As someone who gets headaches from strong scents, I myself prefer lighter ones like just a deodorant or a light perfume. Colognes are usually stronger (ones I've smelled at least) and they give me a headache. So ofc I'm with Ashley on this one
Recently i was sitting in my house livingroom, and some neighbor went out and i don't know how much perfume he sprayed but it smelled so strong that i could smell it in the house😅😅
Let me simplify what she means 1. Smell nice but not overbearing 2. Have boundaries not walls 3. Be transparent 4. Call atleast once a day 5. Don’t take longer than her to get ready 6. Don’t have terrible dunk habits 7. Be interesting As a girl I think she just wants a nice person. It doesn’t look much upon thinking about it
I agree. She’s really not asking for much from her future partner. Guys are asking for what a girl likes in a man but are upset when she doesn’t say “Oh, I don’t know …” or “I get along with everybody, so you just be yourself, and I will love you without a sense of self no matter what.”
The boundaries thing and transparency is too subjective and actually for most Men (To be fair, I think for most women too), too demanding. "Knowing everything" to us often just means giving people ammo to shoot you. It can also come off as controlling and overbearing, might show lack of trust and trigger fear of her snooping which leads us to actually hide things that don't need to be hidden. Some proof of that is litteraly Ph saying: Respect my boundaries. Meaning you don't get to dictate what my boundaries should be either. Other than that it's all pretty fair I guess, Ashely is so cute xD
I also feel like some of those stuff are from experience, and she wants to make it clear that she won't stand for it. It's good that she knows what she wants
@@anyuan3040 I mean if you are not dating a person you trust to begin with then anything can become ammo. Dont date someone who cant trust with your darkest secrets and insecurites. That is a trust issue problem. Yes boundaries are good but being secretive is a problem for intimate relationship. There needs to be transperency for trust. But I also agree to your other points as well.When taken too far it is controlling and over bearing. ( also i dont mean to argue I just wanted to add onto what you already said some other nuance) because i definetly see where you are coming from
@@rene3759 I don't know, I agree but I also think that full trust is also something that can be built and gained throughout the relationship, couples who love each other don't need to start out perfect and something that's definitely going to hinder that trust building is pressure and pushing boundaries carelessly and abusively. There is also that female nature that is very real for us Men, not all women are like this but a lot are simply nasty and when hurt due to their lack of physical strength will resort to other means to hurt you back even if they are in the wrong, those other means often include your deepest feelings, insecurities, fears, regrets etc you entrusted to them, they are also very vengeful even if illegitimately and enjoy "exposing" their partner after a break up just to get back at him, sometimes they do that to an ex out of jealousy of their success after a break up in an attempt to rob them of that success etc, that's why I advise other men to exercise caution when trusting their partner, the reality, most men live their whole life with the woman they love (Yes LOVE), get married, have kids and die happy without ever showing them their true deepest self not of fear of being hurt or anything but of fear of one day losing the relationship when she goes through a tough time and decides to hurt you with what you entrusted her with, showing a certain hypocrisy and lying nature that just makes it impossible to stay with that partner anymore and nobody wants to lose their love that way, not worth it. I don't know if I explained our thought process well enough but that's what it is in a nutshell.
Both their lists are absolutely reasonable, they're just written from two different perspectives of people with different personal values, which I find incredibly interesting
Nr. 2 and 3 of Ashley's List is like universal for every women. 😂😂 And I love Harry's face to it. We love gossip and we don't actually like bad boys, only people who look like bad boys but are really cute and polite to us.
No, it’s not universal for every woman at all. That’s not my type. I don’t need to know everything. Actually getting to know little things here and there is much more fun, for me. I also just like nice guys, period. I don’t need the whole “bad boy” look. My type is pretty much the exact same as Ph-1 description.
Harry’s are legitimate character traits, like things you could never settle down with someone if they didn’t have. I feel like (aside from the violence part) those are all fairly negotiable/superficial things. Like, they may not have those things, sure, but they’re still worthy of being your partner. Being “interesting” is also incredibly objective. People often surprise you with their inner complexities.
