Talking about men traditionally used to worship the ground women walked on😂 women traditionally were virgins and submissive. Which man today is gonna worship some used up broad😂
Iqra is willing to ditch her religion and dignity for the sake of marrying a rich man.... how could a rich guy see this video and still decide to pick her??
And the fact that there are million of badder woman than her which million is looking for her out of all these females not even a knock on her she calm looking but a millionaire can easily get the baddest woman he want and he isn’t looking for you to have money
Iqra obsession with money is very frightening, I want to know her childhood background because to be this money obsessed is not normal. For her to choose money over emotional availability is sad.
Many people, in particular black folk that come from low income background or even moderate middle class have a irrational worship of money. It is true , that money is necessity in our lives. However , to subvert it as a center and vocal point of your life is a gross miscalculation to true fulfillment and happiness in the long term. Work hard and strive to be better than you were. All will fall into place.
@Jorja You can make 5k a month thats very finnancially stable in the uk but she acting like 7 figure man are everywhere in the Uk That like less then 1 % in the uk who make that money
@@CamoKKing she is definetly a 7 in my opinion together with the slim thick girl in the Two piece and shelby but that's me. All of them are cute in their own way. Clearly only few agree with you
Emmanuel was solid on this one!! The problem is people don’t know the difference between COMPROMISE and SETTLING. There are many layers to a relationship rather than just the physical and material. A long lasting relationship/ marriage will be built upon standards and values that will ground the couple in hard times. Not everyone is ready to be vulnerable and give him/herself to a relationship. Yes, women can be single by choice 😂 Love yourself first and build your life before loving someone else.
Does Iqra know that most rich men want a girl who doesn't care about their money? Does she realize that rich men are also human and also want a woman who loves them for them? Imagine having to live knowing that "if I become broke, she'll leave". Chilleeee. It's the failure to know men are also human for me🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
I don’t think anyone should settle, however i feel like a lot of people have unrealistic expectations…… people are chasing perfection when it doesn’t exist. There is a difference between must haves and things that are just nice to have, but isn’t necessary aka a bonus. I personally wouldn’t settle on must haves because that would make me unhappy. If you think about it, the more specific you are the more you a missing out on people, that could be really good for you.
Settling literally doesn’t exist in relationships unless the person has a past with someone of a higher quality than they are currently dealing with. E.g if a women is used to dating 8/10’s but is now dating a 6/10 that’s her settling. However if she’s never actually achieved what she wants that isn’t her settling if she ends up with less. It’s called her getting what she’s worth.
and then the line "i will use that against you". Thats why they are unavailable, cus when they open up it will be used against them lol. cant make this shi up
A lot of men are emotionally available to their Male peers, the way women hold sex from their man is the same way men hold their emotions from a woman, and they feel cheapened from giving it too early, as it can backlash.
saying she’s single by choice is laughable when she said she’d happily get on her knees for any man making millions. She’s the definition of what she wants she can’t get. The man she wants doesn’t want her back.
Aymilli speaking nothing but facts “Why are you single then if your type wants you?” And everyone was ready to bite his head off but he’s actually speaking facts!! 💯
Emmanuel literally has gone through the different situations and scenarios that understands from different points of view across the some of the male AND female prospective
Lani is so contradicting . “Men should worship “ “traditionally “ traditionally u stay at home and cook and clean and take care of kids. You are not willing to do that , therefore don’t expect traditional back. Life has changed . If u want traditional be prepared to fit that role
As someone who’s grown up around affluent people, I think it’s not Iqra’s looks that will get in the way of her getting a wealthy man (as some comments imply), it’s her mindset and how she presents herself. I’ve seen plenty of wealthy men marry regular looking women (it’s usually nouveau riche that emphasize looks and end up wifing ig model types; the others enjoy them in the bedroom only). But the difference is the way those regular girls present themselves vs how Iqra presents herself.. if she expressed herself/her views in a more elegant and refined way it would help her in her goal. But I understand that she probably needs to be exaggerated for the audiences entertainment. No hate, just my sincere thoughts.
The point made about her looks is really more about her mindset...it's more like, wanting to marry a 7 figure income guy, your chances are already as slim as they can get...then having such a shitty mindset ontop of being really just an average looking girl who shows cleavage, your chances are reduced to a number next to zero....
@@anonamous6320 it’s nice to assume that Iqra but no. I know my worth, hence why I don’t disrespect and dishonour myself because of assets. I make my own money and I’m blessed to have more than enough coins, so a man would need more than money to impress or get me. Continue to live in your delusion boo. Let’s see where you are in 5 years. 👋🏽🚶🏾♀️
I honestly don't blame Lani and Iqra. I blame the men who have enabled them to be able to think like this cause the behavior and entitlement is outstanding
I said this a month ago. We as men need to take some accountability as to why women think this way. We are funding their nonsense. We need to do better. 😂😂
Everybody settles. Do you know why? Because no one is perfect. If you meet a person and he meets 8/10 of your standards. that is settling and there is nothing wrong with that because again...no one is....perfect...
That is a lie. Not everyone has to settle. People have different wants. Serious people don't look for perfection and don't want be prefect. Do you know how much responsibility that is? No one can live a fulfilling life trying to be prefect. 8/10 is a B, most people are C students, trust me, you if people had to what it takes to be A student, they would tell you that is not how I want to live. Check yourself!
No one is perfect..but I believe people know right from wrong..you cant treat your partner badly and expect the person to stay just because you're telling yourself no one is perfect
She's a joker she shouldn't speak on these matters for as long as this holds true. She will ruin herself with all this talk. She has made a lot of claims and statements she can easily contradict .
