6 Traits That Make You Magnetic (Women Always Notice This)

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    Have you ever wondered what makes someone magnetic? In this video, I’m going to go over what exactly it is about people that make you feel drawn to them and what traits are “magnetic” per se.
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  • @CourtneyRyan
    @CourtneyRyan  2 ปีที่แล้ว +42

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    • @NanaTheSoul
      @NanaTheSoul 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

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    • @ironknuckle89666
      @ironknuckle89666 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I am a bit disappointed that you are now including advertisements on your channel. If you are looking to make additional revenue with your content, you can consider a subscription based approach rather than reading ads. Ads are cringe and eye rolling. Other than that keep up the good work. Your content is excellent.

    • @nfjdkdh
      @nfjdkdh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Precisely how hard to you think it’ll make me Courtney?

    • @karel4845
      @karel4845 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      What if ur not from the US?

    • @arieldelazerda3713
      @arieldelazerda3713 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ironknuckle89666 skip it

  • @Kevin-qn6iv
    @Kevin-qn6iv 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1681

    Summary guy here, the 6 traits that make you magnetic are:
    1.) Authenticity
    2.) Humor
    3.) Good communication and listening
    4.) Healthy Optimism (forward thinking)
    5.) Well spoken and knowledgeable
    6.) Being curious and empathetic

    • @drip369
      @drip369 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Captivation sums it up lol

    • @GeoffryGifari
      @GeoffryGifari 2 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      hell yeah summary guy!

    • @tomsaywer8403
      @tomsaywer8403 2 ปีที่แล้ว +143

      1.) Premium car
      2.) Well payed Job
      3.) Expensive clothing

    • @cleef-kh9mh
      @cleef-kh9mh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thnks

    • @adam.maqavoy
      @adam.maqavoy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You missed 1.
      And I'm not going to tell ya which..

  • @kingsleymoore2354
    @kingsleymoore2354 2 ปีที่แล้ว +800

    Successful people don't become that way overnight. What most people see at a glance wealth, a great career and purpose is the result of hard work and hustle over time. I pray that anyone who reads this will be successful in life

    • @rachaelariana7759
      @rachaelariana7759 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I truly agree with you on that.

    • @rachaelariana7759
      @rachaelariana7759 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      i must say crypto is the future and with the way BTC is climbing so low it's really advisable for people to invest now.

    • @graymason9718
      @graymason9718 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@rachaelariana7759 you're right. been thinking of going into gold and crypto currency

    • @drip369
      @drip369 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      #dothework #dotheworkgettheresults

    • @cynthiahenry6821
      @cynthiahenry6821 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Gregg Successful stories are everywhere, all over the place

  • @nykia31
    @nykia31 2 ปีที่แล้ว +106

    Courtney has such a class, relaxed vibe. It's such a different type of style than you usually find in this space.

    • @headhoncho4890
      @headhoncho4890 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She does have an elegance about her

    • @HarrisonHollers
      @HarrisonHollers ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Really sweet, calming voice too!

    • @Phantom-ez4zv
      @Phantom-ez4zv ปีที่แล้ว

      Most of us men are not used to seeing women with normal vibes lol listening to her feels therapeutic.

    • @bahpapajarmjackson
      @bahpapajarmjackson ปีที่แล้ว

      She reminds me of my sister in law. Turns out she is delusional and now divorcing my brother who she has a child with for no good reason. Don't assume feminine seeming women are worth chasing. Men, always be vetting your women for mental health issues.

    • @Phantom-ez4zv
      @Phantom-ez4zv ปีที่แล้ว

      @@bahpapajarmjackson your sister in law is not her though, you are projecting your sister in law on her, and probably unconciously jealous of her (courtney) getting attention and praise.

  • @winfieldagonoy
    @winfieldagonoy ปีที่แล้ว +55

    0:00 Introduction
    1:19 (1). Aunthenticity
    2:28 (2). Humor
    3:24 (3). Communication and Listening
    4:57 (4). Healthy Optimism
    5:49 (5). Well Spoken and Knowledgeable
    6:48 (6). Curious and Empathetic

    • @meungawa
      @meungawa ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you!

  • @Fitness_Lorenzo
    @Fitness_Lorenzo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +290

    As a 25 year old guy who has worked hard since 18 years old. I could say that genuine hard work makes me appealing to the opposite gender. All my earlier sacrifices are paying off in a positive way. It’s easier to talk to the opposite gender because I truly know how much work I have put in. Confidence isn’t given to everyone naturally; but you can level yourself up to build confidence.

    • @David-vt9hr
      @David-vt9hr 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      i need confidence to talk to women

    • @GilgaMax305
      @GilgaMax305 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@David-vt9hr You need to be confident with yourself first then.

    • @fischersfritz468
      @fischersfritz468 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I worked hard and was able to achieve quite a lot. My job is interesting and well paying as an engineer (not rich, but more than enough).
      All that success does not translate to any success with women though... no second date so far (I'm in my low 40s).

