I am with a married woman with 2 children for 1,5 year now but she divorced her husband and follows me. I know I dont give you many details but do u think a person deserves a 2nd chance or the fact that she cheated on her husband disqualifies her automatically?
Hi David! I've sent in a few comments. You may recognize me as the 57 year old from Canada who can't afford your man scape. I wan to elaborate on my present life. I suffered two strokes and was wheel chair bond. I unfortunately my hard head proof them wrong. I am ride my mountain bike. I proved the all them wrong. I Have a University Bachelors Degree, major in marketing and minor accounting.,I had a 20 year marriage and a 10 year common law relation. Went through 2 bankruptcy. Basically in short your advice and Julia has helped me see my errors and own up to them. So thank you both , keep up the work . Unfortunately you info seems more directed towards your the younger people and the affluent. But I still get alot of insight from you and Julia. Keep up your amazing work!
Hi David and Julia!Loved the last Pod Cast with you Contractor friend where you talked about Mr Tate and other subjects. Super insightful. By the way Hannah, hope I spelled it right, is the most fun when she appears on one of your videos! She seems like genuine, nice person!
Be more concerned with your character than your reputation, because your character is what you really are, while your reputation is merely what others think you are.
I respect your advice. I was a simp and ended up marrying and getting pregnant, a woman who had every red flag imaginable. 6 years later I'm divorced, constantly battling custody, and overall, in a bad situation. Long story short, build your confidence and don't rush into a relationship with someone just because you find them attractive.
thank you bro. there is this girl at work who is into me but i really don t f**k with her vibe. I ve been single for 4 years now and i was considering getting with her but you are right. It ain't worth it imma wait for the one
Appreciate your honesty though man. A lot of people can't even come to terms with the reality they're living with and it sounds like you've got a good grip on coming to terms with it. Not the most easy thing to do. You should be proud of that.
5 MASCULINE Ways to STOP Looking at Women with LUST 1. Masculine Lens 2. Your Super Power 3. Based Understanding 4. Redirect the lust 5. Your Life without Women
As a woman, I found this video super helpful to everyone, not just men. The way he talks about women is amazing, he humanizes us. Men have to understand that us women are just human beings with desires, flaws, imperfections, etc. Stop putting women either on a pedestal or thinking we're the worst of the demons! Start viewing us as human beings.
I’ve definitely had this struggle where I would look at them as so much better than me and feel less of a person and they would feel that I felt like this and It never worked out! When I began to realise and treat women the same (no one is better than anyone) I started to be more confident with women
@@UserRobot215 let’s change it… we all deserve a good girl for sure bro! My goal is to get the guys out here and truly show them the ropes of how I changed my life!!
@Max Hindle Change what? I can't change my height nor my genetic face, there is no gym to fix my trashy genetics. The video said to not look at girls with lust, I went a step further and just stopped looking at them. At this point, either I wait until they develop artificial wombs or I castrate myself since I won't end up using my d*ck.
Just wanna say I watched one of your videos titled women start at 20, men start at 35 i think it was and ever since watching that ive had unlimited motivation mixed with constant action to achieve and reach my goals to get the status and the life that I deserve , your video has had a significant impact on my life and mindset so thank you, would love to meet up with you one day!
Been here for 4 years when I went through my last break up. Been amazing to watch your highs and lows, and very glad to see your videos are always evolving, and finally getting back to the views you deserve. You show the results of persistence and commitment. Absolute Legend
It’s crazy how as a young teen I thought simping was the right thing to do, I use to think regular good looking girls were goddesses. I let a girl who’s probably about 6 honestly break my heart. I didn’t know I losted her because I worshipped her before we ever dated.
yup. same here bro. its ok. as you get older you get stronger and wiser. me getting rejected thousands of times in my youth actually protected me. now im single, carefree, and drama free. the guys who were good with women are dealing with divorces and complaining now.
but what's so bad about worshiping someone even if you don't know them much ? to me it just shows that you are interested and find her very attractive is that so bad for women?
