r/AmITheA**hole I Sued My YouTuber Ex-Girlfriend!

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  • @rSlash
    @rSlash  4 ปีที่แล้ว +3567

    DON'T SUE ME! Please accept this free video content as a bribe so you don't sue me.

    • @wildmonkeymc2380
      @wildmonkeymc2380 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Ok

    • @b-braveconsultancy1683
      @b-braveconsultancy1683 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      what is ur favorite reddit page

    • @oliver7374
      @oliver7374 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      great vid

    • @zamn2621
      @zamn2621 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      imma sue you anyway >:)

    • @Rbxty
      @Rbxty 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Too bad gib me you’re money an sue

  • @TilcTac
    @TilcTac 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3827

    “She laughed at my son when he lost at monopoly”
    Yeah, so? Seems like they were enjoying each other’s company and having a good time. OP in that story is such a nitpicker and is just looking for reasons to start drama. 😬

    • @jazz-cat00
      @jazz-cat00 4 ปีที่แล้ว +274

      Common sense: if you do not wish for any your close personal relationships to be utterly obliterated, *then DO. NOT. PLAY. EFFING. MONOPOLY.*
      nuff said lol

    • @Roamingfirebat
      @Roamingfirebat 4 ปีที่แล้ว +92

      Jazzcat00 I’m banned by may family to play monopoly.
      Something about being too evil Idk

    • @kayleeg6684
      @kayleeg6684 4 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      That random Firebat my boyfriend was joking about making me sleep on the couch because I was kicking his ass too hard at it hahaha

    • @Roamingfirebat
      @Roamingfirebat 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Kaylee G lol they made me sleep on the roof. True story

    • @elliottlupin
      @elliottlupin 4 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      I know. She sounds like one of those crazy religious parents who need to be the one in charge.

  • @tabbycat2154
    @tabbycat2154 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2404

    "stop wearing suits and she won't act this way" is literally equal to "you wore the skirt, you asked for it"

    • @sissi2204
      @sissi2204 4 ปีที่แล้ว +166

      Yep. I get that it's hard to accept the fact that your daughter is harassing your boyfriend tho

    • @ofunne892
      @ofunne892 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      CloudOS ?

    • @Allegroport
      @Allegroport 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@pandopando what do you mean?

    • @kkhoshekh
      @kkhoshekh 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      CloudOS so, you’re just a gross person

    • @sumbunny2009
      @sumbunny2009 4 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      @Ethan Roberts it's kind of like saying "I'm not saying you were raped because you wore a dress but if you wouldn't have it would've helped the guy not to do so"

  • @deadlyghost7789
    @deadlyghost7789 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4672

    The first story makes the lady seem like an entitled Karen who wants to have everything her way

    • @velvety2006
      @velvety2006 4 ปีที่แล้ว +425

      I think she wants her son in an arranged marriage with a girl who will worship and obey her, give her many grandbabies, and who will keep the son nearby. After all, if he gets completely serious and marries her he could choose to move to her home town and then he would be out of mommy's reach

    • @japanpanda2179
      @japanpanda2179 4 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      She seemed pretty well intentioned but it wouldn't matter, I think I'm the only kid who would actually listen to their parents' dating advice.

    • @primebandet8937
      @primebandet8937 4 ปีที่แล้ว +194

      @@japanpanda2179 I think she thinks she's well meaning, but she's actually being pretty racist and very disrespectful to her son and her son's girlfriend.

    • @xKCAZxLEADER
      @xKCAZxLEADER 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Dace 70 I know right

    • @dracko158
      @dracko158 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Isn't that basically every Karen?

  • @princessmarlena1359
    @princessmarlena1359 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1157

    Second story: Those “friends” are assholes for telling that person to “Let it go”. His ex girlfriend slandered him on TH-cam. She was ruining his life. Glad he won the lawsuit. He was right to link to the court rulings as well.

    • @Cinko420
      @Cinko420 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Princess Marlena
      That OP should get new friends, like how Slazo cut those other youtubers (excluding EmKay, they were very understanding) out of his life after where they stood in the controversy.

    • @shoom7103
      @shoom7103 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      A Human You forgot the negative for the first part.

    • @shoom7103
      @shoom7103 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      A Human it should’ve been -4/5 buttholes for OP

    • @shoom7103
      @shoom7103 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      A Human Ohhhhh sorry

    • @shoom7103
      @shoom7103 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      A Human thnx for doing me a forgive. (I like being a shibe)

  • @ClockworkChandelure
    @ClockworkChandelure 4 ปีที่แล้ว +237

    10:20 "maybe if you stop wearing these clothes people will stop sexually harassing you" that's it. That's how she sounds. She's literally victim blaming her boyfriend.

    • @loturzelrestaurant
      @loturzelrestaurant 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      2:40: Yeah, but this can have side-effects, yeah?

  • @shadowfang269
    @shadowfang269 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2150

    1: “more suited to our family” she’s not dating your family sweetie she’s dating your son.
    2: deformation of character is a crime. Your ex could have ruined you.
    3: since no property damage was done, nope your garden your property.
    4: sounds more like you need to do something about your daughter not your boyfriend. Therapy sounds like a good idea.
    5: What about your daughter? Where’s her support? That said disrespect is disrespect so she should have been grounded for the comments but you need to support your daughter more

    • @RedT...TheOriginal.NotANumber
      @RedT...TheOriginal.NotANumber 4 ปีที่แล้ว +94

      1) Very true in the modern world, but "traditionalists" disagree. In some current cultures, and in olden days Western culture, it's common for the family to come along during courting. (No, I don't agree with those traditionalists, I just acknowledge their viewpoint.)
      2) Defamation, not deformation. Two completely different concepts. (Think "fame" and "form". One is reputation, other is body.) But totally agreed with what you meant!
      3) Landlord is pissed because they didn't get the free upgrade they were expecting. But yeah, it is OP's property, so hasta la taco.
      4) Agreed. So glad she's getting the daughter into therapy.
      5) That's a good point. Daughter is gonna reach out to anyone who'll support her, and it might wind up getting her into trouble. Parents need to fix this before it turns into something bigger than Vans and a haircut.

    • @nikkilengyel
      @nikkilengyel 4 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      Defamation of character, not deformation. No judgment just trying to help. Hope you have a great day!

    • @lukitommele3798
      @lukitommele3798 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Its not deformation but I agree

    • @stoffelfitz
      @stoffelfitz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      This is so random but I see you comment very often and it always makes my day cause of your Assassins Creed Profile picture and thats everything. Thanks for making my day

    • @shadowfang269
      @shadowfang269 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Stoffelfitz glad to be of assistance!

  • @anniekinsmishkamouse7575
    @anniekinsmishkamouse7575 4 ปีที่แล้ว +864

    That first one is a definite entitled parent cross over. Good way to not see your child again.

    • @QueenofTaterTots
      @QueenofTaterTots 4 ปีที่แล้ว +61

      And a fashion major can certainly get her far in fashion design or even modeling careers, that girl could be fucking edna from the incredibles!

    • @Carcass_Consumer
      @Carcass_Consumer 4 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      ShinyhunterLobo _no capes_

    • @ungefeiert
      @ungefeiert 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      If your kid is over 12 you're not allowed to interfere in his/her relationship(s). Change My Mind

    • @LaineyBug2020
      @LaineyBug2020 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@ungefeiert what if you're kid's in an abusive relationship or dating someone too old?

    • @darlingblue
      @darlingblue 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@LaineyBug2020 grooming and abuse is different. Most of us are talking about people old enough to consent who have not been groomed.

  • @mattresskingofnightmares1123
    @mattresskingofnightmares1123 4 ปีที่แล้ว +994

    If OP in the second story got texts from strangers messages means she put his name in a video without his consent assuming she shared his info after the breakup which I am 1000% sure is against the law and YT’s rules. 10/5 buttholes for OP’s Ex.
    -3/5 buttholes for OP.