    • @asapg747
      @asapg747 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I agree with you 100% bro. The version of myself 3 years ago wouldn’t recognize the me today. And I had to let go of somethings to work on others but the results have been only getting better

    • @Fitness_Lorenzo
      @Fitness_Lorenzo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@fischersfritz468 evaluate your dates. What did I do wrong? What did I do good? Build on the good and correct the wrongs. Life is a fun learning experience. And remember my guy, you are the prize. Continue to workout, build your fashion style, groom better, communicate more with everyone, and get in touch with your spiritual side. You’ll be fine.

  • @AznJsn82091
    @AznJsn82091 2 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    Courtney: What makes a person magnetic?
    Me: Be positive or negative, depending on the other person's magnetic field

    • @drip369
      @drip369 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Where's Jimmy Neutron when you need him

    • @mihinkarunaratne
      @mihinkarunaratne 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      it should be north or south lolll

    • @szn1580
      @szn1580 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Have money and be tall and good looking

    • @Illlium
      @Illlium 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It's simple, you just rearrange your molecules to have the same electric spin throughout your entire body. Child's play really.

    • @karel4845
      @karel4845 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@szn1580 A lot of men that women worship online aren't tall at all. Kit Harrington (5'8), Zac Efron (5'8), Marc Wahlberg (5'7) and Zayn Malik (5'9) And Zayn dated Gigi Hadid who is taller than him :)
      There are shorter dudes than this who're being worshipped constantly oneline by women. Stop making your height your weakness.

  • @UnexpectedWonder
    @UnexpectedWonder 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    These literally explain and confirm why I'm on a personal side very approachable to so many people. Thank-you very much for this on a personal level, Ms. Courtney. Very much appreciated. Authenticity allows the rest to fall in line naturally.

  • @PRdude
    @PRdude 2 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    I remember someone saying that a lot of straight men, when on dates, don't ask the woman questions about herself. So I'll just have to remember to do that.

    • @drip369
      @drip369 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Well a lot of that has to do with the guy trying to see if the woman is interested because men need to learn to choose those who choose them and to invest in those who invest in them and if a woman is not asking you a bunch of questions, and potentially mirroring a lot of things that you say with repetition, then she is not into you and you need to not waste your time. There is a big difference that many have witnessed when it comes to True genuine burning desire because if she doesn't have that kind of Desire it's never going to be a good relationship. Courtney talks a lot about signals women give to portray interest and attraction

    • @ImBrockatron
      @ImBrockatron 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@drip369 men arent the ones that choose.

    • @bbbounce
      @bbbounce 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      If they are dating women. We should assume the guy is straight.

    • @nathanknight6042
      @nathanknight6042 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nah b!tch, just remember instead...
      1) Six pack abs
      2) Six figure income
      3) Six+ inch member
      4) V6 car
      5) Six+ feet tall
      6) DO NOT be balding

  • @e.paradigm7415
    @e.paradigm7415 2 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    I find that good humor and being calm work well with me. Just yesterday I was at the store and I met these two Brazilian woman. We have a little bit of small talk, but eventually I make them both laugh. After I said goodbye, I noticed walking through the store that both were glancing and smiling at me. I effortlessly got their attention just by making them laugh and being calm, and confident. I personally think men put sooo much pressure on themselves when it comes to talking to women because I use to do that. They go in with the expectations of “I HAVE to get this girl” and second guess themselves or focus too hard on trying to impress.

    • @antonboludo8886
      @antonboludo8886 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Brazilian women have a cool disposition ;-)

    • @Mixmastermez
      @Mixmastermez 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This guy gets it. Love laughing at all these insecure comments from these boys

    • @e.paradigm7415
      @e.paradigm7415 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@antonboludo8886 that is true. 😎

    • @e.paradigm7415
      @e.paradigm7415 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Mixmastermez absolutely, i think it just comes from experience. A lot of youngsters struggle with that.

    • @antonboludo8886
      @antonboludo8886 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@e.paradigm7415 Exactly. There is no teacher like experience.

  • @justinbrockway7044
    @justinbrockway7044 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I find myself coming back to your videos for practical advice and growth. Thank you Courtney Ryan

  • @alancook9102
    @alancook9102 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Just watched your video after quite an interval and you show yourself to be more and more savvy and wise. And that's not easy - except of course for you! All the best Cy.

  • @kevinjones2001
    @kevinjones2001 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I found this very informative.... I immediately applied each of these to two past relationships that didn't work out too well for me. In both of these relationships, I wondered for years "why not me," and aside from a few outside factors, there were at least one or two of these items lacking on my part, which caused both relationships to sour.... I'm man enough to admit that even in my 40s, I still have some work to do on myself...thanks for posting😎👍

  • @erickellye.k.3686
    @erickellye.k.3686 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    We love you Courtney!!! your videos are so helpful, and you are awesome. Please keep making more videos, you are the kind of woman I want in my life, they're doesn't seem to be many like you.

