Sorry that the audio was so goofy on this video!!! I messed up my microphone settings at the lake which made it all crackly, but rather than scrap the video I replied this was a really important one for me to share :-) Hope you enjoy it, and if you do fancy grabbing one of the coins, you can get them here: wilshawsupply.com/products/head-x-tail
As someone who has had a lifelong struggle with anxiety and more recently depression, I just want to say you should be very proud of what you’ve achieved with your channel. Every video is beautifully shot and edited. I honestly get a buzz when I see a new video get posted. Can’t wait to see what comes next
Thank you Mike, that means a lot mate, a heck of a lot :) I think goals like this really help, something to put everything into, and you manage to convince yourself along the way that things really aren't so bad
Angling saved my life i have suffered from anxiety my whole life and the only place that im completely relaxed is when im on the bank immersed in nature, well done on your channel and content Tom 👏 you show its about more than just catching fish 🎣
I'm struggling currently with terrible anxiety so it's refreshing to see you so open with it. I'm 8 weeks in so far and still struggling...such a cruel illness
It's utterly horrible mate, debilitating, but the help you need is out there I promise! It all started with the GP for me, referrals, endless mental health surveys... but SO WORTH IT in the end. A mixture of Sertraline to break the cycle with CBT really helped me, but the key ingredient was the desire to get better, that's where it all stems from :) Wish you the best mate
@tomwilshaw :) thank really appreciate the reply 👍 Yes I've been in contact with gp and started me on some mirtazapine. Only trouble is the wait down cornwall is around 6 months to see a nhs therapist:/ just got to stick in there for my family x
You're a good guy man. Over the last few months you've become one of my favourite TH-camrs, you're honest and genuine and it shows. Not an ounce of arrogance about you. Makes me want to root for you even more. Not to mention the quality of your videography and episodes are off the chain. Keep going man, don't ever stop.
Right back at you :) Unforunately, I'm not sure the anxiety ever fully goes away, maybe one day, but focussing on all that is good in life instead - I think that's the secret!
Your passion, honesty and own unique style are everything! You should be VERY proud of yourself Tom. Keep doing you & all the things that make you happy. Life’s too short for anxiety & stress. You got this! 🎣💪🏼
Tom - you should be incredibly proud of what you have achieved over such so a short length of time. Onwards - which I am sure will be upwards. Thank you for all the hard work you put into your videos.
Thank you mate :) For once, I am actually feeling really proud (and thankful!!) for having achieved the things I have this year. I think sometimes people get so occupied with the next thing, and the next thing...etc... that they don't sit back to look at how far they've come. This video was a really nice way of doing that for me, and I'm so grateful for comments like yours!
I struggled the last 3 years with anxiety ever since covid hit. I was a nervous wreck, felt sick. Only felt safe in my room endless dizziness until I finally said enough was enough and rang the doctors. it takes alot of courage mate, well done for trying to get your life back on track. such a misunderstood and unknown condition that needs more research definetly. keep it up man! ❤️
Mate you know it, that singular phone call to the GP to get the ball rolling is the hardest part. You have to put work in afterwards for sure, but chasing down that idea of getting better is for sure the important first step. Same to you mate, really glad to hear you're on the up ❤️
Hey Tom, you are incredibly personable and a great person in my opinion and do a great job. I want you to know that. Only the best for you and your family. Great video🫶
I’ve struggled with anxiety and my mental health for nearly a decade Tom. I know how hard it is and what you’ve produced over the past year has been phenomenal! Keep it up, take each day as it comes and enjoy every moment. Fishing is the best thing for it 💪🏼🎣
This is my regular place i live 2 minutes away station lake is re opening next year, its only the match lakes that are closing permanently, bens, dragons, & brook, i think oak is as well, but station lake is reopening in march
Cheers Chris! Yeah it's by others talking to me about their struggles that I knew I could get through mine, it's sad but comforting knowing how common it is, if that makes sense
I feel your pain with the anxiety thing! No joke the best thing I have found is yoga! Something about that controlled breathing and stretching your body out of all that tension?! I Felt happy for days after my first session! I wouldn't be without it now! And of course my fishing! Happy New Year fella! 😊
Like you Tom I struggle to put into words how I feel and how my anxiety and depression have left me feeling. I started fishing a couple of years ago and it helps ground me and allows me to completely switch off and relax. Your comment about change made me think, I have a fishery on my doorstep and it’s my go to place. Perhaps I need that little push to try fishing elsewhere and break the mould of doing what feels safe. I hope 2025 brings you much success as you and your channel deserve it.
I think everyone's needs are entirely unique, if you feel safe and you get the 'switch off time' you need at your current lake, there's nothing wrong with that - don't let anyone convince you otherwise! But, with that said, I think one of life's greatest joys is finding new experiences, and the excitement that comes with fishing a new lake is definitely up there!!!! In other words, comfort zones get a bad rep, I reckon they're important for certain times in your life but yeah, like you said, breaking the mould, fishing somewhere new - I reckon it'll be an awesome adventure worth pursuing 😁
Tom, I have really enjoyed your content and have been here from the start. I've also had my struggle this year, and your content has really helped. Thank you
I'm not sure one of these videos would feel right if it didn't get a comment from you haha! Means the world that you've stuck around :) Sorry to hear you've had a tough time too, are things getting better?