Wouldn't it be more subjective than objective? I mean what each individual finds interesting depends on their preferences. Like some people might find sci-fi fans interesting and nature people boring, and others might find the oppsite.
NO smelling good is not superficial, Hygiene is important also for health. Anyone can be "worthy" for being a partner. But its important to not see people as objects to have worth to begin with or as something you have to earn or have the "right to deserve" because xyz. Everyone has their own standards. You might be perfect for one person but another person you would be dysfunctional with or not compatible. Its not about worthy its about compatability. Also all humans have complexities just doesnt mean that will be interesting or understandable or compatible. I think plants are cool but i dont have an interest to spend years studying plants like some other people would doesnt mean plants are unintersting its just not my passion. The same goes for differnt kinds of people. I know I can be deathly boring to others but i have also met people who find me even more interesting then i ever thought I am which even suprises me.
but Ashley is right she just explained what she meant that's all 😂 personally I get nauseous when someone has sprayed too much perfume so I agree with you Ashley
Yeah what Ashley said! I mean what Harry said is true in General, but what Ashley said is like, Personally, Intimately, ya know? You can keep your secrets tho I dont mind but if you cheat you will suffer my wrath then.
Honestly, the drunk habits one is a fantastic reason. I dated a violent alcoholic when I was 17-21 and still have nightmares about him almost 4 years later and am terrified of my current boyfriend even having one beer because I'm convinced he'll turn into a monster. Stay safe, ladies!!!
"I want to hear your voice at least once a day, when I wake up or before I go to sleep, but preferably both" idk why I laughed so hard after Ashley said this but girl same I get it 🤣🤣
PH-1's list are just my basic expectations out of people id be ok being around, in general. And Ashley's are the nitty gritty things I'd want from my partner, no amount of politeness will make them be not violent drinkers so 🤷🏻♀️
I relate to Ph-1, I swear my list is literally the EXACT same as his list😳 Even better, my reaction to Ashley’s list was the same as his reaction too 👀🌚 lol
Get real just got real.. but in a real note ( no pun intended) women have so much requirements because logically we have much more to lose when we're in a relationship... U can argue it if u want, idc... But PH-1s face says it all. He's praying for the dude who'll end up with Ashley 🤣🤣🤣
that's why you end up losing track of the actual important things by trying to tick off every unnecessary box and mismanaging yourself the way kpop companies mismanage your faves
The truth is, Ashley's list (or every girl) is assuming that the guy is already have manners, is a responsible person, not a psycho, etc. that is equal to harry's list while Harry's list (or every guy) is already assumed that the girl looks nice and the list his given is on top of that.
Ashley be like: "be interesting... but not enough to get everyone's attention" 😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂😂
Seriously. I was like WTF is that list of ideal type. This is like 12 year old dream guy
“Be tall, but so tall that a boy climbs up your beanstalk and steals our gold.”
Sounds like a red flag to me 😂
ph-1 had a clipboard ashley had a whole book
Bro had a sticky note
😂😂
When you relate more to ph1's type list but also want what ashley wants😂😂😂
😂😂 sh**
Literally 😂
💯💯💯😂😂😂😂
Ashley is everything that guy can ask for honestly 😮
Not me
It's your own opinion
Don't push it to other people
I mean whoever can meet one of Ashley’s requirements, better live up to it lol
Nah!!! She is not
@@anonymousop6406 lie again
@@KiritoHamiltonKPop from full honesty she doesn't seem like who can be a good partner..
I relate to Ashley's list on a personal level 😂
Lmao
She literally described my ideal type
@@ijustwantedtoknowtheirname8764 z
Same here sis 🤣😭😭
@@ijustwantedtoknowtheirname8764 fucking true 😭🤣
She’s right you should be noticed not smelled. Some people spray way too much perfume/cologne on themselves😭😭😭
As someone who gets headaches from strong scents, I myself prefer lighter ones like just a deodorant or a light perfume. Colognes are usually stronger (ones I've smelled at least) and they give me a headache. So ofc I'm with Ashley on this one
Recently i was sitting in my house livingroom, and some neighbor went out and i don't know how much perfume he sprayed but it smelled so strong that i could smell it in the house😅😅
@@alaeslife103sprayed the whole bottle
@@alaeslife103OMG, If you can smell it that far..Then, I don't wanna know how hazardous your neighbour's house at that point 🤣🤣.
