breaking up after 4 years: moving out

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  • @Fayefilms
    @Fayefilms  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1876

    Comment: Are you single or in a relationship? 💕 Well bestie, this is a personal video. I hope you don't mind it being a little long. I didn't want to cut out anything important and would love to be able to watch this video a few months later and see how far I've come 🥹 Many of you also told me that you're going through a tough time. I'm so sorry to hear that. I have been in a toxic relationship before (prior to this ex) and I know how suffocating it can be to not have anyone to talk to. If you are alone, feel free to leave a comment here. I promise, I will be monitoring this comment section closely to make sure that there are no hate comments. I will also be taking extra time to reply to as many of you as possible. Love you so so much bestie, we're in this together ❤

    • @belle_chan-js2wy
      @belle_chan-js2wy 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +60

      single as a pringle, thats me

    • @leen_marie23
      @leen_marie23 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      single

    • @Netal25764
      @Netal25764 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

      Single obviously 😅(yes l feel lucky to vibe on sad romantic songs just like l used to vibe with a happy song .....)

    • @Sonamdeep-e4y
      @Sonamdeep-e4y 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      Single

    • @waitaichan6931
      @waitaichan6931 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Single

  • @aurorateemo3708
    @aurorateemo3708 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2624

    I broke up this week too , besties who are having the same situation i just want to say it gets better with time give yourself sometime and WE GOT THIS

    • @Masreblessed84
      @Masreblessed84 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Thanks

    • @aurorateemo3708
      @aurorateemo3708 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      @@Masreblessed84 stay safe bestie

    • @Masreblessed84
      @Masreblessed84 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@aurorateemo3708 You too💜💜❤❤!!

    • @FavourOvonlen-zf9pl
      @FavourOvonlen-zf9pl 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Stay safe bestie! You're so strong!

    • @renzjarredhsantiago3985
      @renzjarredhsantiago3985 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      same facing my first heartbreak rn. its been 3 months and it does get better

  • @nitya849
    @nitya849 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +294

    the way she’s looking for her mom every time she’s out her sight like she’s so afraid to lose anyone now god bless bestie i’ve gone through the heartbreak many times it’s really hard emotionally and mentally to cope up with daily activities may god gives you more courage and power to go through all ups and downs.😢❤🎉

  • @roseseatencandles8570
    @roseseatencandles8570 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1980

    You're so strong, girlie. We besties from all around the world love you ❤

    • @Larsbutb4d
      @Larsbutb4d 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      YES!!!! SUPPORT FROM WHATEVER COUNTRY IM IN

  • @ajb7530
    @ajb7530 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1011

    My ex-girlfriend broke up with me almost a year ago. It's hard when you are with someone for a long time. I was with her for almost 4 years. Then, out of the blue, without any warning, she, my ex-girlfriend, just breaks up with me. I did everything I could to be the best man to her since the beginning. But, I wouldn't never force her to stay. She is her own women, she can do whatever she wants. A few of my friends have asked me if I would ever take her back? I said to my friends, I would never take her back. She broke my heart. So right now, I focus on my work and building my own projects.

    • @Jiniswwhjoonisnerd
      @Jiniswwhjoonisnerd 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

      Hey im sorry it happend to you, i felt you when u said i did everything to be the best ye same with me i did nd said everything just to realize his love was fake, i said everything words couldn't describe my feelings towards him but he just played but after that i feel like i will never believe in love again

    • @Jiniswwhjoonisnerd
      @Jiniswwhjoonisnerd 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      I would start my day with him , spend the day nd end the day with him gradually i saw his love descrese but he said it's increasing he lied its very hard for me to aacept, he destroyed me, 24/7 i just think abt him, even he gave me trauma i want him to be happy

    • @Chambalam
      @Chambalam 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      Aw. But personally, I think she should have at least left one good reason rather than letting you hang in the corner with uncertainty. Best wishes to you, man!

    • @STUDY-g9t
      @STUDY-g9t 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      naah theres no way boys watch fayefilms this is rare

    • @awesoma330
      @awesoma330 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      She fell out of love, or something to do with her sexuality, it happens..

  • @subhasree99
    @subhasree99 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1673

    Ok sis you need to know something ,
    There is nothing permanent in life , i don't how you are maintaining that cute smile over your face even after this situation , but that is the real thing you have done to make yourself and us proud .
    LOVE YA ❤

    • @abhinavdy
      @abhinavdy 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    • @Masreblessed84
      @Masreblessed84 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Correct.

    • @shivalika10
      @shivalika10 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I agree❤

    • @RuzaikaNazeer-b6v
      @RuzaikaNazeer-b6v 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      True 💯

    • @C0sm0zz_st4r
      @C0sm0zz_st4r 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yesss! I hope they’re in good terms tho!

  • @oishee791
    @oishee791 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +123

    i really loved how she appreciates every little changes and spreading positive energy by saying "little space and easier to clean". its not easy to move out from a big apartment to a small studio while shes already trying to get over from her long relationship. this is something really inspiring. lots of love to you and wish u a bright future and thanks for spreading positivity within every little things

  • @viabalonso8486
    @viabalonso8486 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +470

    crying rn* I also have my four year relationship and I can't imagine us parting our ways like that. Stay strong! We believe in you!

