Genetics play a role too. Asian girls tends to look younger than their age and then Japanese/Korean has too flawless skin (compared to other countries in the same continent)
Among the east asians, some Koreans do have amazing skin because we have clear water while many other countries have lime water. Also, living in a buliding that is required to switch pipe lines help to. Have you seen the traveller's shower filter colors on each country? And definitely genetic plays a strong role too. Bus drivers let me pay elementary schoolers' fee when I was 20.😂 My family as a whole age slowly cuz my mom and dad looks younger than their age too. @@jajarounette95
As a regular ass Asian dude in his mid 30s, I don't know why this showed up on my feed, but don't sweat it. We won't actually look old old till we're like 70-80s 😂
@@arthursfist7090, man you're so right. I'm east asian too and I'm 38 years old right now that looks like an 18 years old. Seriously. I'm not gay, but I have the bishounen type of face.
Sorry to disppoint you, but Asians could very well look their age also. And could be tall. I once dated a Japanese around his 40, he was taller than me (I am 175) and looked his age. Didn't seem to be half caucasian at all. It's a myth that all asians are looking like babies till they are elders. Their skin around 40 is showing signs of age. It's more saggy like the same for caucasians.
@whitetigress9749 , the majority of asians doesn't age fast, especially those Koreans and japanese people. Filipinos, Thai, Indonesians and Malaysians can look their age for the most part.
@@Shinpo-Vanguards Okay, but I also saw vidoes like interwievs with japanese game developers sometimes. And those middle aged men didn't look like 20 or 30 at all. Their skin was different too. They looked different than caucasians, but it showed that they are not very Young.
im 33. still feel 22 in my mind. thank u for taking the time to make this video. lets enjoy and be grateful for every year. you are looking more beautiful ❤
I think because people in their early 30s are millenials and they're born in the 90s so they culturally are still young but mostly it's how you feel about yourself that makes you feel young.
Same and it’s so awkward cuz I feel so baby but with some more knowledge??? 🤷🏻♀️ I have so many things I still need to do….it can’t all be reserved for 21 yr olds….
I turned 40 this year, and I know I'm blessed. I have friends who unfortunatly has not reached the age I am due to cancer etc. It's a privilege to grow older. My kids are almost grown up, in many ways I feel like I'm a young "old" mum. It's only a few years until they will move out and I have to discover who I am again, living without my kids at home. Imagine everything new I will learn and discover :)
Thank you for this. I’m in my twenties and I feel like I’m too old for things, especially when I see younger people achieving so much and I’m too anxious to even try to go for what I want in case I fail
It's funny because I used to think I was too young to do stuff I wanted like mot enough experience and now I feel to old like I've wasted too much time. I guess I'm just great at making excuses for not living my best life lol😊
Thank you for posting this! I'm in my early 30s now and feel like i've lost my 20s to ill physical and mental health. It's been a very challenging journey, especially when you see all your peers progress through their lives while you feel stuck. BUT watching you live your life how you want to and learn new things has given me confidence that it's not too late for me to still play, and live the life I wished I could have lived.
@@hereiswisdom that's something bad about today's society. Most people place too much worth on outside fleeting looks. I have met people in their 60s, 70s and 80s so much more alive than many people in their teens and 20s (who might not even see their 30s with that attitude). I realized this as a child, and as much as I tried to advise my similarly aged peers and friends, they never understood this different outlook on life.
I just turned 39! Life is about discovery and growth. You can begin any time. You can try again any time. Wear what you want. Like what you like. And don’t let anyone who negs your interests or goals in your sphere. Surround yourself with people who love, trust, and uplift you.
also turned 38 and recently got a divorce... don't have the faith to go on dates yet but trying to learn new things has helped me tremendously. thanks for this video. :)
I'm also 39 and and I've been thinking the same recently. Never really thought about age much before. I'm also trying to try new things ,especially the things that make me feel younger, like skating and riding a bicycle.
But age doesn’t age you, having children does 😂 People expect woman to look a certain way at that age because most have children by then, including me.
that's kinda sad ngl...people expecting women to have children at that given age... well I'm glad that I suck at taking care of children so no one expects me to have kids..lol
It is a lot of work to be able to stay young. Work and poor diet and poor sleep make you age quickly. ❤ Team work. Let us keep going. I am 43. Soon 44..
OMG you don't look 38, you look 28. Thank you for being raw and sharing your aging experience with us. I just turned 30 this year and I suddenly have these imagination pressure on myself and being impatient because I feel like I'm not living to my fullest potential and doing/seeing what I want to. Thanks for showing us that there is still time to enjoy life and feeling all emotions that may come.
@@buttarain27 I thought it was stupid since I was a teen, and only ever dated women older than me since I was 20. Two of them reached 30 when they were with me and had like a huge crisis over it, and I just wanted to understand what was causing this. I see a lot of teens and young adults of all genders also acting like you're geriatric when you're past 30.
unfortunately youngsters nowadays..they label anyone over 30..ancient..liks it's a crime or something..it's so weird🙄 I'll be 25 next year but.. I've never understood what makes a 30 year old a 30 year old..you can't be so sure what we're supposed to look like at a certain age but people on the internet are too thick in the head to understand..😒
@@juno_lii I'll be 30 in less than a year. I bet I won't feel any older than I do right now. And I can tell you I feel (and look) just like when I was 25, if not better.