Iqraa just rocks from side to side every episode but never fails to remind us that she has a degree (paid for) and wants to marry for money only. A simple person
It’s mind blowing how little they actually spoke about what it takes for a long term relationship. All this talk about money but who actually spoke about being in love, duty, commitment, children etc. On top of that, such a small fraction of men earn 7 figures or higher, it’s less than 1%. Men in the top 1% are desired by SOOO MANY women that they either have multiple partners or date the top of the top women. Unrealistic expectations are part of the reason why people have the most option nowadays than ever before yet are the least happy.
I'm so sorry for saying this but Iqra does not realise how shes portraying herself. She wants a man that earns seven figures to live off him, yet she'll talk about being independent, make it make sense. Fucking hell the way this girl happen to annoy me every single flipping time she appears on the show
These small minded people continuously believes a relationship is revolved around money, don’t get me wrong money helps lots of things but it’s not everything .
The honest answer is he would not as they are very homogenous and do not allow such thing. Furthermore, I believe Iqra would cheat for certain. It seems her goals are to attract a lifestyle and search her other needs elsewhere.
Iqra don’t realise that less than 0.1% of men earn 7 figures. Those men are richer than 99.9% of men and are in the top 0.1%. Therefore they want the top 0.1% of women. Iqra ain’t in the top 0.1% of women no matter what your taste is. She’s a 6 at best
@@favourx1484 Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and I have my opinion and I will respect yours if you think she is higher than a 6. However she is not in the top 0.1% of women. For a woman to be in the top 0.1% she needs to be a 9.9/10. I think it’s a universal opinion that she is not of that level. Even if you think she is nicer than a 6.
@@favourx1484 someone has to tell her the truth..the problem in woman they always rate themselves higher than what they really are and think they can get better...these 5 girls are single because the guys they dream off might sh@g them but not wife them...
Not defending her dumbass but just because she has no student debt doesn't mean she has money... It just means she is starting from 0 instead of starting from debt.
This Iqra girl is a joke who raised her! Jewish or Christian it’s not allowed if you’re muslim woman. Also no one with 7 and 8 figures is marrying you so humble yourself and put some clothes on. Wealth and success comes from prayer not from a man! Ugh she gets on my nerves!
What he was trying to say was generally women will get comfortable and complacent once they get the man they want. And rather than wearing the wig going out she is now just walking around with unkempt hair. Gain weight, and so on. I actually told my long term girlfriend she stopped dressing up. Her response was she dresses up with her girlfriends. Once she realized I wasn't just making a joke, she got mad. But then the next day, she realized what I was saying made sense after I explained I never leave the house with her without a nice outfit whether it's just to pick up grocery. At that point, she admitted she got complacent. That's what he was attempting to say. Or something along those lines.
@@shxvxm7207 they both are 5 at best...and the attitude is a zero...these men that they are waiting for will not introduce you to there circle. You will be there naughty little secret...men with that sort off money demand femininity and class..something neither of them have
@@thunderjoy7250 agreed. Femininity, fitness and co operation is what men look for in their long term relationships. Lani is one of the most masculine women I’ve seen with how loud and boisterous she is. She looks like she’s never seen the inside of a gym in her life and her co operation skills are 0. She better get used to using toys
Nah I disagree tbh... ngl, when he wants to talk, he talks. He will cut in sharply and make sure everyone hears what he has to say before going back into hibernation.
I agree with Nk having a list is useless we are not going shopping- This is why relationships fail because rather than growing to reach your goals together you expect your crush to have everything set before you do a ting but that mentality will never work
This conversation is so shallow and contradictory. Emanuele is pretty much the only one sticking to the topic at hand and backing up his side of the argument from an emotionally intellectual level. I just hope people are not out here getting hurt by our generation's mentality because a lot of these sound like passes for abuse and mistreatment of both men and women in superficial relationships
I'm not that kind of person but on the looks of some of the people in this room, I wouldn't expect anything intellectually sound from some of them. Other channels like this has way better participants.
I love Emmanuel so much. He's so wise and all the time he makes a point he's always spot on. He's the only one who makes points that are meaning and in tune with reality. He is so emotionally intelligent.
Women pick who gets to have sex. Men pick who gets to have relationships. Aka women control access to sex, but men control access to relationships and marriages. Women can choose to stay single but that doesn’t mean she can get a relationship whenever it suits her.
@@Jayskizx still doesn’t make the statement true for every woman. I see kevin samuels has trained u , u now sound identical to him but u are just a pupil to him lol
@@Jayskizx anyone can get into a meaningless relationship. Some women like myself are not interested in that and would rather stay single until meeting someone worth being in a relationship with. It’s actually basic common sense to have that out look on life. Do u know how many people been heartbroken? Shit sucks, can’t be stupid enough to want that again
A friend of mine said this, and it’s honestly sooo true. Why would a man pay for it, if he can get it for free?? Girls move so mad nowadays to where guys can dibble and dabble in sooo many cakes because girls allow them to be like that. The more girls carry themselves in a classy manner, the more respect a man will have for you. You don’t need to be showing your skin like that, to get a mans attention. That attention will last for only 5 min. Hence why you’re continuously attracting emotionally unavail men
Its entertainment bro, wouldn't take it too seriously. Outlandish opinions are encouraged cause they shake the room which pulls views/viral moments. They literally have props during their confessionals lol
I think some women are single by choice in the sense they’ll see a man who’s good and has great qualities but she’ll turn him down because she feels she deserves better, or she just wants to focus on herself for some time and turns down men. But I also feel that there’s another side to this in the sense a lot of women think they are single because they choose to be but then it’s just that they guys they want aren’t really interested in them and in the girls head she thinks she’s too good for other guys so she’s not going to “settle”
BINGO!! Someone with sense. A high value man is a rare commodity, as in the men they want, are in low supply and high demand. The men they want have OPTIONS, meaning there’s girls lining up to be with that high value man, and for women to think these calibre of men will be faithful and monogamous to them is laughable. The men these women described are literally in the top 3% of earners in the UK. That man has plenty of women to pick from. A lot of women these days have an over inflated sense of ego, where they think they DESERVE and are entitled to this calibre of man. When in reality these men would hit, and never call back. Girls have really delusional standards these days. Also these girls think just because they work and have careers that a man with money cares about her money 🤣 HE DOES NOT. He wants you to cook and clean and be traditional, just like these women want traditional men, aka for a man to provide and protect. These girls don’t even look like they know a single recipe or even how to clean their own asses ffs
There’s a difference between settling for what you want and settling for what is below your actual level… a lot people think they are settling but realistically what they got matches their own true level I.e you ain’t all that so neither is your partner lol
Lol having a list is bad only if your list is superficial based around social negative influences. But morals and having fundamental principles that you keep is good on a list.