I watched your vlog about the retreat this morning now watching this video…. Cracking content mate…. I’m now gonna binge watch your vlogs going back to the beginning while wrapping Christmas presents. Great work and I will be putting an order for one Ov those amazing coins. Good luck for 2025
Tom, Ive really enjoyed following your journey this year, Ill be honest Ive missed a few, but the quality of your videos are THE best for quality/production, each one is a master piece. Cant wait to see what the future holds for the channel. Your sub count doesnt reflect this unfortunately but im sure youll be in the millions before long. All the bests.
Thank you Tony :) Subs aren't the end of the world, it's a very old school metric nowadays as I don't think TH-cam pushes people to press that button as much anymore. Honestly, reading comments of people who have enjoyed, or have something to say about my vids is the biggest reward
Well done for opening up, Tom. Just talking can relieve so much pressure from your shoulders and give you that leap in your step again. As you said feel proud, keep going, and keep fishing 🎣
Your videos are a perfect combination of relaxation and excitment, with an extremly relatable (aka personal) back story!!! All the best - Joe I also wish you, and everyone dealing with health issues like anxiety, a short road to health.
your filming style and calmness is unique. very chill and contemplative. carl has his own style, so do snagged bros, you got yours. thatswgy people come back.
Thanks mate :) I just love the feeling I get when I go outdoors, I think that's what I try to inject into my films, it's really awesome knowing that comes through the screen!
Tom you are unbelievable talented, absolutely love the way you tell the story of your fishing makes really good watching. I love fishing in just the same way as you, keep going with the videos there amazing 👍
Tom, i stumbled on yoyr channel earlier this year and ive loved every video you have made so far, i look forward to each new installment. I used to fish about 15 years ago and youve mafe me realise the peace and tranquility that you get from time on the bank is whats been missing in my busy life so next year im going to get back on the bank, thanks to you Great job in this video talking about your MH challanges and how life gets in the way of your plans. Great work, thanks and keep the content coming 👍
15 years is waaaaaaaaaay too long without a bend in the rod :) Get out there mate, the peace you get out on the bank makes everything else in life a lot easier, I really believe that. Thanks for the kind words and good luck!!
Great vid Tom, I suffer with terrible arthritis so winter fishing for me is a no no. Waiting for the warm weather to arrive seems like forever but watching videos of you,Carl and Cal help me through. I’ve never suffered mentally but then I suffer enough sadly. Keep doing what your doing along with your good friends as believe me it gets me through the long cold winters.
Great video as usual Tom and amazing to have you working with Swimbooker, super forward thinking brand which really cares about angling and people! Massive respect for getting on top of the anxiety battle, it’s one of the hardest challenges, our lass is a specialist in it and has helped me so much over the years. Look forward to working with you in 2025 mate 🚀
Great video even without a fish. You are great at this. Capturing great footage and your narration is also spot on and real. Hope you will still be with Carl next year cause you have been a great addition to his channel as well and best of luck with the your own! On the up. 📈
Nice video Tom. 1 of my lads suffers with autism and anxiety so I know how challenging this can be, you can deal with this mate! Looking forward to the France video.
might be somewhat of a smaller channel but the views to sub ratio is very good and your videos from what ive watched so far are nice, relaxing in a way.
hahahaha, now that... that would be nice 😂 to be honest, whilst my fishing skills of course could always do with some work, I am going to slightly blame the small timeframe I have to make these vids, I end up spending 70% of the session running around with a camera rather than actually fishing. If I can change that a little bit next year... that'll be awesome. I've got your new vid scheduled to watch later today, looking forward to it 😁
@ that makes sense, the optimal balance of filming vs fishing is one I have struggled in the past as well. I'm sure your luck or fishing prowess will have to change for the better at some point lol! Cheers
I’ve paused the video right after the ‘interigation’ scene 😅 just wanted to take a moment en let you know that I think you are an inspiration to a lot of people by opening up about your personal life. You truly are one of the, if not the most real person to make fishing videos on yt 👊🏻 now I’m going to watch the last 10 minutes 😂
❤️ thanks Robbert, really means a lot. Making these videos gives me so much joy, I LOVE going on adventures and sharing them, but showing the reality of life is always important too in my opinion. Hope you enjoyed the other 10 minutes haha
I'm the one that's thankful mate ☺️ It's honestly mind-blowing making these vids and people actually wanting to watch them, I don't think that feeling will ever get old
Really enjoy your content Tom, its wonderfully honest and relaxing to watch. Your narrating voice could have commercial value, you should look into voiceover/advert work.
Loved every second of every video you've released bro and glad you're doing better with the mental health it's an awful thing and here's too many more brilliant videos and laughs I'll have watching them keep up the good work ❤
Cheers Ben 😁 I'm so hyped thinking of all the vids I've made this year, and then I remember I did it all in my evenings and spare time... If this thing with swimbooker comes good and I get some time to do this properly 👀 ooohhhh boy... I'm excited!!!
I’m so glad you did go for it mate! Anxiety sucks I’m with you I returned to fishing this year after 25 years to help mine! Making videos defo helps as well … keep going the quality of these videos is ☝️
I think it's probably any outdoor pursuit, not necessarily just fishing, but oooohhhh boy... Yeah, fishing is one heck of a solution to many of life's problems haha, I'm glad you've taken it back up, it really does help :) Cheers mate, same to you!
