Today we passed 300 comments and 320 likes. I only deleted 4 comments so far, because they were just plain garbage. This means, that if you read through the comments, you will see the mindset of foreign men, engaging in relationships in Thailand. Remember, people always talk about themselves. In some comments it is obvious and others not. Therefore, even a negative comment tells a lot about the person who made it. If you have the time and feel like it, read and continue to comment. I did not expect to receive so many comments! Thank you! Thank you to all of you for watching, your comments, and your likes. 💗 🙏
Hi, this video is the first one of yours that I have seen. I really like both of you. I clicked on "Like" and "Subscribe All" so thank you for a great video. And now I will view your other videos. Oh, one other thing: Each person has to be responsible for themselves. When they are children, they need someone to help them with life. When they become an adult, they have to take responsibility for themselves and later for their young children. You two are adults and are allowed to live as you choose with each other. Marriage must include respect and caring for each other. What others think of your relationship is none of their business. I'm 81 and live in the USA. I would feel very happy and lucky if I could find such a wonderful woman as you Nann. Take good care of each other.
It is good to see that you not only share a hobby. I know that you know what you talk about. Yes, love is everything. Thank you, my friend, for watching, your comment, and your like. 💗 🙏
I think you are also one of our longtime viewers. It is always good to see an old friend again. At the moment, we battle the bureaucracy. That might be another video one day. Since you stick around, you will see the marriage happen. Thank you for watching, your comment, and your like. 💗🙏
Go for it. She seems like a good gal! 32 year age difference between my wife and I. Been married 13 happy years with a little girl we had very recently. The age difference hasn’t been as issue at all. Go for it and be happy!
I fully agree to this. We live together for 5 years now. The age difference has never been a problem for us. We don't plan for a baby, though. Thank you for watching, your comment, and your like. 💗 🙏
It is my first time on your channel. I think she is the big love in your life and you should have married her yesterday, as no one knows what tomorrow brings. Don't waste time go for it.
Hello - I clicked on this video and I did not know you were going to ask this - I think it’s wonderful for both of you to get married. Love is a wonderful thing to achieve- I support you fully in your decision to marry. I’m happy for you and I think I need to go to Thailand- thank you and many years of happiness and peace to you both.
As Nann said, we don't know what the future hold for us. I hope that we still have a few beautiful years. I try to do my best, that Nann will have a good life when I am long history. Thank you for watching, your comment, and your like. 💗 🙏
If you 2 are happy with eachother then it's no one's business to say otherwise because you're both adults regardless of the age gap which doesn't matter to me. Odin, I think you're a honest man and you keep bringing up your age and the age gap which many older men rather avoid it and not talk about it. I wish you both happiness & a mutually respected and understanding relationship. 🌹✌️
We are very happy together. The TH-cam channel is our hobby. And since we live 5 years together now, it's time to do the next step. We both feel comfortable with this. Thank you for watching, your comment, and your like. 💗 🙏
Lucky 🍀 Guy. I’m in a 37 year age gap relationship. I’ve been with my wife for ten years. She looks like a nice warm Thai women. They are hard to find.
They are hard to find in a bar. But there are lots of good ladies around. One should just not try to find them in Pattaya or some bar. Thank you for watching, your comment, and your like. 💗 🙏
Yes, I share your opinion. And when you watch this channel, you get an idea of the personality she has. Thank you for watching, your comment, and your like. 💗 🙏
Age is just a number, I would say, marry this beautiful lady and enjoy the beautiful days yet to come. You love each other, that's the most important thing! Groeten uit Holland!
all I can say is my wife is also Thai, also 21 years my younger, we have been married 12 years now and presently live in the USA. Im always looking forward to traveling back the inlaws home in Nong Bua Lamphu province. say YES and enjoy your life, we only have one life to live so live with no regrets ! Sawasdee Krup
Marry her with a dual language prenuptial agreement and a good last will. It keeps your money safe when necessary but also makes her well looked after if you pass away. The age gap is what you make out of it. In many other countries an age gap of 40 years is normal. Older men are more stable, financially and mentally. I have been married twice before and the love was genuine, but it doesn't always stay like that and when the love is gone then the relationship suddenly becomes a business relationship after all. Married again a couple of years ago, but with prenup and a last will in place. Ease of mind for my wife and myself.
@@ThailandLifestyle yes, we live in Thailand ourselves. Right now in the vicinity of Hua Hin and hopefully next year we will have a piece of land ourselves somewhere in Thailand to have our house built on.
That's a great plan, and Hua Hin is a good place to be. We just passed thought Chumpon. Chumpon has lots of totally empty beaches, beautiful nature, few tourists but an amazing nightlife. I am sure the land is also very affordable down there.
Sage advice, thank you for sharing, i will be heading over next year, i want to travel most of Thailand, i am not into high tourist areas and don't drink so hopefully i can meet some nice ladies, fingers crossed.😁🙏🙏🙏🙏
Good plan. Give yourself time. Focus on learning about the differences in culture. Learn, learn, learn. If a lady jumps into bed with you within days, move on. I dated Nann for a year before we got closer. Thank you for watching, your comment, and your like. 💗 🙏
I follow the two of you for a couple of years now. And I still remember the first scene I saw on the video. Nann was cleaning the room and Odin did clean the toilet beijng in the background. Now some time later is the question about marry or not! Get married...the two of you are a loving couple that is mend to be. Enjoy the love, enjoy the good energy and be happy.
Wow, you are a subscriber from the beginning! I forgot about that video already. You are correct, our relationship is getting stronger and better ever since. Therefore, we decided to marry. At the moment, we are making the bureaucracy happy. By January, we should be married. Thank you for watching and staying with us for so long, my friend! Thank you for your comment, and your like. 💗 🙏
Yes, sometimes one needs to see that things are possible. I hope that your story plays out as good as ours. We keep in touch. I am glad to have you as friend.
In Thailand the famous saying is ‘Up to you’ The reality I think is once married she will inherit what you have. That’s also ok, I’m 68 feeling old, yet I’ve been in Thailand 1 year now & I no longer feel quite so old Good luck
We said this in the video that our question does not influence our decision. We fully agree that this is our personal decision. Thank you for watching, your comment, and your like. 💗 🙏
Hmm .. I think all people can do is live in the moment. When else do you want to live? 😀 We will for sure do what we want, and we live now. It looks like you know what you talk about. Thank you for your reminder and thought. Where do you live?
Marry her you guys are good couple your smart an talked it out together.Goodluck first time watching you l will subscribe.Keep this a couple blog there are thousands that can relate.🇨🇦
Your a soft spoken gentleman truly honest and loving.Nann is the exact same a lady so make these years together with love.Odin you still got that twinkle in your eye so go for it your family is behind you.
Without Love, what is there? Live for today because there may not be a tomorrow. Some may say that marriage is not important, but for me it is about commitment and devotion to the other person.
I'm happy for both of you. I'm a firm believer that we go out and do what we always wanted to do, with enthusiasm, going for the prime pleasure, spirited enjoyment, committed to follow through with the desires of your life.