    • @thathumangiraffe6548
      @thathumangiraffe6548 4 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      i wonder if the youtuber ex girlfriend did that for other relationships

    • @soggygarlicbread1948
      @soggygarlicbread1948 4 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      They could be Instagram dms

    • @mattresskingofnightmares1123
      @mattresskingofnightmares1123 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      Soggy Garlic bread that would not be as messed up but still messed up bc she said his real name assuming she didn’t say his name on YT when they were together.

    • @mattresskingofnightmares1123
      @mattresskingofnightmares1123 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Joshua George probably

    • @azhrayharris8
      @azhrayharris8 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@mattresskingofnightmares1123 He was probably in some of her videos and Instagram posts, where his name was likely used.

  • @gilliancarman5659
    @gilliancarman5659 4 ปีที่แล้ว +987

    I just realized something. Judges are literally just professional AITA readers.

    • @ohyeahbonsai
      @ohyeahbonsai 3 ปีที่แล้ว +71

      "Am I the asshole for commiting fraud

    • @slevinchannel7589
      @slevinchannel7589 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      2:40: Yeah, but this can have side-effects, yeah?
      Imagine if Kids not listening and
      parents 'not being allowed to vocalize' were the Rule;
      it would effectively make Parents helping or saving
      their Kids from Bad Relationships and overall Mistakes?
      So yeah, dont oversimply this, alright?

    • @loturzelrestaurant
      @loturzelrestaurant 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      2:40: Yeah, but this can have side-effects, yeah?
      So yeah, dont oversimply this, alright?

    • @linzgatlin
      @linzgatlin 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      R/technicallythetruth

    • @themaninthesuit7689
      @themaninthesuit7689 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Fax tho

  • @Mnaumnau0
    @Mnaumnau0 4 ปีที่แล้ว +810

    "fAShiOn DegREe WonT Get heR AnyWheRE"
    LMAO KAREN WHO DO YOU THINK DESIGNS / DOES YOU ALL THEM CLOTHES😭😂👊

    • @ninjafaceify
      @ninjafaceify 4 ปีที่แล้ว +71

      She's fundamentalist catholic, do you honestly believe that she dresses in any way fashionably besides a semi good looking dress for sunday mass

    • @lucasky1394
      @lucasky1394 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Exactly
      Where I’m from fashion designers make bank at the same level as doctors (without the massive school loans)

    • @fairyofshampoooo
      @fairyofshampoooo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Okay I'm catholic but I'm not devout but lots of middle age "ladies" wear laced dresses soo go home karen

    • @The_Misanthropic_Magpie
      @The_Misanthropic_Magpie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Or the way she brags about her son’s *rslash entitled parent voice* “ LaW DeGRee.”

    • @spider-mancantsee5875
      @spider-mancantsee5875 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@The_Misanthropic_Magpie he would probably drop out halfway through then the mom would somehow blame the school.

  • @Hawk1966
    @Hawk1966 4 ปีที่แล้ว +529

    I actually had a friend who took a back yard that was mostly weeds and dirt and turned it into a beautiful garden. When they moved she took about 80% of the plants and even the goldfish pond they'd installed. Their landlord was in a similar situation and demanded they restore the yard to its original condition. . . so they went back, took the remainder of the plants and took up all the sod they'd paid for and put down. They left the back yard barren with nothing but weeds and dirt. The original condition. It was awesome.

    • @SilverMaychan
      @SilverMaychan 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @loturzelrestaurant
      @loturzelrestaurant 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      2:40: Yeah, but this can have side-effects, yeah? So yeah, dont oversimply this, alright?
      ...

    • @Some_guy_passing_by
      @Some_guy_passing_by 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      How did they take the pond tho ?

    • @Hawk1966
      @Hawk1966 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@Some_guy_passing_by it was a plastic insert. They simply dug it up.

    • @Emeraldwitch30
      @Emeraldwitch30 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@@Hawk1966my pond is a couple of different plastic inserts with waterfall plastic sets ups and waterfall cups. Its beautiful and easy to install

  • @dirwael
    @dirwael 4 ปีที่แล้ว +790

    0:42 - "She didn't know a lot about her Maori heritage and family, which I find hard to believe."
    What? Why? There are millions of people in the world who don't know many things about their family and culture. Many people, especially POC, don't have records of their ancestry due to colonialism and things like that. How is it "hard to believe"? Not everyone has the same experience as you, Karen. Do you have the records of your great great great great grandma?
    Sorry, but this just really ticked me off as a mixed person who doesn't know anything about half of my family, the only reason being that there is no info on it.

    • @Allmight_Kitty
      @Allmight_Kitty 4 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      Also mix here. Perhaps she also doesn't want to know anything about that side of her family? Or doesn't have any ties with them whatsoever? My surname always raises many eyebrows. I had people come up to me and speak in a different language because they heard the name and thought I was one of them. The worst is they are actually offended when I tell them that I don't speak their language. Not my fault that my ancestor, who I never even met, left their country in search of a better life.

    • @damilolasokoya1266
      @damilolasokoya1266 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      I’m not mixed. I know some stuff about my family. I even grew up in africa for most of my childhood but I don’t speak the language. I’m just more in touch with the British side of myself and that’s that. If someone played 21 questions with me about my heritage I’d be hella uncomfortable.

    • @jwkittles
      @jwkittles 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      lumiinescence ...I know nothing about my Mothers side past my grandparents. They never wanted to talk about it with my Mom, their daughter, and we knew nothing. Mom figured it was a bad childhood or something. It was during the depression.
      So nope. I know squat about my Moms heritage.

    • @Tomoeine
      @Tomoeine 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @@Allmight_Kitty Native American heritage here (Dad's side of the family and I are all on the registry, not some .0005% bs). However, I was raised by my Mother (white). I'm not sure I DO want to learn about that side of my ancestry because my father was an abusive alcoholic, as was his father, and so on - but even if I did, I wouldn't be able to.
      Unfortunately, thanks to colonialism, a lot of tribes like mine have high rates of depression and alcoholism, which I think became endemic to the men on my dad's side. And in any case, my immediate ties are now dead or NC due to these reasons above. I will probably never know anything about that side of my family or their culture.
      There's so many different reasons, and I can only imagine my boyfriend's mum, who is a Super Karen, confronting me about this. She already hates me!

    • @cdawg9218
      @cdawg9218 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Thank you! There are a lot of people in the comments who don't seem to understand that Maori are a race of people here in NZ and that we aren't all Maori, nor do they all have super strong connections to their iwi or heritage.

  • @creepypastapudding3531
    @creepypastapudding3531 4 ปีที่แล้ว +485

    The father in the last story is a straight up enabler of his wife super precious attitude. The daughter is rebelling which is normal and the wife is taking it as a personal front.

    • @Allmight_Kitty
      @Allmight_Kitty 4 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      Yeah I kinda hate pushovers like him. They enable this typical Karen-like behavior and continue where Karen's parents have already failed and the rest of us have to endure the Karen-tantrums....
      The only positive thing is that people get to tell outragous storys about them for entertainment.

