Aging in Perspective 🥹

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  • Time never stops moving forward and aging is an absolute, but growing old doesn't mean the person you were when you were young is no longer there 🥹
    🎶 Original score by the oldest McFarland brother, Mitch McFarland 🎶
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  • @PrestonDavidson
    @PrestonDavidson 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +12235

    The detail of having the old man in the reflection is top notch

    • @SanHydronoid
      @SanHydronoid 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +100

      Damn thanks for pointing out

    • @girayhankaya
      @girayhankaya 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +39

      Didnt figure it out, thx

    • @YRO.
      @YRO. 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +81

      Also the hand that picked the coin

    • @rorydakin8048
      @rorydakin8048 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +15

      Twice! It's easy to miss but after he picks up the coin his reflection in the glass is of the old man.

    • @eily_b
      @eily_b 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

      And the old hand picking the coin up

  • @isaactaher9396
    @isaactaher9396 หลายเดือนก่อน +105785

    When you expect a dad joke but end up feeling the feels 😭

    • @gabrycast5395
      @gabrycast5395 หลายเดือนก่อน +258

      that's what makes you more emotional, you don't have the expectation of a skit that's sad or bad

    • @gabrycast5395
      @gabrycast5395 หลายเดือนก่อน +90

      and that's why i have to clean my eyes too 😢

    • @warweasel2832
      @warweasel2832 หลายเดือนก่อน +102

      When you beat your dad at a sport/game and he says “Yep, your old man is slowing down.”

    • @husseinsalih6952
      @husseinsalih6952 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Oh man ​@@warweasel2832

    • @dyjital
      @dyjital หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      No shit.

  • @judahawale8855
    @judahawale8855 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +460

    "This Could Be My Last Birthday" broke me 💔 into pieces

    • @Brandon.R888
      @Brandon.R888 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      😢😢😢

  • @petemac7969
    @petemac7969 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +111

    I know this feeling! My "head" says I'm 30, but my body screams - you're 70!

    • @PixelSheep
      @PixelSheep วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      How old are you if I might ask? :)

    • @melindadawn5
      @melindadawn5 17 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Amen

    • @brunos6599
      @brunos6599 23 นาทีที่ผ่านมา

      My birth certificate does the same to me, it tells me I'm 30 but every so often that sharp pain tells me "this is it".

  • @my.names.robb.with.two.bs1
    @my.names.robb.with.two.bs1 หลายเดือนก่อน +133685

    Dude. That was deep.

    • @therookie5714
      @therookie5714 หลายเดือนก่อน +604

      @@uncleswellwhere did he say it was uncommon?🤔

    • @thylabyrinth
      @thylabyrinth หลายเดือนก่อน +390

      @uncleswell Not even AI sounds this lifeless and robotic.

    • @Owly_Goth
      @Owly_Goth หลายเดือนก่อน +66

      @@thylabyrinthnah fr

    • @xraystudios3693
      @xraystudios3693 หลายเดือนก่อน +48

      That's what she said

    • @A.S.S.M.A.N
      @A.S.S.M.A.N หลายเดือนก่อน +82

      Life really does pass you by if you don’t stop to enjoy it. It’s a culture of working yourself to death just to survive now for a lot of people. I’m 41 have had a lot of fun in my life and like Kurt cobain said “now I’m bored and old”.

  • @KevinVenturePhilippines
    @KevinVenturePhilippines หลายเดือนก่อน +4729

    That's it. I was 18 yesterday. Now I'm 54.

    • @joaocorreiamedia
      @joaocorreiamedia 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +120

      I was almost sure I was going to be 18, not 39 this year.

    • @grundlefairy
      @grundlefairy 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +33

      I hope life treated you well. Rip

    • @KevinVenturePhilippines
      @KevinVenturePhilippines 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +98

      @@grundlefairy My life has been amazing, thank you. Should be a movie. Now it is just starting over again because I am moving to the Philippines, where there are over 7,600 Islands all prettier than those in Hawaii (where I lived a while) and I will soon be SCUBA diving with whale sharks! 🤘😎

    • @abewiggle6049
      @abewiggle6049 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@KevinVenturePhilippines glad to hear that man,,, enjoyy your time in philipines . if you free come visit my place, malaysia. you need to try food here !

    • @joaocorreiamedia
      @joaocorreiamedia 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +21

      @@KevinVenturePhilippines Mate be literally sleepin with the fishes soon!

  • @yeetamiz
    @yeetamiz 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +46

    When he said “this could be my last birthday huh sweet pea” 😢. Broke my heart

  • @IrisWilliams-ud3kp
    @IrisWilliams-ud3kp 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +31

    Yep getting ready to be 68 and dont feel that although im in end stages of illness. Nothing i can do to stop it. Its been a lovely life. I wanna live ot some more with my husband that we been together since 8th grade. He has termina cancer hes been figtng for 14 years. Its back. God give him strength hes a wonderful man. Teaching our daugter and grandson how to take care f the family compound.

  • @susanjohnson9795
    @susanjohnson9795 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +2469

    This is so true. 73 and I'm always surprised by the mirror. I'm about 35 in my head. It goes fast enjoy where you are.

    • @lyricjohnson7638
      @lyricjohnson7638 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +46

      We literally should live to at least 120 year, but because of the type of food, water, air and other things I won't mention, if we see 80 we're considered blessed

    • @Fahad-21
      @Fahad-21 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +25

      I wish humans didn't have to go through the cycle of life and just stopped aging at one point. I mean aging is meant to be a deterioration of your bodily features. Maybe there will be a future someday where humans solve that problem? Either way, I wish you long life and prosperity.

    • @RenegadeRukus
      @RenegadeRukus 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      Dang, I'll be 35 this yeah... though I feel like I'm probably 50+ after a decade of Military service and being in some motor vehicle accidents. 😅

    • @eangapala
      @eangapala 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      ​@@Fahad-21 without death or getting age life would be meaningless

    • @OsvaldoBayerista
      @OsvaldoBayerista 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Thank you sir

  • @GamingintheAM0801
    @GamingintheAM0801 หลายเดือนก่อน +6531

    Didn't expect this to hit. I'm only 34, not that old, but in my head, it feels like I'm still 17. Life gets ahead of us.

    • @Izanagioomikami
      @Izanagioomikami หลายเดือนก่อน

      Ahahahah! You old fart ! (I'm 33)

    • @CHEWYUMFAT
      @CHEWYUMFAT หลายเดือนก่อน +123

      When you're 40 buy yourself a motorcycle. It will kick you like 10 years back at least :-D

    • @yobimobi2736
      @yobimobi2736 หลายเดือนก่อน +69

      I'm 17 and still think I'm 14

    • @user-sy2mt3fr7j
      @user-sy2mt3fr7j หลายเดือนก่อน +70

      Im 30 and feel like 45

    • @davidt0504
      @davidt0504 หลายเดือนก่อน +56

      Dude same. I'm 34 and I think about time passing faster and faster just about every day.

  • @MoisesTellus
    @MoisesTellus 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +65

    Man you make me cry.
    I miss my family.
    Why life it have to be with all this sorrow.
    Mom dad. Your son are still fighting.