@@MegaUnwetteryes. What do you wanna hear? Truth is, women are attracted to men that dont give a shit about anything. The problem with that is, when you understand it, you can have any women, but... You dont give a shit anymore
100 percent agree brother. Another metaphor for fellow men out there who do want a woman in their life eventually -- think about your life as building a garden. That garden should be able to nourish and feed you and if it grows abundant enough, it can also grow the loveliest of flowers (women). But those flowers are expensive, time consuming, and require lots of maintenance -- so make sure that you develop healthy soil/environment before even entertaining the idea of including one in your life. It'll be better for you and that partner to be stable and happy together. And if the flower is stolen by another greedy gardener or the flower ends up poisoning your garden somehow, you can always remove it and still have an abundant crop. Stay strong :) much love
Who else after watching these videos gets super hyped to take their life into their own hands, surround yourself with brothers you trust and create your dream life? 👇 (Alex Renko - Teen Self Development TH-camr)
Hell yeah! Just started today after putting it off for so long, I woke up at 5:30, took a shower, did my skin care (I have acne) stretched, went out for a run and did a good 14 minutes. Better than I thought I’d be.
Dude this is the first self-improvement type of video when I stopped and thought damn.... this guy is so right. Especially when it comes to the ''angry simp'' lens, I never heard anyone talk about it but it is so true. Thank you for widening my views on life.
I recently for the first time after 6 years (counting from grade 10 of school) after wanting a relationship so bad met this girl and became official. But only after 2 weeks, decided it wasn't meant to be so I met up with her and told her what I felt. She was so chilled about it and understood where I was coming from. So now I'm happily single :) In conclusion from my experience: if you feel deep down that something doesn't feel right, the matter of that is true and you will thank yourself for ending something that doesn't feel right and rather very happier single and explore yourself more. Hope this inspired someone today :)
Dude your like me! Or I'm like you! When you speak it's like someone who's gone through every little thing I've gone through is sharing his wisdom. I'm talking from being introverted to wanting to better yourself to getting with girls and screwing up, and playing that stuff over in your head. I can tell this stuff comes from someone who had to go through these things, girls just won't be able to understand at that level. One thing I appreciate about this channel is that you cut out the simp, toxic masculinity, mgtow, alpha/beta/sigma bs and give us the a level headed, healthy outlook on life and women. I know that I can trust the advice coming from you.
14 seconds into the video and my guy already calls me out like he’s known me my whole life 😂 appreciate the reality check bro, I’m working on getting better every single day💪🏼
Instead of trying to find “the one” become “the one” and then the right women will want you. Their is a reason Mens peak is 35 and Women’s peak is 22. Work for what you want instead of complaint about what you don’t have
That last point hit the hardest for me. Enjoying a life without women. She is the icing on the cake or a pretty design. But she isn't the whole cake. That really spoke to me.
but i have enjoyed my single life enough i would love to have a relationship now. I don't want to enjoy my single life alone anymore, but rather share the beautiful moments
David I hardly watch TH-cam anymore but I can confidently say for the past 6 years you’re the only creator that I consistently watch 2x a week keep it up my man
I feel like things have been crappy heading out of April heading into May, but I’m not letting this crap stop me. I’m not going back to the crap “corn” either that does not do me justice. Workouts and Jesus are what I need!💪😤
Great video as always! I completely agree with your Third point about having a based understand. In my case I call it neutral approach, in that my attraction towards a woman is not just based of looks but also based on her character, nature, lifestyle, behavior, personality, thoughts, and values. If and only if I like all these traits then and only then I find to be beautiful and attractive.
I agree with all that you said, but I’m 25 and I have almost 0 experience with women. I’m already fit, improved my style and social skills, but I can’t seem to find girls that are interested in me, and it’s feels really but REALLY difficult to stop with this feeling of urge for feminine contact. I sincerely don’t know what to do man
Great perspective! Really like the advice of going and doing something productive after experiencing a beautiful person and also allowing yourself to get to know them before creating this idea of who you think they are.
I remember as a younger man I was always thinking about T and A and it controlled my thoughts for a few years but now I'm older and don't have the same drive I used to have so don't really care about it all as much. It's a phase you will go thru like many others
I can really relate to the first type of 'simp' that you describe. I idolise beautiful women that I see and meet (and get so upset when on the rare occasion that I would pluck up the courage to ask them out, they turn me down). Your ideas sounds really great so will give them a go.