    • @dancer-o2m
      @dancer-o2m 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      Aww lemme hug u 🫂(virtual huggie)❤

    • @safaeelkhattabi4716
      @safaeelkhattabi4716 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      Same, even tho she was smiling I just saw a sad side of those smiles, just wanted to hug her silently because I felt that even tho I never experienced it. It's so sad. Tho she's so brave I'm very very proud of her. Such a strong woman

    • @kellybrinkerhoff5055
      @kellybrinkerhoff5055 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Aww I’m sorry, don’t cry! Let me share this….maybe it will help.
      When I was 31 years old, my BF of 3.5 years broke up with me. I was devastated, but thank God he did for several reasons. All I wanted to do was marry this guy, but he was like a man /child. Not responsible, no real full-time job, and didn’t take my feelings into consideration. He was using me, but I chose to ignore it as I met him at a very vulnerable time in my life (my mom had died at the age of 47. I was 26) I needed someone to love me.
      The good news is, if he hadn’t broken up with me, I wouldn’t have been out the night that I met my husband six months later. It’s been 23 years, and I am with the love of my life. I truly believe that everything happens for a reason. You will be BETTER than OK! Hang in there!

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    @Vanshsoni-zo4fm 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1768

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  • @thisperson6219
    @thisperson6219 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +678

    Hey girl! I am also healing from a heartbreak. I gave the guy 3 years of my life and it really hurt, but it was necessary. Last night, I was in bed, unable to move and just crying the entire day. Seeing you go out, get an apartment and ADJUST is so inspirational. I needed this. I feel so stuck right now. So I know someone else needs to see this too. Thank you so much for sharing during this time

    • @sanskritikangda234
      @sanskritikangda234 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      ik it might not feel like it but you’ll get out of it girl 🫶🏻

    • @DJEveee
      @DJEveee หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Just had my first heart break 2 days ago and it has left me paralyzed, please help me! I got no friends to support ..It is just so heavy..

    • @justsomeoneukxx
      @justsomeoneukxx หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@DJEveee u want to have a chat, mate?

  • @naul4401
    @naul4401 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +158

    I am OBSESSED with Faye's apartment 😭😭😭 like i need that kind of apartment once i finish highschool

  • @tszyshhs
    @tszyshhs 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +613

    “I’m crying right now” .basically i am single now because im focusing on my SPM batch 07 this year, trials are approaching and i honestly don't know if i can do it. Faye, we are all with you and i hope you stay strong and strive on with your life

    • @Lisosouku
      @Lisosouku 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      u can do anything
      it not how smart u are it about hoe hard u work
      go bestie

    • @whyisnothingavailablee
      @whyisnothingavailablee 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      SAMEE😭😭

    • @Beruangbear
      @Beruangbear 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Me too girl! Crying for the upcoming trials 😭, been staying up late to study. Also, stay healthy and strong faye!! ❤❤

    • @aidennnz
      @aidennnz 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      ik u can do it with a broken heart. yall kids can do this 🤍

    • @amanpuri7079
      @amanpuri7079 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You can do this!!!

  • @mamamilkis2964
    @mamamilkis2964 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    currently going through day 1 after the breakup…immediately thought of this video to rewatch again. Seeing Faye going places, distracting herself with good people, life in general, just shows that life continues regardless… Subscribed since SPM days ;))

    • @DJEveee
      @DJEveee หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I too had my break up 2 days ago..and I feel so helpless and heavy.

  • @hemadembla3496
    @hemadembla3496 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +276

    You are my role model . Looking at you I always thought that studies and relationship can go together, I even told my friends that look at her 😭. You go girl 💪😭 love you

  • @hope-.
    @hope-. 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +69

    Girlie, you say we're your besties and now, YOU'VE proved it. Obviously, it was absolutely not necessary for you to share such a tender part of your life and be vulnerable online where you know people are very mean but I love how intimate this bond of us has become. Loads of love and prayers for you to heal. I hope both you and him find happiness and color back into your lives but I wish you give it some time❤️🥺

    • @Fayefilms
      @Fayefilms  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      thank youu 🥹💖

  • @lan_kimra9168
    @lan_kimra9168 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +243

    Hiii Bestie ,
    I just wanted to remind you how incredibly strong and resilient you are. I know this breakup has been tough, but I also know that your heart is as hardworking as you are. Healing takes time, but with each day, you're growing stronger and more beautiful, inside and out. I'm here for you every step of the way, and I believe in the amazing person you’re becoming through this journey. Take your time, be kind to yourself, and remember that brighter days are ahead.
    I also want to share that I’m going through some tough times too-losing my father, going through my own breakup, and feeling abandoned by close friends when I needed them most. But even with all this, I’m trying very hard to stay focused on my dreams. You’re not alone in this, and together, we can find the strength to keep moving forward.
    We’ve both got this, and I’m right here with you. 💖
    (Sorry if there any mistakes. English isn't my mother language )
    🇱🇰 love from Sri Lanka.

    • @sachinthaniwickramasinghe330
      @sachinthaniwickramasinghe330 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      You got this girl.God bless you!!❤✨

    • @studyfaye
      @studyfaye 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      NO WAY !!! Another viewer from Sri Lanka 👐
      Hello 👋👋

    • @lan_kimra9168
      @lan_kimra9168 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@sachinthaniwickramasinghe330thank youuu!!