I just copy what I just wrote in the comment above. We like the way you think and agree mostly. Yet, in life, it's not all about you. For me, it's also about my children and about Nann. For Nann it is also about her family, her daughter and me. All these people are part of our happiness. Don't fall into the trap of being egocentric. Thank you for watching, your comment, and your like. 💗 🙏
You both are lucky to find each other blessed and full of happiness. My Thai wife is the best thing to ever happen in my life and I'm so lucky. Get married! All in on love !❤
It's good to see that I am not alone. Usually only the bad stories are told. I fully agree with you. Thank you for watching, your comment, and your like. 💗 🙏
😅Herzlichen Glueckwunsch ihr Zwei. Sie haben eine wunderbare Frau gefunden. Sie ist sehr, sehr huebsch, super niedlich, ein unglaubliches schönes Lachen und eine wunderbare Ausstrahlung. Leben Sie ihr leben. Ich bin neidlos neidisch. Sie sind bestimmt ein gluecklicher Mensch. Mir hat der Beitrag von Euch beiden so gut gefallen, dass ich gleich Ihren Kanal abboniert habe. Bleiben Sie gesund und geniessen Sie ihr Leben. Herzlichst sounddevelopment
Vielen Dank für die lieben Zeilen. Nann ist wirklich eine Seele von Mensch. Willkommen auf unserem Kanal. Dann sehen wir uns jetzt öfter. smile Thank you for watching, your comment, and your like. 💗🙏
Honesty at the earliest point counts. A bit of truth stretching when flirting may be acceptable but end the stretching early because it will eventually grow into the cancer of lies. To me there is physical and mental age difference. Do not hide or over exaggerate, remember the wisdom out of experience and the directness of youth sometimes pointing out the obvious. Enjoy yourselves.
I see your point. We play with open cards. Why should we lie? And yes, we were different persons in young age. Especially men grow up later. Putting this subject in public, is also a way to make Nann see a different side. Fact is, we live together and both don't want to change this. To be married is more important for Nann as it is for me. People will respect her more. I say in every video: Make the best out of your day, every day. Thank you for watching, your comment, and your like. 💗 🙏
As long as two adults know exactly what they are getting into and want to do it, go for it. Marriage is a business deal between two people that involves tangible and intangible arguments.
True. It is the smallest unit in our society. As it is also a contract, it should be dealt with as such. I would not call it a business deal. But you are correct, it has lots of legal consequences. Everybody who went through a divorce knows that. Thank you for watching, your comment, and your like. 💗 🙏
@@ThailandLifestyle Whenever one balances out things involved in a situation that involve others, means, engagement etc..., it is a deal. SOme consider business deal only when tangible items are exchanged. But it is still a business deal when intangibles are included.
You are a loving couple, you should go for it! Life is short, and happiness is hard to find. Only you both truly know how good you feel about each other. Age gap doesn`t mean a thing, I`m sure you have plenty in common even at 40 years age gap. You know exactly what I mean, been there, done that. Best of luck to both of you! From a Thai woman, married for 15 years with a farang, also a pretty big age gap. Our years together have been the happiest years of both our lives 💖💖
I fully agree with you. We both live through the best times of our life. Love is something you create every day. Either you are able to do it or not. We are blessed that we can do it. The only downside is, that Nann will have to start a new life at some point. I try to make that start as easy as possible. Fortunately, she has family to fall back too, at least for a while. Now all we can do is make the best out of the days we have, every day. Thank you for watching, your lovely words, and your like. 💗🙏
@@ThailandLifestyle Thank you for answering my comment 😊 You are right about the challenges some Thai ladies can meet when marrying an older farang. I have mentioned that in other youtube channels, that the combination of the Thai lady quitting work, and not having her own child or two to fall back on after the marriage comes to an end, is a challenge, and something foreigners should have in mind. I'm sure you know that in Thai culture the children very often take care of the parents when they get old, financially. Thai "pension" is extremely low, 700 baht a month or so,, if you haven't been a government employee. You can't live on that pension alone. Many foreigners don't want any kids in their relationship with a Thai lady, and the ladies almost always outlive their farang partner, maybe by many years, or decades. That is a good reason to take care of the partner financially after you're gone. I know you are very aware, and I'm sure you'll do just that, when your wife gives you the best decade or two of her life, and your love is mutual. It's not easy to start dating again in her 50's, or so. So I wish you all the best, I'm sure your wife will take very good care of you for the rest of your life, if you treat her well and with respect. Which I'm sure you'll do. You seem like a very kind and lovely man, and your wife is very sweet 😊❤️
A pleasant video to watch and agree if you are both happy and contributing to each others happiness and if the relationship is mutually beneficial then why not. I too am in a relationship with a much younger woman. We both help, care, and love each other. We have been totally accepted by my and her family and my children.
It is good to hear that I am not the only one. Where do you live? Here it is the same. We are also fully accepted by the family and my children as well. There is a video out, I did it for my 70 birthday on Koh Chang with my children. th-cam.com/video/B5gfdrrrxus/w-d-xo.html Thank you for watching, your comment, and your like. 💗 🙏
Age is just a number, your attitude is your age. Looks like you guys share a love like no other. Thanks for sharing your reasons for getting married. as for your question....I would not get married. Getting married is for having children and securing each other financially.
I understand your point, especially if you live in America. Here the culture is a bit different. Thank you for watching, your comment, and your like. 💗 🙏
How did you meet her and what kind of Visa do you have to stay there for so long. You both seem to be very happy and that's the only thing that matters
I am 74 years old from Orlando Florida My name is Paul and after seeing your video I would say definitely go for it she seems like she truly loves you and you need that piece of paper the marriage license for her to make medical decisions for you and it seems like you trust her and you love her like she loves you so I say go for it
Looks like you don't like commitment. I respect your thought and having gone through 3 marriages I understand what you talk about. Thank you for watching, your comment, and your like. 💗 🙏
Marry 🎉but then I'm a romantic. Seriously though.. I agree with you both, to make decisions as a couple you need a level opinion and from the baseline of marriage we can agree to respect and commit to each other every day.
We agree. I guess we are very romantic as well. smile. And as you said, commitment, respect and trust are the baseline to touch. It's work in progress, every day.
I would get a prenuptial agreement no matter whether I marry a western woman or a Thai woman. All relationships at a certain level are transactional, but you should always want to protect your assets. It's great to be in love but don't be foolish.
I agree. It's not only that, also if she engages in some business, it's better to be separated financially from that. After all, marriage is also a contract and should be looked at as such.
