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Thank you ladies for this raw reality conversation, because it is needed. May you all continue to be blessed and continue to do your best by healing families. I love Lisa, she doesn't mince words and I would love to hear 1 day that she has her own Podcast. Blessings to you all and looking forward to watching in the future. South African in America.
The kids may despise the father later in life if Kamo and the dad continue with this kind of behaviour. The kids are disempowered at the moment, they depend on their dad and, they might even be afraid to ask visit their mom. and I wonder if there's proper or honest communication between the kids, dad and stepmom? This is bad. 😔
Good installment ladies this was so empowering and also as a step mom myself to do self-introspection with regards to my roles and contributions of where we are now as a blended family and taking out lesson to empower my future decisions
The WORST part of this whole situation is that the 3 boys stay with the paternal grandma. Only the girl stays with the 'happy' couple. They separated the siblings, the older boys travel from Hamanskraal to Kempton park for school. How cruel is the dad? The madam even goes far as saying God gave her daughter without her losing her figure. She is a participant in the whole cruelty of the dad. The 3 boys only visit the dad and the wife weekends and holidays (that's when they shoot blended family content). They are cruel and may life judge them harshly.
😢😢Yoh, that's worse mos. This Kamo girl is going to regret this big time. She knows Koki didn't do anything to deserve this, she knows. And hubby's mother why is she agreeing to this arrangement??
Promise congrats.... You have really taken this channel to an interesting platform for tough conversations, safe spaces for people sharing their stories. Well done....
Beautiful ladies and a good conversation. Serious matters that require honest and diverse perspectives. Hope we get more of these. Good work Miss Promise 👏👏👏
Thank you sis Promise and guests. This conversation was wholesome ...I wish we could have more of these red-table uncomfortable conversations. It made me look at my own faults/red flags too. Danko bafazi!
Great conversation ladies - so well balanced. I can so relate to Lilly, I suffered abuse at the hands of a woman who pretended (to my mother and the world) that she loved me. On the issue of not posting pictures of your step children, while it might be the right thing to do out of respect for the biological mother, let's also consider how it might make the step child feel excluded, that she's not part of the "blended" family - just seeing pictures of step mom and her children at their exclusion. It's a complicated matter that requires open communication among all concerned parties..Great discussion ladies. Kudos to you, Promise.
Looking at her content, now I realized that she might have also avenging to her ex husband at the expense of Koki's emotions with her kids. Its just my opinion
Topics like this are so important and so sad😢 I always say parents are selfish especially the males, in everything that's happening they forget about the kids mental well-being, now kids grow up with childhood traumas😢
On the statement the couple mentioned that the mother said she may move to another province, she can move with the kids or he may stay with them full-time" and the father ran to court immediately, why though? The mom wasn't even fighting.. she basically said "should I get an offer in another province, you may stay with the kids full time of you want". This shows that the ex wife was co-parenting and communicating well..but got bullied, sounds like the ex husband is just bitter
As a child you will end up feeling rejected, there is nothing that is painful like feeling that your mother rejected you. I had that with my father and it broke me for life, imagen a mother.
This conversation was such an eye-opener. I like the part where you guys were saying, "When are we gonna require the men to be responsible for their part?" a billion-dollar question
No!She is not a good stepmother cos if she was she was not gonna use the children for content or for her to gain followers,she is doing qll of these things for her own benefits or also to win the husband over and she is not building for the long run😢❤
No, every situation has its own merits. Some step mothers are good. With this lady here, it's her aunt remember, who has definitely been jealous of her sister's life.
Hey, that's sick and hateful man. That sister was always jealous of the married one, she wanted her life. She's evil, and karma will sort her out. Look how thriving this girl is.
It's funny how he will leave her with d step kids in d house n go cheat angitsi yena she wants to babysit,this man is going to embarrass her now its its still new trust mi this man is going to show her flames
This story triggered me so bad yhooh😢I'm the ex wife whose kids were taken away from her and it took me 6yrs to get them back and our lives were ruined forever.....I'm now happily married and in a blended family,i would never do that to another woman it's cruel 💔
The sad reality and other people still thinking that those things doesn't happen, ur story it's painful n we thank God for restoration I hope cc Koki also will get her kids soon❤
Maybe he ddnt want to,maybe kamos forced him,maybe she has also been forcing him to let koki fetch the kids...Mothusi is the problem in all of this,but nah,people are attacking kamo...He is the 1 who took the kids,He is the 1 giving kamo the permission to post,maybe kamo ddnt even think koki will see the vids,maybe they dont even communicate let alone follow each other...but we will keep guessing. Those 3 are the once who knows whats going on
@@reneilwemorobe8204mara Kamo is perputating the situation. She is still disregarding feelings , how are you as a wife comfortable with your husband ex approaching the courts just to see her kids.
