Miss Kansas calls out her abuser on stage: "My abuser is here today"
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- Before Alexis Smith was crowned Miss Kansas in June, she informed audience members what she envisioned her message would be if she were named the 2024 titleholder.
A video clip of what Smith said is now going viral after it was shared on the Miss Kansas Organization's social media pages on July 12 and has picked up over 200,000 views on Instagram.
"My vision as the next Miss Kansas is to eliminate unhealthy and abusive relationships," Smith said, before adding, "Matter of fact, some of you out in this audience saw me very emotional because my abuser is here today, but that's not going to stop me from being on this Miss Kansas stage and from representing as the next Miss Kansas because I and my community deserve healthy relationships. We deserve a domestic, free life. Thank you."
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The stone silence when she said that her abuser was there...the audience was probably looking around like, 'Who we gotta fight?!'
lol right!
True That!
😂😂😂😂😂❤
Right😠
"Just point to him. That's all."
Whoever he is he was there to intimidate her. Her courage in calling him out was as beautiful as she is!❤ ❤❤
How do we know it’s a dude.?
@@BLANK2729She referred to “him” when she explained the situation.
@@matthewbascone8367 Yup, I saw that afterwards and couldn’t find my comment.
He was there as if he owned her, nothing else
SHE DIDN'T CALL HIM OUT THOUGH, SHE JUST TOLD EVERYONE THAT SHE WAS A VICTIM OF "DOMESTIC ABUSE"
LEAVING THE DOORS WIDE OPEN FOR HIM TO CARRY ON.
On that stage, looking down upon her abuser.. she undoubtedly took back her power from him. Miss Kansas showed incredible strength, courage and bravery in such a key moment- her words will now inspire countless victims to find their own voices and strength for decades to come! Praying for her safety ❤
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@@zzizahacallarThese days if you ask a woman to cook it's emotional abuse. She probably just didn't have her way.
Instead of stealing her power it propelled her to her win!!!
Urgent Restraining order needed
YES!
Yeah and just make that "cha-cha BOOM" sound as she pulls it out.
Often times it doesn't help but she needs to exercise whatever she can to keep herself safe
They don't help
That and security for herself and family. If he had the nerve to show up there, he can go anywhere she is, very dangerous!
People please pray for her safety!!!!!!!!!!
*She should've used the opportunity to deliver a PSA to girls everywhere not to date, marry or reproduce with jerks.* 👍
Ppl plz pray for America
Amen FOREAL!!!
🙏❤️
@@ikhouvanpannekoeken3272 she likes it
Yesterday a victim,
today a WARRIOR!! 👏👏
I LOVE that she called him out. He was definitely not expecting that. She took her voice back!!!!
How did she call him out exactly. She should’ve named him
@@Jessd85 do we even know if it’s a him, she was “calling” out?
She called out no one and won the crown on victimhood status. If she was truly concerned she would have named him so the next girl would know better to get involved with him. If it's true that he abused her he cant sue for defamation so why not say his name.
@@Cmat-tn5en LMAO
How do you know it's a "he"? Could be a "she".
I applaud this young woman's courage, and I pray that she remains safe. Congratulations, Miss Kansas!👑
Me too. She’s an inspiration.
MeToo.!!!! 😂
That took extraordinary courage. What a brave woman!
Agreed
This.
The first time someone in a beauty pageant said something worth listening to. That took guts! 👏🖤 🕊️
Absolutely ‼️‼️❤❤❤❤
@@zeeqq105 ☺️✌️🖤
Perhaps, she was afraid.
And not "world peace"😅
Haaa!! 😅👍@@colleyslimmaz4502
That sucker is intimidated by her beauty and success. Lord please protect this beautiful Queen.
Yes, those are narcissistic individuals. 💯💯💯💯💯👿
She likes it don't let her fool you
You are so obviously detached from reality, i hope you get better🙏
@@Gee_Morty.. That's what you like to fantasize about ... But they are disgusted by you. They don't secretly like you, trust me
@@Gee_Morty.. tf you mean she likes it? She was being abused.
So lets talk about that Restraining order
Hell yeah
Do you mean the piece of paper that doesn't work with guys that are crazy
Cuz it doesn't always work Hun sure in your head it always works but that's not reality darling
@@Isaiahvsthegame Abuse comes in many forms not all of which qualify as a threat to safety or well being actionable by law enforcement.✌
Sadly even with proof even with this they probably won't give her one till it's too late
Alexis Smith cast off that cloak of shame that keeps so many survivors silenced & invisible.