I appreciate your video. It an be difficult at times because some people expect you give up on EVERYTHING just because you are older. Give up on looking your best, dressing how you want, not settling in love, not accepting minimum or below your standards. Suddenly you are not as appreciated or taken into account the same way. Recently I felt….time is going to pass regardless, so why give up on pursuing everything I want just because I am older. I am going back to school for a nursing degree and I already know how I will be perceived. But I’m doing it for the most important person in my life…..my self. So let’s go hard on our health journey, our fitness journey, our love life, our friendships, doing what is best for us, not others. One day I’ll be much older and I want to look back and be proud of living life for myself. We are here to make our mark in this world, we have purpose. Let’s make it count. 😊 By the way, I turn 42 this August. Hugs from NYC.❤
Love this for you and I am glad this came on my feed. In my mid year of 27 now and I sometimes feel its too late for me but I've been trying to get myself out of that mindset and try to do things now that make me happy and always wanted to do after losing my job. Although ppl tell me I look younger for my age, I still sometimes get scared to age, but i'm working through it. And girl your dancing is good, I wouldn't have even thought you were a beginner until you said it 💖💖
I turned 40 on January 2nd. I feel the same, i look same- 170cm, 52 kg, healthy vegetarian for 17 years, comparative literature and litherary theory professor. Same as you, i spent a lot of time in my life studying. And i have no regrets. I live!
You are such a beautiful person inside and out! I have been watching your videos since your 'study with me' videos. Between now and then you have been an influence on my life in many ways. I love just how you accept yourself for who you are, and still stand tall no matter what challenges you face, especially moving from Korea to America with minimal English. You accept change than go against it and embrace everything that comes your way, whether big or small. I'm currently going through my registration to become a psychologist, watching your videos have helped me feel motivated to keep going no matter what happens, and appreciate the small things in life. Thanks for uploading again! Please do another fashion video! :))
You’re amazing thank you for sharing your story! I’m in my thirties and I recently went back to school to finish my bachelor’s degree and I plan to go to grad school. You gave me the courage to be okay with different timelines at different stages in life!
I turned 40 a good while ago and I didn't feel any different, or traumatized. We're a very different generation of 40y olds and above, women and men. We're adults but of a very different kind to our parents at the same age. Myself and my friends have kept really young at heart and we have rich, dynamic lifestyles full of travels, fun times and challenging intellectual and creative pursuits. We are all happy with our jobs. I'm never told I look "young for my age", just that I look much younger... than what people expect 40+ women to look like. It's a bit thanks to genetics but it's mostly due to my lifestyle and mindset, I think. I AM young. My mind is fresh, my body is as capable, and I take great care of myself on all levels. I vividly remember my mother at my current age and we are *worlds* appart.
I am 38 now and this Julai mark 1 year since my mother past away. It is not a good time for me, but I slowly getting better. The house I live with my mother has always be hers even after she gone. Now, it slowly start to feel like my house and I start taking ownership on it, to make this house into my own house. Somehow I just cannot wait to turn 40. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I am getting into my late 30’s and I still have a plush toy next to me when I sleep lol. Who cares what others think? I used to care a lot more when I was in my 20’s and though I have grown more mature, I still have a heart of a kid sometimes. I also get told that I still look like I am in my 20’s. I don’t know if ppl expect women after their mid 30’s to look like an old fashioned housewife with half a dozen kids by their side.
This video made me cry… thank you. I’m 28 and beating myself so much for feeling like I’ll never achieve things people younger than me have and I’m pushing myself so much to achieve at least half my goals before 30. I feel like time is running out everyday. The comments and this video really didn’t make me feel alone. You absolutely look so beautiful and youthful you can pass for 17-19 I’m serious. This is coming from someone who gets mistaken as a 13-15 year old. I hope I age like you ❤❤
I’m 38. When people tell me I “look really good for my age”, I know they mean it as a compliment, and is their way of saying I look a lot younger. But I don’t take it as a good thing. I want to look my age. I am nearly forty and there is nothing wrong with that. My mental and emotional well-being is the best it’s ever been, I have grown out of the naivety of youth, and I’m feeling empowered to start to do what I want with my life. It took me a long time to get here.
I just failed in my finals as 25 year old who is still doing his bachelors and I was thinking too old to continue jobless and have to w8 yr for re-examinations.
I'll turn 25 in 2 weeks , i feel too old and i haven't done anything yet, i did graduate dental school and have my own business as a self taught bridal accessory designer and i also handmake them , i'm trying my best to feel good i try to take care of myself by improving my relationship with Allah,workout, eat healthy etc...but seriously i'm too lonely i got no real friends, no job related to dentistry which i know makes me happy, i'm not married and having a family feels so important to me as a female...i got this feeling the whole time that i'm missing out on alot and that i'm too old and haven't achieved anything in life
Dance is great for health and mental health. Helps build confidence and great social activity. It only becomes toxic if you dance to impress other people.
I just want you to know I have been following you since the last 2 years now. I am a licensed assistant now and on my last 2 semester before I apply for dental school. You have been such an inspiration to me
😢😊I am so glad find your channel! I am 36 found my husband cheating on me, and now I am 37, fighting for stable job hunting and a divorce if I can afford
This helped me. I’m 31, and I’m not where I wanted to be in life and yet, I’m trying to be proud I have survived things I would have never imagined. Thanks for reminding me I still have time.
I'm 39 this year, and I don't think that I'm that old, but also I'm childfree and look similar in age to people in their mid 20s. So maybe that's why. But life is like in between college students and people who are near retirement for me. I fit in but don't fit in.
Thank you:) I am 42, after covid back Nov 2023, took a huge turn and start focused on my health. Since then I lost 14 kg, 10 kg body fat, went back to gym after 5 years, and I had return better than my prime back in 28 year old. If you set your mind to it, there is literally nothing you cant achieve. I think when you get older, you are too old for silly craps. But instead you start to look within on what really matters to you, and from there you grow more from within and within spirit. Its quiet a incredible process :)
i'm 28 and i don't feel too old for anything, I think i'm too late for everything i wanted to do. So, right now, i'm racing with my time for all the things i want to do. I'm so fuacking late already. I have to runnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn!