I feel like Kevin would agree w her…. Kevin literally says the top 1% of men want young woman that are submissive, she said she is willing to be completely submissive and even let him “exercise his option” So basically cheat as long as he’s still providing. Please tell me what iqra and Kevin disagree on?
@@sagaljama400 first of all “she is willing to be completely submissive” femininity and submissiveness is not a button you can switch off or on. Secondly, you sound like you like Iqra for her disgusting behaviour and how she talks. You need guidance girl.
@@sagaljama400 no he wouldn't. Iqra and lani are deluded, masculine, not submissive or willing to compromise. Iqra even said that she wouldn't cook, clean or even buy her man a present
@@mgtowmonkapprenticegang8426 agreed. They do not have the qualities that a man of great wealth requires/expects from a woman. There’s a reason they attract the men they do, they can’t do any better.
Lani is NOT single by choice...we all know if U KNOW WHO called her she would go running. she would past her car parked up and RUN to him. That entire question is Lani's life with Tion
this "what do u bring to the table" question needs to stop. what do u expect someone to do list off their qualities? most people don't know that. I have never seen someone answer it good both for men and women. You probably have lots of great friends that u wouldnt be able to list their qualities off until theyre not around anymore
Choosing friends and the person to spend the rest of your life with and raise children is a very different selection process. Expectations are needed. Without that question, entitlement sets in. You state what you deserve, but cannot substantiate why. That is a common problem we see here.
Iqra literally agrees with Kevin samuels and those guys from fresh and fit, they basically say a man that is high value can basically do whatever he wants and iqra agrees she legit said she would let her man do anything as long as he’s providing. She also acknowledges that she only has a few years while in her prime age to find these men which is what those guys also say…
@@sagaljama400 but it’s not realistic though Kevin Samuels will ask her to rate herself then he will get onto her and say why would a guy in the top 0.1% want to be with you
People need to realise relationship means commitment, effort, contribution etc. Just because your type wants you and your single doesn’t mean you want a relationship. Some people just wanna stay single.
Can’t believe how many women get asked what they want in a man and they straight away say a man with money that’s sad, you don’t want the Man U want his account
@@Malibuunfiltered no.. Kelly got it right. Some of yall home girls sound just like her but yall refuse to call them out on it. Women holding women accountable is all we got.
These women don’t understand that they can want whatever they want but they will end up with what they’re worth. I might want a Ferrari but if my budget is fiesta that’s what I’m getting. Settling as a concept means you’re getting less than what you’re worth. If you’ve never had a man with 7 figures you’re not settling you’re just getting what you’re worth.
It was created by men with influence in the West. That's true. However, the average man has more realistic expectations as opposed to desires. It is easier to go to the gym, get surgery, get your nails, hair, eyebrows & makeup done than being in the top 10% of the world in terms of finances alone. We haven't even got to height, if he speaks your language, if you like him or if he likes you yet (if you were Iqra). She partly knows how ridiculous it is, so has no expectation past the money. I respect it😂
First impressions do not reflect exactly who a person is but I promise you they do matter and we all know it. I might be the sweetest person in the world and the first day you encounter me, I'm being rude to someone because I had the worst day ever, I promise you that anyone who sees me in that moment is going to think I'm a dickhead unless proven otherwise
"What if you wanted a footballer though" So it doesn't matter if he's ugly, has a bad personality, has bad hygiene or any of the above as long as he's a footballer. Honestly people are dumb. They love the idea of things but never deal with the reality. On the point of "women know how to build a home" Yeah they open thier legs and get a free house
thats not what she’s saying… if you met her and liked her like that, why should she now have to change the way she dresses and presents herself just bc you’re in the equation now?
@@mynameisSK she doesn’t have to change if she doesn’t want to. She just needs to realise that her image and the pictures she posts and the way she presents herself online and offline is reflective in the men she has dated in the past and the men she attracts. She can do whatever she wants no ones stopping her, but she also needs to be accepting of the consequences that come of those actions. Her lack of self accountability has caused her to have irrational resentment towards men
@@shxvxm7207 exactly. She is forever going to have relationship problems cause she doesn’t understand the dynamic. If she wants to dictate terms she is going to have a tough time.
I love Emmanuel man. He speaks so much sense
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He is honestly too mature for this conversation. We need ignorance
Same oml
True
Literally like
Lani : wanting a traditional man 🤝 refusing to be a traditional woman
Talking about men traditionally used to worship the ground women walked on😂 women traditionally were virgins and submissive. Which man today is gonna worship some used up broad😂
@Sally Ann Aliens invading earth could also happen... Pointless statement... Its incredibly unlikely
@@pj7816 g., nice
Cusp,
Iqra is willing to ditch her religion and dignity for the sake of marrying a rich man.... how could a rich guy see this video and still decide to pick her??
Shes actually tapped on every level 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Shes for the streets
She’s been like this though, contradicting herself on different levels.
