FYI the Boris Johnson toy is Siggy's, don't worry..."I'm not a tory" 😂 If you fancy getting your dog a politician to chew up this is where I got it: pethatestoys.com ALSO here's the article I mentioned: nationalpost.com/life/relationships/in-defence-of-the-gold-digger-and-the-fight-for-class-economic-and-gender-equality
It's not addressed why these 'nice guys' are dating these horrible one dimensional women, so we can only assume it's because of their looks. If I were a hack writer I'd at least have the gold diggers be NICE at first, come on! Build up the story! Give me some suspense and a TWIST!
@@lovecraftscat5044 for real, he's so lazy and just reinforces the same tropes over and over again... imagine if someone actually creative had his funding...
Or how come no guy runs into his ex with a wife and when he catches up with the "villian," he's just talking about how he's working a regular job that makes him really happy. Seems a bit hypocritical to say "liking money bad!" but then end every one ends with the guy just flaunting material prizes from his success
i love how the moral is never actually the "what's inside really counts" like they claim, but rather "dont be a gold digger because the person you avoided might end up rich and you missed out on that"
You're right. In these sketches the non-materialistic girl gets rewarded with....material possessions. Even though women who were interested in material possessions are bad. reminds of religious movies with all of that circular logic and melodrama
“Once upon a time a hot woman settled for an average looking guy, and accepted & loved absolutely everything about him, despite that not being how healthy relationships work. He then rewarded her by being secretly wealthy (which she was surprisingly ecstatic about, considering how adamant she was before about money not mattering). Then he was promoted to Very Wealthy, and they drove away in an ostentatious car while the whole restaurant gave them a standing ovation. Also the gold digger got struck by lightning, but she deserved it for being a gold digger. The end.” Literally Every Dhar Mann story.
@@tomurashigaraki-fn1bg I see a couple of brunettes and redheads like my first introduction was of him shaming a brunette then it was a blound. Lastly I did remember a redhead but it was a cheating story. Anyways what I'm saying is I'm glad I grew up and relized how much of a cringey sleaze the man is from his constant need of shaming women who want a good standard
The thing about gold digging is it’s 95% of the time a two way agreement. If a guy doesn’t want to attract women who want him for his money, why would he try to use money to impress beautiful 22 year olds?
The only explanations that come to mind is a lack of imagination, or a lack of self-respect. For those that lack imagination, they can’t visualize any alternative to transactional eroticism & ego-stroking, so they go along with a hollow path and never really try to get out. For those that really don’t think highly of themselves, they’re stuck in a painful cliche that all they have to offer as a person is $$$ and take this pain out on others.
@@beththegreen god that's disrespectful as fuck, and everyone is on their side because of the awful stigma against SW. Doing that is dishonest and not okay. Those guys are fucking scum for trying to pull that shit
@@vih6650 I've seen a lot of sugar babies and former sugar babies say they never did anything sexual, just spent time with their daddies and mommies and some even became friends with them. So I'm not sure about this. Obviously there is always a risk when meeting with a stranger who also has a lot of money but for the most part it seems to be a legit arrangement between consenting adults
Probably, it's because the man wants to impress the woman into liking him, but of course, if a woman is only with the guy for his money, then i dont need to tell you how that'll end lmao
highschoolers??? I've written stories identical to this in deadass elementary school 💀 like seriously a decent middle school student writes better than this, even against their will.
@Orlokk Noxx yess! That entitlement is what sickens me actually. Just because you're a "good guy" doesn't mean you are entitled to all the worldly pleasures and "hot women".
@@DaalMakhani It strange you do not realize that it is the reverse. It is solidly women who think because of their bodies and because of their birth and anatomy that they should be provided money by men in life and dating. You are not working hard enough to create an expansive enough lie in order to sell your men are entitled pitch. You have working against you the most obvious facts of reality like how men are the breadwinners who pay for and do basically all of the work in the beginning of alĺ relationships. So, when you lie and claim men are entitled when you are trying to cover up how entitled and spoiled women are put more work into your writing.
It's interesting that some people frown upon women marrying someone much wealthier than them and assume those women are gold diggers, yet many people still hold the antiquated belief that it's improper for a woman to make more money than her husband. What are women supposed to do?
Yep. My parents divorced because of that antiquated belief. My mom was the breadwinner, because she was a degreed professional. My dad did odd jobs because he was a high school dropout.
@@darlalathan6143 your mom deserves better the whole issue around this problem just drives me crazy I have so many women in my neighbour who were top in the studies but simply sat home just because it wasn't socially acceptable for them to get jobs
It's amusing how guys like him quite probably just want a woman as an accessory, a trophy to show off, but oh nooo she doesn't like me for only me and my personality!??
The thing I realized about Dhar Mann’s storytelling is this: He tells stories the way they used to tell stories in Church. There’s almost no nuance and everything gets tied up real tidy in unrealistic ways for the protagonists while the antagonists have to be demolished by life. No wonder he does so well on social media.
@@Sabrina-sc1db Yes! That is it to a T. The funniest thing about The Bible is that there is some superb storytelling in there but Churches boil those stories down to some anecdotes and up the melodrama lol.
@@brandonalejandroblanco It IS disrespectful to Veggietales, don't do my boys Bob and Larry like that,lol. This reminds me more of those bad church skits the pastor/older deacons would write and have kids perform during vacation bible school or a simplified version of a REALLY bad Tyler Perry project.
the message doesn't seem to be "don't be rude to poor people" but instead "don't be rude to poor people BECAUSE MAYBE ONE DAY THEY WILL BE RICH AND WORTHY OF LOVE"
Only broke men complain about gold diggers because they CANT offer money. Rich men are usually generous and love spending money on women. You see it all the time in the media, how many famous people will fly out someone to come across the country? Or to another country? You don’t ever see rich men complaining, especially older rich men, because they know they can’t just benefit from having a beautiful woman that’s pleasant to be around without contributing something. Broke men want beautiful and high class women and they want those women to lower their standards so those women can be attainable to them.
Guys around age 30 on tinder always complain about gold diggers in their bio. Meanwhile they have age preference starting at 18 & only want women much more attractive than themselves. Also idk why they’re worried because the ones complaining always look too broke to have gold diggers going after them.
There’s always a gender specific insults when it comes to women. A woman that seeks men for their possessions are called “gold-diggers”. But what do we call a man who seeks to get women with his positions? Nothing, I propose ………🤔 “gold-dangler” he walks around dangling his wealth to get dates then calls those dates “gold-diggers”
Also, some men marry rich older women for their money. And now, we have same-sex marriages, so poor women can marry rich women and poor men can marry rich men, too! They all get the same name: Sugar Babies!
He's just fantasizing about finding a woman who wants to become financially dependent on him. Guys with paper-thin confidence are into that, it's an unhealthy submission thing.
Yup, my father does that, he seeks out partners who are financially dependent on him and who are less formally educated than him, it's incredibly shitty bc these women end up "stuck" in these dynamics.
These videos actually changed my life. I was a gold digger for hundreds of years, but after watching Dhar man I instantly regretted it and went on a date with a man who didn’t order bottle service at ihop. That man was Steve Jobs.
Actually I am pissed off that they show this "gold digger" trope as being only female. I am female and I recently had a boyfriend leave me because I was not doing well in my studies and not earning money or having a successful career. He didn't want gifts from me but everything else fit the gold digger trope. If he had said "I can't be with you because I need someone financially stable" it would be one thing. But he strung me along while waiting to find a girl with more money or just in case I do get successful. I would love it if my life turns into a gender swapped Dhar Mann video lol. That he sees me in several years and I have a good career and he's like "we could back together again you know" but I have a great husband already. That would be cool.
Bestie in the first sketch really started talking shit about her friend to a guy she _just_ met and he turned it into a gendered insult - and they're supposed to be the cardboard heroes we uncritically support? So much for, "He looks like a nice guy and that's all I care about."
Plot twist: this was a PSA about stealthy gold diggers. The friend was the real one the whole time. She'd done some recon, knew who he was, and her friend was there to make her look better by comparison. That's why she ignoring how sexist he was
I even thought , the blonde girl doesn't want the friend to ride back with someone she doesn't even know ... because that's only right . But suddenly it becomes all about the car and the 'nice-girl' also cares about the nice car only because, "Don't judge a book by its cover"
he seems like the person to say “all women are the same” but when he meets literally any woman he tells them they “aren’t like other girls” and that he’s a “nice guy”
I love how these “gOlD diGgeRs” are always completely entitled and emotionally abusive and never just… adults in consenting relationships with adults who knew exactly what they were offering/getting into.
That’s exactly my issue with his videos. It’s always, “Be nice to people who look homeless because they may secretly be rich.” Homeless people who are actually homeless deserve respect, too.
@@rulerofkripsy9143 Whatever your upkeep is (includes basic needs (food, hygiene, rent/mortgage, furniture, commuting, insurances) as well as personal financial needs (hobbies, a love for travelling, etc.)). On top of that: upkeep for your future family (aka kids if you want any) and enough income to put back some of it into savings each months in case you/your SO lose their job.
men were the one who wanted women to sit at home and look pretty while they worked so now if women r attracted to financial stability its their fault 🥴
One thing i’m suddenly noticing is that they consistently make the woman out to be the villain for wanting diamond rings, expensive cars, steak and wine, etc. Her wanting these things is what makes her shallow. But when the man suddenly gets really rich and is able to provide these things, he’s not seen as shallow for giving these same exact things to his new girlfriend. There’s no questioning in what makes these items valuable as gifts, it’s just that it’s only bad to want these things if you’re a woman.
I agree that making a story highlighting giving them to another girlfriend is quite weird... that's some strange cognitive dissonance shit or I don't know what. That guy is very strange in general. BUT wanting certain products for yourself only if/when you go to work and earn the money for them is very different than wanting them to be gifted to you. Someone considering those different things would not be being hypocritical.
@@gavinjenkins899 working to get it yourself and merely wanting it is different, true, but the stories never bother to question why people want them other than their association with wealth. This association is also apparently what makes them great gifts for women, but wanting them as a woman makes you shallow. It’s only ok to recieve things when you’re a woman but making your wants known is painted as bad, and the fact the stories *never* have women working to get these things at all is itself really telling.
@Arthur Frayn I'm not "confused" about anything, I just am saying I think you're wrong about the facts here. Most kids are from marriages > Kids are expensive > Dads (and probably also moms too) work more than they would if not parents to scramble to pay for expensive kids > statistics end up showing married men as earning more as a result of a third variable not directly related to gender dynamics: expensive kids
Men who are worried about gold diggers are usually the type that a gold digger wouldn't want. Wealthy men know what's up. Why do people think they need protecting, lol. It's weird to me.
