Des, we are not going anywhere, take all the time you need and don't stress yourself out about uploading videos. Your vlogs are my favorite btw, it feels like catching up with your bestie everytime.
Destiny you are literally the ONLY TH-camr whose vlogs I can watch all the way through. You have the BEST vlogs! At the end of the day just film whatever you enjoy.
Silent supporter here ❤ as an anxious girlie who’s also been getting AWFUL sleep lately, just know you’re not alone. We love you and appreciate all you do 🫶 no pressure from us!!
I felt convicted to say this to you when I listened to you talk about being in a bad mental space. I know you’re a Christian like me and I’m old I’m 35 🤣 so just try this and see if it works 💕in the morning before you work out, do a devotional, read one passage in your Bible. Then work out. Listen to worship music. Say your prayers out loud. It will bring you comfort and joy I promise. Love you destiny 💕
THIS !! des i never comment, but honestly im praying for you! there is such a call on your life and you are such a light. God can free you from and walk you through the hardest and darkest of times. lean on Him ! we love you ❤️🩹
Des, I’ve suffered with crippling anxiety my whole life too, adding in mild depression. I know every single person is different but medication saved my life. It’s scary to make the next step but seeing a caring doctor who knows you and can prescribe you with the right medication could literally change your life. Anyways, I hope you know that you’re so loved ❤️
I recently discovered that so many women are misdiagnosed with anxiety when in some cases they may be on the spectrum or have ADHD (more common). That's not to discredit doctors who actually diagnose correctly, but it's quite common with misdiagnoses among women. In some cases the presence of ADHD or Autism should be considered in individuals who suffer from severe anxiety/depression. Having said that, I'm happy you found something that works for you. Sending you light ✨
@@girlwiththemagicpenyes, this!! I know that I have ADHD and doctors just don’t believe me and refuse to listen when I try to tell them. It’s unfortunate there’s such a stigma around it.
Love your vlogs Destiny! Also give yourself a pat on the back for ‘ pushing through’ because pushing through mental illness is literally one of the hardest things, and you’re doing it! So well done x
Destiny I love your vulnerability about mental health, you truly do make me and so many others feel so seen and understood. Don’t ever forget to put yourself and your needs first, the Lord is always at your side even when you can’t feel it. All lights turned off can be turned on-WE LOVE YOU💗
I also suffer with bad anxiety and depression and poor sleep a lot, it sucks but books are my comfort and your videos are such a light in the dark, never feel bad for taking time to look after yourself!
your vlogs are my favorite!!! also, as someone who’s struggled with very bad mental health (depression, anxiety, the works), you’re not alone. it’s horrible right now, but it WILL pass. don’t push yourself if you’re not ready. you got this girl!!!
usually a silent watcher but im also a fellow anxious girly & just wanted you to know how much your videos comfort me as someone who heavily relates to a lot of what you feel. literally the only thing getting me thru senior year of college and the immense stress is you & sara’s videos & podcast. it really helps me at least to know im not alone in suffering with anxiety & it does not define us 🫶🫶
don’t ever feel like we don’t care about your content!! i love whatever you put out whether they’re book videos or vlogs, i love them!! i love you and will be praying for you❤
Much love Destiny, as a fellow person that can have bouts of crippling anxiety I know how demoralizing it can feel when you stop being able to do stuff you can normally do. These past few weeks you've crossed my mind and every time I just hope you're doing okay. It's amazing that you're still doing your best to get content out while trying to navigate mental health. Sending you lots of positivity and strength ♡
Destiny my angel, your health is the most important thing above everything else. We love you and support you in whatever you need to do, we will still be here if you need to take a break and we will love you while you're gone and when you come back. If people have anything to say about you taking care of yourself they aren't worth the headspace to think about them (I know this is easier said than done) As for vlogs, they are my personal favourite content (I still absolutely love your other videos too). If you ever feel comfortable in sharing them, I would love to watch them. Love Lil
I just wanted to say that you are absolutely not alone. I deal with anxiety every day, and your videos have been a source of comfort and inspiration for me. Watching your content helps remind me that I'm not alone in facing high expectations and the pressure to be 'perfect.' It feels like we share a lot of the same traits - striving to do our best, overthinking, dealing with anxiety, and that constant shadow of imposter syndrome. What makes your channel so special isn't just the content itself but you - your genuine personality, your effort, and your journey. Your authenticity and the way you share your love for what you do make a huge impact, and I’m here because I love seeing you being yourself. You never need to explain or apologize for that. Just know that you are enough, and you are so appreciated. You've supported me in ways you'll never know
I LOVE YOUR VLOGS SOOO MUCH!! I literally don’t care if they are about absolutely nothing I just love watching your everyday life gym, cooking, shopping, work, how your feeling idc they are my favourite videos of yours because it makes me feel seen 🤍
Destiny you should really think about getting professional help. It's clear that your anxiety is debilitating you from enjoying life! It’s not bad to ask for help. The only person who can change your situation is yourself but you have to take the steps to do it. As someone who has been taking medication and seeing a therapist for years for diagnosed anxiety and depression, it really is a game changer. It doesn’t work for everyone but you never know until you try. And if you are doing these things, great! But if not then what good does wallowing on social media do? This is coming from a genuine place of concern. We are in your corner and just want to see you thrive! You are so young and have so many beautiful qualities and you deserve to live life at ease.