These videos provide both some self awareness I need and I see a lot of what I don’t recognize of myself until watching these so thank you. And they also guide me towards my path in life so can’t wait for the next video.
i’ve experienced a lot of toxic relationships, but in a relationship it can’t all be one persons fault, sometimes it’s just your insecurities and overthinking, and sometimes it’s just that emotional instability with the other partner, i once had a gf who was really attractive, and i was taking things slow, but we had entire different views on things, and it just ate me up inside, but even if you have an “unattractive” gf, you should accept her for who she is, and most people actually find different things attractive for a certain person when they gain feelings for them
Great advice/video - as always! Food for thought: I would value hearing your perspective on maintaining a healthy relationship. Lots of people focus on “getting the girl”. New video idea? Thanks!
Excellent Video!!! Your advice on transmutation is not off whatsoever; but originated from an historical genius. Sigmund Freud has been buried and dismissed mostly over his Oedipal Complex theory, but little know, he made that up so the aristocracy wouldn’t bury his important works. He used the term Sublimate; that a man needs to redirect his sexual energies first into physical activities he enjoys before applying it to women. Freud was an insightful genius and worth reading.
Im 56. I hate feeling so weak in front of beauty. BUT.....eventually eventually eventually I realised that how I present myself is TOTALLY dependant on how I really view MYSELF. I absolutely LOVE beauty. I am a designer. However, I think many many beautiful women may feel trapped by their own beauty because the rest of the world keeps elevating them to something better than, and men frequently engage with them because of their appearance. So, they have to develop a thick skin and be an ass(to protect themselves), or accept that it is just how it is. That depends on their OWN sense of what makes them special. Obviously, UNLESS you as a man are truly confident(which means you got your game together in LIFE), you will be vulnerable to beautiful women. And be weak. They just people. Be nice, always. Be respectful, even if they are rude. You have the power, no-one else. These are just words but investing in your own path empowers you. The shortcut is to hanker after and get a gorgeous girlfriend so that people 'respect' and envy you. Problem. That means the power resides OUTSIDE of yourself, and the power is dependant on someone else. Self empowerment is the most powerful attraction there is. Being strong enough to tackle life's challenges and then be there for your loved one, comes later. U can only love and respect yourself when you have proven to YOURSELF you are great. Its like that. Thank you for the video.
Totally agree, great advises 🙌👍 I think it also changes the way we see women and how we interact with women. It takes away alot of the pressure and makes it more natural and relaxed to talk to women, even beautiful women and the more women we/you/ I can talk to in a normal way i think more women will be attracted to us/you/me. It also makes it easier to focus on work, studying, working out, building a great life which also gonna attract women.
I totally disagree. She will not be attracted to You if You talk to her more and more. If she don't find You phisically attractive out of first look, she will not have any will to talk with You as she notice that You asked her not for a trip advice/lost way 😄
@@guig2004 You totally missed the point of the video and also my text. Its not about making one particular women attracted to you. The point is to making conversation much easier and natural by talking more often to women and feeling comfortable in womens presence. It will be easier to making women attracted to you if you feel calm and confident... Whilst being yourself.
@@robin_lundahl Robin I got Your point. It is ofcourse a next stage a basic rule to have a smooth talk, at this point I absolutelly agree. Still I consider that without look even You have a perfect mouth „expression” I will not take You so far with alone 🙂 I hope You get it now.
Very nice topic, bro. I always fight with lust when I go outside, specially on monogamous relationship. So much young girls getting beautiful everyday.
Super appreciate you answering this question. Now I see I can avoid triggered automatic thinking and just appreciate the beauty of a woman. Wow so much easier than mind running away with me.
This guy speaks the truth, I've been through all of those stages however, now I'm in a committed relationship with a woman I love, how to you stop the subconscious drawing the eye to attractive. Women? Some may think I'm mad for the comment but trying to be moral man is hard. LOLZ, just give it a try, see if you can stop your subconscious from drawing your eyes to attractive women. # GOOD LUCK
Well I couldn't find myself amongst these lenses. Definitely I went through the angry one, but now I am kinda numb towards women. Not a single girl impresses me right now. Tbf I don't even try to have a gf cuz I am at really awkward point in my life where I have to make some decisions.
Good video with some good insights. Channelling energy is hard in the beginning but once you learn how to do it, you can channel any kind of emotions, not just lust. Very powerful method!