It really depends where one is living - where I am living, preexisting assets are protected rather well even without prenuptial agreement, while retirement assets acquired during marriage can't be protected even with a prenuptial agreement
I was self-employed all my life. I am used to taking risks, and I don't fear Nann. But thank you for your thought and helpful input! Thank you for watching, your comment, and your like. 💗 🙏
WE fully understand, and said this twice in the video, that this discussion is for you and us but does not influence our path. We don't look for a permission. We just want to see the reactions. You could have said: If you make her happy, why not? 😉 Thank you for watching, your comment, and your like. 💗 🙏
With me, it's 39 years difference. We have a house, car, motorbike and a 12-year-old son .... and we love each other. Married for over 5 years. I am not a rich Westerner. Everything except my car is in her name, never had a worry about getting ripped off. You hear so many stories and most of them are negative. As they say in Thailand ... up to you
Thank you for sharing your story with us. People always talk about themselves. When you hear bad stories, it's many times the result of what people created. If you give love and trust, it is likely that you get love and trust. If you cheat all the time, don't be surprised if you get cheated as well. What goes around, comes around. Thank you for watching, your comment, and your like. 💗 🙏
Marriage is a personal choice. I have been over the coals of 2 divorces, which has now made me sceptical. I love Fon and she loves me. As a farmer by trade, now retired, my mantra in most things is, 'if it ain't broke, don't fix it'. I am fully committed Fon and her daughter, I have made provision for her when 'kick it'!! Never watched your channel before, You both seem a very nice couple.
Welcome to the channel. Where do you live? As you saw in the video, I was married 3 times. But as Nann puts it so cute, why not marry the best? So I do it for her. Just as you, we do have agreements in place. Therefore, no much will change on this side. Thank you for watching, your comment, and your like. 💗 🙏 I hope to hear more from you!
Oh Gerry, my old friend, it is so good to hear from you. Although, what you say does not sound good. I hear you, and I do as you say! Still, I have hope to have you around a bit longer! I miss our weekly chat. Thank you for writing to us. I will tell Nann. Our hearts are with you! 💗🙏
Your are a very lucky guy to have such a beautiful girl friend. I think it would be a bad idea to marry. Your relationship will change as it does for all married couples. Stay as you are and keep the magic.
Looks like you have some bad experience. Yes, a relationship changes, but it's not because of commitment. Some people look at their partners as property. This is what poisons the relationship. Thank you for watching, your comment, and your like. 💗 🙏
We like the way you think and agree mostly. Yet, in life, it's not all about you. For me, it's also about my children and about Nann. For Nann it is also about her family, her daughter and me. All these people are part of our happiness. Don't fall into the trap of being egocentric. Thank you for watching, your comment, and your like. 💗 🙏
If you are happy it wouldn't matter if Nan is 20 if she doesn't want to have a child. However with a power of attorney she could disinherit your children back in your homeland if you have them. I think that would be a bit unfair. Of course she may say she would never do that but millions of men have been told that and the opposite happened. Anyway chok dee na khrap get married!
'And in the end the love you get is equal to the love you take'. I don't worry. I trust Nann and I trust my children. Thank you for watching, your comment, and your like. 💗🙏
Western ways of thinking block you from realizing that many other cultures espouse another perspective on relationships. That's why, as a New Yorker, I'm happy I took the initiative to relocate to Bangkok where life feels so much better than back in the States.
Everyone deserve happiness. Others opinion doesnt matter because only time will prove. Not even the both of you can tell how things will go down the road. I guess everyone falls in love and its like taking a bet of 50% for any relationship. I do want to see people happy, doing what is right in life and living life to its fullest. Appreciate life.
I am sure at this stage your decision is well thought over and anyways all things in life are bound to change.. we never know what comes next. About fallling asleep at the steering wheel in the car.. It happened to me at much younger age because of sleep apnea. I have a sleeping-device now and all is fine for years again. You might want to check this and I am sure your partner can tell you if you snore a lot at night maybe sometimes stop breathing for a longer moment. It would be an indicator for it.
Hallo und Herzlichen Glückwunsch euch beiden,es ist das erste Video von euch und noch nie habe ich so viele positive kommentare gelesen,ein lockerer Sonntag Nachmittag nach Kaffee und Kuchen bei Schnee und Wind.Von mir kann ich sagen das ich mit meiner Frau im Februar 65 Jahre verheiratet bin und die Liebe nicht im Alter verblasst sondern klarer und inniger wird, wie zwei Flüsse die zu einem Strom werden.Übrigens der Unterschied zwischen Schwarz und Weiß ist nicht so groß wie man denkt ,es kommt darauf an wie ,,Locker man ist.Weiterhin viel glück und gesundheit👍👍👍👍👍👍👍🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Ich gratuliere Euch zu Eurem Glück! Ihr habt was richtig gemacht! Wir können froh sein, wenn wir 10 Jahre schaffen. Nann gibt sich Mühe, mich gesund und fit zu halten. Thank you for watching, your comment, and your like. 💗 🙏
Live for the moment life is short Nan is prepared to be with you ,be happy and enjoy your life with your lovely Thai woman,I'm married to my wife feom That Phanom 17 years now with a 14 yr old son,we have an age gap of 22 years and we're very happy.Best of luck to the future 😂 5:30
It is good to see that there are people with heart, love and trust. Yes, life is short. We are trying to make the best out of our time. Thank you for your wishes. Thank you for watching, your comment, and your like. 💗🙏
having a partner care for you is great. only one exception... don't drink too much beer... is not what I want to hear. I saw that squint when she said "no babies"
Don't worry, I don't drink much. All my life, I was never really drunk. Tipsy, yes but only a few times. I don't enjoy drinking too much. Thank you that you care. Thank you for watching, your comment, and your like. 💗 🙏
If you make each other happy, for whatever reason, and marriage helps that happiness, then the answer is obvious - get married. Be clear-eyed about your expectations and back those understandings up with a legal agreement in the form of a dual language pre-nuptial and will. If you truly love one another both of you will understand that this is yet another way to care for, love, and help one another. You will have the comfort of knowing that she is by your side for the right reasons and she will know that you are with her for the right reasons. This trust will carry you both forward into the promise and uncertainty of the future. Please accept my heartfelt good wishes for the both of you.
Yes, she has other motives, like motives from her cultural background. To understand them, you have to look deeper into Thai society. I explained those in other comments. If you care to know, just read more. Thank you for watching, your comment, and your like. 💗 🙏
You enjoy love, and she provides this for you. A big age gap means that she is going to be alone for a long time. You should marry and you should make provision for her once you are gone
I think we are. Otherwise, we would not go this route. Financial everything is already dealt with Thank you for watching, your comment, and your like. 💗 🙏.
Go for it! It’s your life don’t worry about what other people think! I used to worry about what other people think not anymore. The last quarter is mine. The first 3/4 was enslaved for a weekly paycheck. And the promise of Social Security and a pension. Social Security being threatened right now. I can make it on my pension if the market stays strong. Otherwise, I’ll be regretting not living my life if my egg basket fails! Live your life!
Yeah she know how old and see one foot in grave so she don’t waste time with young guy when she can be with old guy inherit and be well off. We know the truth
If you love someone, you want to take care of them as good as you can. Nann does take good care of me. She has a good job and we kind of grew on each other. Our love grew over time. It took a year for us to get close. Marriage is a proof of commitment. I saw many guys pass away and leave nothing to the woman which took care of them. This is wrong too. I made a last will in her favor long time ago. Financial, nothing will change for her, but emotional I think it has an impact.