Dude, you made me feel emotional! Your journey so far my friend has been an absolute joy. I too battle with mental health everyday, some days I feel amazing and others I feel terrible. Thank you for sharing it takes huge courage to share and to share on such a platform is hugely commendable. As you know I love your videos and will be a fan as long as you carry this on for. Cheers Dude can’t wait for the next one 👍👌🤙👊
Thanks mate ❤️ it's people sharing their stories with me that really made me go get help in the first place, so I wanted to try and do the same - the comments since putting this live have really hit me in the feels, it's made me realise what an important topic it is to talk about!
@ Hopefully you will achieve this, even if it’s only one that thinks I can do that then you have achieved something amazing! It took me years to blow down my barriers and open up. Now I just am like an open book and share everything as Like you I believe in sharing is absolutely caring and if I can help a bro or anyone for that matter I will do. Dude so happy your meeting went well and you can now fully apply yourself to what you love doing, just awesome mate. See you on the next one Tom can’t wait 👍
Cheers mate! Yeah it's blown my mind a little how quickly things have gone this year, feel incredibly blessed. Wicked to see your channel growing as well mate! Thumbnail game is strrooooongggggg
There's just something about you Tom. As a person, as a photographer/filmmaker and as a person which is so amazingly genuine. From seeing you on Carl's videos to your own channel you are just one of those people who 'you'd love to go for a beer with' Happy to hear you're in a better place now than the start of the year. Respect for advocating getting help in those situations. Can't wait for the France video and for the channel to go from strength to strength in 2025. Thanks Tom!
That really means a lot mate, thank you :) It's been a breath of fresh air this year making these videos, it's kinda re-awakened something i've not felt in a loooong time, and it's SO dang cool seeing people get a kick from the videos too. Cheers Tom - great name!!!
Good video mate used to fish this place as a kid few big girls have died and there was a crack in the pool due to loss of water shame haven't been there in years is it closed down now ❤
Great idea with the coin but to make it flip and also trolley friendly, it might be a good idea to drill a hole in order to attach a split ring and make it into a key ring, meaning it's less likely to get lost on the bank or in a purse / coin wallet Just a thought.
We did think about that actually, it would make a lost more sense for people wanting to use it as a pendent on specifically for shopping trolley's, etc - and as Han's finishing each one by hand maybe we could list it as an option, but also I really liked the idea of these feeling really special, kinda like commemorative coins, so decided not to make them like that as standard. I'll have a chat with the mrs though about listing it as an option, could be good :)
@tomwilshaw I'm a nightmare for losing things, especially whilst on the bank so an option have it on my keys or even as a pendant to wear round the neck would definitely appeal. Love them though and will definitely be ordering one.
We'll sort it, it's a good idea :-) If you do end up getting one and we've not made it an option yet, just pop in the order notes that you'd like a hole drilled into it and Han will make it so 😁
Tom I always look forward to your videos. But you opening up about your struggles really connected to my own issues. Fishing saves me from dark days. Like you I never suffered with any mental health issues before a few years a go when I had to deal with a terrible incident outside my house. It left me with PTSD and Anxiety issues. Know you are not alone and its good to talk about it. You should be proud mate 😊😊 Keep that great content coming.
Cheers Rob :) It's shocking how common it is once you start talking, but that's also somewhat comforting, knowing people have been there, but slowly gotten back up - Hope's the answer!
Keep going Tom I love your videos!! The most down to earth TH-cam I have ever seen I can relate to you so much!! You are a inspiration to alot of people mate!! KEEP IT UP 💙💙💪👌
Your more then welcome my friend!! If your ever around essex thurrock area give me a shout I'd love to meet ya and say hello I have tourette's syndrome and anxiety and depression have played a massive part I my life but I have always tried to keep a positive look on life none the less! Your a diamond in the ruff Tom Ps I also love your cooking 😂😂
@@tomwilshaw that sounds like a plan to me Tom!! 😎 and haha yes that may be so but I watch all your videos and Carl's so I know how good you are at cooking!! And I am a little bit jealous 🤣
I've had terrible anxiety and depression for the last 18 months I've had six suicide attempts and still not received any help. Keep going You can always do it it's hard as it is. If you like Bailey's. You should try Cotswold cream liqueur it's about 10 times nicer
Thanks mate :) I really appreciate that you have no idea! Catching is always the goal, but being able to chill out and chat with the camera on this one was definitely a nice feeling
Hey Tom. Another great video. And sorry to hear about your mental health struggles im also going through some of my own and fishing is one best meds for me. Congratulations on smashing your targets for 2024 and congratulations again om new sponsors for 2025 i look forward to seeing your content in 2025. Not even into carp fishing and really enjoy your content 😊
Thanks Robert ☺️ I think any outdoor pursuit is a great way to hit 'reset', but fishing is definitely the best I've ever found!! Always enough to do, but never too much.. It's perfect in that way.
Damn thats rough, i also have a very special lake that i love (buzzard valley, silver lake) and remember my grandad teaching me, then watching fishing tutorials as a sort of homework and if i lost that lake, honestly it would damage my passion😅 so props to you for dealing with it so well!❤
Thanks mate ☺️ Yeah it was hard trying to build this video from the off as a 'not really a fishing video'...video.... haha, but it was nice to just chat to the camera for a bit.
