If women don't want polygamy, why are they being side chic to married men? This same women that are complaining today were once side chic to married men when she was much younger and hot. 80% of married men that can afford a side have a side chic. Same way 80% of young girl are fine with dating married men.
You have a very valid point. I believe some women don't mind being in a polygamous relationship, but it should be communicated clearly by the man to his wife, before proceeding with another woman. Thanks your support 🙏
you are so right Claribell. Men should live their truth, but they rather live in lies then cause a lot of future damages. How are you doing? It's been awhile😊
Even if women are told the truth they will still marry these men hoping to change them. Focus on more important things for a woman as an individual should be the priority (yes, like a career or business and children).
It is wrong for who exactly, and can women marry themselves? You say polygamy is wrong on one hand, being a side chick is also wrong on the other hand! Can you also separate poverty from polygamy issues and focus on telling women to first empower themselves as opposed to spending time looking for men to lift them up the class of life? Busy and disciplined women cannot spend their lives trying to control their men. An no one is forced to stay with a man until he makes it up there in life- so no one should keep singing the song of 'I started low with you'. The man would still have succeeded with another person.
Your comment is so funny, yet well thought out. I clearly stated that Polygamy is a choice and there is nothing wrong with it if that's what the man wants , especially if his culture and religion allows it. But it should be communicated with your partner first. If she agrees great 👍 and If she doesn't let her decide want she wants . Polygamy should not be Forced on anyone especially if it wasn't discussed before the marriage. I also acknowledged the danger and stress that comes with polygamy if not properly managed. Overall it's a choice. Thanks for your comment 👍
@@justclaribelltv474 I agree with all you said, but I disagree with polygamy is BAD.. polygamy is as bad as monogamy.. it's all about the people practicing it and the fact that society being unwise view polygamy as promiscuity thereby demonising is.. as a biologist I'll kindly suggest you read books evolutionary biology and human sexual strategy.. men and women a promiscuity in nature.. but men are polygamous and have higher levels of testosterone while women are monogamous and have lower level of testosterone.. and you know how testosterone affect sex drive, the higher the testosterone, the higherthe sex drive.. plus menopause, plus the fact that by 30 a WOMAN has lost 80% of her reproductive EGGS but doesn't apply to MEN etc . I can go on and on.. if at all polygamy fails, it mostly fails out of the jealousy of the women and not the man.. but like I said any form of marriage will fail if the participants are not mature in their dealings..
@@justclaribelltv474@justclaribelltv474 I agree with all you said, but I disagree with polygamy is BAD.. polygamy is as bad as monogamy.. it's all about the people practicing it and the fact that society being unwise view polygamy as promiscuity thereby demonising is.. as a biologist I'll kindly suggest you read books evolutionary biology and human sexual strategy.. men and women a promiscuity in nature.. but men are polygamous and have higher levels of testosterone while women are monogamous and have lower level of testosterone.. and you know how testosterone affect sex drive, the higher the testosterone, the higherthe sex drive.. plus menopause, plus the fact that by 30 a WOMAN has lost 80% of her reproductive EGGS but doesn't apply to MEN etc . I can go on and on.. if at all polygamy fails, it mostly fails out of the jealousy of the women and not the man.. but like I said any form of marriage will fail if the participants are not mature in their dealings..
@@justclaribelltv474 Men don't have a prophetic gift to see how his life gonna pan out in years to come If a polygamous ideas pop up when he is already married, what should we say then? All in all, Women please normalize yourself with this idea. It's not new in Africa. So why treating it as if it's foreign ball game...!!? Statistically, there aren't enough men for all of you. Be humble and start sharing if the need arises.
Here is the part of polygny I dont get. Say from a traditional christian perspective. One extra kitty and never ever ever stray again? Faithful to BOTH women? Never flirt, never try to get another woman and all it takes is having two women and that would keep them NEVER wanting another woman?
You are actually very polarised. Its like you understand why men want to practise polygamy, it being their nature but you still say its wrong( by following there natural tendacies), belittling the whole practise to a sex crazed venture ( instead of it being about Grand Home building) and again you say that it is most mens' truth( meaning they are forced into monogamy, also sighting the bad side it with all these outside kids and all)....WHAT??? Should we be open about it and go for our GOD given potential to create big beautiful families or squash it to one woman and live to fulfil what women think a relationship should be like because they dont have the ability to create that unless they are partnering with another woman??
fine woman u dont have real info.... do more homework. 95% or more of men who marry one wife have a side chick or wish they do. research on why men will leave their wifes or bring another woman as a wife, even when they can keep them as side chick. this is a bog discussion, or self check if u have all the guns to pull the discussions. welldone.
The side chick thingy is not new, I mentioned it at the end of this video. Polygamy is a choice if you can afford it, but ensure you carry your wife along , you both should be in agreement. That's my message. Thanks for your support 🙏
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If women don't want polygamy, why are they being side chic to married men?
This same women that are complaining today were once side chic to married men when she was much younger and hot.
80% of married men that can afford a side have a side chic. Same way 80% of young girl are fine with dating married men.