@@ThailandLifestyleYou love her and she takes good care off you🤷, you said it yourself. But just do whatever you want mate, I would think twice before getting married, I would ask myself if she really loves you, but that's just my opinion. Have a great life together.
You know, we live now together for 5 years, and we do this TH-cam channel together. We travel a lot and enjoy life to the fullest. Our love just grew stronger over time. To marry is just the next level. We take good care of each other. I hope you have or find the same. Thank you for your thoughts and comments!
@@ThailandLifestyle I wish you the best, I sincerely mean that, but the love is one sided, you love her she takes care off you and when you're gone she is a happy girl 💸
If she was a government employee, it would be better for you to marry, but if not, I think you could still take care of her future without getting married. If there is true love, it doesn't change, married or not. She is a beautiful lady, and you are a very lucky man, so I think either way is OK.
You know, someone working in a hospital has an altruistic side already. And I can think of government jobs, I would not want to live with. Else, you got it right. Thank you for watching, your comment, and your like. 💗 🙏
Heh, my wife is 20 years younger than me. It's a good thing to have. But there is a major problem. Younger people do or think according to their age. Older people tend to stuck to what they are used to. If the two can make and compromise the difference, then it's a good idea to marry. Heh, I'm in the USA. And you are in Thailand. The culture and tradition are different. I may say something that is not right for Thailand.
That's true. An age gap is more common here. Anyway, thank you for your feedback! Compromise is something everyone in a successful relationship had to learn.
I have a Thai wife. If I was to stay in Thailand there would be no reason to marry. But I want bring her to America and you must be married for a spousal visa. We are both older and being married is not required living in Thailand. My wife and I are 29 years apart. But you 2 must answer the question about marriage. That's not for me to say. Good luck to both of you,,,,,,,,,
If we always focused on age gap, we would not explore the beauty of the other person. I think she is mature at 32 to make sound decisions. Go for it, she is a catch....
Good on you both you both look very happy just make sure your daughters only get what you want them to get not leave this lovely lady with bugger all look after her like she will you
I say if you love each other why not get married. Before getting married you should discuss your financial situation and get a prenup to ensure your children are taken care of first in case one of you pass away.
My question is how long have you dated? How does she make you feel? Is she in for money? Does she help you? A lot of questions. If there all positive you have your answer. Good luck 🍀 I’d love to be at your marriage. I’ll bring my wife. I’m married to a Filipina she’s 31 I’m 68..
Since you are married in Asia, you know a lot. I live here 25 years already. WE dated about a year before we decided to live together. Nann has a good job and is financially independent. You can find out a lot more about us if you follow our TH-cam channel. I hope we get your like and subscribe. 😎 Thank you for watching, your comment, and your like. 💗 🙏
My friends,in my opinion, you have to do, what you want, but if you want to know what’s people thinking, is ok ; from Western people’s is not good that old man stay with a young a beautiful lady, seen from Asia mentality, is ok , Thailand lady love family, if you are his family, she will love and take care more than western people, she do not put in a house for older people, she will take you until the end, and in your case your lady, I did not know her, but seen your videos, is a Angel from the sky, that comes to you, do not let it do.
I agree with you. Yes, Nann is a very good person. The fact that she chose to study public health tells already that she cares for people more than for money. Over the past 5 years, our relationship and love grew more and more solid. And because it raises her status at home, I decided to marry her. And yes, she is my angle. Thank you for watching, your comment, and your like. 💗 🙏
A medicine to control high blood pressure and high cholesterol. That's all. It, not what you expected. I know, but it's true. Thank you for watching, your comment, and your like. 💗 🙏
👍🏼❤️ Thanks for the great topic. I would marry my Thai lady too. But it seems complicated and difficult to navigate the paperwork and legal documents necessary for completion. Anyone know how to make the process/paperwork easier?
I think we will do a video, once we are done with the bureaucracy. Just subscribe and you will not miss it. Thank you for watching, your comment, and your like. 💗 🙏
We have just been in Phang Nga and Chumphon. Both places I would prefer to Pattaya. Enjoy your life! Thank you for watching, your comment, and your like. 💗 🙏
Yes. Make sure you take care of your grandchildren. Life is short. My gut feeling is, she is sincere. Dot the I's and cross the T's before you do anything and hire a lawyer who is bilingual. Good luck.
Marry Nann.. she’s a mature woman and she’s not force to marry you due to financial reason.. she’s willingly wants you to be her husband.. I think that’s a relationship many men married or not should love to have … a woman who loves him and willingly take him on sickness and in health ❤️
We are in the process of following your advice. You would be surprised of the bureaucracy we face. Maybe that will be another video one day. By January, we should be married. Thank you for watching, your comment, and your like. 💗 🙏
Today we passed 300 comments and 320 likes. I only deleted 4 comments so far, because they were just plain garbage. This means, that if you read through the comments, you will see the mindset of foreign men, engaging in relationships in Thailand. Remember, people always talk about themselves. In some comments it is obvious and others not. Therefore, even a negative comment tells a lot about the person who made it. If you have the time and feel like it, read and continue to comment. I did not expect to receive so many comments! Thank you!
Thank you to all of you for watching, your comments, and your likes. 💗 🙏
Hi, this video is the first one of yours that I have seen. I really like both of you. I clicked on "Like" and "Subscribe All" so thank you for a great video. And now I will view your other videos.
Oh, one other thing:
Each person has to be responsible for themselves. When they are children, they need someone to help them with life. When they become an adult, they have to take responsibility for themselves and later for their young children.
You two are adults and are allowed to live as you choose with each other.
Marriage must include respect and caring for each other. What others think of your relationship is none of their business.
I'm 81 and live in the USA. I would feel very happy and lucky if I could find such a wonderful woman as you Nann.
Take good care of each other.
Very cute to see you two respecting and loving each other for who both of you are, despite all the obvious differences.❤
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Marry eachother! ❤ If you two are happy together, don't hold back!😊
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It's your life. She looks like a great choice. I am happy for you both
I could not agree with you more.
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It seems clear that you bring each other love and security. So no hesitation, life is short! Love is everything ❤️
It is good to see that you not only share a hobby. I know that you know what you talk about. Yes, love is everything.
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I hope you marry ,you are always happy together ,keep enjoying your
Valuable time together Odin
I think you are also one of our longtime viewers. It is always good to see an old friend again.
At the moment, we battle the bureaucracy. That might be another video one day. Since you stick around, you will see the marriage happen.
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Go for it. She seems like a good gal! 32 year age difference between my wife and I. Been married 13 happy years with a little girl we had very recently. The age difference hasn’t been as issue at all. Go for it and be happy!
I fully agree to this. We live together for 5 years now. The age difference has never been a problem for us. We don't plan for a baby, though.