  • @bcbucmcfadyen6958
    @bcbucmcfadyen6958 ปีที่แล้ว

    I like your channel because you provide good info in an organized, concise manner. Thank you!

  • @kirklugg82
    @kirklugg82 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Interested topics and you are right, these excellent traits are so important to have , it makes a world of difference.

  • @Graveyard_Hiker
    @Graveyard_Hiker 2 ปีที่แล้ว +90

    Those are some helpful tips.
    To be clear and open: I’m not an average looking guy, I’m more a goth person.
    I love dark stuff, dark literature and dark music.
    I like to dress mainly black and I have long hair, which I take good care of.
    But the tips Courtney gives about grooming in a older video and the tips she gave in this one are surely helpful.
    I groom myself better using body lotion and shave and shape my facial hair a little better.
    I love the way I live and dress and I would love to show it to the world and hopefully a lover of high value.
    Your channel helps me a lot Courtney, thank you so much for being your true self by helping others.
    It’s amazing, big shout out to you!
    Greetings from the Netherlands!
    Nicky

    • @theworldofanimals8874
      @theworldofanimals8874 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hey bro, what did you mean with dark music? Cuz i like hip hop music, but i am very specific with it, i like heavy beats within it, and i also listen to vibe songs, songs you would play in the car etc. And i also like to dress in black too.

    • @antonboludo8886
      @antonboludo8886 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Goth is a style. If this is your style, then go with it.

    • @metalworker14
      @metalworker14 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I vibe with this. I’m into metal music and I can definitely say these videos have helped

    • @Graveyard_Hiker
      @Graveyard_Hiker 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@theworldofanimals8874 that’s a good question, hip hop can be dark as well in its own way.
      What I mean by dark music is post-punk, goth rock, death rock, new wave and dark wave.
      The lyrics often sing about dark things like death, horror, depression, how the artist sees reality, sexuality etc, etc.
      I will give you some band for an example: Bauhaus, the cure, siouxsie and the banchees, o. Children, alien sex fiend and Clan of Xymox.
      These artists make a lot of different styles of music that fits under dark and goth.
      Hopefully this information is helpful to you.

    • @Graveyard_Hiker
      @Graveyard_Hiker 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@antonboludo8886 I will and thank you!

  • @rammster2
    @rammster2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey Courtney! I hope U R having a good day. I have binged like half your TH-cam content over the past 4-5 days and I learned a lot. Recently I ended a 2 years relationship in where I lost myself as a person :( but your videos have helped me expand my perspective in some many things, from the way I look myself to the partners I have been choosing. In addition, you have given me plenty of reasons to smile when I thought I shouldnt have one. From the bottom of my hearth, THANK YOU.

  • @johnbehneman1546
    @johnbehneman1546 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    GREAT VIDEO COURTNEY!!!! I AGREE WITH YOU 100%!!!! I STRIVE TO LEARN AND GROW EVERY DAY IN ALL AREAS OF MY LIFE. AND I SEEK THE SAME WITH THE COMPANY I KEEP!!!! THANKS FOR SHARING AND I LEARNED SO MUCH.

  • @backyardrailroader
    @backyardrailroader 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is a good start what Courtney says.
    Simply put, you have to be yourself. Be authentic. And be positive.
    BUT, there is one thing that everyone misses, though.
    You may have a few. If not all of these traits, and women will pass you by because how you look.
    You maybe good looking, but your looks are not what she envisioned or dream about spending her time with long term.
    Now the older we all get, what I state lessens, but it is still there.

  • @arung6532
    @arung6532 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Being honest and having self confidence in one's self is key!!

  • @user-me1tk9yx2l
    @user-me1tk9yx2l 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    i like this channel because you’re so common sense and sincere. Don’t stop and thanks for these vids 🙏👌

  • @ianaustin6452
    @ianaustin6452 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is so wonderful, I’ve been getting out and engaging in new environments. I even sang a song in a public place.

  • @serge6038
    @serge6038 ปีที่แล้ว

    I like your channel Courtney. I am 5 years older than you but it feels like you are more mature. But somehow it doesn't feel in a bad way. Thanks for your work!

  • @IAMD8VID
    @IAMD8VID 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Thank you Courtney for your content. It helps me out a lot. I’ve been separated for 2 yrs and was married for 18 yrs. I really don’t know what it is to date lol. But I’m finally thinking about starting as soon as I have a little more free time and financially stable. I’ve been binge watching all your videos. Thanks again 🙏🏼

    • @puppyupper4565
      @puppyupper4565 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Stay away from divorced women. Especially christian divorced women. Most of them initiate the divorce solely because they felt unhappy yet did nothing to change it except divorce. Unfortunately nearly all the good women at 35+ are married with the exception of the widow. She is probably a good catch. I tried for several years to find a decent girl after my divorce. Nearly every woman I met had so much baggage, it was easy to see why they were unhappy in marriage. I have given up on finding a good American girl. So I am going to the Philippines where it is normal for a woman in her 20's to marry a man in his 40's and 50's. Sorry for your situation.