The moment a man attains means, gold diggers are the very first thing they seek out. Men SAY they don’t like gold diggers, but their actions prove otherwise.
This a little outdated and it is overgeneralization. Men are aware that now women are a lot more career driven and successful too, some of them even support it greatly. To be dependent on someone's credit card is not an argiment of actually winning in a debate which tackles how moral or immoral is for a woman to manipulate a man for his money.
I think she meant the way women are portrayed in these Dhar Mann videos that repeatedly show women being financially dependent on men then proceed to make them golddiggers. You can't have it both ways.
Doesnt this all read like capitalist propaganda lolllll? "Want to make your ex wish she stayed? start a business today! " "Want the girls in LA to be jealous of your partner? Buy a club!" "Want the women who rejected you to wish they had stayed for the money? Switch out your current car for a Rolls Royce!"
nailed it. businessmen often do vids like these as part of ad campaigns for their 'entrepreneur help' companies. it's promo basically for the kind of business he's in.
I find it telling that all of these videos are completely one-dimensional horribly made up sketches. It's almost like gold diggers aren't some society-wide problem or something
Cody ko met Dhar mann and he said the videos are simple for a reason. They're easy to understand so even people who don't speak a lot of English will understand them. I think that's partly why the videos are one-dimensional and popular.
@@Niniminns so you agree that they choose superficial subjects that work well in that one-dimensional format. Thus, his videos’ messages are superficial, yet pretending to be great philosophical messages with overarching importance. That’s the problem.
@@Niniminns because people who don't speak english can't process complex visuals? Has this guy forgotten how subtle silent movies were at their height? Corrected typo.
@@sisuguillam5109 I also think the videos could be better. I just repeated what he said because I know it can be hard to understand videos when you don't speak the language. The ideas are probably also bad because they make too many videos and they know which ones their audience likes. Maybe that's why they don't try to come up with new and better ideas.
I'm really hoping that once Tara hits 1mil subs (like she deserves), she'll make a video and be like "Well, enough of you have subscribed" and then brings out an actual cow and is like "Q&A time!" And then the rest of the video is just the cow sitting there
and most of the time, they’re not rich, too. they hate gold diggers so much but once they have money, they’d be spending it on girls anyway. it’s almost like they’re just projecting their insecurities on women. 🥴
They want us to sign a contract/prenup before we date them to protect their money. Ok you sign a contract that you won’t cheat on her when she ages? Didn’t think sooooo
@@highlyelasticpunchingbag9423 I would say that if the ¨poor¨ guys didn´t just end up rich. Like how do we know that the person they´re with now isn´t interested in their money? Also, I think it´s stupid to claim someone doesn´t need a financially stable partner. I would not date a broke man because I myself am not broke. Am I a gold digger simply because I would not date someone who makes less than me? No, I just have standards.
I love how the non-gold-diggers win by getting what the gold-diggers want in the end anyway, because he believes all women are ultimately superficial and greedy.
Exactly! Like in the one where the guy got promoted, he instantly gave his fiancée a better ring and a better car. Because of course women only cared about material things, even though they are not gold digger. Personally, I wouldn't be moved if I was in the woman's position. The guy can of course spend his money the way he wants, but if the car is still functional, I would prefer to invest the money or at least save it for something more practical. Secondly, where's the logic? The guy just got promoted, so he probably hasn't receive his pay raise yet. And where did the ring and the car even come from? How did he have the time to buy those things between going into the meeting and learning about his promotion? Unless he already knew it beforehand.
According to Dhar Mann, the universally "good ending" for all these female characters is living a luxurious life by way of being married to a rich and successful guy- the only thing setting the "bad" women apart from the "good" is that they actively pursued that end goal, whereas for the "good" women it's just a fortunate extra that they weren't looking for but happened to passively fall onto their lap. So- again, according to Dhar Mann here- as a woman, I'm allowed to have nice things as long as I'm not actively trying to get them. I too, can have a luxurious life as long as I'm not ambitious. Cool.
@@petiteange08 exactly, that stressed me out. Like I'd be sad if the car of our whole relationship that worked fine was just gone, they bought a brand new car that immediately drops in value, and bought an expensive ring without getting paid. No. That's how you don't manage money and stay broke.
I would like to add another thing about “gold diggers” “Gold diggers” are always blonde, white and wear revealing clothing so I grew up thinking that if I see any women who is blonde and wears revealing clothing they are gold diggers. Which that’s not true u can be modest and not blonde and be a gold digger. Also we’re always blaming women for being gold diggers but not blame the guy for using the girl for her looks
"Are there more women looking to date rich men than there are men looking to date physically beautiful women? Why cover one so much more than the other?" Already good off the bat. SAY IT AGAIN FOR THE MEN WITH THEIR HANDS OVER THEIR EARS Thank you Tara for always making such amazing videos. Also thank you Cow (what's her name though??) for the great writing!
You have to consider the source whenever you hear “women are [blank]”. I was listening to a guy complain that women are immature and gold diggers, but then he complained how these college girls who think they’re hot shit will age. You have these middle aged men complaining about women who are just barely legal - she’s not established yet, doesn’t know herself yet. Maybe women would stop seeming like children if you stopped dating children (relative to your age).
@@haribhandari5309 cause younger means less experienced. Either they want easier oportunities or a more vulnerable target to manipulate. With is disgusting.
Also can we talk about how most young men are no different? Especially in a capitalist society where we are all trained to be materialistic. Men have plenty of expensive toys too. Name brand shoes, cars, games, sports and hobbies for men. And it's not really young peoples fault for wanting this stuff because we are trained to want it.
Dhar man reminds me of every guy in my school who thought himself to be a intellectual but actually just spouts vaguely progressive stuff by putting down others
I've met so many pretentious assholes like that over the years, and they never cease to exasperate and disgust me. I even had a couple of shitty 'friends' who would insult my intelligence and denigrate me in the third person as though I wasn't even present, despite the fact that I was literally sitting with them. They did it because they wrongly assumed that I wouldn't be hip to social cues, as I am a high functioning autistic/Aspie. I told them to fuck off, that I knew exactly what they was doing, and that I had had enough of their unilateral 'friendship'. It feels so incredibly satisfying to put hipster pricks like that in their place.
I met this type of guy who is now my ex. He always wanted to get rich and be featured in Forbes. He low-key brought me and others to make him alpha. He got scammed by Dan lok get rich quick scheme and lost almost 20k us dollars. I warned him about this fishy scheme and not to trust this guy before but he ignored completely and even told me that I was dumb and stupid. Now who is the dumb one?
I've had two partners label me as a gold digger despite the fact they were broke and I was the one paying the bills. I had another partner who was wealthy who dragged the old and tired gold digger label out and used it as an excuse when he wanted to trade me in for a younger model. During the course of our 4 year relationship I remained financially independent and never was into or asked him to buy me designer items (although he attempted to thinking that's what all women want). It's the mindset of certain men that they cling to regardless of objective facts. Sad losers regardless of the size of their wallet.
Dhar Mann has this weird thing where the nice person is actually insanely wealthy. Like almost every time one of the characters says something like “money doesn’t matter” or “don’t judge a book by its cover” and then it turns out that money actually DOES matter, because it will just land on your lap and then everything will be perfect.
@@theanxiouslegume9280 Ironic thing is, blonde hair was considered exotic, even in ancient Rome. And blond women were once originally seen as the epitome of innocence and purity, like a Disney Princess.
@@sammyvictors2603 Like most hair colours, blonde hair had different connotations throughout history and the world. I am a redhead. In certain parts of history, I could have earned a saint like status or been burned as a witch. Social and economic factors, including rarity, race, class etc. motivated the way the bias swayed. A lot of the pushing of blonde hair signifying innocence and purity does have a racial bias behind it, which should be acknowledged. I think the real reason Dhar Man chose (mostly) artificial blondes to play his villain women was just because it's a lazy "bougie" stereotype. His casting of women in general is filled with a lot of stereotypes, but I appreciate how at least the gold diggers' age matches the man's in most cases
@not relevant yeah lol. The Salem witch hunters found an excuse to burn any woman they didn't like. Left handed women were also considered witches. Redhead and ginger are considered the same thing nowadays. But I remember as a teen back in the late 2000s, ginger was used as a derogatory term for redheads that people (mostly men) found unattractive. I'm sure there are still memes from that time floating around See also: fire crotch & kick a ginger day
These are so unrealistic, I love that the ‘instant regret’ is the friend suddenly being rich, like wtf? Plus doesn’t that kind of contradict the point in these 🤣
Umm, no. Not at all. The friend isn't in a relationship solely for the purpose for money, so no point is contradicted. Also, wanting to be rich is not being a gold digger.
The video that annoyed me the most was the one where a random guy approaches women and goes "I just became homeless and I have nothing but this box and I want to GIVE it to you , would you like to go out with me" and when the women reject it, he shows a Gucci back and go like "omg let me take it now" Like?? Who tf takes a random box from a homeless guy? That's OK?
Lol if anything like that happened in real life there'd probably be a poop or a dismembered finger in the box. Like who tf would take a box from a stranger, let alone a woman take anything from a strange man??
@Judy Mwanzo Right? And women also only care about status symbols that are given to them from men instead of getting it for themselves? Just... what? Most women I know irl who VERY loosely resemble these weird stereotypes, don't need a boyfriend to get them things like that because they already have them cause either their filthy rich parents already give them those things and or they just already live in those kind of circles. They already live in that culture and they run with guys who are also already in that culture. "Gold diggers" are making an exchange and the men they're with generally already know that. And not to mention, these men actively want and seek out women like this. I'd say it's pretty even. In these goofy churchy feel good rub it in your face videos "nice guys" only exist to find a trophy wife they can flex with and never seem to have any standards for themselves either, other than that they want a girlfriend that doesn't complain and will go along with all of his life choices instead of seeking her own + revenge ending as if that still makes them a nice guy.
I hate how he always makes the "good characters" succeed, it's so unrealistic and spreads an idea that an unwealthy person can only have worth or genuinely be good if they eventually become rich.
it's such a relentless assault of every single line of dialogue having the exact same subtext of "gold digger woman bad, rich man dumb and innocent" it feels violent
I’ve had a man who lived in MY house, of which *I* paid all the bills and utilities for while he didn’t have a job for OVER 3 YEARS accuse me of “just using him for his money” within 6 months of him getting a minimum wage job when I asked him to take over paying some of the bills for a little while. And of course he also told me “I don’t understand money” or “finical burden” on top of that.