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It is my first time on your channel.
I think she is the big love in your life and you should have married her yesterday, as no one knows what tomorrow brings. Don't waste time go for it.
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Hello - I clicked on this video and I did not know you were going to ask this - I think it’s wonderful for both of you to get married. Love is a wonderful thing to achieve- I support you fully in your decision to marry. I’m happy for you and I think I need to go to Thailand- thank you and many years of happiness and peace to you both.
As Nann said, we don't know what the future hold for us. I hope that we still have a few beautiful years. I try to do my best, that Nann will have a good life when I am long history.
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If you 2 are happy with eachother then it's no one's business to say otherwise because you're both adults regardless of the age gap which doesn't matter to me. Odin, I think you're a honest man and you keep bringing up your age and the age gap which many older men rather avoid it and not talk about it. I wish you both happiness & a mutually respected and understanding relationship. 🌹✌️
The age gap is a fact we have to live and deal with. Not doing so is irresponsible.
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If you are both happy. And you are comfortable, with each other.
We are very happy together. The TH-cam channel is our hobby. And since we live 5 years together now, it's time to do the next step. We both feel comfortable with this.
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Great to watch. Well done 🎉
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Lucky 🍀 Guy. I’m in a 37 year age gap relationship. I’ve been with my wife for ten years. She looks like a nice warm Thai women. They are hard to find.
They are hard to find in a bar. But there are lots of good ladies around. One should just not try to find them in Pattaya or some bar.
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Marry. She's beautiful; you're smart. She will make this season of your life wonderful.
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Age is just a number, I would say, marry this beautiful lady and enjoy the beautiful days yet to come. You love each other, that's the most important thing! Groeten uit Holland!
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all I can say is my wife is also Thai, also 21 years my younger, we have been married 12 years now and presently live in the USA. Im always looking forward to traveling back the inlaws home in Nong Bua Lamphu province. say YES and enjoy your life, we only have one life to live so live with no regrets ! Sawasdee Krup
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Marry her with a dual language prenuptial agreement and a good last will. It keeps your money safe when necessary but also makes her well looked after if you pass away. The age gap is what you make out of it. In many other countries an age gap of 40 years is normal. Older men are more stable, financially and mentally. I have been married twice before and the love was genuine, but it doesn't always stay like that and when the love is gone then the relationship suddenly becomes a business relationship after all. Married again a couple of years ago, but with prenup and a last will in place. Ease of mind for my wife and myself.
Here speaks experience. Well noted. I fully agree. Do you live in Thailand as well? Where?
@@ThailandLifestyle yes, we live in Thailand ourselves. Right now in the vicinity of Hua Hin and hopefully next year we will have a piece of land ourselves somewhere in Thailand to have our house built on.
That's a great plan, and Hua Hin is a good place to be. We just passed thought Chumpon. Chumpon has lots of totally empty beaches, beautiful nature, few tourists but an amazing nightlife. I am sure the land is also very affordable down there.
Sage advice, thank you for sharing, i will be heading over next year, i want to travel most of Thailand, i am not into high tourist areas and don't drink so hopefully i can meet some nice ladies, fingers crossed.😁🙏🙏🙏🙏
Good plan. Give yourself time. Focus on learning about the differences in culture. Learn, learn, learn. If a lady jumps into bed with you within days, move on. I dated Nann for a year before we got closer.
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I follow the two of you for a couple of years now. And I still remember the first scene I saw on the video. Nann was cleaning the room and Odin did clean the toilet beijng in the background. Now some time later is the question about marry or not!
Get married...the two of you are a loving couple that is mend to be. Enjoy the love, enjoy the good energy and be happy.
Wow, you are a subscriber from the beginning! I forgot about that video already.
You are correct, our relationship is getting stronger and better ever since. Therefore, we decided to marry. At the moment, we are making the bureaucracy happy. By January, we should be married.
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@ThailandLifestyle Yes, the two of you were part of my inspiration and planning. Thanks for that.
Yes, sometimes one needs to see that things are possible. I hope that your story plays out as good as ours. We keep in touch. I am glad to have you as friend.
@ThailandLifestyle I don't know when yet, but let us meet in Bangkok if you want. For now, a nice weekend for the two of you.
Yes, we look forward to seeing you.
In Thailand the famous saying is
‘Up to you’
The reality I think is once married she will inherit what you have.
That’s also ok, I’m 68 feeling old, yet I’ve been in Thailand 1 year now & I no longer feel quite so old
Good luck
Yes, less stress and fitness make you feel better and younger.
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It really doesn't matter what anyone else thinks about it,just the both of you
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Yes marry ! It's ur life! Do what u want❤I approve live in the moment!
Hmm .. I think all people can do is live in the moment. When else do you want to live? 😀
We will for sure do what we want, and we live now. It looks like you know what you talk about. Thank you for your reminder and thought. Where do you live?
We both give our thoughts and ask you what you think?
Marry her you guys are good couple your smart an talked it out together.Goodluck first time watching you l will subscribe.Keep this a couple blog there are thousands that can relate.🇨🇦
We keep this in heart. Welcome to the channel and I hope to see you again.
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Your a soft spoken gentleman truly honest and loving.Nann is the exact same a lady so make these years together with love.Odin you still got that twinkle in your eye so go for it your family is behind you.
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Without Love, what is there? Live for today because there may not be a tomorrow. Some may say that marriage is not important, but for me it is about commitment and devotion to the other person.
We totally agree with you. Love, trust and respect are the pillars of a good relationship.
I'm happy for both of you. I'm a firm believer that we go out and do what we always wanted to do, with enthusiasm, going for the prime pleasure, spirited enjoyment, committed to follow through with the desires of your life.
I just copy what I just wrote in the comment above. We like the way you think and agree mostly. Yet, in life, it's not all about you. For me, it's also about my children and about Nann. For Nann it is also about her family, her daughter and me. All these people are part of our happiness. Don't fall into the trap of being egocentric.
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You both are lucky to find each other blessed and full of happiness. My Thai wife is the best thing to ever happen in my life and I'm so lucky. Get married! All in on love !❤
It's good to see that I am not alone. Usually only the bad stories are told. I fully agree with you.
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😅Herzlichen Glueckwunsch ihr Zwei. Sie haben eine wunderbare Frau gefunden. Sie ist sehr, sehr huebsch, super niedlich, ein unglaubliches schönes Lachen und eine wunderbare Ausstrahlung. Leben Sie ihr leben. Ich bin neidlos neidisch. Sie sind bestimmt ein gluecklicher Mensch. Mir hat der Beitrag von Euch beiden so gut gefallen, dass ich gleich Ihren Kanal abboniert habe. Bleiben Sie gesund und geniessen Sie ihr Leben. Herzlichst sounddevelopment
Vielen Dank für die lieben Zeilen. Nann ist wirklich eine Seele von Mensch. Willkommen auf unserem Kanal. Dann sehen wir uns jetzt öfter. smile
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Honesty at the earliest point counts. A bit of truth stretching when flirting may be acceptable but end the stretching early because it will eventually grow into the cancer of lies. To me there is physical and mental age difference. Do not hide or over exaggerate, remember the wisdom out of experience and the directness of youth sometimes pointing out the obvious. Enjoy yourselves.