Well done, Alexis! Your courage & triumph shine out!! ✊💖
Emotional abuse REALLY so now if a man disagrees with a woman it's abuse. If that's the case men get emotionally abused everyday
Shes a brave soul for announcing that because she might really be a target now. She needs to watch her back.
I agree! 😳
Definitely, these men are crazy especially if called out.
Sadly she'd be a target no matter
@@crazyasalways9272I think she realizes that she’s going to be a target no matter what and that’s my opinion on why She probably did this, the more people who know the less likely he Is to act a fool, like he’s gonna be feeling like he needs to prove that he’s not violent and that she’s crazy. Although I understand that it could also bruise his ego and the embarrassment could enrage him but I think he’s less likely to do something now that everyone knows and more people will be protecting her and watching him
@SaraBoBara5591 I do agree amd hopefully people keep talking about her and watching her maybe just maybe he'll back off
Congrats to her for being strong in the face of bullying and abuse.
@@xenozeno dggy is her fav position with foot on head 😃
@@Gee_Morty..I enjoy it too, what's wrong with that?
@@jimjimjim6841 at least you admit and don't rebrand it as "abuse"
Please stfu she's a baiter
you know he went there hoping she would cower down and yet he actually made it be such an empowering moment for her and not just her but survivors of abuse everywhere! that was glorious! ❤
Seems like any thing empowers you guys
@@BuffKangaroo1 Uncalled for. I'm a Conservative, and not a supporter at all, of the leftist "women's" movements. But what this lady did in calling out her abuser, WAS a great thing. And she should be proud, as should all women who are victims of abuse.
@@NCMemoryMakers they seem to be victims in everything to
@@BuffKangaroo1 Are you advocating for a man abusing a woman? Is an abused woman not a victim?
@@NCMemoryMakers I advocate that no one should abuse anyone and everyone are entitled to self defense not just one side
Miss Kansas calling out her abuser is the boldest and most incredible thing I’ve ever seen in a pageant contestant ever! She truly deserved the crown!
Oh shut up , these chick's be lying for attention it's the new norm and all you fools certainly feed right into it !
Says “I’m a victim”, without any proof and gets the crown 👑 So pathetic
@@RadiUzunova She didn't say she was a victim, though... she publicly called out her abuser's intimidation tactics. Those are two completely different things. 🙄
gosh y'all should find out the full story first. women lie.. a lot
Very bold she sounds like a politician,in a good way
Glad she's taking back her power and called him out. But she needs to be careful, if he's bold enough to repeatedly keep showing up to her pageants after they've broken things off, he'll surely escalate. Abusers hate being called out for their abuse, now that she's "publicly humiliated" him, there's no telling how much further off the rails he'll go.
I don’t think she should have claimed him (“my abuser”). In a way, that’s still giving him power.
Should have ignored him. Abusers want to be seen and acknowledged. He's not publicly humiliated if no one knew who he was
Was just going to say that, as for saying “My abuser” there is no other way to say it. You can stand it on its head and it will still come out as “my abuser”
she never named him, did not need to, her family and friends know who he is and from there it will ripple out wards.
She will have so many people around her for now that he cannot get anywhere close to her.
@@username00009i can see this but also o think its more raw and powerful that ppl know it was personal and he was doing this to her and her only. He abused her, that was her abuser.
@@Jasmine-iw3wino she shouldnt have and thats how women get stuck in a scared cycle of running and hiding instead of airing him out. We cannot continue that.
Beware of this man. May the good Lord keep you safe, brave young lady.
@@paulatatton7360 were you there?
Exactly were you there ? And also who cares people disagree in relationships all the time
I'm in inpatient hospital right now bc of the same thing. Hearing her words on stage just healed something in me.
Hang in there, my prayers are with you……I escaped D/V as a young woman and know how brainwashing by an abuser can make it hard to get out. I finally found the courage when I saw how it was affecting my child. You only deserve someone who treats you like a queen! I wish all the best for you.
