I don't think the narcissist regrets hurting us.I believe the narcissists regrets having nobody who can have the tolerance to put up with their crap for so long
My mom was a nurse..my dad a pastor. He expected she keep the house clean..take care of kids...host people ...She was exhausted. I helped my Mom as much as I could. She carried a lot. Dad was sometimes very annoyed to do House projects. Mad at Mom for saying let's do this. They put a lot of pressure on themselves owning a townhouse. As kids we helped out. I think abt when I wanted something...i was told go work. Good student.. doing ministry. They didn't prophecy over my life. Wd not pay a cent for my education. I left and continued in school..married. My Dad was distant. How CD I do that? They taught me I wont be getting anything from them. The 2 younger siblings stayed longer in the nest. Could not fathom going to school and paying all the Bill's. I did w my boyfriend..married. Got attitude abt not complying. The need to keep yr kids under ur roof is a tight grip. They wanted sibs to be just like them..Sister was such an overachiever she Got stomach disease. Bowel removed. Her husband was not so helpful until she nearly died. It's not healthy to strain to that point. Mom got cancer..bc wanted the big house. Had to slow down..healed. Dad got cancer. My brother and sister had to leave their jobs often to support parents. Good but my brother s wife had major depression. CD not be a doctor anymore. People believe they can push hard for extended years. I had husband do that...was less time for family. Separated. The desire to have possessions " succeed" impacted family connection I was expected to work after birth of son..had pain issues. So my husband viewed it as not caring abt Our future. Raised son w little input from husband..he griped when he a had good income. Went out and cheated like he wasnt happy. Kids mean u cant go off and play as much. Husband was teaching.met single woman..wanted some fantasy. Left me. Where s the win when work means u forget who was beside you? I carried on..raised son. The Lord knows abt Deserters. I pray to be content
You nailed it. When chosen ones remove themselves they take their good energy and favor with them!! People are ungrateful and they always try screw people over that had pure intentions. Karma is real
No he is scamming himself, listen either he's went too his KARMA or he will be back at your door. WHEN He comes back YOU are powerful YOU are KARMA his KARMA don't ever forget that ❤SCOTLAND
True love and good healthy relationships are equal fifty fifty, and people feeding each other, not just one person taking all the time. So, people best wake up and pay attention to other people giving advice and calling foolish behavior out. Too many people are speaking up on bad experiences and signs of trouble and evil in relationships, so many best listen to attitudes and people getting exsposed
@@suzannedouglas1068 thank you I received that. And I know in my spirit that great things are coming it has already started so thank you for those encouraging words from the Lord it is true what you're saying. Since I left God has been taking good care of me and throwing me so many blessings.
I know the feeling ,it's exhausting. Biggest lesson that I learned is that it is not my job to solve everyone's problems, especially the ones that always create chaos and drama for themselves.
I pulled my energy back,and detached from everybody. I realized I was not progressing while attached to those so called friends. I feel like a brand new person. Thank You for the confirmation.
Me too. I still have my sister and brother (for now. Until they're told not to talk to me.) It's coming, you ALWAYS have to be loyal to only her. I'm just done with dysfunction and untreated mental illness. I'm breaking this cycle in the name of Jesus Christ! Starting right now. My sister is getting therapy too. We're gonna break it
@@SamuraiiSunshine444 SAME here! The peace and growth that comes from detaching and taking my power back has been the most amazing and courageous thing I've ever done in my life and I'm in my early 50's.
I have moved on & don’t even look back. I have blocked people out my life that didn’t value my worth & I absolutely don’t care anymore. My focus is on pleasing God.
My last day is tomorrow at work!!! The haters didn't see that coming! I am giving them a show by doing my job so well!!!! I am smiling, wearing makeup ect....They thought I was crushed. They are chocked to see me smile!!!! Little do they know God blessed me with better opportunities. One of them haters mumbled the word "Bitch" today. I believed that's what I heard. I asked God to seal my ears and eyes this morning.......I was fully prepared and wasn't going to react or give into that negative energy. I chuckled and kept walking!!!!! Has this been couple weeks ago, I would have been so mad!!! It's game over!!!!
Go where you Appreciated not tolerated. They will REAP what they have sown. I was there 3 years ago. They all Dealt with heartbreak 💔 before I walked out the door good m let them do them. They haven't gotten away with nothing. Believe me. 😂
God warned me, I didn’t listen. Years later I realized that God’s way was the best and only way. I finally, five years later, took my energy back; now the devil is pulling every trick out of the hat to get me to come back. He treated me like dirt when I was only good to him. Now the shoes are on the other feet and he expressing that his heart is broken and asked me to please come back. I told him I don’t care about his heart being broken, he didn’t care about breaking my heart so live with it, go through the process. I don’t care anything about him and I have moved on and I thank God for blessing me to walk away and never look back; my only regret is, not leaving and walking away when God told me to.
Me too. 5 years. Everyone from his best friends to my family & friends to people that were hardly even acquaintances saw him for what he was. They walk to me and say, “I don’t like how he talks to you.” “I wish he wouldn’t treat you that way.” “Why do you put with his behavior? It’s not okay.” His own father said three years in, “I don’t know how you do it. I really don’t. You have the patience of a saint.” Because he’s a volatile person. But it took me years to wake up. God kept trying to warn me too. I didn’t want to listen. Now I’m just surrendering. I’m marking the universe with my intent and letting go.
Amen!! This was me sign after sign I stayed and I was stagnant couldn’t move!! Now blessings are coming and been celibate for a year!! Until God blessed me with the one I’m staying in my own lane
Yes I agree. Walking away was easy when you been through the same thing over and over again. You know the signs. I’m ok with being alone because God has built my confidence and gave me the spirit of focus. God is amazing and good.
l just stepped back from Volunteering because l wasn't being 1 Respected 2 Appreciated ❤ l also stepped back from one sided relationships and situations
I have move forward and I have retired my work for a little while I might just move to another state and meet someone who knows when I’m good and ready just for to have a dating friend maybe I am not sure yet Peaceful mind Thank You God For everything and always here when I need you Amen I Love you 💕 God😊😊❤
Yep! I had to back out gracefully from my family. I realized that I was being disrespected, lied to, under valued and always seen as the villian while trying to keep the family together. I got tired of clowns acting like clowns but I kept returning to the circus. Done!!