The temporality of life makes me want to enjoy every day... the loss the gain. It's a journey of self discovery. Grow with grace and wisdom. Give and cultivate love. Watch life give life.
It really depends on how people take care of their bodies. A lot of people just don’t have the discipline to have a healthy lifestyle when they could’ve look and feel younger for their age.
Our society glorifies youth and youth culture while actively shaming people for aging. Even though ageism is real, don’t stop yourself from living and trying new things.
I’m 30 and I still play games all day and live with my mom. No job due to timing of things; graduated during Covid, grandparents became bedbound, got a dog to take care of. Meanwhile my friends from school have whole ass careers, my former gaming friends have moved on from it, and some have their own families. Do I care? Nope. I do what I want and will not conform to age roles. Gamer, young person at heart always, and Asian genes have blessed me as well.
Thank you for sharing this video. When you and I met in the past, I remember you talked about this a bit with me. I am 30 now and I feel like for some reason I need to go faster and faster towards the things that I want. Like time is running out or something.. I'm hoping to grow and share through TH-cam just as you do. You make things seem possible, so thank you for being someone who inspires me, Sarang.
well theoretically yea its just a number and yet our body tissues can't agree with it - for certain things it will be too late no matter what u think or want, for example u cant become professional athlete in ur certain 20s, in 30s and 40s and ect, if u just starting, well u can be amateur and there will be certain category for u, but it won't be that actual pro-sport among those who started as kids
Feeling young from the inside out - this is my life goal! And when I see someone follows the same, it's great feeling! I'm 34, and thanks yoga - I feel amazing!🙏
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사랑님이 도전하는 모습을 꾸준히 보면서 자극을 받았는지 35살 늦은 나이지만 치기공 전공 살려서 다시 시작해보려고 알아보고 있습니다 아직까지 한국은 직업에 귀천이 있어서 남의 말에 휘둘리는 제 모습이 싫어 미국으로 가려구요 요즘 남자친구분과 사랑하는 모습에 더 아름다워지시고 부럽습니다 저도 직업적으로 안정이 되면 사랑님 처럼 사랑도 하고 멋진 사람으로 살아가고 싶어요 오늘도 좋은 영상 올리시느라 수고하셨고 좋은 영향 감사해요 사랑님 언제나 행복하세요~♥
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I'm 40, but don't feel and look like my age. I'm very athletic even when young. No vices, and unhealthy diet. I workout most of the day of the week. This is all about mindset. Honestly, I feel like I'm 25. One tip: for guys/girls at 35-40, if you really want to assure good health, one wuick way, is to. try to run as fast as you can. If you feel dizzy and out of breath (really out of breath), then you should take care of your health seriously. If not, then walla! you;re like me and the rest who are reeping what we sow during our younger years!
Exactly. I keep talking to young boys that are looking for girls and turning their lives miserable, that they should be alone and build their lives that, when they get older, life will be marvelous by themselves.
Sarang, you moved to a new country to study, and successfully graduated and got a great job now. You got married and divorced (which is cool), and now happily settling down with a cute cat and a partner in your apartment… You achieved a lot already:)) so, not old at all, and you are at the great age of your life and did a great job.❤️❤️❤️
Time is strange I didn't look like mid 40's until now. I think 44 was my last year of looking "young". 45 is hitting me like a mac truck. Grey chin coming on. Oh well a touch of grey kinda suits me anyway. 😎
Learning and hobbies keep the mind young. I've heard of that before, and I guess I've seen it in action with some elderly people who seem more energetic or vibrant compared to others in their position. Also, I think it also looks different if you're more introverted or extroverted because extroverts are going to continue connecting with people first and then learn or try something because they're socializing. Introverts are more likely to try something alone at home before searching for connections outside, but some will keep it to themselves. We probably never see just how many people are trying something new because they don't publicize it (whether they're excelling or struggling). It all comes in phases. I was the first person in my class to get married which means I took a risk at an early age. I didn't have children until 6 years after. Now I'm almost 32, married, and we have two kids. We don't own a home of our own yet, I stopped my formal education at an associates degree, and I've been a housewife. Some would say I did life backwards, but I just focused on different things. I can always return to school later on, for example. I also continue to try different hobbies at home (I'm currently working on fermenting different foods). My timeline is catered to my personal values and preferences, and that's what matters. It would be uncomfortable to have a timeline that catered to someone else, and that's a point to be made. As long as we're comfortable with who we are, and we're still trying to learn new tricks at our pace, we're doing just find wherever we are at any age.
I’m turning 38 in 3 months and I have been plagued by those exact same thoughts. Thank you for posting this video! I will make sure to focus on what excites me, rather than what limits me.
I am 53, and when i hit 50 it hit me hard. When i was 40, I look like 30, When I am 50, fine lines and wrinkles start appearing, skins start to sag. Omg it was so hard to process this. You just never think about aging till you get there one day and its like boom.
Life start at 40, I don’t see this before but now at 39 I am building new career since tech layoff from startup, new hobby, have new life since new year (divorce). Hoping next year, yes right at my 40, already have a more stable business. 😊
thank you for this video :) in an impulsive "i feel too old" moment, I went back to dark hair and am dying to go back to being a bleached blonde. how do you maintain your blonde hair these days? are you doing it yourself like usual? i'd love an updated bleaching routine & hair care routine unnie
Your messages are so empowering! Thank you for sharing your journey with us! I think that life happens in chapters and not so much in numbers. We all have our own book. Some chapters are longer than others and that's okay but some chapters are way shorter and we can miss them and want to re-live them but there is always something new to look forward to! God bless you on your journey! I really do appreciate your outlook on life!