Sending you healing and supporting vibes for having the courage to share. You are not alone, you deserve so much better! ❤❤❤
Praying for you to heal and grow from this. I left my abuser 11 years ago after he threw me down a flight of stairs in front of our 4 year old son. You can get through this. I believe in you
Omg. So sorry to hear these heart wrenching experiences. Please continue to heal. Happiness lives inside you. You're so beautiful and most deserving to have those that love, respect and care for you dearly. One of my kindergartener's affirmations they practiced at camp this year: "Nobody, I mean NOBODY! can tell me that I'm Nobody!!" Holds true as an adult!! ❤
Bless your heart! God bless you and all of your endeavors, Sweetheart. Keep being strong, vocal, positive, inspiring, and an overall AWESOME person. God has you. You got this! ✊🏾🙏🏾💙
Thank you Miss Kansas for speaking up. This must have taken courage and it will inspire other people to open up publicly.
WHY WOULD A WOMAN WANT THE WORLD TO KNOW THAT SHE WAS ABUSED?
WHAT KIND OF MADNESS IS THIS.
YOU THINK PEOPLE PITY YOU OR SOMETHING?
PEOPLE DO NOT CARE
@@barringtonedwards7008thank you! Why are ppl using these platforms for this? As if there isnt ANY awareness towards abuse.
YOU ALL DON’T KNOW ANY FACTS ON THE MATTER, simpletons. “BELIEVE ALL PAGEANT LADIES” 👀🤔WE KNOW NOTHING! WHAT IF YOUR LOVED ONE WAS FALSELY ACCUSED? She better reach slander & defamation. Biased here- pageant girls chase VANITY, a Biblically ungodly pursuit 🙄 (I BLAME SOCIETY. WE NEED TO REWARD HIGH INTEGRITY WOMEN (& MEN), NOT JUST DECENT LOOKS!) 📝 EMOTIONAL abuse? OFTEN emotional & verbal are mutual. I WORK WITH ACCUSERS & VICTIMS. MOST CASES TURN OUT UNSUBSTANTIATED & HYPOCRITICAL. VERY STRANGE TO SPOTLIGHT YOUR EX AT A PAGEANT 🚩🚩🚩⚠️🚫. IDIOCRACY CONFIRMED - MANY untrained amateurs BELIEVE ANYTHING. TRUST NO ONE who doesn’t provide evidence. ANYONE CAN SAY ANYTHING. LESSONS LEARNED AS A …PROFESSIONAL. WISDOM. I REPEAT, NONE OF US KNOWS ANYTHING⚠️🚨🚩🚩🚩
The courage to manipulate in order to get what they want is pretty standard for women actually.
@@calamityjane4331 she likes the attention and the ahem...abrasive nature
Super proud of this young lady calling out and confronting abusive predators!❤
@@asha1436 she like it though
Were you there?
He showed up there as a way of intimidating her but she stood strong and called him out!! Everyone knows who he is now and hopefully he will back down and leave her alone so she can move on with her life. Praying for her protection and well being!🙏🙏😊
Yes
What's his name?
@@ParticleLarry She didn't give out his name! She just called his no good Ass out in front of a national audience!! Good for her!!
@@jamesgeorge5276 and who was that
@@ParticleLarryher ex obviously 1:49
Classic abuser move. Been there(25 yrs ago). One time I went three different places in one night and they showed up every time. Had a friend that didn’t quite believe me until they saw me at an outdoor concert and saw that everywhere I would go stand, the old and tall abuser would come over and stand right in front of me so I couldn’t see. Even when I was married and just visiting my hometown, he blocked my way back to my seat at a CHURCH Christmas service. That’s good what she said from the stage, but you never talk to them or read notes from them. They are genius guilt trippers and they are playing the control game always.
How did you finally got rid of him ? Your husband didn’t say nothing
@@Eshabee I’d like to know as well. Unless it was an unrelenting family member.
Whoa.. 🙇🏾♂️
You stay away with no contact.. block them etc. Any communication gives them an opening to perform and control. On the bright side, I’ve been able to help others in the same situation. At my age now, I wish someone would’ve told me to get a restraining order. He had so many people fooled though. He was even a youth pastor at one point. Thankfully, a friend finally overheard how he really was and was able to tell others. He was the slippery charismatic type and the ultimate guilt tripper. You live and learn. I should’ve gone with my first 6th sense feeling about him and not let other’s praises of him override that first initial feeling.
The audacity of fighting for attention that is no longer theirs
I won't lie i choked 😢😢 The pain in her eyes and voice is undeniable 💔
So what . People have problems in relationships. I would like to hear HIS side of the story.