قُل لِّلْمُؤْمِنِينَ يَغُضُّوا۟ مِنْ أَبْصَـٰرِهِمْ وَيَحْفَظُوا۟ فُرُوجَهُمْ ۚ ذَٰلِكَ أَزْكَىٰ لَهُمْ ۗ إِنَّ ٱللَّهَ خَبِيرٌۢ بِمَا يَصْنَعُونَ ٣٠ O Prophet!˺ Tell the believing men to lower their gaze and guard their chastity. That is purer for them. Surely Allah is All-Aware of what they do.
I experienced all three faces that you described back in the early 90s. I had very little training growing up.. the training that I had was mostly nice guys Simp type of training so I had a lot to learn but thanks to channels like yours my life is getting better each and every day!
Dude as un-spiritual as you come off as being, you're actually right on. You have this inner intelligence or something. I mean that "sexual transmutation" was quite on. The interesting thing about spiritual growth... in my experience.. in my path is I'm kind of unaware of the changes even though the physicality changes around me.... the music starts going better, I'm not so attached to the outcome... I'm more aware that I'm in my head and then that awareness dawns to come back to the present. Thank You !
Walking away from a situation when it doesn't serve your best interest is an advice only valuable to a man?? I'd say that applies to anyone. Don't take that as a bad critic man, In fact I really like your videos and many of your advices encourage me quite a lot at the end of the day and make me thankful for being a man.
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I am with a married woman with 2 children for 1,5 year now but she divorced her husband and follows me. I know I dont give you many details but do u think a person deserves a 2nd chance or the fact that she cheated on her husband disqualifies her automatically?
Hi David! I've sent in a few comments. You may recognize me as the 57 year old from Canada who can't afford your man scape. I wan to elaborate on my present life. I suffered two strokes and was wheel chair bond. I unfortunately my hard head proof them wrong. I am ride my mountain bike. I proved the all them wrong. I Have a University Bachelors Degree, major in marketing and minor accounting.,I had a 20 year marriage and a 10 year common law relation. Went through 2 bankruptcy. Basically in short your advice and Julia has helped me see my errors and own up to them. So thank you both , keep up the work . Unfortunately you info seems more directed towards your the younger people and the affluent. But I still get alot of insight from you and Julia. Keep up your amazing work!
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Manscaped is cool I’ve used them all the time. I don’t get that hairy but they still get the job done.
Hi David and Julia!Loved the last Pod Cast with you Contractor friend where you talked about Mr Tate and other subjects. Super insightful. By the way Hannah, hope I spelled it right, is the most fun when she appears on one of your videos! She seems like genuine, nice person!
Be more concerned with your character than your reputation, because your character is what you really are, while your reputation is merely what others think you are.
Your reputation is literally your value for the outside and super important too. Work on your character AND work on your reputation.
💯 one of Woodens best..great advice
Woah!
48 laws
@@gastarbeiter8384 How to be authentic at character and personality level, and also enhance our reputation at the same time?
I respect your advice. I was a simp and ended up marrying and getting pregnant, a woman who had every red flag imaginable. 6 years later I'm divorced, constantly battling custody, and overall, in a bad situation. Long story short, build your confidence and don't rush into a relationship with someone just because you find them attractive.
Don't feel bad for making the same mistake 80% of guys make -- they marry the first girl who sleeps with them three nights in a row.
thank you bro. there is this girl at work who is into me but i really don t f**k with her vibe. I ve been single for 4 years now and i was considering getting with her but you are right. It ain't worth it imma wait for the one
seems like a you problem
As they say dont feel bad, you done that and you left. I know people still in this.
Appreciate your honesty though man. A lot of people can't even come to terms with the reality they're living with and it sounds like you've got a good grip on coming to terms with it. Not the most easy thing to do. You should be proud of that.
5 MASCULINE Ways to STOP Looking at Women with LUST
1. Masculine Lens
2. Your Super Power
3. Based Understanding
4. Redirect the lust
5. Your Life without Women
As a woman, I found this video super helpful to everyone, not just men. The way he talks about women is amazing, he humanizes us. Men have to understand that us women are just human beings with desires, flaws, imperfections, etc. Stop putting women either on a pedestal or thinking we're the worst of the demons! Start viewing us as human beings.
agreed he’s so refreshing to watch in the redpill community with a neutral standpoint 🙌🏾
The irony... You women treating men as not humans so st fu.
i feel like he was saying fairly normal behavior to emulate. maybe thats a testament to how low we've reached.
