I'm approaching the 8 year mark of the day I walked away from my Narc family. My only regret is not doing it 35 years sooner! I would have been more than justified had I done so! I finally accepted the TRUTH; not only did they not love me, they truly HATED me! That was a bitter pill to swallow; heartbreaking!!! But it is the hard truth. I have accepted it. I do forgive, but I will NEVER forget. Nor will I ever allow those toxic people back into my life. Never again!!! I'm done!
Im done being everything to everybody im now sick cause im super nice and one is helping me illness made me realise i have to step back cos takers only take. Im taking my power back i nearly died because of over giving
How did you know all this about me I took her off that pedestal I take my power back baby you are telling the truth😊 God bless you all praises to the most high lady I love you thank you my sister
They want to make you chase for their love. I mean everyone! Mine was insecurity but youre right sweetie i got my big Mama pants on and owning my own life, some people believe you dont deserve your own space. That want evry bit of your time your mind and your whole damn soul! They want to dictate your life as if youre ignorant and i was to a certain extent bcuz i kept dealing with them for entirely too long. I shouldve been went ghost on their @$$! Thanks for your inspiration sweetie, im 63 yrs old and your deliverance is so powerful!
She definitely didn't see it coming, after 20 years of marriage she thought she had me wrapped around her finger. She was lying and cheating throughout the relationship and she thought she could monkey branch to another man and divorce me but she could come back whenever she wanted. Well once I moved 8 months ago I immediately went no contact. She Hoovers and calls constantly but I respond to nothing, she disgust me now and I wonder what I ever saw in her, I'm done, done.
You definitely didn’t deserve anything of that…and now I guarantee she is living in regret wishing she treated you better. You dodged a bullet and a better woman is waiting for you 💯💪🏾
It’s a brand new day . A brand new me . I’m walking in the authority that God has given me . By faith I am the head and not the tail . I’m blessed coming in and going out . I am the heir of God a chosen holy vessel to be used for Gods glory .. I’m believing on the promises of God . I decree peace harmony an abundance of love joy happiness in my life and my families life . If God be for me who can be against me . I can do All things through Christ who strengthens me . Thank you lord for grace mercy and favor . Thank you for your angels whom you have dispersed all around me . I love you lord because you first loved me . Victory is mine today .🙏
My Mom passed away last month. My sister handled the funeral and the animosity in the room towards me was uncalled for. I have not spoken to her since the funeral. This has been a two year ordeal. I am finished and I am DONE. Thank you for this confirmation.
Moved on from a 30 year friendship..., and Narcissistic Husband all at the same time, BEST decision I ever made...and you start to see unhealthy boundaries, and moved accordingly and I am quick to move on, from a person, place or thing...MY PEACE 🕊️ is EVERYTHING. Learn to move in silence 🎯 Thank you, JESUS 🙏🏽🙌🏽❤️.
So crazy literally woke up from the previous day of praying back-to-back for God to show me my next step, broken heart from not the loss of just a relationship but above all of friendship of someone who I thought would always be my best friend and I no longer want any of it I forgot who I was and I never want to lose myself again because it was a terrible feeling....
You made my cry... you have touched my soul. I felt good vibrations resonate in my soul. Tears of JOY... i needed this SO much. Been a month since i left the last toxic narcissist who wore my armor... took it to the world... i called her when i was low just to see if she blocked me... she answered i hung up she called back... i had to see but i know she knows she messed up. That was my closure
I had tried to leave so many times but I had invested so much of myself in her like I always do... and I told her I didn't feel like a priority to her. She literally told me don't be with a girl like me repeatedly I left the next day. Then the truth came out and the mask came off
I did come back because I believed and had hope but I was dealing with a narcissist and got caught up in the love bombing .... Created a pattern and now they don't believe me. I'm done. Thank you for saying that about not caring what people think. At the end of the day it doesn't matter because they were not in it behind closed doors, I was!
💯 my my my…… THIS message hit the nail on the head 100 percent!!!! God told me to go ZERO CONTACT and left and it was like a SHOCK to the person after over a thousand warnings (not threats) just warnings. But even after the one thousand warnings they were so SHOCKED when I left and left and went ZERO CONTACT.
I’m at the breaking point, putting other people first, allowing people to disrespect my boundaries, people being convinced I have to tolerate their crap because they are family or need a man!! Exhausted with this life. Time for me to grow up!!