Sorry to hear it Marc, but yeah I really understand! The fear around that time mixed with the deprivation of social-ness (not sure if that's a word) really did a number on a lot of people, but fishing is definitely the antidote :) (alongside Sertraline lol)
Best advise I can give to all men out there suffering with anxiety and BTW this is to all females to but obviously I can't speak for u ladies, as I have a pens 😂 boys, if you wake up and can say hi to just one person, you have successfully earned that day and anxiety has been beaten! . The next day if you say hello to the cashier and stood in a cue, you have succeded. It's literally one day/hour/minit/second at a time!! Anxiety is worse than depression !! If u wake up and don't want to move and feel better asleep, please wake up, and seize that day, I personally work 2pm/ till 10pm so I have zero life! My goal today was to sit and have a hair cut and I did it, it's the little things that help, if anybody needs my voice I'm here to give/recieve advice, love you all, if you read this, I hope it helps xxxxxx
M8 if you have been through the shit what I’ve been through over the last year and survived. You’re doing ok. Hope things have improved for ya. They have my end. 😲
Cut out the white sugar/ultra processed food the weight will melt away without exercise, and the coin is a brilliant idea.Keep doing what you're doing fella, back yourself you've got a loyal fan base cos people like you.
Thanks mate :) I really appreciate that, more than you can know! I'll definitely kill the processed foods next year, I want to try and really limit carbs too and get down to the gym on editing weeks. At that age now where it feels a bit 'now or never'!
Sorry that the audio was so goofy on this video!!! I messed up my microphone settings at the lake which made it all crackly, but rather than scrap the video I replied this was a really important one for me to share :-) Hope you enjoy it, and if you do fancy grabbing one of the coins, you can get them here: wilshawsupply.com/products/head-x-tail
As someone who has had a lifelong struggle with anxiety and more recently depression, I just want to say you should be very proud of what you’ve achieved with your channel. Every video is beautifully shot and edited. I honestly get a buzz when I see a new video get posted. Can’t wait to see what comes next
Thank you Mike, that means a lot mate, a heck of a lot :) I think goals like this really help, something to put everything into, and you manage to convince yourself along the way that things really aren't so bad
Angling saved my life i have suffered from anxiety my whole life and the only place that im completely relaxed is when im on the bank immersed in nature, well done on your channel and content Tom 👏 you show its about more than just catching fish 🎣
Thank you Kris - Fishing/the outdoors really does have an immense mental health benefit, I count us as lucky to know that!
I'm struggling currently with terrible anxiety so it's refreshing to see you so open with it. I'm 8 weeks in so far and still struggling...such a cruel illness
Keep at it mate, good times ahead! 💪🏻
I feel your pain brother
It's utterly horrible mate, debilitating, but the help you need is out there I promise! It all started with the GP for me, referrals, endless mental health surveys... but SO WORTH IT in the end. A mixture of Sertraline to break the cycle with CBT really helped me, but the key ingredient was the desire to get better, that's where it all stems from :) Wish you the best mate
@tomwilshaw :) thank really appreciate the reply 👍
Yes I've been in contact with gp and started me on some mirtazapine. Only trouble is the wait down cornwall is around 6 months to see a nhs therapist:/ just got to stick in there for my family x
Great advice @@tomwilshaw
I’m from Coventry, and used to fish Lavender regularly. Debbie and her family have always been so lovely, it’s so sad to hear the news. 😢
You're a good guy man. Over the last few months you've become one of my favourite TH-camrs, you're honest and genuine and it shows. Not an ounce of arrogance about you. Makes me want to root for you even more. Not to mention the quality of your videography and episodes are off the chain. Keep going man, don't ever stop.
Have had severe anxiety for 12 years and all I can say is never give up dude there is light no matter how and it gets! Also great channel!
Right back at you :) Unforunately, I'm not sure the anxiety ever fully goes away, maybe one day, but focussing on all that is good in life instead - I think that's the secret!
Your passion, honesty and own unique style are everything! You should be VERY proud of yourself Tom. Keep doing you & all the things that make you happy. Life’s too short for anxiety & stress. You got this! 🎣💪🏼
Thanks friend 😁 Really appreciated, and I'll keep running towards all the exciting things in life don't worry!
Tom - you should be incredibly proud of what you have achieved over such so a short length of time. Onwards - which I am sure will be upwards. Thank you for all the hard work you put into your videos.
Thank you mate :) For once, I am actually feeling really proud (and thankful!!) for having achieved the things I have this year. I think sometimes people get so occupied with the next thing, and the next thing...etc... that they don't sit back to look at how far they've come. This video was a really nice way of doing that for me, and I'm so grateful for comments like yours!
I struggled the last 3 years with anxiety ever since covid hit. I was a nervous wreck, felt sick. Only felt safe in my room endless dizziness until I finally said enough was enough and rang the doctors. it takes alot of courage mate, well done for trying to get your life back on track. such a misunderstood and unknown condition that needs more research definetly. keep it up man! ❤️
Mate you know it, that singular phone call to the GP to get the ball rolling is the hardest part. You have to put work in afterwards for sure, but chasing down that idea of getting better is for sure the important first step. Same to you mate, really glad to hear you're on the up ❤️
Keep them coming Tom , your becoming one of my favourites to watch! Great videos
Hey Tom, you are incredibly personable and a great person in my opinion and do a great job. I want you to know that. Only the best for you and your family. Great video🫶
Thanks so much ❤️ all the best to you and yours!!!!!
