1. Stop being scared 2. The Friendzone you’re in may be because she didn’t shoot her shot (how to tell: her niceness has a motherly, warm, sexual-tension-like tone to it) 3. The more she is attracted, the easier it is to get her (women who like you won’t play hard to get) 4. If you made a first bad impression you’ll have to make clear what you want (the longer you’re in the friendzone the harder it’s gonna get to get out of there, so if you fucked up, just end the friendship already) 5. Don’t do no corny shit, be a man 6. Don’t drop hints, be straight up 7. If you get rejected, stop talking to her, end the friendship (if you won’t she’ll lose respect), but don’t be mean 8. Kam roasts you for being a loser
@@cruspackyt8425also religious beliefs play apart in it to and social stigma some girls will date u but not fuck u till way later or till after marriage maybe bc of their religious beliefs or past trauma or insecurity or fear of being called a whore
"No one got anywhere in life playing it safe" really spoke to me. This definitely applies to everything else in life, and not just women. Keep it up Kam!
When you mentioned tension, that actually made me think back to the girl i liked back in school. I already talked about her in the comments in another video of yours. There was tension along with her being a caretaker to me. One time this weird kid in my class used his pen to draw a moustache on my face. When the girl i liked saw the drawing on me, she decided to clean it with her shirt she wears for PE class. It is also a white shirt so i don't know if she knows that her shirt could get a stained. She went out of her way to use water as well with her white shirt to wipe the drawing of my face. Obviously i was very grateful for her doing that. The more i watch these videos, the more i realised that i definitely should of confessed to her but i was to beta around her. 😔
Trust me when I say this no matter what, you’ll have imperfections regardless and so will she. So it’s better to do it now instead of hiding under the guise that you need to improve yourself first before approaching. It’s high-key simping and coping. I should know bc I did the same shi.
ngl i got this shit bad. been friends with my "bf" since hs (we're 30 now). we just always been cool. in the last year or so i've been tyring to get out and on my soul, this shit impossible. our vibe is good, more of a sister vibe than mom, but she flirts with me like crazy, constant touching, etc. but every time i try to take it there, there's a "reason" why we shouldn't. she knows i like her, but she also wont just flat our reject me. lmao ngl bruh im sick asl
you need to pursue (or at least let her think you're pursuing) some other female 1 of 2 things will happen #1: she realizes you may stray from her reach, and she needs to decide she wants to cement your 'thing' and get more serious #2: she is OK with losing you to another - in which case, you need to get occupied by another interest, because that would let you stop suffering from this one Good luck
@@cheebster4015Sorry about that bro, bit of a tip for the future it’s always better to ask her out in person, if y’all are super busy and it’s hard to meet up give her a call, plan a date and go from there
Kam I got a odd video request bro that I hope you’re able to do. Can you make advice towards attractive guys that struggle with girls? I’m a (short) attractive Spanish guy, been described as a Rico suave, but I never have been able to pull a girl myself into bed, no strangers or female friends. I’ve had many advances and girls our age flirt with me but it never leads anywhere when we exchange numbers. The last straw was last week, I was on vacation on cruise and on one of islands we were at a random girl who was hot and had a twin asked to sit next to me, introduced herself, was very flirty, I can tell she was a little bit drunk too. But regardless she gave me her number and I texted her when we were back in the states. She texted back like 3 times and now nothing. I’m close to point of giving up and saying fuck relationships but before I do I need to hear your perspective on it. Maybe I give off desperate energy idk, but it’s hard not to when I’m 22 still no girlfriend but I’m attractive enough to where people around me question me when I say I have no luck with woman. Thanks broski
bro i got my heart broken last night idk what to do now She's about to move states this month so I told her we weren't gonna last long so I ended it. BUT right after i broke up with her i found out she was cheating on me and fucking someone else we getting really close last couple weeks ago her cousin told be this.and she was screwing around out with her ex I don't know what to do now. Do I just isolate myself from everyone else? I'm not sure what to do how can I find a different female just as good as her. She said she feels attached to him....... like wtf i miss having her and now my heart hurts.we were together for 2ish weeks but talking for 3 weeks. She today she was otp with the other boy. ATP idk what to do I really cared about this girl and we were texting "I miss you messages" but I can't get the fact she was talking to her ex while talking to me to get the same time.