I just registered for school today in my local community college to transfer to a 4 year school for Computer Science, I'm 35. I always thought "I'm too old to go back to school" but I realized that the pain of regret is worse than the pain of failure or criticism. I know I'll be graduating at 40 but I don't care because I realize what I wanna do with the skills I acquire (IT, video games, and cybersecurity). I don't want to be in my 50's or 60's saying "what if?". I'd rather say "I tried my best, it just wasn't for me" or "Dang, imagine if I did not try it?" Our human lifespan is too short for allot of "what if's". From 19 to 34 I've picked up, kept and dropped allot of hobbies and things: Flint Knapping, Bush Crafting Skills, Calisthenics, Dancing like a robot cause I wanted to learn "gliding", played guitar, ocarina, weaved stories and ran games for my Dungeons and Dragons group, rock climbing, cigar and pipe tobacco smoking (yes it's a hobby and I have the Gandalf pipe, I don't recommend it for your health). Now at 35 besides school, I've started learning to free style rap as a creative outlet and I intend to learn percussion to supplement that. Looking forward, I want to learn more languages, draw, compete in contact sports, play sepak takraw, learn to read, write poetry and mathematical proofs. So, don't end up with a bag full of "what if's?", fill that bag with a sh*t-ton of "Yeah I did that!" just my 2c.
Shoot I'm 39 myself and I still got plenty I want to do and my body isn't stopping me, I have Aleve extra strength for that 😂 But seriously, I'm just glad God keeps giving me another day of life to be with the ones I love and care about. Also, I'm having a party at a kids pizza place next year and having them announce my name 🙌😂
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40 old asf but you look more then good and Hell nah aging ain't good g
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If y’all think 38 or 40 is old now, you’re gonna think differently once you reach that age.
Not really I’m 40 and I feel really old
I'm 24 and I think 40 is young ^^
im 17 and I think 40 is young
Turn 40 isn't that bad. It's still a better option than not making it to 40. Life is for living. Ain't nobody got time to worry about age.
I’m nearly 50, but I still feel like a teenager inside. IDK if I’ll ever feel my age. It is so surreal to know I’m almost 50.
Girl you literally look 21 drop the skin care routine!
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it's the iPhone cinematic setting🥺but thank you!!
Genetics play a role too. Asian girls tends to look younger than their age and then Japanese/Korean has too flawless skin (compared to other countries in the same continent)
I take the subway everyday in Paris They don’t look like that lol. It is not genetic at all
Among the east asians, some Koreans do have amazing skin because we have clear water while many other countries have lime water.
Also, living in a buliding that is required to switch pipe lines help to. Have you seen the traveller's shower filter colors on each country?
And definitely genetic plays a strong role too. Bus drivers let me pay elementary schoolers' fee when I was 20.😂 My family as a whole age slowly cuz my mom and dad looks younger than their age too.
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As a regular ass Asian dude in his mid 30s, I don't know why this showed up on my feed, but don't sweat it. We won't actually look old old till we're like 70-80s 😂
And u look like a lil baby still 👶🏼🐣
@@arthursfist7090, man you're so right. I'm east asian too and I'm 38 years old right now that looks like an 18 years old. Seriously. I'm not gay, but I have the bishounen type of face.
Sorry to disppoint you, but Asians could very well look their age also. And could be tall. I once dated a Japanese around his 40, he was taller than me (I am 175) and looked his age. Didn't seem to be half caucasian at all. It's a myth that all asians are looking like babies till they are elders. Their skin around 40 is showing signs of age. It's more saggy like the same for caucasians.
@whitetigress9749 , the majority of asians doesn't age fast, especially those Koreans and japanese people. Filipinos, Thai, Indonesians and Malaysians can look their age for the most part.
@@Shinpo-Vanguards Okay, but I also saw vidoes like interwievs with japanese game developers sometimes. And those middle aged men didn't look like 20 or 30 at all. Their skin was different too. They looked different than caucasians, but it showed that they are not very Young.
I started pole dancing at 44. Yes, we can start something new at any age.
oh my god.. iconic ⭐👑 hello?...that's such a queen move I love that🍀
@@juno_lii right she is a whole icon out here and doesnt even realize it lol
@@BlackGirlLovesAnime6 ikr🥲✨🍀 the confidence is so admirable
That will be me! 🙏🏼🙏🏼❤️ hopefully….
I turned 40 this year, the only thing we’re too old for is DRAMA. if you’re this age and still get caught up in drama, you need to reevaluate things.
im 33. still feel 22 in my mind. thank u for taking the time to make this video. lets enjoy and be grateful for every year. you are looking more beautiful ❤
im 32 and i feel 22
I think because people in their early 30s are millenials and they're born in the 90s so they culturally are still young but mostly it's how you feel about yourself that makes you feel young.
also the same feeling why must we think of age❤
Hey watch out, I am 33 too.😃 We are young. You are saying like we are 55 or something. When you are after 50 you will think like that then.
Same and it’s so awkward cuz I feel so baby but with some more knowledge??? 🤷🏻♀️ I have so many things I still need to do….it can’t all be reserved for 21 yr olds….
I turned 40 this year, and I know I'm blessed. I have friends who unfortunatly has not reached the age I am due to cancer etc. It's a privilege to grow older. My kids are almost grown up, in many ways I feel like I'm a young "old" mum. It's only a few years until they will move out and I have to discover who I am again, living without my kids at home. Imagine everything new I will learn and discover :)
i hope being a mom does not stop you from venturing out and trying new experiences before they move out. life is too short to limit yourself!
How is that a privilege
@@devilslayer3548 How is growing older not a privilege? At least for it is for me, and I'm fairly sure a lot of people feel the same way
"It's a privilage to grow old" I love that. I never visualized it that way.