    • @SilverMe2004
      @SilverMe2004 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      did you mean *personal affront ?
      there should be a word for when you mispronounce a word because you think its pronounced that way

    • @Rhaenarys
      @Rhaenarys 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Lacey is the mom. Madison is the daughter, and a minor. Sorry, but no. The mom maybe a drama queen, but if she didnt want her daughter to cut or dye her hair, her daughter should respect her wishes while underage and under her roof. Lash out at 18. That's what I did. Not to mention, she is to respect her mom period. That's the worst thing about her mom is worrying about how she looks? Even though her mom still makes sure she is fed, housed, clothed, clean, and healthy? Wow. Show some respect to your mom. Dont talk back and insult her. And yes, dad totally should be backing up mom. By not backing up mom, it creates problems with authority in the house hold. Kids start to think they dont have to listen to mom because dad doesnt. Or vise versa. That's not how parenting works. Even if you disagree, you should have each others backs and support each others parenting strategies. And this of course when abuse isnt part of the parenting tactic. Dad may disagree with mom about the hair, but he should still support mom regardless, as she should support him with issues he doesnt approve. Or at least talk about it away the kids. If you cant co parent and teach your kids to respect both parents, then you shouldnt have kids. Sorry, but no. Mom and dad are not in the wrong, daughter is.
      Just out of curiosity, how many agree with "my house, my rules?"

    • @somehuman1901
      @somehuman1901 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      @@Rhaenarys not me. Everyone has different rules and some can be fucked up and cross the line. Not so much here though but I'm sure you can think of examples of people taking that my house my rules way too far.

    • @epoch.
      @epoch. 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      CreepypastaPudding bruh he’s more like a SIMP

  • @auberginebear
    @auberginebear 4 ปีที่แล้ว +148

    > She laughed at my son when he lost at monopoly
    The fact that OP assumed malicious intent in that is very concerning.

    • @slevinchannel7589
      @slevinchannel7589 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      2:40: Yeah, but this can have side-effects, yeah?
      Imagine if Kids not listening and Parents 'not being allowed to vocalize' were the Rule;
      it would effectively make Parents helping or saving
      their Kids from Bad Relationships and overall Mistakes?
      So yeah, dont oversimply this, alright?

    • @loturzelrestaurant
      @loturzelrestaurant 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      2:40: Yeah, but this can have side-effects, yeah?
      So yeah, dont oversimply this, alright?

    • @auberginebear
      @auberginebear 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Two responses from different accounts with the same time-stamp and the same response?
      @Loturzel Restaurant & @Slevin Channel, automatically assuming malicious intent in others actions that you barely know isn't a good thing. While this was during OP's first time meeting her son's girlfriend, that doesn't mean she cannot be concerned, but her response was out of line. She could have raised her concerns about her son's relationship dynamic with him without being rude, but what was said did not come off as concern, but controlling.
      And I say this as someone who has been in an abusive relationship where my mother tried to help me see the abuse. She didn't try to control me, she only ever showed me her concern, and while it took me time, I'm grateful she didn't do anything that would have pushed me away while trying to save me from my abuse.
      But this mother is assuming the worse from a single interaction, one in which she already proved to be biased in from the way she talked about the girlfriend. She's looking for reasons to criticize the girlfriend and break up their relationship.

    • @magicfish8213
      @magicfish8213 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Monopoly is the apex, the very being of having mal intent

  • @bugbear2357
    @bugbear2357 4 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    I feel so sorry for the daughter in story 4. She's likely got C-PTSD and has a screwed up perspective on relationships as a result. I hope she gets some good therapy and can heal from her trauma.

  • @plarteey1316
    @plarteey1316 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1236

    Reads: I sued a TH-camr....
    Rslash: and no it’s not my girlfriend
    Us: Phew. *Puts down weapons*

    • @nustrio
      @nustrio 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Nice

    • @filip76uk93
      @filip76uk93 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      oh I put down my cactus that I use for nevermind

    • @justanothergalaxy8379
      @justanothergalaxy8379 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      FILIP76UK deleting unwanted objects?

    • @JoseMartinez-gk2ke
      @JoseMartinez-gk2ke 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      you all are psychopaths, lol. but seriously, you’re defending someone who you don’t even know 10 things about.

    • @Phoenix6942-7
      @Phoenix6942-7 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@justanothergalaxy8379 well that's one way of doing it. I'm more of a lava person myself.

  • @BobBlumenfeld
    @BobBlumenfeld 4 ปีที่แล้ว +313

    "But it don't think she's the right fit for my son." -- No, she's not the right fit for you, not your son.

    • @rubycar7143
      @rubycar7143 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      R/slash reads tit
      “Am I the butt whole for grilling my son gf
      Me instantly answers yes

    • @LoganT547
      @LoganT547 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@rubycar7143 exactly

    • @maapauu4282
      @maapauu4282 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Why not?

  • @No0neat
    @No0neat 4 ปีที่แล้ว +795

    "AITA for grilling my son's new girlfriend-"
    I had to read that twice because it sounds macabre. Please tell me i'm not the only one who thought that he literally grilled her, served her and then said "i do not approve"? I just woke up, still haven't had my coffee :v

    • @kacchanisabutt7831
      @kacchanisabutt7831 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      this would be the case if ops parents were Jeffery Dahmer

    • @squeaks5494
      @squeaks5494 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I freaked out when i read that

    • @darkflame728
      @darkflame728 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      It's just an expression. It basically means criticizing someone.

    • @justmeok2
      @justmeok2 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      English isnt my first language so i was like "it cant mean that...right?" Haha

    • @happydragon7095
      @happydragon7095 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I hope you've had a couple cups of coffee since this comment. Sounds like you're going to need it today.

  • @Justaperson354
    @Justaperson354 4 ปีที่แล้ว +121

    My father once told my mother that if necessary he’d push her off a cliff to save his kids when she asked him what he’d do if someone told him to push her or us kids off a cliff lol she was very happy at his response and said he damn well better. I think it’s better to be a good parent than spouse if given the choice

    • @jacob3988
      @jacob3988 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Most definitely. Assuming you have kids at 18, with the same life expectancy
      You will live X years, your kids will live X+18 years. even more important if multiple kids

    • @slevinchannel7589
      @slevinchannel7589 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      2:40: Yeah, but this can have side-effects, yeah?
      Imagine if Kids not listening and
      parents 'not being allowed to vocalize' were the Rule;
      it would effectively make Parents helping or saving
      their Kids from Bad Relationships and overall Mistakes?
      So yeah, dont oversimply this, alright?

    • @Justaperson354
      @Justaperson354 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@slevinchannel7589 what in the world does that have to do with what I was talking about?

    • @ClockworkChandelure
      @ClockworkChandelure 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@Justaperson354 I found another account that said something veeery similar, even writing the same timestamp, under several comments, mine included, around 10 minutes ago. I think they're a bot/spam account

    • @Justaperson354
      @Justaperson354 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@ClockworkChandelure weird thing to make a bot do lol

  • @jasonargonaut8091
    @jasonargonaut8091 4 ปีที่แล้ว +141

    The last story reminds me of how my parents acted.
    My dad would always take my stepmom's side when I got into an argument with her and did nothing when she started an argument. I felt he betrayed me.
    In my opinion op in the last story should try to be better towards being a better father than just focusing on being a better husband

    • @pyro014
      @pyro014 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Honestly I feel the wife is abusive. It sounds like she is abusing her daughter behind closed doors, and then playing the victim to her husband.

    • @jamesonbutts5926
      @jamesonbutts5926 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@pyro014 that is happening in my house but with my sister and mom but my sister is moving out in a couple months as she is not 18 yet

    • @Ayaforshort
      @Ayaforshort 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Well he straight up said his wife is his favorite person in the world so it sounds like he doesn't give 2 f-s what his daughter thinks. Imagine a grown adult being comforted for hours and your child being told to comfort herself. Sounds like some narc parents. I bet the 16 year old is the golden one.

    • @loturzelrestaurant
      @loturzelrestaurant 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      2:40: Yeah, but this can have side-effects, yeah?
      So yeah, dont oversimply this, alright?

  • @r.w3800
    @r.w3800 4 ปีที่แล้ว +626

    *sigh Karens, Karens and more Karens! Like seriously people, love is their choice not the parents choice.