I'm usually more of a silent watcher but just wanted to say you don't need to make yourself feel bad or guilty! Take your time with uploads and getting out of your book slump, the real ones will always be here to support you. I love the vlogs so much, you and Sara are my favourite youtubers to watch and I'm sure so many people feel the same as me! Treat yourself with kindness ♥️
I love your vlogs, it feels cozy and like talking to a friend on FaceTime. We’ll be here to watch anything you post when you feel well enough to post. Take care of yourself 🫶🏻💖
Destiny please take your time until you feel better mentally. If you want to post something, post it, I love everything you post and if you need time and don’t want to film and post it’s fine too. You don’t have to stress about it. You should take care of yourself first. I am here for you no matter what. 🥰🥰🥰🥰
Des… this is YOUR creative outlet. We are here because we love what YOU post, what YOU do. Personally whatever you post I’m watching and I’m sure I’m not the only one. Stop worrying about what we are going to like because this entire channel is about YOU not us. ❤❤
Love you so much destiny! It is okay to allow yourself to rest and give yourself not only space but grace! You are experiencing a transition in your life, it is okay! I appreciate how much you share with us and love everything you share!!!! Please allow your mind and heart to rest.🤍💘
Des, we appreciate you and hope you’re doing good! Always remember to put you and your mental health first, sending you lots of love and peaceful energy ❤️❤️❤️
heyy des, kinda of silent supporter over here but i need to say this, you are literally my comfort person and i love your long videos so so much and sometimes they're the only thing that can make me feel a little bit better, just felt like you need to hear this, i love you so much and we see you trying 🩷
DES, i just want to say you are a genuine bright light in my life and i appreciate all you put out for us, i hate to see you struggling :( i love anything and everything you put out especially the weekly vlogs because i love how raw and real you get and i appreciate that so much because all of our lives are that way. we are all here and want to see you get better so take all the time you need to make videos or not make videos, you never ever have to explain yourself to us, we love you all the same❤️
Im sorry you are going through a tough time. Wishing you the best, love your content. You don’t owe anyone any explanation, you got this girl! Do your own research, but when I did my research on trying to understand my mental health - on the topic of why I “re watch” so much when I’m feeling low is because in the midst on feeling so low my brain is finding comfort in knowing exactly what’s next. Somehow when looking into this it helped me realize what I needed to work through to get out of my rut. So I’m only sharing in hopes that it helps 💕
Love your vlogs, tbh the real people will watch ANYTHING you post 🫶🏼 just do whatever you enjoy at that certain moment, we want you to feel as well as possible!!
Des im sending you so much love and peace to keep going day by day. Anxiety and depression can be so scary, i’m really proud of you for slaying despite the struggles 💛
as someone who once said “oh i like ur vlogs but i want reading/book videos. i love the vlogs and i’m so used to them i miss them when you don’t upload them as often. i love them and these vlogs show so much of your good job.
des! don’t apologise for not posting. we love you for who you are and we just want you to feel better!! mental health is so important and you have to look after yourself 💘 we love you!!! xx
i hope you’re doing okay bestie girl 💖 it’s okay to take a break so that you’re okay, your health and well-being is all that matters at the end of the day. i hope that you find a way out of this, whether it’s support from friends and family, getting there on your own, or with any other help. you’re so loved!!!
Des we love all the content that you give us!! You could post a video of you reading for an hour with music on and I’ll put it on my tv and read with you🤣
I looked at the title of this video and thought ooh yaya another fall diaries! And then i reread it and it was a day in the life and I got so happy cause I know its been hard for you to post these! I really hope you continue to feel better and are able to have happiness and satisfaction with your life! ❤
I resonated so much with your mental health and book slump “update”. I’ve been feeling the exact same way, worst it’s been in a couple of years. We are all here for you 🤎🫶🏼
Rewatching shows/movies or rereading books gives people a sense of control in life! It totally makes sense that we tend to rewatch/reread things when we are stressed/in a bad space mentally/have a lot going on in our lives. I literally read play along 4 times over the summer because of this 😂 Give yourself some grace, you are worthy of peace and rest!
Girl! I TOTALLY understand your struggle with depression. I go through spouts of depression and then feel bad for being depressed and not my best. I’m actively going to school full time, working a full time job, and I have two kids that I have to help as well with homework and life lessons and such. Somedays I’m just so extremely overwhelmed and exhausted I don’t want to get out of bed and I think it should be talked more. We honestly don’t give space to talk about mental health but it is sooo important. You’re not alone and you’re doing your best. We all are. That’s all we can do. Even my fellow Marine veterans have bad days and if there’s any fellow Marine vets in this comments section - Oorah! Semper Fi! Do or Die 🦅 🌎 ⚓️
girl i LOVE your vlogs pls keep uploading them 🫶🏻 also talking about your mental health makes me feel so much less alone i rlly appreciate the transparency 🩷 ily des!