@@toomuchinformation gaslighting is his bread and butter. I’ve emotionally detached which has saved my sanity but he’s also my child’s father so I still have to have him in my life which is what it is. 🙃
That's crazy, what's even crazier is this is not even uncommon, I've seen so many stories like this, we really ought to teach women to value themselves more and avoid men like this, who use them for their money but somehow think they're the ones being used?? Talk about being delusional I rlly hope you're better off now, even if that man is your child's father, I know too many people who don't have the means to walk away from a similar situation and it breaks my heart
Anyone else disturbed by the fact that his idea of the roles being reversed have to do with fertility and not money? There's multiple plotlines just like this but it's a woman not being able to have children and the man knocking up another woman, feels like Dharr Mann thinks men's value is in the money they earn and women's is in the ability to bear children, gross.
Memememe women are so independent nowadays, I cant possibly feel like a man with a woman earning as much as I do. Memememe women are just gold diggers nowadays. Decide for once what you want to cry about
Why don't we as a society give the same amount of energy we give to gold diggers as we do to men who use women until they're financially stable (aka "a come up") then dump them?
I didn't know this was a Black thing, just look at celebrities. I'm surprised when I see a famous man married to a woman his own age or one he's been with before he got famous. Like Samuel L. Jackson and Keanu Reeves are the only ones I can think of.
I hope the cow is okay...The more I am hooked on this channel ,the more I start worrying about the cow not appearing in any episodes...Please let her know that we love her and support her decision to stay anonymous and away from the spotlight...
@@jamesmeow3039 You do realize the amount of teasing or even bullying that likely happened due to Tara's last name? The cow is her pain turned into a joke, so people will laugh with her and not at her. (Maybe, I'm not her therapist.)
Well, here is my lil conspiracy theory. Tara is actually milking cow's whole idea and use it to create awesome videos. The cow actually want to be on the video and get all the credits she deserve but Tara always make sure the Cow is too tired to show up. I demand a receipt on her wellness! lol
@@JaY-nn6ss That was my original idea...I know it's a very dark theory and I hope the cow is safe...If this is indeed true ,I will continue to support the cow and encourage her to come forward and share her story...
His videos scream “pick me” energy. Added it’s funny he makes this a topic considering he dated Lilly Ghalichi, who exuded the persian Barbie lifestyle. And he was exposed as a scammer when their engagement ended. Like ok dude we get it. And I could’ve sworn he was supposedly engaged
100% i feel like he couldn't keep up with her. She's beautiful smart educated and is a successful business woman whereas he seems intimidated by strong women
I thank you Tara, and all the comments that keep me educated. I used to have a lot of internal misogyny towards myself and other women. I'm glad at this day and age that people are speaking out against toxic behavior that is defined as normal. I'm not perfect, just a regular person with toxic tendencies instilled in me from childhood that I'm working to change for the betterment of myself and the way I see others. (edited for spelling)
It’s so weird to me that these men are supposed to be good catches when like they aren’t financially stable, yet still are trying to start their own business, and in at least one example ask where a woman wants to go for dinner and then is like: oof sorry that’s a no go, how bout Denny’s. And literally the only other thing they have to offer is, “But...Babe. Babe, wait!” Um... idk man, maybe let the dream go if your business has been failing for years, you’re dead broke because of your bad financial decisions, and it’s ruining your life. I’m not saying you should get into relationships for money but acting like financial stability in a partner isn’t important for reasons other than being shallow, when one of the most common reasons relationships fail is money trouble, is just strange.
It depends what you view as financial instability. These characters seem to do fine living within their means. I only don’t like where it shows them being all flashy with their money as soon as they get it. That gives me more of a red flag warning than anything. It shows irresponsibility and a lack of foresight. Lol but maybe that’s just reading too deep into Dhar Mann 😅
And it's also like : either some woman "helps him in every step to reach where he is" ( he can't probably help himself ) , or he gets just another pretty woman as a trophy after he is successful ( this woman might be a gold digger as well !) . Weird. Where in reality , business doesn't suddenly flourish after a break up , it takes time and patience. And very often women who help men through study and bad financial decisions , get dumped in the end for a prettier woman who has nothing more to offer . These stories look very very childish.
here's my take...while these vids are overblown and stereotypical, you're very quick to assume what it's like to start a business. Also, financial problems can't be blamed on the man entirely. There's a lot of factors going into things like these. A lot of people look to save money when going for a startup so they don't purchase things they can otherwise afford. Just like how we can't assume all 'golddiggers' are just shallow liars, it's wrong to assume men with financial problems somehow deserve to be mistreated. Try not to defend the villain so much --- she's a hypothetical one dimensional character after all.
@@briananana751 yeah, whenever the character gets money and IMMEDIATELY starts blowing it, I'm like "wow dude, I can see why you were so broke before. I'd dump you, too." It's like painting poor money management skills as a virtue almost. Edit: like if my boyfriend got a hiring bonus and bought a new car the SAME DAY, I'd be gone.
Let’s address another issue. When many of these women stay with these broke men as soon as the men become rich they leave them for “hotter” girls. If the women had stayed in this video, there was no guarantee the men wouldn’t have dumped them five minutes after becoming a millionaire
It’s weird that in these stories women aren’t meant to like expensive things but the reward for being “loyal” is always expensive things. Also it’s unbelievably obvious he’s been hurt by a blonde woman before.
I've never understood the hate towards "gold diggers". Like, if he gets to use her for her body then I think she gets to use him for his money. If he can invade her temple she can invade his bank account! 💃💸 P.S. Those vegetable shopping guinea pigs did in fact make me scream. 😃
This is teaching women to stick around in hopes men will one day be rich and successful.... that doesn't always happen and you should like the guy nonetheless
More than that, to be with someone regardless of how stable they are. How will that work when you want a secure house and kids? Downright irresponsible.
Dhar man’s channel is basically just those “hated child becomes hybrid princess” gacha videos from a few years back only with slightly higher production quality
Dahr Mann has 100% made a sketch where he pulls the whole "disabled people are inspirational" thing. I can feel it. I can feel it in my bones. He also definitely did a sketch where a person has a disability, but the disability is presented as actually being a good thing, and that you get some sort of weird power from it to balance out the disability, because the moral was supposed to be "disabled people aren't less deserving as other people" but Dahr Mann can't comprehend the fact that someone can be unable to do certain things while also being just as good as everyone else. Also the disability is super misportrayed. Like a kid has autism or something but they just scream a lot and say weird things that don't make sense to anyone else, and we're supposed to just accept that that's autism. This is all 100% true. He has done all these things. There's just no way he hasn't. His content screams "Story format that is supposed to convey a moral but is just copied from other slightly less horrible pieces of media a thousand times over so the moral makes no sense now."
It's wild to me that these videos vilify women who value men solely for their wealth... while simultaneously centering the value of the men around becoming rich.
I love that the message in all of these isn't that you should love a person for who they are but that you should love them because they may become rich in the future 🤷🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
I love how the "moral" of these stories is alway "but she was wrong because he became rich later on." They all become rich in the end! It's never "he and his next girlfriend never became rich, but that didn't matter, because they realized that having a lot of money wasn't all that important to them and they were really happy anyway." or "his business idea never made him rich, but he really found purpose through his work." Like, even the guy making these videos that hate on gold diggers only sees these guys for their financial situation?
I wouldn't be surprised if Dhar Mann was once left for having this weirdly hypocritical company that "changes lives" by essentially making him rich. And he just spun it around in his head to think she was just a gold digger who believed he wasn't getting rich fast enough.
I like how all those videos imply that money still is the most important thing, the only bad thing seems to be women who don't want to wait until a man's business idea takes off. I wonder if that was based off anything....
Lmao imagine if he is projecting That maybe in the past While he Wasnt famous, a Girl didnt like him and so she rejected him, and now that he is rich he wants to get back to her even tho she problably couldnt care less.
everyone here talking about the California gold rush and this "Dharman" (who has no affiliation with Darkman, starring the great Liam Neeson), but NO ONE is talking about that POWERFUL sweater. It's like all of Kurt Cobain's wardrobe sewn into one piece.
The message with these is confusing. “Women shouldn’t think wealth is the most important thing about men, even though all important men eventually become wealthy.”
These videos are so weird because it's like, not even saying it's bad to be shallow. The moral is essentially "you should've waited it out, because nice people always get rich eventually--and being rich is still important."
@@alyssapinon9670 Ah, makes sense. But there's women who also hide behind the feminist label just to be shitty to men. And it's sad that people use activism as a way to be a bigot to the opposite group, not because they actually care. Right-wingers, for example.
It's so confusing how he writes the women as villains for wanting financial succes in the men, but then write the men as the heroes by .... making them achieve financial succes? It's so contradictory
These videos make me think Dhar Mann failed the “You can eat one marshmallow now, or wait five minutes and get two marshmallows” test as a kid and has been trying to prove he wouldn’t fail it again ever since
I'm kind of upset with how he used Black women in these. He's basically saying we don't have any financial standards for men. Like, sticking by your man while he builds himself up is fine obviously, but most of the time it doesn't benefit the Black woman and she ends up being left by the man for his true "preference" - most likely with a child or two. In truth, women in general should look at a man's character AND his economic position. Both will either negatively or positively affect you as a woman. Love doesn't pay the bills, put food on the table, or pay James' tuition for Harvard. It's not evil and cruel for a woman to consider a man's finances while vetting him. It's smart.
@luzon83 No, I'm complaining that he put Black women on a wobbly, dusty "not like other women" pedestal. He's basically saying we don't have standards for men financially and we'll just take you no matter how broke you are because pOtEnTiAl. That was true a couple of years ago but that's changing now.
@@TheGhostofAbigailMills You're so right. This portrayal of Black women is so popular yet so detrimental to us and our image. We need/have standards just like any other woman and they shouldn't be demonized.
a bit of a reach. i get your point but dhar mann's portrayal of women in general is more problematic. the black women are highlighted as the "good" "smart" "loyal" women. it might be a problem but it's not really going to affect the way people see black women unless black women prove the stereotype true. and i only saw two black women sticking with the "poor" man, the rest aren't specific on whether or not the woman got with him before or after he got money. the bigger issue here is his depiction of women only caring about money and nothing else.
They are getting married, and he blows his entire signing bonus on a flashy new car and a diamond ring? Shouldn't they have discussed these major purchases first?