    • @rafaillalexander29
      @rafaillalexander29 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      ❤ it will be great if we set a meaning full goal for our lives and know what is the purpose of life...

    • @hashirkhan2341
      @hashirkhan2341 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@rafaillalexander29indeed

  • @Plushy_Fighter
    @Plushy_Fighter 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    This is the only YT short that give me a Emotional break down. This definitely made me rethink my life and how short it is.

  • @Jiamil
    @Jiamil หลายเดือนก่อน +12478

    A 70year old friend of mine said at 30 you kind of stop feeling you are aging and every morning in front of the mirror, you are reminded of how the time has passed.

    • @susan7775
      @susan7775 หลายเดือนก่อน +283

      I can vouch for that. Mentally I don’t feel old, physically is another matter

    • @Crazywaffle5150
      @Crazywaffle5150 หลายเดือนก่อน +169

      @@susan7775 I'm 32 and feel the same as I did at 25.

    • @ComplexConfiguration
      @ComplexConfiguration หลายเดือนก่อน +140

      @@Crazywaffle5150 40's is when you start aging FR tbh. 30's are still young person .. ;) Enjoy.

    • @NOSTahlgia
      @NOSTahlgia หลายเดือนก่อน +104

      Even when I was 27 years old people thought I was 21, 22. Once I turned 30 I really started seeing my appearance catching up with my age, but from the inside I haven't aged a day. Sometimes I realize I can recall memories of my younger years better than I can the last week

    • @squishy_Rio
      @squishy_Rio หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Fuuuuuuuuuuuuuuh for reals man wtf

  • @Saltyboi_14
    @Saltyboi_14 หลายเดือนก่อน +28369

    My grandad talks about how it feels like he’s not old and even gets annoyed at other old people for being slow until he sees himself in the mirror. This really put it into a great perspective. Well done.

    • @automagicashie
      @automagicashie หลายเดือนก่อน +783

      Noted. Destroy all mirrors after age 55. Key to eternal life

    • @charliechurch5004
      @charliechurch5004 หลายเดือนก่อน +427

      My granny used to say "I don't feel old" 😞 she would say "I look in the mirror and think who is that old lady?" 😞

    • @Tokyoghoul4life
      @Tokyoghoul4life หลายเดือนก่อน +24

      Shit

    • @Tokyoghoul4life
      @Tokyoghoul4life หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      ​@au😂😂😂😂😂😂tomagicashie

    • @Caoimhin93
      @Caoimhin93 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      ​@@automagicashie nice 😂😂😂

  • @user-lm4nv3gl1m
    @user-lm4nv3gl1m 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +240

    I am crying over and over. I am 37
    I remember my father.
    People watching this and thinking about them selfs and wishing they get back to time or if they don’t get old BUT I wish the time returned to see my father and speak with him again.

    • @maintankhere9194
      @maintankhere9194 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Not gonna lie, I'd give a lot just to do that too

    • @strangecrew43
      @strangecrew43 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Remember him and everything he taught you the places he took you and that he made sure to the best of his ability that you would be ready for this world.
      Im so glad he saw me grow up and become someone he knew would survive this world.
      I still miss him and will never forget him.

    • @chuckgamble5696
      @chuckgamble5696 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      You're not alone...

    • @Robbyantares
      @Robbyantares 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Feel u bro, ill do the same thing to speak w my dad again.. to many regret for me

    • @cholodesanfe87
      @cholodesanfe87 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      There is a Mexican song call “mi viejo “ you should search it type “Vicente Fernandez mi padre with English lyrics “ a good relflection like this . How as a son you don’t want years to pass because your father is old

  • @Khakasa
    @Khakasa 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    It's only after replaying 4 times that i noticed the reflection on the window when he was going into the restaurant. Great editing!
    Great video!

  • @Nighturz
    @Nighturz หลายเดือนก่อน +5625

    Details.. when he picked up the coin his hand was the old mans.. when walking into the diner, relfection was the old man. This was deep and real. Thank you so much.

    • @richbeach9664
      @richbeach9664 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

      Wonderfully spotted.

    • @yuemcoy835
      @yuemcoy835 หลายเดือนก่อน +41

      You can also see the reflection behind him when he goes to grab the coin

    • @moiouimoi3858
      @moiouimoi3858 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      On the phone when she takes the picture, too !

    • @Fobia17
      @Fobia17 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      When they first cut to the crosswalk, too

    • @djkiltech
      @djkiltech หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Came here to comment about those exact details. And the phone screen when she takes the picture, during the shot over her shoulder.

  • @MM2009
    @MM2009 หลายเดือนก่อน +4719

    That's life no matter how old are you, you always feel 20 years old inside, your body just not catching up... Happy birthday seniors.

    • @buuuuuh365
      @buuuuuh365 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      eww

    • @Text-SpeechStories
      @Text-SpeechStories หลายเดือนก่อน +41

      ​@@buuuuuh365wdym ewww?

    • @Text-SpeechStories
      @Text-SpeechStories หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@buuuuuh365you just a dirty mind person

    • @manfredmichael_3ia097
      @manfredmichael_3ia097 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      3 minutes ago ahh comments

    • @buuuuuh365
      @buuuuuh365 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Text-SpeechStories Idk, but that kinda stuff is what pedos say: "Oh, we are just kids trapped in an old person's body." Like you are old, be old. How can you feel 20 when you are 70 LMAO.

  • @taleeavoyer8819
    @taleeavoyer8819 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    made me almost cry T-T it's so deep.

  • @rezwanahmed8329
    @rezwanahmed8329 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    The videography is amazing. Loved every detail

  • @realNoMee
    @realNoMee หลายเดือนก่อน +4212

    The constant in between shots where you can just barely spot his "real" age is some stellar foreshadowing.

    • @lockl00p27
      @lockl00p27 หลายเดือนก่อน +142

      And the glass. His reflection shows his “real age”

    • @sajidismail755
      @sajidismail755 หลายเดือนก่อน +42

      This comment needs to be pinned. I didn’t even notice till you said it!

    • @swtvic
      @swtvic หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      oh i just noticed, nice details

    • @orilio3311
      @orilio3311 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Seriously tho

    • @xaurelienhancoux
      @xaurelienhancoux หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      Topnotch editing right there!
      It's obvious on second watch, but it means it worked subliminally 😮 awesome!
      And don't get me started on the feels 😊😢😅 everyone can relate!

  • @ekowcrent1246
    @ekowcrent1246 หลายเดือนก่อน +3055

    This is not a skit.
    It’s deeply philosophical and artistic as it is.
    Thank you 🙏

    • @nekad2000
      @nekad2000 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      They could have used someone who's closer to 84 though. You're 55? Perfect for the part!

    • @DavidMark-jk5yk
      @DavidMark-jk5yk หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      ​@@nekad2000he's still pretty young honestly...

    • @MissKitten-gt4zb
      @MissKitten-gt4zb หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      They do another skit where his daughter is pregnant sitting at a bus stop. He forgets that it’s his daughter and it shows her talking to him like they’ve never met before.

    • @UnanimousDelivers
      @UnanimousDelivers หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      It's a good film but I think you're lowering the bar for what's "deep"

    • @ekowcrent1246
      @ekowcrent1246 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@UnanimousDelivers I believe using the word “deep” in this context is purely subjective. You could use that word in a different situation and someone else would disagree with your choice of words.