@@bernardsaibu4137 I totally agree with you. I've had women tell me themselves they falsley accused a man of DV. because they were upset. The laws are totally unfair against men in this country we call the home of the free.
@@user-cv7no8bj9vof course you would, son.
Giving so many victims the courage to stand up for themselves 💜 congrats queen 👸🏽
I’m confused because the only reason she said something is because of all the cameras if it weren’t for the cameras she wouldn’t said anything
@@yalltripping I think that’s just your perception. If someone is in the audience who abused her, she’s allowed to call them out whether there are camera there or not.
@@PorshiaVonne I understand that but why is it that when the camera is out now she would say some instead of when it was happening or before
Girls just gotta know to walk away...
She's not a "queen" none of you all are royalty lol. You really need to stop calling yourselves that. You sound like you have these insane delusions of Grandeur as if you honestly worship your own skin color and that's why you call yourselves that. It seriously looks Looks and sounds absolutely crazy lol
She’s so brave for calling him out! So happy she’s standing strong despite her abuser stalking her. I pray she stays safe.
Yes I know he was there seeing if she would 🥇 win Ms. Kansas!!
@@Typh211 she is seeking attention grow up
@@23systementerprisesllc94 yeah, Forsure
@@Gee_Morty..I mean, she already HAD attention on her. She was taking her power back from a POS abuser
I wish a woman would try to stalk me. I wouldnt just talk, I promise you that.
Whoever abused her...justice is coming. She fired the opening salvo.
And its going to come hard.
@@Futuretense101 you don't even know what happened stop simping
@josephatherley86 like he does on her every night and she like it
Agreed!
Alexis is very brave for being so vulnerable during a huge moment in her life and shining a light on her circumstances! Pageants promote an image of perfectness, but Alexis broke down that barrier, stood up for herself, and showed her inner strength. I hope she is safe and protected during her journey.
Were you there to see the abuse?
@@user-cv7no8bj9v Are you slow? Get out of my comments 🥱
"My abuser is here seated on the front row and his name is..." That would have been an epic ending.
Police can't do anything without evidence. But he knows everyone already would know, giving social shame, so he would still feel he has nothing to lose and probably kill her. Epic? Interesting.
Thank you because everyone was probably looking around like who is she talking about
@@1_star_reviews
AND YOU THINK SHE IS RIGHT FOR NOT NAMING HIM?
HOW STUPID IS THIS?!
HE'S HERE.
NO.
I WILL NOT TELL YOU WHO HE IS.
DAMN STUPID MORTALS
@@1_star_reviews yes but, that might confuse people and they could get the wrong guy on some vigilante justice.
I hope she asked security to escort him out tho.
When you enter a beauty contest, you can do it YOUR WAY and give the abuser your spotlight. She did it HER way, shame him, and prove him WRONG by winning the beauty contest. Because no doubt he was telling her "you're not beautiful and nobody else wants you".
She's AMAZING! Beautiful, and I'm SO happy she won! Good for her!
Not amazing, but she's Absolutely beautiful ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️💐💐💐💐
Another black look at me attention seeker
That's a beautiful use of her platform. It's very brave. I hope she remains safe.
I know that wasn't easy, but she did something that many wish they could do: She stood up to her abuser!! Blessings to her. I pray for her safety.
SHE STOOD TO HER A USER IN FRONT OF MANY PEOPLE.
THAT MEANS SHE COULD NOT DO IT ALONE.
WHEN SHE IS CONFRONTED WITH HIM ALONE I BET SHE WILL NOT HAVE THE SAME STRENGTH
@@barringtonedwards7008 Wow, I mean, tell us you're an abuser... Hopefully, she has purchased a gun and learned how to use it.
Way to go, sis. Abusers love to show up when you least expect it and ruin your day. It's part of the abuse. Anything to stay in your life and maintain some form or control over you. I pray she is safe and well, that he delivers no retribution for her calling him out. We are stronger in this together ❤
*THANK YOU Ms Kansas, THANK YOU for Calling THIS PERSON/SITUATION OUT*
All women cry abuse. I would like to hear his side
What a brave young woman. Kansas is lucky to have her.
Next is Miss America!!! Best of luck and God bless you!!!❤
Were you there to see the abuse?
Why is he following her around? Seems like he’s a stalker as well as an abuser. Sounds like she may need a restraining order.