I have mental health issues and I love listening to you and that you’re not afraid to talk about it ❤. I started doing a designated time every morning to sit and read my Bible, even if it takes 2 hours I do it until I feel calm and ready for the day. It’s me time. Thank you for all that you post, I always look for yours in my top five when I get on TH-cam. 🥰
As an anxious girly you are not alone!!! These feelings are so real and valid. I’ve been watching you forever and I have to say that vlogs are my favorite videos of yours to watch. Please put you first!!
I don't normally comment on your videos, even though I watch them ALL. However, I feel like you need to know how much we all love you. Thank you for being so honest with us about your mental health struggles. I have never had anxiety up until this year but mine has been sky high recently too. I hope you're back to feeling like a little ray of sunshine soon!
i LOVE the vlogs ! and they don't need to be book related for me to enjoy watching them. Love you Des, you're my comfort watch and my first pick after a stressful day. I'm a very anxious person as well and I relate to you in so many ways. We see you trying and we appreciate you so much for that. Take care of yourself and do what you love above all. 🩷
Thank you for being so honest about your feelings! I know I’ve done gratitude journaling for a while, and that’s helped me so much! It helps you see the good in things when you feel like there isn’t anything to be happy about🩷
DES, I literally live for your lifestyle vlogs. If you are slumping with books, talk about movies you love! There are so many things besides books you are also passionate about. Your subscribers are here cause we love watching YOU. Post what you want! We love you.
take all the time you need girlie! personally i love your vlog content, hauls, and non book related content just as much as the book content, so if you’re in a slump don’t force yourself! your chatty/long vlogs are so comforting to me and i always rewatch them. hope you feel better soon, don’t put pressure on yourself to stick to a specific posting schedule if you need to take breaks for any reason ❤️⭐️
usually a silent supporter but as an anxious girlie I related so hard to that whole "no one cares" feeling. I absolutely LOVE your vlogs it feels like we're on FaceTime, they're super comforting for me
I will be praying for you. I know I am a nobody, but your videos have helped me so much and when you open up about your mental heath, it makes me feel so seen and like I am not alone or going crazy. I'll be praying for you in these times and I hope that you are able to get better and rekindle your love for your craft.🤍
I love vlogs! They’re my favorite videos to watch from you the book ones are fun too but it’s also so fun to see you upload whatever you feel confident in🩵
Destiny i love your vlogs so much! You bring me so much comfort and im so proud if you. Ive been struggling with a lot of anxiety recently and you have been such a safe space for me when i need to relax. You make me feel so seen and i love you❤❤
You is one of the most open people on here and is one of the biggest reasons I watch. Take all the time you need for your mental health because you deserve the time for it. I will happily watch anything of yours. You could upload your grocery list and that would be awesome too. The vlogs are such good videos of yours because it makes me feel like my days aren't that bad either. I may have started here for the books but I stayed for the Destiny that speaks nothing but realness.
DESTINYYYY i literally LOVELOVE all of your videos!!!! I love your vlogs and your book videos!! You cold sit down and read your grocery list and I’d be sat and watch the whole thing!!!
Aw des, thank you for being vulnerable with us. Take all the time you need to make sure that you’re good. Of course we miss you, but we love you and want to see you happy and healthy. Make sure you put you first. Love ya girlie💕🤞
Destiny I absolutely love your vlogs. I seen this one and specifically saved it for when I had a house cleaning day. Girl you take your time and take brakes if you need them but also know that we do love your vlogs! I will be praying for you and also remember you cant please everyone there will always be someone who isn pleased but you have so many more supporters than you do haters.
DES, your vlogs are my fav type of videos from you!!! ive also havent been in the best mental space lately so im glad you shared your story! also dont ever feel like you owe us an explanation, your real supporters will be here no matter what❤ also if u need a break, take it! ik how you feel always wanting to be go go go bc im like that too, but humans need rest in order to function and maybe a break could get you out of the book slump🩷🩷🩷love u so much, ur one of my comfort youtubers🌟🌟
destiny we will always be here for you, put yourself first and do what u gotta do for yourself. love u i hope you get out of this rough time, post what you want and i'll eat it up ❤️
Destiny you are so loved! I love all of your content, especially your long vlog content, you are my comfort TH-camr. Sending you lots of love and strength to get through dark times xxxxxx (from the UK)
Like we say with favorite authors “I would read your grocery list” that is literally you as a youtuber for me (and all of us!) I could literally watch you sit there in silence and eat it up every time!! Take all the time you need we love you ❤️
What is making you feel like we don’t care? I’ll watch you talk to a wall you’re literally my comfort creator. I hope you do get better and if you need time please take it but I’ll be waiting on the vids🥲🩷🫶🏼
Destiny as someone who has suffered from Anxiety since I was a young child (I remember my first panic attack in 1st grade). As I got older, I got depression too. I say this as the struggle is real. The struggle is real even if you take medication (which I do), but everyone's mental health journey is personal and their own. I am not here to give you advice, but rather a virtual hug from one anxiety sister to another. Give yourself grace to be in your feels and prioritize what you need for you! Much love.