  • @tinarussell6656
    @tinarussell6656 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    This so beautiful. We never realized that we've aged. We are constantly the age where the most memorable things happened in our lives. 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
    Must admit that even his hand on the cross walk changer was spot on. Perfect shirt film. 😊😊😊😊

  • @onlineaddiction7712
    @onlineaddiction7712 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    My worst fear is waking up one day alone and looking back on life realizing I’ve never accomplished anything or that I’m not satisfied with the life I’ve lived, boy is time flying already

  • @troy.s
    @troy.s หลายเดือนก่อน +3286

    53 and I feel this 100%.
    Some days, I feel my age more than others, but in my mind, I'm still in my 20's or 30's.

    • @triskits_mmm
      @triskits_mmm หลายเดือนก่อน

      Oh my gosh you baby. Man up.

    • @gyaniadmi2347
      @gyaniadmi2347 หลายเดือนก่อน +59

      That is true, I am 45 I still feel like 25 , I even see myself in mirror as a 25 year old

    • @italianduded1161
      @italianduded1161 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      Never give up sir!!!! I always tell this to my uncle, never think stuff like “maybe in my next life” or stuff like that, you want it!? You get it!!!
      💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻never give up.

    • @tsavage4337
      @tsavage4337 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      Take care of yourself and life will reward. My dad is in his 60s and still works his excavating job shoveling with my brother and I, hammering cement, and picking up logs and brick. Usually he’s in the excavator but when he hops down to help with the hand work you’d think him more fit than most 20-30 yr olds. It’s a shame people think after 30 or so they just become unable to do physical activity and can’t stay fit for much longer. Truth is, human bodies are very adaptable even in older age.

    • @MrBigMoneyMan909
      @MrBigMoneyMan909 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      As a 26 year old man, I’ll make sure to be extra thankful for my youth and to do my best not to squander it.

  • @TimeWarpKing
    @TimeWarpKing หลายเดือนก่อน +2069

    My fucking heart. You did more in 60 seconds than most movies do with 90 minutes.

    • @idehenebenezer802
      @idehenebenezer802 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      Jesus saves! Repent and turn away from your sins today.

    • @krepsak3399
      @krepsak3399 หลายเดือนก่อน +35

      @@idehenebenezer802 goo goo gah gah RAAAH

    • @r3d0c
      @r3d0c หลายเดือนก่อน

      what shitty movies do you watch

    • @abizzle7504
      @abizzle7504 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Right!!??! Like I'm not trying to cry at work guys, come on....

    • @GoldenDragonGod
      @GoldenDragonGod หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@idehenebenezer802I think u should be the first one in to do so! Do the exact same words u say!

  • @ChristmasDayEveryday
    @ChristmasDayEveryday 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    This kind of videos is heart touching because its true to life😢

  • @mikebennis77
    @mikebennis77 หลายเดือนก่อน +12713

    This is absolutely true. I’m 46 this year and I have this perception that I’m still 22.

    • @bennoreuter4393
      @bennoreuter4393 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Dude I am 70 and I date 19yo girls, fuck that mentality.

    • @shizuxo
      @shizuxo หลายเดือนก่อน +224

      love you man stay like that

    • @tilda3316
      @tilda3316 หลายเดือนก่อน +240

      I'm almost 40 but I'm definitely always about 26.

    • @jamesv4463
      @jamesv4463 หลายเดือนก่อน +41

      I think that's a good thing

    • @brandongaysr.4922
      @brandongaysr.4922 หลายเดือนก่อน +295

      I'm 37 and still look for the adults when I walk into a room.

  • @Swoleminer71
    @Swoleminer71 หลายเดือนก่อน +2849

    52 and this is 100% legit. I've watched this one over and over.

    • @DaveRusso
      @DaveRusso หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      51

    • @GizmoMaltese
      @GizmoMaltese หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      Same. It's depressing to think about.

    • @danif620
      @danif620 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      ​@@GizmoMalteseDepressing and Blessing at the same time.

    • @starkidforlife136
      @starkidforlife136 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Seeing white hairs on your own head is a major sign that your time is running out and that you need to find your creator before the day you can’t return for a second chance

    • @huntercoleherr
      @huntercoleherr หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Shit, and here I am feeling ancient at 41...

  • @twograves693
    @twograves693 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    The old man in the reflection, and the old man’s hand picking up the coin were fantastic details

  • @blacklitewolf4645
    @blacklitewolf4645 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    To all the Fathers and Young Brothers out there, Stay strong bc Theres always Gonna be a better Life In the next World 🙏

  • @zacharyrollick6169
    @zacharyrollick6169 หลายเดือนก่อน +2350

    84 and walking the town with full independence is a major landmark of health.

    • @deathbloom27
      @deathbloom27 หลายเดือนก่อน +63

      I work at a retirement facility and some of the things these people do is crazy. There's one resident that I didn't even realize was a resident, I thought he was an employee! He not only was always in the fitness center working out, but he was constantly walking around in the building or outside, I'd see him walking in town, he worked as a dish washer in a nearby restaurant. He looks like he's in his late 50s, MAYBE early 60s. Turns out. He's 80!

    • @user-zt7vb9kt8l
      @user-zt7vb9kt8l หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Can't be that crazy the president is 81.

    • @ege8240
      @ege8240 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      ​@@user-zt7vb9kt8lthere is no such thing as the president. there are lots of presidents, you need to clarify the country

    • @MagickArcher
      @MagickArcher หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      ​@@ege8240If they say "The president" assume they're from the US, most of us like to think we're the only country on the internet

    • @Ren_load
      @Ren_load หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      ​@@MagickArcher yeah, truly one of those 'muricah moment (im from boston btw, so no hate)

  • @Naofu_A
    @Naofu_A 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Damn, this hit me hard. Make sure to appreciate your family before its too late. You never know when they can be ripped away from you.

  • @loafyloafloaf
    @loafyloafloaf 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    My dad is pretty old, and im pretty young. I’m scared that he’ll leave me when I’m not ready. I don’t expect anyone to notice this comment, i just felt like i needed to say this. Love you, dad.

  • @anthonyjohnston3851
    @anthonyjohnston3851 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1729

    my dad said he knew he was old when he fell while working and people said "are you ok" , " let me help you up". He said that was the first time he fell and people didn't laugh or call him a " dumbass" jokingly.

    • @commenter621
      @commenter621 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

      Damn

    • @blackman7839
      @blackman7839 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      😢

    • @luciaacosta4801
      @luciaacosta4801 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      So touching

    • @royalexodus2666
      @royalexodus2666 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +18

      The more active one is and the harder it is to believe one is going to age. My dad thought he could just go hunting, climbing, spear fish, look for mushrooms and go camping forever. That was until he started getting tired with just 5 hours into the water and started missing his shots.