I’ve struggled with anxiety and my mental health for nearly a decade Tom. I know how hard it is and what you’ve produced over the past year has been phenomenal! Keep it up, take each day as it comes and enjoy every moment. Fishing is the best thing for it 💪🏼🎣
Thanks mate :) and you know it!! Anything outdoors really does help you get perspective, fishing just happens just the best thing to do outdoors 😉
This is my regular place i live 2 minutes away station lake is re opening next year, its only the match lakes that are closing permanently, bens, dragons, & brook, i think oak is as well, but station lake is reopening in march
Feels good to know I can actually go back and try and finally get one!!
Cracking video Tom… loved it !!! Loved how you opened up about your struggles in life as we all have
Cheers Chris! Yeah it's by others talking to me about their struggles that I knew I could get through mine, it's sad but comforting knowing how common it is, if that makes sense
Hey Tom,I've been watching your videos since day one and you've come leaps and bounds in every aspect,proud of you mate 👍 😉
I feel your pain with the anxiety thing! No joke the best thing I have found is yoga! Something about that controlled breathing and stretching your body out of all that tension?! I Felt happy for days after my first session! I wouldn't be without it now! And of course my fishing! Happy New Year fella! 😊
One of my favourite fishing utubers, love the content, the honesty and humility😊
Thanks John ☺️
First time I have watched one of your videos. Looks like you have come a long way in a year ! WE'LL DONE 👍
Like you Tom I struggle to put into words how I feel and how my anxiety and depression have left me feeling. I started fishing a couple of years ago and it helps ground me and allows me to completely switch off and relax. Your comment about change made me think, I have a fishery on my doorstep and it’s my go to place. Perhaps I need that little push to try fishing elsewhere and break the mould of doing what feels safe. I hope 2025 brings you much success as you and your channel deserve it.
I think everyone's needs are entirely unique, if you feel safe and you get the 'switch off time' you need at your current lake, there's nothing wrong with that - don't let anyone convince you otherwise! But, with that said, I think one of life's greatest joys is finding new experiences, and the excitement that comes with fishing a new lake is definitely up there!!!!
In other words, comfort zones get a bad rep, I reckon they're important for certain times in your life but yeah, like you said, breaking the mould, fishing somewhere new - I reckon it'll be an awesome adventure worth pursuing 😁
Tom, I have really enjoyed your content and have been here from the start. I've also had my struggle this year, and your content has really helped. Thank you
I'm not sure one of these videos would feel right if it didn't get a comment from you haha! Means the world that you've stuck around :) Sorry to hear you've had a tough time too, are things getting better?
@tomwilshaw ups and downs mate. But I'll get there. Anytime you want to reach out I will be here
Likewise mate, genuinely :)
Great video Tom! The boy done good on these videos!! Can't wait to see more!! Thanks for sharing Mike
Haha, thanks Mike 😁 It's been awesome putting them together, can't wait to do more!!
Great content as always and very excited for the future of the channel. Always a pleasure listening and watching. Well done Tom ❤
Thanks mate 😁 I can't wait to see what the new year brings!
Runs in the family got me 😂 nice vid Tom mate!
😂 he's a cheeky sod, ...true though... haha
I watched your vlog about the retreat this morning now watching this video…. Cracking content mate…. I’m now gonna binge watch your vlogs going back to the beginning while wrapping Christmas presents. Great work and I will be putting an order for one Ov those amazing coins. Good luck for 2025
You do you, good on ya Tom.
Loved your videos. Always chilled out and just you. Nothing fake or setup. Always bringing out the fun side of fishing even in the hard times 🙌
Cheers Tim 😁 I'll always try to bring the good, the bad, and the funny!
@tomwilshaw don't change buddy . Keep the quality content coming 👌
Well done mate 👏
Tom, Ive really enjoyed following your journey this year, Ill be honest Ive missed a few, but the quality of your videos are THE best for quality/production, each one is a master piece. Cant wait to see what the future holds for the channel. Your sub count doesnt reflect this unfortunately but im sure youll be in the millions before long. All the bests.
Thank you Tony :) Subs aren't the end of the world, it's a very old school metric nowadays as I don't think TH-cam pushes people to press that button as much anymore. Honestly, reading comments of people who have enjoyed, or have something to say about my vids is the biggest reward
Well done for opening up, Tom. Just talking can relieve so much pressure from your shoulders and give you that leap in your step again. As you said feel proud, keep going, and keep fishing 🎣
Thanks Tom, and for sure - Being open about this stuff I think is absolutely key to getting passed it, that and catching scaley bangers!!!!! ❤️
Your videos are a perfect combination of relaxation and excitment, with an extremly relatable (aka personal) back story!!!
All the best - Joe
I also wish you, and everyone dealing with health issues like anxiety, a short road to health.
Thanks Joe :) All the best to you too mate!
your filming style and calmness is unique. very chill and contemplative. carl has his own style, so do snagged bros, you got yours. thatswgy people come back.
Thanks mate :) I just love the feeling I get when I go outdoors, I think that's what I try to inject into my films, it's really awesome knowing that comes through the screen!
Tom you are unbelievable talented, absolutely love the way you tell the story of your fishing makes really good watching. I love fishing in just the same way as you, keep going with the videos there amazing 👍
Thanks so much Zan :)
love your videos tom best parts of my days recently have been watching your videos wish the best for you😀
Ahh thank you so much :) Really means a lot, and all the best to you too!!!!!!!!