C Dai your TH-cam picture is my reaction to every word that comes out that girls mouth
And the fact that there are million of badder woman than her which million is looking for her out of all these females not even a knock on her she calm looking but a millionaire can easily get the baddest woman he want and he isn’t looking for you to have money
Iqra obsession with money is very frightening, I want to know her childhood background because to be this money obsessed is not normal. For her to choose money over emotional availability is sad.
Many people, in particular black folk that come from low income background or even moderate middle class have a irrational worship of money. It is true , that money is necessity in our lives. However , to subvert it as a center and vocal point of your life is a gross miscalculation to true fulfillment and happiness in the long term. Work hard and strive to be better than you were. All will fall into place.
@Jorja there is a diffrence between wanting a financially stable man and only wanting to Date millionairs
@Jorja You can make 5k a month thats very finnancially stable in the uk but she acting like 7 figure man are everywhere in the Uk That like less then 1 % in the uk who make that money
@Jorja but there’s a difference between wanting a financially stable man, and wanting men with the same bank account as Jeff bezos
Malis don't have bread like dat
Iqra isn't going to marry until she meets Jeff Bezos
Real question is who tf is gonna want to marry her😂
@@SnowmanSantana no one. She’s a 5 at best. All the girls there aren’t even 7’s
@@CamoKKing she is definetly a 7 in my opinion together with the slim thick girl in the Two piece and shelby but that's me. All of them are cute in their own way. Clearly only few agree with you
@@CamoKKing g come on deany at least an 8 lol
@@maame04 i mean yeah they’re thick and i would deffo clap them cheeks but face wise cant be more than a 6. Maybe a weak 7
Emmanuel was solid on this one!! The problem is people don’t know the difference between COMPROMISE and SETTLING. There are many layers to a relationship rather than just the physical and material. A long lasting relationship/ marriage will be built upon standards and values that will ground the couple in hard times. Not everyone is ready to be vulnerable and give him/herself to a relationship. Yes, women can be single by choice 😂 Love yourself first and build your life before loving someone else.
AGREED!!!
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I had to screenshot this because its fax👌🏾
Normally, I get annoyed with the whole "What do you bring to the table", but I'm actually trying to figure out what does Iqraa bring to the table?😂
Headache & Body 😭
Ngl lani and iqra dont even have the beauty, theyre a 5/10 ast best
@@serdarguler1455 thank u but their ego is too much
She close to the 30 thinking that she can get a 7 figure guy thats tall to. thats like 0.01 percent of people in the uk silly
mums🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Emmanuel looks stressed every time Jae opens his mouth lool
This made me laugh 😭😭😭😭
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Whos emmanuel is he thé pretty boy
@@blkbarbie2671 the guy with brown north face shirt
Does Iqra know that most rich men want a girl who doesn't care about their money? Does she realize that rich men are also human and also want a woman who loves them for them? Imagine having to live knowing that "if I become broke, she'll leave". Chilleeee. It's the failure to know men are also human for me🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
Lol! She's signing a Pre nup and getting dropped off once the man gets tired. Bird business.
Emmanuel is so level headed and conscious, he’s the kind brother you would want to marry! Period!!!
I don’t think anyone should settle, however i feel like a lot of people have unrealistic expectations…… people are chasing perfection when it doesn’t exist. There is a difference between must haves and things that are just nice to have, but isn’t necessary aka a bonus. I personally wouldn’t settle on must haves because that would make me unhappy. If you think about it, the more specific you are the more you a missing out on people, that could be really good for you.
The best comment of the day...very mature WOMAN
@@thunderjoy7250 female🥴
Settling literally doesn’t exist in relationships unless the person has a past with someone of a higher quality than they are currently dealing with. E.g if a women is used to dating 8/10’s but is now dating a 6/10 that’s her settling. However if she’s never actually achieved what she wants that isn’t her settling if she ends up with less. It’s called her getting what she’s worth.
How do you watch this show sis. I lose IQ every time I try to.
@@lavarball7538 it’s frustrating sometimes 😭 But to answer your question….. mainly for the comments/comedy😂
“A lot of men are emotionally unavailable” 🗣Say it again for the people at the baaack
and then the line "i will use that against you". Thats why they are unavailable, cus when they open up it will be used against them lol. cant make this shi up
@@Pascal-kt9uc King/Queen
@@Pascal-kt9uc real talk
A lot of men are emotionally available to their Male peers, the way women hold sex from their man is the same way men hold their emotions from a woman, and they feel cheapened from giving it too early, as it can backlash.
The men that are emotionally available women are not attracted too, the men that are not emotionally available women are attracted too.
saying she’s single by choice is laughable when she said she’d happily get on her knees for any man making millions. She’s the definition of what she wants she can’t get. The man she wants doesn’t want her back.
Straight up facts...shes been watching to many movies...
Boom🔥💯👏🏾
So true. 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Why you leave ten million comments about Iqra? 😂 get a life
A Nigerian prince would definitely marry her or any rich guy from Africa that’s the only way 😂
Aymilli speaking nothing but facts “Why are you single then if your type wants you?” And everyone was ready to bite his head off but he’s actually speaking facts!! 💯
Emmanuel literally has gone through the different situations and scenarios that understands from different points of view across the some of the male AND female prospective
Lani is so contradicting . “Men should worship “ “traditionally “ traditionally u stay at home and cook and clean and take care of kids. You are not willing to do that , therefore don’t expect traditional back. Life has changed . If u want traditional be prepared to fit that role
Who said that? Men?BAHAHA😭😅
@@m.m9297 Common sense says that
Traditionally women were virgins till married… Lani is way way WAY past that lol
@@cdai216 shouldn’t u be working ur midnight shift?🤨
@@civildiscourse7626 and why is that ur business😭
Ja’deane is so stunning 🤩😍
"Did you bring me oil to fry that plantain"😂😂😂😂
I've just scrolled through comments just to see if anyone caught that too 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤦🏾♀️
Use air fryer 😂
I was lmfaooooo 😂😂😂
@@tenionitiri8063 omds😂
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The women really fumbled this!! The men actually won this discussion 😭
I was thinking "you women are failing your gender" the entire time.
