7 Things that DESTROY your Masculine Energy

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  • @howtobeast
    @howtobeast  ปีที่แล้ว +41

    Thanks for watching bros! Remember, the EDGE FLASH Sale ends in 3 days (use code FLASH20 to save 20%): edgelifestyle.com/

    • @alexrestucci4412
      @alexrestucci4412 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Quick question about your joggers is it hard to get them off after you have put them on? I have gym shark ones that are difficult to get off at the ankle and foot

    • @thievingpanda
      @thievingpanda ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Keep up the good work David you're killing it, especially with TH-cam Shorts 👍👍

    • @livelifeproducts
      @livelifeproducts ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Please give the people a gains club sale again soon 🙏

    • @icefireicefire105
      @icefireicefire105 ปีที่แล้ว

      Super Great video. A masterpiece of knowledge

    • @lucanatlas
      @lucanatlas ปีที่แล้ว

      David why is there no UK shipping? Cause I would love to buy if there is been sub since 40k

  • @TheVillageBeast
    @TheVillageBeast ปีที่แล้ว +1026

    Can’t believe ppl be paying for OF 💀💀💀💀💀

    • @gokalifestyle
      @gokalifestyle ปีที่แล้ว +57

      It’s not that hard to believe bruh calm down lol

    • @funfionn2045
      @funfionn2045 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      ye reddit exists

    • @MrRushing93
      @MrRushing93 ปีที่แล้ว +68

      Porn addiction is real

    • @thievingpanda
      @thievingpanda ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Hey you can make good money on it

    • @jdgiggity6481
      @jdgiggity6481 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      especially when sex is free lol

  • @jeffreyrhode3938
    @jeffreyrhode3938 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Bro your authenticity is saving a generation of men from being their own worst enemy

  • @eMillion100
    @eMillion100 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I used to have a lot of girls in high school and early 20's. Now I'm 36 and only go to work, gym, and play video games. What a great life...Comfort Zone is a b*tch

  • @Adrian-zu6tm
    @Adrian-zu6tm ปีที่แล้ว +287

    TL;DW
    1. Own Your Weaknesses
    2. Be Gentle with Yourself
    3. Don't Get Lost In The Sauce
    4. Onlyfans
    5. Taking Things Personally
    6. The Finer Things In Life
    7. Comparison

    • @brandonc_096
      @brandonc_096 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      This exact video and advice will be made again in like 6 months just with a different thumbnail and slightly reworded 😂

    • @Adrian-zu6tm
      @Adrian-zu6tm ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@brandonc_096 Let's go Brandon!

    • @dude1234522
      @dude1234522 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@brandonc_096 good, core values that work shouldn’t change much.

    • @neildymesich21
      @neildymesich21 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Must be because it is just that good😂

    • @TheKingOfGreatness
      @TheKingOfGreatness ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@neildymesich21👌

  • @nathanaelmeagher1098
    @nathanaelmeagher1098 ปีที่แล้ว +213

    The part about comfort hit home. Especially right now, got some serious life changes, but still focused on the gym, my graduate program, and being a good father to my kids. A dad teaching them the important things in life, like health, car maintenance, and other stuff. Thanks bro.

    • @laselecta9012
      @laselecta9012 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Car maintenance is highly important! Many get ripped off nowadays

    • @augustprince
      @augustprince ปีที่แล้ว

      That’s really good you’ve got very lucky kids

  • @amplifiedman
    @amplifiedman ปีที่แล้ว +7

    "You absolutely nailed it again brother"100%🎯Big facts.

  • @justinparker2918
    @justinparker2918 ปีที่แล้ว +92

    Bro this one hit different. Gotta admit, I'm guilty of a couple of these items lately and falling back into bad habits. Thanks for the reminder to refocus back on the goals, to not take the comfortable way out and to declutter useless sh*t in my life.

    • @Issyindians15
      @Issyindians15 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same here man, not going to admit my stuff to strangers. However, it definitely hit different and makes me want to be better. The biggest thing to do is own it and change it.

  • @BettyNFriendz
    @BettyNFriendz ปีที่แล้ว +11

    You are legitimately helping shape a future generation of Men. From owning insecurities to eradicating that which doesn’t help or serve you. Even in my 30s I appreciate your message ✊🏼

  • @jacolon92
    @jacolon92 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Stop listening to your stuff for a while because I thought "I learned every lesson" but... I was wrong lol. To see you constantly elevate year to year has been humbling, inspiring, and fun to watch. I know now that each step is just a small step to something greater. I have to remember that when things get low. Thanks for being you and being an inspiration to many.