    • @lan_kimra9168
      @lan_kimra9168 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​@@studyfayeHelloooo....

    • @YushmiSadalika
      @YushmiSadalika 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      I'm from Sri Lanka too ❤

  • @enoabasiumo
    @enoabasiumo 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    8:04 I love seeing your mom in your vlogs it's so wholesome to see you two having fun together, I hope you get better soon❤

  • @rosemewaaii
    @rosemewaaii 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +299

    I love how she treats us as her besties !! 🥹💕
    Stay strong,We lysmm dear bestieee

    • @Fayefilms
      @Fayefilms  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +37

      love youuu 💞💞

  • @jasinwonderland
    @jasinwonderland 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    I am dating for 3 years now and it is my first relationship. So i can't imagine us apart. You're amazing and sensible at handling it. And i am proud of you. Btw love your room not just becayse of the aesthetic and coziness. But the sentiments you have kept in the room. (The soft toys, your childhood dog'd toy, etc) That really warmed my heart 🌟❤️ take care, Faye.

  • @kavithyamathuvi3304
    @kavithyamathuvi3304 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +77

    my best friend broke up with her 2 year boyfriend around 6months ago and she was heartbroken for a long time and i broke my heart to see her like that but we pulled through . i still remember how she first told me abt her crush then a few months later how they got together. my days were filled with the way she will talk abt her boyfriend and it will make me feel so happy when i see her face light up and smile as she talked abt him . but after those gruesome months where her spark nearly went away another person came in to her life and i can literally see her recovering he treats her like a queen and she wants to treat him like a king so i just wanna say your prince will come. cause you are a freaking angel . guys will be idiots not to be with you you deserve it sis . so be strong and be happy focus on your health. we love you faye

  • @hunnybunny7198
    @hunnybunny7198 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +41

    Rather than being teary-eyed about the breakup, I was teary-eyed when I see your mum being by your side during this whole difficult time. I miss my mum 😢 she came to Australia with me too to help me move from Malaysia and settle down

  • @vismaya1205
    @vismaya1205 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +124

    Be strong faye, this too shall pass.. 🙌.......
    I'm 18 yr old who's never been in a relationship. During my early teens, I always wanted to be in a relationship, but I am not that attractive or confident at that time..Most of my friends were in a relationship. I really cried because of it🤣🤣🤣🤣.. But now, I am happy about my life😌❤️. You should love yourself first and do what you like to do. Now, I am working for my dreams 🤍. Make yourself happy and don't rush into a relationship😇.

    • @AlostGirl-n5c
      @AlostGirl-n5c 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      Omg ur my twin, I am 18 without even hold a hand with a man, I used to cry a lot about this and I used to wish to have a boyfriend but I wasn't attractive at all, now I'm having fun watching kdrama and trying to focus on my future university life. I wish we will find one day someone who deserves us lvy 💗

    • @quessiabuhinja
      @quessiabuhinja 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      You are not alone:) I am 21 yr old girl who is also in the same situation. It will happen one day

    • @vismaya1205
      @vismaya1205 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@AlostGirl-n5c Oh my god😂😂..We also have the same area of interest 😁. I also love to watch kdrama❤️. Which one are you recently watching??

    • @vismaya1205
      @vismaya1205 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@quessiabuhinja yeah sis🥲. Enjoy your life as much as you can😇🤍.

    • @AlostGirl-n5c
      @AlostGirl-n5c 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@vismaya1205 I'm rewatching alchemy of souls, it's my favorite I love it.

  • @ryusleeps
    @ryusleeps 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    i was never been in love so i know how to enjoy my own company and i'll say i love this. i love spending time alone. it allows you to know yourself better and be friend with yourself. things will take time but surely it will heal with time. there are so much more coming ahead for us in life. so we gotta sit tight and see the surprises getting unfold!

  • @absolutelyanisa
    @absolutelyanisa 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +76

    Bestie, the fact that you chose to move on got this cute apartment (love it btw, maybe I’ll have a studio apartment too when I go too uni) makes you stronger than ever. I just got over a heartbreak (2 months ago from my ex-bestie, but yeah, it feels the same), I get you. And you’re worth it and you’re enough okay? Stay strong! Love you! 8:17 also, I’d say, I’d still go to that place to relive memories and cry out everything because remember, crying and missing them is part of the healing process. But then after the crying sesh, you’d have such a beautiful feeling and feel like taking so much care for yourself. So I’d do that and then I’ll probably heal and remove anything I got from them that was not doing well to me, reflect a few times and then jump into conclusions (basically become a court, it’s overwhelming af so don’t try this one at home if you don’t wanna, but it helps) and then I’d go to the same place to see how it feels.