Self love, peace, Respect & healing is a feeling of freedom that is unmatched. Wheather its a parent, adult child, sibling etc. 2024 Vibration of upward & Onward for the better. Mind, body, spirit & soul ❤
I fell asleep with this man trying to break me. I didn’t allow him to see me cry one more tear last night. I stayed gone for hours to let him wallow in his own misery after having absolute no reaction to my overflowing tears as he tells me how undesirable, “fat”, needy, gross, “crazy”, and sensitive I am for asking why he’d been acting hateful towards me AGAIN. Something is changing in me. I woke up at 4am and your word was the first suggestion on my timeline 😢😢😢, only god made this happen❤❤. Thank you for your powerful, meaningful, uplifting words😭😢♥️😭♥️😭♥️♥️ To wake up to this video was NOT a coincidence😭♥️♥️🙂
May God wrap his loving arms around you. If this man is not your husband ~ get out. If he is your husband take a stand tell him you will not tolerate his demeaning behaviors and still plan to pull away. I went through a tough patch with my husband. He said some things that couldn't be taken back that hurt. I was required to forgive him. However, he then needed to show that he was remorseful and working on self to make sure that never happened again. I'm pleased to say that today, my husband is in therapy (by himself) with my nudging and doing the work he needed to do. That was a requirement for me and while he was against therapy initially, he reports now that he loves it. 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 Praying for your strength during this difficult time.
@@grownfolksperspectives thank you so much for your kind words of support and advise♥️. Tho many times when I’m emotional. I share way too much 😂. We have been together for 25 years smh. I always looked at marriage the wrong way due to my mother having 6 failed marriages. It seemed like every time I would think about giving in, actually feeling like it was the right thing to do, something would happen within the relationship. And now never going through with it, is an obstacle that is keeping me in the relationship. He helps take care of bills and gives me an “ allowance” weekly, once I walk away… it will just stop. I have given more chances than I would like to admit, with him being a narcissist the problems were never ever small. I just pray this time , I get over my anxiety and just walk away.
Have strength....he hates himself and is insecure. Insecurity breeds hatred. This is the start of a brand new you....they are no mistakes in life. Shoulders back...head up and walk...spirituality ...mentality and physically. Blessings to you and your journey. The first step is always the hardest. Hug yourself...love yourself and work on you!
It’s extremely hard to let go of a Narc mother. Everyone says but that’s your mom you only get one mother. It’s the hardest thing ever to do but I REALLY NEED PEACE😢
I had to do that with my dad. He was draining me of all my peace and happiness. Since cutting ties I’m the happiest I’ve ever been. I can still live him while not interacting with him ✌🏾❤️
This message is right on time. Thank-you. I was married for 5 months. He treated me like a roommate. I just told him I needed to live elsewhere, he ask me if I have demons in me and if I have some one else. I said No, i told him this house and energy is draining me. No plans for the future, . We did grocies separate. He depended on me to plan the trips and pay for them. I took my emotions from the situation and saw it what it was. I wanted to be married, but what I had was not a marriage. I felt depleted when I left, now I am rebuilding me, I am taking a year to get me set up so I don't feel like I have to depend on anyone. Thank you for speaking out loud what I was thinking. Keep making videos and keeping it real. We need more Females to talk to other females. Blessings and Love.
2 years into completely leaving and cutting off communication completely, not one call, not a text, nothing, (I even quit drinking so I make sure I never make the mistake of allowing my emotions in a drunken stupor to reach out) your message has truly hit home for me. There are many times I have doubted my actions, a part of me trying to convince me that maybe I was too harsh, but your message that I have received in such a timely fashion lets me know that I made the very best decision for myself. I am never looking back, neither ever going back! Thank you, Nicole. I felt every word you have said and I am now an immediate fan and new subscriber!
You are right on point! People, including 'family' members, took me for granted. So, I removed myself from them, including my spouse who was emotionally and spiritually abusive. He is so angry. Tough love!
How did you do it? I’m trying to do the same thing with my family. I have already removed myself from their group chat, but some of them are still trying to contact me though I rarely respond to their texts, when I do it’s morel like 4 words max.
It's my biological family that Iam walking away from. They know somehow, probably at a subconscious level, that IAM a Chosen One 👑🛡️🗡️for this New Earth. They are still chained to the religious beliefs and dogma, so I cannot save them, I can only save myself by raising my vibrational frequencies, take care of me and love me unconditionally♥️🥰🙏. Thank you to the Universe🙏😍🥰💫🌟✨⭐☀️
Yes for sure, this experience for me was with a relative..the relative did me more dirty than any friend or relationship has...i finally gave up .i forgave ..and moved forward with my life in peace. I got tired of that mess
I stayed in a very hurtful relationship for almost 18 years, I finally let go last year. Thank you God for keeping me and giving me strength to finally cut the cord❤
WOW! Water ALWAYS find its Level‼️Love this statement! NOW it makes sense because when I detached and removed my energy they no longer have access to MY Grace and Favor!
I got real real with myself .. and God has been doing the rest !!!! I thank God every day for the strength he has given me to finally walk away and stay away !!
The aftermath of feeling bad may be for the normal person. When there is narcissism involved, I don't believe they will sit and feel bad that they lost you, I believe they will ruminate on what you did to them- and possibly miss the supply you gave them.
Thank you so much for this video. I was taken for granted by my ex-husband, whom I did all to make him reach where he is now, but he kept on cheating on me with whoever woman I get closed too. When I decided to divorce him, he never so it coming, and he has tried fighting to bring me down, but God has been leading me forward under his mighty protection. He betrayed me, broke my trust, and i felt humiliated. 12 years in marriage, which was hell and felt helpless, hopeless. God is faithful. Thank you so much, dear sister.
Narcissist don't care that they lose anyone they have other supply that are waiting on them if they know of us which in my case i caught him with she knew of me and also seen text to other supply i let them know as well they didn't care either and then there's others who think they met their knight on a white horse I closed the door as of yesterday I just couldn't do it anymore 😢 I got God who will help me heal 🙏
My sister! Couldn't do it anymore, she was a user, and used me for years!!!!!! I finally let her go and a few others who took advantage of my kindness. I am in a better space.