    • @akashdeva1345
      @akashdeva1345 ปีที่แล้ว

      I also had the same thought bro

  • @V_II_IK_I_IN_G
    @V_II_IK_I_IN_G 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Sitting here at 30 years old. I’ve got a mortgage, I am muscular, got a good job, got my dream truck… BUT… I am not happy because I thought 30 was too late to find a women, develop a relationship and have kids but you showed me… A MANS LIFE STARTS AT 30… Now I’m hooked on your videos…
    Thankyou brother

  • @pizzamanfitness
    @pizzamanfitness ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This video is legit bro, I feel like all men need this talk at some point in their lives.

  • @MonkyDollqueen
    @MonkyDollqueen ปีที่แล้ว +5

    My confidence grows when I step outside of my comfort zone

  • @taj6519
    @taj6519 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Man it's crazy after years of self improvement you kind of forget why you start or what you are even doing. Thanks for the reminder my friend.

  • @mikelubey
    @mikelubey ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Would love to see a reflective video on how you view things now compared to how you did in your earlier videos. Bad takes, good takes, self-critique, etc

  • @krazylegz11
    @krazylegz11 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    #5 is hard for me especially when it comes to rejection because it's happened a lot. I guess the only way to get past it is to keep working on myself and keep trying. You win or you learn.

    • @staceyvernlin2521
      @staceyvernlin2521 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      One of the ways to get past it is to also acknowledge your wins no matter how small. Say for example u got a positive smile, or hello

    • @AmericanFarmerHVAC2024
      @AmericanFarmerHVAC2024 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It's even harder because you are fearing rejection. Don't let rejection affect you. Keep that positive, masculine mindset. They reject you now, and they will be crawling to you later when they hit the wall. And then you can happily reject them. Be strong my brother. You got this.

  • @NefariousDreary
    @NefariousDreary ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Dude, this is some of the realest, most healthy ass advice right here and I am here for it. Thank you for sharing, amigo.

  • @Sivorom404
    @Sivorom404 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What you are talking about is reality and I respect you for that!….peace!

  • @DustyChakra
    @DustyChakra ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I think Ralph Sockman said: "there is nothing so strong as gentleness, and nothing so gentle as true strength." Being gentle with yourself pays far greater dividends than kicking your own teeth about a mistake.
    Great content in this vid, man.

    • @nickkelley3975
      @nickkelley3975 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      YUP. That quote would have seemed absolutely dumb to me 7 years ago but I agree 100%

  • @GN0MEz
    @GN0MEz ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I don't usually comment on youtube videos. But how to beast is one of the best channels I've ever discovered. I can relate to a lot od Dave's story. Most things did not come naturally to me and I had to grind to figure them out. I've definetly had my share of moments of doubt, and comparinf myself to others for not measuring up. Dave, your vids have shown me I'm not alone and have also given me a lot of guidance to improve. Thank you

  • @Ol_Ben
    @Ol_Ben 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    All maturity intended, quitting watchin porn does help a lot. You feel well focused and not brainwashed. I don't have any desire to watch it at all the last few years.

  • @BobbyJCox
    @BobbyJCox 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I’ve watched a lot of your videos and put a lot of your concepts into my pocket; but I have to say, this video felt like it was pointed right at me. The last section in particular helped me identify just how much that “cheap masculinity” is keeping me from going to the next level. Thank you for publishing this, 100 times over. 🙏🏼

  • @drewdoran6645
    @drewdoran6645 ปีที่แล้ว

    #3 is on the money "Don't Get Lost in the Sauce". I fell into this trap a little bit in 2020 - 2021. Total waste of fucking time. Then I got back on the grind focusing on personal development and success 100% of the time. It's the only way.

  • @historiclore2910
    @historiclore2910 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Such positive way to encourage men to be good without taking from others, women or things to boost ourselves up.

  • @4Him346
    @4Him346 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Best part of my morning dude you need a podcast! I just want to listen to the motivation while I’m in the gym 12 min isn’t enough.

  • @oOBiohazardxOo
    @oOBiohazardxOo ปีที่แล้ว

    that last point is crucial when developing yourself. The ego / pain body will always try to "defend you". Being aware of that stops it.