To the third lady was your step mom your mom’s biological sister? 💔. Yhoo this conversation triggered me but I really enjoyed hearing the different perspectives.
The beautiful Lulu says she's opposed to posting the step kids. Kore being a step mom is hell...as a mom with a step child should i post mine alone I'll be accused to not wanting my husband's kid also that admin of remembering not to post because "abantu bazothini"
@kgomotsomaleme1320 so you just want money ,you don't want kids to have relationship with their father,and if the father is married mos the other women will have to have relationship with the kids.
@@kgomotsomaleme1320 they want to have relationship with their children, not everything is about money ,so you only want money from them?you don't want them to have relationship with their father, and if the father is married the wife will have to have relationship with the kids obviously.
She had to mention her "Brànd" ..because the initial video it was mentioned, yena kamo oo wao etsa manala..You cannot court her reaction..🙄🙄....i honestly wish she never posted those kids and hear yal complain still🤷♀️
You took Koki’s statement about Kamo being a technician out of context,she had good point how can Kamo and her husband diagnose her as mental unstable when they are not Psychologists or Psychiatrist?it’s the same as you can’t go to Gynea for a toothache cause a Gynae would’nt know how to treat a toothache but a dentist will.
@LangelihleNgema "KAMO OK WATENG"...Yal know pretty well she was coming side ways but aker its about the kids????So many things said by koki screamed mean Girl energy but retlareng??
@@reneilwemorobe8204Both Kamo and Mothusi did,in the courts documents it was said Kamo was the one communicating with Social workers about the Koki it is in writing,Kamo was the one having conversations with the social worker about Koki hence Koki said what she said.
Sliding off a bit. So in the case that Bana a ba batle go ya ko mma Bona.... They cry blue murder, do we insist? Or mma Bana doesn't want the kids n the dad n new wife ba batla a ba tseye?
In this instance, it wasn't the case because the standing arrangements always worked for years, until kamo got married, then her kids were uprooted without mom's knowledge during the holidays.
Our hypocrisy as women through🫣 We pray for our exes to meet ppl who will love our kids like we do and when it happens we wanna put Ts & Cs - Kamo was posting her kids too. The kids are being treated equally in those videos and they eat from the "same pot"🤷🏽♀️ Before the Koki vs Kamo saga their was a Ex Husband vs Koki saga which has not been resolved. Men get away with murder shame🫣
How do you know the kids are being treated equally just from a 5 minute video?also why do they separated the kids?they only live with the girl and the boys live with their granparents how is that equal?also for a mother not to have access to her kids or even a phone call is not right!!
Personally no one is allowed to post my child on social media without my consent. Kamo is wrong by doing that. I just feel like she should let Koki and the guy deal with their issues because truly speaking ga tsene gope. And it seems like she's not ready to put herself in that woman's shoes and defend her as motswadi Leena. In my opinion posting her kids without consent is wrong shem especially when you don't even talk with the mother. She should show some respect, that's all. As for that husband he is cruel nje. O nale mowa o mpe that guy🚮.
Key word "Personally". The husband should have stopped Kamo if he felt it was wrong by not speaking her he has "consented" - him and Koki share equal rights where the kids are concerned.
@@mphotoniamosotho3545Okay true... Then why are they denying her access if they have Equal rights?🤷🏾😂😂😂 You see how messed up that is, and now she goes ahead and posts kids that are not hers on social media. That is very disrespectful and weird🤦🏾😂😂😂😂. The kids Koki carried for 9 months and now Kamo wa iketsetsa ka bona and they expect her to be okay? 😂😂😂😂Madness! 🤞🏾
I feel like you should have been neutral had ppl that also thing kamo was not wrong at this whole thing.. "i mean team kamo" now having 1 sided ppl was also not fair... But atleast u mentioned hore ur opinion doesnt mean you rite🤷♀️waa still gng to be nyc if it was like debate typer thing Stand to be corrected
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Mrs Law i am so proud of you ❤️ 🤭 ❤️ I love this round table episode ❤May The Good Lord Continue To Bless You With Creative Ideas❤
Guys Let's Get The Own Narrative Podvast To 100K before 2024 Ends. Halala 💃 💃 Own Narrative Podcast Halala ❤
Promise Makunyane….stand up and take a now. You are doing well and it’s good and inspiring to see
Thank you ladies for this raw reality conversation, because it is needed. May you all continue to be blessed and continue to do your best by healing families. I love Lisa, she doesn't mince words and I would love to hear 1 day that she has her own Podcast. Blessings to you all and looking forward to watching in the future. South African in America.