No way women are humans. women are angels no doubt 😛
It's satire. Jk
I’ve definitely had this struggle where I would look at them as so much better than me and feel less of a person and they would feel that I felt like this and It never worked out!
When I began to realise and treat women the same (no one is better than anyone) I started to be more confident with women
Women don't even acknowledge my existence, so I don't acknowledge theirs
@@UserRobot215 let’s change it… we all deserve a good girl for sure bro! My goal is to get the guys out here and truly show them the ropes of how I changed my life!!
@Max Hindle Change what? I can't change my height nor my genetic face, there is no gym to fix my trashy genetics.
The video said to not look at girls with lust, I went a step further and just stopped looking at them.
At this point, either I wait until they develop artificial wombs or I castrate myself since I won't end up using my d*ck.
im too much of a introvert loner to ever get a woman
Just wanna say I watched one of your videos titled women start at 20, men start at 35 i think it was and ever since watching that ive had unlimited motivation mixed with constant action to achieve and reach my goals to get the status and the life that I deserve , your video has had a significant impact on my life and mindset so thank you, would love to meet up with you one day!
This is an extremely important message for guys. Can truly destroy your life if you engage in Lust.
Been here for 4 years when I went through my last break up. Been amazing to watch your highs and lows, and very glad to see your videos are always evolving, and finally getting back to the views you deserve.
You show the results of persistence and commitment. Absolute Legend
It’s crazy how as a young teen I thought simping was the right thing to do, I use to think regular good looking girls were goddesses. I let a girl who’s probably about 6 honestly break my heart. I didn’t know I losted her because I worshipped her before we ever dated.
yup. same here bro. its ok. as you get older you get stronger and wiser. me getting rejected thousands of times in my youth actually protected me. now im single, carefree, and drama free. the guys who were good with women are dealing with divorces and complaining now.
@@baldeagle4710 they also go kids that they don’t want to take care off 😂
She was trash to begin with. You dodged a bullet.
but what's so bad about worshiping someone even if you don't know them much ? to me it just shows that you are interested and find her very attractive is that so bad for women?
@@MegaUnwetteryes. What do you wanna hear? Truth is, women are attracted to men that dont give a shit about anything. The problem with that is, when you understand it, you can have any women, but... You dont give a shit anymore
100 percent agree brother. Another metaphor for fellow men out there who do want a woman in their life eventually -- think about your life as building a garden. That garden should be able to nourish and feed you and if it grows abundant enough, it can also grow the loveliest of flowers (women). But those flowers are expensive, time consuming, and require lots of maintenance -- so make sure that you develop healthy soil/environment before even entertaining the idea of including one in your life. It'll be better for you and that partner to be stable and happy together. And if the flower is stolen by another greedy gardener or the flower ends up poisoning your garden somehow, you can always remove it and still have an abundant crop. Stay strong :) much love
Who else after watching these videos gets super hyped to take their life into their own hands, surround yourself with brothers you trust and create your dream life? 👇 (Alex Renko - Teen Self Development TH-camr)
I have been turning the page and now is the time for me to get this shit out of system I want to be better
Shut yo face fool !
Hell yeah! Just started today after putting it off for so long, I woke up at 5:30, took a shower, did my skin care (I have acne) stretched, went out for a run and did a good 14 minutes. Better than I thought I’d be.
Dude this is the first self-improvement type of video when I stopped and thought damn.... this guy is so right. Especially when it comes to the ''angry simp'' lens, I never heard anyone talk about it but it is so true. Thank you for widening my views on life.
I recently for the first time after 6 years (counting from grade 10 of school) after wanting a relationship so bad met this girl and became official. But only after 2 weeks, decided it wasn't meant to be so I met up with her and told her what I felt. She was so chilled about it and understood where I was coming from. So now I'm happily single :)
In conclusion from my experience: if you feel deep down that something doesn't feel right, the matter of that is true and you will thank yourself for ending something that doesn't feel right and rather very happier single and explore yourself more. Hope this inspired someone today :)
Dude your like me! Or I'm like you!