    • @Maguig550
      @Maguig550 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Guau... Es duro ése momento, las mujeres nos damos cuenta cuando nos llaman señoras personas de nuestra edad o mayores... Es feo envejecer por fuera, cuando uno por dentro se siente ágil, vigoroso... Qué triste es el ciclo de la vida 😢😢

  • @cheriesmith4087
    @cheriesmith4087 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1377

    This hits deep. You blink and 20 years have gone by!. A very beautifully crafted film. Xxxx

    • @themanicman8458
      @themanicman8458 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      Life flies by slow for me do something new everyday and then it'll take longer because you're making new memories

    • @marlydepina522
      @marlydepina522 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Lindo!

    • @The_CrackGoblin
      @The_CrackGoblin 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Nah fuck it never blinking again

    • @o-pwrdhd
      @o-pwrdhd 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Or you think about when the 12 hours Shift ends, it will take ages lol

    • @ninazhu9432
      @ninazhu9432 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Yup! That is how I feel like, it feels like I was 7 yesterday.. But the next I am already 27 years old. And the world has changed, how did it change so quickly?

  • @s.f.f.f.t11
    @s.f.f.f.t11 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    That's actually so true and beautiful. No matter how much we age, we think of ourselves as that same self, we see ourselves as that.

  • @eusebioshanaj2503
    @eusebioshanaj2503 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    My grandfather suffers from dementia, this is him everyday and he’s actually 84, he forgets where he is , what’s his age, what he says and has started to mix up different memories in his head. I pray to god that when his moment comes he won’t feel pain or loneliness, cause me and my mom stay always by his side, we don’t even sleep well at night cause he thinks he is really sick and is not going to make it until morning comes. He starts screaming at night that he is alone and has no one, until we hear him and show up to his bed. Love your elders and respect them cause they made our parents and us who we are today❤. I pray for everyone out there to live a happy life together with they’re families. 🙏

  • @CL-bm7bs
    @CL-bm7bs หลายเดือนก่อน +2431

    One of the best things I ever watched. Very well done. I am 67 this year and I see myself as a 25 or 30 years old at most, but the freaken body and face belong to a stranger. Life is really short. When we are young we're so happy and think that everything is still ahead, and at some point in life we realize that everything is already behind. Thank you for your vid

    • @idehenebenezer802
      @idehenebenezer802 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

      Jesus saves! Repent and turn away from your sins today.

    • @panteleymonschekochikhin-k1978
      @panteleymonschekochikhin-k1978 หลายเดือนก่อน +58

      Fuck me this is sad. I have to get the most out of my 20's while I still can.

    • @rewindlly
      @rewindlly หลายเดือนก่อน +44

      @@idehenebenezer802 cringe

    • @travelstories2529
      @travelstories2529 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      @@idehenebenezer802jesus is not god, he’s just a messenger of god, Allah is god. Turn to allah before you return to Allah… christianity id so messed up so many versions of bible, understand this, learn about islam and accept it.

    • @roo9642
      @roo9642 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@travelstories2529 Islam is demonic, dead and false. Research more about your own religion, once you learn enough of its lies you will want to leave yourself.

  • @NotoriousWhistler
    @NotoriousWhistler หลายเดือนก่อน +1527

    Wow, I didn't even notice all the little glimpses until my second watch. This is honestly so well made.

    • @criticaldatabeats
      @criticaldatabeats หลายเดือนก่อน +36

      The reflection in the window was a good one.

    • @deltavega9203
      @deltavega9203 หลายเดือนก่อน +37

      The aged knuckles picking up the coin was my first clue.

    • @nveptunes
      @nveptunes หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      when she took the picture on her phone - that was brilliant

    • @___idk
      @___idk หลายเดือนก่อน

      ....

  • @moondragon2502
    @moondragon2502 10 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Wow.. that's beautiful.. This is one of the most qualitative short i've seen on TH-cam.. I'm litteraly crying

  • @farvista
    @farvista 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    The body ages, but the voice inside your head, it never changes.

  • @Barfield-cg7iq
    @Barfield-cg7iq หลายเดือนก่อน +2079

    I'm 67 and in my head I'm the same as I was thirty years ago although my back hurts more. The other day for the first time ever a guy offered me his seat on the tram. I was both delighted and devastated in equal measure.

    • @KR0OK
      @KR0OK หลายเดือนก่อน +67

      This is exactly how I felt the first time someone called me sir

    • @user-gx5lo6yu2i
      @user-gx5lo6yu2i หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Did you accept the seat on the tram? Or graciously declined like the video guy?😢

    • @jawanation1850
      @jawanation1850 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Take this slow Gramps, Don't let it ruin your day!

    • @rayane2835
      @rayane2835 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I know your ass is not 67

    • @ABombs1
      @ABombs1 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      My back already hurts, not looking forward to that future!

  • @brandyb2931
    @brandyb2931 หลายเดือนก่อน +2562

    My dad always said "my body is getting old, but in my mind, I'm still 25." He passed January 30, 2020. He developed Lewy Body dementia and it ravaged him quickly. He was very intelligent, so we noticed things quickly were going wrong. He hated what was happening to him. He was the smartest and strongest man I have ever known, and that disease stole who he was from him. When he passed, he had aged 30 years. He deserved to grow to be an old man. He loved life, and his passing left an enormous hole in our family that has still not been filled. I miss him so much.

    • @gassyalways
      @gassyalways หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      😢

    • @dots-gastly3369
      @dots-gastly3369 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

      Dude love and respect for you and your family😢❤

    • @AmitRozee
      @AmitRozee หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      The space for self growth is as big as the horizon...grow into the example he was and surpass it...he sounds like a great man worth remembering.

    • @techlonizer
      @techlonizer หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      You have my deepest sympathies for the loss of a precious comrade of yours.

    • @Acidburn1155
      @Acidburn1155 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Man, rest in piece.

  • @sofinovella6866
    @sofinovella6866 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I’ll be 29 next week, and I have 3 kids of my own. I haven’t been afraid of aging until recently, watching them grow so fast. I’m starting to look unrecognizable in the mirror…

  • @bryawaterford5027
    @bryawaterford5027 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Well shot, lovely scrips & filming.❤ This is Very good & heart warming. Plus you're both young! ✨⭐☺️

  • @jcchandley
    @jcchandley 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +687

    This made me burst into tears. I know this well. I’m turning seventy in August and this is exactly my life now. In my mind I’m the same as I ever was.

    • @mellowillow
      @mellowillow 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +14

      It had me in tears too. My mom just turned 75 and says she still thinks the same way she did 40yrs ago. Our minds will always be young i guess

    • @michaelmuller8072
      @michaelmuller8072 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      The „I“ never ages.

    • @msmltvcktl
      @msmltvcktl 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      I'm "only" 45, and I'm crying bc it's very real at any age.

    • @edithsegura9696
      @edithsegura9696 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      😢😢I'm turning fifty next month and people looks at me as an old woman...but I'm feeling like in my 30's...

    • @mellowillow
      @mellowillow 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      @@edithsegura9696 I turn 42 this year and my sis turns 52. We have the minds of 29 year olds😅. I get sad sometimes cause it feels like just yesterday I was in my early 20s. Where did the time go? I’m just trying my best to embrace my 40s.

  • @bobbomcgee9958
    @bobbomcgee9958 หลายเดือนก่อน +1136

    Having the old man in the reflection is peak cinematography for a TH-cam short

    • @thatminer7174
      @thatminer7174 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      Didnt notice that, thats smart

    • @izzyviridian1485
      @izzyviridian1485 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

      Hands too. And some cut away shots.

