Don't Get Attached to Women Too Soon | Save a Lifeboat for Yourself
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In this video I explain why it's essential to not get attached to women too soon. You always want to keep a lifeboat for yourself to protect yourself in case things go south.
If you want to maintain attraction with a woman, right from the moment you first meet her all the way through to a long-term relationship, then I highly recommend you get a copy of my book Atomic Attraction.
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I hate to say but never get too attached to a woman especially nowadays in this world. So, in case she cheats or breakups with you, you are never too destroyed or fallen apart too much.
Never ever got too attached and always have it on your mind that it most likely won't last. That's how it is in this world.
@@PassionateSpirit88 You need to read this book it changed my life bro
@@alberteinstein9085 same bro i downloaded a pirated copy of it & it worked wonders for me❤
You also have to remind youself, that she's not yours it's only your turn, it makes it easier to move forward
Cool. Yes.
She wants to feel that she's the one chasing, If you start chasing it's over .Stay Focus guys
You shouldn’t get attached at all. They’re ruthless. They leave.
No contact starts working when they feel more space from you then what they want.
Amen brother...
I experienced this lesson ever so harshly, back in May of 2019...absolutely one of the most painful evenings of my life!
same here bro exact same month and year
@D K wow....I wasn't alone in that pain for it was hellacious!
Same here. Painful lesson to learn
@@Rob-nl5ge however..... *Lesson learned & then some!!!*
Hahaha Same year Same Month!!!!!
After I broked up, I'm seeing the real girl I've been with 3 years. NEVER take a daddy issues girl serious.
Shes broken. Move on. She seeks attention from other men
Daddy issues is when a girl has been abandoned or neglected by her father?
What's the behavior of a girl with daddy issues? Attention seeking from men?
@@K4113B4113 They can have a good relationship with their father, as this girl I was dating. But he never been around, and there's a lot of cheating when he was around. It not always attention seeking, this girl I was dating even post too much on social media, she is posting now that we broked up, but they have commitment problems, and they can't solve problems with conversation, in a healthy way, they just pull away, become cold. They cause drama, first sign of weakness they test like a mf.
Please elaborate . I’m dating a girl without a dad and she has a high body count
@@kuokliangchin2078 How long? Bro
Its all about vetting correctly. People can hide who they are for around 90 days.
When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time.
True 100% but if you’re an expert of energy, you can read them within the first couple of weeks
@@fresh2354can you please help my girlfriend has not texted me in too weeks
@@fresh2354 not necessarily. Because by week 2, you should have only been out on 2 dates with zero messages in between or phone calls. So no, you can't really. You can gauge her interest levels on the first 2 dates. And if you can ask good quality questions you can get an idea, but they can hide who they are for 90 days. Anyone can be sweet for 2 dates.
The phone is for setting dates only not for getting to know someone.
This is a part of the vetting stage. Because if yhe girl is constantly messaging in between dates, that is an indication that she is needy and insecure. Therefore, she isn't gf material
@@BrandelJoshsaundh if your "girlfriend" hasn't messaged you in 2 weeks, she isn't your gf.
@@dontassumemyfender9866 yech she is
.... Practically ruthless? Yes, they can be. And they can be very, very fickle. That's just the way it is. Just be very nonchalant, and easygoing. Thanks for the FANTASTIC video and your review of these essential fundamentals.
Chris, i’ve been watching you since I was a teen. You have shaped my life more than you will ever know! Forever grateful for all of your teachings and knowledge!
This is beyond accurate. I’ve experienced this dozens of times and had to learn the hard way
Best advice ever. The more interest and Inve$tment you do the LESS she wiLL be interested....
Become emotionally unavailable and you won't have to be attached to her, plain and simple
Almost got into one, thanks for this.
Relationships and moving it on should always be their idea! Never ask where it’s going or for her to be your girlfriend.
I am pursuing someone I like a lot but she'll never know it. I do what Chris says no emotional investment in her, no chasing, no phone calls or texts, no weirdness or awkwardness. When I see her I see her and I try to do the flirting and when we say goodbye it could be for a month.
In my experience that's only nice in theory and you cannot really control attachment, same way you cannot control love and attraction. You can tell yourself you're not gonna give into any of these things because you know better, but they happen with or without your permission, internally. You can tell yourself i don't have high expectations, but if you genuinely like the other person it won't hurt any less when they screw you.