Calling a woman a gold-digger, to me, is the same as saying a girl has "daddy issues". All the blame gets tossed onto the girl, but no one acknowledges that her father caused such issues.
I read somewhere that it's because lots of non native English speakers watch the videos, and the language is written to be easy to follow if your English isn't great
I wasn't a gold digger until Tara said "limited edition furbies". Now I ruined at least 30 men, got about 6 cars, 150 designer bags and a ravenous army of furbies* *limited editon
Ever notice Dhar Mann's fixation on the platinum blonde actress that always plays the gold digger/evil babysitter/spoiled girl? He absolutely has some kind of perverted fixation on her where he's obsessed with her getting "what she deserves". I don't know if she's a stand-in for a woman he once knew or if he has some kind of sick power fetish and loves watching her get humiliated, but it's creepy. I don't recall her ever playing the protagonist or having a happy conclusion.
To be honest my problem with these videos is that they have HAHA GET OWNED energy, which is fine as a one-off, but a more beneficial video would involve character growth for the villains. I feel that watching these one-dimentional charactitures break out of their ways and into something more likeable would leave some people feeling inspired to actually do better for themselves.
One of those videos actually does, I know because I've actually watched it and recognized it as soon as the clip started. The one I am referring to is where the 'gold digger' has to find a job because her man just got laid off. Before that point, she hurls abuse after abuse to the retail employee who tries to help her. Towards the end of that video, right after the point where the clip ended, the 'gold digger' is seen working in another retail establishment. She is then seen facing a "Karen" of her own and then after the experience, decides to then go to the store where she had been so abusive before and seeks out the employee that she abused. iirc, the video ends with the 'gold digger' apologizing for her rude behavior and then starting to help that worker from before by folding shirts with her... Now, obviously this isn't realistic but that's not what is in question... what is is the claim of no growth from the 'gold digger'. Unrealistic as this is, we do get character growth in this one. Worth a look...😅
I said the same thing when Hasan watched this garbage but these are literally just the Facebook incel meme where the nerd gets rich and tells the pregnant girl he used to have a crush on "get lost, chick". If only women these days would stop eating hot chip and lying.
Imagine the horrifying chaotic energy that would be released if we all stopped eating hot chip and lying. Those are the glue that keeps society from disintegrating into a total dystopia.
Jesus that second one where the guy's like "I just got a promotion! And I got you an expensive ring! And I just got a brand new car!" is so cringey. Plus, I would be kind a mad if my fiancé just got a promotion and started throwing money at shit we don't need. How about we save that money to pay for our wedding? Why do we need a new car? It really shows you the type of guy Dhar Mann is where he thinks owning expensive shit is the most important factor to being happy.
Lol yeah... you *just* got this job. Slow down. Shouldn't you... Idk... create a safety net before all of those new expensive things. Also, why did he get rid of the old car without consulting her? Maybe she was still willing to put it to use and have some independence. Ugh. So dumb
“So you’re telling me before you even GOT the promotion you went out and put an engagement ring AND A SPORTS CAR (both of which start to lose value pretty much right away) on credit?? I changed my mind. Here’s both rings back.”
Lol totally agree. He could have been financially responsible and used the money to pay their mortgage, or save the money for their children's education, or invest the money to make more money.... I can think of so many ways to better use his pay raise than buying a ring or a new car. At least good jewellery can keep some value over long term, a new car would lose value the instant they put it on the road.
😂😂😂 I was just thinking that. Not to mention, if we’re potentially sharing bank accounts and expenses at that point (which the video implies) I’d be a bit miffed he made a VERY expensive and risky purchase that could impact both of us without chatting with me first. That’s a yikes for me buddy.
Yeah, it really miffed me that he bought a car without letting her get an input in what car to get, since it's gonna be THEIR car. And maybe she doesn't want a new ring, maybe she has sentimental attachment to the old one! But I guess as long as it's expensive, nothing else matters?? I guess it's like they say, "money don't care about your feelings"... something like that
FYI the Boris Johnson toy is Siggy's, don't worry..."I'm not a tory" 😂
If you fancy getting your dog a politician to chew up this is where I got it: pethatestoys.com
ALSO here's the article I mentioned: nationalpost.com/life/relationships/in-defence-of-the-gold-digger-and-the-fight-for-class-economic-and-gender-equality
Siggy for PM! Absolutely destroyed toy Johnson in their latest debate by burying him in the backyard.
Oh come on Tara! We all know that you voted for Lord Buckethead!
Does that mean Siggy is....a tory??!
you're so obviously not a tory that this is even funnier
Hey, just so you know, the captions start to break after the first clip and start transcribing about the next scenes, being pretty much useless 😅
It's not addressed why these 'nice guys' are dating these horrible one dimensional women, so we can only assume it's because of their looks. If I were a hack writer I'd at least have the gold diggers be NICE at first, come on! Build up the story! Give me some suspense and a TWIST!
😭 take over his channel pls
@@lovecraftscat5044 for real, he's so lazy and just reinforces the same tropes over and over again... imagine if someone actually creative had his funding...
Or how come no guy runs into his ex with a wife and when he catches up with the "villian," he's just talking about how he's working a regular job that makes him really happy. Seems a bit hypocritical to say "liking money bad!" but then end every one ends with the guy just flaunting material prizes from his success
INSTANTLY REGRETS IT
Don't give them ideas, there's a Lot of this channels and are really good at manipulating people's mind
i love how the moral is never actually the "what's inside really counts" like they claim, but rather "dont be a gold digger because the person you avoided might end up rich and you missed out on that"
And that's the Freudian "tea".
true!
Yup or "marry a poor man but only because he'll end up rich on e day and then you'll regret it missing out on that."
yep, still just as shallow. men can be shallow about money but women can’t, apparently. it’s not about morality, it’s about a power struggle
You're right. In these sketches the non-materialistic girl gets rewarded with....material possessions. Even though women who were interested in material possessions are bad. reminds of religious movies with all of that circular logic and melodrama
What is this mess of dystopia where women can’t work and don’t have any aspirations other than being with a really average guy?!
I think Jane Austen wrote some good novels set in that universe
@@billyjones-1996 BYE😭😭😭
@@billyjones-1996 first of all, how dare you. Second of all, how can you say something so controversial yet so brave.
My girl Margaret Atwood told me about a dream she had like that...😉
@@billyjones-1996 Regency England was a little bit different from the 21st-century US
“Once upon a time a hot woman settled for an average looking guy, and accepted & loved absolutely everything about him, despite that not being how healthy relationships work. He then rewarded her by being secretly wealthy (which she was surprisingly ecstatic about, considering how adamant she was before about money not mattering). Then he was promoted to Very Wealthy, and they drove away in an ostentatious car while the whole restaurant gave them a standing ovation. Also the gold digger got struck by lightning, but she deserved it for being a gold digger. The end.”
Literally Every Dhar Mann story.
Wait r u saying that accepting every part of someone is not healthy, or that dhar man is portraying that statement as true? Sorry im really slow
Dhar Mann: "Don't judge a book by its cover"
Also Dhar Mann: *makes the gold diggers look as stereotypical as possible*
THISSS hahahaha
Yes like he makes the antagonist with black and white thinking like there are gray areas
@@hadbetterdays8118 and he also makes them feminine and blonde women as if men can't be "goldigers"
@@tomurashigaraki-fn1bg I see a couple of brunettes and redheads like my first introduction was of him shaming a brunette then it was a blound. Lastly I did remember a redhead but it was a cheating story. Anyways what I'm saying is I'm glad I grew up and relized how much of a cringey sleaze the man is from his constant need of shaming women who want a good standard
all Dharmann videos are stereotypical.
Also, it's fine to call out toxic femininity from time to time.
The thing about gold digging is it’s 95% of the time a two way agreement. If a guy doesn’t want to attract women who want him for his money, why would he try to use money to impress beautiful 22 year olds?
@@beththegreen omg true
The only explanations that come to mind is a lack of imagination, or a lack of self-respect.
For those that lack imagination, they can’t visualize any alternative to transactional eroticism & ego-stroking, so they go along with a hollow path and never really try to get out. For those that really don’t think highly of themselves, they’re stuck in a painful cliche that all they have to offer as a person is $$$ and take this pain out on others.
@@beththegreen god that's disrespectful as fuck, and everyone is on their side because of the awful stigma against SW. Doing that is dishonest and not okay. Those guys are fucking scum for trying to pull that shit
@@vih6650 I've seen a lot of sugar babies and former sugar babies say they never did anything sexual, just spent time with their daddies and mommies and some even became friends with them. So I'm not sure about this. Obviously there is always a risk when meeting with a stranger who also has a lot of money but for the most part it seems to be a legit arrangement between consenting adults
Probably, it's because the man wants to impress the woman into liking him, but of course, if a woman is only with the guy for his money, then i dont need to tell you how that'll end lmao
These feel like they were written by highschoolers against their will
"against their will" 😂😂😂
Haha.
highschoolers??? I've written stories identical to this in deadass elementary school 💀 like seriously a decent middle school student writes better than this, even against their will.
Nah, those are 13 year old's badly written wattpad stories with 50 spelling/grammar mistakes every 4 sentences.
Completely agree
Every single "skit" is every nice guy's wet dream!
{ Woman not respect ME!
Woman leave ME!
Success becomes ME!
Women fall over for ME! }
@Orlokk Noxx yess! That entitlement is what sickens me actually. Just because you're a "good guy" doesn't mean you are entitled to all the worldly pleasures and "hot women".
@@DaalMakhani and most of the time they just THINK they are good guys, and are actually not.
I also like it how people gettin' depicted as replaceable.
@@DaalMakhani It strange you do not realize that it is the reverse. It is solidly women who think because of their bodies and because of their birth and anatomy that they should be provided money by men in life and dating. You are not working hard enough to create an expansive enough lie in order to sell your men are entitled pitch. You have working against you the most obvious facts of reality like how men are the breadwinners who pay for and do basically all of the work in the beginning of alĺ relationships.
So, when you lie and claim men are entitled when you are trying to cover up how entitled and spoiled women are put more work into your writing.
@@andrewsindler5867 oh well gee, who invited you here? And are you related to Russell Hartley in any way?
It's interesting that some people frown upon women marrying someone much wealthier than them and assume those women are gold diggers, yet many people still hold the antiquated belief that it's improper for a woman to make more money than her husband. What are women supposed to do?