Des, I started watching you because of your bookish videos but I've stayed becauseeeeee of your vlogs!! I have like 4 people that I religiously look forward to watching and you're one of them.
Love you sm des 🤍 keep you’re head up! Love any content you post so don’t ever worry about being scared we won’t like anything, we love seeing your face and your contagious vibes🥰🥰
i’ve been feeling really anxious too recently and i have absolutely no idea why. i don’t think it’s been this bad in about eight years. you’re doing so well & i will watch anything you upload❤
I think it’s easier said than done, but please please don’t worry as much about what you’re posting. You have such a great following and no matter what content you put out there, there will be people who prefer vlogs and others that prefer reading updates and some like me who consume ALL your content no matter what! No matter what haters say, you’re doing a great job and based on the comments I see on all your videos - there are so many people who just enjoy listening to you and what you’re up to!
Hey hey! So I don’t normally comment, but definitely wanted to thank you for your vulnerability and trust! I feel like I need to also add that what all you’re saying is word for word - burn out. Healing from burnout can feel a lot like being unproductive and encourage feelings of worthlessness. I’m sure you already know that, but just want you to be ok. Your mental health is the most important thing. So, do what you need to do Des! Like so many others have said, we ain’t going nowhere! We love your content, but we love to see our bookish queen thriving even more. Xoxo!
des i love love your vlogs so much! don’t get me wrong i still watch the reading videos but your everyday vlogs are my fav!! it’s ok everyone has their ups and downs don’t forget that! hope you start to feel better
Silent supporter here as well. Love your videos, book recs, and vlogs. Keep being you. Keep doing what you love. The hate is gonna exist in this world no matter what you do. Just focus on you and keeping yourself healthy and happy. As a momma who has a daughter your age, you should know that you are stronger than you think and braver than you feel. 💕
I love your vlogs Des!! I dont think you should apologize for having a hard time, it's your life and as taylor swift says you ate trying and that's the important thing. You said that you went on a rabbit hole of old yt and same but with your vlogs, it brings me so much joy. I'm not even from the US so I don't understand half the places you name but I enjoy just your peace. I truly hope that you find peace❤❤
Destiny, I love you so much. Your videos bring me so much happiness and have helped me through the hardest days. I'm also not in a good place mentally, and I have learned you should never feel bad about taking care of yourself. ❤❤❤ I hope you take good care of yourself and don't push yourself too hard or put too much pressure on yourself 🥰
Destiny, I never comment but I wanted to say I LOVE the vlogs. I love all your content but VLOGs are so so fun to watch. You should do what YOU want and what makes YOU happy and I swear everyone else will love it too!
I understand the imposter syndrome but trust me when I say that your videos are genuinely the only video that I look forward to watching. I love your vlogs!!
I see a Des video, I click on it and absorb it. We love you Des! I enjoy what you get up to and watching you always be a fit queen! Just remember, the only person putting pressure on you to be a certain way, is you! We love you as you are ❤
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Des, we are not going anywhere, take all the time you need and don't stress yourself out about uploading videos. Your vlogs are my favorite btw, it feels like catching up with your bestie everytime.
Destiny you are literally the ONLY TH-camr whose vlogs I can watch all the way through. You have the BEST vlogs! At the end of the day just film whatever you enjoy.
literally this!
Destiny andd Stephanie for me
this!!!
Silent supporter here ❤ as an anxious girlie who’s also been getting AWFUL sleep lately, just know you’re not alone. We love you and appreciate all you do 🫶 no pressure from us!!
I was just sitting here thinking “I hope Des post something soon, I miss her” 💖
That was Me last night!!
I feel like that a lot, it’s almost like checking on a friend thing “where is Des… let me see if she posted 😂”
I felt convicted to say this to you when I listened to you talk about being in a bad mental space. I know you’re a Christian like me and I’m old I’m 35 🤣 so just try this and see if it works 💕in the morning before you work out, do a devotional, read one passage in your Bible. Then work out. Listen to worship music. Say your prayers out loud. It will bring you comfort and joy I promise. Love you destiny 💕
Yes, this!! Spiritual warfare is SO real and this world is so hard to navigate. 🤍🤍🤍
The only thing that can calm my anxiety most days is praying out loud and even reciting scripture out loud!🩶
THIS !! des i never comment, but honestly im praying for you! there is such a call on your life and you are such a light. God can free you from and walk you through the hardest and darkest of times. lean on Him ! we love you ❤️🩹
vlogs are literally my favorite video of yours to watch. take all the time you need to better your mental health!!
I agree!!!!❤
YES
Her vlogs are the best! I would literally watch them if they were 2 hours long.