Nicole , this word right here hit me way down deep. I love me and the energy I’m putting out, is unmatched. I welcome different and new. It’s all about me!!! ❤Thank you for such a powerful and timely word!!! ❤
Yes you are right I’m done with the past have a new love been over for a year the traitor had been blocked and is staying blocked thank you for your information and advice love myself and my new love very happy with a wonderful good honest man
I love your messages, I been put down soo much all my life. I need to hear this and I am listening to you as much as I can. ❤ So I can get this through my head. ❤
Not going back yo my Narc ex because I stopped loving him. Theres no need to go back now. Im not that pathetic women in love anymore. He thaught I'd never leave.
Yes to the no contact it’s only business only due to the business and the home we own together (wip to sell) move on So the situation is still fresh but I’m setting the boundaries. But I’m DONE every day is a new day for me to better. Yes it does work the no contact.
I was bullied so much from the 4th of July 2024 for doing a great job and i resigned , blocked their emails, i blocked all their phone numbers whilst i was still at the job . No more narcissists in my life .I matter i am proud of myself.🙏👍😁🎉🎉
Amen, Amen and Amen! This is one of the most powerful messages I’ve heard in a long time. Thank you so much for making/sharing this video…Truly a blessing❤
This is my story, I prayed for confirmation & woke up to this. Been years years years of “ IM DONE” I know in my ❤ spirit & soul my actions are very vital in this season. Everything you said is 💯 STRAIGHT TRUTH!! Thank You 🙏🏾
Amen my sister, I am so done with the abuse and bullying from some of my church family , they stopped for a while , however, they recently just started up again. I am going to ask the Holy Spirit to lead me to go to another church I am a member of an a predominantly all black congregation, I have no problem with that because I have never in my entire life been prejudice , however, I think some of these people have a problem with me being there. What is it with these people? I believe that the devil is using them to get to me
There's a quote I found in the Four Agreements that says You can't break a habit with less power than you had when starting that habit Immediately I read that I started building up my power and it's what has brought me to this point of no return. It's just incredible
Been watching your videos now. Baby when I tell you I win. I’m so done for over 20 plus years I broke that patten of make up to break up. He is so mad and pissed . I don’t respond to his text messages and calls. Now he’s watching me on my platforms. I’m done ✅ my actions are speaking. ❤thank you
By my actions if I'm feeling that I'm being treated in a negative routine then I change the routine from negativity to positivity because usually if someone is treating you in negative it's a self reflection of how they feel about themselves AMEN 🙏❤
@@Nicoleinspired ❤🙏 Most of them time I like to play dumb so people's expectations of me are lower I guess I should went for a CEO or CFO job when I was younger 🤷♂️🤣
Sometimes we use words but it's actually empty threats. I've realised that SILENCE & ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS. IT'S MIRE IMPACTFUL. DON'T SAY YOU GONNA LEAVE, JUST PACK UP & MOVE QUIETLY.
No more disrespecting myself for anyone 💯
This 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Ever!
Yes same here this is SOLID!!
That's it!!
You can 5 that again, sis!!💯💯
IM DONE! No more disrespect. I know my WORTH!!!! MY SILENCE TELLS ALL...
Please say that again, sis!!💯
They didn’t see it coming. But you made up your mind💯💪🏾
Yes yes yes they did not believe me but l am done they did not want to leave work but treated me like trash now they see my value
They just didn't know how strong a woman I was an was chosen from God never again but now the tables have turn 💯
You are on point this is 💯 on point.
OUR ENEMIES LOST THEIR POWER.
LET NO MAN PUT A YOKE ON YOU AGAIN
"NEVER AGAIN"
NO MORE PAST RELATIONSHIPS
THE ONLY GAME YOU WILL BE PLAYING WITH OTHERS IS HOW TO BECOME MILLIONAIRE!!! 🔥💪🏽🙏🏾 💰
Amennnnnnnnnn!
Amen 🙌
Yesoooooo
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I'm approaching the 8 year mark of the day I walked away from my Narc family.
My only regret is not doing it 35 years sooner! I would have been more than justified had I done so!
I finally accepted the TRUTH; not only did they not love me, they truly HATED me! That was a bitter pill to swallow; heartbreaking!!! But it is the hard truth. I have accepted it.