Fair play Tom. Keep doing what makes you happy and remember to always look after no.1 - great content as always! 👍🏼
Cheers mate :) Same to you!
your videos are great and you come across as a lovely human - stay strong my friend xx
Right back at you! Cheers Tom
Tom, i stumbled on yoyr channel earlier this year and ive loved every video you have made so far, i look forward to each new installment. I used to fish about 15 years ago and youve mafe me realise the peace and tranquility that you get from time on the bank is whats been missing in my busy life so next year im going to get back on the bank, thanks to you
Great job in this video talking about your MH challanges and how life gets in the way of your plans.
Great work, thanks and keep the content coming 👍
15 years is waaaaaaaaaay too long without a bend in the rod :) Get out there mate, the peace you get out on the bank makes everything else in life a lot easier, I really believe that. Thanks for the kind words and good luck!!
Great vid Tom, I suffer with terrible arthritis so winter fishing for me is a no no. Waiting for the warm weather to arrive seems like forever but watching videos of you,Carl and Cal help me through. I’ve never suffered mentally but then I suffer enough sadly. Keep doing what your doing along with your good friends as believe me it gets me through the long cold winters.
Thank you David, we'll all do our best to keep that flame alive!! Some epic films coming to Carl's channel over the next few weeks too :)
Great video as usual Tom and amazing to have you working with Swimbooker, super forward thinking brand which really cares about angling and people!
Massive respect for getting on top of the anxiety battle, it’s one of the hardest challenges, our lass is a specialist in it and has helped me so much over the years. Look forward to working with you in 2025 mate 🚀
Just found you, and instant connection, subscribed!!! And content is on point and editing is superb. Keep it going matey.
Thanks so much! 😁
Great video even without a fish. You are great at this. Capturing great footage and your narration is also spot on and real. Hope you will still be with Carl next year cause you have been a great addition to his channel as well and best of luck with the your own! On the up. 📈
Thanks Joey :) Oh don't worry, Carl's not getting rid of me that easy... Still lots of adventures planned for the FWC channel 😁
Nice video Tom. 1 of my lads suffers with autism and anxiety so I know how challenging this can be, you can deal with this mate! Looking forward to the France video.
Well done mate, keep making those amazing videos!
I'll do my absolute best :)
I really enjoyed every video this year man ! Waiting for moreeeeeeeeeeee content ! 🙏🏼🙏🏼
haha, more coming soooo0oooooo0000oooon!
might be somewhat of a smaller channel but the views to sub ratio is very good and your videos from what ive watched so far are nice, relaxing in a way.
Awesome news about the future of the channel, hope it all works out! On a more serious note, I'm wishing you less blanking for 2025!
hahahaha, now that... that would be nice 😂 to be honest, whilst my fishing skills of course could always do with some work, I am going to slightly blame the small timeframe I have to make these vids, I end up spending 70% of the session running around with a camera rather than actually fishing. If I can change that a little bit next year... that'll be awesome. I've got your new vid scheduled to watch later today, looking forward to it 😁
@ that makes sense, the optimal balance of filming vs fishing is one I have struggled in the past as well. I'm sure your luck or fishing prowess will have to change for the better at some point lol! Cheers
Liked this one bro! We got to see a bit more of Tom's story ❤
Thanks dude
I’ve paused the video right after the ‘interigation’ scene 😅 just wanted to take a moment en let you know that I think you are an inspiration to a lot of people by opening up about your personal life. You truly are one of the, if not the most real person to make fishing videos on yt 👊🏻 now I’m going to watch the last 10 minutes 😂
❤️ thanks Robbert, really means a lot. Making these videos gives me so much joy, I LOVE going on adventures and sharing them, but showing the reality of life is always important too in my opinion. Hope you enjoyed the other 10 minutes haha
Thanks Tom. Nice video.
Thank you Stuart
Thank you for what you do!
I'm the one that's thankful mate ☺️ It's honestly mind-blowing making these vids and people actually wanting to watch them, I don't think that feeling will ever get old
Really enjoy your content Tom, its wonderfully honest and relaxing to watch.
Your narrating voice could have commercial value, you should look into voiceover/advert work.
hahaha! Well that's gonna go straight to my head 😂 better get my vocal chords insured, just in case..
Cheers mate :-) Really appreciate the kind words
Well done for getting through it mate
Great video as always much love
Right back at you :-) Cheers pal
Loved every second of every video you've released bro and glad you're doing better with the mental health it's an awful thing and here's too many more brilliant videos and laughs I'll have watching them keep up the good work ❤
Thanks Sean :) rock on 2025!
Props to you Tom. Great to see your journey so far every video has been better than the last! Your videography is top 👌 keep doing you dude 🤷♂️✌️
Cheers Ben 😁 I'm so hyped thinking of all the vids I've made this year, and then I remember I did it all in my evenings and spare time... If this thing with swimbooker comes good and I get some time to do this properly 👀 ooohhhh boy... I'm excited!!!
@ you’re more than welcome mate. You’ve done great so far🤞for the swim booker thing to come off. You’ve got it mate!
Brilliant watch keep going 👍
Thanks mate :)
Brilliant video mate! 🔥🙌 Keep going!
Thanks man :)
I’m so glad you did go for it mate! Anxiety sucks I’m with you I returned to fishing this year after 25 years to help mine! Making videos defo helps as well … keep going the quality of these videos is ☝️
I think it's probably any outdoor pursuit, not necessarily just fishing, but oooohhhh boy... Yeah, fishing is one heck of a solution to many of life's problems haha, I'm glad you've taken it back up, it really does help :) Cheers mate, same to you!