ME TOOO!!!🩷
i see the words “destiny” and “fall” and im sat. (also i missed u des and don’t hesitate to take as long as u need for ur mental health, we love you)
Des, I’ve suffered with crippling anxiety my whole life too, adding in mild depression. I know every single person is different but medication saved my life. It’s scary to make the next step but seeing a caring doctor who knows you and can prescribe you with the right medication could literally change your life. Anyways, I hope you know that you’re so loved ❤️
I recently discovered that so many women are misdiagnosed with anxiety when in some cases they may be on the spectrum or have ADHD (more common). That's not to discredit doctors who actually diagnose correctly, but it's quite common with misdiagnoses among women. In some cases the presence of ADHD or Autism should be considered in individuals who suffer from severe anxiety/depression. Having said that, I'm happy you found something that works for you. Sending you light ✨
@@girlwiththemagicpenyes, this!! I know that I have ADHD and doctors just don’t believe me and refuse to listen when I try to tell them. It’s unfortunate there’s such a stigma around it.
@@SamKapperYes, it's really sad. Even worse when doctors are quick to dismiss patients who express concerns to them. Very heartbreaking.
completely agree. don’t know where my ocd would be without medication today
Medication isn't for everyone ❤ Meds were the worst thing for my spicy brain. Therapy is great tho
Her yapping is healing 💌
I am not someone who likes to listen to others yap but I could listen to Destiny yap for the rest of my life
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Her voice and words are like honey 🍯
Love your vlogs Destiny!
Also give yourself a pat on the back for ‘ pushing through’ because pushing through mental illness is literally one of the hardest things, and you’re doing it! So well done x
Destiny I love your vulnerability about mental health, you truly do make me and so many others feel so seen and understood. Don’t ever forget to put yourself and your needs first, the Lord is always at your side even when you can’t feel it. All lights turned off can be turned on-WE LOVE YOU💗
I also suffer with bad anxiety and depression and poor sleep a lot, it sucks but books are my comfort and your videos are such a light in the dark, never feel bad for taking time to look after yourself!
your vlogs are my favorite!!! also, as someone who’s struggled with very bad mental health (depression, anxiety, the works), you’re not alone. it’s horrible right now, but it WILL pass. don’t push yourself if you’re not ready. you got this girl!!!
usually a silent watcher but im also a fellow anxious girly & just wanted you to know how much your videos comfort me as someone who heavily relates to a lot of what you feel. literally the only thing getting me thru senior year of college and the immense stress is you & sara’s videos & podcast. it really helps me at least to know im not alone in suffering with anxiety & it does not define us 🫶🫶
MISSED YOU BESTIE!!
don’t ever feel like we don’t care about your content!! i love whatever you put out whether they’re book videos or vlogs, i love them!! i love you and will be praying for you❤
Much love Destiny, as a fellow person that can have bouts of crippling anxiety I know how demoralizing it can feel when you stop being able to do stuff you can normally do. These past few weeks you've crossed my mind and every time I just hope you're doing okay. It's amazing that you're still doing your best to get content out while trying to navigate mental health. Sending you lots of positivity and strength ♡
Destiny my angel, your health is the most important thing above everything else. We love you and support you in whatever you need to do, we will still be here if you need to take a break and we will love you while you're gone and when you come back.
If people have anything to say about you taking care of yourself they aren't worth the headspace to think about them (I know this is easier said than done)
As for vlogs, they are my personal favourite content (I still absolutely love your other videos too). If you ever feel comfortable in sharing them, I would love to watch them.
Love Lil
I just wanted to say that you are absolutely not alone. I deal with anxiety every day, and your videos have been a source of comfort and inspiration for me. Watching your content helps remind me that I'm not alone in facing high expectations and the pressure to be 'perfect.' It feels like we share a lot of the same traits - striving to do our best, overthinking, dealing with anxiety, and that constant shadow of imposter syndrome.
What makes your channel so special isn't just the content itself but you - your genuine personality, your effort, and your journey. Your authenticity and the way you share your love for what you do make a huge impact, and I’m here because I love seeing you being yourself. You never need to explain or apologize for that. Just know that you are enough, and you are so appreciated. You've supported me in ways you'll never know
I LOVE YOUR VLOGS SOOO MUCH!! I literally don’t care if they are about absolutely nothing I just love watching your everyday life gym, cooking, shopping, work, how your feeling idc they are my favourite videos of yours because it makes me feel seen 🤍
Destiny you should really think about getting professional help. It's clear that your anxiety is debilitating you from enjoying life! It’s not bad to ask for help. The only person who can change your situation is yourself but you have to take the steps to do it. As someone who has been taking medication and seeing a therapist for years for diagnosed anxiety and depression, it really is a game changer. It doesn’t work for everyone but you never know until you try. And if you are doing these things, great! But if not then what good does wallowing on social media do? This is coming from a genuine place of concern. We are in your corner and just want to see you thrive! You are so young and have so many beautiful qualities and you deserve to live life at ease.