    • @xavxavxavxav
      @xavxavxavxav หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      i didn't notice. amazing catch!

    • @dukitcher
      @dukitcher หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      This is comment, this is what I came here for

    • @maw5646
      @maw5646 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      He’s actually sprinkled all throughout the video.

  • @user-rg5fu2nu3g
    @user-rg5fu2nu3g 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Something about that song is just so calming

  • @BowinHard
    @BowinHard 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Damn dude. Hit me like a ton of bricks with the reality check at the end

  • @holliemichailidis2951
    @holliemichailidis2951 หลายเดือนก่อน +1767

    It is a privilege to grow old.
    My grandfather died before I was born at 47 years of age.
    I also worked in aged care. Many say in their mind they are young, its just their body has aged.
    Its sad but everyone time comes to an end.

    • @Lvr765
      @Lvr765 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I think he’s 𝕘𝕠𝕥 dementia

    • @shelbyb425
      @shelbyb425 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Ik this is serious but it really got me with the "before I was born at 47 years of age" 💀

    • @holliemichailidis2951
      @holliemichailidis2951 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@Lvr765 ..pardon?
      People with dementia go back through the years. One minute they think they are a mother then the next a school girl.
      They've still lived long lives mostly. One woman was in a constant state of happiness. She was just always happy.
      Dementia is sad but it doesn't need to be scary.

    • @holliemichailidis2951
      @holliemichailidis2951 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@shelbyb425 😅 yeah should have put a comma or new sentence. But currently I have the flu so it'll do.

    • @holliemichailidis2951
      @holliemichailidis2951 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@LeeroyFan101 so sorry for your friend, you and her loved ones. Yes, life can be cruelly cut short. Again my condolences.

  • @LilyNaahma
    @LilyNaahma หลายเดือนก่อน +2302

    THE REFLECTIONS IN THE WINDOW SHOWING THE ELDER IS PERFECTION. This made me start crying.

    • @sethf2258
      @sethf2258 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      Fr this short is so well made

    • @Kaleb-fi8vz
      @Kaleb-fi8vz หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      I had to go back this is some insane detail

    • @jehrieltv8066
      @jehrieltv8066 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Fr real details

    • @ChefChiron
      @ChefChiron หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      the hand picking up the coin is also old

    • @shepardog8180
      @shepardog8180 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I didn't even notice that oh my god😢

  • @peterbutler2539
    @peterbutler2539 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    My dad is 75 and I am 28, I can see him start to slow down and that was one thing I didn't realize when I was younger, you're parents are also aging and going through life just like me. Just wish he had me a bit younger so I would have just a bit more time with him.

  • @Brawndo2008
    @Brawndo2008 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    wtf. I'm so used to all of your funny videos. I was not prepared for this video at all. Great work.

  • @__seeker__
    @__seeker__ หลายเดือนก่อน +3154

    That’s the thing about getting old. People start to see you in a way you don’t see yourself. It’s extremely alienating. No one thinks it’ll happen to them, but it always does.

    • @ytj22
      @ytj22 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

      If everything goes well it does...

    • @kruz2727ify
      @kruz2727ify หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hey!! Let me live in my own youthful fantasy. Take your filet knifed tongue onwards to the next clip.

    • @RedragonReviews
      @RedragonReviews หลายเดือนก่อน +41

      Jesus that was deep bro. You definitely right man... I remember when I was 20 feels like couple weeks ago.. now next month I'm turning 32 I'm like wtf happened.... Jesus.... Life is wild

    • @Skiesoutthightsout89
      @Skiesoutthightsout89 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      Not me! I’ll never get old! Because healthcare is too expensive ill prolly die in my 30s lol

    • @vivianloney
      @vivianloney หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      My mom's been talking about it happening to her at work. I had to do a double take, but she's a few years from retirement. I have to look at old photos of her when I was a kid to see how she's aged.

  • @azbeaux
    @azbeaux หลายเดือนก่อน +1498

    This is so true. How we see ourselves when we get old is entirely different to how we actually are.

    • @pbonfanti
      @pbonfanti หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      Very true, but physical pain is the way nature tells you are not more that young.

    • @Starteller
      @Starteller หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Ya, but the mirror and the pain keep reminding us.

    • @JohnH108
      @JohnH108 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      How others see us is entirely different to how we actually are.

    • @blurgle9185
      @blurgle9185 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I find this only to be true for people with poor self-awareness.

    • @idehenebenezer802
      @idehenebenezer802 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Jesus saves! Repent and turn away from your sins today.

  • @user-it5mu9mk1y
    @user-it5mu9mk1y 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Wow! This hit a different nerve. I love speaking with my clients, I could see the young person they still feel they are. I will be there one day where it feels good to see them feel good and open up and simply converse

  • @semperignotus
    @semperignotus 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Those angle shots were incredibly well done. The hints of the true age compared to the way he sees himself. Top notch

  • @Sentientpotatoh
    @Sentientpotatoh หลายเดือนก่อน +1598

    My dad passed away last year at 70. He always said he felt like he was still in his 20s-30s in his mind and would be shocked he wasnt young anymore when something held him back. I miss him every single day. Im so lucky to have had such and amazing father.

    • @littleharry7977
      @littleharry7977 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      I’m sorry for your loss your father sounds like a great man ❤️

    • @vigi86
      @vigi86 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    • @camman18fanformission
      @camman18fanformission หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I'm sorry for your loss... ❤

    • @crustydownunder
      @crustydownunder หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      My dad died a year ago at age 92. He said he still felt like 18. He never looked old, he was very fit and could still run and do chin-ups in his 80s. I can't say he was a great dad, he was mean and cruel, even so, I still miss him.

    • @Sentientpotatoh
      @Sentientpotatoh หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      @crustydownunder I understand that. My mom was a terror. She died when I was 21 and I still grieved her terribly.
      My dad was by no means fit towards the end of his life, his health failed over his last decade of life. It frustrated him greatly especially as it became harder for him to walk without pain. He passed so peacefully in his sleep. Just went to take a nap one day and didn't wake up. May we all be so blessed to go that way. 🙏

  • @DancingArmadillo
    @DancingArmadillo 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +174

    When my mom turned 82, I asked her if she felt 82. She said that if she wasn't in so much pain, she'd feel young again. She died a year later. This video is amazing. Well done, my friend.

    • @Dissedits000
      @Dissedits000 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Sorry for ur loss bro

  • @creepergamer2.073
    @creepergamer2.073 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    This is enough to make a grown man cry. Our life pass so quickly in front of our face we dont even realice... Apreciate time and your loved ones please

  • @Bei7
    @Bei7 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    It's almost 2am and I've been crying over this short for half an hour now. It hits way harder than I expected.