Ashley’s 4-6 is not much to ask for tbh😂
It is
I mean, she's not asking for a lot
I hope that’s sarcasm 👀😂
IKR!!!!
She's like Goldilocks looking for that porridge that's juuuuust right lol. But she knows what she wants. Can't judge her for that.
yeah, she's not asking for a lot, she's just VERY specific.
She wrote him a whole script..
Let me simplify what she means
1. Smell nice but not overbearing
2. Have boundaries not walls
3. Be transparent
4. Call atleast once a day
5. Don’t take longer than her to get ready
6. Don’t have terrible dunk habits
7. Be interesting
As a girl I think she just wants a nice person. It doesn’t look much upon thinking about it
I agree. She’s really not asking for much from her future partner.
Guys are asking for what a girl likes in a man but are upset when she doesn’t say “Oh, I don’t know …” or “I get along with everybody, so you just be yourself, and I will love you without a sense of self no matter what.”
The boundaries thing and transparency is too subjective and actually for most Men (To be fair, I think for most women too), too demanding. "Knowing everything" to us often just means giving people ammo to shoot you. It can also come off as controlling and overbearing, might show lack of trust and trigger fear of her snooping which leads us to actually hide things that don't need to be hidden.
Some proof of that is litteraly Ph saying: Respect my boundaries. Meaning you don't get to dictate what my boundaries should be either.
Other than that it's all pretty fair I guess, Ashely is so cute xD
I also feel like some of those stuff are from experience, and she wants to make it clear that she won't stand for it. It's good that she knows what she wants
@@anyuan3040 I mean if you are not dating a person you trust to begin with then anything can become ammo. Dont date someone who cant trust with your darkest secrets and insecurites. That is a trust issue problem. Yes boundaries are good but being secretive is a problem for intimate relationship. There needs to be transperency for trust. But I also agree to your other points as well.When taken too far it is controlling and over bearing. ( also i dont mean to argue I just wanted to add onto what you already said some other nuance) because i definetly see where you are coming from
@@rene3759 I don't know, I agree but I also think that full trust is also something that can be built and gained throughout the relationship, couples who love each other don't need to start out perfect and something that's definitely going to hinder that trust building is pressure and pushing boundaries carelessly and abusively. There is also that female nature that is very real for us Men, not all women are like this but a lot are simply nasty and when hurt due to their lack of physical strength will resort to other means to hurt you back even if they are in the wrong, those other means often include your deepest feelings, insecurities, fears, regrets etc you entrusted to them, they are also very vengeful even if illegitimately and enjoy "exposing" their partner after a break up just to get back at him, sometimes they do that to an ex out of jealousy of their success after a break up in an attempt to rob them of that success etc, that's why I advise other men to exercise caution when trusting their partner, the reality, most men live their whole life with the woman they love (Yes LOVE), get married, have kids and die happy without ever showing them their true deepest self not of fear of being hurt or anything but of fear of one day losing the relationship when she goes through a tough time and decides to hurt you with what you entrusted her with, showing a certain hypocrisy and lying nature that just makes it impossible to stay with that partner anymore and nobody wants to lose their love that way, not worth it.
I don't know if I explained our thought process well enough but that's what it is in a nutshell.
I CAN'T WITH THEIR FACES 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Ashley's list means she's been through some stuff. Same.
Peniel nodding to Harry's standards and Wtf to Ashley's 🤣😅
The classical music when he's reading his list 😂😂 you guys are the best editors fr
the "bad boy on the outside, but soft on the inside" is so trueee
When ph1 was talking the freaking background was so peaceful and calming😂
The base level vs premium subscription.
Talk about Getting Real lol 😂
Ph-1: respect boundaries
Ashley: no secrets😂😂
This is why they are all friends and definitely not ever gonna be in a relationship
Ph-1 : *wrote one page*
Ashley : *wrote whole book*
She is the ambassador of woman thought out loud 😂😂😂😂😂
Harry has these mixed looks of disbelief written on his face and Peniel's is confusion.