  • @tumwesigyevincent2806
    @tumwesigyevincent2806 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    number 3 is relateable to me.. its time to keep focus on my next moves and ignore destructions.

  • @creativeguyty
    @creativeguyty ปีที่แล้ว +2

    bro you are a real one for giving real life scenarios as examples great video

  • @rolandmckeon5312
    @rolandmckeon5312 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I'm currently in a stage of my life where I am breaking down my ego, self esteem, etc... And its because I'm a failure and I know it so in order to start to fix things I have to start from the ground up and its hard but this video helps me know what steps I should take next thank you 🙏

    • @AmericanFarmerHVAC2024
      @AmericanFarmerHVAC2024 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      We all make mistakes. We all fail. It's what makes us human. Now we can either learn from it or keep trying the same thing over again expecting different results (insanity), what matters is what we choose.

  • @Pianodaddyy
    @Pianodaddyy ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Love the energy on your channel brother, thank you for staying humble. The world needs more of this.

  • @badgerproductions24
    @badgerproductions24 ปีที่แล้ว

    Bro you have literally changed my life literally not even a cliche not a cliché

  • @edwarcastil
    @edwarcastil ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for touching on some subjects that some will prefer not go there due to comfort.

  • @Kyndeyern
    @Kyndeyern ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Feedback. I didn't watch much of your videos before because they were too long and with "fillers".
    Your delivery is way better now. Has the entertainment part, the business part (ads), but they are way more quicker, and we don't lose focus on the main msg. You keep going straight to the point!!! Congrats, hope it keep that way

  • @adid.5585
    @adid.5585 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is so wise! Everything on this list was spot on! Thank you, brother! 💪

  • @supermanprime1281
    @supermanprime1281 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks 🙏 I really needed this video, I was going through a shame cycle 🔁

    • @HISWorldNeedsMen
      @HISWorldNeedsMen 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      No need for Shame! I have felt that often! No need my brother

  • @rambo6375
    @rambo6375 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    David all you're saying in this vid is so accurate felt those same feelings before 😂

  • @ethanleonard7539
    @ethanleonard7539 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    For me comparison mostly isn’t trying to find ways I’m better but just accepting that I’m in a worse position in life than others

    • @titanos.k3505
      @titanos.k3505 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      No bro why you gotta do that to yourself

  • @paulc1014
    @paulc1014 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I have a similar story as yours bro,
    this was back in 2009, a friend and I went to pick up 2 girls that I met on Facebook and they were down to go out with us, all we did was go for a cruise around the city and we ended up just buying some drinks and went back to my place to drink. I was seated next to the girl I was vibing with and my friend was outside talking with the other girl. I was so nervous to even kiss the girl and she was giving me signs that she wanted to start getting physical, so I just chugged a whole bunch of beers in front of her while she was barely sipping on her drink, I ended up super drunk and just passed out right there on the couch, after that, the girl called her parents to come pick her up and i never heard from her again.

  • @victordia099
    @victordia099 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Nice video! Love the thumbnail of this video! Keep up the good work!

  • @eMillion100
    @eMillion100 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm living a super comfortable life everyday, except when I have to go to work. I don't do anything that I don't feel like doing or don't like doing, and realize my life is the same boring bs everyday...Then get mad at looking other successful people enjoying their lives...

  • @TruePeaceSeeker
    @TruePeaceSeeker ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for number 5, I feel as if everything is a personal attack to me. The ego is the enemy of self

  • @strykerx24
    @strykerx24 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I'm guilty for more then a couple of these things. When it come to porn addiction I wish someone when I was younger sat me down and said "aside from the fact the it's morally wrong, but it's biologically not good for your health and relationships."

    • @KushSalad
      @KushSalad ปีที่แล้ว +2

      A lot of us started really young. I think it had more damage than we know.

  • @volodymyrberezhanskyy9111
    @volodymyrberezhanskyy9111 ปีที่แล้ว

    Maaaan,your words are 100%
    I think I experienced almost all the things you were talking about and these rules are the key

  • @vanshkhyani8840
    @vanshkhyani8840 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You're so powerfully motivative, what did you study in college?

  • @eMillion100
    @eMillion100 ปีที่แล้ว

    Comparison is the thief of joy, I do this all the time...When I didn't know much about the world I was so much happier.