I do forgive, but I will NEVER forget. Nor will I ever allow those toxic people back into my life. Never again!!! I'm done!
Ditto! Word for word!
My family. I'm done. They feel it. They keep trying to hoover me with nonsense.
CAN'T NOTHING BRING ME DOWN...
So true! I will never accept disrespect from anyone!❤
Exactly i decided to take my life into a different direction. i did not say a word this time around i walked away and iam not looking back !
DO NOT BE UNEQUALLY YOKED
2 CORINTHIANS 6:14
We are nobody's backup plans...
I left and I’m keeping that promise. I’m not going back. I am really really super done with that marriage.
Im done being everything to everybody im now sick cause im super nice and one is helping me illness made me realise i have to step back cos takers only take. Im taking my power back i nearly died because of over giving
I’m showing him better than I can tell him now!
YEAH THIS TIME I WASN'T PLAYING.. THEY THOUGHT I WAS PLAYING SISTER.. I LOVE YOU❤
I love you more ❤️💪🏾
How did you know all this about me I took her off that pedestal I take my power back baby you are telling the truth😊 God bless you all praises to the most high lady I love you thank you my sister
You are very wise to be so young. I have appreciation and respect for you.
Thank you 😊 🙏🏾 you are blessed
They want to make you chase for their love. I mean everyone! Mine was insecurity but youre right sweetie i got my big Mama pants on and owning my own life, some people believe you dont deserve your own space. That want evry bit of your time your mind and your whole damn soul! They want to dictate your life as if youre ignorant and i was to a certain extent bcuz i kept dealing with them for entirely too long. I shouldve been went ghost on their @$$!
Thanks for your inspiration sweetie, im 63 yrs old and your deliverance is so powerful!
You are a strong person! Everyone and everything great is coming your way because you are blessed
BREAKING Fear & Rejection FOREVER!
🔷️PSALM 116:16
🔷️PSALM 129:4
She definitely didn't see it coming, after 20 years of marriage she thought she had me wrapped around her finger. She was lying and cheating throughout the relationship and she thought she could monkey branch to another man and divorce me but she could come back whenever she wanted. Well once I moved 8 months ago I immediately went no contact. She Hoovers and calls constantly but I respond to nothing, she disgust me now and I wonder what I ever saw in her, I'm done, done.
You definitely didn’t deserve anything of that…and now I guarantee she is living in regret wishing she treated you better. You dodged a bullet and a better woman is waiting for you 💯💪🏾
Do you have kids? I’m in the same situation but my kids are making it hard.
@@gina86I raised her two daughters, thank God we have no children together.
@@Nicoleinspiredthank you I receive that.
I've been in no contact for seven months; now, I have the rest of my life to go. I'm over him and I’ll never let him back.
They are the clown for thinking I didn't mean what I said. 🤡 I say what I mean & mean what I say! Go find another victim!
This time im done done done!!!
You said a word with this one- they never thought!!
It’s a brand new day . A brand new me . I’m walking in the authority that God has given me . By faith I am the head and not the tail . I’m blessed coming in and going out . I am the heir of God a chosen holy vessel to be used for Gods glory .. I’m believing on the promises of God . I decree peace harmony an abundance of love joy happiness in my life and my families life . If God be for me who can be against me . I can do All things through Christ who strengthens me . Thank you lord for grace mercy and favor . Thank you for your angels whom you have dispersed all around me . I love you lord because you first loved me . Victory is mine today .🙏
Yaaaaaaaassssss to all of this!!!!
So done....i feel it in my heart this time.. don't even want a friendship...leave them to the people they chose..
I never ever went back to a situation EVEERRR. Always done done. If they don't believe , that's not my problem.
Done!
Truly, I did...try and showed her love in Jesus' name. there is no other
SPEAK SIS !! I NEEDED THIS WORD !!!!
It's as if you are talking about me directly. Thanks for the encouragements.
This is scary for her to know exactly what I’ve been through and what else I’m on now Speak Lawd! Your servant hears💯🔥
Thank you so much Nicole for this message. You are definitely talking to me
BREAK THE SPELL THEY HAVE OVER YOU
THE LORD HAS DELIVERED US FROM THE DOMAIN OF DARKNESS
I'm done never again
My Mom passed away last month. My sister handled the funeral and the animosity in the room towards me was uncalled for. I have not spoken to her since the funeral. This has been a two year ordeal. I am finished and I am DONE. Thank you for this confirmation.