    • @dnegel9546
      @dnegel9546 ปีที่แล้ว

      Don't bother.

    • @ericuy2201
      @ericuy2201 ปีที่แล้ว

      Welcome to Philippines bro

  • @leeklass3907
    @leeklass3907 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Being authentic from what I've learnt lately is a useful skill that helps in many areas of life

  • @danjones3009
    @danjones3009 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Speaking of authenticity, I truly appreciate yours. Wonderful channel and content. Regards~

  • @CJTAMBER
    @CJTAMBER 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ong this channel is such a gem, gonna share it with all my bros

  • @jrsampson29
    @jrsampson29 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Another helpful video Courtney Ryan thank you so much for everything always 😉

  • @paulbradshaw8878
    @paulbradshaw8878 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Courtney Ryan, YOU HAVE A VERY PLEASANT WAY ABOUT YOURSELF, IT IS NOT MY INTENTION TO BE NEGATIVE . THE TRUTH , I AM SPEAKING ONLY FOR MYSELF AND FROM MY OWN EXPERIENCE, THAT I HAVE LEARNED TO BE GRATEFUL ,HAPPY , JOYOUS, AND FREE , BY MY SELF , AND I DO NOT FEEL THE NEED TO HAVE ANOTHER IN MY LIFE TO FEEL ACCEPTED, OR COMPLETE, I WISH YOU WELL ON YOUR CHOSEN PURSUIT OF HAPPINESS AND LIFES JOURNEY. I THREW THE MAGNETISMS OUT A LONG TIME AGO AND HAVE BEEN HAPPY EVER SINCE , GOOD LUCK TO YOU.

  • @IbrahimHassan-by8tr
    @IbrahimHassan-by8tr 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Congratulations, Courtney, for the responser. I felt happy for you.

  • @tko_5
    @tko_5 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Dual color Courtney is my favorite! Another great video as always

  • @jdgiggity6481
    @jdgiggity6481 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    channel is growing like crazy🔥

  • @Lonstermash
    @Lonstermash 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great tips, and I definitely try to employ all 6. Unfortunately, if the woman doesn't feel chemistry or sparks, it's not going to matter, though. Regarding authenticity, however, while I do think it's crucial, it has burnt me in the past by being too authentic too soon with certain hobbies. For example, I am a very talented adult humor parody song artist and have written almost 200 songs (examples here on my channel). But some women have found my humor in these songs offensive and or immature and lost interest in me before getting to know me better and realizing it's just a silly and harmless outlet when I made the mistake years ago of revealing this hobby too soon. So now I wait until a decent amount of time, especially with a woman who seems a bit uptight with dirty humor, and it has definitely softened the blow and kept the dating alive.

  • @craiglange4523
    @craiglange4523 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great video Courtney, your advice as a woman is very good. Taking dating advice from a woman can be misleading compared to men, but your honesty shines through and proves effective 😀

  • @tfpp1
    @tfpp1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Your tone of voice is different in this video, Courtney. I like it and prefer it, this is your “true” voice; you’re not subconsciously (or intentionally) trying to make your voice higher-pitched. Nice job. 👍🏼

  • @imoretullv243
    @imoretullv243 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for the video. Personally, for cold approach, for me, qualities include, being intrinsically happy, authentic, maintaining strong superb soul piercing eye contact, a vibe of chill laid back, and a good listener. Nice jaw line, a light beard, proper grooming helps, couple of small tattoos, silver jewelry seems to help me as well. A cool hairstyle, graphic artsy t-shirts. Women get into this weird hypnotic state where they just keep talking and talking upon first approach, and I just keep listening and listening. Intelligent subtle humor, being socially connected. Storytelling so good, the words stir incredible feelings. Remember, words and how they are expressed is a way to a woman's heart!

  • @KC_Eden
    @KC_Eden 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    *#1 Magnetic trait:*
    Have a passion.
    Whether it's having passion in your work, in a hobby, or a passion for Starwars. This is what makes a man most attractive! The rest of the traits will fall in line.

    • @Lonstermash
      @Lonstermash 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      True, unless the woman finds your passion "immature." For example, I used to do a lot of cosplay work and still have a lot of pictures posted on my social media accounts from years ago. Well, I was dating a frickin 31 year old 3 years ago (I'm 52 now), and even though I hadn't attended a comic con in several years and or done any photo shoots, she labeled me as too immature for her strictly based upon my past passion. Never mind the fact that I'm a homeowner with perfect credit earning well over 100K, and that she was physically attracted to me. So you can't be passionate about just anything, apparently, with some women

    • @KC_Eden
      @KC_Eden 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@Lonstermash Then clearly she didn't accept you for who you are! I'd rather be with a dude that has an 'immature' passion more than one who has no interest in anything. When a man is doing what he loves, his light truly shines. That's my opinion anyway.