I'm usually more of a silent watcher but just wanted to say you don't need to make yourself feel bad or guilty! Take your time with uploads and getting out of your book slump, the real ones will always be here to support you. I love the vlogs so much, you and Sara are my favourite youtubers to watch and I'm sure so many people feel the same as me! Treat yourself with kindness ♥️
Love the long weekly vlogs from you, Sara, and fern. Please don’t stop! ❤ anxiety is the worst. Wish you better days ahead☀️
i love your vlogs dest! your personality really shines through- i think more of your supporters enjoy your vlogs than you realize
I only discovered you this year, but I adore your content. Take all the time you need for yourself, we'll always be here when you feel ready to post❤
Thanks for being so honest and bringing more awareness to mental health and taking breaks for your own peace 💚
Literally JUST sat down praying that when I checked TH-cam des had posted 🙏
I love your vlogs, it feels cozy and like talking to a friend on FaceTime. We’ll be here to watch anything you post when you feel well enough to post. Take care of yourself 🫶🏻💖
Destiny please take your time until you feel better mentally. If you want to post something, post it, I love everything you post and if you need time and don’t want to film and post it’s fine too. You don’t have to stress about it. You should take care of yourself first. I am here for you no matter what. 🥰🥰🥰🥰
Des… this is YOUR creative outlet. We are here because we love what YOU post, what YOU do. Personally whatever you post I’m watching and I’m sure I’m not the only one. Stop worrying about what we are going to like because this entire channel is about YOU not us. ❤❤
Would love to see a read it or unhaul it series from you!
We love you Destiny!! 😆 especially the fall vlogs
Love you so much destiny! It is okay to allow yourself to rest and give yourself not only space but grace! You are experiencing a transition in your life, it is okay! I appreciate how much you share with us and love everything you share!!!! Please allow your mind and heart to rest.🤍💘
Hey Destiny, hope you put yourself first. Move slow and do what you want + makes you happy, we’ll always be here for you!
just wanted you to know that your videos are so healing and honestly keep me in touch with my own anxiety ❤ you are so appreciated des xx
Des, we appreciate you and hope you’re doing good! Always remember to put you and your mental health first, sending you lots of love and peaceful energy ❤️❤️❤️
YAY! I love fall des!🍂🍁 So cozy and fun! So excited to watch my fav youtuber. ❤
heyy des, kinda of silent supporter over here but i need to say this, you are literally my comfort person and i love your long videos so so much and sometimes they're the only thing that can make me feel a little bit better, just felt like you need to hear this, i love you so much and we see you trying 🩷
DES, i just want to say you are a genuine bright light in my life and i appreciate all you put out for us, i hate to see you struggling :( i love anything and everything you put out especially the weekly vlogs because i love how raw and real you get and i appreciate that so much because all of our lives are that way. we are all here and want to see you get better so take all the time you need to make videos or not make videos, you never ever have to explain yourself to us, we love you all the same❤️
Im sorry you are going through a tough time. Wishing you the best, love your content. You don’t owe anyone any explanation, you got this girl!
Do your own research, but when I did my research on trying to understand my mental health - on the topic of why I “re watch” so much when I’m feeling low is because in the midst on feeling so low my brain is finding comfort in knowing exactly what’s next. Somehow when looking into this it helped me realize what I needed to work through to get out of my rut. So I’m only sharing in hopes that it helps 💕
I am soo excited for another vlog. Literally always the best part of the week. Its always like a face time. Love it❤
Love your vlogs, tbh the real people will watch ANYTHING you post 🫶🏼 just do whatever you enjoy at that certain moment, we want you to feel as well as possible!!
Des im sending you so much love and peace to keep going day by day. Anxiety and depression can be so scary, i’m really proud of you for slaying despite the struggles 💛
i love how open you are with us! love you destiny
This vlog is so comforting!! Love you Des💓
as someone who once said “oh i like ur vlogs but i want reading/book videos. i love the vlogs and i’m so used to them i miss them when you don’t upload them as often. i love them and these vlogs show so much of your good job.
des! don’t apologise for not posting. we love you for who you are and we just want you to feel better!! mental health is so important and you have to look after yourself 💘 we love you!!! xx
i hope you’re doing okay bestie girl 💖 it’s okay to take a break so that you’re okay, your health and well-being is all that matters at the end of the day. i hope that you find a way out of this, whether it’s support from friends and family, getting there on your own, or with any other help. you’re so loved!!!
Des we love all the content that you give us!! You could post a video of you reading for an hour with music on and I’ll put it on my tv and read with you🤣
I looked at the title of this video and thought ooh yaya another fall diaries! And then i reread it and it was a day in the life and I got so happy cause I know its been hard for you to post these! I really hope you continue to feel better and are able to have happiness and satisfaction with your life! ❤
I resonated so much with your mental health and book slump “update”. I’ve been feeling the exact same way, worst it’s been in a couple of years. We are all here for you 🤎🫶🏼
Rewatching shows/movies or rereading books gives people a sense of control in life! It totally makes sense that we tend to rewatch/reread things when we are stressed/in a bad space mentally/have a lot going on in our lives. I literally read play along 4 times over the summer because of this 😂 Give yourself some grace, you are worthy of peace and rest!