gotta move on brodie she ain’t respect u enough to drop her ex while with u, even cheating on u in the process why u she ever will in the future? no matter how much u miss her she only views u as an option and it’s not hard to tell u can’t show that typa female u miss her bro like he said in the video she js gone look at u less than anyone else cuz she basically can do anything and get back w u, focus up bro if anything u should better urself and make her regret what she did to U don’t be sad over a girl who never rlly had love for u bro. I’m not saying don’t be sad i get it u had love for her but u can’t stay stuck on someone who don’t even want u don’t be chasing after her no more focus on U, work out, make sum money if u need it a better female will come in ur life eventually trust me ignore any i miss u text from her she obviously misses the attention she probably did the same shit to her ex for all u know it’s time to move on.
Koldkam, I'm watching from Nigeria 🇳🇬 here in Nigeria it's difficult to get nice girls especially those with big yansh🍑 they like money so much and here they broke shame guys alot. I like this particular girl but she still in high school but I'm done with highschool I'm in University now but I wanna ask her out and I don't have enough money to buy her stuff should I still continue to get her? I have already told her what I want with her and she gave a positive answer 😢just still confused if I should ask her to by my girl
@koldheartkam I’m a guy that has a girlfriend and she has sexual and normal Pics and videos with her ex’s, can I as a man tell her to delete those picture and videos cause they make me sick when I see the sexual stuff. Should I end it if she says no?
just don't be focused on one girl , that way it will not hurt your soul and emotions as much. i been there before and it took a lot for me to recover but from then on i've learned to better myself so i wouldn't be put in that position again.
Cold approach is BS it doesn't work. If i have to approach i will only do It if she shows choosing signals . But cold approaching whitout signs is stupid.
What can i do if im in deep love with one girl who has a boyfriend who is my friend ? Should i tell her that i really love her or just keep it for me ?
Be friends in the sense that you guys are comfortable around each other but don't be "friends" for too long, you should be making your intentions known and letting her know I ain't here to just be buddies. If she tryna keep you as a friend then stop messing with her
Bro I Been friends wit this girl I knew at my job for a month I made a move on her and she told me she wasn’t ready for a relationship then 2 months later she got a bf bro 😢
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Aye gang, I appreciate you. Just one thing with that sponsor. You not supposed to be protected from the sun with spf. You a black God with neuromelanin. Take in the sun, don’t block it.
@koldheartkam I’m a guy that has a girlfriend and she has sexual and normal Pics and videos with her ex’s, can I as a man tell her to delete those picture and videos cause they make me sick when I see the sexual stuff. Should I end it if she says no?
@@Luvfromarii she did delete them and let’s me see her phone whenever, I just found out tho that a year ago she was 20 and her ex boyfriend was 29 so that’s weird to me but it’s whatever. She also has onlyfans but not a lot of subs tho.
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1. Stop being scared
2. The Friendzone you’re in may be because she didn’t shoot her shot (how to tell: her niceness has a motherly, warm, sexual-tension-like tone to it)
3. The more she is attracted, the easier it is to get her (women who like you won’t play hard to get)
4. If you made a first bad impression you’ll have to make clear what you want (the longer you’re in the friendzone the harder it’s gonna get to get out of there, so if you fucked up, just end the friendship already)
5. Don’t do no corny shit, be a man
6. Don’t drop hints, be straight up
7. If you get rejected, stop talking to her, end the friendship (if you won’t she’ll lose respect), but don’t be mean
8. Kam roasts you for being a loser
@@ok2635depends on the person but in all honesty he shouldve wrote this shorter
All you need is GOD ask JESUS TO GUIDE YOU
@@cruspackyt8425also religious beliefs play apart in it to and social stigma some girls will date u but not fuck u till way later or till after marriage maybe bc of their religious beliefs or past trauma or insecurity or fear of being called a whore
@@gmdtech8008 you trying to make it sound like a bad thing ? or are you explaining his points ?