  • @brandonlavorgna9367
    @brandonlavorgna9367 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Man youre like the big bro I never had but always needed. Always appreciate your advice and the way you don't sugar coat things. Stay beastly 💪

  • @yogeshchettiar470
    @yogeshchettiar470 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is easily one of your best videos

  • @joshsherman2318
    @joshsherman2318 ปีที่แล้ว

    These edits have gotten even more masterful

  • @isaiahslagboom7512
    @isaiahslagboom7512 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love number 6 so much! Thank you!

  • @jayjohnson143G
    @jayjohnson143G ปีที่แล้ว

    I’ve watched many videos on self improvement this is the only one thats helpful

  • @akashdeva1345
    @akashdeva1345 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Many speak about masculinity nowadays, but I always find your your thoughts and your viewpoint on things which are very deep understood and I find your videos more helpful to the Bros is out there and make them the real bros whom they should be to get a hard mindset and build up their future😉.

  • @Ciara_Prizmini.
    @Ciara_Prizmini. ปีที่แล้ว

    BRO I am loving these sit downs that have all these additional effect like the visuals man , they kind of put you to the picture, much more interesting than those straight sit down talks and they are not boring bro they make you want more of BEAST content. Bro you just took podcasts or sit downs to another level
    STAY BEASTY

  • @vegasskidd7081
    @vegasskidd7081 ปีที่แล้ว

    Watching your videos changed my life

  • @icefireicefire105
    @icefireicefire105 ปีที่แล้ว

    Beast- A MASTERPIECE OF KNOWLEDGE! 💯🔥

  • @nickkelley3975
    @nickkelley3975 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great message and content as always. I was confused about the "Toxic Masculinity" title making people assume the channel is representing all of one side or the other of the "ideology" line thats dividing everyone. I'm glad I stopped and watched the video and found out otherwise, good take on the term. Maybe a hidden lesson in the title too. I like the comfort part. It's like David Goggins says about intentionally doing something that "SUCKS" every day.

  • @gavinsines2038
    @gavinsines2038 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Everything you said in this video was correct. You’re awesome dude, thank you. I can’t tell you how much you’ve helped me update my style haha

  • @jeanpaul379
    @jeanpaul379 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great video again David. You brought up some good points. Thanks.

  • @TheMatrix2024
    @TheMatrix2024 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Really good content in this video. I hope to see more videos like this in the future.
    I was doing really good with a lot of the things David was talking about in the video, but then I slipped up. This was a nice little reminder that I have to get up, brush off the dust, and go forward and not letting negative energy drag me down.
    Thanks David! Stay Beastly

  • @EdyGomez13
    @EdyGomez13 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Just a minor recommendation, in addition to the filter you already have on your website for stock/ out of stock items, it would be great to combine that filter with sizes. Like for example I want to see what is in stock that is also XL.
    Thanks for the video. Really great insight

  • @chris7645
    @chris7645 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I appreciate your approach on those topics

  • @hnuthaper5923
    @hnuthaper5923 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Definitely felt this video on a different level. Appreciate you my guy 🙏🏽

  • @HippoHeart55113
    @HippoHeart55113 ปีที่แล้ว

    Bro thank you so much I can now get more girls and keep my masculinity.

  • @drberrydds1
    @drberrydds1 ปีที่แล้ว

    Man, this was amazing and every guy should watch this multiple times throughout their lives. Not all of it applies to me but the principles are super solid.

  • @stefantore7590
    @stefantore7590 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Tnks man ,i love you,from Romania !

  • @lild4vey
    @lild4vey ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Solid advice

  • @SalemSnow1
    @SalemSnow1 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My sister went to Boston University from 2008 to 2012 so you probably know her. We are lifelong Massachusetts residents. And my dad works at Boston University since 2000.

  • @JustWill99
    @JustWill99 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Nice editing on this one. For a minute I thought maybe you were really in Superbad 😉
    Solid life tips all the way around!

  • @junkymirnel6562
    @junkymirnel6562 ปีที่แล้ว

    Number 2 hit me hard. I am a mean person but meaner to myself, thank you. I know where to put the work.