  • @xoxo12216
    @xoxo12216 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I’m currently studying abroad and watching this video made me miss my mom 🥹🫶🏻 your mom reminds me so much of my mom ❤ im glad she’s with you when you’re going through something 🫶🏻

  • @birajininayak2468
    @birajininayak2468 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

    You are doing absolutely right by taking things in a slower pace, moving on from someone isn't that easy, and you have to give yourself all the love and comfort and you'll find your strength back .
    I'm so proud of you Faye❤✨🎀

  • @rosengunjiri3794
    @rosengunjiri3794 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +68

    So sorry for the breakup. I hope you find comfort in this comment❤❤. I have watched you for 3years now and I find you amazing ❤

    • @Fayefilms
      @Fayefilms  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      thank youu ❤❤

  • @Hamed234-i5z
    @Hamed234-i5z 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +56

    The fact that you created this video and it is this vulnerable means so much to us.. it is indeed so hard on you but the fact that you chose to share it with us shows that we are actually your besties..I love you so much for this and just so you remember that God removes what no longer serves to give you what is better .. stay healthy happy and strong!❤❤❤❤❤
    And I just wanted to add that for me, I think it's so much better not to live with your partner until you're like married or fully fully committed because of these scenarios .. they seem so heartbreaking! I hope you're healing and flourishing

    • @Hamed234-i5z
      @Hamed234-i5z หลายเดือนก่อน

      @user-jl7hv5pc2l Indeed I have faith and I know for a fact that what's halal is what will serve you
      Allah chose halal things for our benefit, not his ... he doesn't need us but we need him... God bless you ❤❤❤

  • @Vovolove
    @Vovolove 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Stay strong! Last time I always thought am I not good enough when I broke up, but I realised that the break up is good for me as he is not suitable for me. God is doing me a favour and also shown me that there are many other guys that will treat you right. ❤

  • @DiliniAriyarathna
    @DiliniAriyarathna 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +90

    Don't worry, faye 🥺💗. Everybody has to go through harsh moments in life . We'll always be there with you 🫂🫶🏼✨️

    • @Fayefilms
      @Fayefilms  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      thank youu ❤❤

    • @DiliniAriyarathna
      @DiliniAriyarathna 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@Fayefilms My pleasure faye 🥺🫶🏻

  • @atadpoleuser332
    @atadpoleuser332 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I've been single for 3 months now and honestly, i feel a lot better after the breakup. He had a lot of redflags which i was too blinded by love to see but when i did, i broke it off. I do agree i also had many redflags which i didn't know i had until i was in a relationship (this was my first ever relationship and we almost lasted a year) and im trying my best to improve myself.. Im doing great now and i know you got this too girl! We love you bestie ✨💝💝💝

  • @Missimowd3
    @Missimowd3 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    I wasn't in any relationship but moving on from some toxic memories are all the experience I have, moving in is such a haunting thought but we must accept that we have outgrown our past self and focus on the present, focus on things that make you feel happy like the memories you cherish and be self aware about yourself okay, darling heart break happen but life doesn't it comes within you. Do this alone, I won't say it would be an easy thing to do, but a possibility that can become your reality. Heal by focusing on your own self like your health, wants, needs etc amd one day when you look back you would think I survived the hardest days and you will be proud.

  • @caitlynbaker
    @caitlynbaker 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Awwww I’m so sorry, my dear!! 💔 My heart is broken for you, but it seems like you’re taking some really good steps to heal yourself and grow in this new space. 💖
    I was with someone for 7 years before I finally called it quits - it was way too toxic and we weren’t going anywhere. It was so hard at first, but with time, it got much easier. Now I’m a bride-to-be for a wonderful man and I can’t wait to share my life with him!
    You are such a sweet and thoughtful young lady - no matter where you’ll find yourself, I know for a fact that happiness is where you’ll be 🌻

  • @deeptiiiroy
    @deeptiiiroy 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    Honestly, I was crying while watching this vlog. I hate being alone. I know this must be tough for you but you chose to smile and made me so happy. I hope you will be surrounded by love and best of luck for your new chapter of life. 💕🫶

  • @Sooyaa-c3p
    @Sooyaa-c3p หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I am so happy to see you girl smiling! You are so strong! I am proud of u!
    I also broke up this year and after that I really had a hard time focusing on my daily stuffs! Even I felt like slowly I was going through a depressing phase too!
    Trust me, it was so hard to cope up, with the pain, neither I could forget him nor the memories we shared!
    I was literally trying my hard best to move on for the past 3-4 months,, and here I found ur video here!
    Trust me YOUR SMILE HEALED ME A LOT! IT INDEED MOTIVATED ME TO MOVE ON! Thank you so much for this!
    This was very needed!
    Stay happy! We all deserve better ❤!!!!!!

  • @qilahlyy
    @qilahlyy 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    I'm not saying I'm glad u guys broke up but as someone who is currently going through a breakup rn, I'm glad I'm not alone in this journey.

  • @sna0w0
    @sna0w0 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Broke up two month ago, and now the deep stabbing feeling in my chest are gone , I'm neutral with my emotions now. To anyone going through a hard time trust me it gets better 💗🌷 It's better to live freely and love yourself than compromising to get basic bare minimum.

  • @jananijayapragash3366
    @jananijayapragash3366 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    "Hi Faye, I know this must be really hard for you right now, and I'm sorry you're going through this. Breakups, especially after a long time, can feel overwhelming. Just remember that it's okay to take your time to heal and process everything. You’re not alone in this. Wishing you strength and sending support your way."💕

  • @nonyabuisness9817
    @nonyabuisness9817 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    When went through my breakup i started watching your videoes cause they helped me to get heal in so many ways !!! So please rememeber that you are truely an inspiration to all of us !!! We love you and stay strong 🎀
    I want you to rememember that your feelings are always valid !!!!