You be speaking to me!
Good morning everybody...
She speaks the truth every time..
Moved on from a 30 year friendship..., and Narcissistic Husband all at the same time, BEST decision I ever made...and you start to see unhealthy boundaries, and moved accordingly and I am quick to move on, from a person, place or thing...MY PEACE 🕊️ is EVERYTHING. Learn to move in silence 🎯 Thank you, JESUS 🙏🏽🙌🏽❤️.
Wao, likewise myself honestly peace is everything that matters
So crazy literally woke up from the previous day of praying back-to-back for God to show me my next step, broken heart from not the loss of just a relationship but above all of friendship of someone who I thought would always be my best friend and I no longer want any of it I forgot who I was and I never want to lose myself again because it was a terrible feeling....
Juss meeting you recently family & keep UP the great assignments. 🐘
You made my cry... you have touched my soul. I felt good vibrations resonate in my soul. Tears of JOY... i needed this SO much. Been a month since i left the last toxic narcissist who wore my armor... took it to the world... i called her when i was low just to see if she blocked me... she answered i hung up she called back... i had to see but i know she knows she messed up. That was my closure
I had tried to leave so many times but I had invested so much of myself in her like I always do... and I told her I didn't feel like a priority to her. She literally told me don't be with a girl like me repeatedly I left the next day. Then the truth came out and the mask came off
I’m so happy you’re out of that situation ❤️🙏🏾
ANYWHERE THEY HAVE TIED YOU DOWN, l COMMAND THOSE CHAINS TO BE BROKEN NOW IN THE NAME OF JESUS CHRIST.
I did come back because I believed and had hope but I was dealing with a narcissist and got caught up in the love bombing .... Created a pattern and now they don't believe me. I'm done.
Thank you for saying that about not caring what people think. At the end of the day it doesn't matter because they were not in it behind closed doors, I was!
I am done taking my energy back thanks for this word love you so true done done done
I’m the main character in my life; I can’t and won’t do it anymore. Enjoying this peace ❤
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💯 my my my…… THIS message hit the nail on the head 100 percent!!!! God told me to go ZERO CONTACT and left and it was like a SHOCK to the person after over a thousand warnings (not threats) just warnings. But even after the one thousand warnings they were so SHOCKED when I left and left and went ZERO CONTACT.
💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾
Thank you ! I so needed to hear this.
I'm saving so I can replay to help jump start my healing .
Hey Nicole 😊 keep up the good work
Hey! I appreciate you! Thank you! Enjoy your day!
keep up the good work nicole may god bless you and many more!!!!!!
Thank you so much!! You are blessed
Yes, now I won’t go back because I don’t have any desire to try.
THIS IS FOR ME FOR SURE ❤AMEN AND AMEN AND ANOTHER AMEN
I’m at the breaking point, putting other people first, allowing people to disrespect my boundaries, people being convinced I have to tolerate their crap because they are family or need a man!! Exhausted with this life. Time for me to grow up!!
I'm done with everyone. I have God and my small family. I'm happy and at peace. ❤❤❤
AMEN AMEN AND AMEN thank you I’m right at this point
I connect my self in prophet s words 🙏🏻🙏🏻
🙏🙏🙏🙏💖💖
BUT THEY NEVER COULD KEEP ME DOWN
Best decision I made to walk away 🎉
Nicole , this word right here hit me way down deep. I love me and the energy I’m putting out, is unmatched. I welcome different and new. It’s all about me!!! ❤Thank you for such a powerful and timely word!!! ❤
It’s been 3 months 🎉👏🏽 so proud of myself
Yes you are right I’m done with the past have a new love been over for a year the traitor had been blocked and is staying blocked thank you for your information and advice love myself and my new love very happy with a wonderful good honest man
OMG, this is like you were talking to me. A message from God to me.
Yes ma'am, I told him I was done & I didn't look or go back.
Remember Lot's Wife....
SPOT ON! You are on point!!!!
Thank you!
I love your messages, I been put down soo much all my life. I need to hear this and I am listening to you as much as I can. ❤ So I can get this through my head. ❤
Not going back yo my Narc ex because I stopped loving him. Theres no need to go back now. Im not that pathetic women in love anymore. He thaught I'd never leave.