Shelby made some decent points
Emmanuel is so wise and emotionally intelligent.
“The man they want, does not want them.” That statement fits Lani to a T
T like Tion
@@1004jvnior tion doesn’t want her? They had a thing?
@@theresamusonda9938 he used her
@@1004jvnior GOTEM 🤣🤣🤣💯🔥
@@theresamusonda9938 she claims they had a ting whilst he claims they didnt sameway he claims she cant back out one picture or video with him
As someone who’s grown up around affluent people, I think it’s not Iqra’s looks that will get in the way of her getting a wealthy man (as some comments imply), it’s her mindset and how she presents herself. I’ve seen plenty of wealthy men marry regular looking women (it’s usually nouveau riche that emphasize looks and end up wifing ig model types; the others enjoy them in the bedroom only). But the difference is the way those regular girls present themselves vs how Iqra presents herself.. if she expressed herself/her views in a more elegant and refined way it would help her in her goal. But I understand that she probably needs to be exaggerated for the audiences entertainment. No hate, just my sincere thoughts.
Agree with this.
Also many people are chasing Perfection in their man or woman and that doesnt exist.
The point made about her looks is really more about her mindset...it's more like, wanting to marry a 7 figure income guy, your chances are already as slim as they can get...then having such a shitty mindset ontop of being really just an average looking girl who shows cleavage, your chances are reduced to a number next to zero....
@@johnnybreezi1053 I personally think she has a stunning face and if she was slim she’d do well as a model
She doesn't realize rich men are overwhelmingly old, white and middle/upper class. They would NEVER go for a girl like her
Eman congrats most intelligent cast member also the guy wid the fox on his neck😂
Iqra is the textbook definition of delusional 🙄. I didn’t know I could ever hear worst than Lanj.
No She’s just levelled up.
@@anonamous6320 oh so saying you can stay with someone that cheats simply because they have money is what y’all consider “levelled up”. Got it
@@crowned_in_beauty A brokey will also cheat on you too. If you don’t know your worth just say that. You probably laid up with a dusty as i type this.
@@anonamous6320 it’s nice to assume that Iqra but no. I know my worth, hence why I don’t disrespect and dishonour myself because of assets. I make my own money and I’m blessed to have more than enough coins, so a man would need more than money to impress or get me. Continue to live in your delusion boo. Let’s see where you are in 5 years. 👋🏽🚶🏾♀️
@@crowned_in_beauty you are a queen Thankyou we need more woman like you
I honestly don't blame Lani and Iqra. I blame the men who have enabled them to be able to think like this cause the behavior and entitlement is outstanding
Soft men aka SIMPS are to blame. The alpha males wouldn’t allow this, or wouldn’t want her. That’s it💯🔥
I said this a month ago. We as men need to take some accountability as to why women think this way. We are funding their nonsense. We need to do better. 😂😂
@@priincebrvce7213 you're a woman
Yeah blame everything on men instead of giving them accountability
@@fling4206 you’re a racist
They managed to bring money into the discussion immediately. How frustrating!
Exactly
But realistically money makes the world go around so in almost every situation money plays a part
How can girls want big ps and not have it it’s like Poundland asking waitrose man to come thru ffs 🤦🏾♂️🙄😭
That's all these kids care about these days
@@mo.ysn8 I hear that but you have to use money, and not let money use you.
Everybody settles. Do you know why? Because no one is perfect. If you meet a person and he meets 8/10 of your standards. that is settling and there is nothing wrong with that because again...no one is....perfect...
Fax
Rate it! Big facts!
That is a lie. Not everyone has to settle. People have different wants. Serious people don't look for perfection and don't want be prefect. Do you know how much responsibility that is? No one can live a fulfilling life trying to be prefect. 8/10 is a B, most people are C students, trust me, you if people had to what it takes to be A student, they would tell you that is not how I want to live. Check yourself!
Finally someone is sense
No one is perfect..but I believe people know right from wrong..you cant treat your partner badly and expect the person to stay just because you're telling yourself no one is perfect
If Tion asked for lani back, she would be there in a sec
A hot minute..she would by him another rolex on the 1st date 🤣🤣🤣
@Kevin Adams that might have scared him away
In a millisecond 😂😂
She's a joker she shouldn't speak on these matters for as long as this holds true. She will ruin herself with all this talk. She has made a lot of claims and statements she can easily contradict .
@Kevin Adams she was in love love
Iqraa just rocks from side to side every episode but never fails to remind us that she has a degree (paid for) and wants to marry for money only. A simple person
It’s mind blowing how little they actually spoke about what it takes for a long term relationship. All this talk about money but who actually spoke about being in love, duty, commitment, children etc. On top of that, such a small fraction of men earn 7 figures or higher, it’s less than 1%. Men in the top 1% are desired by SOOO MANY women that they either have multiple partners or date the top of the top women. Unrealistic expectations are part of the reason why people have the most option nowadays than ever before yet are the least happy.
I'm so sorry for saying this but Iqra does not realise how shes portraying herself. She wants a man that earns seven figures to live off him, yet she'll talk about being independent, make it make sense. Fucking hell the way this girl happen to annoy me every single flipping time she appears on the show
Unoe both can co-exist right
@@user-rn2sn4fj4z no it cant, she said she wants to be a house wife while not doing any chores or cooking, so she definitely isnt independent
@@oliviaokpara8877 maybe she has rich parents?