She gave me chills when she called him out. I applaud her bravery! 👏👏👏💪💪💪👍👍👍
She's fake-news. 🤭 feminist-propaganda just like a female "presidential candidate" in a despotism/fake-democracy
Wow that's what I call a true warrior standing up for herself. Congratulations Miss Kansas.🙏💪👍👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
Oh really- I’m sure she’s used men to pay for dates and never called herself out for abuse of men
lol ffeminist-propaganda. 🤣🤣🤣
These boys are so angry 😂
@@ToyotaGuy1971uhoh...this dude hits chicks.
@@Ogletort Stop projecting
NOW THIS, THIS, THIS IS WHAT YOU CALL "STUNNING AND BRAVE". GOD BLESS THIS WOMAN A MILLION TIMES!!! This was such a beautiful, courageous, fearless, redemptive moment for victims. To let the abuser know they no longer have power in their lives. That the fear is gone. So often the abuser gets to be shielded and protected by family and takes no accountability for their actions. The abuser gets to revel in their victim's fear and trauma that they caused. They are confident that they will never be called out. Even now the psychology fields are forcing the law and the culture to remove the stigma from abusers and putting the onus on the victim to embrace the abuser as the one who should be comforted and protected. These abusers should be named and shamed and removed from society.
I can't imagine how she was feeling right there. Shaking and BRAVE AF!!!!❤❤❤❤❤
YOU MEAN STUPID AF.
NO YOU WOMEN DO NOT NEED TO TELL THE WORLD YOUR DAMN PROBLEMS..
I am so happy that she is free physically, mentally, and emotionally. I am so glad that she won and I pray that more women escape from these abusive men!🙏🏾
I Applaud 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽Miss Kansas for facing her Abuser and facing it in the midst of her Beautiful Celebration!✨💜 🎊
The enemy comes to steal, kill, and destroy, but when we stand in defiance and rebuke the darkness their powers are diminished and we stand tall because the victory is ours.
Congratulations young lady, this is your time and your platform and you represented well. ❤❤❤
The enemy promotes the agenda that says believe all women.
Girl they may have hurt you & victimized you but YOU GIRL TOOK YOUR LIFE BACK & mic dropped it w a beautiful smile on your face!!
Such a vibrant, classy lady! Much respect to her!
Wow!! She's such a strong and beautiful young lady inside and out. She took her power back from this horrible person and stood up to them. She's a voice for so many that are too afraid to speak out. She's truly an inspiration and her courage is contagious! I'm so proud of you Miss Kansas!
As an older woman who had went through being abused in a relationship, I am so proud of her!! Just Wow!!!
lol feminist-propaganda! 😂😂😂
@ToyotaGuy1971 you keep commenting the same thing,I'm going to guess you're related to the jerk.
@@unexpectedvixen5685 No, I just know feministpropaganda when I hear it.
@@ToyotaGuy1971there's nothing "feminist' about standing up for herself against a stalking abuser, that's her human right
I love you! Thank you for standing up to your abuser!
Good girl!!! No intimidation!! May God continue to watch over you!
Used her indoor voice and her grown up words with clear articulation ,grace and charm. Icing on the cake?, she's beautiful and she won.
She won and he showed up to ruin her moment because he knew it would cause her to get emotional
@@23systementerprisesllc94 - he wanted to scare her.
Her courage is so refreshing!!!
Much respect to this courageous young lady!
Were you there to see the abuse?
Warrior! Congratulations Miss Kansas 🎉🎉🎉
🤣🤣🤣
💜 My children and I are survivors of domestic violence.
Wow, so am I and so are my children. And I'm a man! Women are by far the worst domestic abusers because men don't report and, of course, are NEVER believed. 😮
I’m glad she confronted her abuser in public! God bless this beautiful lady
So many survivors and victims are made to suffer in silence by society. Yes society. This woman is speaking for so many that can't but it's important for her to be as far away as possible from that person and to take legal action even though the system doesn't really care until it's too late. Sad but true.
I hope she continues therapy and gets support. It is BEYOND COURAGEOUS to confront your abuser. I would know-- I was abused myself.
@@erinpilla maybe you should act right
@@Gee_Morty.. ????
I’m from Kansas, and I approve this message! Strength, beauty, brains, and class! Proud to have her represent my birthplace!
What a beautiful woman and wonderful choice for Ms. Kansas! May God protect her and bless her platform. I pray she can help many ❤
Wow!!! Goosebumps!!! You go girl! ❤
Her story is suspicious. Why not say his name. Just looking for sympathy.