    • @13thMaiden
      @13thMaiden 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      I mean it's okay for a parent to point out if they see any real red flags (bruises popping up where they didn't use to, increased anxiety, seeing gaslighting, ect.). But yeah if it's just 'I don't think she fits our family image!' then that's just a Karen move.

    • @r.w3800
      @r.w3800 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      13thMaiden, I agree. But things like telling them to end a relationship because of religion and the fact that “she would ruin the family image” are just stupid. However what you said is 100% true.

    • @Mogijup
      @Mogijup 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Hi, I think you might have made a mistake! I think instead of “on the parents” you meant “not the parents”. If I am wrong I am sorry and please ignore this comment :-)

    • @Colinop
      @Colinop 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      The son loves the girl, the girl loves the son, the girl isn't taking advantage of the son, the son isn't taking advantage of the girl, then it's fine. being an atheist into fashion that makes jokes isn't a dealbreaker.

    • @miniasian71
      @miniasian71 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Donkey Kong
      *No,no.* *He’s got a point*
      You’re right.

  • @isacapers9891
    @isacapers9891 4 ปีที่แล้ว +429

    What did this "influencer" think would happen? You can't just make up lies about someone and not expect consequences 💞🦋

    • @tinyaxolotl9149
      @tinyaxolotl9149 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      You know it sis💅💅💮✨💖💝💃🌺🌸🌹

    • @thathumangiraffe6548
      @thathumangiraffe6548 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      true, that "influencer" tried to ruin op's life and did not expect anything bad happen

    • @FireHawkGaming
      @FireHawkGaming 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      The amount of arrogant self-righteous "influencers" out there, particularly YT/Twich/Insta is ridiculous. The YT'er was probably banging other people too, as is often the case.
      I mean, anyone remember the whole Katerino thing?

    • @renaultkigerlife7837
      @renaultkigerlife7837 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Emoji

    • @Violetlee2001
      @Violetlee2001 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Yeah she was posting slander and if op was getting messages from strangers that means she gave out his personal info just to get more followers and support.

  • @amwhik
    @amwhik 4 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    *incredibly high voice* : when will you learn? When will you learn - THAT YOUR ACTIONS HAVE CONSEQUENCES!

  • @poisonousjinx9823
    @poisonousjinx9823 4 ปีที่แล้ว +76

    “more suited to our family” I never understood that line like, she’s not dating your family she’s dating your son. And not everyone knows everything about their family heritage

    • @ImJustShayeB
      @ImJustShayeB 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I could see if she was rubbing everyone the wrong way but it's just the mom "wanting him to date someone suited for the family" yeah that's weird.

    • @shortangel333
      @shortangel333 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ImJustShayeB The mother mean she wanted her son to date one of his cousins or something. ..."suited for the family" more like keep it in the family.

    • @ArcanineEspeon
      @ArcanineEspeon 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@shortangel333 how did you extrapolate THAT?

  • @kyab2815
    @kyab2815 4 ปีที่แล้ว +194

    The lacey and madison story: he sounds like an enabler.

  • @pedrobotelho2265
    @pedrobotelho2265 4 ปีที่แล้ว +175

    About the last story:
    Wife: Gets foot massage and comfort for 1 hour.
    Daughter: Probably cries on a pillow for 1 hour.
    When OP asks his daughter for help, she wont be there, and then he will ask what did he do wrong...

    • @CanyonALynn
      @CanyonALynn 4 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      He's so worried about being a husband that he forgot that he's also a father... like c'mon bro, this ain't rocket science.

    • @skyrask1948
      @skyrask1948 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Daughter has nothing to cry about though.

    • @jamesstark1534
      @jamesstark1534 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      He openly said he was on her side for the hair, and at the time he needed to calm the wife down, how many times has he most likely taken the side if the daughter?

    • @CanyonALynn
      @CanyonALynn 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      @@jamesstark1534 That's the thing: He SAID on Reddit he's on his daughter's side regarding the hair change, but based on how he explained things, I got the impression that he didn't actually tell his daughter that.

    • @pedrobotelho2265
      @pedrobotelho2265 4 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      @@skyrask1948 She probably cried for the fact that her dad abandoned their children for hours because his wife thinks her daughter "is changing". Cmon dude, she is a TEENAGER, changing is what they do! Treating that as abnormal is self-destructive for the family and will drift their relations apart.

  • @vbaudelaire7325
    @vbaudelaire7325 4 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    Even when the first story hasn't ended yet, I was already rolling my eyes. I'd bet she would not accept Redditors judgement as well.

  • @Simon-oy7kf
    @Simon-oy7kf 4 ปีที่แล้ว +249

    *Oh No, my little angel is dating a somewhat average girl who has a few minor inconveniences in life, he should let ME choose who he likes to spend his life with*

    • @groofromtheup5719
      @groofromtheup5719 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It is natural to want the best for your child. Mom wasn't impressed. I get that. Mom sounds more upset that the son is turning his back on her faith and the girl is definitely part of that.

    • @catpoofa
      @catpoofa 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@groofromtheup5719 what?

    • @groofromtheup5719
      @groofromtheup5719 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @MyUshyGushyBussy doesn't mean many parents wont try to sway their child's choice in romantic partners.

    • @groofromtheup5719
      @groofromtheup5719 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@MyUshyGushyBussy Sounded more like the veto was the main thing. Obviously neither of us know what was actually the case here. If my daughter bring home a piece of trash, I am going to suggest she tries again. A bad marriage can destroy a person's life. Parents are sort-of invested in seeing their child not ruin their lives. So many people all all for murder of the pre-born because because taking care of that might be an inconvenience for someone just starting out. A bad marriage can be so much worse. How is murder widely acceptable, but "Please try again" is abhorrent?

  • @RevokFarthis
    @RevokFarthis 4 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    "She has no business talking about her mom like that."
    Yeah, I gotta disagree with you there.
    I think about parents/children the same way I think about employers/employees. Call them out on their bs, if they're really worth you investing your time into, they'll listen. If they aren't, be better than them and when you can; move on without them.

    • @CrazyGalaxyCat
      @CrazyGalaxyCat 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      her mum isn't even a mum, she acts more like child then the girl does.

    • @loturzelrestaurant
      @loturzelrestaurant 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      2:40: Yeah, but this can have side-effects, yeah?
      So yeah, dont oversimply this, alright?

    • @RevokFarthis
      @RevokFarthis 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@loturzelrestaurant 1. your 2:40 timestamp doesn't link to anything particularly useful.
      2. "when you can; move on without them." that's as complicated as it needs to be.
      3. You used the word "yeah" three times, when you didn't even need to use it once, what's the deal? You sound like those kids who end their statements with "So.... yeah" like they think it doesn't make them sound ike they have no clue what they're talking about.

  • @therustedmonkie4787
    @therustedmonkie4787 4 ปีที่แล้ว +143

    I feel for the 2nd story. My wife of 3 years and whom I've known for 10 years is hated by my mother. My mother thinks she's the devil and is leading me towards a path of destruction. We barely talk and just recently I've cut contact completely.
    I just don't understand why others can't let others be happy.

    • @AliasUndercover
      @AliasUndercover 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Wow. My wife and I were very lucky, I guess. Her parents liked me (even if they were a little suspicious of me at first. Fair enough, I'm suspicious.) and my mother loved her. Plus, our mothers got along like peas in a pod. It weirds me out that other people have troubles like this.

    • @shinglesrazorscooter1422
      @shinglesrazorscooter1422 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      That was actually the first story

    • @sleepyearth
      @sleepyearth 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I understand it's a matter of control for them.

    • @WobblesandBean
      @WobblesandBean 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I'm sorry, Rusty. My own mother is the single most judgmental, hyper-conservative I know, but even SHE knows not to bad-mouth my boyfriends, especially when I was younger. And believe me, I brought home some REAL losers. One in particular, upon hearing I had finally dumped him, she said "OH THANK GOD" and poured us both a glass of wine. 😂 She knew that if she tried to make me break up with him, it'd just drive me further into his arms.