These small minded people continuously believes a relationship is revolved around money, don’t get me wrong money helps lots of things but it’s not everything .
90 minutes of applause 👏🏼
Soon they will find out....
Nothing wrong with wanting a man that can provide for you
By the time these women realise this, it’s already too late.
@@priincebrvce7213 men that are willing to provide go for traditional women. the two bimbos on the left are far from traditional
Nk is making sense good to see him do well
This question triggered Lani because the guy she wants doesn't want her.
Also what Jewish man would bring Iqra home to his parents. 😂😂😂
The honest answer is he would not as they are very homogenous and do not allow such thing. Furthermore, I believe Iqra would cheat for certain. It seems her goals are to attract a lifestyle and search her other needs elsewhere.
The question is triggering
Never
@@Malibuunfiltered frr how can they say women aren’t single by choice
Been watching too much girlfriends 😂😂😂
Emanuele is the only one that makes sense on this show I swear
Big facts....... 💯
The biggest factor that makes people settle or downgrade is time
In my Jamaican voice: “mi worship god not gyal” tell larni to B quiet 🤫🤣
He spoken facts 💯
Yea mi general 😂
Whenever Emmanuel speaks he speaks facts 😂
“ The whole women race “ 😂😂 how did nobody hear that
Fr
Lani literally brings up Tion in every single video. Like come on, WE ALREADY KNOW YOU’RE OBSESSED
Iqra don’t realise that less than 0.1% of men earn 7 figures. Those men are richer than 99.9% of men and are in the top 0.1%. Therefore they want the top 0.1% of women. Iqra ain’t in the top 0.1% of women no matter what your taste is. She’s a 6 at best
Loooool facts👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
A 6 to you to me she is a very pretty girl she knows what she wants don’t humble her!
@@favourx1484 Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and I have my opinion and I will respect yours if you think she is higher than a 6. However she is not in the top 0.1% of women. For a woman to be in the top 0.1% she needs to be a 9.9/10. I think it’s a universal opinion that she is not of that level. Even if you think she is nicer than a 6.
6 at the most!! she average
@@favourx1484 someone has to tell her the truth..the problem in woman they always rate themselves higher than what they really are and think they can get better...these 5 girls are single because the guys they dream off might sh@g them but not wife them...
I swear iqra said a man payed off her student debt..... now she saying she’s broke cah she’s fresh outta uni?😭😭😭😭
What episode did she say this? I wanna watch it lol
Not defending her dumbass but just because she has no student debt doesn't mean she has money... It just means she is starting from 0 instead of starting from debt.
This Iqra girl is a joke who raised her! Jewish or Christian it’s not allowed if you’re muslim woman. Also no one with 7 and 8 figures is marrying you so humble yourself and put some clothes on. Wealth and success comes from prayer not from a man! Ugh she gets on my nerves!
Word (from a Muslim girl)
Sorry for the pain she’s has inflicted on you! 😂😂😂
“Women are backing off wig” what’s wrong with this man??! You want her to keep her wig on 24/7??? Just date someone who doesn’t like wigs Jay simple
What he was trying to say was generally women will get comfortable and complacent once they get the man they want. And rather than wearing the wig going out she is now just walking around with unkempt hair. Gain weight, and so on. I actually told my long term girlfriend she stopped dressing up. Her response was she dresses up with her girlfriends. Once she realized I wasn't just making a joke, she got mad. But then the next day, she realized what I was saying made sense after I explained I never leave the house with her without a nice outfit whether it's just to pick up grocery. At that point, she admitted she got complacent.
That's what he was attempting to say. Or something along those lines.
It's not about who a WOMAN attracts it's about who she decides to ENTERTAIN.
lani and iqra are never gonna get married with the mindset they have rn…
Word
They both all 🧢
They will be single forever. They should buy a cat each and move in together. No man who’s worth millions etc. Will put up for any of their bullshit
@@shxvxm7207 they both are 5 at best...and the attitude is a zero...these men that they are waiting for will not introduce you to there circle. You will be there naughty little secret...men with that sort off money demand femininity and class..something neither of them have
@@thunderjoy7250 agreed. Femininity, fitness and co operation is what men look for in their long term relationships. Lani is one of the most masculine women I’ve seen with how loud and boisterous she is. She looks like she’s never seen the inside of a gym in her life and her co operation skills are 0. She better get used to using toys
Watching the white guy try speaking every episode is too funny 😭
Trust me😭😭🤣🤣💀💀
He ain't got that fire power to compete ahhahhahaha
Nah I disagree tbh... ngl, when he wants to talk, he talks. He will cut in sharply and make sure everyone hears what he has to say before going back into hibernation.
@@sour3000 hibernation?? 💀
@@ZadeINC yes ma'am, HIBERNATION 😭
I agree with Nk having a list is useless we are not going shopping- This is why relationships fail because rather than growing to reach your goals together you expect your crush to have everything set before you do a ting but that mentality will never work
This conversation is so shallow and contradictory. Emanuele is pretty much the only one sticking to the topic at hand and backing up his side of the argument from an emotionally intellectual level. I just hope people are not out here getting hurt by our generation's mentality because a lot of these sound like passes for abuse and mistreatment of both men and women in superficial relationships
I'm not that kind of person but on the looks of some of the people in this room, I wouldn't expect anything intellectually sound from some of them. Other channels like this has way better participants.
Jae is always coming with the props in the confessionals LMAOOOOO he's rude though 🤣
He speaks facts some girls don't want to know
If the medicine doesn’t make you quench your face then it ain’t working.
Having a list is very important, the issue is people have the dumbest and most superficial things on their lists.
First impressions is very important. It always sticks.
Well said. Most people overlook first impressions.