Kamo is too forward and impulsive in all this. She needs to lay back and support the husband behind the scenes. The husband should take the lead.
Exactly!!🙂↔️but ke okare she’s the man of the house
The podcasts that we need to watch...we learn..I salute you ladies
Well done basadi ba heso
Kamo I'm sure you take the advice
A touchy one. Love and light to Koki and her children❤
The kids may despise the father later in life if Kamo and the dad continue with this kind of behaviour. The kids are disempowered at the moment, they depend on their dad and, they might even be afraid to ask visit their mom. and I wonder if there's proper or honest communication between the kids, dad and stepmom? This is bad. 😔
Ngoanyanaka❤ u took it to another level. Class personified ❤
Absolutely loved this round table❤😊
Good installment ladies this was so empowering and also as a step mom myself to do self-introspection with regards to my roles and contributions of where we are now as a blended family and taking out lesson to empower my future decisions
"at the end of the day" i enjoyed her commentary😂😂😂😂 at the end of the day.....good show guys
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Yey Promise you are BEAUTIFUL MA'AM ...❤❤
The WORST part of this whole situation is that the 3 boys stay with the paternal grandma. Only the girl stays with the 'happy' couple. They separated the siblings, the older boys travel from Hamanskraal to Kempton park for school. How cruel is the dad? The madam even goes far as saying God gave her daughter without her losing her figure. She is a participant in the whole cruelty of the dad.
The 3 boys only visit the dad and the wife weekends and holidays (that's when they shoot blended family content).
They are cruel and may life judge them harshly.
😢😢Yoh, that's worse mos. This Kamo girl is going to regret this big time. She knows Koki didn't do anything to deserve this, she knows. And hubby's mother why is she agreeing to this arrangement??
Promise congrats.... You have really taken this channel to an interesting platform for tough conversations, safe spaces for people sharing their stories. Well done....
Beautiful ladies and a good conversation. Serious matters that require honest and diverse perspectives. Hope we get more of these. Good work Miss Promise 👏👏👏
This is beautiful hle! Congratulations Promise Makunyane🎉🎉
Best studio for the best round table topic.. Great guests
Thank you sis Promise and guests. This conversation was wholesome ...I wish we could have more of these red-table uncomfortable conversations. It made me look at my own faults/red flags too. Danko bafazi!
Lisa your story hurts deeply💔 I feel what your mom went through, i feel you ,jo 🥲
I really enjoyed this conversation. Well done Promise.
Great conversation ladies - so well balanced. I can so relate to Lilly, I suffered abuse at the hands of a woman who pretended (to my mother and the world) that she loved me. On the issue of not posting pictures of your step children, while it might be the right thing to do out of respect for the biological mother, let's also consider how it might make the step child feel excluded, that she's not part of the "blended" family - just seeing pictures of step mom and her children at their exclusion. It's a complicated matter that requires open communication among all concerned parties..Great discussion ladies. Kudos to you, Promise.
Looking at her content, now I realized that she might have also avenging to her ex husband at the expense of Koki's emotions with her kids. Its just my opinion
Topics like this are so important and so sad😢 I always say parents are selfish especially the males, in everything that's happening they forget about the kids mental well-being, now kids grow up with childhood traumas😢
Give Promise her flowers 💕💕💕 enjoooooooyed this ❤️
U can say that a million times...Mrs Law 🫡🫶
On the statement the couple mentioned that the mother said she may move to another province, she can move with the kids or he may stay with them full-time" and the father ran to court immediately, why though? The mom wasn't even fighting.. she basically said "should I get an offer in another province, you may stay with the kids full time of you want". This shows that the ex wife was co-parenting and communicating well..but got bullied, sounds like the ex husband is just bitter
Thank you ladies for this topic 🙏🙏🙏
❤❤Love the platform you're doing a great job
Promise looking stunning ❤
Mmmmmm Mmmmmm.. You guys agree a lot.. But I also agree with you all.. We need to think before we do anything..
Promise you are the girl you think you are. Thank you for the round table discussion. You deserve flowers 💐.
Absolutely, she's a very smart young lady. Kudos to Promise.
As a child you will end up feeling rejected, there is nothing that is painful like feeling that your mother rejected you. I had that with my father and it broke me for life, imagen a mother.