@@redfieldwong717 Your comments on this story are suspiciously defensive....
@@redfieldwong717 I think it was more of a “you know who you are” thing. By not saying his name it kept the drama on a more professional level and she kept the moment about her. Not worth a name drop
@@jfm14Are the comments suspicious or is this a person with enough guts to not be shamed for NOT BELIEVING all women. Women lie all the time
I truly admire her… she is a great example.. brave woman
He sounds dangerous. Hopefully, the KBI will intervene, and investigate that creep.
Creep for sure coming to stalk her and watching in silence
A MAN the usual suspect
@@MalesAreDemons I like the username
@@ShaquilleOatmeal842 lol thanks ☺️
@@MalesAreDemons ur welcome :33
Go Miss Kansas
🙏🏾❤ for you
I experienced a similar situation with my ex-partner. He was more mentally abusive than physically abusive, as it allowed him to deny that anything was wrong. However, there were instances of physical abuse as well. He frequently engaged in psychological manipulation and gaslighting. Whenever I attempted to remove him from my home, he would break back in, and the authorities would support him due to a law in my state that allowed someone to claim your property if they resided there for more than 30 days. It was the second worst period in my life, with the first being the experience of SA in the military.
YES!!!!!!! I absolutely love how brave you were to speaking up ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Why protect him by not calling him out? Honestly, that was your opportunity to get swift justice from the PEOPLE.
Because she could be sued for defamation and assault. Never underestimate the audacity of abusers. Even if it’s deserved and he did terrible things, you can’t just sic people on people.
Think about it… if Taylor Swift pointed a man in the audience and said he did something bad to her, even if it wasn’t true, those insane Swifties would probably pummel him to death without any second thoughts.
Imagine if it wasn't true. You'd be spending a long time in prison for the crime of being a simp
@@rebekahwolkiewicz449never underestimate liars also… how do you know SHE’S not equally emotionally abusive? Society is lowest IQ ever. YOU KNOW NOTHING ON THE MATTER. IT WAS AN ASININE MOVE ON HER PART. “BELIEVE ALL PAGEANT LADIES” 👀🤔WE KNOW NOTHING! WHAT IF YOUR LOVED ONE WAS FALSELY ACCUSED? She better reach slander & defamation. Biased here- pageant girls chase VANITY, a Biblically ungodly pursuit 🙄 (I BLAME SOCIETY. WE NEED TO REWARD HIGH INTEGRITY WOMEN (& MEN), NOT JUST DECENT LOOKS!) 📝 EMOTIONAL abuse? OFTEN emotional & verbal are mutual. I WORK WITH ACCUSERS & VICTIMS. MOST CASES TURN OUT UNSUBSTANTIATED & HYPOCRITICAL. VERY STRANGE TO SPOTLIGHT YOUR EX AT A PAGEANT 🚩🚩🚩⚠️🚫. IDIOCRACY CONFIRMED - MANY untrained amateurs BELIEVE ANYTHING. TRUST NO ONE who doesn’t provide evidence. ANYONE CAN SAY ANYTHING. LESSONS LEARNED AS A …PROFESSIONAL. WISDOM. I REPEAT, NONE OF US KNOWS ANYTHING⚠️🚨🚩🚩🚩
Is it being a simp? Because I wonder how many real men just stand by when a woman is being abused and do nothing
@@rebekahwolkiewicz449 fair nuff
@0:32 She won because she said she was in a emotionally abusive relationship? That's subjective, im sure the other person can say the same thing about her. Being a victim is the new norm.
I love you 💕 thank you for your strength, courage and smile. Thank you 😊 in tears
Alexis, I understand your pain. I have once walked in your shoes! You are such a beautiful and brave woman! Thank you for speaking for yourself and, in doing so, giving others the courage to speak up as well! May you be blessed and safe! Hopefully the abuser was/has been reported to authorities!
Bless you, Thankyou for standing up and fighting back at your abuser! We can not combat it unless you do, and that encourages future victims to speak up-We will not go back!
So they dont bother to ask who the abuser is? That's some solid 2024 journalism for you... maybe he was famous.
So!!! It's not about him! It's about her and others who were abused and are still being abused...
@AutoYoung So you're glad they didn't make him famous by identifying him... and are more interested in protecting those around him... whoever he is? You don't identifying him would keep others away from him?