Hi, I just found your channel very good. It's a sad time to say good bye to some special water but on ward and up ward and new place's to find
Love your videos! Keep going 💪🙌
Thanks Ben :)
Dude, you made me feel emotional! Your journey so far my friend has been an absolute joy. I too battle with mental health everyday, some days I feel amazing and others I feel terrible. Thank you for sharing it takes huge courage to share and to share on such a platform is hugely commendable. As you know I love your videos and will be a fan as long as you carry this on for. Cheers Dude can’t wait for the next one 👍👌🤙👊
Thanks mate ❤️ it's people sharing their stories with me that really made me go get help in the first place, so I wanted to try and do the same - the comments since putting this live have really hit me in the feels, it's made me realise what an important topic it is to talk about!
@ Hopefully you will achieve this, even if it’s only one that thinks I can do that then you have achieved something amazing! It took me years to blow down my barriers and open up. Now I just am like an open book and share everything as Like you I believe in sharing is absolutely caring and if I can help a bro or anyone for that matter I will do. Dude so happy your meeting went well and you can now fully apply yourself to what you love doing, just awesome mate. See you on the next one Tom can’t wait 👍
Well done Tom, keep going buddy 👍 I'll order myself a coin for Xmas 😊
Thank you Max :) I really hope you like it!
Love the video. My comparison lake looks very similar with a similar feel to it
keep doing what you are doing :) your doing great
Thank you so much 😊
Good luck with it all
Thanks Craig :)
sorry to hear about your anxiety but its good you have a good and caring group of friends and family around you
It really is :) I'd be lost without them
Your videos are amazing. Thank you for posting great content, I would love to come fishing with you one day.
True great man
Thank you Connor :)
Lovely video as usual Tom! So fun to see that your channel is growing with sponsorships and so on.. Cool idea with the flip-coin!
Cheers mate! Yeah it's blown my mind a little how quickly things have gone this year, feel incredibly blessed. Wicked to see your channel growing as well mate! Thumbnail game is strrooooongggggg
Good luck with your fishing journey.
There's just something about you Tom. As a person, as a photographer/filmmaker and as a person which is so amazingly genuine.
From seeing you on Carl's videos to your own channel you are just one of those people who 'you'd love to go for a beer with'
Happy to hear you're in a better place now than the start of the year. Respect for advocating getting help in those situations.
Can't wait for the France video and for the channel to go from strength to strength in 2025.
Thanks Tom!
Thank you :-) Same to you!
That really means a lot mate, thank you :) It's been a breath of fresh air this year making these videos, it's kinda re-awakened something i've not felt in a loooong time, and it's SO dang cool seeing people get a kick from the videos too. Cheers Tom - great name!!!
Keep the good work Tom u come across really well on camera in your vids and I love watching them. 👍
Thank you Ryan! Really appreciate it
Good video mate used to fish this place as a kid few big girls have died and there was a crack in the pool due to loss of water shame haven't been there in years is it closed down now ❤
Tom your a great guy , ur Chanel’s amazing I’m building a koi pond inspired by Carl and play to grow my Chanel just like you did❤
Thanks Cal! That's so cool to hear about the pond, I'm slightly jealous haha! I look forward to seeing more of it! 😁
Great idea with the coin but to make it flip and also trolley friendly, it might be a good idea to drill a hole in order to attach a split ring and make it into a key ring, meaning it's less likely to get lost on the bank or in a purse / coin wallet
Just a thought.
We did think about that actually, it would make a lost more sense for people wanting to use it as a pendent on specifically for shopping trolley's, etc - and as Han's finishing each one by hand maybe we could list it as an option, but also I really liked the idea of these feeling really special, kinda like commemorative coins, so decided not to make them like that as standard.
I'll have a chat with the mrs though about listing it as an option, could be good :)
@tomwilshaw I'm a nightmare for losing things, especially whilst on the bank so an option have it on my keys or even as a pendant to wear round the neck would definitely appeal.
Love them though and will definitely be ordering one.
We'll sort it, it's a good idea :-) If you do end up getting one and we've not made it an option yet, just pop in the order notes that you'd like a hole drilled into it and Han will make it so 😁
Tom I always look forward to your videos. But you opening up about your struggles really connected to my own issues. Fishing saves me from dark days. Like you I never suffered with any mental health issues before a few years a go when I had to deal with a terrible incident outside my house. It left me with PTSD and Anxiety issues. Know you are not alone and its good to talk about it. You should be proud mate 😊😊 Keep that great content coming.
Cheers Rob :) It's shocking how common it is once you start talking, but that's also somewhat comforting, knowing people have been there, but slowly gotten back up - Hope's the answer!
Keep going Tom I love your videos!! The most down to earth TH-cam I have ever seen I can relate to you so much!! You are a inspiration to alot of people mate!! KEEP IT UP 💙💙💪👌
You've put a huge grin on my face mate :) Thank you so much, I'll do my best!!!!!!!
Your more then welcome my friend!! If your ever around essex thurrock area give me a shout I'd love to meet ya and say hello I have tourette's syndrome and anxiety and depression have played a massive part I my life but I have always tried to keep a positive look on life none the less! Your a diamond in the ruff Tom
Ps I also love your cooking 😂😂
we'll have to make happen at some point 😁 and hahahaha, there wasn't much 'cooking' that happened in this video 😂
@@tomwilshaw that sounds like a plan to me Tom!! 😎 and haha yes that may be so but I watch all your videos and Carl's so I know how good you are at cooking!! And I am a little bit jealous 🤣
I've had terrible anxiety and depression for the last 18 months I've had six suicide attempts and still not received any help. Keep going You can always do it it's hard as it is.
