Amen! Did that 3 years ago with so-called friends and am blessed. I had it up to here with their mess, disregarding my feelings and gaslighting me; thus, it was time to go. No explanation needed, changed my number, blocked them, and deleted all of my social media, and they can not get in touch with me nor find me. I thank GOD because I never needed them and I don't need that crap in my life. ❤❤❤
Hello how are you doing beautiful I can tell you have a good spirit keep shining are you married and I'm glad you let those things and people go how are you feeling now
I loved the ex Narc husband of 18 yrs so much.. I didnt realize how he looked at me with such hate.. the controlled chaos and abuse is meant to throw us off our peace so we don't see the truth. We are so valuable.. but they trick us
I can relate, my ex wife is a demon possessed narcissist. I was with her for 20 years until 2023, she used to look at me with hatred as well. She would even orally say that she hated me. It's been 10 months now since I left her and I can admit that the peace I have without her is amazing.
I’ve only given all my energy, time and everything into one relationship. I’m not doing that ever again at least not for just anybody. They got to earn that ish. This is why I don’t get attached to people as quickly as I used to, I just watched them first to see what type of person that they are, and as soon as I see a red flag, I tell them to kick rocks, because I have zero tolerancenow for peoples BS. My happiness comes first everything else comes second. I am so used to putting myself first now that if I start dating someone the simplest thing that they do that irritates me. I completely ghost them because they’re grown adults. They know what they’re doing. I wasted enough time on one guy when I was a bit naïve. I’m not making that mistake again. I don’t ever try to fix anybody, I don’t have that kind of energy or time to waste. If they have issues that I can’t handle they can’t be my life. Go heal before you step to me. Come correct or be prepared to be ghosted 👻
They use him to deflect from them (the church) and their codependents. It's true about that fine line between love and hate, I had to go. Keeping my distance, protecting my peace, personal and spiritual growth GOD is showing me, what they do, I don't do, and who they are, I pray/show not to be, it's a quickening at times, and the Lord lets me know when I'm slippin and trippin. TO GOD BE THE GLORY. 💚
Nicole, this message hit home for me and I refused to be controlled and talked down to, just to keep a relationship. God has a great MOG for me and I know my value and my worth. Teach people with my actions. No thank you, I’ll wait. ❤
"If there was something common about you they wouldn't be trying to come back into your life". THIS LADY IS STRAIGHT PREACHING!!!! I silently cut off a 6 yr relationship a month and a half ago. The ex just keeps trying to contact me every day. Says he's going to call my mom. Oh Lord, so funny 😅😂. I'm way way too old for that.
Oooh, the look on your face changed to "So Gangsta" when you replied "Ok, that's fine", to the ex's coming back saying "well if you would have done this we'd still be together". 😳 Like, "No Fux" given over here. 😂😂😂 And you clasped your hands together, like "Dr. Evil from Austin Powers" when you said it. Ahhh, hahaha. Nicole, I hope I don't offend you. It's just I can tell you're a sweetheart and it took you a long time to get to that point. ♥️♥️♥️ I love it, though. 💪💪💪
Exactly, no need to explain yourself when cutting off toxic people, especially if they clearly know what they did wrong. If they ever confront you & ask you why you cut them off, you can even say, “I think you know why.”😀
Wow going through this process now cut someone off silently and started focusing on myself The words you spoke are so true because I am walking through everything you spoke on in this season now I appreciate your words of encouragement and your content
Hey ! I súper like and enjoy your Videos, it awakens me makes me strong for the battle iam fighting daily within ❤️ Thank you for your Wisdom and Knowlwdge 😊 From México Peace to ALL of YOU !!!!!
Amen! Thank you so much for your kind words. I really appreciate you and whatever battles you are facing, know that you’re coming out of them better and stronger ❤️
This is confirmation that i did the right thing. In perfect silence.
Amen u an me both 💯
Been ✂️✂️✂️✂️✂️✂️✂️ one sided friendships and entitled family members.
Yes, I clearly understand!
Same bro, hope youre doing well
“It’s the hardest, EASIEST thing you’ll ever do.” This was a great video. Thank you for sharing. 💛
Awww thank you! 😊
Unfortunately , I have had to walk away Silently from people I didn't want to !
I did the same too last week!!! Left in silence
I walked away from everyone including family. Sure its now hitting some of them but they know what they did and there is no explanation needed.