    • @matt309
      @matt309 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      This is so true, my grand parents long story short had practically lived their lifenyjrough my parents (inviting their friends out and getting upset when they didn't get to go out with them ect) and then sued my parents business when they moved to Florida out of jealousy

  • @Richard_Nickerson
    @Richard_Nickerson 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    That daughter has daddy issues now, and first one older man (the coach) took advantage of that and then she sought it from another older man (the BF) and got denied. She needs therapy.

  • @dracko158
    @dracko158 4 ปีที่แล้ว +134

    Ex-Girlfriend: *Makes a video about OP and makes him look bad*
    OP: *Sues her*
    Ex-Girlfriend and friends: *Surprised Pikachu Face*

    • @The_Negotiator_Official
      @The_Negotiator_Official 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Iamjayden I'm pretty sure the ex is mars argo. i could be wrong and i most likely am but i think i saw a video like that. and thats what it says on google....

  • @TheMuffinMansWife
    @TheMuffinMansWife 4 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    "...but he should be with someone more suitable for our family in my opinion"
    Sucks to be you lady. His life, his heart, his girlfriend

  • @isiaadiel3468
    @isiaadiel3468 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    "They can eat leftovers. I need to take care of her."
    Um... I smell a changed number in those kids' future.

  • @jailee6438
    @jailee6438 4 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    That first story made me sad. That girl could’ve been trying really hard to look good for the family and might be sad now. Big 👎 for the mom for not being supportive of their relationship.

  • @adjustforkicks
    @adjustforkicks 4 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    OP in the first story sounds like those rich parents who say that poor or decent people aren't enough for them

  • @JakeStaffin
    @JakeStaffin 4 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    Wow. My ex girlfriend is a youtuber (I'm in a few of her videos) and she made a vlog a week after our breakup saying she was sad but that we both knew it was for the best, then later took it down because she thought it put me in a bad light even though it really didn't and I was fine with her video. Why someone would try to make a wrongful claim about their ex is ridiculous, and to put it on TH-cam to gain subscribers is even worse.

  • @DogPerson626
    @DogPerson626 4 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    With the garden story, the landlord was trying to steal the *fruits of their labor* (wheeze).

    • @no-longer-a-experiment6490
      @no-longer-a-experiment6490 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      **bonk** Go to bad pun jail

    • @SryBut
      @SryBut 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sad this is a pretty specific pun, otherwise I would put them in my Pun-Memory

  • @cherryp5456
    @cherryp5456 4 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    for parents like the first one:
    1. only stick your nose into your children's relationships if their s/o seems toxic and could bring harm to your child.
    ex: not for dumb reasons like their education and family members.
    they're dating your child, not you. if they're happy then just leave them alone.

    • @anastasiao4036
      @anastasiao4036 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      The thing is that the Karen probably things that the girlfriend not being religious and laughing when the son lost would be "causing my precious harm" because "he needs a good Catholic girl that understands the man is the ruler of the house".

    • @bluelan9393
      @bluelan9393 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      But she was toxic!! She laughed at him in a tabletop game!! It’s abusive!!!!!!!

    • @slevinchannel7589
      @slevinchannel7589 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Imagine if Kids not listening and Parents 'not being allowed to vocalize' were the Rule;
      it would effectively make Parents helping or saving
      their Kids from Bad Relationships and overall Mistakes?
      So yeah, dont oversimply this, alright?

  • @Richard_Nickerson
    @Richard_Nickerson 4 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    Garden story: When I saw the title, I was like "Well, if you own the place, then yeah because that's part of the value of it."
    But then they revealed that they rent and the landlord was just trying to get free labor for a better value, so no. OP is not the asshole, the landlord totally is.

    • @9SMTM6
      @9SMTM6 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      It sounds to me like the communication was pretty damn bad. OP could've approached his landlord and asked him for a fair sum for the stuff and the time sunk in bevore removing the garden without communicating it. In that case the misunderstanding would've been clear.
      If landlord doesn't give a fair price then it's only fair to remove all that stuff, as long as you don't damage the backyard and leave it back as good as it was.
      But otherwise OP would've saved the time it took to remove all that stuff and got new stuff for his new backyard. Its a win win. OP can get more fitting new stuff for your new backyard and saves time, landlord gets more money.
      Although it does kindof sound like the landlord was trying to exploit and wouldn't have offered a fair recompensation. So could've ended the same way.

    • @Richard_Nickerson
      @Richard_Nickerson 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@9SMTM6
      OP seemed more than willing and even happy to remove everything. I don't think they perceived literally any loss, even time.
      Edit: And yes, the landlord was trying to get free landscaping. The landlord would not have paid for the garden, it just would've been giving them a heads up of what was about to happen.

    • @9SMTM6
      @9SMTM6 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Richard_Nickerson So what if it would've given him a heads up. He couldn't have stopped it.

    • @yggdrasil1969
      @yggdrasil1969 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@9SMTM6 The landlord knew what the yard was when OP moved in, so HE should have asked about the garden stuff and made an offer. Why is it her responsibility to tell him, "Hey, by the way, I'm moving ALL of my property." The analogy about furniture is spot on. If potential buyers saw OP's couch in photos and landlord says it's included in the buy, should he have the right to be mad when she moves it to her new place? Do you know how long it takes to cultivate plants? Maybe she didn't want to start over and just wanted the stuff she specifically bought for herself.

    • @Richard_Nickerson
      @Richard_Nickerson 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@9SMTM6
      He 100% would've caused more problems with a heads up.
      If you don't see that, then you're just not thinking about it correctly.

  • @darko-man8549
    @darko-man8549 4 ปีที่แล้ว +280

    The final story: OP isn't an AH; however he is an enabler of an entitledmother

    • @KnittingGirl28
      @KnittingGirl28 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Yep, but he will eventually become the ah if he keeps doing this. He's at a point where this either has to end or he's going ruin his family.

    • @irogt
      @irogt 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Here's been doing this for 18 years . He's definitely a mild butthole. But I like R/ judgement.

    • @jamieyeomans3778
      @jamieyeomans3778 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      He's Laceys bitch.

    • @Allmight_Kitty
      @Allmight_Kitty 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      ".....and that, dear children, is how Karens are made." **puts Story Book away** Yeah I wish that was just a story, but yeah every Karen needs their enabler.

    • @ThatOneCryptid
      @ThatOneCryptid 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Jamie Yeomans now I’m just imagining lacey walking this dude on a leash

  • @EdgyShooter
    @EdgyShooter 4 ปีที่แล้ว +339

    "My husband and I are very Catholic and traditional"
    That set off so many alarms in one sentence 😅

    • @justabunneh6490
      @justabunneh6490 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Why? Are certain lifestyles not allowed anymore?

    • @poop_guy
      @poop_guy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ^

    • @zynstein
      @zynstein 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@justabunneh6490 because there's a stereotype
      N stereotypes exist for a reason.

    • @savageostrich472
      @savageostrich472 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Ik I’m Catholic and nothing pisses me off more then when someone acts racist or entitled and then says it’s because of they’re Catholic

    • @emeraldwolf7300
      @emeraldwolf7300 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@savageostrich472 Same boat different ocean I absolutely hate it when Catholic people act that way and say it's what God wanted no what God wants is peace between mankind and even if you feel that way don't vocolise it

  • @asserm.8047
    @asserm.8047 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    that dude was willing to act as a therapist for his gf's daughter...i really respect that.
    the daughter's behavior seems to stem from being a traumatized not-even-20-y/o kid, so i rly hope they can get thru this together as a family bc the man seems like a wonderful person and the daughter deserves to heal

  • @starbird3939
    @starbird3939 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    The OP with the Suit Boyfriend: YTA
    The OP is blaming her boyfriend and his clothing for something HER DAUGHTER IS DOING WRONG.
    There was an art piece, I believe it was called "What Were You Wearing?", that displayed the clothing various people wore the night they were sexually assaulted--some of them even worn by children. I believe several men also donated their clothing to this exhibit too. It's very unnerving.