  • @manuelmoreno7567
    @manuelmoreno7567 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    See a lot of this where I work gets me to tears every time I have to remind them that their families will be there to see them the next day even though some don’t have living or caring relatives

  • @sweetpealee056
    @sweetpealee056 หลายเดือนก่อน +485

    Yep! This is exactly how it feels! I'm 70 and disabled now but I'm still that optimistic 17 year old in my soul! Thank you for making this 👍🫶✌️

    • @alegoncalves472
      @alegoncalves472 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

      May God bless you and grant you a lot of good, happiness and a long fulfilling life!!! 😊🤗🤗🤗

    • @LYJManchesterUnited
      @LYJManchesterUnited 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      Oh dear and I thought it gets easier to let go, I’m only 30

    • @Guzmananinmates7077
      @Guzmananinmates7077 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      This man has the vibes of that one cool grandpa that follows latest trends💀😭

    • @Gorebox_kenzie_wuz_here
      @Gorebox_kenzie_wuz_here 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      god bless you Mrs

    • @sweetpealee056
      @sweetpealee056 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @@Gorebox_kenzie_wuz_here ummm, ima gramma!🤣🤣🤣

  • @michaelzampelas4325
    @michaelzampelas4325 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +488

    One quote always stuck with me for most of my life.
    “Life moves pretty fast. If you don’t stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.”
    Thank you Ferris 😊

    • @Qwezeerss-dj9dw
      @Qwezeerss-dj9dw 17 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      464 Likes and no reply lemme fix that (:

  • @jacsonaaron
    @jacsonaaron 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    He was still capable of getting around like he was 35...I say get it young man...let's go!

  • @peterpariyo473
    @peterpariyo473 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Well....damn. This moved me. Scrolling through shorts and you find something nice like this. 👍

  • @NM-pl1iv
    @NM-pl1iv หลายเดือนก่อน +855

    Just buried my Dad, he was 63. Appreciate what you have, love hard and deep, don’t hold grudges and don’t waste time.

    • @sylviekins
      @sylviekins หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      I am so sorry for your loss❤. I lost mine 5 years ago, even though he was 92, I miss him🙏❤

    • @reynoldscs
      @reynoldscs หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Same . My dad passed away at 63, 14 months ago, way to early. Brain cancer is aggressive and fast. I agree with all you said. Best wishes for you and your family! Cheers!

    • @GFGAngel
      @GFGAngel หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      My dad passed away almost a month ago. He was also 63. It doesn't matter how long someone has been in your life, it will never feel like enough time.

    • @BrianCunningham-kp1qt
      @BrianCunningham-kp1qt หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Sorry for your loss I don't know my dad because of grandfather but my real mum died when I was 5 in 77 & my step mum died on my birthday in 99 spend all the time you can with your parents as 1 day they may not be there RIP Mum love & miss you more every day xxxxx.

    • @ShawnSandiego
      @ShawnSandiego หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Sorry for your loss! 🍀 I hope y'all find the strength for these hard times.
      It's also the same for me.
      Mine passed away at age 63 unexpectedly due to cardiac arrest after a successful brain tumor surgery.
      It happened 15 years ago but he's still sorely missed to this day.

  • @suen5006
    @suen5006 หลายเดือนก่อน +1772

    This is so true. Time goes fast and you don't perceive that you are really older.

    • @alonelymouse5293
      @alonelymouse5293 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      i think he has dementia

    • @HeraldoftheMEME
      @HeraldoftheMEME หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      ​@@alonelymouse5293nah this is something we think about all the time as we get older and then one day it just hits you like a cannon ball. Especially if you haven't done much with your life or have worked your ass off most of it without stopping to spend enough time with your loved ones ...

    • @johnsennett8557
      @johnsennett8557 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      ​@HeraldoftheMEME so true. And when you have kids and see them grow up you realize the amount of time that goes by 😢

    • @TrenchbabyMel203
      @TrenchbabyMel203 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@johnsennett8557 Tell me about it I'm 30 now and can't believe it. My daughter will be 13 this year smh. I'm feeling old, and the young guys calling me unc when they find out my age doesn't help

    • @nollets
      @nollets หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Around 2012 or so, my great-grandfather was in the hospital for something that I don't quite remember. I think pneumonia, but not sure, I was like 10 at the time. What I do remember though, is that he was put with the elderly people, and his reaction to that was "look where they put me, between all the old people". He was most likely the oldest in the entire hospital wing lol, at a nice 97 years of age!
      He definitely felt younger than he was. Sadly, he didn't live too long after that, he died maybe a year later, max.

  • @geobigntall3830
    @geobigntall3830 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This truly how Seniors see themselves. I’m not a senior but I don’t feel like I’m 50 at all..I’d jump on a skateboard in a heartbeat.

  • @_Vanto
    @_Vanto 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Im just seeing this today on the 29th. Today is my great grandfathers birthday. He would've turned 84 today. The chance that i see this today is just...
    Fly high🕊

  • @nancyhyson6809
    @nancyhyson6809 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +2632

    Im 72. This hit me hard and I burst out into tears. At my age you dont feel any different than when you were 30, but the mirror keeps reminding you.

    • @ALPOLEESHARKAWERDS
      @ALPOLEESHARKAWERDS 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +187

      Then why's ur picture eome 20 year old girl??

    • @hasratkalay2531
      @hasratkalay2531 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +37

      @@ALPOLEESHARKAWERDSlol

    • @ZedaPetri
      @ZedaPetri 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      lol you’re not 72, because every 70+ year old I’ve met feels much different than they did at 30. Also your pfp 😑. You just copied someone else’s comment (their comment is above yours). Poser

    • @AceNinja2112
      @AceNinja2112 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +54

      ​@@ALPOLEESHARKAWERDSThat's her 52 years ago!

    • @warchlak.970
      @warchlak.970 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Nuh uh​@@AceNinja2112

  • @julieleech8214
    @julieleech8214 หลายเดือนก่อน +802

    This made me cry because I understand it so clearly . I'm 62, and time goes so quickly

    • @idehenebenezer802
      @idehenebenezer802 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Jesus saves! Repent and turn away from your sins today.

    • @stevonico
      @stevonico หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@idehenebenezer802no

    • @Dev_095
      @Dev_095 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Why does this sounds like you trying sell him Christianity ​@@idehenebenezer802

    • @MrFuzziiWuzzii
      @MrFuzziiWuzzii หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @idehenebenezer802
      No u

    • @MrFuzziiWuzzii
      @MrFuzziiWuzzii หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @idehenebenezer802
      Christ > Jesus 💯

  • @PaolaValentinaReynosoTap-hb2cm
    @PaolaValentinaReynosoTap-hb2cm วันที่ผ่านมา

    I would never thought a 1 minute video would touch my heart this much, i am literally crying for real😭😭😭

  • @pallepogusatya6523
    @pallepogusatya6523 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I cant leave without loving this short...

  • @ChampionCynthia493
    @ChampionCynthia493 หลายเดือนก่อน +204

    I am working at a retirementhome as a nurse on a station with people who all have dementia and it seems like this is what they go through all the time... some of them being in their 90's saying "tomorrow i will visit my parents" and everytime i hear that i can't let them face reality and lie because it would be horrible to say "they are dead and you are 94 years old" or even ask them how old they think they are... sometimes one of them who can not stand up anymore says they want to go home just for me to reply with something like "i am sorry you are at the hospital and you can not stand up at the moment. We need to take care of you the next days" or something like that. Sometimes a nurse has to be very very creative the way they talk with elderly people and even more with from dementia suffering people. It can be hard to keep an illusion alive just so people do not have a worse time.