When you speak it's like someone who's gone through every little thing I've gone through is sharing his wisdom. I'm talking from being introverted to wanting to better yourself to getting with girls and screwing up, and playing that stuff over in your head.
I can tell this stuff comes from someone who had to go through these things, girls just won't be able to understand at that level.
One thing I appreciate about this channel is that you cut out the simp, toxic masculinity, mgtow, alpha/beta/sigma bs and give us the a level headed, healthy outlook on life and women. I know that I can trust the advice coming from you.
Your content has drastically improved in quality with this new style. Keep up the good work Señor De Las Morenas.
The last two minutes is the best analogy I have ever came across about how we should see women, bro you are a beast.
14 seconds into the video and my guy already calls me out like he’s known me my whole life 😂 appreciate the reality check bro, I’m working on getting better every single day💪🏼
The cake analogy...100% spot on. Thank you.
Instead of trying to find “the one” become “the one” and then the right women will want you. Their is a reason Mens peak is 35 and Women’s peak is 22. Work for what you want instead of complaint about what you don’t have
That last point hit the hardest for me. Enjoying a life without women. She is the icing on the cake or a pretty design. But she isn't the whole cake. That really spoke to me.
but i have enjoyed my single life enough i would love to have a relationship now. I don't want to enjoy my single life alone anymore, but rather share the beautiful moments
David I hardly watch TH-cam anymore but I can confidently say for the past 6 years you’re the only creator that I consistently watch 2x a week keep it up my man
I feel like things have been crappy heading out of April heading into May, but I’m not letting this crap stop me. I’m not going back to the crap “corn” either that does not do me justice. Workouts and Jesus are what I need!💪😤
Great video as always! I completely agree with your Third point about having a based understand. In my case I call it neutral approach, in that my attraction towards a woman is not just based of looks but also based on her character, nature, lifestyle, behavior, personality, thoughts, and values. If and only if I like all these traits then and only then I find to be beautiful and attractive.
Bro! my first impression on you was not so good, but after I watched your videos, I completely love your content. keep going bro!
I agree with all that you said, but I’m 25 and I have almost 0 experience with women. I’m already fit, improved my style and social skills, but I can’t seem to find girls that are interested in me, and it’s feels really but REALLY difficult to stop with this feeling of urge for feminine contact. I sincerely don’t know what to do man
I feel the same way, but I'm already 34
Imagine that you are surrounded by women who love you and you soon will be. Stay positive be love radiate from the inside out🤙
Great perspective! Really like the advice of going and doing something productive after experiencing a beautiful person and also allowing yourself to get to know them before creating this idea of who you think they are.
Huge respect for this man and thank you
Dude, every time I watch any of your videos, it’s so worth the click. Keep doing what you’re doing, my man. You’re money 💰
I'm in a tough spot with a girl right now, and this video will help me solve the situation.
Thank you for this!
I remember as a younger man I was always thinking about T and A and it controlled my thoughts for a few years but now I'm older and don't have the same drive I used to have so don't really care about it all as much. It's a phase you will go thru like many others
I can really relate to the first type of 'simp' that you describe. I idolise beautiful women that I see and meet (and get so upset when on the rare occasion that I would pluck up the courage to ask them out, they turn me down). Your ideas sounds really great so will give them a go.
they arent special. say this to yourself over and over.
These videos provide both some self awareness I need and I see a lot of what I don’t recognize of myself until watching these so thank you. And they also guide me towards my path in life so can’t wait for the next video.
I listen to these videos at the times where I am going through something specific with the topic your talking about. Thank you bro.
talking pure ground sense. Bravo!
i’ve experienced a lot of toxic relationships, but in a relationship it can’t all be one persons fault, sometimes it’s just your insecurities and overthinking, and sometimes it’s just that emotional instability with the other partner, i once had a gf who was really attractive, and i was taking things slow, but we had entire different views on things, and it just ate me up inside, but even if you have an “unattractive” gf, you should accept her for who she is, and most people actually find different things attractive for a certain person when they gain feelings for them
I love clicking on these videos to find that I’m already doing most if not all of the tips 😎
✨She's Just an attractive woman✨
✨ as you are also an attractive man✨
you have to believe in that ❤
you deserve the best my friend 🥀
Great advice/video - as always! Food for thought: I would value hearing your perspective on maintaining a healthy relationship. Lots of people focus on “getting the girl”. New video idea? Thanks!