OK, just keep hiscsecret hush-hush. Good call.
@SWog617
It wasn't about him in that moment dummy! Giving him the spotlight would have only given him the attention he wants and would have taken the attention off of her and her message. This was HER moment, not his...
They don’t need to say his name. He knows who he is. And I’m sure he’s one second away from being exposed so he better relax n stay w
Away.
It is important to name the abuser so society can protect the vulnerable. If someone had done it earlier the predator would be known and hopefully prosecuted which would protect other vulnerable girls and young women.
It served the purpose...she won.
And how exactly was she abused? We don't know the whole story (or the other side of the story), but everyone here seems to support this woman without knowing any details. She victimized herself.
If she didn't want to be with him for whatever reason, she had the ability to leave.
She should've pointed him out for everyone to see.
Man, dude’s still trying to manipulate her even when they’re over 😡
What a wonderful Woman to have gotten out of that relationship and then to have stood strong during the pageant when he tried to mess with her!
I *_SO_* hope the Divine Will will keep her protected in this world and allow her to flourish and touch lives 🙏❤️
Now she is a true heroine and survivor! God bless her for having such strength and courage! Congratulations on your win in more ways than one!❤
Wow, another shameless abuser, I’m glad she called them out. Stay strong.
Why TF! Is he even there!😠 Restraining order
Abuser mentality
The mother hen in me is so proud of this young lady.
No one should be abused. And that goes to all the boys (and everyone in between) out there too.
Excuse me Mother Hen, there is a fox chasing me, help me!!! :-(
@@user-bk9fk2tq2z No matter what you are trying to say with that, my reaction is "aaw". It's just a matter of nuance how patronizing it is.
Don’t hide the villain. Hold them to account to the fullest extent of law and social reveal. God bless victims of abuse to learn everything they can about the subject and not be destroyed by their lack of knowledge.
I love your strength , courage and bravery. ❤
What she did took a lot of guts She's an inspiration to a lot of women all over the country KEEP INSPIRING!
Not all forms of intimate partner abuse qualify for legal protections.
Victim value is outpacing the cost of silence. Accountability is priceless. ✌
You’re a Queen👑👸🏽👑Look at all those women celebrating! Thats how you do it! ❤
Congratulations! I wish her healing, protection, and happiness.
Awe she very beautiful. God bless her ❤❤❤
Who is her abuser?
A football player
A football player
Really proud of this woman. That took courage!
Being abused causes trauma. It is deeply personal and deeply affective. When you are triggered it is incredibly hard to handle. It is wonderful she was able to use her power to speak up. It shows both abusers and victims the power we have to say no more. She is a great person.
I'm glad she called him out. Hope nothing happens to her😢
Take back that power!!!!! What an inspiring story. 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 So many people don’t feel like they can say anything and are afraid, and that took courage, guts, bravery, allll of it! Amazing.
WOW!
A boy got put in his place!
A real man knows how to properly love someone this awesome!
Good job young lady, your freedom is yours, no telling how many you have saved by your example of strength.
They love being victims.
It was a great decision to call him out because she solidified his identity as the abuser. Nothing else. So many women go back to their abusing partners because they think they can change, but when you get up on a stage and tell the whole world who the abuser is then there is no chance of that changing.
the power of words✊️
That's exactly why he showed up. To make sure that he was on her mind. And she handled it in the best way possible. Big congratulations to her.
Now she enabled him with that statement
How so?
One piece of advice from experts is , if you are being stalked, TELL everyone you know.
I think she did that.
I feel proud that we share the same name! GO ALEXIS!!! ❤️❤️❤️
I think she did the right thing because he seems to have been stalking her. Now he knows everyone knows who he is. Of course she is in danger but more eyes are on her and him now. May God protect her! Amen
She is SO DAMN STRONG!!!
an inspiration to all women!!
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What a genius way of guaranteeing a win,,You draw in the crowd and judges by issuing a statement of ,,,My abuser is here somewhere in this crowd of 10 thousand people,,But I won't actually point him out,,So no one called out,,,Then the judges are almost locked in to making you the winner least there be riots if they don't,,,She was asked later by news reporters,,Who this person was,,She declined to give name,,,,,,,,,,,,She would make an excellent politician,,,
I'm super proud of you you are setting perfect examples for everyone. Thank you for standing up. Congratulations on winning you deserve every thing you need.