1984 😅
Thank you for this. I’m in my twenties and I feel like I’m too old for things, especially when I see younger people achieving so much and I’m too anxious to even try to go for what I want in case I fail
everyone has their own timeline! you are doing great. keep it up💕
@@sarangdmd Damn, I kinda needed this. I'm turning 30 this month and it has made me rethink a lot of things. Thank you for this video! 💜
@@LogarAcc im 30 and i feel so far behind its kinda ridiculous lol
It's funny because I used to think I was too young to do stuff I wanted like mot enough experience and now I feel to old like I've wasted too much time. I guess I'm just great at making excuses for not living my best life lol😊
I totally understand ❤ you can do it, in your due time.
Thank you for posting this!
I'm in my early 30s now and feel like i've lost my 20s to ill physical and mental health. It's been a very challenging journey, especially when you see all your peers progress through their lives while you feel stuck. BUT watching you live your life how you want to and learn new things has given me confidence that it's not too late for me to still play, and live the life I wished I could have lived.
Many say: Life start at 40 ❤😊
And then dead 20 years from that point..
@@hereiswisdom If you're unhealthy or have bad habits, for sure you could be dead by 60. For most people, at 40 they still have 35-45 years left.
@@aricarly To many people, it's like what's the point when by then you start to look old with fading looks ....
@@hereiswisdom that's something bad about today's society. Most people place too much worth on outside fleeting looks. I have met people in their 60s, 70s and 80s so much more alive than many people in their teens and 20s (who might not even see their 30s with that attitude). I realized this as a child, and as much as I tried to advise my similarly aged peers and friends, they never understood this different outlook on life.
Yes, most people lie to themself to feel better.
I just turned 39! Life is about discovery and growth. You can begin any time. You can try again any time. Wear what you want. Like what you like. And don’t let anyone who negs your interests or goals in your sphere. Surround yourself with people who love, trust, and uplift you.
also turned 38 and recently got a divorce... don't have the faith to go on dates yet but trying to learn new things has helped me tremendously. thanks for this video. :)
Divorce! The Best thing ever!
Take your time :)
saaaame
I'm 29 and I really needed to see this
Me too
I'm also 39 and and I've been thinking the same recently. Never really thought about age much before. I'm also trying to try new things ,especially the things that make me feel younger, like skating and riding a bicycle.
But age doesn’t age you, having children does 😂 People expect woman to look a certain way at that age because most have children by then, including me.
What a bullshit
that's kinda sad ngl...people expecting women to have children at that given age... well I'm glad that I suck at taking care of children so no one expects me to have kids..lol
I think it's because you didn't take care of yourself enough.
@@juno_lii Because it has biological window: menopause. Same as flowers, only bloom for certain times and duration.
Oh you poor soul
It is a lot of work to be able to stay young. Work and poor diet and poor sleep make you age quickly.
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Team work. Let us keep going. I am 43. Soon 44..
Same ❤❤😊 and agreed.
Kids?
OMG you don't look 38, you look 28. Thank you for being raw and sharing your aging experience with us. I just turned 30 this year and I suddenly have these imagination pressure on myself and being impatient because I feel like I'm not living to my fullest potential and doing/seeing what I want to. Thanks for showing us that there is still time to enjoy life and feeling all emotions that may come.
focusing on possibilities instead of limitations. thanks, i needed to hear this :)
Dr. Sarang Choi, I really enjoyed watching this, so I hit the like button!
aww thank you!!
I'd like to know who the hell decided anyone over the age of 30 is old.
People UNDER the age of 30 AND, hate to say it, men, in regards to women’s age.
@@buttarain27 I thought it was stupid since I was a teen, and only ever dated women older than me since I was 20. Two of them reached 30 when they were with me and had like a huge crisis over it, and I just wanted to understand what was causing this. I see a lot of teens and young adults of all genders also acting like you're geriatric when you're past 30.
unfortunately youngsters nowadays..they label anyone over 30..ancient..liks it's a crime or something..it's so weird🙄 I'll be 25 next year but.. I've never understood what makes a 30 year old a 30 year old..you can't be so sure what we're supposed to look like at a certain age but people on the internet are too thick in the head to understand..😒
@@juno_lii I'll be 30 in less than a year. I bet I won't feel any older than I do right now. And I can tell you I feel (and look) just like when I was 25, if not better.
Men
I appreciate your video. It an be difficult at times because some people expect you give up on EVERYTHING just because you are older. Give up on looking your best, dressing how you want, not settling in love, not accepting minimum or below your standards. Suddenly you are not as appreciated or taken into account the same way.
Recently I felt….time is going to pass regardless, so why give up on pursuing everything I want just because I am older.
I am going back to school for a nursing degree and I already know how I will be perceived. But I’m doing it for the most important person in my life…..my self. So let’s go hard on our health journey, our fitness journey, our love life, our friendships, doing what is best for us, not others. One day I’ll be much older and I want to look back and be proud of living life for myself. We are here to make our mark in this world, we have purpose. Let’s make it count. 😊
By the way, I turn 42 this August. Hugs from NYC.❤
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Love this for you and I am glad this came on my feed. In my mid year of 27 now and I sometimes feel its too late for me but I've been trying to get myself out of that mindset and try to do things now that make me happy and always wanted to do after losing my job. Although ppl tell me I look younger for my age, I still sometimes get scared to age, but i'm working through it. And girl your dancing is good, I wouldn't have even thought you were a beginner until you said it 💖💖
I turned 40 on January 2nd. I feel the same, i look same- 170cm, 52 kg, healthy vegetarian for 17 years, comparative literature and litherary theory professor. Same as you, i spent a lot of time in my life studying. And i have no regrets. I live!
Kind of tired of this videos when people say im almost 40-60 idk and im super positive until we see 5 megaton of filters and makeup💀
I wish she hadn't use so much filters and makeup, why not just reveal your true face.