Yep. My parents divorced because of that antiquated belief. My mom was the breadwinner, because she was a degreed professional. My dad did odd jobs because he was a high school dropout.
Needlepoint.
@@darlalathan6143 your mom deserves better the whole issue around this problem just drives me crazy I have so many women in my neighbour who were top in the studies but simply sat home just because it wasn't socially acceptable for them to get jobs
It's amusing how guys like him quite probably just want a woman as an accessory, a trophy to show off, but oh nooo she doesn't like me for only me and my personality!??
The fact that part of it is so taken for granted by them shows how they see women... not as full people like men, but pretty objects
The thing I realized about Dhar Mann’s storytelling is this: He tells stories the way they used to tell stories in Church. There’s almost no nuance and everything gets tied up real tidy in unrealistic ways for the protagonists while the antagonists have to be demolished by life. No wonder he does so well on social media.
"Homeless man that was actually Jesus" vibes
Thank You! I'm glad I'm not the only one who got "Church Play" vibes from his videos.
@@Sabrina-sc1db Yes! That is it to a T. The funniest thing about The Bible is that there is some superb storytelling in there but Churches boil those stories down to some anecdotes and up the melodrama lol.
@@thegeneralpopulace8513 It took me awhile to realize but it’s very Veggietales storytelling and that might be disrespectful to VeggieTales lol.
@@brandonalejandroblanco It IS disrespectful to Veggietales, don't do my boys Bob and Larry like that,lol. This reminds me more of those bad church skits the pastor/older deacons would write and have kids perform during vacation bible school or a simplified version of a REALLY bad Tyler Perry project.
the message doesn't seem to be "don't be rude to poor people" but instead "don't be rude to poor people BECAUSE MAYBE ONE DAY THEY WILL BE RICH AND WORTHY OF LOVE"
💅 love it.
@Arthur Frayn bruh no
@Arthur Frayn shut the fuck up
@Arthur Frayn calm down tough guy you’re on the internet
@Arthur Frayn shut the fuck up
I feel like Dhar Mann is just projecting, he is insecure that he has nothing to offer in a relationship but money
Pretty sad honestly
@@kf1439 “ugh why are all women gold diggers??” Maybe because you only attract gold diggers
Only broke men complain about gold diggers because they CANT offer money. Rich men are usually generous and love spending money on women. You see it all the time in the media, how many famous people will fly out someone to come across the country? Or to another country? You don’t ever see rich men complaining, especially older rich men, because they know they can’t just benefit from having a beautiful woman that’s pleasant to be around without contributing something. Broke men want beautiful and high class women and they want those women to lower their standards so those women can be attainable to them.
I doubt that the videos represent his own world view. He found a content niche and is milking it.
lol this is such a burn that it is gonna keep me warm till next winter lol
Guys around age 30 on tinder always complain about gold diggers in their bio. Meanwhile they have age preference starting at 18 & only want women much more attractive than themselves. Also idk why they’re worried because the ones complaining always look too broke to have gold diggers going after them.
There’s always a gender specific insults when it comes to women. A woman that seeks men for their possessions are called “gold-diggers”. But what do we call a man who seeks to get women with his positions? Nothing, I propose ………🤔 “gold-dangler” he walks around dangling his wealth to get dates then calls those dates “gold-diggers”
Also, some men marry rich older women for their money. And now, we have same-sex marriages, so poor women can marry rich women and poor men can marry rich men, too! They all get the same name: Sugar Babies!
Dude there really are gender specific names for only women. Even son of a bitch (which is used to insult men) is really insulting his mother
Still gold digger
I'm going to use that
@@eiffiedarkness649*Sugar babies.
He's just fantasizing about finding a woman who wants to become financially dependent on him. Guys with paper-thin confidence are into that, it's an unhealthy submission thing.
That's not a life partner, thats a pet 😠 Why are Men
Get therapy not a girlfriend.
@@rcx9681 'why are men' is a question I've never asked myself before, but now it's all I can think about 😭
Yup, my father does that, he seeks out partners who are financially dependent on him and who are less formally educated than him, it's incredibly shitty bc these women end up "stuck" in these dynamics.
@Judy Mwanzo He has a team of writers? That's the most shocking thing i've read today
"I want a woman who relies on me financially and is attracted to my wealth and success." "No, not like that."
I think most people want someone to love them for who they are.
lol,
most men don't want golddiggers.
@@bvishal2knAnd what makes you think gold diggers would go after most men?If you have no gold then how can you expect gold diggers to come after you?
the most realistic part of these dhar mann videos is the character saying he maxed out his credit cards buying books for school
I bet my life savings one of his actors came up with that line. There's absolute no chance in this universe he came up with it himself.
These videos actually changed my life. I was a gold digger for hundreds of years, but after watching Dhar man I instantly regretted it and went on a date with a man who didn’t order bottle service at ihop. That man was Steve Jobs.
Actually I am pissed off that they show this "gold digger" trope as being only female. I am female and I recently had a boyfriend leave me because I was not doing well in my studies and not earning money or having a successful career. He didn't want gifts from me but everything else fit the gold digger trope. If he had said "I can't be with you because I need someone financially stable" it would be one thing. But he strung me along while waiting to find a girl with more money or just in case I do get successful. I would love it if my life turns into a gender swapped Dhar Mann video lol. That he sees me in several years and I have a good career and he's like "we could back together again you know" but I have a great husband already. That would be cool.
manifesting this for you bestie
Just write a book about that
Omg ,that's a statistical anomaly, lol.
Subliminals babe, manifest it
Your boyfriend shit you deserve better don't worry about him you gonna do great
I was thinking this had strong 'writer is an incel' vibes... and then the 'other guy' was literally named Chad... I cannot...
Yep. It's like these videos had a big Las Vegas neon sign saying "Incel," lol!
Legit, i just felt sad towards this videos
Bestie in the first sketch really started talking shit about her friend to a guy she _just_ met and he turned it into a gendered insult - and they're supposed to be the cardboard heroes we uncritically support? So much for, "He looks like a nice guy and that's all I care about."
exactly WHY ARE YOU FRIENDS WITH HER THEN?
Plot twist: this was a PSA about stealthy gold diggers. The friend was the real one the whole time. She'd done some recon, knew who he was, and her friend was there to make her look better by comparison. That's why she ignoring how sexist he was
I even thought , the blonde girl doesn't want the friend to ride back with someone she doesn't even know ... because that's only right . But suddenly it becomes all about the car and the 'nice-girl' also cares about the nice car only because, "Don't judge a book by its cover"
Tbh the blond friend is so funny
Why did she throw her under the bus like that just to get some dude's attention
he seems like the person to say “all women are the same” but when he meets literally any woman he tells them they “aren’t like other girls” and that he’s a “nice guy”
Or “not all men 🥺” kind of bs 😐
And he also gets offended when someone says “a lot men do this” and screams “NOT ALL MEN”
pick me guys
nice pfp 😝
Haha yessssss 😂
I love how these “gOlD diGgeRs” are always completely entitled and emotionally abusive and never just… adults in consenting relationships with adults who knew exactly what they were offering/getting into.
That’s exactly my issue with his videos. It’s always, “Be nice to people who look homeless because they may secretly be rich.” Homeless people who are actually homeless deserve respect, too.
broke: she's a gold digger
woke: he's a gold hoarder
We don't shame dragons in this household, we only shame Dhar Mann
Bespoke: he's a gold burier
While I do like financial stability, I despise the rich/wealthy and their decadent lifestyles. Like there's people starving, Jeff.
@@DM-nw5lu defining financial stable.
@@rulerofkripsy9143 Whatever your upkeep is (includes basic needs (food, hygiene, rent/mortgage, furniture, commuting, insurances) as well as personal financial needs (hobbies, a love for travelling, etc.)). On top of that: upkeep for your future family (aka kids if you want any) and enough income to put back some of it into savings each months in case you/your SO lose their job.
men were the one who wanted women to sit at home and look pretty while they worked so now if women r attracted to financial stability its their fault 🥴
HELLO! 😭😭😭SAY IT AGAIN!
Frr
When patriarchy backfires on men and they start throwing tantrums about it
@@pretty948 gotta be one of my favorite things
Preach girl
One thing i’m suddenly noticing is that they consistently make the woman out to be the villain for wanting diamond rings, expensive cars, steak and wine, etc. Her wanting these things is what makes her shallow. But when the man suddenly gets really rich and is able to provide these things, he’s not seen as shallow for giving these same exact things to his new girlfriend. There’s no questioning in what makes these items valuable as gifts, it’s just that it’s only bad to want these things if you’re a woman.
You said it better than me
Spot on.
I just sum it up and call it sexism... But for those struggling to see the weirdness here. They should read your comment lol.
I agree that making a story highlighting giving them to another girlfriend is quite weird... that's some strange cognitive dissonance shit or I don't know what. That guy is very strange in general. BUT wanting certain products for yourself only if/when you go to work and earn the money for them is very different than wanting them to be gifted to you. Someone considering those different things would not be being hypocritical.
@@gavinjenkins899 working to get it yourself and merely wanting it is different, true, but the stories never bother to question why people want them other than their association with wealth. This association is also apparently what makes them great gifts for women, but wanting them as a woman makes you shallow. It’s only ok to recieve things when you’re a woman but making your wants known is painted as bad, and the fact the stories *never* have women working to get these things at all is itself really telling.
@Arthur Frayn I'm not "confused" about anything, I just am saying I think you're wrong about the facts here.
Most kids are from marriages > Kids are expensive > Dads (and probably also moms too) work more than they would if not parents to scramble to pay for expensive kids > statistics end up showing married men as earning more as a result of a third variable not directly related to gender dynamics: expensive kids
Men who are worried about gold diggers are usually the type that a gold digger wouldn't want. Wealthy men know what's up. Why do people think they need protecting, lol. It's weird to me.
The moment a man attains means, gold diggers are the very first thing they seek out. Men SAY they don’t like gold diggers, but their actions prove otherwise.
Men : We want women who stays at home and cook.
Also men : Why this woman ask for my credit card?
😁😁😁
This a little outdated and it is overgeneralization.
Men are aware that now women are a lot more career driven and successful too, some of them even support it greatly.
To be dependent on someone's credit card is not an argiment of actually winning in a debate which tackles how moral or immoral is for a woman to manipulate a man for his money.
I think she meant the way women are portrayed in these Dhar Mann videos that repeatedly
show women being financially dependent on men then proceed to make them golddiggers.
You can't have it both ways.
@@Laplantelatte well dang, she shoudla clarified.