I see your point. We play with open cards. Why should we lie?
And yes, we were different persons in young age. Especially men grow up later.
Putting this subject in public, is also a way to make Nann see a different side.
Fact is, we live together and both don't want to change this.
To be married is more important for Nann as it is for me. People will respect her more.
I say in every video: Make the best out of your day, every day.
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As long as two adults know exactly what they are getting into and want to do it, go for it. Marriage is a business deal between two people that involves tangible and intangible arguments.
True. It is the smallest unit in our society. As it is also a contract, it should be dealt with as such. I would not call it a business deal. But you are correct, it has lots of legal consequences. Everybody who went through a divorce knows that.
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@@ThailandLifestyle Whenever one balances out things involved in a situation that involve others, means, engagement etc..., it is a deal. SOme consider business deal only when tangible items are exchanged. But it is still a business deal when intangibles are included.
Buck the trend. One in a million. The very best of luck X2!
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Genuine love works through all things. Ty
I sign that.
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You are a loving couple, you should go for it! Life is short, and happiness is hard to find. Only you both truly know how good you feel about each other. Age gap doesn`t mean a thing, I`m sure you have plenty in common even at 40 years age gap. You know exactly what I mean, been there, done that. Best of luck to both of you! From a Thai woman, married for 15 years with a farang, also a pretty big age gap. Our years together have been the happiest years of both our lives 💖💖
I fully agree with you. We both live through the best times of our life. Love is something you create every day. Either you are able to do it or not. We are blessed that we can do it. The only downside is, that Nann will have to start a new life at some point. I try to make that start as easy as possible. Fortunately, she has family to fall back too, at least for a while.
Now all we can do is make the best out of the days we have, every day.
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@@ThailandLifestyle Thank you for answering my comment 😊 You are right about the challenges some Thai ladies can meet when marrying an older farang. I have mentioned that in other youtube channels, that the combination of the Thai lady quitting work, and not having her own child or two to fall back on after the marriage comes to an end, is a challenge, and something foreigners should have in mind. I'm sure you know that in Thai culture the children very often take care of the parents when they get old, financially. Thai "pension" is extremely low, 700 baht a month or so,, if you haven't been a government employee. You can't live on that pension alone.
Many foreigners don't want any kids in their relationship with a Thai lady, and the ladies almost always outlive their farang partner, maybe by many years, or decades. That is a good reason to take care of the partner financially after you're gone. I know you are very aware, and I'm sure you'll do just that, when your wife gives you the best decade or two of her life, and your love is mutual. It's not easy to start dating again in her 50's, or so.
So I wish you all the best, I'm sure your wife will take very good care of you for the rest of your life, if you treat her well and with respect. Which I'm sure you'll do. You seem like a very kind and lovely man, and your wife is very sweet 😊❤️
A pleasant video to watch and agree if you are both happy and contributing to each others happiness and if the relationship is mutually beneficial then why not. I too am in a relationship with a much younger woman. We both help, care, and love each other. We have been totally accepted by my and her family and my children.
It is good to hear that I am not the only one. Where do you live?
Here it is the same. We are also fully accepted by the family and my children as well. There is a video out, I did it for my 70 birthday on Koh Chang with my children. th-cam.com/video/B5gfdrrrxus/w-d-xo.html
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More power to you, old man.. no body wants to be alone.. 👍👍
I try to make Nann happy. At the same time, it's true I would not want to live alone.
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Age is just a number, your attitude is your age. Looks like you guys share a love like no other.
Thanks for sharing your reasons for getting married.
as for your question....I would not get married. Getting married is for having children and securing each other financially.
I understand your point, especially if you live in America. Here the culture is a bit different.
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How did you meet her and what kind of Visa do you have to stay there for so long. You both seem to be very happy and that's the only thing that matters
I met her with friends. I stay on a retirement visa since I turned 50.
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Great mind and thoughts🎉🎉🎉🎉
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I am 74 years old from Orlando Florida My name is Paul and after seeing your video I would say definitely go for it she seems like she truly loves you and you need that piece of paper the marriage license for her to make medical decisions for you and it seems like you trust her and you love her like she loves you so I say go for it
I think you are spot on! 🙏 It is also a cultural thing. Married, she will be more respected.
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It's always about money. When you get married and when you divorce, just being nice to each other should be good enough.
Looks like you don't like commitment. I respect your thought and having gone through 3 marriages I understand what you talk about.
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My Thai wife is 30 years younger than me and we are married since 14 years. No problem, we enjoy every day.
That's what any foreigners experience, they just don't talk. Read the comments! Well done!
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Marry 🎉but then I'm a romantic. Seriously though.. I agree with you both, to make decisions as a couple you need a level opinion and from the baseline of marriage we can agree to respect and commit to each other every day.
We agree. I guess we are very romantic as well. smile. And as you said, commitment, respect and trust are the baseline to touch. It's work in progress, every day.
I would get a prenuptial agreement no matter whether I marry a western woman or a Thai woman. All relationships at a certain level are transactional, but you should always want to protect your assets. It's great to be in love but don't be foolish.
I agree. It's not only that, also if she engages in some business, it's better to be separated financially from that. After all, marriage is also a contract and should be looked at as such.
It really depends where one is living - where I am living, preexisting assets are protected rather well even without prenuptial agreement, while retirement assets acquired during marriage can't be protected even with a prenuptial agreement
I was self-employed all my life. I am used to taking risks, and I don't fear Nann.
But thank you for your thought and helpful input!
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@ThailandLifestyle I couldn't agree more-I felt and feel exactly the same, being married ¼ of a century now
Congratulations, I am not likely to beat you on that number. ha ha ha
If she's making you happy, why not? It's your call to make not anyone else. You don't need others' permission for your happiness. That is my opinion.
WE fully understand, and said this twice in the video, that this discussion is for you and us but does not influence our path. We don't look for a permission. We just want to see the reactions.
You could have said: If you make her happy, why not? 😉
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With me, it's 39 years difference. We have a house, car, motorbike and a 12-year-old son .... and we love each other. Married for over 5 years.
I am not a rich Westerner. Everything except my car is in her name, never had a worry about getting ripped off. You hear so many stories and most of them are negative.
As they say in Thailand ... up to you
Thank you for sharing your story with us. People always talk about themselves. When you hear bad stories, it's many times the result of what people created. If you give love and trust, it is likely that you get love and trust. If you cheat all the time, don't be surprised if you get cheated as well. What goes around, comes around.
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Marriage is a personal choice.
I have been over the coals of 2 divorces, which has now made me sceptical.
I love Fon and she loves me. As a farmer by trade, now retired, my mantra in most things is, 'if it ain't broke, don't fix it'. I am fully committed Fon and her daughter, I have made provision for her when 'kick it'!!