So what? It's a choice. Why does she have to stop wearing make-up the minute she turns 40?
I don't personally like makeup but why should someone stop wearing it just because they're 40? That makes no sense
You are such a beautiful person inside and out! I have been watching your videos since your 'study with me' videos. Between now and then you have been an influence on my life in many ways. I love just how you accept yourself for who you are, and still stand tall no matter what challenges you face, especially moving from Korea to America with minimal English. You accept change than go against it and embrace everything that comes your way, whether big or small. I'm currently going through my registration to become a psychologist, watching your videos have helped me feel motivated to keep going no matter what happens, and appreciate the small things in life. Thanks for uploading again! Please do another fashion video! :))
You’re amazing thank you for sharing your story! I’m in my thirties and I recently went back to school to finish my bachelor’s degree and I plan to go to grad school. You gave me the courage to be okay with different timelines at different stages in life!
Hope your schooling is going well! That’s what I want to do, starting with an 8 month course first 🙏🏼
I turned 40 a good while ago and I didn't feel any different, or traumatized. We're a very different generation of 40y olds and above, women and men. We're adults but of a very different kind to our parents at the same age. Myself and my friends have kept really young at heart and we have rich, dynamic lifestyles full of travels, fun times and challenging intellectual and creative pursuits. We are all happy with our jobs. I'm never told I look "young for my age", just that I look much younger... than what people expect 40+ women to look like. It's a bit thanks to genetics but it's mostly due to my lifestyle and mindset, I think. I AM young. My mind is fresh, my body is as capable, and I take great care of myself on all levels. I vividly remember my mother at my current age and we are *worlds* appart.
Keep in mind that with BetterHelp, therapists are "serving" ten or more clients AT THE SAME TIME. It's absolute garbage and incredibly deceptive.
I am 38 now and this Julai mark 1 year since my mother past away. It is not a good time for me, but I slowly getting better. The house I live with my mother has always be hers even after she gone. Now, it slowly start to feel like my house and I start taking ownership on it, to make this house into my own house. Somehow I just cannot wait to turn 40. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Its a blessing to be old, many will not make it, be thankfull to the Lord.
I am getting into my late 30’s and I still have a plush toy next to me when I sleep lol. Who cares what others think? I used to care a lot more when I was in my 20’s and though I have grown more mature, I still have a heart of a kid sometimes. I also get told that I still look like I am in my 20’s. I don’t know if ppl expect women after their mid 30’s to look like an old fashioned housewife with half a dozen kids by their side.
_5:47_ *I'll be 41 in 3 months and I try to learn something new*
*I started to play golf 2 months ago and it feels great!*
This video made me cry… thank you. I’m 28 and beating myself so much for feeling like I’ll never achieve things people younger than me have and I’m pushing myself so much to achieve at least half my goals before 30. I feel like time is running out everyday. The comments and this video really didn’t make me feel alone. You absolutely look so beautiful and youthful you can pass for 17-19 I’m serious. This is coming from someone who gets mistaken as a 13-15 year old. I hope I age like you ❤❤
I'm from 1985, my life it's at peak and I'm feeling great.
I’m 38. When people tell me I “look really good for my age”, I know they mean it as a compliment, and is their way of saying I look a lot younger. But I don’t take it as a good thing. I want to look my age. I am nearly forty and there is nothing wrong with that. My mental and emotional well-being is the best it’s ever been, I have grown out of the naivety of youth, and I’m feeling empowered to start to do what I want with my life. It took me a long time to get here.
I just failed in my finals as 25 year old who is still doing his bachelors and I was thinking too old to continue jobless and have to w8 yr for re-examinations.
Very thoughtful! Thank you for reminding all
Of us of what aging truly means ❤
I'll turn 25 in 2 weeks , i feel too old and i haven't done anything yet, i did graduate dental school and have my own business as a self taught bridal accessory designer and i also handmake them , i'm trying my best to feel good i try to take care of myself by improving my relationship with Allah,workout, eat healthy etc...but seriously i'm too lonely i got no real friends, no job related to dentistry which i know makes me happy, i'm not married and having a family feels so important to me as a female...i got this feeling the whole time that i'm missing out on alot and that i'm too old and haven't achieved anything in life
Dance is great for health and mental health. Helps build confidence and great social activity. It only becomes toxic if you dance to impress other people.
You can easily pass as 26 .
I just want you to know I have been following you since the last 2 years now. I am a licensed assistant now and on my last 2 semester before I apply for dental school. You have been such an inspiration to me
“Focus on what excites you” 💖
😢😊I am so glad find your channel! I am 36 found my husband cheating on me, and now I am 37, fighting for stable job hunting and a divorce if I can afford
This helped me. I’m 31, and I’m not where I wanted to be in life and yet, I’m trying to be proud I have survived things I would have never imagined. Thanks for reminding me I still have time.
I'm 39 this year, and I don't think that I'm that old, but also I'm childfree and look similar in age to people in their mid 20s. So maybe that's why. But life is like in between college students and people who are near retirement for me. I fit in but don't fit in.
Thank you:) I am 42, after covid back Nov 2023, took a huge turn and start focused on my health. Since then I lost 14 kg, 10 kg body fat, went back to gym after 5 years, and I had return better than my prime back in 28 year old. If you set your mind to it, there is literally nothing you cant achieve. I think when you get older, you are too old for silly craps. But instead you start to look within on what really matters to you, and from there you grow more from within and within spirit. Its quiet a incredible process :)
i'm 28 and i don't feel too old for anything, I think i'm too late for everything i wanted to do. So, right now, i'm racing with my time for all the things i want to do. I'm so fuacking late already. I have to runnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn!
