friend on FB). Last night @ 1:30 am I get a FB request from him Mom, I believe he got a hold of his Mother’s phone and requested the FB request - as she goes to bed at 10pm -it was my ex’s sneaky attempt to check up on me. Hell no!!
Curiosity stage of the dumper... next is fear of losing you for good.
@@basicinfo2022 yup 💯🎯
He came back after 1 month but with the same bullshit. Now the picture is clear, I am done. Thank you for your advice it was on spot on.
Lmao same😂❤ F them
What if he takes labels off it and keeps saying he will never date you again, but he won't go away.
Great video. Love the way you give timings, not many coaches I've seen here do!
Curious- How many here truly have had this really happen?
And why the 3, 6 or even 9 months mark? Interesting how timing works in this world.
It was a continuous cycle with me .... anything from 4 weeks to 3 months. I just got bored with it in the end ...and yes it was always for the cookies! I don't miss him but I do miss all the time I invested in him. Time I'll never get back.
Who is waiting 6 months. Ladies please give him 1 month... at most. Like fuck how about 2 weeks
Even if he thinks you are psycho 😂
I don’t think he will come back as in the end I could feel he hated me
I listened to everything out there about this and yes he did come back but ...not for long. The last time I said I wouldn't let him come back and he tried... except when I agreed to have coffee, that's when my heart was dwvasted. He tells me he has a gf. Not only does he have a gf I found out he had bought a house with her. The longest we were apart was 2.5 months. So 🤷♀️ how did this happen. Why would anyone buy a house with someone they only see 1 day a week and lives 3 hours away. I will never understand why or how this happened and I didn't see it. I didn't contact her I just told him never to contact me again and I told him he was a total douchebag. It's been since last June and I haven't heard a word from him.
This is sad, any update?
I don't think most men know how to say their sorry & they messed up . I've never seen it yet . Especially in men in their 50's . Just saying ...
My man always apologised. All was good. Then he wrote G off never want to see you again,
True men’s ego. Never apologized
What if he returns on day 3 and no apology? I haven’t responded
He’s playing games. Please don’t reply. Give him silent treatment and go talk to other 50 dudes lol
He's testing you, keep up not responding and remember that if he did this once he can do it again, if you let him.
It’s been almost a month, holding strong!
@@sarahf1155 you’re smart! 100%
@@kaeli1983 impressive girl!! Don’t make mistake like me when I was in 20s…. I let dudes back in so many times and I’m the one who’s getting hurt lol 😂
First 🎉
Don’t be weak. Let him go. Be a high value woman.
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Make a video on how to react when they come back