I don't think they "regret," because they are not capable of self-awareness and self-reflection. In their minds, it's somebody's or my fault. In any case, regret or not, I'm glad I pulled my energy back and am moving along. Thanks!
I was just talking to a good friend about all relationships. She told me she believes that these trying relationships are karmic ties from past lives. I claim now that I cut the spiritual cord and my debt is fulfilled in all relationships that no longer work for me. I'm running to my divine destiny.
Lord Jesus I seek you everyday please find me. Both of my sons have special needs and I struggle desperately trying my best to support them as a single mom. I put my children first, no matter how tired I am. Jesus continues to give me strength to keep going. Lord as I struggle to pay rent and as I struggle to buy groceries please grant me strength you have provided this far Lord and for that I am thankful so I know a blessing is on the way.
Thank You! I detached completely. He did not deserve all of this goodness. He was for the streets. He turned out to be a Narcissist. My blood pressure started to go up when I thought of how he was so cruel, mistreated me, lied, and portrayed me as everything he was. The Devil is a liar! I told him that he was an abuser, and he said, Ike abused Tina but he still loved her. I closed the door 🚪. Thanks for the encouragement.
What kind of angel are you. Feels like you just told my story. I walked away already, but sometimes she still pops up in my mind. Don't know how to shake that off. YET. I am confident that i will get there. Am a special Child of God. Gracias a dios ❤
I’ve had to walk away from MANY relationships/connections with certain people in my life and it wasn’t easy but it was one of best decision I’ve made for myself😌💯. Setting boundaries & choosing what’s right has given me the strength I’ve always needed!!!
They came for me on my bday this past week. Bringing up old things that Served them and not me. Kept calling me into the Old things I ignored every phone 🤳 call. I'm higher VIBRATING. Ain't got no time for Old. Everything NEW got my name on it. New relationships. New beginnings. NEW person I rebirth 🐦🔥. They watching via Facebook and mad 😡 where God taking me. You read ny of whole week with the goons watching me Win. Begging I answered.😢 They hurt me purposely. Playing games with my life, welfare and livelihood and future. My ENERGY been pulled back. They keep trying but failing to guilt trip me😂. Im not that vulnerable. THEY had no clue about what kinda Real power I possess. They fake I'm Real it wasn't destined too last.😂🎉
This is definitely my story. I've moved on and didn't look back. And, they're still trying to get me back. But no, not here. I have to support my energy and wasted time. I'm doing much better in my life, filled with so much peace and joy.
You so 💯, I got tired of being tired of all the drama and control. It’s all about me now, and I pray they find themselves, but it won't be with me anymore, and I'm talking about many people, not one. You are right, Sis, I'm finished with foolishness. Thank you for the encouraging words. I love my peace 🙏🏾
I can so relate, the end of last year over the holidays I felt so drained from the same situations and I heard a voice in my head saying I'm sick and tired of being sick and tired and that was it for me...freedom
As soon as I let the last one go and any energy around wanting or needing family to accept me my whole self was able to create a new life I never imagined before I did that. God is showing me everything to do. They fed off me
This is me with my family I officially cut off & the other toxic people who held on…I have been sticking to my decision & it’s brought me a lot of peace. Now I’m focused on truly healing & letting God work in & on me…with no more distractions from toxic, narcissistic people.
Yes right on point. I turned away from family n friends that caused gossip n stress to me. I’m a caring person n can’t continue being manipulated n even people demanding time n money. I had enough. I prayed about it n I did it.❤👩
I detached and removed him from the pedestal, living separately and I only message him about our kids ....not chasing him anymore and I know and heard from someone that he misses me...now I'm giving love to myself...
Hello now is 16:06 pm, I dont know if you are CHOSEN but I tell you everything you're saying is a message to me, you are not the only channel God is sending to me, this is excartly what am going through right now, All the people blocked are now creating new group to be with me but everytime my spirit becomes nervous and I feel pains in my heart, This means its not the right time, my isolation continua till God says OK, STORY SHORT This is my story, my life and my REALITY, God is real, he deliver his message through his CHOSEN ONES OR ANYBODY FROM NOWHERE, Thank you and GLORY BE TO GOD ALMIGHTY 🙏 🙏 ALLELUIA ALLELUIA, I WASN'T EXPECTING THIS ATALL, GOD IS WONDERFUL GOD IS GREAT ❤❤
WOW!!! THE ALMIGHTY GOD REALLY SPOKE THRU YOU ON THIS VIDEO. MAY HE CONTINUE TO SPEAK THRU YOU FOR THE HELP WE NEED TO LIVE AND THRIVE IN THIS THING CALL LIFE. YOU BE INSPIRED AS WELL!!!. THANK YOU SOOOO MUCH MY SISTER. 😘 💖 💓 ❤️ 💛 😊
Thank you for this because I have had a hard 2 months - Grrrrrrlllllll crying nights and listening to motivational- spiritual- religious- you name it- just to ( get over ) my situation which I did not know that it was going to lead me - to walking 7 miles a day- and losing weight - losing 20 + lbs. I love ❤️ that you hit the nail on the head- when we remove our energy we take the power back. As hard as it is because now the hopes and dreams are gone / dead but I know longer am in limbo and that’s freedom- God bless you- for speaking to us that needed to hear this- Preach 🙌👏☝️
Thank you for confirming that I am moving in the right direction and energy. No more will I ever accept being taken for granted. Thank you 🙏. Jah is the Almighty.
Jesus this is a mighty word that I didn't know I needed it. I left my own house because of an abuser spouse mentally physically verbally and spiritually. Thank you for this video, you just earned a new subscriber❤
Nicole you have read my life an exact! I had put my energy in a woman who took me for granted and thought she was better than me and she moved on with someone else and her life did not go as she planned; she tried to comeback to use my energy and I stopped all communication. God has blessed me with a good life. She lost her place in my life and I am moving on with somebody else and I'm happy.