@@cruspackyt8425fuck jesus
"No one got anywhere in life playing it safe" really spoke to me.
This definitely applies to everything else in life, and not just women.
Keep it up Kam!
When you mentioned tension, that actually made me think back to the girl i liked back in school. I already talked about her in the comments in another video of yours. There was tension along with her being a caretaker to me. One time this weird kid in my class used his pen to draw a moustache on my face. When the girl i liked saw the drawing on me, she decided to clean it with her shirt she wears for PE class. It is also a white shirt so i don't know if she knows that her shirt could get a stained. She went out of her way to use water as well with her white shirt to wipe the drawing of my face. Obviously i was very grateful for her doing that. The more i watch these videos, the more i realised that i definitely should of confessed to her but i was to beta around her. 😔
Smh I've never been any near that close😭😂
im not even scared 😭 im just tryna better myself before i try for her
fax
It was my coping mechanism too, believe me it's destructive
@@tanishqtrenhow is bettering yourself destructive? 😂 seems like you're just coping
Trust me when I say this no matter what, you’ll have imperfections regardless and so will she. So it’s better to do it now instead of hiding under the guise that you need to improve yourself first before approaching. It’s high-key simping and coping. I should know bc I did the same shi.
@@commandocluckreal shit
Damn this really felt like a personal attack bruh
Fr
bro was gettin way too specific aand personal with me at the end , nah that shi was way too acurate bruh
“nah look at my lawyer dawg im going to jail”💀
Kam teaching self improvement is just the best.
Absolute mind changing and game changing life changing brother
Best video Kam ever made. I watched this whole video two times over
Lil Uzi "mostly straight" cousin
lmao
ngl i got this shit bad. been friends with my "bf" since hs (we're 30 now). we just always been cool. in the last year or so i've been tyring to get out and on my soul, this shit impossible. our vibe is good, more of a sister vibe than mom, but she flirts with me like crazy, constant touching, etc. but every time i try to take it there, there's a "reason" why we shouldn't. she knows i like her, but she also wont just flat our reject me. lmao ngl bruh im sick asl
1:16
bruh if you’re 30 you don’t deserve to let life pass you by because you waiting on this girl
you need to pursue (or at least let her think you're pursuing) some other female
1 of 2 things will happen
#1: she realizes you may stray from her reach, and she needs to decide she wants to cement your 'thing' and get more serious
#2: she is OK with losing you to another - in which case, you need to get occupied by another interest, because that would let you stop suffering from this one
Good luck
This may sound bad but try a manipulation tactic try to sell her on something like you know how to lay it down or something she may give it up
That's just disgusting, that's given me motivation to put some balls on or end up like you. Luckily I'm still in HS.
Why you don’t go out and go interview random girls??? That’ll be dope. 💯
He just sticking to the content he’s doin rn it’s 🔥
@@xxgokaxx I feel like he’ll blow up or his fan base will grow if he gets out more.
@@Kevfrom95he eventually will do that soon
Fax
@@xxgokaxxhopefully he will* there is no soon
3:44 dude looks like an extra from Fresh Prince
I just texted her if she wanna get some food with me, wish me luck
How’d it go?
@@yourfavoritepuertorican3004 She said no
@@cheebster4015Sorry about that bro, bit of a tip for the future it’s always better to ask her out in person, if y’all are super busy and it’s hard to meet up give her a call, plan a date and go from there
@@cheebster4015 nice try bro
Kam I got a odd video request bro that I hope you’re able to do. Can you make advice towards attractive guys that struggle with girls? I’m a (short) attractive Spanish guy, been described as a Rico suave, but I never have been able to pull a girl myself into bed, no strangers or female friends. I’ve had many advances and girls our age flirt with me but it never leads anywhere when we exchange numbers.