  • @ruhichakarvarti1815
    @ruhichakarvarti1815 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Faye, I cried watching this video genuinely. I love you so much and wishing you cope with this as soon as possible. I also just went by a heartbreak a few days ago. No reason that lead to the breakup just a misunderstanding which went uncleared. But that relationship meant a lot to me, it was actually long term and my boyfriend had helped me with ups and downs of life like someone who knew me too well. It's easy to say to move on, than it is actually. Let's get through this drastic change together ❤

  • @raena_scraps
    @raena_scraps หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I’ve admired you since high school, always seeing you as strong and perfect. But when I saw your reel asking for advice, I realized even the strongest go through tough times. A few weeks later, I went through something similar. I wasn’t aware then, but he lied, saying he wanted to be part of my life. I gave so much mental energy, but things didn’t work out.
    Knowing you faced something similar gave me hope-I wasn’t alone. Stay strong big sister.

  • @hanseojoon123
    @hanseojoon123 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Faye, I teared up after watching this. I've never being in a relationship, I don't have many friends, I have a bestie but we're learning different subjects and because of that we don't meet often. And I think she has other bestie. Also I had a crush. And I had to move on from him too. It was quite painful. My family members doesn't know about any of this. I didn't have anyone else to talk about this. I didn't want to worry my family telling all this. I like being alone, but sometimes it's nice to have someone to share my thoughts. So, I'm hoping that I will meet a good boyfriend and a true friend.
    Also faye, you got this! I hope you will find the joy of being alone.. bcz sometimes it's nice to distant ourselves and enjoy being alone. As an introvert, I like being alone. I wish you all the best!! And I'm proud of you. LYSM bestie!!

  • @Khawla-v2y
    @Khawla-v2y 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    You're so lucky to have your family, your mom.
    Lives have ups and downs don't be sad.
    Keep shining and be strong❤

  • @SPARKLESOUL-b9o
    @SPARKLESOUL-b9o 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    the fact that her eyes look puffy maybe because she was crying.
    i love the fact her mom was supporting and helping her during her emotional breakdown..
    love you bestie you are going to be ok

  • @lulumarksfrnd8465
    @lulumarksfrnd8465 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    You may visit those places again. And be sure to change it those experiences with a better memories. Take time don't rushed it. It takes time to be healed.

  • @Foreverwinter8
    @Foreverwinter8 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Girl my heart goes out to you I know the pain you are experiencing but there will be good time in your life and you will be healed and move on you will have someone in your life in the future who will respect and treat you better

  • @sanatdebnath8814
    @sanatdebnath8814 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    After breakup or heartbreak everyone understands how important or valuable a mother is ,so always make great memories with your mom .she will bring light to your life in this difficult time ,love you fayefilms , May god bless you ❤

  • @sinmin3395
    @sinmin3395 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Yes break up feels more overwhelming when you have put efforts mentally, physically, emotionally and spiritually for the very first time. But life goes on. Please keep learning and make your life that you have dreamed off!

  • @sareenfatima6114
    @sareenfatima6114 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Honestly, I love this vlog. Letting go and moving on is a super power ✨

  • @soumyasingh2823
    @soumyasingh2823 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    My emotions are overwhelmed through out the video... i just love the way you portrayed every feelings you're going through in such a positive manner
    You're really strong bestie !!❤

  • @MelophileKuku
    @MelophileKuku หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    the only way to cope is to distract urself or sit down nd think abt the disrespect nd the peace u gained after it

  • @Vino.R.
    @Vino.R. 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    before i thought i did not want to put a comment here for you faye
    but later my mind changed because you helped me and will be helping me for my hard times as well ❤️‍🩹🫂✨ aaaand I'm here to say
    don't worry faye the heartbreak season will flew away and brings you lots of joy love , luck and happiness that you ever imagined and more
    thank you for everything ❤

  • @liyanahamsa
    @liyanahamsa 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    You are my role model
    whenever I think of you, I get a sense of proud at things you achieved both as a content creator and a student , You are the best and I always look up to you as a mentor and a friend
    Love you bestie
    We are here for you ❤

    • @Fayefilms
      @Fayefilms  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Don’t make me cry 🥹

  • @Cherry-by5zu
    @Cherry-by5zu 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    go girl!! breakups are never easy but they're so magical and eye-opening. heartbreak is your superpower and loneliness cant kill. got my heart broken too recently but im up like a light pole. ❤❤

    • @Levy-p3y
      @Levy-p3y 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I don't know for some reason - I've seen things and problems that are worst than Breakups So Breakups aren't a big deal these days 🙃

  • @janjoshuasantiago
    @janjoshuasantiago 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Hello, I'm from the Philippines. I just remembered about what happened in your life, and when I saw the latest videos of yours, I felt there was something different, and from there, I tried to watch to find out your story.
    I was a little bit shocked about your relationship. I'm sorry to hear that about you. But, I'm glad that you're slowly improving from the recent breakup that you had.
    Just take time, I know that it will not be easy, but as long as you're moving on, things will get better.
    By the way, I watched your videos as well, just for educating it well for that matter. I watched your videos, but it is my first time to give a comment on that matter.