MY GOD MY GOD! when he broke those chains ⛓️ from that person,IT WAS PRICELESS! i literally have only $70 in my bank account & if someone asked me to go back to that emotional,mental & spiritual HELL 🔥 💔 I was in for 500 mill dollars,ID NEVER! ID RATHER BE HOMELESS THEN GO BACK TO THAT! when God delivers you from somewhere or somebody & you realize what freedom is,TRUE FREEDOM,there’s nothing like it! AMEN 🙏🏿 HALLELUJAH!!
Lord I know you have a purpose for me. Even though at times I do not understand. I have complete trust in you. Heavenly Father. Being a single mom with two children with special needs is overwhelming at times. Every month is a struggle to get by. But as I struggle to pay rent and as I struggle to buy groceries for my children. I keep faith. Faith is all I have left. I WILL NEVER STOP TRUSTING THE LORD. God give me strength.💕❤️❤
You are 💯% ON POINT 👌🏿🙋🏿♀️👏🏿 I HAD TO LET SO MANY PEOPLE GO 🚶🏿♀️ AND DETACH MY ENERGY FROM THEM, I WISH THEM THE BEST 👍🏿 I TOOK MY BAG 🎒 AND FLIPPED IT AND TUMBLED IT 😂😂😂 I'M RESERVING MY ENERGY FOR POSITIVE SOULS ONLY ✨️ 🙋🏿♀️
All I can say is thank you. Felt like you were talking directly to me. I am learning to listen to my God. He speaks to me directly and through people like you. God bless you and may your channel be successful always
God literally had to have placed this much needed message on my “new to you” content! This is literally my current situation and I was questioning my decision/intuition. I’m so grateful for the confirmation! Follower gained!!!
Young lady I don’t know you but sweetness you are all in my business. I will be praying for you and the love you are spreading to those of us that had to WALK AWAY. You can only hope that as people get older they would know better but they get worse and that’s really really said. Bless you love
Going to save this and listen to it every time I need to be reminded how horrible my adult children treat me. I am ltoast. Even though I miss my sweet innocent grandsons terribly the abuse is so terrible I don’t want them to think it’s ok to treat me this way too when they grow up. Enough is more than enough!
Found your channel last night and listened to this video before I went to sleep. I slept through the night for the first time in months after spending so many nights, month after month, ruminating on why they did what they did. Thank you!
It's not difficult to walk away when God mows the grass and expose the snakes!
Well said ❤
Amen
Cmon! 💯
Amen
FACTS 💯 Amen!🙌🎉
I don't think the narcissist regrets hurting us.I believe the narcissists regrets having nobody who can have the tolerance to put up with their crap for so long
@@user-ki8mg5jh3n 🗣️Preach💯
There YA GO!!! 😲😉
My mom was a nurse..my dad a pastor. He expected she keep the house clean..take care of kids...host people ...She was exhausted. I helped my Mom as much as I could. She carried a lot. Dad was sometimes very annoyed to do House projects. Mad at Mom for saying let's do this.
They put a lot of pressure on themselves owning a townhouse. As kids we helped out. I think abt when I wanted something...i was told go work. Good student.. doing ministry. They didn't prophecy over my life. Wd not pay a cent for my education. I left and continued in school..married. My Dad was distant. How CD I do that? They taught me I wont be getting anything from them. The 2 younger siblings stayed longer in the nest. Could not fathom going to school and paying all the Bill's. I did w my boyfriend..married. Got attitude abt not complying. The need to keep yr kids under ur roof is a tight grip. They wanted sibs to be just like them..Sister was such an overachiever she Got stomach disease. Bowel removed. Her husband was not so helpful until she nearly died. It's not healthy to strain to that point. Mom got cancer..bc wanted the big house. Had to slow down..healed. Dad got cancer. My brother and sister had to leave their jobs often to support parents. Good but my brother s wife had major depression. CD not be a doctor anymore. People believe they can push hard for extended years. I had husband do that...was less time for family. Separated. The desire to have possessions " succeed" impacted family connection I was expected to work after birth of son..had pain issues. So my husband viewed it as not caring abt Our future. Raised son w little input from husband..he griped when he a had good income. Went out and cheated like he wasnt happy. Kids mean u cant go off and play as much. Husband was teaching.met single woman..wanted some fantasy. Left me. Where s the win when work means u forget who was beside you? I carried on..raised son. The Lord knows abt Deserters. I pray to be content
This! ⭐️
And now I don't care whether they regret it or not. I'm too happy now to look back.
They do eventually. It’s usually in old age. Too little too late.
You nailed it. When chosen ones remove themselves they take their good energy and favor with them!! People are ungrateful and they always try screw people over that had pure intentions. Karma is real
So true..
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Word of God says “you will reap what you sow” good or bad
I will never again make someone a priority when they treat me as an option. I am so happy to be free from the toxicity ✌🏾❤️🙌🏾
He's not regretting a thing. He's scamming someone else.
He sounds like a terrible person.
He will pay for what he done to you! Blessings to you God has good coming your way!
No he is scamming himself, listen either he's went too his KARMA or he will be back at your door. WHEN He comes back YOU are powerful YOU are KARMA his KARMA don't ever forget that ❤SCOTLAND
True love and good healthy relationships are equal fifty fifty, and people feeding each other, not just one person taking all the time. So, people best wake up and pay attention to other people giving advice and calling foolish behavior out. Too many people are speaking up on bad experiences and signs of trouble and evil in relationships, so many best listen to attitudes and people getting exsposed
@@suzannedouglas1068 thank you I received that. And I know in my spirit that great things are coming it has already started so thank you for those encouraging words from the Lord it is true what you're saying. Since I left God has been taking good care of me and throwing me so many blessings.
Solving other people's problems only created more problems for me!
Preach! ❤
I know the feeling ,it's exhausting. Biggest lesson that I learned is that it is not my job to solve everyone's problems, especially the ones that always create chaos and drama for themselves.
So true ❤❤
Yasss!! It took me a lot of time and energy to realize this!!!!
It's so draining
I pulled my energy back,and detached from everybody. I realized I was not progressing while attached to those so called friends. I feel like a brand new person. Thank You for the confirmation.