The temporality of life makes me want to enjoy every day... the loss the gain. It's a journey of self discovery. Grow with grace and wisdom. Give and cultivate love. Watch life give life.
It really depends on how people take care of their bodies. A lot of people just don’t have the discipline to have a healthy lifestyle when they could’ve look and feel younger for their age.
Our society glorifies youth and youth culture while actively shaming people for aging. Even though ageism is real, don’t stop yourself from living and trying new things.
38 you look great, I just hit 48 and I’m mentally still 35.
I started feeling the same thing at 40. Im working really hard to get over it but it is difficult.
I’m 30 and I still play games all day and live with my mom. No job due to timing of things; graduated during Covid, grandparents became bedbound, got a dog to take care of. Meanwhile my friends from school have whole ass careers, my former gaming friends have moved on from it, and some have their own families. Do I care? Nope. I do what I want and will not conform to age roles. Gamer, young person at heart always, and Asian genes have blessed me as well.
Hi noonar. it's eric, najas bf. we miss u! pressing play now and ready to enjoy ur video.
Progress through time focused on health; harvest wisdom; enjoy knowing more and being better at doing life.
Thank you for sharing this video. When you and I met in the past, I remember you talked about this a bit with me. I am 30 now and I feel like for some reason I need to go faster and faster towards the things that I want. Like time is running out or something.. I'm hoping to grow and share through TH-cam just as you do. You make things seem possible, so thank you for being someone who inspires me, Sarang.
Has she had surgery?
well theoretically yea its just a number and yet our body tissues can't agree with it - for certain things it will be too late no matter what u think or want, for example u cant become professional athlete in ur certain 20s, in 30s and 40s and ect, if u just starting, well u can be amateur and there will be certain category for u, but it won't be that actual pro-sport among those who started as kids
Feeling young from the inside out - this is my life goal! And when I see someone follows the same, it's great feeling! I'm 34, and thanks yoga - I feel amazing!🙏
딱 어제 이런 생각들 때문에 우울하기도 하고... 또 바로 앞이 가로막힌 느낌이 들어서 두렵고 힘든 하루였어요 솔직히 감정적으로나 실질적으로나 결정을 내리지도 못한 상태였구요
근데 사랑 님 영상 보니까 마음이 한결 정리가 되네요 :) 안 되는 외부적인 요인들보다 제가 하고 싶은 것, 그리고 그 가능성에 더 집중해서 앞으로 나아가도록 할게요. 좋은 상담 플랫폼 소개와 좋은 메시지 너무 감사해요! 좋은 하루 보내시길 바라요😊😊
40 WHERE??? Sis you look 23
사랑님이 도전하는 모습을 꾸준히 보면서 자극을 받았는지 35살 늦은 나이지만 치기공 전공 살려서 다시 시작해보려고 알아보고 있습니다 아직까지 한국은 직업에 귀천이 있어서 남의 말에 휘둘리는 제 모습이 싫어 미국으로 가려구요 요즘 남자친구분과 사랑하는 모습에 더 아름다워지시고 부럽습니다 저도 직업적으로 안정이 되면 사랑님 처럼 사랑도 하고 멋진 사람으로 살아가고 싶어요 오늘도 좋은 영상 올리시느라 수고하셨고 좋은 영향 감사해요 사랑님 언제나 행복하세요~♥
안녕하세요 사랑님 !!!! 저는 약 8년전 인스타 디엠으로 (캐나다에서 유학 시절) 영어에 대한 절박함으로부터 사랑님에게 엄청남 질문을 했었어요 !! 어떻게 보면 저의 많은 질문이 대답하기 귀찮으실 수 있으셨을텐데 정말 긴 문장으로 어떻게 영어 공부를 하셨고, 어떻게 공부를 하는게 좋을 수도 있다 라는 긴 문장을 보고 그땐 그냥 그런 정보를 얻는거에 급급했었던 저라 감사함을 크게 느끼지 못했었는데요,,, 지금은 철이 들었는지 , 그런 선행이 얼마나 감사한 일이었는지 깨닫게 됐어요.. 그래서 늦게나마 이렇게 댓글을 남깁니다 ! 디엠을 할 수 있었지만 유튜브에 많은 분들이 사랑님이 어떤 분이신지 알았으면 좋겠어서,,,ㅎㅎ긴글을 남깁니다 ,, 😃사랑님 덕분에 영어 포기하지 않고 꾸준히 공부해서 !! 현재는 캐나다 영주권자가 되어 리얼터로 일을 할 예정이에요 !! 정말 감사드립니다 !!! ㅎㅎ 그리고 저의 롤모델,,이세용,,,ㅎㅎ 저도 사랑님처럼 멋있고 남들에게 선행을 베풀수 있는 사람이 될게요 ~~!!! 항상 행복하세요 사랑님 !!!
im 36 single, i will do whatever i want. 👌👌
I'm 40, but don't feel and look like my age. I'm very athletic even when young. No vices, and unhealthy diet. I workout most of the day of the week. This is all about mindset. Honestly, I feel like I'm 25. One tip: for guys/girls at 35-40, if you really want to assure good health, one wuick way, is to. try to run as fast as you can. If you feel dizzy and out of breath (really out of breath), then you should take care of your health seriously. If not, then walla! you;re like me and the rest who are reeping what we sow during our younger years!
Omg I want to be Asian 😍 please share all your skin care routines/ products/procedures if any! ❤❤❤
Exactly. I keep talking to young boys that are looking for girls and turning their lives miserable, that they should be alone and build their lives that, when they get older, life will be marvelous by themselves.