  • @ronaroy365
    @ronaroy365 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    0:33 idk why , but you're look soo beautiful in this clip bestie!!! like a different type of glow and beauty✨
    im so sorry you're going through this tough time! but we all know that you're gonna have an awesome comeback! you are more than capable to come out of this situation... we're all rooting for you🎀🩷

  • @harry1879
    @harry1879 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Don't worry my bestie, everything will be fine. We all know that you are so strong and you can do anything. we are here always for u besty, love you

  • @gl8zes
    @gl8zes 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I completely understand the part of loneliness and "learning to be by yourself" after the breakup. I just ended my 2 year relationship a few days ago and your video brings me comfort, super timely!! I really admire how you can be so optimistic despite it! I know we'll get through this :))

  • @myst6197
    @myst6197 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    8:18 I would say that creating new memories in those spaces may be helpful. For example, have a fun girls' night out in a restaurant you used to visit with your ex, so you could associate it with positive times.
    At first, it's natural for everything to remind you of him, since he's been on your mind for so long that your life became intertwined with his, but you can treat the moving on process like getting rid of an addiction/ obsession. By filling your life with new hobbies, spending time with your family and friends, and making time for personal growth, you'll eventually stop feeling his absence in your life as strongly and start focusing on the presence of endless possibilities.
    Wishing you all the best as you go through this! :)

  • @priyankavlogs1505
    @priyankavlogs1505 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Moms are just there always always silently helping out and figuring out anything for us ❤❤❤
    They won’t question much they just are there like one SOLID support system !
    Also sending lots of love and warm hugs, I know you have heard it lot but trust the process of finding love :) you will get the one made for you !

  • @nana-ew8zu
    @nana-ew8zu 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    when you first post abt your break up on your instagram, i broke up w the man i love the most too. glad that i have you to went through this process together

    • @hutao.h1258
      @hutao.h1258 หลายเดือนก่อน

      i don't get why people break up even if they still love each other

  • @faiza4943
    @faiza4943 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    You are so brave for taking it all with a smiley face. It's truly hard to know that you wouldn't be with the person anymore whom you used to imagine your whole life with.. You hold so much courage and patience, it's so inspiring. Bravo, bestie👏 And I hope that you heal soon🤗

  • @damianni5840
    @damianni5840 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Oh yeah, it’s heartbreak season for me this summer as well. It’s a different type of heartbreak but my parents separated at the start of July and at the start of August, I lost my one and only friend group. It’s been hard but both are for the best yet are still heartbreaks, nonetheless.
    Stay strong, beshie! It can be really difficult to get through but this is just another chapter in your book. One day, it’ll be time to flip to another page and start a new chapter ❤

  • @meridaholland8648
    @meridaholland8648 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Tbh i started making new memories in the places where me and my ex used to go! Create new and better memories! This will help you to see places not as a MEMORY WITH YOUR EX, but it would be a place where you can CREATE NEW MEMORIES! also to be in a long term relationship means them being a part of your daily life, you need to have a new schedule and new PEOPLE around you to help you create a new daily life and forget the old days! Remember your breakup was painful and you should totally accept your feelings! But you also need to respect yourself and slowly move forward! I believe in you 🫶🎀love you girly

  • @h.i8-o5s
    @h.i8-o5s 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    remember that we will always be there for you.. I always like to watch u before I study.. you motivate me a lot.. keep it up! ❤

  • @dafiaanjum604
    @dafiaanjum604 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hey Faye, I am watching your channel from the past few years, and the way you grew is amazing, I feel that you will get through this as well. You're that person who keeps a smile on their face no matter what! I hope you be happy in any situation😇💗

  • @ii_Arixx_x
    @ii_Arixx_x 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I'm sorry faye,hope u doing well ❤️‍🩹 we give u all the best supports 🥰🤍😭

  • @arshpreetkaur7513
    @arshpreetkaur7513 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Faye it's okay. We love you so so much ❤️❤️❤️. The first thing we should do is to study and be independent and everything is else is secondary.

  • @lucre3816
    @lucre3816 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    my favorite part is the vanity space on the drawer!!! really nice!
    still don’t get why it’s all green 😭 but beside that i think is really a cute apartment. I already see u film in there all of your video🩷
    hope u can find yourself in this new place🩷

  • @umm_Gloria333
    @umm_Gloria333 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    YOUR MOTHER IS SOOO BEAUTIFUL🤧🤧🥰
    NO WONDER YOU ARE BEAUTIFULL !

  • @im_just_vidu
    @im_just_vidu 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I love how you made this video both moving out of your apartment & relationship, while showing the process of moving out & talking about what's going on. I hope you'll be okay soon ❤

  • @venuu9585
    @venuu9585 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    hi Faye, I have been watching your videos for 4 years, I have not commented yet to this day. but I want to say that we are here for you anytime..and u are so strong for enduring this...I am still 16 btw..but I suggest that you take yourself on solo dates more and get into painting...painting really helps you to calm your mind and distract you...and also don't overthink it..take it as an experience that you got to grow... I'm sorry for the long comment but I just wanted to say that we are here for you sis💗💗💗

  • @diyar.5064
    @diyar.5064 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    It does get better with time, it’s taken me a year to accept this was for the best and actually be happy. You will get there.