Ultimately i believe it all depends on the individual. Some get attached easily, others not so much. It may or may not be a matter of habituation and/or desensitization to relationships, but i doubt anyone can fully control it.
Chris is the father, brother, uncle, close neighbor that we never had. If you read his book atomic attraction, he states case studies that you can look up to corroborate what he's saying. I wish I had a Chris type figure growing up. This information would have saved me a lot of heartache and pain.
Thanks uncle Chris!
Don't get attached EVER
I know a lad just like this, pesters me for a night out. As soon as he finds a girl he's heavily in love. Books holidays and things days out all the time. Then he repears all over again.
Always remember she is not who you make her out to be in your mind lol
This comment is so underrated..... 💯
Straight facts 💯
I was about to make a video on this topic, nice to hear your take on this subject matter.
Your increasing attraction and commitment is not her increasing attraction and commitment.
It's a power-play, you must win the power dynamic.
Words of Wisdom, as always. Thanks Chris!
I have been waiting for ur video
My ex sent me a very cryptic message after I was on a dating app and matched with the roommate of her co-worker (my ex is sleeping with the co-worker). She told me that if i hooked up with the roommate that I might wake up in the same house as the ex and the co-worker but that i could do whatever I want. I didn't respond. Strongest position is to walk away and not look back.
Fuck the girl to piss her off lol
great video , so true!
But, how does this work when it comes to who pays? You want the woman to invest in you so you expect her to pay, yet men are supposed to be the provider.... yet where’s the point at which she takes you for a mug and expects you to pay for everything?
What is the ideal with this? 50/50??
I’ve stopped dating because of this because it’s always caused me so many issues with relationships. I’ve been accused of being tight, yet paid for everything before with other women and eventually been dumped.
If the chick is genuinely attracted to you, she will do most of the investing, just ask her to do things for you, like clean the house or ask her to buy you a loaf of bread when she's coming over to visit, if she complies, she likes you to the point where you don't have to do much investing, just feed her bread crums and she'll be satisfied with you, bru, less is more with cbicks, bruh
@@oscargonza2748 lol, love that double metaphor
But they hate it when you give them the same treatment
its a power-play, you must win the power dynamic.
Lesson learned!!!
this is so true I learned this the hard way, I thought she is different haha
Never take a woman who grew up in a Feminist country seriously. They are raised to view men as the enemy and look down on you. And if you are part of the 1% never forget how she would treat you if you wouldn't have incredible amounts of wealth
I always enjoy your videos.
You give great advice bro for men.
Good lad ❤
Myron Gaines says women become monsters with lots of power
Facts 🔥🔥🔥🔥
True
Not too soon. Never
What does it mean to invest? You should make a video on this subject.
Yes, don't attach to any girl
Is the information already in the book? If so, where exactly can I find it?
I did everything to her and some time ago she stop giving me sex so I have been with someone and she find it out so now she blocked me and doesn’t want to talk to me anymore!!😢
U will find out what she REALLY is like later on - could be a totally different person ...
I think there is some contradiction, sometimes you say take a lead other times you say women should chase you please clarify 🙂
Floyd Mayweather once said. One chick is too close to have no chick. But how can you keep more than one if you want a relationship? It's good to have a plan B but you have to be tactful surely
Hey what should I do because my girlfriend has not been texting me since in too weeks please help
She’s no longer your girl. Forget about her and get on with your life.
@@andywatson8225 yech yech
@@andywatson8225 don't respond, she will text u for sure! When she comes back just mirror her.
@@amith432 what do you mean by that
@@BrandelJoshsaundh bro! Don't text her first, let her text u, if she comes back u do the same, don't reply soon don't read the message for two three days, after that ask her how she is doing and all don't talk too much don't ask y u didn't text me, if she asked u just say u were little busy so simply. This always work's for me.
Long story short. You can’t show a woman you’re a human with human need and emotions you have to be a Robot if you want to keep a woman
I’m so excited my broken marriage has been restored my ex love is back after he left me and our kids for another woman.I was so happy to me how he help many people to bring there lover back❤
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End of the day, a woman chooses the man so help her make that choice. It’s that simple
First here
Should we give you a medal?
@@lastbull575 yes
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None of this stuff is accurate bro not in the black community
You’re wrong
Humans are humans
Or explain more