    • @loturzelrestaurant
      @loturzelrestaurant 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      2:42: Yeah, but this can have side-effects, yeah?
      So yeah, dont oversimply this, alright?

    • @wannabehistorian371
      @wannabehistorian371 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@loturzelrestaurant WTF are you talking about.

    • @loturzelrestaurant
      @loturzelrestaurant 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@wannabehistorian371 About the Time-Stamp-Moment? DUH?

    • @wannabehistorian371
      @wannabehistorian371 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@loturzelrestaurant It has absolutely nothing to do with OP’s comment.

    • @ArcanineEspeon
      @ArcanineEspeon 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@loturzelrestaurant The story Lady Phoenix was talking about didn't even happen at 2:42. What are you doing??

  • @paden1865able
    @paden1865able 4 ปีที่แล้ว +93

    The man who wears the suits, to me it sounds as if the daughter has a thing for him. Mom needs to set some boundaries for the girl, and all of them could use some therapy.

    • @Roamingfirebat
      @Roamingfirebat 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Or option 2 do as the wizard dose

    • @sarahunderwood8952
      @sarahunderwood8952 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Unfortunately, a common trauma response for childhood sexual abuse is hypersexuality. It is likely that she has boundary confusion due to the sex abuse inflicted on her while she was hurting and manipulated after the death of her father. Poor kid :/

  • @gracemereland2234
    @gracemereland2234 4 ปีที่แล้ว +132

    the first story literally boiled down to: "So I sat my son down and told him that his life needs to be fitted around mine and he got kind of offended? Am I in the wrong here?"
    ..yes
    yes, why is this a question?
    why are you like this?
    how did you think this was acceptable?

    • @Spiderstan2000
      @Spiderstan2000 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Karens are entitled dumdasses that play the victim.

    • @TwasSovereign
      @TwasSovereign 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      First story sounds exactly like my Mom right now lol

    • @7up706
      @7up706 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TwasSovereign Info please .If you don't want to share it's not a problem though.

    • @TwasSovereign
      @TwasSovereign 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@7up706 I moved to Russia to be with the woman of my dreams, ( my mom is not religious is the only difference) and she has shunned me ever since. Brief synopsis of that.

    • @7up706
      @7up706 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TwasSovereign Thank you for sharing the information.

  • @pibbishfeelins
    @pibbishfeelins 4 ปีที่แล้ว +715

    Can we all agree that the first poster was a Karen? Okay thanks 🙏

    • @japanpanda2179
      @japanpanda2179 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Idk she seemed like she was probably right but it wouldn't have mattered.

    • @WolfyFancyLads
      @WolfyFancyLads 4 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      Honest to god, it sounded like a TV stereotypical Jewish mother. "You don't know about your heritage? Well, my people suffered in the desert. Fashion? Why can't you get a respectable job like my son! You'll never be a good mother with that mouth on you! Oh my god, you don't love your parents, what kinda girl doesn't have a great family life!? I tell you what kind of girl, one that's not good enough for my bubby!"
      You're reading this in a thick accent too, I can tell.

    • @marakov8682
      @marakov8682 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah

    • @meatmaster665
      @meatmaster665 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@japanpanda2179 fool

    • @MarkJohnson-ro1ed
      @MarkJohnson-ro1ed 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      TheBritishWolf oy vey! I'm reading this in Yiddish!

  • @TheMuffinMansWife
    @TheMuffinMansWife 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    5th story: So what? My parents let me do whatever I want to my hair because guess what? Its MY hair. They dont have to wear it

    • @anastasiao4036
      @anastasiao4036 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      The mother sounds like the type to thing she owns their children and they cannot have any sense of individuality from her.

  • @Southern-trout0
    @Southern-trout0 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    With the first story she immediately lost the argument as soon as she said her son was 20 years old.

  • @annanavarro8240
    @annanavarro8240 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    The first thing I thought when I heard that first one was "are we in the 1800s or something??". That dude literally acts like a character straight from a Jane Austen novel, and NOT in a good way! Leave your damn son alone to date whoever he wants man, you're not the freaking Lord of the castle!

    • @naranciaisbestboi125
      @naranciaisbestboi125 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      It was the mom who was telling the story in the first one.

    • @anastasiao4036
      @anastasiao4036 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@naranciaisbestboi125 Ikr. She was probably pissed that her son wasn't dating a nice Catholic girl. Probably has the view that the man is the ruler of the house and so it was bad that the girlfriend laughed because it "shows disrespect to the male of the house" by that most people in that mindset thinks.

  • @JamesterIsDivergent
    @JamesterIsDivergent 4 ปีที่แล้ว +97

    Rslash: Pronounces Patreon right
    *Wait, thats illegal!*

    • @Roamingfirebat
      @Roamingfirebat 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lol 😂

    • @jwkittles
      @jwkittles 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      He just has to remember... it’s PAY-treon. As in PAY me money. 😆

  • @Pyromercy
    @Pyromercy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I love the last one, can be a quote: "treat your family like family members and not like enemies." Most people sadly don't really do that anymore, and why it hit me so much was cause most people do that everyday.

    • @loturzelrestaurant
      @loturzelrestaurant 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      2:40: Yeah, but this can have side-effects, yeah?
      So yeah, dont oversimply this, alright?

  • @DemonzSlayer49
    @DemonzSlayer49 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is the only TH-cam channel where I tolerate having 3-5 ads. He has a kid now, and actually works hard. Although he just narrates stories on Reddit, he does it with a passion and not with a robot voice. He’s so genuine and I’m happy for rslash. He seems he’s successful in life! I’m really happy for you! Also, I just realized I just came from the episode where you cried and looked at the ads on this video. And that’s why I commented like this.

  • @perserveremr.rabbit2990
    @perserveremr.rabbit2990 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    the last story, i feel like the daughter has been wanting to say that for a while. My parents babied each other rather then us during a pretty tumultuous time in our lives, i will never forgive either of them for the feeling of neglect that it instills.

  • @sharkattack2153
    @sharkattack2153 4 ปีที่แล้ว +353

    Also who else just thinks of Rslash lurking in the comments

    • @Roamingfirebat
      @Roamingfirebat 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Waiting for the perfect prey

    • @chewbyham9197
      @chewbyham9197 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @Daniel Youngblood wt accual F

    • @a2brostoo219
      @a2brostoo219 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @Daniel Youngblood bro u good?

    • @Anorak1357
      @Anorak1357 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Daniel Youngblood you ok bro?

    • @feetandmeat3009
      @feetandmeat3009 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Daniel Youngblood I-

  • @Jam_Streets
    @Jam_Streets 4 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    OP: I dated a youtuber
    Viewers: *Raises pitchforks*
    R/: Ain't me
    Viewers: *Lower pitchforks*

    • @nurenzayyan4825
      @nurenzayyan4825 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Aren’t we all on our toes with pitch forks waiting for the right moment.

    • @Jam_Streets
      @Jam_Streets 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@nurenzayyan4825 That depends on the individual and situation

    • @JM-ij1om
      @JM-ij1om 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      LOL!!!