    • @MrPaxio
      @MrPaxio 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@KC_Eden or alot of women want the man to think his passion is the woman otherwise hes considered immature for being focused on his goals and not the relationship.

    • @KC_Eden
      @KC_Eden 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@MrPaxio You are correct Sir! Good women know they're not the center of the Universe and would admire her man for having other interests. Although, finding a woman who shares your passion is a whole other level.

    • @Lonstermash
      @Lonstermash 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@KC_Eden correct, BUT I have known women who, because they got to know me a lot before discovering that interest of mine, they were able to see the forest from the trees, as they say, and not hold it against me. My main point was that being passionate about something, in and of itself, is by no means a way to appeal to a woman------she might have to approve of your passion, share your passion (best case scenario), or at least have a more objective view of you as a human being so that she doesn't hold that passion against you/mis judge you because of it.

  • @qsdailydose8970
    @qsdailydose8970 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Congrats on your sponsorships Courtney is blowing up!!!

  • @tylermabry6881
    @tylermabry6881 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    On another note, I've found that possessing these qualities seems to intimidate men and women alike. Since they largely fit under the umbrella of authenticity, and we live in a world that glorifies inauthenticity, it almost seems like people are not sure how to make sense of things, as if there becomes a visible veil that is altogether unnerving.

    • @joaquincovarrubias8719
      @joaquincovarrubias8719 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yep, especially with social media nowadays, people are closed off too

    • @anoni2189
      @anoni2189 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I think it is not the "authenticity" that they want, but rather they are cross examining you against what you tell them. Women seek better males. Telling you do gym but still fat, or do reading and dont have the knowledge to reflect it, show no future promise and even weakness of character. Telling them authentically that you watch tv, play games, or work low paying jobs all day dont add to your attractiveness, Its just they want to filter men faster.

  • @rickquesada925
    @rickquesada925 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for making this video, it helped me.

  • @joeltharakan7338
    @joeltharakan7338 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very helpful indeed....thanks fr sharing.. Courtney 🎉🎉😊😊

  • @johngonzalez4298
    @johngonzalez4298 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I would say my best traits are my sense of humor as I do like to make people laugh and being charismatic as I have that charm when talking to other people

  • @markg.3171
    @markg.3171 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Humor is so important , it’s said to overcome fear you can have two attitudes approaches : a scientific one (what’s happening) and humor one ( laughing it off )
    One of the three triggers of stress is lack of information (I guess scientific helps because you go after it)
    Yep, to me astrology was so useful because I was genuinely interested in knowing them to then contrast the information in astrology and fact check. Which I think also added magnetic misterious attraction too. And also a bit of connected by the stars and making the relationship a bit more special. I like it a lot
    Yep you just said something very important too, being mindful of when we can be emotional vampires and be on the proper mindset helps a ton on the results of your seduction.
    You need to be open to love to find love.
    Some people are just looking for targets for their resentment, not being prepared to love once again. It happens so many times ive fallen that pattern too
    Being cheated on was both one moments making me closed and negative and others a tool to open myself and express what I want or how I’m actually maybe just playing around with girls to fill my broken ego, but I was sincere about it and I was truthful so they understood there where other girls but they saw the possibility to heal me and gave me a try, but some of them where just a number to my ego wanting to feel better list. I’ve heard some times: what tells me I’m not going to be the number 24 on your list? You don’t know. But I promise you that no matter what I will be sincere and tell you, and I expect the same too. Is that ok?
    As always, feedback: very good advices. Good job with this channel. I’m enjoying it.

  • @keithangstadt4950
    @keithangstadt4950 ปีที่แล้ว

    One of the best things I have ever done for myself was to attend a public speaking seminar. It does wonders for confidence. There are Toastmasters clubs all over the US that educate you on and allow you to present speeches to other members of the group. The seminar I attended was through my employer and I'm not exaggerating when I say it absolutely changed my life.

  • @tastymouse
    @tastymouse 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Just saying that your videos have really, really helped me.

  • @isaacnoe4574
    @isaacnoe4574 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Definitely have worked on these traits over the last several years in my professional career. It does make a difference. Hasn't helped me get a date, but I get along great with girls in the workplace!

    • @davesimon8524
      @davesimon8524 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      What’s the point if you ain’t smashing the hoes?

  • @peaceseeker7441
    @peaceseeker7441 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are awesome Courtney! I hope you have an amazing day or night!

  • @andzani2296
    @andzani2296 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi Counrtney thank you for being honest and just being plain joe. I love you as a sister.

