This Is How We Met: The Pitch Perfect Couple Shaindee & Avromi Basch

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  • In this captivating episode of Stories of Hope, podcast host Tzipora Grodko delves into the remarkable love story of musicians Shaindee and Avromi Basch.
    Feeling misrepresented by the matchmaking system, they bravely and vulnerably shared their fears and insecurities that were challenged during this time. Naturally leading to the infamous question of; what if I never find “The One”.
    Join us as we explore how two musicians who thought they were far from perfect, were perfectly suited for one another. Showcasing that love truly knows no boundaries and the power of music to unite two souls.
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  • @sarahrivkaclapman
    @sarahrivkaclapman 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    I love how Shaindee got vulnerable about how she struggled with her outer appearance when she was dating. Not a lot of people go in depth and speak about that openly and validate the parts of ourselves that feel unseen and unloved. Loved this episode !! Thank you for doing this

  • @antoniajane5442
    @antoniajane5442 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +21

    How lovely to hear a Jewish couple say that "chemistry" is so important. Wonderful couple!

    • @yitzchakenglard2514
      @yitzchakenglard2514 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@antoniajane5442 I was once talking with Rebitzen Bulman ztl. She told me when her son was going out on shiduchem he would get feedback that the girl didn't feel the chemistry. So he asked his mother if on the next date he can bring a chemistry book.
      If it was just that easy.

    • @fishraww
      @fishraww 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I think most people believe that

  • @JJ-kf4kc
    @JJ-kf4kc 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    Think that these two guests should start mentoring people in the dating process.... They're wise and mature beyond their years..... ❤

  • @myopinions1
    @myopinions1 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +17

    Finally someone is saying on standardized podcasts what I've been saying in person. You need to match personality not the tablecloth color.

  • @yitzchakenglard2514
    @yitzchakenglard2514 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +14

    Tzipora does it again. She hit that ball right out of the ballpark. Being able to put on the table todays challenges is brilliant. And with Hashems help Klal Yisroel be able to overcome and grow stronger and healthier. Kol hakavod keep up the awesome work.
    Im already looking forward for the next one.

    • @TziporaGrodko
      @TziporaGrodko 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Thank you so much for this generous, kind feedback! Trying my best! :)

    • @yitzchakenglard2514
      @yitzchakenglard2514 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@TziporaGrodko I just finished listening to podcasts #5. It was perfect. You should know I was nervous for you. Wondering if you will be able to pull off another sold interview. But as usual you have been able to show us that Hashem has a wonderful world and we just need to enjoy the moment. And what is ment to be will be. Love your work keep it up.

  • @Judys_Jewish_Music
    @Judys_Jewish_Music 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    Their relationship seems so supportive- Special! Inspiring!!

  • @VivianRusso13
    @VivianRusso13 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Tzipora cracked me up... "Women in the Orthodox world age in dog years" funny but sad. Thanks for breaching this very important topic. Another amazing couple BH

  • @kre7076
    @kre7076 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Very cute couple. Thank you for being so candid. For the record, stay at home moms are not boring and have plenty of interests!

  • @julieschechter3995
    @julieschechter3995 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Great episode Tzipporah! Middos are the main thing. If he/she is kind a loving to you-you will have shalom bayis and be happy together forever ❤

  • @hannahaguirre9465
    @hannahaguirre9465 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I've been honored to have met this couple in person a few months ago at the nichum aveilim for my father. They are both such special positive people and I truly admire them. Thank you Shaindee and Avromi for the dinner that night. I never got to say thanks. Great podcast and wonderful story.

  • @myjourney73
    @myjourney73 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    Many of us feel like we are not on the greatest hits list for dating just because of logistics technicalities or family backrounds

  • @musicizexpression
    @musicizexpression 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Such wholesome vibes and messages from the guests and host, thank you for sharing!

  • @estherberger9834
    @estherberger9834 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    Wow what a wonderful podcast! Such good points said!!

  • @campchaveirim1
    @campchaveirim1 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Thank you so much for this! We need more people speaking these realistic truths and putting the superficiality aside!

  • @chayafordonski
    @chayafordonski 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    This is such a breath of fresh air! This was a great story to share. Such valuable lessons!

  • @Judys_Jewish_Music
    @Judys_Jewish_Music 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Super Nice, Cool Couple- I’m always wishing for their success.

  • @bonnieschechner9476
    @bonnieschechner9476 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This is the best frum couple I have heard a story about! I absolutely loved them. I also loved seeing that they are growing together and that Avrumie is wearing a wedding band!!!! How nice to see in a frum man. Lovely podcast 😊

  • @newsbox.
    @newsbox. 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Tzipora, love these podcasts! I wait every week for these, love them! Thank you!! Avromi and Shaindee, you guys are awesome!

  • @artbya613
    @artbya613 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    39:00 exactly! the unknown is so hard!

  • @leahmoskowitz3462
    @leahmoskowitz3462 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Perfection! Loved every second...this was so educational and fun

  • @shaneeoiknine570
    @shaneeoiknine570 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Literally mine and my hubby’s story!

  • @geulaMoshiachNow
    @geulaMoshiachNow 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Thank you for the messages of hope!!!

  • @artbya613
    @artbya613 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    these two are perfect for each other! the picture at 0:36 at their own wedding playing the saxophone and guitar is so beautiful! This story shows how important it is to be yourself and how Hashem can give you what you want! No doubt about it! Their story brings me so much chizuk. thank you for sharing your story with us! i really love the way Tzipora lets them talk and doesn't interrupt much. its such a beautiful podcast. cant wait for another upload!