Same it’s crazy that it wasn’t only friends but my mother and father as well
Me too. I still have my sister and brother (for now. Until they're told not to talk to me.) It's coming, you ALWAYS have to be loyal to only her.
I'm just done with dysfunction and untreated mental illness.
I'm breaking this cycle in the name of Jesus Christ! Starting right now.
My sister is getting therapy too. We're gonna break it
@@SamuraiiSunshine444 SAME here! The peace and growth that comes from detaching and taking my power back has been the most amazing and courageous thing I've ever done in my life and I'm in my early 50's.
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We're never alone because we always have God with us
I have moved on & don’t even look back. I have blocked people out my life that didn’t value my worth & I absolutely don’t care anymore. My focus is on pleasing God.
My last day is tomorrow at work!!! The haters didn't see that coming! I am giving them a show by doing my job so well!!!! I am smiling, wearing makeup ect....They thought I was crushed. They are chocked to see me smile!!!! Little do they know God blessed me with better opportunities. One of them haters mumbled the word "Bitch" today. I believed that's what I heard. I asked God to seal my ears and eyes this morning.......I was fully prepared and wasn't going to react or give into that negative energy. I chuckled and kept walking!!!!! Has this been couple weeks ago, I would have been so mad!!! It's game over!!!!
Absolutely! Good for you.
So Proud of You. GOD BLESS YOU on Your journey.
Amen🙏🤍
Go where you Appreciated not tolerated. They will REAP what they have sown. I was there 3 years ago. They all Dealt with heartbreak 💔 before I walked out the door good m let them do them. They haven't gotten away with nothing. Believe me. 😂
They got nobody to Hate on anymore that's what they mad about 😂m keep popping out and showing Niggaz
The losers are losing and the winners are winning. Thank you! ❤
Praise God
Yes ma'am
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Yesooo
I let go for my peace. He lied cheated and manipulated me for the last time. I moved on.
Yaaaay❤🎉🎉🎉
You are taking your life to new levels and moving beyond what no longer serves you 💯
Yep exactly Amen 💯
You Got That Part Right, You Alway's Serve Me 1st?
Yes! Amen!!! Everything you said is so true! Thank you for your insight and Ur inspiration! Keep Shining Ur Light Bright!💜🫶🌟
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Yes I am
They thought they buried you, but didn't realise that you were a seed. You are growing and going higher. ❤🎉❤🎉❤🎉
God warned me, I didn’t listen. Years later I realized that God’s way was the best and only way. I finally, five years later, took my energy back; now the devil is pulling every trick out of the hat to get me to come back. He treated me like dirt when I was only good to him. Now the shoes are on the other feet and he expressing that his heart is broken and asked me to please come back. I told him I don’t care about his heart being broken, he didn’t care about breaking my heart so live with it, go through the process. I don’t care anything about him and I have moved on and I thank God for blessing me to walk away and never look back; my only regret is, not leaving and walking away when God told me to.
Block them because the urge to get sucked back in will be there until you're fully healed 🙌
Me too. 5 years. Everyone from his best friends to my family & friends to people that were hardly even acquaintances saw him for what he was. They walk to me and say, “I don’t like how he talks to you.” “I wish he wouldn’t treat you that way.” “Why do you put with his behavior? It’s not okay.” His own father said three years in, “I don’t know how you do it. I really don’t. You have the patience of a saint.” Because he’s a volatile person.
But it took me years to wake up. God kept trying to warn me too. I didn’t want to listen. Now I’m just surrendering. I’m marking the universe with my intent and letting go.
Amen!! This was me sign after sign I stayed and I was stagnant couldn’t move!! Now blessings are coming and been celibate for a year!! Until God blessed me with the one I’m staying in my own lane
ALL THIS!
It's not hard to walk away it's hard walking alone thank you my Lord for never putting me down..Amen
You are never alone when you walk with the Almighty.
Yes I agree. Walking away was easy when you been through the same thing over and over again. You know the signs. I’m ok with being alone because God has built my confidence and gave me the spirit of focus. God is amazing and good.
That part ❤️🩹
Amen
This applies to friendships too 🙃💔
And family too
Facts !
Exactly 👍 may God bless and heal you. 💕🙏
Amen
Preach! I no longer go where I am only tolerated and not appreciated!
today 11 July 2024 marks exactly a year since I removed myself from an abusive and narcissistic relationship.
thank you JESUS
Congratulations, keep going 👏 💪 same here
Amen!
Trying to let go.
Glory my birthday 🎂 July 12. ❤
l just stepped back from Volunteering because l wasn't being 1 Respected 2 Appreciated ❤ l also stepped back from one sided relationships and situations
I have move forward and I have retired my work for a little while I might just move to another state and meet someone who knows when I’m good and ready just for to have a dating friend maybe I am not sure yet Peaceful mind Thank You God For everything and always here when I need you Amen I Love you 💕 God😊😊❤
AMEN 🙏🏿
those were relations without a SHIP
he prepares a table for us inthe presence 0f all our enemies.
Yep! I had to back out gracefully from my family. I realized that I was being disrespected, lied to, under valued and always seen as the villian while trying to keep the family together. I got tired of clowns acting like clowns but I kept returning to the circus. Done!!
Self love, peace, Respect & healing is a feeling of freedom that is unmatched. Wheather its a parent, adult child, sibling etc. 2024 Vibration of upward & Onward for the better. Mind, body, spirit & soul ❤
@@Chosen2Win333 Thanks!
💯 🤡 💯
I fell asleep with this man trying to break me. I didn’t allow him to see me cry one more tear last night. I stayed gone for hours to let him wallow in his own misery after having absolute no reaction to my overflowing tears as he tells me how undesirable, “fat”, needy, gross, “crazy”, and sensitive I am for asking why he’d been acting hateful towards me AGAIN. Something is changing in me. I woke up at 4am and your word was the first suggestion on my timeline 😢😢😢, only god made this happen❤❤. Thank you for your powerful, meaningful, uplifting words😭😢♥️😭♥️😭♥️♥️ To wake up to this video was NOT a coincidence😭♥️♥️🙂
Plan to evacuate,move.
Never turn back.
Hope you have no kids with that person.