You have a very valid point. I believe some women don't mind being in a polygamous relationship, but it should be communicated clearly by the man to his wife, before proceeding with another woman. Thanks your support 🙏
A decent and concious young woman would never even think twice about dating a married man. Husbands are out of boundaries...
you are so right Claribell. Men should live their truth, but they rather live in lies then cause a lot of future damages. How are you doing? It's been awhile😊
I'm good Kiarra! Thanks for asking, that's so sweet of you ☺
Even if women are told the truth they will still marry these men hoping to change them. Focus on more important things for a woman as an individual should be the priority (yes, like a career or business and children).
women cant handle the truth, if you don't know this, then you live in lies...😊
It is wrong for who exactly, and can women marry themselves? You say polygamy is wrong on one hand, being a side chick is also wrong on the other hand! Can you also separate poverty from polygamy issues and focus on telling women to first empower themselves as opposed to spending time looking for men to lift them up the class of life? Busy and disciplined women cannot spend their lives trying to control their men. An no one is forced to stay with a man until he makes it up there in life- so no one should keep singing the song of 'I started low with you'. The man would still have succeeded with another person.
Your comment is so funny, yet well thought out. I clearly stated that Polygamy is a choice and there is nothing wrong with it if that's what the man wants , especially if his culture and religion allows it. But it should be communicated with your partner first. If she agrees great 👍 and If she doesn't let her decide want she wants . Polygamy should not be Forced on anyone especially if it wasn't discussed before the marriage. I also acknowledged the danger and stress that comes with polygamy if not properly managed. Overall it's a choice. Thanks for your comment 👍
@@justclaribelltv474 I agree with all you said, but I disagree with polygamy is BAD.. polygamy is as bad as monogamy.. it's all about the people practicing it and the fact that society being unwise view polygamy as promiscuity thereby demonising is.. as a biologist I'll kindly suggest you read books evolutionary biology and human sexual strategy.. men and women a promiscuity in nature.. but men are polygamous and have higher levels of testosterone while women are monogamous and have lower level of testosterone.. and you know how testosterone affect sex drive, the higher the testosterone, the higherthe sex drive.. plus menopause, plus the fact that by 30 a WOMAN has lost 80% of her reproductive EGGS but doesn't apply to MEN etc . I can go on and on.. if at all polygamy fails, it mostly fails out of the jealousy of the women and not the man.. but like I said any form of marriage will fail if the participants are not mature in their dealings..
@@justclaribelltv474@justclaribelltv474 I agree with all you said, but I disagree with polygamy is BAD.. polygamy is as bad as monogamy.. it's all about the people practicing it and the fact that society being unwise view polygamy as promiscuity thereby demonising is.. as a biologist I'll kindly suggest you read books evolutionary biology and human sexual strategy.. men and women a promiscuity in nature.. but men are polygamous and have higher levels of testosterone while women are monogamous and have lower level of testosterone.. and you know how testosterone affect sex drive, the higher the testosterone, the higherthe sex drive.. plus menopause, plus the fact that by 30 a WOMAN has lost 80% of her reproductive EGGS but doesn't apply to MEN etc . I can go on and on.. if at all polygamy fails, it mostly fails out of the jealousy of the women and not the man.. but like I said any form of marriage will fail if the participants are not mature in their dealings..
@@justclaribelltv474
Men don't have a prophetic gift to see how his life gonna pan out in years to come
If a polygamous ideas pop up when he is already married, what should we say then?
All in all, Women please normalize yourself with this idea. It's not new in Africa. So why treating it as if it's foreign ball game...!!?
Statistically, there aren't enough men for all of you.
Be humble and start sharing if the need arises.
Here is the part of polygny I dont get. Say from a traditional christian perspective. One extra kitty and never ever ever stray again? Faithful to BOTH women? Never flirt, never try to get another woman and all it takes is having two women and that would keep them NEVER wanting another woman?
@@PumpkinboogersI see your point , they can never be satisfied 😌 discipline is key. Thanks for your support.
Two women cant work together? Why? Something wrong with woman?
It's doable if the man is mature enough to handle them wisely. No woman genuinely wants to share her man with another woman.
You are actually very polarised. Its like you understand why men want to practise polygamy, it being their nature but you still say its wrong( by following there natural tendacies), belittling the whole practise to a sex crazed venture ( instead of it being about Grand Home building) and again you say that it is most mens' truth( meaning they are forced into monogamy, also sighting the bad side it with all these outside kids and all)....WHAT??? Should we be open about it and go for our GOD given potential to create big beautiful families or squash it to one woman and live to fulfil what women think a relationship should be like because they dont have the ability to create that unless they are partnering with another woman??
fine woman u dont have real info.... do more homework. 95% or more of men who marry one wife have a side chick or wish they do. research on why men will leave their wifes or bring another woman as a wife, even when they can keep them as side chick. this is a bog discussion, or self check if u have all the guns to pull the discussions. welldone.
The side chick thingy is not new, I mentioned it at the end of this video. Polygamy is a choice if you can afford it, but ensure you carry your wife along , you both should be in agreement. That's my message. Thanks for your support 🙏