Girl! I TOTALLY understand your struggle with depression. I go through spouts of depression and then feel bad for being depressed and not my best. I’m actively going to school full time, working a full time job, and I have two kids that I have to help as well with homework and life lessons and such. Somedays I’m just so extremely overwhelmed and exhausted I don’t want to get out of bed and I think it should be talked more. We honestly don’t give space to talk about mental health but it is sooo important. You’re not alone and you’re doing your best. We all are. That’s all we can do. Even my fellow Marine veterans have bad days and if there’s any fellow Marine vets in this comments section - Oorah! Semper Fi! Do or Die 🦅 🌎 ⚓️
girl i LOVE your vlogs pls keep uploading them 🫶🏻 also talking about your mental health makes me feel so much less alone i rlly appreciate the transparency 🩷 ily des!
i love the vlogs🥰 but most important is that you do what you love and look after yourself, we love everything you post🫶🏻
I have mental health issues and I love listening to you and that you’re not afraid to talk about it ❤. I started doing a designated time every morning to sit and read my Bible, even if it takes 2 hours I do it until I feel calm and ready for the day. It’s me time. Thank you for all that you post, I always look for yours in my top five when I get on TH-cam. 🥰
As an anxious girly you are not alone!!! These feelings are so real and valid. I’ve been watching you forever and I have to say that vlogs are my favorite videos of yours to watch. Please put you first!!
I don't normally comment on your videos, even though I watch them ALL. However, I feel like you need to know how much we all love you. Thank you for being so honest with us about your mental health struggles. I have never had anxiety up until this year but mine has been sky high recently too. I hope you're back to feeling like a little ray of sunshine soon!
i LOVE the vlogs ! and they don't need to be book related for me to enjoy watching them. Love you Des, you're my comfort watch and my first pick after a stressful day. I'm a very anxious person as well and I relate to you in so many ways. We see you trying and we appreciate you so much for that. Take care of yourself and do what you love above all. 🩷
Thank you for being so honest about your feelings! I know I’ve done gratitude journaling for a while, and that’s helped me so much! It helps you see the good in things when you feel like there isn’t anything to be happy about🩷
DES, I literally live for your lifestyle vlogs. If you are slumping with books, talk about movies you love! There are so many things besides books you are also passionate about. Your subscribers are here cause we love watching YOU. Post what you want! We love you.
take all the time you need girlie! personally i love your vlog content, hauls, and non book related content just as much as the book content, so if you’re in a slump don’t force yourself! your chatty/long vlogs are so comforting to me and i always rewatch them. hope you feel better soon, don’t put pressure on yourself to stick to a specific posting schedule if you need to take breaks for any reason ❤️⭐️
I’ll watch whatever you post whenever you post but take care of yourself first!! Taking care of yourself is what is most important ❤
usually a silent supporter but as an anxious girlie I related so hard to that whole "no one cares" feeling. I absolutely LOVE your vlogs it feels like we're on FaceTime, they're super comforting for me
I will be praying for you. I know I am a nobody, but your videos have helped me so much and when you open up about your mental heath, it makes me feel so seen and like I am not alone or going crazy. I'll be praying for you in these times and I hope that you are able to get better and rekindle your love for your craft.🤍
I love vlogs! They’re my favorite videos to watch from you the book ones are fun too but it’s also so fun to see you upload whatever you feel confident in🩵
Destiny i love your vlogs so much! You bring me so much comfort and im so proud if you. Ive been struggling with a lot of anxiety recently and you have been such a safe space for me when i need to relax. You make me feel so seen and i love you❤❤
You is one of the most open people on here and is one of the biggest reasons I watch. Take all the time you need for your mental health because you deserve the time for it. I will happily watch anything of yours. You could upload your grocery list and that would be awesome too. The vlogs are such good videos of yours because it makes me feel like my days aren't that bad either. I may have started here for the books but I stayed for the Destiny that speaks nothing but realness.
DESTINYYYY i literally LOVELOVE all of your videos!!!! I love your vlogs and your book videos!! You cold sit down and read your grocery list and I’d be sat and watch the whole thing!!!
Aw des, thank you for being vulnerable with us. Take all the time you need to make sure that you’re good. Of course we miss you, but we love you and want to see you happy and healthy. Make sure you put you first. Love ya girlie💕🤞
Destiny I absolutely love your vlogs. I seen this one and specifically saved it for when I had a house cleaning day. Girl you take your time and take brakes if you need them but also know that we do love your vlogs! I will be praying for you and also remember you cant please everyone there will always be someone who isn pleased but you have so many more supporters than you do haters.
i love your vlogs so much 🤍🤍 Des please take care of yourself, don’t rush anything and do things at your own time 🤍
DES, your vlogs are my fav type of videos from you!!! ive also havent been in the best mental space lately so im glad you shared your story! also dont ever feel like you owe us an explanation, your real supporters will be here no matter what❤ also if u need a break, take it! ik how you feel always wanting to be go go go bc im like that too, but humans need rest in order to function and maybe a break could get you out of the book slump🩷🩷🩷love u so much, ur one of my comfort youtubers🌟🌟
destiny we will always be here for you, put yourself first and do what u gotta do for yourself. love u i hope you get out of this rough time, post what you want and i'll eat it up ❤️
Destiny you are so loved! I love all of your content, especially your long vlog content, you are my comfort TH-camr. Sending you lots of love and strength to get through dark times xxxxxx (from the UK)
Like we say with favorite authors “I would read your grocery list” that is literally you as a youtuber for me (and all of us!) I could literally watch you sit there in silence and eat it up every time!! Take all the time you need we love you ❤️
Des we soooo appreciate you giving us a space to escape to but give yourself that space too!!