The last straw was last week, I was on vacation on cruise and on one of islands we were at a random girl who was hot and had a twin asked to sit next to me, introduced herself, was very flirty, I can tell she was a little bit drunk too. But regardless she gave me her number and I texted her when we were back in the states. She texted back like 3 times and now nothing. I’m close to point of giving up and saying fuck relationships but before I do I need to hear your perspective on it. Maybe I give off desperate energy idk, but it’s hard not to when I’m 22 still no girlfriend but I’m attractive enough to where people around me question me when I say I have no luck with woman. Thanks broski
I usually just friendzone chicks but i flirt with them and back if i see the connection. Otherwise if the vibe isnt that then i just quit talking
3:29 you good bro?,the crack was a lil vicious
juice wrld spitting truth
Omfg white ppl think every black person looks the same smh
"Your teacher "💀
Step 1: be attractive
Step 2: don’t be unattractive
fax blackpill is the truth
Just looksmaxx bro
@@greatslavia9662 im growing a foot bro rn ☺
gonna come back to this video in 4 weeks after I fix my ankle and lyk if it worked.
bro i got my heart broken last night idk what to do now She's about to move states this month so I told her we weren't gonna last long so I ended it. BUT right after i broke up with her i found out she was cheating on me and fucking someone else we getting really close last couple weeks ago her cousin told be this.and she was screwing around out with her ex I don't know what to do now. Do I just isolate myself from everyone else? I'm not sure what to do how can I find a different female just as good as her. She said she feels attached to him....... like wtf i miss having her and now my heart hurts.we were together for 2ish weeks but talking for 3 weeks. She today she was otp with the other boy. ATP idk what to do I really cared about this girl and we were texting "I miss you messages" but I can't get the fact she was talking to her ex while talking to me to get the same time.
gotta move on brodie she ain’t respect u enough to drop her ex while with u, even cheating on u in the process why u she ever will in the future? no matter how much u miss her she only views u as an option and it’s not hard to tell u can’t show that typa female u miss her bro like he said in the video she js gone look at u less than anyone else cuz she basically can do anything and get back w u, focus up bro if anything u should better urself and make her regret what she did to U don’t be sad over a girl who never rlly had love for u bro. I’m not saying don’t be sad i get it u had love for her but u can’t stay stuck on someone who don’t even want u don’t be chasing after her no more focus on U, work out, make sum money if u need it a better female will come in ur life eventually trust me ignore any i miss u text from her she obviously misses the attention she probably did the same shit to her ex for all u know it’s time to move on.
@@gelinkjayking4025 ya I been moved on bro. I appreciate u for ur message.
just be a chad/tyrone. simple as
Confidence comes first confidence is king
Koldkam, I'm watching from Nigeria 🇳🇬 here in Nigeria it's difficult to get nice girls especially those with big yansh🍑 they like money so much and here they broke shame guys alot.
I like this particular girl but she still in high school but I'm done with highschool I'm in University now but I wanna ask her out and I don't have enough money to buy her stuff should I still continue to get her?
I have already told her what I want with her and she gave a positive answer 😢just still confused if I should ask her to by my girl
Step 1: Go Outside Muddy
Step 2: Talk 2 Women
Step 3: Enjoy Mud
Yo ty for the motivation, I'mma tell her it's time to man up. Already agreed a hang out for Monday brb telling you the outcome 👊🏼
If you can’t get laid your in bad shape it’s finding a soulmates that a bit tough😂
W advice but yu need a retwist heavy
Yeah I’m gonna tell her in 3 weeks (it’s winter break) I’ll respond if anything happens
@koldheartkam I’m a guy that has a girlfriend and she has sexual and normal Pics and videos with her ex’s, can I as a man tell her to delete those picture and videos cause they make me sick when I see the sexual stuff. Should I end it if she says no?
bro you look like Lil Uzi 🔥
Wearing ucla and usc at same time - hella bulljunk
12:10 w boondocks
How to destroy your soul 🎊. Part 1
just don't be focused on one girl , that way it will not hurt your soul and emotions as much. i been there before and it took a lot for me to recover but from then on i've learned to better myself so i wouldn't be put in that position again.
@@m0nk3frmtoonce u lose both its worst tho
How to go after things you want 🎉. Part 1
To be real I’m not scared..I just normally don’t know how to go about it…I feel like it’s a lot more easier for guys that are attractive to the girl….