  • @jamesbinkley4325
    @jamesbinkley4325 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love your channel lots of great advice

  • @christopherparbs
    @christopherparbs 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very insightful video! 👌🏽

  • @blakemcmahan3960
    @blakemcmahan3960 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Authenticity is one of the greatest traits God has given me. Big events just seem like a bunch of friends gathered, stressful situations just seem like a time to teach, conversations with famous people or in positions of power just feels like a normal convo, people feel cared about and listened to.

  • @MisterDaryn
    @MisterDaryn ปีที่แล้ว +1

    A lot of the skills that Courtney talks about here; practice them with strangers. Conversation for example, it is like a muscle, if you work on it develops and gets stronger. When you practice with strangers, you don't have to worry about making mistakes, and it numbs you to the awkwardness/nervousness bc, and you will likely never see that person again.

  • @floridaprivateeye3997
    @floridaprivateeye3997 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    1. Authenticity: Really? As in; makeup, false eyelashes, hair dye, Botox, silicone implants and injections, ouija boards, horoscopes, psychics, spell casting, etc? Who does that, ♂️ or ♀️?
    2. Humor: As in, "Ha ha! I get the house, half your pension and alimony! And oh, by the way; the son that you raised as yours for the past 18 years was actually fathered by an ex boyfriend when you were out of town on business 19 years ago."
    3. Communication and listening: As in "If you don't give me everything I want and do everything I want you to do, we're not communicating because you're not listening!"
    4. Healthy optimism: As in, "If I wish for it hard enough and recite this magical incantation, it will come true!"
    5. Well spoken and knowledge: As in "Who is going to find out? These women are trash. Nobody's going to believe them." - Hillary on allegations about Bill's philandering and
    6. Curious and empathetic: As in, "How much money does he have, and what will I have to do to relieve him of a significant portion of it, and how long will it take?
    Men. Wake up! Read "Modern Women; A Tutorial For Modern Men", available from @m@zon.

  • @VideoGameRoom32
    @VideoGameRoom32 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great tips for men. Sometimes I think men have to be fake or phony to get the girl but that won't last long because she'll figure out who you really are because I think women are good at spotting out these things.

  • @Pianodaddyy
    @Pianodaddyy ปีที่แล้ว

    This video is incredibly helpful

  • @septemberspassion
    @septemberspassion 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    GREAT Video! All of The Traits you talked about, were Spot On!! I gave you a Thumbs Up 😁🙏💜

  • @drip369
    @drip369 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Captivation is a must for first impression

  • @thierrydeniau816
    @thierrydeniau816 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks Courtney ,it was Longtime I didn't watch your videos 💙 so great to hear from you again
    I am so lucky now GYM workout , reshaping my body 🧠 💪🙏 and meet someone 👩 few weeks ago and start dating now and we are happy to meet few times a week 👩❤️🙏

  • @MrVoronoi
    @MrVoronoi 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great tips. Thank you.

  • @michaelthorpe1869
    @michaelthorpe1869 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Humility! ....Hulmility + Confidence is powerful

  • @admirbarucija2018
    @admirbarucija2018 2 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    I think my two finest traits are my sense of humor and honesty. Even though I’m awkward sometimes, I usually make people laugh easily

    • @carlosverde-datingtips7001
      @carlosverde-datingtips7001 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I hear ya - Admir!
      “Sense of humor” is definitely Key in any relationship, and that goes for women as well…
      I don’t care how beautiful a woman might be - if she has no sense of humor, she’s definitely not for me.
      Because beauty can fade - imagine being with a girl that has now lost her looks, no sense of humor, or personality! That’s a nightmare!
      Now imagine a woman with a great sense of humor, and she’s beautiful - that’s heaven, pure HEAVEN!
      Anyway, that’s my two cents.
      -Carlos Verde - Dating Tips

    • @ronniewilliz153
      @ronniewilliz153 ปีที่แล้ว

      Making someone laugh when ur nervous is hard lol

  • @adityashekhar2564
    @adityashekhar2564 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your colorblock t-shirt looks fantastic. ❤️

  • @adamromero
    @adamromero 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I was absolutely not expecting the ED treatment plug! 😆

  • @Ironman4u
    @Ironman4u 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I 👍 agree with you Court a 110% !!!...If you can't be authentic, genuine, honest & trust yourself first & foremost, then??? Get to know thy one's self first!... before getting to know other's secondly...

  • @named161
    @named161 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your sense of style is magnetic to me!
    I want a Courtney

  • @TheHornet1fan
    @TheHornet1fan 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very helpful and true. Thanks

  • @Danaclerici
    @Danaclerici 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love the advice ✨✨

  • @stefanross8129
    @stefanross8129 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    ...... good stuff Courtney!!... bravo.