    • @Roamingfirebat
      @Roamingfirebat 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Nuren Zayyan depends if my buddy want me to help take the holy land I don’t use my pitchfork I use my MG

    • @Roamingfirebat
      @Roamingfirebat 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I put the belt in my MG and took it out

  • @A-Microwave
    @A-Microwave 4 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    the one you marry should be one who treats you like you're they're best friend, the girlfriend in the first story sounds like she's exactly that

    • @thathumangiraffe6548
      @thathumangiraffe6548 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      i think you use the wrong they're i think this is the correct their

    • @Zach90888
      @Zach90888 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Joshua George I concur

  • @picklebobpie5314
    @picklebobpie5314 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    My response to the TH-camr in second story:YOU FRICKEN FRITS WHEN WILL YOU LEARN, YOUR ACTIONS HAVE CONSEQUENCES

  • @avabislin4075
    @avabislin4075 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    that woman telling her boyfriend to dress different for her daughter is literally the same as having girls dress different because guys can control themselves

  • @yourlocaltrashpanda7008
    @yourlocaltrashpanda7008 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    For that first one she is basically saying “am I the butthole for not letting my son be with a woman who had no control over her birth, wants to persue her passion, and happens to not be the same religion as me”

  • @soulfuric
    @soulfuric 4 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    I can totally feel for the girlfriend in the first story. Being a Kiwi myself and also what you would call a "half cast", not sure she is but I'm going to make the assumption.
    I was raised mostly with my Maori father's side of the family which is huge. My Mother's pakeha/English side of the family is quite small and I would only spend time with them on the odd occasion. I feel quite uncomfortable talking about that side of my family as the history and stories my mother told me were not the greatest. So yeah l can understand why she wouldn't be comfortable talking about a certain side of her heritage, even if it's opposite.
    And as for the religious side, New Zealand as a whole is pretty open and accepting, I can only recall of one of my long term friends that is religious. It's just not a huge thing for us as a nation I guess. We like to question everything and make up our own minds. 🤷🏽

    • @thegoatkibble
      @thegoatkibble 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I laughed when I heard her say the NZ girl made ‘crude jokes’. Of course she did! That’s one of the best things about hanging out with kiwis. They actually have a sense of humour and don’t take themselves too seriously. This ‘well-traveled’ woman obviously didn’t speak to any New Zealander outside the service industry.

  • @hayreddinbarbarossa661
    @hayreddinbarbarossa661 4 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    Imagine being in a family where the mother and wife is more of a child than the 14year old daughter.
    At 14 the daughter sounds like she's developing her own identity as an individual. Good on her.
    The wife sounds like she's just salty because she doesn't have her own doll that she can manipulate into a mini me. Welcome to the world of parenting teenagers.
    The whole situation is going to get worse before it gets better.

  • @jinxtheunluckypony
    @jinxtheunluckypony 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Story 4 is so sad. I really hope therapy helped OP’s daughter and cooled tensions in their family.

  • @gs0760
    @gs0760 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Okay, 12:46, this is the best way she could've handled this situation. I don't really blame her daughter, (griefs manifests in weird ways), but these parents seem really mature so good for them.

  • @woos057
    @woos057 4 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    The second sounds like it's Jaystation they're talking about

    • @drbright2073
      @drbright2073 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      No because the story said that the TH-camr was a woman

    • @contradictingtroll3765
      @contradictingtroll3765 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @Rus Lemus Is he the one that pretended his girlfriend was dead for a couple of videos?

    • @its_addi
      @its_addi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      After he and his girlfriend broke up, he pretended she was dead as a publicity stunt. He even went as far as to say that her final wish was that HIS second channel got to 1 million subs.

    • @frank863
      @frank863 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@its_addi *THIER Channel. Thats because she broke up with him BECAUSE of the stunt not before.

    • @PurpleLightsaberAlex
      @PurpleLightsaberAlex 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@frank863 What's a "theyre"?

  • @fealubryne
    @fealubryne 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Oof, that first story. The SO's mom was like that when we first started dating, only really open about it all. Surprise surprise, her son (who I've been with for almost 15 years in October) has really drifted away from her and we live about 6 states away now and she rarely sees her 8-year-old granddaughter. Don't be an ass to your kids SOs, you never know where the relationship might turn out.

  • @refusingtoconform
    @refusingtoconform 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    The first post definitely gave me some "Legally Blonde" vibes. Here's hoping our Kiwi GF goes on to be the best damn fashion lawyer the world has ever seen.

  • @bullhorn143
    @bullhorn143 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    "Stop treating each other like enemies and start treating each other like family members" rSlash for president 2020

  • @Exodon2020
    @Exodon2020 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    In the first story that "set him up with someone from my church" didn't only raise a major red flag for me. It also made all my inner alarms blare off at the same.

  • @fishbucket8607
    @fishbucket8607 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    5:07 i heard "bring my gundam" and i immediately tabbed back to see wtf just happened

  • @splonki781
    @splonki781 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    NO,please don't put rslash in jail!His content is amazing.
    Ps:this is a joke, but his content is really good

    • @Roamingfirebat
      @Roamingfirebat 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I agree I listen to the vids every night.

  • @Bmacthesage
    @Bmacthesage 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    For some reason I just saw the R in your logo on your thumbnail, and I immediately thought of Team Rocket

  • @Blackdragon99omfg
    @Blackdragon99omfg 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    17 at OLDEST. That is absolutely terrifying.

  • @sirjellyfish7501
    @sirjellyfish7501 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    11:40 I just want to say to NEVER use a normal person (not a actual therapist) as a private therapist, I do recommend if you do think you need a therapist to tell someone like your parents or close friends or family, but once you tell them GET A FRICKING THERAPIST. People are normally not able to help you with all the stuff you are going through. I understand some people out there need help, but seek that help from someone that can help you with your problems. BTW most of what I said is from Jaiden animations' video so here you go! th-cam.com/video/4H9jTQKmR3Q/w-d-xo.html

    • @ArcanineEspeon
      @ArcanineEspeon 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Your comment is hitting me so hard right now because I am literally in this situation. I'm 21 and my mental health is crap but a 17 year old boy who lives across the ocean has basically adopted me as his sister and therapist. He doesn't trust his family, authority figures, or paid professionals. I am currently begging him to see someone because he cut himself for the first time last week and he literally changed schools to escape bullying and then got bullied anyway and I am out of advice to give.
      He's all no, no, I'll be fine, I'd feel uncomfortable seeing someone, I'm supposed to solve my problems myself, but bro you LITERALLY SAID you think your problems are unsolvable, and you feel like absolute shit if I tell you I can't handle your problems
      My parents think he's taking advantage of me whether he means to or not, and as of tonight I've resolved to be a broken record until he looks to someone more qualified to help him, but I'm having no luck at all yet

    • @ArcanineEspeon
      @ArcanineEspeon 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yep, just as I finished typing the previous comment he messaged "I'm making you worry." Will I have any luck if I tell him "but you know what would make me stop worrying? You seeing a therapist or a support group!"? any hope I have now is probably irrational, but I'd better fucking send that message anyway!

    • @ArcanineEspeon
      @ArcanineEspeon 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wow I really needed to vent all that at 3:50 AM didn't i

  • @rafipearlman8849
    @rafipearlman8849 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    1:00 my mum has a Fashion degree and we’re doing just fine

  • @EndellionQT
    @EndellionQT 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    For the first story I was going to on first starting to listen say NTA because sure, especially for a person from outside the country, for a parent it would be natural to find out some idea of who they are and what their plans were. But oh my GOD did she take it way too far, some of her questions were way over the boundary line for what's appropriate and saying that he should break up and find a girl from HER church is controlling as f'k. Totally TA.

    • @boldanabrasevic3020
      @boldanabrasevic3020 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The beginning of your comment had me worried lol

  • @moz7617
    @moz7617 4 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    When she doesn't want to go to church

    • @nathanielperez576
      @nathanielperez576 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Not religious

    • @nathanielperez576
      @nathanielperez576 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm religious but the person in the story is not

    • @Roamingfirebat
      @Roamingfirebat 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Nathaniel Perez I’m also not religious and hate going to church. Damn place gives me headaches.