Thank you ladies for your views on this issue, such a well balanced discussion.
Hahaha that sarcastic "I trust you" by Promise.... Love it..... Trust his wisdom nhanha....
When women collaborate, 💪
🎉🎉 to our first episode❤
Thnks so much Sesi Promise You are doing a great job❤
First of all Promise this is absolutely amazing we are truly proud keep up the good work sesi we are behind you 100%
❤❤well done Promise what a good conversation 👏
This conversation was such an eye-opener. I like the part where you guys were saying, "When are we gonna require the men to be responsible for their part?" a billion-dollar question
I love this for Promise ,well done ❤
Wow this is Promise I love talking about real matter big up sister ❤❤❤❤❤❤
The young lady had a difficult life. Oh my God
The white lady neh😢But she's so resilient. I love her spirit.
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So proud of you Ma-Moletsane
We love the round table Mrs Law ❤❤❤
Yoh love this 🫰... Promise Promise ❤❤❤ what u are doing is beautiful girly ❤❤
No!She is not a good stepmother cos if she was she was not gonna use the children for content or for her to gain followers,she is doing qll of these things for her own benefits or also to win the husband over and she is not building for the long run😢❤
My thoughts as well she was not suppose to read the statement. It's gave vibes that she is in control and trying to defend herself
This was such a beautiful and wholesome discussion. Keep it up Promise, bring more ❤❤❤
Promise you doing a great job well done!
For every camera there's a pose n a cheese.
Nice one Ladies 😊
Well done 😊promise
No no no step mothers don't give anything better than the biological mother
No, every situation has its own merits. Some step mothers are good. With this lady here, it's her aunt remember, who has definitely been jealous of her sister's life.
We can’t hear you ladies, and this is an interesting topic
Side ladies, step mothers know your limits and boundaries when it comes to your man ex partner.
People are bold shem...where do one get the audacity to sleep with their sister's man😢😢
@@Theincredibleme-98 , the audacity, the liver...
Hey, that's sick and hateful man. That sister was always jealous of the married one, she wanted her life. She's evil, and karma will sort her out. Look how thriving this girl is.
It's funny how he will leave her with d step kids in d house n go cheat angitsi yena she wants to babysit,this man is going to embarrass her now its its still new trust mi this man is going to show her flames
One thing you'll never do is shame Promise because she always tells her story, the good and ugly😂🎉
Eish Kamo bana baye gae serious 😢😢
Mothusi aise bana gae,kamo gaana matla ao😒....
This story triggered me so bad yhooh😢I'm the ex wife whose kids were taken away from her and it took me 6yrs to get them back and our lives were ruined forever.....I'm now happily married and in a blended family,i would never do that to another woman it's cruel 💔
❤Askies. I'm happy things worked out for you. Evil people's true colours always comes out.
@Blessed_for_life_2023 thank you🥺
The sad reality and other people still thinking that those things doesn't happen, ur story it's painful n we thank God for restoration I hope cc Koki also will get her kids soon❤
If you saw facial expression of the husband when Kamo was reading the statement was as if he doesn't want to be there,????
Maybe he ddnt want to,maybe kamos forced him,maybe she has also been forcing him to let koki fetch the kids...Mothusi is the problem in all of this,but nah,people are attacking kamo...He is the 1 who took the kids,He is the 1 giving kamo the permission to post,maybe kamo ddnt even think koki will see the vids,maybe they dont even communicate let alone follow each other...but we will keep guessing. Those 3 are the once who knows whats going on
@@reneilwemorobe8204mara Kamo is perputating the situation. She is still disregarding feelings , how are you as a wife comfortable with your husband ex approaching the courts just to see her kids.
Wow so interesting
Nna my ex husband side chick then, opened up a Facebook account for my daughter who was 12 years then, using false age.. 😮
What!!!? I'd go crazy like a lion fighting for it's cub
Hee bathong,
To the third lady was your step mom your mom’s biological sister? 💔.
Yhoo this conversation triggered me but I really enjoyed hearing the different perspectives.
That's what she said.
I tried making wife myself and step mom to get along hei, I regretted
Big time till today
How is it child labour when we teach our children chores?
The beautiful Lulu says she's opposed to posting the step kids. Kore being a step mom is hell...as a mom with a step child should i post mine alone I'll be accused to not wanting my husband's kid also that admin of remembering not to post because "abantu bazothini"
Why do men want to force their children into their relationships with other women? 😢
They don't want to pay maintenance to the biological mothers...my take
@kgomotsomaleme1320 so you just want money ,you don't want kids to have relationship with their father,and if the father is married mos the other women will have to have relationship with the kids.