  • @Superrdicer
    @Superrdicer 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    " I'm crying right now." Bestie, I have a request. Can you please make a detailed video about how you selected your university and major and how you get internships while being in university. I also wanna study abroad but right now I'm so directionless! 😔 You inspire me so much! 💝

  • @Pretty_serene_soul
    @Pretty_serene_soul 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Besties!!! You are the most strong people and you must NEVER GIVE UP!!! ❤Luv yourself and look on the brighter side. Talk to a friend who you feel safe and nice around and have funnnn!!!

  • @yogorlrubi
    @yogorlrubi 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +52

    0:26 :( the way her eyes look sad

  • @kellygarcia6588
    @kellygarcia6588 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Faye it’s crazy cuz this past year I went through an insane breakup with my partner of 4 years and we also had a place together. After the fact, our “home” no longer felt like home, it was a constant reminder of trauma and anxiety. Moving on has been one of the most difficult things I’ve ever had to do but I’m moving into my new place in a few weeks! I’m so grateful to know that I’m not alone and that it’s possible to live a comfy life on my terms ❤️

  • @Iris_music_is_soul
    @Iris_music_is_soul 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Iam really inspired by you. Even in a heart broken situation u r smile and voice are as gentle as ever . We are with you in every situation ❤️ sista

    • @Fayefilms
      @Fayefilms  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      thank youu ❤❤

    • @Iris_music_is_soul
      @Iris_music_is_soul 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I can't believe you replied me this is the first reply I got from a you tuber
      I Will never forget this in my life 💕❤️😊

  • @lee.aeyshaa
    @lee.aeyshaa 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    it's not that easy to forget all our memories tgt . sometimes we have to moving on and everything's gonna be okay . take your time . lots of lovee

  • @aidennnz
    @aidennnz 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +132

    8:42
    moma faye: very bad for stomach
    faye: (nods while sipping the cold drink)

  • @SubhajataMukhopadhyay-jv5ej
    @SubhajataMukhopadhyay-jv5ej 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Faye, you have us. And you will always have us. You're my inspiration and the definition of beauty with brain. I cannot leave you.

  • @tanishkaushik-lk4ih
    @tanishkaushik-lk4ih 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Alright, let's appreciate every part of the video and our dear bestie. first of all, we are here you girl, your girlfriends are here for you. second, Ohhhh my godnesss the glow up you are achieving,damn girrlll. love yaaa. being a girl , it does get hard to move on from a person who was always there for you, yet about the place you had been with them and then you are resisting those same places without them. it teaches you how fast things change and you need to adapt to changes. And wowww "I LOST MY MOM"😭 . your mom is soo damn good. also the apart looks damn stunning, the pastel friendly vibes , mixed with productive and those floral wallpaper got my heart, also love to that penguin, he was with us since few last videos💗💗We love ya, take care

  • @SophiaRosePiano
    @SophiaRosePiano 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    I’m so sorry Faye:( We love you so much! You can get through this ❤

    • @Fayefilms
      @Fayefilms  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      love you more ❤❤

    • @SophiaRosePiano
      @SophiaRosePiano 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Fayefilms ❤️❤️❤️

  • @daisyystamp
    @daisyystamp 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You're really strong. I love your apartment studio it's really cute and cozy. I hope you get better. Wishing you luck❤

  • @saradm991
    @saradm991 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    15:51 The way I gasped when I saw UnJaded Jade, you two are basicly my rolemodels omg! 🤍🤍

    • @Fayefilms
      @Fayefilms  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      soo happy to hear that ❤❤

  • @parksaeroyi4375
    @parksaeroyi4375 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Go out. Just keep meeting friends and new people. I was depressed for months after breaking up with my 5 year old relationship. Sure, I go to work and all, but meeting people do help you and by time you will be so much wiser and mature

  • @user-ij5xx
    @user-ij5xx 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +45

    Does anyone else also have this question? That- WHY did they break-up because like 4 yrs. is a long time ngl

    • @DeekshaMalavallikumar
      @DeekshaMalavallikumar 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yes

    • @kkaepjanggggg
      @kkaepjanggggg 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Same

    • @blackberry9110
      @blackberry9110 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      I have a friend who broke up after a relationship
      of 8 years. The guy was abusive toxic and a narcissist

    • @user-ij5xx
      @user-ij5xx 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@blackberry9110 oh so has SHE mentioned that her bf was also like this? When??

    • @blackberry9110
      @blackberry9110 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      @@user-ij5xx she hasnt. But there may be personal reasons, she doesn't have to share everything with us. Sometimes you outgrow each other and have to sacrifice a relationship for your career and future goals.

  • @ArmyPriya-y8f
    @ArmyPriya-y8f 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I'm only 16 years old so obviously I'm single..I don't know about love or relationship that much but when I see people around me breaking their hearts even they were in love for long time..I feel that I will never fall in love ..

    • @alivadafader2869
      @alivadafader2869 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      True girl I think the same idk why the society says we girl need someone like no if at the end if he going to hurt me no thank you I don't need it also why boys move over so fast their last partner never existed? ... .