Beast, the quality keeps getting better and better. Glad I hit that subscribe button years ago.
Really Excellent take on the problem of dealing with difficult-to-control masculine drive.
I honestly needed this kinda video and im so glad to have listen all the way through. 😢
Excellent Video!!! Your advice on transmutation is not off whatsoever; but originated from an historical genius. Sigmund Freud has been buried and dismissed mostly over his Oedipal Complex theory, but little know, he made that up so the aristocracy wouldn’t bury his important works. He used the term Sublimate; that a man needs to redirect his sexual energies first into physical activities he enjoys before applying it to women. Freud was an insightful genius and worth reading.
Im 56. I hate feeling so weak in front of beauty. BUT.....eventually eventually eventually I realised that how I present myself is TOTALLY dependant on how I really view MYSELF. I absolutely LOVE beauty. I am a designer. However, I think many many beautiful women may feel trapped by their own beauty because the rest of the world keeps elevating them to something better than, and men frequently engage with them because of their appearance. So, they have to develop a thick skin and be an ass(to protect themselves), or accept that it is just how it is. That depends on their OWN sense of what makes them special. Obviously, UNLESS you as a man are truly confident(which means you got your game together in LIFE), you will be vulnerable to beautiful women. And be weak. They just people. Be nice, always. Be respectful, even if they are rude. You have the power, no-one else. These are just words but investing in your own path empowers you. The shortcut is to hanker after and get a gorgeous girlfriend so that people 'respect' and envy you. Problem. That means the power resides OUTSIDE of yourself, and the power is dependant on someone else. Self empowerment is the most powerful attraction there is. Being strong enough to tackle life's challenges and then be there for your loved one, comes later. U can only love and respect yourself when you have proven to YOURSELF you are great. Its like that. Thank you for the video.
Totally agree, great advises 🙌👍
I think it also changes the way we see women and how we interact with women.
It takes away alot of the pressure and makes it more natural and relaxed to talk to women, even beautiful women and the more women we/you/ I can talk to in a normal way i think more women will be attracted to us/you/me.
It also makes it easier to focus on work, studying, working out, building a great life which also gonna attract women.
I totally disagree. She will not be attracted to You if You talk to her more and more. If she don't find You phisically attractive out of first look, she will not have any will to talk with You as she notice that You asked her not for a trip advice/lost way 😄
@@guig2004
You totally missed the point of the video and also my text. Its not about making one particular women attracted to you.
The point is to making conversation much easier and natural by talking more often to women and feeling comfortable in womens presence.
It will be easier to making women attracted to you if you feel calm and confident... Whilst being yourself.
@@robin_lundahl Robin I got Your point. It is ofcourse a next stage a basic rule to have a smooth talk, at this point I absolutelly agree. Still I consider that without look even You have a perfect mouth „expression” I will not take You so far with alone 🙂
I hope You get it now.
Very nice topic, bro. I always fight with lust when I go outside, specially on monogamous relationship. So much young girls getting beautiful everyday.
Super appreciate you answering this question. Now I see I can avoid triggered automatic thinking and just appreciate the beauty of a woman. Wow so much easier than mind running away with me.
Your explanation of baking the cake was easily the best description of how women should fit into a man’s life. Well done!
I don't look at them at all. And I'm straighter than George. Your advice is still on point. Keep after it.
WOW this has a ton of really great points thanks man! needed this rn
I liked the voice over edits haha good job bro
Great words, espacially Number 5🔥💪 you're absolutely right, If you are not in Control of your life, dont even think of getting a girlfriend
but i'm very content with my life a long time already and i'm only missing a woman and I just can't find any who's interested in me
Great video bro even though I don't need it since I'm married, this is good news to follow for single men
Thanks man I was just in a lustful simp mindset and this video came
It really help me alot
Dude listen, as a 31 yo grown men, kids, this is by far the best advice you can hear today... trust me on that one.
I've experienced the third example you gave in your sunglasses analogy. Indeed, it is great
Thank you Sergio Ramos
Thing is all your content legit helps level up a bro.
One of the best videos I've seen for advice on women, thanks for sharing.