She’s so real for this
Both their lists are absolutely reasonable, they're just written from two different perspectives of people with different personal values, which I find incredibly interesting
Nr. 2 and 3 of Ashley's List is like universal for every women. 😂😂 And I love Harry's face to it.
We love gossip and we don't actually like bad boys, only people who look like bad boys but are really cute and polite to us.
No, it’s not universal for every woman at all.
That’s not my type. I don’t need to know everything. Actually getting to know little things here and there is much more fun, for me. I also just like nice guys, period. I don’t need the whole “bad boy” look.
My type is pretty much the exact same as Ph-1 description.
@@ammytherese8351 same, my type is also what ph-1 said; just a simple, sincere person.
@@vmrichsame :) idk why women like to project their shit on others.
What does look like a bad boy mean?
Yes! I want them to look slightly intimidating to everyone but act all cute and soft with me
🤣🤣🤣🤣 PH here with his appropriate list with piano song. Ashley shocked them both 🤣🤣🤣
Harry’s are legitimate character traits, like things you could never settle down with someone if they didn’t have. I feel like (aside from the violence part) those are all fairly negotiable/superficial things. Like, they may not have those things, sure, but they’re still worthy of being your partner.
Being “interesting” is also incredibly objective. People often surprise you with their inner complexities.
Wouldn't it be more subjective than objective? I mean what each individual finds interesting depends on their preferences. Like some people might find sci-fi fans interesting and nature people boring, and others might find the oppsite.
@@kaylapounds1359 it’s really both so sure
NO smelling good is not superficial, Hygiene is important also for health. Anyone can be "worthy" for being a partner. But its important to not see people as objects to have worth to begin with or as something you have to earn or have the "right to deserve" because xyz. Everyone has their own standards. You might be perfect for one person but another person you would be dysfunctional with or not compatible. Its not about worthy its about compatability. Also all humans have complexities just doesnt mean that will be interesting or understandable or compatible. I think plants are cool but i dont have an interest to spend years studying plants like some other people would doesnt mean plants are unintersting its just not my passion. The same goes for differnt kinds of people. I know I can be deathly boring to others but i have also met people who find me even more interesting then i ever thought I am which even suprises me.
Those are pretty specific points😂I love it
*PH-1 has left the chat
Ashley came with a detailed essay and a powerpoint presentation.
the delivery of “no secrets, i wanna know Everything” and then the laughter makes me laugh every time
I want to date PH-1 😭😭 that’s exactly my type too! I literally put boundaries on my profile since guys don’t understand it.
Bro looked close to tears 💀
Ashley's embodied being realistic
Hmmm really cause I think it's unrealistic
Im a woman so i know…
When she talked about the secrets, I was like “that’s exactly the opposite of his point about having his boundaries respected” hahaha
like she's not asking for much. showering, not being violent and communicating with the partner is the minimum for a relationship
The silence was so loud
but Ashley is right she just explained what she meant that's all 😂 personally I get nauseous when someone has sprayed too much perfume so I agree with you Ashley
He looks traumatized 😂😂
But she's asking for the bare minimum 😂
Not only does Ashley know what she wants, but she knows how to present it! Put something short and sweet at the end just to wrap it all together!
I loved his list. He gives me hope.
Yeah what Ashley said! I mean what Harry said is true in General, but what Ashley said is like, Personally, Intimately, ya know? You can keep your secrets tho I dont mind but if you cheat you will suffer my wrath then.
the way soobeanie said YASS just sending me like yes gurl PERIOD😌💅🏻
Ph-1 ‘s list is so chill and broad, in Ashley’s she knows what she wants and I’m here for it
Honestly, the drunk habits one is a fantastic reason. I dated a violent alcoholic when I was 17-21 and still have nightmares about him almost 4 years later and am terrified of my current boyfriend even having one beer because I'm convinced he'll turn into a monster. Stay safe, ladies!!!