Never watched your channel before, You both seem a very nice couple.
Welcome to the channel. Where do you live? As you saw in the video, I was married 3 times.
But as Nann puts it so cute, why not marry the best? So I do it for her. Just as you, we do have agreements in place. Therefore, no much will change on this side.
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As for your situation, being settled in Thailand, then I recommend that you marry this sweetheart. She is bright and enjoy your bond. Aloha
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Whatever makes you Happy.Thanks
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Odin , life changed for me 4 months ago ago, make sure all you your affairs are in order ,
Oh Gerry, my old friend, it is so good to hear from you. Although, what you say does not sound good. I hear you, and I do as you say! Still, I have hope to have you around a bit longer! I miss our weekly chat. Thank you for writing to us. I will tell Nann. Our hearts are with you! 💗🙏
Go for it you’re blessed ❤❤
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Great question! If it is love, the AGE difference is immaterial, so get married! What is the downside of marriage? You need to get married.
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Very nice and informative!
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Your are a very lucky guy to have such a beautiful girl friend. I think it would be a bad idea to marry. Your relationship will change as it does for all married couples. Stay as you are and keep the magic.
Looks like you have some bad experience. Yes, a relationship changes, but it's not because of commitment. Some people look at their partners as property. This is what poisons the relationship.
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It doesn't matter what anyone else thinks, be happy. Afterall, what is life about? It's about having a happy life.
We like the way you think and agree mostly. Yet, in life, it's not all about you. For me, it's also about my children and about Nann. For Nann it is also about her family, her daughter and me. All these people are part of our happiness. Don't fall into the trap of being egocentric.
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If you are happy it wouldn't matter if Nan is 20 if she doesn't want to have a child. However with a power of attorney she could disinherit your children back in your homeland if you have them. I think that would be a bit unfair. Of course she may say she would never do that but millions of men have been told that and the opposite happened. Anyway chok dee na khrap get married!
'And in the end the love you get is equal to the love you take'. I don't worry. I trust Nann and I trust my children. Thank you for watching, your comment, and your like. 💗🙏
Western ways of thinking block you from realizing that many other cultures espouse another perspective on relationships.
That's why, as a New Yorker, I'm happy I took the initiative to relocate to Bangkok where life feels so much better than back in the States.
You made a wise decision! I feel you there.
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Please enjoy ze young ladies my friend
Lady (singular!) smile
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Everyone deserve happiness. Others opinion doesnt matter because only time will prove. Not even the both of you can tell how things will go down the road. I guess everyone falls in love and its like taking a bet of 50% for any relationship. I do want to see people happy, doing what is right in life and living life to its fullest. Appreciate life.
I feel you and agree mostly. Stick around and watch it playing out. smile
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Love will fade. But forgiveness and kindness will keep relationship going.
We started with a deep friendship. It's the base for your love. I have no doubts.
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She is a sweetie mate. Good luck to the beautiful couple !
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I am sure at this stage your decision is well thought over and anyways all things in life are bound to change.. we never know what comes next. About fallling asleep at the steering wheel in the car.. It happened to me at much younger age because of sleep apnea. I have a sleeping-device now and all is fine for years again. You might want to check this and I am sure your partner can tell you if you snore a lot at night maybe sometimes stop breathing for a longer moment. It would be an indicator for it.
The car rental company don't rent cars to people over 70. But I will look into this.
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Hallo und Herzlichen Glückwunsch euch beiden,es ist das erste Video von euch und noch nie habe ich so viele positive kommentare gelesen,ein lockerer Sonntag Nachmittag nach Kaffee und Kuchen bei Schnee und Wind.Von mir kann ich sagen das ich mit meiner Frau im Februar 65 Jahre verheiratet bin und die Liebe nicht im Alter verblasst sondern klarer und inniger wird, wie zwei Flüsse die zu einem Strom werden.Übrigens der Unterschied zwischen Schwarz und Weiß ist nicht so groß wie man denkt ,es kommt darauf an wie ,,Locker man ist.Weiterhin viel glück und gesundheit👍👍👍👍👍👍👍🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Ich gratuliere Euch zu Eurem Glück! Ihr habt was richtig gemacht! Wir können froh sein, wenn wir 10 Jahre schaffen. Nann gibt sich Mühe, mich gesund und fit zu halten.
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God bless you both. ❤
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Love is more than anything. I think, you should marry her. I did marry my Thai wife decades ago and never ever, not a single moment, regretted it.
It is always good to hear about a success story. Congratulations!
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Live for the moment life is short Nan is prepared to be with you ,be happy and enjoy your life with your lovely Thai woman,I'm married to my wife feom That Phanom 17 years now with a 14 yr old son,we have an age gap of 22 years and we're very happy.Best of luck to the future 😂 5:30
It is good to see that there are people with heart, love and trust. Yes, life is short.
We are trying to make the best out of our time. Thank you for your wishes.
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If you both love each other, get married without further delay
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having a partner care for you is great. only one exception... don't drink too much beer... is not what I want to hear. I saw that squint when she said "no babies"
Don't worry, I don't drink much. All my life, I was never really drunk. Tipsy, yes but only a few times. I don't enjoy drinking too much. Thank you that you care.
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If you make each other happy, for whatever reason, and marriage helps that happiness, then the answer is obvious - get married. Be clear-eyed about your expectations and back those understandings up with a legal agreement in the form of a dual language pre-nuptial and will. If you truly love one another both of you will understand that this is yet another way to care for, love, and help one another. You will have the comfort of knowing that she is by your side for the right reasons and she will know that you are with her for the right reasons. This trust will carry you both forward into the promise and uncertainty of the future. Please accept my heartfelt good wishes for the both of you.
Sound advice. You are down to earth. Thank you for your heartfelt wishes!
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Stop kidding lusful love is not true love.the age gap is too large.i think she has a ulterior motives.there
Yes, she has other motives, like motives from her cultural background. To understand them, you have to look deeper into Thai society. I explained those in other comments. If you care to know, just read more.
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You enjoy love, and she provides this for you. A big age gap means that she is going to be alone for a long time. You should marry and you should make provision for her once you are gone
I do try to have her live secured when I am gone.
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depends, are you BOTH truly happy for the right reasons? Only you can answer that.
I think we are. Otherwise, we would not go this route. Financial everything is already dealt with
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Marry❤ Up to you. Age doesn’t matter.
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Go for it! It’s your life don’t worry about what other people think! I used to worry about what other people think not anymore. The last quarter is mine. The first 3/4 was enslaved for a weekly paycheck. And the promise of Social Security and a pension. Social Security being threatened right now. I can make it on my pension if the market stays strong. Otherwise, I’ll be regretting not living my life if my egg basket fails! Live your life!
I feel you. Yes we will live our life sure! I wish you the best of luck!
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Nann knows how old you are. She clearly loves you and age gap doesn't matter. Marry her, look after each other and be happy.
We will for sure do that. The bureaucracy hurdles to get there might be worth another video.