  • @wandergonzalez1794
    @wandergonzalez1794 ปีที่แล้ว

    This mans videos are so good that I even watch the ads😅

  • @ezejrdouglas9005
    @ezejrdouglas9005 ปีที่แล้ว

    You're really in tune with your core bro

  • @user-d32658
    @user-d32658 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    0:51 The moment the closet doors opened up. Glad to see your openness about being gay. 👍🏻

  • @DontCallMeFlash
    @DontCallMeFlash ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Solid video dude, it's cool to see how your content has evolved over the years

  • @georgebaltakianrealestate4189
    @georgebaltakianrealestate4189 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Very beneficial, thank you

  • @Lucas_Collins
    @Lucas_Collins ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm really seeing a lot of stoic philosophy come through in this one. Love it bro

  • @zacharyburley5443
    @zacharyburley5443 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is the only channel I listen to ads on ; David always transitions with a good joke so he always drags me in

  • @sedalionthunder6295
    @sedalionthunder6295 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was a nice video, especially the being gentle on yourself, you have to live with you every day so give yourself chances, tips, tricks, knowledge and you’ll get better

  • @whiskeydelta4180
    @whiskeydelta4180 ปีที่แล้ว

    So on point brother. Rock on! Porn needs to die from a lack of market.

  • @mikeriderbrasil
    @mikeriderbrasil ปีที่แล้ว

    Dude, I just wanted to say thank you!
    Your videos are top quality, you speak very clearly and with confidence, and your "self conscious/self awareness" topics are spot on. I really enjoy watching your videos. Keep up the good work! Cheers from Brazil!

  • @azeddineelmourabit7899
    @azeddineelmourabit7899 ปีที่แล้ว

    Really valuable video, thanks man for this masterpiece

  • @bontashalom6440
    @bontashalom6440 ปีที่แล้ว

    Been long watching beast channel but all I say is that the video editing is on 🙂 a new level

  • @prince_percent
    @prince_percent ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Aye David Bro the editing is amazing ❤

  • @samuelgallagher1532
    @samuelgallagher1532 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hey dude glad you hit on all these topics…I couldn’t agree with you more and always glad you keep it real! Keep doing your thing!

  • @ZeusyZeus
    @ZeusyZeus ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great video man huge supporter of this train of thought. Well said 🙏🏼 we need more of this real talk.

  • @anthonypelaez5297
    @anthonypelaez5297 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Ty bro, this video help a lot, there are Many things i needed to hear. Lets do it

  • @stanleydimitrov5211
    @stanleydimitrov5211 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love these types of videos, provides a nice a variety to the life style vids. And its very direct, concise and engaging

  • @deanwright5036
    @deanwright5036 ปีที่แล้ว

    Going through a rough patch right now but think I came across this video at the perfect time!! 💪🏻

  • @jacgyt
    @jacgyt ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Editing in this video is nxt lvl bruh, u did it by urself ?

  • @sniper00014
    @sniper00014 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great video. spot on!! I could see myself..... Thank you

  • @realroman1
    @realroman1 ปีที่แล้ว

    Youre killing it bro. Uploaded 5 hours ago and already 13K views

  • @killclav
    @killclav ปีที่แล้ว +1

    4:12 😂😂😂. Loving these edits Beast. Keep them coming!

  • @madini5him
    @madini5him ปีที่แล้ว

    Love the 6th point. It describes my life =D

  • @rubencabrera8519
    @rubencabrera8519 ปีที่แล้ว

    Man, you are amazing brah, i like that you share your experiences and give your perspective. I enjoy every video you make.

  • @riggs2431
    @riggs2431 ปีที่แล้ว

    The way you end the video now is dope makes me want to watch the next video…that was dope how u did that bro

  • @BreakFree135
    @BreakFree135 ปีที่แล้ว

    You never miss a Thursday makes me want to push more on TH-cam

  • @learnpianofastonline
    @learnpianofastonline ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you very much. I have had to deal with all seven of these things and more in my earlier life but because of training such as yours, my life is getting better each and every day.

  • @dude1234522
    @dude1234522 ปีที่แล้ว

    This guy is pretty much the dating version of Alex Hormozi. Solid content, keep it coming

  • @supremelordoftheuniverse5449
    @supremelordoftheuniverse5449 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yeah, I always owned my failures but still every single subsequently first night with any girl was exactly the same. Get nervous and can't get it up. Some of them, if they were patient enough, eventually became girlfriends and then I'm seggs god and made them see the stars. It just doesnt work the first couple tries, no matter how confident I am. Now what?

  • @effectme3410
    @effectme3410 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Well done !!!! I enjoy your videos so much they are well structured . Advice , Wardrobe, product review !!!! Nicely done ❤

  • @Geogian_
    @Geogian_ ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great videos man ❤

  • @oma23j
    @oma23j ปีที่แล้ว

    2008 was 15 years ago.. that hit me