진짜 볼때마다 자존감 좋은 삶을 갈 수 있도록 좋은 자극을 주시는거 같아서 너무 감사해요🖤🖤🖤
Sarang, you moved to a new country to study, and successfully graduated and got a great job now. You got married and divorced (which is cool), and now happily settling down with a cute cat and a partner in your apartment… You achieved a lot already:)) so, not old at all, and you are at the great age of your life and did a great job.❤️❤️❤️
Time is strange I didn't look like mid 40's until now. I think 44 was my last year of looking "young". 45 is hitting me like a mac truck. Grey chin coming on. Oh well a touch of grey kinda suits me anyway. 😎
Thank you. I needed this video. First time visit and New subbie here. GOD Bless You Always!
cat mother, single and childless
What's so special about being in a relationship or having kids?
@@gotthecutenessoverload1086 for you nothing, stay alone
Dr Dre said it best 30s the new 20 40s the new 30
Learning and hobbies keep the mind young. I've heard of that before, and I guess I've seen it in action with some elderly people who seem more energetic or vibrant compared to others in their position.
Also, I think it also looks different if you're more introverted or extroverted because extroverts are going to continue connecting with people first and then learn or try something because they're socializing. Introverts are more likely to try something alone at home before searching for connections outside, but some will keep it to themselves. We probably never see just how many people are trying something new because they don't publicize it (whether they're excelling or struggling).
It all comes in phases. I was the first person in my class to get married which means I took a risk at an early age. I didn't have children until 6 years after. Now I'm almost 32, married, and we have two kids. We don't own a home of our own yet, I stopped my formal education at an associates degree, and I've been a housewife. Some would say I did life backwards, but I just focused on different things. I can always return to school later on, for example. I also continue to try different hobbies at home (I'm currently working on fermenting different foods). My timeline is catered to my personal values and preferences, and that's what matters. It would be uncomfortable to have a timeline that catered to someone else, and that's a point to be made.
As long as we're comfortable with who we are, and we're still trying to learn new tricks at our pace, we're doing just find wherever we are at any age.
Example of life is your oyster, what you make of it
Sis, you look absolutely amazing
You say aging is a beautiful thing but yet its clear you had plastic surgery. Interesting
Does anyone know the name of the song playing in the intro? so beautiful 🥺
I swear to god, with some asian people you'll never know if they are 16 or 54
I lean into the oldness. Got myself a trike, enjoying the chill, and advising youngsters on wiser ways. It is humble work
I’m turning 38 in 3 months and I have been plagued by those exact same thoughts. Thank you for posting this video! I will make sure to focus on what excites me, rather than what limits me.
사랑언니의 말이 제게도 참 위로가 되네요:) 오늘도 사랑뿜뿜 나눠줘서 고마워요~~♡
bruv, how many infants do you eat each day, dang
I am 53, and when i hit 50 it hit me hard. When i was 40, I look like 30, When I am 50, fine lines and wrinkles start appearing, skins start to sag. Omg it was so hard to process this. You just never think about aging till you get there one day and its like boom.
Omg, where can I get that yoshi outfit?
Life start at 40, I don’t see this before but now at 39 I am building new career since tech layoff from startup, new hobby, have new life since new year (divorce). Hoping next year, yes right at my 40, already have a more stable business. 😊
You look like you just turned 30. ❤
와 진짜 동안이시네요! 영상보면서 동기부여 많이 되고 있습니다❤
thank you for this video :) in an impulsive "i feel too old" moment, I went back to dark hair and am dying to go back to being a bleached blonde. how do you maintain your blonde hair these days? are you doing it yourself like usual? i'd love an updated bleaching routine & hair care routine unnie
Skin care or (if applicable idk) procedures done please
1986 was built to last
I'd love to know your skincare routine Sarang
Your messages are so empowering! Thank you for sharing your journey with us! I think that life happens in chapters and not so much in numbers. We all have our own book. Some chapters are longer than others and that's okay but some chapters are way shorter and we can miss them and want to re-live them but there is always something new to look forward to! God bless you on your journey! I really do appreciate your outlook on life!
I just registered for school today in my local community college to transfer to a 4 year school for Computer Science, I'm 35. I always thought "I'm too old to go back to school" but I realized that the pain of regret is worse than the pain of failure or criticism. I know I'll be graduating at 40 but I don't care because I realize what I wanna do with the skills I acquire (IT, video games, and cybersecurity). I don't want to be in my 50's or 60's saying "what if?". I'd rather say "I tried my best, it just wasn't for me" or "Dang, imagine if I did not try it?" Our human lifespan is too short for allot of "what if's".
From 19 to 34 I've picked up, kept and dropped allot of hobbies and things: Flint Knapping, Bush Crafting Skills, Calisthenics, Dancing like a robot cause I wanted to learn "gliding", played guitar, ocarina, weaved stories and ran games for my Dungeons and Dragons group, rock climbing, cigar and pipe tobacco smoking (yes it's a hobby and I have the Gandalf pipe, I don't recommend it for your health). Now at 35 besides school, I've started learning to free style rap as a creative outlet and I intend to learn percussion to supplement that. Looking forward, I want to learn more languages, draw, compete in contact sports, play sepak takraw, learn to read, write poetry and mathematical proofs.
So, don't end up with a bag full of "what if's?", fill that bag with a sh*t-ton of "Yeah I did that!"
just my 2c.
I just found you. I want to say this based on this video’s message: you are my hero ❤ love your reassuring message!
Shoot I'm 39 myself and I still got plenty I want to do and my body isn't stopping me, I have Aleve extra strength for that 😂
But seriously, I'm just glad God keeps giving me another day of life to be with the ones I love and care about. Also, I'm having a party at a kids pizza place next year and having them announce my name 🙌😂
I turned 38 in early march 😅 80s babies yay
Absolute queen. Youre so stunning 🖤
Can you share your diet? Like what you eat daily?
. I’m about to be 36 and feeling lost , realized I’m getting closer to 40
Don’t worry, it gets better at 50.