    • @tonymagona334
      @tonymagona334 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      You’re an angel to all these people, bless you ❤

  • @JasonKB
    @JasonKB หลายเดือนก่อน +675

    Are there Emmys for TH-cam Shorts? Because this should win.

    • @IDrawToothpicks
      @IDrawToothpicks หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Absolutely 😭🩷

    • @neilrivera4194
      @neilrivera4194 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      I would vote for this 😭

    • @miamitten1123
      @miamitten1123 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Should win an Oscar for best short film. Technically it qualifies as it’s over 1minute.

    • @blurgle9185
      @blurgle9185 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      This is hardly original and it is way too cheese to win.

    • @idehenebenezer802
      @idehenebenezer802 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Jesus saves! Repent and turn away from your sins today.

  • @southrnsweety88
    @southrnsweety88 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This made me cry. My grandpa just turned 81 and the strongest, most able bodied man I know is starting to get tired and hurt in ways he never has

  • @eshaaladeel4904
    @eshaaladeel4904 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I'm only 19 yet this has me crying because it puts into perspective how my grandfather felt and how my father feels as he grows older...

  • @bekkimcgrath
    @bekkimcgrath หลายเดือนก่อน +1485

    The camera work switching to glimpses of the dad's hands, shoulder, reflection 😘 perfect

    • @Ovahlls
      @Ovahlls หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      It's actually really good for a TH-cam short

    • @peaceanquiet4528
      @peaceanquiet4528 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      I didn't see the reflection at the restaurant the first time.

    • @theprophet9429
      @theprophet9429 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Both windows too.
      Excellent

    • @MavrikUSMC
      @MavrikUSMC หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Bro. I was trying to get out of the deep, and you come along and sink my battleship

    • @Jay-cq5qr
      @Jay-cq5qr หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      It's crazy how people can mention things about a video that aren't even in the video 🤡

  • @Iamskibidiman
    @Iamskibidiman หลายเดือนก่อน +1155

    THE MIRROR REFLECTIONS WERE SUCH A GREAT TOUCH 😭😭
    Edit: Also if you look closely, in every shot which isn't showing his face, is him shown as in his older self. Such as hands, body, shadow, picture.

    • @Laffytaffy0719
      @Laffytaffy0719 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Fr

    • @Rosie_macaroni
      @Rosie_macaroni หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      i didnt even notice

    • @wifsk484
      @wifsk484 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Holy shit youre right thats quite awesome ngl

    • @Rivalunknown
      @Rivalunknown หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Those are windows, but yea it’s a great touch

    • @mollymauk4313
      @mollymauk4313 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Same thing while she is taking the photo, they put a lot of detail into this

  • @TheKnight001
    @TheKnight001 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Aging is not bad, it's a gift, a reminder that I have come a long way full of tears, joys, exciting memories.

  • @shira3294
    @shira3294 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    the feeling when you missed your grandparents because of this short video, it's nostalgic that i can burst out crying remembering them😢

  • @RRC5074
    @RRC5074 หลายเดือนก่อน +1467

    That hit the feels..... Thanks for helping me understand what seniors experience

    • @Ki-Lessons
      @Ki-Lessons หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      Live your life backwards, and there will be no surprises.
      Truly, plan backwards from your own passing.
      It's powerful :)

    • @brauljo
      @brauljo หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      ​@@Ki-Lessons¿hwət dəz lɪviŋ bækwərdz ivɪn min? brow θiŋks hi'z benʤəmɪn bəʔɪn ər səmθiŋ

    • @Ki-Lessons
      @Ki-Lessons หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      ​@@brauljo I like the phonetic and IPA foreign language trick. Nice.
      To answer though - it means to contemplate your future, by considering heavy questions like where you will most likely die, at what age, and what things will be like then.
      Perhaps one makes it to 90. what is like life or you then, how many of your friends are also still alive. Are you lonely?
      Work backwards, 80, 70, 60, etc. It is a thought experiment, and by modelling this, what changes would one make in their life given the odds of it happening?

    • @idehenebenezer802
      @idehenebenezer802 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Jesus saves! Repent and turn away from your sins today.

    • @brauljo
      @brauljo หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@idehenebenezer802 rɪporɾɪd æz spæm

  • @karthik_6938
    @karthik_6938 หลายเดือนก่อน +630

    You can see his old aged reflection in the shop mirror...
    The detailing! You really touched our hearts❤❤❤

    • @pattiepepper6217
      @pattiepepper6217 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      Yeah and the hand when he picks up the coin.

    • @karthik_6938
      @karthik_6938 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@pattiepepper6217oh yea! Didn't notice that

    • @darioidk2508
      @darioidk2508 หลายเดือนก่อน

      you don't say

    • @KrissySaturday
      @KrissySaturday หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      And the shadow on the sidewalk

    • @SgtTom
      @SgtTom หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Great eye for the details!

  • @tamarpelkinson3518
    @tamarpelkinson3518 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    That's lovely, he feels young!
    May you live long and always feel young 🌹

  • @jeffw6692
    @jeffw6692 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I miss my grandpa. He died a couple years ago and things have not been the same ever since. He was the glue held our family together.

  • @anthonyquote1593
    @anthonyquote1593 หลายเดือนก่อน +832

    If only shorts were that deep in meanings, people would be better.

    • @2009samiy
      @2009samiy หลายเดือนก่อน

      youtube mary and jesus in the quran and mohmmad in the bible and the Torah and the scientific miracles of the quran and mohmmad in hindu scripture

    • @AnweshNayak-ln6zf
      @AnweshNayak-ln6zf หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      ​@@2009samiywat

    • @-_-_-_-_-ImGigs-_-_-_-_-_-_-_
      @-_-_-_-_-ImGigs-_-_-_-_-_-_-_ หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@2009samiywhy you copying and pasting that? Weirdo

    • @arthurmorgan2688
      @arthurmorgan2688 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ❤💯

    • @zeecee5881
      @zeecee5881 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@2009samiy blah, blah, blah

  • @nicweiss9564
    @nicweiss9564 หลายเดือนก่อน +446

    Time goes by a lot faster than we think. I lost 3 grandparents in a year, and each funeral was the last time I saw the next one. Time is precious, enjoy every moment you can get

    • @Heitmotivation
      @Heitmotivation หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      That's heartbreaking ....hope you are doing well❤..RIP your grandparents 😢

    • @nowonmetube
      @nowonmetube หลายเดือนก่อน

      Wait... 3?

    • @nicweiss9564
      @nicweiss9564 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@nowonmetube 2 maternal grandparents and 1 paternal

    • @PriyadharshiniIndhira
      @PriyadharshiniIndhira หลายเดือนก่อน

      This comment hurts somewhere deep😢

    • @jakegenocide
      @jakegenocide หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@nowonmetube Well, you have your mother's parents and your father's parents, then if they every had to remarry, you have step grandparents.