    • @FigureFarter
      @FigureFarter 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I'd rather be in school rather than church

    • @RedT...TheOriginal.NotANumber
      @RedT...TheOriginal.NotANumber 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I'm a Christian who doesn't like going to church. I don't need judgmental hypocrites and a heavily-edited book to tell me how to have a relationship with God.
      Not all Christians go to church, and not all church-goers are truly Christian. OP is clearly in the latter group, or she wouldn't focus so much on superficial aspects of her son's gf!

  • @karmageddon9047
    @karmageddon9047 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Kudos to that mom and boyfriend for talking together and getting a therapist for her daughter.

  • @peacefulinvasion684
    @peacefulinvasion684 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    "he should be with someone more suitable for our family"
    that one line says it all. She doesn't care about her sons happiness. Just about how daughter in law benifits the family.

  • @joanniebacus
    @joanniebacus 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Literally, from where I live, whenever you post a video, I'm already gonna go to sleep.

  • @jrstation4775
    @jrstation4775 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    In the first one the second I heard traditionally catholic I was like ok this is gonna be bad

    • @Roamingfirebat
      @Roamingfirebat 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same

    • @DamnItMantis
      @DamnItMantis 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What's wrong with being Catholic?

    • @LucarioBot
      @LucarioBot 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@DamnItMantis fanaticism

  • @jokerkxng6305
    @jokerkxng6305 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Anyone else trying to find the girl op sued

    • @rosemaryenloe9918
      @rosemaryenloe9918 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I am looking in the comments about that right now lmao. I want to know

  • @milespemberton7619
    @milespemberton7619 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love that OP moved their garden! Lmao that's badass and good for them. 🤣🤣

  • @welp3974
    @welp3974 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    10:12 this is like the "she asked for it, cuz' of what she was wearing" kinda argument. No one should be expected to make sure they dress a certain way, just to be safe from inappropriate behaviour.
    Edit: wrote this before I heard the response, happy others pointed it out

  • @toriistorii6939
    @toriistorii6939 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I mean, defamation be like *illegal* so idk what the ex in the second story was expecting really

    • @aaravos4371
      @aaravos4371 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Madd1e Lov3ly no that ex is still friends with her

    • @aaravos4371
      @aaravos4371 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Madd1e Lov3ly they made a video together

    • @aaravos4371
      @aaravos4371 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sometimes people are just better as friends

  • @CodyJonesXD
    @CodyJonesXD 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    OP#1(Despicable Mother, 0:05): Infinity/10 Buttholes.
    OP#2(Publicly Insulted, Legally Righted, 2:43): -Infinity/10 Buttholes.
    OP#3(Super Gardener, 5:04): -To Infinity And Beyond/10 Buttholes.
    OP#4(Doesn't Suit Me, 7:33): About You Being A Proper Mom: 3/10 Buttholes, About The Suits: Between *1/10 Buttholes* - *-1/10 Buttholes,* Daughter: 11/10 Buttholes (though not entirely her fault due to trauma).
    OP#5(Despicable Father, 13:44): Infinity/10 Buttholes *For Grounding Your Daughter,* -Infinity/10 *For Agreeing With Your Daughter,* *Lacey:* To Infinity And Beyond/10 Buttholes, *Madison:* -To Infinity And Beyond/ 10 Buttholes.

    • @bcfed
      @bcfed 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Op 3: 5:04

    • @bcfed
      @bcfed 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Op 4: 7:33

    • @bcfed
      @bcfed 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Op 5: 13:44

    • @CodyJonesXD
      @CodyJonesXD 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      bcfed_
      😃 Thank You! 😃

    • @theseyi
      @theseyi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I almost agree with you, but infinity/10 buttholes for grounding the daughter? Yikes, you let her speak how she wants with no consequences, that’s how you raise entitled and rude children. I had consequences when I insulted my parents, and I’m thankful for them punishing me when I did so. Letting your kids get away with whatever is not good parenting...it’s just not

  • @Taminaminaaa
    @Taminaminaaa 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I was in a rslash marathon and thought this was another old video and then I realized I‘ve never been this early 😅

  • @finalbossgamer5481
    @finalbossgamer5481 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ok, gonna say something about the garden one. The landlords got upset at op because Op took the stuff that OP put in the garden, that OP bought, and then OP's coworkers called them the asshole because OP didnt tell the landlords that OP was taking their own belongings? I'm glad Op moved. No one should have to deal with such idiots

  • @LongJoansRockNRollGlamHour
    @LongJoansRockNRollGlamHour 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    That story where OP blamed her partner for dressing in a suit sounds a lot like when a person gets really drunk to the point they have a seizure and the family blames their friend for bringing alcohol to their house and resulted in their adult child getting very drunk and ending up in hospital

  • @turtledude6454
    @turtledude6454 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    that guy who sued the youtuber is a legend

    • @silsilahwationg8908
      @silsilahwationg8908 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Whos the yt

    • @nineteen96
      @nineteen96 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@silsilahwationg8908 I tried looking for it but the closest I came to something similar is Lycette Cornejo

    • @silsilahwationg8908
      @silsilahwationg8908 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@nineteen96 ok i can check

    • @silsilahwationg8908
      @silsilahwationg8908 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@nineteen96 wait the vid sais that his suing him for 200,00grand he mention he just sued

    • @nineteen96
      @nineteen96 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@silsilahwationg8908 rip. Oh whale. Sorry

  • @kittikoko
    @kittikoko 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Love that the first one talks about how religious she is - yikes, has she ever even read her Bible?

  • @hanalexcranealister6799
    @hanalexcranealister6799 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    First Story: I’m 20 and virgin, wtf? Living with her next year? Am I too virgin to understand?

    • @ninjafaceify
      @ninjafaceify 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Not too virgin but you are kinda dumb....which is probably why you're still a virgin. They're moving in together next year isn't code for anything.....it just means they're moving in together next year

    • @dhruvaingale8718
      @dhruvaingale8718 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@ninjafaceify You're the dumb one here just saying

    • @chizzlebizzle1150
      @chizzlebizzle1150 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      They are literally living together next year.

  • @tomdean1876
    @tomdean1876 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    13:45
    Lmao I bet he got so blasted, he had to delete his account.

  • @angelofdusk13
    @angelofdusk13 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It's extremely common for kids to act out after being sexually assaulted, specifically by acting overly sexual. It has to do with being groomed and having their boundaries routinely and systemically crossed until they believe that kind of behavior is normal. I hope OP's daughter is able to heal and it sounds like OP's boyfriend is an amazing person who genuinely cares for not only OP, but her kids. I hope they're able to work through this and live happily as a family.

  • @rarachansugoidesu
    @rarachansugoidesu 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Is there an actual subreddit about people arguing about who's first on a TH-cam video? If not, there should be

    • @fishbucket8607
      @fishbucket8607 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      r/YoundPeopleTH-cam or whatever it is called

    • @fitmotheyap
      @fitmotheyap 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@fishbucket8607 r/YoungPeopleTH-cam

    • @rarachansugoidesu
      @rarachansugoidesu 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@fitmotheyap okay, thanks

  • @starfox_vt
    @starfox_vt 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Edit a while later;
    * That TH-camr ex is crazy as hell. I love it. XD

  • @janis7077
    @janis7077 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    First one is literally one of those crazy religious mothers, there has most likely been an entitledparents post about her.

  • @bestaround3323
    @bestaround3323 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I am so glad that the daughter got therapy, she was clearly coping in a highly unhealthy way.

  • @raarasunai4896
    @raarasunai4896 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    2:15 “He should be with someone more suitable for family in my opinion.” Okay….When did anyone ASK for your opinion?