@@fleuve4737 I mean, there's always the context of the video she's leaving the comment under
@@hnnnnnnnnnng Yeah, ur right, I thought she meant in general. My bad.
Doesnt this all read like capitalist propaganda lolllll?
"Want to make your ex wish she stayed? start a business today! "
"Want the girls in LA to be jealous of your partner? Buy a club!"
"Want the women who rejected you to wish they had stayed for the money? Switch out your current car for a Rolls Royce!"
nailed it. businessmen often do vids like these as part of ad campaigns for their 'entrepreneur help' companies. it's promo basically for the kind of business he's in.
this
Oh my god I didn’t even realize this, you’re right!!
It's a sad ol' American dream thing.
I find it telling that all of these videos are completely one-dimensional horribly made up sketches. It's almost like gold diggers aren't some society-wide problem or something
Cody ko met Dhar mann and he said the videos are simple for a reason. They're easy to understand so even people who don't speak a lot of English will understand them. I think that's partly why the videos are one-dimensional and popular.
@@Niniminns so you agree that they choose superficial subjects that work well in that one-dimensional format. Thus, his videos’ messages are superficial, yet pretending to be great philosophical messages with overarching importance. That’s the problem.
@@Niniminns because people who don't speak english can't process complex visuals? Has this guy forgotten how subtle silent movies were at their height?
Corrected typo.
@@Niniminns does Dhar Mann think that foreigners are dumb?
@@sisuguillam5109 I also think the videos could be better. I just repeated what he said because I know it can be hard to understand videos when you don't speak the language. The ideas are probably also bad because they make too many videos and they know which ones their audience likes. Maybe that's why they don't try to come up with new and better ideas.
I'm really hoping that once Tara hits 1mil subs (like she deserves), she'll make a video and be like "Well, enough of you have subscribed" and then brings out an actual cow and is like "Q&A time!" And then the rest of the video is just the cow sitting there
This hits differently with the actors for the studio on strike for lack of pay and hostile working conditions.
I love how men that hate gold diggers are totally okay with the fact that what matters to them the most is how a woman looks
FR as if that's better in any way😭
bruh ikr
If you want beautiful godness woman, you have to spend on her to keep her. That is logic.
and most of the time, they’re not rich, too. they hate gold diggers so much but once they have money, they’d be spending it on girls anyway. it’s almost like they’re just projecting their insecurities on women. 🥴
They want us to sign a contract/prenup before we date them to protect their money. Ok you sign a contract that you won’t cheat on her when she ages? Didn’t think sooooo
So.....hunting for and liking money is bad....but if you're "nice and good" you'll be rewarded with money? Merica!
I mean, also like half of European fairy tale tradition. This shitty, weird attitude towards money existed long before the US
girl what? are you trying to say it's just in America or sum?💀
That’s fake. If you get with guys when they’re struggling they’ll leave you when they get where they want to be in life.
i think the message here is "dont be with the person solely because of their money, but because you actually like that person".
@@highlyelasticpunchingbag9423 I would say that if the ¨poor¨ guys didn´t just end up rich. Like how do we know that the person they´re with now isn´t interested in their money? Also, I think it´s stupid to claim someone doesn´t need a financially stable partner. I would not date a broke man because I myself am not broke. Am I a gold digger simply because I would not date someone who makes less than me? No, I just have standards.
I love how the non-gold-diggers win by getting what the gold-diggers want in the end anyway, because he believes all women are ultimately superficial and greedy.
Exactly! Like in the one where the guy got promoted, he instantly gave his fiancée a better ring and a better car. Because of course women only cared about material things, even though they are not gold digger. Personally, I wouldn't be moved if I was in the woman's position. The guy can of course spend his money the way he wants, but if the car is still functional, I would prefer to invest the money or at least save it for something more practical. Secondly, where's the logic? The guy just got promoted, so he probably hasn't receive his pay raise yet. And where did the ring and the car even come from? How did he have the time to buy those things between going into the meeting and learning about his promotion? Unless he already knew it beforehand.
🤒🤧🤕'cough cough' pick me
According to Dhar Mann, the universally "good ending" for all these female characters is living a luxurious life by way of being married to a rich and successful guy- the only thing setting the "bad" women apart from the "good" is that they actively pursued that end goal, whereas for the "good" women it's just a fortunate extra that they weren't looking for but happened to passively fall onto their lap. So- again, according to Dhar Mann here- as a woman, I'm allowed to have nice things as long as I'm not actively trying to get them. I too, can have a luxurious life as long as I'm not ambitious. Cool.
@@petiteange08 exactly, that stressed me out. Like I'd be sad if the car of our whole relationship that worked fine was just gone, they bought a brand new car that immediately drops in value, and bought an expensive ring without getting paid. No. That's how you don't manage money and stay broke.
I would like to add another thing about “gold diggers”
“Gold diggers” are always blonde, white and wear revealing clothing so I grew up thinking that if I see any women who is blonde and wears revealing clothing they are gold diggers. Which that’s not true u can be modest and not blonde and be a gold digger.
Also we’re always blaming women for being gold diggers but not blame the guy for using the girl for her looks
"Are there more women looking to date rich men than there are men looking to date physically beautiful women? Why cover one so much more than the other?" Already good off the bat. SAY IT AGAIN FOR THE MEN WITH THEIR HANDS OVER THEIR EARS
Thank you Tara for always making such amazing videos. Also thank you Cow (what's her name though??) for the great writing!
Why are so many people in the dhar mann universe willing to hang out in a parking garage to have their dramatic conversations
hello, big fish theory pfp, we meet again !
You have to consider the source whenever you hear “women are [blank]”. I was listening to a guy complain that women are immature and gold diggers, but then he complained how these college girls who think they’re hot shit will age. You have these middle aged men complaining about women who are just barely legal - she’s not established yet, doesn’t know herself yet. Maybe women would stop seeming like children if you stopped dating children (relative to your age).
Why is a middle aged man going after a college student ? Does he really think he is attractive enough to get a much younger girl ?
Lol there just of bunch of incels in denial ignore them boyo
damn spot on!
@@haribhandari5309 cause younger means less experienced. Either they want easier oportunities or a more vulnerable target to manipulate. With is disgusting.
Also can we talk about how most young men are no different? Especially in a capitalist society where we are all trained to be materialistic. Men have plenty of expensive toys too. Name brand shoes, cars, games, sports and hobbies for men. And it's not really young peoples fault for wanting this stuff because we are trained to want it.
Dhar man reminds me of every guy in my school who thought himself to be a intellectual but actually just spouts vaguely progressive stuff by putting down others
I've met so many pretentious assholes like that over the years, and they never cease to exasperate and disgust me. I even had a couple of shitty 'friends' who would insult my intelligence and denigrate me in the third person as though I wasn't even present, despite the fact that I was literally sitting with them. They did it because they wrongly assumed that I wouldn't be hip to social cues, as I am a high functioning autistic/Aspie. I told them to fuck off, that I knew exactly what they was doing, and that I had had enough of their unilateral 'friendship'. It feels so incredibly satisfying to put hipster pricks like that in their place.
I met this type of guy who is now my ex. He always wanted to get rich and be featured in Forbes. He low-key brought me and others to make him alpha. He got scammed by Dan lok get rich quick scheme and lost almost 20k us dollars. I warned him about this fishy scheme and not to trust this guy before but he ignored completely and even told me that I was dumb and stupid. Now who is the dumb one?
I've had two partners label me as a gold digger despite the fact they were broke and I was the one paying the bills. I had another partner who was wealthy who dragged the old and tired gold digger label out and used it as an excuse when he wanted to trade me in for a younger model. During the course of our 4 year relationship I remained financially independent and never was into or asked him to buy me designer items (although he attempted to thinking that's what all women want). It's the mindset of certain men that they cling to regardless of objective facts. Sad losers regardless of the size of their wallet.
Dhar Mann has this weird thing where the nice person is actually insanely wealthy. Like almost every time one of the characters says something like “money doesn’t matter” or “don’t judge a book by its cover” and then it turns out that money actually DOES matter, because it will just land on your lap and then everything will be perfect.
Looks like this man is preaching the prosperity gospel. And he hates blonde women
Maybe he got read Goldilocks as a kid and really internalized that blonde haired ladies will come into your home and steal your porridges!!!
@@bookshelfhoney Lol I just thought he hated the colour yellow. Your comment makes more sense though
@@theanxiouslegume9280 Ironic thing is, blonde hair was considered exotic, even in ancient Rome. And blond women were once originally seen as the epitome of innocence and purity, like a Disney Princess.
@@sammyvictors2603 Like most hair colours, blonde hair had different connotations throughout history and the world. I am a redhead. In certain parts of history, I could have earned a saint like status or been burned as a witch. Social and economic factors, including rarity, race, class etc. motivated the way the bias swayed. A lot of the pushing of blonde hair signifying innocence and purity does have a racial bias behind it, which should be acknowledged.
I think the real reason Dhar Man chose (mostly) artificial blondes to play his villain women was just because it's a lazy "bougie" stereotype. His casting of women in general is filled with a lot of stereotypes, but I appreciate how at least the gold diggers' age matches the man's in most cases
@not relevant yeah lol. The Salem witch hunters found an excuse to burn any woman they didn't like. Left handed women were also considered witches.
Redhead and ginger are considered the same thing nowadays. But I remember as a teen back in the late 2000s, ginger was used as a derogatory term for redheads that people (mostly men) found unattractive. I'm sure there are still memes from that time floating around See also: fire crotch & kick a ginger day
These are so unrealistic, I love that the ‘instant regret’ is the friend suddenly being rich, like wtf? Plus doesn’t that kind of contradict the point in these 🤣
Exactly! 😅
you cracked the code
YESSSS
Exactly.
Umm, no. Not at all. The friend isn't in a relationship solely for the purpose for money, so no point is contradicted.
Also, wanting to be rich is not being a gold digger.
The video that annoyed me the most was the one where a random guy approaches women and goes "I just became homeless and I have nothing but this box and I want to GIVE it to you , would you like to go out with me" and when the women reject it, he shows a Gucci back and go like "omg let me take it now"
Like?? Who tf takes a random box from a homeless guy? That's OK?
I would run
I've seen too many weird cases
I can't be caught lacking in these streets mama never taught me to take shit from strangers 💀💀💀✋
@@moon5497 and it's a random guy giving you "the last thing he owns" how creepy is that? Any woman with common sense would run for the hills 😂
Right like there could've been a pipe bomb in the box u never know
Lol if anything like that happened in real life there'd probably be a poop or a dismembered finger in the box. Like who tf would take a box from a stranger, let alone a woman take anything from a strange man??