Exactly!:
Amen! Did that 3 years ago with so-called friends and am blessed. I had it up to here with their mess, disregarding my feelings and gaslighting me; thus, it was time to go. No explanation needed, changed my number, blocked them, and deleted all of my social media, and they can not get in touch with me nor find me. I thank GOD because I never needed them and I don't need that crap in my life. ❤❤❤
Hello how are you doing beautiful I can tell you have a good spirit keep shining are you married and I'm glad you let those things and people go how are you feeling now
I TOTALLY AGREE...!
I loved the ex Narc husband of 18 yrs so much.. I didnt realize how he looked at me with such hate.. the controlled chaos and abuse is meant to throw us off our peace so we don't see the truth. We are so valuable.. but they trick us
I can relate, my ex wife is a demon possessed narcissist. I was with her for 20 years until 2023, she used to look at me with hatred as well. She would even orally say that she hated me. It's been 10 months now since I left her and I can admit that the peace I have without her is amazing.
God is watching us wasting time
Say that my sister my cut off game is cold blooded.❤❤❤
MANY TIMES....!!
You are strong 💪🏾. And you’re making the right choices and decisions.
Thank You Sis! We appreciate you on here 🩷
Amen don't go back go forward hallelujah 👍😊🙏
I feel so good since I walk away from drama got a piece of mind now thank you lord
Yup !😊
I’ve only given all my energy, time and everything into one relationship. I’m not doing that ever again at least not for just anybody. They got to earn that ish. This is why I don’t get attached to people as quickly as I used to, I just watched them first to see what type of person that they are, and as soon as I see a red flag, I tell them to kick rocks, because I have zero tolerancenow for peoples BS. My happiness comes first everything else comes second. I am so used to putting myself first now that if I start dating someone the simplest thing that they do that irritates me. I completely ghost them because they’re grown adults. They know what they’re doing. I wasted enough time on one guy when I was a bit naïve. I’m not making that mistake again. I don’t ever try to fix anybody, I don’t have that kind of energy or time to waste. If they have issues that I can’t handle they can’t be my life. Go heal before you step to me. Come correct or be prepared to be ghosted 👻
I hear you, sis! Sounds like you know what you want and your goal is to date with intention!
Facts they gone have to be healed to come anywhere near my life.
So true … pull my energy back an it felt good to move peaceful and quiet 👍🏾
They use him to deflect from them (the church) and their codependents.
It's true about that fine line between love and hate, I had to go.
Keeping my distance, protecting my peace, personal and spiritual growth
GOD is showing me, what they do, I don't do, and who they are, I pray/show not to be,
it's a quickening at times, and the Lord lets me know when I'm slippin and trippin.
TO GOD BE THE GLORY. 💚
Hallelujah hallelujah hallelujah hallelujah hallelujah hallelujah hallelujah hallelujah is the highest praise 3 hallelujah
OKAY....!!
Hey Nicole ! You talking about what I just went through. I Don't Owe Nobody No Explanation ! I left him after goin through Enough with him
I’m so emotional 😢❤😮
Amen Sista❤❤❤ This is such a truthful message. I hope people really get this message, ENOUGH is ENOUGH 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ amen 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 JESUS CHRIST OF NAZARETH
We love u chosen ones
Nicole❤ 2024
Thank you! GOD Bless you. Be encouraged.
THANK YOU ❤❤❤
We've been in marriage counseling for the last month, and I had to let it go. HALLELUJAH YHWH THANK YOUS FOR STRENGTH 💪🏾
Amen! I am praying for you!
I love your insight. I know better, I just have to do better and doing is the hard part 😢 I love when you said "NO! Is the complete sentence. " ❤
Man this video is the 100% TRUTH, I blocked a person today, I pray they get the message 🤦🏻♀️
Nicole, this message hit home for me and I refused to be controlled and talked down to, just to keep a relationship. God has a great MOG for me and I know my value and my worth. Teach people with my actions. No thank you, I’ll wait. ❤
You are spot on! Thank you for those words. 🙌🏾✨
Amen powerful message ❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉
YOU KNOW ME.....
Thank you for this teaching I really needed to hear this 😔🙌💯
❤️😘. Everything is working out for you
Amen ❤🙏🫶
"If there was something common about you they wouldn't be trying to come back into your life". THIS LADY IS STRAIGHT PREACHING!!!! I silently cut off a 6 yr relationship a month and a half ago. The ex just keeps trying to contact me every day. Says he's going to call my mom. Oh Lord, so funny 😅😂. I'm way way too old for that.