Wish you all the best❤
May God wrap his loving arms around you. If this man is not your husband ~ get out. If he is your husband take a stand tell him you will not tolerate his demeaning behaviors and still plan to pull away.
I went through a tough patch with my husband. He said some things that couldn't be taken back that hurt. I was required to forgive him. However, he then needed to show that he was remorseful and working on self to make sure that never happened again.
I'm pleased to say that today, my husband is in therapy (by himself) with my nudging and doing the work he needed to do. That was a requirement for me and while he was against therapy initially, he reports now that he loves it. 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
Praying for your strength during this difficult time.
@@grownfolksperspectives thank you so much for your kind words of support and advise♥️. Tho many times when I’m emotional. I share way too much 😂. We have been together for 25 years smh. I always looked at marriage the wrong way due to my mother having 6 failed marriages. It seemed like every time I would think about giving in, actually feeling like it was the right thing to do, something would happen within the relationship. And now never going through with it, is an obstacle that is keeping me in the relationship. He helps take care of bills and gives me an “ allowance” weekly, once I walk away… it will just stop.
I have given more chances than I would like to admit, with him being a narcissist the problems were never ever small.
I just pray this time , I get over my anxiety and just walk away.
It will get better and better. God bless you.
Have strength....he hates himself and is insecure. Insecurity breeds hatred. This is the start of a brand new you....they are no mistakes in life. Shoulders back...head up and walk...spirituality ...mentality and physically. Blessings to you and your journey. The first step is always the hardest. Hug yourself...love yourself and work on you!
It’s extremely hard to let go of a Narc mother. Everyone says but that’s your mom you only get one mother. It’s the hardest thing ever to do but I REALLY NEED PEACE😢
She only had ONE you! I’m in the same boat, you’re not alone.
Let her go,your mental health is more important than any blood ties unless you like high blood pressure.
I had to do that with my dad. He was draining me of all my peace and happiness. Since cutting ties I’m the happiest I’ve ever been. I can still live him while not interacting with him ✌🏾❤️
Have you read “Boundaries” by Henry Cloud?
I’m heartbroken. But I’m strong and I will make it through.
Put up your crown, sis ❤ you got this 👍
One sided relationships are dauntingly exhausting
Love on Jesus more than anyone
Yesssssss
This message is right on time. Thank-you. I was married for 5 months. He treated me like a roommate. I just told him I needed to live elsewhere, he ask me if I have demons in me and if I have some one else. I said No, i told him this house and energy is draining me. No plans for the future, . We did grocies separate. He depended on me to plan the trips and pay for them. I took my emotions from the situation and saw it what it was. I wanted to be married, but what I had was not a marriage. I felt depleted when I left, now I am rebuilding me, I am taking a year to get me set up so I don't feel like I have to depend on anyone. Thank you for speaking out loud what I was thinking. Keep making videos and keeping it real. We need more Females to talk to other females. Blessings and Love.
When I walked away; I learned my power, strength and determination! I learned ME!! ❤❤❤
2 years into completely leaving and cutting off communication completely, not one call, not a text, nothing, (I even quit drinking so I make sure I never make the mistake of allowing my emotions in a drunken stupor to reach out) your message has truly hit home for me. There are many times I have doubted my actions, a part of me trying to convince me that maybe I was too harsh, but your message that I have received in such a timely fashion lets me know that I made the very best decision for myself. I am never looking back, neither ever going back!
Thank you, Nicole. I felt every word you have said and I am now an immediate fan and new subscriber!
I am with you amd everything you said. God bless you all!
That is so true 💯,I walked away and took my power with me. And it feels so good & liberating 🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌💃💃💃💃👌👌👌
l'm with you ❤
You are right on point! People, including 'family' members, took me for granted. So, I removed myself from them, including my spouse who was emotionally and spiritually abusive. He is so angry. Tough love!
How did you do it? I’m trying to do the same thing with my family. I have already removed myself from their group chat, but some of them are still trying to contact me though I rarely respond to their texts, when I do it’s morel like 4 words max.
It's my biological family that Iam walking away from. They know somehow, probably at a subconscious level, that IAM a Chosen One 👑🛡️🗡️for this New Earth. They are still chained to the religious beliefs and dogma, so I cannot save them, I can only save myself by raising my vibrational frequencies, take care of me and love me unconditionally♥️🥰🙏. Thank you to the Universe🙏😍🥰💫🌟✨⭐☀️
Yes for sure, this experience for me was with a relative..the relative did me more dirty than any friend or relationship has...i finally gave up .i forgave ..and moved forward with my life in peace. I got tired of that mess
Just cut my family off 2 months ago and went silent on a ex of 4 years IM DONE!!!
When you remove your energy from it, they are already changing it!
I stayed in a very hurtful relationship for almost 18 years, I finally let go last year. Thank you God for keeping me and giving me strength to finally cut the cord❤
I am sorry.
I hope you feeling great now❤
@shamira that is very very sad, but nice ending! Great courage, strength, and wiseness.
WOW! Water ALWAYS find its Level‼️Love this statement! NOW it makes sense because when I detached and removed my energy they no longer have access to MY Grace and Favor!
Amen sis!
I'm moving on into my future that was designed for me by my creator Allmighty God
This WORD is so on point. It's like you are describing my situation. 😢 But I'm so much Happier without them, detached from the negativity. ❤🎉
Truth! For me, this word is both on point AND right on time! Best wishes 🌹
🎉🎉🎉🎉 oooo child you have no idea lol. The things that come into the light!
Exactly , and they didn’t make me happy! So I pulled my energy back!
Exactly! They do not make us happy. They need us we do not need them. We’re fine being alone. My own dang family.
I got real real with myself .. and God has been doing the rest !!!! I thank God every day for the strength he has given me to finally walk away and stay away !!
After a 25 year marriage and thought I would never be able to let go. I’m still learning to love myself and focus on me. God is my plot 🙏🏾
The aftermath of feeling bad may be for the normal person. When there is narcissism involved, I don't believe they will sit and feel bad that they lost you, I believe they will ruminate on what you did to them- and possibly miss the supply you gave them.