  • @Paranormaty
    @Paranormaty 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    The reflections being the old man was a nice touch. This was amazingly deep

  • @morpankaboj5983
    @morpankaboj5983 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Even the details, how you could see the old man in the window to the coffee shop, and the view of the picture on the phone, truly amazing, and the plot even better

  • @TheYankee2221
    @TheYankee2221 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +882

    I just lost my grandma a couple of weeks ago to dementia. She always got confused and talked about how she was a teenager and needed to get across the river so she could go into town and have some fun. She wasn’t really all there anymore but it was still a shock to lose someone so close and important to me. This video is beautiful and really touched me. Thank you, have a blessed day.

    • @KaydenK-rz9cx
      @KaydenK-rz9cx 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

      Rip grandma, may she rest in peace 🙏🏽

    • @imranbharadia8806
      @imranbharadia8806 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      I just lost mine a couple days ago to the same thing. This hits pretty hard. I feel your pain.

    • @SeanF180
      @SeanF180 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Prayers with you guys 🙏🏼

    • @karentucker2161
      @karentucker2161 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      She was thinking about her past and probably wanted to go back too. Insit with someone who has dementia and had a aunt who had it when inwas a kid. Neither one of them does that. It just makes me thinknshebwas closer to death than you realize when shebwas doing that. Old people tends to do that around that time. Or at least that is my experience. We had to take care of several older people in the family and that part seems to be very common.

    • @cassh2220
      @cassh2220 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

      May she rest in peace 🙏

  • @Raiderman227
    @Raiderman227 หลายเดือนก่อน +1889

    His dads reflections in the windows is a amazing touch. What a good job. Love this family!

    • @Biiilllaaal
      @Biiilllaaal หลายเดือนก่อน +28

      Wow i didnt catch that until now

    • @Dupont728
      @Dupont728 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      And the photo on the phone!

    • @esbastianordonezordonez5313
      @esbastianordonezordonez5313 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      Not only that! But when the sign is covering his face in that same scene you can see the white beard.

    • @miacooper2307
      @miacooper2307 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Agreed. You guys are starting to get pretty good at this thing. I don't usually scroll. But when I do. It's mcfarland feed.

    • @austinkoeppen6122
      @austinkoeppen6122 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Also when he picks up the coin, it's his dad's hand.

  • @exocrxsh3962
    @exocrxsh3962 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    This actually made me ahead a tear 😢

  • @KingoftheSlows-iw2nf
    @KingoftheSlows-iw2nf 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Bro I actually feel really emotional now, words cannot describe it but it is just that I gained a new perspective

  • @incontinentia3119
    @incontinentia3119 หลายเดือนก่อน +919

    I'm 30 and I'm still 18 in my head. Wild and it'll only get wilder.

    • @debrawestbrook8960
      @debrawestbrook8960 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

      I just turned 32 and I still feel like a teenager even though I am not the same age my mother was when she had me (youngest of 5 kids). The new perspective is crazy. The age I am now, is the age my HS teachers were when they taught me, many of my old friends now how children...like how has all of this happened so fast!

    • @SirKolass
      @SirKolass หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      We only start getting old at 30, so you're not any older than you were 10 years ago. That can be sooner or later though, based on how healthy you are. If you wanna stay young for longer, be healthy.

    • @metalrain300
      @metalrain300 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I feel ya, I turned 30 last November and honestly I still feel like I left high school a few months ago. I don’t feel like I’ve aged, more important my body doesn’t feel like it’s breaking down either. It actually feels like the opposite. Lately it’s been unreal, like I’ve been able to actually spread my wings and follow the path I’ve always wanted to. I’m just waiting on my background check to go thru and I’ll be doing what I’ve always felt like I should be.

    • @catey62
      @catey62 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      My amazing Mum told me a couple years before she she passed away at the age of 90 , that she still felt the same as she did when she was 16, it was just her body letting her down. I'm 61 and I can relate perfectly. inside. I'm still a teenager, just my body is getting older.

    • @mbyrd9223
      @mbyrd9223 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      You all are still so young, enjoy it while it lasts. Wait till you hit 40 then you'll really start to feel like an old person.

  • @stevene.9858
    @stevene.9858 หลายเดือนก่อน +532

    My dad passed away at 84 years old. It's been 3 years now and I still miss him everyday. ❤

    • @brucewilkey3535
      @brucewilkey3535 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      RIP Dad. My best friend and confidant. Oh how you are missed and loved. If only I could have you back even for just a short time. I would love to show you smart phones and self driving cars. I remember rolling my eyes when you told me these things should be invented. Thank you to the producer of this video. We Americans should be ashamed at how horribly we treat our grandparents/elders. 😢❤

    • @lmaomoofeq2505
      @lmaomoofeq2505 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      84 years, he did very good

    • @Skyesoceaneyes
      @Skyesoceaneyes หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      My dad died at 84 years only a few months ago. It's hard.

    • @burgersauce8941
      @burgersauce8941 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      ​@Skyesoceaneyes May he rest in peace

    • @Rytrx_x
      @Rytrx_x 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Mine passed at 47, me being 13 at the time, now 14. That was september 7th 2023. Actually i dont know the full date. Or why, or how... i'm underinformed.. (if thats even a word)

  • @renndhel3759
    @renndhel3759 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Sometimes I feel like I’m gonna die when I’m so young😢 I wish everybody can live forever

  • @gilbertorojol8495
    @gilbertorojol8495 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Lo miré como cuatro veces y cada vez le encontraba detalles que había pasado por alto. Sobre todo en los reflejos indirectos en los cristales donde se muestra al anciano. Excelente video.

  • @maikutsukino4743
    @maikutsukino4743 หลายเดือนก่อน +1500

    Lost my mom last year at 85. Just today I looked in the mirror and was reminded I'm not 20 years old any more. So this just hit pretty damn deep on me. I'm not crying, you're crying.

    • @kingki1953
      @kingki1953 หลายเดือนก่อน +40

      Damn, you lucky though. You can have mom until she at 85. I was 19 when i lost my mom, she was at 55.
      edit: She got cancer at 50 and i was 14. I wish someone told me that someone who got cancer don't live longer than 5 years. I was concern about this while she got only one year left at my 18. I know there's nothing i can do. In her last 3 months, she spend day by day really suffer from bladder cancer. I accompany him in hospital everyday until that day come, when she never reply to my voice again..

    • @eksboks148
      @eksboks148 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      ​​@@kingki1953i get you're probably just trying to say look on the happy side or something but it really sounds like you're try to one up someone with what couldn't be less of a competition

    • @SureshKumar-pv7yj
      @SureshKumar-pv7yj หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      i just lost my dad last week at the age of 65.

    • @k1llahh
      @k1llahh หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Жизнь странная штука, я вообще не ощущаю себя взрослым. В детстве казалось быть взрослым это круто, а теперь понимаешь, что это скукота и каждый день - день сурка

    • @hellothereuser1878
      @hellothereuser1878 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      @@eksboks148 That was so rude. There's no one-upping here. This isn't a situation where we're discussing who made the most of a summer vacation. The guy is just trying to help OP appreciate the time he spent with his mother. Grief is proportional to the memories you create with that person, not necessarily the time you spent or when they departed. All he did was call him lucky and shared his own experience, and now you're trying to make him feel bad for nothing :(