  • @Courtney-Alice-Gargani
    @Courtney-Alice-Gargani 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    These are all great points and men should be more like this. But some men who claim to be the genuine nice guy who didn't get the girl because she thought he was too clingy and needy. When he said he started acting like an alpha or a-hole, women found him more attractive. These are the women you don't want to date. I think Courtney focuses more on mature women while I will comment on what some immature women will want in men. I rather have the man with the 6 traits Courtney just mentioned. Every women wants different things in men. So men have to find a ground where both are looking for the same interest.

    • @rh5776
      @rh5776 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      These are the women you don't want to date? Eh? That's all there is.
      Is there another planet I don't know of where these women reside?

    • @fredwells7403
      @fredwells7403 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You can not be clingy and needy but also not be an asshole. Neither traits are attractive.
      Being a superficial asshole will attract superficial and jealous, toxic people.
      But being clingy and needy will likely attract narcissists or just generally nasty people who will take advantage you.
      Both assholiness and clinginess stem from lack of confidence. It's as simple as that really. Be neither, just work on your confidence and authenticity.

    • @rh5776
      @rh5776 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@fredwells7403 And again I say, is there another planet of women I didn't know about.
      Try and thread that needle.
      Not clingy and needy, but not overbearing or an asshole.
      So, maybe, one out of 100?

    • @nathanknight6042
      @nathanknight6042 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      1) Six pack abs
      2) Six figure income
      3) Six+ inch member
      4) V6 car
      5) Six+ feet tall
      6) DO NOT be balding

  • @PraveenSriram
    @PraveenSriram ปีที่แล้ว

    I really love ❤️ your outfit Courtney!!!! 🥰

  • @claytoncrawford
    @claytoncrawford 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Dear Ms. Courtney Ryan... Being magnetic... Excellent cool!.... I enjoy your vlogs... Two Big Thumbs Up and Two Big Toes!

  • @aaronsaiz2498
    @aaronsaiz2498 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Amazing video Courtney always looking beautiful as always I have question if a girl keeps flirting with me and says she has feelings for me but also says she's not ready to be in a relationship but she tells me she likes me wants me all that stuff but she says she's not ready to be In a relationship does that mean she's leading me on please I need your help cause it's confusing me I just don't know what to do thank you

  • @adityavikrampandey4333
    @adityavikrampandey4333 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    That's a great tip to be a problem solver , but be careful sometimes people don't want you to solve but to only listen, if that's the case try to get the hints and stop. And if they are like that always then it might be best to get away from them as they gonna suck your postive energy out as well

  • @davidcasillas285
    @davidcasillas285 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good one Courtney! 🥰

  • @noelgonsalves2793
    @noelgonsalves2793 2 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    I think admitting your flaws and mistakes makes you more relatable and therefore more magnetic.

    • @mr.e1026
      @mr.e1026 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'd say if you're not putting your best foot forward, you're wrong, here. You really shouldn't be getting THAT deep in conversation that you should be exposing your deepest faults, either. And you might want to think clearly about what you think a flaw is. Let me give you 3 examples here that come from myself:
      1. I am not a dancer. The idea of ever being one is completely unappealing to me. This isn't a flaw. Anyone suggesting it is, THEY are the flawed individual for thinking that the world revolves around them, and that something THEY are interested in should be universally applied.
      2. I am a mechanical genius. It is the meat and drink of my very existence. It's not exciting, often not considered sexy, and definitely has the potential to turn off those who are not mechanically inclined. Their ignorance is not MY flaw. If they think it is, let them revel in their own stupidity.
      3. I've been a rifleman for the last 34 years. My opinion on the virtues of being armed will never change. I tend to look down on those who are afraid of firearms, especially men, mostly because this is a skill real men should have, and it also carries with it some serious responsibility. Those who look down on me for daring to exercise my rights, I hold in contempt. THAT is also not a flaw.
      There are better ways to deal with admitting flaws, because a lot of times, those flaws are not flaws at all. They are differences. Mistakes... I wouldn't dwell on those, either. On the other hand, I would steer clear of some bitchy inquisitor that thinks every little thing you do or have done is wrong.

    • @andersnielsen6044
      @andersnielsen6044 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Your long sentence is all included in the first point of the video: Authenticity.

    • @mr.e1026
      @mr.e1026 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@andersnielsen6044 Is it, though? Seriously, if it is, why was it mentioned that "I think admitting your flaws and mistakes makes you more relatable and therefore more magnetic."??
      I think it doesn't. I think the OP is mistaking flaws for differences. You don't admit to differences. There's nothing wrong with being different. As a matter of fact, dwelling on your imperfections, and highlighting them on first dates, yeah, it's magnetic, alright, in the sense that it repels people the same way like poles repel one another.
      As for admitting mistakes, there will be plenty of time to deal with those things you could have done better. Bringing all of them up on a first date though??? Awkward and off-putting.
      Explaining to someone why they are wrong about something like that, though. If you have a fire hose shooting out sewage for 5 minutes straight, it takes a lot longer than 5 minutes to clean it all up. Just saying.