I love Emmanuel so much. He's so wise and all the time he makes a point he's always spot on. He's the only one who makes points that are meaning and in tune with reality. He is so emotionally intelligent.
Wow! I’m seeing growth in all of the cast members, love this! They’re interrupting eachother less and being less belligerent
Someone needs to sit Lani down and educate her on the meaning of double standard
Kevin Samuels has entered the chat
Aymilli speaks factsss, is it really settling if youve never had it
Emmanuel, please talk to these fools eloquently💯🔥👏🏾
I didn’t even watch the episode. But whoever said no woman is single by choice must have been a narcissistic man
right... exactly name sharer!
Women pick who gets to have sex. Men pick who gets to have relationships. Aka women control access to sex, but men control access to relationships and marriages. Women can choose to stay single but that doesn’t mean she can get a relationship whenever it suits her.
@@Jayskizx still doesn’t make the statement true for every woman. I see kevin samuels has trained u , u now sound identical to him but u are just a pupil to him lol
@@Jayskizx anyone can get into a meaningless relationship. Some women like myself are not interested in that and would rather stay single until meeting someone worth being in a relationship with. It’s actually basic common sense to have that out look on life. Do u know how many people been heartbroken? Shit sucks, can’t be stupid enough to want that again
Word, when I saw the title I said ehhh, the audacity
People on this channel need to know you can pass your point without attacking people.
Some of the stuff Lani says is just mind blowing, like how did you come to this conclusion.
Yo I loveee Lani LMAOO she said run that shit back!!! “You’ve been insulted”😂😂😂 that first line had me fucked up too
A friend of mine said this, and it’s honestly sooo true. Why would a man pay for it, if he can get it for free?? Girls move so mad nowadays to where guys can dibble and dabble in sooo many cakes because girls allow them to be like that. The more girls carry themselves in a classy manner, the more respect a man will have for you. You don’t need to be showing your skin like that, to get a mans attention. That attention will last for only 5 min. Hence why you’re continuously attracting emotionally unavail men
This is facts, I tell my girls all the time . Don’t give it all away if you ain’t his woman. Let the man graft
Wasn't it biscuit that said "are you your types type " 🤣
This show is ridiculous, doesn’t reflect society at all. Most women are not this toxic
*FACTS* I swear from which toxic cesspool do they find these women smh
Its entertainment bro, wouldn't take it too seriously. Outlandish opinions are encouraged cause they shake the room which pulls views/viral moments. They literally have props during their confessionals lol
Lool the look in Iqra's eye is killing me.
Love her
I would pay to see a conversation between lani & iqra with kevin samuels😂😭
kevin dont like women on diva energy
I think some women are single by choice in the sense they’ll see a man who’s good and has great qualities but she’ll turn him down because she feels she deserves better, or she just wants to focus on herself for some time and turns down men. But I also feel that there’s another side to this in the sense a lot of women think they are single because they choose to be but then it’s just that they guys they want aren’t really interested in them and in the girls head she thinks she’s too good for other guys so she’s not going to “settle”
BINGO!! Someone with sense. A high value man is a rare commodity, as in the men they want, are in low supply and high demand. The men they want have OPTIONS, meaning there’s girls lining up to be with that high value man, and for women to think these calibre of men will be faithful and monogamous to them is laughable. The men these women described are literally in the top 3% of earners in the UK. That man has plenty of women to pick from. A lot of women these days have an over inflated sense of ego, where they think they DESERVE and are entitled to this calibre of man. When in reality these men would hit, and never call back. Girls have really delusional standards these days. Also these girls think just because they work and have careers that a man with money cares about her money 🤣 HE DOES NOT. He wants you to cook and clean and be traditional, just like these women want traditional men, aka for a man to provide and protect. These girls don’t even look like they know a single recipe or even how to clean their own asses ffs
Ja deane is the one on this program🔥🔥🔥 everything she said was sensible..while lani and iqra are tapped 🤣
Jae edwards lost his mind this episode. You’re not leng still 😂😂😂
There’s a difference between settling for what you want and settling for what is below your actual level… a lot people think they are settling but realistically what they got matches their own true level I.e you ain’t all that so neither is your partner lol
Lol having a list is bad only if your list is superficial based around social negative influences. But morals and having fundamental principles that you keep is good on a list.
Lani and Iqra need Kevin Samuels to give them a REALITY check!
As long as it comes with a cheque 😂
I feel like Kevin would agree w her…. Kevin literally says the top 1% of men want young woman that are submissive, she said she is willing to be completely submissive and even let him “exercise his option” So basically cheat as long as he’s still providing. Please tell me what iqra and Kevin disagree on?
@@sagaljama400 first of all “she is willing to be completely submissive” femininity and submissiveness is not a button you can switch off or on. Secondly, you sound like you like Iqra for her disgusting behaviour and how she talks. You need guidance girl.
@@sagaljama400 no he wouldn't. Iqra and lani are deluded, masculine, not submissive or willing to compromise. Iqra even said that she wouldn't cook, clean or even buy her man a present
@@mgtowmonkapprenticegang8426 agreed. They do not have the qualities that a man of great wealth requires/expects from a woman. There’s a reason they attract the men they do, they can’t do any better.
This is pure entertainment don't get offended kings and queens
Lani is NOT single by choice...we all know if U KNOW WHO called her she would go running. she would past her car parked up and RUN to him. That entire question is Lani's life with Tion
“I aM ThE TabLE”🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️
this "what do u bring to the table" question needs to stop. what do u expect someone to do list off their qualities? most people don't know that. I have never seen someone answer it good both for men and women. You probably have lots of great friends that u wouldnt be able to list their qualities off until theyre not around anymore
because the answer to the question shows her personality
Choosing friends and the person to spend the rest of your life with and raise children is a very different selection process. Expectations are needed. Without that question, entitlement sets in. You state what you deserve, but cannot substantiate why. That is a common problem we see here.