Yes to the no contact it’s only business only due to the business and the home we own together (wip to sell) move on
So the situation is still fresh but I’m setting the boundaries.
But I’m DONE every day is a new day for me to better. Yes it does work the no contact.
I was bullied so much from the 4th of July 2024 for doing a great job and i resigned , blocked their emails, i blocked all their phone numbers whilst i was still at the job . No more narcissists in my life .I matter i am proud of myself.🙏👍😁🎉🎉
Amen, Amen and Amen! This is one of the most powerful messages I’ve heard in a long time. Thank you so much for making/sharing this video…Truly a blessing❤
Awww thank you 😊. You are a beautiful blessing ❤️🙌🏾
His not believing is not my problem! My mighty Jehovah God gave me the wherewithal to leave. Quietly. Sweet peace ever since!!
THE PAST IS GONE❗️
IM DONE,IVE DONE EVERYTHING FOR HIM,BUT HE THOUGHT I WAS WEAK OR DUM..I LEFT N HE COULDNT BLV IT
thank you Nicole, you are incredible, we appreciate your knowledge and perfect timing. With love and gratitude, the Cortes Familia
🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
Awwwww thank you! You and your family are blessed
I never give up.....
Mmm Mmm Mmm! Yes, This hit me today.. Thank you sis!❤🙏
Thank you for beautiful message, God bless you Sister.
God bless you❤️❤️❤️
FACTS 💯‼️ Life is better when you get rid of toxic people ✌🏾, Thanks for Sharing ❤️
This is my story, I prayed for confirmation & woke up to this. Been years years years of
“ IM DONE” I know in my ❤ spirit & soul my actions are very vital in this season. Everything you said is 💯 STRAIGHT TRUTH!!
Thank You 🙏🏾
No more letting me down for other's LORD 🙏 Thank you God bless you Lord Jesus Christ Almighty God Amen
Wow You’re right on point, that’s definitely me ☺️🙌🏼❤️
Thank you so much for this message I needed that 🙏🏾
MY CHOSEN ONES WILL HAVE SATISFACTION IN THEIR WORK.
Yes this time, I am so done with him. He did me so wrong.
Amen my sister, I am so done with the abuse and bullying from some of my church family , they stopped for a while , however, they recently just started up again. I am going to ask the Holy Spirit to lead me to go to another church I am a member of an a predominantly all black congregation, I have no problem with that because I have never in my entire life been prejudice , however, I think some of these people have a problem with me being there. What is it with these people? I believe that the devil is using them to get to me
Always know that you are protected, no matter what someone tries to do to you ❤️
No I’m about to tell this community what they didn’t know soon! What I see saw and shall pass 🙏
WHEN l COMMAND YOUR RELEASE NO PLACE WILL BE ABLE TO HOLD YOU.
There's a quote I found in the Four Agreements that says
You can't break a habit with less power than you had when starting that habit
Immediately I read that I started building up my power and it's what has brought me to this point of no return.
It's just incredible
I absolutely love that quote. I read the Four Agreements some years ago. I need to read it again. I love your energy 🙌🏾💪🏾🏆
@@Nicoleinspired 🙂😘
GET RID OF EXPLOITATION IN THE WORKPLACE.
Thank you so uplifting and inspiring
Been watching your videos now. Baby when I tell you I win. I’m so done for over 20 plus years I broke that patten of make up to break up. He is so mad and pissed . I don’t respond to his text messages and calls. Now he’s watching me on my platforms. I’m done ✅ my actions are speaking. ❤thank you
S0 true all of it honestly ❤
By my actions if I'm feeling that I'm being treated in a negative routine then I change the routine from negativity to positivity because usually if someone is treating you in negative it's a self reflection of how they feel about themselves AMEN 🙏❤
You’re wise beyond your years 💯☀️✨🫵🏾🤴🏾
@@Nicoleinspired ❤🙏 Most of them time I like to play dumb so people's expectations of me are lower I guess I should went for a CEO or CFO job when I was younger 🤷♂️🤣
I love her but she is a narcissist and l can never trust her you are so so right
I'm done🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 never to look back
🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾❤️❤️❤️
Sometimes we use words but it's actually empty threats. I've realised that SILENCE & ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS. IT'S MIRE IMPACTFUL. DON'T SAY YOU GONNA LEAVE, JUST PACK UP & MOVE QUIETLY.
Facts!