    • @andersnielsen6044
      @andersnielsen6044 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@mr.e1026 Showing yourself with the flaws and mistakes, is a part of being authentic. Actually it is the essentials.

    • @mr.e1026
      @mr.e1026 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@andersnielsen6044 Since you're just going to say wrong and offer no explanation, I can't take you serious.
      But good luck with that.

  • @maravilloso002
    @maravilloso002 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ppl from all walks of life are "drawn" to me, but they get super intimidated once they come in my presence. I think that most ppl have been beaten down emotionally from childhood, to failed adulthood friendships and relationships and that energy follows them around everywhere. I have all the things ppl say are good qualities.

  • @thomas4857
    @thomas4857 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you ownr you have great podcast

  • @ajtaylor8750
    @ajtaylor8750 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Authenticity and humor combined is a killer one-two punch that can definitely make you attractive to women. It's worked for me in spades.

    • @phorn100
      @phorn100 ปีที่แล้ว

      Liar!!!

  • @namhy5162
    @namhy5162 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi, the primary traits to develop as a man is emitting a sense of security and attractiveness to make a women feel relaxed about these 2 anxiolytic factors. She will then simply hope that the man has all the secondary traits as mentioned in every dating advice videos or hope to change the man into developing all secondary assets she would like him to have. Sadly, women can cope with the worst behaviours from a man as long as the sense of security and attractiveness towards the man she shares her life with is maintained.

  • @porderpower1438
    @porderpower1438 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Something so simple but the thing is, is that is one of the coolest shirts I've ever seen

  • @williamjubi
    @williamjubi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    How does one practice being well spoken? Suggested reading materials or speech classes?

  • @potatootter5088
    @potatootter5088 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Pretty random comment but I like your top. It reminds me of yin & yang. lol. Thanks for the advice and have a good day Courtney.

  • @imtiazahmadwattanyar3736
    @imtiazahmadwattanyar3736 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your " SIMPLICITY " is your " GRACE "❤🌹

  • @1matim
    @1matim 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    thanks, good video

  • @tylermabry6881
    @tylermabry6881 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Holy shit! I had ED for an entire year once. Turns out I was in a very unhealthy, unsafe relationship, and so it started messing with me like that. As soon as it ended I was back to normal.
    Check your headspace, check your quality of life, check your diet and exercise, and THEN see if you need medication or assistance.

  • @milaahrens9171
    @milaahrens9171 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hey courtney, been watching your videos for a while now (bingewatching) and just wanted to ask: How old are you? How old were you when you met your now fiance? What did you study in college? I don't know how to ask this politly so..bodycount? Don't wanna come off weird just curiuous how/what a woman like you does and want to find my own.

  • @emmatennyson5473
    @emmatennyson5473 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good advice.

  • @jaumepp1975
    @jaumepp1975 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I totally agree about magneticism, and it strongly relates to spontaneity or naturality. I was born with these gifts (or I developed them, or a mixture of the two), and, being physically a very normal guy, I've been able to feel interesting to many girls that, physically again, were 7.5 and above. Again, it's another genetic lottery (I really think it's more genetic than any other thing). And the weird thing is that it keeps happening now that I'm 47 and bald, very strange. Well, life... it never stops surprising us. Cheers.

  • @josuemiamire
    @josuemiamire 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Courtney with the sponsorships 👏👏👏

  • @davidregetz6023
    @davidregetz6023 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You're a good encourager!

  • @alexfletcher5192
    @alexfletcher5192 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I mean, this continues to be well intentioned and I applaud you for trying to bring American men and women together. I do regard it as slightly tragic that it's not automatically the case outside of that culture. Maybe this is part of a turning point.

  • @ftsmith351
    @ftsmith351 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    What is your recommendation on handling jealousy and envy. I have found most people aren’t happy for your success

  • @jazieluu87
    @jazieluu87 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    These advices should be implemented for both men and women.

  • @renemontenegro6143
    @renemontenegro6143 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Like The Extensions Ryan

  • @yadunandanns
    @yadunandanns ปีที่แล้ว

    Very Crisp and a good one maam

  • @samridhyamukherjee3578
    @samridhyamukherjee3578 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you

  • @carlosdlonga6507
    @carlosdlonga6507 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for the advice as usual PS: BTW no ED or PE only HL here ;D

  • @Dr.Blockchain
    @Dr.Blockchain 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Summary:
    1) Don't have erectile dysfunction
    2) Be magnetic

    • @dan_4531
      @dan_4531 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😂😂

  • @mathiasschneider7690
    @mathiasschneider7690 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    1. confidence
    2. humor.
    3.Listening / communication
    4. positivity
    Got it!
    I got a short dating and making new friends success list I put together this week.
    1. be attractive
    2. Confidence
    3. start with a compliment
    4. ask questions

    • @RR-et6zp
      @RR-et6zp ปีที่แล้ว

      yeah they look for traits they dont have, read the unplugged alpha by richard cooper