If you like Bailey's. You should try Cotswold cream liqueur it's about 10 times nicer
Anoughter great video 👌
Thank you ☺️
Really enjoyed this mate, footage and editing is Tops M8.
Thanks mate 😁 audio was a bit sketch on this one haha, but lesson learned!
@tomwilshaw i think intros and main footage is great i am still learning, trying hard to get the story and the footage right.
Well done mate tight lines eh x
Same to you mate, thanks ☺️
Awesome video bud
Thanks as always Martyn 😁
No fish were caught but it does not matter. We are here for the stories. You’re a great inspiration for me.
Thanks mate :) I really appreciate that you have no idea! Catching is always the goal, but being able to chill out and chat with the camera on this one was definitely a nice feeling
Hey Tom. Another great video. And sorry to hear about your mental health struggles im also going through some of my own and fishing is one best meds for me. Congratulations on smashing your targets for 2024 and congratulations again om new sponsors for 2025 i look forward to seeing your content in 2025. Not even into carp fishing and really enjoy your content 😊
Thanks Robert ☺️ I think any outdoor pursuit is a great way to hit 'reset', but fishing is definitely the best I've ever found!! Always enough to do, but never too much.. It's perfect in that way.
@tomwilshaw only drawback of fishing for our mental health can be the blank after blank 😆😂
hahahahahaha, hey... but even so, I'd rather that worrying about other things!
@@tomwilshaw definitely 💯 agree on that
Keep at it, Sunshine!
Cheers Paul 😁
Damn thats rough, i also have a very special lake that i love (buzzard valley, silver lake) and remember my grandad teaching me, then watching fishing tutorials as a sort of homework and if i lost that lake, honestly it would damage my passion😅 so props to you for dealing with it so well!❤
I guess you just have to know that the memories aren't going anywhere, even if the venue does :) cheers mate
U have worked hard last year good job pat on the back tom
Thanks Tony :) It's only been tough because I've made it so, but looking back at it all feels very good!
cool video as always, and sweet of you to put my face in the video and the meaning of it 😊
Bro our adventures have been one of the highlights of my year 😁 how could I not!
yess! i have been waiting for a new video 😄
Hope it didn't dissapoint 😊
@@tomwilshaw was great, really entertaining and relatable
Enjoyable as always Tom, even if the fishing was not at the forefront of this video.
Thanks mate ☺️ Yeah it was hard trying to build this video from the off as a 'not really a fishing video'...video.... haha, but it was nice to just chat to the camera for a bit.
Lovely work fella 💪
Cheers mate 😁 excited to sit down and watch your new one later tonight!
@ cheers dude, bro did a sterling job 🤝
I hear you brother. I caught covid in 2022 which lead to severe anxiety and depression. Fishing is my therapy (along with medication 😂)
Sorry to hear it Marc, but yeah I really understand! The fear around that time mixed with the deprivation of social-ness (not sure if that's a word) really did a number on a lot of people, but fishing is definitely the antidote :) (alongside Sertraline lol)
Yooooo, that would be cool if you got sponsored🥳
Fingers crossed 😇 2025's looking bright!
The coin is obviously useful in many situations, but will also be fun in the bedroom .🤔🤣
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Don't encourage him 😂
Best advise I can give to all men out there suffering with anxiety and BTW this is to all females to but obviously I can't speak for u ladies, as I have a pens 😂 boys, if you wake up and can say hi to just one person, you have successfully earned that day and anxiety has been beaten! . The next day if you say hello to the cashier and stood in a cue, you have succeded. It's literally one day/hour/minit/second at a time!! Anxiety is worse than depression !! If u wake up and don't want to move and feel better asleep, please wake up, and seize that day, I personally work 2pm/ till 10pm so I have zero life! My goal today was to sit and have a hair cut and I did it, it's the little things that help, if anybody needs my voice I'm here to give/recieve advice, love you all, if you read this, I hope it helps xxxxxx
The biggest bits of progress are definitely found in the little things :)
M8 if you have been through the shit what I’ve been through over the last year and survived. You’re doing ok. Hope things have improved for ya. They have my end. 😲
Right back at you mate and well done!!! Surviving it's one thing, learning to thrive despite it.... That's the next step eh :)
A place that was always on my list but I never got round to going to.
Thankfully The Station will return next year :) It'll be a bit different, but hopefully even better!
Cut out the white sugar/ultra processed food the weight will melt away without exercise, and the coin is a brilliant idea.Keep doing what you're doing fella, back yourself you've got a loyal fan base cos people like you.
Thanks mate :) I really appreciate that, more than you can know! I'll definitely kill the processed foods next year, I want to try and really limit carbs too and get down to the gym on editing weeks. At that age now where it feels a bit 'now or never'!
Spiritual places.
Ive found them walking the dog and riding bikes
Big time :) You don't have to go on some crazy big adventure to get that feeling, normally it's just getting out the front door haha
good vid
Thank you :)
If your brother doesn't steal your bait/ fishing gear.. is he really your brother? Good video again 👍
😂😂😂😂😂 SO true...
A lot of waffle! Lol.
I enjoyed it though! Well done for sticking with it!
😂 yeaaahh... A lot of talking to the camera in this one, not quite as much fishing, but felt good to try and wrap up the last 12 months :) Cheers mate
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