Thank you so much for this video. I was taken for granted by my ex-husband, whom I did all to make him reach where he is now, but he kept on cheating on me with whoever woman I get closed too. When I decided to divorce him, he never so it coming, and he has tried fighting to bring me down, but God has been leading me forward under his mighty protection. He betrayed me, broke my trust, and i felt humiliated. 12 years in marriage, which was hell and felt helpless, hopeless. God is faithful. Thank you so much, dear sister.
Narcissist don't care that they lose anyone they have other supply that are waiting on them if they know of us which in my case i caught him with she knew of me and also seen text to other supply i let them know as well they didn't care either and then there's others who think they met their knight on a white horse I closed the door as of yesterday I just couldn't do it anymore 😢 I got God who will help me heal 🙏
Prayers to you sweetheart. Heartbreak is real Im going through it to. May God bless our broken hearts
@@towandastarks8182 Amen 🙏
This is SOOOOO true. DID, DETACHED, DONE! Moving forward and I am not recreating the same betrayal! Water always finds its level…🤔
My sister! Couldn't do it anymore, she was a user, and used me for years!!!!!! I finally let her go and a few others who took advantage of my kindness. I am in a better space.
This has resonated with me 100%
YOU DESERVE MORE.....
GOD SEE 👀 EVERYTHING...
GO 🚶♀️ 🚶♂️...... NOW
STEP OUT ON FAITH, TRUST GOD....😇
I don't think they "regret," because they are not capable of self-awareness and self-reflection. In their minds, it's somebody's or my fault. In any case, regret or not, I'm glad I pulled my energy back and am moving along. Thanks!
I survived so many injustice and spiritual killing
I was just talking to a good friend about all relationships. She told me she believes that these trying relationships are karmic ties from past lives. I claim now that I cut the spiritual cord and my debt is fulfilled in all relationships that no longer work for me. I'm running to my divine destiny.
Lord Jesus I seek you everyday please find me. Both of my sons have special needs and I struggle desperately trying my best to support them as a single mom. I put my children first, no matter how tired I am. Jesus continues to give me strength to keep going. Lord as I struggle to pay rent and as I struggle to buy groceries please grant me strength you have provided this far Lord and for that I am thankful so I know a blessing is on the way.
Thank You! I detached completely. He did not deserve all of this goodness. He was for the streets. He turned out to be a Narcissist. My blood pressure started to go up when I thought of how he was so cruel, mistreated me, lied, and portrayed me as everything he was. The Devil is a liar! I told him that he was an abuser, and he said, Ike abused Tina but he still loved her. I closed the door 🚪. Thanks for the encouragement.
Why are you all up in my business? This is on point with my life. Keep the contact coming. I love it.
What kind of angel are you. Feels like you just told my story. I walked away already, but sometimes she still pops up in my mind. Don't know how to shake that off. YET. I am confident that i will get there. Am a special Child of God.
Gracias a dios ❤
So true. I moved on. I have healed . I am much happier. Becoming my best version of myself.
I’ve had to walk away from MANY relationships/connections with certain people in my life and it wasn’t easy but it was one of best decision I’ve made for myself😌💯.
Setting boundaries & choosing what’s right has given me the strength I’ve always needed!!!
I'm DONEI Blocked all toxicity from my life. I'm at peace ❤😊. Thank you God for healing, protecting and guiding me ❤❤❤
They came for me on my bday this past week. Bringing up old things that Served them and not me. Kept calling me into the Old things I ignored every phone 🤳 call. I'm higher VIBRATING. Ain't got no time for Old. Everything NEW got my name on it. New relationships. New beginnings. NEW person I rebirth 🐦🔥. They watching via Facebook and mad 😡 where God taking me. You read ny of whole week with the goons watching me Win. Begging I answered.😢 They hurt me purposely. Playing games with my life, welfare and livelihood and future. My ENERGY been pulled back. They keep trying but failing to guilt trip me😂. Im not that vulnerable. THEY had no clue about what kinda Real power I possess. They fake I'm Real it wasn't destined too last.😂🎉
Amen self love self care the new journey I am on. Let go people let God.
Unfortunately, I have a child by this man. But I left and went forward
Me too, sis. Having to walk away from my marriage and fight for custody of my 6yo son...
Me too. I had to walk away for my sanity. Stay strong sisters❤
Me too. Stay encouraged
A lot of us in these streets! Sadly...
I did it 7 years ago ladies! & they still haven’t changed. Believe it, you’re making the best investment into yourself by releasing them ❤
This is definitely my story. I've moved on and didn't look back. And, they're still trying to get me back. But no, not here. I have to support my energy and wasted time. I'm doing much better in my life, filled with so much peace and joy.
@@bellalee6927
They tried to come to you???
You so 💯, I got tired of being tired of all the drama and control. It’s all about me now, and I pray they find themselves, but it won't be with me anymore, and I'm talking about many people, not one. You are right, Sis, I'm finished with foolishness. Thank you for the encouraging words. I love my peace 🙏🏾
I can so relate, the end of last year over the holidays I felt so drained from the same situations and I heard a voice in my head saying I'm sick and tired of being sick and tired and that was it for me...freedom
Let them fail and be understaffed all on their own since they know everything 😂😂😂
Right!!!!
Exactly👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
I just walked away. Im at peace now. Thanks
As soon as I let the last one go and any energy around wanting or needing family to accept me my whole self was able to create a new life I never imagined before I did that. God is showing me everything to do. They fed off me
This is me with my family I officially cut off & the other toxic people who held on…I have been sticking to my decision & it’s brought me a lot of peace. Now I’m focused on truly healing & letting God work in & on me…with no more distractions from toxic, narcissistic people.
I won’t betray myself🙌✨
Thank You
God Bless You
My fear was not being financially stable but I got rid of that fear and left that job.
Why should we get frustrated when we're already know rhe TRUTH.
Yes right on point. I turned away from family n friends that caused gossip n stress to me. I’m a caring person n can’t continue being manipulated n even people demanding time n money. I had enough. I prayed about it n I did it.❤👩
Thank you for this! It has been so hard to walk away but I know I deserve better.