  • @KittyRocy
    @KittyRocy 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You are always someone I look up to and someone i think highly of like all the time. Smiling through your hardships is already good enough bestie. 😊 We will be rooting for you. Always 😘

  • @anvidubey2690
    @anvidubey2690 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    You're mom is so beautiful just like youu❤❤

    • @Fayefilms
      @Fayefilms  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      she'll be happy to see this ❤❤

  • @DevikaJoshi-qf2ch
    @DevikaJoshi-qf2ch 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    i love you fayeee... i hope you stay happy in the new chapter of your life. WE'LL ALWAYS BE WITH YOU

  • @dragon-rose18
    @dragon-rose18 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I'm sorry for your lose faye.. I know how it feels to lose someone who closed to us..
    This is the first time I'm talking someone about it... I'm 18 now. My brother who is 11 years older than me, is too closed to my heart... may be it's just because I don't have any friends or I don't know any thing about out world or love relationship...but he was just like my super hero..
    Then he found his love of life and moved out... my parents was kind a against to his choices...
    After that I found his worst side, I mean I saw him as a completely different person the way he talked and reacted towards me. I was just shocked..
    I'm still asking myself what did I wrong... after that day, he stopped talking with me and contacting me.. I has been 4 years but I still miss him everyday single day.
    Sometime It hurts when you still can't smile whole heartly but the other person moving on with new things, new family and exploration of world like world tours...May be I'm little petty but I still pray everyday for his happiness and wisdom..
    I think I'm the loneliest person.. that's why I'm still holding my happiness with his presence. I just feel like it's weird that stopping loving someone just because you have another one to love. lately I lost my confidence in love. I wish my opinion change and to have a friend.
    And this is the first time I'm talking someone this much after my brother.. May be it's little bit weird to talk like this. If it is, I'm sorry

    • @sparkstudiesss
      @sparkstudiesss 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      no, its not. trynna make friends outside, theres better people out there. love ya.

    • @dragon-rose18
      @dragon-rose18 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@sparkstudiesss ohh.. thank you dr., I'll try my best.

  • @PotatoSasha-pv9mk
    @PotatoSasha-pv9mk 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The fact that i had tears in my eyes at the end of the video never been in a relationship so cant give u any real tips but the thing i say to all of my friends going through this is i am always with you bestie stay happy and healthy lovee youuu❤

  • @jazzelgo2007
    @jazzelgo2007 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I have a lot to say, Faye ❤❤
    First, I'm obsessed with the way you edit your videos, and the sound effects are so calming and the aesthetic?! Beyond perfect. ✨️
    Second, thank you for opening up. We really love you. I've been following your channel since 2020, and you helped me so much with my academics. Now I'm about to enrol in university because of you 🥹🫶🏻💗
    Lastly, i love how you always say, "I lost my mom." 😂😂
    Best of luck, bestie 💕🎀

  • @Takashi-mitzuya
    @Takashi-mitzuya 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Gurl i just end up my five year relationship too 😮‍💨💔 and you are right this is the heart break season 🥺 and i want to say i love u sm❤ and stay strong and healthy ❤

  • @justsomeoneukxx
    @justsomeoneukxx หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    i broke up just weeks ago and guess what your video pops up in my recommendation after 5 days of it, so I saved it in watch later and I'm watching it right now. it would have been a year this October only, only 7 days were left but looks like things never go the way we plan them to. Im rn in the recovering journey while still having the hope that he will come back and ask to start over. IDK its just so messed up rn. i never felt like this and I never ever want to again. its too much hurtful but I'm happy I have got people to talk with and I hope, I get better as time goes by. i really hope, as this age is very crucial for my career. I cant let these years go in vain of my breakup.

    • @aparnagupta4179
      @aparnagupta4179 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I'm so so sorry you had to go through all that. It's just shocking how much I can relate to you. I also broke up some weeks ago and we would have completed a year on 7th October but things indeed don't go as planned or as we want them to. Me and my ex were in a long distance relationship and all got so messed up. I'm in high school rn, preparing for my engineering college entrance and it's a really, really crucial time for my career as well. We're in this together friend. I hope you heal emotionally soon. Lots of love❤

    • @justsomeoneukxx
      @justsomeoneukxx หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@aparnagupta4179 i was too, in a long distance while preparing for medical university. It's weird that our cases are same but I'm happy I'm not alone out here facing the same situation. I hope we both will get better and have a good start in 2025. I really hope. Good luck buddy

    • @aparnagupta4179
      @aparnagupta4179 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@justsomeoneukxx We definitely will! All the very best mate

    • @justsomeoneukxx
      @justsomeoneukxx หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@aparnagupta4179 btw, u wanna be friends??? (Just wanted to talk to someone who is in same situation as me).

    • @justsomeoneukxx
      @justsomeoneukxx หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@aparnagupta4179 soo, do you have any socials, where i can add u??

  • @Thebestplaygroup1221
    @Thebestplaygroup1221 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    5:48 you and your mom are sooo cute together 😭😭 ilyyy

  • @srvry
    @srvry 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    crying screaming throwingup 🥲😭

  • @SampoornaSrivatsa
    @SampoornaSrivatsa 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    “Faye, watching this video it really touched my heart. I could feel the sadness you’re going through, and it breaks my heart to see you like this. But I want you to know that just as you’ve been a source of motivation and strength for so many of us, we’re here to support you too. You’re strong, and even though this is a tough time, I believe you’ll come out of it even stronger. Take all the time you need to heal, and remember that brighter days are ahead. Thank you for always being an inspiration-I’m rooting for you!”
    ❤❤ stay strong 💪

  • @ayushmourya2831
    @ayushmourya2831 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    We all are always supporting you dear ❤️