  • @laurashaar9767
    @laurashaar9767 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Thank you for yet another inspiring story

  • @Jeffrey-u8i
    @Jeffrey-u8i 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Wow this is best yet

  • @karinlevy5460
    @karinlevy5460 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I love this!!! such a beautiful couple and great vibes

  • @kaybee72899
    @kaybee72899 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    So beautiful and authentic! Keep being amazing ❤

  • @JJ-kf4kc
    @JJ-kf4kc 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    So, what does one need to have credentials to get on this podcast? Do all these marriages need to have a backstory? Or can regular unions that happened bkz g-d wanted them to be, also apply?

  • @nataliezav8451
    @nataliezav8451 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Woww!! This was a truly meaningful episode!!

  • @ayalaheching4629
    @ayalaheching4629 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

    thank you this was SO healing for me....

  • @Chanaross144
    @Chanaross144 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    So beautiful ❤ and true!!

  • @ElleRae1234
    @ElleRae1234 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Agree with the point about how it's harder to meet the standards of a frum guy - I think that's why I see so more guys becoming less frum, compared to the girls.

    • @yitzchakenglard2514
      @yitzchakenglard2514 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      There is a simple recipe to fix that. But it takes lots of work. There are two ways to set up our standards. You can live your life and try to squeeze Hashem and the mitzvot into it. Or focus on Hashem and try to make him happy and his world a better place. This way you know you did your best and truly that's all he wants from us, is to just try. Like every parent watching their kids. They don't expect them to be rocket scientists. But aim to do the right thing. And always remember those who try, make mistakes and it's ok. Because we learn from our mistakes and grow.

  • @nochumkleiman4225
    @nochumkleiman4225 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Camping should totally be a box on resumes

  • @jenniferlawrence9652
    @jenniferlawrence9652 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Loved this , what a great couple ❤️thanks Tzipporah .

  • @GoodDayYall
    @GoodDayYall 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Sweetest couple ever

  • @sarihalevy45
    @sarihalevy45 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Great !!! enjoyed and learned a lot!

  • @judilano770
    @judilano770 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Loved your story❤ hopefully my children will hear that

  • @RiviHipHop
    @RiviHipHop 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    I recently met her mother. A walking legend. The happiest funniest most welcoming lady in the world.
    These people are awesome.

  • @JJ-kf4kc
    @JJ-kf4kc 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Don't think that his suggestion would take off anytime soon, the bit about just going up to girls and such....
    Still pretty much not accepted.... Certain demographic probably....

  • @Ho1rtwbg
    @Ho1rtwbg 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Loved it thanks so much means the world to me im in sheduchem as well

  • @ElishevaTeitelbaum
    @ElishevaTeitelbaum 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    My favorite couple ever ❤❤

  • @tsober2470
    @tsober2470 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Love this episode!!

  • @leahgordon5238
    @leahgordon5238 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Enjoy watching your pod cast.
    Do u plan to do teshuvash and chassidish couples.

  • @cslurzberg
    @cslurzberg 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Middos is everything

  • @ck3987
    @ck3987 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Best podcast everrrr💕💕💕

  • @Jdubtheyid
    @Jdubtheyid 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    I feel like davening with a minyan has become a thing of the past for some people and lets be real most guy's that miss minyan don't daven at all their should be praise encouragement and respect for people to go to minyan

    • @musicizexpression
      @musicizexpression 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Imho that's a bit presumptive - not everyone who goes to Shul really davens, and lots of people daven outside of shul

    • @Jdubtheyid
      @Jdubtheyid 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

      It's better to go then not go
      Cuz the hope is that you will be making use of that special time and it's a fact most people that don't go to minyan dont daven at their house

    • @musicizexpression
      @musicizexpression 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@Jdubtheyid How did you conclude that 'fact'?

    • @Jdubtheyid
      @Jdubtheyid 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Maybe your the biggest tzadik and you wouldn't know 😏

  • @JJ-kf4kc
    @JJ-kf4kc 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Don't think the system is going to change.... I do not think you're going to start finding single guys randomly going up to girls at weddings lol
    It's definitely for a certain demographic...

  • @CPP-s4j
    @CPP-s4j 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Ahh Avromi and Shaindy we love you!!! @tzipora how are you interviewing all my brothers friends 😂

  • @ChabadofLego
    @ChabadofLego 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Amazing story

  • @drmark2392
    @drmark2392 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    It’s time for klall Yesrual to get married to each other no matter hashkofa. We have to be together in this time

  • @user-mk7df1xo8o
    @user-mk7df1xo8o วันที่ผ่านมา

    Amen

  • @tallyeb
    @tallyeb 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Connection matters.

  • @sshhlisten
    @sshhlisten 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

    🦋

  • @sshhlisten
    @sshhlisten 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

    🌼

  • @carmelcrave
    @carmelcrave 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

    TD❤

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    @JavierWarren-q8d 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

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  • @rochelbrown6597
    @rochelbrown6597 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    One potential problem of going up to a potential date at a wedding is very technical. Dor Yeshorim. It's a risk to expose onself to becoming emotionally involved with someone you haven't checked out. Maybe you want to take that risk? Seems wiser to me to ask who it is, check them out, then meet.

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  • @nastia6450
    @nastia6450 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Wow! I love this story ❤ So encouraging and beautiful (for us singles) 🫶🏼