Your right I really hated pulling back but God made it impossible for me not to pull back he is so amazing and he guides us amen
I detached and removed him from the pedestal, living separately and I only message him about our kids ....not chasing him anymore and I know and heard from someone that he misses me...now I'm giving love to myself...
Congratulations Sis.❤
How is the timing so perfect for this …. Thank you 🙏🏽
Hello now is 16:06 pm, I dont know if you are CHOSEN but I tell you everything you're saying is a message to me, you are not the only channel God is sending to me, this is excartly what am going through right now, All the people blocked are now creating new group to be with me but everytime my spirit becomes nervous and I feel pains in my heart, This means its not the right time, my isolation continua till God says OK, STORY SHORT This is my story, my life and my REALITY, God is real, he deliver his message through his CHOSEN ONES OR ANYBODY FROM NOWHERE, Thank you and GLORY BE TO GOD ALMIGHTY 🙏 🙏 ALLELUIA ALLELUIA, I WASN'T EXPECTING THIS ATALL, GOD IS WONDERFUL GOD IS GREAT ❤❤
WOW!!! THE ALMIGHTY GOD REALLY SPOKE THRU YOU ON THIS VIDEO. MAY HE CONTINUE TO SPEAK THRU YOU FOR THE HELP WE NEED TO LIVE AND THRIVE IN THIS THING CALL LIFE. YOU BE INSPIRED AS WELL!!!. THANK YOU SOOOO MUCH MY SISTER. 😘 💖 💓 ❤️ 💛 😊
Thank you for this because I have had a hard 2 months - Grrrrrrlllllll crying nights and listening to motivational- spiritual- religious- you name it- just to ( get over ) my situation which I did not know that it was going to lead me - to walking 7 miles a day- and losing weight - losing 20 + lbs. I love ❤️ that you hit the nail on the head- when we remove our energy we take the power back. As hard as it is because now the hopes and dreams are gone / dead but I know longer am in limbo and that’s freedom- God bless you- for speaking to us that needed to hear this- Preach 🙌👏☝️
Going through this exactly. It's hard. The sleepless nights and anxiety everytime my phone blips, it's excruciating.
I let go today and now I'm watching this video and this is such an Amazing confirmation and clarity for me.... thank you for sharing this. 🙌🏽🙏🏽🤗
This was very personal and couldn't have come at a better time,felt like confirmation from the universe and I claim it thank you 🙏🏽❤️
I almost cried Tears of joy then she quoted offset and I burst out laughing in agreement 😂❤
Thank you for confirming that I am moving in the right direction and energy. No more will I ever accept being taken for granted. Thank you 🙏. Jah is the Almighty.
Only thing they are going to do is just replace you with someone else
It’s the accuracy for me!!!! So blessed I moved forward and answered the call when God told me to GO!
That's exactly how it happened for me, GOD lead me away from them , and I will never look back
Jesus this is a mighty word that I didn't know I needed it. I left my own house because of an abuser spouse mentally physically verbally and spiritually. Thank you for this video, you just earned a new subscriber❤
Sad thing is those people will say we didn’t do enough
" Thank you Nicole.."I'm Moving Forward!!"❤❤❤ I'm NEW & DIFFERENT!!!🧐😀
Nicole you have read my life an exact! I had put my energy in a woman who took me for granted and thought she was better than me and she moved on with someone else and her life did not go as she planned; she tried to comeback to use my energy and I stopped all communication. God has blessed me with a good life. She lost her place in my life and I am moving on with somebody else and I'm happy.
MY GOD MY GOD!
when he broke those chains ⛓️ from that person,IT WAS PRICELESS! i literally have only $70 in my bank account & if someone asked me to go back to that emotional,mental & spiritual HELL 🔥 💔 I was in for 500 mill dollars,ID NEVER!
ID RATHER BE HOMELESS THEN GO BACK TO THAT! when God delivers you from somewhere or somebody & you realize what freedom is,TRUE FREEDOM,there’s nothing like it! AMEN 🙏🏿
HALLELUJAH!!
Lord I know you have a purpose for me. Even though at times I do not understand. I have complete trust in you. Heavenly Father. Being a single mom with two children with special needs is overwhelming at times. Every month is a struggle to get by. But as I struggle to pay rent and as I struggle to buy groceries for my children. I keep faith. Faith is all I have left. I WILL NEVER STOP TRUSTING THE LORD. God give me strength.💕❤️❤
You are 💯% ON POINT 👌🏿🙋🏿♀️👏🏿 I HAD TO LET SO MANY PEOPLE GO 🚶🏿♀️ AND DETACH MY ENERGY FROM THEM, I WISH THEM THE BEST 👍🏿 I TOOK MY BAG 🎒 AND FLIPPED IT AND TUMBLED IT 😂😂😂 I'M RESERVING MY ENERGY FOR POSITIVE SOULS ONLY ✨️ 🙋🏿♀️
All I can say is thank you. Felt like you were talking directly to me. I am learning to listen to my God. He speaks to me directly and through people like you. God bless you and may your channel be successful always
I want to see this woman win
This was sound advice 💯
God literally had to have placed this much needed message on my “new to you” content! This is literally my current situation and I was questioning my decision/intuition. I’m so grateful for the confirmation! Follower gained!!!
Wat I did is talk to God and I made it thru 🔥
Young lady I don’t know you but sweetness you are all in my business. I will be praying for you and the love you are spreading to those of us that had to WALK AWAY. You can only hope that as people get older they would know better but they get worse and that’s really really said.
Bless you love
We as WINNERS 🏆 well keep on winning and THE. LOOSERS will never WIN.BUT. keeping ON. LOOSING.
Going to save this and listen to it every time I need to be reminded how horrible my adult children treat me. I am ltoast. Even though I miss my sweet innocent grandsons terribly the abuse is so terrible I don’t want them to think it’s ok to treat me this way too when they grow up. Enough is more than enough!
Leaving was the hardest thing I have ever done and the best decision I have made for myself.
Found your channel last night and listened to this video before I went to sleep. I slept through the night for the first time in months after spending so many nights, month after month, ruminating on why they did what they did. Thank you!
I not forcing anything in my relationship 😢facts I’m done ✅ fr fr🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🙏!!!!!!