Dudes list was just a sentence and made me understand while Ashley's list was an essay filled with empahsis she made me speechless 😂😂😂 i cant even 😅
"I want to hear your voice at least once a day, when I wake up or before I go to sleep, but preferably both" idk why I laughed so hard after Ashley said this but girl same I get it 🤣🤣
If you combine both, you’ll have the ideal partner
Be interesting got me dieing because the one before 😂😂😂😂😂
Oh Ashley. I love ya, but I'm like the guys. Silent with the side eye. XD
Love the shock on their faces
PH-1's list are just my basic expectations out of people id be ok being around, in general. And Ashley's are the nitty gritty things I'd want from my partner, no amount of politeness will make them be not violent drinkers so 🤷🏻♀️
I still cackle like a dying hyena every damn time this pops up.
I relate to Ph-1, I swear my list is literally the EXACT same as his list😳
Even better, my reaction to Ashley’s list was the same as his reaction too 👀🌚 lol
She's basically asking for a simple and considerate functioning adult with boundaries. HAHAHAHAH
ashley literally gets real. i like her.
this will forever be my ultimate episode for get real 😂
it more like every girl's type..rather then Ashley's at this point!!!!! >
its like shes looking for the right planet to create life.
Ashley is so reltable OMG 😂 ❤
Ashley's ideal type is way too much information like gurl why😂😂😂😂
I love how The guys looks says it all. After her first one 🤦🏽♂️oh shit she’s one of those.
Ngl being told you smell nice without wearing perfume is a compliment. I literally have a whole routine to smell nice after I shower.
Ashley list was scaring the boys 😂😂 but I can relate to Ashley's list tho
The girl matched the description being superficial 😂
Ashley is so real for this 😂
😂😂😂 I love her but harry omg his reactions are everything lol I love him 🧡
Ph-1 smile is so CUTE 🤭💓✨✨✨
The boys were done with Ashley's shit. 😂
They're giving her that "She dying alone" stare LMAOoooooooo
Get real just got real.. but in a real note ( no pun intended) women have so much requirements because logically we have much more to lose when we're in a relationship... U can argue it if u want, idc... But PH-1s face says it all. He's praying for the dude who'll end up with Ashley 🤣🤣🤣
😂😂Good luck with any guy can meet that requirement
"we have much more to lose" what do you mean with this?
@@Juli-ow5uc yea I wanna know too cuz I’m confused
"logically" let's hear some logic
that's why you end up losing track of the actual important things by trying to tick off every unnecessary box and mismanaging yourself the way kpop companies mismanage your faves
Ashley was so real with that though. You gotta find that balance!! 😂😂
The guys too stunned to speak hahahah
Ashley is every fantasy man that every reader has ever created
No secrets I wanna know everything 😂😂😂 she real for that
No because the most relatable thing I’ve ever heard
How is not a single person talking about “no secrets, i wanna know everything” lmao. Would be very yikes if it wasn’t a joke
I LOVE THE DIFFERENCE 😭😭😭
aspirational vs honesty
Ashley’s so gangsta and I love it!
Detailed , that's what ladies are
Ashley’s just said my type 😂. Be interesting was so true. I want surprises and small treats😂 and by the way you can be interesting in many ways
pH1: values based, Ashley: wants based.....
Peniels "WTF.." and pH-1's look is literally my reaction on Ashley's list 🤣🤣
Ashley's list is my personal list 😭
Like even the other girl lowkey agreed 😂
The truth is, Ashley's list (or every girl) is assuming that the guy is already have manners, is a responsible person, not a psycho, etc. that is equal to harry's list while Harry's list (or every guy) is already assumed that the girl looks nice and the list his given is on top of that.
👆This👆
This needs more likes.
Ph-1 is honestly my choices in women too
Harry's face the whole time Ashley was reading was priceless 😂😂😂
The silence is loud 💀
Ashley is on point
Loved the girl expectations ❤️ 😍
I relate to Ashley, I mean she not asking a lot! 😂
I wanna know EVERYTHING🤣🤣
Ashley is too much. She left them completely stunned. He looks confounded.😂😂😂😂
She perfectly captured it all😂
When I thought that ph1 list is already quiet long, turned out that Ash has the whole store lmao
Why do i feel like she has at least on person specifically in mind when listing these points
Ig she was describing her current partner the one she revealed on her resent wine spill
she’s so real
She asked for a bare minimum. Just desribed it too specific. 😂