I love your energy. You’re a blessing. He lost the best thing he ever had.
Lady Thank you Bless you
Thank you for this. I am ready to move on.
Oooh, the look on your face changed to "So Gangsta" when you replied "Ok, that's fine", to the ex's coming back saying "well if you would have done this we'd still be together". 😳 Like, "No Fux" given over here. 😂😂😂
And you clasped your hands together, like "Dr. Evil from Austin Powers" when you said it. Ahhh, hahaha.
Nicole, I hope I don't offend you. It's just I can tell you're a sweetheart and it took you a long time to get to that point. ♥️♥️♥️
I love it, though. 💪💪💪
Thank you! I appreciate your kind words. I’ve been a pushover like my entire life. So just now finding my voice at 42! 😀 It’s never too late!
Watching from Toronto Canada, thank you Queen, you're beautiful🙂❤
Awwww thank you!😊
I Appreciate your Honesty 💎💎💎💎💎
And I appreciate you 🙌🏾💯🤴🏾🫵🏾
I agree with everything u said. I don’t explain anything once it’s time to leave
We are on the same page in the same book. Thank you. Well said.
Truth
Sooo true ! Thanks for this great message ! Gave so many opportunities and got tired of the repeated cycles til I decided to block him
Amen 🙌🏽💯
Thank you. I REALLY needed to hear this today ❤
Exactly, no need to explain yourself when cutting off toxic people, especially if they clearly know what they did wrong. If they ever confront you & ask you why you cut them off, you can even say, “I think you know why.”😀
think u sis Love ufamily Iknow that now❤❤❤❤❤❤
Wow going through this process now cut someone off silently and started focusing on myself The words you spoke are so true because I am walking through everything you spoke on in this season now I appreciate your words of encouragement and your content
Awww thank you 🙏🏾 that means a lot to me
Thank you for this 🙌 God bless you🙏🏾
God bless you!
Very insightful
I have been watching videos for a while . you're so on point. God bless ❤
God bless you!✨✨✨✨
This message was for me. Keep inspiring, sunshine 🌞 you’re a life strategist.
Hey ! I súper like and enjoy your Videos, it awakens me makes me strong for the battle iam fighting daily within ❤️ Thank you for your Wisdom and Knowlwdge 😊 From México Peace to ALL of YOU !!!!!
Amen! Thank you so much for your kind words. I really appreciate you and whatever battles you are facing, know that you’re coming out of them better and stronger ❤️
You are amazing ! Thank you 🥹🫶
Amen Amen Amen.❤ God bless this channel.
Amen my sister ( AMEN)
Wow!!!!!!
Damn you are beautiful!!!!! 😍😍😍😍😍😍
Speak Queen..I Moved In Total Silence And It Is So Refreshing..
I really needed to hear this message. Thank you for sharing. New subscriber. 🙏🏾 👑
Thank you so much for this conformation.
I appreciate you ❤️
Thank you so much for the wonderful message, it is confirmation for me
Awwww thank you 😊 🙏🏾
Come on mama tell them 💯
I choose to stay walk away silently, I owe myself no siblings no parents. Not only actions believe there words as well.
Absolutely!
At the GRAND AGE of 46 I will be on the phone and let it hang up, and never speak to a person again in life
I don’t play with my time.
Your time is precious!
It will come to me
Fact😊❤
Words of wisdom sister.
Yes ma’am
To. Many. Babe ❤❤❤❤❤
I needed to hear this. This is confirmation!
I love your video essays just what I needed keep it up “black girl magic”
For the love of the Universe, get these people out of my life.
Thnk you so much!❤
Keep it up, love from portugal 🇵🇹🇵🇹🇵🇹👍🙏
Thank you!
Amen!
Amen❤
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Mm mm mh
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That's what u asked for
Thank you sister 😘
Yes! 🙌🏾
Very inspiring
Preach!!!!!
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤⚘I now you x
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This my 1st video no disrespect U CAN MAKE ME MAD😂😂😂😂😂 but i get yo point tho
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@@Nicoleinspired just a thought and I'm done don't know any sis on their level it a vancancy
Thank you
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so true
Thank you for sharing you have been a blessing to me the last month everything on your channel has worked including what you said today Doc
Thank you for your kind words ❤️. You are blessed.
BINGO🎯🎯🎯
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No sometimes respond stupid people the line
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