This guy speaks the truth, I've been through all of those stages however, now I'm in a committed relationship with a woman I love, how to you stop the subconscious drawing the eye to attractive. Women? Some may think I'm mad for the comment but trying to be moral man is hard. LOLZ, just give it a try, see if you can stop your subconscious from drawing your eyes to attractive women. # GOOD LUCK
David's out here saving all men.
honestly never knew how much i needed to watch this.
Traumabond is my kryptonite, i love a girl more when we went through sh!t together, and i can't cancel the relationship after that.
Second glasses is happy as well not angry in a Simp
Brilliant advice, David once again. 🙏👍
This videos was top noche, entertaining but straight to the point!!!
Thanks bro. I needed this talk. Your messages always come at the right moments.
Awesome videos David! And I'm so getting obsessed with the Edge clothing line 👍
This was awesome! Absolutely needed to see this. Thank you!! 👏👏🤙👊
Currently going through the "Angry" stage...and its like beast fuel man use that shit while it lasts.
This guy is really awesome, very intelligent!!💪💪
Didnt know you could actually stop look at something in 5 different ways.
Well I couldn't find myself amongst these lenses. Definitely I went through the angry one, but now I am kinda numb towards women. Not a single girl impresses me right now. Tbf I don't even try to have a gf cuz I am at really awkward point in my life where I have to make some decisions.
David, thx so much man ! I needed this vid so badly. Perfect timing bro.
Everything from "The Way Of The Superior Man"
Good video with some good insights. Channelling energy is hard in the beginning but once you learn how to do it, you can channel any kind of emotions, not just lust. Very powerful method!
So simple things but so wise.
With the best regards from Ukraine, bro
really needed this man, just came across your page today. appreciate the work you do.
Your videos recently about self improvement have been 🔥
This is the best advice I've ever seen. Tate could've been this guy but he chose to wear the second pair of glasses.
man you are the most accurate. Very accurate
Love this dude . Every guy needs to see this
قُل لِّلْمُؤْمِنِينَ يَغُضُّوا۟ مِنْ أَبْصَـٰرِهِمْ وَيَحْفَظُوا۟ فُرُوجَهُمْ ۚ ذَٰلِكَ أَزْكَىٰ لَهُمْ ۗ إِنَّ ٱللَّهَ خَبِيرٌۢ بِمَا يَصْنَعُونَ ٣٠
O Prophet!˺ Tell the believing men to lower their gaze and guard their chastity. That is purer for them. Surely Allah is All-Aware of what they do.
Excellent video. Appreciate it so much. We need more male role models. Being a man is necessary. 🔥
A much needed video. Thanks for the tips.
I experienced all three faces that you described back in the early 90s. I had very little training growing up.. the training that I had was mostly nice guys Simp type of training so I had a lot to learn but thanks to channels like yours my life is getting better each and every day!
Phases not faces
Youre basically saying dont be a simp, this will never happen because simps are born and never change.
Good job .....much love from Kenya
watching from Kenya too
Same here bro.
So many guys need to hear this.
Don't ever be under her be above her always
Julia's sunglasses look like they were made in Minecraft 😂
Job 31:1
“I made a covenant with my eyes not to look with lust at a young woman."
I'll stop being a simp now and grind 🔥
it's been a while beast. You still be going good as always. Many blessings and more strength to you bro.Keep inspiring.Peace
4th Lens A Realist views , she must proves her self if she desire any relationship possiblity Period!!
Rather understand than love or hate women. Stay indifferent
Julia's sunglasses 🕶 looks dope on you!
Good video!@
Dude as un-spiritual as you come off as being, you're actually right on. You have this inner intelligence or something. I mean that "sexual transmutation" was quite on. The interesting thing about spiritual growth... in my experience.. in my path is I'm kind of unaware of the changes even though the physicality changes around me.... the music starts going better, I'm not so attached to the outcome... I'm more aware that I'm in my head and then that awareness dawns to come back to the present. Thank You !
Man Thank You so much, this is exactly what I was need to hear
Walking away from a situation when it doesn't serve your best interest is an advice only valuable to a man?? I'd say that applies to anyone. Don't take that as a bad critic man, In fact I really like your videos and many of your advices encourage me quite a lot at the end of the day and make me thankful for being a man.