What is making you feel like we don’t care? I’ll watch you talk to a wall you’re literally my comfort creator. I hope you do get better and if you need time please take it but I’ll be waiting on the vids🥲🩷🫶🏼
Btw if you lose your remote there is a Roku app which you can use as a remote
Coming back from school to this 😍😍😍 lysm OMG IF I CAN FEEL MY CLOTHES ON MY SKIN I ACTUALLY START TWEAKING OUT 😭😭
i love your vlogs so much, its my fav content!!!!! i love watching u talking about random stuff so much, makes me feel less alone
Destiny as someone who has suffered from Anxiety since I was a young child (I remember my first panic attack in 1st grade). As I got older, I got depression too. I say this as the struggle is real. The struggle is real even if you take medication (which I do), but everyone's mental health journey is personal and their own. I am not here to give you advice, but rather a virtual hug from one anxiety sister to another. Give yourself grace to be in your feels and prioritize what you need for you! Much love.
That purplish blue sweatsuit with Des’ eyes & complexion 😍😍😍
Des- you look so stunning, love that you’re embracing your natural beauty 🫶
Des, I started watching you because of your bookish videos but I've stayed becauseeeeee of your vlogs!! I have like 4 people that I religiously look forward to watching and you're one of them.
Love you sm des 🤍 keep you’re head up! Love any content you post so don’t ever worry about being scared we won’t like anything, we love seeing your face and your contagious vibes🥰🥰
i’ve been feeling really anxious too recently and i have absolutely no idea why. i don’t think it’s been this bad in about eight years. you’re doing so well & i will watch anything you upload❤
I think it’s easier said than done, but please please don’t worry as much about what you’re posting. You have such a great following and no matter what content you put out there, there will be people who prefer vlogs and others that prefer reading updates and some like me who consume ALL your content no matter what! No matter what haters say, you’re doing a great job and based on the comments I see on all your videos - there are so many people who just enjoy listening to you and what you’re up to!
Hey hey! So I don’t normally comment, but definitely wanted to thank you for your vulnerability and trust! I feel like I need to also add that what all you’re saying is word for word - burn out. Healing from burnout can feel a lot like being unproductive and encourage feelings of worthlessness. I’m sure you already know that, but just want you to be ok. Your mental health is the most important thing. So, do what you need to do Des! Like so many others have said, we ain’t going nowhere! We love your content, but we love to see our bookish queen thriving even more. Xoxo!
des i love love your vlogs so much! don’t get me wrong i still watch the reading videos but your everyday vlogs are my fav!! it’s ok everyone has their ups and downs don’t forget that! hope you start to feel better
sooo excited for another vlog! also, that navy blue/purple looks so good on you! I think it makes your eyes pop.
I love your videos Des! They’re so comforting to me. 💗
Silent supporter here as well. Love your videos, book recs, and vlogs. Keep being you. Keep doing what you love. The hate is gonna exist in this world no matter what you do. Just focus on you and keeping yourself healthy and happy. As a momma who has a daughter your age, you should know that you are stronger than you think and braver than you feel. 💕
hey des, just wanted to tell you that you are doing amazing and you got this! sending love from Portugal
We will watch anything you say/do! Don't ever think there is something we don't want to see. We love you. So sorry you have been struggling. 😢❤
I love your vlogs Des!! I dont think you should apologize for having a hard time, it's your life and as taylor swift says you ate trying and that's the important thing. You said that you went on a rabbit hole of old yt and same but with your vlogs, it brings me so much joy. I'm not even from the US so I don't understand half the places you name but I enjoy just your peace. I truly hope that you find peace❤❤
Destiny, I love you so much. Your videos bring me so much happiness and have helped me through the hardest days. I'm also not in a good place mentally, and I have learned you should never feel bad about taking care of yourself. ❤❤❤ I hope you take good care of yourself and don't push yourself too hard or put too much pressure on yourself 🥰
Yours are one of the few people whos vlogs I actually enjoy
Destiny, I never comment but I wanted to say I LOVE the vlogs. I love all your content but VLOGs are so so fun to watch. You should do what YOU want and what makes YOU happy and I swear everyone else will love it too!
awe Des, as a true supporter i love and enjoy all the content you make! and remember to give yourself grace and be nice to yourself!
I understand the imposter syndrome but trust me when I say that your videos are genuinely the only video that I look forward to watching. I love your vlogs!!
I see a Des video, I click on it and absorb it. We love you Des! I enjoy what you get up to and watching you always be a fit queen! Just remember, the only person putting pressure on you to be a certain way, is you! We love you as you are ❤