@@XAVR_DJ EGG-ZACK-LEE😁
Kevin samuels need to fly to the uk to chat to lani or iqra or they can both go on the fresh & fit podcast 🤣🤣🤣
I would love to see that 😂😂
Iqra literally agrees with Kevin samuels and those guys from fresh and fit, they basically say a man that is high value can basically do whatever he wants and iqra agrees she legit said she would let her man do anything as long as he’s providing. She also acknowledges that she only has a few years while in her prime age to find these men which is what those guys also say…
@@sagaljama400 but it’s not realistic though Kevin Samuels will ask her to rate herself then he will get onto her and say why would a guy in the top 0.1% want to be with you
The conversation wouldn't last long lol
@@krisnduka9995 Haha. She is a 5. In fact all those girls are a 6 at best
People need to realise relationship means commitment, effort, contribution etc. Just because your type wants you and your single doesn’t mean you want a relationship. Some people just wanna stay single.
Who are these people who want to be alone until the day they die
Can’t believe how many women get asked what they want in a man and they straight away say a man with money that’s sad, you don’t want the Man U want his account
same thing vice versa, they want back and bress
@@umiistrxl nah. You're just being an opponent for the sake of it.
Both can co exist unoe
tion wayne still rent free in lani’s head😭
Please, he has a whole mansion in there 😂
@@SapphireJann 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Lani keeps contradicting herself giving us women a bad name lol smh 🤦🏾♀️
1 doesn’t speak for all. You can take what she says as her opinion and not put it on the whole gender
@@Malibuunfiltered no.. Kelly got it right. Some of yall home girls sound just like her but yall refuse to call them out on it. Women holding women accountable is all we got.
Deaney spoke nothing but FACTS. Got to love her!
Emmanuel's mindset is attractive. Period
Ay Milli & Brandon at 13:42 XDD
Jayn was just dropping nk’s jaw in this episode 😂😂
Lani calling anyone a hurt puppy is EXTREMELY ironic😂
I'm glad for content like this .... it makes me aware of the type of women to avoid.
17:12 nk trynna shoot his shot 😂😂😭
These women don’t understand that they can want whatever they want but they will end up with what they’re worth. I might want a Ferrari but if my budget is fiesta that’s what I’m getting.
Settling as a concept means you’re getting less than what you’re worth. If you’ve never had a man with 7 figures you’re not settling you’re just getting what you’re worth.
Nothing but fax
Straight faxxxx
You have to remember women live in an imaginary world.
💯
100% agree
jay saying women’s standards are too high, as if men didn’t create the beauty standards? 😭
It was created by men with influence in the West. That's true. However, the average man has more realistic expectations as opposed to desires. It is easier to go to the gym, get surgery, get your nails, hair, eyebrows & makeup done than being in the top 10% of the world in terms of finances alone. We haven't even got to height, if he speaks your language, if you like him or if he likes you yet (if you were Iqra). She partly knows how ridiculous it is, so has no expectation past the money. I respect it😂
Men created beauty standards? So are we gonna pretend women don't call people ugly and have their own individual opinions on people's looks??
So where’s the correlation??
@@hanmasantan7282 wtf do you mean where’s the correlation? Do you lack comprehension skills? READ.
First of men dint create the modern beauty standard women did so there already is no correlation with why women’s standards r so high
A milli is right though wtf. If you’re ideal man wants you why are you still single. Because you’re still dating? That makes no sense
Ahlie he made perfect sense idk why everyone was acting like that was a dumb point smh
what if you don’t have an ideal man and you’re just asexual and aromantic
@@TheOne-lo4lz Then this comment isn’t for you
@@TheOne-lo4lz stfu. Seriously.
@@sour3000 no need to be rude doll x
Geeez!! Can one person talk at a time ? Everyone is talking over each other.
First impressions do not reflect exactly who a person is but I promise you they do matter and we all know it. I might be the sweetest person in the world and the first day you encounter me, I'm being rude to someone because I had the worst day ever, I promise you that anyone who sees me in that moment is going to think I'm a dickhead unless proven otherwise
someone NEEDS to sort the sound levels on this show. One minute they're all mumbling, the next minute, they're hollering tf up. level that shit
Shelby: I want a trying man
Dats a wife right there
"What if you wanted a footballer though"
So it doesn't matter if he's ugly, has a bad personality, has bad hygiene or any of the above as long as he's a footballer.
Honestly people are dumb. They love the idea of things but never deal with the reality.
On the point of "women know how to build a home"
Yeah they open thier legs and get a free house
The self entitlement is off the chart.
That girl is really trying to justify walking around half naked lmao. Men aren’t insecure cause they don’t want their woman walking around naked.
thats not what she’s saying… if you met her and liked her like that, why should she now have to change the way she dresses and presents herself just bc you’re in the equation now?
@@mynameisSK she doesn’t have to change if she doesn’t want to. She just needs to realise that her image and the pictures she posts and the way she presents herself online and offline is reflective in the men she has dated in the past and the men she attracts. She can do whatever she wants no ones stopping her, but she also needs to be accepting of the consequences that come of those actions. Her lack of self accountability has caused her to have irrational resentment towards men
@@shxvxm7207 I agree
@@shxvxm7207 exactly. She is forever going to have relationship problems cause she doesn’t understand the dynamic. If she wants to dictate terms she is going to have a tough time.
Imma dress now I dress, before I met the guy and after I start dating him, don’t like, don’t date
I’m 100% sure that iqraa will still be in a relationship if her man beats her everyday from 8-10 as long as he has money😂
Iqra don’t wanna get married cause she don’t wanna fall in love she just wants money