All you need is JESUS CHRIST HE THE ONLY ONE THAT CAN SATISFY YOU , NOT GIRLS no vape no drugs only GOD CAN satisfy YOU and save you
@myandrew1659 JESUS loves you pls seek him
what if its long distance should i even bother with those releationships
perfect timing
Cold approach is BS it doesn't work. If i have to approach i will only do It if she shows choosing signals . But cold approaching whitout signs is stupid.
If she starts talking to me i will approach . Or else i a will not initiate anything with them .
this video completely changed my view on ts ngl
Wish you were around on TH-cam when I was in highschool
Damn 2 vids in a row
Please don’t ruin the friendship lol
The girl in the thumbnail is almost as bad as Kam. 😮
Does it also work with older mature experienced women? Cuz I’m not really into younger ones to be honest.
What can i do if im in deep love with one girl who has a boyfriend who is my friend ? Should i tell her that i really love her or just keep it for me ?
W thumbnail .
why
For me idk if its tension or awkwardness 😂 but she nice tho
Why you still doing these
i was watching one of TruCam video and he was saying to be friends wit her first. idrk what to do leaning more towards your side tho
Be friends in the sense that you guys are comfortable around each other but don't be "friends" for too long, you should be making your intentions known and letting her know I ain't here to just be buddies. If she tryna keep you as a friend then stop messing with her
Bro I Been friends wit this girl I knew at my job for a month I made a move on her and she told me she wasn’t ready for a relationship then 2 months later she got a bf bro 😢
Earth is hard, blud.
Proverbs 13:9
The light of the righteous rejoiceth: but the lamp of the wicked shall be put out.
kam i thought we were christian kam whats up with this interesting content brody
Fuc* bro you gave me the courage but I remembered she haves a boyfriend 😭
Damnn
I have yet to find a girl I like, but I do see lots of them that I wouldn't mind smeshing - Khamzat Chimaev
Can’t find they ig tuff
Man I love your videos bro… I hope u succeed🫡
Kam wtf you posting now
bro tiege hanley dont ship to my country fam
What if I’m broke how can I take her out
i would say get a job and save some of the cash for the meetup
it didnt work chat
its ok we already smashed a while ago
Goth girls
whose the thumbnail?
Has anyone tried that tiege Hanley?
I’ve seen that stuff have good results online but haven’t met anyone who has tried it. I’m wondering too if anyone has.
Yeah I tried it out from another channel. Good quality stuff
Can you use tiege hanley when you 14?
it's only marketing and they wanna sell you these products, if you have good skin you don't need it,
if you need to do something TRY only try, (see if it works): Cleanser, Hydration, Sun screen, that's all you most likely need (there is more like serum but bro idk)
If you have a skin problem, go first with good diet, drink 2-3 liters of water a day, excercise, reduce stress, sleep good (high quality), etc.
Free ddawg 😭🙏🏿
watching this alone is pathetic
Aye gang, I appreciate you. Just one thing with that sponsor. You not supposed to be protected from the sun with spf. You a black God with neuromelanin. Take in the sun, don’t block it.
don't go too fast bruuuh, first make a vid about how to get a friend first, the benefits is after.
Nahh that shii dont work out, dudes end up in the friendzone while she lettin the dude she wants smash her out
@@BossDaMoneyMaker%^^^^
Cap
just get more personality bro
just go to the gym bro
@koldheartkam I’m a guy that has a girlfriend and she has sexual and normal Pics and videos with her ex’s, can I as a man tell her to delete those picture and videos cause they make me sick when I see the sexual stuff. Should I end it if she says no?
Ask her to delete those pictures, if she doesn't, it could mean she's still attached to that guy which is an instant red flag bro.
@@Luvfromarii she did delete them and let’s me see her phone whenever, I just found out tho that a year ago she was 20 and her ex boyfriend was 29 so that’s weird to me but it’s whatever. She also has onlyfans but not a lot of subs tho.
@@Xpensivesippers help her with only fans and take 60 percent of the profit from her.
@@Luvfromarii she ended up keeping all those sexual videos and pictures with ex cause she has onlyfans and a private Snapchat story for content.