@@kgomotsomaleme1320 they want to have relationship with their children, not everything is about money ,so you only want money from them?you don't want them to have relationship with their father, and if the father is married the wife will have to have relationship with the kids obviously.
Haybo kanti the stepmother besikuphi makusenziwa the step kid? Insecurities to wives zizo ezinenza nifune abo baby mom ba communicate nani.
Promise o pila maan❤
She had to mention her "Brànd" ..because the initial video it was mentioned, yena kamo oo wao etsa manala..You cannot court her reaction..🙄🙄....i honestly wish she never posted those kids and hear yal complain still🤷♀️
You took Koki’s statement about Kamo being a technician out of context,she had good point how can Kamo and her husband diagnose her as mental unstable when they are not Psychologists or Psychiatrist?it’s the same as you can’t go to Gynea for a toothache cause a Gynae would’nt know how to treat a toothache but a dentist will.
@LangelihleNgema KAMOGELO ddnt diagnose her,she did say MOTHOSI mos???So why mention what kamo does???She was being silly and you nnow it...
@LangelihleNgema "KAMO OK WATENG"...Yal know pretty well she was coming side ways but aker its about the kids????So many things said by koki screamed mean Girl energy but retlareng??
@@reneilwemorobe8204Both Kamo and Mothusi did,in the courts documents it was said Kamo was the one communicating with Social workers about the Koki it is in writing,Kamo was the one having conversations with the social worker about Koki hence Koki said what she said.
@LangelihleNgema have yal seen that report???Or you just going with the wind???
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When you're a stepmom ke doomed if you do, doomed if you don't.
Can you bring Koki to the podcast Promise? It will be epic because she will be telling her story in full and the women's conference is behind her❤
She needs to stay away from podcasts since they are busy with court cases
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Please check in your mics it’s disturbing the topic
I thought it was my phone
Sliding off a bit. So in the case that Bana a ba batle go ya ko mma Bona.... They cry blue murder, do we insist? Or mma Bana doesn't want the kids n the dad n new wife ba batla a ba tseye?
In this instance, it wasn't the case because the standing arrangements always worked for years, until kamo got married, then her kids were uprooted without mom's knowledge during the holidays.
Our hypocrisy as women through🫣 We pray for our exes to meet ppl who will love our kids like we do and when it happens we wanna put Ts & Cs - Kamo was posting her kids too. The kids are being treated equally in those videos and they eat from the "same pot"🤷🏽♀️
Before the Koki vs Kamo saga their was a Ex Husband vs Koki saga which has not been resolved. Men get away with murder shame🫣
How do you know the kids are being treated equally just from a 5 minute video?also why do they separated the kids?they only live with the girl and the boys live with their granparents how is that equal?also for a mother not to have access to her kids or even a phone call is not right!!
Mara I said "treated equally in the video"🤦🏽♀️ Modimo! 🤣
Personally no one is allowed to post my child on social media without my consent. Kamo is wrong by doing that. I just feel like she should let Koki and the guy deal with their issues because truly speaking ga tsene gope. And it seems like she's not ready to put herself in that woman's shoes and defend her as motswadi Leena. In my opinion posting her kids without consent is wrong shem especially when you don't even talk with the mother. She should show some respect, that's all. As for that husband he is cruel nje. O nale mowa o mpe that guy🚮.
Key word "Personally".
The husband should have stopped Kamo if he felt it was wrong by not speaking her he has "consented" - him and Koki share equal rights where the kids are concerned.
@@mphotoniamosotho3545Okay true... Then why are they denying her access if they have Equal rights?🤷🏾😂😂😂 You see how messed up that is, and now she goes ahead and posts kids that are not hers on social media. That is very disrespectful and weird🤦🏾😂😂😂😂. The kids Koki carried for 9 months and now Kamo wa iketsetsa ka bona and they expect her to be okay? 😂😂😂😂Madness! 🤞🏾
I feel like you should have been neutral had ppl that also thing kamo was not wrong at this whole thing.. "i mean team kamo" now having 1 sided ppl was also not fair... But atleast u mentioned hore ur opinion doesnt mean you rite🤷♀️waa still gng to be nyc if it was like debate typer thing
Stand to be corrected
It’s a conversation not a debate.. i’m sure she tried reaching out to team Kamo but no one was willing.
So proud of you Ma-Moletsane
Thank you❤
So proud of you Ma-Moletsane