Live with her in an apartment owned be yourself.
When you pass away leave it to who ever you want.
Your defacto wife, or some Thai friend.
She clearly doesn't Love him you Fool.....check her Phone full of young Korean n Thai boys.
Yeah she know how old and see one foot in grave so she don’t waste time with young guy when she can be with old guy inherit and be well off. We know the truth
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We live in a condo I own, and yes, it will be hers when I pass away. That is settled long already.
Offcourse she wants to get married, 💸💸💸💸💸💸💸
If you love someone, you want to take care of them as good as you can. Nann does take good care of me. She has a good job and we kind of grew on each other. Our love grew over time. It took a year for us to get close.
Marriage is a proof of commitment. I saw many guys pass away and leave nothing to the woman which took care of them. This is wrong too. I made a last will in her favor long time ago. Financial, nothing will change for her, but emotional I think it has an impact.
@@ThailandLifestyleYou love her and she takes good care off you🤷, you said it yourself. But just do whatever you want mate, I would think twice before getting married, I would ask myself if she really loves you, but that's just my opinion. Have a great life together.
You know, we live now together for 5 years, and we do this TH-cam channel together. We travel a lot and enjoy life to the fullest. Our love just grew stronger over time. To marry is just the next level. We take good care of each other. I hope you have or find the same.
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@@ThailandLifestyle I wish you the best, I sincerely mean that, but the love is one sided, you love her she takes care off you and when you're gone she is a happy girl 💸
I know she is a happy girl now already. And I really hope she can stay happy after I am gone.
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If she was a government employee, it would be better for you to marry, but if not, I think you could still take care of her future without getting married. If there is true love, it doesn't change, married or not. She is a beautiful lady, and you are a very lucky man, so I think either way is OK.
You know, someone working in a hospital has an altruistic side already. And I can think of government jobs, I would not want to live with. Else, you got it right.
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Heh, my wife is 20 years younger than me. It's a good thing to have. But there is a major problem. Younger people do or think according to their age. Older people tend to stuck to what they are used to. If the two can make and compromise the difference, then it's a good idea to marry. Heh, I'm in the USA. And you are in Thailand. The culture and tradition are different. I may say something that is not right for Thailand.
That's true. An age gap is more common here. Anyway, thank you for your feedback!
Compromise is something everyone in a successful relationship had to learn.
You’re blessed marry her you can’t buy love ❤️ it’s your gods gift
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i wish you a good and happy future together she seems lovely .
She truly is lovely, a responsible, down to earth adult.
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I have a Thai wife. If I was to stay in Thailand there would be no reason to marry. But I want bring her to America and you must be married for a spousal visa. We are both older and being married is not required living in Thailand. My wife and I are 29 years apart. But you 2 must answer the question about marriage. That's not for me to say. Good luck to both of you,,,,,,,,,
Love, respect and trust are reasons for example.
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If we always focused on age gap, we would not explore the beauty of the other person. I think she is mature at 32 to make sound decisions. Go for it, she is a catch....
Asians look different at old people. They value the experience and wisdom of the elder.
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Marry! What the heck, we only live ones. Live and love now!!! The age difference doesn't matter at all.
Will do! Hi Hi Hi ... age makes it'self known. But we do live our best live every day. Thank you for watching, your comment, and your like. 💗🙏
You can see that she does love you, you are absolutely correct, money is in every culture
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Good on you both you both look very happy just make sure your daughters only get what you want them to get not leave this lovely lady with bugger all look after her like she will you
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You should do whatever you won't regret later. If you're going to regret not marrying her, then you have the answer there.
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Of course you should marry, life is short, enjoy it together. Geteilte Freude ist doppelte Freude, geteiltes Leid ist halbes Leid.
Ich hoffe Du kommst zur Hochzeit!
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I say if you love each other why not get married. Before getting married you should discuss your financial situation and get a prenup to ensure your children are taken care of first in case one of you pass away.
This is done already. Thanks for the reminder.
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What two able-minded adults want to do in their relationship is nobody else's business. If you're both honest with each other, then you'll be fine.
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My mums Dad was 60 and and he’s wife was 29 they had 3 children by the time he was 63 they never had viagra back then
Ha, ha, ha ... they really started a family. Nice.
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My question is how long have you dated? How does she make you feel? Is she in for money? Does she help you? A lot of questions. If there all positive you have your answer. Good luck 🍀 I’d love to be at your marriage. I’ll bring my wife. I’m married to a Filipina she’s 31 I’m 68..
Since you are married in Asia, you know a lot. I live here 25 years already. WE dated about a year before we decided to live together. Nann has a good job and is financially independent.
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My friends,in my opinion, you have to do, what you want, but if you want to know what’s people thinking, is ok ; from Western people’s is not good that old man stay with a young a beautiful lady, seen from Asia mentality, is ok , Thailand lady love family, if you are his family, she will love and take care more than western people, she do not put in a house for older people, she will take you until the end, and in your case your lady, I did not know her, but seen your videos, is a Angel from the sky, that comes to you, do not let it do.
I agree with you. Yes, Nann is a very good person. The fact that she chose to study public health tells already that she cares for people more than for money. Over the past 5 years, our relationship and love grew more and more solid. And because it raises her status at home, I decided to marry her. And yes, she is my angle. Thank you for watching, your comment, and your like. 💗 🙏
Please don’t lose her ❤looks she loved you her security
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From Florida USA.
Leaving Trump behind you. 🤣
I’m not being funny but a serious question what prescription do you use
A medicine to control high blood pressure and high cholesterol. That's all.
It, not what you expected. I know, but it's true.
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👍🏼❤️ Thanks for the great topic. I would marry my Thai lady too. But it seems complicated and difficult to navigate the paperwork and legal documents necessary for completion. Anyone know how to make the process/paperwork easier?
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That would be great. We live in Phayao and enjoy traveling to Pattaya each year. It’s an amazing, wonderful life. 😃👍🏼
We have just been in Phang Nga and Chumphon. Both places I would prefer to Pattaya.
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Yes. Make sure you take care of your grandchildren. Life is short. My gut feeling is, she is sincere. Dot the I's and cross the T's before you do anything and hire a lawyer who is bilingual. Good luck.
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Money !!!!!! V simple !!
Sometimes to think very simple makes us look bad. Read the comment I wrote above!
@@ThailandLifestyle- it doesn’t matter. It’s your life.
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Go for it!
Get married
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I can see all the words coming from your heart that’s right you’re reading it off your phone 🤔
Yes, I tried to scrip it, but I failed. In the end, I had to improvise. To make a TH-cam video is more challenging than you might expect.
Marry Nann.. she’s a mature woman and she’s not force to marry you due to financial reason.. she’s willingly wants you to be her husband.. I think that’s a relationship many men married or not should love to have … a woman who loves him and willingly take him on sickness and in health ❤️
We are in the process of following your advice. You would be surprised of the bureaucracy we face. Maybe that will be another video one day. By January, we should be married.
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