@Judy Mwanzo Right? And women also only care about status symbols that are given to them from men instead of getting it for themselves? Just... what? Most women I know irl who VERY loosely resemble these weird stereotypes, don't need a boyfriend to get them things like that because they already have them cause either their filthy rich parents already give them those things and or they just already live in those kind of circles. They already live in that culture and they run with guys who are also already in that culture. "Gold diggers" are making an exchange and the men they're with generally already know that. And not to mention, these men actively want and seek out women like this. I'd say it's pretty even. In these goofy churchy feel good rub it in your face videos "nice guys" only exist to find a trophy wife they can flex with and never seem to have any standards for themselves either, other than that they want a girlfriend that doesn't complain and will go along with all of his life choices instead of seeking her own + revenge ending as if that still makes them a nice guy.
I hate how he always makes the "good characters" succeed, it's so unrealistic and spreads an idea that an unwealthy person can only have worth or genuinely be good if they eventually become rich.
it's such a relentless assault of every single line of dialogue having the exact same subtext of "gold digger woman bad, rich man dumb and innocent"
it feels violent
The fact that the woman who isn’t a “gold digger” always gets the rich man in the end really confuses the message.
Yeah same here he's saying one thing but then what he preaches against happens
I’ve had a man who lived in MY house, of which *I* paid all the bills and utilities for while he didn’t have a job for OVER 3 YEARS accuse me of “just using him for his money” within 6 months of him getting a minimum wage job when I asked him to take over paying some of the bills for a little while. And of course he also told me “I don’t understand money” or “finical burden” on top of that.
The gaslighting is actually quite impressive.
@@toomuchinformation ngl it is
@@toomuchinformation gaslighting is his bread and butter. I’ve emotionally detached which has saved my sanity but he’s also my child’s father so I still have to have him in my life which is what it is. 🙃
@@AnaMaria-ww4iy please tell me you kicked him out
That's crazy, what's even crazier is this is not even uncommon, I've seen so many stories like this, we really ought to teach women to value themselves more and avoid men like this, who use them for their money but somehow think they're the ones being used?? Talk about being delusional
I rlly hope you're better off now, even if that man is your child's father, I know too many people who don't have the means to walk away from a similar situation and it breaks my heart
Anyone else disturbed by the fact that his idea of the roles being reversed have to do with fertility and not money? There's multiple plotlines just like this but it's a woman not being able to have children and the man knocking up another woman, feels like Dharr Mann thinks men's value is in the money they earn and women's is in the ability to bear children, gross.
Handmaid's Tale...
Or that their woeth is in their looks... like when they find a younger woman
I mean, the dude's views seem rather medieval so that tracks.
Imagine if Dhar Mann was poor and Laura G was sterile
These feel like incel subreddit stories come to life and make my face turn inside out when I watch them
Memememe women are so independent nowadays, I cant possibly feel like a man with a woman earning as much as I do.
Memememe women are just gold diggers nowadays.
Decide for once what you want to cry about
Why don't we as a society give the same amount of energy we give to gold diggers as we do to men who use women until they're financially stable (aka "a come up") then dump them?
Because they tend to be black.
Because you know, apparently there is nothing wrong with that.
Most are black and that would be "racist" ugh
because they “deserve” a “better model” as a reward for being richer 🙄
I didn't know this was a Black thing, just look at celebrities. I'm surprised when I see a famous man married to a woman his own age or one he's been with before he got famous. Like Samuel L. Jackson and Keanu Reeves are the only ones I can think of.
I hope the cow is okay...The more I am hooked on this channel ,the more I start worrying about the cow not appearing in any episodes...Please let her know that we love her and support her decision to stay anonymous and away from the spotlight...
I have no idea what the cow even means but it's pretty cool
@@jamesmeow3039 You do realize the amount of teasing or even bullying that likely happened due to Tara's last name? The cow is her pain turned into a joke, so people will laugh with her and not at her. (Maybe, I'm not her therapist.)
@@rangda_prime I didn't notice it
Well, here is my lil conspiracy theory. Tara is actually milking cow's whole idea and use it to create awesome videos. The cow actually want to be on the video and get all the credits she deserve but Tara always make sure the Cow is too tired to show up. I demand a receipt on her wellness! lol
@@JaY-nn6ss That was my original idea...I know it's a very dark theory and I hope the cow is safe...If this is indeed true ,I will continue to support the cow and encourage her to come forward and share her story...
His videos scream “pick me” energy. Added it’s funny he makes this a topic considering he dated Lilly Ghalichi, who exuded the persian Barbie lifestyle. And he was exposed as a scammer when their engagement ended.
Like ok dude we get it. And I could’ve sworn he was supposedly engaged
I remember how he was exposed as a scammer years ago. He had even bought his followers on Instagram.
Wait , Dhar mann was a scammer ??? And he preaches against gold digging ? The irony !!!
100% i feel like he couldn't keep up with her. She's beautiful smart educated and is a successful business woman whereas he seems intimidated by strong women
I thank you Tara, and all the comments that keep me educated. I used to have a lot of internal misogyny towards myself and other women. I'm glad at this day and age that people are speaking out against toxic behavior that is defined as normal. I'm not perfect, just a regular person with toxic tendencies instilled in me from childhood that I'm working to change for the betterment of myself and the way I see others.
(edited for spelling)
As a 1-dimensional lady who has chronic RBF and likes expensive things, I appreciate the representation in these videos.
It’s so weird to me that these men are supposed to be good catches when like they aren’t financially stable, yet still are trying to start their own business, and in at least one example ask where a woman wants to go for dinner and then is like: oof sorry that’s a no go, how bout Denny’s. And literally the only other thing they have to offer is, “But...Babe. Babe, wait!” Um... idk man, maybe let the dream go if your business has been failing for years, you’re dead broke because of your bad financial decisions, and it’s ruining your life.
I’m not saying you should get into relationships for money but acting like financial stability in a partner isn’t important for reasons other than being shallow, when one of the most common reasons relationships fail is money trouble, is just strange.
It depends what you view as financial instability. These characters seem to do fine living within their means. I only don’t like where it shows them being all flashy with their money as soon as they get it. That gives me more of a red flag warning than anything. It shows irresponsibility and a lack of foresight. Lol but maybe that’s just reading too deep into Dhar Mann 😅
And it's also like : either some woman "helps him in every step to reach where he is" ( he can't probably help himself ) , or he gets just another pretty woman as a trophy after he is successful ( this woman might be a gold digger as well !) . Weird.
Where in reality , business doesn't suddenly flourish after a break up , it takes time and patience. And very often women who help men through study and bad financial decisions , get dumped in the end for a prettier woman who has nothing more to offer .
These stories look very very childish.
@@briananana751 yeah girl, way tooooooo deep
here's my take...while these vids are overblown and stereotypical, you're very quick to assume what it's like to start a business. Also, financial problems can't be blamed on the man entirely. There's a lot of factors going into things like these. A lot of people look to save money when going for a startup so they don't purchase things they can otherwise afford. Just like how we can't assume all 'golddiggers' are just shallow liars, it's wrong to assume men with financial problems somehow deserve to be mistreated. Try not to defend the villain so much --- she's a hypothetical one dimensional character after all.
@@briananana751 yeah, whenever the character gets money and IMMEDIATELY starts blowing it, I'm like "wow dude, I can see why you were so broke before. I'd dump you, too."
It's like painting poor money management skills as a virtue almost.
Edit: like if my boyfriend got a hiring bonus and bought a new car the SAME DAY, I'd be gone.
Let’s address another issue. When many of these women stay with these broke men as soon as the men become rich they leave them for “hotter” girls. If the women had stayed in this video, there was no guarantee the men wouldn’t have dumped them five minutes after becoming a millionaire
I think you got triggered
@@sammartain2454 I think you got triggered.
Hear, hear!
There’s loads of celebrity examples of this. It’s quite common.
Yep she's just the starter wife. Don't be barb the builder, get your man at the finish line!
damn, that lawyer sounds like he's going to get in trouble for a conflict of interest with the case.
Also that “she cheated on me, just like she cheated on my client” is some MAJOR heresy.
It’s weird that in these stories women aren’t meant to like expensive things but the reward for being “loyal” is always expensive things.
Also it’s unbelievably obvious he’s been hurt by a blonde woman before.
I've never understood the hate towards "gold diggers". Like, if he gets to use her for her body then I think she gets to use him for his money. If he can invade her temple she can invade his bank account! 💃💸
P.S. Those vegetable shopping guinea pigs did in fact make me scream. 😃
This is teaching women to stick around in hopes men will one day be rich and successful.... that doesn't always happen and you should like the guy nonetheless
Exactly.
Exactly
It’s so hypocritical
More than that, to be with someone regardless of how stable they are. How will that work when you want a secure house and kids? Downright irresponsible.
YES EXACTLY!!! Don't like someone just because of their money! And this rule goes out to ALL people of ALL genders!!!!
Im crying the court scene was more unrealistic than the one shown in disney shows
Yeah, I think the worst part was the lawyer going on a rant about his sex life with the woman. What judge would allow that?
It was more unrealistic than Bee Movie!
LegalEagle reacts to Dhar Mann when?
Judge Trudy was more realistic and she had dancing lobsters.
I feel the simpsons dohnut devil trial was more realistic...
Dhar man’s channel is basically just those “hated child becomes hybrid princess” gacha videos from a few years back only with slightly higher production quality
:33< lmaooooo yes!
This comment perfectly describes his content.
PLEASE LOL
Except that the gacha videos are ten times better
Omg 😭😭😭💀 you’re so right though!
Dahr Mann has 100% made a sketch where he pulls the whole "disabled people are inspirational" thing. I can feel it. I can feel it in my bones. He also definitely did a sketch where a person has a disability, but the disability is presented as actually being a good thing, and that you get some sort of weird power from it to balance out the disability, because the moral was supposed to be "disabled people aren't less deserving as other people" but Dahr Mann can't comprehend the fact that someone can be unable to do certain things while also being just as good as everyone else. Also the disability is super misportrayed. Like a kid has autism or something but they just scream a lot and say weird things that don't make sense to anyone else, and we're supposed to just accept that that's autism.
This is all 100% true. He has done all these things. There's just no way he hasn't. His content screams "Story format that is supposed to convey a moral but is just copied from other slightly less horrible pieces of media a thousand times over so the moral makes no sense now."
I really hope he doesn't see this because it is spot on to the type of content he likes to produce
These sketches have that very specific kind of heterosexual insight that really makes us concerned about the straights.
It's wild to me that these videos vilify women who value men solely for their wealth... while simultaneously centering the value of the men around becoming rich.
And also not villifying the man for wanting a trophy wife
Excellently put
I love the gold digger girl. She's so funny it's almost like she's working for dharmann ironically.
Right? Lol I mean, just watching her it's pretty obvious she knows what this is and doesn't take it seriously at all.
Which gold digger girl? I mainly like the blonde one....oh wait.
@Avid Book reader
The first one
In my opinion, the gold digger girl looks pretty..
(The first one.)
Which gold digger girl?
I love that the message in all of these isn't that you should love a person for who they are but that you should love them because they may become rich in the future 🤷🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
"Dont be motivated by money from rich people, be motivated by MY money, make some efforts!"
I love how the "moral" of these stories is alway "but she was wrong because he became rich later on." They all become rich in the end!
It's never "he and his next girlfriend never became rich, but that didn't matter, because they realized that having a lot of money wasn't all that important to them and they were really happy anyway." or "his business idea never made him rich, but he really found purpose through his work."
Like, even the guy making these videos that hate on gold diggers only sees these guys for their financial situation?
I wouldn't be surprised if Dhar Mann was once left for having this weirdly hypocritical company that "changes lives" by essentially making him rich. And he just spun it around in his head to think she was just a gold digger who believed he wasn't getting rich fast enough.
I like how all those videos imply that money still is the most important thing, the only bad thing seems to be women who don't want to wait until a man's business idea takes off. I wonder if that was based off anything....
Lmao imagine if he is projecting That maybe in the past While he Wasnt famous, a Girl didnt like him and so she rejected him, and now that he is rich he wants to get back to her even tho she problably couldnt care less.
everyone here talking about the California gold rush and this "Dharman" (who has no affiliation with Darkman, starring the great Liam Neeson), but NO ONE is talking about that POWERFUL sweater. It's like all of Kurt Cobain's wardrobe sewn into one piece.
No shhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhjhhhhh! I’m trying to buy one before everyone else does...
Also no ones talking about the bed sheets when they’re literally perfect
The message with these is confusing. “Women shouldn’t think wealth is the most important thing about men, even though all important men eventually become wealthy.”
I've been binging your videos on my lunch breaks. Your humor is right up my alley. Keep up the good work.
I love how much effort the actresses portraying the villains put into the role. They're the only reason those videos are watchable to me.
These videos are so weird because it's like, not even saying it's bad to be shallow. The moral is essentially "you should've waited it out, because nice people always get rich eventually--and being rich is still important."
The thing is in real life, too getting rich isn't exactly a 100% guarantee automatically, no matter how hard you work.
Shows how stupid it is
This is just "I'm 14 and this is deep" for guys, with a bit of misogyny sprinkled in there
Add some joker memes
i feel like dhar man is a men's rights activist
I don't see anything wrong with that?
@@rileysjonger4192 I think OP meant guys who hide behind the label of a men’s right activist to be shitty to women
AHAHAHA
LMAO I mean you’re not wrong 😂
@@alyssapinon9670 Ah, makes sense. But there's women who also hide behind the feminist label just to be shitty to men. And it's sad that people use activism as a way to be a bigot to the opposite group, not because they actually care. Right-wingers, for example.
It's so confusing how he writes the women as villains for wanting financial succes in the men, but then write the men as the heroes by .... making them achieve financial succes? It's so contradictory
Spock voice: Because misogyny is illogical. It makes no sense to hate half your own species, if you want to reproduce.
These videos make me think Dhar Mann failed the “You can eat one marshmallow now, or wait five minutes and get two marshmallows” test as a kid and has been trying to prove he wouldn’t fail it again ever since
I'm kind of upset with how he used Black women in these. He's basically saying we don't have any financial standards for men. Like, sticking by your man while he builds himself up is fine obviously, but most of the time it doesn't benefit the Black woman and she ends up being left by the man for his true "preference" - most likely with a child or two.
In truth, women in general should look at a man's character AND his economic position. Both will either negatively or positively affect you as a woman. Love doesn't pay the bills, put food on the table, or pay James' tuition for Harvard. It's not evil and cruel for a woman to consider a man's finances while vetting him. It's smart.
Omg frr
@luzon83 No, I'm complaining that he put Black women on a wobbly, dusty "not like other women" pedestal. He's basically saying we don't have standards for men financially and we'll just take you no matter how broke you are because pOtEnTiAl. That was true a couple of years ago but that's changing now.
@luzon83 I bet you're broke and wish a Black woman would pay you some attention.
@@TheGhostofAbigailMills You're so right. This portrayal of Black women is so popular yet so detrimental to us and our image. We need/have standards just like any other woman and they shouldn't be demonized.
a bit of a reach. i get your point but dhar mann's portrayal of women in general is more problematic. the black women are highlighted as the "good" "smart" "loyal" women. it might be a problem but it's not really going to affect the way people see black women unless black women prove the stereotype true. and i only saw two black women sticking with the "poor" man, the rest aren't specific on whether or not the woman got with him before or after he got money. the bigger issue here is his depiction of women only caring about money and nothing else.
The fact that I recognize every single Dhar Mann character deeply worries me 😩
SAME! Thank you, Cody Ko! lol
Girl, you're too deep into the dharman cinematic universe
@@eminempreg the dcu
LOL
GURL, AS IT SHOULD
"I feel bad now, for complaining about Riverdale" is probably the best insult of the last decade.
They are getting married, and he blows his entire signing bonus on a flashy new car and a diamond ring? Shouldn't they have discussed these major purchases first?
Calling a woman a gold-digger, to me, is the same as saying a girl has "daddy issues".
All the blame gets tossed onto the girl, but no one acknowledges that her father caused such issues.
Every single one of his scripts is SOOOO painful. That's not how people talk. "WoW, tHaT's ReFrEsHiNg To HeAr."
"So you see..." Haha
I read somewhere that it's because lots of non native English speakers watch the videos, and the language is written to be easy to follow if your English isn't great
@@marzipan2555 It might also just be because he isn’t a good writer, but your idea is nicer to think about.
Is it me, or does Dhar Man seem to dislike women?
Mmmm.........let me think.
Oh, he definitely does. Especially those with standards
Uh oh stinky stinky
Ooooop- wonders if he hates his wife lmao
It’s since Lily dumped him like she doesn’t need him…
I wasn't a gold digger until Tara said "limited edition furbies". Now I ruined at least 30 men, got about 6 cars, 150 designer bags and a ravenous army of furbies*
*limited editon
YOU GO GURLLLL
You know what? Not even mad, get them furbies.
Gurl you dropped this: 👑👑
@2:40 They validate their own standards, but pathologize ours.
Ever notice Dhar Mann's fixation on the platinum blonde actress that always plays the gold digger/evil babysitter/spoiled girl? He absolutely has some kind of perverted fixation on her where he's obsessed with her getting "what she deserves". I don't know if she's a stand-in for a woman he once knew or if he has some kind of sick power fetish and loves watching her get humiliated, but it's creepy. I don't recall her ever playing the protagonist or having a happy conclusion.
To be honest my problem with these videos is that they have HAHA GET OWNED energy, which is fine as a one-off, but a more beneficial video would involve character growth for the villains. I feel that watching these one-dimentional charactitures break out of their ways and into something more likeable would leave some people feeling inspired to actually do better for themselves.
One of those videos actually does, I know because I've actually watched it and recognized it as soon as the clip started.
The one I am referring to is where the 'gold digger' has to find a job because her man just got laid off. Before that point, she hurls abuse after abuse to the retail employee who tries to help her.
Towards the end of that video, right after the point where the clip ended, the 'gold digger' is seen working in another retail establishment. She is then seen facing a "Karen" of her own and then after the experience, decides to then go to the store where she had been so abusive before and seeks out the employee that she abused.
iirc, the video ends with the 'gold digger' apologizing for her rude behavior and then starting to help that worker from before by folding shirts with her...
Now, obviously this isn't realistic but that's not what is in question... what is is the claim of no growth from the 'gold digger'. Unrealistic as this is, we do get character growth in this one. Worth a look...😅
@@christopheralthouse6378 oh that's good then
I said the same thing when Hasan watched this garbage but these are literally just the Facebook incel meme where the nerd gets rich and tells the pregnant girl he used to have a crush on "get lost, chick".
If only women these days would stop eating hot chip and lying.
I will never stop eating hot chip and lying
Imagine the horrifying chaotic energy that would be released if we all stopped eating hot chip and lying. Those are the glue that keeps society from disintegrating into a total dystopia.
The hot chip just doesn’t taste as good without a little lying on the side.
Jesus that second one where the guy's like "I just got a promotion! And I got you an expensive ring! And I just got a brand new car!" is so cringey. Plus, I would be kind a mad if my fiancé just got a promotion and started throwing money at shit we don't need. How about we save that money to pay for our wedding? Why do we need a new car? It really shows you the type of guy Dhar Mann is where he thinks owning expensive shit is the most important factor to being happy.
Lol yeah... you *just* got this job. Slow down. Shouldn't you... Idk... create a safety net before all of those new expensive things. Also, why did he get rid of the old car without consulting her? Maybe she was still willing to put it to use and have some independence. Ugh. So dumb
“So you’re telling me before you even GOT the promotion you went out and put an engagement ring AND A SPORTS CAR (both of which start to lose value pretty much right away) on credit??
I changed my mind. Here’s both rings back.”
Lol totally agree. He could have been financially responsible and used the money to pay their mortgage, or save the money for their children's education, or invest the money to make more money.... I can think of so many ways to better use his pay raise than buying a ring or a new car. At least good jewellery can keep some value over long term, a new car would lose value the instant they put it on the road.
😂😂😂 I was just thinking that. Not to mention, if we’re potentially sharing bank accounts and expenses at that point (which the video implies) I’d be a bit miffed he made a VERY expensive and risky purchase that could impact both of us without chatting with me first. That’s a yikes for me buddy.
Yeah, it really miffed me that he bought a car without letting her get an input in what car to get, since it's gonna be THEIR car. And maybe she doesn't want a new ring, maybe she has sentimental attachment to the old one! But I guess as long as it's expensive, nothing else matters?? I guess it's like they say, "money don't care about your feelings"... something like that
I love how the judge goes from giving 100% of the defendants items to not giving anything because the lawyer said she cheated on him before.